Welcome back, everyone.
Maria:This is week 18 of Our Mothers Knew It, and our second week
Maria:in King Benjamin's Sermon.
Maria:Sadly, it's going to end this week.
Maria:You have two chapters, basically, of King Benjamin's teachings, and
Maria:then the last chapter is You see that rain pass to his son, Mosiah.
Maria:But there's some good stuff in those two chapters.
Maria:We're going to go from four to six this week, where we left off last
Maria:week in three, you saw King Benjamin relaying the words of the angel, right?
Maria:He teaches them about the natural man.
Maria:He has this trembling frame and he helps us understand that life
Maria:is short and that we should use this probationary time to do good.
Maria:And he's going to keep that message rolling this week, but this one is more
Maria:Action packed, I guess I would say, because I think they begin to hope.
Maria:You'll hear the people's reaction this week.
Maria:You'll see how their hearts respond to these beautiful words of truth.
Maria:And you'll see momentum kick in.
Maria:Like, you can feel the change.
Maria:In fact, In this week's study you're going to see a mighty change.
Maria:But I like to sort of break that down and try and figure out how
Maria:King Benjamin helped that happen and the role that the spirit played.
Maria:You're going to get all kinds of goodness from this week's study.
Maria:I really liked thinking about this week Well, Elder Piper referenced
Maria:Elder Renlund's talk, and he gave this little quote in this last conference.
Maria:He was talking about building trust in God, and this is Elder Renlund speaking.
Maria:He said, his goal, meaning God's goal, is parent, his goal in parenting is not
Maria:to have his children do what is right.
Maria:It's to have his children choose to do what is right and
Maria:ultimately become like him.
Maria:Notwithstanding God's trust in us, our relationship with him will
Maria:grow only to the degree that we are willing to put our trust in him.
Maria:in him.
Maria:That's this week of study.
Maria:You see people who, I don't know what their backgrounds were, I don't know
Maria:if they were all relative believers before, or if they were coming from
Maria:all kinds of places, but these two big civilizations that are coming together
Maria:to become one under this one name are going to choose to change all at once.
Maria:It's almost like seeing a whole bunch of Alma the Youngers at
Maria:once, or King Lamoni's dad, a bunch of those all at once.
Maria:You see All these people who consume the Word of God in this holy place,
Maria:and then they want to change.
Maria:And you get to see this rapid progression happen in just two chapters of study.
Maria:It's just riveting to watch.
Maria:So let me give you a breakdown since we're only going to cover 3, 3, and 3.
Maria:Three key sparks or insights that I love from this week's study.
Maria:Three really good questions to get you chatting about what is here
Maria:and then also three object lessons.
Maria:Hopefully between those nine things you're going to get a broad view of
Maria:what King Benjamin offers this week.
Maria:But let me break it down a little bit chapter by chapter
Maria:so you know what to expect.
Maria:First off in chapter four this is where you're going to learn from King
Maria:Benjamin about the value of charity.
Maria:You know these are people who want to retain a remission of their sins and
Maria:he's going to teach them about the pure love of God and how to do that.
Maria:It should be offered freely, and he has some beautiful words about that.
Maria:He's also going to teach them about being valiant without being exhausted.
Maria:So he gives us some guideposts.
Maria:I think they're really pertinent in our day.
Maria:When you jump into five, this is when you see the people make a mighty change.
Maria:They themselves Choose to make covenants with God.
Maria:They're not even necessarily invited by King Benjamin They just want to like they
Maria:can feel this stirring in their hearts They can feel that they don't have the
Maria:dispositions they had before and they want to make changes and they want to make
Maria:Permanent connections to God and it has so much application in our day So you'll see
Maria:a lot of that in four you also get that or in five in you also have that invitation
Maria:to be steadfast And immovable in five.
Maria:He doesn't just want them to be converted You here.
Maria:He wants them to be converted always, and so he tries to give them guideposts
Maria:and tips on how to get rooted in Christ.
Maria:You'll see some of those in four and five.
Maria:In six, this is where you feel that passing of the torch happened.
Maria:It's a really short chapter that focuses on making a record of those
Maria:who make their covenants that day, and then also King Benjamin sort of
Maria:setting affairs in order and officially passing the crown to his son Mosiah.
Maria:And then you just get a little snippet of it.
Maria:How good of a King Mosiah will be because he stands on the shoulders of his dad,
Maria:Benjamin, and his grandpa, Mosiah.
Maria:And because he himself chooses to be a disciple of Christ and honor
Maria:the commandments that he knows are right, he becomes a mighty, mighty
Maria:king in all the best humble ways that his dad and his grandpa was.
Maria:And it's just awesome to watch.
Maria:This is a great week of study.
Maria:Grab your scriptures, grab your notes.
Maria:It's time to get started.
Maria:Spark number one I call spiritual siphons, because I think you see this really cool,
Maria:almost automatic reaction that happens in the hearts of those who just heard King
Maria:Benjamin teach the words of the angel.
