Kendra Nicole:

Bad financial data hurts you every single day in your

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business, because especially if you're using that data to make decisions,

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garbage in, garbage out, right?

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So if I'm trying to determine how I'm going to scale my business

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based on garbage data, I'm not going to scale my business properly.

Kendra Nicole:

You

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What if you could redefine the grind of entrepreneurship into

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a journey of Peace and profits.

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Welcome to Seek, Go Create where today's guest, Kendra Nicole, shares

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her revolutionary approach to business.

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As a fractional CFO, Kendra has transitioned from running her

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successful accounting firm to empowering entrepreneurs to build

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sustainable, scalable businesses without sacrificing their wellbeing.

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Balancing her roles as a CEO, wife, mother, Kendra embodies the principles

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she teaches, proving that it's possible to achieve financial success

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alongside personal fulfillment.

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welcome to Seek Go Create.

Kendra Nicole:

Thank you.

Kendra Nicole:

Thank you.

Kendra Nicole:

I appreciate it.

Kendra Nicole:

I love being here.

Tim Winders:

I'm glad you're here too.

Tim Winders:

Kendra, Nicole, welcome.

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Let's do this first before we start.

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If, if somebody bumps into you, you run into somebody, you're traveling,

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you're out with, you're out with your child, something like that.

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And they say, what do you do?

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What do you tell people?

Kendra Nicole:

Yeah, I tell them I'm a little bit of a superhero.

Kendra Nicole:

Honestly, I'm a wife.

Kendra Nicole:

I'm a mom.

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so it's hodler at that.

Kendra Nicole:

I, run a business called the finance film, which is a

Kendra Nicole:

virtual CFO and accounting firm.

Kendra Nicole:

exclusively support women on entrepreneur or women entrepreneurs,

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and do all the things from a book, bookkeeping, financial reporting,

Kendra Nicole:

investor relations, fractional CFO work.

Kendra Nicole:

And yeah, so I've been, we, I run that business my day to day and

Kendra Nicole:

I, I try to run the household a little bit as best as I can as well.

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And, do all the, all the things,

Tim Winders:

so superheroes, you mentioned that word.

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So I'm going to ask this question.

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Superheroes usually have some type of a superpower.

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And it's something that sort of defines them.

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What's weird is, in these Marvel and DC universes, usually there was some kind

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of accident that occurred that brought out their, their, their superpower.

Tim Winders:

But, what, what are your superpowers?

Kendra Nicole:

I feel like I have grown over the years to have the

Kendra Nicole:

ability to stay calm and chaos, which was not always the case.

Kendra Nicole:

if there was a tornado going around me, I was going around in the tornado with it.

Kendra Nicole:

But, over the last few years, probably three, four years or so,

Kendra Nicole:

which my son is three and a half.

Kendra Nicole:

So yeah, I'll say about three years, I have learned to, how to find

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calm in the chaos, which I do feel like is a superpower these days.

Tim Winders:

Probably not anything that you master though, or we have,

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we have a four year old and a two year old granddaughters, grandchildren.

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And we talked to our daughter and, we've parented, but we're, we're beyond it.

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We're done with that.

Tim Winders:

It seems like it's extremely tough in the world and culture we're in today.

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I don't know if it's different or whatever.

Tim Winders:

I mean, it seems like there's always something going on, right?

Kendra Nicole:

Absolutely.

Kendra Nicole:

And, and four and two.

Kendra Nicole:

so that means that your grandbabies came into the world around the time

Kendra Nicole:

that Carter did with pandemic and all of that, that was going on as well.

Kendra Nicole:

And it's just different.

Kendra Nicole:

Of course, Carter's my first child, so I don't know how, how it is having a child

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outside of a pandemic, but I do know that.

Kendra Nicole:

it's just been a really rough welcoming to motherhood, when you can't have

Kendra Nicole:

friends and family over to travel to see you and, so it was definitely hard.

Kendra Nicole:

And yes, you're right.

Kendra Nicole:

There's no mastering the calm in chaos.

Kendra Nicole:

There's kind of just, taking it day by day and trying to grasp onto it.

Kendra Nicole:

As much as you can.

Kendra Nicole:

And sometimes it will slip through your fingers and you will be amongst the

Kendra Nicole:

chaos, but it's as much as you can.

Kendra Nicole:

I'm holding on to that calm and knowing that, this too shall pass with everything.

Kendra Nicole:

This too shall pass.

Tim Winders:

Yeah, that's interesting.

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I forgot that our, our oldest granddaughter was

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born like February of 2020.

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So it sounds like, you were

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short later that year.

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and and it was real odd.

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We were in Colorado when she was born and we were around there and we, we

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weren't supposed to visit, but we did anyway, it's hard to not do that.

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But I do believe like for her first six months or something,

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I don't know that she left.

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I mean, I don't know, they couldn't go to church.

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They couldn't go out.

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Anywhere.

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And I think we talked about it.

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What, what kind of impact is that going to have on that group of,

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of children, that didn't get out, but you know, she seems okay.

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did you say what's, what's his name?

Tim Winders:

Carter.

Tim Winders:

Wait, what's the name?

Kendra Nicole:

Carter.

Tim Winders:

How, I mean,

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adjusting.

Tim Winders:

I mean, kids adjust well though, don't they?

Kendra Nicole:

Yeah, my dad always told me, children are very

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resilient and I see it all the time.

Kendra Nicole:

And, he's this life has definitely put that to the test where I'm able to

Kendra Nicole:

see it day in and day out that they're very resilient because I was worried,

Kendra Nicole:

his first year of life because to your point, he was born in September 2020.

Kendra Nicole:

So his first year of life, everyone's talking with a mask.

Kendra Nicole:

So we're like, how is he going to learn how to speak in phonetics?

Kendra Nicole:

And everyone's mouth is covered.

Kendra Nicole:

And my dad is like, kids are resilient.

Kendra Nicole:

Don't worry.

Kendra Nicole:

He'll be fine, so yeah, I mean, from what I can tell, everything seems seems

Kendra Nicole:

fine, but I do believe there's going to be like a docuseries on, new moms

Kendra Nicole:

during the pandemic, like there has to be something that's going to come out at some

Tim Winders:

I think the kids are resilient.

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I'm not sure if the parents and the adults are, we're

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thinking about all these things.

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Yeah, I can kind of see it 20 years from now.

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It's like the, the, the COVID, the pandemic generation, they were

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born during that 12 to 24 months.

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how are they doing now?

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And I I think they're, Going to be just fine, but that does bring

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up something that it, it seems as if you have narrowed down with how

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you work and who you work with.

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And that is female entrepreneurs, which are going through

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what you're talking about.

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And, I, I, I do want to say this.

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There's, there's some irony in, a guy, first of all, an older, mature

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guy, like me asking these questions.

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It's just different though.

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And I mean, I think if we can't say it's different, then we're

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kind of fooling ourselves.

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Guys, men are going through different.

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Stuff than the women, female entrepreneurs, leaders

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that you're working with.

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So just kind of big picture, kind of talk about what are some of those challenges?

Tim Winders:

We probably have already addressed some, but what are some of those that that those

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leaders are dealing with, especially the female leaders that you interact with?

Tim Winders:

Sure.

Kendra Nicole:

Yeah.

Kendra Nicole:

And I appreciate you, you saying that.

Kendra Nicole:

so when I started and wanted to really focus on women

Kendra Nicole:

entrepreneurs, it was because.

Kendra Nicole:

I was coming out of corporate where I was, I actually had a lot of male

Kendra Nicole:

bosses and they were all excellent.

Kendra Nicole:

I've loved every single boss that I had in corporate.

Kendra Nicole:

but I would see some of the leaders, the company I was working for at the time,

Kendra Nicole:

the CFO was actually a woman and, she was, privately having these conversations with

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some of us, like female colleagues about like how hard it was with her children.

Kendra Nicole:

Her children were really young and, she would kind of give us these lessons

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when you do have children, think about this and think about that and kind

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of like coaching us a little bit, but it was like these side conversations.

Kendra Nicole:

and so that kind of struck something in me that, okay, women, we need support.

Kendra Nicole:

Like we should be able to Not just have these conversations with their colleagues,

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but have them openly and understand that, yes, there are things that we have to kind

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of deal with even, even if the household is, split 50 50, which can it ever be.

Kendra Nicole:

But even if it's kind of well managed, there's still just things

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physically that you take on when you are either going through having

Kendra Nicole:

children or emotionally, hormonally.

Kendra Nicole:

so that's really why I wanted to focus in on supporting women when

Kendra Nicole:

it came to, kind of birthing their entrepreneurial journey as well.

