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Hello and welcome to hey, Boomer, the show. For those

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of us who believe that we are never too old to set another

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goal or dream a new dream. My name is Wendy Green,

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and I am your host for Hay Boomer. And I

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have a question for those of you who have pets.

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Have you ever learned any lessons from your

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pets? Now, I have to tell you about my cat,

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Pepper. She's very smart. And Pepper, I have

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trained her to be able to shake paws, shake

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hands, and occasionally she'll

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lie down and sometimes she'll give me some sugar for a treat.

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So I'm very proud of Pepper, and

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people say cats can't learn, but definitely she does. But

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what about dogs? Dogs are easily trained, right? People train

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their dogs to do all kinds of things. But my question is

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really, what have you learned from your

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pets? So when I was young, we

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had a sheep dog. His name was Curly. And

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Curly taught us about safety and

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emotions and how to play. I mean, he was

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really an amazing dog. I think he was a human in a dog's body.

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But Pepper teaches me to stop

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work. I can sit there in front of my computer for way

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too long, and she'll come in, she'll bring a toy, or she'll jump up on

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the desk, or she'll jump up on my lap and say, mama, I need some

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time. And it reminds me I need to get up and walk

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away. So there are things that we can learn from our

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pets. In the book, we're going to talk about today

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tales from Tibet. Little Tashi

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learns many lessons that are shared with the

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reader. Typically, life a seven to twelve year old.

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But I want to know from Philip Martin, my guest, what he

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show notes. All right, looks like we have a

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great audience, Philip, so let me bring you on. Hello,

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Philip. Hello, Wendy.

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So let me do a brief introduction. Okay,

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so I want to start by saying that Philip is my friend. We

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met in Northern Virginia when I was living in

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Leesburg and both of us were in the Rotary Club.

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I know Philip to be a can do type of person, full

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of enthusiasm and optimism.

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Professionally, Philip has extensive experience in

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executive coaching and as a management consultant. He

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also has 50 plus years of sales experience from hands

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on selling to training and coaching.

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Philip is a native of Nashville, Tennessee.

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He received his BA from Birmingham Southern

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College and then his MBA from Owen School of

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Management at Vanderbilt University. He and his

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beautiful wife Donna live in Ashburn, Virginia, with

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Tashi, their Tibetan terrier, who is featured

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in his new children's book, gorgeous book, Tales

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from Tibet. Philip, do you have Tashi with you today?

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Wendy? I do. Oh, let's meet little Tashi for

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just a moment.

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Oh, my goodness. Look at that face.

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Tashi, you are a star. A star of the book.

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This is Tashi, two and a half year old Tibetan terrier.

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Everyone tell me about the Tibetan terrier

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breed. Oh, it's wonderful. It's a pretty hidden

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breed out of about 140 plus breeds of

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dogs. It was only sort of stayed up in the

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Himalayas for several thousand years with the Buddhist

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monks. And it was only discovered in

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1926 by a British doctor.

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A woman doctor treated a Tibetan family and

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they gave the Doctor who loved dogs, they gave the woman

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doctor a puppy. And it was a

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strange looking breed with the hair down. You see them in the dog

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shows, the hair hanging down and couldn't see her or the

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eyes. And they'd never seen the dogs before. The doctor never

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had. So the doctor took the little puppy down to Delhi,

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India, to a dog show, and they didn't

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know what to do, what to name it, so they called it

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a terrier. It's not a terrier, but they named it

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the Tibetan terrier, sent it back to be bred

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again, to come back as a purebred. So in

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29, I believe it became the pure breed

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in the world. And then two women in

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London area started

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breeding them and it still stayed pretty quiet

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under the radar. It started being more popular in Europe and has

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remained very popular in Europe. And then the

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first one landed in America in Great Falls,

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Virginia, in 1955, not

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too far, not too far away from here. And then the

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oldest Tibetan terrier club is the Mount Vernon, Tibet Interior Club

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here in our area. And that's sort of the story of

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it. It says only about 800 born a year in America, I believe.

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Oh, wow. So that'll be a part of the story as

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we get into our conversation, because

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they're somewhat rare and somewhat very special.

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They're called the Magical Dog of Tibet, and

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Tibetan people call them little people. Little people.

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Well, yeah. And I'm so glad we got to meet Tashi. She's so

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pretty. So tell me, Philip, what

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inspired you to write a children's book? I mean, you've been working with

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adults in business all your life, right?