Maria:So we're going to kick it off.
Maria:This is in Mosiah 4.
Maria:1 and 2 is where we'll begin.
Maria:And now it came to pass that when King Benjamin had made an end of speaking the
Maria:words which had been delivered unto him by the angel of the Lord, He cast his
Maria:eyes round about on the multitude, and behold, they had fallen to the earth, for
Maria:the fear of the Lord had come upon them.
Maria:Remember a few weeks ago we talked about that awe that you feel that this is a
Maria:holy place, to be standing in awe of God.
Maria:That's where they're at.
Maria:I don't think this is, uh, a fear of hell and damnation as much as it is an awe of
Maria:how big God is and how close they came to destruction by being in this fallen world.
Maria:The same way later when we study King Lamoni's wife, as soon as she comes out
Maria:of her kind of comatose state, that's the first thing she shows gratitude for.
Maria:She just realized how close she was to destruction and she's so
Maria:grateful for the Vastness of God.
Maria:I, that's how I feel like their hearts are.
Maria:Then this is two, And they had viewed themselves in their own carnal state,
Maria:even less than the dust of the earth.
Maria:And they all cried aloud with one voice, saying, O have mercy and apply
Maria:the atoning blood of Christ, that we may receive forgiveness of our
Maria:sins, and our hearts may be purified.
Maria:For we believe in Jesus Christ, the Son of God, who created heaven
Maria:and earth and all things, who shall come down among the children of men.
Maria:Remember the, Angel's key message was that Christ is coming, that the
Maria:atonement of Jesus Christ covers all of you, that it covers all kinds of
Maria:sin, that he will be merciful and forgiving to those who come to him.
Maria:So I feel like this is not them feeling hopeless as much
Maria:as they're feeling hungry.
Maria:I think this is what hungering and thirsting after righteousness
Maria:looks like and sounds like.
Maria:They feel that empty place of the natural man that they have chosen
Maria:to set down and there's a A little window of time where they are feeling
Maria:hungry, and they know they want something to fill them up, and so they
Maria:turn to a source that can fill them.
Maria:What I think is beautiful about this is, visually, it reminds me of a siphon.
Maria:Like, when you move water out, immediately something else rushes in, right?
Maria:That's kind of the whole idea, is that that force continues, because
Maria:as the original content is going out of the container, something else
Maria:is pulled in by that vacuum effect.
Maria:That's what I think happens with the spirit, you guys.
Maria:When we set down the natural man, when we set down, I mean, look at the
Maria:history in scriptures that we see.
Maria:When Peter sets down his boat full of fish and walks away, it makes
Maria:room for something else to fill.
Maria:It almost draws in the spirit.
Maria:I think you see the same thing, like, do you remember Elder DeFeo's
Maria:talk from conference where he talked about Bartimaeus setting down that
Maria:beggar's coat on his way to receive the miracle of his blindness being cured?
Maria:You see it with the anti Nevi Lehi's when they set down their weapons
Maria:of war, There's, you know, an itch in their hands, I imagine, where
Maria:they're used to holding weapons.
Maria:Now they want to do good and to consecrate their lives to God.
Maria:And you see it all throughout Scripture.
Maria:These people who take these moments to set down and feel that hunger.
Maria:And what the Lord does in that beautiful moment of consecration, when we choose
Maria:to set down what we thought we loved for something Heathen knows we'll love more,
Maria:is He lets the Spirit flow in and fill us.
Maria:And that's what you see happening to these saints.
Maria:So look in verse three, And it came to pass, that after they had spoken these
Maria:words, the Spirit of the Lord came upon them, and they were filled with
Maria:joy, having received a remission of their sins, having peace of conscience,
Maria:because of the exceeding faith which they had in Jesus Christ, whom should
Maria:come, according to the words which King Benjamin had spoken unto them.
Maria:They are filled.
Maria:in this moment where they felt the ache and the hollowness of setting down the
Maria:natural man immediately like a siphon.
Maria:The spirit comes in and it fills their hearts and they feel peace and joy.
Maria:They have that remission of sins, a clear conscience, and they want to Hold it.
Maria:You know, there is such beauty in this to me, because oftentimes I think when
Maria:we encounter something divine we fear, the same way the shepherds in the fields
Maria:feared when the angel first came in Luke 2, we fear what we don't understand.
Maria:We fear even a little bit when we're asked to set something down.
Maria:Trusting that there must be something greater that he's
Maria:gonna fill up our hands with.
Maria:It's that moment of hunger and hollowness that I think pulls the spirit in rapidly.
Maria:God, I honors our efforts to sacrifice and to consecrate.
Maria:And when he sees those things happen, he pours in his spirit.
Maria:To me, it's the same thing that Alma taught us.
Maria:Well, he'll teach us soon in Alma 32 about giving place.
Maria:So you remember his chapter all about experimenting on the word.
