Speaker A

Yes, sir.

Speaker A

Hey, we back.

Speaker A

We back.

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Y' all know how we start this thing out.

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Hit it.

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This is the greatest show on air.

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We bring to you dads, friends and.

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Tequila, where dads hang out.

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Friends gather and the tequila flows.

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Lean them ears in kite, because we're.

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Diving into the heart of laughter, stories, and all the unforgettable moments that come with fatherhood and friendship.

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Whether you're tuning in from the comfort.

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Of your couch or on the go, prepare for lively discussions, hilarious anecdotes, and a splash of heartfelt wisdom.

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Shots up.

Speaker A

Get ready.

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Cheers.

Speaker A

Welcome back.

Speaker A

Welcome back, you analyst, to the voices of Junior and Dominique.

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And this is dad's Friends and Tequila, where dads come to hang out.

Speaker A

Friends gather and the tequila flows.

Speaker B

And that gots to flow.

Speaker B

I'm a daddy.

Speaker B

Is you a daddy?

Speaker A

Hey, man, I told you, I've been a dad.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

You know what Jeremy say they call me daddy.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker A

Hey, look, the reason why we started the podcast for us to share our experience of fatherhood and becoming men and also share our palates for the taste of tequila.

Speaker B

Yeah, man.

Speaker B

The whole purpose of the show, why you created this show.

Speaker B

Oh, yeah.

Speaker B

Is a space for men to be mean.

Speaker A

Yep.

Speaker B

Where we can talk how men talk.

Speaker B

We know somebody's out there listening to us and not.

Speaker B

Not taking it this way or another way.

Speaker B

But the most important thing of.

Speaker B

Of this show is to talk about the difference between a father.

Speaker A

Okay.

Speaker B

And a daddy.

Speaker B

Yeah, cuz the father just shoots the club.

Speaker B

Papa was a rolling stone and they be Rol, but daddy stick around, cuz, after I leave it in.

Speaker A

Hey, I'm leaving.

Speaker B

I take care of the responsibility.

Speaker A

Hey, I'm leaving it in every time.

Speaker A

Every single time.

Speaker A

But, you know, it's responsibility, so I'm going to take care of that, too.

Speaker B

Yeah, yeah.

Speaker A

Got to inside.

Speaker B

You got to leave it in for me, man.

Speaker A

Be shaking, bro.

Speaker A

I'm trying to tell you.

Speaker B

Hey, man, in the meantime, between time before the show gets started, you know what we got to do?

Speaker A

Oh, we got to take a shot.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

You know why we got to take a shot?

Speaker B

I got something to say.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker B

There you go.

Speaker B

Junior.

Speaker B

Junior.

Speaker B

My brother.

Speaker B

My brother.

Speaker A

Yes, sir.

Speaker A

How you being G. Hey, man, shoot, man.

Speaker A

It's been a long day today.

Speaker A

Oh, it's been a long day, man.

Speaker A

Work was crazy.

Speaker A

Tell me about it, man.

Speaker A

Started.

Speaker A

Started real early tomorrow.

Speaker A

It had to get up about 130.

Speaker B

You had to get up at 1:30.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

Yeah, man, but it wasn't too bad.

Speaker A

Though, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

But, you know, I had to get through the training stages first, so get.

Speaker A

Get that out the way.

Speaker B

How it feel to go back through training, man?

Speaker A

But you know what?

Speaker A

It wasn't.

Speaker A

It wasn't too bad.

Speaker A

Cause it's like.

Speaker A

Like riding the bike.

Speaker A

Once you get in there, you know, everything started clicking back, so it was just like, hey, man, I've been here before.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker A

Ain't nothing really changed.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

But the driver.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

So other than that, man, getting back to the house, man, waking my boys up, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Say hello to the wife and man, you see yet?

Speaker B

We in the lab.

Speaker B

We in the lab.

Speaker B

We got to keep shooting, man.

Speaker A

We got shoot in the gym.

Speaker B

Hey, hey, hey.

Speaker B

You know what I'm talking about.

Speaker B

We going to keep shooting.

Speaker B

You hear what Kobe said?

Speaker B

Hey, you w. You weren't with me shooting in the gym.

Speaker A

Hey, cuz, I'm in there.

Speaker A

I'm in there shooting in the gym.

Speaker A

Can't stop.

Speaker A

Yes, sir.

Speaker A

What about you, my boy?

Speaker B

You know it's going to be the same way every time.

Speaker B

J.

Speaker B

Off trying to get closer to God, bro.

Speaker A

Yes, sir.

Speaker B

Everything.

Speaker B

Everything in me is about him now.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And it changes my anger, my.

Speaker B

My.

Speaker B

My weakness, my sadness, my joy.

Speaker B

I'm understanding where joy come from.

Speaker B

The closer you get to him, I ain't gonna never change it.

Speaker B

The more you love on God, the better he.

Speaker B

You.

Speaker B

You are at loving your kids and loving your woman and loving everybody else in life, period.

Speaker B

So trying to get closer to him.

Speaker B

Reading the Bible.

Speaker B

Still trying to read from the start.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

To the finish.

Speaker B

And as close as I'm getting, I'm still me.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

So if two, three chops because we in Deuteronomy.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

So if I read two, three chapters on Monday.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

I might forget two.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Might forget Wednesday and then Thursday.

Speaker B

I'm like, God, I still love you.

Speaker B

I need to make reading now.

Speaker A

I gotta get in there.

Speaker B

Still trying to do that, man.

Speaker B

You know, still working, still trying to.

Speaker B

To deal with this, that and the other.

Speaker B

Just got good news, though, from my.

Speaker B

My youngest daughter.

Speaker A

Okay.

Speaker B

She may just got invited to a team that's up in.

Speaker B

Up in rank pretty much.

Speaker B

So.

Speaker A

Okay.

Speaker B

Soccer is divided into three different ones.

Speaker B

I'm.

Speaker B

I'm the dad that just supports.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

So don't.

Speaker B

Don't ask me the technical names without her on the phone.

Speaker A

Okay.

Speaker B

Or without her mama around.

Speaker A

So what are the names?

Speaker B

But what she's getting ready to start doing Is at a higher rank to where they.

Speaker B

They're playing way better competition.

Speaker B

Okay.

Speaker B

The tournament she goes through are gonna be going.

Speaker B

Playing in.

Speaker B

It's a statewide tournament rather than just some local.

Speaker A

Okay.

Speaker B

So they playing against the best teams, and you got 400 teams coming together.

Speaker A

Oh, yeah.

Speaker B

And it's.

Speaker B

It's real big.

Speaker B

And, you know, to a sixth grader, it ain't nothing.

Speaker B

That's the state tournament, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

So that's what's up.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

So dealing with that.

Speaker B

So Ken Kason getting ready to go out of town this weekend for her volleyball tournament, man.

Speaker B

Just.

Speaker B

Just daddy mode.

Speaker B

Oh, and I can't leave fat man out three years.

Speaker B

Listen, my son.

Speaker A

So cute.

Speaker B

My son been going to summer school since he started school.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

My guy got on the phone today and said, daddy, I'm at straight A.

Speaker B

So he been A's and B's school year.

Speaker B

So he had straight A's now.

Speaker B

So we know for a fact ain't no summer school this year.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And, bro, I gotta give me a shout out, you know, that's my little hoopa.

Speaker B

But he got straight A's.

Speaker B

That's way more important because basketball can only take you so far.

Speaker A

Yeah, man, that's what's up.

Speaker A

Hey, look, and I' ma just piggyback off your kids because mine's doing the same thing they trying to, you know, excel in.

Speaker A

Achieve in life.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Because that's what it's all about for us.

Speaker A

All about, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

We're trying to push our generation forward instead of, you know, holding them back.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

We want to make sure they get, you know, the best thing that they need, especially for education, bro.

Speaker A

Especially in our culture.

Speaker A

We want to make sure that they do have the knowledge.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

You know, to.

Speaker A

Before they leave us.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

So I'm very hard on mine.

Speaker A

I'd be on my boys all the time.

Speaker A

I got them doing Legos right now.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

Get off your phone, bro.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Do something else, bro.

Speaker A

Do something constructive with your mind.

Speaker A

Make you think of just a little bit.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Hey, you know, we're.

Speaker A

Dominique.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

We're in the lab.

Speaker A

We in the lab, bro.

Speaker A

You know what time it is, though?

Speaker A

You know what time it is?

Speaker A

Let me go get.

Speaker B

Don't worry about it.

Speaker A

Hey, the trivia time.

Speaker B

All right.

Speaker A

Hey, trivia.

Speaker A

Dominique.

Speaker B

Yeah, I'm glad You got it started so you don't get to start to pick one.

Speaker A

Hold on, bro.

Speaker A

Yeah, I started the claps.

Speaker A

Now.

Speaker A

You go first.

Speaker A

I was introduced for you.

Speaker B

You picked.

Speaker A

I picked the last time.

Speaker B

Movie trivia.

Speaker A

You going to move it?

Speaker A

All right, let's go.

Speaker A

Move it.

Speaker A

All right, let's see what we got.

Speaker A

All right.

Speaker A

Who directed Jaws?

Speaker A

Hold on.

Speaker A

Turn that way.

Speaker B

He ain't even showing.

Speaker B

You got me over here looking like I'm retarded.

Speaker A

That's good.

Speaker A

That's cool.

Speaker B

Just crazy.

Speaker B

I'm just a crazy man.

Speaker A

All right, who directed Jaws in 1975 when you was born?

Speaker A

A, George Lucas.

Speaker A

B, John Carpenter.

Speaker A

C, Steven Spielberg.

Speaker A

This is you.

Speaker A

You was born, so you should know this.

Speaker B

I don't know.

Speaker B

C, Steven.

Speaker B

Steven Spielberg.

Speaker A

You guessed that.

Speaker A

I'm gonna give you that.

Speaker B

Hey, man.

Speaker B

Hey, man, when you got this?

Speaker B

Be right here, man.

Speaker A

Whatever.

Speaker B

Knowledge is power.

Speaker A

He looked at the car before we started and what he did and what he did.

Speaker B

Pick one so I can hear.

Speaker B

My favorite son.

Speaker A

Let's go.

Speaker A

Let's go, sports.

Speaker A

If you came over here to me, I'm gonna go over there with you at.

Speaker A

Let's go, sport.

Speaker B

Nah, look the other way.

Speaker A

Show the crap.

Speaker A

Nah, show the crap, bro.

Speaker A

I just want to peep.

Speaker B

Which boxer was known as the greatest?

Speaker A

Okay.

Speaker B

A, Muhammad Ali.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

B.

Speaker A

Okay.

Speaker B

Floyd Mayweather.

Speaker A

Okay.

Speaker B

C, Rocky Balboa.

Speaker A

But you said the greatest.

Speaker A

As in what?

Speaker A

Just the greatest.

Speaker B

Which bakta was known as, quote unquote, the greatest.

Speaker A

Okay.

Speaker A

Hey, that's Muhammad Ali.

Speaker A

There you go.

Speaker A

Muhammad Ali.

Speaker A

Man, stop playing.

Speaker A

Stop playing, man.

Speaker A

Stop playing.

Speaker B

Muhammad Ali.

Speaker A

Y' all already know.

Speaker A

Float like a butterfly, steam like a bee.

Speaker B

Hey, man,.

Speaker A

What's that over there?

Speaker A

We gotta put his shadow.

Speaker A

Hey, kill.

Speaker B

That must mean you got something else.

Speaker A

To say, man, you know it real.

Speaker B

Why you think.

Speaker A

Why you.

Speaker A

Why you think I'm pulling up the shot.

Speaker A

Yeah, I can see.

Speaker A

Hey, we didn't.

Speaker A

We didn't upped our little shot.

Speaker A

I did pull too much.

Speaker B

Way too much.

Speaker B

It's all right, J.R. i gotta.

Speaker B

Oh, I ain't driving.

Speaker A

You ain't driving.

Speaker A

All right.

Speaker A

There you go.

Speaker A

Yeah, I know what time it is, Man.

Speaker A

Gets smooth every time you take a shot.

Speaker B

Oh, listen, so I got a question for you.

Speaker A

All right, let's go.

Speaker B

But I'm gonna let you see which way you want to start this.

Speaker A

Yeah, you go first.

Speaker A

Yeah, you go first.

Speaker B

I'm not gonna go into.

Speaker B

We're gonna go.

Speaker B

We're gonna start out with dad.

Speaker B

Because it's the dad show we're gonna talk about the men at the end.

Speaker A

Yes, sir.

Speaker B

All right, so how do you get your kids to be open and honest without being disrespectful?

Speaker B

Have you had the sex talk?

Speaker B

What did you say?

Speaker B

How do you motivate your children?

Speaker B

Which way you want to go?

Speaker A

Well, let's go with motivate.

Speaker B

All right, Big.

Speaker A

Come on.

Speaker A

And what's the question is how do you motivate?

Speaker B

How do you motivate your children, whether it be in school, whether it be in sports, whether it be in life, just whatever.

Speaker B

How do you motivate your children?

Speaker A

Get up, get out the bed.

Speaker A

Get up, get out the bed.

Speaker A

Me.

Speaker A

You know what?

Speaker A

I pick it up.

Speaker A

I'm more of a.

Speaker A

How you see it more like a analogy person.

Speaker B

Okay.

Speaker A

When I break it down to okay, cuz I want.

Speaker A

I want them to see it from a different point of view.

Speaker A

And then too, I use other scenarios too, to see why this person is this way.

Speaker B

Okay?

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Let's just say basketball, because my boys play basketball for you.

Speaker A

Why you think I'm using my favorite player, Derek Rose?

Speaker A

So good.

Speaker A

He in the gym every day.

Speaker A

See how he's getting these shots up, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Or we can go, you know, just being smart in school, like, are you studying?

Speaker A

You know, if you study more, the test might be easier.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

It's just the simple fact.

Speaker A

Just trying to encourage them to motivate themselves, to really, not just to motivate them, but more just teaching them how to self motivate themselves.

Speaker A

Because, bro, I can motivate you all day, but at the end of the day, are you gonna get up and do the work?

Speaker B

Yeah, thanks.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

So that's my main thing, how I do my kids.

Speaker A

It's more like, look, I get you, you know, you want to be this and be that, but you got to be motivated yourself, you know, because nobody can pull you out the bed and, you know, and push you to do what you don't want to do.

Speaker A

Because that's be the main thing.

Speaker A

You know, it's the hard stuff that you don't want to do, you know, to make you exceed and excel to the next level.

