Happy February.

This is Emily and I'm Lisa.

Happy February.

And we are the conscious collaboration.

I'm glad you rolled with that.

I felt I didn't like it as.

Soon as I said it out there.

No take backs, tight timeline.

That's what I get.

Yeah, I know you did change it up.

But I think if people are gonna be like, is this Emily and Lisa?

What's going on?

That's not their normal intro script.

But to that point we thought it'd be great to do another quick energy check in.

But let's keep it relationship oriented.

Relationship realization ship.

Well, we touched on it back in December and I think it was the theme.

The holidays, maybe it was late November, early December.

We started talking about reciprocity in relationships.

We talked about relationships.

We had a guest on talking about relationships as well too.

But hey, let's.

Let's dial it in a little bit more with the current energy and see how we can show up best in our relationship so that we cultivate this reciprocity and connection that will support us best in the year of the Fire Horse.

And moving forward.

So the year the fire horse technically starts February 17th, but then, you know, we're already in the shadow period.

We've been feeling it harken back to our previous episodes where we've been advising against what other people are advising.

This isn't the time to just run with reckless abandon towards the sunset.

Yeah, Intention time to run with intentional abandon.

Yes.

As much as this air sign just want to pop off.

So I do want to say the current energy is divergent, diverging interest.

And that one flew out.

Gotta.

Gotta get this.

The dramatic zoom.

Yeah.

Okay, so the I Ching here is telling us the story of diverging interests as it relates to our relationships.

And it tells a story of fire above and lake below.

We don't get this one very often, but interesting.

As I was talking about running with reckless abandoned towards the sunset, here's the depiction of this energy shows a sunset in the distance, but it's obscured.

There's the fire.

And then the nuanced energy of it is cutting through hexagram 21.

So for those playing at home, hexagram 38 shifting into 21.

And so I don't know, your intuition signals picking up on anything based on that?

Not so much yet.

Let's hear what.

Okay.

Cards gotta say.

Let's hear what they have to say.

Okay.

Diverging interests in the diverging interest of relationships is interesting.

So.

Yeah.

So holding in your mind whether this is personal or business, it talks about current circumstances call for confronting a thorny situation and cutting through it.

Oh, somehow the way to harmony and unity is blocked or frustrated perhaps by a tangle of deceit or corruption.

Oh, don't be afraid to shake things up a bit.

The ability to take corrective measures when they are needed is an essential trait of leadership.

O it's interesting.

So it talks about the story of Alexander the Great cutting the Gordian knot.

Take decisive action and you will meet with good fortune and even your destiny.

Guess that sunset off in the distance.

So there's something in the relationship.

There is a diverging interest and it needs to be brought to the surface, is what I'm hearing.

And untangled.

Cut.

This isn't something to sweep under the rug.

And you know how dramatic the I Ching is.

It might not be a dramatic thing.

It could just be different.

Interests speak Boundaries too, I think.

Boundaries, yeah.

Don't sweep it under the rug.

Yeah, but it advises, don't be hasty, severe, arbitrary.

Consider all circumstances.

Okay.

It might not be something that you have to be as dramatic as, you know.

Well, I, I, I guess we can take just a little bit of a side quest there.

And, you know, Stefan speaks.

Who, okay, so we're talking about romantic relationships here, but he's a, he's a personality that I like to, you know, listen to from time to time.

And he always talks about red flags as not something to, I mean, unless it's like an obvious, like, moral, you know, big moral, like, difference that it's not something to just go up, red flag, you're cut off.

It's something to address and bring up further because, you know, you probably don't have all the information.

And where we can get into trouble with those things is if we sweep them under the rug and we just kind of, you know, rationalize these things without having the discussion.

But having the discussion is, is what, you know, really provides the clarity as to whether, okay, is this something that we, you know, can, can work through or is this something that is going to be, you know, a problem that will stop us from moving forward?

Yeah, that's really well said.

And that really resonates with a lot of the discussions I've been hearing.

Yeah, I like that.

What is it?

Simon speak.

She said Stefan.

Stefan, not Simon.

Simon says not.

Simon says not to be confused when Stefan speaks.

I think his name is Stefan, like Labossier or something.

Okay, that's challenging.

He should rethink that.

He's Haitian, so they have the French last name.

So I'll have to Check him out.

Like my vacation accent.

So it does kind of.

This mirrors what you've been saying as well.

So that's a really good intuition hit that you got.

So obviously it says in situations where serious issues of justice are at stake, then you want to actually be very.

Don't hesitate and be as loud as you can about it.

But if it's something person is like.

I murdered my friend for no reason.

Oh, okay.

That's a red flag.

You don't want to draw in alignment.

You don't want to address with curiosity that type of discussion.

Oh, gosh, that's funny.

My mind went off on a whole train there.

Like, I was thinking about how in a lot of my dreams and I talked about.

What was her name?

Belva?

Is that her name?

