If you're intrinsically driven, you're going to go farther.
Speaker:It's been shown absolutely clearly that intrinsically driven individuals go
Speaker:farther in life and expand and do more in life and accomplish more and have more
Speaker:achievements in life than people that have to be motivated.
Speaker:Everybody lives
Speaker:with different space and time horizons.
Speaker:Let me give you an example,
Speaker:and this is generic and this may not apply because there's always a few
Speaker:variables, but as a general rule., In a company,
Speaker:the individual who's working in the factory, the factory worker,
Speaker:is very commonly living with smaller in space and time horizons.
Speaker:And they're living maybe day to day or week to week.
Speaker:And sometimes by the time they get their paycheck,
Speaker:they're already needing the next paycheck kind of thing.
Speaker:So from a financial perspective,
Speaker:their time horizons are very short and they need immediate needs,
Speaker:immediate gratification. And their space horizons is small,
Speaker:they live in a smaller space and see a smaller vision you might say of what
Speaker:they're going to do in life. Now that doesn't mean all of them do that.
Speaker:Some have big dreams and they start there and then they just expand.
Speaker:But very commonly the people that stay there redundantly,
Speaker:they have a smaller space and time horizon.
Speaker:The supervisor of that person may be one that lives week to
Speaker:week, maybe month to month.
Speaker:The lower manager may think month to month to year.
Speaker:Middle management may think in terms of a possibly a decade.
Speaker:The next level higher management may think in terms of a generation.
Speaker:And the CEO or the people who is the CEO of the company may be thinking in
Speaker:terms of, you know, a longer time frame,
Speaker:maybe even a century or at least a whole life span, possibly.
Speaker:And then you might have somebody who's the visionary who might think in terms of
Speaker:a century, then may you have somebody who's a real, you know, Sage,
Speaker:that might thinks in terms of way beyond their life, a legacy.
Speaker:And of course the soul, the most authentic individual within us,
Speaker:thinks in terms of eternity, at least from a theological perspective.
Speaker:So the magnitude of space and time in your innermost dominant thought determines
Speaker:the level of conscious evolution you've made. And in some cases,
Speaker:socioeconomically where you're playing,
Speaker:as well as the vision and achievement in your life.
Speaker:So how big is your vision? I I've said for many,
Speaker:many decades now, that if you want to make a difference in yourself,
Speaker:you need a vision at least as big as your family.
Speaker:If you want to be a leader in your family,
Speaker:you need a vision at least as big as your community.
Speaker:If you want to be number one in the community,
Speaker:you need a vision as big as your city. if you want to be number one in the city,
Speaker:you need a vision as big as your state.
Speaker:If you want to be number one in the state,
Speaker:you need a vision as big as your nation. If you want to make a national impact,
Speaker:you need a vision as big as the world. And if you want to make a global impact,
Speaker:you need an astronomical vision. And that's a bigger space and time horizon.
Speaker:So the magnitude of the space and time horizons determine the impact you have on
Speaker:this world. And I've asked millions of people if you, you know,
Speaker:how many of you want to make a difference in the world,
Speaker:everyone wants to make a difference and the different sizes of difference that
Speaker:they want to make. Some people have local differences.
Speaker:Some people have global differences. Today with the internet,
Speaker:everybody has the capacity to global difference.
Speaker:So we have now an advantage to expand those space and time horizons globally for
Speaker:and do something online that leaves a legacy, that lives beyond our life even.
Speaker:Seneca, the Roman poet and politician,
Speaker:said you measure an individual by their most distant ends.
Speaker:The ends of what they see in space and time for their lives.
Speaker:And so immediate gratification is not the same as long-term vision.
Speaker:Immediate gratification can cost you your life.
Speaker:That's why people that are addicted and compulsive, impulsive, addicted,
Speaker:immediate gratifying behavioral individuals,
Speaker:usually have to hit bottom to make change,
Speaker:where people that have long-term visions adapt resiliently to the next thing and
Speaker:they move on and keep expanding.
