Welcome, Anya. Thank you so much for taking the time to chat with me today.
Speaker:As I was preparing for this conversation, I had the opportunity to look through
Speaker:your social media and your website and everything that you do. And I must say,
Speaker:I am super stoked to chat with you. I feel as though we've got a
Speaker:lot of similarities and overlaps. And in addition to that, there are many areas in
Speaker:which you are very active in that I would love to jump into. So thank
Speaker:you very much and welcome. Thank you so much for having me. I'm excited to
Speaker:be here. Awesome. So usually,
Speaker:usually what I do is I always start by getting the backstory, like, what
Speaker:got you into this world? And I am interested in that and I would love
Speaker:to go down that, but as I was, I was going through your website, I
Speaker:found myself really curious about one thing in particular. So maybe we'll start things
Speaker:a little bit differently and we could jump into your academy,
Speaker:which I am so interested in. So you've got the expansion
Speaker:academy, and as I was reading and going through and watching
Speaker:testimonials, it is absolutely fantastic. So why don't we start off
Speaker:with what exactly is this expansion?
Speaker:Thank you so much for curiosity in that it's a brand new baby of
Speaker:mine and that one in itself has a beautiful
Speaker:backstory, and I'd love to share all of that as well. So what
Speaker:expansion alchemy is, is a holistic wellness
Speaker:academy, essentially in the realms of personal development, health,
Speaker:relationship, spirituality, and financial wealth, because I believe you
Speaker:have to have all of them to have a balanced well being overall. And
Speaker:you do have to start with the mindset, the spirituality,
Speaker:the health, all of that first, and then you get to the
Speaker:finances. Once all of that is, like, aligned within your
Speaker:body, then your finances will start growing. So that's why I say it in
Speaker:that particular order as well. And right now, we're reaching out. We
Speaker:just launched this past couple of days. Last
Speaker:weekend, actually, we had a launch into corporations.
Speaker:So I want to be a mental wellness benefit for
Speaker:employees and getting the holistic stuff into
Speaker:corporations. I worked in corporate America for ten years and I
Speaker:had a mental breakdown after, like, after those ten years, for an entire
Speaker:decade, I was sick. Anxiety, depression, insomnia. I was going
Speaker:blind. Like, I was so sick. If I had the tools in
Speaker:corporate America that I have now, I'd still probably be in corporate America.
Speaker:That's not my role anymore. But
Speaker:I know that those tools are very needed in that space. Those are the
Speaker:people that need it the most. So we just launched last weekend into
Speaker:corporations and I'm super excited for that. But
Speaker:expansion alchemy, I'd like to share a little bit of the backstory of expansion alchemy
Speaker:and how it, because I think it really resonates with your audience.
Speaker:So I wrote my second book. I was on book tour. Book
Speaker:tour was Vegas, La, New York, Costa
Speaker:Rica. I felt like I was on top of the world. I had
Speaker:five Times Square billboards with like 80 foot Anya
Speaker:face. Literally felt like I was on top of the world
Speaker:during this book tour. And I had a thriving business right
Speaker:beforehand. I ended up closing all of my coaching contracts right before book
Speaker:tour because I was on book tour for an entire month. I was like, I
Speaker:don't know what my time is going to be. Like. I'm in different time zones,
Speaker:I'm networking. Like, maybe I want to be going to a party at 10:00 to
Speaker:network. Like, I just, I don't want to deal with this. So I closed everything
Speaker:out, went to book tour, and I came back from book tour
Speaker:and I got hacked. I lost everything.
Speaker:I lost my entire business. I lost my website. I lost
Speaker:300 pieces of video content I've ever created. I lost 30,000 email
Speaker:subscribers. Literally lost everything. Oh
Speaker:no. That is so
Speaker:brutal. It was horrible.
Speaker:So that followed with a couple of months trying to
Speaker:retrieve everything back, trying to
Speaker:like, get my email subscribers back, and then now, okay, I got
Speaker:some email subscribers. Let's say I got five or 6000 back out of the
Speaker:30,000. Now all my emails are going to spam because like, my
Speaker:website authority is ruined. So it was just like one thing after another, trying
Speaker:to retrieve everything back, followed by like two or three months of having a
Speaker:mental breakdown all over again. Like questioning
Speaker:myself, questioning my worth. Like, am I supposed to be doing this? Like, is
Speaker:this my path going into imposter syndrome? Maybe I shouldn't be doing this. Like,
Speaker:what is my higher calling? Should I even be coaching anymore?
Speaker:And I was doing business, spiritual business, coaching at the
Speaker:moment. I do all spiritual coaching now and plant
Speaker:medicine work. Like I needed, I needed that pivot,
Speaker:apparently. And
Speaker:one day I just completely surrendered. I did what I know how to do
Speaker:best, and that's meditation. So I sat in a four hour meditation, and
Speaker:in that meditation, everything came to me. The name,
Speaker:the logo, the branding, the colors, what
Speaker:partners I want on it, what payment structure, who we're eventually
Speaker:going to go after. Like the different pillars, as I call it. Literally
Speaker:everything was given to me in that four hour meditation. And I spent the next
Speaker:year, year and a half building expansion, alchemy, and we've,
Speaker:we've launched it to the public about six months ago,
Speaker:but two corporation, we just had the launch this past weekend, so it's
Speaker:a brand new baby of mine, and I'm super excited for it.
Speaker:That is, that. That's quite the story, getting into it. I mean, being from
Speaker:the sounds of it, your, your career, your trajectory was very much in the self
Speaker:development, self help sort of world, right? And then
Speaker:there's a lot of, of course, work that goes into the individual in
Speaker:order to maintain authenticity in there. But then have this one thing that you
Speaker:said is like, like, should I even be doing this? If I imagine myself in
Speaker:your shoes and all of a sudden everything is gone, then that
Speaker:thought would definitely come into my mind, too. Like, universe. What are you trying to
Speaker:tell me here? Like, you trying to tell me, back off. Shift around directions? Wow,
Speaker:that must have been, like, massively impactful. Thank God, man. My mental
Speaker:health was horrendous, questioning, questioning my
Speaker:own worth. Like, am I good enough to be coaching? Maybe that's why. Maybe I'm
Speaker:just not a good coach. Maybe that's why this whole thing
Speaker:happened. Like, I don't know what is the bigger calling out of
Speaker:this? And I just needed, needed that pivot and then expansion. Alchemy came
Speaker:to me, everything. And I'm so blessed to for
Speaker:that. That is amazing. And it sounds like you had a proper,
Speaker:proper download experience, right. Everything just comes to you with perfect clarity. And I'm
Speaker:curious about the pillars. Right. I appreciate this
Speaker:idea of distinct steps and individual processes. What
Speaker:I found most interesting and most agreeable
Speaker:with the pillars and the order in which you laid them out was beginning with
Speaker:spirituality, developing spirituality. I personally found that
Speaker:oftentimes that particular pillar is either left out completely or tacked on
Speaker:to the end. It's like, oh, yeah, you should probably do something about your spiritual
Speaker:life as well. Even in this mind body medicine, we call it
Speaker:mind body medicine, even though the technical definition is mind body soul.
