Lisa Alexander

Hey hey hey. This is Lisa A. And you're listening to Who's That Star? On LCC Connect at Lansing Community College. Who's that Star Is a behind the scenes show where I sit down and talk with the employees at the college. This is an inside look at LCC where you will have a chance to learn about their passions, projects, what inspires them both at work and in their personal lives. I'm your host Lisa Alexander. I'm so excited to get a chance to talk to all the people who make LCC great. This show is for to get to know the people that work at Lansing Community College a little bit more and see what makes them tick. Are you ready? Okay. Let's go see who's Today's Star. I'm so excited to have today's guest on Who's That Star. He is new to LCC Community and comes to us with a vast amount of experience in his field. This star was born in Queens, New York, but his family moved to a small town in Northern New Jersey where he grew up in New York. He began his career in law enforcement with the Baltimore Police Department. In March of 2001 he was assigned to the Patrol Division in the Northwestern District where he spent most of his career. He has worked in the Flex Unit and Narcotics Division and he also worked two years in the Violent Crimes Impact Division. During his work in the Northwestern District, Our Star established relationships with the colleges and universities in the areas where he worked. He worked closely both with faculty and students as well as campus security at Baltimore Community College, Copen State University, University of Baltimore and University of Maryland Satellite Campus. He has had many promotions throughout his career. He was promoted to sergeant in 2008, then he became a lieutenant in 2015. He would later become the Commanding Officer of the Western District Operations UN Munich District Action Team. In December of 2017 he was promoted to Captain and moved to Central District. Then May of 2018 he was promoted to Major where he served as Commanding Officer of Central District. He has received many commendations over his 20 year career. Many came for his service during the civil unrest in 2015 that happened in Baltimore. As the climate and policing began to change. Our Star was appointed by the Police Commissioner to serve as both co Chair and Head Chair on numerous administrative oversight hearings. He was appointed to this position largely due to his reputation for demonstrating high level of integrity and objectivity. He served in this role until he retired at the rank of Major in May of 2021. Let's find out who's today's Star Drum Roll, please. Today's star is Daryl Gaines, LCC police chief. We're so glad to have you here, Chief Gaines.

Daryl Gaines

Thank you for having me.

Lisa Alexander

So I have so many questions to ask you, so I'm just ready to get started. Okay. So can you tell me a little bit about who you are and what is important in your life right now?

Daryl Gaines

Well, you touched on a little bit. I'm from originally from New Jersey. It's a small town. It's Bergen County, New Jersey. I grew up in a town called Hillsdale. It's about 20, 25 minutes outside of New York City.

Lisa Alexander

Oh, okay.

Daryl Gaines

Yeah. So big sports fan. So I'm very loyal to my teams.

Lisa Alexander

Oh, yeah. Because I'm gonna ask you later on about.

Daryl Gaines

But I'll just start by saying that.

Lisa Alexander

That you loyal. Okay. Where to go?

Daryl Gaines

So, yeah, I grew up in a decent sized family. I have two brothers, I have a sister, mother and father. Stayed together for a long time, still together. So I have strong belief system and family values and ethics and morals and things like that. Those things were instilled in me by my mother and father and, you know, just a close knit family. Uncles, aunts.

Lisa Alexander

Where are you in birth order?

Daryl Gaines

I am the middle child.

Lisa Alexander

Okay. Okay.

Daryl Gaines

Yeah. So I get a little bit of a mixed bag.

Lisa Alexander

Right.

Daryl Gaines

But yeah. And then, you know, I spent probably the first 30 years of my life in New Jersey before I finally decided, you know, I wanted to become police officer. I met my wife in 1999.

Lisa Alexander

Okay.

Daryl Gaines

In New Jersey. She was going to school at Montclair State. She was going to. Going for a master's.

Lisa Alexander

Okay.

Daryl Gaines

And it's kind of funny because our families actually were connected before we met.

Lisa Alexander

Oh, really?

Daryl Gaines

Yeah. My. My sister, my older sister, she worked with my wife's brother in law, who was her sister's wife. They worked at Colgate in New York City together.

Lisa Alexander

Wow.