Maria:This is how he says it.
Maria:This is Alma 32 28.
Maria:Now, we will compare the word unto a seed.
Maria:Now, if ye give place, that a seed may be planted in your heart, behold, if it be
Maria:a true seed or a good seed, if ye do not cast it out by your unbelief, that ye will
Maria:resist the Spirit of the Lord, behold, it will begin to swell within your breasts.
Maria:And when you feel these swelling motions, you'll begin to say within yourselves, It
Maria:must needs be that this is a good seed.
Maria:Or that the word is good.
Maria:For it beginneth to enlarge my soul.
Maria:Yea, it beginneth to enlighten my understanding.
Maria:Yea, it beginneth to be delicious unto me.
Maria:Where they felt hunger before, they now feel full.
Maria:And it's delicious.
Maria:And they're expanding.
Maria:They're not just full from where they were before.
Maria:He's stretching them.
Maria:He's enlarging their mind and enlightening their understanding and stretching
Maria:what they thought was good before to something that is so much bigger.
Maria:This is what President Eyring said.
Maria:True conversion depends on seeking freely in faith with great effort and some pain.
Maria:I love that he said that.
Maria:I just hadn't read that from an apostle before.
Maria:True conversion depends on seeking freely in faith with great effort and some pain.
Maria:Then it is the Lord who can grant the miracle of cleansing and change.
Maria:Combining our effort with the Savior's ability to change
Maria:us, we become new creatures.
Maria:So I guess the question is, how do we give place if this world is so full of Doubts
Maria:if we have past experiences in this mortal world that lead us to doubt the goodness
Maria:of God or to doubt that his promises Are sure or you know to doubt that his mercy
Maria:and atonement can really offer us what he says it can That's what I think you
Maria:have to keep reading in the chapter So this is chapter same chapter but verse 9
Maria:you have to trust in the order of things What he says is basically if you doubt
Maria:begin here believe in God This is nine.
Maria:Believe in God.
Maria:Believe that he is, and that he created all things, both in heaven and in earth.
Maria:That he has all wisdom and all power, both in heaven and in earth.
Maria:Believe that man does not comprehend all the things that,
Maria:which the Lord can comprehend.
Maria:And again, believe that you must repent of your sins and forsake them.
Maria:And humble yourself before God, and ask in sincerity of
Maria:heart if he would forgive you.
Maria:And now if you will believe all these things, see that you do them.
Maria:What I like about that verse is, it kind of pushes down all of
Maria:the exceptions I make for myself.
Maria:You know, why I doubt God's love for me, or why I might doubt the power
Maria:of the atonement in my life, or why I might doubt my place in this kingdom.
Maria:It helps me push all those down in this order.
Maria:For me, I never read it this way, but I think it was Jack Welch.
Maria:I read it in a book.
Maria:I think it was Jack Welch who pointed this out, that you can
Maria:actually see verse nine as an order.
Maria:Like, just begin with believing in God.
Maria:Start there.
Maria:If you can't understand everything else, if you can't say you have a testimony
Maria:of the restoration yet or of the temple yet, just begin with what do you believe?
Maria:Do you believe in God?
Maria:And do you believe in his nature and his attributes?
Maria:Do you believe the kind of God that we worship?
Maria:And if you can get there, then believe that he is.
Maria:Once you've established that maybe God can exist and you've planted that little seed.
Maria:and it starts to sprout, then believe that he is what he says he is.
Maria:That he created all of these things for you.
Maria:That his intent was to bring you joy.
Maria:Stretch to that far, and once you have that much belief,
Maria:stretch to the next level.
Maria:That's where you believe that he has all wisdom and power,
Maria:both in heaven and earth.
Maria:He can do things you can't understand.
Maria:In fact, that's where his next phase of belief is.
Maria:Even if you believe that about God, and you still can't wrap
Maria:your head around it, believe that that's the very nature of God.
Maria:That you're, you're not going to be able to grasp how he can forgive
Maria:so mercifully, even someone who has made the same mistake over and over.
Maria:You don't have to understand it.
Maria:You can't comprehend the nature of God fully, so you just have to
Maria:trust that he is who he says he is.
Maria:And if you can get to that level of belief, then you get to chapter, verse
Maria:10, where he asks you to then repent.
Maria:If you can believe just that much, then repent.
Maria:Choose to change.
Maria:And then if you believe enough, do these things.
Maria:And for me to, in my perspective, I think that's him saying, plant the
Maria:seed, experiment, and watch it grow.
Maria:And at some point you're going to taste the fruit, and you're going to be
Maria:able to say, this is delicious to me.
Maria:It was worth everything I had to set down.
Maria:It was worth, I received so much more than what I offered.
Maria:In fact, my favorite verse on all of this is what you find in Psalms.
Maria:So if you go in Psalms 30, verse five, it says this.
Maria:For his anger endureth for a moment.
Maria:In my mind, I swap out hunger.
