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Welcome, Anya. Thank you so much for taking the time to chat with me today.

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As I was preparing for this conversation, I had the opportunity to look through

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your social media and your website and everything that you do. And I must say,

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I am super stoked to chat with you. I feel as though we've got a

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lot of similarities and overlaps. And in addition to that, there are many areas in

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which you are very active in that I would love to jump into. So thank

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you very much and welcome. Thank you so much for having me. I'm excited to

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be here. Awesome. So usually,

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usually what I do is I always start by getting the backstory, like, what

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got you into this world? And I am interested in that and I would love

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to go down that, but as I was, I was going through your website, I

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found myself really curious about one thing in particular. So maybe we'll start things

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a little bit differently and we could jump into your academy,

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which I am so interested in. So you've got the expansion

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academy, and as I was reading and going through and watching

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testimonials, it is absolutely fantastic. So why don't we start off

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with what exactly is this expansion?

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Thank you so much for curiosity in that it's a brand new baby of

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mine and that one in itself has a beautiful

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backstory, and I'd love to share all of that as well. So what

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expansion alchemy is, is a holistic wellness

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academy, essentially in the realms of personal development, health,

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relationship, spirituality, and financial wealth, because I believe you

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have to have all of them to have a balanced well being overall. And

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you do have to start with the mindset, the spirituality,

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the health, all of that first, and then you get to the

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finances. Once all of that is, like, aligned within your

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body, then your finances will start growing. So that's why I say it in

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that particular order as well. And right now, we're reaching out. We

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just launched this past couple of days. Last

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weekend, actually, we had a launch into corporations.

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So I want to be a mental wellness benefit for

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employees and getting the holistic stuff into

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corporations. I worked in corporate America for ten years and I

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had a mental breakdown after, like, after those ten years, for an entire

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decade, I was sick. Anxiety, depression, insomnia. I was going

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blind. Like, I was so sick. If I had the tools in

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corporate America that I have now, I'd still probably be in corporate America.

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That's not my role anymore. But

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I know that those tools are very needed in that space. Those are the

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people that need it the most. So we just launched last weekend into

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corporations and I'm super excited for that. But

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expansion alchemy, I'd like to share a little bit of the backstory of expansion alchemy

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and how it, because I think it really resonates with your audience.

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So I wrote my second book. I was on book tour. Book

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tour was Vegas, La, New York, Costa

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Rica. I felt like I was on top of the world. I had

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five Times Square billboards with like 80 foot Anya

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face. Literally felt like I was on top of the world

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during this book tour. And I had a thriving business right

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beforehand. I ended up closing all of my coaching contracts right before book

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tour because I was on book tour for an entire month. I was like, I

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don't know what my time is going to be. Like. I'm in different time zones,

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I'm networking. Like, maybe I want to be going to a party at 10:00 to

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network. Like, I just, I don't want to deal with this. So I closed everything

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out, went to book tour, and I came back from book tour

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and I got hacked. I lost everything.

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I lost my entire business. I lost my website. I lost

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300 pieces of video content I've ever created. I lost 30,000 email

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subscribers. Literally lost everything. Oh

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no. That is so

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brutal. It was horrible.

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So that followed with a couple of months trying to

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retrieve everything back, trying to

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like, get my email subscribers back, and then now, okay, I got

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some email subscribers. Let's say I got five or 6000 back out of the

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30,000. Now all my emails are going to spam because like, my

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website authority is ruined. So it was just like one thing after another, trying

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to retrieve everything back, followed by like two or three months of having a

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mental breakdown all over again. Like questioning

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myself, questioning my worth. Like, am I supposed to be doing this? Like, is

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this my path going into imposter syndrome? Maybe I shouldn't be doing this. Like,

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what is my higher calling? Should I even be coaching anymore?

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And I was doing business, spiritual business, coaching at the

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moment. I do all spiritual coaching now and plant

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medicine work. Like I needed, I needed that pivot,

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apparently. And

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one day I just completely surrendered. I did what I know how to do

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best, and that's meditation. So I sat in a four hour meditation, and

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in that meditation, everything came to me. The name,

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the logo, the branding, the colors, what

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partners I want on it, what payment structure, who we're eventually

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going to go after. Like the different pillars, as I call it. Literally

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everything was given to me in that four hour meditation. And I spent the next

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year, year and a half building expansion, alchemy, and we've,

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we've launched it to the public about six months ago,

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but two corporation, we just had the launch this past weekend, so it's

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a brand new baby of mine, and I'm super excited for it.

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That is, that. That's quite the story, getting into it. I mean, being from

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the sounds of it, your, your career, your trajectory was very much in the self

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development, self help sort of world, right? And then

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there's a lot of, of course, work that goes into the individual in

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order to maintain authenticity in there. But then have this one thing that you

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said is like, like, should I even be doing this? If I imagine myself in

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your shoes and all of a sudden everything is gone, then that

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thought would definitely come into my mind, too. Like, universe. What are you trying to

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tell me here? Like, you trying to tell me, back off. Shift around directions? Wow,

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that must have been, like, massively impactful. Thank God, man. My mental

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health was horrendous, questioning, questioning my

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own worth. Like, am I good enough to be coaching? Maybe that's why. Maybe I'm

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just not a good coach. Maybe that's why this whole thing

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happened. Like, I don't know what is the bigger calling out of

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this? And I just needed, needed that pivot and then expansion. Alchemy came

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to me, everything. And I'm so blessed to for

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that. That is amazing. And it sounds like you had a proper,

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proper download experience, right. Everything just comes to you with perfect clarity. And I'm

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curious about the pillars. Right. I appreciate this

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idea of distinct steps and individual processes. What

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I found most interesting and most agreeable

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with the pillars and the order in which you laid them out was beginning with

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spirituality, developing spirituality. I personally found that

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oftentimes that particular pillar is either left out completely or tacked on

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to the end. It's like, oh, yeah, you should probably do something about your spiritual

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life as well. Even in this mind body medicine, we call it

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mind body medicine, even though the technical definition is mind body soul.

