Hello and welcome to hey, Boomer, the show. For those
Speaker:of us who believe that we are never too old to set another
Speaker:goal or dream a new dream. My name is Wendy Green,
Speaker:and I am your host for Hay Boomer. And I
Speaker:have a question for those of you who have pets.
Speaker:Have you ever learned any lessons from your
Speaker:pets? Now, I have to tell you about my cat,
Speaker:Pepper. She's very smart. And Pepper, I have
Speaker:trained her to be able to shake paws, shake
Speaker:hands, and occasionally she'll
Speaker:lie down and sometimes she'll give me some sugar for a treat.
Speaker:So I'm very proud of Pepper, and
Speaker:people say cats can't learn, but definitely she does. But
Speaker:what about dogs? Dogs are easily trained, right? People train
Speaker:their dogs to do all kinds of things. But my question is
Speaker:really, what have you learned from your
Speaker:pets? So when I was young, we
Speaker:had a sheep dog. His name was Curly. And
Speaker:Curly taught us about safety and
Speaker:emotions and how to play. I mean, he was
Speaker:really an amazing dog. I think he was a human in a dog's body.
Speaker:But Pepper teaches me to stop
Speaker:work. I can sit there in front of my computer for way
Speaker:too long, and she'll come in, she'll bring a toy, or she'll jump up on
Speaker:the desk, or she'll jump up on my lap and say, mama, I need some
Speaker:time. And it reminds me I need to get up and walk
Speaker:away. So there are things that we can learn from our
Speaker:pets. In the book, we're going to talk about today
Speaker:tales from Tibet. Little Tashi
Speaker:learns many lessons that are shared with the
Speaker:reader. Typically, life a seven to twelve year old.
Speaker:But I want to know from Philip Martin, my guest, what he
Speaker:has learned from Tashi and from his journey to
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Speaker:show notes. All right, looks like we have a
Speaker:great audience, Philip, so let me bring you on. Hello,
Speaker:Philip. Hello, Wendy.
Speaker:So let me do a brief introduction. Okay,
Speaker:so I want to start by saying that Philip is my friend. We
Speaker:met in Northern Virginia when I was living in
Speaker:Leesburg and both of us were in the Rotary Club.
Speaker:I know Philip to be a can do type of person, full
Speaker:of enthusiasm and optimism.
Speaker:Professionally, Philip has extensive experience in
Speaker:executive coaching and as a management consultant. He
Speaker:also has 50 plus years of sales experience from hands
Speaker:on selling to training and coaching.
Speaker:Philip is a native of Nashville, Tennessee.
Speaker:He received his BA from Birmingham Southern
Speaker:College and then his MBA from Owen School of
Speaker:Management at Vanderbilt University. He and his
Speaker:beautiful wife Donna live in Ashburn, Virginia, with
Speaker:Tashi, their Tibetan terrier, who is featured
Speaker:in his new children's book, gorgeous book, Tales
Speaker:from Tibet. Philip, do you have Tashi with you today?
Speaker:Wendy? I do. Oh, let's meet little Tashi for
Speaker:just a moment.
Speaker:Oh, my goodness. Look at that face.
Speaker:Tashi, you are a star. A star of the book.
Speaker:This is Tashi, two and a half year old Tibetan terrier.
Speaker:Everyone tell me about the Tibetan terrier
Speaker:breed. Oh, it's wonderful. It's a pretty hidden
Speaker:breed out of about 140 plus breeds of
Speaker:dogs. It was only sort of stayed up in the
Speaker:Himalayas for several thousand years with the Buddhist
Speaker:monks. And it was only discovered in
Speaker:1926 by a British doctor.