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And somebody asked me the other day in an interview,

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we didn't have children ourselves. We've got a lot that we look after and take

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care of in our extended family. But Donna and I never had

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children, and yet I was one.

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So even though we didn't have them ourselves, I was as

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a young boy, I had a little dog, and then later I had a dogs.

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But it dawned on me

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when Donna and I began, we got Sashi, and I

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want to tell you a little about so, Sashi, for those of you

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that haven't, this is

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sashi is black and white Tibetan

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terrier. So this was our first dog. We got her in 2012.

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And this

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was sort of the background of the book

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because we got her at six months old.

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And the woman that we got her from was planning to

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show her Sashi's mother and brother in

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Russia on the dog circuit and the show circuit. So she

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was really being prepared to be a real show dog around the

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world. And the woman decided that maybe she wasn't quite big

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enough and that she would let us buy her. So we got

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Sashi, but we got her at six months old, so

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that's like, she hadn't been around humans or hadn't been around other

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dogs for taking a four year old home from the hospital or

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something. We missed all of that early development,

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nurturing and caring. So we started a lot of

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training and remedial work and it developed little Sashi

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into a wonderful sort of like the daughter I never had. And

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so it was quite a

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father daughter relationship. And then, as I

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said, the breed lives to about

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18 or 19 years old. So out of all the dog breeds, it's one of

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the longest living breeds of all. And

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then, surprisingly

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sadly, Sashi got Lymphoma

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and at eight years old. So we went through

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prayer and counseling and what to do and started a lot of

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oncology treatments. But

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she didn't make it and we've all

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had a lot of your listeners. We've all had pets and all, but it was

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just the premature death when I had planned on her

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living so much longer and to have her pass

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away at eight, it just rocked my

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world. Devastating. Yeah. So that's the background,

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is that I began to think that losing

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Sashi and then was going through the

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whole grieving process. I'd hired a grief

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counselor. This was all during the COVID period. So we were all

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working remotely and trying, but struggling.

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And I was struggling. And

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Donna had reached out to several breeders,

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and as I mentioned, there's only about 800 born a year, so you have

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to get on a waiting list. And it was like months before we would

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really be thinking about getting another dog. And

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I didn't know how soon the timing, what's the right

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time, but as God sort of stepped

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in and felt that we needed

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to fill that hole up a little bit. So

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Tashi became about came to us because of a

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cancellation a family had ordered and then had

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some situations in their family, and they needed to cancel

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their order. So the breeder reached out to Donna and

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we got Tashi a month after Sashi's passing.

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Oh, my gosh. It was during that time that I began

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to think, here I had an eight year old that had just passed

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away, and now I had a nine week old.

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And literally one night, Wendy, I thought it was

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almost like I could hear Sashi speaking to me

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late at night. She said,

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I'll help you. And so it was like the

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spirit and the guidance of Sashi

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was reaching down and saying, well, I'll help you with this little

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puppy. So that's the beginning. And then I

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started thinking, well, what a little puppy could learn from an eight year old

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is the same one thing, I think what a little boy and little girl can

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learn. And so I had a couple of folks

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that had followed me on Facebook for

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years, and they said, you always write some uplifting

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posts and encourage folks, and you're very positive.

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But several of them said, I think you need to write something about

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your dogs all came together. And

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that's how it came about. Yeah.

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And it was fun. Following the development of this, philip, as you

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were putting the book together, you created something you called

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The Tashi Chronicles, the website you said will be up in

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July. But

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following you on Facebook, I kept seeing Tashi

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talking to us about what she's doing and her experiences.

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And it was really so much fun to watch that.

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As we started the show, I said, what have people learned

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from their pets? So my question to you is, what have you learned

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from having Sashi and Tashi?

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Well, so many times we see in

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mailings, we've all seen the plaques about

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unconditional love. We see what it's like.

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People talk about regardless of how bad their

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day is, they come home and they're greeted by a dogs who sort of

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loves you regardless. And I've got one

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of my most precious gifts a family gave to

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me that said, be the man that your

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dog thinks you are. And

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there's a lot to that. There's a lot to that. Yeah. Dogs,

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definitely. Cats, not so much. My focus outside

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of cats or something else, my focus is about dogs.

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And what I began to think about is

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we can learn a lot. We watch them develop.