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So I'm wondering, can we dig into what was the impetus, the

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idea, behind starting with this foundation of spirituality?

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Yeah. I truly believe that we need to really start looking

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internally. Like, when I turned my brain off, looked internally,

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turned to my spirituality, turned to that meditation, that's when

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expansion alchemy came to me. Yes, mind, body, spirit. We say

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usually, but your spirit should be nourished first. Like,

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your spirit comes before your body comes, actually, before your

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brain develops, before all of that, your spirit comes. And we need

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to keep fostering that and keep developing that spirit with a

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daily practice, a daily connection, whether it's to God, to Buddha, whether

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it's meditation, prayer, whatever. We need to keep fostering that

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spirit. And then spirit is going to keep talking to us, reflecting

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back to us, because everything's a mirror as well. Keep reflecting back to us all

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these beautiful ideas and health and all the other beautiful things

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that come with it. Can we, if it's okay with you,

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can we dig into sort of what happened for

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you spiritually when this moment came,

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when expansion alchemy came to you? What was going on in your

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spiritual, I guess, experience at that point in time? What was that

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like, oh, man. So the first thing that I

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heard was the actual name. Expansion. Expansion

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alchemy. I heard expansion first, and I was like, okay, I

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like that. Okay, what? Tell me more. And I talk to spirit whenever

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I get downloads or if I'm in meditation, I ask

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questions. Okay, like, is this. Am I supposed to be

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expanding? Am I supposed to help people expand? Like, I heard just

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expansion. Like, okay, am I supposed to be expanding? Am I supposed to help people

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expand? And, like, am I supposed to be doing something with expansion? Like, and then

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I heard alchemy expansion. I was like, okay, I like this.

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I like this name. I don't know what it is yet, but I love

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this name. This is great. And then, like, life

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around me started morphing, and, like, I started

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seeing the logo, and the logo is a butterfly. It's a transformation.

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Like, shifting into the transformation of a butterfly, because

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butterflies, like, transcendence, transformation, all of that. And

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I was like, okay, so we're supposed to help. And, like,

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I started getting bits and pieces of it. Like, this is a four hour meditation.

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In that 4 hours, I got everything but bits and pieces of it.

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Okay, so we're supposed to help other people transform. Okay, we're back

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to the mentoring, the coaching. Expansion. Alchemy is an

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amazing name. Like, okay, I'm not focusing on my personal brand

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anymore. Okay, now. Now I know. Maybe I'm focusing on, okay, should

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this be maybe a coaching container? Do I need to, like, am I building a

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new company? What am I doing? And then I started getting people's

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names, and I'm in several different

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masterminds with super high end, like,

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entrepreneurs, mentors, coaches, all, like,

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authors, just super high end people. And I started getting some of their

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names, and I was like, oh, I see how I can be connected to this

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person. I see how this person can help me with this. And throughout

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this entire process, I kept getting the message collaboration, not

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competition. There's no need to build a business

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by yourself anymore. You don't have to build your personal brand anymore. You don't have

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to build a business anymore. Sure, like, I have contractors, I have some

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employees. I have a virtual assistant, all of this. But that's not what I mean

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by collaboration. How can we come

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together with people that are of value

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and help more people in turn? Whether

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it's like creating seminars, whether it's virtual

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events, in person events, whatever. And that's when, like, everything

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started clicking for me with expansion, alchemy. I was like, okay, now I

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know I have five names. Okay, how many. How many teachers do I

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want? I started getting like. So we started off with 15 teachers, but then we

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ended up cutting it down to, we have twelve teachers. Now

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it's 15 was just way too hectic for our students. Like,

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15 classes a month. Like, I personally don't want to go to that. So

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we cut it down to twelve classes a month. And,

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like, I started getting, okay, five names here. And then I started getting like,

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okay, maybe connect yourself to this group. You're already

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somewhat connected to it. Reach out to this person. This person is going to

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be a link to this. And it just all started beautifully flowing

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together. I was like, okay, I know what I'm doing.

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I get it. And it was really funny, because one of my

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teachers, I was on the phone with her, like,

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two or three days prior, because we had. We had, like, a catch up or

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something, and I was telling her everything I was going through. I was like, so

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this happened. My business got taken away from me. I lost everything. I'm having, like,

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a meltdown on the phone with her. And then I do this meditation.

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Two days later, I call her. I was like, okay, I know what I'm doing.

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This is the business. This is the name, and I want you to be a

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teacher. She's like, what just happened?

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That is so cool. You know, I'm curious if

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it sounds a little bit similar, but my experience with spiritual

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growth and development, too, is like, when you're in it, you're in the meditative

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mode, and it oftentimes comes at these. These clearing moments right

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when you're at your rock bottom or a high high, you know? But

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regardless. But one of the experiences I had most recently, I

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was very fortunate enough to spend some time in Colombia, and I was right in

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the middle of the jungle with these super remote tribes. And one night I

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was sitting there with what they call a mamo, or their version of a shaman,

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and Columbia right. Oh, I didn't know that. I'm

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calling. Yeah. Wow. Isn't that something?

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Yeah, we were. We landed in Santa marta, and then from there, we went to

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stay with an Aruako tribe and a koga tribe as well. And it was

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just an amazing experience. So I was sitting with one of the momos, and

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we were having this conversation, and he described to me, in perfect

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clarity the next process. Right? Because I'm kind of

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in one of those pivot points, those shift points when the past is decomposing

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and something better for the future is, uh, preparing itself. So he

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described to me with perfect clarity and. And as he was describing it to me,

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which I'm not entirely sure if he was using words or just kind of giving

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me the message, but, um, I get this. This.

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This perfect vision of. Of what it would be like. It sounds

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fairly similar right in this moment, but then a couple. Couple days

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passed, and I'm like, okay, I can actually sit down and write it down. And

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I get my pen and paper. There was nothing. There was a

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memory of this experience, of getting all this information as to what happens

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next. But then the only thing I was. I had access

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to was the next step. The complete vision was no

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longer there. The only thing available to me was the next step. And one of

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the things I found in my own spiritual journeys is faith.

