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Hello, hello and welcome back. So today's episode is one you'll want to come back to again and again, because in this episode and in the next episode, I'm sharing the most powerful framework I know for unlocking your next level of leadership, success and fulfillment, the gene keys. So if you've been hearing me reference the gene keys in previous episodes.

in any conversation you have with me, if you meet me at a cafe, if you meet me online, pretty much anywhere. And you've been wondering how this framework can guide you to deeper alignment and sovereign success, then this is your gateway. Also, if you're someone fresh to my space, someone who's had someone in your life recommend you check out the Gene Keys and check out my work. It's so beautiful to have you here and I really hope this conversation supports you in.

really getting a clear picture of what the G and keys are all about and how it can deeply support you. So I'll be really clear from the get-go. This conversation isn't for everyone. So it's definitely for those who have already achieved what others likely define as success. You're building, you're scaling, you're leading. You're someone who's here to be a person of service, someone who deeply desires to create a contribution to the world, to the planet at this time.

to something that means something to you. Yet, there's a whisper, there's a knowing that you're meant to experience it all with more ease, with more flow, and with deeper resonance with who you truly are. So maybe you felt it too that you've followed a lot of proven strategies. You've probably tested out a lot of the, quote, best practices in business, in brand building, and whatever it may be.

You've also probably tried out many of the funnels, the roadmaps that worked for others. And in many ways, you know how to perform. You know how to create certain levels of success. But, it all, there's still a question, this lingering question. If I'm doing everything right, then why does it still feel like I'm efforting? So, this is the tension that I find a lot of high-performing leaders rarely talk about because

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Problem is that from the outside, and gosh, how I relate, it all looks perfect. But you know there's another level, one that feels so much more spacious, one that feels easeful, one that feels magnetic, one that still lets your wild, your ambitious, your big visions and dream have their space to be shown up for in this lifetime, and to do it sustainably, and to do it while enjoying the journey.

And what I've come to see over and over again is it doesn't come from pushing harder. It comes from unlocking what I call your divine design. And that's exactly where the GMPs come in. So over the next two episodes, I'm pulling back the curtain on this framework. One that for gosh, I mean, there's so many ways it supports your journey.

But in this moment in this conversation I'll share, it's a framework that reveals your unique energetic blueprint for magnetic leadership. So this is really where you get to call in and attract opportunities that flow to you because of who you are, not just what you do or constantly strive for or constantly feel like you have to effort your way forward.

This is where you tap into your unique energetic blueprint for aligned decision making. You know, it's cutting through the noise. It's cutting through the overwhelm. It's cutting through thinking you need to do a hundred and one different tactics to succeed. It's making decisions that feel certain and spacious. And it also reveals your deepest truest path to long lasting legacy, sustainable success, the success that nourishes you, not just the business or brand you've built and are continuing to build.

Because your next level isn't about adding more. It's about aligning more deeply with who you already are. I find it's a call for deeper quality, less quantity, more devotion, less hustle, more laughter and delight, less stress and tension, more simplicity, less chaos. Like, can you feel the vibe I'm calling into?

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And so also whether you're scaling your next level vision or just beginning to sense there's a more aligned way, these insights will meet you where you are and expand what's possible. They evolve with you. So before we dive in, let's take a deep breath with me because I love to just really let this not just be something that we hear in our heads, but we really feel in our beautiful body. So just inhale and exhale with me. And to just invite yourself to.

self to feel into these questions. Where are you still leading from expectation of who you're supposed to be and what you're supposed to do rather than embodiment? Where are you performing for result instead of allowing your inherent excellence to flow? And what could unlock for you if you led fully from your divine design where success feels as easeful as it is inevitable?

If those questions hit something real for you, this conversation is yours and let's get into it. Before we dive deeper, I want to share something important with you because if you've come across the gene keys before, you might think you know what to expect. But what I'm about to share with you and frankly, my approach is different.

So you see, in my experience, the Gene Keys aren't just about reading codes or understanding these big theories. They're about how those codes come alive in your everyday life, in how you show up in your leadership, in how you relate to others, how you relate to the world, how you relate to money and your prosperity and your unique path to long lasting, sustainable success.

