1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,840 He's very self centered and just hasn't actually been in love. Like, 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:07,600 doesn't know how to had a woman on his arm or something. Different women. 3 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:11,215 Like, I'm pretty sure a challenge accepted was, can I sleep with 4 00:00:11,355 --> 00:00:14,715 a woman on Every month or was it every week? I think it was Monday. 5 00:00:14,715 --> 00:00:18,470 It was every day a different woman for a month. Rise 6 00:00:18,470 --> 00:00:22,310 and shine, ladies. You're tuned in to skirts up with Samantha and Melissa. We got 7 00:00:22,310 --> 00:00:25,990 your daily dose of hope and humor while we discuss everything from failing 8 00:00:25,990 --> 00:00:29,615 to succeeding and all the spiciness in between. Hey. 9 00:00:29,615 --> 00:00:33,215 It's Amanda again. Hey. It's Melissa, and we are 10 00:00:33,215 --> 00:00:37,000 back. Yes. Episode 3. Yeah. 11 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:39,500 Look at us just trucking along. This is kinda fun. 12 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:43,835 So today, we have a guest. And I'm really 13 00:00:43,835 --> 00:00:47,135 excited. This is somebody that Sam has known 14 00:00:47,675 --> 00:00:51,460 through a Facebook group for a while. And 15 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:55,280 when we first started the podcast, Sam, you came to 16 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:58,855 me and you were like, there's this girl. She's so cool. 17 00:00:58,855 --> 00:01:02,614 She's so nice. She's nonjudgmental. I've never in my life been 18 00:01:02,614 --> 00:01:06,220 in a drama free Facebook group. And 19 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:10,440 this is a drama free Facebook group. And it's called what's the name of 20 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:14,265 your group again, Lola? It is Not Your Mama's Mom group 21 00:01:14,345 --> 00:01:17,485 Okay. On Facebook. Okay. And Lola, who, 22 00:01:18,825 --> 00:01:22,525 is the creator of the Not Your Momma's Facebook group. 23 00:01:22,585 --> 00:01:25,650 And tell us a little bit about that. 24 00:01:26,270 --> 00:01:29,950 So I kinda started it when my son was maybe 6 months 25 00:01:29,950 --> 00:01:33,675 old, like, 4 years ago almost now. That's your first 26 00:01:33,675 --> 00:01:37,435 baby? Yes. My first baby. So I didn't really have, like, 27 00:01:37,435 --> 00:01:41,275 a close community or, you know, friends and family to 28 00:01:41,275 --> 00:01:44,780 kind of help me and get advice from. So 29 00:01:44,780 --> 00:01:48,380 I and also all the other mom groups that I was 30 00:01:48,380 --> 00:01:52,105 in were just so toxic, like, the drama and 31 00:01:52,225 --> 00:01:55,985 Impressive. Yes. For no reason. Like, why are you coming at 32 00:01:55,985 --> 00:01:59,570 me like that? We're all supposed to be, you know, knitted together, 33 00:01:59,570 --> 00:02:03,250 helping each other. Like so I like 34 00:02:03,250 --> 00:02:06,390 so many groups. The other mama groups are like, if you post, 35 00:02:07,875 --> 00:02:11,395 hey. I'm having a hard time trying to make a 36 00:02:11,395 --> 00:02:15,235 decision about, do I give my baby the COVID vaccine or 37 00:02:15,235 --> 00:02:18,560 not? Then, like, another mom will jump in and be like, if you give your 38 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:22,239 child the COVID vaccine, you're a fucking idiot. Yeah. But then the other moms will 39 00:02:22,239 --> 00:02:25,985 jump in and be like, oh, you all are gonna kill the population if 40 00:02:25,985 --> 00:02:29,424 you don't. And it's like, woah. Woah. Woah. She just asked you to, like 41 00:02:30,065 --> 00:02:33,444 you know, like, there's no need to attack somebody like that. 42 00:02:33,830 --> 00:02:37,670 So after seeing that in so many of the groups, I just wanted to create 43 00:02:37,670 --> 00:02:41,510 something that made me feel good and made other people feel good and 44 00:02:41,510 --> 00:02:45,285 safe. And, you know, like, we're all in it together as a 45 00:02:45,285 --> 00:02:48,965 community at the end of the day. You know? So so 46 00:02:48,965 --> 00:02:52,790 I actually how did you get such a cool group of 47 00:02:52,790 --> 00:02:56,470 people? Like, where did you start? Did you send it out to your not 48 00:02:56,549 --> 00:02:59,930 must not have been your your where did you get people? 49 00:03:00,315 --> 00:03:03,515 What did I do? I think I may have shared it with a couple of 50 00:03:03,515 --> 00:03:07,114 my friends, and they just started inviting people. Like, the group 51 00:03:07,114 --> 00:03:10,849 started in Lilburn, and that's where I'm from. And a lot of people 52 00:03:10,849 --> 00:03:14,530 went to high school with me there. Yes. So, it's based out 53 00:03:14,530 --> 00:03:17,765 in Lilburn. So a lot of people from Lilburn have joined, but also 54 00:03:18,245 --> 00:03:22,084 other people, like from different states, different countries. We have 55 00:03:22,084 --> 00:03:25,900 a couple people from the UK and Canada, Australia, stuff 56 00:03:25,900 --> 00:03:29,660 like that. So, I mean, it gets shared pretty much everywhere. And the 57 00:03:29,660 --> 00:03:33,340 more people that, other people invite, you know, 58 00:03:33,340 --> 00:03:37,105 obviously, it starts to chain of, you know, the 59 00:03:37,105 --> 00:03:40,625 in invites and stuff like that. It keeps everyone communicating in a 60 00:03:40,625 --> 00:03:44,240 positive way. Mhmm. Because I I don't have kids. So I'm not trying to 61 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:47,760 make this about me right now, but I do well, I think I have a 62 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:51,360 lot of experience with moms and mom groups because I used to 63 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:55,175 nanny. I nannied for, like, 9 years. I'd 64 00:03:55,255 --> 00:03:58,315 well, my babies suffer quite a few different families, but I, 65 00:03:59,890 --> 00:04:03,489 I would have to say nanny because I was, Yeah. Nanny is a better word 66 00:04:03,489 --> 00:04:06,815 anyway. Baby stat, just like you're sitting on baby, really? 67 00:04:07,055 --> 00:04:10,895 So, anyway, I guess my point is, I remember 68 00:04:10,895 --> 00:04:14,255 going to some of these groups and I'm I 69 00:04:14,335 --> 00:04:17,829 I'm an outsider. I was sitting there watching all of the moms. 70 00:04:17,829 --> 00:04:21,669 Right? I was the one that was watching other I I had brought 71 00:04:21,669 --> 00:04:24,884 children to the group to play for playgroups and stuff, and, 72 00:04:25,345 --> 00:04:29,125 most moms were really nice. I kinda feel like, 73 00:04:31,185 --> 00:04:34,890 sitting back and watching everybody, there is a lot of there 74 00:04:34,890 --> 00:04:38,670 was a lot of judgment. And I feel like for some reason, 75 00:04:38,810 --> 00:04:41,550 we as women, it's easy to, like, 76 00:04:44,034 --> 00:04:47,555 bond over attacking someone else. Does that make 77 00:04:47,555 --> 00:04:51,250 sense? And I I don't love that. It makes me really 78 00:04:51,250 --> 00:04:55,090 sad because when I'm looking at all these women, I feel like I could 79 00:04:55,090 --> 00:04:58,610 see, oh, yeah. She's a little bit insecure in this aspect and 80 00:04:58,610 --> 00:05:02,235 she's got issues in this aspect. But I think that's 81 00:05:02,235 --> 00:05:05,694 more of what it is. Not like because that's not bonding. Jealous 82 00:05:06,235 --> 00:05:09,980 over what you have, I think, is what that is. 83 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:14,120 Because anger has to send from somewhere else. It's gotta come 84 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:17,580 from somewhere else, you know? So I think most of the time 85 00:05:18,705 --> 00:05:22,465 when moms in general see something, they're like, oh, I wish I had 86 00:05:22,465 --> 00:05:26,224 that. But also, like, I'm gonna be rude to her because I don't have 87 00:05:26,224 --> 00:05:29,630 that. And I have the privilege to be. It's like, what? Ew. Why? It is 88 00:05:29,710 --> 00:05:33,470 it gives you something to work on for sure. And Melissa, that's a really great 89 00:05:33,470 --> 00:05:37,295 point of view because these mom groups, that's an actually really valid 90 00:05:37,615 --> 00:05:41,455 Mhmm. Point that, like, I 91 00:05:41,455 --> 00:05:44,320 think that You see a lot of it, though. Yeah. Like, that makes a lot 92 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:47,780 of sense that you would join a mom group because when you're full 93 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:51,760 day long term taking care of a child, that's really valid. 94 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:55,405 Why would you not want that support as well to better learn 95 00:05:55,465 --> 00:05:59,305 how to x y z? Like, constantly, 96 00:05:59,305 --> 00:05:59,940 you know, communicate 97 00:06:07,945 --> 00:06:11,465 sense. Right. Right. And I think a lot of times, we just want some 98 00:06:11,465 --> 00:06:15,225 validation that what we're doing is okay, and we forget that 99 00:06:15,225 --> 00:06:19,010 it's okay to say, hey. Well, I think also society 100 00:06:19,010 --> 00:06:22,850 makes us so scared of failure, right, and messing up. Oh, 101 00:06:22,850 --> 00:06:26,285 because either thing that you do is a failure to 102 00:06:26,285 --> 00:06:30,065 someone. Yep. And it's like, you know what? I think that everybody's 103 00:06:30,285 --> 00:06:33,980 just so afraid of just being judged that 104 00:06:33,980 --> 00:06:36,860 they kind of, like, do the judging first, if that makes sense. I think that 105 00:06:36,860 --> 00:06:40,380 happened so long. Yeah. But so I think it's amazing that you could start a 106 00:06:40,380 --> 00:06:43,945 group. But I guess we've introduced Lola, so I was 107 00:06:43,945 --> 00:06:47,705 thinking maybe we go into our topic of today? Yeah. What 108 00:06:47,705 --> 00:06:51,370 is our topic today, fam? Today, our topic is our 109 00:06:51,370 --> 00:06:54,590 top 6 favorite TV shows of all times. 110 00:06:54,970 --> 00:06:58,430 Okay. Why did you decide to do this topic? 111 00:06:58,835 --> 00:07:02,675 I chose this topic because, right now, I'm a stay at 112 00:07:02,675 --> 00:07:06,355 home mom. I don't get to discuss anything with anyone. Like, it's 113 00:07:06,355 --> 00:07:10,050 just the mundane, normal day to day conversations with 114 00:07:10,050 --> 00:07:13,730 just my husband about how was your day? What did you do today? 