Tim Winders:

And, and, and listen, I want to say, I'm a man, I've been through

Tim Winders:

all of that, my best bosses, leaders that I interacted with way back when I

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did corporate, they were all females.

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And, and also want to say that on the flip side of all the things you just mentioned,

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us men, we don't really know what to do.

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We, we.

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Couldn't handle all of those superpowers.

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We're just not equipped to do it.

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And also want to say this, it's probably not fair.

Tim Winders:

It is probably not a fair structure and system.

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My wife would probably chime in and say, yeah, it's not, but.

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But it is what it is.

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And you've been through, so you've had, you've had like, transitions

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and shifts in your career.

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And, are you originally from the South Clemson university?

Tim Winders:

Where, where are you originally from before you went to Clemson?

Kendra Nicole:

I did.

Kendra Nicole:

I lived in South Carolina for a little while.

Kendra Nicole:

So I went to high school in South Carolina and, fell in love with Clemson.

Kendra Nicole:

And so that's why I ended up going, going there for school, but definitely

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have had several, transitions.

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I would say the largest were, was, obviously, just

Kendra Nicole:

going into corporate, right?

Kendra Nicole:

Like real life, going from college to corporate and then

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climbing that corporate ladder.

Kendra Nicole:

my goal was always to stay in corporate.

Kendra Nicole:

I knew nothing about entrepreneurship.

Kendra Nicole:

Like I do not have an entrepreneurship family.

Kendra Nicole:

I'm definitely a corporate climbing family.

Kendra Nicole:

so when I started into entrepreneurship, that transition was very new

Kendra Nicole:

and very different for me.

Kendra Nicole:

And that was probably the biggest one.

Kendra Nicole:

like the first one that I, that I kind of took.

Tim Winders:

So what was, when, when you entered that corporate world and we're

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going to tie some of this together as it leads into what you're doing now, but

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when you entered that corporate world, you mentioned climbing the ladder,

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but what How did you define success?

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One of the things we do here is we talk a lot about success and how we

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define it and how it changes over time.

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But when, coming out of college, going into corporate, what was your definition

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of success then, if you can recall?

Kendra Nicole:

Yeah.

Kendra Nicole:

So my dad had a big part in that.

Kendra Nicole:

He actually worked at Toyota for over 30 years and was like way

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up there, one of the high execs.

Kendra Nicole:

And so I always saw that.

Kendra Nicole:

And my mom was in accounting and she was climbing as well.

Kendra Nicole:

And so I always saw that and was just like, okay.

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This is what I want to do is like climb and just become this top executive.

Kendra Nicole:

And, he was the first black man to do this at Toyota.

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And I was like, I'm going to be the first black woman to do this.

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And so I wanted, I wanted that, that was success to me.

Kendra Nicole:

and so because I also had, like I said, amazing bosses and

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leadership, it felt easy to do.

Kendra Nicole:

So I was like, okay, yeah, that's great.

Kendra Nicole:

This is, this is, What I'm going to do.

Tim Winders:

so here's what I noticed.

Tim Winders:

I came out and I did corporate for a little while.

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I had already started a business though, and I'm probably 20 years

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ahead of you or before you, I guess.

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And one of the things that I realized as I was thinking about that corporate

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ladder was that paradigm of 30 years, be in one spot forever, it

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didn't seem to play out like that.

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Much.

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I'm not saying it's totally gone, but at what point did you realize

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it may not be that what your dad had as success, which was 30 years,

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same spot, moving up, same company, pension plan, all that kind of stuff.

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Did, did that, did that, did you realize at some point,

Tim Winders:

Hmm, a little bit different.

Kendra Nicole:

Oh, absolutely.

Kendra Nicole:

and my dad realized it too, because every two years I was changing companies,

Kendra Nicole:

not even just positions, but companies and sometimes States altogether.

Kendra Nicole:

And so my dad, I remember, when I left GE actually, which I was

Kendra Nicole:

there probably like four years.

Kendra Nicole:

So he really thought that was going to be like, he was like,

Kendra Nicole:

Oh, she's going to be her Toyota.

Kendra Nicole:

I knew he, I know he thought that.

Kendra Nicole:

And so when I left there, not only did I leave the company, but I left the state

Kendra Nicole:

and he was just like, What are you doing?

Kendra Nicole:

You're moving again.

Kendra Nicole:

You're changing again.

Kendra Nicole:

Like, what are you doing?

Kendra Nicole:

so I knew in that moment, I didn't, it wasn't about entrepreneurship.

Kendra Nicole:

I just knew that I wasn't going to be the 30 year lifer to one company.

Kendra Nicole:

and I was all about, Hey, Dad, every time I move and change positions, I

Kendra Nicole:

learned something vastly different.

Kendra Nicole:

That I couldn't learn if I just stayed in the same company.

Kendra Nicole:

And, I very, I very clearly still remember that conversation.

Tim Winders:

Did you ever, did you regret or not regret, or did you like

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hesitate to communicate with him when you were about to make a move at the reason

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I bring up, this has been years ago.

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My mother, I was, I was at Bell South large corporation for about nine years

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and I had 10 jobs over the course of those nine years, moved around,

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bounced around mostly the Atlanta area because they were based there.

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And I remember my mom, which probably was my dad saying something similar was,

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can't you find anything that you can do?

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Or can't you settle in?

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And I, I, the answer was no, not really because of, it just

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wasn't that environment anymore.

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Did you, did you have, and and I'll say it this way.

Tim Winders:

Was there a sense of, I don't like using the word failure, so we might could try

Tim Winders:

to use another word, but was there ever a

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sense of Failure because it wasn't that model that you knew from your family.

Kendra Nicole:

yeah, that's a really good question.

Kendra Nicole:

I would say it was, and I agree that failure might not be the

Kendra Nicole:

right word, but that it was.

Kendra Nicole:

Maybe like disappointment where maybe I felt like I was kind of

Kendra Nicole:

disappointing my dad because I'm not exactly doing it, the way that he did.

Kendra Nicole:

Meanwhile, my mom is like, go for it.

Kendra Nicole:

whatever, whatever it makes you happy.

Kendra Nicole:

so I always had that balance, which was great.

Kendra Nicole:

but yeah, I definitely feel like there was a sense of, Disappointing

Kendra Nicole:

him by not going in that exact.

Tim Winders:

Right.

Tim Winders:

Good.

Tim Winders:

All right.

Tim Winders:

So you moved around a good bit and had some corporate experience.

Tim Winders:

Give me, and maybe this is high level, low level, whatever.

Tim Winders:

Give me maybe the best thing or the top thing that you learned during that time.

Tim Winders:

And then maybe something that wasn't as positive that you, that you kind of have

Tim Winders:

taken from those years, Kendra, the early years or whatever we want to call it.

Kendra Nicole:

Yeah.

Kendra Nicole:

so I was in corporate for sure.

Kendra Nicole:

One of the big things that I learned was the relationships.

Kendra Nicole:

So the, like I said, the, the CFO and how she would kind of bring some of

Kendra Nicole:

this, us women, like under her wing.

Kendra Nicole:

And then even the relationship between the CFO and the CEO, that's kind of.

Kendra Nicole:

How my love for this whole fractional CFO business, how that came about

Kendra Nicole:

because I saw the relationship between the CEO how they would not move

Kendra Nicole:

forward in the business without coming together in the boardroom and talking

Kendra Nicole:

over the numbers and all the things.

Kendra Nicole:

so relationships is something that was, a large part of my learnings in corporate.

Kendra Nicole:

and I would say on the opposite end of that, it might be, honestly,

Kendra Nicole:

maybe something similar in that if you're, if you're not.

Kendra Nicole:

making those great relationships.

Kendra Nicole:

Sometimes it's not about how great you are and how great of the work

Kendra Nicole:

that you can do, but it's maybe about your lack of relationship.

Kendra Nicole:

And so it's, it's kind of one of those, I guess, double edge swords where it

Kendra Nicole:

could be great and amazing if you had the relationship and it was built the

Kendra Nicole:

way that, whoever thinks that it should be built, but if you don't have it, you

Kendra Nicole:

might miss out on certain opportunities.

Tim Winders:

I think I heard someone say one time that they were

Tim Winders:

talking about business or something.

Tim Winders:

They said, yeah, the best thing about what we do, they're the people.

Tim Winders:

And then they said, the worst thing about what we do are the people.

Tim Winders:

And I, I do see that now as you.

Tim Winders:

Transition to when you left corporate, did you start your own thing immediately?

Tim Winders:

Did you decide you were leaving?

Tim Winders:

Was it a side hustle?

Tim Winders:

What was that transition like moving away from that corporate experience?

Kendra Nicole:

So entrepreneurship literally fell in my lap.

Kendra Nicole:

And I know it's like cliche when folks say that it truly did.