This is where my approach differs. So my work with the Gene Keys is about practical embodiment, not just insight. I'm really focused on integration. don't just read charts. I don't just read your profile. I listen for the energetic nuances is how I best describe it. The energetic nuances in your story, in your voice, in what you're creating, in your desires. I'm tuning into where your energy naturally flows and where there are subtle tensions.

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that create misalignment. My deepest commitment in this work is seeing you, truly seeing you beyond the roles you play, beyond the successes you've achieved, beyond your gold stars, beyond how others naturally may project onto you. I'm here to reflect back the version of you that leads with ease, with magnetism, alignment, and that just shines so brightly in who you came here to be.

I'll note that there is a channeling element to this work for me because I don't just believe the codes are alive. I feel them. I witnessed them. Every experience you have with me becomes a space where your energy speaks and I listen deeply, not just to what you say, but to what your frequency reveals. And here's something I find most leaders overlook. It's not always and most times about what you need to do more of.

It's often about what you can do less of, where you can release what's not serving you. And I'm all for refinement and really aligning you, realigning you to your truest nature. Because sustainable success comes from doing less but better, quality over quantity. So what I'm always listening for, if I had to simplify it into a few questions, are where does your energy flow effortlessly? Because that's where your magnetism lives.

What patterns and dynamics are you playing out on repeat that are dimming your natural radiance? And how can we clear them and let them go with grace? And the last one I would say I'm really grounded in is how can we design a path that's not only successful, but sustainable for you that's aligned and that's filled with ease and joy and a deep appreciation of the beauty of your life?

I'm also looking through the lens of what I call sovereign success. I'm really focused on feminine high performance. And so for me, success in this context doesn't require you to hustle. It doesn't require you to shape shift yourself. And it doesn't require you to compromise who you are, what you value and live a life of shoulds. It's all about you leading. It's all about you prospering and expanding from your unique energetic blueprint with

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Decisions that feel both certain and spacious. So as we continue, I invite you to listen not just for information, but for resonance for those moments when something lands so deeply that it feels like you're remembering a truth you've always known. Because when that happens, you're not just learning gene keys, you're unlocking your gene keys.

This is the difference to me between a reading and a space for elevation that realigns you with the version of success you were always meant to embody. So let's ground this conversation with some context. The Gene Keys system overall is based on 64 unique Gene Keys. And what I love to think about with the Gene Keys is every Gene Key is

a mirror, it's an expression of the human experience. So frankly, every single one of us can relate to every single gene key. And then each of us has 11 specific gene keys, what I like to call our 11 codes that are uniquely coded in our energetic blueprint. And these 11 codes form your unique experience, your divine design of how you're uniquely here to lead.

to prosper, to connect, to live a beautiful life on your unique terms. And then every gene key contains three frequencies, the shadow frequency, the gift frequency, and what's called the CIDI, S-I-D-D-H-I. It's a Sanskrit word, so not meaning city as in C-I-T-Y, CIDI as in S-I-D-D-H-I. And what I love is your shadow frequency.

gives you an invitation to have a deeper awareness around your challenges. You're here to navigate. Your gift is your highest potential. What you're here to really shine brightly in bringing forward. And then your city frequency is your ultimate truest essence. As an example, one of the gene keys that is dominant in my particular blueprint is gene key 29, which goes from the shadow of half-heartedness. So

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That's one of the challenges and I will say I intimately know this one. One of the challenges I've had to navigate in my life is getting aware that any time I operate from a lens of half-hearted energy when I'm not fully invested in something, things don't work out for me. And I'm here to honor that the gift frequency is commitment. And it's so true with me. I have come to see the more I commit to things fully, luck works in my favor. So much momentum happens in my favor.