Speaker:So I'm wondering, can we dig into what was the impetus, the
Speaker:idea, behind starting with this foundation of spirituality?
Speaker:Yeah. I truly believe that we need to really start looking
Speaker:internally. Like, when I turned my brain off, looked internally,
Speaker:turned to my spirituality, turned to that meditation, that's when
Speaker:expansion alchemy came to me. Yes, mind, body, spirit. We say
Speaker:usually, but your spirit should be nourished first. Like,
Speaker:your spirit comes before your body comes, actually, before your
Speaker:brain develops, before all of that, your spirit comes. And we need
Speaker:to keep fostering that and keep developing that spirit with a
Speaker:daily practice, a daily connection, whether it's to God, to Buddha, whether
Speaker:it's meditation, prayer, whatever. We need to keep fostering that
Speaker:spirit. And then spirit is going to keep talking to us, reflecting
Speaker:back to us, because everything's a mirror as well. Keep reflecting back to us all
Speaker:these beautiful ideas and health and all the other beautiful things
Speaker:that come with it. Can we, if it's okay with you,
Speaker:can we dig into sort of what happened for
Speaker:you spiritually when this moment came,
Speaker:when expansion alchemy came to you? What was going on in your
Speaker:spiritual, I guess, experience at that point in time? What was that
Speaker:like, oh, man. So the first thing that I
Speaker:heard was the actual name. Expansion. Expansion
Speaker:alchemy. I heard expansion first, and I was like, okay, I
Speaker:like that. Okay, what? Tell me more. And I talk to spirit whenever
Speaker:I get downloads or if I'm in meditation, I ask
Speaker:questions. Okay, like, is this. Am I supposed to be
Speaker:expanding? Am I supposed to help people expand? Like, I heard just
Speaker:expansion. Like, okay, am I supposed to be expanding? Am I supposed to help people
Speaker:expand? And, like, am I supposed to be doing something with expansion? Like, and then
Speaker:I heard alchemy expansion. I was like, okay, I like this.
Speaker:I like this name. I don't know what it is yet, but I love
Speaker:this name. This is great. And then, like, life
Speaker:around me started morphing, and, like, I started
Speaker:seeing the logo, and the logo is a butterfly. It's a transformation.
Speaker:Like, shifting into the transformation of a butterfly, because
Speaker:butterflies, like, transcendence, transformation, all of that. And
Speaker:I was like, okay, so we're supposed to help. And, like,
Speaker:I started getting bits and pieces of it. Like, this is a four hour meditation.
Speaker:In that 4 hours, I got everything but bits and pieces of it.
Speaker:Okay, so we're supposed to help other people transform. Okay, we're back
Speaker:to the mentoring, the coaching. Expansion. Alchemy is an
Speaker:amazing name. Like, okay, I'm not focusing on my personal brand
Speaker:anymore. Okay, now. Now I know. Maybe I'm focusing on, okay, should
Speaker:this be maybe a coaching container? Do I need to, like, am I building a
Speaker:new company? What am I doing? And then I started getting people's
Speaker:names, and I'm in several different
Speaker:masterminds with super high end, like,
Speaker:entrepreneurs, mentors, coaches, all, like,
Speaker:authors, just super high end people. And I started getting some of their
Speaker:names, and I was like, oh, I see how I can be connected to this
Speaker:person. I see how this person can help me with this. And throughout
Speaker:this entire process, I kept getting the message collaboration, not
Speaker:competition. There's no need to build a business
Speaker:by yourself anymore. You don't have to build your personal brand anymore. You don't have
Speaker:to build a business anymore. Sure, like, I have contractors, I have some
Speaker:employees. I have a virtual assistant, all of this. But that's not what I mean
Speaker:by collaboration. How can we come
Speaker:together with people that are of value
Speaker:and help more people in turn? Whether
Speaker:it's like creating seminars, whether it's virtual
Speaker:events, in person events, whatever. And that's when, like, everything
Speaker:started clicking for me with expansion, alchemy. I was like, okay, now I
Speaker:know I have five names. Okay, how many. How many teachers do I
Speaker:want? I started getting like. So we started off with 15 teachers, but then we
Speaker:ended up cutting it down to, we have twelve teachers. Now
Speaker:it's 15 was just way too hectic for our students. Like,
Speaker:15 classes a month. Like, I personally don't want to go to that. So
Speaker:we cut it down to twelve classes a month. And,
Speaker:like, I started getting, okay, five names here. And then I started getting like,
Speaker:okay, maybe connect yourself to this group. You're already
Speaker:somewhat connected to it. Reach out to this person. This person is going to
Speaker:be a link to this. And it just all started beautifully flowing
Speaker:together. I was like, okay, I know what I'm doing.
Speaker:I get it. And it was really funny, because one of my
Speaker:teachers, I was on the phone with her, like,
Speaker:two or three days prior, because we had. We had, like, a catch up or
Speaker:something, and I was telling her everything I was going through. I was like, so
Speaker:this happened. My business got taken away from me. I lost everything. I'm having, like,
Speaker:a meltdown on the phone with her. And then I do this meditation.
Speaker:Two days later, I call her. I was like, okay, I know what I'm doing.
Speaker:This is the business. This is the name, and I want you to be a
Speaker:teacher. She's like, what just happened?
Speaker:That is so cool. You know, I'm curious if
Speaker:it sounds a little bit similar, but my experience with spiritual
Speaker:growth and development, too, is like, when you're in it, you're in the meditative
Speaker:mode, and it oftentimes comes at these. These clearing moments right
Speaker:when you're at your rock bottom or a high high, you know? But
Speaker:regardless. But one of the experiences I had most recently, I
Speaker:was very fortunate enough to spend some time in Colombia, and I was right in
Speaker:the middle of the jungle with these super remote tribes. And one night I
Speaker:was sitting there with what they call a mamo, or their version of a shaman,
Speaker:and Columbia right. Oh, I didn't know that. I'm
Speaker:calling. Yeah. Wow. Isn't that something?
Speaker:Yeah, we were. We landed in Santa marta, and then from there, we went to
Speaker:stay with an Aruako tribe and a koga tribe as well. And it was
Speaker:just an amazing experience. So I was sitting with one of the momos, and
Speaker:we were having this conversation, and he described to me, in perfect
Speaker:clarity the next process. Right? Because I'm kind of
Speaker:in one of those pivot points, those shift points when the past is decomposing
Speaker:and something better for the future is, uh, preparing itself. So he
Speaker:described to me with perfect clarity and. And as he was describing it to me,
Speaker:which I'm not entirely sure if he was using words or just kind of giving
Speaker:me the message, but, um, I get this. This.
Speaker:This perfect vision of. Of what it would be like. It sounds
Speaker:fairly similar right in this moment, but then a couple. Couple days
Speaker:passed, and I'm like, okay, I can actually sit down and write it down. And
Speaker:I get my pen and paper. There was nothing. There was a
Speaker:memory of this experience, of getting all this information as to what happens
Speaker:next. But then the only thing I was. I had access
Speaker:to was the next step. The complete vision was no
Speaker:longer there. The only thing available to me was the next step. And one of
Speaker:the things I found in my own spiritual journeys is faith.
