I have allergies, never really grew up with them, I'm, I always feel like
Joe:you don't know what you're thinking, like you have like the Chandler Bing.
Joe:Answer, right, of why he doesn't like dogs.
Joe:But three, like the, the smell of wet dog does not bother me nearly
Joe:as much as people who stink.
Danny:Hey, and welcome
Danny:to five random questions.
Danny:The show where every question is an adventure.
Danny:I'm your host, Danny Brown.
Danny:And each week, I'll be asking my guests five questions created
Danny:by a random question generator.
Danny:The guest has no idea what the questions are, and neither do I,
Danny:which means this could go either way.
Danny:So, sit back, relax, and let's dive into this week's episode.
Danny:Today, I'm posing the questions to Joe Casabona, who helps busy
Danny:solopreneurs take back their time.
Danny:Some even say he perfectly blends content creation and technology.
Danny:Like it's the best cup of coffee you've ever had.
Danny:Okay, Joe says that.
Danny:Joe's got a lot of experience over 10 years when it comes to creating podcasts,
Danny:as well as more than 15 years in teaching, and over 20 years as a web developer.
Danny:So, he's probably going to have a few things to say,
Danny:which is perfect for this show.
Danny:So Joe, welcome to 5 Random Questions.
Joe:Thanks so much for having me.
Joe:I'm really excited to be here.
Danny:For sure, and you've got, like, just reading that out there,
Danny:that's a lot of experience, mate.
Joe:Yeah, it's Thanks I started when I was 14, like web development,
Joe:but to put it in context, I was watching a Instagram reel today that
Joe:personally attacked me by, by saying Grand Theft Auto Vice City, right?
Joe:It came out in 2002.
Joe:It takes place in, in 1986.
Joe:If it came out today, it would take place in 2008.
Joe:And that, that is gross to me, like I'm like, I was like a full blown adult, like
Joe:a voting, voting in elections that like, at that age, I don't, I don't appre,
Joe:so I feel like, I feel very old today.
Danny:Well, and I was going to say, when I mentioned that you've got
Danny:like 20 plus years in the, the web development, you don't look old, mate.
Danny:You know, you're a little bit grey in your beard,
Danny:but
Danny:you don't look
Danny:old.
Joe:Well, thank you.
Joe:I have three kids, so that's like, that's where the grey comes from.
Danny:You know what, I hear you, I don't know as many of you, I've
Danny:got two, but I definitely greyed out big time after they were born.
Danny:I think that's just a, a thing, right?
Danny:It's just like, it adds greyness.
Joe:Yeah.
Joe:You know, it like gets you, like, you know, there's like the, yeah, like
Joe:kids do whatever they want and it's frustrating, but then there's also
Joe:the constant worry you have about them and everything they're doing.
Joe:And it's like, you know, it's, it's wonderful.
Joe:I love being a dad, but you know, they had like a concert for us this
Joe:morning and that was like adorable.
Joe:But You know, you do worry about them.
Joe:So, I'll take the grays, though.
Joe:I'll take the grays for the good experience.
Danny:You're looking very dapper with the grays, especially
Danny:with your yellow hat there.
Danny:That's nice.
Danny:It's, you know, countering it really well.
Joe:Thank you.
Danny:So, what we're going to do, Joe, as I mentioned, we've
Danny:got five random questions.
Danny:I have no idea what they are.
Danny:They're just going to pop up when I open the generator, and
Danny:we'll just see where it goes.
Danny:So, I'm going to bring the generator up, and let's just get that now.
Danny:Alrighty.
Danny:So, question one.
Danny:Let's just spin the generator here.
Danny:Alright.
Danny:Here we go, then.
Danny:Alright.
Danny:Let's get the ball rolling.
Danny:Who from your past do you really wish you'd stayed in contact with?
Joe:Man, this is quite a question.
Danny:It's a good
Danny:opener.
Joe:Yeah.
Joe:Okay.
Joe:So, I mean, there's a lot of people, but I think that I have a, a couple of
Joe:friends from college who predictably we lost touch with each other after college.
Joe:So you know, I have like my friend Kat, we would text each other.
Joe:In direct rela like, the amount of time that would go between how often we texted
Joe:each other after graduation was directly related to how much time had gone by,
Joe:so, Six months after college, we would text each other every couple weeks.
Joe:Six years after college, it was the high holidays.
Joe:And now it's, hey, remember that time in college we did that thing?
Joe:So I wish I'd stayed in touch with her and, you know, that group
Joe:of people a little bit better.
Danny:And what do you find?
Danny:Is it because you're in different, like, states or cities, etc?
Danny:Just different paths?
Danny:Or what do you think's the main reason for that?
Joe:Yeah, I mean, we live So, I mean, that particular group of
Joe:friends and I, we live all over now.