Speaker A

So that's how I started out.

Speaker A

So you might.

Speaker A

You might trigger my brain on some more stuff.

Speaker B

So for me, I do affirmations, okay?

Speaker B

I remind them of who they are.

Speaker A

Okay?

Speaker B

So for Quincy's, like before you ever started making A's and B's or straight A's.

Speaker B

I'm reminding you, the smartest man alive.

Speaker B

Before my girls go to school, because they always had straight A's.

Speaker B

But before you go to school, like, for Cason, we got a whole ritual we do where it's who's the most gorgeous woman alive?

Speaker B

Who's the smartest woman born?

Speaker B

Who's the love of my life?

Speaker B

Cason can.

Speaker B

Casing can only be Cason, so Cason should only be case.

Speaker B

Don't worry about anybody else.

Speaker B

Just worry about you, baby.

Speaker B

And the last of it is I remind you to have the greatest day ever.

Speaker B

And you're gonna hear me say that all the time throughout the.

Speaker B

The season, series, whatever of these shows of letting you know the greatest day ever is.

Speaker B

Cause any day God allows you to wake up, it's the greatest day ever.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Even on your worst day, it's the greatest day ever.

Speaker B

Cause there's a whole lot of people who wish they could have had the worst day with you.

Speaker B

So for me, my.

Speaker B

My greatest motivation.

Speaker B

Cause there's other ways, and we gonna go into it.

Speaker B

But my greatest motivation has been affirmations.

Speaker A

Okay.

Speaker B

Because I think for humans, it's hard to remember that I am smart.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And, you know, we, like we created sir.

Speaker B

Because I want you to feel alone.

Speaker B

But even with that, like, if I was talking to Quincy, I'm gonna remind you of you a man.

Speaker B

But I'm gonna remind you who you are.

Speaker B

Before we get into what you're supposed to be doing, before I tell you about how to get better at basketball, I'll remind you that you are already the best.

Speaker B

Like, my favorite player was LeBron James.

Speaker B

But when I talked.

Speaker A

Keep going.

Speaker A

I'm just saying so.

Speaker B

That's right.

Speaker B

But when I'm talking to my son.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

We ain't scared of LeBron James.

Speaker B

He loves Steph Curry.

Speaker B

Yeah, that's great.

Speaker B

He can shoot that thing, right?

Speaker B

He can shoot that peel.

Speaker B

But we're better than.

Speaker B

Still, I need you believing it.

Speaker B

But the something that you said is always my final words to them.

Speaker B

It's cool for Daddy to say it because Daddy gonna forever be your number one supporter.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

But it don't mean nothing until you start believing it.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And I kind of picked that up from my dad and my sister of.

Speaker B

I've always had somebody reminded me who I was, but until I started believing it.

Speaker B

Well, I went through life a long time not believing nothing they said, like, Dominique, you smart.

Speaker B

Who.

Speaker A

Yeah, we.

Speaker A

Yeah, yeah.

Speaker A

No, right.

Speaker A

For real, though.

Speaker A

Like, for real.

Speaker A

But you know, It's.

Speaker A

It's like I.

Speaker A

When I tell my boys that I try to tell them all the time, like, look, I can't want it more.

Speaker A

More than you.

Speaker B

Yeah, facts.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Because if I want it more than you, I'm wasting my time, because now I gotta pull you.

Speaker A

But at the same time, it could be a bittersweet, though, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Because you want this.

Speaker A

But at the same time, maybe I gotta get you in shape for this, or maybe I gotta prepare you for this, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

So I do.

Speaker A

Like today, Like I saying earlier, like, my boys, they just sit around, like, no, be.

Speaker A

Be assertive in something.

Speaker A

Like, do something with your life.

Speaker A

Don't just sit there and just waste time.

Speaker A

Because once you loot, like, that's like.

Speaker A

Like our biggest enemy is time.

Speaker A

Because once you lose it, bro, you can't get it back.

Speaker B

Get it back.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

So I got.

Speaker A

Like I said, I got them in there, you know, finishing this LEGO project that I've been working on that I should have finished a long time ago.

Speaker A

But at the same time, like, put the phone down, do something like, you know, stimulate the brain just a little bit, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

But I'm pushing you to, you know, to do something different, you know?

Speaker A

But, yeah, that's just my main thing.

Speaker A

Like, I always try to, you know, motivate my kids to just do better, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

In a way, they can understand where I'm coming from.

Speaker B

And my.

Speaker B

My biggest thing of.

Speaker B

With my kids is I need y' all to understand that I want you.

Speaker A

Got me sweating.

Speaker A

Like.

Speaker B

I need you to understand that I want you back better than me.

Speaker A

Yeah, 100%.

Speaker B

I don't.

Speaker B

I don't need you to be a mini me N. I love me, Junior.

Speaker B

I love me more than anybody else can, bro.

Speaker A

I love me some me.

Speaker B

I love me some me, bro.

Speaker A

I love me some me.

Speaker B

But I. I love me so much.

Speaker A

Yeah, that's.

Speaker A

That.

Speaker A

That's the alcohol.

Speaker B

I love me so much that I can.

Speaker B

Tell me the truth.

Speaker B

And it's a lot of things where I made the wrong decision.

Speaker B

It's a lot of.

Speaker B

A lot of ways that I have where it's like, bro, I got to get better, and I don't want that for my children.

Speaker B

And so for me, when I'm raising you, when I'm talking to you, when I'm motivating you, that's another motivational piece for me.

Speaker B

And if we got all three kids in here right now.

Speaker B

They tell you now?

Speaker B

Daddy said it all the time.

Speaker B

He sent us a text on it all the time.

Speaker B

Why?

Speaker B

Because you can't be like me.

Speaker B

I don't want you to be like me.

Speaker B

I want you to be better than me.

Speaker B

You have to keep taking the step forward.

Speaker B

And if you're not taking the step forward, it's not that you failed.

Speaker B

I feel like I failed.

Speaker B

So my motivation for my kids is really something that results in me not feeling like a failure.

Speaker B

Cuz Junior, we can lose our job or business tomorrow.

Speaker A

Yeah, we could.

Speaker B

You going to find another one?

Speaker B

Yeah, we going to get another one.

Speaker B

What you can't do is look at your child and see them worse off in life and not take on that thought process or that, that feeling that I failed you.

Speaker B

Yeah, that was my mistake.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Because obviously I didn't get you the right tools to do this, man.

Speaker A

You know what's funny?

Speaker A

Because I, I keep.

Speaker A

Oh, I always say that.

Speaker A

I don't know why I'll be saying it on certain times.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

I don't know why I'm saying, hey, funny, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

But it's crazy about you said that how you try to, you know, motivate your kids, but you knew for a fact you should have kept going.

Speaker A

Yeah, promise them for me.

Speaker A

And I, and I take this every time to heart.

Speaker A

Like my oldest, like she was doing hair, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

And I should have pushed her, you know, even harder to, you know, pass the test.

Speaker A

Like I should have just paid for it.

Speaker A

And until this day, Dominique is to eat at me, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Because I knew for a fact I should have just pushed you more, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

I stopped, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

But at the end of the day, it's cool, but, you know, we all make mistakes.

Speaker A

You know, we all human, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

But at the end of the day, I just wanted to make sure she was good.

Speaker A

But at the same time, I just didn't know, you know what I'm saying, what to do with that situation.

Speaker A

I stopped, but I should have just kept on pushing her to make sure, you know, she did get that certification for her to do her, you know, petition and stuff like that.

Speaker A

Hey.

Speaker B

And that's that.

Speaker B

Listen, I wasn't done.

Speaker B

I just had to send out important text.

Speaker B

But for me, like, that's the.

Speaker B

The most important thing for me is what you just said.

Speaker B

Because we can talk.

Speaker B

We can talk our junior.

Speaker B

And I am literally.

Speaker B

I'm a talker.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

I like to hear myself complain.

Speaker B

I'm that person where if my lady or my kids asked me to do something, I gotta.

Speaker B

I gotta say something.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Before I go do it, I'm going to do.

Speaker B

You asked me go get you a glass of water.

Speaker B

I'm going to get your glass of water.

Speaker B

But before I go get your glass of water, why you couldn't get your big head up and go get your glass of water?

Speaker A

Right.

Speaker B

But so I'm a talker.

Speaker B

But for me, I really and truly hone in on the part of I want to take care of everything that you have going on like that.

Speaker B

That is my responsibility.

Speaker B

And as a dad, the one thing that I know I have to take on is you have to be able to live life on your own.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

That's the end result.

Speaker B

And so one of my biggest things of a.

Speaker B

Another one I can't say.

Speaker B

One of my biggest things.

Speaker B

I keep saying it.

Speaker B

Another one of the biggest things.

Speaker B

Another one of the biggest things that.

Speaker B

That helps me motivate them or have words to motivate them, to push them towards something is being able to depend on themselves.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

And.

Speaker B

And I think we talked about it on.

Speaker B

On one of the previous shows where I was called out my name, but it was to make me think for myself.

Speaker B

And so doing exactly what my dad wanted me to do is what I'm doing with them.

Speaker B

I'm better than.

Speaker B

I'm getting better at what than where my dad was with it.

Speaker B

So he called me out my name.

Speaker B

I don't have to call you out your name, but I still need you to think for yourself.

Speaker B

I still need you to.

Speaker B

To do things on your own.

Speaker B

And like, Case is a prime example of it, because I kept telling her and motivating her, she don't want what daddy is cooking, what daddy is making.

Speaker B

Okay, well, I need you to learn how to make a sandwich.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

I need you to learn how to warm up these noodles.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

I need you to learn how to cook links.

Speaker B

I need you to learn how to blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

Speaker B

And now when you look at her at 15 and literally, bruh, if.

Speaker B

If my woman don't cook.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

I don't have to worry about my child.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

She gonna find a way.

Speaker B

She gonna figure out what she eat.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

She ain't gonna cook for me, but she gonna figure out what she eat.

Speaker A

And it's literally show you me.

Speaker B

Literally one Thing she gonna say, daddy, are you going to get food?

Speaker B

Nah, not tonight, baby.

Speaker B

I don't think I'm spending money.

Speaker A

Okay.

Speaker B

She already got it playing, and I. I got what I'm going.

Speaker B

And I learned this on Tick Tock.

Speaker B

I saw somebody doing this on Blase Blah, and I wanted to try it out.

Speaker B

She did something in her room with Pickles Takis, and I don't even remember the candy.

Speaker B

And she was like, I saw it on Tick Tock.

Speaker A

Huh?

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

I ain't never been.

Speaker B

Watch out.

Speaker B

Go watch Gordon Ramsay go in the kitchen and make it.

Speaker B

Nah, that ain't me.

Speaker B

I keep mine simple.

Speaker A

But.

Speaker B

But she has that mindset.

Speaker B

But she wouldn't have that mindset if daddy's not motivating you and pushing you to.

Speaker B

Baby, you got it inside of you.

Speaker B

Be you.

Speaker B

Be comfortable being you.

Speaker B

And I think that's.

Speaker B

That's that.

Speaker B

I guess that's all I'm saying.

Speaker B

What I'm pushing my kids toward is be you and be comfortable in your own skin.

Speaker A

Yeah, I do the same stuff too, especially with my boys because they're around me a lot, right?

Speaker A

So I teach them how to, you know, dress, you know, hey, put your clothes on right, you know, but you ugly, man.

Speaker A

You know what?

Speaker A

Do this again right here.

Speaker A

You look like your dad when you did it.

Speaker A

I saw coach.

Speaker A

I ain't going to lie.

Speaker A

Shout out to Coach P. You was like, when you do.

Speaker A

Yeah, you look like your dad.

Speaker A

You ugly.

Speaker B

I'm tell Coach called him ugly.

Speaker A

No, I'm talking about you, man.

Speaker A

Why my thighs all up in the dang on be there.

Speaker B

And I, I keep looking at that too.

Speaker B

Like, bro, we can't wear shorts no more.

Speaker A

Like, little bit of shorts.

Speaker A

Well, they flooding.

Speaker A

But anyway.

Speaker A

But.

Speaker A

But my thing is, like, I try to.

Speaker A

I try to coach my boys to, you know, be confident.

Speaker A

Like you said, be confident in you.

Speaker A

Don't worry about everybody else that's around.

Speaker A

No, because daddy don't.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

I don't care.

Speaker A

But that I.

Speaker A

You do you.

Speaker A

I do me.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

But you got to learn how to be confident in you.

Speaker A

And don't worry about what everybody's is saying.

Speaker A

As long as you know for a fact who you are, everything else will be fine.

Speaker A

You see what I'm saying?

Speaker A

So that's why I was trying to.

Speaker A

And then too, even like the.

Speaker A

The dads out there, you know, it.

Speaker A

It takes time because we.

Speaker A

We still learning.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

I'm still learning how to make sure my kids are very confident in, you know, what they do or sure of, you know, how they handle things.

Speaker A

And I make mistakes.

Speaker A

I just told y' all earlier, like, I made a mistake for myself, and I take that personally.

Speaker A

Like, I should have pushed my daughter, you know, a little harder than what I did in the past.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

But for now, it's just like, okay, cool, that's over.

Speaker A

You gotta change the page.

Speaker B

And.

Speaker B

And I love what you just said because it just got my brain cells twerkulating.

Speaker B

That literally is what I'm talking to my woman and kids about, is building up their confidence.

Speaker B

And because we were raised by fear.

Speaker A

Yeah, we were.

Speaker B

It played with my confidence.

Speaker B

Now when I get with my boys, I'm good.

Speaker B

Yeah, but am I. Yeah.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Like, I'm faking the funk.

Speaker B

Like, I told the story of my daddy calling me out, and it wasn't something that was major, but I'm faking the funk with my boys because I didn't have the confidence.

Speaker B

Tell JR Bro, I. I really do want, like, just one woman.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

I don't want 10.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Like, I don't want that, but.

Speaker B

Cause Junior say, I want seven.

Speaker A

I want.

Speaker B

I want 10.

Speaker B

Right.

Speaker B

But he said 12.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

I want to add it up.

Speaker B

Instead of just being comfortable with who I am, bro, I really want some woman to love me.

Speaker B

Right, Right.

Speaker B

And so for me, that's what I'm preaching in the house.

Speaker B

And that's my biggest.

Speaker A

There it is.

Speaker A

There it is.

Speaker B

I don't say it biggest four times, but that really is.

Speaker B

That really is the biggest motivator for me with mine.

Speaker B

Like, I need you to be confident.