And then the highest frequency, the city of this particular gene key is devotion. So for me, I've really witnessed at so many growth edges or so many times when things aren't flowing for me effectively, a lot of what I have to come back to, especially because of the specific placements of where these, this gene key shows up for me and my particular blueprint, twice, it's given me opportunity to really see where I can be out of alignment and where I need to come back into alignment with.

and frequency and where I can deepen into devotion in my life. And so I wanted to give that as an example to ground this. And so for visionary leaders like you, this gives you such a powerful map to really have a conversation with yourself, have a conversation with your soul and stay centered in who you are no matter what life throws your way. So let me take you back.

to the moment when I first was introduced to the Gene Keys. If you can believe it, this was nearly a decade ago. I can remember the exact restaurant I was at. I can remember the table and the area of the restaurant I was sitting in. I remember it so viscerally because it was a moment that had such a big impact on my life. So I'll never forget the moment that my friend looked at me and said, have you ever heard of the Gene Keys? And I didn't know it at that time, but that

question would change so much for me. And when I read my gene keys for the first time, stood out to me so much is it wasn't just information. It didn't feel like I was just being put into a box. It didn't feel like it was just quickly trying to compartmentalize and simplify who I am. It felt like a homecoming. It felt like after years of hustling and achieving and

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improving myself and seeking and just chasing success, the Gene Keys gave me a mirror and a map to see myself. And I think in our world, this is one of the greatest struggles is it's really rare to feel fully seen and not just seen.

in our bright and shiny bits, not just seen based on what everyone else wants to see us as, like to really feel like you are seen on a soul level is one of the most sacred experiences that I have come to realize in life. And so what I love is the moment I started reading my gene keys, it gave me language to describe patterns and things I had been experiencing that I had done on repeat that I just couldn't at the time otherwise put into words.

It gave me so much awareness as to why I kept being stuck in this burnout cycle, why I was constantly dating emotionally unavailable men. It helped me understand so much of where I was giving my power away, where I was trying to live inside the lines of what other people wanted me to be instead of me owning that I'm this very unique, creative, expressive person. And it felt like I got to be handed a conversation.

with my soul. And so what this really gave me is it really began the journey of me shifting from this constant external validation focus in my life, this constant feeling like I need to do more, I need to accomplish more, I need to achieve more. And it brought me into this knowing that over years I've gotten more and more grounded into of what is the power of living in alignment with our divine design.

what it means to be truly in flow with our unique gifts and not trying to be like everyone else. And it changed everything for me. And so what I've come to realize is it's helped me make important career decisions. It's helped me really understand what kind of a business is actually aligned for me. It's given me so much specific, precise clarity on my brand. And it's ensured that

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I would say one of the most sacred parts for me is when it came into my life, it also was a big time when I was on a big self-love journey and it completely helped me redefine my dating life. It completely shifted the way I valued myself, the way I saw myself, and also what I really wanted in a partner, which I feel was so essential and was such a big reason why when I met my now husband a few years later after first being introduced to the Genki's.

why I knew he was so aligned for me and why I was able to navigate because you know we're from two different continents there's so much when you can look at my husband and I there's so much that we have such strong value alignment with and we're both two strong ambitious beings on this planet and we have a lot of big dreams and there's a lot we desire to create in this lifetime

And what I found was this system gave me language to ensure that I owned who I am, what I truly want and stay centered in that piece. And more than anything, it's really given me so many invitations to consistently come back to where am I efforting and where can I find more of the ease? Where can I tap more into success that feels effortless rather than I have to constantly earn, earn, earn to the point of exhaustion before I can give myself the space to deeply relax.

So what makes the gene keys feel so different for me is I find that a lot of other systems give you a quick operating manual and structure which has its value. So again, I really honor every system and I never say that there's only one way. I never say I never am like the gene keys is the only way you can go through your journey. I honor that it's meant for you if you feel that resonance.

And what I love is that it feels like the Gene Keys to me is a much more feminine, expansive approach. It feels like, you know, there's a big thing with it. It's not a system that you're just gonna immediately get handed all the codes and immediately understand everything. What I love is it evolves with you. It expands with you. It is literally the system and the structure and a compass that has held me through so many moments in my life.