Daryl Gaines

Yeah. So you had the whole match thing going on.

Lisa Alexander

Yeah.

Daryl Gaines

Trying to get us together for a long time. And we finally ended up meeting because my wife's sister is actually. Was the director. Still is. But at the time was the director of the preschool that my niece was going to.

Lisa Alexander

Okay.

Daryl Gaines

My sister's daughter. And so they had a fundraiser. I finally agreed. Okay, I'll go to the fundraiser, I'll meet her. And pretty much have not been apart since.

Lisa Alexander

The rest is history.

Daryl Gaines

The rest is history there.

Lisa Alexander

So they knew what they were doing, huh?

Daryl Gaines

They knew what was happening. I give them credit.

Lisa Alexander

Good. You owed them.

Daryl Gaines

It was a match made in heaven.

Lisa Alexander

That's wonderful.

Daryl Gaines

So me and My wife, been married for 22 years now. We've got two daughters.

Lisa Alexander

Oh, wow.

Daryl Gaines

Yep. And so from Jersey, we. You know, when I decided to get on the police department, we looked around for. Just like I was saying before, you know, at the time, I didn't have a college degree yet, and my first. You know, what I first wanted to do was be a police officer in the New York, New Jersey area where I grew up.

Lisa Alexander

Okay.

Daryl Gaines

But, you know, the departments up there, they required you to have a college degree at the time.

Lisa Alexander

Oh, I didn't know that.

Daryl Gaines

Yeah. So I couldn't get on there, which ended up bringing me to Baltimore. You didn't need a college degree to get on there at the time in Baltimore. So I had been through there a couple times. My sister lived in Virginia. We used to pass through Baltimore a lot. I always liked the city, always thought it had a lot to offer, and, of course, had to get the approval from the wife and say, what do you think about Baltimore? She said, anywhere but Jersey. She was not a fan of Jersey. So we ended up moving to Baltimore, got on the police department and raised the kids there, and was there for 20 years, and now I'm in Lansing.

Lisa Alexander

The rest is history, huh?

Daryl Gaines

History.

Lisa Alexander

Yeah, that. That's a great story. And, you know, you still kept going. You. You found a place for you where you were.

Daryl Gaines

Right.

Lisa Alexander

But then you still did end up getting a degree.

Daryl Gaines

Yeah, got my degree. I. I got my degree while I was. I guess it was when I was a sergeant. You know, Baltimore has had some policies at the time, too, and you can only move up so high in the ranks without a college degree.

Lisa Alexander

Okay.

Daryl Gaines

And, you know, it's funny. I remember. I remember. I guess it might have been. I had three or four years on the department at the time, and I went out to visit my parents. They were living in the Poconos at the time, and my dad was. We were having a. I was having a conversation with my father, and he was like, well, you know, you got Simone and you've got the two. The two kids now. You know, what are your plans?

Lisa Alexander

Right.

Daryl Gaines

Because at the time, I was. I was in. Working in narcotics at the time. I was perfectly happy with just being a narcotics detective.

Lisa Alexander

Oh, yeah.

Daryl Gaines

And I was just going to stay there. And, you know, I had no plans on, you know, trying to get promoted or anything like that. And, you know, my dad told me, he said, you know, you. It's not about you anymore.

Lisa Alexander

Right.

Daryl Gaines

You know, it's about your family. It's about giving them the Best life that they can have.

Lisa Alexander

Because that's dangerous in narcotics. Right.

Daryl Gaines

It's dangerous work. And, you know, especially in a city with violence like Baltimore has. And I think he was thinking about that, but I think he was more talking about my mentality at the time because I was so used to just living for myself, even before I met my wife, I didn't really have anybody else to consider. And so it was an adjustment for me to make that transition and realize it's really not about me anymore. It's about my kids, it's about my wife, and it's about giving them the best life that I possibly could. So, you know, my father basically hit me upside the head, and he was like, you need to start looking to get promoted. Don't make lateral moves.

Lisa Alexander

Right.

Daryl Gaines

You need to move up. And so I realized that in order to really, really move up, I was gonna have to go back to school and get my degree.