Speaker B

Cuz even if I'm wrong.

Speaker B

What's what he say?

Speaker B

On.

Speaker B

On.

Speaker B

On,.

Speaker A

Like, I could be wrong, but I.

Speaker A

But I know.

Speaker A

Right?

Speaker B

So.

Speaker A

But I know when I'm wrong.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

I'm right.

Speaker B

And so I need you to have a confidence, because the only person who gonna get you out of the.

Speaker A

Is you.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Like, all you can count on is you.

Speaker B

And so if you don't have the confidence to get down in the trenches because you was wrong, J.R. like nobody else.

Speaker A

I was wrong.

Speaker B

So I gotta get out the trenches, take the accountability.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And figure out how to get to that point.

Speaker B

Don't mean I don't need help.

Speaker A

Right.

Speaker B

But until you able to take that accountability and say, I was wrong and it's okay to be wrong, I know I'm gonna be wrong again on this show.

Speaker A

Yeah, I know.

Speaker A

For me so.

Speaker A

But.

Speaker B

But you not telling me.

Speaker B

Dominic, shut up.

Speaker B

Because you don't say this the biggest thing four times.

Speaker B

No, like, work through it.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Keep talking.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

It's gonna eventually come.

Speaker B

And it's like, okay, well, I found another word to say right there.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

I found another stuff.

Speaker B

Sentence to say right there.

Speaker B

And so what I'm motivating and pushing my kids toward is not just being the best basketball, soccer, volleyball player is actually to be the most confident person.

Speaker B

Not where you arrogant.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

Now where you boastful.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

But I'm confident in me, bro.

Speaker B

I can look at.

Speaker B

We'll say Chris Brown.

Speaker B

Every woman in the world love Chris Brown.

Speaker B

Love Breezy.

Speaker B

And I'm not gonna lie to you.

Speaker B

Chris Brown.

Speaker B

You got it.

Speaker A

He that guy.

Speaker B

You got it.

Speaker A

Yeah, he that guy.

Speaker B

But if Chris Brown walked through the door and he's sitting next to me, you know how I feel.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

I'm the best looking dude on this camera.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And it's not because I'm lying to myself.

Speaker B

It's because I'm confident in me.

Speaker A

Well, he the second man.

Speaker A

I know for a fact.

Speaker B

So.

Speaker B

So I just feel like when you.

Speaker B

When I'm sorry.

Speaker B

And I can't say fig.

Speaker B

That's.

Speaker B

That's that woman terminology.

Speaker B

I think.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

I think that the best thing for you to do or how you should do it with motivating your kids is the first thing is building up their confidence.

Speaker A

No, that's.

Speaker A

That's what.

Speaker B

That's because.

Speaker A

Foundation.

Speaker B

Because I can't sit next to Junior and talk my.

Speaker B

If Junior's not comfortable.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Now I got to worry about how you feel.

Speaker B

How you taking this?

Speaker B

Am I saying it right?

Speaker A

No.

Speaker B

Junior confident in.

Speaker B

Even if Dominique all the way.

Speaker B

Right.

Speaker B

Guess what?

Speaker B

I'm gonna be right on the next one.

Speaker B

And now I' ma take over and have everything to say.

Speaker B

You know what I'm talking about?

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

Heck, yeah.

Speaker A

But.

Speaker A

But that's the thing.

Speaker A

Thing, Dominique.

Speaker A

Because that's where it all starts.

Speaker A

Because we all have a light, Dominique.

Speaker A

Yeah, we all have a light.

Speaker B

Well, you done said some words right.

Speaker A

There, so we have to let our light shine.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

So.

Speaker A

Hey, look, I ain't going no like no cap.

Speaker A

Like we.

Speaker A

Everybody has a purpose in life, bro.

Speaker A

You have a light.

Speaker A

Please let it shine.

Speaker B

So I'm trying.

Speaker A

So I'm trying to teach my boys to.

Speaker A

To have that same.

Speaker A

Like, daddy got his own light.

Speaker A

You got your own light.

Speaker A

So let me show you how to use your own light.

Speaker A

And I start with so we.

Speaker A

I take my boys to get their haircuts, for example, and when they get done, how you feel?

Speaker A

You feel good, don't you?

Speaker A

Yeah, you look good, don't you?

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

But it's just like, look, figure out, you don't worry about the next man, because I ain't gonna say the same thing I'm gonna say to your brother.

Speaker A

Because I might have to change the words how I say to your brother, or I might say to your sisters, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

But it's just like, nah, let me show you how you shine in your own way.

Speaker A

And Dominique and the craziest thing about it.

Speaker A

And the funny thing about it.

Speaker A

That's my word.

Speaker A

The funny thing about it is all the light shine together, man.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker B

Because.

Speaker A

Look, we can shine together.

Speaker B

When I say you.

Speaker B

You ended the question with the perfect words.

Speaker B

And I want to talk.

Speaker B

I'm not going to lie to you.

Speaker B

I want to talk about you, but I can't.

Speaker B

Because everything we've been saying.

Speaker B

Yeah, that's it right there.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

How do you motivate your kids?

Speaker B

I motivate my kids by reminding them they have their own light to shine.

Speaker B

Your light ain't brighter than your brother's or dimmer than your sisters, right?

Speaker B

No.

Speaker B

Everybody got their own light.

Speaker B

And I'm gonna speak to your life.

Speaker B

Yeah, bruh.

Speaker A

Yeah, bro.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

That's what we in the lab.

Speaker B

But after we do, after your ugly ass make the good point, we gonna go to the next thing.

Speaker A

Skip over there.

Speaker A

Don't worry about it.

Speaker A

I'm gonna get.

Speaker A

Get it.

Speaker A

I'm going to get him.

Speaker A

I promise you.

Speaker A

I'm going get him.

Speaker B

Before we take this shot, it's your turn on trivia.

Speaker A

Hey, let's go.

Speaker A

Oh, you know how we started on.

Speaker A

No, no, no, no.

Speaker A

It's your turn.

Speaker A

I went for it last.

Speaker B

No, you didn't.

Speaker A

I did movie, remember?

Speaker B

I did movie.

Speaker B

You did, sport.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

No, you ain't sleep.

Speaker A

Your turn.

Speaker B

Come on.

Speaker B

My B ain't that bad.

Speaker A

Let me go.

Speaker A

Let me go.

Speaker B

Music all turn, turn your big head.

Speaker A

All right, let's get it.

Speaker A

Let's get it.

Speaker B

All right, here we go.

Speaker B

Here we go.

Speaker A

Man.

Speaker A

Piss a year on that thing, bro.

Speaker B

According to Billboard.

Speaker B

According to Billboard, who was the top selling album artist market?

Speaker A

Michael.

Speaker B

Michael J of the 1970s.

Speaker A

All right, go ahead.

Speaker B

You should get this one.

Speaker A

I should.

Speaker A

If I don't, I'm gonna be mad.

Speaker A

Hey, yeah.

Speaker B

Fleetwood Mac.

Speaker A

Okay, keep going.

Speaker B

B, David Boogie.

Speaker B

C, Ilton Johnson.

Speaker A

Elton John.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

I told you you should get it.

Speaker A

El, I don't know who them other two is.

Speaker B

N. You should get it, cuz.

Speaker B

Elton John like me.

Speaker A

Now you get your ugly ass on start that.

Speaker A

That was a good setup.

Speaker A

I got to give you that one.

Speaker A

I get set up.

Speaker B

What you did movie?

Speaker A

I did movie.

Speaker A

Dang.

Speaker B

You going to make me do it.

Speaker A

All right.

Speaker B

Say what you see.

Speaker B

I never want to do this move,.

Speaker A

Man, so I can show the crap.

Speaker A

There you go.

Speaker A

Oh, yeah.

Speaker A

He a get this.

Speaker A

I ain't even get it.

Speaker B

Let me see.

Speaker A

Oh, yeah.

Speaker A

Let's go.

Speaker B

Do not know how to read pictures.

Speaker A

There you go,.

Speaker B

Cuz.

Speaker A

It's simple.

Speaker A

Once I see the an,.

Speaker B

I'mma take my shot.

Speaker A

Oh, yeah, I forgot we do do shot.

Speaker A

I'mma take it with you.

Speaker A

You get it?

Speaker A

It's a tea party, Bro.

Speaker B

I'm not.

Speaker B

I'm not picking it no more.

Speaker B

I don't care what you pick.

Speaker B

I pick the same.

Speaker B

I'm not doing it no more.

Speaker A

Look, as soon as I saw the answer, I was like, oh, snap.

Speaker A

I didn't even get it.

Speaker B

Nah, bro.

Speaker A

That's a good one, though.

Speaker B

Doing it a tea party.

Speaker B

I think we've done that for the last five shows, bro.

Speaker A

That's a good one.

Speaker B

And even when I reach, I don't get it.

Speaker B

I'm tired of it.

Speaker B

I ain't doing it no more.

Speaker A

That was funny.

Speaker B

No, like that.

Speaker B

I don't like that at all.

Speaker B

So, Pete, we got another question.

Speaker A

I know.

Speaker B

I know you got something else to say.

Speaker A

You know what?

Speaker A

Hey, let's just let y' all know this show is sponsored by one ugly dude.

Speaker B

All right?

Speaker B

So you got two.

Speaker B

Two to pick from before we.

Speaker B

We add in the men topics.

Speaker B

All right, so you know what now, bro?

Speaker B

It's a man show.

Speaker A

Come on.

Speaker B

So I'm gonna give you everything.

Speaker A

Come on.

Speaker B

What's left over?

Speaker B

All right, so how do you get your kids to be open and honest without being disrespectful?

Speaker A

Yep.

Speaker B

Have you had the sex talk?

Speaker B

What did you say?

Speaker A

All right.

Speaker B

Is sex the most important thing in a relationship okay?

Speaker B

If not, what is okay?

Speaker B

And how do you feel about your woman posting on social media?

Speaker A

You know what?

Speaker A

Since I picked the last question, I'm gonna let you be.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

You like Elton John?

Speaker A

Hey, Hey.

Speaker A

I put that phone.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

Ethan, John, Nick.

Speaker A

Good.

Speaker A

How about that?

Speaker A

Yeah, that's how I feel, but I'm good, though.

Speaker B

All right, so you want you.

Speaker A

We can Go, men.

Speaker A

Or you want to?

Speaker A

Because we did do that.

Speaker B

I'm gonna go.

Speaker B

I'm gonna go dad again.

Speaker A

That's cool.

Speaker B

I want to see if you open up to me.

Speaker A

I put my dad cap back on.

Speaker B

How do you get your kids to open and be honest without being disrespectful, without them being disrespectful, without them being disrespectful to you?

Speaker B

This is gonna be.

Speaker B

This is gonna be short for me.

Speaker B

Me.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

It probably be short for me, too.

Speaker B

Yeah, it's gonna be short.

Speaker B

I ain't gonna let this.

Speaker B

So for me, how do you get your kids to open up?

Speaker B

Well, for me is.

Speaker B

The best way is to do or parent them.

Speaker B

Not opposite of how my dad raised me, but opposite of how my dad raised me.

Speaker B

I'm not raising you out of fear.

Speaker A

That makes sense.

Speaker B

So I don't think.

Speaker B

I think, like, last.

Speaker B

I think the last show, we had two shows.

Speaker B

God.

Speaker B

I don't remember, bro, but we were talking about how I kind of get my feelings hurt because they run the mama.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

More than they run to me.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And you said it.

Speaker B

And I was already thinking it, but you said it.

Speaker B

It's a line I can't cross.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

I need you to remember who I am.

Speaker B

So it's a reason you running a mama.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Because I can't play that with daddy.

Speaker B

I can't.

Speaker B

I can't just say whatever the daddy.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

So do I want my babies to know they can come talk to me if they ready to.

Speaker B

To smoke weed, do.

Speaker B

Do any type of drug, have sex, stay out all night, go to the club at 16 years old instead of waiting till at 18.

Speaker B

Yes.

Speaker B

I have an open door policy.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

I want you to be able to talk to me.

Speaker B

I'm gonna keep reminding you to come talk to me, but how I carry myself, how I talk to you, bro, I don't.

Speaker B

I don't play that.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

So you.

Speaker B

You may not feel comfortable telling me everything, which is okay.

Speaker A

Which is fine.

Speaker B

Because as daddy, there's things in my life you would never know about.

Speaker B

And it's a.

Speaker B

It's a certain thing in a relationship where even if my kids.

Speaker B

My sister is.

Speaker B

Oh, Jesus.

Speaker B

Shout out to me, tamisha.

Speaker B

Tamisha.

Speaker B

And I'm about to lie.

Speaker B

She gonna beat my ass.

Speaker B

But she just reached a very big number for us.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

Because my mom died the day before she turned 50, so I didn't know that she was struggling with the same thing I'm struggling with.

Speaker B

With, which is, are we gonna make it to 50 because we both have autoimmune disease that she passed on to us, so.

Speaker B

She made it to 50.

Speaker A

What's the address?

Speaker B

Ready to go shoot him in his face right now.

Speaker A

But no games.

Speaker B

But she.

Speaker B

She made it to 50.

Speaker B

But my.

Speaker B

My sister has literally shown me, bro, that at the.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

When you break down, I really don't know what I was about to say.

Speaker A

I got you.

Speaker A

But look, but my main thing that I do is I try to talk to him all the time.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Just talk.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Because I want you to know for a fact.

Speaker A

Look, it's.

Speaker A

It's cool.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

To talk.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

I want you to be able to open up.

Speaker A

I want you to be able to make sure you know for a fact.

Speaker A

Look, it's cool to come talk to me.

Speaker A

Yes.

Speaker A

That is a hard ass.

Speaker B

I do remember now.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

Like, it's cool.

Speaker A

Daddy is a hard ass.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

But at the same time, I want you to know for a fact.

Speaker A

And I always repeat them.

Speaker A

I said repeat them.

Speaker A

I always repeat to them.

Speaker A

Look, Daddy got your back.

Speaker A

100 Facts.

Speaker B

I love you regardless, right or wrong.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

But at the same time, I want you to know for a fact it's okay to come talk to me.

Speaker A

It don't matter if it's a hard conversation or not.

Speaker A

But one thing you're not gonna do.

Speaker A

You're not gonna disrespect me, man.

Speaker A

You're not.

Speaker B

I don't.

Speaker B

I don't care how you feel.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

None of that.

Speaker A

But at the same time.

Speaker A

But that's why I want to keep the dialogue open, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Because I want you to know for a fact.