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You have to have faith, and when you get a clear

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step, you take that step, and as soon as that's done, then the next thing

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is available to you. So I'm curious if there's any resonance or sort of

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similarities in this download and spiritual process you had.

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So, I like explaining it like this, and I've explained this

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to so many people, so many clients, and I think it'll really

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resonate as well. So,

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meditation, to me, is like, you don't have to be on top of a mountain

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going om for hours. Like, all meditation is quieting

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the mind. Like, simply just quiet the mind, and then all of your anxiety

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goes away, because anxiety is your mind, like, constantly going, that

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monkey chatter going. So if we quiet the mind, all of that goes away, and

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then all the answers come to you. Meditation doesn't have to be

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sitting on a mountaintop. It could be running, it could be doing the dishes.

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It could be whatever it is for you that allows you

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to quiet your mind. A lot of the times when we get. We're in

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a meditative state, when we're showering, not thinking about anything,

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washing our hairs, washing our bodies, and then you get this grand idea, and you're

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like, whoa, that's a great idea. But then

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you don't do anything with it. You don't act on it. And then maybe

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a couple days later, you're like, okay, I wanted to write that idea down, but,

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crap, I don't remember what it was. Where do I even

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start? So the universe, God

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throws these ideas at people, and whoever is

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quickest to grab that idea and write it

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down and take that first step to remember it will

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remember that idea. And then if it passes you by, God's

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like, I got a bigger plan. Like, this shit needs to happen. Like, I'm gonna

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give it to the next person. So he takes it away

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from you and gives it to the next person that's going to act on that

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idea. And then five months down the road, you are like watching

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a commercial and something comes on tv, and you're like, hey, that was

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my idea for that invention. Why didn't I do that?

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Well, yeah, you had the idea first, but you didn't act on

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it. You didn't do anything. That's my easiest way of, like, explaining

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that. Like, that's what happens. We need to act on those ideas.

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And whatever that action is, it might just be writing it down as soon as

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you have that idea so it doesn't float away from you.

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Right, right. So that actually seems like a beautiful and natural segue

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from the first pillar, which is spirituality, into the second pillar, which is personal

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development, because a big part of that is how do you actually take

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action? The mentoring and coaching, it

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sounds great in theory. You've got this idea and you may even write it down.

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But the process of developing the confidence and the

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developing the motivation and developing all of the inner skills

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required to actually move forward with an idea, is

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that kind of what the next pillar is, or could we dive into your perspective

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of personal development? Yeah. So personal development is definitely taking that

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action, but it's also doing things that resonate with

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you. So sometimes personal development could be going to a Tony Robbins

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seminar. Sometimes it might be reading a self help book. Sometimes it might be like

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you tracking your habits, whatever that is for you, doing something similar

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with spirituality. Like both of those kind of go hand in hand.

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And yes, spiritual is more on your spirit, more on your soul,

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whereas personal development is your mind

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and then going into the health, your body and

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etcetera. But personal development is like, okay, how are we going

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to take that action, and how are we actually going to implement all of that

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stuff? It's the integration, when you go to the ceremony,

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essentially, so, like, yes, ceremony was great. That's

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spiritual. But how are we applying all of that to day to day

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life? How are we taking action? How are we counting ourselves accountable?

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How are we doing the actual work? Because the real work

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starts after a ceremony. Ceremony. It doesn't start while you're in the spiritual

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stuff. Okay. How are we applying that to real life and actually keep

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going and going and going and keep ourselves accountable and have

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people around us that are going to help us, that are support us, that we're

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not just going to beat ourselves up because we missed the day of doing your

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gratitude or whatever it might be? Yeah, I

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really appreciate that. And if it's all right with you, I'd like to dwell on

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this idea of integration a little bit. I feel as though

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it's. It's not neglected. Many people are aware of

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integration. It's just kind of spoken

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of. I find that even though it's in the sphere of understanding and knowledge,

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and so many people are aware of the fact, like, you go through a medicine

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session, a plant medicine session, and integration is important, or you do a Tony

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Robinson amazing. And integration is important. But again, I

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find there tends to be a drop off in actually doing the

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process of integration. So in your experience, what is. What

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does integration really look like? And

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it's different. Integration is different for every single person

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I've sat. I facilitate, plant medicines, I do integration,

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mentoring, and there's always pre integration as well as

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post integration. It can be. And different people do

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a different way, and each person is different as well. It can be

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just taking yourself for a couple of days and

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grounding and going to a park, sitting by a tree,

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reading a book, drawing, dancing, whatever it is that you

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connect to, but still having a little bit

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of that ceremony within you. So I'm going to speak for

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ayahuasca, for example, and we call this an ayahuasca glow.

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Like, after you leave the ceremony, you're like, glowing for a week, and you're like,

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oh, my gosh, that was amazing. Life is so beautiful. It's so

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fantastic. But then once the ayahuasca glow

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goes away, that's when you need to start integrating. Yes, you should start

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integrating as soon as you leave the ceremony, but that's when you're like, oh,

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life is just kind of dull, and you go back to your regular

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habits. That's when integration is so pertinent. Like, you

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need to start applying everything that you learned from the

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ceremony, and then you'll be able to start applying it into your

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regular life. Something that I really like to do, and I create boxes for my

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clients and people that come to my retreats, is while you're

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in ceremony, finding something that you can go back to

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later, whether it's finding a rock, like finding a

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feather, or something that's going to, like, once you go back to your home

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country, once you go back to wherever you live

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and you're trying to integrate, whether it's a piece of music that you really

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like, like a piece of wood, whatever it is, taking it

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back and, like, sitting with it, meditating with it. So you have a

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little bit of an anchor to grab you back into that ceremony,

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into the feelings of what you were feeling, like when you had this big

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breakthrough, when you were healing something, when you let go of some kind of

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trauma, whatever it might be. But it's anchors you back into that

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moment, and that'll assist with your integration process.

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That makes sense. That makes sense. And. And I really like the idea of anchors

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with. With or without them, but certainly without them, I

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find for myself and many people that I work with, it's. There is that. That

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glow, period. And it's easy to do the integration work when you're still in

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the glow because you're basically still there. Right.