Maria:Hunger endureth for a moment.
Maria:The lack I feel when I set down the natural man, that, that fear and that
Maria:emptiness, it endures for a moment.
Maria:But in his favor is life.
Maria:Weeping may endure for the night, but joy cometh in the morning.
Maria:Not just any joy, but a fullness of joy.
Maria:That's what he offers in exchange for anything he's asked you to set down.
Maria:And I think King Benjamin's teaching that it's absolutely worth it.
Maria:So much of Benjamin's focus this week is to help them hold on to
Maria:this experience that they're having.
Maria:He doesn't want them to just have that EFY high, you know, where you've just come out
Maria:of this incredible experience and you're.
Maria:on the road, and you're feeling it, and you're like, I'm going to make some
Maria:changes, and then you get back into the real world and things fall apart slowly.
Maria:He doesn't want that for them.
Maria:The same way most of us probably felt this big push to get to the temple as
Maria:soon as we heard the words in conference, and then slowly over time that kind of
Maria:eases back into our natural rhythm and.
Maria:Benjamin's job is to keep that stirred up, right?
Maria:He doesn't want them to set this joy down or to lose the remission of their
Maria:sins that they've obtained at this point.
Maria:He wants them to retain it.
Maria:And again, because I think his focus is so much on agency, he tries to help
Maria:them see that they get to control how to retain a remission of their sins.
Maria:And he's gonna teach them in 11 and 12 of chapter four, it says, and again, I
Maria:say unto you, as I have said before, that as you have come to a knowledge of the
Maria:glory of God, or if you have known of his goodness and tasted of his love, and
Maria:have received a remission of your sins, which causes exceedingly great joy in
Maria:your souls, even so I would, you should remember and always retain in remem.
Maria:the greatness of God and your own nothingness and his goodness and long
Maria:suffering towards you unworthy creatures and humble yourselves even in the depths
Maria:of humility calling on the name of the Lord daily and standing steadfastly in
Maria:the faith of that which is to come which was spoken by the mouth of the angel
Maria:and behold i say unto you that if you do this you shall always rejoice and
Maria:be filled with the love of God This is not just a taste of the love of God.
Maria:This is to be filled with the love of God.
Maria:And then he says, And always retain a remission of your sins, and ye shall
Maria:grow in the knowledge of the glory of him that created you, or in the
Maria:knowledge of that which is just and true.
Maria:That word, remission, is personal to me, right?
Maria:I, um, I battle for remission, not for mine, but for Jason's.
Maria:Like, we've talked many times about it, but I just feel like
Maria:there is such relief in remission.
Maria:He, his cancer has come back several times over the last seven
Maria:years, and when you get that clean scan, there, here's the thing.
Maria:When I, when we head into a scan, my brain, for about two or three weeks
Maria:before the scan, prepares itself.
Maria:I swear it's just a self defense mechanism, but like I start thinking in
Maria:my head about, okay, what would I need to do if, if the scans came back bad?
Maria:And in my brain, I even have levels of bad, you know, like if it's just a little
Maria:bit bad, here's what I think we should do.
Maria:And this is how we should arrange school.
Maria:And this is probably the rides I'm going to need to work out.
Maria:Like my brain just can't stop.
Maria:I'm constantly trying to figure out ahead of time so that I'm not caught
Maria:off guard, which is ridiculous because it doesn't matter how much I prepare.
Maria:I am caught off guard, but it's like, I'm bracing myself for
Maria:an expectation of hard news.
Maria:And then a few times, lately, a few more times, we have had that beautiful
Maria:moment of a remission announced where there is no evidence of disease.
Maria:And I Rejoice, you know, because all those weights and feelings of
Maria:struggle and how am I going to do this?
Maria:And how can what do I how will I handle this?
Maria:All of that just drops off your shoulders and you literally feel like you could
Maria:float a little bit But in no way does my brain think Oh good, we're done.
Maria:You know, because I just think that's the nature of cancer.
Maria:It's this unruly tide that I can't control.
Maria:In fact, it just ebbs and flows at these random rates and I, there's nothing
Maria:I can do in my life to control it.
Maria:So I'm just at the mercy of it.
Maria:And what I love about King Benjamin's sermon is he's saying
Maria:these people here essentially feel like they just got clean scans.
Maria:They were just looked at by the Lord and he deemed them worthy.
Maria:He granted them the forgiveness that they needed.
Maria:He granted them a remission of their sins and said, You
Maria:are whole before me right now.
Maria:And they feel that lift.
Maria:That's why I think they fall to the ground in joy.
Maria:There is something about that moment of And I, I'm sure it's at another
Maria:level when it's spiritual, but for me, even the physical relief is,
Maria:it is tangible and it is powerful.
Maria:And that's what they feel in this moment.
Maria:But I think what's powerful about what King Benjamin does that is very different
Maria:than what cancer scans do is he says, do you want to keep this feeling?
Maria:You actually get to control this one.
