1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:01,980 Speaker: Man, that that last song, last song was so good. 2 00:00:02,070 --> 00:00:04,620 I had not heard it before and I was listening to it. 3 00:00:04,620 --> 00:00:05,730 I was like, okay, this is good. 4 00:00:05,730 --> 00:00:08,940 And then at the end, I think people were clapping in the room at the end 5 00:00:08,940 --> 00:00:10,470 there when we went up and the dynamics. 6 00:00:10,500 --> 00:00:11,130 That was awesome. 7 00:00:11,220 --> 00:00:11,700 That was good. 8 00:00:12,330 --> 00:00:12,719 Um. 9 00:00:13,275 --> 00:00:14,115 That's for free. 10 00:00:14,145 --> 00:00:15,915 That has nothing to do with what we're talking about 11 00:00:15,915 --> 00:00:17,625 this morning, but just, yeah. 12 00:00:18,015 --> 00:00:19,605 I love our, our, our team, our worship team. 13 00:00:19,605 --> 00:00:22,095 They, they put in a lot of time and, and effort into doing what they do. 14 00:00:22,575 --> 00:00:25,005 Uh, they, they love to worship the Lord they gather on Thursdays and, 15 00:00:25,005 --> 00:00:26,415 and practice and rehearse together. 16 00:00:26,415 --> 00:00:29,955 And, um, it's just a joy to have them here weekend and week out with us. 17 00:00:30,764 --> 00:00:34,575 We are in a series called Suffering Saints, and uh, this message for, 18 00:00:34,575 --> 00:00:37,815 for week two is called When the World Attacks Fight Flight or Right. 19 00:00:38,535 --> 00:00:42,375 I Am, oh, for one in physical altercations in my life. 20 00:00:43,815 --> 00:00:45,285 Uh, sixth grade. 21 00:00:45,675 --> 00:00:47,325 Uh, Matt, if you're in the room, forgive me. 22 00:00:47,325 --> 00:00:48,135 We can talk afterwards. 23 00:00:48,135 --> 00:00:48,915 Maybe we can reconcile. 24 00:00:48,915 --> 00:00:54,375 But sixth grade, um, basketball court, not, not like competition, not 25 00:00:54,375 --> 00:00:55,995 league playground, basketball court. 26 00:00:56,565 --> 00:00:58,215 Uh, so stakes were high. 27 00:00:59,370 --> 00:01:00,600 I don't even remember what happened. 28 00:01:00,810 --> 00:01:03,300 All I know is I decided I was gonna bow up to this kid. 29 00:01:03,300 --> 00:01:04,379 His name was Matt Frankl. 30 00:01:04,410 --> 00:01:07,800 His name will be in my mind until my deathbed, I'm sure of it. 31 00:01:08,100 --> 00:01:11,700 He's the reason why I'm not a fighter, because I decided to bow up to 32 00:01:11,700 --> 00:01:13,980 Matt, and Matt was smaller than me. 33 00:01:14,039 --> 00:01:17,550 But the next thing I knew, I was on my back looking up at the blue sky, 34 00:01:17,550 --> 00:01:21,180 trying to figure out how to breathe again, and uh, I was over for one. 35 00:01:21,510 --> 00:01:23,970 It was at that moment that I decided to become a black belt with my 36 00:01:23,970 --> 00:01:25,530 words instead of a black belt with. 37 00:01:25,845 --> 00:01:26,355 My body. 38 00:01:27,615 --> 00:01:31,995 Everything in us, right when we are attacked, wants to fight back. 39 00:01:32,475 --> 00:01:33,465 It's just, it's natural. 40 00:01:33,585 --> 00:01:37,785 It's who we are as human beings, we are hardwired to want to retaliate. 41 00:01:37,785 --> 00:01:40,935 We are hardwired to want to repay evil for evil. 42 00:01:40,935 --> 00:01:44,235 When someone hurts us, we want to defend our honor. 43 00:01:44,235 --> 00:01:45,375 We want to get justice. 44 00:01:45,375 --> 00:01:46,935 We want to get the last word in. 45 00:01:46,935 --> 00:01:48,914 We wanna make sure that we have one. 46 00:01:49,935 --> 00:01:52,305 But the question we have to ask is, what does God want us to do? 47 00:01:52,935 --> 00:01:54,555 How does God want us to respond? 48 00:01:55,289 --> 00:01:56,009 Again, suffering. 49 00:01:56,009 --> 00:01:56,400 Saints. 50 00:01:56,400 --> 00:02:00,240 Peter's addressing this whole idea that as Christians, as followers of Jesus, we 51 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:02,700 should expect that we are going to suffer. 52 00:02:03,210 --> 00:02:05,910 Last week we talked about how as a church, we need to be strong together. 53 00:02:06,390 --> 00:02:07,350 We need to band together. 54 00:02:07,350 --> 00:02:08,250 We need to be united. 55 00:02:08,250 --> 00:02:09,600 We need to be loving one another. 56 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:12,780 We need to be humble in mind because attacks like what we're gonna talk 57 00:02:12,780 --> 00:02:16,290 about this morning are gonna come and we need one another to help 58 00:02:16,290 --> 00:02:18,510 stay strong and to pursue what we're talking about this morning. 59 00:02:18,510 --> 00:02:20,295 What does God want us to do in situations like that? 60 00:02:22,500 --> 00:02:25,920 It is not natural for us when we are attacked not to attack back. 61 00:02:26,609 --> 00:02:29,760 It's not natural for us when somebody slanders us not to try to clap back. 62 00:02:30,390 --> 00:02:31,380 It feels like weakness. 63 00:02:31,380 --> 00:02:35,429 It, it, it feels like losing and in the world's eyes, it, it probably is. 64 00:02:36,450 --> 00:02:39,480 But again, we have to ask the question, God, what do you want from me? 65 00:02:39,929 --> 00:02:41,040 How do you want me to respond? 66 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:43,739 And as Christians, if you are a Christian in the room this morning, 67 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:47,010 the, the cross, the gospel of Jesus. 68 00:02:48,135 --> 00:02:51,554 Becoming a follower of Jesus changes everything about how you 69 00:02:51,554 --> 00:02:52,724 respond to the attacks of the world. 70 00:02:53,624 --> 00:02:57,314 The gospel changes everything for you about how you respond 71 00:02:57,374 --> 00:02:58,274 to the attacks of the world. 72 00:02:59,474 --> 00:03:01,364 Pick up with me in one Peter, chapter three, verse nine, one 73 00:03:02,444 --> 00:03:03,434 Peter chapter three, verse nine. 74 00:03:03,434 --> 00:03:07,334 Peter says this, do not repay evil for evil, or reviling for reviling. 75 00:03:07,334 --> 00:03:11,084 But on the contrary, bless for to this you were called that 76 00:03:11,084 --> 00:03:12,404 you may obtain a blessing. 77 00:03:13,244 --> 00:03:14,504 Peter's actually continuing. 78 00:03:14,510 --> 00:03:17,774 The, the, the Greek is continuing in its sentence structure from 79 00:03:17,774 --> 00:03:21,644 what he's talked about last week, but the shift is, is in the focus. 80 00:03:21,644 --> 00:03:24,254 We're, we're no longer talking about within, inside the ranks of 81 00:03:24,254 --> 00:03:27,464 the church, though if we're honest with ourselves as sinners, we sin 82 00:03:27,464 --> 00:03:28,844 against each other within the church. 83 00:03:29,325 --> 00:03:31,665 There's gonna be times when there's evil committed against one another 84 00:03:31,665 --> 00:03:33,915 in the church, or reviling committed against one another in the church. 85 00:03:33,915 --> 00:03:36,915 So everything I'm gonna say this morning applies within the church as 86 00:03:36,915 --> 00:03:38,984 much as it applies outside the church. 87 00:03:39,510 --> 00:03:41,910 But specifically, I think Peter is referring to those that are 88 00:03:41,910 --> 00:03:45,390 going to attack us as Christians, those that are going to attack 89 00:03:45,390 --> 00:03:46,860 the church from the outside. 90 00:03:47,310 --> 00:03:50,340 As we experience those things, what do we do? 91 00:03:50,340 --> 00:03:52,410 And he begins by saying, do not repay. 92 00:03:53,370 --> 00:03:56,250 It's a, a phrase in the Greek that has a, it's a negative 93 00:03:56,250 --> 00:03:59,640 imperative here, don't do this. 94 00:03:59,670 --> 00:04:01,770 Or even if you are doing it, stop. 95 00:04:02,219 --> 00:04:02,609 Doing it. 96 00:04:03,269 --> 00:04:05,399 Don't give back is what the word means. 97 00:04:05,489 --> 00:04:07,829 Don't give what somebody has has given to you. 98 00:04:08,219 --> 00:04:10,679 This is the, the golden rule in, in reverse. 99 00:04:10,679 --> 00:04:12,629 But, but we're not supposed to do that. 100 00:04:13,049 --> 00:04:14,220 What does the golden rule say? 101 00:04:14,249 --> 00:04:16,230 Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. 102 00:04:16,230 --> 00:04:16,560 Right? 103 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:21,510 What about when somebody has done something to me, does the reverse follow, 104 00:04:21,779 --> 00:04:25,440 am I allowed to do unto them as they've done to me, the Bible would say no. 105 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:28,350 It's, it's not on us. 106 00:04:28,350 --> 00:04:29,370 It's not our prerogative. 107 00:04:29,370 --> 00:04:32,700 It's not our right to repay someone evil for evil. 108 00:04:32,700 --> 00:04:34,890 That's Romans 1217 says the same thing. 109 00:04:35,159 --> 00:04:36,030 Do not repay. 110 00:04:36,030 --> 00:04:36,870 Do not give back. 111 00:04:36,870 --> 00:04:37,170 Evil. 112 00:04:37,170 --> 00:04:37,770 For evil. 113 00:04:38,790 --> 00:04:41,130 The word evil there is a, a general term in the Greek, 114 00:04:41,130 --> 00:04:42,300 it's kind of a catchall term. 115 00:04:43,260 --> 00:04:45,284 It's not hard for us to find evil in the world around us. 116 00:04:46,215 --> 00:04:49,065 We can look all over the place and and see examples of evil that pop 117 00:04:49,065 --> 00:04:53,235 up all over, whether it be abortion or murder or despotic regimes 118 00:04:53,235 --> 00:04:55,545 and rulers or abuse, whatever. 119 00:04:55,550 --> 00:04:58,695 It's, and it's one thing for us as the church to sit back and think 120 00:04:58,695 --> 00:05:02,385 about evil generically and think, man, evil is bad and horrible and 121 00:05:02,385 --> 00:05:03,795 we want evil to be done away with. 122 00:05:05,685 --> 00:05:10,965 But it's another thing when that evil happens to us, not just around us, not 123 00:05:10,965 --> 00:05:15,495 just near us, but when the evil happens to us, when the evil shows up in our kitchen. 124 00:05:16,980 --> 00:05:18,030 Maybe it is abuse. 125 00:05:18,840 --> 00:05:21,450 Maybe you've suffered from physical, emotional, verbal abuse, whatever, 126 00:05:21,660 --> 00:05:24,480 whatever it may be, may maybe it's mistreatment by a, a boss 127 00:05:24,480 --> 00:05:25,800 or a superior or an employer. 128 00:05:27,180 --> 00:05:32,340 Perhaps it's the actions of an ex-spouse, an ex-husband, an ex-wife. 129 00:05:33,659 --> 00:05:37,170 Could just be something as simple as an obnoxious neighbor or a rude driver 130 00:05:37,170 --> 00:05:39,750 on the road, whatever it may be. 131 00:05:39,750 --> 00:05:43,260 Peter is saying, don't repay evil to them for the evil that they have given to you. 132 00:05:44,310 --> 00:05:48,090 That's not our right, our prerogative or he goes on to say reviling. 133 00:05:48,090 --> 00:05:48,840 For reviling. 134 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:53,310 The word reviling there is from, again, the Greek, that, that suggests slander, 135 00:05:53,310 --> 00:05:55,020 insole, or defamation of character. 136 00:05:57,435 --> 00:06:00,150 I, I don't want us to miss the irony of who's writing this. 137 00:06:00,750 --> 00:06:01,409 This is Peter. 138 00:06:01,620 --> 00:06:04,110 This is the Peter that was with Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane. 139 00:06:04,830 --> 00:06:05,789 You recall what happened there? 140 00:06:05,789 --> 00:06:06,210 Yes. 141 00:06:06,690 --> 00:06:09,960 The soldiers came up to arrest Jesus, and with them was the 142 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:10,770 servant of the high priest. 143 00:06:10,770 --> 00:06:11,430 The guy's name was Malus. 