Bad financial data hurts you every single day in your
Kendra Nicole:business, because especially if you're using that data to make decisions,
Kendra Nicole:garbage in, garbage out, right?
Kendra Nicole:So if I'm trying to determine how I'm going to scale my business
Kendra Nicole:based on garbage data, I'm not going to scale my business properly.
Kendra Nicole:You
Tim Winders:What if you could redefine the grind of entrepreneurship into
Tim Winders:a journey of Peace and profits.
Tim Winders:Welcome to Seek, Go Create where today's guest, Kendra Nicole, shares
Tim Winders:her revolutionary approach to business.
Tim Winders:As a fractional CFO, Kendra has transitioned from running her
Tim Winders:successful accounting firm to empowering entrepreneurs to build
Tim Winders:sustainable, scalable businesses without sacrificing their wellbeing.
Tim Winders:Balancing her roles as a CEO, wife, mother, Kendra embodies the principles
Tim Winders:she teaches, proving that it's possible to achieve financial success
Tim Winders:alongside personal fulfillment.
Tim Winders:welcome to Seek Go Create.
Kendra Nicole:Thank you.
Kendra Nicole:Thank you.
Kendra Nicole:I appreciate it.
Kendra Nicole:I love being here.
Tim Winders:I'm glad you're here too.
Tim Winders:Kendra, Nicole, welcome.
Tim Winders:Let's do this first before we start.
Tim Winders:If, if somebody bumps into you, you run into somebody, you're traveling,
Tim Winders:you're out with, you're out with your child, something like that.
Tim Winders:And they say, what do you do?
Tim Winders:What do you tell people?
Kendra Nicole:Yeah, I tell them I'm a little bit of a superhero.
Kendra Nicole:Honestly, I'm a wife.
Kendra Nicole:I'm a mom.
Kendra Nicole:so it's hodler at that.
Kendra Nicole:I, run a business called the finance film, which is a
Kendra Nicole:virtual CFO and accounting firm.
Kendra Nicole:exclusively support women on entrepreneur or women entrepreneurs,
Kendra Nicole:and do all the things from a book, bookkeeping, financial reporting,
Kendra Nicole:investor relations, fractional CFO work.
Kendra Nicole:And yeah, so I've been, we, I run that business my day to day and
Kendra Nicole:I, I try to run the household a little bit as best as I can as well.
Kendra Nicole:And, do all the, all the things,
Tim Winders:so superheroes, you mentioned that word.
Tim Winders:So I'm going to ask this question.
Tim Winders:Superheroes usually have some type of a superpower.
Tim Winders:And it's something that sort of defines them.
Tim Winders:What's weird is, in these Marvel and DC universes, usually there was some kind
Tim Winders:of accident that occurred that brought out their, their, their superpower.
Tim Winders:But, what, what are your superpowers?
Kendra Nicole:I feel like I have grown over the years to have the
Kendra Nicole:ability to stay calm and chaos, which was not always the case.
Kendra Nicole:if there was a tornado going around me, I was going around in the tornado with it.
Kendra Nicole:But, over the last few years, probably three, four years or so,
Kendra Nicole:which my son is three and a half.
Kendra Nicole:So yeah, I'll say about three years, I have learned to, how to find
Kendra Nicole:calm in the chaos, which I do feel like is a superpower these days.
Tim Winders:Probably not anything that you master though, or we have,
Tim Winders:we have a four year old and a two year old granddaughters, grandchildren.
Tim Winders:And we talked to our daughter and, we've parented, but we're, we're beyond it.
Tim Winders:We're done with that.
Tim Winders:It seems like it's extremely tough in the world and culture we're in today.
Tim Winders:I don't know if it's different or whatever.
Tim Winders:I mean, it seems like there's always something going on, right?
Kendra Nicole:Absolutely.
Kendra Nicole:And, and four and two.
Kendra Nicole:so that means that your grandbabies came into the world around the time
Kendra Nicole:that Carter did with pandemic and all of that, that was going on as well.
Kendra Nicole:And it's just different.
Kendra Nicole:Of course, Carter's my first child, so I don't know how, how it is having a child
Kendra Nicole:outside of a pandemic, but I do know that.
Kendra Nicole:it's just been a really rough welcoming to motherhood, when you can't have
Kendra Nicole:friends and family over to travel to see you and, so it was definitely hard.
Kendra Nicole:And yes, you're right.
Kendra Nicole:There's no mastering the calm in chaos.
Kendra Nicole:There's kind of just, taking it day by day and trying to grasp onto it.
Kendra Nicole:As much as you can.
Kendra Nicole:And sometimes it will slip through your fingers and you will be amongst the
Kendra Nicole:chaos, but it's as much as you can.
Kendra Nicole:I'm holding on to that calm and knowing that, this too shall pass with everything.
Kendra Nicole:This too shall pass.
Tim Winders:Yeah, that's interesting.
Tim Winders:I forgot that our, our oldest granddaughter was
Tim Winders:born like February of 2020.
Tim Winders:So it sounds like, you were
Tim Winders:short later that year.
Tim Winders:and and it was real odd.
Tim Winders:We were in Colorado when she was born and we were around there and we, we
Tim Winders:weren't supposed to visit, but we did anyway, it's hard to not do that.
Tim Winders:But I do believe like for her first six months or something,
Tim Winders:I don't know that she left.
Tim Winders:I mean, I don't know, they couldn't go to church.
Tim Winders:They couldn't go out.
Tim Winders:Anywhere.
Tim Winders:And I think we talked about it.
Tim Winders:What, what kind of impact is that going to have on that group of,
Tim Winders:of children, that didn't get out, but you know, she seems okay.
Tim Winders:did you say what's, what's his name?
Tim Winders:Carter.
Tim Winders:Wait, what's the name?
Kendra Nicole:Carter.
Tim Winders:How, I mean,
Tim Winders:adjusting.
Tim Winders:I mean, kids adjust well though, don't they?
Kendra Nicole:Yeah, my dad always told me, children are very
Kendra Nicole:resilient and I see it all the time.
Kendra Nicole:And, he's this life has definitely put that to the test where I'm able to
Kendra Nicole:see it day in and day out that they're very resilient because I was worried,
Kendra Nicole:his first year of life because to your point, he was born in September 2020.
Kendra Nicole:So his first year of life, everyone's talking with a mask.
Kendra Nicole:So we're like, how is he going to learn how to speak in phonetics?
Kendra Nicole:And everyone's mouth is covered.
Kendra Nicole:And my dad is like, kids are resilient.
Kendra Nicole:Don't worry.
Kendra Nicole:He'll be fine, so yeah, I mean, from what I can tell, everything seems seems
Kendra Nicole:fine, but I do believe there's going to be like a docuseries on, new moms
Kendra Nicole:during the pandemic, like there has to be something that's going to come out at some
Tim Winders:I think the kids are resilient.
Tim Winders:I'm not sure if the parents and the adults are, we're
Tim Winders:thinking about all these things.
Tim Winders:Yeah, I can kind of see it 20 years from now.
Tim Winders:It's like the, the, the COVID, the pandemic generation, they were
Tim Winders:born during that 12 to 24 months.
Tim Winders:how are they doing now?
Tim Winders:And I I think they're, Going to be just fine, but that does bring
Tim Winders:up something that it, it seems as if you have narrowed down with how
Tim Winders:you work and who you work with.
Tim Winders:And that is female entrepreneurs, which are going through
Tim Winders:what you're talking about.
Tim Winders:And, I, I, I do want to say this.
Tim Winders:There's, there's some irony in, a guy, first of all, an older, mature
Tim Winders:guy, like me asking these questions.
Tim Winders:It's just different though.
Tim Winders:And I mean, I think if we can't say it's different, then we're
Tim Winders:kind of fooling ourselves.
Tim Winders:Guys, men are going through different.
Tim Winders:Stuff than the women, female entrepreneurs, leaders
Tim Winders:that you're working with.
Tim Winders:So just kind of big picture, kind of talk about what are some of those challenges?
Tim Winders:We probably have already addressed some, but what are some of those that that those
Tim Winders:leaders are dealing with, especially the female leaders that you interact with?
Tim Winders:Sure.
Kendra Nicole:Yeah.
Kendra Nicole:And I appreciate you, you saying that.
Kendra Nicole:so when I started and wanted to really focus on women
Kendra Nicole:entrepreneurs, it was because.
Kendra Nicole:I was coming out of corporate where I was, I actually had a lot of male
Kendra Nicole:bosses and they were all excellent.
Kendra Nicole:I've loved every single boss that I had in corporate.
