If you're a woman and you're wanting to connect with

your man a lot better, give your man time to... If

you are a woman, sometimes biting your tongue doesn't hurt.

I've done it a lot and you know what, holding back from reacting

is a sign of love and respect as well. If you're a man

and you want to connect with your partner on

a deeper level and to try and understand or create

that connection, when she's sharing with you, I would encourage

you to just... Welcome to Krystal Rowe Impacts, a

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inspire change. Kia ora and welcome back to

the Krystal Rowe Impact Podcast. And today I have my amazing

husband joining me and we're going to share our

story about being a power couple.

And the first time that we actually heard that, we were kind

of like set back. We kind of do consider ourselves very

like humble people and not too much in the limelight. But

our lives are definitely steering us in that direction, wouldn't

A hundred percent it is, yep. Yeah, it's a little bit like at

first it was a bit uncomfortable, but I'm used to

being the one in the background. But yeah, I think to

be able to take the wheel and control

our destinies is, yeah, been amazing.

I think that... And to have you, like, by my side as well.

Yeah, I feel like we're moving a lot quicker.

I think we've only been together for three...

Three years, two months, four

So we have definitely fast-tracked

in our relationship together, I think. Well, not

I think. I know that we've 10x'd in our

healing, in our personal growth, in business, the

way we raise our children, the way we are together. And

that, I believe, is because, one, the way we communicate,

and two, because we have a common goal.

We do, yeah. We have a common goal and we know where we're going. That

end result is to be sitting on the beach drinking

cocktails and... Riding dolphins. Inviting

dolphins. No, but in order to actually get

there, we are serious about what we need to do. And

I think the beautiful thing about that is that we want

to bring as many people along with us as

well. And I know that when you

want to be successful in life, it really is

about being in service. as well, and

helping other people, because the view from the top is better shared. I've

always believed that, and I think being able to share that

with you, my love, is actually more than

a dream come true, and that kind of love

100% my love. I think What

I love about us is when we first met, we were like

on this high vibe frequency. We're

both on that level of just full of life and just wanted

to go places. And we were both in our own healing

journeys and coming together, it's

like 10X our healing. And we

just moved really quickly, which was amazing.

Yeah, we've done so much together and it's been actually

amazing to kind of look back now and

see that, you know, I remember that first time, like I said

earlier, somebody said, what a power couple. And I was like, And

then I went away and I actually sat with that. And I was like, yeah,

like we have because we're so in the

motion of getting things done and always like just

thriving. Like, how do you feel

Like, Oh, I don't feel overwhelmed at all. No. At

first I was like, Wow, okay, yep. Now we've got

to deal with this. Now we've got this and this and this. But it's definitely

it's helped me grow. Just

It just makes you feel alive, I guess. But

I think one good point why we move so quickly and,

you know, jump to the next thing and the next thing so

rapidly is because we are really good communicators. You

know, we ain't this perfect couple that everything's all

rainbows and butterflies. Like we still have our moments where we, have

our little tiffs here and there, but the difference with us is we

will address it straight away. And

that's something I've learned and loved about our relationship is,

you know, we could have this little disagreement,

but then we calm ourselves down, we talk about

it, we don't blame, try

and put the blame elsewhere, we work through it. yeah,

deal with it, put it aside or get rid of it and then

Yeah, I think it's a really important thing for people to

learn that when they're wanting to work

with their partner as well, that communication, it's

about what's right, not who's right, and about getting to

that end goal and getting to that end goal quicker, because sometimes

it kind of can be like, if it's your idea or

my idea, like, we've never had that. We've never

had that kind of like, it's like, this is what will get us

here, your strength's that, my strength's this, let's

just do it. And I think that's been the

Yeah. And I think like when you come up with an idea or if I come up with an

idea and I don't really resonate with it or understand it,

I think asking you that question, okay,

so put me on that same level. Like, why

are you so excited about this idea? And I don't really understand it.

Just giving her permission or your permission to explain

Yeah, and also giving like you time to get on that page as

well. That just triggers like a thing

that you told me about a podcast that you listen to

about the brain, like and sometimes how your brain

doesn't catch up as quickly. And

you need time. Whereas me, I'm like reacting, if

you're not excited as much as I am, and then I'm like feeling

some kind of way, but I've also learned like, and

remembered that our common goal is is

there, and it's not here. And

your reaction is not a reflection of what you think about me, but

a misunderstanding, or what's the

other word, or just lack of understanding in that moment,

and that once I've given you time, and then you're like, yeah, that's great,

or not. I don't know if you've said no to any of

Good answer, my love. But yes, it is

amazing to see and it's amazing feeling too.

to see how much can be done in a short amount of

time. When you put your mind to the end

goal, and when you've got a clear vision of where you wanna go to, you

can get there just like that. When you've got the right support,

the right environment, the right mindset, mental health,

and everything's all aligned, it's like you can just be

Yeah, when you've got two couples wanting the same thing, Like

I sort of come up with an analogy earlier today when

we were speaking about this episode was, say

a car has a turbo, right? That's one

person is your turbo. When you've got a twin turbo, a couple, you're

gonna get there quicker. So yeah, we're that twin

So if you're a man and you want to connect with

your partner on a deeper level and to

try and understand or create that connection, when

she's sharing with you, I would encourage you to

just say something. to respond or

smile or can I get back to you? What

does that mean? Ask another question. If something isn't

quite clear for you in the first time that she

has dropped an idea or suggested something, come

back with something because sometimes the silence can

be so like, Man, like

all your fears as a woman, everything can come rushing

back. I'm not good enough. He doesn't care. He doesn't love me. And

it's simply not true. You just didn't hear her properly or you didn't understand

the question. And if that's your person, you

should have enough courage or enough

freedom to be able to say, can you say that again, my love? Or what do you

mean? Can you tell me a little bit more? And then

that way she will know that you are engaged. And I think

that's the most important thing from me as a woman, that

I need to hear that you've heard me and

that I'm not just sitting here in silence and letting everything else

play out. So I encourage you to ask questions, say something,

Yeah, I love that. I love that, but I'm going to defend the

men here. If you're

a woman and you're wanting

to connect with your man a lot better and understand

him, I honestly feel like what

Crystal said is great, but if you can also give

your man time to let it

sink in, to, you know, it takes us

a lot sometimes to understand the question or understand the

situation for our hearts and our brains to connect. And,

you know, if you're a man and like me, you

don't want to say the wrong thing either. So sometimes that silence is

better than saying the wrong thing. So,

yeah, if you are a woman and... Sorry

to go against you, my love, but if you are a woman and you want

that connection with your man, give him a little bit of time. Give

him that time to come up with the best answer

I think I'm just going to throw a little thing in there too. And if you are

a woman, sometimes biting your tongue doesn't hurt.

I've done it a lot. And you know what? Holding back from

reacting is a sign of love and respect

And also just knowing your guys' goal together as

a couple. And just know that whatever

you're going through, it will pass. If your mind is set

on your journey and where you're going, just

enjoy the journey. Just

know that you will get through it. And it's

So if you've got any questions about what we've

talked about today for myself or TJ, or

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