115 00:07:13,730 --> 00:07:17,325 And if I'm reading a book or if I'm watching a TV show that I've 116 00:07:17,325 --> 00:07:20,765 never seen before, all my commentaries are just in my 117 00:07:20,765 --> 00:07:24,365 head. Something about that TV show that just really, 118 00:07:24,365 --> 00:07:28,100 really I felt really passionate about and really, really loved. I don't have anyone to 119 00:07:28,100 --> 00:07:31,480 share it with. You're right. I can't get 120 00:07:32,020 --> 00:07:35,815 my husband to watch the same shows as me. Exactly. And then we're, 121 00:07:35,815 --> 00:07:39,015 like, we're both going different directions. Right? We're very busy. It's not that Mhmm. We 122 00:07:39,015 --> 00:07:42,535 do have some shows that we watch together, but and it's like, I really wanna 123 00:07:42,535 --> 00:07:45,669 talk to him about this. But, yeah, okay. They don't know what I'm talking about, 124 00:07:45,669 --> 00:07:49,110 so they can't give me any feedback or their opinion on it. Yes. And so 125 00:07:49,110 --> 00:07:52,825 the shows that I have felt something very 126 00:07:52,825 --> 00:07:56,605 passionate about, like, I'll be this I'll be explaining it, 127 00:07:56,825 --> 00:08:00,505 and, he'll be like, that sounds like a really weird thing to 128 00:08:00,505 --> 00:08:04,250 feel passionate about. And I'm like, you just you would have to understand. You would 129 00:08:04,250 --> 00:08:07,850 have to see what I'm talking about to understand why, like, it just feels so 130 00:08:07,850 --> 00:08:11,264 passionate. I will say that we have one show that we, 131 00:08:11,264 --> 00:08:14,944 like, have watched together. And at first, he told me absolutely not. Like, this is 132 00:08:14,944 --> 00:08:18,410 gonna be dumb. But now it's become both of our comfort shows. So there is 133 00:08:18,410 --> 00:08:22,169 one of those. So at least there's one. Are you gonna share? 134 00:08:22,169 --> 00:08:26,009 What is the show? Yeah. So, it's actually 135 00:08:26,009 --> 00:08:29,735 my top one. It's called How I Met Your Mother. 136 00:08:30,275 --> 00:08:34,034 That one. Okay. Have you seen it, Melissa? I 137 00:08:34,034 --> 00:08:37,700 have seen it. I did not get into watching it all the time, but I 138 00:08:37,700 --> 00:08:41,380 have seen it. And it is funny. It's funny. It's cute. Yeah. 139 00:08:41,380 --> 00:08:45,140 So that one is my favorite. It's my favorite go 140 00:08:45,140 --> 00:08:47,335 to, like, if I'm just exhausted, 141 00:08:57,400 --> 00:09:00,920 For those who've never seen it, what's the premise of that show? So that 142 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:04,665 show, it's about a group of friends, and it's basically just 143 00:09:04,745 --> 00:09:08,185 their life together. The whole point is that the main character, Ted 144 00:09:08,185 --> 00:09:12,024 Mosby, is explaining to his children how he met their 145 00:09:12,024 --> 00:09:15,770 mother through, like, what, like, 8 seasons, 10 seasons? Like, 146 00:09:15,770 --> 00:09:19,370 stories and stuff like that. Yeah. And it's just episodes about 147 00:09:19,530 --> 00:09:22,890 that. Yeah. About And their friendship through along the way and stuff like that. The 148 00:09:22,890 --> 00:09:26,655 ending is probably my favorite. Oh, I actually the ending The ending, 149 00:09:26,875 --> 00:09:30,635 I have seen it. And I cried even though I'm didn't get invested into the 150 00:09:30,635 --> 00:09:34,410 whole thing. Cry every time. It's the only only, only show 151 00:09:34,630 --> 00:09:38,470 that makes me cry every time. But I think it's because it the 152 00:09:38,470 --> 00:09:42,165 ending of that show actually makes me a little frustrated because you have 153 00:09:42,165 --> 00:09:46,005 this long buildup of finding the mother and how he got to the mother and 154 00:09:46,005 --> 00:09:49,790 how he got to his wife and just this, like, basically love story 155 00:09:49,790 --> 00:09:53,390 of how he got to her. And they bring her 156 00:09:53,390 --> 00:09:57,085 in in the last, like, season, so about, like, the last 4 or 157 00:09:57,085 --> 00:10:00,925 5 episodes, honestly. Spoiler alert. Oh, 158 00:10:00,925 --> 00:10:04,685 yes. Spoiler alert. And then so 159 00:10:04,685 --> 00:10:08,050 you fall in love with with this mother and with his 160 00:10:08,050 --> 00:10:11,810 wife, and they don't give you enough time to to 161 00:10:11,810 --> 00:10:15,270 get to know her. They don't give you enough time to get to know her. 162 00:10:15,725 --> 00:10:19,404 And before we know it, it just shows us that she dies. And 163 00:10:19,404 --> 00:10:23,130 that's basically how it ends. And so for me, it's so 164 00:10:23,370 --> 00:10:26,410 frustrating that you just fall in love with this character, and you just fall in 165 00:10:26,410 --> 00:10:30,010 love with her. And then boom, over. She dead. 166 00:10:30,010 --> 00:10:33,725 Yeah. No. That is 167 00:10:33,725 --> 00:10:37,325 so sad. And then anything like where children don't have like a 168 00:10:37,325 --> 00:10:41,170 parent like that just gets me. That's so hard for me. And then the 169 00:10:41,170 --> 00:10:44,630 other but the but the part of the ending that I do love 170 00:10:45,170 --> 00:10:48,815 is that I love very much, the, what's that 171 00:10:48,815 --> 00:10:52,335 word called, the character change in Barney, his 172 00:10:52,335 --> 00:10:56,170 progression, and how his character changes because 173 00:10:56,170 --> 00:10:59,850 he goes from not ever wanting a family, not ever having 174 00:10:59,850 --> 00:11:03,370 love, like, just not having that as well. Self 175 00:11:03,370 --> 00:11:07,145 centered, right? He's very self centered and just hasn't actually 176 00:11:07,145 --> 00:11:10,185 been in love. Like, doesn't know how to He always had a woman on his 177 00:11:10,185 --> 00:11:13,320 arm or something. Different women. Like, I'm pretty sure a challenge 178 00:11:13,560 --> 00:11:17,400 accepted was can I sleep with a woman on Okay? A 179 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:20,840 different day of the month. Every month or was every week? I think it was 180 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:23,964 Monday. It was every day a different woman for a month. Yeah. 181 00:11:24,985 --> 00:11:28,745 That sounds like a lot. Yeah. And it ends with him having 182 00:11:28,745 --> 00:11:32,265 a baby and finally having that connection of finding a true love. And it was 183 00:11:32,265 --> 00:11:35,630 his little girl. Oh, I have a 184 00:11:35,630 --> 00:11:39,389 baby. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. It was so good. And 185 00:11:39,389 --> 00:11:42,955 like, and that's just my favorite. That's my favorite go to 186 00:11:42,955 --> 00:11:46,555 for a background television because it's just I know 187 00:11:46,555 --> 00:11:50,140 exactly what's gonna happen. I can really laugh with it. I love their quotes and, 188 00:11:50,140 --> 00:11:53,460 like, their inside jokes, and I I freaking use their inside jokes, like, in real 189 00:11:53,460 --> 00:11:57,300 life all the time. So which one of you wanna go first? 190 00:11:57,300 --> 00:12:01,085 What is your top favorite go to? So I have 191 00:12:01,085 --> 00:12:04,845 a few shows that I have to choose a top. I don't think I can 192 00:12:04,845 --> 00:12:07,645 do that. I just I've never been one of those people that can choose a 193 00:12:07,645 --> 00:12:11,430 top, but I can choose, like, a top 5. Beautiful. But 194 00:12:11,430 --> 00:12:14,810 I'll just give you guys a couple. I've got, like, the office, parks and rec, 195 00:12:15,110 --> 00:12:18,645 the IT crowd. Do you guys know that one? I don't know that one. I've 196 00:12:18,645 --> 00:12:22,405 actually never seen any of those. I know I'm, like, a minor of the group. 197 00:12:22,405 --> 00:12:26,220 That's okay. And then New Girl, which I've been 198 00:12:26,220 --> 00:12:30,019 doing now. New Girl. It's the best. The best. I am obsessed with 199 00:12:30,019 --> 00:12:33,615 New Girl too. So oh, and then one more. Sorry. The Mindy Project. 200 00:12:33,995 --> 00:12:37,755 I love The Mindy Project so much because have you ever 201 00:12:37,755 --> 00:12:41,600 watched I've heard about it. Alright, girl. You're gonna have to pick 1. The Mindy 202 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:44,420 Project then. I'm gonna pick The Mindy Project. Okay. 203 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:49,115 She played Kelly in The Office, but, anyway Oh, I know 204 00:12:49,115 --> 00:12:52,795 who you're talking about. Yeah. I think it's Mindy Kaling is her name. She 205 00:12:52,795 --> 00:12:56,495 plays a gynecologist, who's, like, in her 206 00:12:56,880 --> 00:13:00,560 twenties, late twenties, early thirties, and living in, like, New York. The 207 00:13:00,560 --> 00:13:04,180 relatable. Trying to, like, date. And 208 00:13:05,995 --> 00:13:09,355 I love it because she's kind of she's a very flawed 209 00:13:09,355 --> 00:13:12,970 character. Very flawed. She's relatable, 210 00:13:13,670 --> 00:13:17,510 but, like, she's also kind of a bitch. She's okay. 211 00:13:17,510 --> 00:13:20,149 So she's not she's not always that nice, but, 212 00:13:21,464 --> 00:13:24,925 she's kinda self centered. That's self reflection. Yes. 213 00:13:25,225 --> 00:13:28,425 Does she at least progress into, like, a grown character? Like 214 00:13:29,400 --> 00:13:33,160 it's like the episodes clearly show that it's not 215 00:13:33,160 --> 00:13:36,600 a secret. Like, everybody knows she is, and I don't know. I feel like she 216 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:39,685 kinda works. I don't know. I think anything that could make you look at yourself, 217 00:13:39,685 --> 00:13:43,125 like, am I like that too? Is a good is a good 218 00:13:43,125 --> 00:13:46,425 thing. I wanna say yes. Yes. 219 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:51,600 She does. She ends up having a kid and kinda yeah. No. She 220 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:55,255 does. It's just very slow. And I don't know. For me, maybe it 221 00:13:55,255 --> 00:13:59,095 was slow for me too. I'm 43, and I wanna say a lot of 222 00:13:59,095 --> 00:14:02,055 the things I learned about my life, I didn't really learn till well into my 223 00:14:02,055 --> 00:14:05,510 thirties. And so I don't know. Maybe 224 00:14:05,890 --> 00:14:09,410 maybe that's another reason I kind of relate to her, and I like her. But 225 00:14:09,410 --> 00:14:12,915 some of my favorite comedians are from that show. They're, like, they're knit. 226 00:14:13,154 --> 00:14:16,995 