Speaker:You have to have faith, and when you get a clear
Speaker:step, you take that step, and as soon as that's done, then the next thing
Speaker:is available to you. So I'm curious if there's any resonance or sort of
Speaker:similarities in this download and spiritual process you had.
Speaker:So, I like explaining it like this, and I've explained this
Speaker:to so many people, so many clients, and I think it'll really
Speaker:resonate as well. So,
Speaker:meditation, to me, is like, you don't have to be on top of a mountain
Speaker:going om for hours. Like, all meditation is quieting
Speaker:the mind. Like, simply just quiet the mind, and then all of your anxiety
Speaker:goes away, because anxiety is your mind, like, constantly going, that
Speaker:monkey chatter going. So if we quiet the mind, all of that goes away, and
Speaker:then all the answers come to you. Meditation doesn't have to be
Speaker:sitting on a mountaintop. It could be running, it could be doing the dishes.
Speaker:It could be whatever it is for you that allows you
Speaker:to quiet your mind. A lot of the times when we get. We're in
Speaker:a meditative state, when we're showering, not thinking about anything,
Speaker:washing our hairs, washing our bodies, and then you get this grand idea, and you're
Speaker:like, whoa, that's a great idea. But then
Speaker:you don't do anything with it. You don't act on it. And then maybe
Speaker:a couple days later, you're like, okay, I wanted to write that idea down, but,
Speaker:crap, I don't remember what it was. Where do I even
Speaker:start? So the universe, God
Speaker:throws these ideas at people, and whoever is
Speaker:quickest to grab that idea and write it
Speaker:down and take that first step to remember it will
Speaker:remember that idea. And then if it passes you by, God's
Speaker:like, I got a bigger plan. Like, this shit needs to happen. Like, I'm gonna
Speaker:give it to the next person. So he takes it away
Speaker:from you and gives it to the next person that's going to act on that
Speaker:idea. And then five months down the road, you are like watching
Speaker:a commercial and something comes on tv, and you're like, hey, that was
Speaker:my idea for that invention. Why didn't I do that?
Speaker:Well, yeah, you had the idea first, but you didn't act on
Speaker:it. You didn't do anything. That's my easiest way of, like, explaining
Speaker:that. Like, that's what happens. We need to act on those ideas.
Speaker:And whatever that action is, it might just be writing it down as soon as
Speaker:you have that idea so it doesn't float away from you.
Speaker:Right, right. So that actually seems like a beautiful and natural segue
Speaker:from the first pillar, which is spirituality, into the second pillar, which is personal
Speaker:development, because a big part of that is how do you actually take
Speaker:action? The mentoring and coaching, it
Speaker:sounds great in theory. You've got this idea and you may even write it down.
Speaker:But the process of developing the confidence and the
Speaker:developing the motivation and developing all of the inner skills
Speaker:required to actually move forward with an idea, is
Speaker:that kind of what the next pillar is, or could we dive into your perspective
Speaker:of personal development? Yeah. So personal development is definitely taking that
Speaker:action, but it's also doing things that resonate with
Speaker:you. So sometimes personal development could be going to a Tony Robbins
Speaker:seminar. Sometimes it might be reading a self help book. Sometimes it might be like
Speaker:you tracking your habits, whatever that is for you, doing something similar
Speaker:with spirituality. Like both of those kind of go hand in hand.
Speaker:And yes, spiritual is more on your spirit, more on your soul,
Speaker:whereas personal development is your mind
Speaker:and then going into the health, your body and
Speaker:etcetera. But personal development is like, okay, how are we going
Speaker:to take that action, and how are we actually going to implement all of that
Speaker:stuff? It's the integration, when you go to the ceremony,
Speaker:essentially, so, like, yes, ceremony was great. That's
Speaker:spiritual. But how are we applying all of that to day to day
Speaker:life? How are we taking action? How are we counting ourselves accountable?
Speaker:How are we doing the actual work? Because the real work
Speaker:starts after a ceremony. Ceremony. It doesn't start while you're in the spiritual
Speaker:stuff. Okay. How are we applying that to real life and actually keep
Speaker:going and going and going and keep ourselves accountable and have
Speaker:people around us that are going to help us, that are support us, that we're
Speaker:not just going to beat ourselves up because we missed the day of doing your
Speaker:gratitude or whatever it might be? Yeah, I
Speaker:really appreciate that. And if it's all right with you, I'd like to dwell on
Speaker:this idea of integration a little bit. I feel as though
Speaker:it's. It's not neglected. Many people are aware of
Speaker:integration. It's just kind of spoken
Speaker:of. I find that even though it's in the sphere of understanding and knowledge,
Speaker:and so many people are aware of the fact, like, you go through a medicine
Speaker:session, a plant medicine session, and integration is important, or you do a Tony
Speaker:Robinson amazing. And integration is important. But again, I
Speaker:find there tends to be a drop off in actually doing the
Speaker:process of integration. So in your experience, what is. What
Speaker:does integration really look like? And
Speaker:it's different. Integration is different for every single person
Speaker:I've sat. I facilitate, plant medicines, I do integration,
Speaker:mentoring, and there's always pre integration as well as
Speaker:post integration. It can be. And different people do
Speaker:a different way, and each person is different as well. It can be
Speaker:just taking yourself for a couple of days and
Speaker:grounding and going to a park, sitting by a tree,
Speaker:reading a book, drawing, dancing, whatever it is that you
Speaker:connect to, but still having a little bit
Speaker:of that ceremony within you. So I'm going to speak for
Speaker:ayahuasca, for example, and we call this an ayahuasca glow.
Speaker:Like, after you leave the ceremony, you're like, glowing for a week, and you're like,
Speaker:oh, my gosh, that was amazing. Life is so beautiful. It's so
Speaker:fantastic. But then once the ayahuasca glow
Speaker:goes away, that's when you need to start integrating. Yes, you should start
Speaker:integrating as soon as you leave the ceremony, but that's when you're like, oh,
Speaker:life is just kind of dull, and you go back to your regular
Speaker:habits. That's when integration is so pertinent. Like, you
Speaker:need to start applying everything that you learned from the
Speaker:ceremony, and then you'll be able to start applying it into your
Speaker:regular life. Something that I really like to do, and I create boxes for my
Speaker:clients and people that come to my retreats, is while you're
Speaker:in ceremony, finding something that you can go back to
Speaker:later, whether it's finding a rock, like finding a
Speaker:feather, or something that's going to, like, once you go back to your home
Speaker:country, once you go back to wherever you live
Speaker:and you're trying to integrate, whether it's a piece of music that you really
Speaker:like, like a piece of wood, whatever it is, taking it
Speaker:back and, like, sitting with it, meditating with it. So you have a
Speaker:little bit of an anchor to grab you back into that ceremony,
Speaker:into the feelings of what you were feeling, like when you had this big
Speaker:breakthrough, when you were healing something, when you let go of some kind of
Speaker:trauma, whatever it might be. But it's anchors you back into that
Speaker:moment, and that'll assist with your integration process.
Speaker:That makes sense. That makes sense. And. And I really like the idea of anchors
Speaker:with. With or without them, but certainly without them, I
Speaker:find for myself and many people that I work with, it's. There is that. That
Speaker:glow, period. And it's easy to do the integration work when you're still in
Speaker:the glow because you're basically still there. Right.
