What say you, man?
Speaker BI think it's possible, and I don't think it's just, you know.
Speaker BWell, I mean, I'm pretty sure y' all don't.
Speaker BY' all don't either.
Speaker BThere's not one reason why anybody looking.
Speaker BYou know, there's multiple reasons.
Speaker AOkay, bring up another one.
Speaker AOh, we was just, you know, I'm just bringing up examples, bro.
Speaker AFeel free to exert.
Speaker AInsert your example of why somebody couldn't look.
Speaker AHey, we ain't beat him up enough.
Speaker ALet's go
Speaker Bthis one.
Speaker BIn this one.
Speaker CWait, wait, wait.
Speaker CI do want to put this in there.
Speaker CLet me go ahead and read a couple of these.
Speaker AAll right, Go ahead.
Speaker AOh, okay.
Speaker CSo the reason why I'm doing this is because.
Speaker CNews flash, everybody.
Speaker CStay tuned.
Speaker CThere's gonna be part two and three to this.
Speaker AAll right, so Rafiki is about to read a random.
Speaker AA response that he asked some people and randomly pick one and read it out.
Speaker ARefrigerator.
Speaker AWhy you.
Speaker ARafiki asked somebody, hey, can you look in the mirror?
Speaker AAnd this is.
Speaker AWas their response.
Speaker CSo this individual responded, yes.
Speaker CAnd then I asked the other couple other questions.
Speaker CI can't remember the question I asked this particular person.
Speaker CAnd they said, I can myself for the perfectly imperfect imperfection that I am.
Speaker CAnd then they also said they look back to see where they actually came from when they looked into the mirror.
Speaker CSo that was a short, sweet, simple one.
Speaker AWait, wait, wait, wait.
Speaker AStay right there.
Speaker ADid.
Speaker ADid you say I could look at my.
Speaker AI look at myself in the mirror for the perfectly imperfect imperfections that I am.
Speaker AWhat you think about that?
Speaker AMental.
Speaker BMaybe they're looking.
Speaker BThey're.
Speaker BThey're.
Speaker BThey are actually looking for the good and the bad, and that's what kind of what I'm getting from it.
Speaker AYeah, I'm glad you said it, because, hey, I get a rap.
Speaker ANegative.
Speaker BBut.
Speaker ABut that's why I asked you first.
Speaker AMental.
Speaker ABut I'm look.
Speaker ALooking for the perfectly imperfect imperfection that.
Speaker AThat kind of gave me up.
Speaker AThat kind of gave me sort of a negative kind of tone, like, hey, I'm pointing out all my flaws and then trying to love those flaws.
Speaker ABut in all actuality,
Speaker CIt.
Speaker AIn all actuality, would you actually be noticing them as flaws if he was really, truly accepting it?
Speaker CWell, see, I kind of look at this right here.
Speaker CWhen I hear the words perfectly imperfect, I'm looking at that.
Speaker CThat they are accepting who they are through all.
Speaker CAll aspects.
Speaker CBecause if you remember correctly at the beginning, that's.
Speaker CThat's what this is about.
Speaker CHealing.
Speaker CThey're accepting all aspects of who they are.
Speaker CYour.
Speaker CYour famous quote, Know thyself, fellow, stay in it.
Speaker BSo.
Speaker CSo me, that's someone that's.
Speaker CThat is knowing who they are.
Speaker AOkay, But Rafiki, I got.
Speaker AI got two skimmed up elbows and some knees that got the skinned up by playing football and being a running back.
Speaker AWhen I look in the mirror, that don't even come to my consciousness, dog.
Speaker AHey, your elbows are imperfect, but love them anyway.
Speaker ABecause you got scarred up playing football.
Speaker CWe don't know what the individual is actually.
Speaker AI know, I'm just.
Speaker AI. I'm just thinking logically.
Speaker ANot.
Speaker AI'm just thinking about that answer.
Speaker CUnderstandable.
Speaker AYou do people.
Speaker AThis is another thing.
Speaker AThere.
Speaker AThere is a.
Speaker AThere is an underlining message to.
Speaker ATo sentences and thought.
Speaker BMan, could.