144 00:06:12,525 --> 00:06:15,225 And Peter was there, and we know that this was Peter because 145 00:06:15,225 --> 00:06:16,185 John was like, it was Peter. 146 00:06:16,185 --> 00:06:19,635 Peter did this, but they come up to arrest Jesus. 147 00:06:19,635 --> 00:06:20,475 And what does Peter do? 148 00:06:20,475 --> 00:06:24,015 Peter draws his sword and he swings and he's a lousy swing. 149 00:06:24,015 --> 00:06:28,155 And so he misses the, what he was going for, cuts off the ear of the high servant 150 00:06:29,385 --> 00:06:31,905 and Jesus has to rebuke Peter and say, Peter, put your, put your shoulder away. 151 00:06:33,015 --> 00:06:33,825 Also, don't miss that. 152 00:06:33,825 --> 00:06:37,155 This is the one that went to Jesus in Matthew 18 and said, Jesus, how 153 00:06:37,155 --> 00:06:41,325 many times do I have to forgive my brother if he sins against me? 154 00:06:43,275 --> 00:06:47,115 And, and so we see that this is, is somebody who was well 155 00:06:47,115 --> 00:06:49,905 acquainted with what it means to feel like, man, I wanna lash out. 156 00:06:50,655 --> 00:06:52,034 I want my pound of flesh. 157 00:06:52,095 --> 00:06:53,145 I wanna retaliate. 158 00:06:54,315 --> 00:06:55,905 Peter was far from a pacifist. 159 00:06:56,925 --> 00:06:59,715 What changed in Peter's heart was an encounter with Jesus in the cross. 160 00:07:00,915 --> 00:07:03,285 And so now Peter's writing these things saying, do not repay evil 161 00:07:03,285 --> 00:07:05,175 for evil, or reviling for reviling. 162 00:07:06,015 --> 00:07:08,955 But he goes further than this because he is not just saying, don't do this. 163 00:07:08,955 --> 00:07:11,505 He's gonna say, do this instead. 164 00:07:12,390 --> 00:07:13,710 Don't repay these things. 165 00:07:13,710 --> 00:07:15,810 But on the contrary, he says, bless. 166 00:07:16,890 --> 00:07:19,770 It's a word that means, on the other hand, bless the word blessed there. 167 00:07:20,310 --> 00:07:22,350 ETO is where we get our Greek word or our English word. 168 00:07:22,350 --> 00:07:23,010 Eulogy. 169 00:07:23,940 --> 00:07:24,480 Eulogy. 170 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:28,530 So if you go to a funeral or you go to a memorial, someone eulogizes the dead. 171 00:07:28,710 --> 00:07:30,660 What that means is they speak well of them. 172 00:07:30,660 --> 00:07:33,300 That's what it means to speak well of. 173 00:07:33,750 --> 00:07:35,190 So Peter's saying, rather than. 174 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:39,990 Tear them down back rather than repay them evil for evil or reviling for reviling. 175 00:07:39,990 --> 00:07:42,420 Instead, what I want you to do is I want you to bless them. 176 00:07:42,780 --> 00:07:44,340 I want you to speak well of them. 177 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:48,390 Does that mean I'm, I'm supposed to build somebody else up 178 00:07:48,390 --> 00:07:52,080 who's tearing me down perhaps. 179 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:54,960 But I think the most concrete way that we can bless someone else, and I think 180 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:58,230 this is probably what Peter had in mind, is through praying for that person. 181 00:07:59,850 --> 00:08:03,150 This is what Jesus said in Matthew 5 44, that we should 182 00:08:03,150 --> 00:08:05,010 pray for those who persecute us. 183 00:08:07,575 --> 00:08:09,975 And so it's not just what you're not supposed to do, it's also what you're 184 00:08:09,975 --> 00:08:11,355 supposed to do, which is to bless them. 185 00:08:11,385 --> 00:08:15,915 And then Peter says this, for to this, you were called, what 186 00:08:15,915 --> 00:08:17,625 does he mean there to this? 187 00:08:17,625 --> 00:08:22,575 I was called, I was called to be attacked and, and to not retaliate. 188 00:08:22,665 --> 00:08:23,775 To not respond. 189 00:08:24,345 --> 00:08:25,035 To not fight. 190 00:08:25,035 --> 00:08:25,815 Back. 191 00:08:26,325 --> 00:08:27,855 In short, yes. 192 00:08:28,755 --> 00:08:33,105 Because you were called to follow Jesus because you were called to be like Jesus. 193 00:08:34,573 --> 00:08:38,084 In fact, some of you may be hearing this passage and reading this passage, 194 00:08:38,084 --> 00:08:40,155 and in your mind you've already gone there and you've thought to yourself, 195 00:08:40,155 --> 00:08:41,265 man, this sounds really familiar. 196 00:08:41,265 --> 00:08:43,183 It sounds like we've covered something similar to this. 197 00:08:43,724 --> 00:08:48,074 And we have in one Peter chapter two verses 21 through 23, if you'll let 198 00:08:48,074 --> 00:08:50,985 your eyes glance over there on your Bibles, maybe it's back at page, but one 199 00:08:50,985 --> 00:08:52,995 Peter chapter two verses 21 through 23. 200 00:08:53,265 --> 00:08:55,724 Peter there wrote this for to this. 201 00:08:55,724 --> 00:08:58,935 You have been called, that sounds really familiar, doesn't it? 202 00:08:59,295 --> 00:09:02,530 Same words that we just read in one Peter chapter three, verse nine. 203 00:09:03,225 --> 00:09:07,185 For to this, you have been called because Christ also suffered for 204 00:09:07,185 --> 00:09:12,855 you, leaving you an example so that you might follow in his steps. 205 00:09:13,470 --> 00:09:14,370 He committed no sin. 206 00:09:14,370 --> 00:09:15,990 Neither was deceived, found in his mouth. 207 00:09:16,290 --> 00:09:17,400 When he was reviled. 208 00:09:17,430 --> 00:09:20,490 He did not revile in return when he suffered. 209 00:09:20,610 --> 00:09:24,660 He did not threaten but continued entrusting himself to him. 210 00:09:24,660 --> 00:09:26,070 Who judges justly. 211 00:09:26,910 --> 00:09:27,990 If you are a Christian. 212 00:09:28,605 --> 00:09:31,095 That means you have been called to follow Jesus. 213 00:09:31,305 --> 00:09:35,055 And if you are going to follow Jesus in this world, in this life, you are 214 00:09:35,055 --> 00:09:36,615 following him in a world that hates him. 215 00:09:36,615 --> 00:09:39,645 Remember last week we talked about what it means to follow Christ in a christless 216 00:09:39,645 --> 00:09:43,815 world that is going to bring opposition, that is going to bring hostility, that 217 00:09:43,815 --> 00:09:47,265 is going to bring the attacks of the world and responding to that looks like 218 00:09:47,265 --> 00:09:51,315 us saying, as Christians, we want to follow the example that we have in Jesus. 219 00:09:51,375 --> 00:09:54,015 So to this, you have been called. 220 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:56,790 You've been called away from the natural response. 221 00:09:56,790 --> 00:10:00,180 In other words, you've been called away from the worldly reaction 222 00:10:00,180 --> 00:10:02,070 to reviling, to slander, to evil. 223 00:10:02,070 --> 00:10:04,890 When evil is perpetuated against us, you've been called 224 00:10:04,890 --> 00:10:06,480 instead to follow Jesus. 225 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:09,990 And if we're gonna follow Jesus, we have to overcome those first 226 00:10:09,990 --> 00:10:11,790 instincts when somebody attacks us. 227 00:10:12,270 --> 00:10:14,310 Point number one this morning is this, fight your natural 228 00:10:14,310 --> 00:10:15,930 response to personal attacks. 229 00:10:16,860 --> 00:10:19,290 Fight your natural response to personal attacks. 230 00:10:23,189 --> 00:10:27,480 Let me quote the, the great well-known theologian Daniel Tiger. 231 00:10:27,510 --> 00:10:28,620 For a minute if I can. 232 00:10:30,390 --> 00:10:31,560 Daniel Tiger's neighborhood. 233 00:10:31,620 --> 00:10:33,060 Anybody tracking with me on this one? 234 00:10:33,689 --> 00:10:34,410 He's not. 235 00:10:34,470 --> 00:10:37,620 What he said though applies here, so if you're going, he thinks he's a theologian. 236 00:10:37,620 --> 00:10:39,210 What kind of pastor is this? 237 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:40,485 I don't consult Daniel Tiger. 238 00:10:40,485 --> 00:10:43,110 When I preach sermons, this just applies. 239 00:10:44,699 --> 00:10:46,710 Daniel Tiger taught my kids from the time that they were little. 240 00:10:46,710 --> 00:10:48,635 When you feel so mad that you wanna roar. 241 00:10:49,605 --> 00:10:49,995 Come on. 242 00:10:49,995 --> 00:10:50,565 You guys know it. 243 00:10:50,565 --> 00:10:52,815 Don't hide behind the like, I don't know what he's talking about there. 244 00:10:53,085 --> 00:10:56,355 Take a deep breath and count two, four, right? 245 00:10:56,415 --> 00:10:57,585 'cause it rhymes with more. 246 00:10:57,855 --> 00:11:00,285 If you need 5, 6, 7, whatever you need, take it. 247 00:11:01,035 --> 00:11:02,325 But what isn't that fascinating? 248 00:11:03,015 --> 00:11:05,205 You take a show like Daniel Tiger's neighborhood, and I don't know the, the 249 00:11:05,205 --> 00:11:08,235 producers or writers behind it, but you take a, a show that's that's aimed just 250 00:11:08,235 --> 00:11:12,285 at, at the world and they're trying to teach young kids, Hey, you know what? 251 00:11:12,465 --> 00:11:14,385 You're going to find yourself in a situation where you're 252 00:11:14,385 --> 00:11:15,135 gonna wanna be angry. 253 00:11:15,135 --> 00:11:17,715 You're gonna wanna lash out, you're gonna wanna attack somebody who hurts you. 254 00:11:18,135 --> 00:11:18,945 Here's what you need to do. 255 00:11:18,945 --> 00:11:21,015 When you feel so mad that you wanna roar, you need to take a 256 00:11:21,015 --> 00:11:22,695 deep breath and count to four. 257 00:11:24,285 --> 00:11:28,155 I remember my twins when they were in their, they're sitting in a 258 00:11:28,155 --> 00:11:29,475 bumbo stage where they can't sit up. 259 00:11:29,475 --> 00:11:29,775 Right. 260 00:11:29,895 --> 00:11:30,615 You know, by themselves. 261 00:11:30,615 --> 00:11:32,655 They'll, they'll tip over, but you can put 'em in a bumbo and they'll, 262 00:11:32,655 --> 00:11:34,035 they'll manage life for a little while. 263 00:11:34,905 --> 00:11:38,295 We had two of those and I remember just watching them and, and they would 264 00:11:38,295 --> 00:11:40,395 sit in the bumbo and they would look at each other and one would have a 265 00:11:40,395 --> 00:11:42,855 toy and just be content with this toy. 266 00:11:42,855 --> 00:11:44,505 And it's not like we deprived the other one. 267 00:11:44,505 --> 00:11:46,125 We weren't like, you have to watch him play with his toy. 268 00:11:46,125 --> 00:11:47,055 You just have to sit there. 269 00:11:47,655 --> 00:11:48,735 He would have his toys too. 270 00:11:49,290 --> 00:11:52,650 But he would look at his brother and his brother's just loving life with this 271 00:11:52,650 --> 00:11:55,920 toy that he has, and he would look at it and be like, yep, I'm gonna have that. 272 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:58,950 And so he would reach across and just rip it outta the hands of the other twin. 273 00:11:59,880 --> 00:12:01,830 And it's not as though the other twin was like, you know what brother? 274 00:12:02,190 --> 00:12:02,790 I'm good with it. 275 00:12:02,910 --> 00:12:03,270 I'm good. 276 00:12:03,270 --> 00:12:04,770 I'm not gonna repay evil for evil. 277 00:12:05,070 --> 00:12:06,270 Reviling for reviling. 278 00:12:06,855 --> 00:12:07,395 I'm good with it. 279 00:12:07,395 --> 00:12:08,865 You need that more than I need it. 280 00:12:08,865 --> 00:12:10,035 I'm content with this. 281 00:12:10,095 --> 00:12:10,905 This toy over here? 282 00:12:10,935 --> 00:12:14,745 No, it was the lookout for mom and dad, like our mom and dad anywhere near me. 283 00:12:15,135 --> 00:12:18,555 Then it was followed by the blood curdling scream, and then the plot went 284 00:12:18,555 --> 00:12:20,535 into action of how can I get it back? 285 00:12:21,495 --> 00:12:24,945 And so there were lunges and there were reaches and there were grabs and any 286 00:12:24,945 --> 00:12:28,065 body part that was was grasped became. 