Speaker:A woman doctor treated a Tibetan family and
Speaker:they gave the Doctor who loved dogs, they gave the woman
Speaker:doctor a puppy. And it was a
Speaker:strange looking breed with the hair down. You see them in the dog
Speaker:shows, the hair hanging down and couldn't see her or the
Speaker:eyes. And they'd never seen the dogs before. The doctor never
Speaker:had. So the doctor took the little puppy down to Delhi,
Speaker:India, to a dog show, and they didn't
Speaker:know what to do, what to name it, so they called it
Speaker:a terrier. It's not a terrier, but they named it
Speaker:the Tibetan terrier, sent it back to be bred
Speaker:again, to come back as a purebred. So in
Speaker:29, I believe it became the pure breed
Speaker:in the world. And then two women in
Speaker:London area started
Speaker:breeding them and it still stayed pretty quiet
Speaker:under the radar. It started being more popular in Europe and has
Speaker:remained very popular in Europe. And then the
Speaker:first one landed in America in Great Falls,
Speaker:Virginia, in 1955, not
Speaker:too far, not too far away from here. And then the
Speaker:oldest Tibetan terrier club is the Mount Vernon, Tibet Interior Club
Speaker:here in our area. And that's sort of the story of
Speaker:it. It says only about 800 born a year in America, I believe.
Speaker:Oh, wow. So that'll be a part of the story as
Speaker:we get into our conversation, because
Speaker:they're somewhat rare and somewhat very special.
Speaker:They're called the Magical Dog of Tibet, and
Speaker:Tibetan people call them little people. Little people.
Speaker:Well, yeah. And I'm so glad we got to meet Tashi. She's so
Speaker:pretty. So tell me, Philip, what
Speaker:inspired you to write a children's book? I mean, you've been working with
Speaker:adults in business all your life, right?
Speaker:And somebody asked me the other day in an interview,
Speaker:we didn't have children ourselves. We've got a lot that we look after and take
Speaker:care of in our extended family. But Donna and I never had
Speaker:children, and yet I was one.
Speaker:So even though we didn't have them ourselves, I was as
Speaker:a young boy, I had a little dog, and then later I had a dogs.
Speaker:But it dawned on me
Speaker:when Donna and I began, we got Sashi, and I
Speaker:want to tell you a little about so, Sashi, for those of you
Speaker:that haven't, this is
Speaker:sashi is black and white Tibetan
Speaker:terrier. So this was our first dog. We got her in 2012.
Speaker:And this
Speaker:was sort of the background of the book
Speaker:because we got her at six months old.
Speaker:And the woman that we got her from was planning to
Speaker:show her Sashi's mother and brother in
Speaker:Russia on the dog circuit and the show circuit. So she
Speaker:was really being prepared to be a real show dog around the
Speaker:world. And the woman decided that maybe she wasn't quite big
Speaker:enough and that she would let us buy her. So we got
Speaker:Sashi, but we got her at six months old, so
Speaker:that's like, she hadn't been around humans or hadn't been around other
Speaker:dogs for taking a four year old home from the hospital or
Speaker:something. We missed all of that early development,
Speaker:nurturing and caring. So we started a lot of
Speaker:training and remedial work and it developed little Sashi
Speaker:into a wonderful sort of like the daughter I never had. And
Speaker:so it was quite a
Speaker:father daughter relationship. And then, as I
Speaker:said, the breed lives to about
Speaker:18 or 19 years old. So out of all the dog breeds, it's one of
Speaker:the longest living breeds of all. And
Speaker:then, surprisingly
Speaker:sadly, Sashi got Lymphoma
Speaker:and at eight years old. So we went through
Speaker:prayer and counseling and what to do and started a lot of
Speaker:oncology treatments. But
Speaker:she didn't make it and we've all
Speaker:had a lot of your listeners. We've all had pets and all, but it was
Speaker:just the premature death when I had planned on her
Speaker:living so much longer and to have her pass
Speaker:away at eight, it just rocked my
Speaker:world. Devastating. Yeah. So that's the background,
Speaker:is that I began to think that losing
Speaker:Sashi and then was going through the
Speaker:whole grieving process. I'd hired a grief
Speaker:counselor. This was all during the COVID period. So we were all
Speaker:working remotely and trying, but struggling.
Speaker:And I was struggling. And
Speaker:Donna had reached out to several breeders,
Speaker:and as I mentioned, there's only about 800 born a year, so you have
Speaker:to get on a waiting list. And it was like months before we would
Speaker:really be thinking about getting another dog. And
Speaker:I didn't know how soon the timing, what's the right
Speaker:time, but as God sort of stepped
Speaker:in and felt that we needed
Speaker:to fill that hole up a little bit. So
Speaker:Tashi became about came to us because of a
Speaker:cancellation a family had ordered and then had
Speaker:some situations in their family, and they needed to cancel
Speaker:their order. So the breeder reached out to Donna and
Speaker:we got Tashi a month after Sashi's passing.