Joe:But Kat specifically, she, you know, she lives probably
Joe:five or so hours away from me.
Joe:We both have.
Joe:Three small children, as a, as a matter of fact and, you know, we,
Joe:we both have pretty busy careers.
Joe:And so you know, if we lived closer to each other, we'd probably see
Joe:each other more often, but, you know, with, with the kids and the jobs and.
Joe:The distance makes it hard.
Danny:Did you ever do that thing, I know like you see it on TV shows and movies
Danny:all the time, where you're on Facebook I'm going to use Facebook because that's
Danny:the big connector, obviously, pretty much everybody on the planet's on that.
Danny:Do you ever see someone from your old school, college, workplace, and they've
Danny:taken a completely different path in life from what you might have expected that.
Danny:When you knew them, you
Danny:ever
Danny:see that?
Joe:Oh, absolutely.
Joe:I don't, I don't mind.
Joe:I won't name her specifically, but you'll know who I'm who if I'm talking about
Joe:her, but I had a friend in college who was, she was like a big hippie, like
Joe:kind of flower child type of person.
Joe:Go with the flow.
Joe:And at our five year College reunion, I, we were talking and
Joe:I'm like, so what do you do?
Joe:She's like, Oh, I'm a lawyer now.
Joe:I'm like, you're a lawyer now?
Joe:I'm like, five years ago, me wouldn't believe that.
Joe:She's like, five years ago, me wouldn't believe it either.
Danny:Well, and that's, that's almost like the complete
Danny:opposite of what you'd expect.
Danny:you know, someone that's following the hippie lifestyle to do, especially,
Danny:I mean, a moving to corporate, but I guess moving to being a lawyer,
Danny:was she a prosecutor or defender?
Joe:You know, at this point I forget, I, you know, I, it felt like, I
Joe:feel like she was in public defense.
Joe:And so that, that makes like a little bit more sense, but yeah,
Joe:it was, it was really shocked.
Joe:And I mean, you know, like people go through, something I have a problem with
Joe:is, The person I knew at that stage of their life is who they are today, and
Joe:that is almost, it should never be the case, and it is almost never the case.
Danny:And that's true, like, I mean, they do say you can choose your friends, right?
Danny:You can't choose family, you choose friends, and then you choose who, I guess,
Danny:well, I guess you don't always have the choice as to who stays in your life,
Danny:but, as you mentioned, at least you can still stay connected, I mean, we've got
Danny:this great thing called internet that allows us to, You know, to keep connected.
Danny:And who knows, because, you know, obviously you and Kat's got the similar
Danny:life with the, the kids, et cetera.
Danny:But maybe that's something that's a bucket list, you know, let's
Danny:spend a summer just, you know, re reconnecting with either at yours or
Danny:theirs or vice versa or in between.
Joe:Yeah.
Joe:Yeah, absolutely.
Danny:I love that.
Danny:Nice.
Danny:Okay.
Danny:So that's question one.
Danny:That's a nice one to start off with.
Danny:Let's see what we got for question two.
Danny:Ooh, okay.
Danny:Interesting.
Danny:All right, Joe, question two, spontaneity or stability.
Joe:The adventurous people pleaser person in me wants to say spontaneity,
Joe:but the responsible business owning dad in me wants to say stability.
Joe:So I'm going to go with stability at this point in my life.
Joe:You know, 38 I'll be 39 years old.
Danny:You're just a kid, mate.
Joe:But you know, got school tuition and house and things like that.
Joe:Of course, I am a small business owner, right?
Joe:So like how, like how much stability Am I really leaning into here?
Joe:But I like the idea of knowing a little bit.
Joe:At least a little bit of what I'm going into.
Joe:And I feel like that's more the side of stability, right?
Joe:Spontaneity is like, hey, let's just do this random thing today.
Joe:And I'm like, can I do this random thing today?
Joe:I could do that in college.
Joe:I can't do that today though.
Danny:Well, okay, so let's go, let's go with a bonus.
Danny:Question on top of this then.
Danny:This isn't question three, this is like 2.a1654, whatever you want to call it.
Danny:Let's get into the pie equations almost.
Danny:Okay, so obviously stability makes complete sense as you mentioned.
Danny:You've got the business to run, you've got bills to pay, family to feed, etc.
Danny:So completely 100 percent get that.
Danny:If you could do one single spontaneous thing.
Danny:Anything at all, and it doesn't impact your job, your life, etc.
Danny:You just do something really, you know, out of the world that would
Danny:normally be associated with you.
Danny:What would it be?
Joe:Ooh, Just to put you on the spot.
Joe:Anything in the world I could do that maybe wouldn't So I love traveling,
Joe:so I feel like I'm not going to give the coolest answer, but I
Joe:would take my wife to New Zealand.