Kendra Nicole:but I would see some of the leaders, the company I was working for at the time,
Kendra Nicole:the CFO was actually a woman and, she was, privately having these conversations with
Kendra Nicole:some of us, like female colleagues about like how hard it was with her children.
Kendra Nicole:Her children were really young and, she would kind of give us these lessons
Kendra Nicole:when you do have children, think about this and think about that and kind
Kendra Nicole:of like coaching us a little bit, but it was like these side conversations.
Kendra Nicole:and so that kind of struck something in me that, okay, women, we need support.
Kendra Nicole:Like we should be able to Not just have these conversations with their colleagues,
Kendra Nicole:but have them openly and understand that, yes, there are things that we have to kind
Kendra Nicole:of deal with even, even if the household is, split 50 50, which can it ever be.
Kendra Nicole:But even if it's kind of well managed, there's still just things
Kendra Nicole:physically that you take on when you are either going through having
Kendra Nicole:children or emotionally, hormonally.
Kendra Nicole:so that's really why I wanted to focus in on supporting women when
Kendra Nicole:it came to, kind of birthing their entrepreneurial journey as well.
Tim Winders:And, and, and listen, I want to say, I'm a man, I've been through
Tim Winders:all of that, my best bosses, leaders that I interacted with way back when I
Tim Winders:did corporate, they were all females.
Tim Winders:And, and also want to say that on the flip side of all the things you just mentioned,
Tim Winders:us men, we don't really know what to do.
Tim Winders:We, we.
Tim Winders:Couldn't handle all of those superpowers.
Tim Winders:We're just not equipped to do it.
Tim Winders:And also want to say this, it's probably not fair.
Tim Winders:It is probably not a fair structure and system.
Tim Winders:My wife would probably chime in and say, yeah, it's not, but.
Tim Winders:But it is what it is.
Tim Winders:And you've been through, so you've had, you've had like, transitions
Tim Winders:and shifts in your career.
Tim Winders:And, are you originally from the South Clemson university?
Tim Winders:Where, where are you originally from before you went to Clemson?
Kendra Nicole:I did.
Kendra Nicole:I lived in South Carolina for a little while.
Kendra Nicole:So I went to high school in South Carolina and, fell in love with Clemson.
Kendra Nicole:And so that's why I ended up going, going there for school, but definitely
Kendra Nicole:have had several, transitions.
Kendra Nicole:I would say the largest were, was, obviously, just
Kendra Nicole:going into corporate, right?
Kendra Nicole:Like real life, going from college to corporate and then
Kendra Nicole:climbing that corporate ladder.
Kendra Nicole:my goal was always to stay in corporate.
Kendra Nicole:I knew nothing about entrepreneurship.
Kendra Nicole:Like I do not have an entrepreneurship family.
Kendra Nicole:I'm definitely a corporate climbing family.
Kendra Nicole:so when I started into entrepreneurship, that transition was very new
Kendra Nicole:and very different for me.
Kendra Nicole:And that was probably the biggest one.
Kendra Nicole:like the first one that I, that I kind of took.
Tim Winders:So what was, when, when you entered that corporate world and we're
Tim Winders:going to tie some of this together as it leads into what you're doing now, but
Tim Winders:when you entered that corporate world, you mentioned climbing the ladder,
Tim Winders:but what How did you define success?
Tim Winders:One of the things we do here is we talk a lot about success and how we
Tim Winders:define it and how it changes over time.
Tim Winders:But when, coming out of college, going into corporate, what was your definition
Tim Winders:of success then, if you can recall?
Kendra Nicole:Yeah.
Kendra Nicole:So my dad had a big part in that.
Kendra Nicole:He actually worked at Toyota for over 30 years and was like way
Kendra Nicole:up there, one of the high execs.
Kendra Nicole:And so I always saw that.
Kendra Nicole:And my mom was in accounting and she was climbing as well.
Kendra Nicole:And so I always saw that and was just like, okay.
Kendra Nicole:This is what I want to do is like climb and just become this top executive.
Kendra Nicole:And, he was the first black man to do this at Toyota.
Kendra Nicole:And I was like, I'm going to be the first black woman to do this.
Kendra Nicole:And so I wanted, I wanted that, that was success to me.
Kendra Nicole:and so because I also had, like I said, amazing bosses and
Kendra Nicole:leadership, it felt easy to do.
Kendra Nicole:So I was like, okay, yeah, that's great.
Kendra Nicole:This is, this is, What I'm going to do.
Tim Winders:so here's what I noticed.
Tim Winders:I came out and I did corporate for a little while.
Tim Winders:I had already started a business though, and I'm probably 20 years
Tim Winders:ahead of you or before you, I guess.
Tim Winders:And one of the things that I realized as I was thinking about that corporate
Tim Winders:ladder was that paradigm of 30 years, be in one spot forever, it
Tim Winders:didn't seem to play out like that.
Tim Winders:Much.
Tim Winders:I'm not saying it's totally gone, but at what point did you realize
Tim Winders:it may not be that what your dad had as success, which was 30 years,
Tim Winders:same spot, moving up, same company, pension plan, all that kind of stuff.
Tim Winders:Did, did that, did that, did you realize at some point,
Tim Winders:Hmm, a little bit different.
Kendra Nicole:Oh, absolutely.
Kendra Nicole:and my dad realized it too, because every two years I was changing companies,
Kendra Nicole:not even just positions, but companies and sometimes States altogether.
Kendra Nicole:And so my dad, I remember, when I left GE actually, which I was
Kendra Nicole:there probably like four years.
Kendra Nicole:So he really thought that was going to be like, he was like,
Kendra Nicole:Oh, she's going to be her Toyota.
Kendra Nicole:I knew he, I know he thought that.
Kendra Nicole:And so when I left there, not only did I leave the company, but I left the state
Kendra Nicole:and he was just like, What are you doing?
Kendra Nicole:You're moving again.
Kendra Nicole:You're changing again.
Kendra Nicole:Like, what are you doing?
Kendra Nicole:so I knew in that moment, I didn't, it wasn't about entrepreneurship.
Kendra Nicole:I just knew that I wasn't going to be the 30 year lifer to one company.
Kendra Nicole:and I was all about, Hey, Dad, every time I move and change positions, I
Kendra Nicole:learned something vastly different.
Kendra Nicole:That I couldn't learn if I just stayed in the same company.
Kendra Nicole:And, I very, I very clearly still remember that conversation.
Tim Winders:Did you ever, did you regret or not regret, or did you like
Tim Winders:hesitate to communicate with him when you were about to make a move at the reason
Tim Winders:I bring up, this has been years ago.
Tim Winders:My mother, I was, I was at Bell South large corporation for about nine years
Tim Winders:and I had 10 jobs over the course of those nine years, moved around,
Tim Winders:bounced around mostly the Atlanta area because they were based there.
Tim Winders:And I remember my mom, which probably was my dad saying something similar was,
Tim Winders:can't you find anything that you can do?
Tim Winders:Or can't you settle in?
Tim Winders:And I, I, the answer was no, not really because of, it just
Tim Winders:wasn't that environment anymore.
Tim Winders:Did you, did you have, and and I'll say it this way.
Tim Winders:Was there a sense of, I don't like using the word failure, so we might could try
Tim Winders:to use another word, but was there ever a
Tim Winders:sense of Failure because it wasn't that model that you knew from your family.
Kendra Nicole:yeah, that's a really good question.
Kendra Nicole:I would say it was, and I agree that failure might not be the
Kendra Nicole:right word, but that it was.
Kendra Nicole:Maybe like disappointment where maybe I felt like I was kind of
Kendra Nicole:disappointing my dad because I'm not exactly doing it, the way that he did.
Kendra Nicole:Meanwhile, my mom is like, go for it.
Kendra Nicole:whatever, whatever it makes you happy.
Kendra Nicole:so I always had that balance, which was great.
Kendra Nicole:but yeah, I definitely feel like there was a sense of, Disappointing
Kendra Nicole:him by not going in that exact.
Tim Winders:Right.
Tim Winders:Good.
Tim Winders:All right.
Tim Winders:So you moved around a good bit and had some corporate experience.
Tim Winders:Give me, and maybe this is high level, low level, whatever.
Tim Winders:Give me maybe the best thing or the top thing that you learned during that time.
Tim Winders:And then maybe something that wasn't as positive that you, that you kind of have
Tim Winders:taken from those years, Kendra, the early years or whatever we want to call it.
Kendra Nicole:Yeah.
Kendra Nicole:so I was in corporate for sure.
Kendra Nicole:One of the big things that I learned was the relationships.