Yeah. To add that to my list? Yeah. Yeah. It's it's it's 227 00:14:16,995 --> 00:14:20,834 really good. She's just got all of these stereotypes in this show 228 00:14:20,834 --> 00:14:24,220 too. Like, she has, like, the New York guy who's, like, super tough, and 229 00:14:24,220 --> 00:14:27,820 he can't get in touch with his feminine side. And then, like, there's the other 230 00:14:27,820 --> 00:14:31,515 male gynecologists that work upstairs from them that they have a rivalry 231 00:14:31,515 --> 00:14:35,195 with. And they're super, like, holistic, and they don't believe 232 00:14:35,195 --> 00:14:38,839 in natural or they only believe in natural medicine. And so 233 00:14:38,839 --> 00:14:42,680 she's obviously, like, an MD doctor, and so there's, 234 00:14:42,680 --> 00:14:46,435 like, a huge clash there. They just have all these 235 00:14:46,435 --> 00:14:50,274 stereotypes in it, and I That's a real life stereotype, though. Yeah. That is a 236 00:14:50,274 --> 00:14:53,180 real life clash. Mean. Right. So I don't, 237 00:14:53,899 --> 00:14:57,660 I don't love stereotypes in real life, but I like being able to kinda pick 238 00:14:57,660 --> 00:15:01,315 them out and see and be like, you know what? Just because they're being stereotyped 239 00:15:01,475 --> 00:15:05,075 But that's exactly what we're here to talk about. It's like just because 240 00:15:05,075 --> 00:15:08,470 you strictly believe in one aspect, one 241 00:15:08,470 --> 00:15:12,230 one side, and someone else strictly believes in one side, it's 242 00:15:12,230 --> 00:15:16,015 real life. And what we're trying to do here, Melissa, is we're trying to 243 00:15:16,015 --> 00:15:19,855 get people to nicely see there are two sides to this coin. And 244 00:15:19,855 --> 00:15:23,615 just because we don't agree, doesn't mean that we can't 245 00:15:23,615 --> 00:15:27,290 be friends. That's or have a difference of opinion. 246 00:15:27,830 --> 00:15:31,670 Yes. So it's really fun. I think I'm also someone who will 247 00:15:31,670 --> 00:15:35,405 pick out those stereotypes also and be like, oh, that's interesting. 248 00:15:35,405 --> 00:15:39,005 They're really ugly to each other. Note. Let's not do that, 249 00:15:39,005 --> 00:15:42,320 Samantha. Like Right. Okay. I like that, 250 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:46,480 aspect, that point of view. Sounds good. So what's yours, Lola? What are 251 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:50,080 you gonna share with us? I think my top one is probably Grey's 252 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:53,815 Anatomy. Like, top, top, top because I've seen it about 10 253 00:15:53,815 --> 00:15:57,415 times already. I think most people have. Wow. Most people I actually never have seen 254 00:15:57,415 --> 00:16:01,079 it all the way through. It's amazing. I haven't seen it all the way through 255 00:16:01,079 --> 00:16:04,839 all the new seasons because there's, like, 19 seasons now. Right. Yeah. 256 00:16:04,839 --> 00:16:08,495 It's it'll take you, like, months. Like, probably. 257 00:16:08,495 --> 00:16:11,694 Yeah. I think it would take me a year to watch it from beginning to 258 00:16:11,694 --> 00:16:15,510 end, honestly. But, I mean, it's a great show. Formulaic, though. Right? Like, it's 259 00:16:15,510 --> 00:16:19,350 not just, oh, there's, a sickness or a problem. We 260 00:16:19,350 --> 00:16:21,510 have to find out what it is. Oh, no. No. No. No. No. No. No. 261 00:16:21,510 --> 00:16:25,045 It's, like, based on the characters. Yes. Do you go through the family 262 00:16:25,045 --> 00:16:28,885 characters' lives, like, what's happening in the offices and, like, 263 00:16:28,885 --> 00:16:32,560 the doctors' offices and, like, there's so much drama 264 00:16:32,860 --> 00:16:36,380 in it. And there's no drama in my life, so I need drama somewhere else. 265 00:16:36,380 --> 00:16:40,225 You know? Like really valid. That's very I need it. I 266 00:16:40,225 --> 00:16:43,905 crave it, but I don't want it in my life. You know? So I just 267 00:16:43,905 --> 00:16:47,745 watch it somewhere else. Ever hear how, like, women are 268 00:16:47,745 --> 00:16:51,200 a well, I say our age, but, women are addicted to, like, 269 00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:54,640 the true crime and the serial killer podcast. Crime. 270 00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:55,140 Yes. 271 00:17:05,390 --> 00:17:08,830 And watching kids. I need some excitement. Yes. Yeah. That's, you know 272 00:17:09,150 --> 00:17:12,750 very true. So it just it brings me out of my shell, and I'm 273 00:17:12,750 --> 00:17:16,515 like, oh, yes. Let's let's watch someone else get into it. 274 00:17:16,515 --> 00:17:20,195 Yes. For real. I love it. I don't have relationship problems, but oh my 275 00:17:20,195 --> 00:17:23,869 god. Let me eat my popcorn, you know? So I think that's 276 00:17:24,030 --> 00:17:27,790 I love that. It's something I crave, you know? If you 277 00:17:27,790 --> 00:17:31,550 could tell me, like, those I think anything with a little 278 00:17:31,550 --> 00:17:35,375 spice in it, like, like, all those books I read are spice. So 279 00:17:35,375 --> 00:17:38,975 there's gotta be some type of spice or, like, you know, hotness in it. 280 00:17:38,975 --> 00:17:42,679 Otherwise, it's just like That passionate, like, cooking. I 281 00:17:42,679 --> 00:17:46,039 will say I'm not, like, a super spicy TV 282 00:17:46,039 --> 00:17:49,755 watcher. See it. Yes. I don't want to see it. I 283 00:17:49,755 --> 00:17:53,515 actually don't watch a lot of things with nudity. I don't either. So 284 00:17:53,515 --> 00:17:57,054 the fact that Grey's Anatomy 285 00:17:57,440 --> 00:18:01,280 has that spiciness without the, like, actual visual showing everything 286 00:18:01,360 --> 00:18:05,184 because you don't have to do that to to enjoy spicy. True. 287 00:18:05,184 --> 00:18:08,945 You don't. Just my personal opinion. I agree. I agree. Yeah. I don't wanna 288 00:18:08,945 --> 00:18:12,784 see booty and titties anywhere. I no. I 289 00:18:12,784 --> 00:18:16,480 don't, like, want to, but I ain't trying to stare. Don't mind. But you're 290 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:20,320 right. Sometimes it's just gratuitous. Right? Like, sometimes, like, what was the 291 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:24,014 point of that? Right. Did it even add anything? There's, 292 00:18:24,014 --> 00:18:27,375 like, a part of me that's bright. That's, like, there just because and then there's, 293 00:18:27,375 --> 00:18:31,110 like, a part of me that's, like, okay. At this point, I 294 00:18:31,110 --> 00:18:34,330 have seen, like, 10 pairs of tits. Where's the dick? Literally. 295 00:18:35,669 --> 00:18:39,434 Yes. Why are the men bodice? Yes. Every single time, I'm like, 296 00:18:39,434 --> 00:18:42,895 what? I wanna see some man booty. Right. Not woman booty. 297 00:18:43,035 --> 00:18:46,779 Right. Right. Like, I think if there's never Give us 298 00:18:46,779 --> 00:18:50,460 give us both some. But the man and the women. Better. Right. And I 299 00:18:50,460 --> 00:18:53,340 think that I am getting better at it. I think that for a long time, 300 00:18:53,340 --> 00:18:56,585 there was also, like, a sense of, like, self consciousness in it of, like For 301 00:18:56,585 --> 00:19:00,265 sure. Okay. I wanna look like that. Yeah. Right? Yeah. Exactly. And 302 00:19:00,265 --> 00:19:04,105 now I'm just more confident in how I look. Mhmm. Yeah. Because I've had that 303 00:19:04,105 --> 00:19:07,929 surgery. And so now it's You 304 00:19:07,929 --> 00:19:10,890 don't have to say I'm confident in how I look because I've had that surgery. 305 00:19:10,890 --> 00:19:14,184 You can just be like, I'm hot. I mean, now I feel hot. But You 306 00:19:14,184 --> 00:19:17,945 are. You are hot. You are, girl. Yeah. Yikes. But now 307 00:19:17,945 --> 00:19:21,385 it just takes away some of that insecurity and that jealousness. So now it pops 308 00:19:21,385 --> 00:19:25,210 up on TV. Again, I don't I'm not gonna watch a long love scene 309 00:19:25,210 --> 00:19:29,049 where there's nudity in it. It just makes me uncomfortable. Mhmm. But I 310 00:19:29,049 --> 00:19:32,845 grew up very sheltered, and I kind of was taught to cringe. 311 00:19:32,985 --> 00:19:35,725 Like, my parents would cover my eyes during kissing scenes, 312 00:19:36,505 --> 00:19:40,025 and I don't I've kind of worked hard not to be like that. And 313 00:19:40,025 --> 00:19:43,660 so there is a part of me that does feel uncomfortable when I watch those 314 00:19:43,660 --> 00:19:47,500 scenes too. Just because it's engraved in your head. Yeah. But I don't wanna be 315 00:19:47,500 --> 00:19:50,539 that way. I wanna be like, wait. This is just a this is our natural 316 00:19:50,539 --> 00:19:54,125 body. But I do think it has to do with this it does need to 317 00:19:54,125 --> 00:19:57,825 have to do with the story or else if it's just there for, like, clickbait 318 00:19:58,125 --> 00:20:01,790 Just because. Yeah. That's not That is so funny because I don't 319 00:20:01,790 --> 00:20:05,150 feel like I was sheltered. I'm just naturally, like, cringe about 320 00:20:05,150 --> 00:20:08,535 it. And you were sheltered, so it makes sense that that's 321 00:20:08,695 --> 00:20:12,295 programmed in your brain to, oh, I'm supposed to cringe. But I 322 00:20:12,295 --> 00:20:15,815 also could see why that makes you feel like I shouldn't 323 00:20:15,815 --> 00:20:19,590 be cringing. This is natural, and I'm gonna feel natural about this. Right. And 324 00:20:19,590 --> 00:20:23,285 I feel like I should be too in a sense, but, like, I just can't 325 00:20:23,285 --> 00:20:26,851 I can't bring myself to, like, sit there and watch it. Exactly. The same. I 326 00:20:26,851 --> 00:20:30,417 have, for years, been like, this shouldn't make me cringe. Come on. Snap out of 327 00:20:30,417 --> 00:20:34,150 it. Snap out of it. And so then finally, I was like, I think it 328 00:20:34,150 --> 00:20:37,910 just makes me uncomfortable, and I think I can just accept that. 329 00:20:37,910 --> 00:20:41,155 Like and, you know love that. I'll be respected for it. It's 330 00:20:41,615 --> 00:20:45,055 fine. Right. If you have people around you that actually care about you, they're gonna 331 00:20:45,055 --> 00:20:47,775 respect you. Like, there is this movie, 332 00:20:48,740 --> 00:20:52,260 Leonardo DiCaprio movie. What was it? The wallflower movie. And 333 00:20:52,260 --> 00:20:56,100 there's so much nudity in that. Is that, like, Wolf on Wall Street or 334 00:20:56,100 --> 00:20:59,735 something? I think so. Okay. So much nudity in that. Yeah. I 335 