Speaker:Oh, my gosh. It was during that time that I began
Speaker:to think, here I had an eight year old that had just passed
Speaker:away, and now I had a nine week old.
Speaker:And literally one night, Wendy, I thought it was
Speaker:almost like I could hear Sashi speaking to me
Speaker:late at night. She said,
Speaker:I'll help you. And so it was like the
Speaker:spirit and the guidance of Sashi
Speaker:was reaching down and saying, well, I'll help you with this little
Speaker:puppy. So that's the beginning. And then I
Speaker:started thinking, well, what a little puppy could learn from an eight year old
Speaker:is the same one thing, I think what a little boy and little girl can
Speaker:learn. And so I had a couple of folks
Speaker:that had followed me on Facebook for
Speaker:years, and they said, you always write some uplifting
Speaker:posts and encourage folks, and you're very positive.
Speaker:But several of them said, I think you need to write something about
Speaker:your dogs all came together. And
Speaker:that's how it came about. Yeah.
Speaker:And it was fun. Following the development of this, philip, as you
Speaker:were putting the book together, you created something you called
Speaker:The Tashi Chronicles, the website you said will be up in
Speaker:July. But
Speaker:following you on Facebook, I kept seeing Tashi
Speaker:talking to us about what she's doing and her experiences.
Speaker:And it was really so much fun to watch that.
Speaker:As we started the show, I said, what have people learned
Speaker:from their pets? So my question to you is, what have you learned
Speaker:from having Sashi and Tashi?
Speaker:Well, so many times we see in
Speaker:mailings, we've all seen the plaques about
Speaker:unconditional love. We see what it's like.
Speaker:People talk about regardless of how bad their
Speaker:day is, they come home and they're greeted by a dogs who sort of
Speaker:loves you regardless. And I've got one
Speaker:of my most precious gifts a family gave to
Speaker:me that said, be the man that your
Speaker:dog thinks you are. And
Speaker:there's a lot to that. There's a lot to that. Yeah. Dogs,
Speaker:definitely. Cats, not so much. My focus outside
Speaker:of cats or something else, my focus is about dogs.
Speaker:And what I began to think about is
Speaker:we can learn a lot. We watch them develop.
Speaker:We watch the Tibetan terrier has a stubborn
Speaker:streak, so I have to learn if I've got a stubborn streak,
Speaker:and I've been told I do, there's a controlling. There's a lot of
Speaker:aspects that we have in our own development that
Speaker:carry over and how you correct them and how you
Speaker:train and how you work with those behavioral
Speaker:aspects I think, can apply
Speaker:to people as well. Yeah, I think so,
Speaker:too. So I'm curious, Philip. I
Speaker:mean, writing a book, it's one thing to write a blog or
Speaker:a post on Facebook, but writing a book, that's a big
Speaker:endeavor. Can you talk me through, from
Speaker:the beginning, kind of how you even
Speaker:got started and how you found a publisher and your fabulous
Speaker:graphic person? Illustrator. The illustrator
Speaker:people are just I'll take them in that order.
Speaker:Is that I've been told or been asked
Speaker:over my years in business and consulting,
Speaker:I've always had a passion for leadership and leadership
Speaker:development, and a lot of people had encouraged me to write a
Speaker:book about leadership. But there are thousands and tens
Speaker:of thousands of books written every year on leadership that I just
Speaker:didn't feel inclined to sort of get thrown into that
Speaker:mix until this dogs story came
Speaker:along. And all of a sudden, I began to think
Speaker:that there's a segment
Speaker:of children, and I
Speaker:reflected back on my Boy Scout days. So what I learned
Speaker:as a Boy Scout of the Scout Law
Speaker:of trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly,
Speaker:courteous, kind, obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave,
Speaker:clean, and reverent the twelve tenets of the Scout Law
Speaker:began to weave into this book because
Speaker:most of those are things that I needed this puppy to learn.
Speaker:And then I had learned them 60 years
Speaker:ago. So I started bringing them together.