Speaker A

But then two kids know, you know, I believe kids.

Speaker A

Some kids do know how far they can go, you know, with their parents if you.

Speaker B

If.

Speaker B

Yes.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker B

I can't even break the day.

Speaker A

Yes.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Because I knew for a fact how far I can go with my daddy until I got grown enough to have that conversation with my dad, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Or grown enough to have that conversation.

Speaker B

That's what I was just about to say.

Speaker B

Because my.

Speaker B

My sister's going, or she ain't going on.

Speaker B

But she's 50.

Speaker A

He comes.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

And that.

Speaker A

That literally.

Speaker B

She literally shows you it's still aligned with my daddy.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

So when she's about to cuss a say.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

She lets my daddy know.

Speaker B

Cuz we all have the same saying.

Speaker B

Excuse me for my language.

Speaker B

Because disrespect won't be tolerated over here.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

Now, and I started doing that too.

Speaker A

I think the first time I cussed him from my dad, I was upset.

Speaker A

I was.

Speaker A

And I was like, my, you know, dad, I ain't mean, but I had to let it out, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

But for him, it's English for him.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker A

But for me, I felt like I was being disrespectful.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker B

Because I was raised.

Speaker A

Because I was raised that way.

Speaker A

So.

Speaker A

So when I was talking to him, it was more like, dad, you know what?

Speaker A

Blase, blase, blah.

Speaker A

I'm bombing all of them.

Speaker A

My bad.

Speaker A

That I ain't mean to cuss.

Speaker A

But look, I'm just saying, like, I'm pissed.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

But for him, he was like, all right, okay.

Speaker A

Like, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

But I get it.

Speaker A

But as a parent, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

And on the other end, like my, My oldest daughter, Shalia, she did the same thing.

Speaker A

We was having a conversation and she was.

Speaker A

She was talking.

Speaker A

I knew she was upset.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

But she let a few words out.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

And the way she said them, she was saying like she was trying to be like.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker A

You know, Timmy.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

In my mind, act like my dad.

Speaker A

I get to the point.

Speaker A

Like it went over my head.

Speaker A

But it was something.

Speaker A

But it's.

Speaker B

I get it.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

You grown now.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

But I appreciate the respect that you.

Speaker B

Gave me and that.

Speaker B

And that's.

Speaker B

That's nature.

Speaker B

Because as a daddy, I know that if you said the words, I don't mean to.

Speaker B

No disrespect.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Or excuse my language.

Speaker B

What you literally saying is I'm about to be disrespectful.

Speaker A

I'm about to be disrespectful as hell right now.

Speaker B

And I appreciate the level of relationship I have with my dad now.

Speaker B

Because certain things can't be said without those cuss words.

Speaker A

Right.

Speaker B

And there's nothing in the Bible that tells you that it's wrong to say ass.

Speaker A

That's a dictionary.

Speaker B

Well, you can't say damn according to the Bible on this.

Speaker B

But it's a lot of things where humans have told you it's wrong.

Speaker B

So because humans have said it, I' ma take it as disrespectful.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

But I appreciate the, The.

Speaker B

The relationship my dad has with me and my sister on.

Speaker B

Even my little brother on it.

Speaker B

Because I understand.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

You got to get it out.

Speaker B

Like when you told your daddy blase, blase, blah.

Speaker B

And what you just said about how you handle Shalia, like, bro, I didn't even take it in disrespect.

Speaker B

I just wanted.

Speaker A

Yeah, come on.

Speaker B

Yeah, I'm listening to you're.

Speaker B

You're here with me, and I want you opening up to me.

Speaker B

And so for me, as.

Speaker B

As a man, I think that's why as a child, I can't let you cross that line ever.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Because eventually you'll be able to just talk.

Speaker B

And I know you're not being disrespectful.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

When I was 15, I was being disrespectful.

Speaker B

I didn't cuss because that's how I got the point across.

Speaker B

Just.

Speaker B

Just because daddy, I said I couldn't cuss because I'm just.

Speaker B

I just want to see.

Speaker A

I want to see.

Speaker B

I just want to see.

Speaker A

I sound cool right there.

Speaker B

And my daddy is not a cusser until he's mad.

Speaker B

So if I only hear.

Speaker B

When you mad.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Now I want to see why I can't see now.

Speaker B

Because you're not ready for it.

Speaker A

Now what, though?

Speaker A

So.

Speaker A

So did you apologize after you did or did you do it before?

Speaker B

So I.

Speaker B

We have two ways.

Speaker B

You do?

Speaker A

Yeah, it's two ways.

Speaker A

It's two ways.

Speaker B

If you.

Speaker B

If you come.

Speaker B

Yeah, you said before.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

If you upset.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

I gotta get out of everything.

Speaker B

And then say sorry for my language because I can't.

Speaker B

I can't stop.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

To worry about how you're gonna take.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

And.

Speaker B

And the funny thing is what we talking about.

Speaker A

I knew it.

Speaker A

I got it.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

But the.

Speaker B

And it's actually funny to me.

Speaker B

But the funny thing is we speak this way in our relationships.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

We speak this way to our kids.

Speaker B

And if you really pay attention to what disrespect is like.

Speaker B

Yeah, I do remember.

Speaker B

I do remember.

Speaker B

I'll just play.

Speaker B

But if you.

Speaker B

If you really pay attention to it.

Speaker B

I don't want my kids speaking to me this way.

Speaker B

So why is it.

Speaker A

Okay.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

For me to speak to them that same way.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker B

And that's where it's like.

Speaker A

Yeah, but see, but I. I'm gonna stop you right there, because for me, like, when I.

Speaker A

When I.

Speaker A

When I'm explaining something to them, if I explain something to them and they don't get it.

Speaker A

So if I say, like, hey, man, go Ahead and pick that up off the floor.

Speaker A

Yeah, all right, cool.

Speaker A

You didn't hear me?

Speaker A

Yeah, you.

Speaker B

You weren't paying attention.

Speaker A

You wouldn't listen to me.

Speaker A

I just said it twice already.

Speaker A

You know what?

Speaker A

I gave you a pass two times.

Speaker A

So now I gotta move some words and add a few with emphasis.

Speaker A

Hey, man, pick that up off the floor.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

But I'm not being disrespectful to you, but you just didn't get it the first time.

Speaker B

No, no, I'm being disrespectful, J. Cuz I'm getting loud and I'm letting it be known.

Speaker B

Since you disrespected me and didn't listen, cuz that's.

Speaker B

That's another form of disrespect.

Speaker A

It's a.

Speaker A

It's a lot.

Speaker B

If you don't listen to me in my household, you don't listen to me.

Speaker B

And you my child.

Speaker A

I let you slide.

Speaker A

No.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

You ain't.

Speaker A

No.

Speaker B

Ain't no disrespect going to be allowed.

Speaker A

Yeah, none.

Speaker B

Zero.

Speaker A

If daddy's vicinity, Milagros, you.

Speaker B

You get away with that with Mama.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And if I'm around.

Speaker B

Yeah, you ain't getting.

Speaker B

You're not even getting away with it like that, because disrespect will not be tolerated while I'm around.

Speaker B

Yeah, you can't disrespect my daddy.

Speaker B

You can't disrespect my woman.

Speaker B

You can't disrespect my kids.

Speaker B

And I'll be damned if my kids gonna disrespect me.

Speaker B

Nah, bro, you don't understand how much work I've had to put in to.

Speaker B

To have a good relationship with your mama.

Speaker B

You don't understand how much work I had put in to.

Speaker B

To make a way for you.

Speaker B

You don't understand the struggle I'm going through, J. I didn't get paid yesterday.

Speaker B

I'm still waiting on my money, and I still made a way for you.

Speaker B

And you think you can be disrespectful to me?

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

You pissed?

Speaker B

Nah, bro, I would knock your head between that goddamn.

Speaker B

Wash it, dryer.

Speaker A

No, I'm gonna act like that video, we say, hey, man, pick that up off the floor, go in there and take you a bath.

Speaker A

That what you need to do.

Speaker A

See, I ain't playing with you.

Speaker A

But no real, though.

Speaker A

D y' all put in the comments, like, for real, like, how far did you go when you understand, like, being disrespectful, like, you know because it, we all go, we all have went through especially we all have been kids.

Speaker A

So how was yours and your upbringing?

Speaker A

And then too, when you got to that point in your life where you had to explain, you know, your situation and you was upset and you didn't want to be disrespectful to your parents.

Speaker A

Like, how did you do it?

Speaker A

Did you apologize before before or did you apologize after?

Speaker A

Because I apologize after.

Speaker A

Dominate.

Speaker B

Or did you not apologize at all.

Speaker A

And dealt with the consequences for real?

Speaker A

Because I know for a fact I get on that mug, I'll be like, I go through it.

Speaker A

Well, my mom, I, I go through.

Speaker A

I said quick.

Speaker A

But then to my dad, I talk.

Speaker A

Then all of a sudden I'll be like, my bad dad.

Speaker A

I ain't mean, I ain't mean to say that.

Speaker B

And I, I remember telling you a story.

Speaker B

And it's different how kids know.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Different how you treat dad than you treat mom.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Cuz it never CR my mind to do my mom, my dad like this, but I did my mom like this.

Speaker B

You know, when you on the phone.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Even now your woman to do it.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Women have the tendency to listen to you on the phone and they got so much to say to add into your conversation.

Speaker B

Like you forgot how to speak English.

Speaker B

Well, my mama did it.

Speaker B

And I can tell my woman shut up sometimes, but I can tell my mama shut up none.

Speaker A

Zero.

Speaker B

But this time she kept adding in.

Speaker B

Junior.

Speaker B

Yeah, she kept adding in.

Speaker B

And I'm trying to have my own conversation, but I'm around her.

Speaker B

Tell me how that makes sense.

Speaker A

Yeah, it don't, you know, but I'm.

Speaker B

Around her and I'm on the phone talking and I'm saying what I've got to say.

Speaker B

And she keep adding in, keep adding in.

Speaker B

And I turned around and said, mama, will you shut up?

Speaker B

Brother, the fear, how scared I got in my mind, I got.

Speaker B

I got a beaten three times death.

Speaker B

Like my mama beat my ass twice.

Speaker B

And then she told my daddy and I hadn't even got the whole shut up out like before.

Speaker B

I got it all the way out.

Speaker B

I knew I already messed up.

Speaker A

See, See, you lucky you got them too.

Speaker A

Like they would have had a conference call.

Speaker A

Everybody would have came over and lined me up.

Speaker B

Junior.

Speaker B

When I say, when I say, they.

Speaker A

Would have been on conference call.

Speaker B

You ever seen a movie where somebody's trying to beg they way out of getting killed?

Speaker A

Oh, yeah, yeah.

Speaker B

I was worse than it.

Speaker B

No actor had anything on Dominique.

Speaker B

I'm, I'm six, seventh grade.

Speaker A

Yeah, you Denzel right now, bro.

Speaker B

I put on the best.

Speaker A

You getting Oscar, man.

Speaker B

Mama, Mama, Mama, mama, listen, like, I'm talking about got off the phone, my conversation went up.

Speaker B

I'm call you back, Mama, mama, listen, let me explain, cuz.

Speaker B

I need you to know the same thing that daddy got going on with his kids.

Speaker B

Now.

Speaker B

Disrespect would not be tolerated.

Speaker B

The way you speak to me, the way you act around me is going to be exactly how I see fit.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And I think that now that I'm a parent, I understand exactly where my dad was coming from, why we had to or why we still at this age.

Speaker B

My sister is 50.

Speaker B

I'm going on 39.

Speaker B

Nine of.

Speaker A

Hold on.

Speaker B

Excuse my language.

Speaker B

He got some old kids and they old.

Speaker B

But I, I, I understand now the respect value of it because I understand the sacrifice.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

I understand what it took to get me to the place I'm in.

Speaker B

I tell people all the time, Jay, I'm going on 39.

Speaker B

But my dad had to wait till I was 35 for me to fully grow up.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Now I don't have to worry about you.

Speaker B

We can just have conversation.

Speaker B

Because I still had a child's mentality.

Speaker B

Everything's still about me.

Speaker B

Everything is still how I see fit.

Speaker B

It ain't about nobody else.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And bro, I got kids at this time at 35, they were my first child.

Speaker A

Nah, for real.

Speaker B

I had all three of them at that time.

Speaker B

But my dad was still there waiting on me.

Speaker A

Left it in,.

Speaker B

Left it in twice.

Speaker B

Just hit the egg.

Speaker B

I hit the egg twice on this one.

Speaker B

But he, he really waited and was patient with me.

Speaker A

So.

Speaker B

Bro, you've done everything in the world to earn your respect.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Now I feel the same way with mine.

Speaker B

Like, nah.

Speaker B

Even when I had the child's mentality, you was taken care of.

Speaker B

I still had to take care of you.

Speaker B

So guess what?

Speaker B

I'm, I'm going to get a respect thing.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

So you can be open and honest with me all you want to.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Just don't cross that line.

Speaker A

Do that now.

Speaker A

You could, you can do everything your.

Speaker A

But soon as you cross that line, it's over with.

Speaker A

Hey, look, we fight.

Speaker B

I, I don't, I don't even care what you trying to open up about.

Speaker A

But they.

Speaker A

What's that, what's that old saying, Hey, I brought you in this world like, like playing no games.

Speaker B

Listen though, you know, before, before we ask another question.

Speaker B

Go ahead.

Speaker B

Before we, we get into trip.

Speaker A

I'm like, I'm over thugging with These shorts on, man.

Speaker B

And I keep.

Speaker B

I keep seeing it and.

Speaker B

And maybe it's just.

Speaker A

Maybe.

Speaker B

Maybe it just.

Speaker B

Cuz we from the old school.

Speaker B

School.

Speaker B

So I came in with Jordan.

Speaker B

Okay.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

That's how I was born.

Speaker B

Jordan was in the league.

Speaker B

Come in when Kareem Abdul Jabal was.

Speaker A

At least I think I got them on.

Speaker B

Yeah, that's what I feel like every time.

Speaker B

And every time, every time I look at the camera, it's like, hold on.

Speaker B

I don't need y' all to see my knees.

Speaker B

Y' all just supposed to look at my calves and my ankles.

Speaker B

That's it.

Speaker B

But it's time to go Trivia junior.

Speaker B

And I think.

Speaker B

I think you went for it last time.

Speaker A

Yeah, hold on.

Speaker A

You think the claps going.

Speaker A

Oh, we got a writer's era.

Speaker A

That's all right.