00:20:59,735 --> 00:21:03,534 haven't watched it. My husband literally turn it off, like, 2 minutes. I'm watching 336 00:21:03,534 --> 00:21:07,320 it. No worries. Turn it off. Yeah. Oh. And it's with naked girls 337 00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:10,920 everywhere. I'm like, what the Yeah. I have a question. Why? I 338 00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:14,735 think I I feel like that would stress me out too. Because I feel 339 00:21:14,735 --> 00:21:18,495 like they're trying to get a reaction for that. Yes. Right? Yes. It's 340 00:21:18,495 --> 00:21:22,335 just been too many sensory overload too. Okay. I feel like we got off 341 00:21:22,335 --> 00:21:25,960 topic. Lola, did you explain why 342 00:21:26,179 --> 00:21:29,700 Grey's Anatomy makes you passionate? And I just need some kind of, 343 00:21:29,700 --> 00:21:33,265 like, brain tingling reinforcements. Do you know? 344 00:21:33,385 --> 00:21:36,905 That feeling like you're a Grey's Anatomy doctor. Like, oh, I know what I'm talking 345 00:21:36,905 --> 00:21:39,805 about. Be a part of the team. Like, I'll be like, baby, 346 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:44,080 Let's go. New orthotics. Yes. Like, let me fix your boo 347 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:47,680 boos. You gotta know doctor. You gotta stab that pin into the 348 00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:51,015 trachea. Yes. And then you gotta, like, put the little, 349 00:21:51,875 --> 00:21:55,555 little thing down there and just yeah. The tube thank you. The trachea 350 00:21:55,555 --> 00:21:59,170 tube, get the get the 4 on not the 409, but the, like, the 351 00:21:59,250 --> 00:22:02,390 Fisler clips. You clip it off like any like, there's just 352 00:22:03,090 --> 00:22:05,830 so many possibilities. I really wanna be an OB. 353 00:22:07,255 --> 00:22:11,015 Who wants to go on topic number 2 or, show 354 00:22:11,015 --> 00:22:14,695 number 2? I can. Shoot. Well, shoot. Do I choose something 355 00:22:14,855 --> 00:22:18,600 because here's the thing. Something that 356 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:22,220 has me Something that just really has you 357 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:25,820 really feeling it and, like, why? Okay. It's Fargo. 358 00:22:26,135 --> 00:22:29,515 I love all seasons of Fargo. Have you guys ever watched it? 359 00:22:29,895 --> 00:22:33,515 No. Melissa, you are way more, like, 360 00:22:34,610 --> 00:22:38,370 TV show knowledgeable than we are. I like this. I don't know. I don't know 361 00:22:38,370 --> 00:22:41,830 about that. So Fargo is really 362 00:22:41,890 --> 00:22:45,435 interesting to me because it's kind of like 363 00:22:45,435 --> 00:22:48,655 watching a piece of art. The music is so good. 364 00:22:49,035 --> 00:22:52,750 You're sometimes you're just like I was listening I was watching 365 00:22:52,750 --> 00:22:56,530 it the other day, and I we have a roommate. 366 00:22:56,590 --> 00:22:59,970 My husband and I have somebody that's staying renting a room from us, 367 00:23:00,325 --> 00:23:04,165 and he has never seen Fargo. And I was imagining, what 368 00:23:04,165 --> 00:23:07,845 does it sound like to him? Because there's long periods of just music 369 00:23:08,085 --> 00:23:11,720 Oh. And you're watching things happen, but you're not bored. 370 00:23:11,940 --> 00:23:15,620 You're it's very you're kind of feeling the anxiety and the tense 371 00:23:15,620 --> 00:23:19,345 and this. And No. I really appreciate 372 00:23:19,345 --> 00:23:22,945 you bringing that up because some of the other shows that, like, are on my 373 00:23:22,945 --> 00:23:26,510 list, like, it's because of the emotion 374 00:23:26,570 --> 00:23:30,410 that they make you feel because of Because I wanna cry today. 375 00:23:30,410 --> 00:23:34,245 Because yes. Because of the art and because the way it's videoed because of 376 00:23:34,245 --> 00:23:37,685 the way it's directed. Yeah. And that's like what you just explained is 377 00:23:37,685 --> 00:23:40,905 like, you love it because of the way it's basically 378 00:23:41,045 --> 00:23:44,770 directed and portrayed. Really cool shots and 379 00:23:45,330 --> 00:23:48,790 Tell me what is it about. Fargo is an anthology 380 00:23:48,930 --> 00:23:52,665 series, meaning that each season's a different 381 00:23:52,665 --> 00:23:56,205 story, different time period. Oh. And it's basically 382 00:23:56,345 --> 00:23:59,970 this weird murder that happened in this little tiny town. She's 383 00:24:00,049 --> 00:24:03,590 pregnant. She's a police officer. And I love that they made, 384 00:24:05,090 --> 00:24:08,245 I loved that there was, like, an odd woman. 385 00:24:08,784 --> 00:24:12,465 She's kinda like but she's not stupid. She's smart, and 386 00:24:12,465 --> 00:24:16,304 she figures things out and while being in the oddball. Yeah. And so 387 00:24:16,304 --> 00:24:20,000 that first season kind of was based on that on the 388 00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:23,840 on the TV on the movie, I mean. Well, actually, the other thing 389 00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:27,185 I like about it too is because there's always multiple stories going on and how, 390 00:24:27,185 --> 00:24:30,945 like, sometimes they intertwine and the people from this story have no idea that 391 00:24:30,945 --> 00:24:34,005 something over here totally affected what happened to them. Oh. 392 00:24:34,465 --> 00:24:38,180 Yeah. It's so fun, and it's so ironic too. Probably 393 00:24:38,180 --> 00:24:41,640 happens in real life, honestly. For sure. It's just it's really too smart. 394 00:24:42,020 --> 00:24:45,865 How aggressive is it? They call her the type 395 00:24:45,945 --> 00:24:49,725 oh, like, do you mean aggressive. Like, trigger Abuse. 396 00:24:50,745 --> 00:24:54,390 Abuse. Like, abuse? This this this season, I would say, 397 00:24:54,390 --> 00:24:58,230 yes, maybe trigger warning. Yeah. This season, it was 398 00:24:58,230 --> 00:25:01,845 really interesting, actually. So like I said, it's art. So when she 399 00:25:01,845 --> 00:25:05,365 went back to, like, deal with her past, they did it in a way 400 00:25:05,365 --> 00:25:09,100 where they showed it through a puppet show. And it 401 00:25:09,100 --> 00:25:12,860 was kinda it was creepy, but it was also, like, I 402 00:25:12,860 --> 00:25:16,620 was really glad they weren't showing real people because it was It would have 403 00:25:16,620 --> 00:25:20,035 been graphic. Yeah. And if you've ever had had a situation, like, with 404 00:25:20,035 --> 00:25:23,315 sexual abuse or anything like that, it could have it could have triggered you for 405 00:25:23,315 --> 00:25:26,970 sure. Like, I was Okay. Well, that's good to know because there's definitely shows like 406 00:25:26,970 --> 00:25:30,730 Outlander is a lot of people's, like, favorite show. And I can't get 407 00:25:30,730 --> 00:25:34,424 past, like, the first and second episode because that's that's enough 408 00:25:34,424 --> 00:25:36,365 trigger for me. Like, I can't get past it. 409 00:25:38,025 --> 00:25:41,640 Okay. So So I think her topic really 410 00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:45,320 reminded me of, Stranger Things just because there's so many 411 00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:49,160 different things happening I love Stranger Things. The show. And then I 412 00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:52,985 love it. And then, like, there's, in the 413 00:25:53,225 --> 00:25:56,665 not chapters. I'm trying to Seasons. Books. In the, seasons. Thank 414 00:25:56,665 --> 00:26:00,100 you. There's different, like, sceneries 415 00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:03,920 and different places that the demogorgons are 416 00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:07,335 taking over, you know. So it's like, it's not in the same spot, but it's 417 00:26:07,335 --> 00:26:10,695 nest it's in the same, like, town. Mhmm. But 418 00:26:10,695 --> 00:26:14,535 he he just goes to different places around the town. It's 419 00:26:14,535 --> 00:26:18,330 like different dimensions? Yes. Right? Is that Yeah. Yeah. The 420 00:26:18,330 --> 00:26:21,850 up and the down. Yeah. It's honestly so good, but I hate 421 00:26:21,850 --> 00:26:25,615 waiting so long for the seasons. Mhmm. Because I think it's been 422 00:26:25,615 --> 00:26:29,135 almost 2 years now. So what about stranger things, 423 00:26:29,135 --> 00:26:32,600 like, makes it one of your go to shows? It's just how 424 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:36,280 interesting it is and all the characters. I really love the character, like, build 425 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:39,880 up and displays, the attachments that you 426 00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:43,554 make too. There was one attachment, what's his name? The long 427 00:26:43,554 --> 00:26:46,934 haired guy with the curly hair. Oh, Billy Billy? 428 00:26:47,075 --> 00:26:50,650 Yes. Billy. He was really bad at first 429 00:26:50,810 --> 00:26:54,410 Really? With his sister. Yeah. That's right. His 430 00:26:54,410 --> 00:26:58,115 character development kind of changed to protecting the town 431 00:26:58,115 --> 00:27:01,795 and doing all this stuff for the people of the town. So and he was 432 00:27:01,795 --> 00:27:05,570 cute. I know. And so there's, you know, a plus. Yeah. He did do 433 00:27:05,570 --> 00:27:09,409 some things to kind of redeem himself, and I was like, they're gonna try 434 00:27:09,409 --> 00:27:13,065 to change him, and now I'm supposed to like him, but he's a bad guy. 435 00:27:13,065 --> 00:27:16,664 He's such a he was so mean, but then they share his 436 00:27:16,664 --> 00:27:20,480 history with his mom and you're crying, and you're like, damn 437 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:24,159 it. Mhmm. But then Yeah. Basically. Yeah. But 438 00:27:24,159 --> 00:27:27,600 it's good because it kinda brings us back to what Sam said 439 00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:31,125 earlier. Why do we why does everything have to be black and white? 440 00:27:31,184 --> 00:27:35,025 Why? Mhmm. Like, things are not just one way. Like, there 441 00:27:35,025 --> 00:27:38,550 are different ways to see the same side of the coin or off different money. 