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Welcome to Pilates Elephants. I happen to be here with Heath Lander. Heath.

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Hey, Raph. How are you doing? I'm doing early in the morning. How are you doing?

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I'm doing, getting late in the evening. Yeah.

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Almost all- What are we going to talk about? Yeah, well, almost all Pilates

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studio owners get this wrong. We got it wrong in our studio for years and years.

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And almost everybody I see professionally and also just looking on social media.

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Looking at hiring ads, et cetera, almost everybody still gets this wrong.

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And this is around, if you're getting this wrong as a studio owner,

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you know you're getting it wrong if you have the following symptoms.

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Uh one you stress about your team like you can't find good people you can't keep good people,

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maybe you just can't find enough instructors for

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your team uh and you're

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teaching all of the classes or you know a lot of classes maybe you

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have a team like you know a good size team but

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they're not aligned and you like you honestly wouldn't

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go and you know give your most fastidious client

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you know to any of your instructors and say yeah you have an awesome

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class with with you know with that person uh if you if your clients are churning

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out you know if they're if your cancellation rate is 10 percent is above 10

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per month so for instance if you

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have 50 members if five or more of those members cancel on a given month.

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That's a symptom that you've got this problem. Are there any other symptoms, Heath?

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Yeah, I think that's pretty good. That's a good place to start.

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Yeah. And the problem is you have not – you don't have the skill of hiring,

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training, and leading a team of amazing instructors yet.

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But good news, we're going to fix all that right now.

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In 40 minutes. Yeah. Well, even if it takes 45, I don't mind going over time.

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All right so i think we should probably catch something that if insofar as i've

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got any insight at all to offer to this you're probably a person who's either started a studio,

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or you bought a studio that's a one-man band and your you built your business

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up out of your passion to give positive pilates experiences to people i don't

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have much to say to people who've bought franchises that already have their

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own internal systems that have been built out. Oh, no.

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This applies equally to franchise owners. I know abundant people who run franchises,

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and that's this exact problem. Right, right. Okay, cool.

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To whatever extent I've got any experience or insider expertise,

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mine has all been working with individual solo business owners. Yeah.

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No, this applies equally to franchise owners, and dear franchise owners,

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just stick around, because this is for you too. Yeah, cool.

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So, yeah, Heath, you know, like I think we used to do, when we had a studio,

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well, for the first six, seven years that I had a studio and I don't know, I can't speak for you.

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In your studio, I'm guessing you had this problem for a while.

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First couple of years you ran it. True or false? say

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the problem again like not knowing not knowing how to

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hire train lead and fire when

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necessary a team of the better part

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of the first decade yeah um and so dear listener you know here he's he's here's

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the mindset that that accompanies this problem uh you you're teaching all the

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classes you're working ridiculous hours you're like holy shit i need somebody

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i need some instructors here, like I'm drowning, I'm overwhelmed.

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And you put an ad on social media and the ad says, we're hiring, click here to apply.

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Like that's literally what it says. Or if you...

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If you add a bit more, it might say, we're looking for somebody passionate who loves to teach Pilates.

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It's like, yeah, that describes literally every Pilates instructor.

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So in other words, you put zero filters on your ad.

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You just literally say, okay, if you're a Pilates instructor, I will hire you.

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Or, and this is, I see this a lot with franchise owners as well.

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You put an ad up on some job website, wherever in the world you are,

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there's some kind of job, whether it's like seek.com or idea or whatever it is.

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And you say basically a complete formula, like every other Pilates studio says,

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like looking for comprehensively 450 hour certified instructor,

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you know, must be certified on this apparatus, this apparatus,

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this apparatus, and this apparatus.

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You know, we, you know, we, we like teaching Pilates and we provide safe and

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effective workouts for our clients. If that's you, apply.

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In other words, you're filtering for all the wrong things, the exact same things

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everyone else is filtering for.

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If you find somebody who meets those criteria, they're going to be the exact

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same person teaching at 99 other studios in your area because you're filtering

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for the exact same things that everyone else is filtering for.

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You're either not filtering at all when you hire or you're filtering for the wrong things.

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That's mistake number one. Mistake number two is the mindset around hiring people.

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And Heath, we were talking off-air before we started this, and this was your insight.

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So, you know, because of the gratitude mindset, too much gratitude, essentially.

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Yeah, so how did you explain this before?

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Oh yeah so and this was i certainly lived

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this and i've talked through this with dozens of studio

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owners and like you say so you're you're running

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a studio you've done so many things right

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that you've got too many clients and

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classes to handle for yourself you've got this fantastic problem

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which is that you need someone to help you run your business but by

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the time you recognize that you're pretty much burned out right you're exhausted

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and so then you advertise and as raf says you just

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throw the net as wide as you can because whether you

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realize it or not you're desperate and anyone that applies

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essentially you're grateful that they applied and so

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you're you thank god you're going to help me with my problem and this

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could be that they're a fresh grad and you think awesome they're freshly trained

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they'll know what they're doing or it's someone who's been teaching for 15 20

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25 years and you think fantastic you really know what you're doing and you drop

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them in front of your clients and hey presto your clients go i don't care who

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that person is, they're not doing what you do.

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You just broke your brand. You just put someone in front of your clients who's not doing what you do.

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And when I say this, I mean, I was too busy going, thank goodness I found someone

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who works a few shifts so I can sleep in one day a week.

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Little do I know that they're in there teaching in a way that my clients, hold on a minute.

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I just had two years of Heath every Saturday morning. Now I've got someone doing

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something completely different.

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It's not necessarily bad. It's just different. And people don't like change.

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The other way that manifests is when you might, I mean, and you might have bought

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a studio where there's already, you know, five instructors there.

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Or you might have, you know, gradually hired on people to add extra classes

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and you hired one person to do the mornings, another person to do the evenings

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and whatever, and you gave them new classes.

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So they didn't, you know, the clients in those classes didn't go,

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oh, that's not the owner teaching. I reject that style.

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You've just got Sally teaching the mornings in a contemporary style and Mary

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teaching the evenings in a classical style.

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And then, you know, Fred teaching the lunchtimes, you know, strength-based reformer.

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And, you know, you've essentially got no brand cohesion.

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And so the people who go to the morning classes, if they went to the evening classes,

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they'd be shocked and you know disappointed it's like

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what this isn't even pilates this is crazy like what the heck's going on

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here and so you've essentially build a uh

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just like a a constellation of random

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instructors teaching random different takes on pilates with zero through line

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of like our brand here yeah yeah and what you end up with is such a wide variety

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of styles within the studio.

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The only way you can describe that is to be so broadly generic that you don't

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differentiate from other companies.

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And so then ultimately, you're just in a race to the bottom price because you

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can't say that we do something that they don't do.

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Right. And essentially, I mean, the two massive problems with doing that,

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and it's like, you know, you and I both made this mistake for years.

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And so we speak of what we, that which we know, is the two big,

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massive problems with that issue is number one, you're essentially commodifying what you do.

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You're saying like, there is no brand here.

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All Pilates is the same and equal and lovely and wonderful. And we don't stand for anything.

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We just like whatever is all good. And so anything with the word Pilates in it is totally fine here.

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And so what you're literally doing there is you're saying like,

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well, all Pilates is equally valid.

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It's like, okay, great. And what about the studio that opens up down the block,

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they're equally valid too.

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And the other five studios that open up down the block, they're also equally

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valid. And you can't differentiate and you can't say one thing's better than the other.

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So like you're literally doing the opposite of standing out in the market and

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differentiating yourself.

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You're saying, no, no, we're literally just the same as everybody else because

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we don't have a style here.

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That's problem number one.

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And problem number two is just actually the quality, right?

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So there's branding. There's like, okay, we do classical or we do contemporary

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or we do strength-based reformer or we do high-intensity dynamic reformer.

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Whatever you do, you need to stand for something. And if you think about any

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business that you patronize on a regular level as a client –.

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Okay. Whether that's a restaurant, whether that's a clothing brand,

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whether it's an airline, whether it's, you know, a dance studio,

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like whatever it is, business that you go to, like, do you prefer it when you

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have a consistent experience when you go there?

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Or do you prefer it if you just have a totally random experience every time

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you walk in the door? I mean, fucking do.

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Like, of course, you know, you want to know that you're going to have a consistent

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experience when you, when you go there.

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Like if you go to rent a car and one day they're like, oh yeah we rent you know you

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know mid-sized cars next next week you go back and like oh no we only do pickup

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trucks you know it's like but i

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don't want to pick you know like that's not what i'm here for or if

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you go to a restaurant and it's like you know you go there for your favorite

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spaghetti dish and then you go back again next week and they're like oh no we

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don't serve spaghetti it's a sushi restaurant this week you know because the

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chef who works on wednesdays doesn't know how to uh doesn't know how to cook

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spaghetti they only know how to cook sushi you know it's like That is not how you win clients back,

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right? You have to stand for something.

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So that's the first massive problem is when you just take all comers and don't

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have any through line on what you teach is you don't have a brand.

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And the second thing is you don't have quality. Because even if you are like,

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okay, everybody's classical or everybody's contemporary or everybody's strength-based

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reformer or everybody's dynamic or whatever it is, it's like, well,

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I mean, dear listener, do you believe that literally every classical Pilates

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instructor is equally skilled or are there some better than others?

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And of course, some are better than others.

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In any area of human endeavor, some people are better than others. And-

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Do you want to just randomly throw anyone into that class in front of your clients

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or do you want to have the best ones in your class?

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Yeah, I mean, when you go and buy bananas at the fruit shop,

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do you just literally close your eyes and grab any banana or do you choose the

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ones that are the right amount of ripe?

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Do you discriminate when you buy things? Yes, of course you do. We all do.

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You don't just want literally anything that fits that category of you know,

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whatever it is you're buying.

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So neither do your clients. They don't want just some random instructor.

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They want a really good instructor.

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And so the two massive problems with not selecting very, very stringently and

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just being grateful that anyone's going to teach for you are like,

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you don't have a brand and you don't have quality.

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And by default, that's what happens. Like entropy in the universe always increases.

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Like if you, it's the chance of you just randomly hiring five Pilates instructors

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and them all being amazing dynamic reformer instructors is like one in 20 billion.

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So the chance of them not all being great dynamic reformer instructors is like 19,999,999,999 to one.

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Right so so by default it's

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going to be bad right you have to make it good if

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you want it to be like it's not going to just spontaneously arrange itself

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into order and perfection you have to create that all right so the first problem

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is you just don't have a filter when you hire and the reason and and the reason

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for that is you're like you're very grateful just to get anybody on the schedule

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the third and the flip of that so there's just a catch.

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Sorry, I broke your flow. I can hold that thought. Well,

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so what I see with that, and it's certainly what happened for me,

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is that if you are that person that's built up your business,

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what I've seen time and again is that you fail, through no fault of your own, to recognize,

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identify, and let alone value what it is that you're doing that,

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at a really granular level, differentiates you from other Pilates studios.

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And, you know, as Raf was saying, you might align yourself as contemporary or classical or dynamic.

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You might even be aligned with a Bassi or a Stodd or a Polestar.

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But firstly, your clients don't, nine out of 10 clients don't give a flying

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rat's bottom about that because they don't know what it means.

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It's also other people are saying the same thing.

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The way those brands describe what they do is the exact generic description

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that Raf was talking about earlier. We teach safe and effective Pilates.

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Right where you lengthen and strengthen your muscles with the breath patterns

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connected blah blah blah and then what.

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What the process that i go through when i'm helping people with this problem is.

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The details absolutely matter. And ironically, it's the details that the clients

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recognize, not the branding.

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You know, the website colors, yeah, they might remember, but they don't remember

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the generic terms that you've got on your homepage that you might've got from

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a training provider or from chat GPT.

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What they remember is that you as their instructor have a particular way of

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doing countdowns or you as an instructor always do the same warmup or you as

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an instructor do your long stretch on one spring with a low foot bar every time

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at the beginning. and then you progress from there.

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Whatever those little tiny details are that you've worked out,

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give your clients a good experience, those tiny details compound to become your brand.

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And you have to find ways to describe that. And that's a challenging process.

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But when you can do that, you can tell people what you do. And then you've got

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metrics that you can give to your staff.

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And I'm jumping ahead a bit now to where Raf was going, I think.

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This is what gives you a quality control system are

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you doing x five times every session and

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if you're not you need to yeah and if you're doing you know so yeah

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well i think it's it's fractal which means

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basically it's a recursive pattern that basically like if you look at uh at

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any level of magnification you zoom out you zoom in it's still the same shape

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and so what i mean by that is like dear listener i mean i'm assuming when you

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teach pilates you believe attention to detail is important right when you teach Pilates,

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you're just like, oh yeah, just do whatever. Your form doesn't matter.

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As long as you're on the reform and moving, it's all good.

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Now, not a criticism of that position, but I think it is important to pay attention

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to people's position and alignment and stuff in Pilates.

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I mean, if you don't give a shit about that, it's like, I don't know why you're teaching Pilates.

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So, all right, well, if you think details are important in how you do Pilates

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and how you teach Pilates, why do you then not think it's important to pay attention

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to the details of how your teachers teach Pilates?

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And have them aligned in how they do it.

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If you think it's important to have your feet hip distance apart in footwork,

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well, why are you okay with five different instructors doing five different

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foot positions in footwork just randomly?

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It should be the same. The attention to detail that you have when you're teaching

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your clients should be the exact same level of attention to detail that you

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insist on in how your instructors teach.

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It should be the same, fractal. yeah um so

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the the the two things so far uh

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you don't have the two kind of problems uh you don't have

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a filter when you hire so it's like hey if you're alive and you've got police

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certification you know come teach for me and the second thing is you're you're

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you're too grateful for literally anybody i thank you for coming and saving

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me and taking over my wednesdays uh therefore i'm not going to presume to tell

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you anything about how to teach or anything which leads us to the third point,

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which is lack of leadership.

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And I define leadership here in three sections, essentially,

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which is number one, you have to define the vision.

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You have to say, here's what good looks like here. Here's what we stand for.

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Here's how we do things. A leader has to have a vision to lead people towards.

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The job of the leader is to align the people who are following and unite them

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all towards a shared common goal or vision.

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And so if there is no shared common goal or vision, apart from we teach safe

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and effective Pilates, it's like, well, I mean, that's just on the back of your

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cereal packet. That's not a vision.

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And so you have to define your style. The second one is quality control.

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You have to hold people accountable and help them realize that vision.

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I mean, you have to be the conductor of the orchestra that helps people play

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better than they would play and in more alignment with the other orchestra instruments

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than they would play if there was just no one conducting the whole thing.

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And the third thing is you need to be able to have hard conversations in order to do that.

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And you need to pull on your big girl pants or your big boy pants and say to

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that 15-year instructor, maybe you've only been teaching three years yourself.

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You need to say to that instructor, hey, look, I need you to do it this way.

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And here's why I need you to do it this way. and this is the way we're going to do it here.

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Where do you, do you have any addition, you know, did I miss anything there

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in that definition of leadership and style definition? Yeah.

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No, I think you covered it all.

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An observation, I wish I could go back and tell myself this when I first hired

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people, and I found it to be valuable to tell people and work through in order

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to achieve what you described.

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So what you described covered it all, but just to zoom in a little bit on how

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you do that, if you're the instructor who knows you need to hire someone or

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you've already hired some people.

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Sit down. So one thing is you've probably got one class that is what you built your business on.

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You probably didn't build your business on nine different class types.

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So if you've taught a lot of classes, you've probably got one,

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maybe two class types that really drive your business.

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So sit down and think about those two class types And I would suggest you film

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yourself for multiple iterations and watch the recordings back and look at the

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things that you do consistently.

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So if you record yourself five sessions, those five sessions,

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what are the things that you do in every single session? And you write them down.

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Now, all of a sudden, you've got a list of non-negotiables. So anyone that teaches

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that class has to do those things.

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And then you've got a list of things that are optionals, which maybe they're

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things that you do from time to time, or they're things that you don't mind if people do.

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And then and you there's a third column which

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you could arguably put as your non-negotiables as well but it's easier

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i've found to think of it as you've got your non-negotiables that are included

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and then your unacceptables and these are the things that do not happen in your

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studio now i'm not coming from any position of judgment about what's right wrong

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or not in pilates so if you want breath patterns and they need to be in your

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session then they're in your non-negotiables.

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If you don't care about breath patterns but you don't mind them then you put them in your optionals,

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and if you don't want breath patterns they're in your unacceptables and

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if you do that based on the classes that you've taught that built your

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client base that built out your 70 or 80 percent client retention

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problem of needing new instructors you've

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now got a checklist of things that your class has to include

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and that's the granular beginning of what you then lead from so i i had a lot

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of trouble leading so raf was talking about leadership and being able to you

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know elucidate the vision for people had a real lot of trouble with that i iterated

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i tried I gave it everything I had and what didn't come naturally and it wasn't

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until I just did that process I just described that I realized okay.

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I've tried to sell this big vision of where the business could be and we never

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got there and I never felt really authentic But I can watch someone work with

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my clients and if they don't if they do these three things, I'm then they don't

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have a job and if they don't do these five things and,

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again they don't have a job equally if they do do those five things and they avoid the other three,

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they're probably teaching a class that's very close to what i want and the and and the the

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where the rubber hits the road on that is that was when i found the clients

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came to me and said hey that new instructor is great i mean

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they're not you but it's great and i was like okay cool i've

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found a way to make you close enough to what i need you to be that my

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brand is insulated against your either novice

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or different training methodology and then

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i can lead from that i can sit down and say i watched the recording if

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you teach it did those things that's awesome but also did this thing it's not

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okay that so that that's my two cents worth on it in terms of leadership if

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you're thinking i don't know i don't feel like a leader well then go go from

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the ground up rather than the top down yeah yeah i think that's such an important

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insight and so as we shift gear into like how to fix this, right?

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The first thing, like you said, is to actually define, you know,

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how we do things around here and how we don't do things around here.

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And I think there's a, you know, a mistake a lot of studio owners make is they

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think more variety on the schedule, on the timetable will actually give,

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you know, give them more clients and more attendances.

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Like that is just couldn't be further from the truth. Dear listener.

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I mean, think about, again, any business you patronize, you know,

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whether it's a restaurant, clothing brand, whatever, that's like you go that,

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You don't go to that restaurant because I've got 200 dishes on the menu.

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You go there for your favorite freaking dish that you have every time you go there, right?

