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If you're intrinsically driven, you're going to go farther.

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It's been shown absolutely clearly that intrinsically driven individuals go

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farther in life and expand and do more in life and accomplish more and have more

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achievements in life than people that have to be motivated.

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Everybody lives

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with different space and time horizons.

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Let me give you an example,

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and this is generic and this may not apply because there's always a few

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variables, but as a general rule., In a company,

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the individual who's working in the factory, the factory worker,

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is very commonly living with smaller in space and time horizons.

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And they're living maybe day to day or week to week.

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And sometimes by the time they get their paycheck,

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they're already needing the next paycheck kind of thing.

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So from a financial perspective,

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their time horizons are very short and they need immediate needs,

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immediate gratification. And their space horizons is small,

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they live in a smaller space and see a smaller vision you might say of what

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they're going to do in life. Now that doesn't mean all of them do that.

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Some have big dreams and they start there and then they just expand.

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But very commonly the people that stay there redundantly,

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they have a smaller space and time horizon.

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The supervisor of that person may be one that lives week to

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week, maybe month to month.

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The lower manager may think month to month to year.

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Middle management may think in terms of a possibly a decade.

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The next level higher management may think in terms of a generation.

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And the CEO or the people who is the CEO of the company may be thinking in

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terms of, you know, a longer time frame,

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maybe even a century or at least a whole life span, possibly.

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And then you might have somebody who's the visionary who might think in terms of

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a century, then may you have somebody who's a real, you know, Sage,

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that might thinks in terms of way beyond their life, a legacy.

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And of course the soul, the most authentic individual within us,

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thinks in terms of eternity, at least from a theological perspective.

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So the magnitude of space and time in your innermost dominant thought determines

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the level of conscious evolution you've made. And in some cases,

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socioeconomically where you're playing,

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as well as the vision and achievement in your life.

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So how big is your vision? I I've said for many,

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many decades now, that if you want to make a difference in yourself,

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you need a vision at least as big as your family.

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If you want to be a leader in your family,

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you need a vision at least as big as your community.

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If you want to be number one in the community,

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you need a vision as big as your city. if you want to be number one in the city,

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you need a vision as big as your state.

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If you want to be number one in the state,

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you need a vision as big as your nation. If you want to make a national impact,

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you need a vision as big as the world. And if you want to make a global impact,

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you need an astronomical vision. And that's a bigger space and time horizon.

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So the magnitude of the space and time horizons determine the impact you have on

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this world. And I've asked millions of people if you, you know,

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how many of you want to make a difference in the world,

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everyone wants to make a difference and the different sizes of difference that

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they want to make. Some people have local differences.

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Some people have global differences. Today with the internet,

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everybody has the capacity to global difference.

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So we have now an advantage to expand those space and time horizons globally for

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and do something online that leaves a legacy, that lives beyond our life even.

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Seneca, the Roman poet and politician,

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said you measure an individual by their most distant ends.

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The ends of what they see in space and time for their lives.

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And so immediate gratification is not the same as long-term vision.

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Immediate gratification can cost you your life.

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That's why people that are addicted and compulsive, impulsive, addicted,

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immediate gratifying behavioral individuals,

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usually have to hit bottom to make change,

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where people that have long-term visions adapt resiliently to the next thing and

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they move on and keep expanding.

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So what is it that allows us to have a bigger vision of our own self,

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a broader state? Well, let me, first of all, say one thing, a horizon,

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the term horizon, if you think about standing out in the ocean,

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which I'm at right now, out, looking in the ocean,

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you can just see the farthest horizons, where you lose sight of things,

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your space horizon,

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and your time horizon is for planning objectives

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that are at the boundary of what you can perceive, you know, objectively.

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What can you see for yourself? When I first started at my 18 years old,

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started my speaking career, I couldn't see what I've gotten to do in my life,

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at the time. But every time I achieved something,

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the space and time horizons expanded,

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and I was able to give myself permission to work locally and then citywide,

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statewide, nationally, internationally, globally in the world,

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and have longer timeframes, to think of things beyond my life, perpetuity,

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what do I want to accomplish in my legacy after my life, even?

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So the horizons are where the boundary of where the kind of,

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what you can perceive with your senses and beyond that,

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where history and mystery kind of join.

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And that's why if you expand that you also expand your potential in life.