Speaker A

We can't get the claps going.

Speaker A

What I'm going to do is Dominique.

Speaker A

I'm going do this real quick.

Speaker A

Hold on, let me see if I can stop it.

Speaker A

I guess I can't.

Speaker A

But it's all right.

Speaker A

We'll resume.

Speaker A

That's all right.

Speaker A

But anyway.

Speaker A

Ah, I needed that, cuz I need that warm womp Dominique on your ass.

Speaker A

There we go.

Speaker B

Don't worry.

Speaker B

When we get it wrong, we'll sing it.

Speaker B

Don't worry about it.

Speaker A

Don't worry about it.

Speaker A

Hold on.

Speaker B

Technical difficulties.

Speaker A

Yeah, we have them all the time on the show.

Speaker A

Yeah, we have all the time on the show.

Speaker A

We going to pause it.

Speaker A

We can edit this part.

Speaker A

You good?

Speaker B

We ain't even got to edit it.

Speaker B

Just technical difficulties.

Speaker B

It's all right.

Speaker B

Everybody run into them.

Speaker A

Ain't.

Speaker A

Oh, we got the video.

Speaker A

We a record.

Speaker B

Oh, G. Willie Whiskers.

Speaker A

I saw another one on these online for.

Speaker B

Yeah, we got to get it.

Speaker B

We just talked about it, though.

Speaker A

With two mics, too.

Speaker B

Yeah, we just two.

Speaker A

Yeah, but.

Speaker A

But these sound good.

Speaker A

Them other ones I got, they kind of up like.

Speaker B

But.

Speaker B

But you get.

Speaker B

Get two good mics and you know they only tune in for Dominique.

Speaker B

The guest is just here.

Speaker A

They just here, look.

Speaker A

You in that hot look.

Speaker A

That's a hot seat.

Speaker B

What was he watching?

Speaker B

That was Marley.

Speaker B

Make it hot.

Speaker B

Come on, let's get back to it.

Speaker B

See if they hit now.

Speaker A

Yeah, all right.

Speaker A

What are we talking about?

Speaker B

Sport trivia.

Speaker A

Oh, yeah, it's my time.

Speaker A

Go ahead.

Speaker B

Oh, see, that's all it took, a little.

Speaker B

The little pause.

Speaker A

All right, I'm gonna go ahead with what I do later.

Speaker B

I don't remember.

Speaker B

I did say what you see, I ain't gonna forget.

Speaker A

So you need these two.

Speaker A

Yeah, I did these two.

Speaker A

I'm coming back over here now.

Speaker A

I'm gonna move it.

Speaker A

I got it.

Speaker B

Nah, you ain't got me.

Speaker A

I'm past two.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

God dang.

Speaker B

Cheating.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

Oh, that one.

Speaker A

Bold.

Speaker B

That was nice and bold.

Speaker B

They can see that one.

Speaker B

What is the name of Channing Tatum's character?

Speaker B

And she's the man?

Speaker B

This 2006, was it a, Sebastian.

Speaker B

B, Duke.

Speaker B

C, Justin.

Speaker A

What's the name of the movie?

Speaker B

She's the Man.

Speaker A

I ain't seen that boy.

Speaker A

I ain't seen none of that boy.

Speaker A

I'm about to gaslight that.

Speaker A

I'm just gonna take this shot, boy.

Speaker A

I don't know nothing about no.

Speaker B

Give me one.

Speaker B

Give me one.

Speaker B

Sebastian.

Speaker B

Duke or just Sebastian?

Speaker B

Nah, it would do.

Speaker B

Go, go,.

Speaker A

Bro.

Speaker A

That's why I took the shot.

Speaker A

I ain't want to hear that God dang one more time.

Speaker B

All right, so you went over there.

Speaker B

I'mma go.

Speaker B

I ain't did music.

Speaker B

Let's do music.

Speaker B

I got you.

Speaker A

The cry right there.

Speaker A

All right, that's cool.

Speaker A

Alcohol got me a little twisted just a little bit.

Speaker A

All right.

Speaker A

Which epic rock song?

Speaker A

Yeah, sure.

Speaker A

It's your song.

Speaker A

Which epic rock song soundtrack?

Speaker A

The opening scene as well as the final battle in Thor.

Speaker A

Ronok.

Speaker A

A. Paranormal Black Sabad.

Speaker A

B.

Speaker A

Ride the Lightning.

Speaker A

Metallic.

Speaker A

C, Immigrant Song.

Speaker A

Led Zeppelin.

Speaker B

Zeppelin.

Speaker A

Zeppelin, yeah, Zeppelin.

Speaker B

Hold on.

Speaker B

You said in the movie Thor.

Speaker B

Thor.

Speaker A

B. Nah, guess.

Speaker A

B.

Speaker A

You pronouncing the last one.

Speaker A

Z.

Speaker B

The zip.

Speaker A

Yeah, yeah.

Speaker A

That's all right.

Speaker A

We cool, ain't you?

Speaker A

See, we got the error.

Speaker B

Keep it going.

Speaker B

Keep it going.

Speaker A

All right.

Speaker A

We good.

Speaker A

Now.

Speaker A

For real, though.

Speaker B

Hey, Bit.

Speaker B

All right, so we're gonna keep it going.

Speaker B

I really want to go to the men question.

Speaker B

I ain't gonna lie to you.

Speaker A

Yeah, let's get into it.

Speaker B

Is sex the most important thing in a relationship?

Speaker B

If not, then what is to me?

Speaker A

It's trust.

Speaker B

Oh, you went right into it.

Speaker B

Okay.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

So you ain't gonna ask the ass one.

Speaker A

Okay.

Speaker A

Because, you know, sex is, you know, it is what it is.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

It's there.

Speaker A

We know that's part of it.

Speaker A

But at the same time that it is.

Speaker A

That based on your relationship.

Speaker A

Is sex based on your relationship?

Speaker A

That's the question.

Speaker A

Right?

Speaker A

But if it is, cool.

Speaker A

But at the end of the day, you're not gonna be all day.

Speaker B

Who now?

Speaker A

Well, Dominique, you right now, you're not.

Speaker A

We ain't doing the show right now.

Speaker A

I'm Just saying, like.

Speaker A

Like they'll give you the buck, but it ain't recording.

Speaker A

I record.

Speaker A

It's still recording.

Speaker B

Okay.

Speaker A

We good?

Speaker B

Okay.

Speaker A

Be good.

Speaker A

But I'm just saying, for us, like, after that, what's left?

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Because you got to go to work.

Speaker A

I got to go to work.

Speaker A

You got to go to the stove.

Speaker A

You got to go with your friends.

Speaker A

You got to go do all that.

Speaker A

To me, it's just trust.

Speaker A

At the end of the day, that's it.

Speaker B

That's it.

Speaker B

And I'm.

Speaker B

When I get done playing, playing around.

Speaker B

You're.

Speaker B

You're absolutely right.

Speaker B

So since you said trust, I give another one.

Speaker B

It's love.

Speaker B

And when I say love.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

I'm not just telling you I'm in love with you.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

It's the acts that come with love.

Speaker B

I can't.

Speaker B

I can't leave this house and do you wrong.

Speaker B

Because I love you, Junior.

Speaker B

I saw a woman, and Amber's gonna watch this.

Speaker B

I saw my wife, too.

Speaker B

I saw a woman, and she looked good, Junior.

Speaker B

She did.

Speaker B

She looked good.

Speaker B

And for.

Speaker B

For the most part, Amber knows that I don't look at women the same way.

Speaker B

So women that used to look good to me just.

Speaker A

I.

Speaker B

So if I tell you a woman look good, she looked good, and she gave me the.

Speaker B

We have a saying with each other where I understand.

Speaker B

She gave me the looks where it was giving me the open door to come talk.

Speaker B

She was giving me the look of.

Speaker B

If I gave her any type of gestures, she may come talk to me, of course.

Speaker A

But I can't.

Speaker B

I can't interact with it.

Speaker B

I gotta move around.

Speaker B

I gotta take my mind somewhere else for sure.

Speaker B

Not just because I need my woman trusting me.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Like, I love you so much that I can't do it.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

I can't.

Speaker B

I can't act on this.

Speaker B

And for me, love is enough in a relationship.

Speaker B

If you actually are going off of that term of love, the same as when we was talking about the.

Speaker B

The bonus child.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

That ain't really yours.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Like, if you don't go off of love, you just go off of being daddy.

Speaker B

You just go off of being who I am.

Speaker B

Yeah, right.

Speaker B

Ain't that ain't gonna be received.

Speaker A

But see, my thing is.

Speaker A

See, it's.

Speaker A

For me, it started out with trust.

Speaker A

Because you got to trust my love, though, Dominique, because of that.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Because now, look, I can sit here and let's just say we're gonna.

Speaker A

Let's just take it to the elementary stage.

Speaker A

We.

Speaker A

We did talk about, you know, not my kid.

Speaker A

Right.

Speaker A

I can take you to school every day.

Speaker A

I can pick you up every day.

Speaker A

Am I doing that genuinely out of love?

Speaker A

Now, first of all, you got to trust that first.

Speaker A

You got to believe that.

Speaker A

That I am doing it out of love.

Speaker A

That's a trust thing.

Speaker A

That's the same thing that goes down to my relationship with my.

Speaker A

My significant other.

Speaker A

You got to trust me to do.

Speaker A

You got to trust me to go out and come back and do my thing.

Speaker A

Because at the end of the day, look, I love you regardless.

Speaker A

I love you regardless.

Speaker A

But look, trust me, though, that my love that I'm telling you about it, it's the real deal.

Speaker B

You ain't got the answer, Sway.

Speaker A

Hey, man, I'm just saying, though.

Speaker A

Dang, it ain't even working.

Speaker B

But.

Speaker B

But it's it.

Speaker B

It.

Speaker B

When you break it down the way.

Speaker B

I'm not saying I disagree with you.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

At all.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Because trust is major.

Speaker B

Sex is major.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

Oh, sex is definitely amazing.

Speaker A

But I won't leave it in believe.

Speaker B

I want to leave it in every time.

Speaker B

I wish I could.

Speaker A

Okay.

Speaker B

I would.

Speaker B

I wish I could.

Speaker A

Okay.

Speaker B

Condoms take away the feeling on you, Yogi.

Speaker A

But King over here, Dante.

Speaker B

But.

Speaker B

But for me, when we're breaking down the relationship.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And.

Speaker B

And if you don't make me make that sound, we got to go around too, now.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

And we're gonna repeat the situation like the time I cut started over.

Speaker B

But it's it for me.

Speaker B

It's love, because trust comes with it.

Speaker B

And I'm hoping that your love is not going to be on my.

Speaker B

My level.

Speaker B

I've heard my woman and other women said, like, the way a man loves a woman, it would never be reciprocated the same.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Because even the Bible calls a woman to respect you, not to love you.

Speaker B

But.

Speaker B

But Junior ain't looking for love.

Speaker A

No.

Speaker B

But if I love you and I truly do love you, I can go home right now.

Speaker B

Case indeed something wrong and I' ma beat you.

Speaker B

But the reason I don't overdo it, the reason I don't beat you to death, it's because I love you.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

I love you.

Speaker B

And then the reason I am giving you this whooping is because I love you.

Speaker A

And.

Speaker B

And as much as Brett, you were speaking facts.

Speaker B

You was.

Speaker B

You was giving out knowledge.

Speaker B

In game on.

Speaker B

The trust is the trust thing.

Speaker B

Not trust issues, but the trust thing that you're speaking on.

Speaker B

Like, I think it stems from the love.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Like it Does.

Speaker B

I can sit in a corner of a party or a club or a gathering by myself.

Speaker A

With my boys, too.

Speaker B

No.

Speaker B

No.

Speaker B

But I ain't even got to have them around.

Speaker B

So I was invited to a party and Junior couldn't make it.

Speaker B

Jeremy couldn't make it.

Speaker B

Tim couldn't make it.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

I'm there by myself.

Speaker B

I'm just there with my woman.

Speaker B

I can sit in the car or not even with.

Speaker B

With my lady.

Speaker B

Not there.

Speaker B

It's just me.

Speaker B

I got invited by somebody I knew.

Speaker B

I can sit in the corner by myself.

Speaker B

Just based off the love.

Speaker B

Well, it's.

Speaker B

It's women everywhere.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

They all are.

Speaker B

And as much as we call each other ugly.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

We hang out with each other because.

Speaker B

Because from jump.

Speaker B

When we were.

Speaker B

We were single.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Not in this married life thing.

Speaker B

I didn't have to worry about the women would want Junior around.

Speaker B

Jay.

Speaker B

I didn't have to worry about if women wanted Dominic around.

Speaker B

It's.

Speaker B

It's the simple fact of where we are right now, today in this life, bro.

Speaker B

I ain't gonna lie to you.

Speaker B

I felt real feminine.

Speaker B

That might touch my lip.

Speaker B

I. I felt the way Junior.

Speaker B

I couldn't even keep talking, bro.

Speaker B

I couldn't even keep talking.

Speaker B

Like, Bruh, hold on, bro, you got the mic way too close to your mouth.

Speaker A

I don't like it felt the way.

Speaker B

It took over my body.

Speaker B

I couldn't even keep talking.

Speaker B

But no, in all that seriousness, in all our seriousness, it's like that love.

Speaker B

I heard it in.

Speaker B

I think it was the movie Boomerang with Holly Berry and Eddie Murphy.

Speaker B

Love should have brought your ass home.

Speaker B

And that's where I am now.

Speaker B

Like, bro, you made me mad, but I'm still coming home.

Speaker A

Going to the crib.

Speaker B

You.

Speaker B

You hurt my feelings.

Speaker A

Hey, I'm coming through.

Speaker B

It's.

Speaker A

It.

Speaker B

Do you know how hard it is to hurt my feelings?

Speaker B

Because, bro, I don't take everything personal.

Speaker B

Even when you talking directly at me.

Speaker A

Yeah, your ass did, though.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

And.

Speaker B

And I did.

Speaker B

I took it personal.

Speaker B

My feelings are hurt.

Speaker B

But because I love you so much, my first thought to go do this.

Speaker A

You ain't to.

Speaker B

You hear me?

Speaker A

You be.

Speaker B

And.

Speaker A

And.

Speaker B

And.

Speaker B

And for me, when we're speaking on it, I'm not trying to change your mind.

Speaker B

I really ain't.

Speaker B

It's just my perspective on it.

Speaker B

But, like, love should always be enough.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

To push us through.