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Exactly. Those. Those weeks or months later when. When the glow

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has certainly worn off and when the. The difficulties with relationships

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come back in, which is another pillar, or when work. Right. When real,

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quote, unquote real life, big air quotes on that one

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comes back into the picture, it's hard to maintain the integration. And

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you said a word that I'm very curious about, which I really appreciate, and I

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think it was pre. Pre integration. What did you mean by

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that? Pre integrating? Just getting yourself

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set up for ceremony, for whatever you're

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going into, whether it's in a group setting or in a solo

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setting. Okay. A week beforehand, I'm going to double up on my meditation. I'm going

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to do a morning meditation and an evening meditation. I'm really going to sit

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with my intentions. Sit with. I have a list of questions that

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I ask people that before they come to ceremony or if I'm doing pre integration

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with them to really sit and journal so they're getting deeper into their

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subconscious mind because journaling is great for that. Or doing breath

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work, meditations, whatever. Really getting into that. Okay, what do I

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really want out of this ceremony instead of. Okay, yeah, I just want

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the surface level thing, but going deep into what I truly

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want, then going through the ceremony and then post integration

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afterwards. Okay, how am I integrating this now into my real life.

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Yeah, I appreciate that. It sort of creates the

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routine of integration without the glow.

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So then when the glow wears off, you've already got something in place, and you're

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not relying on that. That glow in order to see through. That's. That's brilliant.

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I really appreciate that. When. When I was preparing for one of the

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ceremonies that I participated in, the. The.

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I think it was three weeks, maybe a month lead up was. Was very important,

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and there was certainly a pre integration process to it,

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but a really big part of it was diet, health. Nutrition. Right.

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Is making sure that the vessel, the body, the physical aspect

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of what I call Jess was in decent enough

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shape. Right. So I see that that's another pillar for you

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in expansion alchemy is this idea of health. So what does that

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encompass, then? So health would be whether

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it's the nutrition that you eat, the foods that you eat.

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We have some people working on ayurveda stuff. So, like, really helping you with

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your diet. Like, okay, maybe I'm going through,

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like, I'm having breakouts. My hair's falling out. Whatever it might

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be, a lot of that might be your hormones are off, and maybe you just

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need to adjust your diet some. Some particular way. So we have specialist

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nutritionists that help with that. Then we have this one

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woman doing, like, epigenetics as well. Like, really going into

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your health. Okay. This can get rewired because my family

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was. Because I'm polish, so I have. Some of the

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Holocaust is coming up for me right now. That's something that I really worked on

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while I just spent two months in the jungle. So, like, maybe rewiring

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something with. With your family so future generations don't have

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to go through that. Maybe it's addictions. Maybe you're addicted to

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alcohol, cigarettes, whatever it might be that can be epigenetically passed

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down to your kin. Well, okay, let's work on that

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now in this vessel so that my children don't have to worry about

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that, and we don't have to pass that on. One of my all time favorite

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quotes is like, okay, let's heal in this generation. So future

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generations don't have to go through that. And, yes, we pass things

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on epigenetically. Yeah. Your mind,

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body, and spirit fully in alignment, whether it's health, whether it's getting your

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epigenetics aligned, whether it's, like, working out. You have someone that helps

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with, like, holistic workouts, or there was this

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one class that was called, like, mindful, mindful eating.

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Or I don't even remember. There's so many of them at this point.

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Yeah. Eating mindfully. So you're not just, like, over eating and like,

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oh, I'm bored. I'm watching Netflix. I'm gonna have a tub of ice cream. Before

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you know it, you eat the entire tub of ice cream. Mindfully

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eating. So, yeah, mind, body, and spirit, the whole.

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The whole shebang. What I'm beginning to

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appreciate is the, again, once again, the order that you've

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discussed these in, because so, so often, in

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whether it's the integrative world, medicine world or the

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conventional medicine world, number one focus is on body.

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Important, no question. You got to make sure that the body is healthy

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and well maintained. And then after that, there's an increasing

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importance on the mind. Right. And from the pillars you're

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discussing, that's sort of the personal development stuff. Mental health,

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thankfully, is finally getting some light shone on it. And

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then lastly, again, tucked away in this corner, there's this idea of spirituality, which

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in the world at large, is, again, very slowly starting to gain some

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traction. But this order that you have it in, which is spirit,

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mind, body, instead of body, mind, spirit, is

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brilliantly put together. So thank you for doing that and

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download the information you got. Perfect. Thank you. Just want to be

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clear. So that is the b two

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c section. That way that I speak it. When I speak to

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corporations, I lead with personal development, health,

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relationships, spirituality than financial wealth. I have a

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different for corporations. Yeah.

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Okay. Okay. I really like that idea. I really appreciate it, because it is

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important, depending on your demographic and who you're speaking to, where you

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begin, when you are working with or this idea of working with

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corporations, how do you manage or imagine

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bringing in the conversation of spirituality to a group of

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people who may or may not be open to such a discussion? So

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I actually just had this discussion last weekend during my

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event. And anyone, if anyone wants to watch the event, feel free

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to reach out and we can add stuff in the show. Notes. Replays are

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available. It's a three day event. Talking about all those pillows. We do have all

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of the teachers, so replays are available if you want to catch that. So

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I had someone actually, on day two ask that. He's like, I love

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expansion, alchemy. I love all that you guys are doing, but how do I

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bring this up to my team? Like, how do I bring this to

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my employees? I want to bring. I want to, like, my wife

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already thinks I'm crazy and I'm going to get abducted by aliens. Literally. What he

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said, I was like, that's amazing. I was like, yes, we do have some

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teachers that are all spiritual. Me personally, that's how I am.