Speaker:Exactly. Those. Those weeks or months later when. When the glow
Speaker:has certainly worn off and when the. The difficulties with relationships
Speaker:come back in, which is another pillar, or when work. Right. When real,
Speaker:quote, unquote real life, big air quotes on that one
Speaker:comes back into the picture, it's hard to maintain the integration. And
Speaker:you said a word that I'm very curious about, which I really appreciate, and I
Speaker:think it was pre. Pre integration. What did you mean by
Speaker:that? Pre integrating? Just getting yourself
Speaker:set up for ceremony, for whatever you're
Speaker:going into, whether it's in a group setting or in a solo
Speaker:setting. Okay. A week beforehand, I'm going to double up on my meditation. I'm going
Speaker:to do a morning meditation and an evening meditation. I'm really going to sit
Speaker:with my intentions. Sit with. I have a list of questions that
Speaker:I ask people that before they come to ceremony or if I'm doing pre integration
Speaker:with them to really sit and journal so they're getting deeper into their
Speaker:subconscious mind because journaling is great for that. Or doing breath
Speaker:work, meditations, whatever. Really getting into that. Okay, what do I
Speaker:really want out of this ceremony instead of. Okay, yeah, I just want
Speaker:the surface level thing, but going deep into what I truly
Speaker:want, then going through the ceremony and then post integration
Speaker:afterwards. Okay, how am I integrating this now into my real life.
Speaker:Yeah, I appreciate that. It sort of creates the
Speaker:routine of integration without the glow.
Speaker:So then when the glow wears off, you've already got something in place, and you're
Speaker:not relying on that. That glow in order to see through. That's. That's brilliant.
Speaker:I really appreciate that. When. When I was preparing for one of the
Speaker:ceremonies that I participated in, the. The.
Speaker:I think it was three weeks, maybe a month lead up was. Was very important,
Speaker:and there was certainly a pre integration process to it,
Speaker:but a really big part of it was diet, health. Nutrition. Right.
Speaker:Is making sure that the vessel, the body, the physical aspect
Speaker:of what I call Jess was in decent enough
Speaker:shape. Right. So I see that that's another pillar for you
Speaker:in expansion alchemy is this idea of health. So what does that
Speaker:encompass, then? So health would be whether
Speaker:it's the nutrition that you eat, the foods that you eat.
Speaker:We have some people working on ayurveda stuff. So, like, really helping you with
Speaker:your diet. Like, okay, maybe I'm going through,
Speaker:like, I'm having breakouts. My hair's falling out. Whatever it might
Speaker:be, a lot of that might be your hormones are off, and maybe you just
Speaker:need to adjust your diet some. Some particular way. So we have specialist
Speaker:nutritionists that help with that. Then we have this one
Speaker:woman doing, like, epigenetics as well. Like, really going into
Speaker:your health. Okay. This can get rewired because my family
Speaker:was. Because I'm polish, so I have. Some of the
Speaker:Holocaust is coming up for me right now. That's something that I really worked on
Speaker:while I just spent two months in the jungle. So, like, maybe rewiring
Speaker:something with. With your family so future generations don't have
Speaker:to go through that. Maybe it's addictions. Maybe you're addicted to
Speaker:alcohol, cigarettes, whatever it might be that can be epigenetically passed
Speaker:down to your kin. Well, okay, let's work on that
Speaker:now in this vessel so that my children don't have to worry about
Speaker:that, and we don't have to pass that on. One of my all time favorite
Speaker:quotes is like, okay, let's heal in this generation. So future
Speaker:generations don't have to go through that. And, yes, we pass things
Speaker:on epigenetically. Yeah. Your mind,
Speaker:body, and spirit fully in alignment, whether it's health, whether it's getting your
Speaker:epigenetics aligned, whether it's, like, working out. You have someone that helps
Speaker:with, like, holistic workouts, or there was this
Speaker:one class that was called, like, mindful, mindful eating.
Speaker:Or I don't even remember. There's so many of them at this point.
Speaker:Yeah. Eating mindfully. So you're not just, like, over eating and like,
Speaker:oh, I'm bored. I'm watching Netflix. I'm gonna have a tub of ice cream. Before
Speaker:you know it, you eat the entire tub of ice cream. Mindfully
Speaker:eating. So, yeah, mind, body, and spirit, the whole.
Speaker:The whole shebang. What I'm beginning to
Speaker:appreciate is the, again, once again, the order that you've
Speaker:discussed these in, because so, so often, in
Speaker:whether it's the integrative world, medicine world or the
Speaker:conventional medicine world, number one focus is on body.
Speaker:Important, no question. You got to make sure that the body is healthy
Speaker:and well maintained. And then after that, there's an increasing
Speaker:importance on the mind. Right. And from the pillars you're
Speaker:discussing, that's sort of the personal development stuff. Mental health,
Speaker:thankfully, is finally getting some light shone on it. And
Speaker:then lastly, again, tucked away in this corner, there's this idea of spirituality, which
Speaker:in the world at large, is, again, very slowly starting to gain some
Speaker:traction. But this order that you have it in, which is spirit,
Speaker:mind, body, instead of body, mind, spirit, is
Speaker:brilliantly put together. So thank you for doing that and
Speaker:download the information you got. Perfect. Thank you. Just want to be
Speaker:clear. So that is the b two
Speaker:c section. That way that I speak it. When I speak to
Speaker:corporations, I lead with personal development, health,
Speaker:relationships, spirituality than financial wealth. I have a
Speaker:different for corporations. Yeah.
Speaker:Okay. Okay. I really like that idea. I really appreciate it, because it is
Speaker:important, depending on your demographic and who you're speaking to, where you
Speaker:begin, when you are working with or this idea of working with
Speaker:corporations, how do you manage or imagine
Speaker:bringing in the conversation of spirituality to a group of
Speaker:people who may or may not be open to such a discussion? So
Speaker:I actually just had this discussion last weekend during my
Speaker:event. And anyone, if anyone wants to watch the event, feel free
Speaker:to reach out and we can add stuff in the show. Notes. Replays are
Speaker:available. It's a three day event. Talking about all those pillows. We do have all
Speaker:of the teachers, so replays are available if you want to catch that. So
Speaker:I had someone actually, on day two ask that. He's like, I love
Speaker:expansion, alchemy. I love all that you guys are doing, but how do I
Speaker:bring this up to my team? Like, how do I bring this to
Speaker:my employees? I want to bring. I want to, like, my wife
Speaker:already thinks I'm crazy and I'm going to get abducted by aliens. Literally. What he
Speaker:said, I was like, that's amazing. I was like, yes, we do have some
Speaker:teachers that are all spiritual. Me personally, that's how I am.
Speaker:I talk about all the vibrations, all the woo woo stuff. That's just how I
Speaker:am. And then we have teachers that this gentleman named
Speaker:Nico, for example, where he's like super masculine,
Speaker:super, like, I love stress. Like he's a personal development and business
Speaker:guy. He's like, I love stress. And I'm like, and there's people in between
Speaker:as well. Very different. You don't bring this up to your employees
Speaker:as, oh, I want you to sign up for this woo woo holistic thing. No,
Speaker:you say this, okay, this is going to make us all
Speaker:better. We're all going to feel better, our health is
Speaker:going to be better, we're all going to be more productive. And
Speaker:internal company is going to make a lot more money. So bring it up as
Speaker:we're going to feel better. Because who doesn't want to feel better? It doesn't matter
Speaker:if you're in corporate or if you're not. We're going to feel better versus
Speaker:we're going to raise our vibration and meditate for 10 hours. No,
Speaker:corporations don't want to hear that. Yeah, yeah.