00:24:06.419 --> 00:24:10.579

Or like the Vietnamese restaurant that I took my daughter to for the first 10 years of her life.

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They've got 200 things on the menu, but you only go because of the one thing

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that you really love. Exactly.

00:24:16.259 --> 00:24:22.299

Exactly. And so if it's a clothing brand, dear listener, I reckon if you buy

00:24:22.299 --> 00:24:27.019

Lululemon, you probably just don't randomly buy anything from Lululemon.

00:24:27.019 --> 00:24:31.419

You like their leggings or you like their, you know, running shorts or whatever it is.

00:24:31.519 --> 00:24:35.219

Like you, and then when you, if you like their leggings and you also wear running

00:24:35.219 --> 00:24:37.379

shorts, you might buy your running shorts for a different brand.

00:24:38.544 --> 00:24:42.424

You know, because that particular other brand has the type of running shorts

00:24:42.424 --> 00:24:44.944

that you buy and you just always buy that same brand, right?

00:24:45.064 --> 00:24:47.404

So people come back for a consistent experience.

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They don't, people, you don't go somewhere for variety.

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People don't go somewhere for, I mean, think about, and you think about like

00:24:54.024 --> 00:24:57.264

big gyms, they've got like, you know, every machine in the world,

00:24:57.404 --> 00:24:58.484

every class in the world.

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They've got reformer Pilates, they've got saunas, they've got a swimming pool,

00:25:01.344 --> 00:25:07.724

squash courts, you know, acres of gym equipment, whatever. it's like 99.9% of

00:25:07.724 --> 00:25:10.204

people when they go to the gym, they just use the same three machines or go

00:25:10.204 --> 00:25:11.864

to the one same class I always go to.

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People want consistency. They find what they like and they just want like,

00:25:18.604 --> 00:25:19.604

okay, let's just keep doing that.

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99% of the time, that is the truth. And so it's an illusion to think that,

00:25:24.864 --> 00:25:28.224

oh, well, if I've got 75 different class types, that's going to give me more clients.

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No, get known for being really fucking good at one thing and you will have unlimited

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clients because you will be world-class at that.

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Get really good at athletic reform or get really good at classical mat work, whatever it is.

00:25:44.904 --> 00:25:49.244

And so then within that, even if you're like dynamic reformer,

00:25:49.424 --> 00:25:53.944

it's like don't have like five different levels and five different dynamic stretch,

00:25:54.124 --> 00:25:56.004

dynamic sweat, dynamic this, dynamic that.

00:25:56.264 --> 00:25:59.284

It's like, no, just do one type of class, right?

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And if you really, really must like have a beginner's class and then an open level class, right?

00:26:04.644 --> 00:26:09.184

But I mean, if you're just starting out and you only have like 15,

00:26:09.324 --> 00:26:15.524

20-ish classes on your schedule, like all of them should be just open level class, right?

00:26:17.764 --> 00:26:23.004

And so then, like Heath says, you find out, okay, of the 97 different types

00:26:23.004 --> 00:26:26.784

of classes on the schedule, you know, which one is the most popular?

00:26:26.784 --> 00:26:29.724

And it'll be blindingly obvious to you as soon as you look at your numbers on

00:26:29.724 --> 00:26:32.744

attendance of last month or three months, you'll be like, oh,

00:26:33.264 --> 00:26:38.584

you know, my open level classes are 80% full and then my stretch classes are 12% full. You know?

00:26:40.504 --> 00:26:43.784

So let me just throw something in there just to illustrate that.

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So names will be, you know, names will be not revealed to protect the innocent.

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But talking to a studio owner recently who's got this brilliant problem, bursting at the seams,

00:26:56.544 --> 00:26:59.404

growing how do we grow more got to solve the same exactly the

00:26:59.404 --> 00:27:02.004

same problem we're talking about and as we worked through the we did an

00:27:02.004 --> 00:27:04.704

audit class types and one of the class types that

00:27:04.704 --> 00:27:08.064

they were running they were running three of them per week and

00:27:08.064 --> 00:27:11.044

they were running them because the instructors that ran them liked running them

00:27:11.044 --> 00:27:14.764

and right and

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i said okay so if those instructors left your studio would you continue running

00:27:20.004 --> 00:27:23.924

the class and the answer was no i wouldn't it's okay then my question is why

00:27:23.924 --> 00:27:27.124

on god's earth are you running the class now because you're essentially letting

00:27:27.124 --> 00:27:32.284

your instructors who have a preference dictate how you identify your brand and

00:27:32.284 --> 00:27:34.544

if they leave you don't even know what they were doing.

00:27:36.564 --> 00:27:40.644

Well, it's not a brand then. It's like what we said. It's just a mishmash of,

00:27:40.804 --> 00:27:44.844

you know, depending on who's teaching on the day, you get steak or sushi or

00:27:44.844 --> 00:27:46.804

maybe it's, we don't even serve food here today.

00:27:46.964 --> 00:27:51.444

It's, you know, meditation retreat. Well, even worse than that is if the clients

00:27:51.444 --> 00:27:55.084

come and build an allegiance to those instructors who are doing this bespoke

00:27:55.084 --> 00:27:57.804

class that's outside of the actual brand,

00:27:58.104 --> 00:28:02.524

essentially what you're doing is giving those people free studio space to build their own brand.

00:28:02.644 --> 00:28:06.144

Right. Well, basically, you're running a steak restaurant, but Tuesday nights

00:28:06.144 --> 00:28:08.044

with Sally is sushi night, you know.

00:28:08.344 --> 00:28:11.564

Yeah, that's right. That's right. That's right. Yeah.

00:28:12.204 --> 00:28:15.524

And no one else on the menu is a sushi chef. No one else in the kitchen knows how to do it.

00:28:15.764 --> 00:28:20.184

Yeah. So if Sally's sick, well, we've got to cancel, and then you've got grumpy

00:28:20.184 --> 00:28:23.304

clients anyway, because they're still your clients in terms of who they're paying.

00:28:23.504 --> 00:28:27.064

And if you fire Sally or she goes, you lose those clients because they're here

00:28:27.064 --> 00:28:29.544

for the sushi, not for the steak. Exactly. Yeah, exactly.

00:28:30.904 --> 00:28:39.304

All right. So, now, dear listener, if this is you, and it almost certainly is you, okay?

00:28:39.504 --> 00:28:46.724

Now, I just want to give a little shout-out to the franchise owners and acknowledge here.

00:28:46.984 --> 00:28:50.164

If you're a franchise owner, well, you probably do have some of these elements

00:28:50.164 --> 00:28:53.284

that are kind of built into the franchise, right? So, you've got one way of doing things.

00:28:53.344 --> 00:28:55.684

You've got certain class types that you teach and other class types that you're

00:28:55.684 --> 00:28:59.264

not allowed to, you know, you can't just randomly teach any shit you want if

00:28:59.264 --> 00:29:00.444

you're part of a large franchise.

00:29:00.444 --> 00:29:05.544

So there probably is some kind of formula about how to teach a class in the franchise but you're.

00:29:07.184 --> 00:29:12.744

Probably completely lacking the right filters when you hire people so you're

00:29:12.744 --> 00:29:16.584

literally probably one of those people who puts the ad on seek.com and says

00:29:16.584 --> 00:29:20.144

like wanting 450 hour comprehensively trained instructor must be passionate

00:29:20.144 --> 00:29:24.544

about pilates must teach a safe and effective class It's like completely generic.

00:29:24.824 --> 00:29:30.424

Okay. And then you're probably, if you're like 98% of studio owners,

00:29:30.684 --> 00:29:36.004

probably, almost certainly not quality controlling those classes.

00:29:36.124 --> 00:29:38.504

And when I say quality control, I mean like auditing the classes,

00:29:38.784 --> 00:29:40.884

getting feedback from the clients,

00:29:41.564 --> 00:29:45.344

getting instructors to video their own classes, looking at the class and give

00:29:45.344 --> 00:29:50.204

it like on a regular basis, like a weekly cadence or biweekly or at the very

00:29:50.204 --> 00:29:52.144

least monthly per instructor. Yeah.

00:29:52.604 --> 00:29:56.324

That you look at a class and you give constructive feedback,

00:29:56.504 --> 00:30:00.684

which is just 100% upfront, like unfiltered, not mean.

00:30:01.944 --> 00:30:07.204

But when I say not mean, I mean not vicious, intended for the betterment of

00:30:07.204 --> 00:30:09.744

that person, but not sugar-coated.

00:30:09.884 --> 00:30:12.044

Just like, hey, you did this, don't do that.

00:30:12.384 --> 00:30:15.424

Or you didn't do this, I need you to start doing it now.

00:30:16.304 --> 00:30:19.784

Or you did this this way, don't do it this way, do it this way.

00:30:19.784 --> 00:30:23.984

Right and if you're hearing what raf saying and it resonates whether you're

00:30:23.984 --> 00:30:25.124

franchise or independent.

00:30:26.662 --> 00:30:32.382

Then take a moment and we're just circling back to one of the points Raf made a few minutes ago.

00:30:32.762 --> 00:30:36.822

Think, okay, if you're resonating with the idea of, okay, I want better quality

00:30:36.822 --> 00:30:43.462

control, I want better brand identity, then that means doing exactly what Raf said, Raf said,

00:30:43.782 --> 00:30:48.542

auditing the teaching of your staff, which means in one way or another,

00:30:48.642 --> 00:30:51.042

depending on how you organize it, you're observing their teaching.

00:30:51.622 --> 00:30:54.782

If you're running nine different class types then you

00:30:54.782 --> 00:30:57.762

have to watch people teaching all nine different class

00:30:57.762 --> 00:31:01.022

types and have crystal clear clarity on

00:31:01.022 --> 00:31:04.142

what each of those nine different class types should look like and

00:31:04.142 --> 00:31:07.222

they should differentiate from each other otherwise they become generic within

00:31:07.222 --> 00:31:09.882

the studio now good luck with that right if you

00:31:09.882 --> 00:31:13.302

if you're a person that's burned out from teaching too many classes you are

00:31:13.302 --> 00:31:16.162

not going to have time to all the teaching of nine different

00:31:16.162 --> 00:31:19.662

class types so three is the absolute maximum

00:31:19.662 --> 00:31:22.762

of class types as far as i'm concerned because that's

00:31:22.762 --> 00:31:25.942

the upper limit of what you can reasonably audit even

00:31:25.942 --> 00:31:29.142

if you um distribute the auditing process out

00:31:29.142 --> 00:31:32.182

to your staff where they self self-reflect regularly i

00:31:32.182 --> 00:31:35.002

think three's too many i think two's the absolute yeah exactly i totally

00:31:35.002 --> 00:31:37.862

agree like i get i mean i agree but i've kind

00:31:37.862 --> 00:31:40.842

of kind of got to err if okay sometimes i really want to stretch session and

00:31:40.842 --> 00:31:44.322

a beginner and my general class like oh okay yeah but

00:31:44.322 --> 00:31:47.042

but but like if stretching is important to

00:31:47.042 --> 00:31:50.682

you just do some stretching in every class like yeah like

00:31:50.682 --> 00:31:54.222

you're preaching to the converter i was just trying to you know if you're talking

00:31:54.222 --> 00:31:57.302

to a club pilates franchise owner they've got to have nine different class types

00:31:57.302 --> 00:32:00.662

they actually have to do that or whatever it is seven you know i don't know

00:32:00.662 --> 00:32:05.862

but if you're running your own business like one is enough two is too many and

00:32:05.862 --> 00:32:10.022

then because you If you're going to achieve what Raf was describing,

00:32:10.042 --> 00:32:15.482

you have to do that for every instructor that's delivering every single class type.

00:32:16.876 --> 00:32:22.136

And the other thing about that to remember, too, is that if you're teaching

00:32:22.136 --> 00:32:26.996

10 classes out of 50 per week, you're teaching 20% of the classes in your studio.

00:32:27.116 --> 00:32:31.056

That means 80% of your delivery is being done by other people.

00:32:31.916 --> 00:32:35.876

And so I've kind of skipped on to the problem of the person who's wanting to

00:32:35.876 --> 00:32:38.136

grow their business, but it's the same conversation.

00:32:38.136 --> 00:32:43.576

If you're teaching 20, 40 per week and you're about to open another studio and

00:32:43.576 --> 00:32:49.156

you've got 40 classes there, you're going to go from 50% of delivery to 25%

00:32:49.156 --> 00:32:51.496

of delivery. And so that compounds the problem.

00:32:51.836 --> 00:32:55.316

And you're not going to have one instructor take over the whole studio.

00:32:55.496 --> 00:32:59.096

So let alone you think you're going to expand your studios to multiples,

00:32:59.456 --> 00:33:05.236

your systems have to be all the more clear, more granular, and more robust because

00:33:05.236 --> 00:33:08.096

you're going to be teaching less percentage-wise of all the classes delivered.

00:33:08.316 --> 00:33:12.396

And that's the same as if you just hire three to five instructors when you've

00:33:12.396 --> 00:33:13.956

been teaching on your own or with one other.

00:33:14.156 --> 00:33:18.036

You're going to go from 50% of delivery to 20% if you're lucky.

00:33:18.236 --> 00:33:21.456

And so if you don't know exactly what should be happening in the classes and

00:33:21.456 --> 00:33:25.676

have a way to assess that, it's very quickly going to devolve into what we described

00:33:25.676 --> 00:33:29.416

at the beginning, where it's just a melange of people's personal styles.

00:33:29.636 --> 00:33:32.636

Right. And that is the default because entropy always increases.

00:33:32.776 --> 00:33:35.236

That's literally one are the foundational laws of physics.

00:33:35.476 --> 00:33:42.016

And what that means is basically by default things turn to chaos disorder and they fuck up basically.

00:33:42.376 --> 00:33:48.276

Like if you want order and quality, that's not the default. You have to create that actively.

00:33:48.556 --> 00:33:52.136

That's not, you know, if you throw the Lego bricks up into the sky,

00:33:52.456 --> 00:33:56.296

the likelihood that they spontaneously fall down and assemble themselves into the...

00:33:57.198 --> 00:34:00.078

Something like is is very

00:34:00.078 --> 00:34:03.678

very very low it's essentially non-existent the likelihood that they fall in

00:34:03.678 --> 00:34:08.698

a chaotic jumble on the floor is like a billion to one right and so if you just

00:34:08.698 --> 00:34:11.658

invite random people into your studio have seven different class types and just

00:34:11.658 --> 00:34:14.438

go to the classrooms over there go for it you're essentially just throwing the

00:34:14.438 --> 00:34:17.938

lego bricks up into the sky and hoping they fall down you know in the in a perfect

00:34:17.938 --> 00:34:19.878

you know assembled you know,

00:34:21.278 --> 00:34:26.618

you know like lego house or whatever and it's like yeah that's not gonna fall

00:34:26.618 --> 00:34:28.058

into the death The Death Star. The Death Star, okay.

00:34:29.038 --> 00:34:31.738

That was the ultimate Lego thing when I was a kid. You just remember one of

00:34:31.738 --> 00:34:34.058

the Death Star. Or the Eiffel Tower. The Eiffel Tower's pretty good.

00:34:34.878 --> 00:34:38.238

My daughter's boyfriend's got a Lego Eiffel Tower. It's a centerpiece of his

00:34:38.238 --> 00:34:39.838

extensive Lego collection.

00:34:41.838 --> 00:34:46.178

All right, so you have to create the order. It's not going to create itself, right?

00:34:46.238 --> 00:34:49.798

If you're not actively doing this, I can tell you with 100% certainty,

00:34:50.218 --> 00:34:51.498

you've got chaos, right?

00:34:51.518 --> 00:34:54.078

Because if you're not creating the order, there is no order because it's not

00:34:54.078 --> 00:34:55.638

going to spontaneously happen.

00:34:56.498 --> 00:35:02.538

Now, even if you've got five amazing instructors, they're certainly teaching, which is impossible,

00:35:03.798 --> 00:35:07.958

because by default, if you haven't filtered for people, it's like you're not

00:35:07.958 --> 00:35:10.058

going to get amazing instructors because in fact,

00:35:10.198 --> 00:35:13.438

you certainly aren't going to get amazing instructors because amazing instructors

00:35:13.438 --> 00:35:18.258

are attracted to, guess what, a really freaking clear vision with someone with

00:35:18.258 --> 00:35:19.538

very, very high standards.

00:35:19.918 --> 00:35:23.698

And if you've just said like, okay, if you're a 450 hour certified instructor,

00:35:24.158 --> 00:35:27.218

like the same as every other ad or if you just said like if you're

00:35:27.218 --> 00:35:29.898

an instructor then it's

00:35:29.898 --> 00:35:32.718

like well you're not communicating any high standards and you're not going to attract those

00:35:32.718 --> 00:35:36.258

people who want to be the best so what

00:35:36.258 --> 00:35:39.658

you have to do is number one define your style like he said okay and the way

00:35:39.658 --> 00:35:43.778

you do that is you you film yourself like when you teach dear listener if you're

00:35:43.778 --> 00:35:49.058

the most popular instructor in your in your studio which 99 chance you are if

00:35:49.058 --> 00:35:55.658

you're the owner uh by definition you are a better instructor if you're most popular, right? And...

00:35:58.242 --> 00:36:04.402

And you almost certainly have some kind of script that you use.

00:36:04.462 --> 00:36:07.662

Now, it might not be a written script, a literal script, but it is a script in your brain.

00:36:07.782 --> 00:36:11.302

Like when you cue long stretch, you almost certainly cue it basically the same

00:36:11.302 --> 00:36:12.162

way every time you teach it.

00:36:12.562 --> 00:36:16.142

When you teach footwork, you almost certainly teach it the same way every time you teach it.

00:36:16.722 --> 00:36:21.862

And so when you teach, and not only the way that you teach each exercise,

00:36:21.962 --> 00:36:24.122

but probably the way that you string exercises together.

00:36:24.682 --> 00:36:27.482

Right so you probably when you you probably

00:36:27.482 --> 00:36:30.602

have favorite little sequences of moves like you probably go from footwork to

00:36:30.602 --> 00:36:34.022

something else lying on the carriage you probably don't go footwork to

00:36:34.022 --> 00:36:39.102

lunges to reverse knee stretches to you know snake and then back to legs in

00:36:39.102 --> 00:36:43.862

straps right with maybe long box in between there somewhere like you know one

00:36:43.862 --> 00:36:47.762

exercise in each position right i'm hoping you don't right because it doesn't

00:36:47.762 --> 00:36:52.602

flow very well right so you probably have like default sequences that you often teach.

