1 00:00:09,630 --> 00:00:12,060 Unknown: Hey everyone, I want to welcome you back to quantum 2 00:00:12,060 --> 00:00:16,860 revenue expansion, the podcast and really excited to have you 3 00:00:16,860 --> 00:00:22,620 with us today. Happy 2022. It's exciting to be ushering in the 4 00:00:22,620 --> 00:00:27,000 new year. It's exciting to have 2021 in the rearview mirror. And 5 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:32,100 today, it's a solo show. I'm excited to talk with you. What a 6 00:00:32,100 --> 00:00:38,490 lot of things but really how to make 2022 your best year ever in 7 00:00:38,490 --> 00:00:43,350 business? Not everyone else's. Not them not, you know, all 8 00:00:43,350 --> 00:00:45,330 those people that you see around you that you're like, oh my 9 00:00:45,330 --> 00:00:50,610 gosh, that's for them. No, this is for you how to make 2022 your 10 00:00:50,730 --> 00:00:55,110 best year in business ever, because that's what's possible 11 00:00:55,110 --> 00:00:58,620 right now. Alright, so grab a pen, grab a piece of paper, I 12 00:00:58,620 --> 00:01:00,630 want to make sure you take a lot of notes as we go, because 13 00:01:00,630 --> 00:01:02,850 there's gonna be a guarantee, there's gonna be nuggets that 14 00:01:02,850 --> 00:01:06,990 drop in for you that you're going to want to remember and 15 00:01:06,990 --> 00:01:10,740 take action on. Okay, having said that, a few housekeeping 16 00:01:10,830 --> 00:01:16,140 pieces. If you haven't yet, go to Ursula inc.co. We have 17 00:01:16,140 --> 00:01:21,000 quantum revenue expansion, the masterclass on our homepage, and 18 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:23,160 if you haven't downloaded it yet, and participated, 19 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:29,430 definitely go there and find it. Because it's how do I say it's 20 00:01:29,430 --> 00:01:34,710 a, it's a three part class that will give you that additional 21 00:01:34,710 --> 00:01:37,470 boost to what we're talking about today will really give you 22 00:01:37,470 --> 00:01:41,220 that in depth perspective on, like some specific things you 23 00:01:41,220 --> 00:01:43,380 can do. We're gonna talk about that today as well. But really 24 00:01:43,380 --> 00:01:44,850 what you can do in your business, and you can take your 25 00:01:44,850 --> 00:01:47,580 time with it, you know, you can listen to certain parts, you can 26 00:01:47,580 --> 00:01:49,950 rewind, you can do the homework around it, you do all the 27 00:01:49,950 --> 00:01:53,700 things, because part one talks about how to create a brand new 28 00:01:53,700 --> 00:01:56,820 revenue container to turn your annual income into your monthly 29 00:01:56,820 --> 00:02:00,900 income. So that's fun, right. And then we get into how to 30 00:02:00,900 --> 00:02:05,400 uplevel your prices, your packages and your marketing to 31 00:02:05,490 --> 00:02:09,240 be in alignment with your your new quantum revenue container. 32 00:02:09,390 --> 00:02:12,330 And then part three is all about how to collapse time and reach 33 00:02:12,330 --> 00:02:15,390 your quantum revenue goal even faster, which is so exciting to 34 00:02:15,390 --> 00:02:18,540 talk about. So all the things, if you haven't downloaded yet, 35 00:02:18,540 --> 00:02:20,880 it's on the homepage, it's super easy to find, go to Ursula 36 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:24,450 inc.co. It's right there for you. All right. Now some of you 37 00:02:24,450 --> 00:02:28,740 want to come out and hang out with us on zoom at our next 2x 38 00:02:28,740 --> 00:02:31,830 intensive. If you haven't done that yet, and you feel the 39 00:02:31,830 --> 00:02:34,230 polar, you're like gosh, I keep hearing about this, the talks 40 00:02:34,230 --> 00:02:37,230 intensive is all about course to axing or 10x in your revenue, 41 00:02:37,230 --> 00:02:39,030 however much you want to increase this year, while 42 00:02:39,030 --> 00:02:42,510 shaving 10 or more hours off your work week. In other words, 43 00:02:42,540 --> 00:02:48,180 how to 2x but not by working more not by having you do more 44 00:02:48,210 --> 00:02:51,420 output, but really looking at how to scale your business and 45 00:02:51,420 --> 00:02:55,440 how to get it to that next level. So if you're interested 46 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:59,040 and you haven't hung out with us yet, you can simply go to Ursula 47 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:02,490 inc.co, forward slash apply. And that's in the show notes as 48 00:03:02,490 --> 00:03:05,400 well, we'll send you just a quick application to fill out. 49 