287 00:12:28,305 --> 00:12:30,525 I'm taking you with me to get that toy back from you. 288 00:12:32,295 --> 00:12:37,095 We don't have to teach, in other words, what we have to overcome 289 00:12:37,095 --> 00:12:40,965 in this point, it's natural to who we are as falling human beings. 290 00:12:42,135 --> 00:12:46,545 Part of the worldliness in us is to say, I care about me. 291 00:12:47,535 --> 00:12:52,455 I want what's good for me, and if somebody hurts me, then I 292 00:12:52,455 --> 00:12:53,685 need to lash back out at them. 293 00:12:54,525 --> 00:12:55,545 I need to hurt them. 294 00:12:56,205 --> 00:13:01,065 That's the natural response that we have to overcome, and sure we get older. 295 00:13:01,500 --> 00:13:05,340 And so we get older and, and our instincts, you know, are, are, 296 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:08,130 are overcome a little bit, but man, it's still there isn't it? 297 00:13:09,090 --> 00:13:11,819 You're out on the road, you're driving somebody somewhere, somebody 298 00:13:11,850 --> 00:13:15,300 cuts you off and you're just like, it, it kicks in right there. 299 00:13:16,350 --> 00:13:18,150 I want to get around them and cut them off. 300 00:13:18,870 --> 00:13:19,380 Why? 301 00:13:19,650 --> 00:13:20,010 I don't know. 302 00:13:20,010 --> 00:13:21,240 I just need to, they cut me off. 303 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:21,900 How dare they. 304 00:13:23,010 --> 00:13:26,670 Or the person that, that goes down the left lane into the very last second 305 00:13:26,670 --> 00:13:29,430 when all y'all have been waiting patiently, like good citizens to just 306 00:13:29,430 --> 00:13:32,430 get, you know, the lane's closed and then they cut everybody else off. 307 00:13:32,490 --> 00:13:36,990 And in your heart you're going, oh man, I hope they get a flat tire. 308 00:13:40,020 --> 00:13:44,220 It's there in us this natural response when we're attacked, when we feel 309 00:13:44,220 --> 00:13:49,560 wronged is to lash out, to say, man, I, I, I, I want, I want revenge. 310 00:13:49,680 --> 00:13:51,810 So what changes for us as Christians? 311 00:13:52,485 --> 00:13:54,405 Remember, the cross changes everything in how we respond 312 00:13:54,405 --> 00:13:55,245 to the attacks of the world. 313 00:13:56,235 --> 00:14:00,435 What changes is that we are enabled by the indwelling of the spirit, not to respond 314 00:14:00,435 --> 00:14:02,085 naturally, but to respond supernaturally. 315 00:14:03,165 --> 00:14:04,875 We're enabled by the indwelling of the Holy Spirit to 316 00:14:04,875 --> 00:14:07,395 produce fruit of the Spirit. 317 00:14:08,475 --> 00:14:11,025 And if we consider the fruit of the spirit from Galatians five, notice 318 00:14:11,445 --> 00:14:14,145 some of the descriptors of the fruit of the spirit here, and how many 319 00:14:14,145 --> 00:14:17,895 of them have to do with relational interactions between us and other people. 320 00:14:19,155 --> 00:14:21,075 Paul says this, but the fruit of the spirit is love. 321 00:14:21,525 --> 00:14:32,055 Joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, 322 00:14:32,775 --> 00:14:35,415 and self-control against such things. 323 00:14:35,415 --> 00:14:36,135 There is no law. 324 00:14:36,944 --> 00:14:40,245 Notice how much of the evidence of the spirit within you has to do 325 00:14:40,245 --> 00:14:41,594 with how you treat other people. 326 00:14:43,515 --> 00:14:46,755 And so now when as Christians, we are attacked, we are 327 00:14:47,115 --> 00:14:49,214 given evil by an evil world. 328 00:14:50,460 --> 00:14:52,350 We have the spirit dwelling within us. 329 00:14:52,350 --> 00:14:56,640 That enables us now to overcome that natural response, to overcome that 330 00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:58,650 response that says, man, I want to fight. 331 00:14:58,680 --> 00:15:00,030 I want to lash back out. 332 00:15:00,030 --> 00:15:02,040 I want to get my pound of flesh. 333 00:15:02,310 --> 00:15:05,880 We have the spirit now dwelling within us, that's producing within us. 334 00:15:05,910 --> 00:15:12,450 Things like patience and, and peace and gentleness and self-control to 335 00:15:12,450 --> 00:15:13,500 enable us to say, you know what? 336 00:15:13,500 --> 00:15:15,540 I'm not gonna do what naturally I want to do. 337 00:15:16,439 --> 00:15:18,840 Instead, I'm gonna respond the way the Lord would have me respond. 338 00:15:20,385 --> 00:15:23,265 And so maybe when you're attacked, you, you, maybe you do need to take a deep 339 00:15:23,265 --> 00:15:29,385 breath and count to four or 40, or maybe you do need to, to delete the social 340 00:15:29,385 --> 00:15:35,295 media apps that are just getting under your skin and, and provide opportunities 341 00:15:35,295 --> 00:15:36,555 for you to lash out at people. 342 00:15:37,755 --> 00:15:40,335 Maybe there's some relationships that you need to change up as well, 343 00:15:40,335 --> 00:15:42,765 because when you're around that people, you just, those people, you just 344 00:15:42,765 --> 00:15:45,735 find that, that there's a continual temptation for you to lash out at them. 345 00:15:48,210 --> 00:15:49,890 We need to overcome that natural response. 346 00:15:50,190 --> 00:15:51,900 But remember, it's not just what we don't do. 347 00:15:51,900 --> 00:15:52,920 We talked about this, right? 348 00:15:53,520 --> 00:15:55,200 Peter didn't just say, don't do these things. 349 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:57,660 He also said that we need to be praying for them. 350 00:15:58,380 --> 00:15:59,280 We need to bless them. 351 00:16:00,090 --> 00:16:02,730 So part of our fighting, our natural response to personal attacks 352 00:16:02,730 --> 00:16:06,420 is not just making sure that we don't retaliate, but to also make 353 00:16:06,420 --> 00:16:08,130 sure that we do pray for them. 354 00:16:08,370 --> 00:16:09,750 We do pursue them. 355 00:16:10,890 --> 00:16:13,290 Luke chapter six, verses 27 through 28. 356 00:16:13,740 --> 00:16:15,395 Jesus said this, I say to you, who here? 357 00:16:16,275 --> 00:16:19,395 Love your enemies and do good to those who hate you. 358 00:16:19,845 --> 00:16:21,705 Bless those who curse you. 359 00:16:22,095 --> 00:16:23,895 Pray for those who abuse you. 360 00:16:25,065 --> 00:16:28,275 Romans 1214, Paul says this, bless those who persecute you. 361 00:16:28,755 --> 00:16:30,345 Bless and do not curse them. 362 00:16:31,845 --> 00:16:32,925 Or one Corinthians four 12. 363 00:16:32,985 --> 00:16:35,205 And we labor working with our own hands. 364 00:16:35,445 --> 00:16:40,695 When reviled, we bless and when persecuted, we endure. 365 00:16:41,910 --> 00:16:47,340 And so your response to personal attack is not just keeping your mouth quiet, right? 366 00:16:47,340 --> 00:16:47,520 What? 367 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:48,450 What did mama used to say? 368 00:16:48,450 --> 00:16:50,370 If you don't have anything good to say, don't say what? 369 00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:51,930 Anything at all. 370 00:16:51,930 --> 00:16:52,260 You know what? 371 00:16:52,260 --> 00:16:53,130 That's not good enough. 372 00:16:53,130 --> 00:16:57,360 In situations like this, I think Peter would say, if you don't have 373 00:16:57,360 --> 00:16:58,315 anything good to say, think again. 374 00:17:00,435 --> 00:17:03,255 Because what Peter's gonna call us to do is not to remain just silent 375 00:17:03,255 --> 00:17:06,704 and to grit our teeth and just get through it and not lash back out. 376 00:17:07,244 --> 00:17:10,335 Peter's gonna say, no, the redeemed heart, the transformed heart is 377 00:17:10,335 --> 00:17:11,595 gonna pray for that person instead 378 00:17:13,724 --> 00:17:15,464 is gonna seek their good before the Lord. 379 00:17:17,115 --> 00:17:21,675 So maybe that looks like praying for their salvation if they're not saved, or it 380 00:17:21,675 --> 00:17:27,285 looks like praying for their repentance, it looks like praying for reconciliation. 381 00:17:28,875 --> 00:17:32,145 It looks like if, if this is somebody who professes faith in Christ, praying 382 00:17:32,145 --> 00:17:36,165 for God's discipline in their life, until they do come to repentance, 383 00:17:38,264 --> 00:17:41,955 and so we pray for them, ano, another way to bless them and to speak well of 384 00:17:41,955 --> 00:17:44,504 them is, is to not pile on with others. 385 00:17:45,465 --> 00:17:46,274 Here's what I mean by that. 386 00:17:46,425 --> 00:17:47,625 When somebody hurts you. 387 00:17:48,945 --> 00:17:52,035 Y your family, if they become aware of that, what are they gonna naturally do? 388 00:17:52,035 --> 00:17:53,895 They're gonna naturally do what, what we're talking about here. 389 00:17:53,895 --> 00:17:55,665 They're gonna come alongside you, man, that person. 390 00:17:55,695 --> 00:17:56,295 What a jerk. 391 00:17:56,295 --> 00:17:57,645 I can't believe they said that about you. 392 00:17:58,725 --> 00:18:00,405 I always thought that they were bad for you. 393 00:18:01,155 --> 00:18:03,435 Oh man, I, I hope this happens to them. 394 00:18:04,995 --> 00:18:06,315 And what, what's the temptation? 395 00:18:06,315 --> 00:18:08,415 The temptation is for us to jump in on board with that 396 00:18:08,415 --> 00:18:10,485 and be like, yeah, thank you. 397 00:18:12,495 --> 00:18:15,435 But I think the biblical response would be for us to, to short circuit 398 00:18:15,435 --> 00:18:17,145 that, to stop it before it gets going. 399 00:18:18,735 --> 00:18:21,525 To not pile on, to not participate in that, not to perpetuate the 400 00:18:21,525 --> 00:18:24,255 text thread with the, the people that are going, I what a loser. 401 00:18:24,255 --> 00:18:24,735 What a jerk. 402 00:18:24,735 --> 00:18:25,665 I can't believe they did that. 403 00:18:27,165 --> 00:18:28,965 Not to listen to the slander. 404 00:18:30,855 --> 00:18:33,735 Instead, what you could do with that, those people that 405 00:18:33,735 --> 00:18:34,935 want to 'cause they love you. 406 00:18:35,025 --> 00:18:35,745 They love you, right? 407 00:18:35,745 --> 00:18:37,485 That's why they're, they're offended for you. 408 00:18:38,325 --> 00:18:40,875 You could say, Hey, you know what would really encourage me is if you 409 00:18:40,875 --> 00:18:41,955 would join me in praying for them? 410 00:18:43,245 --> 00:18:44,445 You wanna shock your family. 411 00:18:44,505 --> 00:18:46,030 You wanna shock those who love you that way. 412 00:18:47,670 --> 00:18:50,250 Ask them that, especially if they're believers, I guess primarily, if they're 413 00:18:50,250 --> 00:18:53,100 believers, say, Hey, would you join me in praying for this person's repentance? 414 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:54,840 That's what I would really love. 415 00:18:57,000 --> 00:18:59,250 Encourage others to pray for you in that too. 416 00:18:59,490 --> 00:19:02,280 Hey, you know what, when, when you got, IGI understand what you're doing. 417 00:19:02,970 --> 00:19:03,660 I appreciate it. 418 00:19:03,660 --> 00:19:06,810 You want to defend me in this and, and I hear you on that, but what I would 419 00:19:06,810 --> 00:19:09,600 really love you to do, what would really help me more is if you would 420 00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:12,720 pray for me to, to respond biblically to what's going on right now in my life. 421 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:15,090 Would you pray for my heart towards this person? 