Kendra Nicole:

I was climbing this ladder.

Kendra Nicole:

I had the goal to get, the floor to ceiling glass windows, corner

Kendra Nicole:

office, like that was my goal.

Kendra Nicole:

And, but I had friends who were starting businesses and who were

Kendra Nicole:

doing great in their business.

Kendra Nicole:

I mean, they were making millions of dollars.

Kendra Nicole:

And sales and their business each year.

Kendra Nicole:

And so I'm thinking, and they're on social media, like, about

Kendra Nicole:

all their sales and everything.

Kendra Nicole:

And I'm like, Oh, they're just living the life.

Kendra Nicole:

But then behind closed doors, they'll come to me and they'll say, I'm struggling.

Kendra Nicole:

Like these numbers aren't making sense.

Kendra Nicole:

Can you help me?

Kendra Nicole:

And so I'm like, sure.

Kendra Nicole:

Put me in touch with your accountant.

Kendra Nicole:

And they don't have an accountant.

Kendra Nicole:

They're like, I don't have an accountant.

Kendra Nicole:

What are you talking about?

Kendra Nicole:

And so I'm like, how are you making millions in your business?

Kendra Nicole:

And you don't have an accountant, a bookkeeper, anything.

Kendra Nicole:

And so that's when I started to work with them on the side, not thinking

Kendra Nicole:

at all, this would be a business, just thinking I'm helping out a few friends.

Kendra Nicole:

But those first couple of friends after a few months in their business, completely

Kendra Nicole:

turning around just because they had visibility into what they were doing.

Kendra Nicole:

And of course, as an entrepreneur, if your business is doing

Kendra Nicole:

well, then like your life.

Kendra Nicole:

Like it's a personal thing, and so when I saw that turnaround for them after

Kendra Nicole:

just a few months of working together, it clicked instantly that like, this

Kendra Nicole:

is what I'm supposed to be doing.

Kendra Nicole:

So like corporate was like paid training to be able to help these women in

Kendra Nicole:

real life, with their small business, make, Changes in their business.

Kendra Nicole:

And so once I saw that I was like, gee, he's going to make billions of

Kendra Nicole:

dollars, whether I show up to work or not, but these women might close the

Kendra Nicole:

doors if we don't show up for them.

Kendra Nicole:

that's how the transition happened.

Kendra Nicole:

And I would say after about five or six months of kind of side hustling

Kendra Nicole:

it with friends on the side is when I left corporate and started full time.

Tim Winders:

And so one of the things that comes up when we talk

Tim Winders:

about business owners, let me address this before I move farther.

Tim Winders:

It's amazing how sometimes social media doesn't portray the whole story.

Tim Winders:

you said, Oh, they're killing it.

Tim Winders:

They're doing so great.

Tim Winders:

And then, and yeah, they might have that revenue come in, but

Tim Winders:

there's the behind the curtain.

Tim Winders:

It wouldn't be great if we actually hadn't, A true reading

Tim Winders:

or gauge of, of what's going on.

Tim Winders:

So you kind of get to look under the hood a good

Tim Winders:

bit with people, which is pretty powerful.

Tim Winders:

And you could probably find out what's really going on before we get

Tim Winders:

into some of those details though.

Tim Winders:

I'm always fascinated when I talk to people that deal with money.

Tim Winders:

And, and I want to, there's a couple of things I want to talk about here before

Tim Winders:

we kind of go into all the services you provide and what you're doing

Tim Winders:

and some things we could learn from the people that you're working with.

Tim Winders:

And that is what has been over the course of your life, what has been

Tim Winders:

your relationship with money and what has been some of the things

Tim Winders:

you've learned from seeing how other people, especially business

Tim Winders:

people and owners deal with money.

Tim Winders:

So first of all, talk about money.

Tim Winders:

Is it something that drives you?

Tim Winders:

Is it something you've always thought about?

Tim Winders:

You've always been good at dealing with it or anything you want to

Tim Winders:

share about money air quotes for those that are listening in here.

Kendra Nicole:

Yeah.

Kendra Nicole:

So I love this question.

Kendra Nicole:

Now, when I used to hear this question or something similar, I would get anxiety

Kendra Nicole:

because I actually have always had a pretty good relationship with money.

Kendra Nicole:

My dad has, when he was climbing that ladder, he paid for our college.

Kendra Nicole:

Like he, he bought our first cars for us, for me and my siblings.

Kendra Nicole:

Like, So I've always had a good relationship with money.

Kendra Nicole:

And so when I first started, I used to always think, man, no,

Kendra Nicole:

one's going to really want to work with me because they're going to

Kendra Nicole:

think, this girl comes from money.

Kendra Nicole:

Like she doesn't understand me and my struggles in my business.

Kendra Nicole:

She comes from money, not realizing that just because I had

Kendra Nicole:

the ability to get money from my family didn't mean that I did.

Kendra Nicole:

I struggled.

Kendra Nicole:

Like every other entrepreneur struggles.

Kendra Nicole:

I struggled in college, like every other college kid struggles.

Kendra Nicole:

and, but I say that because when I would first hear that question

Kendra Nicole:

before, I would always think, okay, man, people, everyone's always got

Kendra Nicole:

the, rags to riches story and I don't have this rags to riches story.

Kendra Nicole:

So anyways, that's, that's my true relationship with money is it was never.

Kendra Nicole:

Oh, I have to accumulate so much of this or, but just like it was never

Kendra Nicole:

a, Oh, I don't have enough of it.

Kendra Nicole:

There was never really any, deep thought around money, except for I

Kendra Nicole:

know that it can make people happy.

Kendra Nicole:

For example, I always think of this story when, when my dad would take

Kendra Nicole:

like our whole family, like cousins and aunts and uncles out to eat.

Kendra Nicole:

And he'd always pick up the tab for the whole table.

Kendra Nicole:

And I would just always see how everyone, no one ever has to worry about like,

Kendra Nicole:

who's going to pick up the tab, right?

Kendra Nicole:

Things like that.

Kendra Nicole:

That's my thought when it comes to money is being able to do that, it's,

Kendra Nicole:

and so hopefully that answers your question, but that's, that's kind of

Kendra Nicole:

what my relationship was with money.

Kendra Nicole:

And, and even now to this day, it's always, When I'm talking to like my, my

Kendra Nicole:

business owners and I'm working with, I'm always trying to understand what their

Kendra Nicole:

relationship is with money and where some of these almost like arbitrary goals come

Kendra Nicole:

from, because you always hear the, I want a million dollars of sales this year,

Kendra Nicole:

or I want 500 K in my savings account.

Kendra Nicole:

What?

Kendra Nicole:

Why?

Kendra Nicole:

Like, what are these numbers tied to?

Kendra Nicole:

so I always try to get a better understanding of that from them as well.

Tim Winders:

The reason this is kind of a neat conversation.

Tim Winders:

I didn't realize it when we were scheduling this interview, but the last

Tim Winders:

interview I did was with Steven DeSilva that it probably will release right

Tim Winders:

before this episode for those that might want to search, we actually discussed.

Tim Winders:

prosperity and money from a spiritual tone.

Tim Winders:

And I think that's a great foundation for a lot of people.

Tim Winders:

And then I think next week, the next one we're having is talking to someone

Tim Winders:

who's kind of like a wealth advisor.

Tim Winders:

And so I'm looking at our conversation here is like, business

Tim Winders:

owner, how to deal with like some practical and things like that.

Tim Winders:

So I think, I think these three, this arc is going to be a great combination, but I

Tim Winders:

do think that we learn a lot about people in two situations when they have a lack

Tim Winders:

or extreme lack of financial resources and possibly when they have An abundance or an

Tim Winders:

extreme abundance of financial resources.

Tim Winders:

Would you agree with that?

Tim Winders:

And is there anything you want to say about that?

Kendra Nicole:

100%.

Kendra Nicole:

100%.

Kendra Nicole:

I, I totally agree with that.

Kendra Nicole:

I think Sometimes on the abundance side, what can show up is the

Kendra Nicole:

insecurities that the people might have.

Kendra Nicole:

And, sometimes that money is or that what we think is abundance or excess of money

Kendra Nicole:

is used to kind of, fix or resolve or gloss over some of those insecurities.

Kendra Nicole:

And so I definitely.

Kendra Nicole:

I definitely agree 100 percent that you can really see someone on both of

Kendra Nicole:

those, ends of the spectrum for sure.

Tim Winders:

Yeah.

Tim Winders:

And I think what that does is it, it, it can really manifest when someone has a

Tim Winders:

great idea, they have a business, they're trying to provide a service, and then

Tim Winders:

all of a sudden they're doing all those business things, and we're dealing with

Tim Winders:

either a lot of money coming in or we're Things are tied and things like that.

