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Welcome to the Peak Revival Podcast.

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My name is Vesna.

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I'm your host.

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And on this podcast, I'm going to

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talk about how high performing women

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can regain peak physical energy and

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mental wellbeing today I thought

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for the first episode, it would be

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a really good idea to talk about

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kind of getting to peak performance.

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What is that?

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How do we get away from this kind of

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place of feeling burnt out, exhausted,

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overstretched, overwhelmed, Especially

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when you have a lot on and how do we

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move into peak performance and peak

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performance isn't Being athletic and

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I think that's probably an assumption

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even when I first heard the phrase

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peak performance I went to that same

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place I really do think it was about

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being fit and athletic and athletes

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are peak performers, but it really

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peak performance is about being our

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best and realizing our potential.

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So peak performance looks like our

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ability to handle day to day stresses,

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but not just bounce back from stress,

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but to really seek out challenges

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because they help us to stretch and

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grow and tap into more of our resources.

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It's about mental focus,

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mental concentration.

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It's about being able to work on a

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piece of work for a long time without

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getting distracted or disrupted.

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It's about handling our emotions.

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And regulating our emotions and

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understanding the emotions of others.

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And it also looks like having healthy

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and fulfilling relationships and

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making deep connections with others.

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So as you can see, peak mental

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performance is a lot more about our

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personal lives, our inner inner life,

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and how that reflects on our outer life

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than anything to do with just being fit.

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if you.

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I'm here today and you're feeling,

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well, I feel pretty overstretched.

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I feel pretty overwhelmed and exhausted,

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but it is because I have a lot on, right?

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And so one of the myths I want to

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dispel is reason why we Um, and

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that's a symptom as well, but we're

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looking at other factors that start

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to break down or cause imbalances

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in our body, which aren't corrected.

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And so life is.

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We're always going to throw us

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challenges, we can't avoid that,

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but unless we have the proper

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kind of recovery plan in place,

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we eventually, our body will break

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down systems and hormones and will

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create deficiencies in the body.

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It starts to break down.

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And if we don't do anything to

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correct it, then eventually we

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hit to a place of burnout, right?

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And so, often, you know, I

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hear women say, Well, it's

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because I'm a business owner.

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It's because I'm juggling

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family and business and work.

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I have too many things on.

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And definitely having a packed schedule

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without any downtime is a problem.

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But we're really looking at, we

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can, shift ourselves into a higher

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state of performance, really

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operating from our best when we

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can improve our internal wellbeing.

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Okay.

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So when we can correct those

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imbalances that are controlling

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our energy, our mood, our

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memory, our concentration, right?

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We can influence that through

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diet lifestyle changes.

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So what does it matter to, even want

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to get to peak performance, right?

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And for me, it's a very natural state.

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I don't look at peak performance

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as something that we have to

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strive hard and work hard towards.

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It is a very natural state when we remove

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the barriers to peak performance, right?

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So many years ago, a psychologist,

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Abraham Maslow, he We talked

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about this innate drive in every

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person to become everything that

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we're capable of becoming, right?

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So there is an innate drive there.

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So we want to be our best.

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We want to do our best.

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We want to make a difference in

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the world because that brings

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us meaning and fulfillment.

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So this desire to reach our highest

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potential is there for everybody.

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And Abraham Maslow called it

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self actualization, right?

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That we have to pass through certain

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milestones to get there, right?

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And so physical health and well being

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was absolutely one of those milestones.

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burnout peak performance

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lives on a scale, right?

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So if we're looking at peak performance

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on the continuum on the very lower end,

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we have severe anxiety and depression.

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normally people in this place

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aren't able to keep up with work

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and day to day responsibilities.

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Fortunately, most people do not, live

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in that place, but we tend to hover.

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A lot of people tend to

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hover in the middle zone.

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So, Not in the, the severe anxiety and

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depression, and not in peak performance

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either, but in this middle zone of

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over stress, anxiety and burnout.

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And so while we're not suffering

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the severe stuff, we're not reaching

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our highest potential either.

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If you're, you know, like I

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said, it isn't innate driving

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us to want to be our best.

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If you're feeling now, Oh wow,

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I don't feel like that at all.

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Then there is things that you can do.

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But the first step is to really

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become aware of where you're

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kind of sitting at the moment.

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You know, do you wake up with energy?

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Do you feel like you have energy all

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day long that you can work pretty solid?

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You can come home after work or

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after, working your business and you

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feel like you have a lot more energy

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to do everything you need to do.

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Or do you feel tired when you wake up?