Speaker:A bit of a hard sell that way. So are you going to have
Speaker:like two, two separate, I mean this is a bit of a technical thing, but
Speaker:I can't help my curiosity. Are you going to have almost two separate
Speaker:websites, two separate ways of advertising? Because they really
Speaker:seem very. Of course the pillars are the same, but the
Speaker:delivery to me strikes me as something incredibly different. So the sites
Speaker:are, we do have two sites, one site. So one is just expansion
Speaker:alchemy. If you go on the homepage, that's the b two C site. And
Speaker:on top in the toolbar, I have individuals and I have corporations,
Speaker:I have two separate sections. And then just
Speaker:expansionalchemy.com is the b two C side and that's all
Speaker:that stuff. And then if you click on the business side, it goes
Speaker:expansionalchemy.com business.
Speaker:Maybe I'll make it into like co or something. I don't know
Speaker:yet. Just thinking out loud. And that one,
Speaker:it's pretty much the same exact site. It looks
Speaker:exactly the same. The verbiage is slightly different because it is
Speaker:adjusted to the, to the b two B. And then I do have
Speaker:like a VSL up top of video sales letter and that
Speaker:is almost the same, but it's talking to a different audience.
Speaker:It's me recording it and I just speak differently to
Speaker:it. The order of the pillars are different, but it
Speaker:looks almost identical. But it's just those little
Speaker:tiny tweaks to speak to the corporate audience versus the b two C
Speaker:audience. Okay, I love this. I love this idea, and it's not where I thought
Speaker:we'd go with it, but I have another curiosity that came up for me, if
Speaker:that's okay. Of course. You strike me as an
Speaker:individual that values authenticity based
Speaker:on the content I've seen you produce as well as so far within our
Speaker:conversation. And when I imagine
Speaker:something like you're discussing, right, you've got two different demographics,
Speaker:one of which is the customer and the consumer, the
Speaker:individual who is likely seeking out your services because of
Speaker:who you are as an individual. And once again, you got this beautiful air of
Speaker:spirituality, and then you've got the corporate side of things, which,
Speaker:from what you say, you had ten years experience in that. So I'm sure you
Speaker:could walk that walk. How do you maintain your own
Speaker:authenticity when the demographic that you're speaking
Speaker:to, their outward appearance at the very least, is very different? So
Speaker:I'm curious about this authenticity aspect when you switch
Speaker:demographics. Me personally, I believe I
Speaker:should be. I love authentication, authenticity, and thank
Speaker:you so much for that. Like, I really appreciate that compliment. I
Speaker:really believe that you need to know exactly who you are.
Speaker:Sure. If I'm speaking to a different audience, the way that I say
Speaker:things might be slightly different, but I'm still going to be me. I
Speaker:spoke at a conference in Florida in
Speaker:end of last year, and it was called the heal conference, and it was
Speaker:all about healthcare and education and expansion. Alchemy actually got an
Speaker:award, and it was a whole bunch of people in suits
Speaker:talking about healthcare and like, higher educations and all this
Speaker:boring stuff. And that was me. Like,
Speaker:jungle woman over here. Like, sharing ancestral
Speaker:medicines. I had some rapid with me. I had some,
Speaker:and just like, being me. So, yes, I was there
Speaker:as an award receiver, and I spoke eloquently,
Speaker:but I was still me at the end of the day. Like, this is who
Speaker:I am. So take it or leave it. And I can't tell you how many
Speaker:compliments I received. Like, you are such a breath of fresh air.
Speaker:Yes, you've got tattoos all over you. Like, you're
Speaker:eclectic. Like, you have so much energy. You're bringing
Speaker:all these weird things to us, but you're, you're speaking to us as
Speaker:a human. You're not asking me for money right now. You're
Speaker:wanting to get to know me and introducing me to your
Speaker:world. Yes, it might be weird, but I so appreciate that. I
Speaker:can't tell you how many, like, compliments I've received about that.
Speaker:So there is a place to be authentically. You sure? The
Speaker:way that you say it, I'm not going to be like, oh, I just came
Speaker:from the jungle. Here, try this tobacco up your nose. Like, I'm not going to
Speaker:say that, but this is what it is. And
Speaker:instead of saying, okay, it might balance your masculine
Speaker:and feminine, it balances both sides of your
Speaker:hemispheres, the left and the right, like, in your brain. So the
Speaker:way that I say it is a little bit different, but I'm still me at
Speaker:the end of the day. Yeah, yeah, I appreciate that. And I think
Speaker:the choice of wordings doesn't have to come across as inauthentic. And
Speaker:one of. One of the things you say, you know, that individuals were saying, it's
Speaker:a breath of fresh air. And I'm finding that more and more at
Speaker:large. Right. You. I don't follow trends necessarily. I
Speaker:don't understand Instagram, but I spend a crazy amount of time on
Speaker:YouTube. I will fully admit that in acknowledge that that is my university.
Speaker:And one of the things I am noticing by and large, is people
Speaker:are so much more interested in
Speaker:just you, just the individual. Nothing scripted, nothing
Speaker:over the top. I mean, there's certainly that out there, but I am definitely seeing
Speaker:this trend of people who are just so sick and tired of
Speaker:corporate talk, who are so sick and tired of
Speaker:over the top excitement and, like,
Speaker:obviously fake joviality. So I appreciate
Speaker:that as an individual who just went through the process of
Speaker:speaking at a place where a lot of people are unsuit and ties and you
Speaker:just being you, that again, that message was reflected that people
Speaker:crave, that they crave interactions with real,
Speaker:genuine, authentic humans. Definitely. And find out,
Speaker:like, authenticity. I have four authenticity pillars for me,
Speaker:and it's embodiment, freedom,
Speaker:magic and expansion.
Speaker:How am I doing every single thing that I'm doing
Speaker:to reflect those? How am I living in embodiment? How am I living
Speaker:in magic? And for me, magic is like spirituality,
Speaker:nature, love. Like, I have multiple categories underneath
Speaker:each of them, and that's how I deal with my four
Speaker:pillars. So, like, I encourage your audience, like, go through an
Speaker:authenticity exercise. Like, pick a. Go on,
Speaker:like, pinterest, go on Google, type in, like, authenticity words.
Speaker:Like, get a list of, like, 50 words and see which four
Speaker:really resonate with your five and narrow it down to as little as
Speaker:possible. Four or five. And how are you doing every single thing in
Speaker:your life based off of those four words. And I truly believe, like, your
Speaker:authenticity pillars don't change throughout your life, similar to your
Speaker:values, like, they might shift and evolve. So, like, the way that
Speaker:I see freedom now, for example, or
Speaker:adventure is a little bit different than when I did when I was 15
Speaker:years old, but it, it's still something that makes me truly, authentically me,
Speaker:because, like, my authenticity is my authenticity. That shouldn't
Speaker:change. It might shift and evolve, but that's who I am as a
Speaker:human being. And I'm curious about
Speaker:then, the interaction between these four
Speaker:descriptive words of authenticity and values, as I believe
Speaker:an individual, once they've identified their values, which in and of itself, I think is
Speaker:like essential practice. But is there a difference between
Speaker:embodying your values and embodying these
Speaker:words used to describe your authenticity? Or is there overlap?