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I talk about all the vibrations, all the woo woo stuff. That's just how I

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am. And then we have teachers that this gentleman named

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Nico, for example, where he's like super masculine,

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super, like, I love stress. Like he's a personal development and business

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guy. He's like, I love stress. And I'm like, and there's people in between

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as well. Very different. You don't bring this up to your employees

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as, oh, I want you to sign up for this woo woo holistic thing. No,

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you say this, okay, this is going to make us all

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better. We're all going to feel better, our health is

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going to be better, we're all going to be more productive. And

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internal company is going to make a lot more money. So bring it up as

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we're going to feel better. Because who doesn't want to feel better? It doesn't matter

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if you're in corporate or if you're not. We're going to feel better versus

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we're going to raise our vibration and meditate for 10 hours. No,

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corporations don't want to hear that. Yeah, yeah.

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A bit of a hard sell that way. So are you going to have

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like two, two separate, I mean this is a bit of a technical thing, but

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I can't help my curiosity. Are you going to have almost two separate

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websites, two separate ways of advertising? Because they really

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seem very. Of course the pillars are the same, but the

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delivery to me strikes me as something incredibly different. So the sites

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are, we do have two sites, one site. So one is just expansion

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alchemy. If you go on the homepage, that's the b two C site. And

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on top in the toolbar, I have individuals and I have corporations,

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I have two separate sections. And then just

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expansionalchemy.com is the b two C side and that's all

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that stuff. And then if you click on the business side, it goes

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expansionalchemy.com business.

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Maybe I'll make it into like co or something. I don't know

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yet. Just thinking out loud. And that one,

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it's pretty much the same exact site. It looks

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exactly the same. The verbiage is slightly different because it is

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adjusted to the, to the b two B. And then I do have

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like a VSL up top of video sales letter and that

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is almost the same, but it's talking to a different audience.

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It's me recording it and I just speak differently to

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it. The order of the pillars are different, but it

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looks almost identical. But it's just those little

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tiny tweaks to speak to the corporate audience versus the b two C

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audience. Okay, I love this. I love this idea, and it's not where I thought

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we'd go with it, but I have another curiosity that came up for me, if

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that's okay. Of course. You strike me as an

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individual that values authenticity based

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on the content I've seen you produce as well as so far within our

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conversation. And when I imagine

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something like you're discussing, right, you've got two different demographics,

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one of which is the customer and the consumer, the

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individual who is likely seeking out your services because of

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who you are as an individual. And once again, you got this beautiful air of

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spirituality, and then you've got the corporate side of things, which,

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from what you say, you had ten years experience in that. So I'm sure you

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could walk that walk. How do you maintain your own

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authenticity when the demographic that you're speaking

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to, their outward appearance at the very least, is very different? So

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I'm curious about this authenticity aspect when you switch

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demographics. Me personally, I believe I

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should be. I love authentication, authenticity, and thank

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you so much for that. Like, I really appreciate that compliment. I

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really believe that you need to know exactly who you are.

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Sure. If I'm speaking to a different audience, the way that I say

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things might be slightly different, but I'm still going to be me. I

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spoke at a conference in Florida in

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end of last year, and it was called the heal conference, and it was

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all about healthcare and education and expansion. Alchemy actually got an

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award, and it was a whole bunch of people in suits

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talking about healthcare and like, higher educations and all this

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boring stuff. And that was me. Like,

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jungle woman over here. Like, sharing ancestral

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medicines. I had some rapid with me. I had some,

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and just like, being me. So, yes, I was there

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as an award receiver, and I spoke eloquently,

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but I was still me at the end of the day. Like, this is who

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I am. So take it or leave it. And I can't tell you how many

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compliments I received. Like, you are such a breath of fresh air.

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Yes, you've got tattoos all over you. Like, you're

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eclectic. Like, you have so much energy. You're bringing

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all these weird things to us, but you're, you're speaking to us as

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a human. You're not asking me for money right now. You're

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wanting to get to know me and introducing me to your

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world. Yes, it might be weird, but I so appreciate that. I

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can't tell you how many, like, compliments I've received about that.

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So there is a place to be authentically. You sure? The

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way that you say it, I'm not going to be like, oh, I just came

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from the jungle. Here, try this tobacco up your nose. Like, I'm not going to

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say that, but this is what it is. And

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instead of saying, okay, it might balance your masculine

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and feminine, it balances both sides of your

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hemispheres, the left and the right, like, in your brain. So the

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way that I say it is a little bit different, but I'm still me at

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the end of the day. Yeah, yeah, I appreciate that. And I think

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the choice of wordings doesn't have to come across as inauthentic. And

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one of. One of the things you say, you know, that individuals were saying, it's

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a breath of fresh air. And I'm finding that more and more at

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large. Right. You. I don't follow trends necessarily. I

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don't understand Instagram, but I spend a crazy amount of time on

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YouTube. I will fully admit that in acknowledge that that is my university.

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And one of the things I am noticing by and large, is people

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are so much more interested in

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just you, just the individual. Nothing scripted, nothing

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over the top. I mean, there's certainly that out there, but I am definitely seeing

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this trend of people who are just so sick and tired of

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corporate talk, who are so sick and tired of

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over the top excitement and, like,

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obviously fake joviality. So I appreciate

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that as an individual who just went through the process of

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speaking at a place where a lot of people are unsuit and ties and you

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just being you, that again, that message was reflected that people

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crave, that they crave interactions with real,

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genuine, authentic humans. Definitely. And find out,

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like, authenticity. I have four authenticity pillars for me,

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and it's embodiment, freedom,

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magic and expansion.

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How am I doing every single thing that I'm doing

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to reflect those? How am I living in embodiment? How am I living

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in magic? And for me, magic is like spirituality,

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nature, love. Like, I have multiple categories underneath

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each of them, and that's how I deal with my four

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pillars. So, like, I encourage your audience, like, go through an

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authenticity exercise. Like, pick a. Go on,

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like, pinterest, go on Google, type in, like, authenticity words.