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Do you feel like at two, 3 p.

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m you hit a wall and you're so tired and

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you're going for the coffee or the sugar.

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Do you find that at the end of the

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day you completely spent, there's

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nothing left in the tank for

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your family, for your loved ones.

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And you know, I see a lot of women who.

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feel guilty from that place, right?

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Because There's just not enough

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reserves there to be able to do all the

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things that they need to do in a day.

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Another one is, do you

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have energy to exercise?

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Are you sleeping well?

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Do you feel like you go to bed at night,

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you fall asleep pretty, pretty easily.

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You sleep right through and you wake

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up in the morning, you feel refreshed.

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Or, are you waking up

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multiple times a night?

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Are you finding it hard

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to fall back to sleep?

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Are you finding it hard to

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fall asleep to begin with?

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Are you going to bed later than 10pm?

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How do you handle stress?

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Do you catastrophize problems?

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Do you find that something goes wrong

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in your business or your family or your

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work, or someone says something to you

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in a meeting or in an email and instead

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of being able to let it go you carry

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it around with you for like 24 hours?

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How are your moods?

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Do you feel like your

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motivation is quite low?

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That your passion in what you're

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doing is probably not as it was in the

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beginning of your career or business.

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So, these are all tell tale signs of

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kind of where we're sitting, right?

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So, at Peak Performance, we're

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really able to regulate our emotions,

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we're able to regulate our moods.

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you know, able to handle stress.

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In fact, we're looking for

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more challenges We kind of have

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energy on tap to do everything

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that we need to do and more.

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if you're in that middle zone, then

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the first thing that you want to

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look at is increasing capacity.

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So I look at when I work with people,

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I want to move them from this place of

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where they don't feel like they can even

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take another thing on in terms of not

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even taking care of their health, right?

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So for a lot of high performing

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women, they do value their

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health and their well being.

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but they've pushed themselves so

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much and ignored the warning signs

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that they're getting to a place

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now where it feels hard to add

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anything more to the schedule.

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There's no motivation, there's no

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desire, there's no energy and any

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little thing will kind of set you off.

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And so I've been in burnout.

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That's why I talk about burnout.

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I understand that place, but

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through making little changes

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through your day to day routines.

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You can increase your

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capacity to take more on.

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So what we want to do in that first

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step is increase the capacity to not

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have as much anxiety or not to get

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so overwhelmed or overstretched or

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overstressed so therefore you have

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the capacity to do more in terms of

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taking care of your personal wellbeing.

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the way that we do that is

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really initially is by reducing

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stress hormones in the body.

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Because again, I will see women that will

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say, yeah, but my life is really busy.

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My schedule is very hectic.

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I've got this going on

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that, blah, blah, et cetera.

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Right.

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And I understand, but what is also

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important to see is that the more

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vitality you have, the more you can do.

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Okay, so energy creates energy.

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So it's not as if we have a finite amount

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of energy and then when we use it up on

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the tasks that we do each day, we don't

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have anything left at the end of the day.

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That's not how it works, right?

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Energy creates more energy

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when we increase our vitality.

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And that's the first part is really

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increasing the wellbeing, reducing

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stress hormones in the body, which

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is causing a lot of this effect

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to be really drained and really

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tired and anxious and overwhelmed.

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If we can reduce that.

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It increases your capacity to do more,

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okay, and feel a hell of a lot better.

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Okay.

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And so the way that we do that,

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so small changes, making sure that

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you're getting enough sleep, Now,

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when we go to sleep at night, our

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body goes into full recovery mode.

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when I look at athletes, I

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think, okay, these are people

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who put extreme stress on them.

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So it was physical stress.

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mental and emotional stress.

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Okay.

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Yet they are champions, right?

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And when you look at their schedule,

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they really focus and prioritize

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and master sleep because it's

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such a powerful recovery tool.

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When we go to sleep at night, you're

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sleeping, you're completely unaware of

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what's happening, but your body is really

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active in all this repair work that needs

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to happen while you're sleeping, right?

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So when we're sleeping, our body's

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fully relaxed and we go into

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this rest and repair mode and

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things are repaired overnight.

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Our brain processes

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our emotions overnight.

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So when we wake up, we often wake up

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feeling the problem that we went to

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bed with at nighttime seems a little

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bit clearer, Our brain detoxifies

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at nighttime, our body detoxifies.

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Our immune system is really active.

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Our hormones start to repair.

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So I often say that if I could

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put sleep into a capsule, it would

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be the most powerful remedy to

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heal almost anything in the body.