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:08,940 And then once we have that, we'll send you my team, we'll 50 00:03:08,940 --> 00:03:11,310 send you all the information back so you can you can get 51 00:03:11,310 --> 00:03:14,520 rockin on what's next for you. We're offering them every other 52 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:18,270 month now. So we're not going to offer as many this year, we we 53 00:03:18,270 --> 00:03:20,670 have a certain amount of clients that we really want to support 54 00:03:20,670 --> 00:03:24,030 into axing their sales this year while shaving 10 hours off their 55 00:03:24,030 --> 00:03:25,980 work week. So we're limited in how many clients we can take. 56 00:03:26,220 --> 00:03:29,910 The next one is coming up on January 20, and 21st, we 57 00:03:29,910 --> 00:03:32,160 probably have like one seat left in there. So if you're 58 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:34,140 interested fill out the application, we'll get to the 59 00:03:34,140 --> 00:03:38,400 details. And or the next one after that is in March, you can 60 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:42,420 always oh that's my you can always email us or email me 61 00:03:42,420 --> 00:03:46,410 directly at or sled or sling.co. And we'll definitely get you 62 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:51,210 one. So again, if you've been feeling the pole to come and 63 00:03:51,210 --> 00:03:54,540 play with us at the Twix intensive belt application, and 64 00:03:54,540 --> 00:03:56,070 as soon as we have your information, I'll send you the 65 00:03:56,070 --> 00:03:58,680 details. If you want to schedule a call, we can do that as well. 66 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:02,640 So just put that in the notes. Happy to get you set up and just 67 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:06,480 really support your your next quantum leap your next quantum 68 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:11,550 journey. Okay. That was all my housekeeping for today. Oh fun. 69 00:04:12,030 --> 00:04:14,790 I have to say this too, right. Like if you liked the show, and 70 00:04:14,790 --> 00:04:17,760 you want other people to know about it, leave us a review. And 71 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:21,780 after you've left a review, go to personal inc.co forward slash 72 00:04:21,780 --> 00:04:25,710 giveaway. And we have a special gift to thank you for leaving a 73 00:04:25,710 --> 00:04:31,530 review. So thank you for that. Okay, let's see. That's, that's 74 00:04:31,530 --> 00:04:34,560 what I want to just talk about in terms of how we can support 75 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:41,190 you. I really want to support you today. You as my listeners, 76 00:04:42,180 --> 00:04:46,800 my clients, my community, my family, my friends. Like 77 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:53,040 everyone's been on my heart lately from the space of 2022 78 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:58,230 can be so different. Like I was excited to leave 2021 behind us 79 00:04:58,260 --> 00:05:01,980 it was our best year ever in business. I say that with GLEDE, 80 00:05:01,980 --> 00:05:04,950 because many of our clients, most of our clients, I don't 81 00:05:04,950 --> 00:05:06,630 even know like, we have to go back, I think almost all of our 82 00:05:06,630 --> 00:05:09,120 clients, if not all of them had their best year in business 83 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:09,660 ever. 84 00:05:11,010 --> 00:05:17,700 And I get frustrated, because I feel like there's some CEOs who, 85 00:05:18,270 --> 00:05:21,660 who don't think that's possible for them, or have gotten so 86 00:05:21,660 --> 00:05:30,270 pulled into the fear and the scarcity. And just the chaos 87 00:05:30,270 --> 00:05:33,900 that's in the world today, or at least the chaos we see on 88 00:05:33,900 --> 00:05:36,360 television, right or on the internet. And one of the things 89 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:40,620 I want to remind you of is like, Is that Well, you know, you can 90 00:05:40,620 --> 00:05:44,790 turn on a major news network and feel like, like, literally 91 00:05:44,790 --> 00:05:47,520 sometimes like the world is ending or seeing internet, a 92 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:52,500 headline on the internet. And it can just spark fear. I want to 93 00:05:52,500 --> 00:05:56,100 remind you that that's what it's designed to do, right? That 94 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:59,100 