1 00:00:04,440 --> 00:00:08,400 Unknown: Hi, I'm Paige Killian, and I'm passionate about helping 2 00:00:08,430 --> 00:00:12,690 busy moms of littles organize and style their life in three 3 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:17,370 simple steps. Living this mom life is incredible, and 4 00:00:17,370 --> 00:00:21,660 sometimes completely overwhelming. is stressing about 5 00:00:21,660 --> 00:00:26,190 overstuffed drawers never ending mail piles, a mountain of Legos 6 00:00:26,220 --> 00:00:31,050 and our kids artwork really what God intended. No way. Getting 7 00:00:31,050 --> 00:00:34,620 organized has been a game changer for me, and also my 8 00:00:34,620 --> 00:00:38,790 clients. But it has to be simple, or it just won't get 9 00:00:38,790 --> 00:00:43,050 done. So let's simplify the process and clear the clutter to 10 00:00:43,050 --> 00:00:46,320 see the blessings God has for us. I know your time is 11 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:50,340 valuable. So thanks for joining me each week for a healthy dose 12 00:00:50,340 --> 00:00:53,490 of organization and a whole lot of motivation. 13 00:00:54,660 --> 00:00:58,170 Oh, hello, hello. Welcome back to another episode of the moms 14 00:00:58,170 --> 00:01:03,300 organization motivation podcast where we discuss all things 15 00:01:03,330 --> 00:01:08,730 organizing and doing it while we are busy moms of littles, and 16 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:10,110 middles and bigs. 17 00:01:11,190 --> 00:01:13,920 I am saying that because I have kids that are growing at 18 00:01:13,980 --> 00:01:18,510 lightning speed, and one of them is about the same size as me 19 00:01:18,510 --> 00:01:23,310 now, and I can't even handle it. This is middle school MRI. So 20 00:01:23,340 --> 00:01:28,950 today I wanted to talk about those kiddos plus organization 21 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:33,750 and all of the stuff that comes along with having kids, and then 22 00:01:33,810 --> 00:01:38,070 finding a way to make that fit in our space without it feeling 23 00:01:38,070 --> 00:01:41,880 disorganized without it feeling cluttered. And I wanted to title 24 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:46,410 this episode, hidden in plain sight. Because I wanted to make 25 00:01:46,410 --> 00:01:49,860 sure you would do me a solid and not let my children listen to 26 00:01:49,860 --> 00:01:54,000 this episode because I'm going to divulge some secrets today. 27 00:01:55,740 --> 00:02:00,480 One of the things that I was really, really certain of is 28 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:03,450 that when we moved into the new house where we live now, which 29 00:02:03,510 --> 00:02:06,270 still feels new Sunday's other days feels like we've lived here 30 00:02:06,270 --> 00:02:08,880 for many, many years. But we bought this house at the end of 31 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:14,370 2020. We were one of those COVID homebuyers. So we have moved 32 00:02:14,370 --> 00:02:18,180 into the house. And we were leaving behind a storage space 33 00:02:18,180 --> 00:02:21,660 and a townhouse that we lived in for a little while and moved 34 00:02:21,660 --> 00:02:28,170 into a larger home, not totally bigger, not too much bigger, but 35 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:30,660 it was going to offer us a lot more storage. And I said to my 36 00:02:30,660 --> 00:02:34,920 husband, the things that we have in storage right now, I would 37 00:02:34,920 --> 00:02:38,850 really like to be able to take them into our home and find a 38 00:02:38,850 --> 00:02:43,500 space for them. And then purge what doesn't fit. Because it 39 00:02:43,500 --> 00:02:45,630 just was one of those things that I thought we can let go of, 40 00:02:45,630 --> 00:02:48,660 we don't need an additional storage unit. So it was really 41 00:02:48,660 --> 00:02:53,220 important to me when we moved into our new home, which 42 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:55,680 technically, it's not really a new home. We've lived here for a 43 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:58,410 few years at this point. But it still feels new in some ways. 44 00:02:58,710 --> 00:03:02,700 But it's really important to me to not hang on to that storage 45 00:03:02,700 --> 00:03:06,000 unit, I really