Tim Winders:

So, so with that, let's transition and let's talk about some of the things

Tim Winders:

that you've seen, maybe high level.

Tim Winders:

And then we'll go down practical with that mindset about money.

Tim Winders:

Maybe let's start with mindset.

Tim Winders:

You've interacted with a lot of females, it sounds like, and.

Tim Winders:

And and I know you don't want to mention names or anything here, but what are some

Tim Winders:

ways that you've seen people handle the mindset of money well, and maybe some

Tim Winders:

examples when people it's like, okay, this is something that we're going to have to

Tim Winders:

exercise these demons to get this to where we could really be, do well financially.

Tim Winders:

And I'll mention a couple of things after you say that, but any, anything

Tim Winders:

popped to mind when I bring that up?

Kendra Nicole:

Yeah.

Kendra Nicole:

I would say some of the, some of the biggest like struggles or hurdles

Kendra Nicole:

will come through when, when one is extremely creative and, maybe coming up

Kendra Nicole:

with several different ideas and, or, concepts and everything has to go live.

Kendra Nicole:

Now, like I have to launch everything today and then I come

Kendra Nicole:

up with a new idea in a week and I want to launch that one too.

Kendra Nicole:

And, and sometimes that's just because they're super creative, but sometimes

Kendra Nicole:

it's also out of fear that what I launched last week might not bring enough money.

Kendra Nicole:

So let me create something else.

Kendra Nicole:

And so they have.

Kendra Nicole:

100 things that are 85 percent complete, but nothing that's 100

Kendra Nicole:

percent across the finish line.

Kendra Nicole:

And so they're tacked out emotionally, physically, financially, because I

Kendra Nicole:

can't get anything to the finish line because I keep starting these new things.

Kendra Nicole:

And so I do see that often with those, That are just extremely

Kendra Nicole:

creative and come up with these different concepts and ideas.

Kendra Nicole:

And I think that sometimes that does come out of fear of, well, these other

Kendra Nicole:

things that I created might not be enough or might not get bring in what

Kendra Nicole:

I need to let me create something else.

Kendra Nicole:

That's definitely 1 that I see another 1 is with the social media.

Kendra Nicole:

Side of seeing the success of everyone else and thinking that

Kendra Nicole:

they don't have that success.

Kendra Nicole:

And so they're chasing that in chasing someone else's success is extremely

Kendra Nicole:

expensive on all of your resources on your money, on your energy, on your time.

Kendra Nicole:

you can't chase someone else's success.

Kendra Nicole:

You don't know what their success actually is.

Kendra Nicole:

So it's this, it's just this like never ending.

Kendra Nicole:

thing that you're kind of running after.

Kendra Nicole:

And I see that often as well.

Kendra Nicole:

And I get it.

Kendra Nicole:

It's hard, but, but I do see that quite a bit as well.

Tim Winders:

Yeah, the comparison trap is so challenging and I would

Tim Winders:

say, years ago when I was starting my first businesses, you could just look

Tim Winders:

around and see two or three people.

Tim Winders:

Now you could look around and see two or 300 or two or 3000 and boy they

Tim Winders:

all look, they are, they look like they're just killing it and doing

Tim Winders:

so great and living their best life.

Tim Winders:

And that's why I like talking to people that are in the CFO role.

Tim Winders:

'cause they sometimes.

Tim Winders:

No, really, like I said earlier, what's, what's under the hood.

Tim Winders:

Do you ever run across entrepreneurs, business owners?

Tim Winders:

I know that I deal with this and I deal with mostly males.

Tim Winders:

I'm not exclusive, but that they're just delusional.

Tim Winders:

They just have no clue or concept.

Tim Winders:

Don't mention names here, if it's true, but they are, they're probably

Tim Winders:

good at some of the things, but when it comes to the financial

Tim Winders:

piece, they are living in dreamland.

Tim Winders:

It's that you see that often.

Tim Winders:

I

Kendra Nicole:

Yeah, I won't say that I see it often.

Kendra Nicole:

I do see it.

Kendra Nicole:

I do see it occasionally though.

Kendra Nicole:

and it's hard because I feel like usually when I see it, it's because they're,

Kendra Nicole:

It's less of the lack of knowledge of financials, which is absolutely part

Kendra Nicole:

of it, but it's more of they're just so incredibly passionate about whatever it

Kendra Nicole:

is that they're trying to get to market.

Kendra Nicole:

And they, and they, and it might be life changing.

Kendra Nicole:

It might, it might change the lives of however many people

Kendra Nicole:

sign up for that app or take that technology and do whatever it is.

Kendra Nicole:

But, but it's, it takes money to get there.

Kendra Nicole:

It takes the marketing efforts to get there.

Kendra Nicole:

It takes the investments to get there.

Kendra Nicole:

And sometimes.

Kendra Nicole:

there's this, if you build it, they will come kind of mentality and

Kendra Nicole:

entrepreneurship that like, I mean, I had it as well when I first started

Kendra Nicole:

the business, like you get humbled very quickly, and entrepreneurship,

Kendra Nicole:

like that's just not how it works.

Kendra Nicole:

And so I think sometimes there's a little bit of that, where you just

Kendra Nicole:

kind of have to let them see a little bit of it to understand, like, it can

Kendra Nicole:

be an amazing idea, concept, whatever it is, but it, it takes more than

Kendra Nicole:

that in order for it to be successful.

Tim Winders:

noticed with me, that was, we were talking about superpowers earlier.

Tim Winders:

I think it was one of my superpowers.

Tim Winders:

Up to a point, but an overused superpower sometimes can be our kryptonite.

Tim Winders:

It can, it can draw down what I had extreme optimism and I really had a

Tim Winders:

vision for the future of where we were headed and where we were going, the

Tim Winders:

disconnect or the challenge was, is that it's hard to spend future money.

Tim Winders:

I think people can borrow and things like that.

Tim Winders:

That's not a good formula for profit.

Tim Winders:

People like me that have that mindset.

Tim Winders:

And so I was living off future money, and I would say things

Tim Winders:

like, Oh, I'm investing in myself or I'm, I'm putting money back in.

Tim Winders:

We're investing back in.

Tim Winders:

But the, I won't get into the whole story, but in 08, we had real estate

Tim Winders:

companies in that, that came to an end fairly quickly, how, how does someone

Tim Winders:

who is a CFO or accountant or someone who's working with someone like that.

Tim Winders:

How can you approach it to reel someone like that in without

Tim Winders:

squelching all of that energy?

Tim Winders:

That might be a hard question, but I'd love to know because

Tim Winders:

that's my background and probably a lot of listeners backgrounds.

Kendra Nicole:

find the best thing is to understand is to really understand each

Kendra Nicole:

individual person and what drives them because you can be extremely optimistic

Kendra Nicole:

and have these these thoughts and these these plans and and also be the type that

Kendra Nicole:

if I were to bring you data of, maybe historical things that have happened or

Kendra Nicole:

data of projections of what might happen.

Kendra Nicole:

you might be the type that can sit down and look at that, and that can

Kendra Nicole:

actually be enough to kind of sway you one way or another, if you're kind

Kendra Nicole:

of data driven, or you might be one that can care less about the data.

Kendra Nicole:

I have those clients as well.

Kendra Nicole:

Kendra, I don't care what the numbers say.

Kendra Nicole:

I feel this in all of my aura.

Kendra Nicole:

And I'm like, okay, yeah.

Kendra Nicole:

Let's go another about this another way.

Kendra Nicole:

And so then I might tap into more of the, well, why are you wanting to do this?

Kendra Nicole:

And if I can get a better understanding of what their why is and what their end goal

Kendra Nicole:

is beyond this, then maybe there are other avenues that we can take that might be

Kendra Nicole:

less risk or, less of a financial burden right now that we can still get closer

Kendra Nicole:

to that why without as big of a jump and then sometimes it's just, You know what?

Kendra Nicole:

You're right.

Kendra Nicole:

Like this might be a big vision, a big dream.

Kendra Nicole:

It might be a big risk, but this sounds, this actually all kind of shakes out

Kendra Nicole:

and it looks good, let's go for it.

Kendra Nicole:

But let's check in often to make sure that it's going the way that we're

Kendra Nicole:

thinking that it should go and pivot when necessary versus like, let's

Kendra Nicole:

just throw it out there and just like sit back and kind of let it cook.

Tim Winders:

Yeah.

Tim Winders:

The thing that's the reason that's so good Kendra is is the ability to access the

Tim Winders:

data is where people like you, I think, bring extreme value to people like that.

Tim Winders:

I've got a call later today with one of my clients, runs a company and he generally

Tim Winders:

knows in his head what's going on.