422 00:19:15,750 --> 00:19:17,730 Would you pray for how I'm thinking about this person? 423 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:21,570 That's another way for you to, to speak well of them, to bless them. 424 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:27,000 A third way that is more internal is not to replay the conversation 425 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:30,240 that you wish you had had in the moment when you were attacked. 426 00:19:31,740 --> 00:19:33,900 Have you ever walked away from a conversation you thought to yourself, 427 00:19:33,900 --> 00:19:36,870 man, if only I had said this, that would've just shut them up. 428 00:19:38,340 --> 00:19:40,470 If only I had said this, that would've been the dagger. 429 00:19:42,915 --> 00:19:46,395 We have to be careful not to get our revenge through daydreaming and fantasy. 430 00:19:47,895 --> 00:19:52,815 You have to discipline your mind not to think evil of these people either, right? 431 00:19:55,845 --> 00:19:56,595 Again, why? 432 00:19:56,595 --> 00:19:57,345 Why, why? 433 00:19:57,705 --> 00:19:59,685 Why fight the natural response and the natural response? 434 00:19:59,685 --> 00:20:02,025 Is it in the moment so much more satisfying, isn't it? 435 00:20:04,005 --> 00:20:06,105 The reason is because we've been transformed by Jesus 436 00:20:07,035 --> 00:20:08,265 and we've been set on a path. 437 00:20:09,090 --> 00:20:11,940 Through the cross and through the gospel to follow him, to be like 438 00:20:11,940 --> 00:20:16,800 him and being like, Jesus looks like following the example that he left us. 439 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:20,100 And you remember the, the, the greatest example of this, I think 440 00:20:20,100 --> 00:20:23,490 is when Jesus is on the cross, some of his final words before dying. 441 00:20:24,660 --> 00:20:28,260 To those that had nailed him to the cross, to those that were openly mocking 442 00:20:28,260 --> 00:20:31,110 him, slandering him, blaspheming him. 443 00:20:32,190 --> 00:20:32,940 What did Jesus say? 444 00:20:33,524 --> 00:20:37,784 Jesus went to the Father and said, father, forgive them for 445 00:20:37,784 --> 00:20:38,625 they know not what they do. 446 00:20:42,030 --> 00:20:46,320 We wanna follow our savior's example, and so we need to fight the natural response. 447 00:20:47,670 --> 00:20:49,770 But there's, there's another side of this too. 448 00:20:49,770 --> 00:20:54,240 There's, there's more motivation to this and it's, it's related to our redemption. 449 00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:56,790 It's related to the fact that we wanna be like Jesus and the fact 450 00:20:56,790 --> 00:20:58,200 that we want to be with Jesus. 451 00:20:58,200 --> 00:20:59,670 And I think we see that here in the text. 452 00:20:59,670 --> 00:21:02,940 If you look back at the text here, it says this, do not repay evil 453 00:21:02,940 --> 00:21:04,680 for evil or reviling for reviling. 454 00:21:04,890 --> 00:21:06,060 But on the contrary, bless. 455 00:21:06,120 --> 00:21:07,955 And then he says this, for to this you were called. 456 00:21:08,699 --> 00:21:11,850 And we talked about that being called to follow Jesus in order 457 00:21:11,850 --> 00:21:14,490 that you may obtain a blessing. 458 00:21:15,330 --> 00:21:19,260 So another motivation here that we're looking at from Peter is this blessing 459 00:21:19,260 --> 00:21:21,090 that you and I have been called to obtain. 460 00:21:22,949 --> 00:21:25,919 We have to understand what this blessing really is though. 461 00:21:26,580 --> 00:21:29,010 And again, I think this blessing is related to and connected 462 00:21:29,010 --> 00:21:30,510 back to our redemption. 463 00:21:31,500 --> 00:21:33,659 Peter's gonna explain this blessing in just a second here 464 00:21:33,659 --> 00:21:36,840 by quoting from Psalm chapter 34. 465 00:21:37,815 --> 00:21:40,875 Psalm chapter 34, and in fact, what he's gonna be doing is he's gonna be going 466 00:21:40,875 --> 00:21:45,764 back to the Sept translation of Psalm 34, which in the Sept is actually Psalm 33. 467 00:21:46,034 --> 00:21:49,605 Unless you panic and think, well, why is the Sept different than than the ESV? 468 00:21:49,605 --> 00:21:50,835 We just, we need a new Bible. 469 00:21:50,835 --> 00:21:51,735 Somebody messed up here. 470 00:21:52,215 --> 00:21:54,825 The, the chapter numbers, the, the verse numbers, those are all. 471 00:21:54,865 --> 00:21:56,575 Added by editors later on. 472 00:21:56,665 --> 00:21:56,845 Okay. 473 00:21:56,845 --> 00:21:59,125 Chapters and verse divisions are not inspired. 474 00:21:59,875 --> 00:22:03,055 And so in the tut oftentimes there will be a difference in chapter, but the 475 00:22:03,055 --> 00:22:05,455 content is, is the same content there. 476 00:22:05,905 --> 00:22:09,385 So Peter's quoting from Psalm 33 and the Sept, Psalm 34 in our 477 00:22:09,385 --> 00:22:14,185 Bibles, and he's doing this to help extrapolate, I think, on this blessing 478 00:22:14,185 --> 00:22:15,475 that we've been called to obtain. 479 00:22:16,770 --> 00:22:20,940 Because the hard thing is, is we might look at this blessing and say, okay, what 480 00:22:20,940 --> 00:22:22,230 are we talking about with the blessing? 481 00:22:22,230 --> 00:22:25,440 Are we talking about a blessing that is, is temporally experienced? 482 00:22:25,495 --> 00:22:29,550 I, I it's it's experienced here and now today, or is this 483 00:22:29,550 --> 00:22:32,490 blessing more a, a blessing that's going to be ours in the future? 484 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:38,495 And I think I, I think, I think, I think Psalm 34, I think Psalm 34. 485 00:22:39,225 --> 00:22:40,395 Provides an answer for us. 486 00:22:40,905 --> 00:22:42,555 Psalm 34 is an interesting Psalm. 487 00:22:42,555 --> 00:22:44,955 There's a lot of parallels actually, between Psalm 34 and 488 00:22:44,955 --> 00:22:48,885 the entirety of one Peter in Psalm 34, which was written by David. 489 00:22:49,095 --> 00:22:52,965 David is reminding himself and his readers about God's faithfulness to 490 00:22:52,965 --> 00:22:56,865 deliver even as they walk through trials and suffering and attacks. 491 00:22:57,975 --> 00:23:01,455 I want you to consider the life of David for a second, especially 492 00:23:01,455 --> 00:23:02,865 in the context here of Psalm 34. 493 00:23:02,865 --> 00:23:05,415 He's on the run for his life from King Saul. 494 00:23:06,195 --> 00:23:07,815 Now, David has already been anointed. 495 00:23:08,940 --> 00:23:10,410 As the next king of Israel. 496 00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:13,770 And rather than thinking about, okay, what's the transfer 497 00:23:13,770 --> 00:23:14,730 of power gonna look like? 498 00:23:14,730 --> 00:23:15,690 How is this gonna go? 499 00:23:15,690 --> 00:23:16,950 Is this gonna be tacky? 500 00:23:16,950 --> 00:23:18,750 Is this, is everybody gonna be okay with this transfer? 501 00:23:19,170 --> 00:23:20,820 David's running for his life. 502 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:25,950 The current guy on the throne doesn't love the fact that David's the next guy up. 503 00:23:26,730 --> 00:23:30,060 And so the current guy on the throne, Saul, is gonna take the armies of 504 00:23:30,060 --> 00:23:33,480 Israel, the nation that David has been anointed to lead and he's gonna 505 00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:35,430 chase David and try to to kill him. 506 00:23:36,780 --> 00:23:39,030 And he is gonna get pretty close on a few occasions. 507 00:23:39,900 --> 00:23:40,890 David's gonna be betrayed. 508 00:23:40,890 --> 00:23:42,570 David's gonna be accused. 509 00:23:42,570 --> 00:23:44,130 David's gonna be chased. 510 00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:46,170 David's gonna be certainly attacked. 511 00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:50,130 And in Psalm 34, David finds himself in Philistine territory. 512 00:23:50,310 --> 00:23:50,940 Cape Philistine's. 513 00:23:50,940 --> 00:23:54,000 Israelites not non, not compatible. 514 00:23:54,660 --> 00:23:58,895 They did not get along and David finds himself before the Philistine King. 515 00:23:59,865 --> 00:24:03,435 And there before the king, it, it says in the inscription when he changed 516 00:24:03,435 --> 00:24:06,975 his behavior before Aek, so that he threw him out and he went away. 517 00:24:07,425 --> 00:24:10,485 David found himself in a bad situation and, and he realized, 518 00:24:10,485 --> 00:24:11,925 man, Saul wants to kill me. 519 00:24:12,015 --> 00:24:13,155 The Philistines wanna kill me. 520 00:24:13,335 --> 00:24:15,885 And so he kind of started drooling down his beard. 521 00:24:15,885 --> 00:24:18,045 You remember the scene, it's kind of a weird one in the Bible, and, 522 00:24:18,045 --> 00:24:20,625 and the, the king says, don't I have enough crazy people in my kingdom? 523 00:24:20,625 --> 00:24:21,405 Why'd you bring me this guy? 524 00:24:22,725 --> 00:24:23,805 And then he, he throws 'em out. 525 00:24:25,305 --> 00:24:27,975 That's the context in which David's writing. 526 00:24:27,975 --> 00:24:28,695 Psalm 34. 527 00:24:29,295 --> 00:24:31,335 He's like, man, I've got enemies all over the place. 528 00:24:32,265 --> 00:24:33,975 People trying to kill me everywhere I look. 529 00:24:35,355 --> 00:24:36,405 And yet, God is faithful. 530 00:24:37,125 --> 00:24:40,635 And part of Psalm 34, the part that he quotes from at least, is right here. 531 00:24:41,445 --> 00:24:45,165 What man is there who desires life and loves many days that he may see good? 532 00:24:45,915 --> 00:24:48,130 Keep your tongue from evil and your lips from speaking dece. 533 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:51,840 Turn away from evil and do good, seek peace and pursue it. 534 00:24:52,020 --> 00:24:53,880 The eyes of the Lord are toward the righteous and his 535 00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:55,440 ears open towards their cry. 536 00:24:55,830 --> 00:24:57,870 The face of the Lord is against those who do evil. 537 00:24:57,870 --> 00:25:01,260 To cut off the memory of them from the earth. 538 00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:06,990 Peter's gonna take this, this hope that King David had, and he's gonna apply 539 00:25:06,990 --> 00:25:11,790 it to the context that he was writing to with the elect exiles in one Peter. 540 00:25:12,570 --> 00:25:15,660 And by extension, the spirit of God is taking it this morning for us through 541 00:25:15,660 --> 00:25:19,410 the authority of the word of God and applying these things into our lives in 542 00:25:19,410 --> 00:25:21,810 whatever situation you happen to face. 543 00:25:21,810 --> 00:25:25,950 But I think in this verse and in our text, we get a picture as to what this 544 00:25:25,950 --> 00:25:28,920 blessing really is, and it's right here at the beginning of verse 10. 545 00:25:29,970 --> 00:25:35,280 Whoever love desires to love life and see good deeds, good days, whoever 546 00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:37,320 desires to love life and see good days. 547 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:41,700 When are we gonna love life and see good days. 548 00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:43,890 Is it here and now? 549 00:25:45,270 --> 00:25:50,850 Maybe, maybe I'm not ruling that out as a possibility, but when 550 00:25:50,910 --> 00:25:55,590 do we know for sure that we are gonna love life and see good days 551 00:25:57,990 --> 00:25:59,129 when we're in heaven with the Lord? 552 00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:03,390 And, and I think that fits with what Peter's been talking about so far in 553 00:26:03,390 --> 00:26:07,320 the letter already blessed to be the God and Father of heaven who has caused 554 00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:11,040 you to be born again to a living hope. 555 00:26:11,639 --> 00:26:15,389 To an inheritance that's being kept for you, right? 