Speaker BCould that possibly be like a cop out to.
Speaker BTo not wanting to do work because.
Speaker BBecause one.
Speaker BYou know, you know, going back.
Speaker BGoing back to, you know, being programmed into this program.
Speaker BRight?
Speaker BWe was told that we are not perfect.
Speaker ARight.
Speaker BYou know, we.
Speaker BWe were told that.
Speaker BThat you'll never be perfect.
Speaker BThere's only one perfect being and you're not it.
Speaker BRight?
Speaker BSo.
Speaker BSo if that, that if that's already in my subconscious, that, that I don't.
Speaker BThat I'm.
Speaker BI'm not perfect and I'm accepting my imperfections.
Speaker BYou know, I mean, me, I just think that's a cop out because, you know, you should always try to be better.
Speaker BIf you see that.
Speaker BThat you got some flaws or some imperfections.
Speaker BIt's not some.
Speaker BSome scars that you just can't make go away, but on some emotional stuff like, hey, this is how I am.
Speaker BPeople gotta deal with it.
Speaker BLike, like.
Speaker BNo, no, you.
Speaker BYou should.
Speaker AYou should work on some damn Mental.
Speaker AI didn't.
Speaker AI wasn't there with it, but I could see what you're saying with that too.
Speaker AHey, this part of me is imperfect and I' ma just love it instead of working on it.
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker AOuch.
Speaker AI didn't.
Speaker AOh, wow.
Speaker AI didn't see it.
Speaker AAnyway,
Speaker CRafiki, hang on one second.
Speaker AYou ain't gotta.
Speaker AYou ain't gotta.
Speaker AWe got me and me and Mental.
Speaker ATake this part.
Speaker CSo this individual.
Speaker AHey y', all, what the.
Speaker AThe opinions was that was just expressed belong to me and Mental.
Speaker AThat had nothing to do with Rafiki's opinion on that was a no person
Speaker Bthat that comment came from?
Speaker BYes, the comment itself.
Speaker AYes, the comment itself.
Speaker ANot you personally.
Speaker CSo this one here.
Speaker CI didn't want to do this one just yet, but since you brought something out and you'll see why I. I chose this one to do so.
Speaker CThis.
Speaker CThis person, they couldn't tell me live, you know, on my live stream, so they.
Speaker CI allowed them to privately send it to me when I was proposed.
Speaker CA question.
Speaker CCan I truly look into the mirror?
Speaker CI'm still trying to figure that out.
Speaker CBecause every time I look, I'm being reminded of my pain, heartbreak, all.
Speaker CAlso the people that have left me behind.
Speaker CI'm being reminded looking in the mirror that I love and I have lost.
Speaker CI can't look because my heart hurts too much.
Speaker CLooking at the heaviness I carry on my back.
Speaker CI hate my reflection.
Speaker CThen I remember and I look and I see my father's eyes, my mom's smile.
Speaker CAnd I am reminded that I am made of love.
Speaker CAnd through the gods and through God's eyes, I am not alone and I'm not forgotten.
Speaker CIf I can take anything from this, it's to not allow the weight of the world to get you to lose yourself.
Speaker CSometimes you need to take a step back before you sink or swim or feel the waters a little bit.
Speaker CSimply learn to let go and the laws of God in the universe won't leave you behind.
Speaker CI promise you.
Speaker CI have been through some heavy stuff that I thought would break me with trust.
Speaker CI had to lose in order to figure out my.
Speaker CWhat I don't see is that I am strong, confident woman, I have grown astronomically.
Speaker COr that I can look in the mirror and say this whole time I was not lost.
Speaker CI just need to actually look in the mirror and realize Michael Jackson was right.
Speaker CAs.
Speaker CAs it starts with the man in the mirror.
Speaker AMental.
Speaker ADo you have any response?
Speaker BNo.
Speaker BThat sounds like a person that truly is in the process of looking in the mirror and.
Speaker BAnd healing from the.
Speaker CWell,
Speaker AI could have a long answer.
Speaker AI could have a short answer.
Speaker AWhich one you want, rafiki?
Speaker CWhatever one you want to do about whatever.