Speaker:So what is it that allows us to have a bigger vision of our own self,
Speaker:a broader state? Well, let me, first of all, say one thing, a horizon,
Speaker:the term horizon, if you think about standing out in the ocean,
Speaker:which I'm at right now, out, looking in the ocean,
Speaker:you can just see the farthest horizons, where you lose sight of things,
Speaker:your space horizon,
Speaker:and your time horizon is for planning objectives
Speaker:that are at the boundary of what you can perceive, you know, objectively.
Speaker:What can you see for yourself? When I first started at my 18 years old,
Speaker:started my speaking career, I couldn't see what I've gotten to do in my life,
Speaker:at the time. But every time I achieved something,
Speaker:the space and time horizons expanded,
Speaker:and I was able to give myself permission to work locally and then citywide,
Speaker:statewide, nationally, internationally, globally in the world,
Speaker:and have longer timeframes, to think of things beyond my life, perpetuity,
Speaker:what do I want to accomplish in my legacy after my life, even?
Speaker:So the horizons are where the boundary of where the kind of,
Speaker:what you can perceive with your senses and beyond that,
Speaker:where history and mystery kind of join.
Speaker:And that's why if you expand that you also expand your potential in life.
Speaker:And you know, I was told by Ed Tullison when I was about 20 years old,
Speaker:who was a mentor, who I was studying under. He said,
Speaker:never live where you can't see the farthest horizons,
Speaker:never live where you can't see the farthest horizon.
Speaker:Don't allow somebody else's space and time horizon's to constrict yours.
Speaker:And so I made sure that my homes and my offices were always at the top of
Speaker:buildings or top of mountains or out at sea or whatever,
Speaker:so I never had anything blocking my view. In my office in Houston,
Speaker:I'm on the 52nd floor, I can see farthest horizons.
Speaker:In my home in Australia I can see from the 62nd floor,
Speaker:as far as I could see, 63rd floor even, all the way out to the horizons.
Speaker:And I'm a firm believer that that you want to make sure that you give yourself
Speaker:permission to expand, not shrink, to radiate, not gravitate.
Speaker:So that leads me to something that I mention in almost every presentation I do,
Speaker:human values. Every human being lives by a set of priorities,
Speaker:a set of values, things that are most to least important in their life.
Speaker:Whatever's highest on your value is an intrinsic value that your identity
Speaker:revolves around,
Speaker:that you spontaneously are inspired to want to act upon and fulfill.
Speaker:But as you go down the list of values,
Speaker:they become less intrinsic and more extrinsically and derive from external
Speaker:sources to get you to move and do them.
Speaker:And I use the analogy of a young boy who loves video games,
Speaker:if he loves video games and his highest value is video games,
Speaker:you don't need to motivate him to do the video games.
Speaker:You don't need to say 'Johnny, go do that video game of yours.' 'Ah, mom,
Speaker:I don't want to do that.' 'Yes,
Speaker:go do your video game.' You don't have to say that,
Speaker:but whatever's low on his values, like maybe chores or homework,
Speaker:cleaning up his room,
Speaker:you may have to harp on him and keep on him and keep telling him if you don't do
Speaker:your cleaning your room and fix your clothes or whatever,
Speaker:you won't be able to go and play your video game.
Speaker:So you need extrinsic motivation,
Speaker:reward and punishment associations with things that are low on your value. Well,
Speaker:if you need motivation on the outside,
Speaker:you're not going to do as well as when you're intrinsically driven from the
Speaker:inside. I always say motivation is a symptom,
Speaker:never a solution for maximizing human potential in life. So,
Speaker:I'm not a motivational speaker.
Speaker:Motivational speaker's using rhetorical persuasion with rewards and punishments
Speaker:to get people to do things, push people uphill all day long.
Speaker:I have no interest in that. I'm an inspired educator,
Speaker:educating people on how to live inspired lives by finding out what's
Speaker:intrinsically important to them, whatever's highest on their value,
Speaker:and organize and structure their life accordingly.
Speaker:Now that's why I have on my website, the Value Determination process,
Speaker:which is free and complimentary and private.
Speaker:And if you've never taken the time to do the Value Determination process,
Speaker:please go on my website and take advantage of that,
Speaker:because that little tool can help you identify the difference between what
Speaker:intrinsically drives you and what has to be motivated.
Speaker:And if they're intrinsically driven, you're going to go farther.