Joe:We've been, you know, we went to Italy for our honeymoon, we've both been to Ireland.
Joe:And I do want to make it to Scotland to have Lagavulin straight from the
Joe:source, but she's a huge Lord of the Rings fan and so, and I've always
Joe:wanted to be on that side of the world.
Joe:So I think if, if we could, we would spontaneously take a trip to New Zealand.
Danny:And like, and they've got Hobbiton there, right?
Danny:They've like, they've recreated Hobbiton essentially and it's actually there.
Joe:Yeah, yeah.
Joe:It was shot in New Zealand.
Joe:So they have all sorts of movie era sets and, and museum esque stuff over there.
Joe:That would be cool.
Danny:Okay, so there you go, bucket list.
Danny:Yeah.
Danny:We're off to New Zealand.
Danny:Alrighty, nice one.
Danny:Moving swiftly along.
Danny:We're getting there fairly quickly today, but I like it though, I like it.
Danny:Alright then.
Danny:Okay, I'm looking forward to this for some strange reason.
Danny:Question number three.
Danny:Would you rather be trapped in an elevator full of men with B.
Danny:O.
Danny:and body odour or three soaking wet dogs?
Joe:I am famously not a dog person.
Joe:I'm not an animal person at all.
Joe:Actually.
Joe:I don't like animals.
Joe:Yeah.
Joe:I have allergies.
Joe:Never really grew up with them.
Joe:I'm, I always say like, you don't know what you're thinking.
Joe:Like you have like the Chandler Bing answer, right?
Joe:Of why he doesn't like dogs, but three, like the, the smell of wet dog.
Joe:Does not bother me nearly as much as people who stink.
Joe:Like I knew, I knew somebody in a previous life who was a close talker
Joe:who also had like intense halitosis.
Joe:And like, like close, like, he would like grab my head and like say something
Joe:real close to me and I'm like, bro, you need a mint, like, so I will, even though
Joe:I don't like animals, I will pick the three soaked dogs because I, I would
Joe:prefer that smell versus men with B.
Joe:O.
Danny:And I always feel like, I mean, wet dogs don't really smell that bad, you
Danny:know, and I'm thinking we've got two dogs.
Danny:That being said, our two dogs are Chinese Crested, so they're pretty much hairless.
Danny:They've only got hair on their face, their tail, and a little bit on their paws.
Danny:That's it.
Danny:The rest of them, they're naked, and we got these because my wife suffers
Danny:from allergies, so these dogs are hypoallergenic, so it was perfect, but
Danny:when we bathe, okay, when we bathe them, that's not a great example, because then
Danny:they smell nice and clean, before we bathe them, they don't smell bad, and
Danny:when they're out in the rain or whatever, maybe it's because they don't have hair,
Danny:Even dogs that, like, my wife's mum's got a big dog, and even that doesn't
Danny:smell bad, bad, at least, when it's wet.
Danny:So it's, like you say, I can't think of three wet dogs being anywhere
Danny:as bad as, especially men would be, or women, I feel, don't often have.
Danny:But I had to be all problems not as much as men for some reason, whether it's the
Danny:pheromones, whatever it is, it's a nice.
Danny:Mm hmm.
Joe:Yeah.
Joe:Testosterone is probably very smelly.
Danny:Oh yeah.
Danny:Yeah.
Danny:I know.
Danny:Like to your example, I worked before I like moved into
Danny:sort of a a different career.
Danny:I used to work in a knitwear mill back in Scotland.
Danny:That was my very first job after leaving school.
Danny:And that's where you make, you know, sweaters and jerseys, et
Danny:cetera, and you hand make them.
Danny:And we used to work in a knitwear mill in the summer.
Danny:It got really, really stinky hot.
Danny:There was no AC back then.
Danny:So it was really hot.
Danny:And we were a couple of guys that had really bad issues
Danny:and they tried to hide it.
Danny:Fair play to them.
Danny:They tried to hide it with lots of showers, lots of soap, and body spray,
Danny:but because they were lathering all that stuff on and then that was on
Danny:top of the BO that was fighting back through again, that just, I, I still
Danny:can vividly remember that smell today.
Joe:Yeah, sounds like they needed like prescription deodorant, right?
Joe:So yeah, I guess the other side of this question is not the smell, but it's like
Joe:three soaked dogs will probably be like shaking themselves off and like, again, I
Joe:don't know, like being, being wet in dry clothing doesn't really bother me also.
Joe:Okay.
Joe:Like, I know I keep bringing up my kids, but like, you know, when I'm out and about
Joe:or my, my youngest still wears diapers.
Joe:So like.