Speaker:And a friend of mine who
Speaker:has been a friend now for 50 years
Speaker:introduced me. He's a writer and does some
Speaker:motivation speaking, and so he introduced me
Speaker:to Tracy Jones, the CEO of Tremendous Life
Speaker:Book. And so instead of being self published, which
Speaker:is very popular right now, I was blessed and
Speaker:so fortunate to have a publisher put
Speaker:me under their wing for Tremendous Life Book.
Speaker:So I have them to
Speaker:thank, and then they provide. And didn't you tell me I'm sorry
Speaker:to interrupt you, but didn't you tell me that you first submitted a draft to
Speaker:them and they're like, no, you got to redo.
Speaker:This all began in June of
Speaker:2021. So everybody thinks back where we were with COVID
Speaker:and where we were coming out of all of this and dealing with
Speaker:a new way of living and getting along. So all of this
Speaker:I meet the publisher and their staff at
Speaker:Tremendous Life Books in June of 2021.
Speaker:And by this time I had been
Speaker:writing what I thought was going
Speaker:to be something. I was very proud of it and it was a
Speaker:whole story. That a lot of what I'm referencing
Speaker:here. I was describing what Tashi was telling the story
Speaker:and Tashi was describing what she had been learning.
Speaker:And I sent this like 4000 words or something to the
Speaker:publisher and we arranged this zoom call
Speaker:and they got on the phone with me and just destroyed it all. They
Speaker:tore it all up and it was a little
Speaker:discouraging. Yeah, I bet it was.
Speaker:So one of the lessons I learned is that just like what Tashi
Speaker:learns to be patient and persevere, I
Speaker:had to back up and regroup. Now, not only did they
Speaker:send me back to the drawing board, but they did provide the guidance.
Speaker:So they said a couple of things. They said,
Speaker:you need some adventure. You're teaching good things, but children
Speaker:won't read it, but they won't be interested in it.
Speaker:So lo and behold, Donna's cousin came up with the idea one day.
Speaker:She called and she said I think these two dogs are on a magic carpet.
Speaker:Or maybe they're on an eagle, the wings of an eagle. Oh, she said that
Speaker:that's how the eagle came. Because the
Speaker:first thing I wrote though, that the dogs were right here just thinking
Speaker:about where they came from and all of a sudden the eagle is
Speaker:going to transport them magically to Tibet. So everything
Speaker:is said in Tibet. Whereas the whole first draft
Speaker:was Tashi learning here locally about what and
Speaker:thinking about where they have come from. But
Speaker:no, going to Tibet, which is. Such a beautiful part
Speaker:of the story, Philip, because not only are you teaching some of these life
Speaker:lessons, leadership lessons, but you're also giving kids an insight
Speaker:into life in Tibet, which is such a
Speaker:foreign place. They would never have that. I've had more people
Speaker:now, this is just the 6th week that since the book launched on
Speaker:Amazon, it's setting all kinds of records. I'm just
Speaker:touched and barely astonished, but in the
Speaker:response, the feedback that I'm hearing, many take from the
Speaker:lessons that they can teach their grandchildren or
Speaker:themselves. But I'm hearing also second to
Speaker:these little lessons and tips for life lessons.
Speaker:I'm hearing about people learning about another magical part of
Speaker:the world. So they learn about a new
Speaker:breed of dogs. They learn about a culture of people
Speaker:up in the Himalayas. And then the colors. There's something about
Speaker:the colors that come to life
Speaker:up in that part of the world. Have made it
Speaker:all very special. And then your question about the
Speaker:illustrator. So the crowning part of this, and
Speaker:I'd be glad to talk with any of your listeners later
Speaker:about I reached out through a new platform called
Speaker:Upwork, where I pushed out that I was looking for
Speaker:an illustrator and said I
Speaker:envisioned about 25 illustrations and described I was thinking
Speaker:about watercolors. I had about 40 responses in an
Speaker:hour from all over the world. And I began to interview them,
Speaker:and I began to get down to finalists, and I sent
Speaker:pictures to three finalists of Sashi and Tashi. I
Speaker:said, it's very important that you be able to draw
Speaker:and paint the dogs as they are, because the Tibetan terrier is
Speaker:a very unique look. And I found a young woman, 26 years
Speaker:old, in Loveland, Poland. And so we
Speaker:have developed a wonderful friendship over
Speaker:2000, corresponding back and forth over
Speaker:2000 times. There's now 60 illustrations
Speaker:in the book of watercolors, and people are wanting
Speaker:to buy just the illustrations now. I'm telling you, it's absolutely
Speaker:gorgeous. The Tales From
Speaker:Tibet story I think anybody
Speaker:that has a grandchild from, I don't know what,
Speaker:Philip, maybe from age five up to about twelve, we
Speaker:spoke. To 55 1st graders in DC. Took Tashi
Speaker:and Donna and I downtown, and they were
Speaker:like six years old. They were tons of questions,
Speaker:but it's really designed by seven to twelve, something about that
Speaker:age group, but some six years old. They're really picking up on
Speaker:it. Here's another
Speaker:example for those of you. The pictures are gorgeous,
Speaker:absolutely gorgeous.