Speaker AI just asked you.
Speaker AI just asked you.
Speaker ALibra pick like that.
Speaker CYou know what?
Speaker CI would be difficult.
Speaker CIt wouldn't be rafiki if I wasn't.
Speaker CGive us both.
Speaker CGive us the long versions.
Speaker CThen give us the short version.
Speaker AA short version?
Speaker AIs rafiki one of the.
Speaker AOne of the things that you talk about a lot that people need to do, and from the beginning of what that person said, it seems like they haven't done it, which is shadow work.
Speaker AThat's the short answer.
Speaker CNotice you said see.
Speaker AHuh?
Speaker CNotice you said the word seemed to me.
Speaker CMaybe they have and maybe they haven't.
Speaker CWell, you're assuming that the person did it.
Speaker CBut when you when you go down a little bit further, you can see that the person actually starting to do.
Speaker AI'm just saying, what do I hear?
Speaker AWhat do I hear?
Speaker AStarting and completing are two different things.
Speaker AAnd what does Paul say here?
Speaker AHey, somebody needs to do some shadow work.
Speaker AWhy?
Speaker ANow, I could tell you the why if you want.
Speaker AThat would be the long answer.
Speaker CGo ahead this year.
Speaker ABecause.
Speaker ABecause if you, if you, if you go back to the beginning of it, the reasons why they struggle.
Speaker BHey, was it reminded of the scars.
Speaker AReminding of scars of stories?
Speaker CYou know what I hear?
Speaker CBut, but do you know what I actually hear out of this one right here?
Speaker AWait, wait, no, Rafiki, let me finish first.
Speaker COkay, I'll ship.
Speaker AYou said, you said you wanted the long.
Speaker AThis is why I said, hey, which one you want the shorter long?
Speaker AI'm giving you the long.
Speaker AAnd now here's the loan.
Speaker AIf you go back to the beginning of it, it talks about, hey, I struggle because of this, this, this and this.
Speaker AThese are aspects of stories that I hear and I know, hey, if somebody does the shadow work, what's at the end of shadow work?
Speaker ARafiki, what do I know that's at the end of the shadow work?
Speaker AHey, you will be able to look in the mirror and face that because you will, after doing the shadow work, you will see reasons that you had to go through some of that.
Speaker AAnd not only that, you will start falling in love with your story.
Speaker BIt goes
Speaker Anow, hey, if you can't look in the mirror because of your story, hey, you got some work to do because your story is a beautiful story that you need to fall in love with.
Speaker AIt's not a story.
Speaker AYeah, you went through some stuff and all of that, but it's a beautiful story if you do the work and truly change.
Speaker AHey, here's another thing I wrote down.
Speaker AShe said.
Speaker AShe said something that I said.
Speaker AIn the episode of I Am Astrology, readings change.
Speaker AI forgot the episode number.
Speaker AIt wasn't too long ago.
Speaker ASometimes I said, is it.
Speaker AYou remember this question if you heard the Is it best to take one step back to go two steps forward?
Speaker ADidn't that person mention that in.
Speaker CIn what you read Something similar to it, but not exactly.
Speaker AYeah, hey, you know, I ain't.
Speaker CI know it's a thing.
Speaker AI know the theme.
Speaker AIt's a theme that they was hinting at.
Speaker AHey, taking a step back is actually stepping back and looking at the shadow stuff and not only doing the shadow work and all that coming to acceptance and then, and then, and then the knowing.
Speaker CKnowing this person was actually saying, no, they can't look their self.
Speaker CAnd they was giving the reasons why they could.
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker AAnd now I'm giving the reasons what I hear.
Speaker AWhy.
Speaker AWhy here they came because.
Speaker CBecause some of the shadow work.
Speaker CSome of the shadow work, like you said, that I could be talking about.
Speaker AYeah, but.
Speaker ABut it goes back to Rafiki.
Speaker AIt goes back to.
Speaker AHey, People don't realize how much there's underlining meanings to sentences and things that they say that people can extract from that.
Speaker AYeah, that's what she said.
Speaker ABut what did I hear?
Speaker AWhat did I hear?