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What I love is ultimately I get to consistently come back to it because my gene keys reflect who I am at my very core and they invite me to gently lovingly gracefully evolve without force in a very aligned natural divine timing kind of way and so for me as someone who's definitely aired on the side of Feeling like I needed to constantly hustle my way to success

and honestly has navigated the hungry ghost of the success cycle where you feel like you just need more more and more and more and more. There's always more and like coming back home to this part of myself that realizes that yes, I have this hunger to serve. I do. I have a very deep hunger to show up in this life, to serve, show up for the big things. And.

I get to honor it in my unique way. I get to honor my divine timing. I get to honor that I can do hard things gently. I get to honor that I want to value and show up for my relationships. I don't want to have just one area of my life take the cake and have all of the importance. I really desire to intuitively honor the fullness of my life. And...

I feel like this system really honors the feminine principle of growth, which to me is the fluidity of growth, the intuitive nature of growth and the importance and embodiment. And so while most leadership frameworks I find and that I've honestly navigated and gone through a lot teach a lot about strategy. And it's always about how to get from point A to point B and oftentimes how fast we can do it. What I love is the gene key show you how to become the person you nat...

the person who naturally arrives at the point B because you're fully aligned with your design. Can you feel the difference as I say that? G &Key helps you see that you become the person who naturally, not through force, not through efforting, not through striving, not through exhausting yourself, like the person who naturally arrives at point B because you're fully aligned with your design.

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And what I love is strategy then becomes effortless when you're embodying your truth. Because the truest dynamic is there are a million strategies, there are a million tactics in the world that you could go with in any area of your life. Life strategies, business strategies, leadership strategies, health strategies, there's a million and one ways to get there. Yet, the more you know your unique codes, the more you tap into the design of your energetic blueprint, there are

a few very simple, very clear strategies that are aligned for you. And there is such a gift in that simplicity. So as I love to always give moments just to let certain pieces land and to also give us space to question, I'd love to give a prompt here to invite you into questioning which area or areas of your life are you forcing?

or efforting or fixating too much on strategy, the tactics, the how-to's. And I'd love to invite you to question, how might you shift if you chose alignment instead? How might you shift in the way you're doing things if you actually let alignment be first? Could you actually let it get that easy? That's the big question.

So I don't want to just make this feel like this big conceptual conversation. I want to ground this with a few very real world transformations I've experienced and show you how this plays out in a variety of ways in life. So I'm going to share a story about one of my clients. So when she came in to doing a GDP experience with me, the truth of the matter was she felt successful on paper. To the outside world, she had

done a lot of successful things. She was quite accomplished. She, yeah, had a lot of the gold stars, right? We all know that feeling. Yet the truth was she was exhausted. She felt like she was constantly living in her head and it kept feeling like she was constantly pushing towards goals that at her core didn't feel entirely like hers. And a big thing she navigated at the time was there were a million and one potential directions. She was really thinking about in her next business decision and her next career choice.

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which option was best and she actually had many options on the table. And the thing was when we actually looked at her gene keys, her unique codes, we discovered that her blueprint was all about her thriving on spontaneity. Freedom was essential for her. Her sensuality is such a big part of what she's here to live out, to express and to also share as a gift for others.

And that was just such an exact opposite from how she was living at the time. She was feeling like everything in her blueprint was telling her to honor flow and serendipity and synchronicity, yet she had set up her life and her current lifestyle designed to live in such a rigid schedule. And so I remember there was this moment where there was a bit of that initial tension of, wow, I'm really not living.

this moment aligned with my codes. Yet at the same time, I'll never forget the slight sparkle in her eye that I also saw come online as we were in this conversation. Because as we spoke about it, she started having these aha moments of past experiences where when she did prioritize her spontaneity, when she did prioritize her freedom, her sensuality, a lot of the key codes in her blueprint,

How much abundance naturally came her way? How many incredible relationships naturally came her way? And this is the thing. So often we undervalue what comes our way with these. So many of us, and my gosh, I have been conditioned so hard with this one. So many of us put so much pride into what we had to work so hard for. What we had to earn.

