Welcome to the Peak Revival Podcast.
Speaker:My name is Vesna.
Speaker:I'm your host.
Speaker:And on this podcast, I'm going to
Speaker:talk about how high performing women
Speaker:can regain peak physical energy and
Speaker:mental wellbeing today I thought
Speaker:for the first episode, it would be
Speaker:a really good idea to talk about
Speaker:kind of getting to peak performance.
Speaker:What is that?
Speaker:How do we get away from this kind of
Speaker:place of feeling burnt out, exhausted,
Speaker:overstretched, overwhelmed, Especially
Speaker:when you have a lot on and how do we
Speaker:move into peak performance and peak
Speaker:performance isn't Being athletic and
Speaker:I think that's probably an assumption
Speaker:even when I first heard the phrase
Speaker:peak performance I went to that same
Speaker:place I really do think it was about
Speaker:being fit and athletic and athletes
Speaker:are peak performers, but it really
Speaker:peak performance is about being our
Speaker:best and realizing our potential.
Speaker:So peak performance looks like our
Speaker:ability to handle day to day stresses,
Speaker:but not just bounce back from stress,
Speaker:but to really seek out challenges
Speaker:because they help us to stretch and
Speaker:grow and tap into more of our resources.
Speaker:It's about mental focus,
Speaker:mental concentration.
Speaker:It's about being able to work on a
Speaker:piece of work for a long time without
Speaker:getting distracted or disrupted.
Speaker:It's about handling our emotions.
Speaker:And regulating our emotions and
Speaker:understanding the emotions of others.
Speaker:And it also looks like having healthy
Speaker:and fulfilling relationships and
Speaker:making deep connections with others.
Speaker:So as you can see, peak mental
Speaker:performance is a lot more about our
Speaker:personal lives, our inner inner life,
Speaker:and how that reflects on our outer life
Speaker:than anything to do with just being fit.
Speaker:if you.
Speaker:I'm here today and you're feeling,
Speaker:well, I feel pretty overstretched.
Speaker:I feel pretty overwhelmed and exhausted,
Speaker:but it is because I have a lot on, right?
Speaker:And so one of the myths I want to
Speaker:dispel is reason why we Um, and
Speaker:that's a symptom as well, but we're
Speaker:looking at other factors that start
Speaker:to break down or cause imbalances
Speaker:in our body, which aren't corrected.
Speaker:And so life is.
Speaker:We're always going to throw us
Speaker:challenges, we can't avoid that,
Speaker:but unless we have the proper
Speaker:kind of recovery plan in place,
Speaker:we eventually, our body will break
Speaker:down systems and hormones and will
Speaker:create deficiencies in the body.
Speaker:It starts to break down.
Speaker:And if we don't do anything to
Speaker:correct it, then eventually we
Speaker:hit to a place of burnout, right?
Speaker:And so, often, you know, I
Speaker:hear women say, Well, it's
Speaker:because I'm a business owner.
Speaker:It's because I'm juggling
Speaker:family and business and work.
Speaker:I have too many things on.
Speaker:And definitely having a packed schedule
Speaker:without any downtime is a problem.
Speaker:But we're really looking at, we
Speaker:can, shift ourselves into a higher
Speaker:state of performance, really
Speaker:operating from our best when we
Speaker:can improve our internal wellbeing.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:So when we can correct those
Speaker:imbalances that are controlling
Speaker:our energy, our mood, our
Speaker:memory, our concentration, right?
Speaker:We can influence that through
Speaker:diet lifestyle changes.
Speaker:So what does it matter to, even want
Speaker:to get to peak performance, right?
Speaker:And for me, it's a very natural state.
Speaker:I don't look at peak performance
Speaker:as something that we have to
Speaker:strive hard and work hard towards.
Speaker:It is a very natural state when we remove
Speaker:the barriers to peak performance, right?
Speaker:So many years ago, a psychologist,
Speaker:Abraham Maslow, he We talked
Speaker:about this innate drive in every
Speaker:person to become everything that
Speaker:we're capable of becoming, right?
Speaker:So there is an innate drive there.
Speaker:So we want to be our best.
Speaker:We want to do our best.
Speaker:We want to make a difference in
Speaker:the world because that brings
Speaker:us meaning and fulfillment.
Speaker:So this desire to reach our highest
Speaker:potential is there for everybody.
Speaker:And Abraham Maslow called it
Speaker:self actualization, right?
Speaker:That we have to pass through certain
Speaker:milestones to get there, right?