wanted to try and make everything that we had that 46 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:10,800 we needed fit in our new home. And one of the things that I 47 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:15,120 decided I was going to do is make use of the garage. And that 48 00:03:15,150 --> 00:03:18,960 weird awkward shaped under the stairs closet, you know the one 49 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:22,770 that slopes down into sort of this awkward triangle? Well, we 50 00:03:22,770 --> 00:03:25,920 have one of those that you can actually walk into it looks like 51 00:03:25,920 --> 00:03:29,160 a regular normal closet. And then you can walk in and then 52 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:32,790 you see the back of it sloped down and it actually goes wraps 53 00:03:32,790 --> 00:03:36,630 around back underneath our stairs as well. And so we have 54 00:03:36,630 --> 00:03:39,330 this kind of awkward shaped closet. And I thought I want to 55 00:03:39,330 --> 00:03:44,250 maximize that space. And also I want to maximize the space 56 00:03:44,250 --> 00:03:47,580 that's in my garage, because we have these great cabinets that 57 00:03:47,580 --> 00:03:50,880 were already there when the last homeowners were there. So I 58 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:54,060 wanted to make sure that I had enough space for holiday decor 59 00:03:54,090 --> 00:03:57,840 in those two areas. And then I wanted to make sure that 60 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:01,410 anything that I was going to be gifting the kids, even my 61 00:04:01,410 --> 00:04:04,110 husband, don't let him know about this episode, either the 62 00:04:04,110 --> 00:04:08,430 kids, my husband, any birthday presents that we might have on 63 00:04:08,580 --> 00:04:12,570 reserve in case my kids go to a birthday party on a weekend and 64 00:04:12,570 --> 00:04:15,930 I haven't had a chance to go get something or order something on 65 00:04:15,930 --> 00:04:19,980 Amazon. I like to have a lot of these options already sort of 66 00:04:19,980 --> 00:04:24,000 waiting in the wings, or waiting in the garage or waiting in the 67 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:27,570 under the stairs awkward shaped closet. And the way I've done 68 00:04:27,570 --> 00:04:32,820 that is actually containing it in clear plastic bins so I can 69 00:04:32,820 --> 00:04:36,450 see through it, but then using a chalk label to make sure that I 70 00:04:36,450 --> 00:04:41,850 give it a title. Now what I know, but my kids don't know is 71 00:04:41,850 --> 00:04:46,110 that there are a couple of miscellaneous bins and those are 72 00:04:46,110 --> 00:04:50,910 the ones where I hide in plain sight. Some of these things that 73 00:04:50,910 --> 00:04:53,550 I want to have on reserve that they don't necessarily know 74 00:04:53,550 --> 00:04:57,210 about. If I hear in conversation that one of them is talking 75 00:04:57,210 --> 00:05:00,000 about oh I really love this thing or oh what am I for 76 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:03,420 friends got this thing and they really love it, I sort of do a 77 00:05:03,420 --> 00:05:07,530 mental check in, do I have something like that coming to 78 00:05:07,530 --> 00:05:11,700 them if a birthday is coming up or like Valentine's Day or a 79 00:05:11,700 --> 00:05:14,370 holiday like Christmas or something, do I have something 80 00:05:14,370 --> 00:05:19,680 like that? If I don't, I know that I could grab that now have 81 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:23,820 that tucked away in one of those miscellaneous bins, or tuck it 82 00:05:23,820 --> 00:05:27,330 away in a container that is in an awkward shaped closet that 83 00:05:27,330 --> 00:05:29,640 they never go in, because they just think it's our holiday 84 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:33,210 decor. And then that way all be prepared. So when those dates do 85 00:05:33,210 --> 00:05:37,140 arrive, I have already gotten some of those items. And they 86 00:05:37,140 --> 00:05:40,500 are ready. So I wanted to bring that up today, because I was 87 00:05:40,500 --> 00:05:44,160 just recently working with a client actually a few clients on 88 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:47,700 their garages right now, in Southern