Kendra Nicole:So the, like I said, the, the CFO and how she would kind of bring some of
Kendra Nicole:this, us women, like under her wing.
Kendra Nicole:And then even the relationship between the CFO and the CEO, that's kind of.
Kendra Nicole:How my love for this whole fractional CFO business, how that came about
Kendra Nicole:because I saw the relationship between the CEO how they would not move
Kendra Nicole:forward in the business without coming together in the boardroom and talking
Kendra Nicole:over the numbers and all the things.
Kendra Nicole:so relationships is something that was, a large part of my learnings in corporate.
Kendra Nicole:and I would say on the opposite end of that, it might be, honestly,
Kendra Nicole:maybe something similar in that if you're, if you're not.
Kendra Nicole:making those great relationships.
Kendra Nicole:Sometimes it's not about how great you are and how great of the work
Kendra Nicole:that you can do, but it's maybe about your lack of relationship.
Kendra Nicole:And so it's, it's kind of one of those, I guess, double edge swords where it
Kendra Nicole:could be great and amazing if you had the relationship and it was built the
Kendra Nicole:way that, whoever thinks that it should be built, but if you don't have it, you
Kendra Nicole:might miss out on certain opportunities.
Tim Winders:I think I heard someone say one time that they were
Tim Winders:talking about business or something.
Tim Winders:They said, yeah, the best thing about what we do, they're the people.
Tim Winders:And then they said, the worst thing about what we do are the people.
Tim Winders:And I, I do see that now as you.
Tim Winders:Transition to when you left corporate, did you start your own thing immediately?
Tim Winders:Did you decide you were leaving?
Tim Winders:Was it a side hustle?
Tim Winders:What was that transition like moving away from that corporate experience?
Kendra Nicole:So entrepreneurship literally fell in my lap.
Kendra Nicole:And I know it's like cliche when folks say that it truly did.
Kendra Nicole:I was climbing this ladder.
Kendra Nicole:I had the goal to get, the floor to ceiling glass windows, corner
Kendra Nicole:office, like that was my goal.
Kendra Nicole:And, but I had friends who were starting businesses and who were
Kendra Nicole:doing great in their business.
Kendra Nicole:I mean, they were making millions of dollars.
Kendra Nicole:And sales and their business each year.
Kendra Nicole:And so I'm thinking, and they're on social media, like, about
Kendra Nicole:all their sales and everything.
Kendra Nicole:And I'm like, Oh, they're just living the life.
Kendra Nicole:But then behind closed doors, they'll come to me and they'll say, I'm struggling.
Kendra Nicole:Like these numbers aren't making sense.
Kendra Nicole:Can you help me?
Kendra Nicole:And so I'm like, sure.
Kendra Nicole:Put me in touch with your accountant.
Kendra Nicole:And they don't have an accountant.
Kendra Nicole:They're like, I don't have an accountant.
Kendra Nicole:What are you talking about?
Kendra Nicole:And so I'm like, how are you making millions in your business?
Kendra Nicole:And you don't have an accountant, a bookkeeper, anything.
Kendra Nicole:And so that's when I started to work with them on the side, not thinking
Kendra Nicole:at all, this would be a business, just thinking I'm helping out a few friends.
Kendra Nicole:But those first couple of friends after a few months in their business, completely
Kendra Nicole:turning around just because they had visibility into what they were doing.
Kendra Nicole:And of course, as an entrepreneur, if your business is doing
Kendra Nicole:well, then like your life.
Kendra Nicole:Like it's a personal thing, and so when I saw that turnaround for them after
Kendra Nicole:just a few months of working together, it clicked instantly that like, this
Kendra Nicole:is what I'm supposed to be doing.
Kendra Nicole:So like corporate was like paid training to be able to help these women in
Kendra Nicole:real life, with their small business, make, Changes in their business.
Kendra Nicole:And so once I saw that I was like, gee, he's going to make billions of
Kendra Nicole:dollars, whether I show up to work or not, but these women might close the
Kendra Nicole:doors if we don't show up for them.
Kendra Nicole:that's how the transition happened.
Kendra Nicole:And I would say after about five or six months of kind of side hustling
Kendra Nicole:it with friends on the side is when I left corporate and started full time.
Tim Winders:And so one of the things that comes up when we talk
Tim Winders:about business owners, let me address this before I move farther.
Tim Winders:It's amazing how sometimes social media doesn't portray the whole story.
Tim Winders:you said, Oh, they're killing it.
Tim Winders:They're doing so great.
Tim Winders:And then, and yeah, they might have that revenue come in, but
Tim Winders:there's the behind the curtain.
Tim Winders:It wouldn't be great if we actually hadn't, A true reading
Tim Winders:or gauge of, of what's going on.
Tim Winders:So you kind of get to look under the hood a good
Tim Winders:bit with people, which is pretty powerful.
Tim Winders:And you could probably find out what's really going on before we get
Tim Winders:into some of those details though.
Tim Winders:I'm always fascinated when I talk to people that deal with money.
Tim Winders:And, and I want to, there's a couple of things I want to talk about here before
Tim Winders:we kind of go into all the services you provide and what you're doing
Tim Winders:and some things we could learn from the people that you're working with.
Tim Winders:And that is what has been over the course of your life, what has been
Tim Winders:your relationship with money and what has been some of the things
Tim Winders:you've learned from seeing how other people, especially business
Tim Winders:people and owners deal with money.
Tim Winders:So first of all, talk about money.
Tim Winders:Is it something that drives you?
Tim Winders:Is it something you've always thought about?
Tim Winders:You've always been good at dealing with it or anything you want to
Tim Winders:share about money air quotes for those that are listening in here.
Kendra Nicole:Yeah.
Kendra Nicole:So I love this question.
Kendra Nicole:Now, when I used to hear this question or something similar, I would get anxiety
Kendra Nicole:because I actually have always had a pretty good relationship with money.
Kendra Nicole:My dad has, when he was climbing that ladder, he paid for our college.
Kendra Nicole:Like he, he bought our first cars for us, for me and my siblings.
Kendra Nicole:Like, So I've always had a good relationship with money.
Kendra Nicole:And so when I first started, I used to always think, man, no,
Kendra Nicole:one's going to really want to work with me because they're going to
Kendra Nicole:think, this girl comes from money.
Kendra Nicole:Like she doesn't understand me and my struggles in my business.
Kendra Nicole:She comes from money, not realizing that just because I had
Kendra Nicole:the ability to get money from my family didn't mean that I did.
Kendra Nicole:I struggled.
Kendra Nicole:Like every other entrepreneur struggles.
Kendra Nicole:I struggled in college, like every other college kid struggles.
Kendra Nicole:and, but I say that because when I would first hear that question
Kendra Nicole:before, I would always think, okay, man, people, everyone's always got
Kendra Nicole:the, rags to riches story and I don't have this rags to riches story.
Kendra Nicole:So anyways, that's, that's my true relationship with money is it was never.
Kendra Nicole:Oh, I have to accumulate so much of this or, but just like it was never
Kendra Nicole:a, Oh, I don't have enough of it.
Kendra Nicole:There was never really any, deep thought around money, except for I
Kendra Nicole:know that it can make people happy.
Kendra Nicole:For example, I always think of this story when, when my dad would take
Kendra Nicole:like our whole family, like cousins and aunts and uncles out to eat.
Kendra Nicole:And he'd always pick up the tab for the whole table.
Kendra Nicole:And I would just always see how everyone, no one ever has to worry about like,
Kendra Nicole:who's going to pick up the tab, right?
Kendra Nicole:Things like that.
Kendra Nicole:That's my thought when it comes to money is being able to do that, it's,
Kendra Nicole:and so hopefully that answers your question, but that's, that's kind of
Kendra Nicole:what my relationship was with money.
Kendra Nicole:And, and even now to this day, it's always, When I'm talking to like my, my
Kendra Nicole:business owners and I'm working with, I'm always trying to understand what their
Kendra Nicole:relationship is with money and where some of these almost like arbitrary goals come
Kendra Nicole:from, because you always hear the, I want a million dollars of sales this year,
Kendra Nicole:or I want 500 K in my savings account.
Kendra Nicole:What?
Kendra Nicole:Why?
Kendra Nicole:Like, what are these numbers tied to?
Kendra Nicole:so I always try to get a better understanding of that from them as well.
Tim Winders:The reason this is kind of a neat conversation.
Tim Winders:I didn't realize it when we were scheduling this interview, but the last
Tim Winders:interview I did was with Steven DeSilva that it probably will release right
Tim Winders:before this episode for those that might want to search, we actually discussed.
Tim Winders:prosperity and money from a spiritual tone.
