The greatest work you'll ever do will be in proximity to the person that you're in a relationship with.

It's to be in a situation where someone takes you into your

No. You do have to be responsible for yourself, your

Your husband isn't supposed to ask your permission. Your husband can do

whatever he wants with the money. True submission is giving him

complete control. Giving him complete control of

Are we back in the 1800s? And not trying to control him. Not

trying to control him. I'm nervous to

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We all need the three B's. It's balance, breaks

Oh, balance, breaks and boundaries. They're

Not only do we work hard, but we need that love, that

I really feel that. When she said girl time, I

felt that. You really need a good sisterhood when you're pushing

I always tell the young entrepreneurs, team no

Yeah. No sleep, pushing boundaries, pushing yourself

to your limits, you end up not achieving as much as

No, please get your rest, drink your water, replenish yourself. And

then boundaries. Set your boundaries. Whether

if it's showing up, doing a favor, just know that I love you, I

I love that. She's encouraging people to have a voice. What

serves you. Boundaries are really important. What she's saying is that you don't

have to go to everything that you're invited to. Just

making sure that you're prioritizing yourself and what serves you as

Let's take a look at the next one. Your husband isn't supposed to ask your

permission. Your husband can do whatever he wants with the money. True

submission is giving him complete control. Giving

Are we back in the 1800s? Not trying to control him. Not

Truly feminine wives actually don't get mad about this

True feminine wives don't get mad about what? Control?

Spending money? Is it our money though to start with or is it just

Because I know women that really were housewives and

I completely disagree. We can't

obey anybody, either husband or wife. They shouldn't

have to obey anybody. That's really like giving me like 1800 vibes,

No. They wanted when he came home they didn't want him to lift a

Oh my gosh. Okay now you know that's not the reputation of

wives today and those women have had an extremely hard

One point yeah it was a really hard time for women when they had to do

it all. And I think that's why maybe they

withdrew a bit and failed in other areas. So this

is a good point. She's saying that those women have

had an extremely hard life, which

is true. And it actually makes me remember something that

I saw about how women focus

so much on their husband and their house that they gave no time

to their children and their children grew up with issues. Point

Because their friends would shame them. Their friends just don't

So when I... Well, obviously they weren't her good friends, true

I say that's the generation of shitty wives. They don't get

mad. They say, I know because I've been alone. They

So many people, how many people actually can't relate

You're being controlled. Even Christian wives will say, oh,

she's just she just does whatever he says. They don't realize that's

the way it's supposed to be. Your husband isn't supposed to ask your permission.

Your husband can do whatever he wants with the money. True submission

is giving him complete control and not trying to

control him. But if we can't even agree that that is the aim, that

is the goal. then the next generation is

She's really like, she's got me on the fence still,

like really good points, but I

think it's just a topic in general that I just don't agree with, like

really traditional ways, like housewife,

husband goes to work, no interaction with children, no help

Okay, let's check out another one. So the story that you tell yourself, which already

we know is, I can't be a business owner as a wife and a mom.

That ladder is up to this belief that it's going to be impossible

She's already setting the tone that it's hard. So where's she actually going

this at the story level. I'd do some work on why. Why

would you want to do this? Would it make you proud to do this? Would

it make you feel awesome to create some extra income

I love creating more income streams. So what's

There's something about you individually that you haven't tended to.

Is that what this is about? So figure that out. Take on

She's on point though, like figuring out what

you want in life. That's a good point because you

That's a really good point. If you were to jump on my phone and

scroll through here, I've only got positive quotes, parenting tips,

because that's where I'm at at the moment. So you've got to really be

mindful about what you are watching and what you're seeing.

Who are you following? It's a really strong point. I think it's

huge. It's the same as like, what do you watch on TV? I don't watch TV.

So, but if you do, what are you watching and ask yourself why?

What's it, how's it helping you to become who

Do you know who you want to become? That are every single day

in your social media feed, your board of directors and

mentors that are pouring into you and inspiring you

Good points. Have you thought about it? Like who you're following and

If you were to get rid of all the influencers and start following women

in business and consuming this content and

allowing it to pour into you, you're going to start to realize, Oh

my God, it's not only possible, all these people are doing it. And I think that something would come

Who you surround yourself with, you become. That's

Let's take a look at another one. The greatest work you'll ever do will be in proximity to

the person that you're in a relationship with. The goal or the role of

being in a relationship isn't necessarily to find harmony, although

that's an aspect of it. It's to be in a situation where

I think, though, you do have to be responsible for yourself in

And when you're in your wounds, they bring it to the surface like, well, now I

get to work on it. There's been plenty of times where I've just gone, you know what? Buck,

this is just too hard. I just want to bail. But

then you've got to go, at some point, you've got to find someone that you're willing to do

the work for and go, you know what? Yes, you pissed me

off. Yes, I pushed my buttons. But I'm willing

to do the work for you. With you. With you. More

I really love this one. It's important to do the work with you.

I think that's the key point of this one, is to do

the work with you, with your partner. Let's take a look at the last

The happiest couples are actually couples that both have careers because they

have a shared goal in terms of like, this is what we want to do. They've shared values in terms of

Respect is huge in any relationship and also

knowing each other's goals and having respect for them. That's, that's

And they respect one another and they respect each other's goals. And then they walk

kind of in parallel in my scenario where we're like doing the same thing together. These

couples make five times more money, but you can become too familiar and then you

just become siblings. So for us, we actually create more space. We try to

work on separate sides of the house. We don't attend the same meetings. So like at the end of

the day, we can sit down at dinner and be like, how was your day? And she can tell me something rather than me saying like,

oh, I was there. I know seeing the level of like commitment and loyalty that you get

from that have strong beliefs around that. And I think that you don't have to compromise anything if

Me and TJ always working together at the cafe. We always found

things to talk about at the end of the day because my brain

always goes a hundred miles an hour. And so it's always

good to have those things to come back to outside

of your task at hand. So yeah, making sure that

you keep your own personal ambitions alive as

well. It can look completely different for every couple, but

you have to find out what works for you. And remember that

that's your lifetime partner. So always love them. That's a wrap guys.

So if you enjoyed this episode, make sure you send through

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review them. It's actually quite fun. It's quite interesting to see the

different dynamics and how people actually get their point

across. But again, find what works for you and I'll