556 00:26:15,389 --> 00:26:21,419 Peter's been already driving the eyes of his readers up into the future that 557 00:26:21,419 --> 00:26:22,620 they're gonna have with Jesus Christ. 558 00:26:24,060 --> 00:26:27,659 And so in point number one, we have to fight the natural response because we 559 00:26:27,659 --> 00:26:29,399 have the spirit of God dwelling within us. 560 00:26:29,460 --> 00:26:31,980 We've been made new creatures in Christ. 561 00:26:31,980 --> 00:26:36,000 We've been born again to follow Jesus and now as new creations in Christ. 562 00:26:36,300 --> 00:26:39,990 What he's really arguing here from here on out is we need to live like it. 563 00:26:41,310 --> 00:26:44,580 And so here he's saying, if you wanna love life and see good 564 00:26:44,580 --> 00:26:49,919 days, this is what it looks like for you as the world attacks you. 565 00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:55,169 Here's another reason why I think that this is, is good for us to, to 566 00:26:55,379 --> 00:26:58,504 look at this as, as a view towards eternity more than, than the temporal. 567 00:26:59,775 --> 00:27:02,985 It's, it's not that the Lord might not reward your faithfulness for 568 00:27:02,985 --> 00:27:06,465 responding well, for not repaying evil for evil or reviling for reviling. 569 00:27:06,465 --> 00:27:08,745 It's not that the Lord might not bless you here and now he is 570 00:27:09,045 --> 00:27:12,555 fully, it's, it's within his realm of, of capability to do that. 571 00:27:12,555 --> 00:27:14,145 And he has done those things. 572 00:27:15,585 --> 00:27:18,315 But the danger if we make it all about that is this, we become those 573 00:27:18,315 --> 00:27:19,665 that practice Christian karma. 574 00:27:21,030 --> 00:27:21,420 Okay. 575 00:27:21,540 --> 00:27:24,180 Then God, if I do all of these things that you're telling me to 576 00:27:24,180 --> 00:27:26,280 do, then the hurt's gonna go away. 577 00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:27,120 The pain's gonna go away. 578 00:27:27,120 --> 00:27:29,010 That person that's attacking me, you're gonna take them outta my 579 00:27:29,010 --> 00:27:32,370 life because I want to see good days and I want to love life. 580 00:27:34,050 --> 00:27:37,080 And maybe that happens, but maybe it doesn't. 581 00:27:38,610 --> 00:27:39,870 But there's a day coming when it will. 582 00:27:40,950 --> 00:27:41,670 There's a day coming. 583 00:27:41,670 --> 00:27:42,690 When it will, when when. 584 00:27:42,690 --> 00:27:45,960 There's not gonna be any more opportunity or moment or time when you're gonna 585 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:48,780 sin against me or I'm gonna sin against you, or anyone else is gonna attack you. 586 00:27:49,889 --> 00:27:54,120 In that day when we will love life and see good days is the day that we will 587 00:27:54,120 --> 00:27:58,949 realize when we are in eternity with the Lord, when we step into his presence. 588 00:27:58,949 --> 00:28:03,330 Psalm 16, the presence of the fullness of joy, where there's pleasures forevermore 589 00:28:03,330 --> 00:28:04,350 with the right hand of the Father. 590 00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:09,959 And so Peter is saying, Hey, live as believers basically. 591 00:28:10,620 --> 00:28:14,790 This isn't a contingency when he says, whoever loves desires to love life 592 00:28:14,790 --> 00:28:16,200 and see good days, let him do this. 593 00:28:16,409 --> 00:28:19,409 Peter's not saying heaven rides on how you respond. 594 00:28:20,220 --> 00:28:24,300 Rather Peter's reminding us of of the, the, the good life and the, 595 00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:27,540 the, the good days that exist in front of us to be with Jesus. 596 00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:29,850 And he's saying in light of that, if, if that's where your heart is, if 597 00:28:29,850 --> 00:28:32,970 that's where you desire, if you want to be there, hey, live like it here. 598 00:28:33,930 --> 00:28:34,710 Live like it here. 599 00:28:35,310 --> 00:28:37,440 And that impacts how we conduct ourselves. 600 00:28:38,265 --> 00:28:41,055 And so what Peter's doing here is he, he's, he's giving a perspective shift 601 00:28:41,055 --> 00:28:46,095 for us, which helps us as we seek to navigate the situations when we feel 602 00:28:46,095 --> 00:28:49,815 like we've been attacked, slandered, reviled, somebody's committed an evil 603 00:28:49,815 --> 00:28:51,705 against us, wor or hurt, or wounded. 604 00:28:52,665 --> 00:28:55,965 Peter's giving us a perspective shift that can help us navigate what we do 605 00:28:55,965 --> 00:28:58,155 Next point number two, this week is this. 606 00:28:58,155 --> 00:29:00,795 Stay fixated on your future with Jesus. 607 00:29:02,115 --> 00:29:04,725 Stay fixated on your future with Jesus. 608 00:29:06,525 --> 00:29:11,115 There's a highway interchange in downtown Dallas called the Mix Master, which 609 00:29:11,115 --> 00:29:14,835 is the single worst feat of traffic engineering the world has ever known. 610 00:29:16,875 --> 00:29:21,135 If you've ever driven it, then you are one of the few in the proud that has survived. 611 00:29:22,245 --> 00:29:24,795 Every time, every year, my family goes down to the state fair. 612 00:29:24,855 --> 00:29:28,725 It's like I, and I'm at the age where I turn down the music in my car to be 613 00:29:28,725 --> 00:29:30,315 able to make sure that I don't get lost. 614 00:29:31,125 --> 00:29:31,965 Anybody else there? 615 00:29:32,145 --> 00:29:32,535 No. 616 00:29:33,015 --> 00:29:33,495 Thank you. 617 00:29:33,495 --> 00:29:36,285 A few of, you're there, you teenagers, you're like, what? 618 00:29:36,375 --> 00:29:37,635 In the world that has nothing to do? 619 00:29:37,635 --> 00:29:38,655 Those two things aren't related. 620 00:29:38,655 --> 00:29:41,355 They are just wait until you get old enough that they're connected 621 00:29:42,795 --> 00:29:45,225 and, and I'll, I'll get my wife and I'll be like, Hey, I need your help. 622 00:29:45,225 --> 00:29:46,815 I need your, your set of eyes on this. 623 00:29:46,815 --> 00:29:50,475 Because the mix master, it's just a rat's nest of highways that all come together 624 00:29:51,045 --> 00:29:52,725 and there's signs that don't make sense. 625 00:29:53,655 --> 00:29:57,795 And you, you try to stay on course and yet so easy is it to find 626 00:29:57,795 --> 00:29:59,055 yourself on a different highway. 627 00:29:59,055 --> 00:30:00,555 And next thing you know, you're in Waco. 628 00:30:00,765 --> 00:30:03,495 When you're not trying to get to Waco at all, you're going, 629 00:30:03,495 --> 00:30:06,345 how did I get here, y'all? 630 00:30:06,345 --> 00:30:09,165 The world that we live in as Christians is the mix master. 631 00:30:10,455 --> 00:30:15,825 There is one path that we are called to follow, and it's the path 632 00:30:15,825 --> 00:30:17,235 that's fixated on Jesus Christ. 633 00:30:18,225 --> 00:30:21,690 And, and, and yet when we are attacked, those attacks are like the enemy 634 00:30:21,690 --> 00:30:25,080 trying to say, Hey, come take this off ramp towards, towards anger. 635 00:30:25,590 --> 00:30:26,760 Take it towards retaliation. 636 00:30:26,820 --> 00:30:27,990 It's gonna be so good over here. 637 00:30:27,990 --> 00:30:29,160 Look what's over here at this exit. 638 00:30:29,820 --> 00:30:30,930 Or the enemy's gonna say, you know what? 639 00:30:30,930 --> 00:30:33,120 You need to go over here and to, to loathing and self-pity, and you 640 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:35,370 need to be over here 'cause this is such a good exit for you to be in. 641 00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,300 Instead of, what we're called to do is we're called to keep 642 00:30:39,300 --> 00:30:41,910 our eyes fixated on Jesus. 643 00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:46,590 And there's three descriptors that we find here in these verses here, verses 644 00:30:46,590 --> 00:30:51,570 10 and 11, of what that looks like for us and how we should stay fixated 645 00:30:51,570 --> 00:30:54,330 on Jesus when the world attacks us. 646 00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:58,020 Notice first he says this, let him keep his tongue from evil and 647 00:30:58,020 --> 00:30:59,399 his lips from speaking deceit. 648 00:31:01,889 --> 00:31:02,070 Man. 649 00:31:02,070 --> 00:31:06,540 So often when we are attacked, the weapon we employ is our words. 650 00:31:08,310 --> 00:31:10,740 James talks so much about the power of the tongue. 651 00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:14,940 In James chapter three, and he talks about the incongruence between us 652 00:31:14,940 --> 00:31:17,730 wanting to use our tongue to worship God and to praise God, and then use 653 00:31:17,730 --> 00:31:21,180 our same tongue to go out and curse other people made in the image of God. 654 00:31:23,490 --> 00:31:26,880 As long as you have the ability to speak, you are never attacked, unarmed, 655 00:31:28,950 --> 00:31:31,770 because one of the greatest weapons that we possess as Christians is 656 00:31:32,820 --> 00:31:36,390 our words, and Peter's saying to us. 657 00:31:36,915 --> 00:31:41,085 Let you, your tongue be kept from evil and your lips from speaking deceit. 658 00:31:42,375 --> 00:31:44,955 It's interesting that he talks about our lips from speaking deceit. 659 00:31:44,955 --> 00:31:48,525 I think when we're attacked, one of the defenses that we have is sometimes 660 00:31:48,525 --> 00:31:50,265 to embellish a situation, isn't it? 661 00:31:51,495 --> 00:31:55,605 To make ourselves look better and to make the other person look worse, 662 00:31:57,765 --> 00:32:01,155 and certainly speaking evil, we need to guard against that. 663 00:32:01,785 --> 00:32:05,055 Social media has made it far easier for us to give full vent to the 664 00:32:05,055 --> 00:32:06,165 evil of our hearts, hasn't it? 665 00:32:07,605 --> 00:32:11,084 To run to a Facebook post, to run to an Instagram post, to run to a 666 00:32:11,084 --> 00:32:13,455 comment, to run to a, a Twitter post 667 00:32:16,125 --> 00:32:18,105 or text messages and, and emails. 668 00:32:20,054 --> 00:32:23,324 Lemme just give you some uninvited advice. 669 00:32:23,324 --> 00:32:26,685 I, I think text message and emails are, are two of the worst ways to 670 00:32:26,685 --> 00:32:28,485 seek reconciliation that exist. 671 00:32:30,645 --> 00:32:32,985 If you can avoid it at all, I would avoid it. 672 00:32:34,230 --> 00:32:36,900 Because when you send a text or when you write an email, you 673 00:32:36,900 --> 00:32:40,890 are letting the, the one that is reading, that interpret your tone. 674 00:32:42,900 --> 00:32:45,600 They can't hear your voice, they can't see your face. 675 00:32:46,530 --> 00:32:49,890 And if you really have what's good in mind, if you're really after 676 00:32:49,890 --> 00:32:53,880 reconciliation, then you are gambling by sending that text or sending 677 00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:56,220 that email rather than sitting down. 678 00:32:56,220 --> 00:32:57,930 Ideally, the best place would be face to face. 679 00:32:59,370 --> 00:33:01,410 If you can't be face to face, I think there's a blessing that 680 00:33:01,410 --> 00:33:04,530 we have in in FaceTime or using video chat with each other. 