Tim Winders:And I think that's a great foundation for a lot of people.
Tim Winders:And then I think next week, the next one we're having is talking to someone
Tim Winders:who's kind of like a wealth advisor.
Tim Winders:And so I'm looking at our conversation here is like, business
Tim Winders:owner, how to deal with like some practical and things like that.
Tim Winders:So I think, I think these three, this arc is going to be a great combination, but I
Tim Winders:do think that we learn a lot about people in two situations when they have a lack
Tim Winders:or extreme lack of financial resources and possibly when they have An abundance or an
Tim Winders:extreme abundance of financial resources.
Tim Winders:Would you agree with that?
Tim Winders:And is there anything you want to say about that?
Kendra Nicole:100%.
Kendra Nicole:100%.
Kendra Nicole:I, I totally agree with that.
Kendra Nicole:I think Sometimes on the abundance side, what can show up is the
Kendra Nicole:insecurities that the people might have.
Kendra Nicole:And, sometimes that money is or that what we think is abundance or excess of money
Kendra Nicole:is used to kind of, fix or resolve or gloss over some of those insecurities.
Kendra Nicole:And so I definitely.
Kendra Nicole:I definitely agree 100 percent that you can really see someone on both of
Kendra Nicole:those, ends of the spectrum for sure.
Tim Winders:Yeah.
Tim Winders:And I think what that does is it, it, it can really manifest when someone has a
Tim Winders:great idea, they have a business, they're trying to provide a service, and then
Tim Winders:all of a sudden they're doing all those business things, and we're dealing with
Tim Winders:either a lot of money coming in or we're Things are tied and things like that.
Tim Winders:So, so with that, let's transition and let's talk about some of the things
Tim Winders:that you've seen, maybe high level.
Tim Winders:And then we'll go down practical with that mindset about money.
Tim Winders:Maybe let's start with mindset.
Tim Winders:You've interacted with a lot of females, it sounds like, and.
Tim Winders:And and I know you don't want to mention names or anything here, but what are some
Tim Winders:ways that you've seen people handle the mindset of money well, and maybe some
Tim Winders:examples when people it's like, okay, this is something that we're going to have to
Tim Winders:exercise these demons to get this to where we could really be, do well financially.
Tim Winders:And I'll mention a couple of things after you say that, but any, anything
Tim Winders:popped to mind when I bring that up?
Kendra Nicole:Yeah.
Kendra Nicole:I would say some of the, some of the biggest like struggles or hurdles
Kendra Nicole:will come through when, when one is extremely creative and, maybe coming up
Kendra Nicole:with several different ideas and, or, concepts and everything has to go live.
Kendra Nicole:Now, like I have to launch everything today and then I come
Kendra Nicole:up with a new idea in a week and I want to launch that one too.
Kendra Nicole:And, and sometimes that's just because they're super creative, but sometimes
Kendra Nicole:it's also out of fear that what I launched last week might not bring enough money.
Kendra Nicole:So let me create something else.
Kendra Nicole:And so they have.
Kendra Nicole:100 things that are 85 percent complete, but nothing that's 100
Kendra Nicole:percent across the finish line.
Kendra Nicole:And so they're tacked out emotionally, physically, financially, because I
Kendra Nicole:can't get anything to the finish line because I keep starting these new things.
Kendra Nicole:And so I do see that often with those, That are just extremely
Kendra Nicole:creative and come up with these different concepts and ideas.
Kendra Nicole:And I think that sometimes that does come out of fear of, well, these other
Kendra Nicole:things that I created might not be enough or might not get bring in what
Kendra Nicole:I need to let me create something else.
Kendra Nicole:That's definitely 1 that I see another 1 is with the social media.
Kendra Nicole:Side of seeing the success of everyone else and thinking that
Kendra Nicole:they don't have that success.
Kendra Nicole:And so they're chasing that in chasing someone else's success is extremely
Kendra Nicole:expensive on all of your resources on your money, on your energy, on your time.
Kendra Nicole:you can't chase someone else's success.
Kendra Nicole:You don't know what their success actually is.
Kendra Nicole:So it's this, it's just this like never ending.
Kendra Nicole:thing that you're kind of running after.
Kendra Nicole:And I see that often as well.
Kendra Nicole:And I get it.
Kendra Nicole:It's hard, but, but I do see that quite a bit as well.
Tim Winders:Yeah, the comparison trap is so challenging and I would
Tim Winders:say, years ago when I was starting my first businesses, you could just look
Tim Winders:around and see two or three people.
Tim Winders:Now you could look around and see two or 300 or two or 3000 and boy they
Tim Winders:all look, they are, they look like they're just killing it and doing
Tim Winders:so great and living their best life.
Tim Winders:And that's why I like talking to people that are in the CFO role.
Tim Winders:'cause they sometimes.
Tim Winders:No, really, like I said earlier, what's, what's under the hood.
Tim Winders:Do you ever run across entrepreneurs, business owners?
Tim Winders:I know that I deal with this and I deal with mostly males.
Tim Winders:I'm not exclusive, but that they're just delusional.
Tim Winders:They just have no clue or concept.
Tim Winders:Don't mention names here, if it's true, but they are, they're probably
Tim Winders:good at some of the things, but when it comes to the financial
Tim Winders:piece, they are living in dreamland.
Tim Winders:It's that you see that often.
Tim Winders:I
Kendra Nicole:Yeah, I won't say that I see it often.
Kendra Nicole:I do see it.
Kendra Nicole:I do see it occasionally though.
Kendra Nicole:and it's hard because I feel like usually when I see it, it's because they're,
Kendra Nicole:It's less of the lack of knowledge of financials, which is absolutely part
Kendra Nicole:of it, but it's more of they're just so incredibly passionate about whatever it
Kendra Nicole:is that they're trying to get to market.
Kendra Nicole:And they, and they, and it might be life changing.
Kendra Nicole:It might, it might change the lives of however many people
Kendra Nicole:sign up for that app or take that technology and do whatever it is.
Kendra Nicole:But, but it's, it takes money to get there.
Kendra Nicole:It takes the marketing efforts to get there.
Kendra Nicole:It takes the investments to get there.
Kendra Nicole:And sometimes.
Kendra Nicole:there's this, if you build it, they will come kind of mentality and
Kendra Nicole:entrepreneurship that like, I mean, I had it as well when I first started
Kendra Nicole:the business, like you get humbled very quickly, and entrepreneurship,
Kendra Nicole:like that's just not how it works.
Kendra Nicole:And so I think sometimes there's a little bit of that, where you just
Kendra Nicole:kind of have to let them see a little bit of it to understand, like, it can
Kendra Nicole:be an amazing idea, concept, whatever it is, but it, it takes more than
Kendra Nicole:that in order for it to be successful.
Tim Winders:noticed with me, that was, we were talking about superpowers earlier.
Tim Winders:I think it was one of my superpowers.
Tim Winders:Up to a point, but an overused superpower sometimes can be our kryptonite.
Tim Winders:It can, it can draw down what I had extreme optimism and I really had a
Tim Winders:vision for the future of where we were headed and where we were going, the
Tim Winders:disconnect or the challenge was, is that it's hard to spend future money.
Tim Winders:I think people can borrow and things like that.
Tim Winders:That's not a good formula for profit.
Tim Winders:People like me that have that mindset.
Tim Winders:And so I was living off future money, and I would say things
Tim Winders:like, Oh, I'm investing in myself or I'm, I'm putting money back in.
Tim Winders:We're investing back in.
Tim Winders:But the, I won't get into the whole story, but in 08, we had real estate
Tim Winders:companies in that, that came to an end fairly quickly, how, how does someone
Tim Winders:who is a CFO or accountant or someone who's working with someone like that.
Tim Winders:How can you approach it to reel someone like that in without
Tim Winders:squelching all of that energy?
Tim Winders:That might be a hard question, but I'd love to know because
Tim Winders:that's my background and probably a lot of listeners backgrounds.
Kendra Nicole:find the best thing is to understand is to really understand each
Kendra Nicole:individual person and what drives them because you can be extremely optimistic
Kendra Nicole:and have these these thoughts and these these plans and and also be the type that
Kendra Nicole:if I were to bring you data of, maybe historical things that have happened or
Kendra Nicole:data of projections of what might happen.
Kendra Nicole:you might be the type that can sit down and look at that, and that can
Kendra Nicole:actually be enough to kind of sway you one way or another, if you're kind
Kendra Nicole:of data driven, or you might be one that can care less about the data.
Kendra Nicole:I have those clients as well.
Kendra Nicole:Kendra, I don't care what the numbers say.