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We watch the Tibetan terrier has a stubborn

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streak, so I have to learn if I've got a stubborn streak,

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and I've been told I do, there's a controlling. There's a lot of

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aspects that we have in our own development that

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carry over and how you correct them and how you

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train and how you work with those behavioral

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aspects I think, can apply

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to people as well. Yeah, I think so,

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too. So I'm curious, Philip. I

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mean, writing a book, it's one thing to write a blog or

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a post on Facebook, but writing a book, that's a big

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endeavor. Can you talk me through, from

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the beginning, kind of how you even

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got started and how you found a publisher and your fabulous

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graphic person? Illustrator. The illustrator

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people are just I'll take them in that order.

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Is that I've been told or been asked

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over my years in business and consulting,

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I've always had a passion for leadership and leadership

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development, and a lot of people had encouraged me to write a

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book about leadership. But there are thousands and tens

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of thousands of books written every year on leadership that I just

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didn't feel inclined to sort of get thrown into that

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mix until this dogs story came

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along. And all of a sudden, I began to think

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that there's a segment

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of children, and I

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reflected back on my Boy Scout days. So what I learned

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as a Boy Scout of the Scout Law

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of trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly,

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courteous, kind, obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave,

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clean, and reverent the twelve tenets of the Scout Law

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began to weave into this book because

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most of those are things that I needed this puppy to learn.

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And then I had learned them 60 years

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ago. So I started bringing them together.

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And a friend of mine who

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has been a friend now for 50 years

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introduced me. He's a writer and does some

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motivation speaking, and so he introduced me

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to Tracy Jones, the CEO of Tremendous Life

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Book. And so instead of being self published, which

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is very popular right now, I was blessed and

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so fortunate to have a publisher put

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me under their wing for Tremendous Life Book.

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So I have them to

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thank, and then they provide. And didn't you tell me I'm sorry

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to interrupt you, but didn't you tell me that you first submitted a draft to

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them and they're like, no, you got to redo.

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This all began in June of

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2021. So everybody thinks back where we were with COVID

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and where we were coming out of all of this and dealing with

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a new way of living and getting along. So all of this

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I meet the publisher and their staff at

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Tremendous Life Books in June of 2021.

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And by this time I had been

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writing what I thought was going

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to be something. I was very proud of it and it was a

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whole story. That a lot of what I'm referencing

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here. I was describing what Tashi was telling the story

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and Tashi was describing what she had been learning.

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And I sent this like 4000 words or something to the

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publisher and we arranged this zoom call

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and they got on the phone with me and just destroyed it all. They

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tore it all up and it was a little

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discouraging. Yeah, I bet it was.

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So one of the lessons I learned is that just like what Tashi

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learns to be patient and persevere, I

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had to back up and regroup. Now, not only did they

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send me back to the drawing board, but they did provide the guidance.

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So they said a couple of things. They said,

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you need some adventure. You're teaching good things, but children

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won't read it, but they won't be interested in it.

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So lo and behold, Donna's cousin came up with the idea one day.

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She called and she said I think these two dogs are on a magic carpet.

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Or maybe they're on an eagle, the wings of an eagle. Oh, she said that

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that's how the eagle came. Because the

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first thing I wrote though, that the dogs were right here just thinking

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about where they came from and all of a sudden the eagle is

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going to transport them magically to Tibet. So everything

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is said in Tibet. Whereas the whole first draft

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was Tashi learning here locally about what and

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thinking about where they have come from. But

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no, going to Tibet, which is. Such a beautiful part

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of the story, Philip, because not only are you teaching some of these life

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lessons, leadership lessons, but you're also giving kids an insight

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into life in Tibet, which is such a

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foreign place. They would never have that. I've had more people

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now, this is just the 6th week that since the book launched on

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Amazon, it's setting all kinds of records. I'm just

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touched and barely astonished, but in the

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response, the feedback that I'm hearing, many take from the

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lessons that they can teach their grandchildren or

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themselves. But I'm hearing also second to

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these little lessons and tips for life lessons.

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I'm hearing about people learning about another magical part of

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the world. So they learn about a new

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breed of dogs. They learn about a culture of people

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up in the Himalayas. And then the colors. There's something about

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the colors that come to life

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up in that part of the world. Have made it

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all very special. And then your question about the

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illustrator. So the crowning part of this, and

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I'd be glad to talk with any of your listeners later

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about I reached out through a new platform called

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Upwork, where I pushed out that I was looking for

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an illustrator and said I

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envisioned about 25 illustrations and described I was thinking

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about watercolors. I had about 40 responses in an

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hour from all over the world. And I began to interview them,

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and I began to get down to finalists, and I sent

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pictures to three finalists of Sashi and Tashi. I

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said, it's very important that you be able to draw

