Hello, and welcome to the Borealis experience. I'm
Unknown:your host Aurora, life coach and companion on this beautiful
Unknown:journey called life. I'm simply so happy to be spending some
Unknown:minutes, a couple minutes with you today. Thank you so much for
Unknown:choosing me as your podcaster. And yeah, let's dive into
Unknown:today's topic. What do you go to work for? How do you feel about
Unknown:your job? I was live today on Facebook and talked about how I
Unknown:observe people who I love to ask questions about their jobs,
Unknown:because it is really, really important to see that you spent
Unknown:more time with your job with your co workers, then with your
Unknown:loved ones, and the way you pick your job, the way you wake up in
Unknown:the morning, really affects your mental health and how you feel
Unknown:about yourself, other people the world in general, so deeply.
Unknown:What I observed in recent months is that the people who are
Unknown:passionate, the people who are driven the people who are highly
Unknown:motivated, the people who are following their calling, have
Unknown:something about them, they have that spark in their eyes, they
Unknown:have that energy that is so incredibly magnetic. And they
Unknown:usually pick a job that is serving others, they're being of
Unknown:service to others through their job, they're not going to work
Unknown:every day, five times a week, to get a paycheck out of it, they
Unknown:get up in the morning, because they know they are making a
Unknown:change. They're they're making a difference they're making. They
Unknown:have a positive impact on society. And this is what drives
Unknown:them. Then there's people who get up in the morning and they
Unknown:press snooze 10,000 times first, and then they drag their
Unknown:beautiful little ass into work. And they're they hate every
Unknown:second they get along with their coworkers, they kind of hate
Unknown:their boss, they absolutely hate the activity that they engage
Unknown:in. But at the end of the month, I guess here in Canada is every
Unknown:two weeks even, they get a big fat paycheck. And with that
Unknown:money, they can allow themselves to pay their mortgage, send
Unknown:their children to an expensive school or get that vacation that
Unknown:they are longing for to get a break from this job that they
Unknown:are engaging in. Now in the tone with the tone, not I think we
Unknown:see it with the tone of my voice. You can already hear that
Unknown:person a when you meet them will feel very differently. To to
Unknown:meet than Person B, if you sit across from Person B you could
Unknown:probably literally see that they are not 100% happy with their
Unknown:choices. They say things like Yeah, but belts have to get
Unknown:paid. And you know, everybody has to go to work. Money doesn't
Unknown:grow on trees. Person A will speak very differently. They
Unknown:will be very enthusiastic about their job and you will see that
Unknown:they're just very positive about their job and it feels more like
Unknown:an activity or a hobby than a job. And you see Person A will
Unknown:be more likely to be happy and to have healthy relationships
Unknown:compared to person B because they're not really happy with
Unknown:what They do with most of their time, they're in it to get
Unknown:something from the big corporate from their job, they want that
Unknown:paycheck, and then eff off and tried to distract from their
Unknown:pain that they're experiencing on a soul level, mental
Unknown:emotional level on a daily basis. So very different
Unknown:approach very different attitudes. All this to say, if
Unknown:you are listening right now, and you feel that you are more like
Unknown:person be, I'm not judging you. I'm not trying to, you know,
Unknown:make you feel bad about your decisions. But what I want to
Unknown:tell you is that if you're struggling with health problems,
Unknown:mental emotional relationship issues, a clue could be that you
Unknown:are not happy, satisfied content, in alignment, feeling
Unknown:authentic with the job that you are engaging with. Engaging and
Unknown:my English is not really awesome today, but I know you get my
Unknown:point. And it is not about making radical changes, but it
Unknown:is about becoming aware of it. And then over time, making one
Unknown:degree changes, noticing things, observing yourself, feeling how
Unknown:your body feels, how your whole being feels, when you are
Unknown:engaging in this job. And then being more inquisitive. When it
Unknown:comes to what are you doing here? What is your soul calling?
Unknown:What is it that you would like to do more of in your life? What
Unknown:brings you to joy when you are in service to others. So
Unknown:sometimes we knew very clearly as a child what we wanted to
Unknown:become, but for some reason we let go of that dream. By the
Unknown:way, I'd love you to share your childhood dream job with me on
Unknown:Facebook. If you haven't yet, please subscribe to my podcast
Unknown:here. Or connect with me on Facebook, Aurora Eggert, because
Unknown:I'd love to hear what your childhood dream job was. And
Unknown:maybe it's still there, maybe you lost track of it. And I can
Unknown:be the one reminding you of again of it. So it is really
Unknown:important to know that your job has a heavy influence on how you
Unknown:feel about yourself. And today, I'm not talking about your boss
Unknown:and your co workers. That's a totally different story. But the
Unknown:activity itself, do you feel that you are making a
Unknown:difference? Do you even if it's just a very small wheel that you
Unknown:are in the system? But are you making this place? A better
Unknown:place? Are you supporting people? Are you helping people
Unknown:out? And you know, a streetsweeper? An accountant, a
Unknown:person who works at McDonald's? You could ask and if they give
Unknown:you an answer like yes, it brings me to joy to see people
Unknown:walk in a clean Street. It brings me to joy to serve people
Unknown:food that they enjoy. And to be able to support my family with
Unknown:paying their rent or if you're an accountant. It brings me to
Unknown:joy to help people out with crunching numbers and helping
Unknown:them to see new ways on how to spend money or how to go about
Unknown:their business because I love supporting people. So don't get
Unknown:me wrong. It doesn't matter what your job is. You don't have to
Unknown:be an entrepreneur who's inventing the next medicine
Unknown:against cancer. But it has to be of meaning to your soul. When
Unknown:you get up in the morning. I want you to see happy and lit up
Unknown:to go to work and if you can tell me that it doesn't feel
Unknown:like work, then that's even better. And again, if you are in
Unknown:a situation where you are in the system to get money out of it,
Unknown:then just become aware of this first and also be aware that it
Unknown:will impact how you think and feel about life, it will impact
Unknown:how you relate to people. Because when you're not happy at
Unknown:your job, how can you be a happy person, when relating to people
Unknown:you will be nagging, complaining, you will be a drag,
Unknown:you know you will be draining because people can sense that
Unknown:you're not content with yourself. And it can negatively
Unknown:impact relationships to the point where people don't want to
Unknown:hang out with you anymore. So I'm not saying that you are in a
Unknown:terrible situation, if you are now working in a job that is,
Unknown:you know, serving a certain purpose. But what I'm trying to
Unknown:inspire inside of you is that you go out and look, what isn't
Unknown:true alignment with yourself with your calling, and maybe one
Unknown:day you can make it a job. Or maybe you can start investing
Unknown:more time in a new hobby that feels like you would live in
Unknown:more alignment. All right, I'm gonna let you with this. And
Unknown:wish you a good rest of your day. Thank you so much for
Unknown:tuning in. And if you have a moment, if you want to give
Unknown:back, there's a link in the show notes where you can buy me a
Unknown:coffee. And yeah, I would totally appreciate that. Or you
Unknown:can leave me a review and rating on Apple podcasts and just
Unknown:helped me out in finding new listeners reaching more people.
Unknown:The podcast is totally for free, no sponsors. Heavy Lifting at
Unknown:all. And I want to make sure that I can help as many people
Unknown:as possible. And you are at a critical point in sharing with
Unknown:people and friends and spreading ease and empowerment around the
Unknown:globe. Thank you so much for being here, and I will be out
Unknown:there very soon again. Bye bye.