Lisa Alexander

It's always good when somebody can give you some insight, you know, to kind of push you along, that you care about, that you tr.

Daryl Gaines

Consult.

Lisa Alexander

So I think that's great.

Daryl Gaines

Yeah.

Lisa Alexander

Well, can you tell me about your work at LCC? Like, what's. What's the day in the life of a chief police on a college campus?

Daryl Gaines

Well, I mean, it's. It's definitely different. It's different from where I came from. But, you know, here. Here at LCC, I'm basically everything. Public safety. You know what I mean? So even when I first got here, you know, the first thing I really had to do was sort of assess the entire department, try to figure out how to make us better, how to make us more sustainable, and how to really build relationships.

Lisa Alexander

Right.

Daryl Gaines

You know, the one thing that I always learned from Baltimore was that building and maintaining strong relationships will pay off in the long run for sure. So not just. Not just building relationships with, you know, other police jurisdictions for partners, but really building relationships within the college campus.

Lisa Alexander

Right. I noticed that. Cause. And I know I jacked that name up. What's the college?

Daryl Gaines

Was it Coppin State?

Lisa Alexander

Coppin. Okay. Coppin. Okay. So, yeah, I saw that it was Baltimore Community College, Coppin University of Maryland, and then University of Baltimore. So you have experience working with different campuses.

Daryl Gaines

Yeah, Bridging those gaps. And. And, you know, Baltimore is obviously different. It's a. You know, the amount of schools in Maryland. I mean, they have a ton of colleges in Maryland, but specifically in Baltimore. There's a lot of colleges in Baltimore, and most of the colleges in Baltimore have their own police.

Lisa Alexander

Yeah.

Daryl Gaines

And so it's important to bridge those. You have to have those relationships just to have the communication, passing intelligence and things like that. And I knew how effective that was when I came here. And so that was, like, one of my first goals when I got here was to start building those bridges, you know, with administrators, with staff and faculty. Everybody that is going to matter to making us good.

Lisa Alexander

Right.

Daryl Gaines

Everybody that's going to matter to making the college as safe as it could possibly. Possibly be, as secure it can possibly be. You have to have everybody on the same page. Everybody's gotta be moving in the same direction, or else it doesn't work.

Lisa Alexander

Right.

Daryl Gaines

And so that was one of my primary goals when I first got here. Within my first hundred days. I wanted to make sure that, you know, I was an open book for people. I wanted to make sure that I was accessible for people. I think sometimes, you know, in police work, we kind of get closed off a little bit and we're not as accessible as we should be. And I wanted to make sure that. That if a faculty had an issue or if a staff member had an issue or even a student, that I am not somebody that's not approachable.

Lisa Alexander

Yeah, I mean, I felt like that you did a presentation that I went to with the violent.

Daryl Gaines

The active shooter.

Lisa Alexander

Yeah, active shooter. And so I was like, oh, we got the police chief presenting to us. And I thought that was cool, you know, that you took the time to do that along with.

Daryl Gaines

Well, I don't hide behind my. Behind my position.

Lisa Alexander

Yeah.

Daryl Gaines

I'm just a regular person that happens to be a police chief.

Lisa Alexander

That's right.

Daryl Gaines

The way I approach my job.

Lisa Alexander

And I thought that was cool, though. And I was like, oh, we are important to him. You know, I mean, that made us feel like, you know, you had. It didn't feel like, oh, I got other things better to do than deal with that. And so. Yeah, I appreciated that.

Daryl Gaines

No, it's my pleasure. I love doing stuff like that. I love getting out mean people and stuff.

Lisa Alexander

Yeah. And it was interesting. And, you know, we got to learn a lot. And then you answered all our questions, so I was like, oh. And I felt, you know, secure. Well, you know, I felt better.

Daryl Gaines

That's good. That means we did our job.

Lisa Alexander

Yeah, you did so. And now. And we had, you know, we got some tools, like, different things to think about in protecting ourselves.

Daryl Gaines

So, yeah, it's. It's important to have that situational awareness.

Lisa Alexander

Yeah. Just to be thinking about that, you know, And I was like, okay, yeah, I'm gonna. I'M gonna make sure I'm aware.