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and paint the dogs as they are, because the Tibetan terrier is

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a very unique look. And I found a young woman, 26 years

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old, in Loveland, Poland. And so we

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have developed a wonderful friendship over

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2000, corresponding back and forth over

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2000 times. There's now 60 illustrations

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in the book of watercolors, and people are wanting

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to buy just the illustrations now. I'm telling you, it's absolutely

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gorgeous. The Tales From

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Tibet story I think anybody

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that has a grandchild from, I don't know what,

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Philip, maybe from age five up to about twelve, we

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spoke. To 55 1st graders in DC. Took Tashi

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and Donna and I downtown, and they were

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like six years old. They were tons of questions,

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but it's really designed by seven to twelve, something about that

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age group, but some six years old. They're really picking up on

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it. Here's another

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example for those of you. The pictures are gorgeous,

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absolutely gorgeous.

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I think the other thing is, you have the lessons

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titled but there's More than just a

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lesson in each chapter. So

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you might say it starts with trust or being courageous or

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perseverance, but that's not the only lesson in that chapter.

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And I feel like if my grandchildren were still young

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enough they're teenagers, they know everything now.

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But if they were still young enough, I could read

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one chapter and we could have a discussion

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for days, really, about some of the things that you

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talk about in that chapter. It's wonderful to hear that from you, Wendy. I'm

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hearing that from all over. That just one chapter. And people are getting a lot

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of conversations out of it among their family.

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And the illustrations by themselves are

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giving people a lot to talk about. And

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when we spoke to this first graders, they were

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raising hands, saying they said, is it real? They saw

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these illustrations and they began to think that they really had gotten

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on the wings of an eagle and flush. It just made it come

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to life. And over and over again, these

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little first graders said, how did the

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artists make them look so realistic? So

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it's really been a joy. It was a good, a

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good motivation of the two of you. You know, she made it

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look real, but you gave them, you gave their

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personalities. You know, you brought that out and you made them real,

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too. And little

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Tasha, you could see her getting frustrated, like when she's trying to cross

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this log, and she's like, I just want to make it easy.

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I just want to do it.

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Let's take that story just for a moment. That's my favorite chapter.

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And when they try to cross this stream and so

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Tashi has seen think of this, of those

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listeners we've all had other people at our age, they

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do better, that made better. They were more successful in

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business. There were something and we compare ourselves

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and we shouldn't, but it's just human nature. It's the same

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way with Tashi. Tashi remembers dogs that she had seen

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that could be more agile. They could go across the logs. They were

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faster. They could jump higher. And so that was a little frustrating.

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She tried to get across the log and falls in the water. So

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she had to not only see that she wasn't as adept

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and athletic as some of her friends back home, but

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she had to get back up and try it again. So that lesson

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there means that it's natural to compare ourselves to

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others. She had to learn not to do that, that she was

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unique. Second is that she fell in the water,

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and that was disappointing. So now she had a little pride to deal with,

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and she had to get back up. There you go. She had to get

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back up and try it again. And then they had

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to practice. So there's a chapter just on

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practicing, even beyond the disappointment

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and the persevering. Now they practice. And here's something that

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we found. Wendy, you remember this from your coaching business. A lot

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of times today in business, we forget to celebrate.

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We get on to the next project, or we finish up on

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budget or whatever the metrics are that are driving us. But

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teams are forgetting to celebrate. So I added a

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separate section on that chapter. When the two dogs are able

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to get across the stream on the log,

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they had to pause for a minute. It's sort of giving thanks.

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It's being grateful, but it's celebrating. So they could just

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celebrate for the moment and then get on with their journey. And

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that's what I love about this book, Philip. I mean, you've brought

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in lessons that we've learned in our 70

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years. You've brought in lessons that you learned as a Scout.

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And in just that one chapter, there's

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perseverance and there's not comparing yourself, and there's celebration

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and there's practice. How exciting is this?

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Thank you, Wendy. Thank you. Yeah. So you're getting ready to do this

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website, The Tashi Chronicles. What is that going to

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involve? Well, it's

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going to be an umbrella. The Tashi chronicles. I encourage

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any of your listeners on my Facebook,

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on my personal Facebook, you can find The Tashi Chronicles.

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And we're doing about 50 episodes to date

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on the tashi Chronicles and that will begin

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to be the next series of book. So there's going to be

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the stories of more adventures of Tashi and

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Sashi under the umbrella of the Tashi

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Chronicles. So Tales from Tibet is really the

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first offering of the

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Tashi Chronicles. So there will be another book that we'll

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be proceeding with in the near

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future. And then there are sort of speaking engagements

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and things. Some people want to come in and speak to their teams

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using the book sort of as a leadership tool

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in business. So in business

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just as you were, so astute to capture it.