people want you to click on Articles, they want to grab your 95 00:05:59,100 --> 00:06:02,580 attention, we become so distracted, people are so busy 96 00:06:02,580 --> 00:06:08,190 that it's like the headlines and the media have to be they have 97 00:06:08,190 --> 00:06:11,970 to, you know, be louder than the other person, they have to be 98 00:06:11,970 --> 00:06:15,840 more in the fear mongering, they have to scare you to open 99 00:06:15,840 --> 00:06:19,140 something up. And I want you to start to pay attention to that. 100 00:06:19,140 --> 00:06:21,690 And also to look around, you just want things I've been 101 00:06:21,690 --> 00:06:27,390 doing. I've been looking around. And I've been looking at my 102 00:06:27,390 --> 00:06:33,900 friends, family, other CEOs, and here's the thing. We don't all 103 00:06:33,900 --> 00:06:41,850 live in fear. And we don't have to. I always say this, it's one 104 00:06:41,850 --> 00:06:44,940 of the things that I used to live in a lot. And it's 105 00:06:44,940 --> 00:06:47,040 something I've worked on. And something in the pandemic 106 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:50,970 certainly gave me an opportunity to work on the muscle of not 107 00:06:50,970 --> 00:06:54,930 living from a place of fear. But if you really start to look 108 00:06:54,930 --> 00:06:59,580 around, there's people most of the world, you know, we're 109 00:06:59,580 --> 00:07:02,490 committed to getting back out there, we're committed to 110 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:08,430 running our businesses, in spite of the fear, and the scarcity 111 00:07:08,430 --> 00:07:13,560 and the programming that is out there right now. And I just want 112 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:15,990 to invite you in that same line of thinking, and I'm not saying 113 00:07:16,500 --> 00:07:18,540 I'm not saying there's no, I'm not a pandemic, I'm not saying 114 00:07:18,540 --> 00:07:22,770 any of that, like, yes, there's a pandemic, yes, we need to 115 00:07:22,770 --> 00:07:24,690 protect ourselves, you need to do what you need to do to 116 00:07:24,690 --> 00:07:26,700 protect your family, you need to do what you need to do to 117 00:07:26,700 --> 00:07:30,150 protect your children, you need to live your truth. And the flip 118 00:07:30,150 --> 00:07:33,210 side of that is while doing that, you need to live your 119 00:07:33,210 --> 00:07:37,860 life, you need to live your best year, you need to step back into 120 00:07:37,860 --> 00:07:42,360 the dreams, the goals, the amazingness that you want to 121 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:49,920 create. Because if we all start to shrink back, if we all stop 122 00:07:49,980 --> 00:07:54,090 living our hearts desires and our dreams. We're just gonna 123 00:07:54,090 --> 00:08:02,190 leave this world. Where's that leave you? Personally, me. I'm 124 00:08:02,190 --> 00:08:07,170 committed to creating a world for our eight year old son. 125 00:08:08,430 --> 00:08:14,700 That's worth being part of where people don't live in fear and 126 00:08:14,700 --> 00:08:18,960 scarcity, where people don't live in the belief that what 127 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:22,050 they want to create isn't possible. I'm committed to 128 00:08:22,050 --> 00:08:25,350 living in a world where people understand how powerful they 129 00:08:25,350 --> 00:08:28,710 are. People like you and me understand that we can create 130 00:08:28,710 --> 00:08:30,720 whatever we want in our businesses and lives that we can 131 00:08:30,750 --> 00:08:32,610 have our best year ever in business that we don't have to 132 00:08:32,610 --> 00:08:38,610 hide. We don't have to be afraid that we can step out and be our 133 00:08:38,610 --> 00:08:41,370 greatest version of ourselves and live in joy. 134 00:08:46,500 --> 00:08:52,380 So what I want to invite you to do in 2022 is to live your 135 00:08:54,870 --> 00:08:59,940 greatest dreams. I've committed to doing that this year. And I 136 00:08:59,940 --> 00:09:02,580 have some things on my list that I'll tell you are really scary 137 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:06,000 in the sense of like, I'm not afraid of like fearful but like, 138 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:09,570 I'm not sure how they're going to happen. And scary is not the 139 00:09:09,570 --> 00:09:13,650 right word. One of my coaches once said to me, the word scared 140 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:16,440 is the same. You know, if you move the letters around, it's 141 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:18,780 