Daryl Gaines

Yeah, absolutely. I think sometimes we do. We take that for granted on our cell phones all the time and stuff. So, yeah, it's important.

Lisa Alexander

So tell me about why you work at LCC. What is it that keeps you coming back here? Cause you could have retired. So.

Daryl Gaines

Could have retired. You know, it's funny, like, halfway through my career in Baltimore, I started thinking about other challenges, you know? Cause there really is a difference between working at a municipality in a, you know, fairly large city and in a college.

Lisa Alexander

Right.

Daryl Gaines

And I knew that there was a difference there. I can tell just from talking to some of the people that I connect with in Baltimore. And so I think, you know, as I sort of got towards the end of my career in Baltimore, I started thinking, like, well, I'm not ready to just go home and sit on the couch. You know, I want to keep working.

Lisa Alexander

Yeah.

Daryl Gaines

But I want a different challenge. I want something that. I don't want to just go to another municipality police department and do the same thing I was doing. Because, honestly, I felt like I had accomplished everything I needed to accomplish. And I felt like I did more than that. I felt like, you know, I even surpassed some of my own expectations in Baltimore.

Lisa Alexander

Well, yeah, you did. Especially somebody that wanted to do just a lateral, you know, just a lateral move. Stay where you were.

Daryl Gaines

Yeah. So, you know, you. You would ask me 20 years ago if I would have retired a major. I probably laughed at you. But, you know, so I surpassed my own expectations there. And I felt like I don't want to just jump into the same pool. I want to do something. I want to stay in law enforcement, but I want to do it in a different capacity. And so, you know, it's funny, because everything just seemed to line up. You know, my kids were getting ready to go to college, and one of my first concerns is, okay, well, is the college they're going to safe? You know, and so I asked a lot of questions, you know, the schools that they were looking at.

Lisa Alexander

Right.

Daryl Gaines

So I started thinking about it, well, maybe I should try going to a college, because I know what it's like as a parent for your kids to go away to school, and you're always wondering about, are they safe?

Lisa Alexander

That's a good point.

Daryl Gaines

You know what I mean? And so if I can impact that. And I think the other reason, in all honesty, is because we had gone through a period of time there, probably from about, you know, we had the riots, civil unrest in Baltimore. And, you know, during that time, we heard A lot of young people standing up and, you know, really kind of voicing their opinions about police. And I just kind of felt like, well, what better way to impact and you know, start a different movement through law enforcement than directly dealing with young people.

Lisa Alexander

Right.

Daryl Gaines

Because they're the ones that are speaking out right now. They're the ones that have the biggest problem with us. That's true. And so I figured, you know, I've got experience, you know. I know, I know. I know this profession like the back of my hand. I've been doing it for a long time.

Lisa Alexander

Yeah.

Daryl Gaines

And I said, well, let me try my hand at doing law enforcement on a college level and actually being able to interact and deal with college age kids directly. You know what I mean? And so I think that's, that's when I started looking, when I knew I was thinking about retiring and I started thinking about other employment. I only looked at college law enforcement. I didn't look at other police departments.

Lisa Alexander

Right.

Daryl Gaines

You know, I just looked in the direction of colleges because I thought it would be a challenge. I thought it would be different.

Lisa Alexander

I bet it. I mean, to me it seems like coming from where you came from, like a lot of excitement, a lot of stuff going on that. Well, to me, I would probably be, if I was your wife, I'd be happy you were coming to a college campus. But I mean, there could be stuff that pops off, but.

Daryl Gaines

Sure. But I mean, to be perfectly honest, I mean, listen, you know, it's no secret. Baltimore is very, it's a very violent city.

Lisa Alexander

Right.

Daryl Gaines

And so I can only imagine what that must have been like for my wife, for my parents, for my, you know, my family in general. Every time I went to work, not knowing if I was gonna make it home.

Lisa Alexander

Right. Yeah.

Daryl Gaines

And so I also had to take that into consider along with looking for that other challenge. I took into consideration that, well, let me try to slide into an area of law enforcement where my wife can actually sleep at night and not have to worry, man. I mean, I have a very, very supportive family. I have a very supportive wife. She's a God fearing woman. You know, we are a God fearing family. And that is how I'm sure she got through most of my careers, through prayer.