442 00:27:38,550 --> 00:27:41,370 You know what I'm saying? Mhmm. And if you see someone 443 00:27:41,990 --> 00:27:45,830 like, it's it's someone that you knew in high school and you just see 444 00:27:45,830 --> 00:27:49,655 them as this person that they were in high school, that doesn't mean 445 00:27:49,655 --> 00:27:52,075 that that's who they are at 30 years old. Right. Like, 446 00:27:53,495 --> 00:27:57,340 I would hope that, you know, the same bully in 447 00:27:57,340 --> 00:28:01,020 middle school or the same bully in high school is not that bad 448 00:28:01,020 --> 00:28:04,460 person here at 30 years old. I would have hoped they had some kind 449 00:28:04,460 --> 00:28:08,285 of change within themselves. You know? Right. You're 450 00:28:08,285 --> 00:28:12,065 right. And, also, we don't even know what was happening to have them 451 00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:16,360 act the way they were acting back then anyway. Right? What were they exposed 452 00:28:16,360 --> 00:28:20,040 to? What were they like, something's always happening behind closed doors that we 453 00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:23,875 don't know about. Always. Yes. Always. You know, now that we're older, 454 00:28:24,414 --> 00:28:27,950 you know It's interesting. To the show point, like, you don't 455 00:28:28,350 --> 00:28:31,950 you can change your mind because people change, and it just shows that people change. 456 00:28:31,950 --> 00:28:35,390 And you don't have to treat them like they were before. Yeah. So 457 00:28:35,390 --> 00:28:39,045 Billy, is he one of your favorites? Probably. And 458 00:28:39,045 --> 00:28:42,825 then, what's her name? The girl that works at Chips Ahoy. 459 00:28:43,125 --> 00:28:46,730 Oh, you're vegan, like Maya. Well, her real life. No. Is her real 460 00:28:46,730 --> 00:28:49,530 life? No. That's her name in real life. Real life. Okay. I was like, I 461 00:28:49,530 --> 00:28:52,730 don't know her name's in real life, but yeah. Yeah. The girl with the blonde 462 00:28:52,730 --> 00:28:55,975 shirt hair, is that who it yeah. I love her. She is so funny and 463 00:28:55,975 --> 00:28:59,255 she reminds me of me, like, her weirdness, quirkiness is like 464 00:28:59,415 --> 00:29:03,260 Same. Oh, I love her. She's so cute and everything too. And, like, her 465 00:29:03,260 --> 00:29:06,960 and Steve, their relationship was so cute. Best friends. Really is. 466 00:29:07,260 --> 00:29:11,109 Oh my god. You if you haven't watched it yet I have watched it 467 00:29:11,109 --> 00:29:14,859 because my husband's obsessed with it. It's the best. And, usually, I don't like 468 00:29:14,859 --> 00:29:18,170 shows like that. It's not one of the ones. Not normally. 469 00:29:18,390 --> 00:29:22,150 I'll read books about it, but I'm just now starting to get in, 470 00:29:22,150 --> 00:29:25,830 like, my fantasy realm and stuff like that. So I'm kind of opening up 471 00:29:25,830 --> 00:29:29,655 more to it. But I think when I started watching it, it 472 00:29:29,655 --> 00:29:33,495 was when it first came out, and I was like, yo, what is 473 00:29:33,495 --> 00:29:37,310 this? Like, I've never watched anything like this before. So it sucked me 474 00:29:37,310 --> 00:29:40,910 in immediately. I was like, Brett, you have to watch this show. It's about 475 00:29:40,910 --> 00:29:44,615 kids playing Dungeons and Dragons in the eighties. And he's like, 476 00:29:44,615 --> 00:29:48,055 okay. Yeah. It was definitely the opposite for us. Simon's like, oh, I love it. 477 00:29:48,055 --> 00:29:51,835 You gotta watch it. It's so good. And I'm like, but it's children. 478 00:29:52,260 --> 00:29:56,020 Like, I don't I have enough children to watch. I mean, 479 00:29:56,020 --> 00:29:59,860 most of them are, like, adult ish. Now I understand. Now I 480 00:29:59,860 --> 00:30:03,674 understand why. It's it is a good it's a good take. Okay. 481 00:30:03,674 --> 00:30:07,515 So my my show number 2, let's see. I think 482 00:30:07,515 --> 00:30:10,850 we talked about Lola's. We talked about your show 2 number 2. My show number 483 00:30:10,850 --> 00:30:14,690 2 that I just watch all the time well, not all the 484 00:30:14,690 --> 00:30:18,495 time, but, like, when I just want something familiar, is Jane the Virgin. 485 00:30:18,875 --> 00:30:22,155 And a lot of people look at me like I'm insane. Like, that show is 486 00:30:22,155 --> 00:30:25,740 so stupid. But It's so cute. 487 00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:30,440 It's very comical. It's very It's like an umbrella. It 488 00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:34,285 is. It's a telenovela. Mhmm. And it's really Is it like ugly Betty 489 00:30:34,285 --> 00:30:37,985 was? I never watched that. I haven't watched it either. It's very, 490 00:30:38,525 --> 00:30:42,299 it's it's it's basically an Americanized telenovela. I said 491 00:30:42,299 --> 00:30:45,519 that wrong. So it's things that would 492 00:30:45,740 --> 00:30:49,039 typically not happen in real life. Mhmm. But 493 00:30:49,355 --> 00:30:53,115 part of why, especially now, I appreciate that so much is 494 00:30:53,115 --> 00:30:56,955 because my life is a telenovela. Like, things that are 495 00:30:56,955 --> 00:30:57,230 happening, 496 00:31:05,605 --> 00:31:09,044 And so it's just there's a lot of comedy in it. But then I also 497 00:31:09,044 --> 00:31:12,825 really like the aspect of where it brings in 498 00:31:13,100 --> 00:31:16,940 the challenges, and it really shows you the struggles of an 499 00:31:16,940 --> 00:31:20,465 immigrant family that has moved into America and the 500 00:31:20,544 --> 00:31:24,304 troubles that they go through and how they're treated. And, and 501 00:31:24,304 --> 00:31:27,924 it's just like, I'm getting goosebumps thinking about it. It's just very, 502 00:31:28,145 --> 00:31:31,760 like, it's nostalgic. It's 503 00:31:32,140 --> 00:31:35,980 like, to me, it's giving you a different 504 00:31:35,980 --> 00:31:39,465 perspective, like full body. Yes. Like you are experiencing 505 00:31:40,005 --> 00:31:43,445 someone else's experience, and someone does experience that. There are 506 00:31:43,445 --> 00:31:47,090 obviously people that that this that part, that aspect 507 00:31:47,090 --> 00:31:50,770 is their life that we don't understand because we have not experienced 508 00:31:50,770 --> 00:31:54,505 that. So I love that aspect of it. But I also can relate because 509 00:31:54,505 --> 00:31:58,045 of my life experiences, especially currently, but also 510 00:31:58,745 --> 00:32:02,389 the actors, no one else could play them. No one 511 00:32:02,389 --> 00:32:04,730 else could. Yeah. 512 00:32:06,309 --> 00:32:10,015 Gina Rodriguez, no one else could play that part. Like, it 513 00:32:10,015 --> 00:32:13,535 had to have been her her mom I love her mom. Had to be her. 514 00:32:13,535 --> 00:32:17,280 It could not have been anyone else. Her dad could not have been anyone else. 515 00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:21,280 Like like when you watch it, I think you pick up yes. You learn 516 00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:25,120 their characters. And it's like you understand, like, it could not have been played by 517 00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:28,904 anyone else. They really know their character. They do. Like, they 518 00:32:28,904 --> 00:32:32,745 have that body. Mhmm. And that is where my obsession and my 519 00:32:32,745 --> 00:32:36,540 love for Gina Rodriguez has come from. I watch everything she's been. 520 00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:40,200 I love her so much. I wanna be her friend. Okay. What's going on my 521 00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:43,935 list? It's Jane the Virgin. It's really good. Super 522 00:32:43,935 --> 00:32:47,475 cute. It is cute. But and I, like, 523 00:32:47,615 --> 00:32:51,360 I like I don't mind watching shows that bounce back and forth from English to 524 00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:54,960 Spanish. Mhmm. It's got, like, a commentary aspect to 525 00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:58,615 it. So, that's also really funny. Like like, where they're 526 00:32:58,615 --> 00:33:02,375 talking to the camera? Like a narrator person. That narrator in the 527 00:33:02,375 --> 00:33:06,215 background that's speaking Jane is feeling very upset today because 528 00:33:06,919 --> 00:33:10,140 Yes. I love it. Will she get over that feeling? 529 00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:14,280 Yeah. And then it shows you like what and then obviously, it plays 530 00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:17,975 out. And I don't know. I just it's one of 531 00:33:17,975 --> 00:33:21,575 my shows that just makes me feel things. I was looking up 532 00:33:21,575 --> 00:33:25,279 Gina Rodriguez to see what else she's in. Oh, she's in Not Dead 533 00:33:25,279 --> 00:33:28,640 Yet. I've seen that a lot of it. That show, I just started 534 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:32,135 watching, and oh my god. I haven't watched the last episode 535 00:33:32,135 --> 00:33:35,655 yet. My sister has prepared me to be disappointed, so I'm really 536 00:33:35,815 --> 00:33:39,640 that's why I haven't finished it. It. I kinda stopped. Yes. Okay. I'm 537 00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:42,620 gonna I'm gonna put both of those on my list then. 538 00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:46,600 Okay. So, Lola, give us the number 3 539 00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:48,905 show that you couldn't live without. 