00:36:52.742 --> 00:36:56.362

You found like these moves go well together, right? And each move you teach,

00:36:56.482 --> 00:37:00.402

you probably have basically a script that you press a button inside your brain

00:37:00.402 --> 00:37:02.042

and the words come out to teach that move.

00:37:02.162 --> 00:37:06.942

So you do have a script, right? Maybe it's not written on paper, but you do have a script.

00:37:07.102 --> 00:37:12.742

So what you need to do is write it on paper, right? And film it and turn it into an actual script.

00:37:13.822 --> 00:37:19.182

And like Heath said, look at the classes as an aggregate, like look at four

00:37:19.182 --> 00:37:22.242

or five classes and go, okay, every single class, Like sometimes I taught footwork,

00:37:22.322 --> 00:37:27.202

sometimes I didn't, but we always did legwork of some description, right?

00:37:28.382 --> 00:37:31.942

You know, so that becomes a non-negotiable, right? So you don't have to teach

00:37:31.942 --> 00:37:33.942

footwork, but you have to do something that works the legs.

00:37:34.582 --> 00:37:38.662

And so whatever your non-negotiables are, like Heath said. And then the second

00:37:38.662 --> 00:37:41.482

thing is you have to do QC, which just means quality control,

00:37:41.662 --> 00:37:46.602

which just means like doing the class or watching the class and giving honest feedback.

00:37:46.802 --> 00:37:50.082

And the feedback should be very, very straight up. It should be delivered with

00:37:50.082 --> 00:37:57.502

neutral emotion. So no, you're not saying you're a good instructor or you're a bad instructor.

00:37:57.682 --> 00:38:02.242

You're saying this thing that you did was good or this thing that you did was

00:38:02.242 --> 00:38:05.002

bad. So don't do that thing. Do this thing instead.

00:38:05.642 --> 00:38:10.622

Yeah. And Raph, let's just catch that. Just so that we see the link between

00:38:10.622 --> 00:38:15.362

the first point and that point is when you've established those non-negotiables

00:38:15.362 --> 00:38:20.382

and the optionals and the unacceptables, that becomes quite literally a checklist.

00:38:20.962 --> 00:38:24.362

Yes. That you then look at. So when Raf says you give feedback and it's clear,

00:38:24.362 --> 00:38:28.162

it's not sugar-coated and it's direct, it's objective and it's non-personal,

00:38:28.402 --> 00:38:30.082

you're not making that shit up on the spot.

00:38:30.402 --> 00:38:34.082

You're watching a video or you're reflecting on notes that you took as you attended

00:38:34.082 --> 00:38:36.902

and simply saying, these are the non-negotiables.

00:38:37.062 --> 00:38:39.062

You did five out of the seven, fuck yeah.

00:38:39.242 --> 00:38:42.202

And here's two you didn't do. We need to address that. Do you need support?

00:38:42.642 --> 00:38:46.502

And here's the unacceptables. You didn't do any except for this one.

00:38:46.582 --> 00:38:47.562

So please stop doing that.

00:38:48.925 --> 00:38:52.625

So it's not, you don't have to, it's not, it's not, you might find it's a difficult

00:38:52.625 --> 00:38:55.565

conversation, but it's not a difficult open-ended conversation.

00:38:55.745 --> 00:39:00.305

It's a structured conversation based on key metrics. Right. It's a checklist.

00:39:00.445 --> 00:39:01.325

It literally is a checklist.

00:39:01.565 --> 00:39:03.845

You know, did you do these five things? Did you not do these five things,

00:39:04.005 --> 00:39:04.725

these other five things?

00:39:06.025 --> 00:39:09.865

Easy, you know, like it's very, very simple. but then you have to,

00:39:10.125 --> 00:39:19.485

in order to do this, you need to do the last thing which is pull on your big

00:39:19.485 --> 00:39:25.585

girl panties and have hard conversations with people and those hard conversations

00:39:25.585 --> 00:39:26.885

are going to be like, hey Sally,

00:39:27.065 --> 00:39:29.545

you've been teaching here for three years and I've never done your class,

00:39:30.325 --> 00:39:33.585

and you've been teaching like God knows what in that session,

00:39:34.685 --> 00:39:36.665

because I've never done it so I don't know.

00:39:37.985 --> 00:39:42.385

And that's been my bad because I haven't given you any kind of leadership or

00:39:42.385 --> 00:39:45.885

feedback or North Star about how we teach here.

00:39:46.345 --> 00:39:50.665

That's changing now. And we're going to define our style and this is what the style is going to be.

00:39:51.905 --> 00:39:55.385

And if you want to learn to teach that way and if you want to become a better

00:39:55.385 --> 00:40:00.045

instructor as defined by one, teaching that style and two, having full classes,

00:40:00.305 --> 00:40:05.145

then fuck yeah, let's work together and get you there, train you up.

00:40:05.145 --> 00:40:08.505

And if that doesn't align with how you want to work or how you want to progress

00:40:08.505 --> 00:40:11.365

your own skills then that's totally fine as well but this isn't going to be

00:40:11.365 --> 00:40:13.025

a good fit you need to move on.

00:40:15.275 --> 00:40:23.135

I'm working, well, we're working with a studio at the moment who's in a country

00:40:23.135 --> 00:40:24.955

known as New Zealand, honorarily Australian.

00:40:25.675 --> 00:40:32.835

And this studio's owner has been going for, I think it's better part of 10 years,

00:40:33.315 --> 00:40:37.495

running 60 plus classes a week. And the studio owner teaches about five.

00:40:38.295 --> 00:40:41.575

And so we went through this process that we're talking about.

00:40:41.575 --> 00:40:44.595

And what was interesting about

00:40:44.595 --> 00:40:47.535

that process was when we talked about what's your brand

00:40:47.535 --> 00:40:50.575

she was she was really unclear on that and when we talked about

00:40:50.575 --> 00:40:53.355

the process that raf described her eyes lit up she

00:40:53.355 --> 00:40:56.455

was like this is exactly what i need i've got all these great instructors that

00:40:56.455 --> 00:40:59.575

i love i love what they do but

00:40:59.575 --> 00:41:02.675

there's no through line there's no consistency and when

00:41:02.675 --> 00:41:05.395

we worked it out when we went through this process i was like oh right so

00:41:05.395 --> 00:41:08.795

you're teaching five classes a week out of 60 plus an

00:41:08.795 --> 00:41:12.015

extra studio that's just opened that's already scaling to about 30 so

00:41:12.015 --> 00:41:14.715

you're teaching like five percent of all

00:41:14.715 --> 00:41:17.755

the classes taught and you've got team members who teach 25

00:41:17.755 --> 00:41:23.655

and so the process for her was she actually filmed her lead instructors rather

00:41:23.655 --> 00:41:27.335

than herself and she built the through line out of what they were doing well

00:41:27.335 --> 00:41:32.255

and then sat down with them and said we're going to clarify our brand and i'm

00:41:32.255 --> 00:41:35.475

building it out of what you do Do you want to join me on this?

00:41:36.155 --> 00:41:40.915

And not surprisingly, they all said, hell yeah, because they were being brought into the process.

00:41:41.395 --> 00:41:44.915

And so we've gone through this development process and we're running the workshops.

00:41:45.175 --> 00:41:49.815

I do it with the studio owner and then with the team as organized, as needed.

00:41:51.158 --> 00:41:54.178

So I guess I'm just, I just wanted to catch this because what we've talked about

00:41:54.178 --> 00:41:58.938

so far is very owner centric and you're driving it and you do absolutely have

00:41:58.938 --> 00:42:02.698

to drive it, but it doesn't mean you have to be, it's not adversarial to your team.

00:42:02.938 --> 00:42:06.218

If as Raf was just saying, the team is aligned with your vision.

00:42:06.578 --> 00:42:09.998

So, and when you've got clarity and you can put the flag in the ground and say,

00:42:10.098 --> 00:42:11.118

this is what I want to achieve.

00:42:11.778 --> 00:42:14.858

If you're with me and we're clear on what success looks like,

00:42:14.958 --> 00:42:19.558

and that means outcomes and processes, if we're all aligned on that,

00:42:19.718 --> 00:42:22.738

now all we have to do is just build objective systems sorry objective

00:42:22.738 --> 00:42:26.458

processes like self-reflective and uh feedback-based

00:42:26.458 --> 00:42:29.358

processes that check that we're all moving in the direction we need

00:42:29.358 --> 00:42:32.458

to so yeah it's this i just

00:42:32.458 --> 00:42:35.838

want to the process that raf and i are kind of referring to it doesn't have

00:42:35.838 --> 00:42:41.098

to be um all top down so if you've got a team or even just a couple of instructors

00:42:41.098 --> 00:42:45.338

that you feel really passionate about you can bring them into that process but

00:42:45.338 --> 00:42:49.978

but what's not negotiable is that you come up with what we've been talking about.

00:42:50.158 --> 00:42:53.858

Crystal clear clarity about what happens in your classes, the experience your

00:42:53.858 --> 00:42:56.338

clients have, and what doesn't happen in your studio.

00:42:56.798 --> 00:42:59.878

Right. And in fact, within our own business, that's how we do it.

00:43:00.078 --> 00:43:04.738

So I'm the CEO of this company, but actually Heath's the one running the quality

00:43:04.738 --> 00:43:06.238

control on the trainers.

00:43:06.798 --> 00:43:11.398

And we're defining good training as training the way Heath trains.

00:43:11.958 --> 00:43:16.478

So even though I'm the owner, and I'm a thousand percent aligned with Heath's

00:43:16.478 --> 00:43:17.638

way of teaching, obviously.

00:43:18.758 --> 00:43:21.898

Heath's actually a better Pilates teacher at this point than I am.

00:43:22.838 --> 00:43:27.738

And Heath teaches more classes than I do. And Heath's the one running the team

00:43:27.738 --> 00:43:30.418

and defining the standards of quality.

00:43:30.538 --> 00:43:34.898

And so if you're a studio owner and you've got a person on your team that you

00:43:34.898 --> 00:43:37.798

have that level of trust, that I've won their skill.

00:43:37.938 --> 00:43:41.398

When I say trust, I mean trust in their skills, right? Not just trust in their integrity.

00:43:41.538 --> 00:43:45.298

I mean, if you don't trust their integrity, they shouldn't be on your team at

00:43:45.298 --> 00:43:48.558

all. but I mean trusting their skills that you would,

00:43:49.610 --> 00:43:53.590

actually back them to be at the minimum as good as you, probably better than

00:43:53.590 --> 00:43:58.350

you at what you do best, you know, in terms of teaching. Right.

00:43:59.690 --> 00:44:05.310

And there's, there's a, I think the, the test here is there was a great,

00:44:05.390 --> 00:44:07.870

I follow the UFC, the ultimate fighting championship.

00:44:08.030 --> 00:44:11.230

It's kind of like my sport as a spectator that I like to enjoy.

00:44:11.390 --> 00:44:12.570

I'm not really into football or whatever.

00:44:13.270 --> 00:44:19.190

And there was, there was this, this reporter asked the president of the UFC one time,

00:44:19.610 --> 00:44:26.830

If you had to pick one person to fight on your behalf to save your life,

00:44:26.950 --> 00:44:30.690

if your life was on the line and there was just this one person there to defend you,

00:44:31.130 --> 00:44:33.070

who would you pick? And he was like, oh, John Jones.

00:44:34.130 --> 00:44:39.730

Zero hesitation. That man, John Jones is, I think, still the light – no,

00:44:39.830 --> 00:44:43.290

he actually just retired as a light heavyweight champion, basically undefeated

00:44:43.290 --> 00:44:44.830

after 30 title defenses.

00:44:46.210 --> 00:44:48.830

He's basically annihilated everybody he's ever fought.

00:44:50.350 --> 00:44:54.330

And so if you have that level of trust, like if you would send,

00:44:54.550 --> 00:44:57.970

you know, if I said to you like, okay, I'm going to send your most,

00:44:58.230 --> 00:45:01.130

you know, this person is going to come and write you like the most scathing

00:45:01.130 --> 00:45:02.950

Google review or the most, you know,

00:45:04.150 --> 00:45:06.910

complimentary Google review is going to make or break your business.

00:45:07.830 --> 00:45:11.430

And you can't teach, I can only send that person to like one instructor in your

00:45:11.430 --> 00:45:14.890

business and you can't brief that instructor ahead of time, right?

00:45:15.170 --> 00:45:18.090

Like, do you have someone on your team that you'd be like, oh yeah,

00:45:18.150 --> 00:45:22.210

go to Sally's class, like total confidence like yeah if you have that person,

00:45:23.090 --> 00:45:26.710

that's that's the level of confidence I have in Heath and that's the level of

00:45:26.710 --> 00:45:32.650

confidence you need to have in somebody for them to be the person that you model your business off,

00:45:34.153 --> 00:45:37.553

the John Jones level. Yeah, agreed. Yeah.

00:45:38.673 --> 00:45:42.493

And if you've got that person and if you're in that, if you're running a studio

00:45:42.493 --> 00:45:50.253

and you've got that person, that you need to, you know, like that they are the, that's a rare thing.

00:45:50.293 --> 00:45:53.453

So you need to hold onto that and value that.

00:46:00.193 --> 00:46:05.433

All right. And so what is the mindset shift? because we've given all of the

00:46:05.433 --> 00:46:06.373

practical advice, okay?

00:46:06.633 --> 00:46:09.973

So you've got to, well, when you, all right, so actually we haven't given some

00:46:09.973 --> 00:46:13.053

of the practical advice because we've got to now go back and talk about,

00:46:13.333 --> 00:46:17.573

okay, so when you are hiring, okay, what filters do you put in place?

00:46:17.933 --> 00:46:22.713

And when you, so in your ad, for example, and when you interview people,

00:46:22.893 --> 00:46:25.173

like what mindset do you have instead of gratitude?

00:46:25.893 --> 00:46:28.753

You know, how do we modify that and get the right people in?

00:46:29.013 --> 00:46:34.093

And then what is the mindset shift or how do you make that mindset shift?

00:46:34.213 --> 00:46:40.073

Because I know, like putting myself in my shoes a decade ago when I was making all these mistakes.

00:46:41.033 --> 00:46:43.573

I would have listened to this episode and gone like, that all sounds great,

00:46:43.673 --> 00:46:49.253

but I'm fucking terrified and I feel massive imposter syndrome to go and have

00:46:49.253 --> 00:46:51.733

those conversations with this instructor that's been teaching for like five

00:46:51.733 --> 00:46:52.773

times longer than I have.

00:46:53.553 --> 00:46:57.873

And her classes are full, but she teaches just a completely different style to what we teach here.

00:46:58.133 --> 00:47:02.513

Or even if there's that one instructor on your team and it's like their classes aren't full, right?

00:47:02.533 --> 00:47:06.933

It's just a very hard, it's a hard sort of psychological hump to get yourself over.

00:47:07.333 --> 00:47:11.793

So what are the, like when, let's start at the start with the filtering when you're writing a job ad.

00:47:11.873 --> 00:47:16.633

So instead of saying, we're hiring, click here to apply, or we're hiring looking

00:47:16.633 --> 00:47:20.793

for 40, 450 hour comprehensively instructor must like to teach safe and effective Pilates.

00:47:21.513 --> 00:47:25.513

Like what do you say in your job ad to attract the right people and consequently

00:47:25.513 --> 00:47:28.693

repel the people who are not going to be a good fit?

00:47:31.705 --> 00:47:35.685

Uh, well, all right. So I haven't, this is kind of funny for me.

00:47:35.825 --> 00:47:40.425

I haven't actually done this because I've been blessed with having worked at

00:47:40.425 --> 00:47:43.745

Breathe Education for the last 12 plus years.

00:47:44.065 --> 00:47:49.625

So when, when I've wanted new staff, I've always been lucky enough to be able

00:47:49.625 --> 00:47:52.545

to draw them from graduates within the program.

00:47:52.545 --> 00:47:56.405

But when I've worked with instructors on this, sorry, when I've worked with

00:47:56.405 --> 00:48:02.045

studio owners on this, essentially the job ad is your list of non-negotiables.

00:48:03.165 --> 00:48:06.745

So you just take the list of things that you've identified as what has to happen

00:48:06.745 --> 00:48:10.645

in your class and you build them, maybe you use ChatGPT to help,

00:48:10.865 --> 00:48:12.825

into a description of the job.

00:48:13.505 --> 00:48:19.165

And then when people apply, your time is incredibly valuable.

00:48:20.105 --> 00:48:24.085

So you don't meet with everyone that applies. You don't meet with everyone that

00:48:24.085 --> 00:48:26.085

tells you how much they love the studio.

00:48:26.345 --> 00:48:29.865

When someone applies, you say back to them, thanks so much for your application.

00:48:30.465 --> 00:48:33.045

How many classes have you done at the studio? And if the answer is none,

00:48:33.285 --> 00:48:34.465

you put a line through that name.

00:48:35.485 --> 00:48:41.825

If the answer is five, you say, okay, great. I'll send you a video of me teaching.

00:48:42.245 --> 00:48:46.325

And then you, when you're ready to teach me the way I'm teaching in the video,

00:48:46.565 --> 00:48:48.085

you let me know when you're ready to come in.

00:48:49.205 --> 00:48:52.285

So you at the door you build a wall that says

00:48:52.285 --> 00:48:55.145

this is how we do things and it might not be as it might

00:48:55.145 --> 00:48:58.365

not simply be that you send them a video you might send them a brand description

00:48:58.365 --> 00:49:01.145

blah blah blah but what i

00:49:01.145 --> 00:49:03.965

ended up in a queuing script right right so

00:49:03.965 --> 00:49:06.745

it's not just a video but like okay here's the video here's the

00:49:06.745 --> 00:49:10.725

the queuing script of what i said in the video and here's the exercise list

00:49:10.725 --> 00:49:14.565

with when you're ready to come in with the spring show exactly everything when

00:49:14.565 --> 00:49:19.405

you're ready to come in and teach me to that script give me a call and we'll

00:49:19.405 --> 00:49:23.945

make a time and i'll give you 15 minutes and then if they come in and they teach

00:49:23.945 --> 00:49:26.405

anything other than what you ask them to teach.

00:49:27.985 --> 00:49:31.725

That's a red flag a line goes through that name because you are clear with them

00:49:31.725 --> 00:49:36.605

that what you are asking them to do in their interview is to demonstrate to

00:49:36.605 --> 00:49:40.725

you their ability to teach the way you need them to teach in your studio and

00:49:40.725 --> 00:49:45.185

that's a huge paradigm shift for everyone i've ever worked through with it.