Speaker:I think the other thing is, you have the lessons
Speaker:titled but there's More than just a
Speaker:lesson in each chapter. So
Speaker:you might say it starts with trust or being courageous or
Speaker:perseverance, but that's not the only lesson in that chapter.
Speaker:And I feel like if my grandchildren were still young
Speaker:enough they're teenagers, they know everything now.
Speaker:But if they were still young enough, I could read
Speaker:one chapter and we could have a discussion
Speaker:for days, really, about some of the things that you
Speaker:talk about in that chapter. It's wonderful to hear that from you, Wendy. I'm
Speaker:hearing that from all over. That just one chapter. And people are getting a lot
Speaker:of conversations out of it among their family.
Speaker:And the illustrations by themselves are
Speaker:giving people a lot to talk about. And
Speaker:when we spoke to this first graders, they were
Speaker:raising hands, saying they said, is it real? They saw
Speaker:these illustrations and they began to think that they really had gotten
Speaker:on the wings of an eagle and flush. It just made it come
Speaker:to life. And over and over again, these
Speaker:little first graders said, how did the
Speaker:artists make them look so realistic? So
Speaker:it's really been a joy. It was a good, a
Speaker:good motivation of the two of you. You know, she made it
Speaker:look real, but you gave them, you gave their
Speaker:personalities. You know, you brought that out and you made them real,
Speaker:too. And little
Speaker:Tasha, you could see her getting frustrated, like when she's trying to cross
Speaker:this log, and she's like, I just want to make it easy.
Speaker:I just want to do it.
Speaker:Let's take that story just for a moment. That's my favorite chapter.
Speaker:And when they try to cross this stream and so
Speaker:Tashi has seen think of this, of those
Speaker:listeners we've all had other people at our age, they
Speaker:do better, that made better. They were more successful in
Speaker:business. There were something and we compare ourselves
Speaker:and we shouldn't, but it's just human nature. It's the same
Speaker:way with Tashi. Tashi remembers dogs that she had seen
Speaker:that could be more agile. They could go across the logs. They were
Speaker:faster. They could jump higher. And so that was a little frustrating.
Speaker:She tried to get across the log and falls in the water. So
Speaker:she had to not only see that she wasn't as adept
Speaker:and athletic as some of her friends back home, but
Speaker:she had to get back up and try it again. So that lesson
Speaker:there means that it's natural to compare ourselves to
Speaker:others. She had to learn not to do that, that she was
Speaker:unique. Second is that she fell in the water,
Speaker:and that was disappointing. So now she had a little pride to deal with,
Speaker:and she had to get back up. There you go. She had to get
Speaker:back up and try it again. And then they had
Speaker:to practice. So there's a chapter just on
Speaker:practicing, even beyond the disappointment
Speaker:and the persevering. Now they practice. And here's something that
Speaker:we found. Wendy, you remember this from your coaching business. A lot
Speaker:of times today in business, we forget to celebrate.
Speaker:We get on to the next project, or we finish up on
Speaker:budget or whatever the metrics are that are driving us. But
Speaker:teams are forgetting to celebrate. So I added a
Speaker:separate section on that chapter. When the two dogs are able
Speaker:to get across the stream on the log,
Speaker:they had to pause for a minute. It's sort of giving thanks.