Maria:I felt this from the Lord several times where I can't control Jason's cancer.
Maria:There, there is really almost nothing I can do to.
Maria:Keep it at bay.
Maria:But what I can do is control my stance.
Maria:I can control my testimony.
Maria:I can control my connection to God and the joy that I feel
Maria:because of those connections.
Maria:I can control my marriage and how it's going.
Maria:I can control a lot of those things.
Maria:And so he tells me to focus my attention there.
Maria:And I just think it's a powerful reminder that he's trying
Maria:to put choice in your hands.
Maria:King Benjamin and the Lord, they're trying to say, you get to choose how to,
Maria:how you're going to keep this remission.
Maria:If you want to keep this spiritual cancer at bay, here's what you have to do.
Maria:And that's what's in the verse.
Maria:So here's just a few.
Maria:One of the things I think you have to do is remember the taste of his love.
Maria:When you have tasted his love, that freedom and peace that comes with it.
Maria:knowing you are forgiven.
Maria:Even just of your natural man condition and that you will indeed be resurrected.
Maria:There is a taste of his love and you have to remember it.
Maria:And every Sunday when you partake of the sacrament, I think it's his way of saying,
Maria:don't forget what this tastes like.
Maria:Please remember what this offering is.
Maria:And so he asks you to retain that in remembrance.
Maria:Do something in your life so that you can hold on to that remembrance.
Maria:Another way you can control whether or not you're in spiritual remission or not is
Maria:that you can remember the bigness of God.
Maria:I think the same way, you know, if you think about David.
Maria:fighting Goliath.
Maria:There's no way he thought he was just a really good shot.
Maria:Like that one little stone happened to hit the exact spot that would
Maria:make this gigantic man topple.
Maria:There's no way he thought that was his effort.
Maria:The same thing happened, I imagine, when they stomped around the walls of Jericho.
Maria:You know, when those walls finally tumbled down, there's no way
Maria:they thought they're marching.
Maria:did the tumbling, or that Moses thought that his staff
Maria:really separated the Red Sea.
Maria:Every one of us knows exactly how capable we are and how big God is.
Maria:And what King Benjamin is teaching is if you want to keep that spiritual
Maria:cancer at bay, keep it in remission, then you need to remember the
Maria:goodness of God, how big he is, and how small you are in comparison.
Maria:The amount of work that you had to put in compared to the amount of
Maria:suffering that he put in, he is.
Maria:vast.
Maria:He is big.
Maria:There's some beautiful quotes in the notes from different apostles
Maria:who talk about even though we are nothing in comparison to the gift
Maria:of God, we are something to him.
Maria:In fact, we are everything to him.
Maria:And I love that you hear that in Benjamin's words.
Maria:He wants them to understand that they are small in comparison, but the Lord
Maria:of the universe is focusing on them.
Maria:That that tells you something about the character of God.
Maria:Then he tells them another way to keep their their remission in at
Maria:play is to call on the name of the Lord daily standing steadfastly in
Maria:the faith of that which is to come.
Maria:I really love both of these.
Maria:First, I think the daily piece is just critical.
Maria:I think it's almost like the manna in the wilderness.
Maria:There is something about Choosing to come to him daily, that constant
Maria:discipleship that says, I'm not in a transactional situation with you,
Maria:I'm in a relationship with you.
Maria:I actually want to see you and feel your love every day.
Maria:I want to taste of your goodness every day.
Maria:I want to do the good things that you need from me every day.
Maria:It says we're in a relationship and I'm here for the long haul.
Maria:So I love the daily piece.
Maria:Then I also love that last one of standing steadfastly in the
Maria:faith of that which is to come.
Maria:Because remember, what they learned from the angel that is to come is
Maria:that the Savior will come and that he will suffer for the sins of all.
Maria:For me, the reason this piece matters so much is I think it
Maria:helps them breathe for later.
Maria:You know, like, they don't have to panic if they make mistakes two days from now.
Maria:Even though they have new light and knowledge today, they may falter.
Maria:a week from now or two months from now.
Maria:And what he's saying is, stand steadfastly in the promise of that which is to come.
Maria:Meaning keep coming back, keep repenting, keep this remission of your sins.
Maria:Remember that this atonement doesn't just apply to the sins you've done up
Maria:to this point today, it will apply to everything that's all in the future.
Maria:So you should rest on that strength of the Lord and not panic or not get hyper
Maria:fixated on being perfect in his eyes.
Maria:Because What the angel has promised is he will continue to take care of you.
Maria:He will continue to be merciful and continue to forgive.
Maria:That's just his nature.
Maria:That's how you control remission.
Maria:That is something that is so sweet to me and so empowering to me
Maria:that I just, I loved reading it.
Maria:I loved studying it.
Maria:Um, this is Elder Christofferson.
Maria:He called this, in the last conference, being valiant to the testimony of Christ.