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Again, what we've learned from dogs we can apply to

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our teams, we can apply to our small groups.

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So several organizations I'm in

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conversation with to come in almost as a speaker there in a

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leadership consulting, but wrapping it around, learning from the dogs

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and learning from what? These two and the eagle, the eagle

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again, the wise eagle flying overhead. There's a lot of

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imagery when you think about that,

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the eagle of

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being able to watch over them. And we all probably have

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somebody in our life that is sort of watching over

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us or we have an entity that sort

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of we look toward to sort of give us the guidance. And that's

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again, the symbolism of the eagle in our life that

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is sort of always present and always there,

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keeping us okay. So

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the Tashi Chronicles is going to become the

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ongoing, like I say, the umbrella under which these

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different things will be included.

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Yeah. So you all follow Philip on Facebook.

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I will put your link to that in the show notes too. So

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what inspires you or motivates you every day? Philip

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well, you've known me now twelve years and it's

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always a quest of being better. I guess I

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follow it's like a lot of some of your presenters

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and guest speakers have all been about being a continuous

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learner. I can reinforce

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what a lot of your presenters and

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guest speakers have talked about never

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being too old to learn, being hungry to learn,

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staying curious. These are again chapters in the book,

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but they apply to us. I'm 72 now,

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so to be able to do this at 72,

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that by itself is a story that you can let others know

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that you're never too. Old to write

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a children's book. You're never told to write a children's book.

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I'm at a point in my life, I guess that season I've heard some of

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your presenters talk about their seasons of life and I'm

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in a more of a giving back, more serving

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than continuing to try to sharpen the I'm not trying to sharpen the

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saw and as much as I once

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did but it was pretty much my

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mantra for years. It's just to continue living every day to the

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fullest, trying to become

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better in every aspect of my life.

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And so I've been big on trying to hone my strengths and

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working on my weaknesses and shortcomings.

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I've had years of working that, and now I'm at a

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chapter where I do feel called to

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be serving and giving back more. So I think that's the

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next part of this. I appreciate that. Although I

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have always seen you as a servant leader. Thank you.

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Yeah. So you've always also been a

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coach. In fact, you coached me for a while, so you've always

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been a coach and an advisor. I wonder if there has been

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someone in your life that has given you some advice that has been

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your coach and advisor. It's

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so wonderful. Yes. I mentioned earlier in our interview

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that the gentleman who I've known

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for 51 years now was my first

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manager in college. I've worked during the summers.

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I sold Bibles with the Southwestern Company from Nashville,

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Tennessee. I sold Bibles door to door. That had to

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be hard. It was hard. It's hard one

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summer. So you don't quit. You

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learn about perseverance. You learn a whole lot going door to

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door. I've heard a lot of no and dealt with a lot of

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rejection. But to learn it at 17 I started

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when I was 18, and then it was

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crazy to do it one summer, but I did it for

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six summers. Oh, my. So I did it through college and

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up through graduate school and recruited students at

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15 other colleges. So at at 20

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years old, I was under this tutelage of a gentleman

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by the name of David Dean.

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If I had to think of, probably the first mentor in my

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life was David Dean, who I met when I was a

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sophomore in college. And we've remained friends now for 51

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years. That's wonderful. And

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he was the inspiration that said, look, he said, you need

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to write a book. And he's the one that introduced me he's the one that

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introduced me to tremendous life books. I think he's

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listening too. I think I saw him. Oh, my God. David, if

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you're on, leave us a comment. Let us know you're

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here. Yeah. So that's beautiful to have had that

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in your life, somebody that you're still friends with 51 years later.

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I've had coaches second to that. I think my coaches I had a

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couple of good coaches in high school and my scout master,

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I mentioned some of those really stand out

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as men that were really guiding me

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and inspiring me over the years. Yeah.

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So looking back over the last couple of years,

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losing Sashi, being inspired to write this

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book, writing it and seeing it in print now,

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what advice or what takeaways would you leave for people

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listening to the show?

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Well, it's

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the it's never as we've said, it's never too late.

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This was a labor of love that what it

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resulted in was not what it set out to

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be. So I had a

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tendency for the first time in my life, I believe in. Some of the

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covey principles of sort of beginning with the end in mind.

