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Study as much as you can.

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Learn as many things as you can from as many people as you can.

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But beware of the pitfalls of the illusion that now it's done.

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Hi, I'm Dr. John Demartini. And in all probability,

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you've heard the term enlightenment.

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Maybe from a Buddhist construct or possibly Eastern mysticism

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construct,

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or maybe just awareness in your personal development journey.

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I'd like to take a few moments to go over the idea of the journey

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of enlightenment.

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I didn't say journey to enlightenment - the journey of enlightenment.

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I want to break a few myths. In my earlier years,

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back, 40, 50 years ago, I was on a pursuit of quote,

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"more awareness", "more enlightened" state of mind.

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And I got to study under various teachers and even gurus.

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And I was sometimes initially gullible and vulnerable to

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thinking that some of these individuals, you know,

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lived in a state of enlightenment or something.

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And in a very short period of time, I was,

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my fantasy was broken and I realized to ground myself and

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realized that, you know,

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there's moments of enlightenment in a journey through life.

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And there's not this 'I'm now enlightened. And I stay the enlightened.' I mean,

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let's just put things into perspective just for a second.

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I'm just going to have some fun here. Imagine a little Yogi.

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Who's sitting in the lotus position,

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crossing legs and sitting there with his hands to the side and he's chanting

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and he's sitting on the earth, maybe at the equator,

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and the earth is going around a thousand miles an hour around the earth, in

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a 24 hour period. So it takes 24 hours.

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And this little guru is saying, 'I am enlightened.'

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And then you realize that the earth is spinning and it's doing that

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365 and a quarter times as it goes around the sun,

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93 million miles away, 1 astronomical unit away.

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So from the perspective of the sun,

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it's hard to even see the earth without a telescope. Now,

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seeing that little guru going around in circles on that,

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it looks kind of like a hamster in a hamster wheel.

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It's trapped in a very limited construct.

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It only has the awareness of what it's learned through its senses and maybe some

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of its instruction,

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which is limited to somebody's senses possibly and maybe imagination.

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And their degree of awareness is very finite.

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Thinking back thousands of years ago,

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maybe we thought the earth was the center of the universe,

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but today it's an infinitesimal spec.

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Now take the sun and go 26-27,000 light years,

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that's the speed of light,

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which is 186,000 miles a second x

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86,400 seconds in a day x 365 and a quarter

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days, x 26,000. And that's how far we are to the center of the Milky way.

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Now to the center of the Milky way looking out at our sun with all the gas and

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dust we can't see it. So now from the center of the Milky way,

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looking at the sun, looking at the little earth, looking at the little guru,

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we realize that that individual that thinks they're enlightened is an

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insignificant infinitesimal. Now, if we go around to the Virgo cluster,

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which is a series of cluster of galaxies, or maybe to the supercluster,

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Laniakea Supercluster,

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or into the great fabric and web of the cosmos, which is vast,

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we can't even comprehend. The observable universe is so fast,

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it's hard to comprehend, let alone what's beyond our observable universe,

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the horizon. Now,

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when you stop and think about somebody who's enlightened in that,

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it's a bit of a ego. I love what Albert Einstein said,

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"It's wise to live with holy curiosity." That no matter what you know,

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tomorrow you're going to learn something new.

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So I'd like to debunk the idea of 'full enlightenment',

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that's, I know that some gurus have basically said that, you know, 'Well,

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I have a universal consciousness.' Nah.

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That's a bit of an illusion. So I don't want to promote that.

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Cause I saw that in my, in my late teens and early twenties,

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I saw people doing that and I was a bit vulnerable to that myself.

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And then I got to meet some of the gurus and get to know behind the scenes and

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talk with them and get friends with them and find out that they're just human

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beings. They're human beings. And they have moments of awareness,

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brilliant awareness and moments of enlightenment,

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but they're limited to what they know,

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either what they've read or learned or observed or some sort of sensory things.

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And our visual senses, our visible perspective,

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which is the broadest of all our senses. We can see farther than

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we can hear farther than we can smell farther than we can taste father than we

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can touch. Just our visible,

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we only see 450 to 750 nanometer range.

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There's an infrared and ultraviolet and gamma and x-ray,

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and there's a vast amount of universe we don't even see,

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we don't even know about without telescopes and microscopes.

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So when we stop and think about the finiteness that we are aware of,

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I'd rather say that we have a relative awareness. When people ask me,

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'When did you get enlightened?' I go,

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'You gotta be joking.' I'm a human being on a journey who's studying and

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maybe relative to some other individual about a particular topic,

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I might have an awareness, but I'm not fully enlightened.

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I have moments of relative awareness and maybe an enlightenment on a

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topic for a moment, that's about it.

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So I don't want to mislead somebody and I don't want people to be misled

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by a fantasy of supernatural enlightenment,

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because those that have tried to portray that for marketing purposes

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eventually got humbled.