Kendra Nicole:I feel this in all of my aura.
Kendra Nicole:And I'm like, okay, yeah.
Kendra Nicole:Let's go another about this another way.
Kendra Nicole:And so then I might tap into more of the, well, why are you wanting to do this?
Kendra Nicole:And if I can get a better understanding of what their why is and what their end goal
Kendra Nicole:is beyond this, then maybe there are other avenues that we can take that might be
Kendra Nicole:less risk or, less of a financial burden right now that we can still get closer
Kendra Nicole:to that why without as big of a jump and then sometimes it's just, You know what?
Kendra Nicole:You're right.
Kendra Nicole:Like this might be a big vision, a big dream.
Kendra Nicole:It might be a big risk, but this sounds, this actually all kind of shakes out
Kendra Nicole:and it looks good, let's go for it.
Kendra Nicole:But let's check in often to make sure that it's going the way that we're
Kendra Nicole:thinking that it should go and pivot when necessary versus like, let's
Kendra Nicole:just throw it out there and just like sit back and kind of let it cook.
Tim Winders:Yeah.
Tim Winders:The thing that's the reason that's so good Kendra is is the ability to access the
Tim Winders:data is where people like you, I think, bring extreme value to people like that.
Tim Winders:I've got a call later today with one of my clients, runs a company and he generally
Tim Winders:knows in his head what's going on.
Tim Winders:He's a real detailed type person, but boy, he needs that, we, I think
Tim Winders:we call it a CFO in his organization to track, look at trends, look
Tim Winders:at things that might be problems.
Tim Winders:Look at, what happened last year, what's happening this year, what
Tim Winders:we, what might we do next year.
Tim Winders:And I think that that Becomes important.
Tim Winders:I noticed with your, your business that you use terms like fractional CFO.
Tim Winders:we talk about obviously accounting and there's other words like
Tim Winders:comptroller and things like that.
Tim Winders:I think before we kind of go any further, could you for myself and others define
Tim Winders:what you mean by some of those roles?
Tim Winders:Cause I think.
Tim Winders:There's some people that would say CFO.
Tim Winders:Oh, that's not for me.
Tim Winders:That's like a big corporate type thing.
Tim Winders:And that could be your corporate background, knowing the role they have.
Tim Winders:But talk about those.
Tim Winders:whatever you want to do, CFO, accountant, controller,
Tim Winders:bookkeeper, all of those, I think are sometimes lumped all together.
Tim Winders:And I do think there's differences.
Kendra Nicole:yeah, absolutely.
Kendra Nicole:so I'll start with kind of your bookkeeper.
Kendra Nicole:So if you are, if you, so essentially what they are for.
Kendra Nicole:So a bookkeeper essentially is responsible for, accurately classifying
Kendra Nicole:from an accounting standpoint, every transaction, every financial transaction
Kendra Nicole:that you make in your business.
Kendra Nicole:So every time you swipe your debit card to buy some supplies, or every time
Kendra Nicole:you get a invoice paid from a client, a bookkeeper's job is to ensure that
Kendra Nicole:that is being classified properly.
Kendra Nicole:So that when you run a financial statement, like a profit and loss or a
Kendra Nicole:balance sheet or a cashflow statement, everything is on there accurately, and in
Kendra Nicole:a compliant fashion, so that when you go to file your tax return and everything,
Kendra Nicole:it's all like on there properly.
Kendra Nicole:and an accountant is like the level above that your accountant also
Kendra Nicole:should understand some deeper laws for your business, for your location.
Kendra Nicole:Okay, maybe there are some, journal entries, which is.
Kendra Nicole:Fancy way of saying, some like adjustments that need to be made in your books
Kendra Nicole:to ensure that it's also compliant.
Kendra Nicole:So where the bookkeeper might kind of understand things at a transactional
Kendra Nicole:basis, your accountant kind of understands things that are, higher, business level.
Kendra Nicole:and then your CFO, let me pause there for a second.
Kendra Nicole:You're so that means that your bookkeeper and your accountant, they're all
Kendra Nicole:looking at historical transactions.
Kendra Nicole:They're looking at things that have happened in the past.
Kendra Nicole:The money that you've spent, the money that you've made.
Kendra Nicole:and, and a CFO is more forward looking.
Kendra Nicole:So we come in, we have to have accurate accounting.
Kendra Nicole:So we need a bookkeeper and an accountant to, to, to do our jobs because they
Kendra Nicole:give us all of that historical data.
Kendra Nicole:But then we take that historical data and then anything else is going on
Kendra Nicole:in the world and then understand, okay, well, if your business is
Kendra Nicole:currently here, how do we get it there?
Kendra Nicole:Or how do we get it here?
Kendra Nicole:Or how do we get it out of whatever?
Kendra Nicole:messy might feel like you're in.
Kendra Nicole:And CFO is more forward looking.
Kendra Nicole:we, we create strategies, we create projections, things like that, where
Kendra Nicole:your bookkeeper and your accountant are more present day or past historical.
Kendra Nicole:but we all work together in order to kind of create everything that's
Kendra Nicole:needed, but that's usually the step.
Kendra Nicole:And to your point about who really needs a CFO, you can, you can earn 20,
Kendra Nicole:30, 40, 000 a month in your business and have a fractional CFO because we
Kendra Nicole:can just come in and maybe help you understand how you're making 20 now.
Kendra Nicole:And if you want that 20 to be 40, we can understand the, the metrics within your
Kendra Nicole:business that help you get to that 20.
Kendra Nicole:Cause the 20 is just an end number, right?
Kendra Nicole:That's based off of maybe how many units you've sold or whatever your pricing is.
Kendra Nicole:So we can understand the economics of the, how you got to that 20 to
Kendra Nicole:figure out how to make that 20 or 40.
Kendra Nicole:That's when the CFO would come in, a fractional CFO would come in.
Kendra Nicole:100%.
Tim Winders:that many entrepreneur business owners will use when it comes
Tim Winders:to those services are something to the effect of we can't afford blank.
Tim Winders:Accountant, bookkeeper, CFO yet, and you just mentioned a dollar amount, but could
Tim Winders:you now go through that if you want to go through that list again and kind of
Tim Winders:give, what are some clues that you need?
Tim Winders:bookkeeper, accountant, or it's time for a CFO.
Tim Winders:It's time for fractional CFO.
Tim Winders:Do you, are there any metrics around that?
Tim Winders:Or are there any, is there anything that someone listening
Tim Winders:or someone gauging it would say, okay, this is a trigger for this.
Kendra Nicole:So if you're making about 100, 000 a year in sales, whether
Kendra Nicole:you're product based, service based, whatever, 100, 000 a year in sales, which
Kendra Nicole:is about 8, 000, a little over 8, 000 a month in income, then you definitely
Kendra Nicole:want to at least consider a bookkeeper.
Kendra Nicole:Now that's on the, absolutely, like that's a trigger that should absolutely
Kendra Nicole:make you want to bring in a bookkeeper.
Kendra Nicole:But if you're bringing in 5, 000 and it's overwhelming to you.
Kendra Nicole:Then you can consider bringing in a bookkeeper as well because there
Kendra Nicole:are some bookkeepers as low as, a couple hundred dollars a month.
Kendra Nicole:There are some, SAS tools like bench.
Kendra Nicole:co that I think it's like 140 a month maybe, and you don't have a person that
Kendra Nicole:you're kind of working with one on one, but it's a, it's a solution, a tool that
Kendra Nicole:kind of automate some of your bookkeeping.
Kendra Nicole:So if you're, if it's overwhelming, go ahead and outsource it.
Kendra Nicole:But if you.
Kendra Nicole:don't feel like it's that overwhelming, but you're already
Kendra Nicole:at that 100k a year threshold.
Kendra Nicole:I would say still go ahead and consider investing in a bookkeeper.
Kendra Nicole:the accountant that really comes in more so depending on the
Kendra Nicole:complexity of your business.
Kendra Nicole:So if you're purchasing a lot of like assets, whether it's real
Kendra Nicole:estate or whether it's a lot of equipment that you're purchasing,
Kendra Nicole:if you're doing like manufacturing.
Kendra Nicole:Then you want to consider an accountant because they're going
Kendra Nicole:to look at some of those entries that we talked about earlier.
Kendra Nicole:and that would also be probably at that 100k or more range before you're,
Kendra Nicole:obviously investing in like equipment.
Kendra Nicole:now a CFO, I usually say if you're making about 250k a year or more,
Kendra Nicole:sometimes it's like 500k a year or more.
Kendra Nicole:It really just depends on what you're doing that you want to bring in a CFO.