Tim Winders:

He's a real detailed type person, but boy, he needs that, we, I think

Tim Winders:

we call it a CFO in his organization to track, look at trends, look

Tim Winders:

at things that might be problems.

Tim Winders:

Look at, what happened last year, what's happening this year, what

Tim Winders:

we, what might we do next year.

Tim Winders:

And I think that that Becomes important.

Tim Winders:

I noticed with your, your business that you use terms like fractional CFO.

Tim Winders:

we talk about obviously accounting and there's other words like

Tim Winders:

comptroller and things like that.

Tim Winders:

I think before we kind of go any further, could you for myself and others define

Tim Winders:

what you mean by some of those roles?

Tim Winders:

Cause I think.

Tim Winders:

There's some people that would say CFO.

Tim Winders:

Oh, that's not for me.

Tim Winders:

That's like a big corporate type thing.

Tim Winders:

And that could be your corporate background, knowing the role they have.

Tim Winders:

But talk about those.

Tim Winders:

whatever you want to do, CFO, accountant, controller,

Tim Winders:

bookkeeper, all of those, I think are sometimes lumped all together.

Tim Winders:

And I do think there's differences.

Kendra Nicole:

yeah, absolutely.

Kendra Nicole:

so I'll start with kind of your bookkeeper.

Kendra Nicole:

So if you are, if you, so essentially what they are for.

Kendra Nicole:

So a bookkeeper essentially is responsible for, accurately classifying

Kendra Nicole:

from an accounting standpoint, every transaction, every financial transaction

Kendra Nicole:

that you make in your business.

Kendra Nicole:

So every time you swipe your debit card to buy some supplies, or every time

Kendra Nicole:

you get a invoice paid from a client, a bookkeeper's job is to ensure that

Kendra Nicole:

that is being classified properly.

Kendra Nicole:

So that when you run a financial statement, like a profit and loss or a

Kendra Nicole:

balance sheet or a cashflow statement, everything is on there accurately, and in

Kendra Nicole:

a compliant fashion, so that when you go to file your tax return and everything,

Kendra Nicole:

it's all like on there properly.

Kendra Nicole:

and an accountant is like the level above that your accountant also

Kendra Nicole:

should understand some deeper laws for your business, for your location.

Kendra Nicole:

Okay, maybe there are some, journal entries, which is.

Kendra Nicole:

Fancy way of saying, some like adjustments that need to be made in your books

Kendra Nicole:

to ensure that it's also compliant.

Kendra Nicole:

So where the bookkeeper might kind of understand things at a transactional

Kendra Nicole:

basis, your accountant kind of understands things that are, higher, business level.

Kendra Nicole:

and then your CFO, let me pause there for a second.

Kendra Nicole:

You're so that means that your bookkeeper and your accountant, they're all

Kendra Nicole:

looking at historical transactions.

Kendra Nicole:

They're looking at things that have happened in the past.

Kendra Nicole:

The money that you've spent, the money that you've made.

Kendra Nicole:

and, and a CFO is more forward looking.

Kendra Nicole:

So we come in, we have to have accurate accounting.

Kendra Nicole:

So we need a bookkeeper and an accountant to, to, to do our jobs because they

Kendra Nicole:

give us all of that historical data.

Kendra Nicole:

But then we take that historical data and then anything else is going on

Kendra Nicole:

in the world and then understand, okay, well, if your business is

Kendra Nicole:

currently here, how do we get it there?

Kendra Nicole:

Or how do we get it here?

Kendra Nicole:

Or how do we get it out of whatever?

Kendra Nicole:

messy might feel like you're in.

Kendra Nicole:

And CFO is more forward looking.

Kendra Nicole:

we, we create strategies, we create projections, things like that, where

Kendra Nicole:

your bookkeeper and your accountant are more present day or past historical.

Kendra Nicole:

but we all work together in order to kind of create everything that's

Kendra Nicole:

needed, but that's usually the step.

Kendra Nicole:

And to your point about who really needs a CFO, you can, you can earn 20,

Kendra Nicole:

30, 40, 000 a month in your business and have a fractional CFO because we

Kendra Nicole:

can just come in and maybe help you understand how you're making 20 now.

Kendra Nicole:

And if you want that 20 to be 40, we can understand the, the metrics within your

Kendra Nicole:

business that help you get to that 20.

Kendra Nicole:

Cause the 20 is just an end number, right?

Kendra Nicole:

That's based off of maybe how many units you've sold or whatever your pricing is.

Kendra Nicole:

So we can understand the economics of the, how you got to that 20 to

Kendra Nicole:

figure out how to make that 20 or 40.

Kendra Nicole:

That's when the CFO would come in, a fractional CFO would come in.

Kendra Nicole:

100%.

Tim Winders:

that many entrepreneur business owners will use when it comes

Tim Winders:

to those services are something to the effect of we can't afford blank.

Tim Winders:

Accountant, bookkeeper, CFO yet, and you just mentioned a dollar amount, but could

Tim Winders:

you now go through that if you want to go through that list again and kind of

Tim Winders:

give, what are some clues that you need?

Tim Winders:

bookkeeper, accountant, or it's time for a CFO.

Tim Winders:

It's time for fractional CFO.

Tim Winders:

Do you, are there any metrics around that?

Tim Winders:

Or are there any, is there anything that someone listening

Tim Winders:

or someone gauging it would say, okay, this is a trigger for this.

Kendra Nicole:

So if you're making about 100, 000 a year in sales, whether

Kendra Nicole:

you're product based, service based, whatever, 100, 000 a year in sales, which

Kendra Nicole:

is about 8, 000, a little over 8, 000 a month in income, then you definitely

Kendra Nicole:

want to at least consider a bookkeeper.

Kendra Nicole:

Now that's on the, absolutely, like that's a trigger that should absolutely

Kendra Nicole:

make you want to bring in a bookkeeper.

Kendra Nicole:

But if you're bringing in 5, 000 and it's overwhelming to you.

Kendra Nicole:

Then you can consider bringing in a bookkeeper as well because there

Kendra Nicole:

are some bookkeepers as low as, a couple hundred dollars a month.

Kendra Nicole:

There are some, SAS tools like bench.

Kendra Nicole:

co that I think it's like 140 a month maybe, and you don't have a person that

Kendra Nicole:

you're kind of working with one on one, but it's a, it's a solution, a tool that

Kendra Nicole:

kind of automate some of your bookkeeping.

Kendra Nicole:

So if you're, if it's overwhelming, go ahead and outsource it.

Kendra Nicole:

But if you.

Kendra Nicole:

don't feel like it's that overwhelming, but you're already

Kendra Nicole:

at that 100k a year threshold.

Kendra Nicole:

I would say still go ahead and consider investing in a bookkeeper.

Kendra Nicole:

the accountant that really comes in more so depending on the

Kendra Nicole:

complexity of your business.

Kendra Nicole:

So if you're purchasing a lot of like assets, whether it's real

Kendra Nicole:

estate or whether it's a lot of equipment that you're purchasing,

Kendra Nicole:

if you're doing like manufacturing.

Kendra Nicole:

Then you want to consider an accountant because they're going

Kendra Nicole:

to look at some of those entries that we talked about earlier.

Kendra Nicole:

and that would also be probably at that 100k or more range before you're,

Kendra Nicole:

obviously investing in like equipment.

Kendra Nicole:

now a CFO, I usually say if you're making about 250k a year or more,

Kendra Nicole:

sometimes it's like 500k a year or more.

Kendra Nicole:

It really just depends on what you're doing that you want to bring in a CFO.

Kendra Nicole:

It's almost less about the dollar amount though, and more about

Kendra Nicole:

what's going on in your business.

Kendra Nicole:

So CFOs are great when you're going through some kind of a

Kendra Nicole:

transitional point in your business.

Kendra Nicole:

maybe you're hiring your first full time employee outside of yourself, or

Kendra Nicole:

maybe you are going from one location to two locations, or you're going

Kendra Nicole:

from being a dot com to opening up a brick and mortar location as well.

Kendra Nicole:

So when there are some Larger transitional points are happening

Kendra Nicole:

in your business that you want to consider bringing on a fractional CFO.

Kendra Nicole:

Cause it might even just be for that project.

Kendra Nicole:

It might not be an ongoing commitment.

Kendra Nicole:

It might be for the next three months.

Kendra Nicole:

As I consider bringing on this next employee, I really need somebody that

Kendra Nicole:

I can run this scenario through and help me go through these numbers.

Tim Winders:

Those are good gauges.

Tim Winders:

I appreciate you giving us some, some indicators there.