Maria:When you do those things, remember his love, remember what it tastes
Maria:like, remember how much you need him and how big he is, come to him daily,
Maria:and then stand steadfastly in faith.
Maria:That's what I think it means to be valiant in the testimony of Christ.
Maria:So this is Elder Christofferson.
Maria:Beyond this testimony is the question, what do we do about it?
Maria:The inheritors of the Celestial Kingdom receive the Testament of Jesus in the
Maria:fullest sense by being baptized, receiving the Holy Ghost, and overcoming by faith.
Maria:The principles and truths of the Gospel of Jesus Christ govern
Maria:their priorities and their choices.
Maria:The testimony of Jesus is manifest in what they are and what they are becoming.
Maria:Their motive is charity, the pure love of Christ.
Maria:Their focus is on pursuing the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ.
Maria:And then he compares it to those of the terrestrial
Maria:kingdom, just one kingdom down.
Maria:He says, at least some of those who will be found in the terrestrial
Maria:kingdom also accept the testimony of Jesus, but they are distinguished
Maria:by what they don't do about it.
Maria:Not being valiant.
Maria:Sorry, not being valiant in the witness of the Savior suggests a degree of
Maria:apathy or casualness, being lukewarm, as opposed to the people of Ammon in the
Maria:Book of Mormon, for example, who were distinguished for their zeal towards God.
Maria:That's King Benjamin's imitation.
Maria:If you love this remission feeling and the joy that is filling you
Maria:up right now, grab hold of it.
Maria:Keep it with you and then act and if you do act on those simple daily
Maria:discipleship opportunities that he's laid out for you Then your nature
Maria:changes and all of a sudden the rest of your life is better That's if you
Maria:look through the rest of the chapter, that's sort of what he articulates.
Maria:You'll be a better parent You'll be a kinder to those in need You'll sucker
Maria:those who stay in a need of sucker rather than get self righteous or
Maria:judge them because you think they got themselves into this mess your nature
Maria:will be different if you choose to come to him in this daily, simple way.
Maria:And so he promises a few of those blessings.
Maria:If you look from 13, 16, you'll see a few of them laid out.
Maria:I won't read the whole thing for you here, but he says, You
Maria:won't have a mind to injure.
Maria:You'll live peaceably.
Maria:You won't suffer that your children will go hungry.
Maria:You'll teach them in righteousness.
Maria:You'll help them know how to love and serve one another.
Maria:And then you'll help those who are in need.
Maria:If you doubt your capabilities as a disciple of Christ.
Maria:The trick and the antidote to that doubt is to dive fully in,
Maria:you know, live the gospel and watch how he changes your heart.
Maria:Spark number three, I call come as you are, because I love the way King Benjamin
Maria:created a holy place for these people.
Maria:Remember, he's weak and like shaking, his frame is shaking.
Maria:I wonder sometimes if his voice was delicate, like if he couldn't
Maria:project the way he probably could have when he was younger.
Maria:And he worried if.
Maria:If he was able to get the message across because he sends out
Maria:almost like emissaries into the crowd to see how are they doing?
Maria:Do they believe the words I've been teaching them?
Maria:I don't think this is King Benjamin taking the temperature of the people
Maria:to see if his talk landed well.
Maria:You know, that's, I don't think that's his situation.
Maria:I really think this is him saying, You need to take the next step.
Maria:If you believe the words that I've taught you so far, really believe
Maria:them, then you'll want to act.
Maria:You'll want to do something.
Maria:So I think he's trying to feel out, are they ready for the
Maria:next step in this process?
Maria:Do they want to go further in this connection to God?
Maria:And so he sends out people to find out how this group is feeling.
Maria:And remember, just last week we studied that there are so many people there
Maria:that they can't even number them.
Maria:And this is the reaction that happens.
Maria:This is Mosiah 5, verse 2.
Maria:And they all cried with one voice, saying, Yea, we believe all the
Maria:words which thou hast spoken unto us.
Maria:And also we know of their surety and truth, because the spirit of the
Maria:Lord omnipotent, which hath wrought a mighty change in us, or in our hearts,
Maria:that we have no more disposition to do evil, but to do good continually.
Maria:Because they're in this holy place that King Benjamin created.
Maria:They had a chance to soak in the spirit.
Maria:And because the spirit filled them, now they want to change.
Maria:They weren't compelled to change.
Maria:They weren't shamed into changing or felt peer pressure by others.
Maria:They want to change.
Maria:But they needed to get into this holy place first and be around holy
Maria:people and experience what that spirit feels like in order for that,
Maria:that desire to change to occur.
Maria:That's Benjamin's job was.
Maria:And I think it's our job too.
Maria:Our job is to gather people in give them holy places, let them be by
Maria:holy people and in groups that are, you know, devoted to God, and let
Maria:the Spirit just work on hearts.
Maria:Rather than setting up barriers before they can enter, I think our job is to
Maria:throw open the doors and let people gather in our homes and in our sacrament meetings
Maria:and in our youth activities so that they can feel and drink in the Spirit.