681 00:33:04,530 --> 00:33:08,790 You can see facial expressions and if not, those two things I would say at least 682 00:33:08,790 --> 00:33:10,020 pick up the phone and talk to somebody. 683 00:33:10,020 --> 00:33:14,010 You can hear the tone of voice that way, but Peter saying, don't use 684 00:33:14,010 --> 00:33:16,140 your words for evil or for deceit. 685 00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:18,690 Don't lash out. 686 00:33:18,690 --> 00:33:20,010 Don't retaliate that way. 687 00:33:20,910 --> 00:33:21,090 Why? 688 00:33:21,090 --> 00:33:22,950 Because you've been born again. 689 00:33:24,315 --> 00:33:26,115 And we want to be like Jesus. 690 00:33:26,205 --> 00:33:29,265 And Jesus when he was reviled, did not revile in return. 691 00:33:29,835 --> 00:33:31,095 So keep your tongues from evil. 692 00:33:31,095 --> 00:33:31,725 It's a command there. 693 00:33:31,725 --> 00:33:34,455 It it suggests if you're doing it, stop doing it. 694 00:33:35,595 --> 00:33:37,125 If you're not doing it, don't start doing it 695 00:33:39,225 --> 00:33:39,615 again. 696 00:33:39,855 --> 00:33:43,155 This is part of that fixation on our future with Jesus. 697 00:33:43,155 --> 00:33:45,735 We know where we're going and we wanna live in light of what we're 698 00:33:45,735 --> 00:33:50,385 doing, where we're going right now, and that's gonna be so much better. 699 00:33:51,270 --> 00:33:55,410 Then the, the momentary satisfaction I might get by lashing out with my words. 700 00:33:57,420 --> 00:34:00,300 Second way that, that we can keep our eyes fixated on Jesus is this, let 701 00:34:00,300 --> 00:34:01,560 'em turn away from evil and do good. 702 00:34:02,910 --> 00:34:04,530 Let 'em turn away from evil and do good. 703 00:34:06,630 --> 00:34:09,480 In other words, move on in obedience to the Lord. 704 00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:11,850 Move on in obedience to the Lord. 705 00:34:12,060 --> 00:34:15,510 You, you know when, when Paul tells Timothy, flee these 706 00:34:15,510 --> 00:34:19,350 things, sexual morality, love of money, other things like that. 707 00:34:20,310 --> 00:34:21,690 Paul doesn't just put a period there. 708 00:34:21,690 --> 00:34:22,050 Does he? 709 00:34:23,639 --> 00:34:27,090 He says, flee these things and pursue these things. 710 00:34:28,170 --> 00:34:31,440 Pursue godliness and righteousness and holiness and, and love. 711 00:34:33,060 --> 00:34:36,510 So anytime as, as Christians that we're being called to turn away 712 00:34:36,510 --> 00:34:39,159 from something, we are being called to turn towards something else. 713 00:34:40,770 --> 00:34:44,550 And so here, what Peter's saying is, is don't let the enemy. 714 00:34:45,330 --> 00:34:47,040 Don't let the enemy get you off track. 715 00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:50,880 Don't let the enemy attack you during times like this to derail 716 00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:52,290 you from your walk with Christ. 717 00:34:54,210 --> 00:34:55,800 Stay focused on Jesus. 718 00:34:56,219 --> 00:34:59,550 Keep your obedience intact when it comes to Jesus. 719 00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:01,560 Keep walking after him. 720 00:35:03,810 --> 00:35:06,570 Third way we keep ourselves fixated on our future with Jesus 721 00:35:06,570 --> 00:35:08,070 is we seek peace and pursue it. 722 00:35:10,140 --> 00:35:11,160 We seek peace and pursue it. 723 00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:12,600 We talked about this a little bit last week. 724 00:35:12,915 --> 00:35:14,985 In our sermon when it comes to unity, 725 00:35:17,025 --> 00:35:20,205 but how do we do with this with somebody outside of, of the 726 00:35:20,205 --> 00:35:21,675 flock, outside of the church? 727 00:35:21,855 --> 00:35:23,925 What does that look like there for us to seek peace there? 728 00:35:25,575 --> 00:35:28,845 Romans 1218 says this if possible, so far as it depends on you. 729 00:35:28,845 --> 00:35:32,235 Live peaceably with all, live peaceably, with all 730 00:35:36,015 --> 00:35:40,365 forgiveness is such a massive part of what we're talking about 731 00:35:40,365 --> 00:35:41,325 in this message this morning. 732 00:35:43,050 --> 00:35:47,565 And, and forgiveness is so crucial if we are to do what we're talking 733 00:35:47,565 --> 00:35:50,895 about here, to, to stay fixated on Jesus and to seek peace. 734 00:35:52,665 --> 00:35:57,825 I if, if you harbor unforgiveness against somebody, then the enemy has hijacked 735 00:35:57,825 --> 00:36:00,075 your heart and your pursuit of Jesus, 736 00:36:02,205 --> 00:36:04,035 and he would love nothing more than to do that. 737 00:36:06,315 --> 00:36:08,115 Lemme talk about forgiveness for just a second. 738 00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:13,620 Forgiveness, I believe is required of the Christian in every situation. 739 00:36:15,540 --> 00:36:16,140 Here's what I mean. 740 00:36:16,140 --> 00:36:19,380 There, there are two components to forgiveness. 741 00:36:20,250 --> 00:36:24,150 There is a horizontal component that is the relational component, right? 742 00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:28,200 The the relational component of forgiveness may not happen. 743 00:36:29,460 --> 00:36:31,050 The person may refuse to repent. 744 00:36:31,350 --> 00:36:33,390 The person may refuse to seek forgiveness. 745 00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:37,285 You may have no contact with that person any longer. 746 00:36:38,220 --> 00:36:41,700 And so there's not gonna be the reconciliation per se, between you and 747 00:36:41,700 --> 00:36:44,069 them from a human relationship standpoint. 748 00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:49,470 That said, forgiveness can still take place between you and the Lord, 749 00:36:49,470 --> 00:36:51,509 which is where it has to take place. 750 00:36:52,529 --> 00:36:57,149 And what that looks like is you taking the offense against you and your hunger 751 00:36:57,149 --> 00:37:02,009 for, for justice, and you're thirst for retaliation, and you yielding that 752 00:37:02,009 --> 00:37:05,669 and letting it go and see, seeding it and rolling it over to the Lord 753 00:37:05,940 --> 00:37:07,319 to see that he will deal with it. 754 00:37:08,085 --> 00:37:12,285 According to his perfect wisdom, that's the forgiveness that has to 755 00:37:12,285 --> 00:37:13,635 take place for every single Christian. 756 00:37:14,835 --> 00:37:18,135 When somebody has wronged you, whatever it may be, is to roll that over to 757 00:37:18,135 --> 00:37:20,025 the Lord, to say, Lord, I'm hurt. 758 00:37:20,025 --> 00:37:20,745 I'm wounded. 759 00:37:20,745 --> 00:37:25,575 This has made me angry and I'm struggling with this, but help me to trust you to 760 00:37:25,575 --> 00:37:27,405 be the ultimate arbiter of justice here. 761 00:37:28,725 --> 00:37:30,255 Help me to release this to you. 762 00:37:31,725 --> 00:37:35,415 And not to hold onto it and to remain bitter and to remain angry, and to have my 763 00:37:35,415 --> 00:37:39,285 walk with you interrupted because I can't let go of what this person did to me. 764 00:37:41,775 --> 00:37:47,565 Again, that earthly relationship, maybe it's over forever, but you can let go of 765 00:37:47,565 --> 00:37:52,515 the offense to the Lord and trust that he's gonna see too the, the recompense, 766 00:37:52,575 --> 00:37:54,225 the revenge if that's necessary. 767 00:37:57,330 --> 00:38:01,830 And so we need to keep our eyes fixated on Jesus by making sure that we are 768 00:38:01,830 --> 00:38:05,340 walking as one who is a follower of Christ, knowing where we're going, going, 769 00:38:05,340 --> 00:38:08,310 you know what this fault, this wrong turnover here that you're trying to 770 00:38:08,310 --> 00:38:12,090 get me to take, uh, you know, to, to go and, and slander that person back, or to 771 00:38:12,090 --> 00:38:13,710 accuse them, or to use my words for evil. 772 00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:14,850 No, no, no. 773 00:38:14,850 --> 00:38:15,509 It's not worth it. 774 00:38:15,509 --> 00:38:17,220 Being with Jesus is where I'm, I'm looking. 775 00:38:18,615 --> 00:38:22,185 Or over here, this, this exit over here that, that wants me to, to, to 776 00:38:22,185 --> 00:38:25,694 be derailed in my walk with Christ and just hung up here and, and start 777 00:38:25,694 --> 00:38:28,545 sinning myself instead of pursuing what's good and obeying the Lord. 778 00:38:28,815 --> 00:38:29,115 You know what? 779 00:38:29,115 --> 00:38:30,435 Nope, that's not worth it either. 780 00:38:30,435 --> 00:38:33,345 I'm gonna stay here because I'm, I'm going after Jesus and I wanna be with him. 781 00:38:34,965 --> 00:38:35,415 Or, you know what? 782 00:38:35,565 --> 00:38:39,075 This thing over here that, that you want me to just harbor bitterness and 783 00:38:39,075 --> 00:38:42,315 you don't want me to ever get over this offense that's been leveled against 784 00:38:42,315 --> 00:38:47,355 me, and you want me to have this, this feeling of, of distance, this roadblock, 785 00:38:47,355 --> 00:38:50,655 this obstacle between me and the Lord because of this lack of forgiveness. 786 00:38:50,715 --> 00:38:51,015 Nope. 787 00:38:51,045 --> 00:38:51,675 Not gonna do it. 788 00:38:51,675 --> 00:38:54,045 I'm gonna let that go because I want to go and be with Jesus. 789 00:38:54,045 --> 00:38:54,765 That's far better. 790 00:38:57,400 --> 00:39:01,365 And so we want to keep our minds, our focus fixed on our future with Jesus. 791 00:39:01,365 --> 00:39:03,195 It's, it's like learning to drive, right? 792 00:39:03,525 --> 00:39:06,495 If you're anything like me, and I remember teaching Josh how to drive recently, 793 00:39:06,735 --> 00:39:10,275 uh, you, you start out by looking over the hood of your car, don't you? 794 00:39:10,725 --> 00:39:11,654 'cause that makes sense. 795 00:39:11,685 --> 00:39:14,475 'cause you think to yourself, well, that's where I'm going, is right here. 796 00:39:14,475 --> 00:39:16,275 I wanna make sure that I'm going the right place. 797 00:39:16,875 --> 00:39:18,945 But what happens when you're looking right over the hood of the, your 798 00:39:18,945 --> 00:39:22,845 car, you, you start not realizing it, but you're, you're drifting now. 799 00:39:23,220 --> 00:39:26,430 And so you think that's the safest place for me to be, to stay in the lines. 800 00:39:26,430 --> 00:39:28,259 But what you realize is no, that's actually harder to 801 00:39:28,259 --> 00:39:29,160 stay in the lines that way. 802 00:39:30,060 --> 00:39:34,230 Instead, what you teach somebody who's driving to do is to look up, to look down 803 00:39:34,230 --> 00:39:35,910 the lane, to look at where they're going. 804 00:39:36,270 --> 00:39:39,450 And when you do that, what you find is that you're far more stable. 805 00:39:39,569 --> 00:39:43,020 When you've got your eyes fixated down the road to where you're going, then when all 806 00:39:43,020 --> 00:39:47,970 you're doing is looking at what's right in in front of you, when the world attacks 807 00:39:47,970 --> 00:39:51,694 y'all, we gotta make sure that our eyes are down the road and not right here. 808 00:39:52,799 --> 00:39:55,020 Because if they're right here, we're gonna drift towards wrath. 809 00:39:55,020 --> 00:39:56,640 We're gonna drift towards unforgiveness. 810 00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:58,830 We're gonna drift towards, uh, depression, and we're gonna 811 00:39:58,830 --> 00:40:00,060 drift towards discouragement. 