00:49:46.073 --> 00:49:50.313

Yeah. I think, so there are two things I would pull out of that,

00:49:50.473 --> 00:49:53.033

which I agree 100% with everything you said.

00:49:53.173 --> 00:49:54.893

But I think the first thing you said is like, you don't know,

00:49:55.053 --> 00:49:57.833

you know, because you've basically hired people, graduates.

00:49:57.993 --> 00:50:01.373

I think, well, that is the secret. So the first secret is like where you go

00:50:01.373 --> 00:50:03.233

to find people, okay, when you're hiring.

00:50:03.453 --> 00:50:06.413

And so instead of just like putting an ad on seek.com or whatever,

00:50:06.993 --> 00:50:08.993

right, that is like, there were three ways you can basically hire.

00:50:09.113 --> 00:50:12.053

One is you can promote from within, essentially like, you know,

00:50:12.113 --> 00:50:15.613

your best clients or whatever, you can actually just get them trained up.

00:50:15.613 --> 00:50:17.673

Second one is you can do a job ad.

00:50:18.133 --> 00:50:22.553

Okay. And the third one is you can poach. You can actually approach somebody

00:50:22.553 --> 00:50:24.953

who's working somewhere else and say, hey, come work for me. Okay.

00:50:26.213 --> 00:50:29.933

And all three can work and you can do all three. Like they're not mutually exclusive.

00:50:30.833 --> 00:50:38.873

They all have their pros and cons. But I think generally the more you leverage

00:50:38.873 --> 00:50:43.213

your network, the better chance you have of getting somebody aligned.

00:50:43.213 --> 00:50:46.913

So the network would be like your clients, okay, your instructors.

00:50:47.753 --> 00:50:52.513

The more you like have a personal connection with that instructor so that you're

00:50:52.513 --> 00:50:55.693

selecting them rather than just like casting it out and going,

00:50:55.773 --> 00:50:57.733

hey, anybody who's interested, come along and let me know.

00:50:57.913 --> 00:51:01.773

So if you like go around, so I had a conversation with someone yesterday on

00:51:01.773 --> 00:51:02.633

one of the coaching calls.

00:51:03.813 --> 00:51:07.373

She's looking for instructors and finding it hard to find someone.

00:51:07.753 --> 00:51:10.573

And so what I coached her on was poaching.

00:51:11.153 --> 00:51:13.873

Um so i said like go around you know

00:51:13.873 --> 00:51:16.793

look on look on the reviews for the other studios around

00:51:16.793 --> 00:51:19.773

you look at the look at the waitlist look at which classes are waitlisted look

00:51:19.773 --> 00:51:23.013

at the instructors who are mentioned in the reviews go do those

00:51:23.013 --> 00:51:27.413

people's classes if you go do their class and you're like holy shit yeah this

00:51:27.413 --> 00:51:30.273

person's really the real deal right and i would love to have this person teaching

00:51:30.273 --> 00:51:33.173

at my studio based on the reviews the waitlist and my personal experience of

00:51:33.173 --> 00:51:38.693

them teaching right then like approach that person after class and say hey i

00:51:38.693 --> 00:51:42.713

own xyz studio i've stalked you on social media I know you teach at A,

00:51:42.753 --> 00:51:46.513

B and C studios I know you're waitlisted I just did your class you're really

00:51:46.513 --> 00:51:48.753

freaking good and I would love to have you come work with me,

00:51:49.584 --> 00:51:53.204

What would it take for you to quit those other studios and come work for me?

00:51:57.444 --> 00:52:01.164

And, you know, obviously you would say as part of that, it's like we teach XYZ

00:52:01.164 --> 00:52:03.824

style, you know, we teach classical, we teach dynamic reform,

00:52:03.944 --> 00:52:05.264

we teach whatever, right?

00:52:05.644 --> 00:52:11.224

And I'm looking for somebody who is hungry to be even better than what you already are.

00:52:11.464 --> 00:52:15.664

And we do weekly, you know, coaching or bi-weekly coaching or whatever it is.

00:52:15.764 --> 00:52:19.484

And I will audit your classes on the regular and I will help you become even better.

00:52:19.584 --> 00:52:22.284

Like and by the way i pay top of market like whatever

00:52:22.284 --> 00:52:24.944

you're getting paid there i'll pay you more are you in

00:52:24.944 --> 00:52:28.044

right now that's a very very

00:52:28.044 --> 00:52:30.824

compelling offer and what a lot of what a

00:52:30.824 --> 00:52:33.824

lot of uh studio owners do is if they do leverage

00:52:33.824 --> 00:52:36.564

a network at all they just kind of text people and go like

00:52:36.564 --> 00:52:39.484

oh could you spare me a few classes a week and

00:52:39.484 --> 00:52:42.624

then instructors get back and go like oh yeah no i'm really busy at the moment it's

00:52:42.624 --> 00:52:45.264

like yeah but like what if you quit all of the other shit jobs that you

00:52:45.264 --> 00:52:48.284

have and came and worked here you know

00:52:48.284 --> 00:52:50.984

so so yeah so it's basically where you

00:52:50.984 --> 00:52:53.904

go number one you i would i would go to you to poaching

00:52:53.904 --> 00:52:56.764

if you're desperate and you need someone yesterday because you'll get someone

00:52:56.764 --> 00:53:00.964

who's really good if you actively filter and go and actually do their class

00:53:00.964 --> 00:53:03.124

and look at the reviews and the waitlist and you go yeah fuck this person's

00:53:03.124 --> 00:53:07.224

really good i'd like to have them teaching in my studio then you will get someone

00:53:07.224 --> 00:53:09.084

who's really good because you know they're really good because you did their

00:53:09.084 --> 00:53:12.084

class the second thing which is much slower,

00:53:12.284 --> 00:53:16.944

but also very, very high chance of getting someone awesome is promote one of your clients.

00:53:17.044 --> 00:53:19.344

Like if somebody had been in the front row of your group reformer class three

00:53:19.344 --> 00:53:23.064

times a week for the last six months, it's like they're already a true believer in what you do.

00:53:23.304 --> 00:53:25.764

And all they need is some teaching skills. So you just got to like...

00:53:26.628 --> 00:53:30.088

Tap them on the shoulder, ask them if they're interested, and then train them up.

00:53:31.028 --> 00:53:34.288

And so, you know, that takes a long time, like it might take six months for

00:53:34.288 --> 00:53:37.488

that person to certify, okay, and you have to mentor them up and it's more work,

00:53:37.548 --> 00:53:40.688

but you will get a, you know, fanatical true believer instructor who teaches

00:53:40.688 --> 00:53:43.508

exactly how you want them to teach if you do that process, right?

00:53:43.868 --> 00:53:46.368

And then the third way is to advertise. And if you advertise,

00:53:46.508 --> 00:53:49.488

again, you should use your network, you know, like, so don't,

00:53:49.628 --> 00:53:53.148

like, yes, advertise on, you know, random job websites, but look,

00:53:53.648 --> 00:53:54.608

advertise in Pilates forums.

00:53:55.068 --> 00:53:58.308

Put your job ad, like, give it to all your clients and say, do you know anyone

00:53:58.308 --> 00:54:01.228

who might be interested? Give it to your instructors, ask them if they know

00:54:01.228 --> 00:54:01.928

anyone who might be interested.

00:54:03.808 --> 00:54:08.288

If any way you can leverage your network, you will get better connections than

00:54:08.288 --> 00:54:11.028

by just randomly throwing it out there.

00:54:12.388 --> 00:54:15.028

All right. And then like Keith said, you've got to say, okay,

00:54:15.108 --> 00:54:16.528

here's what we do, here's what we don't do.

00:54:16.628 --> 00:54:18.988

And then you've got to talk about the benefits to that person,

00:54:19.188 --> 00:54:22.288

which is the final thing, which is like, okay, you will get top of industry pay.

00:54:22.448 --> 00:54:24.968

And dear listener, I advocate that you should paid type of industry,

00:54:24.988 --> 00:54:28.168

not because I think it's fair or ethical or moral or makes you a good person,

00:54:28.328 --> 00:54:29.848

just because that means you'll get the best instructors.

00:54:30.868 --> 00:54:34.828

If you want great instructors, you can't pay worse than the studio up the road.

00:54:36.728 --> 00:54:40.408

You have to offer very competitive salary. So basically, you have to figure

00:54:40.408 --> 00:54:43.448

out what the other studios around you pay, and you've got to pay just a little bit more than that.

00:54:44.588 --> 00:54:49.508

And then also the mentoring and the stringent quality standards and being clear on what you stand for.

00:54:49.628 --> 00:54:53.768

We are a classical studio. We don't do dumbbells on the reformer or we are a

00:54:53.768 --> 00:54:56.868

strength-based reformer studios, we do dumbbells on the reformer.

00:54:56.928 --> 00:55:00.588

Just stand up for what you stand for and be clear that if you love that,

00:55:00.788 --> 00:55:02.248

come here because we love it.

00:55:02.408 --> 00:55:04.868

If you don't love it, totally fine. Not a fit.

00:55:06.668 --> 00:55:12.128

How do you – I think that kind of covers the gratitude part as well. Yeah.

00:55:14.133 --> 00:55:18.273

I just want to say, when you're drowning and you're teaching all the classes

00:55:18.273 --> 00:55:21.313

and you're overwhelming, like, holy shit, I just need, I'm burning out here,

00:55:21.393 --> 00:55:21.953

I've got to get someone's.

00:55:22.773 --> 00:55:26.753

I've made this mistake so many times that finally I've learned my lesson,

00:55:26.893 --> 00:55:29.613

I think, is do not make a desperation higher.

00:55:30.133 --> 00:55:35.133

I promise you, dear listener, I promise you, you will regret it.

00:55:35.793 --> 00:55:39.073

I promise you will regret it. Do not make a desperation higher.

00:55:39.353 --> 00:55:43.213

You have to hold your standards even when you're drowning.

00:55:44.053 --> 00:55:48.433

Yeah. And you'd be, again, I didn't do this. I didn't know this,

00:55:48.473 --> 00:55:51.213

but I've worked with people and we have done this and we've seen that it's better.

00:55:51.473 --> 00:55:54.553

You're better off to say to your clients that no one loves you.

00:55:54.973 --> 00:55:57.953

I'm burned out. I'm taking a 10 day break and going to Bali.

00:55:59.193 --> 00:56:02.573

I'll be back in 10 days. I'll spend all your memberships. You're better off

00:56:02.573 --> 00:56:05.773

doing that than taking someone that you haven't filtered for and trusting them

00:56:05.773 --> 00:56:07.613

with your clients that you've spent two years building up.

00:56:08.153 --> 00:56:11.613

And the clients will come back to you if you tell them the honest truth about

00:56:11.613 --> 00:56:16.893

where you're at if you put someone in front of them that essentially devalues

00:56:16.893 --> 00:56:21.493

their relationship with you you it takes a long time to get that back.

00:56:22.833 --> 00:56:26.413

And spinning off of that you know to what raf was what you're talking about raf,

00:56:27.053 --> 00:56:29.933

and so if you're if any if you're out there and you're hearing this and you're

00:56:29.933 --> 00:56:37.593

thinking hell me that's me um it's sort of extrapolating from that idea of tell

00:56:37.593 --> 00:56:40.853

your clients you're going to go away for 10 days rather than putting anyone in front of them,

00:56:41.313 --> 00:56:45.233

is if any of the processes that we're talking about resonate and you think,

00:56:45.493 --> 00:56:48.953

hell yeah, I want to do that, I want to work through that.

00:56:50.377 --> 00:56:55.537

If you're working 15, 20, 25 classes a week, those processes aren't something

00:56:55.537 --> 00:56:57.477

you do just quickly in the morning over a cup of coffee.

00:56:57.597 --> 00:57:00.357

You do a little bit regularly over the course of the next three,

00:57:00.477 --> 00:57:03.337

four, five, six, seven, eight weeks, and you build those things out.

00:57:03.437 --> 00:57:05.817

And we're talking about recording for yourself, watching yourself back,

00:57:05.957 --> 00:57:06.957

doing that multiple times.

00:57:07.597 --> 00:57:12.517

So whether you do it on your own or you do it with someone like Raph and I as a mentor.

00:57:13.197 --> 00:57:16.277

If you want to achieve that, don't think it's going to happen overnight.

00:57:16.317 --> 00:57:19.497

But also it will happen very quickly when

00:57:19.497 --> 00:57:22.477

you understand what it is you're setting out to achieve

00:57:22.477 --> 00:57:25.837

so it's sort of like you know it's not going to happen overnight but

00:57:25.837 --> 00:57:28.757

the changes will be um that will compound very

00:57:28.757 --> 00:57:31.837

quickly to identifying your brand to attracting people

00:57:31.837 --> 00:57:34.757

you want to work with to creating quality standards within your studio

00:57:34.757 --> 00:57:37.457

to creating a situation where you can actually leave someone in front

00:57:37.457 --> 00:57:40.377

of your your favorite clients for whom

00:57:40.377 --> 00:57:43.477

you are the instructor and you can take that break it will

00:57:43.477 --> 00:57:46.397

compound really quickly if you just work from ground up

00:57:46.397 --> 00:57:49.497

brand yeah what do you do that identifies your classes

00:57:49.497 --> 00:57:52.257

write it down share it with the people that you're

00:57:52.257 --> 00:57:55.337

working with if they want to come with you great if they don't say goodbye you

00:57:55.337 --> 00:57:58.197

know all of those things it's it's a process

00:57:58.197 --> 00:58:00.837

that you know it's relatively quick but it's

00:58:00.837 --> 00:58:04.057

not overnight that's the way to say it yeah yeah i

00:58:04.057 --> 00:58:06.897

agree you know you need to take your time in the beginning

00:58:06.897 --> 00:58:09.977

to actually reflect and get really clear on what you want

00:58:09.977 --> 00:58:13.337

and what you stand for and where you're going and what you won't tolerate once you

00:58:13.337 --> 00:58:16.257

get that it it it's quite quick to actually

00:58:16.257 --> 00:58:19.217

make the change yeah uh i just realized

00:58:19.217 --> 00:58:22.097

just it's the it's the foundations of the building

00:58:22.097 --> 00:58:25.097

if you if you ever if they've ever built flats across from

00:58:25.097 --> 00:58:28.157

your studio you know that for like a year there seems

00:58:28.157 --> 00:58:31.057

to be nothing going on because they're just digging a fucking great hole and

00:58:31.057 --> 00:58:35.717

putting concrete in it and then in the last six months suddenly there's 40 stories

00:58:35.717 --> 00:58:39.197

you know that's that i think that would be the metaphor you take the time on

00:58:39.197 --> 00:58:41.017

the foundations that the stuff that's

00:58:41.017 --> 00:58:45.237

more visible happens quickly and effectively right and you're you're.

00:58:45.984 --> 00:58:53.804

Mention of taking 10 days off in Bali, actually, I realized that we forgot one

00:58:53.804 --> 00:58:56.244

symptom at the beginning of this,

00:58:56.364 --> 00:59:02.084

which is you couldn't go away because there's no one to take over your classes.

00:59:02.784 --> 00:59:08.004

Maybe there are humans, but your clients wouldn't accept them.

00:59:08.764 --> 00:59:12.044

It's like, oh, I teach a special way and I'm actually literally better than

00:59:12.044 --> 00:59:12.924

everybody else in the studio.

00:59:13.104 --> 00:59:17.244

And so therefore, there's no one in the studio I trust with my clients for a

00:59:17.244 --> 00:59:20.404

couple of weeks, right? So that would be another symptom.

00:59:21.464 --> 00:59:24.984

And just to round it out, I'm assuming you've got a call on it to go to RAF,

00:59:25.064 --> 00:59:26.944

but... No, my friends are good.

00:59:27.444 --> 00:59:33.564

Oh, cool. So I've seen this in my studio and it took me far too many years to

00:59:33.564 --> 00:59:37.104

get there and I've seen it much more quickly with studio owners that I've worked with.

00:59:37.944 --> 00:59:40.824

Put these processes in place and you implement them.

00:59:42.024 --> 00:59:46.084

There is a there is a moment in time coming and

00:59:46.084 --> 00:59:49.884

this is talking to the the point raf just made retrospectively is

00:59:49.884 --> 00:59:52.604

when it when it when you a client comes to you

00:59:52.604 --> 00:59:58.064

and you're covering for an instructor who works for you and a client comes up

00:59:58.064 --> 01:00:01.124

to you and says hey that class was really good you weren't as good as tegan

01:00:01.124 --> 01:00:06.284

but that was all right and you realize okay i've trained one to be better at

01:00:06.284 --> 01:00:10.184

this thing than I am for that client so that I'm the ring-in.

01:00:10.704 --> 01:00:15.104

That's when you know you've done something really right. Now you've built a brand and a system.

01:00:15.744 --> 01:00:21.024

And I'm 100% certain that if I went and taught a teaching workshop in our certification,

01:00:21.884 --> 01:00:23.204

that would be the feedback I'll get.

01:00:23.324 --> 01:00:27.324

Like, oh yeah, that was pretty good. Not as good as Nicole, but not bad. Not bad for the new guy.

01:00:32.344 --> 01:00:35.284

All right. So two things I want to talk about. One is,

01:00:36.946 --> 01:00:41.706

How do you make that mindset shift from like, I'm, I'm butterworm,

01:00:41.946 --> 01:00:45.146

you know, I wouldn't presume to tell my instructors how to suck eggs.

01:00:45.266 --> 01:00:50.046

You do you boo, um, free for all, everybody does whatever they want to like,

01:00:50.206 --> 01:00:53.386

actually, no, I'm going to lead this team and I'm going to define what good looks like here.

01:00:53.486 --> 01:00:56.226

And if you're in, you're in great. If not, that's also great, but you're not in.

01:00:56.946 --> 01:00:59.186

So how do you make that mindset shift? And the second thing is like,

01:00:59.226 --> 01:01:00.526

well, what if this is all great?

01:01:00.626 --> 01:01:03.146

We say, don't make a desperation higher, set your standards,

01:01:03.266 --> 01:01:05.066

blah, blah, blah. What if you've already dug the hole, right?

01:01:05.066 --> 01:01:07.306

And you've got five people working for you.

01:01:07.426 --> 01:01:11.246

And when you honestly reflect, like none of them are a good fit, you know?