Maria:because the Spirit will motivate them to change.
Maria:They won't need to hear it from us or feel the pressure from us.
Maria:You see that in these saints.
Maria:So if you look through five, six, and seven, this is what you see.
Maria:And this is them, the group speaking.
Maria:And we are willing to enter into a covenant with our God to do his will
Maria:and to be obedient to his commandments and all things that he shall command
Maria:us all the remainder of our days that we may not be bring upon ourselves
Maria:a never ending torment as has been spoken by the angel that we may not
Maria:drink of the cup of the wrath of God.
Maria:And now these are the words which King Benjamin desired of them, and therefore he
Maria:said unto them, Ye have spoken the words that I desired, and the covenant which
Maria:ye have made is a righteous covenant.
Maria:And now because of the covenant which ye have made, ye shall be called the children
Maria:of Christ, his sons and his daughters.
Maria:For behold, this day he has spiritually begotten you.
Maria:For ye say that your hearts are changed through faith on his name.
Maria:Therefore, ye are born of him, and ye have become sons, and,
Maria:his sons and his daughters.
Maria:What I think is beautiful about the way King Benjamin articulates this is
Maria:he helps them understand that they're choosing this change on their own.
Maria:He could have, as a king and as the spiritual leader of this people, said, I
Maria:just want those who are already ready to make covenants to come to this gathering.
Maria:But instead, he said, I want everybody, I want all your kids, even your rebellious
Maria:teenagers, I want your spouses that are grumpy, I want, I want all of you
Maria:here, and we're gonna create this holy space, I'm gonna teach truth about
Maria:the commandments of God, and I'm gonna let the Spirit do its mighty work.
Maria:And that's what happens, they want to change.
Maria:That's why I love the way King Benjamin demonstrates it, he says,
Maria:this is exactly what I hoped for you.
Maria:He could have changed it.
Maria:He could have chosen to use that hope and set up barriers to say, well,
Maria:since I really want just people who are willing to make that next covenant,
Maria:I'm going to create some barriers of entry to even come to this event.
Maria:Instead he just opens it wide and then lets them choose to
Maria:engage and where things go next.
Maria:The reason I call this spark come as you are is because I
Maria:just heard a podcast recently.
Maria:You may have heard it as well.
Maria:It's about these FSY directors and how they Deliberately chose
Maria:to do this for their big event.
Maria:I think it was in London and how they kind of threw open the doors both with
Maria:their marketing and with their invitations out to people that the barriers that
Maria:might have been there in the past with Expectations about what your hair
Maria:color might look like, or what your clothes are, or those kind of things.
Maria:They set all that down and just said, Just come.
Maria:Just come.
Maria:Gather with us.
Maria:Come to this safe space that will be a holy place.
Maria:Where we will teach truth.
Maria:And then watch what happens.
Maria:What I love about podcasts is they started to articulate how they saw
Maria:these changes happen in others too.
Maria:They saw people who felt the spirit and made changes in their life.
Maria:That, it almost like set them on a different trajectory.
Maria:And I think that's his invitation.
Maria:I think the Savior demonstrated this in his ministry all the time.
Maria:That he went where sinners were.
Maria:That he walked the roads with, you know, prostitutes and with publicans and all
Maria:kinds of people that others pushed aside and he said, No, you all can gather
Maria:here, but you won't stay the way you are.
Maria:By feasting on the Spirit that is here, you will want to change.
Maria:I won't have to pressure you to change.
Maria:I won't compel you to change.
Maria:You'll actually change.
Maria:Want to change because you won't have any more disposition to do evil.
Maria:You'll want to do good continually That's his promise and I think it's
Maria:the promise for us, too I do think there's a bit of a caution here in
Maria:that I don't think these Boundaries are the same with priesthood leaders.
Maria:I think there are Well, let me read you this quote from President Packer and
Maria:then you can tell me what you think.
Maria:He says this, some members wonder why their priesthood leaders will
Maria:not accept them just as they are and simply comfort them in what
Maria:they call pure Christian Love.
Maria:Pure Christian Love.
Maria:The love of Christ does not presuppose approval of all conduct.
Maria:Surely the ordinary experiences of parented teach us that.
Maria:teach that one can be consumed with love for another and yet be
Maria:unable to approve unworthy conduct.
Maria:We cannot, as a church, approve unworthy conduct or accept in full
Maria:fellowship individuals who live or teach standards that are grossly
Maria:in violation to that which the Lord requires of his Latter day Saints.
Maria:If we, out of sympathy, should approve unworthy conduct, it might
Maria:give present comfort to someone, but it would ultimately not contribute
Maria:to that person's happiness.
Maria:That I think is a really important distinction, especially when it comes
Maria:to priesthood leaders and being able to be in the temple and other things.