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And you know, I was told by Ed Tullison when I was about 20 years old,

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who was a mentor, who I was studying under. He said,

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never live where you can't see the farthest horizons,

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never live where you can't see the farthest horizon.

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Don't allow somebody else's space and time horizon's to constrict yours.

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And so I made sure that my homes and my offices were always at the top of

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buildings or top of mountains or out at sea or whatever,

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so I never had anything blocking my view. In my office in Houston,

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I'm on the 52nd floor, I can see farthest horizons.

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In my home in Australia I can see from the 62nd floor,

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as far as I could see, 63rd floor even, all the way out to the horizons.

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And I'm a firm believer that that you want to make sure that you give yourself

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permission to expand, not shrink, to radiate, not gravitate.

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So that leads me to something that I mention in almost every presentation I do,

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human values. Every human being lives by a set of priorities,

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a set of values, things that are most to least important in their life.

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Whatever's highest on your value is an intrinsic value that your identity

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revolves around,

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that you spontaneously are inspired to want to act upon and fulfill.

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But as you go down the list of values,

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they become less intrinsic and more extrinsically and derive from external

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sources to get you to move and do them.

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And I use the analogy of a young boy who loves video games,

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if he loves video games and his highest value is video games,

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you don't need to motivate him to do the video games.

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You don't need to say 'Johnny, go do that video game of yours.' 'Ah, mom,

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I don't want to do that.' 'Yes,

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go do your video game.' You don't have to say that,

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but whatever's low on his values, like maybe chores or homework,

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cleaning up his room,

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you may have to harp on him and keep on him and keep telling him if you don't do

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your cleaning your room and fix your clothes or whatever,

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you won't be able to go and play your video game.

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So you need extrinsic motivation,

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reward and punishment associations with things that are low on your value. Well,

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if you need motivation on the outside,

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you're not going to do as well as when you're intrinsically driven from the

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inside. I always say motivation is a symptom,

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never a solution for maximizing human potential in life. So,

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I'm not a motivational speaker.

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Motivational speaker's using rhetorical persuasion with rewards and punishments

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to get people to do things, push people uphill all day long.

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I have no interest in that. I'm an inspired educator,

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educating people on how to live inspired lives by finding out what's

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intrinsically important to them, whatever's highest on their value,

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and organize and structure their life accordingly.

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Now that's why I have on my website, the Value Determination process,

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which is free and complimentary and private.

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And if you've never taken the time to do the Value Determination process,

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please go on my website and take advantage of that,

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because that little tool can help you identify the difference between what

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intrinsically drives you and what has to be motivated.

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And if they're intrinsically driven, you're going to go farther.

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It's been shown absolutely clearly,

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that intrinsically driven individuals go farther in life and expand and do more

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in life and accomplish more and have more achievements in life than people that

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have to be motivated. You've seen them at work.

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If you have to motivate or keep reminding and push people uphill,

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it's frustrating, they just do what's bare minimum and they get by.

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They're looking for pleasure and trying to avoid pain and if they don't love

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their job and they're not engaged and they can't see how their job duties

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helping them fulfill what's really important to them,

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you got to push them all the time. And that's not who to hire,

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and that's not how you want to run your business.

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But if you find somebody that's engaged at work,

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that can see how the job duty is helping them fulfill their life,

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and they going to work, not for the company,

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but going there because they can fulfill what's meaningful to them,

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you don't need to motivate them.

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McGregor in the 1960s called them Y people vs X people.

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Y people are intrinsically driven and X people are people that have to be

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motivated all the time. And the people who are motivated all the time,

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they're looking for immediate gratification, they have

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they have to go take a break every hour on the hour,

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they're always asking for the next break, and when can I get vacations,

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when do I get bonus package,

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and benefits and they're always looking for what they can get out of it

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narcissistically,

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instead of actually what they can do to make a difference that brings

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fulfillment in life, intrinsically.

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Versus the person who's engaged and inspired by their career. They go, oh,

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I get to be paid to do what I love, this is amazing.

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And they're grateful for their job and they're present.

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And we've all walked into a grocery store, a bank,

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or some clothing store or some, you know,

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institute that where you can tell when people are really inspired and grateful

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for their job, they love what they're doing, they're inspired, they're enthused,

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they're inspired,

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they're certain and they're more present and they're more engaged and enthused.