so much for, right? Like it's just things that come easily, we often can take for granted, diminish and not think are a big deal or of high value. And this is what is so important to start to shift is the things that come easily for you are what you are divinely designed to bring forward. And the more you actually put the faucet of your resources, of your time, of your energy into nurturing those parts of you actually

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the better you can be at serving, of contributing, of showing up and being a magnet to attract more of what you desire to create. So often we spend so much time making things more complicated for ourselves, making things complex and trying to add a bunch of extra things in our business lives in so many areas of our life. And when you get it down to the refined simplicity,

That's where I find we get to meet so much of our joy. And the beautiful thing was, from our Gene Keys experience, I watched her start to make such specific shifts in her life. And she...

shifted her entire lifestyle around to be able to travel, to prioritize her travel, and then incredible opportunities came her way. She started to double down on where aligned opportunities naturally came her way. I watched her remake her sensuality a priority, which has been so different in how she relates to herself, her body, how she nourishes herself, and also has made her shift into her awareness of her dating life. I've just seen so many massive shifts, but the overarching piece here...

Is that she really witnessed how much it wasn't about which of those career opportunities she wanted to choose because she had so many different options. It was really her zooming out to a bigger picture of what lifestyle do I actually desire? What lifestyle am I made to live based on my divine design? And then how can I ensure my work life, my love life, how I take care of myself, how I show up in the world is aligned with that.

And I just watch how the moment she really connected with that, so many pieces in her life shifted. So many things that weren't aligned fell away. So much tension and rigidity and exhaustion just naturally poofed out of her life. Another client that came in was at a point where she was getting really curious how to find more ease in the way she was here to market her company. And what was amazing is, and what I love about the Gene Keys is there's a lot of indication of what is your natural magnetism.

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and how you can set yourself up from a business leadership lens to double down on what type of marketing is best for you. So for this particular client, she is someone who so much of her blueprint highlights the importance of community. She is here to be a community builder, to lead a community powerfully. And so for someone like her,

It's actually not of highest service for her to try to go and launch a podcast and try to do these speaking gigs and do all these other initiatives, you know, try to try to fix it too much on ad spend and all of these other online marketing tactics. For her, the more we looked at her codes and tried a few different spots in her chart, a lot of what we saw was it was essential that she focused on her highest level contribution being cultivating a community unlike any community she's been a part

think about every area of her business as an opportunity for her to be leading a unique movement within her space and to really ensure that the thing she focused the most on was her referral network and that she really hones the network effect. She finds simple, easeful ways for people to naturally bring in more clients because they love the community that they're part of. They love their experience. They naturally want other people that they love to be a part of it.

And so for her, a lot of what I love is we simplified instead of her feeling like she had to go out and honestly waste a lot of time, a lot of money, doing all these excess tactics, we got to hone it down to the space that she also loves the most and get really clear on what is of highest service and what will be also the most enjoyable strategy for her. And so can you see, these are just two examples, but what I love is so much of what I focus on.

is refining you to the most essential aligned areas for you to focus on. I find so much of where we lose so much joy, why so many of us leaders are exhausted is because oftentimes we're doing too many different things. And then the last example I really want to give is because I've seen this for myself and I've seen this for many other clients who I've had who have been in partnership dynamics. One thing I love so much is that

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what I think creates so much tension if you're in a business partnership or romantic partnership, any relationships you have with your kids, with your family members, with anyone in your life is such a tricky piece is we all think everyone else is supposed to be like us. It's that piece. And I think the other struggle is sometimes it's really hard for us to describe who we are and what we're experiencing, what we're struggling with, what we want support with, what we want. And the Gene Keys gives us such specific

clarity on what really matters to us uniquely. And I've found that in so many different relationship configurations I've been part of, whether it's collaborations, in my marriage, in my family relationships, in my deep friendships, in so many areas, this has really helped me honor that the most loving thing I can do at this time especially is honor my uniqueness. To own my uniqueness, to show up in my uniqueness and by doing that, I get to then really love others in their uniqueness.