California. Well, it's 89 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:50,400 so freezing yesterday. And today, we've got some really 90 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:53,940 chilly weather coming up, we actually had quite a break in 91 00:05:54,150 --> 00:05:57,180 that chilly weather. And it got warm for a little bit in 92 00:05:57,180 --> 00:06:01,830 January. And so I started doing a lot of garages, and one of my 93 00:06:01,830 --> 00:06:05,580 clients I was just working with yesterday, we were talking about 94 00:06:05,580 --> 00:06:09,510 putting some new shelving in her garage, and instead of having it 95 00:06:09,510 --> 00:06:13,140 be cabinetry that was closed up. Because think about cabinetry 96 00:06:13,140 --> 00:06:15,510 that's closed up as well, it's great that it sort of out of 97 00:06:15,510 --> 00:06:18,990 sight out of mind, two things can happen. One, you can forget 98 00:06:18,990 --> 00:06:22,770 what you have. And to sometimes you don't the things that you 99 00:06:22,770 --> 00:06:28,050 have don't fit specifically into a cabinet or into the confines 100 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:31,380 of a container inside of there. And so it's kind of nice if you 101 00:06:31,380 --> 00:06:34,140 have open shelving, if something needs to, like hang over the 102 00:06:34,140 --> 00:06:38,040 edge just a little bit if it's a temporary thing. And one of the 103 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:41,550 things we talked about is instead of doing cabinetry, what 104 00:06:41,550 --> 00:06:44,700 if we did these open shelves, and we did and they turned out 105 00:06:44,700 --> 00:06:50,820 so well, it's a whole clean, clear wall on her garage side of 106 00:06:50,820 --> 00:06:53,700 the wall that we actually pulled out cabinetry that was really 107 00:06:53,700 --> 00:06:57,240 old and just was not serving her anymore. Some of it was broken. 108 00:06:57,240 --> 00:07:01,560 It just it wasn't working. And then we put in these awesome 109 00:07:01,650 --> 00:07:05,430 open hanging shelves. And so we said some of the things that she 110 00:07:05,430 --> 00:07:08,820 needs, like, you know, maybe K parents, this is where if your 111 00:07:08,820 --> 00:07:11,940 kids are listening, you say, I hope you've enjoyed what you've 112 00:07:11,940 --> 00:07:14,970 heard so far. And now I'm going to listen to the rest of it in 113 00:07:14,970 --> 00:07:20,580 my earbuds. Get you've been warned. Okay, here we go. Turn 114 00:07:20,580 --> 00:07:21,120 it off. 115 00:07:22,500 --> 00:07:26,910 Put in her earbuds. If you've got like the elf on the shelf 116 00:07:26,910 --> 00:07:29,220 that you're wanting to hide, if you've got like any of those 117 00:07:29,220 --> 00:07:33,180 surprises, things that you want to have, that you don't want the 118 00:07:33,180 --> 00:07:35,520 kids to see. Or maybe if their birthday is coming up and you're 119 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:38,640 wanting to hide things like I was talking about I do. I really 120 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:41,790 love having clear bins so you can see what you have in there. 121 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:46,500 But you can actually take a piece of printer paper or you 122 00:07:46,500 --> 00:07:50,280 could just simply put those contents in a bag, even like a 123 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:53,190 shopping bag or something that they came in and place them 124 00:07:53,190 --> 00:07:58,290 inside. And then you can label it something that would not be 125 00:07:58,290 --> 00:08:01,710 something they would think oh, that looks like an interesting 126 00:08:01,710 --> 00:08:04,590 container I need to get into and see the contents of 127 00:08:06,930 --> 00:08:11,730 a there quick reminder that now there are four ways to get my 128 00:08:11,730 --> 00:08:15,630 book. If you head over to Amazon, you can search up I've 129 00:08:15,630 --> 00:08:19,080 got your girlfriend, why getting organized and living this mom 130 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:23,430 life is not a solo mission. You can now get it on the Kindle 131 00:08:23,460 --> 00:08:29,250 app, paperback hardcover. And the audio book is finally here. 132 00:08:29,430 --> 00:08:32,490 So if you've been enjoying this podcast episode, I have a 