540 00:33:50,165 --> 00:33:53,845 Probably Gilmore Girls, just because it's 541 00:33:53,845 --> 00:33:57,549 so comforting to me. And, like, I like the fall seasons 542 00:33:57,549 --> 00:34:00,510 in it, the winter seasons in it. Oh, it gives you all the seasons? All 543 00:34:00,510 --> 00:34:04,125 the seasons. So you get to, like, experience the change and all the 544 00:34:04,125 --> 00:34:07,965 characters, the change in the town, the change in, like, the whole, like, 545 00:34:07,965 --> 00:34:11,585 scenery of it. And just I, to me, 546 00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:15,840 can sit with a cup of coffee and just enjoy it. Feel like you're in 547 00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:19,680 that season with them? That's so fun. Like, this is what I like 548 00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:23,234 to hear about, like, the intense details of why someone likes the show. It's so 549 00:34:23,234 --> 00:34:27,074 good. And just, like, Lorelei is probably one of my favorite just 550 00:34:27,074 --> 00:34:30,780 because I wish I had a mom like that that was so headstrong. And, 551 00:34:30,780 --> 00:34:34,620 like, she is not her daughter's mom, but she's also a friend to 552 00:34:34,620 --> 00:34:38,215 her and teaches her, you know, right from wrong. But 553 00:34:38,215 --> 00:34:42,054 also lets her have, you know, her freedom and what she wants 554 00:34:42,054 --> 00:34:45,839 to write. So I also think though, because she 555 00:34:45,839 --> 00:34:49,440 had her so young, I also feel like she doesn't know how to be a 556 00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:53,119 proper mom and a proper authoritative figure. That's my opinion of 557 00:34:53,119 --> 00:34:56,344 it. Though I could see depending on how you were raised, 558 00:34:56,565 --> 00:34:59,925 that you wish you had a mom like that. So I could see both. For 559 00:34:59,925 --> 00:35:03,690 me, I think it's a lot of irresponsibility and that she should be a 560 00:35:03,690 --> 00:35:07,369 little bit better, of a mom. I just wish because my 561 00:35:07,369 --> 00:35:11,135 parents were, like, they weren't strict, I would say, but 562 00:35:11,275 --> 00:35:14,635 they also had, like, hella rules. You know what I'm saying? So I just 563 00:35:14,635 --> 00:35:18,410 wanted a little bit more, like, honestly, where I could talk 564 00:35:18,410 --> 00:35:22,170 to my parents and tell them, hey. This is how I'm here. I think in 565 00:35:22,170 --> 00:35:25,965 that aspect, but not of, like, so much of the freedom letting me 566 00:35:25,965 --> 00:35:29,325 do this and that, but I just wanted that closeness with my parents. To be 567 00:35:29,325 --> 00:35:32,970 able to just be open with that without feeling Mhmm. Afraid to tell them 568 00:35:32,970 --> 00:35:36,410 something. So it just makes me super uncomfortable. Like, I I or not 569 00:35:36,410 --> 00:35:40,170 uncomfortable but comfortable and I wanna live that life and be in Rory's shoes and, 570 00:35:40,170 --> 00:35:43,815 you know, experience her college aspects and, 571 00:35:44,035 --> 00:35:47,395 you know, go through life with her and just her and Dean and then her 572 00:35:47,395 --> 00:35:51,130 other boyfriend and stuff like that. It's just I just the part 573 00:35:51,130 --> 00:35:54,430 that I see a lot of is that Rory's growing up 574 00:35:54,730 --> 00:35:57,930 feeling like she's the mom and taking care of her mom, and that's something that 575 00:35:57,930 --> 00:36:01,714 I just strongly hope that that is not what my family is like. 576 00:36:01,714 --> 00:36:05,494 It definitely changes in the end for sure, I think. Mhmm. But 577 00:36:06,010 --> 00:36:09,310 Laurel kind of wakes up. Have you seen Gilmore Girls? 578 00:36:10,250 --> 00:36:14,010 So I actually, for the reasons that you're saying, thought that 579 00:36:14,010 --> 00:36:17,715 I would love it because I love small towns. I love, like, 580 00:36:17,775 --> 00:36:21,375 the little coffee shop on the corner with the fall and walking in a sweater 581 00:36:21,375 --> 00:36:25,130 and but I couldn't get into it. 582 00:36:25,190 --> 00:36:28,710 It was really hard. I felt like there was a lot of complaining about how 583 00:36:28,710 --> 00:36:32,390 good their life is. It's a lot of complaining. Lorelei is a 584 00:36:32,390 --> 00:36:36,165 very complacent person for sure, and she gets things handed to her and stuff 585 00:36:36,165 --> 00:36:38,265 too. These are first world problems. 586 00:36:40,085 --> 00:36:43,490 But I couldn't get into it, but 587 00:36:44,190 --> 00:36:48,030 I feel like I the the feelings that you're saying it evokes for you 588 00:36:48,030 --> 00:36:51,665 are is what I or what I expected that it would effervesce. I, I Yeah. 589 00:36:51,665 --> 00:36:55,105 And there's some things obviously that I don't like about it. Like, it's kind of 590 00:36:55,105 --> 00:36:58,480 a not I wouldn't say a slow burn, but, 591 00:36:59,500 --> 00:37:03,100 it just it's really slow and the characters are just, like, 592 00:37:03,100 --> 00:37:06,560 meh. You know, like, their conversations and stuff. Just like, 593 00:37:07,035 --> 00:37:10,715 why are there so many pauses in between? You know, like, what are 594 00:37:10,715 --> 00:37:14,235 we doing? There's some awkwardness. Yeah. It's so awkward. I 595 00:37:14,540 --> 00:37:17,020 it's just one of those shows that I watched one time all the way through, 596 00:37:17,020 --> 00:37:20,060 so I don't have this, like, engraved into my memory. Yeah. The more you watch 597 00:37:20,060 --> 00:37:23,180 it, the more awkward I think it gets. Yeah. Because you just pick up on 598 00:37:23,180 --> 00:37:26,575 all the stuff that you haven't, like, picked up on before. Annoying. 599 00:37:26,575 --> 00:37:30,415 Yeah. Oh. Why? Why are we doing that? I think you brought up 600 00:37:30,415 --> 00:37:33,450 another Yeah. This makes me feel so weird. Yeah. Like, I think you brought up 601 00:37:33,450 --> 00:37:36,890 a good point actually about how you said the characters are meh. Like, I feel 602 00:37:36,890 --> 00:37:40,190 like you're onto something. You kinda have to have, like, a passion 603 00:37:40,704 --> 00:37:44,165 whether you intensely like or dislike one of them. And, again, 604 00:37:44,545 --> 00:37:46,944 there's no black and white. I'm like, I'm not saying they have to either be 605 00:37:46,944 --> 00:37:50,580 good or bad, but, I feel like there's 606 00:37:50,580 --> 00:37:54,340 gotta be something to make you say feel strongly about them, I 607 00:37:54,340 --> 00:37:58,015 guess. Mhmm. You want that? I think you're on to something because, 608 00:37:58,075 --> 00:38:01,595 again, we grow from the first time we watch this show. So if we watch 609 00:38:01,595 --> 00:38:05,250 this show for the first time when we are 19 years old, and now 610 00:38:05,250 --> 00:38:08,930 we're 30 years old rewatching that show, probably what makes us 611 00:38:08,930 --> 00:38:12,484 love and feel passionate about a character may make us different. It will 612 00:38:12,484 --> 00:38:16,325 probably maybe make us cringe in our thirties of, like No internet. They 613 00:38:16,325 --> 00:38:19,125 should not have been acting like that. They should not have said that. They should 614 00:38:19,125 --> 00:38:22,970 not have, like, I would hope that I wouldn't be reacting like that at 615 00:38:22,970 --> 00:38:26,330 their age. And I bet that as we grow 616 00:38:26,330 --> 00:38:30,075 ourselves and as we age ourselves, that how we feel about a 617 00:38:30,075 --> 00:38:33,615 topic and a character at one age is not how we feel later. 618 00:38:33,835 --> 00:38:37,595 Yeah. That's right. Because I mean, for now, I could rewatch it now. 619 00:38:37,595 --> 00:38:41,330 And then my feelings might, you know, be different. That's very possible. It 620 00:38:41,330 --> 00:38:44,770 may have been like a favorite at one stage, otherwise. Because it was a while 621 00:38:44,770 --> 00:38:48,435 ago when I first started it. So it's just boring to me 622 00:38:48,435 --> 00:38:51,875 now. Yeah. So I'm just like, no. I love the 623 00:38:51,875 --> 00:38:55,530 coziness of it. Obviously, just it's so so. Is it 624 00:38:55,530 --> 00:38:59,290 still like your number 3 show? Probably. Just still to have it in the 625 00:38:59,290 --> 00:39:03,130 background? Yeah. Because I'm so you see it, but hearing the noises and stuff 626 00:39:03,130 --> 00:39:06,714 that goes on. So, like, comfort. Yeah. I just it's that 627 00:39:06,714 --> 00:39:10,474 comfort. You know what to expect, and you can't be disappointed because you 628 00:39:10,474 --> 00:39:13,994 already know what disappoints you and what. So it's 629 00:39:13,994 --> 00:39:17,740 just either that or I put on something else that I have no interest in 630 00:39:17,740 --> 00:39:21,360 and then end up changing it to something that I have, you know, 631 00:39:21,500 --> 00:39:25,184 a comfort. That makes sense. That's because if I don't like it, I'm gonna change 632 00:39:25,184 --> 00:39:28,224 it right back. Well, it reminded me of the phrase, the enemy, you know, is 633 00:39:28,224 --> 00:39:31,285 sometimes just because you know, like, what to expect. So sometimes, 634 00:39:32,299 --> 00:39:35,900 having something that you don't love on but you're comfortable with it is better than 635 00:39:35,900 --> 00:39:39,359 having something new on that you're not sure even if you 636 00:39:39,715 --> 00:39:43,415 objectively might say, oh, I kinda think that technically is a better show. 637 00:39:43,955 --> 00:39:47,609 Well, who knows? There's so many things to rate shows, but but you know what 638 00:39:47,609 --> 00:39:51,450 I'm saying. Mhmm. Like Yeah. Interesting. K. 639 00:39:51,450 --> 00:39:55,049 Melissa, give us your next, like, must have show that you're just 640 00:39:55,049 --> 00:39:57,734 passionate about. I guess I would say 641 00:39:58,674 --> 00:40:02,515 office and parks and rec, comfort wise. They're just kinda 642 00:40:02,515 --> 00:40:06,060 like they're just quirky, weird people that 643 00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:10,120 I hate. Everyone's quirky and weird. Yeah. Yeah. I 644 00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:13,815 love it. I have to say that I'm probably the odd one 645 00:40:13,815 --> 00:40:17,175 out, and I have not watched either of them because something about the 646 00:40:17,175 --> 00:40:20,589 filming of it, I can't I can't get into it. The 647 00:40:20,589 --> 00:40:23,950 filming. The close ups The documentary style. Weird. 648 00:40:23,950 --> 00:40:27,605 Yes. Which is so good. I love documentaries. It it 649 00:40:27,605 --> 00:40:31,285 makes it it's so awkward. Well, maybe it's the 650 00:40:31,285 --> 00:40:35,125 awkwardness. Right? I think that I think it you're right. I think I've seen, 651 00:40:35,125 --> 00:40:38,540 like, 1 like, a couple of episodes, and then I'm like, oh, that's 652 00:40:38,540 --> 00:40:42,060 cringy. Like, oh. Feel like that secondhand embarrassment for them 653 00:40:42,060 --> 00:40:45,885 sometimes. It's intense, and I, like, I don't wanna feel I don't wanna feel 654 00:40:45,885 --> 00:40:49,485 like that. Like, I'm already embarrassed in, like, anywhere. Watching it 655 00:40:49,485 --> 00:40:53,210 happen. Yeah. Yeah. I feel that for myself enough. 