also sacred. And that's how I feel like I feel like I'm in a 142 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:22,860 very sacred time of, of stretching beyond rough stress 143 00:09:22,860 --> 00:09:27,060 before and really creating and stepping into dreams that I want 144 00:09:27,090 --> 00:09:30,600 that I do want to have happen that I know are meant for me. 145 00:09:30,900 --> 00:09:34,530 And I want to invite you to do the same. And it's not enough 146 00:09:34,530 --> 00:09:37,740 like it's not enough to live the dreams that have been in your 147 00:09:37,740 --> 00:09:40,590 head that you think ah, you know, I should do that or 148 00:09:40,770 --> 00:09:43,890 wouldn't it be great if now, I want you to think about those 149 00:09:43,890 --> 00:09:47,340 dreams that are truly your heart's desire. Get out of your 150 00:09:47,340 --> 00:09:52,680 head, get into your heart like what's in your heart. Even in 151 00:09:52,680 --> 00:09:56,490 business, I find that as CEOs as entrepreneurs, we often create 152 00:09:56,490 --> 00:10:00,720 businesses that become jobs that we hate them Not our heart's 153 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:05,220 desire. It's like, oh, yeah, this is, this is okay. But I 154 00:10:05,220 --> 00:10:09,390 don't love it. One of the things that I did in 2020, you know, 155 00:10:09,390 --> 00:10:12,210 one of the gifts of the pandemic, of having to change 156 00:10:12,210 --> 00:10:15,270 everything pivot, remember, the word pivot, had to change 157 00:10:15,270 --> 00:10:19,830 everything to keep our business alive, gave me this gift to 158 00:10:19,830 --> 00:10:23,010 recreate it in a way that I'd always wanted to. And so I did. 159 00:10:23,310 --> 00:10:26,190 And I love my business more than ever, because because of how 160 00:10:26,190 --> 00:10:28,110 it's set up, and how we're making a difference for our 161 00:10:28,110 --> 00:10:33,780 clients, and how it gives me the space to have this podcast and 162 00:10:33,780 --> 00:10:38,580 be on YouTube and write books and you know, Coach our clients 163 00:10:38,580 --> 00:10:40,830 to the next level, like all the things that I want to be doing. 164 00:10:40,830 --> 00:10:41,760 So for you, it's like, 165 00:10:42,060 --> 00:10:46,470 what's in your heart? What's your heart's desire? And that's 166 00:10:46,470 --> 00:10:49,290 where that's really where you want to begin, like, step out of 167 00:10:49,290 --> 00:10:50,010 your head 168 00:10:50,670 --> 00:10:55,260 and move into your heart. And just thinking about that, now, 169 00:10:55,260 --> 00:11:02,100 if you could recreate your business in any way. What would 170 00:11:02,100 --> 00:11:05,670 you change? What would you let go of? 171 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:11,820 We have many clients who come to us who are tired, they're worn 172 00:11:11,820 --> 00:11:16,020 out. They're working 80 plus hour weeks in a business they 173 00:11:16,020 --> 00:11:19,320 don't love anymore. It might be seven figures, it might be 174 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:22,530 multiple, seven figures. Maybe they're in meetings all the 175 00:11:22,560 --> 00:11:25,020 time. Maybe they're on the road all the time. Maybe they're, you 176 00:11:25,020 --> 00:11:28,380 know, just doing things they don't want to do. They come to 177 00:11:28,380 --> 00:11:32,730 us tired. And Rebecca, who's the master coach at Arsenal, Inc, 178 00:11:32,730 --> 00:11:35,640 many of you know her, Rebecca, and I love to just sit with 179 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:38,520 them. And to ask the question, well, what is your heart's 180 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:43,080 desire? Like, what do you really want? And a lot of times, when 181 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:47,400 they first tell us it's like, it's like a whisper. It's like, 182 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:55,470 well, so much. I wanted to have a seven figure business working 183 00:11:55,470 --> 00:11:59,730 20 hours a week, not at all. I wanted to have more time with my 184 00:11:59,730 --> 00:12:04,110 kids, I wanted to have opportunities for my employees, 185 00:12:04,110 --> 00:12:10,320 that meant that it was the their dream job. I want to create, I 186 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:13,350 want to make an impact, I want to have time to write I don't 187 00:12:13,350 --> 00:12:17,760 have any of that. And so by telling us, You know what 188 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:20,310 they're tired