Kendra Nicole:It's almost less about the dollar amount though, and more about
Kendra Nicole:what's going on in your business.
Kendra Nicole:So CFOs are great when you're going through some kind of a
Kendra Nicole:transitional point in your business.
Kendra Nicole:maybe you're hiring your first full time employee outside of yourself, or
Kendra Nicole:maybe you are going from one location to two locations, or you're going
Kendra Nicole:from being a dot com to opening up a brick and mortar location as well.
Kendra Nicole:So when there are some Larger transitional points are happening
Kendra Nicole:in your business that you want to consider bringing on a fractional CFO.
Kendra Nicole:Cause it might even just be for that project.
Kendra Nicole:It might not be an ongoing commitment.
Kendra Nicole:It might be for the next three months.
Kendra Nicole:As I consider bringing on this next employee, I really need somebody that
Kendra Nicole:I can run this scenario through and help me go through these numbers.
Tim Winders:Those are good gauges.
Tim Winders:I appreciate you giving us some, some indicators there.
Tim Winders:One of the things that also came to mind is I think it was before I want to
Tim Winders:talk about the next thing is how often, and you, and you may not interact with
Tim Winders:these I think many times entrepreneurs and business owners, there's a
Tim Winders:statement that I make often and it's called thou shalt not fool thyself.
Tim Winders:I think we will often fool ourselves thinking, Oh, it's just numbers.
Tim Winders:I can keep track of that.
Tim Winders:Oh, it's just marketing.
Tim Winders:I can do marketing.
Tim Winders:Oh, it's just social media posts.
Tim Winders:I could do that.
Tim Winders:We really don't.
Tim Winders:Do this is goes back to the delusional thing.
Tim Winders:I think there's a delusion that we either can do it all or we have to do it all.
Tim Winders:So how often do you have to deal with folks that are like, I know I could do
Tim Winders:it, but I feel like I just need help.
Tim Winders:Or.
Tim Winders:I think women are probably better at admitting they can't do things.
Tim Winders:Maybe I'm wrong about that, but how often do you have to
Tim Winders:say, okay, let us handle this.
Tim Winders:You go do what it is.
Tim Winders:You're really good at.
Tim Winders:I think sometimes entrepreneurs are not good at that.
Tim Winders:So talk about that.
Tim Winders:Some,
Kendra Nicole:yeah, I 100 percent agree.
Kendra Nicole:And, and, and it's, it's a thing with women as well, for sure.
Kendra Nicole:we'll often hear folks on calls say like.
Kendra Nicole:I know I'm sure I could do this, I'm sure I can like create my own
Kendra Nicole:projection for this three year plan for the sales pitch or the, the investor
Kendra Nicole:pitch that I have coming up, but you know, I would rather just outsource it.
Kendra Nicole:I'm like, okay, I'm sure you probably could do it, but wouldn't you want
Kendra Nicole:someone who does this for a living?
Kendra Nicole:To do it, it's like I, I probably could write a book in Portuguese, using chat GPT
Kendra Nicole:and Google, but what, what I really want to write a book in Portuguese versus going
Kendra Nicole:to someone who can write in Portuguese.
Kendra Nicole:yes, it does take, I think sometimes it just takes having the conversation with
Kendra Nicole:whoever that potential fractional CFO is for you to get comfortable with the idea.
Kendra Nicole:Of someone else taking it over.
Kendra Nicole:Cause I do think at least with, within finance and accounting, that a little
Kendra Nicole:bit of that is the, concern of someone is about just kind of see all of my mess.
Kendra Nicole:And so they really are almost like talking themselves out of bringing
Kendra Nicole:somebody on because they don't want someone to see all of their mess.
Kendra Nicole:but usually that goes away very, very quickly once they have their
Kendra Nicole:first set of books done for them.
Kendra Nicole:And they're like, Oh, this is this is great.
Kendra Nicole:I didn't have to do a thing.
Kendra Nicole:so it happens.
Kendra Nicole:I'm the same way with marketing.
Kendra Nicole:I'm always like, Oh, I can do my own marketing and then nothing
Kendra Nicole:gets done for like 6 months.
Kendra Nicole:So I get it.
Kendra Nicole:but usually once they hand the reins over, it's very easy.
Kendra Nicole:Easy for them to then see like, Oh, I should have done this a long time ago.
Tim Winders:yeah.
Tim Winders:Or you get it done and it's done poorly.
Tim Winders:And there's some pretty, I don't want to say severe repercussions.
Tim Winders:There's some repercussions if you
Tim Winders:don't handle the, okay.
Tim Winders:Financial pieces, right?
Tim Winders:I I've interacted with clients in the past that have brought up things
Tim Winders:that sound something like this.
Tim Winders:I'll mention this and then let you respond something like this.
Tim Winders:Oh, we've paid our taxes, but we haven't done a return in three or four years.
Tim Winders:Which is an interesting.
Tim Winders:Or yeah, we've been a little bit at tight.
Tim Winders:We're a little bit behind on our tax situation and we'll get caught
Tim Winders:up as soon as blank happens.
Tim Winders:When you hear things like that, as someone who deals with the financial
Tim Winders:piece, what goes through your mind?
Kendra Nicole:I, it's tough because you don't want to like ring the alarms, but
Kendra Nicole:at the same time you, you have to kind of wake, wake them up a little bit to
Kendra Nicole:the, to the realities of what's going on.
Kendra Nicole:and then also like, yes, there's the repercussions with, with taxes for
Kendra Nicole:sure, which is definitely something that you don't want to mess with.
Kendra Nicole:But then also Bad data, bad financial data hurts you every single day in your
Kendra Nicole:business, because especially if you're using that data to make decisions,
Kendra Nicole:garbage in, garbage out, right?
Kendra Nicole:So if I'm trying to determine how I'm going to scale my business
Kendra Nicole:based on garbage data, I'm not going to scale my business properly.
Kendra Nicole:It's going to, go any old kind of way.
Kendra Nicole:bad.
Kendra Nicole:I always let folks know that bad financial data, like this is beyond
Kendra Nicole:the scary taxman, which is a scary tax man, by the way, it really is, but
Kendra Nicole:beyond the tax man, it's your day to day decision making that's also on the line.
Kendra Nicole:So why make, why grow a business with, with this, this incomplete data, when
Kendra Nicole:you can have information in front of you that helps you make decisions.
Kendra Nicole:Everyday decisions, the decisions that we all have to make is my pricing, right?
Kendra Nicole:How much should I, offer this person for this full time job?
Kendra Nicole:Like, these are questions that we have to make that looking
Kendra Nicole:at data would help us make,
Tim Winders:I think it's just being a good steward of
Tim Winders:what you've been gifted with.
Tim Winders:It's something we talk about a good bit here.
Tim Winders:That's, I think that's the right thing spiritually.
Tim Winders:I think it's just the right thing.
Tim Winders:If you've got a business, you need to steward it and take
Tim Winders:care of it in a certain way.
Tim Winders:And part of that are the numbers.
Tim Winders:Part of that is the people, part of it's other assets and other
Tim Winders:things that you've been gifted with.
Tim Winders:And so I, I, I think.
Tim Winders:I think it's something that you just need to take care of better.
Tim Winders:And it seems like that's what you bring into the business.
Tim Winders:You've got something that I read about called peace and profits and, and, In
Tim Winders:the same sentence that I was reading it, it said something about, stop the
Tim Winders:hustle or stop the hustle and grind, which is near and dear to my heart.
Tim Winders:I was the early part of my life up until probably, 20 minutes
Tim Winders:ago, I would have been kind of a hustle and grind type person.
Tim Winders:No, actually about 15 years ago is when I started getting purged of that.
Tim Winders:And so anytime I see something, it might've been what attracted me for
Tim Winders:us to have this conversation, peace and profits and, avoid the hustle.
Tim Winders:It, it means something to me.
Tim Winders:So tell me about peace and profits and how those fit together.
Kendra Nicole:Yeah.
Kendra Nicole:as a CFO and someone who's in finance.
Kendra Nicole:It was always about profit to me because that's just kind of what made sense.
Kendra Nicole:I'm here to look at the data and the numbers to see what's going
Kendra Nicole:to be the most profitable thing.
Kendra Nicole:And even when I started my business, same concept, because I
Kendra Nicole:took that mentality from corporate and then, 2020 I had my son.
Kendra Nicole:And when I had my son, I thought that I had set myself up to have this like
Kendra Nicole:great maternity leave as an entrepreneur.
Kendra Nicole:I'm like, I'm in control of my own time.