656 00:40:53,210 --> 00:40:57,050 Like, let's not. Okay. I can see that. Yeah. I 657 00:40:57,050 --> 00:41:00,650 can see that. That's funny. But, you relate to, like, that kind of 658 00:41:00,650 --> 00:41:02,895 quirkiness, and you enjoy 659 00:41:04,015 --> 00:41:07,855 Oh, so maybe I should actually I am gonna throw another show with 660 00:41:07,855 --> 00:41:11,130 that. It's the IT crowd. So 661 00:41:11,910 --> 00:41:14,730 this one is British humor, and 662 00:41:15,430 --> 00:41:19,025 it's about these 2 guys. They work in this 663 00:41:19,345 --> 00:41:23,105 for this big corporation. They're the IT guys for this conglomerate of a, 664 00:41:23,105 --> 00:41:26,464 like, Skyrise type office building, but they're in the 665 00:41:26,464 --> 00:41:29,930 basement. And it's really funny just like 666 00:41:30,390 --> 00:41:34,150 they're it's another world down there, and it's just them 2, and they're 667 00:41:34,150 --> 00:41:37,945 both really weird. I love it. I love it so much. 668 00:41:38,405 --> 00:41:42,005 Okay. You have to clarify. It's a whole another world as in, like, literally 669 00:41:42,005 --> 00:41:45,710 another world or, like, they're just in their own little world? Their own 670 00:41:45,710 --> 00:41:49,310 world down there in the basement is like I don't know how to 671 00:41:49,310 --> 00:41:53,090 explain it. Okay. So it's those 2 guys, and then 672 00:41:53,150 --> 00:41:56,815 the company decides they need someone down there managing them. So they 673 00:41:56,815 --> 00:42:00,414 send down this woman who knows nothing about the IT 674 00:42:00,414 --> 00:42:04,130 technical side of things. It's just funny because now she's, like, 675 00:42:04,130 --> 00:42:07,730 thrust into their world. Right? So 676 00:42:07,730 --> 00:42:11,030 they they it does have stories where they try to go out into the world 677 00:42:11,125 --> 00:42:14,885 and, like, date or whatnot, and there's this whole episode where they take 678 00:42:14,885 --> 00:42:18,484 out these prostitutes thinking that they Oh. They don't know they're 679 00:42:18,484 --> 00:42:22,289 prostitutes. Like, they take them to the park Oh my god. And they're, like, 680 00:42:22,289 --> 00:42:25,890 at the amusement park going on rides and stuff together and, like 681 00:42:26,210 --> 00:42:29,885 That makes sense. I could see how that would be funny and, like, entertaining. It's 682 00:42:29,885 --> 00:42:33,484 funny and cute. And one of my other favorite episodes is they have, like, this 683 00:42:33,484 --> 00:42:37,265 underground fight club, but it's an actual spelling bee. What? 684 00:42:37,570 --> 00:42:41,190 And so you know, it's so dumb. I know. So Moss goes 685 00:42:41,490 --> 00:42:45,250 and he says and so they're, like, all in this parking lot 686 00:42:45,250 --> 00:42:48,235 and they're, like, having, like, a throw down, right, with 687 00:42:48,775 --> 00:42:52,615 words. And Moss goes, I came here to drink my milk and kick 688 00:42:52,615 --> 00:42:56,040 some ass and I just finished my milk. And it's like it's so, like, stuff 689 00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:59,880 that's not normal. Okay. This actually sounds enjoyable. Thank you. It's 690 00:42:59,880 --> 00:43:03,240 just stupid. And it's kind of reminding me of Big Bang 691 00:43:03,240 --> 00:43:06,725 feels. Big Bang Theory? A little bit. Yeah. Yeah. 692 00:43:07,025 --> 00:43:10,865 But I would feel like and I think I might only say this 693 00:43:10,865 --> 00:43:14,436 because, honestly, now that I think about it, Big Bang would be a really good, 694 00:43:14,436 --> 00:43:18,160 like, background show. But I think that my next 695 00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:21,724 top three right now is This Is Us. I 696 00:43:21,724 --> 00:43:25,484 am watching it. I'm behind on times. I am watching it 697 00:43:25,484 --> 00:43:29,085 for the first time right now. And I just know I 698 00:43:29,085 --> 00:43:32,800 like I'm I don't commonly watch shows as they come out and 699 00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:36,480 people get real intense into them. So right now, 700 00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:40,135 it's kind of in the past. And so now I've decided to watch it. And, 701 00:43:40,135 --> 00:43:42,875 oh, my god. I just the 702 00:43:43,974 --> 00:43:47,130 the the way the story is played out, the way 703 00:43:47,430 --> 00:43:50,890 this, like the stories are told and the way they intertwine. 704 00:43:51,829 --> 00:43:55,565 Like, it's just I don't know that I've seen a show like that 705 00:43:55,565 --> 00:43:58,765 on how it comes together. It's gonna make you want to cry. I actually know. 706 00:43:58,765 --> 00:44:01,470 I know people who say it makes them cry every episode. And no, I've not 707 00:44:01,550 --> 00:44:05,230 cried. I I got very upset. I mean, I I felt like a 708 00:44:05,230 --> 00:44:08,830 little, like, gloomy after Jack dies. But 709 00:44:08,990 --> 00:44:12,115 My mom, she would sit there and cry at every episode. So that's where I've 710 00:44:12,115 --> 00:44:15,875 been, like No. You know? I think it just depends. I did. I 711 00:44:16,435 --> 00:44:19,315 Aw. I did. It doesn't make me cry every episode, but it just makes me 712 00:44:19,315 --> 00:44:22,850 go, like, and then, like, man, like, the 713 00:44:22,850 --> 00:44:26,530 different perspective, like, you know, as siblings. Like, 714 00:44:26,530 --> 00:44:30,325 you're gonna remember a story and a scenario and a situation one way, 715 00:44:30,325 --> 00:44:33,765 but your sibling has a different glasses on, 716 00:44:33,765 --> 00:44:37,205 basically, of how perspective of that situation. Yeah. What? And what it felt for 717 00:44:37,205 --> 00:44:40,720 them, and they remember it differently. And I think that that's a very interesting, 718 00:44:41,579 --> 00:44:45,395 thing to show because that is true. It is very true. I get that 719 00:44:45,395 --> 00:44:49,155 with my brother all the time. Yeah. And I just I don't 720 00:44:49,155 --> 00:44:52,935 know. I love it and the different paths that you end up taking and 721 00:44:53,030 --> 00:44:56,869 just the love story of the mom and dad and, you know, the 722 00:44:56,869 --> 00:45:00,390 love story that Randall ends up in. And it's just it's just very 723 00:45:00,390 --> 00:45:04,145 cozy. And I just really enjoy watching it play out and how it plays 724 00:45:04,145 --> 00:45:07,105 out and really enjoying it. And I'm sure that I would end up watching it 725 00:45:07,105 --> 00:45:10,890 again. Well, then I'm gonna have to watch that. Mhmm. That's 726 00:45:10,890 --> 00:45:14,730 cute. Yeah. For me, part of it is the nostalgia. Like, they literally are 727 00:45:14,730 --> 00:45:17,370 born the same year I was born. Oh. Well, no. I think they were born 728 00:45:17,370 --> 00:45:20,765 in 79. Either way, I was born in 80. 729 00:45:20,984 --> 00:45:24,744 And so watching, like, all of the back flash flashback 730 00:45:24,744 --> 00:45:28,470 episode, I'm like, oh my god. And you can see what 731 00:45:28,470 --> 00:45:32,310 era you're in as it plays. I I do enjoy that aspect of 732 00:45:32,310 --> 00:45:35,875 it too, and it's like because I laugh all the time. Like, Simon 733 00:45:36,335 --> 00:45:39,055 is not enjoying the show at all. But, like, you know, if I've had a 734 00:45:39,055 --> 00:45:41,935 rough day with the kids, I'm like, tough. I'm gonna watch it because it's gonna 735 00:45:41,935 --> 00:45:45,569 soothe me. And I crack up every time it shows, 736 00:45:45,569 --> 00:45:48,530 like, the time period of when she's got, like, that blue eye shadow, like, all 737 00:45:48,530 --> 00:45:51,925 over her face. I'm like, that is not a good look. God. I remember that. 738 00:45:52,005 --> 00:45:54,805 More blue eye shadow all the time, and she might still to this day. I'm 739 00:45:54,805 --> 00:45:58,460 not sure. My mom still wears blue eye shadow. Oh, really? I swear to 740 00:45:58,460 --> 00:46:01,820 God. That's the only color she will ever wear. It is so funny. 741 00:46:01,820 --> 00:46:05,580 But in I think part of it that, like, I find interesting is 742 00:46:05,580 --> 00:46:09,045 like so you can tell that they change in each season of their 743 00:46:09,045 --> 00:46:12,425 life. And it reminds me of, like, 744 00:46:12,805 --> 00:46:16,565 okay, so I've worn my makeup the same way since high school. And 745 00:46:16,565 --> 00:46:20,290 then now that I just turned 30, like, literally, I'm like, I feel 746 00:46:20,290 --> 00:46:23,890 like I need to, like, redesign myself. Oh, fun. I need to make a change. 747 00:46:23,890 --> 00:46:26,535 I probably shouldn't wear my makeup the same way that I wore it in high 748 00:46:26,535 --> 00:46:29,895 school. And so I've literally been playing with different, like, makeup setups to see, like, 749 00:46:29,895 --> 00:46:33,080 okay, should I wear my eyes like this now? Should I wear my eyes like 750 00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:35,880 that? And it's, like, I've been playing around with my makeup. And so it's just 751 00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:39,560 really funny at my it wasn't that drastic as it is in the show. But 752 00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:43,085 it's, like, to that point, like, where you start seeing a change in my makeup 753 00:46:43,085 --> 00:46:46,765 now, in my clothing. Oh, yeah. And then maybe it'll come back around sometime soon. 754 00:46:46,765 --> 00:46:50,340 Yeah. You know? It's true. It will. I remember when I was 755 00:46:50,340 --> 00:46:54,020 little and my mom would be like, because when 756 00:46:54,020 --> 00:46:57,375 I, not I say little, but when I was a teenager and 757 00:46:57,994 --> 00:47:01,490 the clothes were what are happening now. And so 758 00:47:01,730 --> 00:47:05,090 Mhmm. We wore everything, not just bootcut, but, 759 00:47:05,090 --> 00:47:08,930 like, at and loose and big bootcut. Right? Just kinda like it is 760 00:47:08,930 --> 00:47:12,714 now. But my mom, I remember her saying Oh, that's right. Yeah. I 761 00:47:12,714 --> 00:47:16,555 will I will always wear skinny stones. Like it. But, And I 762 00:47:16,555 --> 00:47:19,960 like the baggy stuff too just Yeah. I remember her saying, 763 00:47:20,180 --> 00:47:23,460 oh, those are the same pants I wore in high school. And I was like, 764 00:47:23,460 --> 00:47:27,115 not really. It's not the same. And No. But it now I'm 765 00:47:27,115 --> 00:47:30,815 feeling the same. I'm like, no. It's literally the It's literally 766 00:47:30,875 --> 00:47:34,635 the same thing. It's freaking old navy. And I'm like, no. Not the 767 00:47:34,635 --> 00:47:38,460 knit spaghetti strap dresses. That is 768 00:47:38,460 --> 00:47:42,220 so funny. That's like I want a whole another episode on that because I love 769 00:47:42,220 --> 00:47:45,865 the generational changes and how people view them because that is like 770 00:47:45,985 --> 00:47:49,425 The kids now are like, oh, it's new. It's like, no. I mean, we had 771 00:47:49,425 --> 00:47:52,865 this back in the day. Flare jeans now with the high top and, like, I'm 772 00:47:53,025 --> 00:47:56,480 you just know that, like, our, you