Speaker A

But see, the thing is, Dominique, we believe us, bro.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

So all I know for a fact the guy that I worship, bro.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

That's how he operates, man.

Speaker A

So for me, that's all I can give you, man.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

But at the end of the day, please trust my love, man.

Speaker A

Please don't do like.

Speaker A

I'm not sitting here.

Speaker A

I'm saying I'm going to go and do X, Y and Z. I'm not saying that.

Speaker A

Look, you don't look good today, baby.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

I'm not saying none of that.

Speaker A

Yeah, I'm not saying none of that.

Speaker A

But at the end of the day, look, I trust you.

Speaker A

I love you.

Speaker A

You can go do X, Y and Z, but I trust you enough to come back to me with all that that I need.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

But.

Speaker B

And I'm not gonna smell another man on you.

Speaker A

No.

Speaker A

For what?

Speaker A

Why would I do that?

Speaker A

Because I'm the.

Speaker A

I'm letting you know for know for a fact.

Speaker A

I know for a fact you trust me.

Speaker A

You love me for me.

Speaker A

But then two on a note, when we talking about.

Speaker A

Is sex, the most important thing you said, if that's not why.

Speaker A

Because of.

Speaker A

I'm trusting you with me.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

With just me.

Speaker A

So if I tell you no homo.

Speaker A

If I tell you everything.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker A

I'm talking about me.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

So I'm trusting you with me.

Speaker A

So you should be able to hold me down and.

Speaker A

And.

Speaker B

And what I've learned the older I've got.

Speaker B

You know, six has a different meaning and a different feeling when it's love behind it.

Speaker A

100.

Speaker B

When you do it the way God created it to be done, you're gonna.

Speaker A

Leave it in, bruh.

Speaker B

It's.

Speaker B

It's a different feeling.

Speaker B

Like what I'm trying to have my foot on the ceiling.

Speaker B

How you do it like this, baby.

Speaker A

Put this on your head and.

Speaker B

And hold it there.

Speaker B

Don't move.

Speaker A

No, don't move.

Speaker A

Like, just leave it right here.

Speaker B

But it's a.

Speaker B

It's a.

Speaker B

It's a total different facts.

Speaker B

It's a total different feeling when you do it.

Speaker B

How it was created to be done.

Speaker B

And when you have that mutual love between one another.

Speaker B

Junior, you could literally.

Speaker B

And I'm sorry if I'm getting too graphic for everybody listening, but, man, it's all good.

Speaker B

If you.

Speaker B

When it's love behind it, you can literally do the same position for a long extended time.

Speaker B

Going very slow.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And it feels passionate.

Speaker B

It feels like the greatest thing in the world.

Speaker B

And I'm a man, so as a man, I want to beat it up.

Speaker B

As a man, I want to show you every move so that you know that no man can do what I can do.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker A

I'm jumping off the drill.

Speaker A

You hear me out.

Speaker B

And I might jump in here first if I really.

Speaker A

But.

Speaker B

But it's a.

Speaker B

It's a different feeling when love is attached to it.

Speaker B

And I'm not saying that sex ain't very important in relationship.

Speaker B

I'm not saying trust ain't.

Speaker B

Those are very important in the relationship to keep going forward.

Speaker B

But it's something about what I'm speaking on.

Speaker B

Again, I'm not trying to change your mind on what you're saying.

Speaker A

You're good.

Speaker B

But when you speaking on love, like, it's a way where we argue, we.

Speaker A

Can get past it 100.

Speaker B

Not.

Speaker B

Not because of.

Speaker B

Blah, blah, blah.

Speaker B

Just simply because, baby, I'm in love with you.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

I can't stay mad at you because I'm in love with you.

Speaker B

And if you don't have it, if there's a disconnection, it feels like your relationship is in shambles.

Speaker B

And, bro, I'm done with this.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker B

Like.

Speaker B

Like, I'm done.

Speaker B

I can't go forward.

Speaker B

Cuz as a man, when you acting like a man.

Speaker A

Yeah, I take that.

Speaker B

I take on my kids sheet, take on everybody.

Speaker B

I take on my woman, take on everybody.

Speaker B

And I'mma hold my in.

Speaker B

I'm supposed to be talking to Junior.

Speaker B

I'm supposed to be talking to somebody and letting it out, but because I love y' all so much, like, I'm just gonna take it in and take it in.

Speaker B

Keep going and take it in and take it in.

Speaker B

I'm taking out.

Speaker A

Yeah, you went too far into taking it in.

Speaker B

Well, I'm gonna accept what you have going on.

Speaker B

Can we say that?

Speaker A

Yeah, we can do that.

Speaker A

Because that was a problem.

Speaker A

That was a problem.

Speaker A

In this day and age, that's a positive moment.

Speaker B

I touched my mouth.

Speaker B

I touched my mouth with the mic again.

Speaker B

But I'm accepting what you have going on.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And I know I'm hindering myself.

Speaker B

Yeah, I know I'm hurting myself.

Speaker B

But it doesn't matter because I love you that much.

Speaker B

And if you don't have it.

Speaker B

But now I'm fighting because you got to listen to what I got to say.

Speaker B

Yeah, I'm fighting because you got to understand how I'm feeling.

Speaker B

Because men have feelings.

Speaker A

Oh, we do.

Speaker B

But I can Put it on the back burner.

Speaker A

That'd be the last result.

Speaker A

Dominique, Sometime it do it be the laughing result, because we don't want to sit here and be in feelings all day.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Because my wife, or, you know, or your significant other, she has feelings, and she's bringing her feelings to you.

Speaker A

It's like now y' all both in the feeling moment.

Speaker B

So.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

So you don't want to do feelings.

Speaker B

And if she and her feelings.

Speaker A

I can't be in my feelings, because.

Speaker B

If I'm in my feelings, who gonna pull us out?

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

What's the solution?

Speaker A

Like, what's the solution?

Speaker B

Yeah, bro.

Speaker B

And.

Speaker B

And for me, that.

Speaker B

That's why.

Speaker B

For me, it's love.

Speaker B

The most important thing is love.

Speaker B

Because there's gonna be plenty of times in this.

Speaker B

This journey with this young lady.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Where I love you so much that even though your feelings puts me in mind.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

I gotta put my.

Speaker A

Over there on the side.

Speaker B

And we're gonna talk about that later.

Speaker B

When you at your feelings and you deal with a woman.

Speaker A

Right.

Speaker A

Oh, yeah.

Speaker A

100.

Speaker B

Do you know when they get out, they feeling.

Speaker A

I don't know.

Speaker B

I don't know.

Speaker B

I don't deal with mine for a little minute.

Speaker A

I think mine right now.

Speaker A

Hey, baby, get out your feeling, bro.

Speaker A

We didn't move on from this.

Speaker A

This boring as.

Speaker A

And it's.

Speaker B

It's.

Speaker B

It's really.

Speaker B

It really is that because I still love you.

Speaker B

Like, I gotta.

Speaker B

I gotta allow you to process.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Go through it.

Speaker B

Then you process it again.

Speaker B

Then you go through it.

Speaker B

And then you decide if you're gonna process.

Speaker B

That's a roller coaster or you gonna get out.

Speaker B

It's a roller coaster.

Speaker B

Emotions, junior.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And if you don't have the love to.

Speaker B

To stand in it.

Speaker B

And baby, I guess we just gonna dwell in your feelings until your feelings are done, bro.

Speaker B

The love ain't there.

Speaker B

I'm.

Speaker B

I'm literally ready to fight you because I don't understand why we got to keep talking about feelings.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

But then, too, like, just like for me, it's.

Speaker A

It's more like, look, I'm.

Speaker A

I'm.

Speaker A

You should be able to trust me with your feelings.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Because now you.

Speaker B

You.

Speaker A

You telling me how I get it.

Speaker A

All right, cool.

Speaker A

I'm.

Speaker A

You bringing on your feelings to me.

Speaker A

All right, cool.

Speaker A

Trust me.

Speaker A

I'm taking your consideration in heart and how you feel.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

Please trust me on that.

Speaker A

But now I got to reciprocate of all.

Speaker B

Look, this.

Speaker A

How we going to move forward.

Speaker A

But you got to trust me on moving on to the.

Speaker A

To the next spot.

Speaker B

And.

Speaker B

And so instead of saying.

Speaker B

I'm not saying you're wrong.

Speaker B

Trust.

Speaker A

We going like this, it's like a.

Speaker A

It's like a bit of sweet.

Speaker B

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker B

And the funny thing about it.

Speaker B

Damn.

Speaker B

Why I keep talking like Junior?

Speaker B

Jesus Christ.

Speaker A

I told him it's my word.

Speaker A

But.

Speaker B

But the thing about it is, what it really is showing is love trust six.

Speaker A

Yes.

Speaker B

That's how you keep that relationship going.

Speaker B

Like, we're not gonna even bring up.

Speaker B

The most important thing is really both of y'.

Speaker A

All.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

Move that mic.

Speaker A

You said move that mic.

Speaker B

We're not even speaking on the actually most important thing.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Is getting closer to God.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

That should be the center.

Speaker A

That.

Speaker B

That is actually the center of.

Speaker B

Of where we're building our foundation.

Speaker B

The foundation is built on God, so I'm not skipping over that.

Speaker B

But love trust six is how you're gonna keep it going.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

I have to be able to, number one, satisfy you.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

For sure.

Speaker A

100.

Speaker B

If I can't satisfy you, definitely are looking for somebody else.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker A

100.

Speaker B

But.

Speaker B

And I.

Speaker B

That ain't even the one.

Speaker B

That's number.

Speaker B

Actually, number three.

Speaker B

I gotta be able to trust you, because if I can't trust you, then it's hard for me to love you.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And it's hard for me even want to get naked with you.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And for me, yours might be a little different.

Speaker B

But number one, it's love.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

But at Nick.

Speaker A

But.

Speaker B

But booty Nicky.

Speaker B

But booty naked.

Speaker B

But number one for me is love.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Like, I have to love you because sometimes I can't trust you.

Speaker B

I have to love you because we're into it so much that makeup sex ain't even on my mind.

Speaker A

Yes.

Speaker B

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker B

Like.

Speaker B

Like, we're gonna sit here and talk.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

And I might.

Speaker B

I might not sleep tonight.

Speaker B

Because if we don't get through this, baby, I don't know what's gonna happen when I leave this house tomorrow.

Speaker B

I guess because she.

Speaker B

She didn't look better than you.

Speaker B

Yeah, but she gave me better attention than you.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And so without the love, trust, and sex, like, it's hard to keep their relationship going forward.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

And the first thing I want to know is, like, so the question was if sex not it.

Speaker A

Hey, Dads.

Speaker A

What?

Speaker A

What is it?

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Like, what is.

Speaker A

You know, the.

Speaker A

The thing that you think, you know, is the thing.

Speaker A

Because he don't.

Speaker A

Like, we.

Speaker A

We all are different.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

Because it could be not love and trust.

Speaker B

It might be something.

Speaker A

So he brought up love.

Speaker A

I brought up to us, like, what it is for you.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Because now we all in here together.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

This.

Speaker B

This is the safe zone, man.

Speaker A

So we.

Speaker A

We really trying to, you know, really build each other up to make sure, you know, going forward, our relationships is better.

Speaker A

And not just for us, for our kids, man.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying, man?

Speaker B

JR Stop speaking facts tonight, bro.

Speaker B

It's time you go to sleep.

Speaker A

Hey, what they call.

Speaker A

I'm preaching Junior Day.

Speaker B

You hear me?

Speaker A

But the thing is, that's.

Speaker A

But that's what we want to know, because that's why the show has been created.

Speaker A

We all have issues.

Speaker A

We all have problems.

Speaker A

Everybody had it.

Speaker A

But at the same time, we not perfect, as you can see.

Speaker A

Then, too, you can tell for a fact we have different opinions.

Speaker A

So that means for a fact, you have a different opinion.

Speaker B

And with your different opinions.

Speaker B

So Junior is.

Speaker B

Is making me think.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

About the trust.

Speaker A

If you keep looking at the laptop, I'm gonna keep getting paid.

Speaker A

The camera right there.

Speaker B

I'm not.

Speaker B

I'm just looking forward.

Speaker B

But if.

Speaker B

If Junior's making me think about trust.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

I'm making J.R. think about love.

Speaker B

And what you bring up may make me think about.

Speaker B

Oh, hold on.

Speaker B

That is important.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Because I just said love, trusting, sex.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

But I may be leaving something out.

Speaker A

Right.

Speaker B

And I need y' all to literally.

Speaker A

Literally.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Chime in.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

What is it?

Speaker A

Yeah, for sure.

Speaker B

Tell me what it is, because I'm.

Speaker B

I'm here to listen, G. I don't have all the answers.

Speaker B

I'm not gonna tell you.

Speaker B

I do.

Speaker B

I ain't no relationship counselor.

Speaker A

Nope.

Speaker A

Zero.

Speaker B

I ain't no relationship counselor.

Speaker B

Ain't no parent counselor.

Speaker B

I don't have all the answers.

Speaker A

It's all of experience.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

I'm just trying to help.

Speaker B

And we all need help.

Speaker A

Yeah, we all need help.

Speaker B

I just got a brother that said, let's put it on.

Speaker B

On YouTube.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And get everybody.

Speaker B

Chime in.

Speaker A

For sure.

Speaker A

100.

Speaker A

Hey, look, Dominique, you know what time do the.

Speaker B

No, I don't want to do it.

Speaker A

Hey.

Speaker A

Yeah, you already know.

Speaker B

You got.

Speaker B

You got to do that.

Speaker A

Hey.

Speaker A

And no, not.

Speaker A

Not it.

Speaker A

No, we going to do this first.

Speaker B

I don't want to do that.

Speaker A

We going to do this first.

Speaker B

I'm have to take another Shot.

Speaker A

Before we take our shot, we going to go ahead and get in you.

Speaker B

I went for last time.

Speaker B

What you want?

Speaker A

All right.

Speaker A

What did I do last time?

Speaker B

I don't remember.

Speaker A

Do we do all four of them?

Speaker B

You ain't did say what you see.

Speaker B

I sure did.

Speaker A

Let's do that.

Speaker A

My.

Speaker B

All right.

Speaker B

N you.

Speaker B

I don't need you, cuz you be cheating.

Speaker A

Look which one you wouldn't do, though.

Speaker B

I don't know.

Speaker A

I'm trying to figure out.

Speaker A

Did you do move?

Speaker A

You ain't do movie, man.

Speaker B

You might get this one.