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Like, get a list of, like, 50 words and see which four

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really resonate with your five and narrow it down to as little as

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possible. Four or five. And how are you doing every single thing in

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your life based off of those four words. And I truly believe, like, your

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authenticity pillars don't change throughout your life, similar to your

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values, like, they might shift and evolve. So, like, the way that

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I see freedom now, for example, or

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adventure is a little bit different than when I did when I was 15

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years old, but it, it's still something that makes me truly, authentically me,

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because, like, my authenticity is my authenticity. That shouldn't

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change. It might shift and evolve, but that's who I am as a

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human being. And I'm curious about

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then, the interaction between these four

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descriptive words of authenticity and values, as I believe

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an individual, once they've identified their values, which in and of itself, I think is

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like essential practice. But is there a difference between

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embodying your values and embodying these

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words used to describe your authenticity? Or is there overlap?

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There is overlap. So let me pull mine up, actually,

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because my values are very similar, but

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slightly different

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than my authenticity. So my values are adventure,

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variety, beauty, and creativity.

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That's one together, growth and freedom. Whereas

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my authenticity is freedom.

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Embodiment expansion, aka growth

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and magic. Interesting. What just occurred to me as I was

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describing them is values that you

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described are an action, whereas your authenticity is a feeling. Would that

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be accurate? Ah, I never thought of it that way, but I like

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that. Perhaps it's just my own

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subjectivity and projection. For me, when I think of what authenticity is

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like, it's a very distinct feeling, an embodied sensation.

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Or more specifically for me, it's a lack of. It's like when there's nothing going

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on and it's just like emptiness, I'm like, no, this is not being authentic. But

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when I do start to feel things, I'm like, good, this feels like me. So

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what's coming up for me right now actually is like, maybe your values are

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more like mind and heart centered.

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Like mind bo. Like mind and body, whereas your

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authenticity is your soul. This is what my soul craves.

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Nice. I really like that distinction.

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Yeah. And I think it's

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an important distinction because of course, I mean, I'm a TCMD at

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doctor chinese medicine, so we view everything as the

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same, right? There is no difference between the mind, body and soul. They are the

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same thing. But then in conversation, we of course have to distinguish them all.

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I do think those distinctions are important. And understanding that

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how one embodies these comes from a different, I suppose, energetic

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center. Fascinating. I like that. That

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was a fun tangent. But

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with that, shall we continue to dig into these pillars? Because

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we have talked the first three, and I'm quite curious about

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relationships. I include relationship in sort of one of my

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programs as well. And again, I find it's, it's talked

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about, but rarely in a corporate setting. It might be spoken of. The

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relationship you have with your coworkers is important, and maybe if

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there's some higher executives, they might learn about how to

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build strong relationships with your employees.

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But for you, within this program, how do you view relationships

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as a foundational pillar? Yeah. So how you do one thing

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is how you do everything. So the relationship, the way

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you foster your relationship with yourself is the same way you do it with a

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partner, with a lover, with your children, with your employees,

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with a boss, with a manager. The way you deal with conflict is

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the same exact way. Whether it's your partner or your

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boss, it doesn't matter. So how you do one thing you do, and all of

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them. Okay, let's say you're watching a masterclass on

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dealing with a relationship with a lover. You can learn information

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about this and apply it to the business world, apply it to your boss,

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your employees, whatever, because conflict is conflict. A

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relationship is a relationship. The way you foster one relationship, you foster

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the same exact with another person. Because humans,

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human interaction is interaction. Soul sees soul.

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Mm hmm. Mm hmm. I do appreciate that. And do you

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have a sort of baseline philosophy? You build this

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relationship, for example, a very common one is attachment theory. That's a common

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way of describing relationships. Is there a pre

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existing modality or principle that you use when discussing

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and teaching about strong relationships? I teach on relationships,

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personal development, spirituality, a little bit of, like, financial

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wealth. I don't teach on the relationship. Some

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teachers do have particular modalities.

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Some teachers just kind of go all over. And something that's really

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beautiful that we do in expansion alchemy is before someone signs

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up corporation wise, we give all of the

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employees as well as the managers and above,

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different surveys to fill out. Okay, what do you need help

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with? What do you need assistance with? Where do you think your team needs help

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with? Etcetera? Then from that, we, like, I give

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that survey to all of the teachers, and we create classes based off of what

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the needs of the students are. So if they need

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particular classes on relationships with themselves,

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relationships with their partners, whatever, then my teachers curate

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specific classes based off of that. Right. Okay. Okay. That makes sense. That

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makes sense. Lovely. Well, then perhaps we can, we can dig into this idea

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of finance as one of the things that, I don't know if it's

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tapped, tied in together, but one

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of the monikers. The hashtags that I saw you go by is

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millennial, manifester. It's so many people in the world of

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manifestation. It's like, what do you want to manifest? Money.

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Love and money. Everyone always wants love and money.

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Love and money is actually a beautiful correlation

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with one another. Like, if you're manifesting

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love and you're, like, at a, like,

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financial, like, either really well or really poorly, then

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the other one is going to ask you to up level and vice versa. Let's

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say you're in the best relationship of your life, but you're financially rock bottom.

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Like, your finances are asking you to expand because you've already

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done so. In the love part, they go hand in hand, which a lot of

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people don't. Don't realize that they do.

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Yeah, I like that a lot. And I found that looking at

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financial life as less of a number and more of an

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energy. So I guess kind of going back into the realm of spirit. It's

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like if an individual views

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finances from a different perspective, particularly if

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their baseline perspective is that of lack. But if they view finances

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as an outcome of value, it very much

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shifts how finances and financial wealth

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is developed. How do you feel about that? How does that line with you?

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I 100% agree with that. So

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we manifest from our subconscious mind. We manifest from your

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subconscious is all of your thoughts, your programming, all of the stuff your

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parents taught you, society has taught you when you were younger,

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your inner child, your. Your shadows when you were

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younger. So a lot of the time we get that lack because,

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okay, our parents, like, for example, myself, like, I had a lot

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of programming to do around money. I'm an immigrant to the

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US. I came to the US when I was really young. My parents were 20

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years old when we came to the US, like, with a little three year old.

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Like, they didn't have real jobs. Then my dad got in a work accident when

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I was ten years old. I had to grow up really quickly. Like, went to

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university really early. Then my dad stole $100,000 from me.