Speaker:And so physical health and well being
Speaker:was absolutely one of those milestones.
Speaker:burnout peak performance
Speaker:lives on a scale, right?
Speaker:So if we're looking at peak performance
Speaker:on the continuum on the very lower end,
Speaker:we have severe anxiety and depression.
Speaker:normally people in this place
Speaker:aren't able to keep up with work
Speaker:and day to day responsibilities.
Speaker:Fortunately, most people do not, live
Speaker:in that place, but we tend to hover.
Speaker:A lot of people tend to
Speaker:hover in the middle zone.
Speaker:So, Not in the, the severe anxiety and
Speaker:depression, and not in peak performance
Speaker:either, but in this middle zone of
Speaker:over stress, anxiety and burnout.
Speaker:And so while we're not suffering
Speaker:the severe stuff, we're not reaching
Speaker:our highest potential either.
Speaker:If you're, you know, like I
Speaker:said, it isn't innate driving
Speaker:us to want to be our best.
Speaker:If you're feeling now, Oh wow,
Speaker:I don't feel like that at all.
Speaker:Then there is things that you can do.
Speaker:But the first step is to really
Speaker:become aware of where you're
Speaker:kind of sitting at the moment.
Speaker:You know, do you wake up with energy?
Speaker:Do you feel like you have energy all
Speaker:day long that you can work pretty solid?
Speaker:You can come home after work or
Speaker:after, working your business and you
Speaker:feel like you have a lot more energy
Speaker:to do everything you need to do.
Speaker:Or do you feel tired when you wake up?
Speaker:Do you feel like at two, 3 p.
Speaker:m you hit a wall and you're so tired and
Speaker:you're going for the coffee or the sugar.
Speaker:Do you find that at the end of the
Speaker:day you completely spent, there's
Speaker:nothing left in the tank for
Speaker:your family, for your loved ones.
Speaker:And you know, I see a lot of women who.
Speaker:feel guilty from that place, right?
Speaker:Because There's just not enough
Speaker:reserves there to be able to do all the
Speaker:things that they need to do in a day.
Speaker:Another one is, do you
Speaker:have energy to exercise?
Speaker:Are you sleeping well?
Speaker:Do you feel like you go to bed at night,
Speaker:you fall asleep pretty, pretty easily.
Speaker:You sleep right through and you wake
Speaker:up in the morning, you feel refreshed.
Speaker:Or, are you waking up
Speaker:multiple times a night?
Speaker:Are you finding it hard
Speaker:to fall back to sleep?
Speaker:Are you finding it hard to
Speaker:fall asleep to begin with?
Speaker:Are you going to bed later than 10pm?
Speaker:How do you handle stress?
Speaker:Do you catastrophize problems?
Speaker:Do you find that something goes wrong
Speaker:in your business or your family or your
Speaker:work, or someone says something to you
Speaker:in a meeting or in an email and instead
Speaker:of being able to let it go you carry
Speaker:it around with you for like 24 hours?
Speaker:How are your moods?
Speaker:Do you feel like your
Speaker:motivation is quite low?
Speaker:That your passion in what you're
Speaker:doing is probably not as it was in the
Speaker:beginning of your career or business.
Speaker:So, these are all tell tale signs of
Speaker:kind of where we're sitting, right?
Speaker:So, at Peak Performance, we're
Speaker:really able to regulate our emotions,
Speaker:we're able to regulate our moods.
Speaker:you know, able to handle stress.
Speaker:In fact, we're looking for
Speaker:more challenges We kind of have
Speaker:energy on tap to do everything
Speaker:that we need to do and more.
Speaker:if you're in that middle zone, then
Speaker:the first thing that you want to
Speaker:look at is increasing capacity.
Speaker:So I look at when I work with people,
Speaker:I want to move them from this place of
Speaker:where they don't feel like they can even
Speaker:take another thing on in terms of not
Speaker:even taking care of their health, right?
Speaker:So for a lot of high performing
Speaker:women, they do value their
Speaker:health and their well being.
Speaker:but they've pushed themselves so
Speaker:much and ignored the warning signs
Speaker:that they're getting to a place
Speaker:now where it feels hard to add
Speaker:anything more to the schedule.
Speaker:There's no motivation, there's no
Speaker:desire, there's no energy and any
Speaker:little thing will kind of set you off.
Speaker:And so I've been in burnout.
Speaker:That's why I talk about burnout.
Speaker:I understand that place, but
Speaker:through making little changes
Speaker:through your day to day routines.