Speaker A

You ain't do move.

Speaker B

I don't like this.

Speaker B

You might get that one.

Speaker A

Read between lines.

Speaker A

Oh, that was easy.

Speaker A

Oh, yeah, that was easy right there.

Speaker A

That was easy right there.

Speaker A

Don't worry about the clouds.

Speaker B

Don't worry about it.

Speaker B

I do.

Speaker B

Yeah,.

Speaker A

You got movie.

Speaker B

No, no, no.

Speaker B

That's the first one I did all right.

Speaker A

You did all right.

Speaker A

Cool.

Speaker A

All right, let me show the crowd.

Speaker A

Oh, yeah.

Speaker A

You definitely ain't gonna get this one.

Speaker B

You definitely ain't gonna get this.

Speaker A

I know you ain't.

Speaker A

I hope you don't get it.

Speaker A

I hope you take a shot.

Speaker A

Which water sport.

Speaker A

Hold on, let me read it for.

Speaker A

For.

Speaker B

All right.

Speaker A

Yeah, you might not get.

Speaker A

Which water sport is the official state individual sport of Hawaii?

Speaker A

A, surfing.

Speaker A

B, wakeboarding.

Speaker A

C, boogie boarding.

Speaker A

Surfing, man.

Speaker B

Yeah, I'm gonna take my shot anyway.

Speaker B

Why your clap working mine, though?

Speaker A

No, no, because you cheat.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

I'm gonna take a shot with you.

Speaker A

Hey, before we go any further, y' all probably want to know what we drinking on Dominique.

Speaker B

Yeah, tell them about it.

Speaker A

Hey, today we're drinking on Milagro.

Speaker A

Look, the last show, it was here.

Speaker A

Y' all can tell we've been drinking, so it now is down here.

Speaker A

So this will be the last time we take a sip of this.

Speaker A

We were drinking a Milagro tequila.

Speaker A

This is the wrapper, Soul.

Speaker A

I mean, I said the wrapper.

Speaker A

So that's the tequila Raposado.

Speaker A

This is the second stage of tequila.

Speaker A

It's three stages.

Speaker A

Out of that, you have your silver saddles and you have in your hos.

Speaker A

And this is 100 day agave.

Speaker A

You can pick this up at your liquor store probably for like, how much?

Speaker A

Like 40.

Speaker B

50?

Speaker A

Yeah, 40 bucks.

Speaker A

And this is the leader version.

Speaker A

So this is like the, you know, fifth liter, then half gallon.

Speaker A

So this is the leader.

Speaker A

But yeah, this is very smooth tequila.

Speaker A

We've been drinking this song for a couple of shows, but also in the comments, let Me know what you're drinking.

Speaker B

Please.

Speaker A

Tequila.

Speaker A

Because please, we are tequila connoisseurs, kind of.

Speaker A

So go ahead and put in the comments of what you've been drinking.

Speaker B

Ain't no kind of you got to make me drink anything else.

Speaker A

Hey, I'm just saying then too for a fact, my live grow tequila.

Speaker A

You can pick this up at your local liquor store, holla at your boy.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

What's up?

Speaker B

You know what time it is?

Speaker A

Yeah, go ahead, hit the button, man.

Speaker B

You know what time.

Speaker A

Messed up.

Speaker A

I'll do it for you.

Speaker A

Let's get ready to run by.

Speaker B

Yes, sir.

Speaker B

It's that time.

Speaker B

It's that time.

Speaker A

Hey, we've been having some technical difficulties, man.

Speaker A

I don't know why.

Speaker A

I told the leader.

Speaker B

I think we what it want us to do is just do the sound effects by us.

Speaker A

Let's get it ready to remember.

Speaker B

So Junior is barbershop talk.

Speaker A

You already know it.

Speaker B

And we not going to get deep today.

Speaker A

No, we not.

Speaker B

We going.

Speaker B

We going to bring it.

Speaker B

Bring it back.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

Bring it home to sports.

Speaker A

Let's go.

Speaker B

You know what?

Speaker B

You know what month it is?

Speaker A

March Madness.

Speaker B

March Madness.

Speaker A

Mad.

Speaker B

Listen, we done had some games today.

Speaker A

Yes, sir.

Speaker A

Hold on.

Speaker A

I got you right here is it.

Speaker B

I just want you to know I don't like that thing.

Speaker A

Yeah, I don't like me me.

Speaker A

It don't like us.

Speaker B

That would.

Speaker B

That would it look like.

Speaker B

So Texas gave a good fight today.

Speaker A

They did.

Speaker B

But they lost.

Speaker A

They did.

Speaker B

Purdue pulled it out at the end.

Speaker A

Let's go.

Speaker B

79.77.

Speaker A

Ah, don't tell me a game.

Speaker A

Be a buzzer beetle.

Speaker B

That that ain't it.

Speaker B

I'm gonna tell you about it.

Speaker B

But it's the second game.

Speaker B

Nebraska got their first win ever in March Madness.

Speaker B

Then they turned around and won again today.

Speaker B

Iowa decided that was the end of y' all little run.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

So?

Speaker A

So it's the lead eight right now.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

But after this it's gonna be.

Speaker A

So Nebraska made it to the lead eight.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

No, no, no, no.

Speaker B

Nebraska lost.

Speaker A

Oh, there's also.

Speaker B

I would.

Speaker A

Dang.

Speaker A

They knocked off number one Florida.

Speaker A

Yeah, so?

Speaker B

So you asked how did Texas lose?

Speaker B

It was a late second or last second tip in sins produced to the elite eight.

Speaker B

Jr.

Speaker B

When I say elite, I mean I said elite.

Speaker B

March Madness has had so much going on.

Speaker B

G. Yeah, Kentucky got blew out.

Speaker B

But if you go back to the game before that, just to get to ot.

Speaker A

Yeah, dude.

Speaker B

Two steps in front of the half court line.

Speaker B

Knock it down.

Speaker B

I won't even go into all the games because so many games going on.

Speaker B

I just got a question for you.

Speaker B

How you feel about March Madness this year?

Speaker A

I ain't gonna lie, Dominique.

Speaker A

It's some Hoopers out there, man.

Speaker A

But then too, my thing is, and what I like a lot of people probably don't like is the UIL deal because now the playing field is kind of level.

Speaker A

You got money, I got money.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

So it make it easier for some of the smaller schools to get some of these top, you know, name players.

Speaker A

That's at the high ranks, you know, five star recruits.

Speaker A

But my favorite player, like we were talking earlier before the show, is a freshman from Arkansas, man.

Speaker B

He's straight.

Speaker A

Hey, that and then.

Speaker A

It's crazy.

Speaker A

The coach that he has has a pedigree, a point guards.

Speaker A

What?

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker A

You know, he got my favorite guy, Daniel Rose out of Memphis.

Speaker A

I'm like, bruh, how he keep doing this?

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker A

So it's for me, I.

Speaker A

And this is my favorite month.

Speaker A

Of course, it's my birthday month.

Speaker A

Holla at your boy.

Speaker A

But at the same time, I love Marsh Madness because the regular season, I get it.

Speaker A

Everybody hooping, all that, but Marsh Madness bring out the talent, man.

Speaker B

I get to see.

Speaker B

I get to see the competitive nature.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

Then too, you see the, the future pros, man.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

That's coming to the NBA.

Speaker A

And that's the point I love about Marsh Madness, man.

Speaker B

So.

Speaker B

So the player you talking about is.

Speaker A

Darius A. Cuff Jr. Hey, Ellen obviously signed that boy.

Speaker B

He.

Speaker B

He got his historic rebike deal.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

He got a historic Reb idea.

Speaker B

So I've been watching him because, you know, I'm.

Speaker B

I'm a maverick fan.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And I wouldn't mind picking him up.

Speaker B

I wouldn't mind picking him up.

Speaker A

But he a guard though.

Speaker A

I thought we looking for a big man.

Speaker B

I wouldn't mind a big man if the big man was.

Speaker B

It was a top 12 player.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

If you sha or something.

Speaker B

But you can't pass on Darius the C. And the reason you can't pass that boy nice is he don't just show up in.

Speaker B

In against a siren team or a mediocre team.

Speaker B

We in March Madness.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

It's time to step up because it's loser go home.

Speaker B

So his.

Speaker B

His first weekend, he was averaging 30.

Speaker B

Yeah, 30 easy.

Speaker A

Dominique, 30.

Speaker B

Playing like grown man Junior.

Speaker B

30.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

So.

Speaker B

So for me, freshman Dominique.

Speaker B

So for me, I'm not taking away from a. I'm not gonna even try to butcher his last name.

Speaker B

Aj that play for byu.

Speaker B

Yeah, he's straight.

Speaker A

Yeah, he nice.

Speaker B

What's the other top pick?

Speaker A

Who?

Speaker A

The boy from Kansas?

Speaker B

Point guard.

Speaker A

Yeah, point guard.

Speaker B

I'm not taking nothing away from Darren Peterson.

Speaker A

Man, we just up today.

Speaker A

I ain't got a charge everything up.

Speaker B

And they show don't want you see,.

Speaker A

See, see your ugly ass up.

Speaker A

So.

Speaker B

So I'm not taking away from Dan Peace and he's straight.

Speaker B

I heard Gilbert Arenas talking about this.

Speaker B

All these so called NBA experts are saying that teams need to stay away from him.

Speaker B

But like give it.

Speaker B

Arena said he averaging 20 in 20 minutes.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Because everybody's talking about he's only playing the head because he's hurt.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

He has to sit out the rest of the game.

Speaker B

Blah blah, blah.

Speaker B

Junior.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

You play basketball?

Speaker A

I did.

Speaker A

Yeah, I did.

Speaker B

We thought it was amazing.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

When a dude averaged 20.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

A game.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

This man averaging 20 in 20 minutes.

Speaker A

That's a half Dominic in college.

Speaker B

I'm not taking nothing away from him.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

I'm not taking nothing away from aj.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

AJ is straight.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

He can, he got an NBA game.

Speaker B

He can post you up, he can get to the rack, he can shoot the jumper.

Speaker B

He's straight.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

But when you have a player that can do it all, everything, Darius Au Jr. Can literally control the game and take over when it's time.

Speaker B

I watched his game last week.

Speaker B

He didn't actually score his majority of his 30 till the second half.

Speaker B

And it wouldn't.

Speaker B

Because I just need to show the NBA or the crowd how good I am.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Now my team need this to win.

Speaker A

We need this.

Speaker B

So I' ma step it up a little bit more on your ass.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

He's junior.

Speaker A

He man, he the truth.

Speaker A

And I think for the, for us, the, the prospects that coming out, he.

Speaker A

At the beginning of the season, he wasn't even the name that everybody brought up.

Speaker B

I didn't know who he was.

Speaker A

Right.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Because everybody was talking about the guy from Kansas, then the guy from, you know, North Carolina at byu.

Speaker B

Right.

Speaker A

So everybody was talking about them.

Speaker A

But that's why I love Marsh Madness, man.

Speaker A

Because now, hey look, the plan being level, man, you gotta beat me.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker B

Who's the best on the biggest stage,.

Speaker A

On the busiest, the biggest stage.

Speaker A

All the cameras on, all the lights on, everybody's watching.

Speaker A

And that's why I like him.

Speaker A

When it comes down to a, you know, a God, I think he probably like, average, like 6.

Speaker A

He's like 6, 2, 6, 3.

Speaker A

He not that big.

Speaker B

63.

Speaker A

He's not a big guard.

Speaker A

He's not a big guard.

Speaker A

Walking who.

Speaker A

But I got to change it, though, on this.

Speaker A

Dominique, what's up?

Speaker A

How do you feel about.

Speaker A

It was two coaches, matter of fact.

Speaker A

What's his name?

Speaker A

Caliper from Arkansas.

Speaker A

The coach of.

Speaker A

What's it called then?

Speaker A

Two.

Speaker A

The other coach.

Speaker A

I forgot his name, I think from St. John.

Speaker B

Okay.

Speaker A

They brought up their patino.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

They not looking at high school players.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker A

They looking at overseas players.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

But the thing is, what's messing up the high school players now, which I agree on, is a transfer portal, because now they not looking at a young kid coming out of high school to come help them win a national championship.

Speaker A

They looking at the goddess 23.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

You got a son, Dominique?

Speaker A

I got a son.

Speaker A

They trying to get to college.

Speaker A

They trying to hoop in college.

Speaker A

But these coaches now, they understanding the game to the point where if we trying to win national championship, we're trying to get to the playoff, we're trying to get to, you know, the attorney.

Speaker A

They're not looking for a newbie coming in.

Speaker A

Because I got to teach you everything.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

What I'm looking for is a person that's already been in the system, man.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker B

And.

Speaker B

And it.

Speaker B

It makes it so hard.

Speaker B

And that's why I'm not taking away from Darren Peterson from.

Speaker B

From Kansas.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

It shows you how nice you really are.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

From aj I'm not gonna butcher your last name from byu.

Speaker B

It shows you how nice you are.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

But when you speak about this point guard from Arkansas.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

True freshman.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

He didn't come from overseas.

Speaker B

He came out straight in Jeep.

Speaker B

He came straight from high school.

Speaker B

And the reason why I respect it so much, or respect him so much, is not just because you get it out.

Speaker B

You got it out the mud.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

It's literally because you have a grown man's mentality.

Speaker A

That's different.

Speaker B

And you don't understand it if you don't actually pay attention to sports.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Because there's some guys that have to go to school two, three, four years.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

To get together to get it together.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And he has an NBA ready game.

Speaker B

I was listening to some commentators talk about his game.

Speaker B

ESPN commentators.

Speaker B

And they were talking about his game.

Speaker B

Like, if he gets no better, he stays right where he's at.

Speaker B

He's already NBA player.

Speaker B

That's crazy, because I have I have the mentality to where I can run the offense.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Or I can take over.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

You asked about the Mavericks needing a big man.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

Could you imagine the Mavericks having Darius Cuff Jr. Kyrie Irving and Cooper flag?

Speaker B

That means your 1, 2, 3.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Can attack you.

Speaker B

And the, the difference between Darius and Kyrie is Darius just don't do it on the offensive side.

Speaker A

He played defense.

Speaker B

He played defense too.

Speaker B

Not just give f. No, he played defense.

Speaker B

He actually played defense.

Speaker B

And Cooper Flag is already a top notch defensive player.

Speaker A

I'm calling it now Rookie of the year, bruh.

Speaker B

That, that gets me excited.