01:01:11.446 --> 01:01:16.046

So, so first thing is like, how do you make the mindset shift from,

01:01:16.326 --> 01:01:23.086

from not being, not leading, not take, not being the leader to being the leader?

01:01:27.026 --> 01:01:34.326

Yeah. All right. My two cents on that in this context is it spins off what Raph

01:01:34.326 --> 01:01:39.246

was saying. what we said at the beginning there are so many ways to do Pilates.

01:01:41.846 --> 01:01:45.766

If you want someone to work for you or if someone's already working for you.

01:01:47.622 --> 01:01:54.442

And it's your business, then it's your business to make sure that you all know

01:01:54.442 --> 01:01:55.982

what happens in your business.

01:01:56.582 --> 01:02:02.702

And I think Raph said this earlier, that doesn't mean that what other studios do is wrong or shit.

01:02:03.142 --> 01:02:06.242

It's just that you are super clear on what happens in your business.

01:02:06.842 --> 01:02:10.182

So if someone comes to you with 15 years of experience,

01:02:10.442 --> 01:02:13.462

I had this experience and I was the

01:02:13.462 --> 01:02:16.722

grateful one that i'm but a worm as raf said i was

01:02:16.722 --> 01:02:19.402

desperate a person came to my studio i was

01:02:19.402 --> 01:02:22.482

burned out i was teaching like 50 plus hours a week i was

01:02:22.482 --> 01:02:25.662

just completely wiped out and this person said i can teach 20 classes a week

01:02:25.662 --> 01:02:30.182

i've been teaching for 20 years and i bowed down in gratitude and six weeks

01:02:30.182 --> 01:02:34.742

later i had to let them go because they were teaching stuff that was not aligned

01:02:34.742 --> 01:02:37.982

with what i was doing and that was the first real wake-up call i had to there

01:02:37.982 --> 01:02:40.142

is something that i do that's not the same as other people.

01:02:40.482 --> 01:02:44.202

And I had to get clear on, it doesn't mean that I think I'm better.

01:02:44.382 --> 01:02:47.722

It just means that I've made a promise to my clients that they will get an experience.

01:02:48.142 --> 01:02:51.662

I have to validate that promise or I will not have a business.

01:02:51.982 --> 01:02:57.062

And so that was for me, the first step to being able to have that mindset shift

01:02:57.062 --> 01:03:00.482

of there's Pilates, there's Pilates, there's Pilates, there's Pilates.

01:03:00.602 --> 01:03:03.602

But what happens in these four walls has clear parameters.

01:03:03.902 --> 01:03:07.682

And you could have been teaching for 20 years or five years or five months but

01:03:07.682 --> 01:03:11.942

i'm i am the keeper of those standards until someone else is better at it than

01:03:11.942 --> 01:03:16.822

me that was that was it and the person the other part of that the person with

01:03:16.822 --> 01:03:20.362

the highest standards should be the one leading the team.

01:03:21.522 --> 01:03:25.082

Right once you're clear on what the standards look like because you don't want

01:03:25.082 --> 01:03:28.702

someone coming in with high standards about things that aren't part of your

01:03:28.702 --> 01:03:30.702

standards because other people will

01:03:30.702 --> 01:03:33.482

have standards, but it's got to be the standards that define your brand,

01:03:33.682 --> 01:03:38.582

which brings us back to spend the time identifying what it is that makes your brand special.

01:03:40.402 --> 01:03:45.322

And the other one, just on that paradigm, on that mind shift, for me, a big one was –.

01:03:48.586 --> 01:03:52.766

I felt grateful that people were coming to help me out with my problem.

01:03:53.086 --> 01:03:57.906

And even saw that that was costing me clients, like Raph said,

01:03:58.006 --> 01:04:00.606

I couldn't bring myself to have that difficult conversation.

01:04:00.906 --> 01:04:05.106

And then I read a book by Adam Grant, and I can't remember the name of the book.

01:04:05.246 --> 01:04:07.446

I'm Googling like crazy. I think it was called Give and Take.

01:04:07.766 --> 01:04:11.506

And he puts this idea forward that there are givers and there are take,

01:04:11.946 --> 01:04:16.966

but his research showed that you can be selfish or you can be otherish.

01:04:16.966 --> 01:04:20.006

And when i was having to steal myself

01:04:20.006 --> 01:04:24.366

for difficult conversations one of the things that i i learned from that book

01:04:24.366 --> 01:04:29.326

was that people who are selfless which is if you're the person who thinks heaven

01:04:29.326 --> 01:04:32.326

forbid that i tell you do you're not doing what i want because you you're so

01:04:32.326 --> 01:04:36.826

kind of you're being selfless rather than selfish what they did in the the studies

01:04:36.826 --> 01:04:38.246

that they when they looked at that,

01:04:38.746 --> 01:04:44.166

was if if they took a selfless person and put them in a negotiation situation if they negotiated for.

01:04:44.826 --> 01:04:48.486

They were uh that they

01:04:48.486 --> 01:04:52.506

were um ineffective ineffective thanks

01:04:52.506 --> 01:04:55.686

but if they were told that the negotiation position

01:04:55.686 --> 01:05:01.326

was uh you know what was dependent on that negotiation was their child's welfare

01:05:01.326 --> 01:05:06.166

or the well-being of their mother all of a sudden they negotiated a lot harder

01:05:06.166 --> 01:05:09.646

and so if we're talking about how to facilitate that mindset shift and you're

01:05:09.646 --> 01:05:12.766

a person that has trouble sort of telling people what to do,

01:05:13.266 --> 01:05:16.026

well then, if you're running a business, why are you running a business?

01:05:16.266 --> 01:05:18.926

You don't run a business as a charity. You're running a business so that you

01:05:18.926 --> 01:05:22.786

create a, you exchange your goods or services to create profit so that you can

01:05:22.786 --> 01:05:26.806

improve the lives of the people, of your life, of your employees, of your family.

01:05:27.266 --> 01:05:29.646

And so that was something that helped me. It was like, okay,

01:05:29.786 --> 01:05:33.606

I would like my daughter to have X, Y experiences in her life. Okay, great.

01:05:34.446 --> 01:05:37.866

This conversation will help my business move forward to a point where it's more

01:05:37.866 --> 01:05:41.406

profitable and I work less in that profit-making process.

01:05:41.666 --> 01:05:44.066

I get to spend more time with my daughter. And all of a sudden,

01:05:44.106 --> 01:05:47.306

it was a lot easier to say, okay, we need to talk about how you're running your

01:05:47.306 --> 01:05:52.266

classes because you've got 30% capacity and we're not making money until you're at 65% capacity.

01:05:52.386 --> 01:05:56.646

So we've got to take some steps to get to 65%. And in the back of my mind,

01:05:56.726 --> 01:05:58.766

I was thinking, so that test gets to go to school.

01:05:59.992 --> 01:06:03.152

Yeah. I think that is a really powerful reframe.

01:06:03.352 --> 01:06:08.352

And I think the way I think of it is that as the leader of the business,

01:06:08.792 --> 01:06:12.112

the business is your responsibility.

01:06:12.272 --> 01:06:16.552

It's your job to care for the business and do things in the best interest of the business.

01:06:16.832 --> 01:06:19.652

And when I say the best interest of the business, I mean all of those people

01:06:19.652 --> 01:06:23.652

that you mentioned, the staff of the business, the customers of the business,

01:06:23.712 --> 01:06:26.572

and also the owners, the owner of the business.

01:06:26.572 --> 01:06:32.312

And so because if you don't have a successful profitable business or you close

01:06:32.312 --> 01:06:35.852

the doors and none of your clients can get all those benefits of pilates all

01:06:35.852 --> 01:06:39.892

of instructors lose their job you lose your house your kids you know can't go

01:06:39.892 --> 01:06:42.412

on their holidays whatever it is so like,

01:06:44.772 --> 01:06:48.432

prerequisite number one of anything good happening in the business is that the

01:06:48.432 --> 01:06:49.592

business continues to exist.

01:06:50.692 --> 01:06:57.352

And the way to ensure that the business continues to exist is that the business is profitable.

01:06:57.512 --> 01:07:01.512

And the way to ensure that the business is profitable, one of the most important

01:07:01.512 --> 01:07:06.352

pillars, is that you are differentiated from your competitors.

01:07:06.552 --> 01:07:10.632

You're not a me too brand that is exactly the same as every other Pilates studio

01:07:10.632 --> 01:07:13.852

in a 10 mile radius and not in a race to the bottom with your prices.

01:07:16.372 --> 01:07:22.672

And in order to do that, you have to build a clear vision of what you stand

01:07:22.672 --> 01:07:24.052

for and what you don't stand for.

01:07:24.072 --> 01:07:27.172

And you need everybody in lockstep on that vision.

01:07:28.072 --> 01:07:31.672

And a business is a team. It's a team sport.

01:07:31.792 --> 01:07:35.532

You have a group of people working together towards a shared direction,

01:07:35.572 --> 01:07:36.892

a shared goal, a shared vision.

01:07:37.672 --> 01:07:41.672

And it's your job as the leader to be the conductor of that orchestra,

01:07:42.152 --> 01:07:43.552

you know, to make that happen.

01:07:44.132 --> 01:07:48.372

And you need to do it to protect the business because the business is the vehicle

01:07:48.372 --> 01:07:53.932

for your clients, your staff and yourself and your family to achieve all of

01:07:53.932 --> 01:07:57.632

those wonderful things that you get from Pilates.

01:07:57.772 --> 01:08:01.212

And I just think of, you know, when I need to have a hard conversation,

01:08:01.212 --> 01:08:03.552

I think like, well, you know, I'm doing this for my clients.

01:08:03.672 --> 01:08:07.792

If I have to like let a person go or give them some feedback that might be difficult

01:08:07.792 --> 01:08:09.052

for them to hear or whatever, I think like, well,

01:08:09.552 --> 01:08:12.512

I'm doing this so that my clients can have the experience that I want them to

01:08:12.512 --> 01:08:14.992

have, or I'm doing this so that the other people on the team,

01:08:14.992 --> 01:08:19.812

you know, continue to have jobs and can pay their mortgage and put food on the

01:08:19.812 --> 01:08:23.332

table for their families because I have to look after, I have to protect the business,

01:08:23.532 --> 01:08:26.192

right, for all of those, for the common good of all of those other people.

01:08:26.812 --> 01:08:29.272

So I think that's a really, really, really powerful frame.

01:08:30.332 --> 01:08:37.912

How do you then, what do you do if you've, and ultimately, I mean, I think,

01:08:40.386 --> 01:08:41.826

You have to do it scared.

01:08:44.506 --> 01:08:53.006

And the idea that you need to somehow be ready to do it before you do it is a mistake.

01:08:53.286 --> 01:08:57.326

You won't be ready until you do it. It's like, okay, that's the when then fallacy,

01:08:57.526 --> 01:09:03.126

which basically says, okay, after I'm strong, I will go to the gym.

01:09:03.466 --> 01:09:05.306

After I'm cured, I will go to the hospital.

01:09:05.726 --> 01:09:08.706

Once I'm rich, I will start to save money.

01:09:08.706 --> 01:09:11.886

Uh you know once my you know once once

01:09:11.886 --> 01:09:15.506

i lose weight i will start to eat healthy you know it's like no that's back

01:09:15.506 --> 01:09:21.366

to front okay and so saying like when i'm when i'm ready and psychologically

01:09:21.366 --> 01:09:26.726

ready to be a leader then i will lead is back to front because had how you how

01:09:26.726 --> 01:09:31.726

you get good at this when i say good at this i mean like it doesn't freak you the fuck out.

01:09:32.386 --> 01:09:35.886

Okay how you get good at it is by doing it you know

01:09:35.886 --> 01:09:38.846

how do you get good at doing teaser do teasers right the

01:09:38.846 --> 01:09:41.726

first time you do a teaser you suck probably the 50th time you still suck

01:09:41.726 --> 01:09:44.646

but at some point you can do it and then

01:09:44.646 --> 01:09:47.386

it doesn't suck and you get to a point where you're like oh this is pretty good

01:09:47.386 --> 01:09:50.146

i'm good at it doesn't feel bad feels good looks good is good

01:09:50.146 --> 01:09:52.906

and that's the same with having difficult conversations the first

01:09:52.906 --> 01:09:56.546

time you'll suck it'll be terrifying you probably mess it up by the

01:09:56.546 --> 01:09:59.326

time you get to the 50th 100th time it's it's no big deal

01:09:59.326 --> 01:10:02.346

it doesn't it doesn't bother you you've done

01:10:02.346 --> 01:10:05.646

the reps you've built that muscle and so the

01:10:05.646 --> 01:10:11.186

the the mindset shift is not like i'm i feel confident i'm ready to do this

01:10:11.186 --> 01:10:14.786

you know the mindset shift is no i'm just going to fucking do it scared because

01:10:14.786 --> 01:10:17.966

i've got to protect the business and my family and my clients and the other

01:10:17.966 --> 01:10:20.806

staff and it's just like this is what a leader does and i've got to do it because

01:10:20.806 --> 01:10:25.586

i'm the fucking leader and how i feel about it is completely fucking irrelevant.

01:10:32.209 --> 01:10:36.029

So what do you do if you've already dug the hole, right?

01:10:36.269 --> 01:10:38.369

You've got this UDA, you've been running it for a few years,

01:10:38.629 --> 01:10:42.409

whether you inherited a team or you've hired the wrong people or a bit of both,

01:10:42.549 --> 01:10:45.669

and you've just got a bunch of people working for you.

01:10:45.809 --> 01:10:49.309

And there's at least that one person that you're like, I know in my heart,

01:10:49.369 --> 01:10:51.649

that person's got to go. And I've known that for a long time,

01:10:51.769 --> 01:10:52.589

if I'm honest with myself.

01:10:53.229 --> 01:10:55.869

And there might be a few other people that you're thinking like,

01:10:55.969 --> 01:10:58.769

okay, yeah, they're good. They're not great.

01:10:59.169 --> 01:11:01.309

You know, I wouldn't, they're not John Jones level. They're not like,

01:11:01.369 --> 01:11:04.549

okay, if my kid's life was on the line and I had to send my clients into one

01:11:04.549 --> 01:11:07.369

instructor's class, I couldn't brief that person beforehand.

01:11:07.509 --> 01:11:10.489

It's like, no, I wouldn't feel great about sending them to these people's classes.

01:11:10.629 --> 01:11:12.969

But potentially we could train them up.

01:11:13.449 --> 01:11:15.849

Maybe you've got one or two instructors that you're like, yeah,

01:11:15.929 --> 01:11:17.549

that person's awesome. Or maybe you don't.

01:11:19.229 --> 01:11:24.469

But basically you've got a mess. So what do you do if you've already got a mess?

01:11:26.789 --> 01:11:30.289

Yeah well we're working with that situation

01:11:30.289 --> 01:11:33.249

at the moment and if you've got a mess

01:11:33.249 --> 01:11:37.809

but you've also got the problem of the mess then something's working for you

01:11:37.809 --> 01:11:41.629

because if you don't have the problem you don't have a business so if you've

01:11:41.629 --> 01:11:44.689

got the problem of the mess then you're running a business that's generating

01:11:44.689 --> 01:11:50.009

enough revenue and or profit that you recognize the problem and you've got the

01:11:50.009 --> 01:11:52.849

opportunity to clear up the mess because if you haven't got that,

01:11:53.429 --> 01:11:56.869

then you haven't got a business so that's the good news and then

01:11:56.869 --> 01:11:59.549

if you've got if you do have a mess and you're

01:11:59.549 --> 01:12:03.509

thinking i want to move forward and as

01:12:03.509 --> 01:12:06.769

if you're in a if you're in a market or a location where other

01:12:06.769 --> 01:12:10.069

studios are popping up and maybe you've been one of one or two for

01:12:10.069 --> 01:12:13.889

the last two or three or four five years and this is really common and people

01:12:13.889 --> 01:12:16.989

feel afraid of like oh god here comes competition i'm

01:12:16.989 --> 01:12:20.669

going to be dead in the water well no

01:12:20.669 --> 01:12:25.409

the first thing is that's good news right more studios means more people know

01:12:25.409 --> 01:12:28.969

that there's pilates out there and if there's three studios that's the that's

01:12:28.969 --> 01:12:33.649

your opportunity to differentiate yourself from the other two and so if you've

01:12:33.649 --> 01:12:37.909

got that problem which is the mess well then your opportunity.

01:12:38.829 --> 01:12:41.729

Is to clarify the mess and that for me

01:12:41.729 --> 01:12:44.689

that just leads us back to the process that raf and i have been talking about

01:12:44.689 --> 01:12:49.489

and it and you don't need to you know you don't have to go all biblical on the

01:12:49.489 --> 01:12:53.329

thing and fire everyone straight away and shut the studio for six months while

01:12:53.329 --> 01:12:58.929

you redefine your brand because then you won't have a business you need to recognize

01:12:58.929 --> 01:13:00.149

what you've got to work on,

01:13:00.649 --> 01:13:03.709

if you don't have any time you have to carve out

01:13:03.709 --> 01:13:06.369

some time or if you've got some time you can

01:13:06.369 --> 01:13:09.469

reprioritize your time you need to make a plan and that

01:13:09.469 --> 01:13:14.629

plan needs to be strategic and time appropriate and you work through what we've

01:13:14.629 --> 01:13:18.649

been talking about you've got to take a moment decide what you want to do and

01:13:18.649 --> 01:13:22.269

if you're not sure make sure that you actually want to teach pilates or run

01:13:22.269 --> 01:13:27.329

a pilates business and if you're very sure about that then look at what you're

01:13:27.329 --> 01:13:29.029

doing well because you are the brand.