Speaker:You can increase your
Speaker:capacity to take more on.
Speaker:So what we want to do in that first
Speaker:step is increase the capacity to not
Speaker:have as much anxiety or not to get
Speaker:so overwhelmed or overstretched or
Speaker:overstressed so therefore you have
Speaker:the capacity to do more in terms of
Speaker:taking care of your personal wellbeing.
Speaker:the way that we do that is
Speaker:really initially is by reducing
Speaker:stress hormones in the body.
Speaker:Because again, I will see women that will
Speaker:say, yeah, but my life is really busy.
Speaker:My schedule is very hectic.
Speaker:I've got this going on
Speaker:that, blah, blah, et cetera.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:And I understand, but what is also
Speaker:important to see is that the more
Speaker:vitality you have, the more you can do.
Speaker:Okay, so energy creates energy.
Speaker:So it's not as if we have a finite amount
Speaker:of energy and then when we use it up on
Speaker:the tasks that we do each day, we don't
Speaker:have anything left at the end of the day.
Speaker:That's not how it works, right?
Speaker:Energy creates more energy
Speaker:when we increase our vitality.
Speaker:And that's the first part is really
Speaker:increasing the wellbeing, reducing
Speaker:stress hormones in the body, which
Speaker:is causing a lot of this effect
Speaker:to be really drained and really
Speaker:tired and anxious and overwhelmed.
Speaker:If we can reduce that.
Speaker:It increases your capacity to do more,
Speaker:okay, and feel a hell of a lot better.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:And so the way that we do that,
Speaker:so small changes, making sure that
Speaker:you're getting enough sleep, Now,
Speaker:when we go to sleep at night, our
Speaker:body goes into full recovery mode.
Speaker:when I look at athletes, I
Speaker:think, okay, these are people
Speaker:who put extreme stress on them.
Speaker:So it was physical stress.
Speaker:mental and emotional stress.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:Yet they are champions, right?
Speaker:And when you look at their schedule,
Speaker:they really focus and prioritize
Speaker:and master sleep because it's
Speaker:such a powerful recovery tool.
Speaker:When we go to sleep at night, you're
Speaker:sleeping, you're completely unaware of
Speaker:what's happening, but your body is really
Speaker:active in all this repair work that needs
Speaker:to happen while you're sleeping, right?
Speaker:So when we're sleeping, our body's
Speaker:fully relaxed and we go into
Speaker:this rest and repair mode and
Speaker:things are repaired overnight.
Speaker:Our brain processes
Speaker:our emotions overnight.
Speaker:So when we wake up, we often wake up
Speaker:feeling the problem that we went to
Speaker:bed with at nighttime seems a little
Speaker:bit clearer, Our brain detoxifies
Speaker:at nighttime, our body detoxifies.
Speaker:Our immune system is really active.
Speaker:Our hormones start to repair.
Speaker:So I often say that if I could
Speaker:put sleep into a capsule, it would
Speaker:be the most powerful remedy to
Speaker:heal almost anything in the body.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:But what happens is if we don't
Speaker:get enough deep sleep time, we are
Speaker:going to miss that repair work.
Speaker:We're going to miss the processing
Speaker:of emotions and the detoxifying
Speaker:of the brain and all the good
Speaker:stuff that happens, right?
Speaker:So to bed and you're going to bed
Speaker:at like 12 PM, but you're waking up
Speaker:at, you know, seven or 8 AM, that
Speaker:is missing the deep sleep time.
Speaker:So getting to bed.
Speaker:By 10 p.
Speaker:m.
Speaker:winding down half an hour before in
Speaker:order to create a good kind of rest
Speaker:so you can fall asleep naturally and
Speaker:easily and sleep through the night.
Speaker:So number one, getting
Speaker:to bed before 10 p.
Speaker:m.
Speaker:and making sure that you
Speaker:have eight hours of sleep.
Speaker:The second thing to increase your
Speaker:capacity, so reducing the anxiety,
Speaker:the overwhelm, the brain fog, the
Speaker:exhaustion is to look at your diet.
Speaker:When we're stressed, it's pretty
Speaker:common to go for foods and beverages
Speaker:and things that will give you a quick
Speaker:So, sugar, caffeine, processed foods,
Speaker:eating out, alcohol, all of these
Speaker:things are a go to to self soothe when
Speaker:we're stressed, okay, I will admit
Speaker:it, me too, but there are some little
Speaker:things that you can do that don't.
Speaker:Again, help to reduce
Speaker:the stress hormones.