Speaker:There is overlap. So let me pull mine up, actually,
Speaker:because my values are very similar, but
Speaker:slightly different
Speaker:than my authenticity. So my values are adventure,
Speaker:variety, beauty, and creativity.
Speaker:That's one together, growth and freedom. Whereas
Speaker:my authenticity is freedom.
Speaker:Embodiment expansion, aka growth
Speaker:and magic. Interesting. What just occurred to me as I was
Speaker:describing them is values that you
Speaker:described are an action, whereas your authenticity is a feeling. Would that
Speaker:be accurate? Ah, I never thought of it that way, but I like
Speaker:that. Perhaps it's just my own
Speaker:subjectivity and projection. For me, when I think of what authenticity is
Speaker:like, it's a very distinct feeling, an embodied sensation.
Speaker:Or more specifically for me, it's a lack of. It's like when there's nothing going
Speaker:on and it's just like emptiness, I'm like, no, this is not being authentic. But
Speaker:when I do start to feel things, I'm like, good, this feels like me. So
Speaker:what's coming up for me right now actually is like, maybe your values are
Speaker:more like mind and heart centered.
Speaker:Like mind bo. Like mind and body, whereas your
Speaker:authenticity is your soul. This is what my soul craves.
Speaker:Nice. I really like that distinction.
Speaker:Yeah. And I think it's
Speaker:an important distinction because of course, I mean, I'm a TCMD at
Speaker:doctor chinese medicine, so we view everything as the
Speaker:same, right? There is no difference between the mind, body and soul. They are the
Speaker:same thing. But then in conversation, we of course have to distinguish them all.
Speaker:I do think those distinctions are important. And understanding that
Speaker:how one embodies these comes from a different, I suppose, energetic
Speaker:center. Fascinating. I like that. That
Speaker:was a fun tangent. But
Speaker:with that, shall we continue to dig into these pillars? Because
Speaker:we have talked the first three, and I'm quite curious about
Speaker:relationships. I include relationship in sort of one of my
Speaker:programs as well. And again, I find it's, it's talked
Speaker:about, but rarely in a corporate setting. It might be spoken of. The
Speaker:relationship you have with your coworkers is important, and maybe if
Speaker:there's some higher executives, they might learn about how to
Speaker:build strong relationships with your employees.
Speaker:But for you, within this program, how do you view relationships
Speaker:as a foundational pillar? Yeah. So how you do one thing
Speaker:is how you do everything. So the relationship, the way
Speaker:you foster your relationship with yourself is the same way you do it with a
Speaker:partner, with a lover, with your children, with your employees,
Speaker:with a boss, with a manager. The way you deal with conflict is
Speaker:the same exact way. Whether it's your partner or your
Speaker:boss, it doesn't matter. So how you do one thing you do, and all of
Speaker:them. Okay, let's say you're watching a masterclass on
Speaker:dealing with a relationship with a lover. You can learn information
Speaker:about this and apply it to the business world, apply it to your boss,
Speaker:your employees, whatever, because conflict is conflict. A
Speaker:relationship is a relationship. The way you foster one relationship, you foster
Speaker:the same exact with another person. Because humans,
Speaker:human interaction is interaction. Soul sees soul.
Speaker:Mm hmm. Mm hmm. I do appreciate that. And do you
Speaker:have a sort of baseline philosophy? You build this
Speaker:relationship, for example, a very common one is attachment theory. That's a common
Speaker:way of describing relationships. Is there a pre
Speaker:existing modality or principle that you use when discussing
Speaker:and teaching about strong relationships? I teach on relationships,
Speaker:personal development, spirituality, a little bit of, like, financial
Speaker:wealth. I don't teach on the relationship. Some
Speaker:teachers do have particular modalities.
Speaker:Some teachers just kind of go all over. And something that's really
Speaker:beautiful that we do in expansion alchemy is before someone signs
Speaker:up corporation wise, we give all of the
Speaker:employees as well as the managers and above,
Speaker:different surveys to fill out. Okay, what do you need help
Speaker:with? What do you need assistance with? Where do you think your team needs help
Speaker:with? Etcetera? Then from that, we, like, I give
Speaker:that survey to all of the teachers, and we create classes based off of what
Speaker:the needs of the students are. So if they need
Speaker:particular classes on relationships with themselves,
Speaker:relationships with their partners, whatever, then my teachers curate
Speaker:specific classes based off of that. Right. Okay. Okay. That makes sense. That
Speaker:makes sense. Lovely. Well, then perhaps we can, we can dig into this idea
Speaker:of finance as one of the things that, I don't know if it's
Speaker:tapped, tied in together, but one
Speaker:of the monikers. The hashtags that I saw you go by is
Speaker:millennial, manifester. It's so many people in the world of
Speaker:manifestation. It's like, what do you want to manifest? Money.
Speaker:Love and money. Everyone always wants love and money.
Speaker:Love and money is actually a beautiful correlation
Speaker:with one another. Like, if you're manifesting
Speaker:love and you're, like, at a, like,
Speaker:financial, like, either really well or really poorly, then
Speaker:the other one is going to ask you to up level and vice versa. Let's
Speaker:say you're in the best relationship of your life, but you're financially rock bottom.
Speaker:Like, your finances are asking you to expand because you've already
Speaker:done so. In the love part, they go hand in hand, which a lot of
Speaker:people don't. Don't realize that they do.
Speaker:Yeah, I like that a lot. And I found that looking at
Speaker:financial life as less of a number and more of an
Speaker:energy. So I guess kind of going back into the realm of spirit. It's
Speaker:like if an individual views
Speaker:finances from a different perspective, particularly if
Speaker:their baseline perspective is that of lack. But if they view finances
Speaker:as an outcome of value, it very much
Speaker:shifts how finances and financial wealth
Speaker:is developed. How do you feel about that? How does that line with you?
Speaker:I 100% agree with that. So
Speaker:we manifest from our subconscious mind. We manifest from your
Speaker:subconscious is all of your thoughts, your programming, all of the stuff your
Speaker:parents taught you, society has taught you when you were younger,
Speaker:your inner child, your. Your shadows when you were
Speaker:younger. So a lot of the time we get that lack because,
Speaker:okay, our parents, like, for example, myself, like, I had a lot
Speaker:of programming to do around money. I'm an immigrant to the
Speaker:US. I came to the US when I was really young. My parents were 20
Speaker:years old when we came to the US, like, with a little three year old.
Speaker:Like, they didn't have real jobs. Then my dad got in a work accident when
Speaker:I was ten years old. I had to grow up really quickly. Like, went to
Speaker:university really early. Then my dad stole $100,000 from me.