Speaker:It's been shown absolutely clearly,
Speaker:that intrinsically driven individuals go farther in life and expand and do more
Speaker:in life and accomplish more and have more achievements in life than people that
Speaker:have to be motivated. You've seen them at work.
Speaker:If you have to motivate or keep reminding and push people uphill,
Speaker:it's frustrating, they just do what's bare minimum and they get by.
Speaker:They're looking for pleasure and trying to avoid pain and if they don't love
Speaker:their job and they're not engaged and they can't see how their job duties
Speaker:helping them fulfill what's really important to them,
Speaker:you got to push them all the time. And that's not who to hire,
Speaker:and that's not how you want to run your business.
Speaker:But if you find somebody that's engaged at work,
Speaker:that can see how the job duty is helping them fulfill their life,
Speaker:and they going to work, not for the company,
Speaker:but going there because they can fulfill what's meaningful to them,
Speaker:you don't need to motivate them.
Speaker:McGregor in the 1960s called them Y people vs X people.
Speaker:Y people are intrinsically driven and X people are people that have to be
Speaker:motivated all the time. And the people who are motivated all the time,
Speaker:they're looking for immediate gratification, they have
Speaker:they have to go take a break every hour on the hour,
Speaker:they're always asking for the next break, and when can I get vacations,
Speaker:when do I get bonus package,
Speaker:and benefits and they're always looking for what they can get out of it
Speaker:narcissistically,
Speaker:instead of actually what they can do to make a difference that brings
Speaker:fulfillment in life, intrinsically.
Speaker:Versus the person who's engaged and inspired by their career. They go, oh,
Speaker:I get to be paid to do what I love, this is amazing.
Speaker:And they're grateful for their job and they're present.
Speaker:And we've all walked into a grocery store, a bank,
Speaker:or some clothing store or some, you know,
Speaker:institute that where you can tell when people are really inspired and grateful
Speaker:for their job, they love what they're doing, they're inspired, they're enthused,
Speaker:they're inspired,
Speaker:they're certain and they're more present and they're more engaged and enthused.
Speaker:And you want to do business with them and you draw and magnetize business to
Speaker:them. When you're that way, you draw opportunity to your life.
Speaker:But when you're not, you push it away.
Speaker:Nobody wants to push people uphill all day long.
Speaker:No one wants to do business with someone like that.
Speaker:So you don't want to live your life with a shrinking mentality.
Speaker:You want expanded mentality. In fact, that's why they call them shrinks.
Speaker:The reason why psychiatric people go to the psychiatrist and they call them a
Speaker:shrink is because they're not doing something intrinsic that's inspiring to
Speaker:them. They're doing something that isn't and they're ending up depressed,
Speaker:because they're unfulfilled in life and they're going there and they're going to
Speaker:shrink them by making them, trying to push them, and through drugs,
Speaker:which make you dependent, a juvenile dependent on a drug,
Speaker:instead of being inspired, intrinsically within.
Speaker:So finding out what's highest on your value is crucial if you want to go and
Speaker:expand your space and time horizons.
Speaker:Just like a young boy when he finishes his video game, the second he does,
Speaker:he's wanting to go out and get a more advanced game,
Speaker:more expanded game that's more challenging. See,
Speaker:when you're doing something that's high in your values,
Speaker:you want to go and pursue challenges that inspire you,
Speaker:and you want to conquer them, and you're not going to give up.
Speaker:You see challenges as feedback to help you master the game.
Speaker:But when you're not engaged in the game,
Speaker:you see setbacks and challenges as failures, you don't want to do it, ah,
Speaker:it's not meant to be.
Speaker:So people who know what their highest values are and structure their life and
Speaker:set objectives that match highest values,
Speaker:are the ones that expand their space and time horizons.
Speaker:Any time you set a goal that's aligned with your highest values and you achieve
Speaker:it, you tend to want to achieve even more unachievable's.
Speaker:You want to keep going bigger. You want to do more. You know,
Speaker:when I first started writing books, when I was in my, early as twenties, 22,
Speaker:23 years old, I remember when I finished it,
Speaker:I already had the next one ready go into my mind.
Speaker:And when I finished that one had the next one ready go into my mind.