Joe:You know, I get like foreign substances on my hands that I kind of have to
Joe:deal with so like that maybe it's just like I'm Especially sensitive to
Joe:smells like I can tell if someone's smoking outside like several.
Joe:I don't I was gonna say blocks Outside of eyesight, right?
Joe:Like if someone is smoking in the vicinity, even if they're not next to me
Joe:Like I'll smell it and I smoke cigars.
Joe:So I'm also like aware of that hypocrisy so like maybe it's just like
Joe:You Really smelly people are like, that is definitely low on my list.
Joe:I would rather like dogs like shaking off and getting me all wet and like smelling
Joe:like a wet dog way more than like really stinky men, like really stinky men.
Joe:Right.
Danny:And when you, when you said that, I thought you were going
Danny:to go somewhere else with that.
Danny:When you said, I'd rather have dogs, you know, Oh, where are we going here?
Danny:Cause now that's a different question.
Danny:That's a different question.
Danny:So I guess then, so I, and I, I completely, I think I one hundred
Danny:percent agree with you here, mate.
Danny:I'm curious, if you're with someone so whether you're in a work situation, et
Danny:cetera, and someone's got that bad B.
Danny:O., do you let them know gently?
Danny:Do you ignore it and let it go?
Danny:What would be your approach there?
Joe:I'd probably let it go unless it was like a friend, like if it was like a
Joe:friend and we're like getting ready to go out maybe or something, I'd be like hey,
Joe:did you like poop your pants or something?
Joe:Like you smell terrible.
Joe:Definitely my brothers.
Joe:But if it was like, if we're already out.
Joe:Almost definitely no, right, because at that point, I don't know, my, my wife
Joe:and like a lot of her friends like tend to have deodorant on them, but like my
Joe:wife's also a nurse, so like she's running around, I, I don't know any guys who carry
Joe:deodorant on them, and so like, certainly if it's a guy friend, like probably
Joe:not able to do anything about that, so like why make them self conscious.
Danny:So
Danny:what we're saying here is, man,
Danny:smarten up, you guys stink, we stink.
Danny:Let's not say you guys, we stink.
Joe:Yes,
Joe:yeah, we stink, yeah, right?
Joe:Give yourself a sniff test, right?
Joe:If I'm going out on a date, I reapply, like with my wife,
Joe:I reapply deodorant, right?
Joe:Like, even though I do maybe one of the least physically strenuous jobs
Joe:on the planet, I'm still like, hey, I was just living, so I'm gonna freshen
Joe:up a little bit before I go out.
Danny:Well, that's, I mean, and that's the thing, I mean, obviously
Danny:you're in the creator space, so you've got a lot of lights, etc.
Danny:that are going on, you know, in your office, so that can get fairly
Danny:warm anyway, even though you might not be doing anything strenuous, it
Danny:can get warm, so yeah, I hear you.
Danny:So, like we say, smarten up, not smarten up, freshen up, man, let's do this.
Danny:Freshen up, I love it.
Danny:Freshen up.
Danny:Alrighty, question number four, moving on.
Danny:We're eight, we're approaching 80 percent through here, all good stuff.
Danny:Yeah.
Danny:Okay, let's find out what kind of healthy or non healthy person you are, Joe.
Danny:What's in your fridge right now?
Joe:So this is really good, right?
Joe:I, cause the fridge is stuff that I've purchased from the grocery store and
Joe:then stuff my wife has selected to buy.
Joe:And I'll just say right now, the healthy stuff is all for my wife
Joe:and the not healthy stuff is for me.
Joe:So in our fridge right now, we're in a farm share our Chester County,
Joe:Pennsylvania, famously, I guess, or at least locally, famously.
Joe:Lots of farm land.
Joe:We are the number one exporter of mushrooms.
Joe:And so we know a lot of people with farms are part of a farm share.
Joe:So we've got like some onions, some lettuce, carrots.
Joe:We have eggs, fresh eggs, right from the chicken.
Joe:And that's all part of the farm share that my wife signed us up for.
Joe:In the other part of the fridge, we have.
Joe:An assortment of frozen food that could easily be thrown in the oven to eat.
Joe:So tortellini, pizza bagels, pierogies and then this rebel
Joe:ice cream that is very low carb.
Joe:Because even though I just rattled off a bunch of things, I have type 2 diabetes.
Joe:And so I, I try to draw the line at sweets, right?
Joe:I'm Italian, so I have a hard time completely cutting out pasta.
Joe:But I, I will draw the line at sweets.
Joe:And so Rebel ice cream, great alternative, like, keto friendly, low carb ice cream.
Danny:And, so have you always been type 2 diabetes, or did
Danny:that come in later in life?
Joe:I was diagnosed about three years ago.
Joe:But we've like, I, I was a lock for this.