Tim Winders:

One of the things that also came to mind is I think it was before I want to

Tim Winders:

talk about the next thing is how often, and you, and you may not interact with

Tim Winders:

these I think many times entrepreneurs and business owners, there's a

Tim Winders:

statement that I make often and it's called thou shalt not fool thyself.

Tim Winders:

I think we will often fool ourselves thinking, Oh, it's just numbers.

Tim Winders:

I can keep track of that.

Tim Winders:

Oh, it's just marketing.

Tim Winders:

I can do marketing.

Tim Winders:

Oh, it's just social media posts.

Tim Winders:

I could do that.

Tim Winders:

We really don't.

Tim Winders:

Do this is goes back to the delusional thing.

Tim Winders:

I think there's a delusion that we either can do it all or we have to do it all.

Tim Winders:

So how often do you have to deal with folks that are like, I know I could do

Tim Winders:

it, but I feel like I just need help.

Tim Winders:

Or.

Tim Winders:

I think women are probably better at admitting they can't do things.

Tim Winders:

Maybe I'm wrong about that, but how often do you have to

Tim Winders:

say, okay, let us handle this.

Tim Winders:

You go do what it is.

Tim Winders:

You're really good at.

Tim Winders:

I think sometimes entrepreneurs are not good at that.

Tim Winders:

So talk about that.

Tim Winders:

Some,

Kendra Nicole:

yeah, I 100 percent agree.

Kendra Nicole:

And, and, and it's, it's a thing with women as well, for sure.

Kendra Nicole:

we'll often hear folks on calls say like.

Kendra Nicole:

I know I'm sure I could do this, I'm sure I can like create my own

Kendra Nicole:

projection for this three year plan for the sales pitch or the, the investor

Kendra Nicole:

pitch that I have coming up, but you know, I would rather just outsource it.

Kendra Nicole:

I'm like, okay, I'm sure you probably could do it, but wouldn't you want

Kendra Nicole:

someone who does this for a living?

Kendra Nicole:

To do it, it's like I, I probably could write a book in Portuguese, using chat GPT

Kendra Nicole:

and Google, but what, what I really want to write a book in Portuguese versus going

Kendra Nicole:

to someone who can write in Portuguese.

Kendra Nicole:

yes, it does take, I think sometimes it just takes having the conversation with

Kendra Nicole:

whoever that potential fractional CFO is for you to get comfortable with the idea.

Kendra Nicole:

Of someone else taking it over.

Kendra Nicole:

Cause I do think at least with, within finance and accounting, that a little

Kendra Nicole:

bit of that is the, concern of someone is about just kind of see all of my mess.

Kendra Nicole:

And so they really are almost like talking themselves out of bringing

Kendra Nicole:

somebody on because they don't want someone to see all of their mess.

Kendra Nicole:

but usually that goes away very, very quickly once they have their

Kendra Nicole:

first set of books done for them.

Kendra Nicole:

And they're like, Oh, this is this is great.

Kendra Nicole:

I didn't have to do a thing.

Kendra Nicole:

so it happens.

Kendra Nicole:

I'm the same way with marketing.

Kendra Nicole:

I'm always like, Oh, I can do my own marketing and then nothing

Kendra Nicole:

gets done for like 6 months.

Kendra Nicole:

So I get it.

Kendra Nicole:

but usually once they hand the reins over, it's very easy.

Kendra Nicole:

Easy for them to then see like, Oh, I should have done this a long time ago.

Tim Winders:

yeah.

Tim Winders:

Or you get it done and it's done poorly.

Tim Winders:

And there's some pretty, I don't want to say severe repercussions.

Tim Winders:

There's some repercussions if you

Tim Winders:

don't handle the, okay.

Tim Winders:

Financial pieces, right?

Tim Winders:

I I've interacted with clients in the past that have brought up things

Tim Winders:

that sound something like this.

Tim Winders:

I'll mention this and then let you respond something like this.

Tim Winders:

Oh, we've paid our taxes, but we haven't done a return in three or four years.

Tim Winders:

Which is an interesting.

Tim Winders:

Or yeah, we've been a little bit at tight.

Tim Winders:

We're a little bit behind on our tax situation and we'll get caught

Tim Winders:

up as soon as blank happens.

Tim Winders:

When you hear things like that, as someone who deals with the financial

Tim Winders:

piece, what goes through your mind?

Kendra Nicole:

I, it's tough because you don't want to like ring the alarms, but

Kendra Nicole:

at the same time you, you have to kind of wake, wake them up a little bit to

Kendra Nicole:

the, to the realities of what's going on.

Kendra Nicole:

and then also like, yes, there's the repercussions with, with taxes for

Kendra Nicole:

sure, which is definitely something that you don't want to mess with.

Kendra Nicole:

But then also Bad data, bad financial data hurts you every single day in your

Kendra Nicole:

business, because especially if you're using that data to make decisions,

Kendra Nicole:

garbage in, garbage out, right?

Kendra Nicole:

So if I'm trying to determine how I'm going to scale my business

Kendra Nicole:

based on garbage data, I'm not going to scale my business properly.

Kendra Nicole:

It's going to, go any old kind of way.

Kendra Nicole:

bad.

Kendra Nicole:

I always let folks know that bad financial data, like this is beyond

Kendra Nicole:

the scary taxman, which is a scary tax man, by the way, it really is, but

Kendra Nicole:

beyond the tax man, it's your day to day decision making that's also on the line.

Kendra Nicole:

So why make, why grow a business with, with this, this incomplete data, when

Kendra Nicole:

you can have information in front of you that helps you make decisions.

Kendra Nicole:

Everyday decisions, the decisions that we all have to make is my pricing, right?

Kendra Nicole:

How much should I, offer this person for this full time job?

Kendra Nicole:

Like, these are questions that we have to make that looking

Kendra Nicole:

at data would help us make,

Tim Winders:

I think it's just being a good steward of

Tim Winders:

what you've been gifted with.

Tim Winders:

It's something we talk about a good bit here.

Tim Winders:

That's, I think that's the right thing spiritually.

Tim Winders:

I think it's just the right thing.

Tim Winders:

If you've got a business, you need to steward it and take

Tim Winders:

care of it in a certain way.

Tim Winders:

And part of that are the numbers.

Tim Winders:

Part of that is the people, part of it's other assets and other

Tim Winders:

things that you've been gifted with.

Tim Winders:

And so I, I, I think.

Tim Winders:

I think it's something that you just need to take care of better.

Tim Winders:

And it seems like that's what you bring into the business.

Tim Winders:

You've got something that I read about called peace and profits and, and, In

Tim Winders:

the same sentence that I was reading it, it said something about, stop the

Tim Winders:

hustle or stop the hustle and grind, which is near and dear to my heart.

Tim Winders:

I was the early part of my life up until probably, 20 minutes

Tim Winders:

ago, I would have been kind of a hustle and grind type person.

Tim Winders:

No, actually about 15 years ago is when I started getting purged of that.

Tim Winders:

And so anytime I see something, it might've been what attracted me for

Tim Winders:

us to have this conversation, peace and profits and, avoid the hustle.

Tim Winders:

It, it means something to me.

Tim Winders:

So tell me about peace and profits and how those fit together.

Kendra Nicole:

Yeah.

Kendra Nicole:

as a CFO and someone who's in finance.

Kendra Nicole:

It was always about profit to me because that's just kind of what made sense.

Kendra Nicole:

I'm here to look at the data and the numbers to see what's going

Kendra Nicole:

to be the most profitable thing.

Kendra Nicole:

And even when I started my business, same concept, because I

Kendra Nicole:

took that mentality from corporate and then, 2020 I had my son.

Kendra Nicole:

And when I had my son, I thought that I had set myself up to have this like

Kendra Nicole:

great maternity leave as an entrepreneur.

Kendra Nicole:

I'm like, I'm in control of my own time.

Kendra Nicole:

I can like, determine who I get to talk to and all of this, how many hours I work.

Kendra Nicole:

And, that just wasn't the case.

Kendra Nicole:

I, I was still grinding while, bouncing on a yoga ball while like, Nursing my

Kendra Nicole:

son to sleep so that I could take a call and hoping that he doesn't wake up.

Kendra Nicole:

Like, and it was that way for months and I was so drained.

Kendra Nicole:

And, then it just clicked.

Kendra Nicole:

And I had some clients who were completely understanding.

Kendra Nicole:

And then I had some one in particular who roasted me on the call because

Kendra Nicole:

I'm like rocking my son to sleep while I'm on the call with her.

Kendra Nicole:

And that's when I realized like, okay, I really signed up for this entrepreneur

Kendra Nicole:

thing because I knew that I could have a little bit more control over my

Kendra Nicole:

life and who I work with and my time.

Kendra Nicole:

And it's time that I really put that into place.