812 00:40:00,060 --> 00:40:04,920 We're gonna drift towards stagnance in my faith, it's instead, I gotta keep my 813 00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:10,020 eyes fixed right there and know that's where I'm going, and I know where's 814 00:40:10,020 --> 00:40:13,110 coming because I'm able to see in front of me and I know where I'm headed. 815 00:40:14,730 --> 00:40:18,840 That's what we're after, guys keeping our eyes fixated on Jesus. 816 00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:20,040 Hebrews 12, one. 817 00:40:20,819 --> 00:40:23,009 Therefore, since we're surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, 818 00:40:23,009 --> 00:40:25,424 let us lay aside every weight and sin, which clings so closely. 819 00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:31,950 And let us run with endurance the race that is set before us looking to Jesus, 820 00:40:32,310 --> 00:40:34,080 the founder and perfecter of our faith. 821 00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:38,520 Who by the way, for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, how 822 00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:40,020 did Jesus get through the hostility? 823 00:40:40,350 --> 00:40:42,330 How did Jesus get through the accusations? 824 00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:44,490 How did Jesus get through the pain of the cross? 825 00:40:44,490 --> 00:40:46,830 How did Jesus get through the suffering and the mocking? 826 00:40:46,830 --> 00:40:49,680 What does the writer of Hebrews say who, for the joy set 827 00:40:49,770 --> 00:40:51,840 before him endured the cross? 828 00:40:53,190 --> 00:40:53,880 And so Christian. 829 00:40:54,285 --> 00:41:00,825 Yeah, there's a joy set before you if you desire to see good days, and 830 00:41:00,825 --> 00:41:05,174 if you desire to love life, that day's coming when you're gonna hear. 831 00:41:05,174 --> 00:41:06,315 Well done, good and faithful servant. 832 00:41:06,315 --> 00:41:08,955 Enter into the joy of your master that day's coming. 833 00:41:08,955 --> 00:41:13,995 If you want that day, look forward to the joy of that day and keep moving forward. 834 00:41:14,205 --> 00:41:14,805 In the meantime, 835 00:41:18,734 --> 00:41:19,935 there's one more part of this, though. 836 00:41:21,270 --> 00:41:22,110 That's great, right? 837 00:41:22,110 --> 00:41:22,650 That that's great. 838 00:41:22,650 --> 00:41:24,870 That that future is so good, but what about right now? 839 00:41:24,870 --> 00:41:30,180 'cause right now, and it still hurts right now, I still replay 840 00:41:30,180 --> 00:41:32,460 the words in my head right now. 841 00:41:32,460 --> 00:41:34,620 That offense, it's still something that I'm dealing with the 842 00:41:34,620 --> 00:41:38,220 ramifications and the repercussions of it, and it hurts right now. 843 00:41:39,150 --> 00:41:42,570 I know one day it's not going to, but it does right now. 844 00:41:42,570 --> 00:41:43,500 What about right now? 845 00:41:44,670 --> 00:41:46,710 Verse 12, I think is a comfort for us towards that. 846 00:41:47,625 --> 00:41:51,615 Peter says this, for the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous and his ears are 847 00:41:51,615 --> 00:41:55,725 open to their prayer, but the face of the Lord is against those who do evil. 848 00:41:57,165 --> 00:42:00,194 Peter's zooming in right now and he's coming back to, to where we're at today, 849 00:42:00,765 --> 00:42:02,654 and he's saying, Hey, but, but know this. 850 00:42:02,984 --> 00:42:06,404 The eyes of the Lord are on the righteous. 851 00:42:08,730 --> 00:42:11,279 Such a, a comforting thought for the here and now. 852 00:42:12,450 --> 00:42:17,310 That confidence that, that God knows, that God sees that we're not suffering 853 00:42:17,310 --> 00:42:19,860 alone and that he does indeed care. 854 00:42:21,509 --> 00:42:22,620 There's an old saying that, right? 855 00:42:22,620 --> 00:42:24,600 That, that God is good all the time and all the time. 856 00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:27,060 What God is good 857 00:42:29,310 --> 00:42:35,250 when you're attacked from the world, that truth, God is good. 858 00:42:35,790 --> 00:42:39,180 It's so important for you to hold onto final point this morning 859 00:42:39,180 --> 00:42:41,370 is this trust that God is good. 860 00:42:42,660 --> 00:42:48,299 Trust that God is good for the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous. 861 00:42:49,020 --> 00:42:51,060 The eyes of the Lord are actually on everyone, aren't they? 862 00:42:52,109 --> 00:42:53,940 Proverbs, chapter 15, verse three. 863 00:42:53,940 --> 00:42:57,930 The eyes of the Lord are in every place keeping watch on the evil and the good. 864 00:42:59,279 --> 00:43:01,919 So then why does Peter say the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous? 865 00:43:01,919 --> 00:43:02,910 Why is he emphasizing that? 866 00:43:02,910 --> 00:43:04,710 Well, it's because of what that means. 867 00:43:05,550 --> 00:43:11,310 It means the eyes of the Lord for your good and for your favor are on the 868 00:43:11,310 --> 00:43:16,560 righteous that God sees that God knows. 869 00:43:17,700 --> 00:43:20,070 And one of our twins, and I'm not gonna tell you which one, you've 870 00:43:20,070 --> 00:43:21,660 got a 50 50 shot, I'm guessing. 871 00:43:24,365 --> 00:43:26,700 We will come into our room in the middle of the night and, and wake us 872 00:43:26,700 --> 00:43:30,089 up from the dead sleep, you know, and he, he's getting weirder about it. 873 00:43:30,540 --> 00:43:35,490 Um, we have windows that are about, like 10 feet away from, from the 874 00:43:35,490 --> 00:43:40,470 bed, and rather than coming up to the bed and scaring me right here, now 875 00:43:40,470 --> 00:43:44,129 what he's prone to do is he, he like walks the perimeter of the room and 876 00:43:44,129 --> 00:43:47,609 he like, he's like this up against the window and the bed's over there. 877 00:43:47,609 --> 00:43:48,509 And he's like, dad. 878 00:43:49,410 --> 00:43:53,460 Dad, and you just wake up and you see this outline against the window, 879 00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:56,640 and then you realize it's whatever it is, it's small enough, you could 880 00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:59,460 probably take it even though I'm oh, for one in physical encounters. 881 00:44:00,300 --> 00:44:02,970 And then you realize it's a child that belongs to you and you go, 882 00:44:02,970 --> 00:44:06,450 okay, and all this is happening within a few synapses firing. 883 00:44:07,620 --> 00:44:09,120 But he's like, dad, I, I had a bad dream. 884 00:44:09,150 --> 00:44:09,780 It's like, okay, bud. 885 00:44:11,820 --> 00:44:16,290 So you take him back upstairs, you put him back in bed, you tuck him in, and then. 886 00:44:16,890 --> 00:44:19,799 You go back to bed and you wake up in the morning and he comes downstairs 887 00:44:19,799 --> 00:44:20,940 and you look at him, you go, what? 888 00:44:20,940 --> 00:44:21,509 Why? 889 00:44:22,110 --> 00:44:23,430 Why did you do that last night? 890 00:44:23,430 --> 00:44:23,700 What? 891 00:44:24,390 --> 00:44:25,320 Did you fall back asleep? 892 00:44:25,380 --> 00:44:26,220 Yeah, I fell back asleep. 893 00:44:27,180 --> 00:44:27,870 Okay. 894 00:44:28,620 --> 00:44:33,029 Why did you come downstairs and, and wake me up and he'd say something like this? 895 00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:37,590 Because I wanted you to know, I wanted you to know that I was scared. 896 00:44:38,670 --> 00:44:41,370 I wanted you to know that I was awake and I couldn't sleep. 897 00:44:43,380 --> 00:44:47,160 Me knowing is part of what was the comfort for him to go back to sleep. 898 00:44:49,230 --> 00:44:52,530 Christian, the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous. 899 00:44:53,490 --> 00:44:57,180 Whatever you're going through, whatever slander has been lobbed at you, 900 00:44:57,180 --> 00:44:59,610 whatever attack, whatever accusation, whatever the world has done to you, 901 00:44:59,610 --> 00:45:08,460 whatever a person has hurt you with, the Lord knows he sees he's aware, and 902 00:45:08,460 --> 00:45:10,470 his eyes for your good are upon you. 903 00:45:11,900 --> 00:45:16,215 It's such a comforting thought, such a comforting thought to us. 904 00:45:17,565 --> 00:45:22,545 God may bring justice here and now he may bring reconciliation between 905 00:45:22,545 --> 00:45:26,505 you and that person here and now he may even allow you to forgive and, 906 00:45:26,505 --> 00:45:29,295 and move past something you weren't sure that you would be able to. 907 00:45:29,295 --> 00:45:32,895 He may allow you to do that here and now, but we know for sure that one day 908 00:45:32,895 --> 00:45:34,245 we will experience that in the future. 909 00:45:34,245 --> 00:45:38,415 And in the meantime, he's got us, is what this verse is telling us. 910 00:45:40,140 --> 00:45:41,670 You are not by yourself. 911 00:45:42,540 --> 00:45:43,710 You are not on your own. 912 00:45:45,420 --> 00:45:46,380 He is with you. 913 00:45:46,530 --> 00:45:47,970 He's given you his spirit. 914 00:45:47,970 --> 00:45:49,320 He's there to comfort you. 915 00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:51,660 He's there to remind you that he sees that. 916 00:45:51,660 --> 00:45:53,460 He knows that he's aware. 917 00:45:55,710 --> 00:45:58,230 And on top of that, as he goes on, he say his, his ears are 918 00:45:58,230 --> 00:45:59,850 open to your prayers rares. 919 00:46:01,170 --> 00:46:04,650 Not only does he see and know and is aware, but he also hears. 920 00:46:06,015 --> 00:46:10,095 So that when you're hurting right now, you can bring those hurts to the Lord. 921 00:46:11,325 --> 00:46:12,645 You can be honest with him. 922 00:46:13,545 --> 00:46:15,765 You can pray like David prayed, how long? 923 00:46:15,765 --> 00:46:16,245 Oh Lord. 924 00:46:17,295 --> 00:46:20,985 And know that David hears that prayer, that God hears that prayer. 925 00:46:22,665 --> 00:46:23,235 Scratch that. 926 00:46:24,015 --> 00:46:25,485 You can know that God hears that prayer. 927 00:46:27,315 --> 00:46:28,395 God heard David's prayer. 928 00:46:28,485 --> 00:46:29,415 That's what I was going for. 929 00:46:31,185 --> 00:46:33,255 Every time you've prayed that, God has heard that. 930 00:46:34,155 --> 00:46:35,445 You say, okay, but what about pastor? 931 00:46:35,445 --> 00:46:36,195 It doesn't feel like it. 932 00:46:37,035 --> 00:46:38,625 I've been praying about this situation. 933 00:46:38,625 --> 00:46:40,005 I've been praying about the pain that I'm going through. 934 00:46:40,005 --> 00:46:41,025 I've been praying for an end of this. 935 00:46:41,025 --> 00:46:43,935 I've been praying for reconciliation and, and it's not happening. 936 00:46:45,135 --> 00:46:46,305 Does he hear my prayer? 937 00:46:46,665 --> 00:46:46,815 Yeah. 938 00:46:46,815 --> 00:46:47,535 He hears your prayer. 939 00:46:48,975 --> 00:46:49,605 What do I do? 940 00:46:51,345 --> 00:46:52,275 I think a, a few things. 941 00:46:52,275 --> 00:46:54,795 When you find yourself in a situation like that, I think it's a good opportunity 942 00:46:54,795 --> 00:46:59,055 to examine the motives of our heart to make sure that we're, we're really 943 00:46:59,055 --> 00:47:02,175 seeking the lord's will, we're praying the right things in those times. 944 00:47:04,035 --> 00:47:05,955 I think the second thing is keep praying. 945 00:47:07,485 --> 00:47:10,845 Keep praying until it's absolutely clear that he is not gonna answer that 946 00:47:10,845 --> 00:47:13,185 prayer the way that you want him to be. 947 00:47:13,185 --> 00:47:14,055 The persistent widow. 