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Okay.

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But what happens is if we don't

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get enough deep sleep time, we are

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going to miss that repair work.

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We're going to miss the processing

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of emotions and the detoxifying

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of the brain and all the good

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stuff that happens, right?

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So to bed and you're going to bed

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at like 12 PM, but you're waking up

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at, you know, seven or 8 AM, that

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is missing the deep sleep time.

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So getting to bed.

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By 10 p.

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m.

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winding down half an hour before in

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order to create a good kind of rest

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so you can fall asleep naturally and

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easily and sleep through the night.

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So number one, getting

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to bed before 10 p.

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m.

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and making sure that you

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have eight hours of sleep.

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The second thing to increase your

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capacity, so reducing the anxiety,

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the overwhelm, the brain fog, the

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exhaustion is to look at your diet.

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When we're stressed, it's pretty

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common to go for foods and beverages

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and things that will give you a quick

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So, sugar, caffeine, processed foods,

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eating out, alcohol, all of these

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things are a go to to self soothe when

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we're stressed, okay, I will admit

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it, me too, but there are some little

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things that you can do that don't.

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Again, help to reduce

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the stress hormones.

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If we can do that, if your stress

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hormones can come down, even though your

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life is busy, your body will start to

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repair itself and you'll start to have

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more energy, feel more clearer, feel

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like you're more on top of things, sleep

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better, make better choices with food.

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And everything becomes easier

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and you start working up to,

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you know, this higher potential,

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this kind of peak performance.

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So the first thing would be I

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always recommend is never have

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caffeine on an empty stomach.

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Don't wake up and go for

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your coffee first thing.

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Have your breakfast first.

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Okay?

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Because the caffeine is going to on

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an empty stomach on a fasting Blood

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glucose level, caffeine is going

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to stimulate more stress hormones.

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So everything that we want to

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do here in the initial stages is

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bring those stress hormones down.

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and minimize sugar, sugary

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and processed foods.

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The best you can in the beginning, right?

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So cut out the obvious sugars, which

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do give you that initial kind of

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pep me up, but they basically send

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you on this rollercoaster all day.

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So sugar sends you high, then

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drops you down really low

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because your glucose levels drop.

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Then you go for something

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else, then it goes back up and

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then it drops you back down.

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And so you're kind of on this

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rollercoaster all day long, And we can

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avoid that by making sure that one, you

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don't have coffee on an empty stomach and

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the best you can cut out of your sugars.

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The third big thing.

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Okay.

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So we're looking at.

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lifestyle.

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We're looking at diet, but we're also

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looking at what's going on up here

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because this is actually one of the

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biggest triggers for burnout and anxiety

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and overwhelming and uh, you know,

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brain fog, all of those symptoms that

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we feel as we're heading into burnout.

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And the tip that I'd give you

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here is escape the thought traps.

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Okay?

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There are things that you will

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find that you overthink, right?

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So overthinking, we have too many

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kind of thoughts in our head, right?

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and it causes anxiety and

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it causes overwhelm, but it

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changes our hormonal balance.

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It changes the chemistry in our brain.

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And so once we have high levels of

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cortisol from overthinking, right?

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And it could be that you've

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catastrophized the problem.

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What ends up happening is that cortisol

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in our brain causes us to just zone in.

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It gives us tunnel vision.

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So we zone in on a problem.

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That's all we can focus on, right?

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And we blow it up when we make it.

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you know, 200 times worse than what

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it is, or we just can't let things go.

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And it means it's going to release

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constant drip, drip, drip of cortisol

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throughout the day and even night if

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it's keeping you up at nighttime, right?

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So those are my three tips.

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to get started.

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Because if you're feeling in

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that kind of middle zone of this

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exhaustion, overwhelm, anxiety,

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burnout, constant stress, there

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are things that you want to be, you

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want to be better in your business.

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Maybe you want to be a better mother.

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Maybe you want to be able to

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have that work life balance

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a little bit more fine tuned.

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You want to feel like

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you're achieving in life.

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Maybe you want to do other things, right?

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And you really need to have that.

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Energy on tap and the ability to handle

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change and regulate your emotions.

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And these are the three tips that will

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start to increase capacity to their

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next step is optimize your performance.

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so guys, I hope this was a helpful

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first episode into, you know, getting

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out of this kind of burnout exhaustion

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state into peak performance and how

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it's a natural state for everybody,

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we can all be in this state, right?

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We just want to remove some of

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these blocks to peak performance.

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So let me know which tip

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you are going to try first.