of and what they don't have, we start to hear 189 00:12:20,310 --> 00:12:22,650 what it is they do want, we start to hear their true heart's 190 00:12:22,650 --> 00:12:26,670 desire. And then we start to build from there like that is a 191 00:12:26,670 --> 00:12:29,730 requirement. When you hang out with us at Ursa hanging out with 192 00:12:29,790 --> 00:12:34,860 us in any of our programs. I want to know the truth, like I 193 00:12:34,860 --> 00:12:38,610 can't help you, I can't help our clients, if I don't know what 194 00:12:38,610 --> 00:12:42,120 they really desire. Because it's gonna be really hard for them to 195 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:44,910 get it. If it's not your true heart's desire is like rolling 196 00:12:44,910 --> 00:12:47,970 boulders uphill, you're not going to want to do it, you're 197 00:12:47,970 --> 00:12:50,160 going to get frustrated, you're going to get stressed, you're 198 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:55,890 going to get mad, it's going to be terrible, right? So taking a 199 00:12:55,890 --> 00:12:59,460 moment to tune in to like, what it is you really want is the 200 00:12:59,460 --> 00:13:04,740 first step, I can guarantee you that if you create a list of 201 00:13:04,740 --> 00:13:08,040 your heart's desires, rather than the goals you think you 202 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:11,370 should have, you will reach those goals way faster than any 203 00:13:11,370 --> 00:13:16,710 other goals you've ever reached before. You just Well, there 204 00:13:16,710 --> 00:13:22,620 was, there was a goal on my list last for a few years. And I kind 205 00:13:22,620 --> 00:13:27,030 of kept putting it aside and putting inside. And then at the 206 00:13:27,030 --> 00:13:31,770 end of 2021, there was a part of you that just said, right, like, 207 00:13:31,770 --> 00:13:34,560 Why do I keep tabling that goal, this is what this is truly my 208 00:13:34,560 --> 00:13:39,480 heart's desire, which it was and it is that I need to move it 209 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:42,480 over into that this is going to happen list like no matter what 210 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:47,700 this is going to happen. And so this is what's wild. I moved it 211 00:13:47,700 --> 00:13:51,300 over to the what's gonna it is just going to happen list. And I 212 00:13:51,300 --> 00:13:54,900 did a visualization with one of my coaches were really focused 213 00:13:54,900 --> 00:13:59,370 in on my heart's desire and creating from the space. And 214 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:03,450 within two weeks, I don't know if it's that long, maybe was one 215 00:14:03,450 --> 00:14:08,880 week or two parts of that goal showed up to allow it to easily 216 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:12,930 come into reality. And it was in that moment that I was reminded, 217 00:14:13,140 --> 00:14:18,180 I was reminded of this message that we as entrepreneurs have to 218 00:14:18,180 --> 00:14:22,170 give ourselves permission to live from here to live from our 219 00:14:22,170 --> 00:14:24,510 heart's desire and to get out of our heads because in our heads, 220 00:14:24,870 --> 00:14:29,010 we make up all kinds of stories of why we can't have something 221 00:14:29,190 --> 00:14:36,780 why it's not for us, we stop. It feels too hard. Your heart's 222 00:14:36,780 --> 00:14:42,540 desires don't feel too hard. Sometimes we try too hard to get 223 00:14:42,540 --> 00:14:47,880 them when what we're invited to do is lean in, or lean back, I 224 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:51,810 should say, into the energy of receiving them versus the energy 225 00:14:51,810 --> 00:14:54,480 of pushing or figuring it out or make it happen. 226 00:14:54,510 --> 00:14:59,610 Wow, it's too much work. First, decide like decide what your 227 00:14:59,610 --> 00:15:07,200 heart's desire is. So I'm gonna invite you in this moment. We 228 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:11,670 just did this with our clients and the cocreation collective 229 00:15:11,670 --> 00:15:16,320 and the CEO table this week, we invited them. And I want to 230 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:17,100 invite you 231 00:15:17,130 --> 00:15:22,140 to think of your top three goals right now. What are the top 232 00:15:22,140 --> 00:15:27,240 three goals for your business in 2022? Okay, so just think about 233 00:15:27,240 --> 00:15:31,590 them for a second. And I want to invite you to write them down, 234 00:15:31,590 --> 00:15:33,870 so you can look