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Then, like, this happened. So, like, I had all of this programming, I had a

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lot of work around money to do it, and I'm still working on it. Like,

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it's still not 100% perfect, but that was all living in my

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subconscious mind. So your lack links to

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your inner child. Okay, maybe you were in a healthy.

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You had healthy parents growing up, but

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that you. Maybe your mom wasn't allowed to, like,

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spend money. Maybe it was just your dad being like a dictator pretty

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much, and you're like, oh, I have laughed because. But their relationship was

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loving. So whatever that dynamic might be, it

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all comes from, like, that subconscious mind. So we need to learn to

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reprogram that so that you feel worthy of

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having abundance, having financial wealth, having whatever. But it

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stems from that inner child. Okay, what did your inner child, look at this. What

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did your. And it's something we don't even like. That's what your subconscious

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is. Stuff that you don't even recognize because it's not conscious.

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It's living so deep in you, you might not even realize it.

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And that's where you really have to start looking. And yes, it is energetics. How

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can we change that energy? Because it's easy to reprogram

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your subconscious, like sitting in a breath work, doing some eFt, tapping,

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journaling, whatever it might be. Once you release that, you can

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reprogram it and give yourself a new story. And that's when you'll energetically

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start, like, feeling valuable, feeling like you're

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deserving worthiness, that you can have this. This,

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yeah. And again, it reinforces this principle that you have of

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the. The order in which one goes through the pillars is finances

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is often a

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afterthought, not an afterthought, a repercussion of doing the rest of the work. It's like

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that just sorts itself out. The principles are like, okay, I got this.

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It'll just fall. Make itself fall into place. Like some. Sometimes you

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might not even have to work on your finances at that point. They'll just. Just

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automatically raise because you've done the work.

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And I also like the, the love and money phrase that you said. What. What

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I found is these two things, for some reason,

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they. They go opposite of that. That famous Bible

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verse, seek and ye shall find. Right? It's like everything I've experienced in life,

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if I want it, I just look for it. I put. I put the intention

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out there, I put the effort in, and the thing appears or

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it gets created. But those two things, love and money, they're like the opposite. It's

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like the harder you look for love and the harder you

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want money, the further away they seem to get. And

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I'm curious if you've experienced that or you see something the same, and if

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so, what's going on with that? Because you need to detach.

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All about manifestation is letting go and detaching.

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I surrender. I know that it is coming now. God,

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it's been five minutes. Why is it my lover at my front door? Why

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isn't Prince Charming here? Come on. Come on, God, where is it? Where is

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it? Let go. Surrender everything in perfect,

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divine timing. Everything is going to happen. Just keep doing the work. Keep

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working on yourself and everything will fall into place. Don't have attachment

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when it's going to come. This is how it's going to happen. Because God's got

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a much better plan for you than you can ever imagine. And if you keep

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asking, knocking on his door like, he'll be like, yo, wait,

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just hang on, hold over here. Yeah, yeah,

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no, I really appreciate that. And I find that that tends to be the case

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too. Those two aspects, the love and money,

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they tend to be the byproduct of the inner

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work, the true alchemy an individual does.

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So as we've gone through this expansion alchemy, I'm curious if it feels

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alright with you if we can shift into some of the personal work that you

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do, because I understand you do indeed do coaching and professional, from

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what I've seen, a variety of coaching as well. So is it all right if

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we kind of shift directions into that area? Yeah. Okay.

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So with your personal coaching, what's your favorite?

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I'll just go ahead. What's your favorite type of mentor? I've gotten

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rid of the word coaching. I don't like coaching anymore and I

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just focus on spiritual mentoring at the moment. Spiritual and like integration

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mentoring. I work a lot with plant medicines. I facilitate plant

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plant medicines. I'm actually in the process of looking for land to buy a retreat

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to build a retreat center here in Colombia.

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So focusing a lot on pre, post integration mentoring.

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Spiritual mentoring. I do akashic records. I do a lot of stuff, but like the

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spiritual stuff, that's my jam. Yeah. Okay.

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Okay. So I want thank you for that distinction and correction

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between coaching and mentoring. I appreciate that. And when, when you

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talk about spiritual mentoring, what's that like for you? It's,

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it's something that I'm very interested in personally. And I imagine though, a lot of

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people listening are like, what are you talking about? Spiritual

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mentoring? So let me go

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backtrack a little bit about coaching and mentoring. Like what is the

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difference between the two? And why do I prefer one versus the other? Isn't it

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the same thing? And some people might think that. So coaching

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is okay. You've gone through Tony Robbins,

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you had your own like coach or mentor, and these are

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the seven steps that you need to take in order to do x, Y and

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z. Whereas a mentor teaches strictly based

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off of experience. Yes, I might implement some tools and

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techniques that I've learned along the way. But

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I was sick for so long, I sat in plant medicines.

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I did this, and I teach based off of my own

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experiences. This is what worked for me. This is what worked for other people.

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This is what I've seen work. This is what I've seen. Didn't work. Do not

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try this at home, whatever it might be. I teach off

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of experiences. That's what a mentor is versus a

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coach. Now, what was your question? I just went

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off on a tangent. So this idea of what exactly is

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spiritual mentoring? Yeah. So assisting

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people to raise their mind, body, and spirit, whether

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I have some clients that have never meditated before.

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They're just. I just want to feel better. I just want to wake up and

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not have anxiety. And I have a bunch of tools that I help them

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with, whether it's meditation, whether it's some akashic records, whatever it

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might be. Then I have some clients that are so deep on the

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path, and they're like, okay, I've been meditating every day

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for five years. I'm doing this. I'm doing this, and they just want to

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go in deeper. So for them, I usually work with plant medicines. I

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work with tools that might, they might have never heard of human

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design, going into astrology, whatever. And, like, I'm not an expert

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at all of these, but I know a lot of experts, and I do my

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own due diligence as well. Again, I'm a mentor, not a. I'm a coach.

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I know all of this, but this is what works. This is what I've tried.

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This is what I can help with. So diving into different, different

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tools and then plant medicines, a lot of the times for those people that are

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a. Lot more experienced as well, if you're comfortable with it. Can

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we dig into plant medicines? What's the preferred

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modality? I suppose the preferred plant, if you have one. And what's that

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process? Ayahuasca is my all time favorite.