Kendra Nicole:

And so that's when I started to transition my mindset from

Kendra Nicole:

this business is all about.

Kendra Nicole:

Helping people be profitable to this business is all about helping people

Kendra Nicole:

be profitable, but so they can live a peaceful life so they can do whatever it

Kendra Nicole:

is that they're wanting to do, whether that's spend more time with their

Kendra Nicole:

family, whether that's travel the world, it's a combination of the two things.

Kendra Nicole:

And it's, it then puts a purpose behind the profits.

Kendra Nicole:

which ironically enough makes the profits grow because you're doing it for a reason

Kendra Nicole:

and a reason that's in alignment with you.

Kendra Nicole:

And yeah, that tipping point, really changed things and I still have my CFO

Kendra Nicole:

hat on, but I always look at things through the lens of peace and profits.

Kendra Nicole:

And, once you start down that path, like there's no going back, I can never go

Kendra Nicole:

back to being like profit, profit, profit.

Kendra Nicole:

Like I, it, it, it, I can't go down that path anymore.

Tim Winders:

The interesting thing to tie back into something we talked

Tim Winders:

about earlier, you mentioned that there are a lot of people that are chasing

Tim Winders:

after Profits, business, new business, whatever chasing after a lifestyle that

Tim Winders:

they think someone else is leading and they think they want to do that also.

Tim Winders:

you mentioned the chasing and to me, that is almost the opposite of the

Tim Winders:

wording of peace and profits and.

Tim Winders:

And the anti hustle, do you still have people that come into your, your circle

Tim Winders:

that they're going through this chasing?

Tim Winders:

They're, they're on the wheel, the, we could call it a hamster wheel.

Tim Winders:

We can call it a hustle and grind, all of these things.

Tim Winders:

And I love what you just said.

Tim Winders:

It's like, When you stop chasing, it's like when, if you're got a, if your

Tim Winders:

dog goes outside and you're trying to

Tim Winders:

run them down, but yet if you just kind of sit with something that they

Tim Winders:

come after, is that, I mean, have you had observations that you can

Tim Winders:

share with someone listening right now?

Tim Winders:

It's like, stop chasing, slow down, And let the business come to you.

Tim Winders:

That almost sounds like a Yoda type statement and all that, but any, I

Tim Winders:

don't even know if that question made sense, but what do you want to say

Tim Winders:

to anything about stop chasing, allow the peace and profits to come to you.

Kendra Nicole:

Yes, and you're 100 percent like I would I'm I'm I always say like

Kendra Nicole:

I am NOT a woo woo person My sister is so woo woo, right and I'm like, oh,

Kendra Nicole:

you were just so I'm just not a woo woo person Until this shift with like peace

Kendra Nicole:

and profits happened and I'm like, okay, wait, there's something to this There's

Kendra Nicole:

a little there's a little woo in my life right now, and I'm accepting it because

Kendra Nicole:

there's something You can, you can run and run and chase and chase all you want

Kendra Nicole:

to and you will do it to exhaustion.

Kendra Nicole:

but once you actually, understand your why behind things, which again, before

Kendra Nicole:

I would have said, oh, it's so low, so low, but once you really understand that

Kendra Nicole:

it grounds you in what you're doing.

Kendra Nicole:

And absolutely.

Kendra Nicole:

I mean, I definitely have clients who once I.

Kendra Nicole:

Once I kind of saw the light and kind of brought that to them as

Kendra Nicole:

well, it just changed our dynamic and our working relationship.

Kendra Nicole:

It's changed how we, how we implement and execute things in their business.

Kendra Nicole:

And some folks listen, some will come to me and we'll still

Kendra Nicole:

want to chase and grind and work really hard on what they're doing.

Kendra Nicole:

I understand that's the season that they're in.

Kendra Nicole:

and I can, do the best that I can do to serve them.

Kendra Nicole:

But, but yeah, it, it, it, it just, things just smooth out a lot more.

Kendra Nicole:

Once you accept that there's two sides to this thing called entrepreneurship

Kendra Nicole:

and it's not all about profits.

Kendra Nicole:

Sure.

Kendra Nicole:

You need profits to obviously continue to run and funnel your

Kendra Nicole:

business, but you need peace too.

Kendra Nicole:

You need peace too.

Kendra Nicole:

and yeah, I, I love it.

Kendra Nicole:

I'm so very grateful, for that client who roasted me on that call because

Kendra Nicole:

I don't know, it would have taken me longer to get to this point.

Kendra Nicole:

and yeah, I'm not going back.

Tim Winders:

Do you find your, do you find that you're attracting people that fit?

Tim Winders:

I mean, listen, when you use wording like peace versus scale, I mean,

Tim Winders:

there's nothing wrong with scale.

Tim Winders:

I'm an engineer by training and went.

Tim Winders:

To school down the road from Clemson at Georgia Tech.

Tim Winders:

And so systems engineering and scaling, those were part of my vocabulary,

Tim Winders:

but I'm going to place in life where that piece part is really important.

Tim Winders:

Are you attracting clients that aren't roasting you as much on phone calls now?

Kendra Nicole:

100%.

Kendra Nicole:

And those who come in for like consults that I can feel just

Kendra Nicole:

the, the high, strong energy.

Kendra Nicole:

That they're not on the peace and profit side and that they're still

Kendra Nicole:

on this, like, I'm going to grind it out by any means necessary.

Kendra Nicole:

I understand that's the season you're in, but we're probably not

Kendra Nicole:

the best fit for you because I'm not going to move at that pace.

Kendra Nicole:

I'm not going to tell you to drop any and everything that you do right now.

Kendra Nicole:

To, accomplish X, Y, and Z with no thought about the other things that

Kendra Nicole:

you want to accomplish in your life.

Kendra Nicole:

And one of the call or one of the questions that we actually

Kendra Nicole:

asked on the console call is like, what are you doing this for?

Kendra Nicole:

Like, what, what's your reason for this business?

Kendra Nicole:

And if it's just, I want a million dollars in the bank account.

Kendra Nicole:

And I can't get any deeper than that, then we're probably not the best fit.

Kendra Nicole:

But if it's like, I want a million dollars in my bank account, because

Kendra Nicole:

that's the number that I hear is going to help me pay for my kids tuition.

Kendra Nicole:

And I can retire when I'm whatever age, and there's like something else behind

Kendra Nicole:

it that we can like really tie into.

Kendra Nicole:

Then it's probably a better fit, a better alignment.

Tim Winders:

Years ago, when I was coaching in the real estate investing

Tim Winders:

space, I would have some people that would say something to the effect of,

Tim Winders:

well, I need to make sure that I've got your phone number to text you, 24

Tim Winders:

seven in case there's ever an emergency.

Tim Winders:

Kendra.

Tim Winders:

My response was this is real estate.

Tim Winders:

There won't be an emergency.

Tim Winders:

You don't need my text to text me.

Tim Winders:

I mean, we'll, if you send me an email, I respond within 24 hours.

Tim Winders:

I'll get back to you, but that's not, that's not, there

Tim Winders:

are no real estate emergencies.

Tim Winders:

I don't know.

Tim Winders:

Are there ever any accounting or CFO emergencies?

Tim Winders:

Take

Kendra Nicole:

Don't know.

Kendra Nicole:

if it's at the end of the day, there's always going to be time

Kendra Nicole:

to sit and think things through.

Kendra Nicole:

Actually, ironically, earlier today, a client of mine sent me

Kendra Nicole:

over a a listing of a property that she's thinking about buying.

Kendra Nicole:

And we've already had the conversation about if she should do real estate

Kendra Nicole:

investing and things like that.

Kendra Nicole:

So we've already kind of cleared that, but we had a cap.

Kendra Nicole:

We had an amount that we were supposed to stick to, and this

Kendra Nicole:

is far beyond that amount.

Kendra Nicole:

And she's like, and I have to make an offer.

Kendra Nicole:

They tell me I have to make an offer today.

Kendra Nicole:

And I'm like, you don't have to make, you don't have to make an offer today.

Kendra Nicole:

Like, let's look up with the numbers.

Kendra Nicole:

Let's talk about it, but you don't have to make an offer today.

Kendra Nicole:

And so I think it's.

Kendra Nicole:

It's a lot of that.

Kendra Nicole:

Sometimes it's just kind of not talking to our clients, like off of

Kendra Nicole:

a cliff, but just letting them being that other person that they can talk

Kendra Nicole:

to and, and understanding what they need in, times and moments like that.

Kendra Nicole:

yeah,

Tim Winders:

a deep breath.

Tim Winders:

There are no emergencies.

Tim Winders:

If that deal doesn't work, there's more.

Tim Winders:

I don't like deadlines or pressure or stuff like that.