Lisa Alexander

I bet.

Daryl Gaines

And so just to ease that burden on her. And like you said, not to say that not can happen at the school. Lord knows we've seen a lot of things happening at the school, but it is definitely a different, it's a completely different atmosphere.

Lisa Alexander

Yeah. And I think you, you know, I Mean, you've done your time. I mean, you did your time. So I think it's great that you have an opportunity to have a second career in something that you still enjoy, but you can see the benefits of, you know, helping other people in a different way. So I think that's cool. So what was your first job?

Daryl Gaines

Let's see. This is going to be a little unbelievable, but I tell you, I grew up in New Jersey, so my first job that I ever had, I think I was. I was maybe 10 or 11, and I had one of those fathers that believed that you get to work.

Lisa Alexander

Right.

Daryl Gaines

You know, you can do something.

Lisa Alexander

Exactly.

Daryl Gaines

So where the. The town that I grew up in, there's a big orchard. It was called. Well, I'm not gonna say the name, but it was a big orchard, and it was very close to the house.

Lisa Alexander

Okay.

Daryl Gaines

And it was a place where a lot of the local residents would get all their vegetables and their fruit and stuff. It was basically a farm.

Lisa Alexander

Okay.

Daryl Gaines

And so my father had me go down to the head guy and ask him for a job, and they gave me a job in the orchard picking peaches.

Lisa Alexander

Okay.

Daryl Gaines

Which was miserable.

Lisa Alexander

Okay.

Daryl Gaines

Yeah, it was miserable. You. And it's hot, and the peach fuzz is sticking to you, and you're itchy. And bugs. Oh, everything. Everything.

Lisa Alexander

Because the peaches are sweet. So you getting bees and stuff.

Daryl Gaines

Everything. All kinds of bugs and bees. And. Oh, my goodness. But that was. I'll say this. That was my introduction into the workforce. But that was a miserable job. I hated it. Yeah, but you take something from every place, right? Something from that job.

Lisa Alexander

Well, that's. That's an interesting one. I wouldn't have thought that a lot.

Daryl Gaines

Of people wouldn't have.

Lisa Alexander

So what are some of your hobbies, and how did you get into them?

Daryl Gaines

Well, I love to fish. I mean, that's one thing. And I don't get to do it much because of work, and I just don't get to do it as much as I would like to. But my uncle. My uncle Randy got me into fishing. He used to fish on the Bassmaster tour for a short period of time. Yeah. He actually. He played football at Howard, and then he. I think he played a very short time with the Redskins, but after he had an injury. And he was always a big, big fisherman, and so he ended up taking it up as a profession. And when we got old enough, he would take us out fishing with him. He would teach us.

Lisa Alexander

That's cool.

Daryl Gaines

Yeah. So ever since I just been. I love fish. I Love the bass fish.

Lisa Alexander

So you think you a pro?

Daryl Gaines

No, I know I'm not a pro, but I do enjoy it and I will catch fish when I go out there. I have some idea of what I'm doing. Going.

Lisa Alexander

So have you been to any places in Michigan?

Daryl Gaines

Not yet. That's what I'm. I really, really want to go.

Lisa Alexander

Oh, well, we gotta get you to some spots around time.

Daryl Gaines

You guys got some, Some lakes.

Lisa Alexander

Yeah, because they got Sleepy Hollow, and you can go out there and there's a couple of places. My partner, he goes fishing sometimes, so I'll try to get some names for you to let you know.

Daryl Gaines

Absolutely, yeah. I mean, aside from that, I'm a sports junkie.

Lisa Alexander

Okay.

Daryl Gaines

I'm all about my sports. We can get into it.

Lisa Alexander

Okay, good. Because I normally wait and use this for the last question, but I'm gonna have to ask you. Now, I already know that you're not from Michigan. You know this, But I have to put this out here. Okay? Are you go green or are you go blue?

Daryl Gaines

Okay, so this is a hard one for me.

Lisa Alexander

Okay.