Speaker:It's being grateful, but it's celebrating. So they could just
Speaker:celebrate for the moment and then get on with their journey. And
Speaker:that's what I love about this book, Philip. I mean, you've brought
Speaker:in lessons that we've learned in our 70
Speaker:years. You've brought in lessons that you learned as a Scout.
Speaker:And in just that one chapter, there's
Speaker:perseverance and there's not comparing yourself, and there's celebration
Speaker:and there's practice. How exciting is this?
Speaker:Thank you, Wendy. Thank you. Yeah. So you're getting ready to do this
Speaker:website, The Tashi Chronicles. What is that going to
Speaker:involve? Well, it's
Speaker:going to be an umbrella. The Tashi chronicles. I encourage
Speaker:any of your listeners on my Facebook,
Speaker:on my personal Facebook, you can find The Tashi Chronicles.
Speaker:And we're doing about 50 episodes to date
Speaker:on the tashi Chronicles and that will begin
Speaker:to be the next series of book. So there's going to be
Speaker:the stories of more adventures of Tashi and
Speaker:Sashi under the umbrella of the Tashi
Speaker:Chronicles. So Tales from Tibet is really the
Speaker:first offering of the
Speaker:Tashi Chronicles. So there will be another book that we'll
Speaker:be proceeding with in the near
Speaker:future. And then there are sort of speaking engagements
Speaker:and things. Some people want to come in and speak to their teams
Speaker:using the book sort of as a leadership tool
Speaker:in business. So in business
Speaker:just as you were, so astute to capture it.
Speaker:Again, what we've learned from dogs we can apply to
Speaker:our teams, we can apply to our small groups.
Speaker:So several organizations I'm in
Speaker:conversation with to come in almost as a speaker there in a
Speaker:leadership consulting, but wrapping it around, learning from the dogs
Speaker:and learning from what? These two and the eagle, the eagle
Speaker:again, the wise eagle flying overhead. There's a lot of
Speaker:imagery when you think about that,
Speaker:the eagle of
Speaker:being able to watch over them. And we all probably have
Speaker:somebody in our life that is sort of watching over
Speaker:us or we have an entity that sort
Speaker:of we look toward to sort of give us the guidance. And that's
Speaker:again, the symbolism of the eagle in our life that
Speaker:is sort of always present and always there,
Speaker:keeping us okay. So
Speaker:the Tashi Chronicles is going to become the
Speaker:ongoing, like I say, the umbrella under which these
Speaker:different things will be included.
Speaker:Yeah. So you all follow Philip on Facebook.
Speaker:I will put your link to that in the show notes too. So
Speaker:what inspires you or motivates you every day? Philip
Speaker:well, you've known me now twelve years and it's
Speaker:always a quest of being better. I guess I
Speaker:follow it's like a lot of some of your presenters
Speaker:and guest speakers have all been about being a continuous
Speaker:learner. I can reinforce
Speaker:what a lot of your presenters and
Speaker:guest speakers have talked about never
Speaker:being too old to learn, being hungry to learn,
Speaker:staying curious. These are again chapters in the book,
Speaker:but they apply to us. I'm 72 now,
Speaker:so to be able to do this at 72,
Speaker:that by itself is a story that you can let others know
Speaker:that you're never too. Old to write
Speaker:a children's book. You're never told to write a children's book.
Speaker:I'm at a point in my life, I guess that season I've heard some of
Speaker:your presenters talk about their seasons of life and I'm
Speaker:in a more of a giving back, more serving
Speaker:than continuing to try to sharpen the I'm not trying to sharpen the
Speaker:saw and as much as I once
Speaker:did but it was pretty much my
Speaker:mantra for years. It's just to continue living every day to the
Speaker:fullest, trying to become
Speaker:better in every aspect of my life.
Speaker:And so I've been big on trying to hone my strengths and
Speaker:working on my weaknesses and shortcomings.
Speaker:I've had years of working that, and now I'm at a
Speaker:chapter where I do feel called to
Speaker:be serving and giving back more. So I think that's the
Speaker:next part of this. I appreciate that. Although I
Speaker:have always seen you as a servant leader. Thank you.