It feels weird when I say it.

Velva Harrity.

When I talk to her about my shadow self and my dreams and my nightmares.

There's been a few times where, like, I come across a bad guy in my dream, which is also me, I guess, according to her.

But in my dream, the bad guy or the monster or whatever doesn't murder me.

I end up, like, talking to him or her enough so that I'm like.

I make the scariness smaller.

I end up just walking with them.

Like, what's going on here?

Anyway, I hope you're not faced with that situation that Emily just described in your relationship issue that needs to be addressed.

It reminds me of is the Scott crest reels where he's like.

He's talking about the.

All the red flags that he's overlooking.

And yeah, like, he literally murdered his whole family.

Like, I know, girl, but he didn't mean it.

Didn't mean it.

Yeah, I like that.

So these diverging interests, they do cause some level of estrangement.

So you might be feeling this and it could be something within your family.

It could be just like you don't like who someone in your family is hanging around.

Different natures and interests bring some sense of opposition.

And it kind of.

It's still possible for you to have good fortune in the relationship.

Just naturally, naturally, as Emily said.

I think that's very good.

See yourself as a team, both people and companies, and not seeing each other in this state as competition.

But yes, evaluating the situation at hand.

So there's only one change line.

This energy is very stable.

Diverging interests and cutting through are very related.

So 38 to 21 it in line two talks about this is a difficult time to get together with those in your circle with whom you have Misunderstandings.

However, if you get the chance to meet accidentally, there may be an opportunity for compromise, provided there remains an inner affinity between you.

This can only happen if you let go of mistrust and let yourself be open to the other's truth.

So I mean, we just kind of said it in a different way in the I Ching way.

Yeah, I think timing, timing when you bring up topics too, like that's the interpersonal part of it.

I think it's talking about here in this line.

It's kind of like sensing into that accidental or serendipitous moment when you feel like you have a place to relate and bring it forward and you know, trusting when you're being open to each other to see if this is something that you can cut through.

So that's pretty interesting with a, like, hey, are you in a good space to talk about XYZ right now?

Rather than we need to talk, you know, or whatever.

Yes, I, I talk to a lot of people, especially men's.

They have this instance where there's something going on but their girlfriend or wife isn't bringing it up.

And it comes up like right when they're about to go to bed, they're.

Like, the game's on.

Of course we have these same, same sort of things that apply to us.

But on the reverse.

Yeah, like that's, you know, timing is a big part of it.

Sensing and feeling into that.

Maybe it's like a three part series of a conversation.

But nevertheless, I think this is really good advice that the I Ching gives us in.

In the current collective energy Fire horse season, everything that's going on just.

It also talks about letting go of self absorbed people who don't share your values both with both people and companies.

And measure of stature is a quality of one's competition.

So really evaluating like when there is a diverging interest, it doesn't.

Doesn't necessarily mean that your competitors in the sense that you need to be villains.

It might just be principle.

And at the root of it, values and principles and your individuality need to be honored.

Yeah, different human beings in any flavor of relationship are gonna, you know, they're gonna have diverging interests at some point.

I hope you're not the exact same person.

Oh, you can't grow forward when things are.

When you're so similar.

Chamber of we like the same things and we listen to the same things.

And we do the same thing.

Like what?

That's boring.

Doesn't make for interesting conversation.

So.

Well, good.

I feel pretty settled with that.

I think that's very good.

Yeah.

Advice.

I like that.

So all you people out there that you're sweeping something under the rug because you want to keep the peace or you're only dish into your girlfriends or your guy.

Guys don't do that.

Do guys dish?

No, they don't.

Yeah, I think, you know, it might manifest differently, but I do.

I think so.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Keep the peace.

Yeah.

I don't have a lot.

We.

I don't have a lot of.

Well, I mean, do guys dish to other guys?

Like, I need advice on what to do with the situation.

Oh, no, no, I don't think they do.

I think they channel the energy or work it out in something else, like become hyper focused in something.

I don't hear that often from any of my guy friends or any clients.

No, they are.

They are the fixer.

They are the problem solver, which, to be fair, I. I tend to lean towards that myself, but, you know.

Yeah, you can flip that.

And we've been saying that for a long time, especially in the type of energy that the conscious collaboration collective is in that we, you know, especially the women tend to get into that more masculine fixer directive energy.

For sure.

Well, good.

Well, let's continue this conversation inside of our closed and private Facebook group.

You can find us there, the link provided in the description.

Yeah.

Boom.

All right.

And everybody in your mind, wish Lisa a happy belated birthday.

By the time this comes out, it will have been like, what, 12, 12 days ago?

But, yeah.

Happy birthday.

Thank you.

Yes, the Aquarian birthday season has.

Is underway.

Has been underway.

So.

So thanks very much.

All right, cool.

Well, guys, we look forward to talking to you soon.

Talk to you in five.

Talk to you in five.

Bye, guys.

Bye.