Speaker:If we can do that, if your stress
Speaker:hormones can come down, even though your
Speaker:life is busy, your body will start to
Speaker:repair itself and you'll start to have
Speaker:more energy, feel more clearer, feel
Speaker:like you're more on top of things, sleep
Speaker:better, make better choices with food.
Speaker:And everything becomes easier
Speaker:and you start working up to,
Speaker:you know, this higher potential,
Speaker:this kind of peak performance.
Speaker:So the first thing would be I
Speaker:always recommend is never have
Speaker:caffeine on an empty stomach.
Speaker:Don't wake up and go for
Speaker:your coffee first thing.
Speaker:Have your breakfast first.
Speaker:Okay?
Speaker:Because the caffeine is going to on
Speaker:an empty stomach on a fasting Blood
Speaker:glucose level, caffeine is going
Speaker:to stimulate more stress hormones.
Speaker:So everything that we want to
Speaker:do here in the initial stages is
Speaker:bring those stress hormones down.
Speaker:and minimize sugar, sugary
Speaker:and processed foods.
Speaker:The best you can in the beginning, right?
Speaker:So cut out the obvious sugars, which
Speaker:do give you that initial kind of
Speaker:pep me up, but they basically send
Speaker:you on this rollercoaster all day.
Speaker:So sugar sends you high, then
Speaker:drops you down really low
Speaker:because your glucose levels drop.
Speaker:Then you go for something
Speaker:else, then it goes back up and
Speaker:then it drops you back down.
Speaker:And so you're kind of on this
Speaker:rollercoaster all day long, And we can
Speaker:avoid that by making sure that one, you
Speaker:don't have coffee on an empty stomach and
Speaker:the best you can cut out of your sugars.
Speaker:The third big thing.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:So we're looking at.
Speaker:lifestyle.
Speaker:We're looking at diet, but we're also
Speaker:looking at what's going on up here
Speaker:because this is actually one of the
Speaker:biggest triggers for burnout and anxiety
Speaker:and overwhelming and uh, you know,
Speaker:brain fog, all of those symptoms that
Speaker:we feel as we're heading into burnout.
Speaker:And the tip that I'd give you
Speaker:here is escape the thought traps.
Speaker:Okay?
Speaker:There are things that you will
Speaker:find that you overthink, right?
Speaker:So overthinking, we have too many
Speaker:kind of thoughts in our head, right?
Speaker:and it causes anxiety and
Speaker:it causes overwhelm, but it
Speaker:changes our hormonal balance.
Speaker:It changes the chemistry in our brain.
Speaker:And so once we have high levels of
Speaker:cortisol from overthinking, right?
Speaker:And it could be that you've
Speaker:catastrophized the problem.
Speaker:What ends up happening is that cortisol
Speaker:in our brain causes us to just zone in.
Speaker:It gives us tunnel vision.
Speaker:So we zone in on a problem.
Speaker:That's all we can focus on, right?
Speaker:And we blow it up when we make it.
Speaker:you know, 200 times worse than what
Speaker:it is, or we just can't let things go.
Speaker:And it means it's going to release
Speaker:constant drip, drip, drip of cortisol
Speaker:throughout the day and even night if
Speaker:it's keeping you up at nighttime, right?
Speaker:So those are my three tips.
Speaker:to get started.
Speaker:Because if you're feeling in
Speaker:that kind of middle zone of this
Speaker:exhaustion, overwhelm, anxiety,
Speaker:burnout, constant stress, there
Speaker:are things that you want to be, you
Speaker:want to be better in your business.
Speaker:Maybe you want to be a better mother.
Speaker:Maybe you want to be able to
Speaker:have that work life balance
Speaker:a little bit more fine tuned.
Speaker:You want to feel like
Speaker:you're achieving in life.
Speaker:Maybe you want to do other things, right?
Speaker:And you really need to have that.
Speaker:Energy on tap and the ability to handle
Speaker:change and regulate your emotions.
Speaker:And these are the three tips that will
Speaker:start to increase capacity to their
Speaker:next step is optimize your performance.
Speaker:so guys, I hope this was a helpful
Speaker:first episode into, you know, getting
Speaker:out of this kind of burnout exhaustion
Speaker:state into peak performance and how
Speaker:it's a natural state for everybody,
Speaker:we can all be in this state, right?
Speaker:We just want to remove some of
Speaker:these blocks to peak performance.
Speaker:So let me know which tip
Speaker:you are going to try first.