Kendra Nicole:I can like, determine who I get to talk to and all of this, how many hours I work.
Kendra Nicole:And, that just wasn't the case.
Kendra Nicole:I, I was still grinding while, bouncing on a yoga ball while like, Nursing my
Kendra Nicole:son to sleep so that I could take a call and hoping that he doesn't wake up.
Kendra Nicole:Like, and it was that way for months and I was so drained.
Kendra Nicole:And, then it just clicked.
Kendra Nicole:And I had some clients who were completely understanding.
Kendra Nicole:And then I had some one in particular who roasted me on the call because
Kendra Nicole:I'm like rocking my son to sleep while I'm on the call with her.
Kendra Nicole:And that's when I realized like, okay, I really signed up for this entrepreneur
Kendra Nicole:thing because I knew that I could have a little bit more control over my
Kendra Nicole:life and who I work with and my time.
Kendra Nicole:And it's time that I really put that into place.
Kendra Nicole:And so that's when I started to transition my mindset from
Kendra Nicole:this business is all about.
Kendra Nicole:Helping people be profitable to this business is all about helping people
Kendra Nicole:be profitable, but so they can live a peaceful life so they can do whatever it
Kendra Nicole:is that they're wanting to do, whether that's spend more time with their
Kendra Nicole:family, whether that's travel the world, it's a combination of the two things.
Kendra Nicole:And it's, it then puts a purpose behind the profits.
Kendra Nicole:which ironically enough makes the profits grow because you're doing it for a reason
Kendra Nicole:and a reason that's in alignment with you.
Kendra Nicole:And yeah, that tipping point, really changed things and I still have my CFO
Kendra Nicole:hat on, but I always look at things through the lens of peace and profits.
Kendra Nicole:And, once you start down that path, like there's no going back, I can never go
Kendra Nicole:back to being like profit, profit, profit.
Kendra Nicole:Like I, it, it, it, I can't go down that path anymore.
Tim Winders:The interesting thing to tie back into something we talked
Tim Winders:about earlier, you mentioned that there are a lot of people that are chasing
Tim Winders:after Profits, business, new business, whatever chasing after a lifestyle that
Tim Winders:they think someone else is leading and they think they want to do that also.
Tim Winders:you mentioned the chasing and to me, that is almost the opposite of the
Tim Winders:wording of peace and profits and.
Tim Winders:And the anti hustle, do you still have people that come into your, your circle
Tim Winders:that they're going through this chasing?
Tim Winders:They're, they're on the wheel, the, we could call it a hamster wheel.
Tim Winders:We can call it a hustle and grind, all of these things.
Tim Winders:And I love what you just said.
Tim Winders:It's like, When you stop chasing, it's like when, if you're got a, if your
Tim Winders:dog goes outside and you're trying to
Tim Winders:run them down, but yet if you just kind of sit with something that they
Tim Winders:come after, is that, I mean, have you had observations that you can
Tim Winders:share with someone listening right now?
Tim Winders:It's like, stop chasing, slow down, And let the business come to you.
Tim Winders:That almost sounds like a Yoda type statement and all that, but any, I
Tim Winders:don't even know if that question made sense, but what do you want to say
Tim Winders:to anything about stop chasing, allow the peace and profits to come to you.
Kendra Nicole:Yes, and you're 100 percent like I would I'm I'm I always say like
Kendra Nicole:I am NOT a woo woo person My sister is so woo woo, right and I'm like, oh,
Kendra Nicole:you were just so I'm just not a woo woo person Until this shift with like peace
Kendra Nicole:and profits happened and I'm like, okay, wait, there's something to this There's
Kendra Nicole:a little there's a little woo in my life right now, and I'm accepting it because
Kendra Nicole:there's something You can, you can run and run and chase and chase all you want
Kendra Nicole:to and you will do it to exhaustion.
Kendra Nicole:but once you actually, understand your why behind things, which again, before
Kendra Nicole:I would have said, oh, it's so low, so low, but once you really understand that
Kendra Nicole:it grounds you in what you're doing.
Kendra Nicole:And absolutely.
Kendra Nicole:I mean, I definitely have clients who once I.
Kendra Nicole:Once I kind of saw the light and kind of brought that to them as
Kendra Nicole:well, it just changed our dynamic and our working relationship.
Kendra Nicole:It's changed how we, how we implement and execute things in their business.
Kendra Nicole:And some folks listen, some will come to me and we'll still
Kendra Nicole:want to chase and grind and work really hard on what they're doing.
Kendra Nicole:I understand that's the season that they're in.
Kendra Nicole:and I can, do the best that I can do to serve them.
Kendra Nicole:But, but yeah, it, it, it, it just, things just smooth out a lot more.
Kendra Nicole:Once you accept that there's two sides to this thing called entrepreneurship
Kendra Nicole:and it's not all about profits.
Kendra Nicole:Sure.
Kendra Nicole:You need profits to obviously continue to run and funnel your
Kendra Nicole:business, but you need peace too.
Kendra Nicole:You need peace too.
Kendra Nicole:and yeah, I, I love it.
Kendra Nicole:I'm so very grateful, for that client who roasted me on that call because
Kendra Nicole:I don't know, it would have taken me longer to get to this point.
Kendra Nicole:and yeah, I'm not going back.
Tim Winders:Do you find your, do you find that you're attracting people that fit?
Tim Winders:I mean, listen, when you use wording like peace versus scale, I mean,
Tim Winders:there's nothing wrong with scale.
Tim Winders:I'm an engineer by training and went.
Tim Winders:To school down the road from Clemson at Georgia Tech.
Tim Winders:And so systems engineering and scaling, those were part of my vocabulary,
Tim Winders:but I'm going to place in life where that piece part is really important.
Tim Winders:Are you attracting clients that aren't roasting you as much on phone calls now?
Kendra Nicole:100%.
Kendra Nicole:And those who come in for like consults that I can feel just
Kendra Nicole:the, the high, strong energy.
Kendra Nicole:That they're not on the peace and profit side and that they're still
Kendra Nicole:on this, like, I'm going to grind it out by any means necessary.
Kendra Nicole:I understand that's the season you're in, but we're probably not
Kendra Nicole:the best fit for you because I'm not going to move at that pace.
Kendra Nicole:I'm not going to tell you to drop any and everything that you do right now.
Kendra Nicole:To, accomplish X, Y, and Z with no thought about the other things that
Kendra Nicole:you want to accomplish in your life.
Kendra Nicole:And one of the call or one of the questions that we actually
Kendra Nicole:asked on the console call is like, what are you doing this for?
Kendra Nicole:Like, what, what's your reason for this business?
Kendra Nicole:And if it's just, I want a million dollars in the bank account.
Kendra Nicole:And I can't get any deeper than that, then we're probably not the best fit.
Kendra Nicole:But if it's like, I want a million dollars in my bank account, because
Kendra Nicole:that's the number that I hear is going to help me pay for my kids tuition.
Kendra Nicole:And I can retire when I'm whatever age, and there's like something else behind
Kendra Nicole:it that we can like really tie into.
Kendra Nicole:Then it's probably a better fit, a better alignment.
Tim Winders:Years ago, when I was coaching in the real estate investing
Tim Winders:space, I would have some people that would say something to the effect of,
Tim Winders:well, I need to make sure that I've got your phone number to text you, 24
Tim Winders:seven in case there's ever an emergency.
Tim Winders:Kendra.
Tim Winders:My response was this is real estate.
Tim Winders:There won't be an emergency.
Tim Winders:You don't need my text to text me.
Tim Winders:I mean, we'll, if you send me an email, I respond within 24 hours.
Tim Winders:I'll get back to you, but that's not, that's not, there
Tim Winders:are no real estate emergencies.
Tim Winders:I don't know.
Tim Winders:Are there ever any accounting or CFO emergencies?
Tim Winders:Take
Kendra Nicole:Don't know.
Kendra Nicole:if it's at the end of the day, there's always going to be time
Kendra Nicole:to sit and think things through.
Kendra Nicole:Actually, ironically, earlier today, a client of mine sent me
Kendra Nicole:over a a listing of a property that she's thinking about buying.
Kendra Nicole:And we've already had the conversation about if she should do real estate
Kendra Nicole:investing and things like that.
Kendra Nicole:So we've already kind of cleared that, but we had a cap.
Kendra Nicole:We had an amount that we were supposed to stick to, and this
Kendra Nicole:is far beyond that amount.
Kendra Nicole:And she's like, and I have to make an offer.
Kendra Nicole:They tell me I have to make an offer today.
Kendra Nicole:And I'm like, you don't have to make, you don't have to make an offer today.