So it's really practical from a sense where I've watched with my husband and I, because we know each other's gene keys intimately, because we've really tapped into this language together, we have set up our life and our partnership to ensure both of us get to double down on our natural gifts, our natural aptitudes, and be more supported in the areas where our shadows live, where we find that we need more support, where we need to lean on each other, where we need to ask to be held in ways that otherwise we didn't have the language to name.

It's also helped us to design our lifestyle so much together. It's helped, he's gone through a massive career transition, which if you ask him, he will say is because of the language and his contemplation with the gene keys really helping him to see who he actually is here to be, not just what duty and his natural journey of responsibility made him think he should do in this life. And I found also for the more challenging relationships you may have in this lifetime,

that for me it's given me a lot of language to have a lot more compassion for myself and for others that I otherwise just was struggling to understand why they behave certain ways, why they think certain ways. And instead it's given me this opportunity to really have more understanding and love for all of the different human experiences that are navigating and realize that the more you honor that you have unique codes, the world literally needs you to live out because

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You are a key piece in the puzzle that's going to create a better humanity, a better world. The more we honor this, the more we're going to feel like in this world that we're watching right now is crumbling in certain ways. Big shifts are coming about. There's also massive elevations. There's massive possibility. There's massive innovation. There's so much opportunity. And this is a really big choice point for you to get really honest with yourself on.

Are you going to be someone who really is committed to staying in alignment with your highest frequency and being a creator of this world we're all desiring to see that's more beautiful, more loving, that has even more potentiality for all of us to thrive or to fixate on the shadows, the fears, the default mode where I feel like so much anxiety and stress and tension and hustling is living. So that's a big question I just want to leave you with is what.

are you choosing to show up for and lead right now? And I really honor that if you're listening to this, I trust that you are likely someone who is deeply committed to choosing the path of this conscious creation of this world and this new paradigm of leadership that we're really honing and focusing on in the Elevate Daily community. And so if this episode has resonated with you, here are three ways you can deepen the journey right now.

So the first way is of course go and download your free Gene Keys profile. The link is in the show notes and you can already see what your profile over-archingly looks like and get a feel for four of your unique Gene Keys. Second thing is you can listen to an earlier episode that I did, episode number four, and I have this in the show notes where you'll see some more general insights I share about the Gene Keys and some insights on your life's work.

gene key, your what I call your mission code. It's the first gene key I recommend connecting with. This key lays the foundation for so much on your journey and your leadership path. And the third is to join me in Illuminate. If you've been listening and you feel that pull to deepen your knowing and know that there's a more effortless aligned way for you to lead and create, then Illuminate is your next step.

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Illuminate is my private gene keys experience where we decode your sovereign success codes. So your four unique gene keys that unlock how you're designed to lead with magnetism, how you're designed to create effortless prosperity and operate from your natural zone of genius. So I want to be clear. This isn't a one size fits all reading. It's precise strategic guidance that I share with you that is personalized and tailored to your energetic blueprint.

Because frankly, your success shouldn't feel like a guessing game or like you're trying to piecemeal it all together based on what everyone else is doing. It should feel inevitable. So spots are intentionally limited each month to ensure every experience is deep and personalized and a true journey of elevation. I also share with you a bespoke report that helps you really ground in your codes in your day to day life and a bespoke ritual. So if you're ready for clarity, alignment and results that flow,

The link is in the show notes. Let's unlock your next level of leadership together. And the next episode that's coming your way in two weeks, I will be actually breaking down what my four sovereign success codes are and how these codes play out in you really showing up for your sovereign success. And as we close today, I just want to invite us just to take one final deep breath together.

And just trust what came through today is what was meant to and to invite yourself to let yourself feel into the truth that your next level of success Isn't something you have to chase. It's something to remember something to unlock something to allow to emerge and With that I really honor you. I honor your divine design. I honor you being here and I would love for you to share with me any takeaways

If you feel called, send me a DM on Instagram and until next time, I hope you elevate your life one intentional day at a time.