948 00:47:14,055 --> 00:47:15,195 Keep knocking on that door. 949 00:47:15,975 --> 00:47:17,115 Keep going before the judge. 950 00:47:19,215 --> 00:47:21,555 Third, acknowledge that God's wisdom is perfect. 951 00:47:23,385 --> 00:47:26,565 You are praying and, and, and I'm praying in those times from our 952 00:47:26,565 --> 00:47:29,625 own wisdom, and we do the best we can to pray the best we know how. 953 00:47:30,420 --> 00:47:31,980 And yet our wisdom is fallen. 954 00:47:32,070 --> 00:47:34,080 We are not sovereign when God is, 955 00:47:36,540 --> 00:47:40,710 and so God sometimes uses these pain points in your life to accomplish his 956 00:47:40,710 --> 00:47:42,480 sovereign and perfect will in your life. 957 00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:47,190 God will sometimes use the attacks of other people to make you more 958 00:47:47,190 --> 00:47:52,470 like Jesus, to cause you to depend on him more, to cultivate more of a 959 00:47:52,470 --> 00:47:57,180 forgiving heart in your life, because that makes you more like Jesus. 960 00:47:59,025 --> 00:48:01,395 And so we acknowledge his wisdom is perfect, and then finally we, 961 00:48:01,395 --> 00:48:03,525 we acknowledge that he does answer. 962 00:48:03,525 --> 00:48:06,045 Sometimes we just don't want the answer that he answers us with. 963 00:48:07,365 --> 00:48:09,675 Sometimes that answer is no. 964 00:48:11,145 --> 00:48:13,485 Sometimes that answer is not yet, 965 00:48:16,850 --> 00:48:21,765 but he does hear, which should be immensely comforting because he's good. 966 00:48:23,145 --> 00:48:25,575 And so because he is good and because he does hear, we know that however 967 00:48:25,575 --> 00:48:28,695 he chooses to respond, if we do trust that he is good, is going 968 00:48:28,695 --> 00:48:31,335 to be good, is going to be good. 969 00:48:32,025 --> 00:48:34,485 And then the third part of our comfort is this, but the face of the 970 00:48:34,485 --> 00:48:35,745 Lord is against those who do evil. 971 00:48:37,245 --> 00:48:39,795 The face in the Old Testament represented the entire person 972 00:48:40,695 --> 00:48:45,825 because on the face you saw how the person really felt the expressions. 973 00:48:46,875 --> 00:48:49,755 And so the face of the Lord being against those who do evil, what 974 00:48:49,755 --> 00:48:51,375 it means is the Lord is against. 975 00:48:51,990 --> 00:48:52,680 Those who do evil. 976 00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:58,920 And so this should be a comfort to, to you to know that right now 977 00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:03,690 it hurts, but the Lord sees it and your hurt counts in his eyes. 978 00:49:04,650 --> 00:49:06,540 The offense against you matters. 979 00:49:07,140 --> 00:49:10,110 Maybe it doesn't matter in the sense of justice from this world. 980 00:49:10,110 --> 00:49:13,740 You may not see justice from a temporal perspective, but you can know from 981 00:49:13,740 --> 00:49:16,980 a verse like this that the pain that you're experiencing counts in God's 982 00:49:16,980 --> 00:49:20,610 economy and he will meet out justice in his perfect and divine wisdom. 983 00:49:22,815 --> 00:49:25,424 And so you can trust that he's good in that as well. 984 00:49:26,745 --> 00:49:30,315 Which brings to question, what about earthly justice in all of this? 985 00:49:30,765 --> 00:49:30,915 Okay. 986 00:49:30,915 --> 00:49:33,225 We've been talking a lot about how we should respond and nowhere 987 00:49:33,225 --> 00:49:35,055 does it say press charges. 988 00:49:35,234 --> 00:49:38,565 Nowhere has it said, seek a settlement in court. 989 00:49:39,075 --> 00:49:41,895 Nowhere has it said, file the report with your employer. 990 00:49:41,984 --> 00:49:43,185 So what do we do? 991 00:49:43,185 --> 00:49:44,415 How is that okay? 992 00:49:44,415 --> 00:49:46,365 Should we just roll over and play dead? 993 00:49:46,455 --> 00:49:48,645 And I would say, no, you don't need to roll over and play dead. 994 00:49:48,645 --> 00:49:51,884 The Bible says the government does not bear the sword in vain. 995 00:49:52,515 --> 00:49:55,395 I think as Christians we should champion justice. 996 00:49:55,395 --> 00:49:58,964 We should pursue things being righted when they have been wronged. 997 00:50:00,165 --> 00:50:04,275 But I think personally we need to have a couple of of cautions here 998 00:50:04,275 --> 00:50:06,285 as we may seek earthly justice. 999 00:50:07,230 --> 00:50:09,120 Somebody wrongs you, somebody does something to you. 1000 00:50:09,120 --> 00:50:12,270 Is it wrong to press charges or to seek justice? 1001 00:50:12,390 --> 00:50:14,220 I would say no. 1002 00:50:14,220 --> 00:50:14,730 It's okay. 1003 00:50:14,730 --> 00:50:15,660 So long as a few things. 1004 00:50:15,660 --> 00:50:17,220 Number one, how's your heart in it? 1005 00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:19,920 Are you vengeful? 1006 00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:23,880 Are you seeking justice because this is your way to repay evil for evil? 1007 00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:28,020 If that's the case, then there's a problem in your own heart with it. 1008 00:50:29,819 --> 00:50:32,940 Second is, as you seek earthly justice, are you still able 1009 00:50:32,940 --> 00:50:33,930 to pray for that person? 1010 00:50:37,710 --> 00:50:41,715 I, I think I saw this most clearly and, and so many of us did when Erica Kirk 1011 00:50:41,715 --> 00:50:47,475 stood up on that stage and she looked into the camera at her su husband's assassin, 1012 00:50:47,475 --> 00:50:49,035 so to speak, and said, I forgive you. 1013 00:50:52,575 --> 00:50:53,715 I don't, I don't know her heart. 1014 00:50:53,865 --> 00:50:56,175 I don't know her at all, so I don't know her heart, 1015 00:50:58,245 --> 00:51:01,515 but man, what a testimony it would be if, if she's been praying for that man. 1016 00:51:02,865 --> 00:51:05,055 As she's going through all the pain and sorrow that she's going through. 1017 00:51:05,265 --> 00:51:09,524 A man who certainly personally attacked her so you can seek justice. 1018 00:51:09,555 --> 00:51:11,924 'cause notice she's not saying I wanna drop all charges against him. 1019 00:51:11,955 --> 00:51:12,765 You can just let him go. 1020 00:51:15,345 --> 00:51:20,595 You can seek justice and still have your heart right before the Lord in this third. 1021 00:51:20,595 --> 00:51:22,785 Are you able to keep your tongue from evil and your lips from 1022 00:51:22,785 --> 00:51:24,555 speaking deceit in the process? 1023 00:51:26,355 --> 00:51:28,875 Are you able to obey what Peter's been calling us to in this passage 1024 00:51:29,174 --> 00:51:30,615 as you seek that earthly justice? 1025 00:51:34,215 --> 00:51:37,065 Those are just some, some thoughts as you think about, does earthly justice fit? 1026 00:51:37,065 --> 00:51:38,355 Can I still pursue earthly justice? 1027 00:51:38,355 --> 00:51:43,605 YY, yes, but most of the times we're gonna be dealing not with situations where 1028 00:51:43,605 --> 00:51:44,805 you're gonna involve the authorities. 1029 00:51:45,255 --> 00:51:49,425 Most of the time we're dealing with, okay, this is person on person, 1030 00:51:49,815 --> 00:51:52,305 slander, accusations, attacks. 1031 00:51:53,265 --> 00:51:54,225 How do we respond? 1032 00:51:55,995 --> 00:51:57,465 What does this look like for us? 1033 00:51:58,065 --> 00:51:59,175 How do we do this? 1034 00:51:59,835 --> 00:52:00,885 Why do we do this? 1035 00:52:02,715 --> 00:52:05,685 Well, we do it in a way that's different than anything else you're 1036 00:52:05,685 --> 00:52:07,515 gonna find outside of Christianity. 1037 00:52:08,445 --> 00:52:12,075 And the reason is, is because we wanna be like Jesus. 1038 00:52:13,485 --> 00:52:13,965 Because why? 1039 00:52:13,965 --> 00:52:19,395 Because we have met the Lord through the good news of the gospel, which 1040 00:52:19,395 --> 00:52:22,155 is that Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins that we be can 1041 00:52:22,155 --> 00:52:25,305 be forgiven and that he rose against that we can live forever with him. 1042 00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:29,070 If you repent from your sins and put your trust in Jesus, it changes everything 1043 00:52:29,070 --> 00:52:33,840 about your life, not the least of which is how you respond when you're attacked, 1044 00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:40,380 slandered accused, maligned, or hurt from those that still aren't following Christ. 1045 00:52:42,300 --> 00:52:44,520 The Gospel changes everything about us. 1046 00:52:45,180 --> 00:52:47,610 It changes how we respond because the gospel sets us on 1047 00:52:47,610 --> 00:52:48,960 a course to be more like Jesus. 1048 00:52:50,130 --> 00:52:50,730 Let's pray together. 1049 00:52:52,140 --> 00:52:56,910 Father God, we lament the reality that we live in a world where there is 1050 00:52:56,910 --> 00:53:01,110 this brokenness, this fallenness, this heartache, this sorrow or the offense, 1051 00:53:03,450 --> 00:53:06,030 those that are created in the image of God, tearing down others 1052 00:53:06,030 --> 00:53:07,200 created in the image of God. 1053 00:53:08,130 --> 00:53:10,530 And if we're honest with ourselves, we have both been those that have 1054 00:53:10,530 --> 00:53:12,180 perpetuated that and received it. 1055 00:53:14,370 --> 00:53:16,620 And Lord, if we're honest with ourselves, I'm, I'm sure we're going 1056 00:53:16,620 --> 00:53:17,645 to be hurt again in the future. 1057 00:53:18,510 --> 00:53:20,520 I'm sure we're going to feel wounded again in the future. 1058 00:53:20,520 --> 00:53:23,130 I'm sure we're gonna feel the temptation again in the future to 1059 00:53:23,130 --> 00:53:27,270 lash out, to retaliate, to want to respond and repay evil for evil. 1060 00:53:27,270 --> 00:53:30,990 But Lord, I pray that by your spirit working within us to make us more like 1061 00:53:30,990 --> 00:53:35,430 Jesus, that you would help us to live like Jesus and to follow his example. 1062 00:53:36,480 --> 00:53:39,240 Lord, this is not easy and we do long for the day that we're with you. 1063 00:53:39,990 --> 00:53:43,500 But until we reach that day, Lord, help us to be obedient to what 1064 00:53:43,500 --> 00:53:45,000 you've called us to be as Christians. 1065 00:53:45,660 --> 00:53:49,860 And comfort us with the knowledge that you know, you see, you're with us. 1066 00:53:50,009 --> 00:53:52,980 And ultimately you will see the justice is done, whether it's on 1067 00:53:52,980 --> 00:53:54,990 the cross or under your wrath. 1068 00:53:55,650 --> 00:53:59,040 And God, we do wish that more and more would come to know that justice 1069 00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:03,450 has been satisfied on the cross for them, and that less and less would 1070 00:54:03,450 --> 00:54:04,980 have to face your wrath in the future. 1071 00:54:05,279 --> 00:54:08,130 Use us towards that end, even Lord, as we're praying for those that have wounded 1072 00:54:08,130 --> 00:54:10,770 us, praying for those that have hurt us, praying for those that have accused us. 1073 00:54:11,670 --> 00:54:13,799 We want people to to come to faith in Jesus. 1074 00:54:14,670 --> 00:54:15,930 Help us to be such a church. 1075 00:54:16,110 --> 00:54:19,170 Use us to reach people and to bring more and more to the knowledge of 1076 00:54:19,170 --> 00:54:20,430 Jesus Christ, of the Lord and Savior. 1077 00:54:20,430 --> 00:54:21,630 We pray this all in Jesus name. 1078 00:54:22,050 --> 00:54:22,530 Amen.