133 00:08:32,490 --> 00:08:36,480 feeling you might love the audiobook. Thanks so much for 134 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:39,180 making it a best seller. And now back to the show. 135 00:08:43,140 --> 00:08:46,590 So case in point, my client yesterday, she was saying she 136 00:08:46,590 --> 00:08:48,780 was trying to hide something that's for the holidays. And she 137 00:08:48,780 --> 00:08:52,470 said, What can we do? Because it's clear, and they're gonna be 138 00:08:52,470 --> 00:08:55,020 able to see through it. And I said, No, let's just put it in 139 00:08:55,020 --> 00:08:59,100 this white bag. So they have no idea what's in it. And we're 140 00:08:59,100 --> 00:09:02,970 gonna put a label on it, that's a code for you. And so we 141 00:09:02,970 --> 00:09:05,730 decided that we were going to put Christmas and then we were 142 00:09:05,730 --> 00:09:08,910 going to write the mom's name, because that's not really 143 00:09:08,910 --> 00:09:12,270 anything that the kids would get excited about. Or think I'm 144 00:09:12,270 --> 00:09:15,120 going to pull that out and look at it. And she said that way, if 145 00:09:15,120 --> 00:09:18,300 it has my name on it, I'm going to know, these are the things 146 00:09:18,300 --> 00:09:21,510 that I need to get into. And then you can constantly rotate 147 00:09:21,510 --> 00:09:24,390 them, right. So like if something comes out, like I do 148 00:09:24,390 --> 00:09:28,140 when when I give the gifts to my kids or to my husband, and it's 149 00:09:28,140 --> 00:09:33,960 out then for whatever the next holiday is, or whatever the next 150 00:09:33,990 --> 00:09:36,900 reason is that I might give them a little something we used to do 151 00:09:36,900 --> 00:09:39,420 mystery surprises if you've been listening to the podcast for a 152 00:09:39,420 --> 00:09:43,590 while we had these marbles in jars and we call them rock 153 00:09:43,590 --> 00:09:46,320 stars. And so if the kids did something awesome, they'd have 154 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:50,220 rock star moment that we would drop in a little marble and then 155 00:09:50,250 --> 00:09:52,470 for the end of the week or toward the end of the month, 156 00:09:52,650 --> 00:09:55,830 they would trade in their rock stars for a mystery surprise or 157 00:09:55,830 --> 00:09:58,710 sometimes they could trade it in for like an extra BEDTIME STORY 158 00:09:58,710 --> 00:09:59,970 stay up a little bit extra 159 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:05,070 like to read a bedtime story, maybe it was go to a movie, 160 00:10:05,130 --> 00:10:08,460 dress with mom, or go hang out with dad and do something 161 00:10:08,460 --> 00:10:12,150 special. So it wasn't just materialistic things every time. 162 00:10:12,330 --> 00:10:15,600 But that was kind of a cool thing. But we did have mystery 163 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:19,020 surprises. And this, again, was a bin that I had, that I had 164 00:10:19,020 --> 00:10:23,850 labeled miscellaneous. And I had no idea what that meant what 165 00:10:23,850 --> 00:10:26,550 that was, so it wasn't of interest to them. And I would 166 00:10:26,550 --> 00:10:28,710 always make sure that I would have something to cover it 167 00:10:28,710 --> 00:10:32,700 because it was clear. So just an idea, that is something that we 168 00:10:32,700 --> 00:10:36,000 did that was really smart of them on to say, put my name on 169 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:38,460 it. So that way, they're not going to be going in it because 170 00:10:38,460 --> 00:10:41,790 they don't care, whatever mom has tucked away, and they're not 171 00:10:41,790 --> 00:10:44,760 going to know that it's stuff for them. So that's an idea. I 172 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:47,190 do love chalk pin, I've talked about that a lot. They work 173 00:10:47,190 --> 00:10:50,490 really well on clear bins, they work well on some other bins as 174 00:10:50,490 --> 00:10:53,100 well. But if it's white chalk pin, you probably don't want to 175 00:10:53,100 --> 00:10:56,700 put it on white bin, you might want to do one of those adhesive 176 00:10:56,700 --> 00:10:59,640 chalk labels. And then you could write over the top of it so that 177 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:03,180 maybe it's like a black adhesive label, and