at them. And if you need to pause as we go, 235 00:15:33,870 --> 00:15:39,510 definitely do that. Go ahead and write those three goals, like 236 00:15:39,510 --> 00:15:42,600 the three goals, you could think of probably a revenue goal, 237 00:15:42,630 --> 00:15:48,450 right? Big one that you've set for yourself. Maybe it's also a 238 00:15:48,450 --> 00:15:53,880 desire a goal to create a new program, raise your prices, 239 00:15:54,330 --> 00:15:56,640 maybe you want to have a podcast, you want to write a 240 00:15:56,640 --> 00:16:00,210 book, once and for all, whatever it is, just go ahead and take a 241 00:16:00,210 --> 00:16:03,330 moment and write those three goals down. And you might want 242 00:16:03,330 --> 00:16:11,070 to even pause this if you need a minute, okay? Because the next 243 00:16:11,070 --> 00:16:17,460 step is to take those goals from your head to your heart. So what 244 00:16:17,460 --> 00:16:20,580 about you to close your eyes for a moment? Do this with you close 245 00:16:20,580 --> 00:16:24,420 your eyes, unless you're driving or you're on the elliptical, 246 00:16:24,450 --> 00:16:28,140 okay, we know not to do that. Oh eyes, close your eyes for a 247 00:16:28,140 --> 00:16:36,420 moment. And just breathe. Here your breath. Good. And I want 248 00:16:36,420 --> 00:16:38,820 you to take the goals that you're thinking of the goals 249 00:16:38,820 --> 00:16:41,550 you've written down and take them from your head and bring 250 00:16:41,550 --> 00:16:46,440 them down to your heart. So imagine doing that your heart 251 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:52,860 they say, scientists and others say is this thinking and feeling 252 00:16:53,070 --> 00:16:56,040 muscle we don't even know all we know is that our heart seems to 253 00:16:56,040 --> 00:16:59,760 know a lot of things. Our heart seems to be very honest with us, 254 00:16:59,760 --> 00:17:02,760 right? So move your goals from your head to your heart. Even if 255 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:05,250 it feels weird, I've never done that before. Just go ahead and 256 00:17:05,250 --> 00:17:05,760 do it. 257 00:17:07,380 --> 00:17:12,930 Awesome. With your goals in your heart, I want you to notice each 258 00:17:12,930 --> 00:17:15,360 one need to ask yourself, 259 00:17:15,390 --> 00:17:20,610 Is this my true heart's desire? Or what do I need to shift about 260 00:17:20,610 --> 00:17:24,810 it to make it? So say that again? For each goal just asked 261 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:29,070 Is this my true heart's desire? Or what do I need to do to shift 262 00:17:29,070 --> 00:17:35,730 it to make it so? Just take a moment to think about each goal? 263 00:17:36,510 --> 00:17:42,780 And answer that question. Give you a minute. To think about 264 00:17:42,780 --> 00:17:47,970 that. You need to pause definitely pause the show for a 265 00:17:47,970 --> 00:17:50,460 moment and lean into that is my true heart's desire, what do I 266 00:17:50,460 --> 00:17:52,080 need to do to make itself feel into 267 00:17:52,079 --> 00:18:01,829 that? For each goal. And then once you've done that, you can 268 00:18:01,829 --> 00:18:03,659 go ahead and open up your eyes and write 269 00:18:03,660 --> 00:18:08,190 that down. Like literally take a moment to look at each goal and 270 00:18:08,610 --> 00:18:12,180 and decide like is that? Is that my true heart's desire? Or what 271 00:18:12,180 --> 00:18:17,070 do I need to do to shift it to make it so if it hasn't been, or 272 00:18:17,070 --> 00:18:22,650 if it's not, or like you have to tweak it. And it could be an 273 00:18:22,650 --> 00:18:27,390 example might be that there's new, maybe there's a new 274 00:18:27,390 --> 00:18:31,830 program, you want to create your business, but there's a part of 275 00:18:31,830 --> 00:18:33,660 it that you don't like or there's a part of it that you 276 00:18:33,660 --> 00:18:35,820 don't want to deliver. So to make it your heart's desire, you 277 00:18:35,820 --> 00:18:40,230 have to hire someone, or you want to write a book, but maybe 278 00:18:40,230 --> 00:18:42,450 you want to ghostwriter someone to help you like you don't want 279 00:18:42,450 --> 00:18:46,080 to do at all. That's fine, right? Like, what what do you 280 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:48,960 like? How would it become your true heart's desire and get you 281 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:59,130 to the end? Once you've gotten to your true heart's desires, 282 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:04,530 and you can write them down and look at it. The next