Speaker:Yeah. So you've always also been a
Speaker:coach. In fact, you coached me for a while, so you've always
Speaker:been a coach and an advisor. I wonder if there has been
Speaker:someone in your life that has given you some advice that has been
Speaker:your coach and advisor. It's
Speaker:so wonderful. Yes. I mentioned earlier in our interview
Speaker:that the gentleman who I've known
Speaker:for 51 years now was my first
Speaker:manager in college. I've worked during the summers.
Speaker:I sold Bibles with the Southwestern Company from Nashville,
Speaker:Tennessee. I sold Bibles door to door. That had to
Speaker:be hard. It was hard. It's hard one
Speaker:summer. So you don't quit. You
Speaker:learn about perseverance. You learn a whole lot going door to
Speaker:door. I've heard a lot of no and dealt with a lot of
Speaker:rejection. But to learn it at 17 I started
Speaker:when I was 18, and then it was
Speaker:crazy to do it one summer, but I did it for
Speaker:six summers. Oh, my. So I did it through college and
Speaker:up through graduate school and recruited students at
Speaker:15 other colleges. So at at 20
Speaker:years old, I was under this tutelage of a gentleman
Speaker:by the name of David Dean.
Speaker:If I had to think of, probably the first mentor in my
Speaker:life was David Dean, who I met when I was a
Speaker:sophomore in college. And we've remained friends now for 51
Speaker:years. That's wonderful. And
Speaker:he was the inspiration that said, look, he said, you need
Speaker:to write a book. And he's the one that introduced me he's the one that
Speaker:introduced me to tremendous life books. I think he's
Speaker:listening too. I think I saw him. Oh, my God. David, if
Speaker:you're on, leave us a comment. Let us know you're
Speaker:here. Yeah. So that's beautiful to have had that
Speaker:in your life, somebody that you're still friends with 51 years later.
Speaker:I've had coaches second to that. I think my coaches I had a
Speaker:couple of good coaches in high school and my scout master,
Speaker:I mentioned some of those really stand out
Speaker:as men that were really guiding me
Speaker:and inspiring me over the years. Yeah.
Speaker:So looking back over the last couple of years,
Speaker:losing Sashi, being inspired to write this
Speaker:book, writing it and seeing it in print now,
Speaker:what advice or what takeaways would you leave for people
Speaker:listening to the show?
Speaker:Well, it's
Speaker:the it's never as we've said, it's never too late.
Speaker:This was a labor of love that what it
Speaker:resulted in was not what it set out to
Speaker:be. So I had a
Speaker:tendency for the first time in my life, I believe in. Some of the
Speaker:covey principles of sort of beginning with the end in mind.
Speaker:But in this case, I didn't know what the end would be. I was just
Speaker:writing from my heart. So I encourage any of
Speaker:your listeners to just
Speaker:start somewhere. Start I did find
Speaker:great solace in writing things
Speaker:down. Again,
Speaker:you can record things. I recorded a
Speaker:lot of the book by walking around and
Speaker:just talking into this. There's a record app that
Speaker:then it sends it over to India and it was transcribed
Speaker:and sent back to me in the next 10 hours. So
Speaker:there's so many tools that we have now to take thoughts out of
Speaker:our head, get them down on paper, and I
Speaker:encourage all of your listeners and viewers to just try
Speaker:that. It may coming out of that, it might see both
Speaker:a writing desire. There could be some poetry, there could
Speaker:be some painting. This illustration
Speaker:thing, what I saw with this young
Speaker:woman who had never painted, a dog, who
Speaker:had never dealt write me
Speaker:2000 interactions
Speaker:using the WhatsApp we live by, WhatsApp
Speaker:and imagine. So she had proposed 25
Speaker:illustrations and we end up with 60 illustrations. And all of
Speaker:them are more grand than she had ever dreamt. So this
Speaker:exceeded her dreams. So the message
Speaker:here is the dreams are
Speaker:there. It's like let it flow, let it
Speaker:open up. Don't put any lid on anything
Speaker:because you just don't know. And just allow
Speaker:it to grow and
Speaker:open up. Never did I dream that this book would
Speaker:be what it looks like. Yeah,
Speaker:I had an idea once. I'd been living with it for two years. But
Speaker:until I'm holding it and then I'm seeing the
Speaker:60 illustrations all together in this beautifully bound
Speaker:cover, it's only that moment that I
Speaker:realized that we had something here. Up until then,
Speaker:I knew I was excited about it, but I just
Speaker:say the lessons are just reach out
Speaker:there, keep thinking of something to touch and be
Speaker:thinking about who you can impact. I
Speaker:just kept thinking, if I was a little boy, I would love
Speaker:this. So it ended up it never was really what
Speaker:I was writing. It was more what I was reading.