01:13:29.827 --> 01:13:32.787

Unless like i said sometimes occasionally someone else

01:13:32.787 --> 01:13:35.627

represents your brand but that is very much the exception that proves

01:13:35.627 --> 01:13:38.607

the rule 99.9 times out of 100

01:13:38.607 --> 01:13:41.507

you if you've got this problem

01:13:41.507 --> 01:13:44.967

are the brand and you need to be just crystal clear

01:13:44.967 --> 01:13:48.027

granular fathom deep on you know

01:13:48.027 --> 01:13:50.887

like dna deep on what it is that makes your class

01:13:50.887 --> 01:13:53.867

different to another pilates class no generic bullshit you've

01:13:53.867 --> 01:13:56.947

got to know what happens at the beginning what the rep ranges are what

01:13:56.947 --> 01:13:59.887

you do your spring tensions on in these particular movements how many reps you

01:13:59.887 --> 01:14:03.107

like to do what does challenge look like in your studio you

01:14:03.107 --> 01:14:06.047

know and i mean this is what we do

01:14:06.047 --> 01:14:08.847

so i can rattle these things off but you've got to go through that

01:14:08.847 --> 01:14:12.587

process and identify it and that's where your solutions

01:14:12.587 --> 01:14:18.307

emerge from so and without belaboring the point if you've got that problem well

01:14:18.307 --> 01:14:21.747

done because you've got a really great problem you've got a great opportunity

01:14:21.747 --> 01:14:29.507

and the opportunity is to clarify and as you clarify and share that with your team in an objective,

01:14:30.167 --> 01:14:32.847

non-judgmental, transparent, open way.

01:14:32.947 --> 01:14:35.507

And you put the flag in the ground and say, this is our opportunity.

01:14:36.227 --> 01:14:38.287

We're going to clarify our brand. We're going to move forward.

01:14:38.367 --> 01:14:41.167

We're going to look for growth. Who's with me? This is what it's going to look like.

01:14:41.467 --> 01:14:43.947

You'll notice that some people step up and some people say, yeah,

01:14:43.967 --> 01:14:47.127

not for me. And then there will be some people that you've got to have a conversation with.

01:14:47.667 --> 01:14:51.347

And all of those things happen incrementally, not overnight.

01:14:51.807 --> 01:14:56.387

And yeah. I'm going to push back a little bit on the rollout because I feel

01:14:56.387 --> 01:15:02.587

like the clarity part is your zone of genius and the rollout part is more my

01:15:02.587 --> 01:15:05.327

zone of genius or maybe I've just got more experience doing it.

01:15:07.207 --> 01:15:12.507

But I would say, you know, if you've got a team that is, you know,

01:15:12.967 --> 01:15:14.987

got a spectrum of people and there's that one person, you know,

01:15:15.047 --> 01:15:16.987

on almost every team there's that one instructor that you're like,

01:15:17.027 --> 01:15:19.687

okay, yeah, I know that person's not a good fit, you know, like I should have

01:15:19.687 --> 01:15:23.347

fired him two years ago, but yeah, I didn't have the courage to do it basically.

01:15:24.487 --> 01:15:27.067

Um and then there might be you know a few people that are

01:15:27.067 --> 01:15:30.127

like so so and there might be them if you if you're lucky there's

01:15:30.127 --> 01:15:33.427

going to be one maybe two people that you're like fuck yeah those people are just so awesome

01:15:33.427 --> 01:15:36.327

and i just love how they do it um and

01:15:36.327 --> 01:15:39.007

i really trust i really trust those what that one person or

01:15:39.007 --> 01:15:44.507

those two people uh so is and heath i know you agree with me on this like yeah

01:15:44.507 --> 01:15:47.667

you can train anyone to do anything right it's just a matter of how much effort

01:15:47.667 --> 01:15:51.527

and time it's going to take right so if somebody who's already an eight out

01:15:51.527 --> 01:15:54.927

of ten it's way easier to get them to a 10 out of 10 than to get someone who's

01:15:54.927 --> 01:15:57.747

a 3 out of 10 and train them up, right?

01:15:57.847 --> 01:16:00.907

So it's like the first thing you want to do is go to that one person,

01:16:00.967 --> 01:16:03.447

those two people who are just superstars on your time table and say like,

01:16:03.487 --> 01:16:07.347

what would it take to get you to be full-time here, right?

01:16:07.467 --> 01:16:11.507

Yeah. You know, like what would it take for you to fully be boots and all,

01:16:11.767 --> 01:16:15.827

you know, 100% invested in making this the best studio ever and making this,

01:16:15.987 --> 01:16:18.487

you know, like really being a big part of this.

01:16:19.087 --> 01:16:22.507

And like, if how many classes would, if I could give, if you could have as many

01:16:22.507 --> 01:16:25.247

classes you want and any, whichever particular times you wanted,

01:16:25.367 --> 01:16:26.187

like which ones would you do?

01:16:27.513 --> 01:16:29.593

I'm going to fire the people who do those classes and they're yours,

01:16:29.773 --> 01:16:36.273

right? So like the easiest way to have better classes is just give more classes

01:16:36.273 --> 01:16:38.193

to the best teachers, right?

01:16:38.353 --> 01:16:43.653

And so like this is not a, there's not a situation where it's like everybody gets equal and fair.

01:16:43.773 --> 01:16:46.673

It's like, no, the best teachers get more classes because that's better for

01:16:46.673 --> 01:16:49.553

your clients and better for the business and it's better for your family,

01:16:50.133 --> 01:16:52.893

but to have the best teachers teaching more classes.

01:16:53.833 --> 01:16:57.593

And so the first thing you do is you go to those one or two trusted people if

01:16:57.593 --> 01:16:59.253

you've got them and just have that conversation.

01:16:59.753 --> 01:17:08.353

And then you go to the second ranked people and maybe in that first conversation, you,

01:17:09.473 --> 01:17:13.093

get to the point where you're like, huh, that one person I really know I should

01:17:13.093 --> 01:17:16.893

have fired years ago, I can now fire them because my best instructor actually

01:17:16.893 --> 01:17:18.153

wants to take over Tuesday nights.

01:17:19.493 --> 01:17:22.753

Awesome. So then you go to that person and you don't give them a chance to,

01:17:23.133 --> 01:17:25.173

you know, do you want to get on board, blah, blah, blah, because like,

01:17:25.313 --> 01:17:27.853

you know, in your gut, they're not a good fit, right?

01:17:28.273 --> 01:17:30.893

You teach dynamic reformer and they're classical or whatever,

01:17:31.193 --> 01:17:34.053

right? It's just like, it's just, this is not a fit, right?

01:17:34.893 --> 01:17:39.353

And any efforts we made to make it fit would just be trying to fit a square

01:17:39.353 --> 01:17:43.053

peg into a round hole here, right? This person just doesn't want the same thing that we want.

01:17:43.873 --> 01:17:46.813

Okay. So you just say to that person, hey, not a fit, all the best,

01:17:46.973 --> 01:17:50.753

love you, good luck, see you later, right? Sally's going to take over your classes

01:17:50.753 --> 01:17:52.473

starting next week or whenever it is.

01:17:55.413 --> 01:17:57.553

But if you haven't had that, then you basically go to your second.

01:17:57.713 --> 01:18:00.293

But if Sally doesn't want to take over that Tuesday night class,

01:18:00.453 --> 01:18:03.133

then you need to go to your second ranked instructors, the ones that you're

01:18:03.133 --> 01:18:05.493

like, they're okay, they're not bad, they're not great, they're not amazing.

01:18:06.073 --> 01:18:09.913

And you have essentially an up or out conversation with those people.

01:18:10.313 --> 01:18:14.353

And up or out means like, here's the new standard. okay if

01:18:14.353 --> 01:18:17.053

you want to reach that standard i want i'm going to

01:18:17.053 --> 01:18:19.853

like do everything in my power

01:18:19.853 --> 01:18:22.613

to help you achieve that stand i'm going to coach you i'm going

01:18:22.613 --> 01:18:26.973

to guide you i'm going to you know mentor you etc if you're not interested in

01:18:26.973 --> 01:18:31.633

reaching that standard totally find no hard feelings doors that way you're in

01:18:31.633 --> 01:18:41.253

or you're out and then once you know most likely they'll be in because my experience um dear listener,

01:18:41.853 --> 01:18:46.913

was uh for the years that I was like I'm but a worm I couldn't you know I wouldn't

01:18:46.913 --> 01:18:50.193

presume to coach these instructors who are more experienced than me you know

01:18:50.193 --> 01:18:54.013

you do you boo um everyone's awesome everything's great um,

01:18:55.870 --> 01:19:03.290

everything's valid, is actually once I started, once I changed my mindset and

01:19:03.290 --> 01:19:07.490

started giving feedback to instructors, universally, the response I got was

01:19:07.490 --> 01:19:10.190

like, oh, thank fucking God you're finally giving me some feedback.

01:19:11.710 --> 01:19:13.470

I've been waiting for you to do that for years.

01:19:15.530 --> 01:19:18.390

You know, I really want feedback. I need feedback. I want to get better.

01:19:18.470 --> 01:19:21.050

And it's like, why didn't you ever give me feedback before? This is awesome.

01:19:21.510 --> 01:19:24.830

So i was like oh so actually me thinking

01:19:24.830 --> 01:19:27.890

like i'm but a worm i was actually doing my instructors

01:19:27.890 --> 01:19:30.550

a disservice by not actually being a

01:19:30.550 --> 01:19:33.950

leader for them they wanted they wanted to be

01:19:33.950 --> 01:19:37.190

led they wanted feedback they wanted to get better of course

01:19:37.190 --> 01:19:39.970

we all do i mean i have i have a coach everyone has everyone needs a

01:19:39.970 --> 01:19:42.770

coach right like unless you think you're already 100

01:19:42.770 --> 01:19:45.770

perfect and like the sun you know sun shines

01:19:45.770 --> 01:19:48.470

out of you and the heavenly choirs sing when you you know when

01:19:48.470 --> 01:19:51.410

you walk into the studio it's like if you could improve like sure

01:19:51.410 --> 01:19:55.650

you need someone to look at you and go yeah you could do this or that better right and

01:19:55.650 --> 01:19:58.430

so everybody needs that so really you

01:19:58.430 --> 01:20:01.250

want to build that into your the thing that

01:20:01.250 --> 01:20:04.310

describes your staff right like that should

01:20:04.310 --> 01:20:07.850

be baked in that that that that openness to

01:20:07.850 --> 01:20:10.630

feedback well if you don't want to get better it's like don't work

01:20:10.630 --> 01:20:13.470

in this fucking studio dude like this is not a place where we

01:20:13.470 --> 01:20:16.610

have people that think they already you know everything and you know

01:20:16.610 --> 01:20:19.370

like you can't work

01:20:19.370 --> 01:20:22.250

here if that's your mindset but but dear

01:20:22.250 --> 01:20:25.850

listener i bet you that's not the mindset of like 90 of your instructors like

01:20:25.850 --> 01:20:29.510

they want to get better they want to be good instructors they want to have full

01:20:29.510 --> 01:20:35.190

classes they want to feel confident you know they want to they want to be super

01:20:35.190 --> 01:20:38.830

popular and and good you know no one gets into this game because they want to

01:20:38.830 --> 01:20:39.750

be a mediocre instructor.

01:20:43.424 --> 01:20:47.924

So having that mindset shift of just like, yeah, actually I'm here to serve

01:20:47.924 --> 01:20:50.664

this person by helping them improve, right?

01:20:50.764 --> 01:20:55.144

And if they don't want to improve or they're not aligned with the way we want

01:20:55.144 --> 01:20:58.824

to teach here, well, I'm actually doing them a service by helping them move

01:20:58.824 --> 01:21:00.384

on to somewhere that they are more aligned with.

01:21:00.544 --> 01:21:03.624

They can go find a studio where they don't get coached and where it is just

01:21:03.624 --> 01:21:06.184

teach whatever the fuck you want or where it is more classical or more dynamic

01:21:06.184 --> 01:21:08.104

or more whatever. And that's going to be a better fit for them.

01:21:13.244 --> 01:21:16.384

Is there anything else that you'd add to that,

01:21:21.244 --> 01:21:24.424

uh what we haven't talked about and i feel like we've probably kind of been

01:21:24.424 --> 01:21:27.304

on the topic long enough we could come back at this another time is that what

01:21:27.304 --> 01:21:33.424

we've talked about is well we've talked about filtering at the front and how

01:21:33.424 --> 01:21:36.044

that also helps you make decisions about,

01:21:37.124 --> 01:21:42.624

who's going to be on the team and not on the team um but

01:21:42.624 --> 01:21:46.344

there's there's another dimension to the process that we're talking

01:21:46.344 --> 01:21:50.904

around with this podcast which is the process

01:21:50.904 --> 01:21:53.964

that helps you be clear on what people will do when they're in in

01:21:53.964 --> 01:21:56.984

the studio and you've got your quality control which

01:21:56.984 --> 01:22:00.764

we talked about there's also

01:22:00.764 --> 01:22:04.024

an internal training process so people don't

01:22:04.024 --> 01:22:08.324

have to show up to your studio and teach already as

01:22:08.324 --> 01:22:11.044

good as they need to be you know this goes to what raf was saying

01:22:11.044 --> 01:22:14.044

about giving people feedback if if you give people

01:22:14.044 --> 01:22:16.724

the opportunity give someone the opportunity to look at your

01:22:16.724 --> 01:22:19.644

lesson plan or your cluster plan and come and teach you and you

01:22:19.644 --> 01:22:22.184

know they don't that they shouldn't you shouldn't expect them to be perfect

01:22:22.184 --> 01:22:25.544

but if you see that they've lent into the project they've taken on the brief

01:22:25.544 --> 01:22:30.464

great now bring them into the studio have the conversation with them about what

01:22:30.464 --> 01:22:35.464

it is you do and then you need to have built out and it's easier than it might

01:22:35.464 --> 01:22:38.004

sound built out an internal training system.

01:22:39.487 --> 01:22:43.147

Plans out for them what they teach when they

01:22:43.147 --> 01:22:46.667

teach it what happens in the classes and how

01:22:46.667 --> 01:22:49.767

they'll get feedback and it you know we talked about

01:22:49.767 --> 01:22:52.467

all of all of the bits around that but i think the one thing we

01:22:52.467 --> 01:22:55.127

haven't talked about is as that business owner what do you

01:22:55.127 --> 01:22:58.007

do when you hire someone and then you know the the

01:22:58.007 --> 01:23:00.807

seeds of greatness are there but you can't

01:23:00.807 --> 01:23:03.767

expect them to be already fully aligned and excellent

01:23:03.767 --> 01:23:06.427

in your brand so then you need once they're through the door you need

01:23:06.427 --> 01:23:09.647

a process that helps them to develop and that goes to remuneration

01:23:09.647 --> 01:23:12.467

you know you don't pay your person who's been with you for one

01:23:12.467 --> 01:23:15.367

month the same as you pay someone who's been with you for 12 months or 24

01:23:15.367 --> 01:23:18.167

months and you don't just pay people more because they've

01:23:18.167 --> 01:23:21.207

been with you longer you pay them more because they generate more money for

01:23:21.207 --> 01:23:25.687

the business or they meet their kpis etc etc so building all of that out it's

01:23:25.687 --> 01:23:30.487

it helps people to learn how you do what your business does and it also gives

01:23:30.487 --> 01:23:35.307

you the standards to which they need to live to and the retention you know the

01:23:35.307 --> 01:23:37.807

the revenue generation activity or outcomes,

01:23:38.087 --> 01:23:43.387

and those things are symbiotic to one another that allows you to track people through the business.

01:23:43.587 --> 01:23:47.107

And that helps with staff retention, which is, you know, you have client churn.

01:23:47.207 --> 01:23:50.327

You also, if you're running a business, you know, you also have staff churn.

01:23:50.787 --> 01:23:54.967

And so that's another dimension we haven't talked about, but I think that's

01:23:54.967 --> 01:23:56.627

probably just talk about that for another hour.

01:23:56.927 --> 01:24:00.287

Well, there's bad churn, you know, when someone good leaves and there's good

01:24:00.287 --> 01:24:01.387

churn when someone bad leaves.

01:24:01.707 --> 01:24:03.847

You know, when I say bad, I mean, not a fit, you know, a bad fit.

01:24:04.907 --> 01:24:10.287

And so you want bad churn or whatever, good churn I mean you want the people

01:24:10.287 --> 01:24:11.827

who aren't a fit off the team, right?

01:24:11.907 --> 01:24:16.067

Yeah, yeah, yeah And stuff, yeah And.

01:24:19.250 --> 01:24:22.530

Yeah, so I mean, I 100% agree with everything you said about the clarity,

01:24:22.550 --> 01:24:24.270

and that is just super important.

01:24:24.370 --> 01:24:28.570

I would add to filter for people who take feedback well in the interview,

01:24:28.730 --> 01:24:31.950

and I've mentioned this in a previous episode, is when somebody comes and teaches

01:24:31.950 --> 01:24:36.430

you a class, they come and teach you that class that you've written for them.

01:24:36.830 --> 01:24:39.550

Now, whether you poach this person and they're a fucking awesome instructor

01:24:39.550 --> 01:24:43.510

already, they're not going to be perfect, right? And they're certainly not going

01:24:43.510 --> 01:24:44.810

to be perfect at doing it your way.

01:24:45.910 --> 01:24:48.790

Give them feedback, right? Say, huh, okay, that was really good.

01:24:48.970 --> 01:24:50.450

Thing number one, thing number two were really good.

01:24:50.750 --> 01:24:54.790

Thing number three, not quite right. Can you do it more this way, okay?

01:24:54.970 --> 01:24:58.170

And go again and have them teach it to you and

01:24:58.170 --> 01:25:02.150

show you that they can implement that feedback because that

01:25:02.150 --> 01:25:04.910

filters for someone who takes feedback well when

01:25:04.910 --> 01:25:08.830

they don't get defensive and two they actually implement it because one of the

01:25:08.830 --> 01:25:12.990

most frustrating things that you can have as a as a as a leader is somebody

01:25:12.990 --> 01:25:15.590

who you give them feedback you're like and they're like oh yeah thanks that's

01:25:15.590 --> 01:25:18.470

really really good feedback and then you you'd watch the next class and they're

01:25:18.470 --> 01:25:22.930

still doing the same fucking mistake it's like well did we already talk about this,

01:25:23.430 --> 01:25:28.390

you know didn't we say like you know when you cue footwork i need you to say this like well,

01:25:29.370 --> 01:25:34.130

why didn't you say it you know we did we agree on that yes we did okay so why

01:25:34.130 --> 01:25:40.030

isn't it happening so So you need to filter for not just how open are they to

01:25:40.030 --> 01:25:43.070

the feedback, but do they actually implement the feedback?

01:25:43.230 --> 01:25:48.610

So I always, when I audition somebody, I give them feedback and then I'd say,

01:25:48.690 --> 01:25:50.570

okay, let's go again. Show me how you can implement that feedback.

01:25:51.430 --> 01:25:56.890

Even if they were a 9.9 out of 10, just find something that they could do different

01:25:56.890 --> 01:25:59.390

and give them the feedback and see how they respond.