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And you want to do business with them and you draw and magnetize business to

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them. When you're that way, you draw opportunity to your life.

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But when you're not, you push it away.

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Nobody wants to push people uphill all day long.

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No one wants to do business with someone like that.

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So you don't want to live your life with a shrinking mentality.

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You want expanded mentality. In fact, that's why they call them shrinks.

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The reason why psychiatric people go to the psychiatrist and they call them a

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shrink is because they're not doing something intrinsic that's inspiring to

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them. They're doing something that isn't and they're ending up depressed,

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because they're unfulfilled in life and they're going there and they're going to

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shrink them by making them, trying to push them, and through drugs,

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which make you dependent, a juvenile dependent on a drug,

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instead of being inspired, intrinsically within.

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So finding out what's highest on your value is crucial if you want to go and

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expand your space and time horizons.

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Just like a young boy when he finishes his video game, the second he does,

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he's wanting to go out and get a more advanced game,

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more expanded game that's more challenging. See,

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when you're doing something that's high in your values,

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you want to go and pursue challenges that inspire you,

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and you want to conquer them, and you're not going to give up.

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You see challenges as feedback to help you master the game.

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But when you're not engaged in the game,

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you see setbacks and challenges as failures, you don't want to do it, ah,

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it's not meant to be.

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So people who know what their highest values are and structure their life and

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set objectives that match highest values,

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are the ones that expand their space and time horizons.

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Any time you set a goal that's aligned with your highest values and you achieve

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it, you tend to want to achieve even more unachievable's.

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You want to keep going bigger. You want to do more. You know,

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when I first started writing books, when I was in my, early as twenties, 22,

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23 years old, I remember when I finished it,

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I already had the next one ready go into my mind.

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And when I finished that one had the next one ready go into my mind.

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So we have a tendency to automatically spontaneously,

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keep expanding our space and time horizons and do something bigger over a longer

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period of time and have patience and perseverance. And as Einstein said,

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perseverance is one of the keys to success.

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And when we live by our highest values, because our identity revolves around it,

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we feel it's really us, we're more authentic and we feel we know ourselves,

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and we're getting to do what's intrinsically meaningful,

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and it's a non derivative value from external stimuli and it's

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something that just intrinsically spontaneously acts.

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The brain has what is called evoke potentials from the senses and spontaneous

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potentials in the brain that fire when you're doing something that's truly

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meaningful to you. And that's the one that expands the space and time horizon.

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And every time you do, what's interesting is,

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there was a lovely lady that actually did work and got a Nobel prize

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on telomeres in the brain. And she did a Ted talk.

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And if you go and find this Ted talk on the telomeres in the brain,

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you'll find it. It's really amazing.

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Every time you're doing something that's high in your values,

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you create eustress and you are pursuing challenges that inspire you,

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instead of distress, which is you're trying to avoid challenges that don't.

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And when you do,

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telomerase enzyme goes up and the telomeres are added because your

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space and time horizons grow,

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your telomeres are added to fulfill those longer space and time horizons.

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People who set goals and plan ahead and have bigger time

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horizons and set up big visions, achieve more,

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and they have less distress in life.

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And they found the cytokines and inflammatory responses

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And even if you're working 18 hours a day towards your objective,

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you don't get distressed.

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You don't have problems with cardiovascular problems

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something that's meaningful.

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And this is very crucial if you want to have great achievement in life.

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So I'm a firm believer in prioritizing your life,

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delegating lower priority things, getting on with the highest priority things,

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and you automatically expand space and time horizons.

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You build incremental momentum like a domino into a bigger domino,

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to a bigger domino, every time you achieve something,

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you tend to want to achieve something greater.

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And that's why intrinsic values are way more important than extrinsic.

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And inspiration within is way more important than motivation from without.

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And being authentic,

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which is your highest values is way more powerful than being inauthentic in your

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lower values. Living by design instead of duty. And therefore,

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if you're not master planning your life and organizing how you want your life to

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look, you're going to let other people do it.

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See everyone around you has their own set of values,

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and they're trying to fulfill their highest value,

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and they're going to project their values onto you,

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they're going to love you according to their values and they're going to project

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what they think is important onto you, in their values.

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So if you have a person that has a high value,

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an individual has a high value on education,

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they're going to project onto you and ask you questions and engage you on

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something about education,

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try to show their love by making sure you're educated.

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Somebody else may think about health and they'll do the same thing with health.