Speaker:It was the gift you were giving to young Philip. So I was thinking,
Speaker:this is what I wish I'd had.
Speaker:I wish that Donna and I had had this book
Speaker:when we were starting out. So it's like it was
Speaker:reverse. I never once remembered saying,
Speaker:this is what I think you should know. It was more, this is what I
Speaker:wish I had learned how I was learning it.
Speaker:Yeah. It was different
Speaker:than me describing to a
Speaker:reader what I think they should be learning. But when
Speaker:they're hearing it from the dogs, it all comes
Speaker:together. And the publisher said that the
Speaker:editor said that they're not going to listen to me, but they will
Speaker:listen to these dogs. That's right. Saying to us.
Speaker:There's a message right there. Great
Speaker:takeaways, great. Your enthusiasm, Philip, is
Speaker:just so contagious. I love that. I love that
Speaker:you came onto the show to share the Tales from Tibet
Speaker:with us. Anybody that has grandkids that are in
Speaker:the six to twelve year old age group,
Speaker:I highly recommend it. You will love the images, you
Speaker:will love the stories and the conversations this will bring
Speaker:to your kids. Let me show people
Speaker:how they can reach out to you. So if you have specific questions for
Speaker:Philip, he is graciously saying you can email him at
Speaker:pmartin@vtashicronicles.com.
Speaker:And if you'd like to follow him on Facebook so that you'll know when the
Speaker:Tashychronicles website is available, you can follow
Speaker:him at Philip Lawrencemartin on
Speaker:Facebook.com. So check him out.
Speaker:He's one of my dear friends. Wendy can I add one more thing?
Speaker:Sure. For your listeners, one thing
Speaker:that I wanted to remind them of, that
Speaker:Amazon has this category, Children Mindfulness,
Speaker:and the Tales from Tibet has remained at the
Speaker:top of that category for the first six weeks that it's been
Speaker:launched. And that's really unheard of.
Speaker:So there's a category, Children Mindfulness
Speaker:and Think about that topic.
Speaker:That phrase, Children mindfulness applies to a lot of what
Speaker:we've been discussing through our whole interview together. But this
Speaker:category on Amazon has kept Tales from Tibet really at
Speaker:the top of that. I saw the other day that people in
Speaker:14 countries have already bought copies of Tales
Speaker:from Tibet. So we're really getting some momentum
Speaker:and some visibility. Well, congratulations,
Speaker:Philip. No, today helps a lot,
Speaker:so we're getting the word out. Wendy well,
Speaker:congratulations for putting together such a beautiful book
Speaker:and sharing it with us. Okay,
Speaker:so next Monday is July
Speaker:3, and so I will not be doing a show
Speaker:because it's right before the fourth and people will be traveling, so I
Speaker:won't be doing a show then. And then the following Monday, July
Speaker:10, I will be on the Wind Jammer
Speaker:Cruise with my grandson Alex. That's a
Speaker:Road Scholar trip, so we will not be able to
Speaker:do a show from there. But on the 17th, July
Speaker:17, I'm going to do a solo show and I'm going to talk about
Speaker:transitions and some of the making
Speaker:sense of some of the changes that we go through in life and the difference,
Speaker:as I see it, between changes and transitions. So
Speaker:stay tuned for that. That's going to be July 17.
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Speaker:Hayboomer four one three. To join all of that will
Speaker:be in the show notes. Thanks,
Speaker:Philip. Thank you. So Wendy. Yeah. I'd like to
Speaker:always leave the audience with the belief that we can all live with
Speaker:courage, live with relevance and live with
Speaker:cure curiosity. And remember that we are never
Speaker:too old to set another goal or dream a
Speaker:new dream. My name is Wendy Green
Speaker:with Philip Martin and this spin hay