Speaker:So we have a tendency to automatically spontaneously,
Speaker:keep expanding our space and time horizons and do something bigger over a longer
Speaker:period of time and have patience and perseverance. And as Einstein said,
Speaker:perseverance is one of the keys to success.
Speaker:And when we live by our highest values, because our identity revolves around it,
Speaker:we feel it's really us, we're more authentic and we feel we know ourselves,
Speaker:and we're getting to do what's intrinsically meaningful,
Speaker:and it's a non derivative value from external stimuli and it's
Speaker:something that just intrinsically spontaneously acts.
Speaker:The brain has what is called evoke potentials from the senses and spontaneous
Speaker:potentials in the brain that fire when you're doing something that's truly
Speaker:meaningful to you. And that's the one that expands the space and time horizon.
Speaker:And every time you do, what's interesting is,
Speaker:there was a lovely lady that actually did work and got a Nobel prize
Speaker:on telomeres in the brain. And she did a Ted talk.
Speaker:And if you go and find this Ted talk on the telomeres in the brain,
Speaker:you'll find it. It's really amazing.
Speaker:Every time you're doing something that's high in your values,
Speaker:you create eustress and you are pursuing challenges that inspire you,
Speaker:instead of distress, which is you're trying to avoid challenges that don't.
Speaker:And when you do,
Speaker:telomerase enzyme goes up and the telomeres are added because your
Speaker:space and time horizons grow,
Speaker:your telomeres are added to fulfill those longer space and time horizons.
Speaker:People who set goals and plan ahead and have bigger time
Speaker:horizons and set up big visions, achieve more,
Speaker:and they have less distress in life.
Speaker:And they found the cytokines and inflammatory responses
Speaker:And even if you're working 18 hours a day towards your objective,
Speaker:you don't get distressed.
Speaker:You don't have problems with cardiovascular problems
Speaker:something that's meaningful.
Speaker:And this is very crucial if you want to have great achievement in life.
Speaker:So I'm a firm believer in prioritizing your life,
Speaker:delegating lower priority things, getting on with the highest priority things,
Speaker:and you automatically expand space and time horizons.
Speaker:You build incremental momentum like a domino into a bigger domino,
Speaker:to a bigger domino, every time you achieve something,
Speaker:you tend to want to achieve something greater.
Speaker:And that's why intrinsic values are way more important than extrinsic.
Speaker:And inspiration within is way more important than motivation from without.
Speaker:And being authentic,
Speaker:which is your highest values is way more powerful than being inauthentic in your
Speaker:lower values. Living by design instead of duty. And therefore,
Speaker:if you're not master planning your life and organizing how you want your life to
Speaker:look, you're going to let other people do it.
Speaker:See everyone around you has their own set of values,
Speaker:and they're trying to fulfill their highest value,
Speaker:and they're going to project their values onto you,
Speaker:they're going to love you according to their values and they're going to project
Speaker:what they think is important onto you, in their values.
Speaker:So if you have a person that has a high value,
Speaker:an individual has a high value on education,
Speaker:they're going to project onto you and ask you questions and engage you on
Speaker:something about education,
Speaker:try to show their love by making sure you're educated.
Speaker:Somebody else may think about health and they'll do the same thing with health.
Speaker:Others may be, are you having your children yet? I want to see grandchildren,
Speaker:and they'll project on. Others about your spiritual quest.
Speaker:Everybody around you has a different set of hierarchy values,
Speaker:and they all project that onto you. And if you, in any way,
Speaker:put them on a pedestal and inject those in and cloud
Speaker:the clarity of what's really important to you,
Speaker:you'll devalue yourself in comparison to them,
Speaker:you'll try to envy them and imitate them,
Speaker:which is suicide and death if you will, to your own identity,
Speaker:and you'll be second at being somebody else instead of first at being you.
Speaker:And whenever you do that,
Speaker:you're going to depreciate yourself and shrink your space and time horizons.
Speaker:We're not here to compare ourselves to others.
Speaker:We're here to compare our actions, in our own daily life, to our highest values.
Speaker:How well are we living according to what we feel is most inspiring and
Speaker:meaningful to us? And doing that in a way that serves other people.
Speaker:We're now not here to sacrifice for other people, but to serve other people,
Speaker:doing what we love in a way that fulfills what's important to them.