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And most people who are gullible enough to fantasize about that got

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misled and usually cost them some money to teach them that lesson.

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So beware. Richard M Bucke,

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who wrote a book called Cosmic Consciousness, which

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I'm not saying everything in there is the most wise thing,

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but it's still worth reading. He wrote it in from 190 1 from London,

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Ontario, is where he published it.

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And he basically took 43 of the most illuminated people in the Western and

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Eastern world,

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and looked at their lives and kind of defined the common denominators in

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individuals and took the average age of relative awareness,

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founded around age 36 most of them when they had their so-called "epiphanies"

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and showed very clearly that they only had moments of awareness,

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moments of relative enlightenment. There was nobody fully enlightened,

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staying enlightened and living in bliss. And so I don't want to,

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I don't want people to be misled by that, I don't want to promote that.

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I thought that and was vulnerable to that in my twenties, early teens,

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maybe early twenties, but about age 29 to 30,

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I broke that. And that was a big lift because I realized,

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as I went down my pursuit of relative enlightenment,

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journey of enlightenment and studying philosophy and theology and physics and

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mathematics and 299 different disciplines that I've studied,

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even the individuals that are the leaders in their field have their biases and

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blindnesses,

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it's awareness and it's a dialectic of pairs of opposite viewpoints that

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eventually come to a synthesis and is syncretically integrated over time.

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And so yes, a body of work, of great literature, Vedic literature,

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and the Shruti and you know, Western philosophies and things,

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these are all valuable. You want to, you want to learn everything you can,

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but you want to continue on the journey of learning and not think, well,

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now it's done. I got that. There's the enlightened one.

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I can now subordinate to them and minimize myself to them and put them on some

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sort of pedestal.

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I'd rather live in holy curiosity and continue to grow and know that whatever we

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learn now, tomorrow, we're going to be able to be learning something new.

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Because I think that's part of the fulfillment, is learning.

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And if it's done and stagnant, it's over with,

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you'll minimize yourself relative to somebody you think is exaggerated.

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And I don't think that's really wise or fair to you as a human being,

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to self-actualize your life.

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I think that it's wise to realize that we're all human beings,

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we all have different values.

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We all have different areas of inquiry and we have different levels of awareness

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in that path, and we can assist others in our learning,

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but we can also mislead others, because we're all learning. And we have to,

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we have to put, ground that, get real about it. If I say something,

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just because I say it doesn't mean it's absolute universal truth.

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It's my understanding at the time.

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And it may evolve and the same thing for any other teacher out there.

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And the same thing for yourself.

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So you want to learn to stand on everybody's shoulders you can,

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learn as much as you can and grow,

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but don't get caught in the idea that there's done. You know,

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a journey of enlightenment with moments of enlightenment or moments of relative

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awareness, is I think real. And anytime you're,

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depression is a comparison of your current reality to a fantasy you get addicted

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to. And sometimes you can set up a false expectation of being, you know,

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one way or the other, enlightened or whatever.

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And then if you don't live up to it,

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and then you get caught in the pride ego you know, shame,

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polarization process. You know, I had this one gentleman come up to me,

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I was speaking years ago, this is gosh, 35 years at least,

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a guy came up to me and he said, he says, 'That was a great speech.' And I said,

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'Thank you.' And he says,

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'You are on your seventh,

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seven tenths on your way to enlightenment.' And I thought,

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'Okay, if you say so.' And he says, 'I'm fully enlightened.' And I go, 'Okay,

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cool.' And I shook his hand. I said, 'Great to meet you.' And I thought,

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what an interesting character.

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And I thought he's caught obviously in some sort of delusion he had about

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himself. And I thought,

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how can you be fully enlightened if you can learn again something

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tomorrow? And I think that's a bit delusional. But I think that,

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live with holy curiosity,

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continue to be willing to expand your awareness and potential on a daily

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basis. Learn as much as you can. Prioritize your learning, select wisely.

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I came across a book set by Mortimer Adler called

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Syntopicon volumes one and two, which was a beautifully done,

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a treatise on the greatest thinkers of the last,

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oh 3,700 years, going back to the ancient Greeks, Thales,

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all the way back through the Greek philosophers and

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thinkers.

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And I studied the Vedanta and I think it's a magnificent piece of work,

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there's some magnificent literature there that Mahabharata and the

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Upunishads and the Gita, you know, all the great literature,

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I want to study them all, but no matter how much I've gone through it,

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there's always, there's more, there's no end to it.

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And there's more depth to it. And you'll have a deeper understanding as you go,

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but continue to learn,

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study both Eastern and Western and study as much as you can,

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learn as many things as you can from as many people as you can,

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but beware of the pitfalls of the illusion that now it's done.

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As long as you're green, you're growing, as soon as you ripen, you rot.