Speaker B

Now of course it depends on where the ball falls and where the Mavericks are.

Speaker B

Are choosing from.

Speaker A

Look at you.

Speaker B

But Darius a Cuff gives the Mavericks fans.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Something to really think about.

Speaker B

Because Kyrie, you can be here as long as you want to be.

Speaker B

But the minute you say all right, I'm gone.

Speaker B

All right.

Speaker B

I'm retiring.

Speaker B

Darius is ready to take over.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And that comes up.

Speaker B

It's become Darius and Koop show.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And I think I liked it because Coop can play off the ball.

Speaker B

I don't need 30 dribbles to score.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker A

But, but the thing is would you want the ball out of coupe hand?

Speaker A

Coming out.

Speaker A

Coming out.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

Because he's coming out of the different system.

Speaker A

It's the NBA over here, man.

Speaker A

And you, you Domini, you grown as hell.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

You've been over here six, seven years.

Speaker A

The speed has changed.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

The, the strength training has changed.

Speaker A

Everything has changed about you know, the, the league that you're in.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker A

You're not playing with 18 year olds, little boys.

Speaker A

No.

Speaker A

You're not doing that.

Speaker A

These, they mean they grown at me.

Speaker B

They mean then to look, I get.

Speaker A

Paid to do this.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

So my job.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

This is what I do every day.

Speaker A

So it's just like now I'm looking at, just in, in, in general of.

Speaker A

I don't even know I was about to say.

Speaker B

But, but, but, but.

Speaker B

And I, I got what you were saying was what you breaking down and what you trying to say is when you looking at the team and you really try to break it.

Speaker B

When you really try to break it down.

Speaker B

Darius is bringing something to the team.

Speaker B

Go ahead.

Speaker A

So my thing is you have a, a a 18 year old.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker A

K already 18, 19, 19, you know now looking and I'm calling, I've said early like I think he worker the year.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker A

But he's 19 taking over the league and you got another guy coming in.

Speaker A

But it just show you the potential talent that colleges have.

Speaker A

That brings me back to my point.

Speaker A

At the beginning, the coaches now they're not even looking at high school players.

Speaker B

And you know why they're not looking at high school players?

Speaker B

You brought it up of something.

Speaker B

You said you liked uil, that you are paying.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And I know if I put money in 18 year old's pocket, a lot of them, including me, I played junior college basketball.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

If you was paying me at that time, brother, the last thing on my mind.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

It practicing.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Hooping.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Trying to do blah blah, blah, blah blah.

Speaker B

I'm getting paid already.

Speaker B

I get paid more.

Speaker B

And, and a lot of these college players, I get paid more than my parents get paid.

Speaker B

I can take care of my parents.

Speaker B

So why do I need to be putting in more work?

Speaker A

But see that's the thing.

Speaker A

I mean cut y', all, but that's the thing that the, the coach that they were saying they was more like, look, I don't really have time to teach a freshman how to play College Division 1 basketball.

Speaker B

And that's my problem right there.

Speaker B

The problem with the uil, the problem I have, it's not putting money in these kids pockets.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

I was, I, I played junior college.

Speaker A

Yeah, he did.

Speaker B

So I definitely had to call my daddy and my sister every week.

Speaker B

Every other week I need some money.

Speaker B

Like they only feed us three times a day.

Speaker B

Okay.

Speaker B

I play basketball, so I'm hungry at night, I'm hungry during the day.

Speaker B

And if I only eat the meals they provide, which dinner time in College is like 6 o'.

Speaker A

Clock, it's early.

Speaker B

So bro.

Speaker B

And, and in college and you a Hooper.

Speaker B

I can't get no job.

Speaker B

And so that look, two, three dollar box of noodles is still too expensive for me.

Speaker B

So I don't have a problem with you putting money in these players pockets.

Speaker A

I don't have one.

Speaker B

And changing their lives.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

What I have a problem with is coaches saying I don't have time to teach the freshman.

Speaker B

How do you have, how do you not have time to teach the freshman when you've had all these years before UIL was kicked in where Grant Hill is going to school for, for four years.

Speaker B

Christian Layton was in school for four years.

Speaker B

So what were you doing that entire time?

Speaker B

Were you counting on the trainers teach them or were you breaking down how basketball is supposed to be played in your system and how you see basketball to be fit?

Speaker A

Is that what a coaching staff is for, man?

Speaker B

Because it ain't just you.

Speaker A

Because you have a strength Coach, you have a nutritionist.

Speaker A

Like, you have all these attributes when it comes down to making this kid.

Speaker B

Better, and you ain't got time.

Speaker A

You ain't got time for it.

Speaker A

So that was my thing.

Speaker A

And at one point, I do get it.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Because you don't want to waste time.

Speaker A

Yeah, I get it.

Speaker A

You don't want to waste time.

Speaker A

I mean, I coach Dominique.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Damn good.

Speaker B

Damn good coach.

Speaker B

5 Of his 7 players went D1.

Speaker A

But.

Speaker A

But for me, it was the beauty of development.

Speaker B

Oh, man.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

That was my thing.

Speaker B

The love of the game.

Speaker A

Love of the game.

Speaker A

And for me, the UIL deal kind of changed that for coaches because of.

Speaker A

Now I gotta pay this guy, and I.

Speaker A

Now I gotta be on this guy to make sure he handle his business now.

Speaker B

And now I'm putting it on the players because the players can transfer.

Speaker B

The players go to the league.

Speaker A

That's the portal.

Speaker B

And.

Speaker B

And the problem I have is if you actually love the game of basketball, I don't want to see you go.

Speaker B

Yeah, but if.

Speaker B

If little Johnny.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Is staying, I can develop him.

Speaker B

And maybe he never reaches your level, but I get to develop him and make him better.

Speaker B

I understand that wins is how you keep your job.

Speaker A

Yeah, it is.

Speaker B

But that means I just have to add into my job the same way.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

Little.

Speaker B

Little just.

Speaker B

The alcohol is.

Speaker B

Is ready to transfer.

Speaker B

I gotta get in the transfer portal.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Because.

Speaker B

Because little Jake, he might be wanting to come to me.

Speaker A

But see, that's the thing, though, and that's what's hindering in the high school players.

Speaker A

Because now you got this.

Speaker A

The.

Speaker A

The transfer portal is.

Speaker A

Didn't change the game when it comes down to being committed.

Speaker B

So you got a problem with transfer portal.

Speaker A

You know what?

Speaker A

I really don't.

Speaker A

And I.

Speaker A

But I feel the coaches.

Speaker B

I do.

Speaker A

No, I. I can't.

Speaker A

I see both sides.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Because now it's like, bro, I'm trying to win.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker A

If I know for a fact Dominique is that guy.

Speaker A

Hey, Dominique, what you doing next season?

Speaker A

Yeah, I know for a fact I'm the best coach in the world.

Speaker A

But at the same time, hey, I know your game already.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

I just need you to.

Speaker A

I need to plug you in.

Speaker A

You see what I'm saying?

Speaker A

But I get it.

Speaker A

But at the same time, you got these kids that been looking at for you to go to the school for years.

Speaker A

Years.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

They trying to, you know, better themselves.

Speaker A

And they, they trying to get to the league or they trying to make a, you know, an impact, you know, down the line for the school or whatever.

Speaker A

But the transfer portal for me is like, hey, that's a cheat code.

Speaker B

It is.

Speaker B

But the, the.

Speaker B

And I promise I'm done.

Speaker B

You can take over before we end the show.

Speaker B

But for me, when I think about the game of basketball and I think about.

Speaker B

I've.

Speaker B

I've decided that I wanted to be a coach.

Speaker B

Because you decided that a long time ago and now you've been coaching for a while.

Speaker B

I think that you are making this about everything else outside of you.

Speaker B

Even if that child wants to transfer because he can't take hard coasting coaching.

Speaker B

Even if that child wants to transfer because that team looks like they ready to win a national championship and I'm going to add in that into it.

Speaker B

I didn't get into this just to win a national championship.

Speaker B

I liked coaching.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Because I liked coaching.

Speaker B

We can't blame the kids for chasing money or chasing wins or being kids.

Speaker B

Yeah, I can't blame you for being a kid.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

I got to stay in my lane which is being a grown ass man.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

And be the coach.

Speaker A

Coach.

Speaker B

Like I gotta stay over here and stay, stay the.

Speaker B

The on the path of imma make you better.

Speaker B

Okay, you want to leave?

Speaker B

I'm gonna make you better.

Speaker B

Okay, you want to leave too?

Speaker B

I'm gonna make you better.

Speaker B

Why?

Speaker B

Who is you?

Speaker B

Whoever decides they want to be on this team and yeah we didn't win or yeah we gonna win regardless of if you heard or not.

Speaker B

The reason why John Caliper can go.

Speaker A

To.

Speaker B

And because and win.

Speaker B

It's because I don't need you.

Speaker B

I need them.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

And that's my problem.

Speaker B

I have with a lot of coaches and a lot of grown people who are blaming kids for wanting to transfer, wanting to leave and go to school and blah blah, blah, blah, blah.

Speaker B

Well, what was you doing at that age?

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

Hey, but see that, but I'm wrap it up with this.

Speaker A

But see that, that was my thing.

Speaker A

When I think I saw the interview, I saw the interview for.

Speaker A

I think the coach of St. John didn't.

Speaker A

But I didn't really listen to him.

Speaker A

But Caliper is making the same statement of the culture Saint John and for me, once he said it, I was like, oh, to be honest with you bro, I like, I get it.

Speaker A

Like I would do it too.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Because you know how much time to take to develop a person to in my system But I got a junior.

Speaker A

I got, Shoot, two seniors.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Oh, I got three seniors.

Speaker A

Let's just say the whole team.

Speaker A

I got a couple sophomores.

Speaker A

They've been in the system for a while.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

So it changed everything.

Speaker A

When I bring little Johnny in to the point where I.

Speaker A

Look, this is how we set our screens here.

Speaker B

But, see, but my.

Speaker B

My problem.

Speaker B

And I said I was gonna shut up, but I'm not.

Speaker B

Like, John Caliperi is saying something, but you got D. Rose, you got John Wall.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

You got DeMarcus.

Speaker B

You got A.D. you.

Speaker B

No, no, but you got all these players that, you know.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

When they came out of high school.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Y' all NBA ready.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

So I don't understand why you complaining.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker B

When those are the players you're going after.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

Oh, see, that's a different point, though, Dominique.

Speaker A

That's a different point.

Speaker A

You can't get everybody.

Speaker A

You can't get everybody.

Speaker A

You can't.

Speaker A

I'm just.

Speaker A

You.

Speaker A

You.

Speaker A

Because.

Speaker A

But that's why I said the UIL deal changed the game.

Speaker A

Because, Dominique, we.

Speaker A

We both coaching.

Speaker A

True.

Speaker A

I like Milagro, but you.

Speaker B

You.

Speaker A

I offer him 1.1 million, you offer 1.2.

Speaker A

He taking 1.2, they offer me shoe 100,000 more.

Speaker A

That's the difference between the game.

Speaker A

Oh, okay.

Speaker A

Well, it's this boy transfer, Porter, want to come to my school.

Speaker A

Hey, look, we got a better facility over here.

Speaker A

But it's.

Speaker A

But it's the.

Speaker A

That's the nature of the game.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

That's the nature.

Speaker A

But I'm not saying they.

Speaker A

They both is wrong.

Speaker A

I'm just saying to the point when it comes down to winning for them, because they.

Speaker A

They cream of the crowd.

Speaker A

They coaches of the.

Speaker A

They hall of Fame coaches.

Speaker B

Yeah.

Speaker A

So they trying to keep a reputation.

Speaker A

I get that.

Speaker A

But at the end of the day, man, you got to think about these high school kids that want to come to y' all schools.

Speaker A

You know, they want to make a difference in life.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

And.

Speaker B

And we're not thinking about.

Speaker B

We're not thinking about bringing kids along.

Speaker B

We've made these kids.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

Into grown men.

Speaker A

Grown men.

Speaker B

JR I know where I was at 18, 19, 20, 21.

Speaker B

You know where why my basketball career ended?

Speaker B

Cuz I was a kid.

Speaker B

Thinking like a kid being young and dumb.

Speaker B

I go to jail one time.

Speaker B

It's like, you know what?

Speaker B

I'm ready to live life.

Speaker A

How you ready to live life.

Speaker B

And you, you don't even know what happened.

Speaker B

You don't know what's going on.

Speaker B

But as a grown man, like caliper, you 50, 60, 70 years old.

Speaker B

You Rick Patino, you 50, 60, 70 Years old.

Speaker B

Okay, well, what about the player before you?

Speaker B

I deal.

Speaker B

Yeah, they went straight to the NBA.

Speaker A

Yeah.

Speaker B

How did you keep building your team and keep being a winning team?

Speaker B

So why are you complaining now that the transfer portal is here?

Speaker B

Now these players are getting paid now.

Speaker B

You don't want to go through the grind.

Speaker A

That's exactly what it is.

Speaker B

But it ain't my fault.

Speaker A

Yeah, that's exactly what it is.

Speaker B

I'm 18.

Speaker B

Yes, you said it's a reason why you tired.

Speaker B

Yeah, and I'm not.

Speaker A

I just got here.

Speaker A

I just got here.

Speaker A

Hey, man, we do this all the time.

Speaker B

Never.

Speaker B

Hey, y' all tune in every week.

Speaker A

We do this every time every week.

Speaker A

See how you look in the laptop camera.

Speaker B

He called me that time.

Speaker B

I literally was looking straight into it.

Speaker B

Every week we did what we do.

Speaker A

Hey, we dropping show every week.

Speaker A

Hey, make sure you tag us, not tag us, make sure you subscribe to us on YouTube and we also on Spotify.

Speaker A

We drop a show every week.

Speaker A

Hey, this is what we do every single time.

Speaker A

We have fun.

Speaker A

Hey, time in the comments, we want to know what y' all think.

Speaker A

We know what y' all talking about.

Speaker A

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

Let us know, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker A

What we can talk about in the next show.

Speaker A

Hey, Dominique, it was a good ass show, though.

Speaker B

It was good.

Speaker A

It was fun.

Speaker B

It was good.

Speaker B

You ugly.

Speaker A

But I'm gonna end on this, though.

Speaker A

We're gonna holler at y'.

Speaker A

All.

Speaker A

Holler.

Speaker A

That's the edit.

Speaker A

Hold on.

Speaker A

Oh, I should did that before I did that.

Speaker A

Then we did this whole show.