Joe:Both of my parents have type two, type two, my, my maternal grandmother had type
Joe:two, our family dog had type two diabetes.
Joe:So like I was, not that that's genetically related, but it's definitely
Joe:like lifestyle related, I'm sure.
Joe:So I was like pretty much a lock.
Joe:It's under, it's under good control and so but yeah, I found out a few
Joe:years ago, but I've known for a while this is probably in my future.
Joe:And
Danny:I'm guessing because it's such a new, you know, diagnosis, is
Danny:there anything you'd mention, you know, what you have in your fridge,
Danny:what your wife gets, what you get?
Danny:And that you do have that, that special ice cream because obviously
Danny:ice cream, everybody wants ice cream, you know, but is there something that
Danny:you can't have anymore that you did have prior to three years ago that you
Danny:really,
Joe:really miss?
Joe:Regular soda.
Joe:Which is probably what got me into the situation in the first place, right?
Joe:So, I've loosened up since the diagnosis, but like, when I was first
Joe:diagnosed I spoke to a nutritionist who was like, Alright, because of
Joe:your situation, you should have like, 40 carbs, 40 to 50 carbs per meal,
Joe:and then 15 to 20 carbs per snack.
Joe:And so I was like, all right, well, if I'm eating like salmon, right.
Joe:For dinner, I'm only eating like salmon and asparagus or something.
Joe:There's no carbs in that.
Joe:I could probably have a can of regular Coke, right?
Joe:Nope.
Joe:42 carbs in a can.
Joe:12 ounces of regular coke.
Joe:So once I figured that out, I was like, all right, like, I live in a world
Joe:where not only can I easily get my blood sugar at any point during the day,
Joe:but there's also lots of alternatives.
Joe:So like, Coke Zero?
Joe:pretty close.
Joe:Diet Dr.
Joe:Pepper, pretty close.
Joe:And so I do miss the taste of especially cherry Coke, but there are enough
Joe:close enough alternatives that I'm, I'm not down in the dumps about it.
Joe:You know, I guess if you really love food, you'll get that statement.
Joe:If you don't care about food, you'd be like, why would you ever
Joe:be down in the dumps about food?
Danny:Oh, no, I hear you.
Danny:I'm a huge foodie.
Danny:I mean, I love cooking.
Danny:I find it really therapeutic.
Danny:And just messing about with flavours.
Danny:Oh, is this going to work?
Danny:Let's try it.
Danny:If it doesn't, okay, I'm not doing that again.
Danny:But at least you tried it, right?
Danny:It's just that experimentation.
Joe:Yeah, I do that with cocktails.
Joe:I love making cocktails.
Danny:Oh, I'll have to manoeuvre my way out that way sometime at a
Danny:podcast conference or something.
Danny:Absolutely.
Danny:Sounds like a plan.
Danny:So, and obviously because it is a new I'm guessing, how
Danny:old are your kids again, Joep?
Danny:You mentioned you've got a little one.
Joe:Yeah,
Joe:seven,
Joe:four and two and a half.
Danny:And do they work around your diabetes?
Danny:Do they still have what they want?
Joe:Yeah, yeah.
Joe:I was I'm very much a, you know, I did this to myself.
Joe:It's my personal responsibility.
Joe:You know, it's like there are some people who are like, Oh, I know you're not
Joe:drinking, so I'm not going to get a drink.
Joe:I would never impose that on other people, right?
Joe:Like, Oh, sorry, I'm getting dessert.
Joe:No, no, no, no.
Joe:You live a largely healthy life and you got a salad for dinner and
Joe:I got like a hamburger for dinner.
Joe:So like, don't be sad for me.
Joe:Right.
Joe:So no, I, we, they get their treats after dinner.
Joe:I want to reign that in a little bit.
Joe:I'm like, I, I get like, they're, they're still young and their metabolism is
Joe:different and they're still growing.
Joe:But I definitely don't want them to have the bad habits that I had.
Joe:So like, they, even my oldest, like, hasn't had a regular soda yet.
Joe:Because when I, like, I had it too early, and like, that's all we, like, my dad
Joe:doesn't drink water, like, that's a true, that's not an exaggeration, like, and
Joe:so, thankfully after I started dating Erin, I, my, my now wife, I started
Joe:drinking more water, I tell people I'd be dead without her, but so, like, we
Joe:grew up in a household, we didn't grow up in a healthy habits household, and
Joe:I want to change that for my kids.
Danny:And that's the thing, right, you always want to do differently
Danny:from what your parents did with you, not that your parents ever did a bad
Danny:thing or anything, but you always, I feel as a, as a child you always want
Danny:to do things differently from how you perceive maybe your parents raised
Danny:you, and I tend to think you still do
Danny:stuff that your parents did anyway.