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Others may be, are you having your children yet? I want to see grandchildren,

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and they'll project on. Others about your spiritual quest.

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Everybody around you has a different set of hierarchy values,

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and they all project that onto you. And if you, in any way,

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put them on a pedestal and inject those in and cloud

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the clarity of what's really important to you,

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you'll devalue yourself in comparison to them,

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you'll try to envy them and imitate them,

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which is suicide and death if you will, to your own identity,

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and you'll be second at being somebody else instead of first at being you.

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And whenever you do that,

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you're going to depreciate yourself and shrink your space and time horizons.

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We're not here to compare ourselves to others.

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We're here to compare our actions, in our own daily life, to our highest values.

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How well are we living according to what we feel is most inspiring and

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meaningful to us? And doing that in a way that serves other people.

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We're now not here to sacrifice for other people, but to serve other people,

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doing what we love in a way that fulfills what's important to them.

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And if we can do that and telecommunicate that,

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the door is opened up for continued expand and spanning space horizon.

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You see people like Elon Musk. They definitely have

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literally in space and long time horizons, you know,

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future going to Mars and things like that,

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because they're doing things that inspire them.

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They're looking for problems that would be an inspiring to solve on the planet.

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You know,

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the magnitude of space and time in your life is based on how big a problem you

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solve in the world. And if you're not solving a problem,

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you're not going to have fulfillment in life.

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That's part of what fulfillment is.

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We have a motor cortex in our brain for motor actions to be of service and a

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sensory area of the brain for receiving rewards.

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And the bigger the service we provide, the bigger the rewards we get.

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We can't get something for nothing or give something for nothing if we want

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sustainability, we have to put those into balance.

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And that's what fair exchange is.

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So prioritizing your life and sticking to high priority things is essential.

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And what's interesting is, there also,

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whenever you're not doing high priority things, your blood, glucose,

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and oxygen goes into the amygdala, which is a subcortical area in your brain.

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This area is involved in impulses and instincts,

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which are the two primary distractions that keep people from living by what's

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highest in their values. So if they're not living by priority,

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they're more vulnerable. In other words,

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that's another way of saying it is Parkinson's law,

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that if you don't fill your day with high priority actions that inspire you,

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that are deeply meaningful, that are most important to you,

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your day fills up with all this stuff that people try to project on you,

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unexpected things,

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and it wipes out the day and then you feel less important and devalued.

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And when you're feeling unfulfilled, you go into your amygdala, the blood,

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glucose, and oxygen goes in the amygdala,

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and you look for immediate gratification,

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and that's a shrunken space and time horizons. And we call that addiction,

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compulsion.

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And and we found out that people that do have small little timeframes,

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don't go as far in life. It's like the marshmallow experiment.

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When somebody's given the marshmallow and they have an option to not eat it now,

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but if they do, they get two, and if they still don't eat those,

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they'll get three.

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Those people that had delayed gratification end up

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bigger space and time horizon, they end up having more and doing more in life.

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Learn how to prioritize your life and determine your values and live by priority

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and expand your game.

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And that's why I want people to do the Breakthrough Experience because I know

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what I'm describing here is where I teach people how to transform that

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systems 1 to systems 2,

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I'm interested in helping you master how your brain works,

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master how your life works,

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so you can master your mind so you can master your life.

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That's what I'm interested in.

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That's why I teach people the Demartini Method and the Breakthrough Experience.

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That's why I do these little programs every week. It's My 50 years of research,

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summarized and condensed down into something you can

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use the rest of your life. You will use this method,

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the Demartini Method from now on,

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and the information there will be priceless and it'll be lasting.

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And you don't have to worry about whether it's solid.

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It will be demonstrated because you're going to do it and experience it

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firsthand. So come and join me at the Breakthrough Experience.

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There's no reason why you can't live an inspired life.

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And that's what this program's about. That's what I'm dedicated to.

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And I love helping people do that. So I want to help you do that.

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So when you come get ready to work,

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it's not a rara thing standing on your chairs and singing stuff and all that.

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It's about learning how to master your life.

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It's practical and it'll be useful I promise you.

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So I look forward to seeing you there.

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I thank you for being with me at this little presentation today.

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I hope it was mind expanding and I look forward to next week when I do the next

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program,

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but come and join me at the Breakthrough Experience that way I can help you do