Daryl Gaines

Okay. Because my own family, okay, my father, my older brother Corey, my cousin Amber, they are all graduates of um. Really? Yes. My father went to undergrad at um.

Lisa Alexander

Okay.

Daryl Gaines

My brother went to, um, business school. Graduated from the business school. And my cousin Amber is a graduate of um.

Lisa Alexander

Okay, so.

Daryl Gaines

But on the other hand, my wife's family is all Michigan State.

Lisa Alexander

Okay. Wife's family.

Daryl Gaines

So it is a difficult, it is a tough line to toe. But I was given specific instructions when I moved here from my family that I am not to deviate from. Go blue.

Lisa Alexander

Yeah, I get it. I mean, you gotta do what you gotta do. Y' all don't invested enough cash in U of M that I could see that, you know, that's a. Yeah. That you can do that, and that's okay. We still love listening, U of M people.

Daryl Gaines

Listen, I do not root for Michigan State. I, I, I just.

Lisa Alexander

You just gotta root for U of.

Daryl Gaines

M when it gotta root for, um. Actually, my wife's. My wife's uncle. Her father's brother was a professor at, um for, I think, 40 years.

Lisa Alexander

Okay.

Daryl Gaines

So we got ties to both schools.

Lisa Alexander

Okay. I mean, that's fair.

Daryl Gaines

But with that being said, yeah. I am a Giants fan.

Lisa Alexander

Okay.

Daryl Gaines

And I'm a Mets fan.

Lisa Alexander

Okay. Anything.

Daryl Gaines

And I'm a Nets fan. You know, they were in New Jersey for a long time before they moved to Brooklyn.

Lisa Alexander

Right.

Daryl Gaines

Very, very loyal to my teams.

Lisa Alexander

Okay. You know, and I get that that's Me, I'm loyal to all my teams too.

Daryl Gaines

Right?

Lisa Alexander

Even the Lions. I'm loyal to all of my teams.

Daryl Gaines

I know the pain. I've been a Giant fan for a.

Lisa Alexander

Very long time, right?

Daryl Gaines

I know the pain.

Lisa Alexander

But, yeah, you gotta be a loyal fan. So I. I do appreciate that.

Daryl Gaines

Absolutely.

Lisa Alexander

So do you live by any, Any piece of advice or a motto?

Daryl Gaines

I do. So I told you that I'm, you know, we're a God fearing family. And so I. Every morning that would. When I wake up, I always thank God for giving me another day. Because it's not promised, right? So I always say a little silent prayer to myself, thanking. Thanking the good Lord for another day. And then somebody said something to me a long, long time ago, and it made a lot of sense to me because of the personality that I had and how I grew up. But I always remind myself every morning when I wake up that yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not promised, but for today, I'm okay. And that to me, it's a reminder to myself not to dwell on the bad days, you know, and don't worry about what hasn't happened yet.

Lisa Alexander

Right.

Daryl Gaines

But just be grateful, be blessed that you have today to have a better day. You know, that's kind of how I wake up every morning. Those are the things that I tell myself before I start my day. And yeah, those are two things that are almost like ritual with me at this point.

Lisa Alexander

Well, I definitely think those are great models. And models. Excuse me. And I think that we're gonna end on that because we've already talked and I still got a whole bunch of questions that I could ask you. But I only have a short amount of time, so we definitely gonna have to bring you back.

Daryl Gaines

I would love to come back.

Lisa Alexander

I appreciate you taking time to come on who's at Star today. I think it's good that we get an opportunity to get to know that the people that protect us. And I think that, like I said, I was really impressed with you. I appreciate the training that you gave us. And so I'm hoping that you're here with us for a long time.

Daryl Gaines

That's the plan.

Lisa Alexander

All right, well, it's been a pleasure.

Daryl Gaines

Thank you for having me.

Lisa Alexander

Oh, it's wonderful, you guys. I will see you soon. And make sure to tune in to Who's That Star? You've been listening to Who's That Star? I'm Lisa A. and you can listen to this episode of Who's That Star and other shows from LCC Connect anytime online at LCCconnect.org thank you for listening. Catch me next time to find out Who's That Star.