Speaker:Then, like, this happened. So, like, I had all of this programming, I had a
Speaker:lot of work around money to do it, and I'm still working on it. Like,
Speaker:it's still not 100% perfect, but that was all living in my
Speaker:subconscious mind. So your lack links to
Speaker:your inner child. Okay, maybe you were in a healthy.
Speaker:You had healthy parents growing up, but
Speaker:that you. Maybe your mom wasn't allowed to, like,
Speaker:spend money. Maybe it was just your dad being like a dictator pretty
Speaker:much, and you're like, oh, I have laughed because. But their relationship was
Speaker:loving. So whatever that dynamic might be, it
Speaker:all comes from, like, that subconscious mind. So we need to learn to
Speaker:reprogram that so that you feel worthy of
Speaker:having abundance, having financial wealth, having whatever. But it
Speaker:stems from that inner child. Okay, what did your inner child, look at this. What
Speaker:did your. And it's something we don't even like. That's what your subconscious
Speaker:is. Stuff that you don't even recognize because it's not conscious.
Speaker:It's living so deep in you, you might not even realize it.
Speaker:And that's where you really have to start looking. And yes, it is energetics. How
Speaker:can we change that energy? Because it's easy to reprogram
Speaker:your subconscious, like sitting in a breath work, doing some eFt, tapping,
Speaker:journaling, whatever it might be. Once you release that, you can
Speaker:reprogram it and give yourself a new story. And that's when you'll energetically
Speaker:start, like, feeling valuable, feeling like you're
Speaker:deserving worthiness, that you can have this. This,
Speaker:yeah. And again, it reinforces this principle that you have of
Speaker:the. The order in which one goes through the pillars is finances
Speaker:is often a
Speaker:afterthought, not an afterthought, a repercussion of doing the rest of the work. It's like
Speaker:that just sorts itself out. The principles are like, okay, I got this.
Speaker:It'll just fall. Make itself fall into place. Like some. Sometimes you
Speaker:might not even have to work on your finances at that point. They'll just. Just
Speaker:automatically raise because you've done the work.
Speaker:And I also like the, the love and money phrase that you said. What. What
Speaker:I found is these two things, for some reason,
Speaker:they. They go opposite of that. That famous Bible
Speaker:verse, seek and ye shall find. Right? It's like everything I've experienced in life,
Speaker:if I want it, I just look for it. I put. I put the intention
Speaker:out there, I put the effort in, and the thing appears or
Speaker:it gets created. But those two things, love and money, they're like the opposite. It's
Speaker:like the harder you look for love and the harder you
Speaker:want money, the further away they seem to get. And
Speaker:I'm curious if you've experienced that or you see something the same, and if
Speaker:so, what's going on with that? Because you need to detach.
Speaker:All about manifestation is letting go and detaching.
Speaker:I surrender. I know that it is coming now. God,
Speaker:it's been five minutes. Why is it my lover at my front door? Why
Speaker:isn't Prince Charming here? Come on. Come on, God, where is it? Where is
Speaker:it? Let go. Surrender everything in perfect,
Speaker:divine timing. Everything is going to happen. Just keep doing the work. Keep
Speaker:working on yourself and everything will fall into place. Don't have attachment
Speaker:when it's going to come. This is how it's going to happen. Because God's got
Speaker:a much better plan for you than you can ever imagine. And if you keep
Speaker:asking, knocking on his door like, he'll be like, yo, wait,
Speaker:just hang on, hold over here. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker:no, I really appreciate that. And I find that that tends to be the case
Speaker:too. Those two aspects, the love and money,
Speaker:they tend to be the byproduct of the inner
Speaker:work, the true alchemy an individual does.
Speaker:So as we've gone through this expansion alchemy, I'm curious if it feels
Speaker:alright with you if we can shift into some of the personal work that you
Speaker:do, because I understand you do indeed do coaching and professional, from
Speaker:what I've seen, a variety of coaching as well. So is it all right if
Speaker:we kind of shift directions into that area? Yeah. Okay.
Speaker:So with your personal coaching, what's your favorite?
Speaker:I'll just go ahead. What's your favorite type of mentor? I've gotten
Speaker:rid of the word coaching. I don't like coaching anymore and I
Speaker:just focus on spiritual mentoring at the moment. Spiritual and like integration
Speaker:mentoring. I work a lot with plant medicines. I facilitate plant
Speaker:plant medicines. I'm actually in the process of looking for land to buy a retreat
Speaker:to build a retreat center here in Colombia.
Speaker:So focusing a lot on pre, post integration mentoring.
Speaker:Spiritual mentoring. I do akashic records. I do a lot of stuff, but like the
Speaker:spiritual stuff, that's my jam. Yeah. Okay.
Speaker:Okay. So I want thank you for that distinction and correction
Speaker:between coaching and mentoring. I appreciate that. And when, when you
Speaker:talk about spiritual mentoring, what's that like for you? It's,
Speaker:it's something that I'm very interested in personally. And I imagine though, a lot of
Speaker:people listening are like, what are you talking about? Spiritual
Speaker:mentoring? So let me go
Speaker:backtrack a little bit about coaching and mentoring. Like what is the
Speaker:difference between the two? And why do I prefer one versus the other? Isn't it
Speaker:the same thing? And some people might think that. So coaching
Speaker:is okay. You've gone through Tony Robbins,
Speaker:you had your own like coach or mentor, and these are
Speaker:the seven steps that you need to take in order to do x, Y and
Speaker:z. Whereas a mentor teaches strictly based
Speaker:off of experience. Yes, I might implement some tools and
Speaker:techniques that I've learned along the way. But
Speaker:I was sick for so long, I sat in plant medicines.
Speaker:I did this, and I teach based off of my own
Speaker:experiences. This is what worked for me. This is what worked for other people.
Speaker:This is what I've seen work. This is what I've seen. Didn't work. Do not
Speaker:try this at home, whatever it might be. I teach off
Speaker:of experiences. That's what a mentor is versus a
Speaker:coach. Now, what was your question? I just went
Speaker:off on a tangent. So this idea of what exactly is
Speaker:spiritual mentoring? Yeah. So assisting
Speaker:people to raise their mind, body, and spirit, whether
Speaker:I have some clients that have never meditated before.
Speaker:They're just. I just want to feel better. I just want to wake up and
Speaker:not have anxiety. And I have a bunch of tools that I help them
Speaker:with, whether it's meditation, whether it's some akashic records, whatever it
Speaker:might be. Then I have some clients that are so deep on the
Speaker:path, and they're like, okay, I've been meditating every day
Speaker:for five years. I'm doing this. I'm doing this, and they just want to
Speaker:go in deeper. So for them, I usually work with plant medicines. I
Speaker:work with tools that might, they might have never heard of human
Speaker:design, going into astrology, whatever. And, like, I'm not an expert
Speaker:at all of these, but I know a lot of experts, and I do my
Speaker:own due diligence as well. Again, I'm a mentor, not a. I'm a coach.
Speaker:I know all of this, but this is what works. This is what I've tried.
Speaker:This is what I can help with. So diving into different, different
Speaker:tools and then plant medicines, a lot of the times for those people that are
Speaker:a. Lot more experienced as well, if you're comfortable with it. Can
Speaker:we dig into plant medicines? What's the preferred
Speaker:modality? I suppose the preferred plant, if you have one. And what's that
Speaker:process? Ayahuasca is my all time favorite.