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But in this case, I didn't know what the end would be. I was just

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writing from my heart. So I encourage any of

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your listeners to just

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start somewhere. Start I did find

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great solace in writing things

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down. Again,

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you can record things. I recorded a

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lot of the book by walking around and

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just talking into this. There's a record app that

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then it sends it over to India and it was transcribed

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and sent back to me in the next 10 hours. So

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there's so many tools that we have now to take thoughts out of

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our head, get them down on paper, and I

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encourage all of your listeners and viewers to just try

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that. It may coming out of that, it might see both

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a writing desire. There could be some poetry, there could

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be some painting. This illustration

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thing, what I saw with this young

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woman who had never painted, a dog, who

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had never dealt write me

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2000 interactions

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using the WhatsApp we live by, WhatsApp

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and imagine. So she had proposed 25

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illustrations and we end up with 60 illustrations. And all of

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them are more grand than she had ever dreamt. So this

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exceeded her dreams. So the message

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here is the dreams are

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there. It's like let it flow, let it

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open up. Don't put any lid on anything

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because you just don't know. And just allow

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it to grow and

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open up. Never did I dream that this book would

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be what it looks like. Yeah,

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I had an idea once. I'd been living with it for two years. But

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until I'm holding it and then I'm seeing the

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60 illustrations all together in this beautifully bound

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cover, it's only that moment that I

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realized that we had something here. Up until then,

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I knew I was excited about it, but I just

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say the lessons are just reach out

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there, keep thinking of something to touch and be

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thinking about who you can impact. I

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just kept thinking, if I was a little boy, I would love

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this. So it ended up it never was really what

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I was writing. It was more what I was reading.

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It was the gift you were giving to young Philip. So I was thinking,

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this is what I wish I'd had.

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I wish that Donna and I had had this book

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when we were starting out. So it's like it was

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reverse. I never once remembered saying,

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this is what I think you should know. It was more, this is what I

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wish I had learned how I was learning it.

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Yeah. It was different

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than me describing to a

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reader what I think they should be learning. But when

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they're hearing it from the dogs, it all comes

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together. And the publisher said that the

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editor said that they're not going to listen to me, but they will

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listen to these dogs. That's right. Saying to us.

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There's a message right there. Great

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takeaways, great. Your enthusiasm, Philip, is

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just so contagious. I love that. I love that

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you came onto the show to share the Tales from Tibet

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with us. Anybody that has grandkids that are in

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the six to twelve year old age group,

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I highly recommend it. You will love the images, you

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will love the stories and the conversations this will bring

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to your kids. Let me show people

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how they can reach out to you. So if you have specific questions for

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Philip, he is graciously saying you can email him at

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pmartin@vtashicronicles.com.

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And if you'd like to follow him on Facebook so that you'll know when the

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Tashychronicles website is available, you can follow

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him at Philip Lawrencemartin on

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Facebook.com. So check him out.

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He's one of my dear friends. Wendy can I add one more thing?

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Sure. For your listeners, one thing

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that I wanted to remind them of, that

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Amazon has this category, Children Mindfulness,

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and the Tales from Tibet has remained at the

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top of that category for the first six weeks that it's been

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launched. And that's really unheard of.

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So there's a category, Children Mindfulness

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and Think about that topic.

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That phrase, Children mindfulness applies to a lot of what

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we've been discussing through our whole interview together. But this

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category on Amazon has kept Tales from Tibet really at

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the top of that. I saw the other day that people in

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14 countries have already bought copies of Tales

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from Tibet. So we're really getting some momentum

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and some visibility. Well, congratulations,

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Philip. No, today helps a lot,

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so we're getting the word out. Wendy well,

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congratulations for putting together such a beautiful book

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and sharing it with us. Okay,

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so next Monday is July

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3, and so I will not be doing a show

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because it's right before the fourth and people will be traveling, so I

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won't be doing a show then. And then the following Monday, July

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10, I will be on the Wind Jammer

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Cruise with my grandson Alex. That's a

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Road Scholar trip, so we will not be able to

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do a show from there. But on the 17th, July

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17, I'm going to do a solo show and I'm going to talk about

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transitions and some of the making

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sense of some of the changes that we go through in life and the difference,

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as I see it, between changes and transitions. So

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stay tuned for that. That's going to be July 17.

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Philip. Thank you. So Wendy. Yeah. I'd like to

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always leave the audience with the belief that we can all live with

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courage, live with relevance and live with

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cure curiosity. And remember that we are never

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too old to set another goal or dream a

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new dream. My name is Wendy Green

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