Joe:Oh my gosh, I'm like a carbon.
Joe:I mean, like, I'm not kidding anybody.
Joe:I'm a carbon copy of my old man.
Joe:Like, the only difference between my dad and me is I read more books than he does.
Joe:Which is like, the, like, that's a purely academic thing and I probably
Joe:got that from my, my mom, right?
Joe:Because my mom loves reading.
Joe:But other than that, like, We, we have the same mannerisms, we're short with
Joe:our temper in the same sort of way and the same sort of things bother us.
Joe:But yeah, my, my parents did a good job, but it was the eighties,
Joe:nineties, things were different, right?
Joe:Like way more processed food was coming out.
Joe:My mom was working, right?
Joe:Cause she had four, like my parents had four boys that they had to
Joe:feed, which is an impossible task when they're all teenagers.
Joe:And so you know, we would go for the easy and the fun thing
Joe:and we do the same thing.
Joe:It's just, we live 30, 20 or 30 years on.
Joe:There's a lot more healthy, easy food out there.
Danny:And I'm curious what our kids will have in 30 years time.
Danny:Will they still have nice food to have?
Danny:Will it be just these little cubes?
Joe:Yeah, right.
Joe:Yeah.
Joe:Little bouillon, like the impossible bouillon cube, right?
Joe:Or it's like, it tastes like a steak dinner, but it's not.
Joe:Made from water or something.
Danny:Exactly.
Danny:Good luck to them.
Danny:I'm not I'm hoping Well, you know what?
Danny:30 years time, maybe I'll still be alive.
Danny:Maybe not.
Danny:But I'm not worried if I'm dead because I'm missing that food.
Danny:I will take that as a trade.
Danny:Yeah, absolutely.
Danny:Alrighty, Joe.
Danny:We're almost at the end here.
Danny:I feel like Sean, Sean Evans on Now We Feast, you know, he's like, Oh,
Danny:yeah, we're under the last dab here.
Danny:Yeah.
Danny:Got the same kind of hair as Sean Evans.
Danny:I think he's a little bit balder than me, but we'll see.
Danny:Anywho, so yeah, we're on to question five.
Danny:So let's have a look at this and let's reel this one in.
Danny:Okay, then.
Danny:Now, this will tie back a little bit to your spontaneity or, you
Danny:know, Whatever that question was.
Danny:Spontaneity or stability.
Danny:That was it.
Danny:Yep.
Danny:So question five.
Danny:Here we go.
Danny:What's the craziest or most out of character thing you've ever done?
Joe:Oh, man.
Joe:Okay, I people who have heard all of, no, that's probably not the
Joe:most, I was like protecting a friend.
Joe:Okay, the most out of character thing for me probably, in my
Joe:early 20s and stupid, mostly.
Joe:But I try not to be outwardly mean to people who who don't deserve it.
Joe:And I wrote a very mean blog post about somebody.
Joe:It was like, it was, I like cringe just thinking about it.
Joe:And then they read it and confronted me twice about it.
Joe:And I doubled down both times.
Joe:Like I never apologized.
Joe:And I think about it now.
Joe:And it's just like, I hate that.
Joe:Like, I don't, I don't have a lot of regrets.
Joe:I regret.
Joe:writing it, and I regret the way I handled it.
Joe:And like, sure, stupid 18 to 20 year old guy who's like not thinking
Joe:about long term ramifications, but in other situations, I'm direct and
Joe:I will, I'm willing to admit when I'm wrong and I just was neither
Joe:of those things in that situation.
Joe:So something I think about every few months and not, I'm not like haunted by
Joe:it, but I do think about it sometimes.
Joe:And I'm just like, man, I was an idiot.
Joe:Like every, every time I think about it.
Joe:And
Danny:like you say, I mean, you, you were young and we've all done silly things.
Danny:I'm curious, E, did you ever?
Danny:Clear the air after these two times and then I guess B maybe, is there anything
Danny:in that you find specific that makes you think of that times that just pop
Danny:into your, your head from nowhere?
Joe:Yeah, that's like the, that's like the horrible thing about
Joe:just random thoughts, right?
Joe:Is it'll just like pop in from time to time or like, you know, and when I'm
Joe:even prompted like this and I thought about it, it like doesn't, it's when it
Joe:just like creeps in and I'm like Yeah.
Joe:We never cleared the air and it's part of me is because so like it upset this person
Joe:so much and they've more or less like disavowed themselves of me that I worry
Joe:that just like sliding in and like my very like existence will upset this person,
Joe:you know and so, you know, I feel like it's a very let sleeping dogs lie thing.
Joe:Now, if, if, you know, If they're listening they know I don't know.
Joe:You know, but if they are they know exactly who they are.