step to 283 00:19:04,530 --> 00:19:08,610 bringing them into reality is to look at each one and ask 284 00:19:08,610 --> 00:19:15,510 yourself, what is the story that I'm telling myself about this 285 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:20,040 particular goal or Heart's Desire regarding why I can't 286 00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:24,870 have it? So you get into the idea of there's a story, there's 287 00:19:24,870 --> 00:19:26,820 a story if we don't have something like I'll give you so 288 00:19:26,820 --> 00:19:30,090 the goal I shifted in 2021 Ross by like, yes, 289 00:19:30,089 --> 00:19:35,009 I want this, I'm gonna make it happen. I have a big story about 290 00:19:35,009 --> 00:19:36,449 why it wasn't possible. 291 00:19:37,559 --> 00:19:41,159 And I can laugh about it now. And like, I look back, I had to 292 00:19:41,159 --> 00:19:43,199 confront that story. Now. 293 00:19:43,230 --> 00:19:46,830 In my case, I had my coach to help me. My coach was like, This 294 00:19:46,830 --> 00:19:49,380 is what coaches are great at, like, I go to like really 295 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:55,829 does hear the story? And she said to me, she's like, well, 296 00:19:56,789 --> 00:20:02,489 probably you haven't You know, decided for sure that this is 297 00:20:02,489 --> 00:20:09,899 what you want. Because when you step into it when you make it so 298 00:20:11,159 --> 00:20:15,809 the way is there. So what part of this? Are you saying no to? I 299 00:20:15,809 --> 00:20:19,679 really had to think about that. Because there were parts of it 300 00:20:19,679 --> 00:20:22,139 that I didn't think I wanted or didn't think were possible. So 301 00:20:22,139 --> 00:20:25,799 you want to confront your story about each goal. And ask 302 00:20:25,799 --> 00:20:28,289 yourself, What's that true about that? Or what's the lie in that 303 00:20:28,289 --> 00:20:31,019 story? Why I'm telling myself, I can't have it. Because 304 00:20:31,049 --> 00:20:33,959 typically, there's a lie, there's a story, there's 305 00:20:33,959 --> 00:20:37,829 something there, that is important for you to confront 306 00:20:37,829 --> 00:20:41,009 and say, Hey, that's not true. And a way to do that is to say, 307 00:20:41,039 --> 00:20:44,159 you know, what's not true about that story? Is that true about 308 00:20:44,159 --> 00:20:47,099 that for me? To ask that question, and then watch what 309 00:20:47,099 --> 00:20:51,059 happens so powerful. And your subconscious will suddenly start 310 00:20:51,059 --> 00:20:54,119 to agree with you. It's like, yeah, that's, that's not true. 311 00:20:55,379 --> 00:20:58,919 You know, and sometimes it's just fear. I'm afraid of what 312 00:20:58,919 --> 00:21:01,889 what are you afraid of? Right? Like, if I find fear coming up 313 00:21:01,889 --> 00:21:04,079 around a goal, I have to ask myself, alright, what am I 314 00:21:04,079 --> 00:21:08,699 really afraid of? What could really go wrong here? That would 315 00:21:08,699 --> 00:21:11,819 be so terrible that I wouldn't recover? Like you just go 316 00:21:11,819 --> 00:21:15,119 ridiculous. And you realize, okay, wait, like the fears just, 317 00:21:15,179 --> 00:21:17,849 it's just my, my ego, my subconscious, whatever you want 318 00:21:17,849 --> 00:21:20,819 to call it, try to keep me safe by giving me something to focus 319 00:21:20,819 --> 00:21:24,929 on to be afraid of when assignment tro. Alright, so you 320 00:21:24,929 --> 00:21:26,699 want to go through each one, figure out what's not true about 321 00:21:26,699 --> 00:21:32,759 it. And then the last step is, I already kind of, you know, 322 00:21:32,759 --> 00:21:35,969 hinted on this, but like, You got to step into it, like it's 323 00:21:35,969 --> 00:21:43,079 already done. Like, it's just, it's done. It's my heart's 324 00:21:43,079 --> 00:21:48,719 desire. I'm not afraid, I've gotten rid of the stories around 325 00:21:48,719 --> 00:21:52,619 it, right, I've let that go. It's my heart's desire, there's 326 00:21:52,619 --> 00:21:57,419 no stories of the lies are gone. And now I'm stepping into the 327 00:21:57,449 --> 00:22:05,009 expectation, the belief that it's just done, it's done. Now, 328 00:22:05,009 --> 00:22:08,729 that doesn't mean that there's not going to be any action that 329 00:22:08,729 --> 00:22:12,779 you take, because there will be. But when you take these steps, 330 00:22:12,779 --> 00:22:16,769 and you come from that space of your heart's desire, the next 331 00:22:16,769 --> 00:22:20,339 steps that show up will probably be things you didn't even think 332 00:22:20,339 --> 00:22:22,769 of. And it can happen even faster than you can imagine. 