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She's my favorite. I've been drinking with ayahuasca, working

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with the medicine for six years now. And just last

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November, I went to the jungle for two months to get initiated

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into a tribe so I can facilitate and serve the medicine. So I spent two

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months over there learning, and it's my

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medicine. What do you think about it? Has.

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Has called you with all the different, I guess, choices one

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has with spiritual plant medicines. What is it about ayahuasca that

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you love so much? So with anything, I really truly believe

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do it all and see what calls to you, see which one you really resonate

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with it, because there's no one size for spirituality.

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Not everything is for everyone. Ayahuasca is definitely not for

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everyone. Ever since the first time that I drank, I was

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like, oh, my God, this is amazing. Every single person on this planet needs to

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do this. I now have been working with this for six years. I know it

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is not for everyone, but I have that ayahuasca glow. I'm

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like, this is amazing. And little by

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little. So my first few ceremonies was just really working through

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a lot of the traumas that I had, a lot of the big stuff, as

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I like to say, ayahuasca first works on the big stuff, and now I'm over

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a hundred ceremonies in, like, I. She doesn't work. I don't

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have any more of that big stuff to work through anymore.

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But ever since the beginning, like, she started giving me little

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inklings, like, this is a lot more

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for you, for your soul to really work with

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me in a much more profound way, rather than just going

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as a. Like, as a passagero, as someone that's going there just for

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ceremony once a year, once every couple of years. Like, I also, I live

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in Medellin, so it's super accessible for me. I literally have ayahuasca in my

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cabinet at the. In the moment because I facilitate my own

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ceremonies for myself as well sometimes. Like, it's just a lot

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more accessible for me. And, like, she started just showing me inklings, like, this

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is going to be much deeper work for you because

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it's been so powerful. Me. For me, I've healed the most with

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ayahuasca. I've worked through the most is. It's been my most

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profound healing modality, and I'm really excited to bring it

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to the world. And this is why she started calling me, like, I surrendered and

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I listened. This is what she wanted. This is what's happening. That is

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beautiful, and she is a powerful medicine, so I

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appreciate the approach. Not for everyone, though. Please,

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if you're watching this, please do your due diligence. It is not

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for everyone. I would agree with that completely. One of the ceremonies

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that I went to, which was beautifully

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facilitated, unbelievably well done, but there

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was a lack of, once again, integration. So for me, I wouldn't.

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I wouldn't call it an ayahuasca glow. I would call it an

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ayahuasca atomic bomb, maybe. I'm not sure. There was no

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glow. It was just blasted open, totally blasted, which,

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of course, is amazing, but the lack of

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detailed integration really messed me up. Like, it really, really,

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genuinely messed me up. So I think not only is it do ones do

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due diligence and research, it's make sure that

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the person that you are going to that is hosting the ceremony or facilitating

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the ceremony has all the steps from the pre integration.

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To the actual ceremony. Yeah. And if not, this is why I do integration

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mentoring as well. I help people walk through ceremonies

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afterwards because sometimes I don't have. I just don't have the capacity to hold

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ceremony for everyone. So go drink somewhere else and then come back to me

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for the integration, either pre or post, whatever it might be.

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But that's something that once I open up my own center, I'll be

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focusing on very heavily doing pre and post integration.

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We're looking at like, doing some one on one stuff and then having like,

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even courses, like, pre stuff. Watch these before

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you come to ceremony. This is what you need to do. And then afterwards, like,

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okay, here are some steps. And then we'll do some one on one stuff. We'll

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do some group stuff as well because it's. It's so important. And like, I

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drank at maybe 15 different

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centers here in Columbia and all

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but one of them, one and a half, because the other one, they

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had an integration program, but it was separate. It was someone who,

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like, you paid. Additionally, it wasn't included in the ceremony.

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Only one center really focused on integration coaching and

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like post, and none of them did pre

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post, and then the other one had like a separate program. So I was like,

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this is something that, like, is needed. I need to help people with

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this. So that's something we'll really be focusing on once our center's up and

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running. I appreciate that a lot. I

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think that part, as I'm sure you could tell through the course of this

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conversation, I'm particularly passionate about the integration part, be it from plant

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medicine or just a lovely weekend retreat. I think that is

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an essential part of the process. So. So thank you for. For. For making that

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available to individuals who haven't gone through ceremony with

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you but are interested in integration. Yeah, it's definitely how to

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integrate the mind, body and spirit so it all becomes one. Because

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we know, like we were saying, it is all one. How do we integrate that?

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Okay. My body just went on this journey. My mind went freaking to planet

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Mars or somewhere. My spirit is flying over there in 6D

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right now. How do we put it all together? Mars, sixties, and

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actual Earth all in one.

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Exactly. And then get back on a plane and go back home

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and walk with the. The experience

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and the dignity afterwards. I think that that's essential. Yeah. So as

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we're coming close to our time together, I'm curious, is there anything that you

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feel we haven't discussed that you would like to dig into or any. Any

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conversation that we can deepen? I don't think so. I think we

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talked about all the good things at this point. That's wonderful. Great.

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Thank you. And there's one question that I ask virtually everybody. It's an ongoing

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curiosity I have. So as a mentor

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and a practitioner of sorts, and likely somebody who's gone to many different

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practitioners. In your opinion and in your experience, what

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makes a practitioner successful?

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Ooh. Just being there for a patient,

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like a real bedside manner is very important.

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Whether they're breaking down, because there's been times that I've been to doctors where I

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broke down or doing a Reiki session, Akashic records, whatever it might

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be, just being there for the person and

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holding space for them in a really beautiful way.

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Thank you. I think that is a wonderful answer. Thank you so much.

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Of course, all of the. Oh, yes. The links to all of your

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amazing endeavors and projects will all be in the show notes. And if

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anybody's interested, I'll make sure that they can get a hold of you and follow

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you quite easily from there. But I would really like to thank you for this

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conversation. I enjoyed it a lot, so thank you very much for your

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time. It's been a pleasure.