then you write over 178 00:11:03,180 --> 00:11:06,090 the top of that, but I love those because that way, when 179 00:11:06,090 --> 00:11:09,780 they're constantly changing, then you can wipe it away. Now 180 00:11:09,780 --> 00:11:13,620 what I do have, and I did this intentionally is I haven't been 181 00:11:13,650 --> 00:11:18,210 that says gifts. And those gifts, my children understand 182 00:11:18,300 --> 00:11:23,280 our gifts in case any of the friends that have birthdays 183 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:25,560 coming up, and we didn't get to shop, that's where we might 184 00:11:25,560 --> 00:11:29,760 store things in there. So it's okay, if they go in there and 185 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:33,090 pick out something for a friend, that's totally fine. Or maybe I 186 00:11:33,090 --> 00:11:37,200 have things for my parents or my brothers who don't live here in 187 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:41,400 town with me. And so I can put their stuff in the gift bin. And 188 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:44,370 then whenever a birthday or holiday comes up, and I want to 189 00:11:44,370 --> 00:11:47,130 send them something, I can pull that down and say, Oh, I got 190 00:11:47,130 --> 00:11:49,140 something for peers, I got something for Parker got 191 00:11:49,140 --> 00:11:52,860 something for mom or dad. And I'm gonna grab that quickly 192 00:11:52,980 --> 00:11:56,370 packaged it up, and then take it to the post office and mail it 193 00:11:56,370 --> 00:12:00,600 to them. So these are just some ideas of actually hiding things 194 00:12:00,630 --> 00:12:05,040 in plain sight. But it's more for you to know, it's a great 195 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:07,860 way to sort of have things at your fingertips that you need. 196 00:12:07,860 --> 00:12:10,320 And they're super easy and convenient for you. But if they 197 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:13,230 are surprises, and they're not things that you want your 198 00:12:13,230 --> 00:12:19,110 littles or your husband to see, make sure that you put some sort 199 00:12:19,110 --> 00:12:23,580 of code label on it and make sure that you are covering it if 200 00:12:23,610 --> 00:12:27,660 it is a clear bit. So just wanted to leave that with you 201 00:12:27,660 --> 00:12:31,680 today. Hopefully, that is going to give you some ideas of how 202 00:12:31,680 --> 00:12:36,390 you can store your stuff in plain sight. And also ditch the 203 00:12:36,390 --> 00:12:40,740 storage unit and get really clear on what it is what you 204 00:12:40,740 --> 00:12:44,820 need. Find some storage solutions within your home that 205 00:12:44,820 --> 00:12:48,390 you can make work so that you don't have that extra added cost 206 00:12:48,420 --> 00:12:53,160 of paying for that monthly fee or you don't have the necessary 207 00:12:53,160 --> 00:12:55,680 driving to and picking those things up and bringing them 208 00:12:55,680 --> 00:12:58,770 back. Now if you don't have the proper storage at your house, 209 00:12:59,070 --> 00:13:04,080 absolutely use a storage unit for as long as you need to. But 210 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:09,240 don't let it get out of control and super cluttered. Because 211 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:11,610 that is the fastest way to forget the stuff that you have 212 00:13:11,610 --> 00:13:15,510 in there. And then you are paying monthly for this service 213 00:13:15,660 --> 00:13:18,120 that is really costing you money in the long run because you're 214 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:20,550 not even using the things inside of it because you've forgotten 215 00:13:20,550 --> 00:13:24,270 it. So keep that in mind. Hopefully this helps if it did 216 00:13:24,300 --> 00:13:27,480 share it with a friend, a busy mom friend of course. And I will 217 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:30,450 talk to you next week for some more organization motivation. 218 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:30,900 Bye bye. 219 00:13:32,550 --> 00:13:36,360 Thanks for listening to another episode of the moms organization 220 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:40,470 motivation podcast. 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