333 00:22:23,009 --> 00:22:25,649 Like the goal I was talking about 2021, the way to get 334 00:22:25,649 --> 00:22:28,829 there. Oh, my gosh, I can't even tell you how hard I was trying 335 00:22:28,829 --> 00:22:33,869 to make it. It's like two steps. It was it blew my mind to the 336 00:22:33,869 --> 00:22:36,539 point where I knew I had to talk about it with my clients with 337 00:22:36,539 --> 00:22:39,809 all of you with our listeners. Because it was like the way it 338 00:22:39,809 --> 00:22:45,869 was there was just there. Two steps. I think in my head a 339 00:22:45,869 --> 00:22:49,649 great about 20 steps to get there. Oh my gosh. And I'd 340 00:22:49,649 --> 00:22:51,929 already started doing the work on making it hard. You should 341 00:22:51,929 --> 00:22:54,929 have seen the I was being so crafty and how I was creating it 342 00:22:54,929 --> 00:23:00,359 to be hard. That's why this process, this way of thinking is 343 00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:06,569 so powerful. And it's what I want to invite you to step into 344 00:23:06,839 --> 00:23:09,989 for 2022. This might be this might be an episode, you want to 345 00:23:09,989 --> 00:23:13,709 come back and listen to over and over again, to get this like to 346 00:23:13,739 --> 00:23:18,059 get your goals coming into reality even faster. And also, 347 00:23:18,059 --> 00:23:21,449 if this resonates with you, please share this show with 348 00:23:21,449 --> 00:23:24,479 someone like there's somebody you know, in your circle, who 349 00:23:24,479 --> 00:23:27,779 could benefit from knowing that it's okay to have what they 350 00:23:27,779 --> 00:23:30,539 want. It's okay to have their best year ever. It's okay to 351 00:23:30,539 --> 00:23:34,889 stop living in fear. It's even okay to start living in joy 352 00:23:34,889 --> 00:23:39,659 again, and hope and expectation that the world we live in can be 353 00:23:39,659 --> 00:23:42,059 amazing. It is amazing. There's amazing people in the world. 354 00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:45,989 Amazing things are happening. And they always have been. The 355 00:23:45,989 --> 00:23:49,169 question is what have we been told to focus on? I want to 356 00:23:49,169 --> 00:23:52,319 invite you to focus on what's possible. And what you want to 357 00:23:52,319 --> 00:23:56,699 create in 2022 and beyond. Because it's waiting for you. 358 00:23:56,879 --> 00:24:00,749 Your hearts desires, your true heart's desires. They're like on 359 00:24:00,749 --> 00:24:08,549 a silver platter, and they're waiting for you. Thank you for 360 00:24:08,549 --> 00:24:12,689 hanging out with me today. I'm sure there's a million things on 361 00:24:12,689 --> 00:24:15,059 your to do list. But you've entered the two exit tents. 362 00:24:15,149 --> 00:24:17,429 There's only like 10 So if you need that help, definitely 363 00:24:17,429 --> 00:24:21,269 apply. We'd love to help you. But I'm just kidding. But like I 364 00:24:21,269 --> 00:24:23,459 know there's a lot of places you can spend your time and I'm so 365 00:24:23,459 --> 00:24:26,399 grateful for those of you who listen on the regular I just 366 00:24:26,429 --> 00:24:29,249 want to send you so much love. Thanks for being Thanks for 367 00:24:29,279 --> 00:24:32,789 downloading this on the regular thanks for listening. And thanks 368 00:24:32,789 --> 00:24:37,259 for sharing this show because we want to be a positive we're 369 00:24:37,259 --> 00:24:39,059 gonna have a positive domino effect. I 370 00:24:39,060 --> 00:24:41,790 think we myself my team and are still going to have a positive 371 00:24:41,790 --> 00:24:46,920 domino effect into 2022 and beyond to help as many people as 372 00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:50,580 possible reach their multi six multi seven figure goals and 373 00:24:50,580 --> 00:24:54,330 their businesses so that they so that you can live the most 374 00:24:54,330 --> 00:24:57,030 incredible life that you want to live. Give back to organizations 375 00:24:57,030 --> 00:25:02,040 you care about to be in Do whatever it is that you desire. 376 00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:08,640 Alright everybody, that's it for this week. Many blessings. If 377 00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:12,810 you love the show, email me Ursula at Ursula ink dot CEO, 378 00:25:12,870 --> 00:25:15,630 tell me what you liked or leave us a review. Alright everybody 379 00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:17,670 have a blessed week. We'll see you soon. Bye for now