Kendra Nicole:Like, let's look up with the numbers.
Kendra Nicole:Let's talk about it, but you don't have to make an offer today.
Kendra Nicole:And so I think it's.
Kendra Nicole:It's a lot of that.
Kendra Nicole:Sometimes it's just kind of not talking to our clients, like off of
Kendra Nicole:a cliff, but just letting them being that other person that they can talk
Kendra Nicole:to and, and understanding what they need in, times and moments like that.
Kendra Nicole:yeah,
Tim Winders:a deep breath.
Tim Winders:There are no emergencies.
Tim Winders:If that deal doesn't work, there's more.
Tim Winders:I don't like deadlines or pressure or stuff like that.
Tim Winders:Maybe that's just where I'm at.
Tim Winders:I haven't always been that way.
Tim Winders:We we've got a few minutes left here.
Tim Winders:There's a few questions and I want to, I want in just a moment you to
Tim Winders:list all of the things that you can provide someone, but I've got one.
Tim Winders:Maybe bigger question before I get to that, Kendra.
Tim Winders:I always love it when I talk to people that get to interact with a lot of
Tim Winders:different business owners or leaders.
Tim Winders:And the question that I want to ask when I, when I find that is what is
Tim Winders:a tip or a piece of advice that you can give maybe financial related, it
Tim Winders:may just be bigger picture things that you observe and it might be something
Tim Winders:we've talked about, but what is something that you observe that is a.
Tim Winders:Tip that you want to share with the person listening in that they're an owner might
Tim Winders:be a female in business, might be male.
Tim Winders:I don't know that you've seen from the seat that you have to be able to look
Tim Winders:at businesses and business owners.
Kendra Nicole:I would say, honestly, I would just say, look
Kendra Nicole:at your numbers, like look at.
Kendra Nicole:And, and, if that just feels overwhelming and if that just feels like, okay,
Kendra Nicole:that's just way too, like, grandiose, like, give me something specific.
Kendra Nicole:Then think about some of the few, two to five, we call them, KPIs of metrics, but
Kendra Nicole:essentially, Numbers that are the most important and impactful to your business.
Kendra Nicole:So if you are a product based business, that might be like your average order
Kendra Nicole:value, like your cart rate, right?
Kendra Nicole:Or it might be how many sales orders do you do in any given month?
Kendra Nicole:Or if you are a consultant, it might be how many prospects do you have
Kendra Nicole:in the pipeline, what's your close rate when you're on sales calls, but
Kendra Nicole:focus in on just a few of those key numbers that matter in your business.
Kendra Nicole:And track them and look at them.
Kendra Nicole:And, and as you track them and look at them over time, you'll start to see
Kendra Nicole:like trends and, seasonality, things that might impact those numbers.
Kendra Nicole:Just get really comfortable and familiar with those few numbers.
Kendra Nicole:You don't have to know the whole P and L and balance sheet,
Kendra Nicole:like the back of your hand.
Kendra Nicole:But know those few numbers, because with the clarity comes the
Kendra Nicole:confidence and confidence is really what you need in entrepreneurship
Kendra Nicole:when it comes to to not get tested.
Kendra Nicole:if someone's testing you on your prices or on whatever it is, if
Kendra Nicole:you have that data on those few key things, then, that gives you a lot
Kendra Nicole:of clarity and a lot of confidence.
Kendra Nicole:And, so I really just think, just know what those three numbers are
Kendra Nicole:and make sure that you study them.
Tim Winders:Yeah, that's really good.
Tim Winders:I think clarity is so much better than confusion and not knowing those numbers.
Tim Winders:So I, I was looking at your site and looking at the information and I,
Tim Winders:I do believe, and we went over some of the terms, the fractional CFO and
Tim Winders:all earlier, but if you could right now, tell us, tell us what all you
Tim Winders:can provide for someone, especially a female business owner, entrepreneur that
Tim Winders:might be listening in, what all do you and your company, provide for people?
Kendra Nicole:Yep.
Kendra Nicole:So we have three main services.
Kendra Nicole:So we have our executive accounting solution, and that is for anyone who
Kendra Nicole:needs that bookkeeper or that accountant.
Kendra Nicole:That's anyone who needs that clarity in their financials.
Kendra Nicole:We come on, we come in, we take over your accounting.
Kendra Nicole:We do all your financial reporting for you every month.
Kendra Nicole:and so that is where you are completely hands off on having to like
Kendra Nicole:maintain your day to day books and financial reports and all of that.
Kendra Nicole:that's our executive accounting solution.
Kendra Nicole:And then our fractional CFO solution is.
Kendra Nicole:For anyone who is kind of on that next phase in their business.
Kendra Nicole:So like I said, maybe they're going through something transitional,
Kendra Nicole:bringing on their first hire or scaling the team, their product
Kendra Nicole:suite, and they need more strategy.
Kendra Nicole:So we'll still handle your accounting and all your financial reporting,
Kendra Nicole:but then I'll come in and we'll have these really strategic conversations.
Kendra Nicole:We'll build out a plan around whatever it is you're kind of transitioning into.
Kendra Nicole:And we're marching to that strategy and kind of, and pivoting.
Kendra Nicole:I always say that because.
Kendra Nicole:We got to pivot, right?
Kendra Nicole:All the time.
Kendra Nicole:It's entrepreneurs, things change and move, but in pivoting along the way.
Kendra Nicole:that's the fractional CFO service and then taxes as well.
Kendra Nicole:We handle all things, taxes, whether it's just preparing and
Kendra Nicole:filing or tax strategy as well.
Tim Winders:Very good.
Tim Winders:And if someone wants to connect with you, one of the toughest
Tim Winders:things we had when we first got on the phone was, what do I call you?
Tim Winders:You're Kendra Nicole or Kendra Nicole James Anderson, Kendra Nicole James.
Tim Winders:But if someone wants to connect with you or to find this, where do they need to go?
Tim Winders:We'll include it in the notes, but where do they need to go?
Kendra Nicole:Yeah, so the best place really is the finance
Kendra Nicole:film dot com and film is F.
Kendra Nicole:E.
Kendra Nicole:M.
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Kendra Nicole:but the finance film dot com is really the best place to go to get
Kendra Nicole:more information on those services and to be able to reach out.
Kendra Nicole:My email is info at the finance from dot com.
Kendra Nicole:And so that's probably the best way to get in touch.
Tim Winders:It's always tough.
Tim Winders:This is another thing that we started the conversation with how
Tim Winders:sometimes things just aren't fair.
Tim Winders:Our culture, women change their names and men don't tip it.
Tim Winders:Some are doing it now.
Tim Winders:Some are adding the hyphens and stuff like that.
Tim Winders:They typically don't.
Tim Winders:And it's got to make it tough for someone who's gone through corporate.
Tim Winders:And then,
Tim Winders:you know, get married and then all of that.
Tim Winders:Is that kind of where all these names come from?
Tim Winders:Or do you have like multiple superpowers that you,
Kendra Nicole:each superpower has an identity.
Kendra Nicole:I wish, when I got married for sure, adding on Anderson.
Kendra Nicole:But then LinkedIn and everyone in my corporate was still doing
Kendra Nicole:me from Kendra Nicole James.
Kendra Nicole:And then I was like, well, my podcast is Kendra Nicole.
Kendra Nicole:So it was just, yes, I appreciate, working with me on all of these name variations,
Tim Winders:yeah.
Tim Winders:And we even came to the agreement or I'm going to call you Kendra Nicole.
Tim Winders:Okay.
Tim Winders:I'm going to call you Kendra Nicole.
Tim Winders:So anyway, Kendra, we are seek, go create those three words.
Tim Winders:I'm going to allow you as my last question to choose one of those that
Tim Winders:just resonates more with you and means more to you and why I'm a final question.
Tim Winders:Seek, go or create.
Kendra Nicole:I'm going to go with seek, I'm going to go with seek.
Kendra Nicole:And I, and I hope that.
Kendra Nicole:That listeners and, that everyone really seeks what is important to them and
Kendra Nicole:understands like what their why is behind everything, especially in business,
Kendra Nicole:because you put so much time, energy, money, effort, everything, all of your
Kendra Nicole:resources into building out a business.
Kendra Nicole:And if you don't really know what the underlying reason is for that thing, it's
Kendra Nicole:going to be very hard to push it through.
Kendra Nicole:So I would definitely ask that.
Kendra Nicole:To seek for what the underlying real reason and why is behind
Kendra Nicole:what you do, doing what you do.
Tim Winders:Excellent.
Tim Winders:Love that word, Kendra.
Tim Winders:Thanks for joining us here.
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