Tim Winders:

Maybe that's just where I'm at.

Tim Winders:

I haven't always been that way.

Tim Winders:

We we've got a few minutes left here.

Tim Winders:

There's a few questions and I want to, I want in just a moment you to

Tim Winders:

list all of the things that you can provide someone, but I've got one.

Tim Winders:

Maybe bigger question before I get to that, Kendra.

Tim Winders:

I always love it when I talk to people that get to interact with a lot of

Tim Winders:

different business owners or leaders.

Tim Winders:

And the question that I want to ask when I, when I find that is what is

Tim Winders:

a tip or a piece of advice that you can give maybe financial related, it

Tim Winders:

may just be bigger picture things that you observe and it might be something

Tim Winders:

we've talked about, but what is something that you observe that is a.

Tim Winders:

Tip that you want to share with the person listening in that they're an owner might

Tim Winders:

be a female in business, might be male.

Tim Winders:

I don't know that you've seen from the seat that you have to be able to look

Tim Winders:

at businesses and business owners.

Kendra Nicole:

I would say, honestly, I would just say, look

Kendra Nicole:

at your numbers, like look at.

Kendra Nicole:

And, and, if that just feels overwhelming and if that just feels like, okay,

Kendra Nicole:

that's just way too, like, grandiose, like, give me something specific.

Kendra Nicole:

Then think about some of the few, two to five, we call them, KPIs of metrics, but

Kendra Nicole:

essentially, Numbers that are the most important and impactful to your business.

Kendra Nicole:

So if you are a product based business, that might be like your average order

Kendra Nicole:

value, like your cart rate, right?

Kendra Nicole:

Or it might be how many sales orders do you do in any given month?

Kendra Nicole:

Or if you are a consultant, it might be how many prospects do you have

Kendra Nicole:

in the pipeline, what's your close rate when you're on sales calls, but

Kendra Nicole:

focus in on just a few of those key numbers that matter in your business.

Kendra Nicole:

And track them and look at them.

Kendra Nicole:

And, and as you track them and look at them over time, you'll start to see

Kendra Nicole:

like trends and, seasonality, things that might impact those numbers.

Kendra Nicole:

Just get really comfortable and familiar with those few numbers.

Kendra Nicole:

You don't have to know the whole P and L and balance sheet,

Kendra Nicole:

like the back of your hand.

Kendra Nicole:

But know those few numbers, because with the clarity comes the

Kendra Nicole:

confidence and confidence is really what you need in entrepreneurship

Kendra Nicole:

when it comes to to not get tested.

Kendra Nicole:

if someone's testing you on your prices or on whatever it is, if

Kendra Nicole:

you have that data on those few key things, then, that gives you a lot

Kendra Nicole:

of clarity and a lot of confidence.

Kendra Nicole:

And, so I really just think, just know what those three numbers are

Kendra Nicole:

and make sure that you study them.

Tim Winders:

Yeah, that's really good.

Tim Winders:

I think clarity is so much better than confusion and not knowing those numbers.

Tim Winders:

So I, I was looking at your site and looking at the information and I,

Tim Winders:

I do believe, and we went over some of the terms, the fractional CFO and

Tim Winders:

all earlier, but if you could right now, tell us, tell us what all you

Tim Winders:

can provide for someone, especially a female business owner, entrepreneur that

Tim Winders:

might be listening in, what all do you and your company, provide for people?

Kendra Nicole:

Yep.

Kendra Nicole:

So we have three main services.

Kendra Nicole:

So we have our executive accounting solution, and that is for anyone who

Kendra Nicole:

needs that bookkeeper or that accountant.

Kendra Nicole:

That's anyone who needs that clarity in their financials.

Kendra Nicole:

We come on, we come in, we take over your accounting.

Kendra Nicole:

We do all your financial reporting for you every month.

Kendra Nicole:

and so that is where you are completely hands off on having to like

Kendra Nicole:

maintain your day to day books and financial reports and all of that.

Kendra Nicole:

that's our executive accounting solution.

Kendra Nicole:

And then our fractional CFO solution is.

Kendra Nicole:

For anyone who is kind of on that next phase in their business.

Kendra Nicole:

So like I said, maybe they're going through something transitional,

Kendra Nicole:

bringing on their first hire or scaling the team, their product

Kendra Nicole:

suite, and they need more strategy.

Kendra Nicole:

So we'll still handle your accounting and all your financial reporting,

Kendra Nicole:

but then I'll come in and we'll have these really strategic conversations.

Kendra Nicole:

We'll build out a plan around whatever it is you're kind of transitioning into.

Kendra Nicole:

And we're marching to that strategy and kind of, and pivoting.

Kendra Nicole:

I always say that because.

Kendra Nicole:

We got to pivot, right?

Kendra Nicole:

All the time.

Kendra Nicole:

It's entrepreneurs, things change and move, but in pivoting along the way.

Kendra Nicole:

that's the fractional CFO service and then taxes as well.

Kendra Nicole:

We handle all things, taxes, whether it's just preparing and

Kendra Nicole:

filing or tax strategy as well.

Tim Winders:

Very good.

Tim Winders:

And if someone wants to connect with you, one of the toughest

Tim Winders:

things we had when we first got on the phone was, what do I call you?

Tim Winders:

You're Kendra Nicole or Kendra Nicole James Anderson, Kendra Nicole James.

Tim Winders:

But if someone wants to connect with you or to find this, where do they need to go?

Tim Winders:

We'll include it in the notes, but where do they need to go?

Kendra Nicole:

Yeah, so the best place really is the finance

Kendra Nicole:

film dot com and film is F.

Kendra Nicole:

E.

Kendra Nicole:

M.

Kendra Nicole:

M.

Kendra Nicole:

E.

Kendra Nicole:

but the finance film dot com is really the best place to go to get

Kendra Nicole:

more information on those services and to be able to reach out.

Kendra Nicole:

My email is info at the finance from dot com.

Kendra Nicole:

And so that's probably the best way to get in touch.

Tim Winders:

It's always tough.

Tim Winders:

This is another thing that we started the conversation with how

Tim Winders:

sometimes things just aren't fair.

Tim Winders:

Our culture, women change their names and men don't tip it.

Tim Winders:

Some are doing it now.

Tim Winders:

Some are adding the hyphens and stuff like that.

Tim Winders:

They typically don't.

Tim Winders:

And it's got to make it tough for someone who's gone through corporate.

Tim Winders:

And then,

Tim Winders:

you know, get married and then all of that.

Tim Winders:

Is that kind of where all these names come from?

Tim Winders:

Or do you have like multiple superpowers that you,

Kendra Nicole:

each superpower has an identity.

Kendra Nicole:

I wish, when I got married for sure, adding on Anderson.

Kendra Nicole:

But then LinkedIn and everyone in my corporate was still doing

Kendra Nicole:

me from Kendra Nicole James.

Kendra Nicole:

And then I was like, well, my podcast is Kendra Nicole.

Kendra Nicole:

So it was just, yes, I appreciate, working with me on all of these name variations,

Tim Winders:

yeah.

Tim Winders:

And we even came to the agreement or I'm going to call you Kendra Nicole.

Tim Winders:

Okay.

Tim Winders:

I'm going to call you Kendra Nicole.

Tim Winders:

So anyway, Kendra, we are seek, go create those three words.

Tim Winders:

I'm going to allow you as my last question to choose one of those that

Tim Winders:

just resonates more with you and means more to you and why I'm a final question.

Tim Winders:

Seek, go or create.

Kendra Nicole:

I'm going to go with seek, I'm going to go with seek.

Kendra Nicole:

And I, and I hope that.

Kendra Nicole:

That listeners and, that everyone really seeks what is important to them and

Kendra Nicole:

understands like what their why is behind everything, especially in business,

Kendra Nicole:

because you put so much time, energy, money, effort, everything, all of your

Kendra Nicole:

resources into building out a business.

Kendra Nicole:

And if you don't really know what the underlying reason is for that thing, it's

Kendra Nicole:

going to be very hard to push it through.

Kendra Nicole:

So I would definitely ask that.

Kendra Nicole:

To seek for what the underlying real reason and why is behind

Kendra Nicole:

what you do, doing what you do.

Tim Winders:

Excellent.

Tim Winders:

Love that word, Kendra.

Tim Winders:

Thanks for joining us here.

Tim Winders:

And I just want to remind the listener.

Tim Winders:

This is, this conversation has been a great fit with what I believe if

Tim Winders:

it's released last week's, Steven DeSilva, where we talked about.

Tim Winders:

More the spiritual aspect of finances and money.

Tim Winders:

And then next week we're talking about wealth.

Tim Winders:

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Tim Winders:

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