01:26:09.978 --> 01:26:15.458

What's your, you know, I want to, let's talk about remuneration for a second.

01:26:15.638 --> 01:26:18.598

Okay. Because I think that is part of this package. Okay.

01:26:19.258 --> 01:26:22.578

Like you said, um, and you know, like I said earlier, I think,

01:26:22.678 --> 01:26:24.358

you know, essentially you need to pay top of market.

01:26:24.718 --> 01:26:29.738

So basically the mindset is you, that, that, that, that I've seen our most successful

01:26:29.738 --> 01:26:35.658

studio owners is I pay you more than the other place pays and I have higher

01:26:35.658 --> 01:26:37.378

expectations than the other place has.

01:26:38.338 --> 01:26:41.158

Right so if you're somebody who wants to be held to

01:26:41.158 --> 01:26:43.818

a really high standard and you want to

01:26:43.818 --> 01:26:48.698

be paid accordingly this is going to suit you right and if either or both of

01:26:48.698 --> 01:26:53.458

those things are not true for you this is not going to suit you and so i think

01:26:53.458 --> 01:26:57.898

when you have high demands of people that is going to like that is going to

01:26:57.898 --> 01:27:02.698

in and of itself be attractive to the right person right so i would not,

01:27:02.778 --> 01:27:09.258

you know, like you're not going to attract A plus people by having mediocre standards.

01:27:09.678 --> 01:27:13.258

They don't want to work somewhere where it's mediocre, right?

01:27:13.698 --> 01:27:17.878

They want to work somewhere where it's like, no, you have to be fucking elite to work here.

01:27:18.638 --> 01:27:21.058

And we're going to hold you to that. And if you're not elite,

01:27:21.298 --> 01:27:22.438

you're not going to work here.

01:27:23.358 --> 01:27:29.538

And they also want to be remunerated, aka paid, commensurate with that.

01:27:29.538 --> 01:27:32.978

Now, whether you do that on a per class or, you know,

01:27:33.898 --> 01:27:37.018

base plus bonus if I hit a certain number or whatever, but you've got to have

01:27:37.018 --> 01:27:40.358

a KPI, Key Performance Indicators, like, okay, I need you to have,

01:27:40.438 --> 01:27:46.978

you know, 75% class, full class as minimum, okay, to work here or to have that

01:27:46.978 --> 01:27:48.778

class on the schedule. It's got to be 75%.

01:27:50.258 --> 01:27:53.678

And if it's not, then we'll work together to get it to 75%. And if we can't

01:27:53.678 --> 01:27:55.158

get it to 75%, we're going to cut it.

01:27:56.398 --> 01:28:00.638

And if your overall attendance is not where it needs to be, we're going to work

01:28:00.638 --> 01:28:03.618

together to get it there and if we can't get it there, we're going to cut you.

01:28:04.518 --> 01:28:09.178

And so, yes, I mean, would you agree with that position on pay?

01:28:13.300 --> 01:28:18.420

Yeah i would uh yep and and i guess the only caveat on that i thought a caveat

01:28:18.420 --> 01:28:27.660

but as i said earlier what i learned yeah what i learned from remuneration was that it was very easy,

01:28:28.780 --> 01:28:33.160

to go too high too soon so you know you're saying pay top of market,

01:28:35.160 --> 01:28:35.640

but.

01:28:39.520 --> 01:28:44.860

You've got to find a balance between you know paying top of market without really

01:28:44.860 --> 01:28:51.800

high standards is buying you just get expensive mediocre teachers right,

01:28:53.340 --> 01:28:57.340

and the paradox of that is that you know if you're poaching then you're seeing

01:28:57.340 --> 01:29:01.220

the skills already but i what i found was often that i was taking someone who

01:29:01.220 --> 01:29:07.320

was super green that showed real potential, but I knew that there was going to be a lag time before.

01:29:07.740 --> 01:29:13.240

They lent into this, but it was just a natural lag time as they came up to speed.

01:29:13.500 --> 01:29:16.780

And as I said, you just build that into your remuneration process.

01:29:17.200 --> 01:29:20.040

Be transparent about where you're going to get to, and these are the steps that

01:29:20.040 --> 01:29:20.880

are going to get you there.

01:29:21.340 --> 01:29:28.860

Right. And so, yeah, I 100% agree. The top-of-market pay is for people who give

01:29:28.860 --> 01:29:31.220

top-of-market results, right?

01:29:31.220 --> 01:29:34.840

And if you're not there yet, then you're not yet at top of market pay.

01:29:36.340 --> 01:29:40.660

And our job is to get you there. And if I think you're enough aligned ideologically

01:29:40.660 --> 01:29:45.560

and you're teachable, then we will get you there.

01:29:45.580 --> 01:29:47.920

And when we get you there, then you will get paid top of market.

01:29:49.280 --> 01:29:55.800

Until then, no, you get reasonable pay and you get a lot of coaching and mentoring.

01:29:57.753 --> 01:30:00.793

And and and be really clear you know studio owner

01:30:00.793 --> 01:30:04.893

that's listening this goes back to some of the other points we've made every minute

01:30:04.893 --> 01:30:07.733

of your time that you give to a staff

01:30:07.733 --> 01:30:10.573

member has a value because that's one minute that

01:30:10.573 --> 01:30:14.593

you're not giving to your partner or your child or to running a class yourself every

01:30:14.593 --> 01:30:17.453

piece of resourcing every piece of travel you give

01:30:17.453 --> 01:30:20.613

has a value so when you're not

01:30:20.613 --> 01:30:25.093

paying someone as much as you as you might or not paying someone as so here's

01:30:25.093 --> 01:30:28.453

an example and this is a comparison that i had to work through with people and

01:30:28.453 --> 01:30:32.033

sometimes i kept the person sometimes sometimes i didn't i'm going to offer

01:30:32.033 --> 01:30:37.993

you x per hour plus this tiered training system and my time,

01:30:38.453 --> 01:30:41.753

i will help you become exceptional in

01:30:41.753 --> 01:30:44.573

the system of pilates that i teach in my studio and here's how

01:30:44.573 --> 01:30:47.453

i'll do that while we do that i'm going

01:30:47.453 --> 01:30:50.233

to pay you less because i'm offsetting that

01:30:50.233 --> 01:30:53.013

with my time and the value of the resources that i've

01:30:53.013 --> 01:30:55.913

built that i give you access to the studio

01:30:55.913 --> 01:30:58.753

down the road that just hires people at a generic rate

01:30:58.753 --> 01:31:02.273

and if you feel your class is awesome and if you don't we might let you go you

01:31:02.273 --> 01:31:06.373

can go there now at a higher rate of pay but you're not going to get the development

01:31:06.373 --> 01:31:09.893

that you get with me and you get to make the decision about whether you want

01:31:09.893 --> 01:31:14.053

to go there for the you're gambling that you'll be good enough there to get

01:31:14.053 --> 01:31:18.473

the results to get the money go for it or you decide you want to learn what

01:31:18.473 --> 01:31:20.413

i do and be exceptional in this system.

01:31:21.313 --> 01:31:25.193

And that's going to cost you a bit up front but i'm giving you the value is

01:31:25.193 --> 01:31:30.013

what you learn And ultimately, you'll make more here because when you are exceptional,

01:31:30.273 --> 01:31:31.373

then you'll get paid top of market.

01:31:31.773 --> 01:31:35.813

Right. And when you're running 15 classes here on a schedule that you've chosen

01:31:35.813 --> 01:31:38.493

and you're getting remunerated at our top level,

01:31:38.633 --> 01:31:44.853

you'll be paid a good percentage more than that down the road because they can't

01:31:44.853 --> 01:31:49.313

give you a higher rate because their rate has to allow for the people who don't

01:31:49.313 --> 01:31:50.433

hit their standards. Right.

01:31:52.229 --> 01:31:56.169

So yeah and so if you're the studio owner and you go through the process we're

01:31:56.169 --> 01:32:00.329

talking about which is identify your brand make it granular make it measurable

01:32:00.329 --> 01:32:04.949

be able to give about it hire for people that want to learn how to do it hire

01:32:04.949 --> 01:32:07.929

for people that will take feedback then people,

01:32:08.889 --> 01:32:14.669

should slash will take the low the lower slightly lower pay rate whilst you

01:32:14.669 --> 01:32:18.129

train them but you need to be transparent about what they're going to be getting

01:32:18.129 --> 01:32:19.529

when they get to where you've got to get to.

01:32:19.829 --> 01:32:23.429

And where you've got to get to has to be compelling, which is another way of

01:32:23.429 --> 01:32:25.409

saying top of market. Right.

01:32:27.469 --> 01:32:35.269

Something that I want to talk about is the, I think the emotion that goes along

01:32:35.269 --> 01:32:39.609

with all of these kind of decisions and conversations around people,

01:32:40.209 --> 01:32:43.829

around even firing that instructor who's not a good fit or having the up or

01:32:43.829 --> 01:32:47.029

out conversation with people who are kind of maybe are fit,

01:32:47.449 --> 01:32:53.029

you know, or having the pay conversation with people is,

01:32:53.429 --> 01:32:57.809

or even if it's like, you know, firing that client that you really don't like

01:32:57.809 --> 01:33:01.689

working with or that, you know, has showed up late for the 99th time and doesn't

01:33:01.689 --> 01:33:03.369

want to pay for their session or whatever,

01:33:03.969 --> 01:33:13.389

is just letting go of the emotion that's associated with that and treating it as not personal.

01:33:14.449 --> 01:33:18.309

And when i say that what i mean is like that

01:33:18.309 --> 01:33:21.029

instructor is not a good fit they might be a lovely person you know

01:33:21.029 --> 01:33:24.269

they might be kind and charitable and you know

01:33:24.269 --> 01:33:26.989

loyal and all of these great you know personality traits in a

01:33:26.989 --> 01:33:29.809

friend right but this is not a friendship

01:33:29.809 --> 01:33:33.289

this is a business right and

01:33:33.289 --> 01:33:37.269

you like all of those things kind and charitable and laws like a puppy can do

01:33:37.269 --> 01:33:40.149

that as well right but you wouldn't hire a puppy to teach your pilates classes

01:33:40.149 --> 01:33:44.009

because that's not enough you know you need someone who's really fucking good

01:33:44.009 --> 01:33:50.549

at teaching pilates to you know so so this this decision that these decisions

01:33:50.549 --> 01:33:52.469

that you make about hiring people firing people,

01:33:53.209 --> 01:33:57.309

reducing people's classes to give the best instructor their choice of the classes

01:33:57.309 --> 01:34:02.529

etc it's like you have to act in the best interests of the business and it's

01:34:02.529 --> 01:34:08.189

not about the the how much you like somebody or how loyal they are i mean just

01:34:08.189 --> 01:34:11.269

if you have a loyal person who's been with you for years but is a shit teacher

01:34:11.269 --> 01:34:12.529

and their classes aren't well attended,

01:34:13.009 --> 01:34:16.849

it's like that person is not a good team member, right?

01:34:16.969 --> 01:34:20.609

They've got some of the attributes of a good team member, but they're missing

01:34:20.609 --> 01:34:27.629

some glaringly important, crucial aspects of the team member and of a good team member.

01:34:27.729 --> 01:34:32.369

And so you need to make decisions based on objective facts.

01:34:32.509 --> 01:34:37.029

Like, is this person aligned with our teaching style? Are their classes well attended?

01:34:38.049 --> 01:34:43.509

Just the objective realities, not about how you feel about,

01:34:44.493 --> 01:34:47.173

Whether this person's a nice person or you don't want to hurt their feelings

01:34:47.173 --> 01:34:50.673

or, you know, they'll have to look for another job. And like all of those things

01:34:50.673 --> 01:34:52.113

are true and valid things.

01:34:52.233 --> 01:34:55.093

Like it's okay to feel sad about letting somebody go.

01:34:55.233 --> 01:34:57.913

And it is difficult when you get let go.

01:34:58.133 --> 01:35:03.813

And like, I think it's not to, I'm not saying don't have empathy for people,

01:35:03.853 --> 01:35:10.253

but having empathy doesn't mean that you should change your decision and do

01:35:10.253 --> 01:35:13.653

something that's not in the best interest of the business because then you're

01:35:13.653 --> 01:35:16.573

going against the best interest of all of your other instructors and all of

01:35:16.573 --> 01:35:18.053

your clients and your family and yourself,

01:35:18.533 --> 01:35:23.993

because the number one responsibility of the leader is to keep the business

01:35:23.993 --> 01:35:28.693

going because if there is no business, then everybody loses.

01:35:29.133 --> 01:35:33.673

Clients, staff, everybody loses. So your number one responsibility is you have

01:35:33.673 --> 01:35:40.093

to protect the good of the business and to do that, you can't always make everybody

01:35:40.093 --> 01:35:41.333

happy with every decision.

01:35:41.753 --> 01:35:44.073

That's just not reality in the world.

01:35:44.933 --> 01:35:51.533

So if you're unable to do anything that might cause distress to anyone,

01:35:51.793 --> 01:35:55.833

then you will become paralyzed and you will not be able to actually make any

01:35:55.833 --> 01:36:01.413

decisions at all ever because if you do anything or say anything in the world,

01:36:01.733 --> 01:36:04.273

there's a real chance that someone's going to get upset by it.

01:36:05.180 --> 01:36:08.700

If you put your prices up, if you change your packages, if you change your schedule,

01:36:08.880 --> 01:36:12.720

if you change the way you teach, if you add classes, change classes,

01:36:12.920 --> 01:36:16.320

promote people, demote people, change the way you pay instructors,

01:36:16.820 --> 01:36:22.000

anything you do or say, there's a really good chance somebody's going to get put out by it.

01:36:22.000 --> 01:36:26.500

And if you're unable to tolerate rubbing people up the wrong way,

01:36:26.640 --> 01:36:29.400

you're not going to be able to do anything in the world. Do nothing,

01:36:29.500 --> 01:36:30.260

be nothing, say nothing.

01:36:30.960 --> 01:36:36.820

So you have to be cool with letting

01:36:36.820 --> 01:36:42.100

go of or separating out how you feel personally for that staff member.

01:36:42.240 --> 01:36:45.920

It's a pity that they'll have to find another job and it's a pity that they'll

01:36:45.920 --> 01:36:49.660

have this sense of maybe not being a good fit on the team and they'll go through

01:36:49.660 --> 01:36:51.840

some kind of emotions and all of that.

01:36:52.000 --> 01:36:55.460

And separate that out from, okay, well, actually, am

01:36:55.460 --> 01:36:58.900

I doing this person a service by allowing

01:36:58.900 --> 01:37:04.960

them to continue on being mediocre at their job and in a situation where they're

01:37:04.960 --> 01:37:09.340

not a good fit and actually just not even telling them about that and just letting

01:37:09.340 --> 01:37:14.180

them go on and be that person who's like they left their zipper open after they

01:37:14.180 --> 01:37:18.040

went to the bathroom and you don't say anything to them because you don't want to offend them.

01:37:18.040 --> 01:37:21.860

It's like, well, actually it's probably better to let them know discreetly because

01:37:21.860 --> 01:37:24.160

you're not doing them a service by hiding the truth from them,

01:37:24.160 --> 01:37:28.260

you know, and it might be painful for them to hear the truth.

01:37:29.340 --> 01:37:33.540

Okay. But it's in their best interest as well. Like if, even if they're a great

01:37:33.540 --> 01:37:36.980

person, if they're not a good fit or if the studio doesn't need them,

01:37:37.180 --> 01:37:39.240

or if they're not, their classes aren't well attended,

01:37:39.520 --> 01:37:44.800

like you're not doing them a service by letting them continue on as basically a charity case.

01:37:46.222 --> 01:37:50.062

You know, like they wouldn't want that for their own sense of dignity.

01:37:50.062 --> 01:37:52.082

If they knew that you were just employing them because you don't want to hurt

01:37:52.082 --> 01:37:54.222

their feelings, it's like they would be mortified.

01:37:55.642 --> 01:38:00.222

Mortified. So you're not doing them any kind of service. All you're doing is

01:38:00.222 --> 01:38:03.062

just being afraid of confrontation, essentially.

01:38:03.622 --> 01:38:07.202

And you need to separate out your personal feelings about that human,

01:38:07.382 --> 01:38:09.862

which are real and valid and you're allowed to have feelings,

01:38:10.042 --> 01:38:15.722

from your sacred duty as the leader of the business to do what the business

01:38:15.722 --> 01:38:18.582

needs you to do what are your thoughts heath.

01:38:21.422 --> 01:38:27.262

Yeah i think that was well put uh and i think that you've had more experience

01:38:27.262 --> 01:38:31.602

with that process than me and i'm you know i appreciate the insights that you

01:38:31.602 --> 01:38:35.002

said and i i 100 agree with them um,

01:38:37.022 --> 01:38:42.622

yeah so what i you know i think you're speaking truth and you've you've been

01:38:42.622 --> 01:38:47.482

my business leader for, well, I've worked for you as an employee and then I've

01:38:47.482 --> 01:38:49.902

worked alongside you in tandem,

01:38:50.422 --> 01:38:54.262

for more than a decade and I've seen you work through that multiple times.

01:38:54.482 --> 01:38:58.442

2009, that's like more than a decade and a half, dude. It's getting on for two decades.

01:38:59.222 --> 01:39:02.702

Yeah, yeah, that's right. Yeah, and I think you put that well.

01:39:04.642 --> 01:39:08.182

And for me, that ties in with what I was talking about with that Adam Grant

01:39:08.182 --> 01:39:11.322

book about other issues, where I've had to make those difficult decisions.

01:39:12.822 --> 01:39:16.742

It's helped me you talked about your sacred duty to the business,

01:39:18.742 --> 01:39:23.522

and you know if we take Breathe Education that's a business that's held what

01:39:23.522 --> 01:39:27.962

40 people sometimes 20 people it's expanded and contracted over time with the

01:39:27.962 --> 01:39:31.722

fluctuations of the market etc and.