know, another generation is like, 773 00:47:56,619 --> 00:48:00,080 no, that was in when we were there. And now like, the skinny 774 00:48:00,140 --> 00:48:03,674 was is like now like, it's interesting. Yeah. I 775 00:48:03,674 --> 00:48:07,015 think that's that's a whole great another topic. So 776 00:48:07,355 --> 00:48:10,875 what kind of brought this topic on was, I also 777 00:48:10,875 --> 00:48:14,710 saw a, an article in The 778 00:48:14,710 --> 00:48:18,549 Times about why it is that we have these same episodes that we watch 779 00:48:18,549 --> 00:48:22,015 over and over again. And it really just as we were talking about 780 00:48:22,015 --> 00:48:25,535 naturally, like, those topics came up. It was, why do we do this? 781 00:48:25,535 --> 00:48:28,895 And it's, so because we 782 00:48:28,895 --> 00:48:32,330 have, one, feeling like that sense of community 783 00:48:32,950 --> 00:48:36,630 and, feeling like you have someone you 784 00:48:36,630 --> 00:48:40,335 can relate to. And okay, so one of those reasons was it also 785 00:48:40,335 --> 00:48:43,935 can make you feel more restored if you're sitting there scrolling 786 00:48:43,935 --> 00:48:47,539 through, your Netflix or your Hulu and your 787 00:48:47,539 --> 00:48:51,059 Prime and sometimes all of them because you just can't make a decision 788 00:48:51,059 --> 00:48:54,900 because you're exhausted. It's the end of your day. You've already fought all 789 00:48:54,900 --> 00:48:58,665 your children. You've already put out all of the work fires, and now it's just 790 00:48:58,665 --> 00:49:02,265 your time to flop in bed, flop on the couch, and let me just watch 791 00:49:02,265 --> 00:49:06,045 something that just makes me feel whole again and calm. 792 00:49:06,650 --> 00:49:10,170 Yeah. In the article, she said something to the effect that we can Yes. We'll 793 00:49:10,170 --> 00:49:13,690 link that article in case you wanna see where you align. It's nice to have 794 00:49:13,690 --> 00:49:17,315 something familiar. Mhmm. Yes. And what I am struggling 795 00:49:17,315 --> 00:49:21,015 with right now is that all the new episodes that are new 796 00:49:21,075 --> 00:49:24,730 shows that I try, I find that I get hooked hooked hooked 797 00:49:24,730 --> 00:49:28,170 into the show. Maybe lose a little bit of interest, but now I have to 798 00:49:28,170 --> 00:49:31,869 know how it ends. Yeah. My example of this is Pretty Little Liars. 799 00:49:31,930 --> 00:49:35,734 Like, I got hooked again. I'm late to the show. I just started it, like, 800 00:49:35,734 --> 00:49:38,535 a couple of months ago. I'll have to watch that too. I I never did 801 00:49:38,535 --> 00:49:42,130 see it. It it really wasn't worth all the time. Right. Because the ending was 802 00:49:42,529 --> 00:49:46,210 so awful. Oh, okay. It was very disappointing. And then I'm 803 00:49:46,210 --> 00:49:50,015 like, I wasted, like, a month What did you watching the show. Well, 804 00:49:50,095 --> 00:49:53,714 spoiler alert for anyone, but, what did you hate about the ending so much? 805 00:49:54,095 --> 00:49:57,775 It's so left field. Oh. Like, it completely kind of 806 00:49:57,775 --> 00:50:01,360 changes. Like, it doesn't really make sense of 807 00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:05,120 how it got there Okay. I guess? Yeah. Or how they got there? 808 00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:08,915 It it starts with having to Didn't build to anything. It didn't. 809 00:50:08,915 --> 00:50:12,755 No. I don't feel like Okay. I mean Basically, I think that they were 810 00:50:12,755 --> 00:50:16,430 trying to keep up with the factor where you cannot guess. 811 00:50:16,589 --> 00:50:20,349 Mhmm. Like, you the the like, you have to guess who this 812 00:50:20,349 --> 00:50:24,190 person a is that's watching the group, basically. That's destroying 813 00:50:24,190 --> 00:50:27,775 their lives and making it very miserable and very hard. So it 814 00:50:27,935 --> 00:50:31,375 that's it keeps you locked in of, like, okay. Well, who is this person? Like, 815 00:50:31,375 --> 00:50:34,880 let's get to the bottom line. Who is it? Okay. Yeah. But they're also based 816 00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:38,660 on books, so the books may be a little better. Oh, that's probably. 817 00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:42,365 Honestly. So I haven't read them yet. So I wouldn't know. 818 00:50:42,365 --> 00:50:46,205 Yeah. But I would I would assume that books are better than the TV 819 00:50:46,205 --> 00:50:49,965 shows. I would hope more detailed because it just literally goes boop boop 820 00:50:49,965 --> 00:50:53,400 boop boop. Okay. Like, what happened? Okay. 821 00:50:53,940 --> 00:50:57,780 Interesting. You know? Yeah. That's not that's not fulfilling. Right? Okay. So I 822 00:50:57,780 --> 00:51:01,235 know that y'all, like, sneaked in a couple of extra TV shows, but I 823 00:51:01,235 --> 00:51:04,995 think you can't forget to put in friends. Like, who does 824 00:51:04,995 --> 00:51:08,360 not watch friends? Not. I love Friends. Is that not everyone's 825 00:51:08,500 --> 00:51:11,720 backup show? So for Friends, 826 00:51:12,340 --> 00:51:15,905 it Are you about to say that's not for you? Yeah. It 827 00:51:15,905 --> 00:51:19,665 was kind of not really. Kind of. So when it came out, 828 00:51:19,665 --> 00:51:23,505 it obviously, it was in the nineties. I was, like, 12 or 13, I 829 00:51:23,505 --> 00:51:27,250 think. And, all 830 00:51:27,250 --> 00:51:30,609 of my friends watched it, but I wasn't allowed to because it wasn't 831 00:51:30,690 --> 00:51:33,805 like, it was probably in inappropriate, apparently. 832 00:51:34,185 --> 00:51:37,885 Yeah. Looking back now for sure. Yeah. But I didn't want 833 00:51:38,425 --> 00:51:41,609 I didn't so I didn't watch it until I was in my late twenties. And 834 00:51:41,609 --> 00:51:45,450 I did get, like, sucked in, but part of me feels like 835 00:51:45,450 --> 00:51:49,130 that maybe I got I just wanted to know what everybody else 836 00:51:49,130 --> 00:51:52,944 loved so much, and so I watched all of them. And I haven't I 837 00:51:52,944 --> 00:51:56,145 don't know. When I go back and watch them now, like you said, different stages 838 00:51:56,145 --> 00:51:59,309 of our lives, I go whack and watch them now, and I'm like, I don't 839 00:51:59,309 --> 00:52:02,609 know. Things make me cringe. But I could see that. 840 00:52:02,829 --> 00:52:06,589 Yeah. I don't know. Something's wrong. So, like, there's a there was a 841 00:52:06,589 --> 00:52:09,475 part of my a time in my life when it did fill, I guess, a 842 00:52:09,475 --> 00:52:12,915 need because I felt like I was kind of, like, able to get in with 843 00:52:12,915 --> 00:52:16,569 everybody else. That one is for sure. Train too. I would 844 00:52:16,569 --> 00:52:20,250 watch this too. That is for sure the one that's, like, a sense of community, 845 00:52:20,250 --> 00:52:23,645 a sense of being. You feel like they are your friends. Yes. I do. I 846 00:52:23,645 --> 00:52:27,245 feel like I'm in the apartment next door. You know what I'm saying? I'm sure 847 00:52:27,245 --> 00:52:31,085 that each of you have shows that are your comfort shows and your go 848 00:52:31,085 --> 00:52:34,700 to shows. And I'm just curious. Do you are any of the shows 849 00:52:34,700 --> 00:52:38,220 that we mentioned the ones that you guys find the comfort in and the ones 850 00:52:38,220 --> 00:52:41,845 that you guys find the community in? We're gonna post this on our social 851 00:52:41,845 --> 00:52:45,685 medias. Make sure you follow us on Facebook, on Instagram. You'll see 852 00:52:45,685 --> 00:52:49,310 some behind the scene photos, some videos, and tell us Yeah. 853 00:52:49,390 --> 00:52:52,830 What shows are not on our list that should be. I'd love to know because 854 00:52:52,830 --> 00:52:55,995 I, for sure, can share my list Yeah. From the 2 shows I normally watch. 855 00:52:56,395 --> 00:53:00,235 Yeah. I feel like this whole thing was a spoiler. But you know what? 856 00:53:00,235 --> 00:53:03,115 That's okay. Because I feel like once we get into the show, you're not gonna 857 00:53:03,115 --> 00:53:06,890 remember what we said. So You can spoil it. Go watch the shows. Alright, 858 00:53:06,890 --> 00:53:10,170 guys. So we had Lola. Lola, thank you so much for joining us today. Having 859 00:53:10,170 --> 00:53:13,885 me. I had so much fun. It was so fun. So Lola 860 00:53:13,885 --> 00:53:17,645 is gonna be basically our pop in cohost from time 861 00:53:17,645 --> 00:53:21,025 to time, because she has so much to add. And, 862 00:53:21,650 --> 00:53:25,490 it's just fun to have another perspective, honestly. So and that's that's what 863 00:53:25,490 --> 00:53:29,010 we want. So show her some love as well by following 864 00:53:29,010 --> 00:53:32,735 her drama free mama's group. Not your mama's mom group. 865 00:53:32,735 --> 00:53:35,635 Yes. And that will also be in our links. You can see it there. 866 00:53:55,990 --> 00:53:59,510 And let me just say, Lola and I have not met before. 867 00:53:59,510 --> 00:54:02,790 Okay. And she just was like, okay. Cool. I'm gonna go over to your house 868 00:54:02,790 --> 00:54:06,605 and, yeah. Sure. I'll talk on a podcast with you. I think Look at 869 00:54:06,605 --> 00:54:10,445 her. And it was like, honestly, I'm the most awkward person 870 00:54:10,445 --> 00:54:14,250 in the world. I will not walk up to someone and start a conversation. Anxiety? 871 00:54:14,549 --> 00:54:18,309 So much anxiety. I popped 2 anxiety pills before we hopped on here. I all 872 00:54:18,309 --> 00:54:21,965 did. I mean, Lola what? Lola? 873 00:54:21,965 --> 00:54:25,805 Lola. Lola just walked into my house, and it felt natural, and it felt 874 00:54:25,805 --> 00:54:28,460 normal. And I was like, once we sat down in front of the mic, so 875 00:54:28,460 --> 00:54:30,700 I just kinda looked at her and I was like This is it. I feel 876 00:54:30,700 --> 00:54:34,300 like, we met before. Like, we've hung out so many times. This is normal. It 877 00:54:34,300 --> 00:54:37,964 feels good. Right? Yeah. It does. Yeah. Because you never 878 00:54:37,964 --> 00:54:41,565 hardly make friends like that. You have that in con in connection with. It's 879 00:54:41,565 --> 00:54:44,980 like, oh. You know, refer to our, you know, last 880 00:54:44,980 --> 00:54:48,120 episode. Right. Right. Making friends in your thirties. 881 00:54:49,700 --> 00:54:53,235 Alright, guys. It's really nice to have y'all, and we will, 882 00:54:54,015 --> 00:54:57,855 talk to you soon. Bye. Bye, friends. If you like what you heard 883 00:54:57,855 --> 00:54:59,395 today, hit subscribe now.