Speaker:And if we can do that and telecommunicate that,
Speaker:the door is opened up for continued expand and spanning space horizon.
Speaker:You see people like Elon Musk. They definitely have
Speaker:literally in space and long time horizons, you know,
Speaker:future going to Mars and things like that,
Speaker:because they're doing things that inspire them.
Speaker:They're looking for problems that would be an inspiring to solve on the planet.
Speaker:You know,
Speaker:the magnitude of space and time in your life is based on how big a problem you
Speaker:solve in the world. And if you're not solving a problem,
Speaker:you're not going to have fulfillment in life.
Speaker:That's part of what fulfillment is.
Speaker:We have a motor cortex in our brain for motor actions to be of service and a
Speaker:sensory area of the brain for receiving rewards.
Speaker:And the bigger the service we provide, the bigger the rewards we get.
Speaker:We can't get something for nothing or give something for nothing if we want
Speaker:sustainability, we have to put those into balance.
Speaker:And that's what fair exchange is.
Speaker:So prioritizing your life and sticking to high priority things is essential.
Speaker:And what's interesting is, there also,
Speaker:whenever you're not doing high priority things, your blood, glucose,
Speaker:and oxygen goes into the amygdala, which is a subcortical area in your brain.
Speaker:This area is involved in impulses and instincts,
Speaker:which are the two primary distractions that keep people from living by what's
Speaker:highest in their values. So if they're not living by priority,
Speaker:they're more vulnerable. In other words,
Speaker:that's another way of saying it is Parkinson's law,
Speaker:that if you don't fill your day with high priority actions that inspire you,
Speaker:that are deeply meaningful, that are most important to you,
Speaker:your day fills up with all this stuff that people try to project on you,
Speaker:unexpected things,
Speaker:and it wipes out the day and then you feel less important and devalued.
Speaker:And when you're feeling unfulfilled, you go into your amygdala, the blood,
Speaker:glucose, and oxygen goes in the amygdala,
Speaker:and you look for immediate gratification,
Speaker:and that's a shrunken space and time horizons. And we call that addiction,
Speaker:compulsion.
Speaker:And and we found out that people that do have small little timeframes,
Speaker:don't go as far in life. It's like the marshmallow experiment.
Speaker:When somebody's given the marshmallow and they have an option to not eat it now,
Speaker:but if they do, they get two, and if they still don't eat those,
Speaker:they'll get three.
Speaker:Those people that had delayed gratification end up
Speaker:bigger space and time horizon, they end up having more and doing more in life.
Speaker:Learn how to prioritize your life and determine your values and live by priority
Speaker:and expand your game.
Speaker:And that's why I want people to do the Breakthrough Experience because I know
Speaker:what I'm describing here is where I teach people how to transform that
Speaker:systems 1 to systems 2,
Speaker:I'm interested in helping you master how your brain works,
Speaker:master how your life works,
Speaker:so you can master your mind so you can master your life.
Speaker:That's what I'm interested in.
Speaker:That's why I teach people the Demartini Method and the Breakthrough Experience.
Speaker:That's why I do these little programs every week. It's My 50 years of research,
Speaker:summarized and condensed down into something you can
Speaker:use the rest of your life. You will use this method,
Speaker:the Demartini Method from now on,
Speaker:and the information there will be priceless and it'll be lasting.
Speaker:And you don't have to worry about whether it's solid.
Speaker:It will be demonstrated because you're going to do it and experience it
Speaker:firsthand. So come and join me at the Breakthrough Experience.
Speaker:There's no reason why you can't live an inspired life.
Speaker:And that's what this program's about. That's what I'm dedicated to.
Speaker:And I love helping people do that. So I want to help you do that.
Speaker:So when you come get ready to work,
Speaker:it's not a rara thing standing on your chairs and singing stuff and all that.
Speaker:It's about learning how to master your life.
Speaker:It's practical and it'll be useful I promise you.
Speaker:So I look forward to seeing you there.
Speaker:I thank you for being with me at this little presentation today.
Speaker:I hope it was mind expanding and I look forward to next week when I do the next
Speaker:program,
Speaker:but come and join me at the Breakthrough Experience that way I can help you do