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So don't ever think it's done and don't ever buy into the idea that somebody

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else is done,

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because that's a bit of a delusion that I think they may be thinking.

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I think some people just because you go into a meditative state,

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I've been in a meditative state many times,

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I've been doing meditation for many years,

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and many times you can go to a point where you're not aware of any boundaries

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in the universe and everything else,

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but just because you're having that experience doesn't mean you're now

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encompassing the entire universe. You may imagine it to be,

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but that's just your imagination.

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You're not letting temporary sensory

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experiences distract you from being present, and being present,

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but remember, even your language is finite,

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even those syllables you use are finite,

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and the letter in letter characters are finite.

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So your language of communicating what you even experienced is finite.

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So just put it into context and humble,

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I think it's wise to humble ourselves and humble our teachers and allow

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ourselves to continue to be on the journey to enlightenment

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or journey of enlightenment, not to enlightenment, but of enlightenment,

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and allowing ourselves to have a moment of light,

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occasionally along the journey. I wish I could say that I, I live day by day,

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every moment of every day in this blissful... No, that's not real.

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I've met enough gurus and from India and places in the world that people want to

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believe that, but when you actually get to know them, I met many of them,

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they're just human beings.

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Just know that don't exaggerate other people and minimize yourself and

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sacrifice, you know, reality for some illusion.

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Honor yourself, identify what you see in other people that you admire,

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within yourself and wake it up and then appreciate them for showing you

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something that you've disowned in you. At the level of your soul,

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nothing's missing in you. At the level of the senses,

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things appear to be missing in you. The things that appear to be missing in you,

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are all the parts you're too proud or too humble to admit you have.

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That's one of the reasons I teach the Breakthrough Experience,

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which is one of my signature programs, taught at like 1,127 times.

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And I introduce the Breakthrough in that program, the Demartini Method,

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the purpose of that method is to help you become accountable and grounded

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and not infatuated or resentful or proud or shamed and not

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emotionally polarized.

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So you can actually be more poised and present and empowered and purposeful

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and prioritized in life. So you keep living on that journey to enlightenment,

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instead of thinking it's done. The second you think it's done, you get proud,

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or the second you think somebody has done something else, you get infatuated.

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And the second you do,

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if you infatuate with somebody and minimize yourself to

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and exaggerate yourself, which is inevitable afterwards,

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you're not being yourself.

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You're only being yourself when you're actually have reflective awareness.

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And that is, the moment of, that's a moment of enlightenment,

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a moment of awareness. When you take two particles,

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an antiparticle particle and join them together, you make light,

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you take the positive and negative aspects of our nature,

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the emotions and put them together, you make a moment of enlightenment,

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a moment of grace. That we can have. But we don't stay there.

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In another 15 minutes or so,

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we'll probably be off to the next perceptions that we're going to learn some

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more, the next judgment possibly. And yeah, don't be fooled,

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be wise. That's what the Demartini Method was for.

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The Demartini Method was designed to help you be accountable methodically as a

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science to help you have an increasing number of moments of enlightenment

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along your journey of enlightenment.

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And I think that's the real essence that we have access to in our life.

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So I just wanted to share something about that journey and put it in

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perspective.

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Imagine the farthest reaches of the universe looking back at our earth and

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seeing somebody thinking they're done and they're fully aware.

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I think that would be the height of folly.

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And allow yourself to have a universal perspective and not look,

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you know,

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from a very small finite component and give yourself permission to wake that

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up. Now, I realize that some people will say, 'well,

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we already are universal and we're just living this,

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in this ego that's stopping us from seeing that', that's true,

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but annihilistic tendency

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to annihilate your ego is also foolish,

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because if you think you're going to get rid of that,

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the very people that think they get rid of it, 50 years later,

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they still there with it. So that's not,

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no one's going to annihilate their very reason for their existence and no one's

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going to annihilate their thing and become part of the ocean except in their

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illusions of their imagination because they're quoting things that state that

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about it and, but the reality is, while you're in this body, wisely

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use it.

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And don't fall prey to hallucinations and illusions

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of supernaturals to distract you from being the magnificent you right

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here in this natural world. We do have a pretty amazing world.

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I'm not a doomsdayer or a boomsdayer. I'm not thinking that they're, you know,

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the world's going to be enlightened in the moment and I don't think that the

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world's going to end and that kind of stuff. I think we have to be grounded,

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have an understanding about science, study philosophy, study religion,

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if you want, mix them all together on your journey of enlightenment.

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And I just wanted to share those ideas with you.

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I hope that you can consider using the tool,

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the Demartini Method to help you on that journey,

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because I'm certain it can help.

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And until our next adventure together just know that

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give yourself permission to continue to expand and aware the holy curiosity.

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And yeah. There's no reason to ever have to stop that. Why, why,

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why not inspire be inspired by learning every single day?

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I don't see any reason why it needs to stop.