Joe:And I, I do regret the way I acted because it's not.
Joe:It's not me.
Joe:It wasn't me then.
Joe:It's definitely not me now.
Danny:Well, I think that's part of human growth though, right?
Danny:We, we do things and it's, it's as we get older and we see, you know,
Danny:why it wasn't the right thing to do.
Danny:And then we try, you know, espouse that to our kids and explain, okay,
Danny:don't ever do anything like this because it's wrong and explain why.
Danny:Right.
Danny:So it's it's not nice because obviously, as you mentioned, it ruined a
Danny:friendship and it's, it's hurt someone.
Danny:But if it's a learning thing, I feel it's.
Danny:Not good, because that's the wrong word, but it's good for our personal
Danny:growth and to, we can try our best to make it right, but as you mentioned,
Danny:at some stage we just have to step back and say, okay, I hurt that person
Danny:and You know, I'll let them be now.
Joe:Yeah, right.
Joe:And if I ever run into this person in the street, it'll be the first thing I say.
Joe:Until then, if they have not thought about me and never think about me again, then
Joe:that's, that's perfectly fine as well.
Danny:That's a good way,
Danny:that's a good way to think about it, I think.
Danny:Alrighty, so we made it.
Danny:We got through the five questions.
Joe:We got real deep there.
Joe:I don't usually get this deep.
Joe:I don't usually get that deep.
Danny:Well, this is what I like about this, this format.
Danny:I mean, as I mentioned, we don't know what the questions are.
Danny:And it kind of, it doesn't force you, but I think it encourages you to, to
Danny:maybe answer, you know, something that you hadn't thought of for a while.
Danny:So it's, and I like the fact that it can be, one minute it can be something silly.
Danny:You know about B.
Danny:O.
Danny:and dogs in an elevator, and then the next thing would be something like that.
Danny:So, yeah, I appreciate you sharing with that.
Danny:Yeah, of course, of course.
Danny:And I think, in fairness, this is the part of the show that it's fair
Danny:to the guests who've put themselves out there and open up, honestly
Danny:to myself and you, the listener.
Danny:I think it's only fair to allow Joe the random question he can throw my way.
Joe:Well, it's not gonna be as deep as that.
Joe:I was thinking about this.
Joe:It's also, I guess it's not really random either for those who don't have
Joe:access to the video, I'm currently wearing an Obi Wan Kenobi shirt.
Joe:I see Boba Fett in the background, and I know Danny that you're
Joe:a Star Wars fan, right?
Joe:And so my question is, who would you want to be your master?
Joe:in all of Star Wars and the extended universe.
Joe:So I was going to say Jedi Master, but I don't want to assume you're
Joe:picking the light side, right?
Joe:So like who, whose apprentice do you most want to be in all of Star
Joe:Wars and the extended universe?
Danny:Oh,
Joe:that's a really good one.
Danny:And there's so many as well.
Danny:I mean, I'm, I'm a huge Star Wars fan, but I'm not, Like one of the ones that
Danny:are super into every aspect and faucet of the, the Lord behind it and everything.
Danny:I know Mark, my colleague, you know, Mark, Mark Asquith and Garry Aylott
Danny:they would know so much more than me.
Danny:Because that's, that's a thing, right?
Danny:That they have their own podcast about Star Wars.
Danny:Yeah.
Danny:So.
Danny:I, I think of the, the books I've read and of the shows and the movies, et
Danny:cetera, I'd probably go with Kanan Jarrus, Kanan Jarrus from Rebels.
Danny:If you watch the Rebels TV show, you'll know who he is.
Danny:He may have appeared in comics beforehand.
Danny:I'm not sure, but obviously that's where.
Danny:Rebels is where I got to know him and he's, he's been name dropped
Danny:in the Ahsoka, which I thought was awesome because that tied
Danny:these two universes together.
Joe:He also, he also makes a little cameo in Bad Batch.
Danny:Yes, he does.
Danny:Yes.
Danny:Right at the start, I believe, right?
Danny:Isn't he the kid that runs off or something?
Danny:He's the kid.
Danny:Yep.
Danny:Yep.
Danny:Yeah, I forgot about that.
Danny:Good, good one.
Danny:I forgot.
Danny:Yeah, I don't know.
Danny:I feel he's the most pure, like how he taught Ezra.
Danny:You know, he took Ezra on board and taught Ezra.
Danny:And how he, and I don't want to give any spoilers away for anyone
Danny:that's not watched Rebels, but might want to watch it to catch up on.
Danny:You know, the backstory to Ahsoka and, you know, all that stuff,
Danny:but how he did what he did at an important time that completely
Danny:changed the direction of the show.
Danny:So yeah, I would say Ken, and I'm going to get his name wrong, so I please, I know
Danny:what the Star Wars fans can be like, I'm just going to unline it at the minute.