Maria:But for those of us who are members, who are asked to judge not and to forgive
Maria:fast and to open our arms wide and show charity, to remember that we are all
Maria:beggars here, that we are all people who need the grace of Jesus Christ.
Maria:And so we are intended to open our arms and welcome and bring them to
Maria:places where the Spirit can fill them up and give them a desire to change.
Maria:on their own.
Maria:That will happen at his hands.
Maria:This is something I thought we saw beautifully in conference.
Maria:Basically, I feel like what our leaders did in conference is the
Maria:same thing King Benjamin did.
Maria:They gathered anyone who would listen, whether you were a member of the church
Maria:or not, you could tune in to conference and listen to leaders teach truth.
Maria:And the words they spoke were welcoming, warm words.
Maria:This is President, or sorry, Elder Uchtdorf.
Maria:The peace he gives is not like what the world gives.
Maria:It's better.
Maria:It's higher and holier.
Maria:Jesus said, I come that they might have life, that they
Maria:might have it more abundantly.
Maria:The gospel of Jesus Christ is truly the good news of great joy.
Maria:It's a message of matchless hope.
Maria:a message of yoke bearing and burden lifting, of light gathering, of
Maria:heavenly favor, higher understanding, holy year covenants, eternal
Maria:security, and everlasting glory.
Maria:Joy is the very purpose of God's plan for his children.
Maria:It's what you were created for, that you might have joy.
Maria:You were built for this.
Maria:This is Elder Uchtdorf opening those doors wide saying anyone can come
Maria:and listen to this Tawkak Conference.
Maria:Come, come and listen to the words of truth and then let the spirit of what
Maria:I just taught you about joy and God's purpose in your life bloom up in you.
Maria:You hear something really similar from Elder Kieran, again, just
Maria:from this last conference.
Maria:Everything about the Father's plan for his beloved children is
Maria:designed to bring everyone home.
Maria:Imagine if you were one of the people who just happened to stumble upon Conference,
Maria:the same way some may have just stumbled upon King Benjamin's Sermon, and then sat
Maria:down, because they felt welcome there.
Maria:They could come as they were, but never leave the same.
Maria:Jesus will, this is again Elder Kieran, Jesus will is
Maria:the benevolent Father's will.
Maria:He wants to make it possible for every last one of his father's
Maria:children to receive the end goal of the plan, eternal life with them.
Maria:None is excluded from this divine potential.
Maria:If you are prone to worry that you will never measure up, or that the loving
Maria:reach of Christ's infinite atonement mercifully covers everyone else,
Maria:but not you, then you misunderstand.
Maria:Infinite means infinite.
Maria:Infinite covers you and those you love.
Maria:The Savior, the Good Shepherd, goes in search of his lost
Maria:sheep until he finds them.
Maria:He is not willing that any should perish.
Maria:Mine arm of mercy is extended towards you, and whosoever
Maria:will come, him will I receive.
Maria:I think that example of what our leaders did at conference should
Maria:reverberate into our lives.
Maria:As we open up our arms and reach out hands of kindness to others, we should
Maria:do it with broad, wide arms, and bring all in and make all see how they are
Maria:loved by God and a part of this plan.
Maria:And then help them understand that even though all of us come
Maria:to the gospel as we are, None of us, hopefully, leave that way.
Maria:That's Elder Holland's message, that if you come as you are, don't expect to
Maria:stay that way, because that's the gospel.
Maria:That didn't happen for any of King Benjamin's people either.
Maria:They all came exactly as they were that day when they heard this invitation,
Maria:but they left new creatures, and that's the invitation for us as well.
Maria:We've covered some key insights.
Maria:Now let's jump into the questions portion just so you have some good conversations
Maria:this week or have good things to stew on while you get into your scriptures.
Maria:My first question of the three comes from Mosiah 4.
Maria:This is when King Benjamin is trying to give some direction to people about
Maria:you should give, that we all should give abundantly, and then he gives this
Maria:advice to those who don't have enough.
Maria:Those who are poor right now and declaring their hearts somewhere.
Maria:So this is verse 24 and 25.
Maria:And again, I say unto the poor, Ye who have not, and yet have sufficient,
Maria:that ye remain from day to day.
Maria:I mean all you who deny the beggar because ye have not.
Maria:I would that ye should say in your hearts, I give not because
Maria:I have not, but if I had.
Maria:I would give.
Maria:And then 25.
Maria:And now if you say this in your hearts, you remain guiltless,
Maria:otherwise you are condemned.
Maria:And your condemnation is just, for you covet that which you have not received.
Maria:I think this is King Benjamin's cautionary tale of sorts.
Maria:He's saying if you're in a position where you, you really can't give
Maria:because you already lack, then you can say that to the Lord.
Maria:I wish I could, but I can't.
Maria:So your heart is declared guiltless.
Maria:But he does warn that there's, if you're constantly.
Maria:Envious or coveting or it's almost that opposite end of pride.
Maria:You know, you can have pride that looks down on others and pride that creeps