Speaker:She's my favorite. I've been drinking with ayahuasca, working
Speaker:with the medicine for six years now. And just last
Speaker:November, I went to the jungle for two months to get initiated
Speaker:into a tribe so I can facilitate and serve the medicine. So I spent two
Speaker:months over there learning, and it's my
Speaker:medicine. What do you think about it? Has.
Speaker:Has called you with all the different, I guess, choices one
Speaker:has with spiritual plant medicines. What is it about ayahuasca that
Speaker:you love so much? So with anything, I really truly believe
Speaker:do it all and see what calls to you, see which one you really resonate
Speaker:with it, because there's no one size for spirituality.
Speaker:Not everything is for everyone. Ayahuasca is definitely not for
Speaker:everyone. Ever since the first time that I drank, I was
Speaker:like, oh, my God, this is amazing. Every single person on this planet needs to
Speaker:do this. I now have been working with this for six years. I know it
Speaker:is not for everyone, but I have that ayahuasca glow. I'm
Speaker:like, this is amazing. And little by
Speaker:little. So my first few ceremonies was just really working through
Speaker:a lot of the traumas that I had, a lot of the big stuff, as
Speaker:I like to say, ayahuasca first works on the big stuff, and now I'm over
Speaker:a hundred ceremonies in, like, I. She doesn't work. I don't
Speaker:have any more of that big stuff to work through anymore.
Speaker:But ever since the beginning, like, she started giving me little
Speaker:inklings, like, this is a lot more
Speaker:for you, for your soul to really work with
Speaker:me in a much more profound way, rather than just going
Speaker:as a. Like, as a passagero, as someone that's going there just for
Speaker:ceremony once a year, once every couple of years. Like, I also, I live
Speaker:in Medellin, so it's super accessible for me. I literally have ayahuasca in my
Speaker:cabinet at the. In the moment because I facilitate my own
Speaker:ceremonies for myself as well sometimes. Like, it's just a lot
Speaker:more accessible for me. And, like, she started just showing me inklings, like, this
Speaker:is going to be much deeper work for you because
Speaker:it's been so powerful. Me. For me, I've healed the most with
Speaker:ayahuasca. I've worked through the most is. It's been my most
Speaker:profound healing modality, and I'm really excited to bring it
Speaker:to the world. And this is why she started calling me, like, I surrendered and
Speaker:I listened. This is what she wanted. This is what's happening. That is
Speaker:beautiful, and she is a powerful medicine, so I
Speaker:appreciate the approach. Not for everyone, though. Please,
Speaker:if you're watching this, please do your due diligence. It is not
Speaker:for everyone. I would agree with that completely. One of the ceremonies
Speaker:that I went to, which was beautifully
Speaker:facilitated, unbelievably well done, but there
Speaker:was a lack of, once again, integration. So for me, I wouldn't.
Speaker:I wouldn't call it an ayahuasca glow. I would call it an
Speaker:ayahuasca atomic bomb, maybe. I'm not sure. There was no
Speaker:glow. It was just blasted open, totally blasted, which,
Speaker:of course, is amazing, but the lack of
Speaker:detailed integration really messed me up. Like, it really, really,
Speaker:genuinely messed me up. So I think not only is it do ones do
Speaker:due diligence and research, it's make sure that
Speaker:the person that you are going to that is hosting the ceremony or facilitating
Speaker:the ceremony has all the steps from the pre integration.
Speaker:To the actual ceremony. Yeah. And if not, this is why I do integration
Speaker:mentoring as well. I help people walk through ceremonies
Speaker:afterwards because sometimes I don't have. I just don't have the capacity to hold
Speaker:ceremony for everyone. So go drink somewhere else and then come back to me
Speaker:for the integration, either pre or post, whatever it might be.
Speaker:But that's something that once I open up my own center, I'll be
Speaker:focusing on very heavily doing pre and post integration.
Speaker:We're looking at like, doing some one on one stuff and then having like,
Speaker:even courses, like, pre stuff. Watch these before
Speaker:you come to ceremony. This is what you need to do. And then afterwards, like,
Speaker:okay, here are some steps. And then we'll do some one on one stuff. We'll
Speaker:do some group stuff as well because it's. It's so important. And like, I
Speaker:drank at maybe 15 different
Speaker:centers here in Columbia and all
Speaker:but one of them, one and a half, because the other one, they
Speaker:had an integration program, but it was separate. It was someone who,
Speaker:like, you paid. Additionally, it wasn't included in the ceremony.
Speaker:Only one center really focused on integration coaching and
Speaker:like post, and none of them did pre
Speaker:post, and then the other one had like a separate program. So I was like,
Speaker:this is something that, like, is needed. I need to help people with
Speaker:this. So that's something we'll really be focusing on once our center's up and
Speaker:running. I appreciate that a lot. I
Speaker:think that part, as I'm sure you could tell through the course of this
Speaker:conversation, I'm particularly passionate about the integration part, be it from plant
Speaker:medicine or just a lovely weekend retreat. I think that is
Speaker:an essential part of the process. So. So thank you for. For. For making that
Speaker:available to individuals who haven't gone through ceremony with
Speaker:you but are interested in integration. Yeah, it's definitely how to
Speaker:integrate the mind, body and spirit so it all becomes one. Because
Speaker:we know, like we were saying, it is all one. How do we integrate that?
Speaker:Okay. My body just went on this journey. My mind went freaking to planet
Speaker:Mars or somewhere. My spirit is flying over there in 6D
Speaker:right now. How do we put it all together? Mars, sixties, and
Speaker:actual Earth all in one.
Speaker:Exactly. And then get back on a plane and go back home
Speaker:and walk with the. The experience
Speaker:and the dignity afterwards. I think that that's essential. Yeah. So as
Speaker:we're coming close to our time together, I'm curious, is there anything that you
Speaker:feel we haven't discussed that you would like to dig into or any. Any
Speaker:conversation that we can deepen? I don't think so. I think we
Speaker:talked about all the good things at this point. That's wonderful. Great.
Speaker:Thank you. And there's one question that I ask virtually everybody. It's an ongoing
Speaker:curiosity I have. So as a mentor
Speaker:and a practitioner of sorts, and likely somebody who's gone to many different
Speaker:practitioners. In your opinion and in your experience, what
Speaker:makes a practitioner successful?
Speaker:Ooh. Just being there for a patient,
Speaker:like a real bedside manner is very important.
Speaker:Whether they're breaking down, because there's been times that I've been to doctors where I
Speaker:broke down or doing a Reiki session, Akashic records, whatever it might
Speaker:be, just being there for the person and
Speaker:holding space for them in a really beautiful way.
Speaker:Thank you. I think that is a wonderful answer. Thank you so much.
Speaker:Of course, all of the. Oh, yes. The links to all of your
Speaker:amazing endeavors and projects will all be in the show notes. And if
Speaker:anybody's interested, I'll make sure that they can get a hold of you and follow
Speaker:you quite easily from there. But I would really like to thank you for this
Speaker:conversation. I enjoyed it a lot, so thank you very much for your
Speaker:time. It's been a pleasure.