Danny:Oof, it's, it's, it's all Wild West.
Danny:Showdown over there at the minute.
Danny:But yeah, Kanan Jarrus, that'd be my, my master I feel.
Danny:What about you?
Danny:I'm going to ping it back to you, I think.
Joe:Oh so I, I love that answer.
Joe:Cause I don't think you would hear it a lot, but yeah, Kanan's great.
Joe:I'm, I mean, I love Obi Wan, but I feel like that's such a boring answer,
Joe:but I don't, I think now that the show is out, this answer is also going to
Joe:be boring, but I love Ahsoka Tano.
Joe:I think she's great.
Joe:I think she has like the, you know, the the spontaneity of Anakin, right.
Joe:With a little bit of like the, the wisdom and stability of, of Obi Wan.
Joe:And so she's not afraid to do the right thing, but she, you know, She acts
Joe:prudent, and much like a self employed person, she realized that she wanted
Joe:to continue her practice, but could not live within the co Well, I guess I'm,
Joe:like, really spoiling Clone Wars here.
Joe:But Of the Jedi order.
Joe:So really, I, you know, I, I really liked that about her and like, I read
Joe:her the book about her and it was just really, really great character.
Joe:So that's, that's who I'd pick.
Danny:I like it.
Danny:That's a good one.
Danny:And the show, I thought Rosario Dawson nailed that.
Danny:Yeah.
Danny:And even when she appeared in the Mandalorian, you know, I thought she
Danny:nailed that character introduction.
Danny:So it'll be interesting to see where season two, hopefully they're
Danny:going to have it, where that goes.
Joe:This is the thing I like about Ahsoka, right?
Joe:Cause like, when we're introduced to Ahsoka in the first episode of Clone
Joe:Wars, which was like a Clone Wars movie she was like 14 and very immature.
Joe:And then like, we see her fast forward 50 or so years later, you know, and she
Joe:is There's a lot of character development for us to witness, which is great.
Danny:Yeah, I'm 100%.
Danny:And I know they're drawn about doing a like Dave Filoni's on about
Danny:bringing all these disparate universes together, like all the shows together.
Danny:So the Rebels Era, Ahsoka, Thrawn.
Danny:Bad Batch, everything's leading up to this big Mandalorian, this big movie event,
Danny:you know, in a couple of years time.
Danny:So I'll be curious to see what that is.
Joe:Yeah, super exciting.
Joe:I love that we got to see on screen Thrawn.
Joe:Or like real life Thrawn, I guess.
Danny:Yeah, real life on screen, we'll go with both.
Danny:Live action.
Danny:Live action, that's the word.
Danny:Live action.
Danny:And we're not cutting that out.
Danny:We're going to let Joe sound really, you know, off the chart
Danny:when he's trying to describe what an animation to live action is called.
Joe:That's good.
Joe:People, people should see that.
Joe:You know, it's I know it's hard to believe, but I'm
Joe:not brilliant all the time.
Danny:So Joe, I really appreciate you coming on today's episode and
Danny:opening up and talking to me about the five questions that you were asked.
Danny:For people that want to find out what you do from a work point of view, podcast
Danny:point of view, or just in life in general.
Danny:Where's the best place to connect and find you?
Joe:I think casabona.
Joe:org is the place.
Joe:You know, usually I come on these shows, I have like a landing page set
Joe:up, but you know, this was a really good, casual kind of open conversation.
Joe:Casabona.
Joe:org has been my blog since two thousand and two.
Joe:And so you can go there and, and.
Joe:It's been cleaned up, obviously.
Joe:But yeah, there's a lot of stuff about me there.
Joe:And then I'm on almost every social network as Jay Casabona, which
Joe:is also linked over at casabona.
Joe:org.
Danny:That makes it nice and easy.
Danny:And speaking of links, I'll be sure to leave the link to
Danny:that in the old show notes.
Danny:So whatever app you're listed on, make sure to check that out.
Danny:And I'll link that right over to Joe's site.
Danny:So, Joe, again, thanks so much for being here today.
Joe:Thanks for having me.
Joe:This was so much fun.
Danny:Thanks for listening to five Random Questions.
Danny:If you enjoyed this week's episode, be sure to follow for three on the
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Danny:And if you feel like leaving the review well that'd make me happy in that time.
Danny:I met Darth Vader.
Danny:At my local supermarket, because yes, that's what Darth Vader does.
Danny:Signs autographs for 13-year-old boys at local supermarkets.
Danny:So it's obviously the real Darth Vader, and I'm not taking any other answer.
Danny:But seriously, if you got to live with you for the show, it'd
Danny:make my day until the next time.
Danny:Keep asking those questions.