01:39:35.062 --> 01:39:40.242

I've seen you do it time and time again difficult decisions have had to be made,

01:39:42.542 --> 01:39:45.702

and the the trite

01:39:45.702 --> 01:39:48.622

version of that is that it's just you know it's just

01:39:48.622 --> 01:39:51.462

business but what is the business and as you

01:39:51.462 --> 01:39:56.222

said before if you're running a business and you've got 10 people working for

01:39:56.222 --> 01:40:01.382

you then that's that's 10 lives that are intrinsically supported by maybe not

01:40:01.382 --> 01:40:05.842

solely but certainly significantly by the business that you're running and so

01:40:05.842 --> 01:40:09.642

if you're running if you're if your responsibility is to run that business you

01:40:09.642 --> 01:40:10.602

have to run that business,

01:40:11.462 --> 01:40:15.082

you have to take responsibility for running in a way that keeps the business running,

01:40:15.682 --> 01:40:20.522

and sometimes that means that things have to change and as the leader of the

01:40:20.522 --> 01:40:26.342

business ultimately you have to make those decisions and something i've observed

01:40:26.342 --> 01:40:28.882

in myself because i didn't plan to be a business owner,

01:40:30.252 --> 01:40:35.252

And so many of the studio we've worked with didn't plan to be business owners.

01:40:35.412 --> 01:40:38.732

They just loved Pilates and then sort of like found themselves running a business.

01:40:39.692 --> 01:40:43.412

So, you know, that it's like, it's like that thing. I've so many times in parenting,

01:40:43.412 --> 01:40:47.172

I've looked at the situation where I'm trying to solve the problem of the parenting

01:40:47.172 --> 01:40:49.592

problem in front of me and just thinking, why don't they teach you this in school?

01:40:49.872 --> 01:40:54.092

Like they're just, this would be good stuff in school because most people end up doing it. Right.

01:40:54.252 --> 01:40:57.152

And it's the same as, you know, if you're going to run a business,

01:40:57.272 --> 01:41:00.692

they don't teach you in school that you've got to differentiate between what's

01:41:00.692 --> 01:41:03.692

right for the business because there's multiple lives dependent.

01:41:03.692 --> 01:41:06.432

On it and the feelings you have about the people that you're

01:41:06.432 --> 01:41:09.772

working with and that's a tough thing to work through i don't

01:41:09.772 --> 01:41:12.492

i don't think you can teach that in school i think it's

01:41:12.492 --> 01:41:15.872

like you know pregnancy it's like you know.

01:41:15.872 --> 01:41:18.752

The the the meme that says we did this

01:41:18.752 --> 01:41:21.532

not because it was easy not because we thought

01:41:21.532 --> 01:41:25.612

not because it was easy but because we thought it would be easy you

01:41:25.612 --> 01:41:28.732

know and it's like anybody who's been pregnant

01:41:28.732 --> 01:41:31.612

uh you know this was certainly my wife

01:41:31.612 --> 01:41:34.912

and my experience of her being pregnant is like

01:41:34.912 --> 01:41:37.572

when you're in you're pregnant you're so focused you've got this

01:41:37.572 --> 01:41:40.592

birth plan we're gonna have candles and this is the music we're gonna play and

01:41:40.592 --> 01:41:44.012

you know this is the mantras we're gonna sing and you

01:41:44.012 --> 01:41:47.092

know this is how we're gonna do it and blah blah blah and then

01:41:47.092 --> 01:41:50.212

and that's you know that's

01:41:50.212 --> 01:41:53.372

almost the one thing that's guaranteed not to happen number one

01:41:53.372 --> 01:41:56.372

and then actually what happens is like the

01:41:56.372 --> 01:41:59.112

labor is like painful but it's like all of a sudden it's

01:41:59.112 --> 01:42:02.512

over and you got this fucking baby and you're like what the fuck do i do now and

01:42:02.512 --> 01:42:05.572

why is it crying and like what why can't

01:42:05.572 --> 01:42:08.332

i sleep and like what the fuck and and then

01:42:08.332 --> 01:42:12.472

that that phase lasts about like 15 years you

01:42:12.472 --> 01:42:15.232

know because you just continuously get like run over by.

01:42:15.232 --> 01:42:18.012

The baby train you know and then the toddler train and then the

01:42:18.012 --> 01:42:21.612

you know the teenager train and and and

01:42:21.612 --> 01:42:24.412

i mean of course there's amazing wonderful incredible things about being

01:42:24.412 --> 01:42:27.592

a parent and you know i love being a parent but but it's it's

01:42:27.592 --> 01:42:32.912

very like when you're pregnant you

01:42:32.912 --> 01:42:35.812

have all of these ideas like oh you know i'm going to be such a perfect parent

01:42:35.812 --> 01:42:39.072

my kid's never going to be on a device and they're going to eat organic food

01:42:39.072 --> 01:42:42.672

and no sugar and you know i'm going to be such a gentle parent or such a you

01:42:42.672 --> 01:42:46.832

know whatever like whatever your vision of parenting is we'll never eat mcdonald's

01:42:46.832 --> 01:42:49.772

they'll never you know and it's like that is all fucking bullshit.

01:42:49.952 --> 01:42:51.812

You know, like six months in, you're like, here, take the iPad,

01:42:51.952 --> 01:42:55.252

kid. Like, just shut up for 10 minutes, please. Get my cheeseburger and shut up.

01:42:56.112 --> 01:43:00.172

And it's like, but you're not ready to hear that when you're pregnant.

01:43:00.532 --> 01:43:03.192

You're not ready to hear it, right?

01:43:03.572 --> 01:43:07.172

We weren't ready to hear it. I've never met anybody who's been ready to hear it.

01:43:07.592 --> 01:43:11.812

And maybe there is that one, you know, superhuman person out there who's like

01:43:11.812 --> 01:43:14.352

ready to hear it, but like most mere mortals aren't.

01:43:14.552 --> 01:43:18.092

And so you can only learn that shit when you're doing it.

01:43:18.811 --> 01:43:21.731

Right yeah like you only learn it when you're doing it and it's the same with business

01:43:21.731 --> 01:43:24.671

you know i talk to a lot of people i must have a

01:43:24.671 --> 01:43:28.251

thousand plus conversations with people who want to start play studio and almost

01:43:28.251 --> 01:43:30.931

without exception they're very very idealistic and this

01:43:30.931 --> 01:43:34.191

is exactly how i was and they're like oh i want to offer this service that's

01:43:34.191 --> 01:43:38.191

like really affordable for everybody i want to pay my instructors amazing high

01:43:38.191 --> 01:43:43.531

salaries it's like okay well how does that work right yeah and i want to like

01:43:43.531 --> 01:43:46.191

have this nurturing environment where everybody's happy and it's all peaceful

01:43:46.191 --> 01:43:49.131

all the time it's like yeah that's not how the world works, dude.

01:43:49.571 --> 01:43:53.031

And when you get in and you open the studio, then you realize,

01:43:53.131 --> 01:43:57.991

huh, in order to make person A happy, I have to do something that's going to piss off person B.

01:43:58.351 --> 01:44:02.751

So I can't have both of those people be happy. So I have to make a choice between trade-offs here.

01:44:03.351 --> 01:44:07.411

And if I want to make my classes super affordable, then I actually have to make

01:44:07.411 --> 01:44:10.031

a loss in my business, which means I have to go and get another job elsewhere

01:44:10.031 --> 01:44:13.291

and put money into the business, or I have to not pay my instructors much.

01:44:13.451 --> 01:44:17.491

And so it's like, oh, well, I can pay my instructors a lot, or I can have cheap

01:44:17.491 --> 01:44:20.651

prices, but I can't do both. So I have to have some kind of trade-off here.

01:44:21.071 --> 01:44:24.911

So like you find once you get into the reality of the situation,

01:44:25.131 --> 01:44:28.811

you're faced with all of these real world trade-offs and you realize,

01:44:28.911 --> 01:44:31.031

ah, it's not fucking, you know, utopia.

01:44:31.371 --> 01:44:35.551

You know, there's no like perfect business where everybody's happy all the time

01:44:35.551 --> 01:44:36.791

and everything always goes right.

01:44:37.531 --> 01:44:41.351

Okay. And you're faced with these trade-offs between like, you know,

01:44:41.591 --> 01:44:44.471

situation A, which is good in some ways but bad in other ways and situation

01:44:44.471 --> 01:44:48.731

b which is good and bad in different ways that's you know it's like pick your

01:44:48.731 --> 01:44:51.731

problem right you can't you can't get rid of problems you can just upgrade to

01:44:51.731 --> 01:44:57.991

better problems and so i think that you know that mindset of sort of being idealistic is,

01:44:58.471 --> 01:45:03.031

i don't think it is something you can learn until you're in the middle of it

01:45:03.031 --> 01:45:05.871

and you're like oh fuck this is a lot harder than i thought it would be because

01:45:05.871 --> 01:45:10.511

i think being an optimist is a prerequisite to opening a business because if

01:45:10.511 --> 01:45:11.391

you don't think it's going to work,

01:45:11.591 --> 01:45:14.651

you won't open it, right? And so being an optimist,

01:45:15.480 --> 01:45:19.360

means that you have an unrealistically positive expectation of what's going to happen.

01:45:19.960 --> 01:45:25.080

But I think you have to have that in order to actually get the guts up to actually open a business.

01:45:25.320 --> 01:45:28.340

So if you weren't idealistic, you would never open a business.

01:45:30.320 --> 01:45:34.480

But then once you open the business, you have to become less idealistic because

01:45:34.480 --> 01:45:39.100

that's the reality is you can't make everybody happy all the time. Yeah.

01:45:41.060 --> 01:45:47.420

Kind of what my life cured me what we so i've i don't know this is a bit tangential

01:45:47.420 --> 01:45:52.340

i'm getting tired but something i used to say to a friend uh when we talk about

01:45:52.340 --> 01:45:57.660

relationship stuff was when i talked about my life i'd say my life cured me of romanticism.

01:46:00.260 --> 01:46:03.040

Like i was really romantic as a young person and then i

01:46:03.040 --> 01:46:05.780

just the shit that happened to me in my early out of life i

01:46:05.780 --> 01:46:08.540

was like yeah no i'm not so romantic anymore you know

01:46:08.540 --> 01:46:11.420

like this and it's the same exactly exactly i'm thinking

01:46:11.420 --> 01:46:14.180

of that because of what you said about having to be an optimist when

01:46:14.180 --> 01:46:17.880

i started started my business it was in my living room shuffled the

01:46:17.880 --> 01:46:21.780

house around blessed my she's just like yeah cool i have my birthday my bedroom

01:46:21.780 --> 01:46:25.580

in another room okay great thanks i can put a cadillac in there so i sort of

01:46:25.580 --> 01:46:29.820

did that and then i outgrew that and i went and got my studio and first room

01:46:29.820 --> 01:46:34.400

i had of a studio was a kitchen and it was four meters by five meters and i

01:46:34.400 --> 01:46:37.060

somehow I managed to fit a Cadillac, a reformer, a chair,

01:46:37.360 --> 01:46:40.700

and a mat in it, had to rip out the kitchen, put in a carpet.

01:46:40.900 --> 01:46:43.500

And I'd done all of that. And then I pulled back the blinds and saw that I'd

01:46:43.500 --> 01:46:46.160

opened across the road from a physiotherapist that ran Pilates.

01:46:46.400 --> 01:46:49.180

I thought, what the fuck am I doing? I didn't even notice that.

01:46:49.280 --> 01:46:51.940

I just took the opportunity so optimistically.

01:46:52.360 --> 01:46:55.840

And for me, that was just what you just said about being optimistic.

01:46:56.040 --> 01:47:00.140

I would never have done any of that if I didn't think, sure, this could work.

01:47:00.760 --> 01:47:05.980

If I'd stopped to think for a second about the forces that were lined up against

01:47:05.980 --> 01:47:07.900

my success, I would never have done it.

01:47:08.693 --> 01:47:12.213

You have to have that if you're going to start, and you've got to hold on to that.

01:47:12.853 --> 01:47:16.533

Right. And I think you've got to maintain it at some level as you continue.

01:47:16.733 --> 01:47:19.353

Like, you would never open your second studio, right? Right.

01:47:19.353 --> 01:47:21.513

If you thought, oh, I've already done one, how hard can the second one be?

01:47:22.193 --> 01:47:23.553

It's like, yeah, pretty fucking hard.

01:47:24.593 --> 01:47:28.273

Two kids, one kid, one kid, two kids. Right. It's like, yeah,

01:47:28.293 --> 01:47:31.333

we did this not because it was easy, but because we thought it would be easy.

01:47:31.733 --> 01:47:35.093

And I think you have to have that mindset, and you have to have an optimistic

01:47:35.093 --> 01:47:38.573

mindset in order to actually start the thing. and you have to start the thing

01:47:38.573 --> 01:47:40.373

in order to succeed in the thing.

01:47:40.493 --> 01:47:44.273

So I think optimism does promote success and you need to be an optimist.

01:47:44.393 --> 01:47:47.473

But then at some point, you need to switch into being more realistic and going,

01:47:47.593 --> 01:47:49.973

okay, we have to actually solve these problems.

01:47:50.173 --> 01:47:52.933

And in the process of solving this problem, I'm going to create another problem.

01:47:53.433 --> 01:47:57.413

So all I'm going to do really is not eliminate problems. I'm going to trade

01:47:57.413 --> 01:47:59.493

one problem for a different problem, right?

01:47:59.573 --> 01:48:03.793

So I'm going to trade the problem of having a hard conversation with this team

01:48:03.793 --> 01:48:08.713

member, for the problem of having a team member who's not aligned and whose classes aren't full.

01:48:10.053 --> 01:48:12.573

So let me just grab that for a moment.

01:48:14.453 --> 01:48:18.113

We're talking to the studio owner that finds themselves with this problem,

01:48:18.413 --> 01:48:21.133

the mess, whatever version of it it is.

01:48:21.393 --> 01:48:24.313

That studio owner, if we're talking to you, dear listener,

01:48:25.770 --> 01:48:30.270

If you didn't go to business school and decide that Pilates was the market you

01:48:30.270 --> 01:48:33.750

wanted to function in, right, which is almost certainly the case,

01:48:33.810 --> 01:48:36.150

because I don't think many people do an MBA and go, hell yeah,

01:48:36.290 --> 01:48:37.230

Pilates is where I'm going.

01:48:38.410 --> 01:48:43.570

So if you've grown up, you've organically gone ground up through your love of

01:48:43.570 --> 01:48:46.550

Pilates and what it did for you, and you wanted to become an instructor,

01:48:46.690 --> 01:48:48.590

and you became an instructor, and then you wanted to open a business,

01:48:48.690 --> 01:48:49.810

because that seemed the next logical thing.

01:48:49.810 --> 01:48:56.130

That the seed of what you've done, the germ of it, the thing that germinated

01:48:56.130 --> 01:49:00.550

that process is the feeling that you get from changing people's lives through.

01:49:01.070 --> 01:49:04.330

I think that aligns with the optimism that Raf was talking about.

01:49:04.930 --> 01:49:09.230

And if you've got the problem we're talking about, my prediction is that there's

01:49:09.230 --> 01:49:14.310

some part of you that's feeling fatigued, maybe a little bit disillusioned,

01:49:14.410 --> 01:49:16.310

like thinking, how did I end up here?

01:49:16.490 --> 01:49:19.610

I used to love teaching classes. Now I spend my life managing people

01:49:19.610 --> 01:49:22.570

i don't teach as many classes and when i do i'm tired like

01:49:22.570 --> 01:49:25.310

you know some some part of this has got to be your reality if

01:49:25.310 --> 01:49:28.010

you've got this problem and what raf and i have

01:49:28.010 --> 01:49:30.730

been talking about through our lived experience and as

01:49:30.730 --> 01:49:33.470

we as we keep saying god we wish people would have

01:49:33.470 --> 01:49:36.490

told us this 15 years ago so we didn't have to call the mistakes

01:49:36.490 --> 01:49:39.910

is that the the processes that

01:49:39.910 --> 01:49:43.050

we're talking about and these difficult conversations that

01:49:43.050 --> 01:49:46.350

you have they all support your business

01:49:46.350 --> 01:49:49.110

doing the very thing that it was that

01:49:49.110 --> 01:49:52.030

inspired you to start in the first place right so if you

01:49:52.030 --> 01:49:55.390

started in your living room helping people with pilates then

01:49:55.390 --> 01:49:58.390

you moved to a studio on your own and then you started hiring

01:49:58.390 --> 01:50:01.270

instructors you're scaling up your vision whether you

01:50:01.270 --> 01:50:04.450

realize it or not and the problems

01:50:04.450 --> 01:50:07.750

that you've got are just the problem the opportunities you've

01:50:07.750 --> 01:50:10.530

got to keep scaling up your vision and you could stop

01:50:10.530 --> 01:50:14.270

at any point and just say i'm happy with this as long as it works for you in

01:50:14.270 --> 01:50:19.910

remuneration lifestyle whatever if you need to grow then you need to take the

01:50:19.910 --> 01:50:25.270

steps you need to in order to grow and so your business is the expression of

01:50:25.270 --> 01:50:28.190

that vision and all of these difficult things that you've got to do it can be

01:50:28.190 --> 01:50:29.930

really helpful to remember.

01:50:31.271 --> 01:50:34.871

The better you run your business, the more effectively you continue to achieve

01:50:34.871 --> 01:50:37.471

your mission, which was to change people's lives through movement.

01:50:37.911 --> 01:50:44.131

Right. And this is what I talked about this in an episode quite recently about

01:50:44.131 --> 01:50:50.651

the five stages of a Pilates business, which was episode 320.

01:50:52.911 --> 01:50:58.811

And essentially, as you scale your business from just being a solo operator

01:50:58.811 --> 01:51:02.171

to hiring people to open a second site to, you know, whatever,

01:51:02.491 --> 01:51:05.991

like what you're doing is you're building, you're building your impact,

01:51:06.171 --> 01:51:08.671

you know, like you're going from helping, you know, five people a week to 20

01:51:08.671 --> 01:51:11.951

people a week to a hundred people a week to 500 people a week to a thousand people a week.

01:51:12.371 --> 01:51:18.491

And the way you, you amplify that impact is you can't, like you can't personally

01:51:18.491 --> 01:51:19.871

help a thousand people a week.

01:51:19.991 --> 01:51:24.191

So you have to have other people help you help those thousand people or 500

01:51:24.191 --> 01:51:26.791

people or 200 people or whatever number you're, you're helping currently.

01:51:26.791 --> 01:51:34.091

And in order to scale up that ability to have that impact and also create more

01:51:34.091 --> 01:51:38.971

financial impact for yourself and create a livelihood for more instructors,

01:51:39.331 --> 01:51:48.791

all of those things that a business does, you've got to scale up your ability to build this business.

01:51:49.491 --> 01:51:53.331

And building the business, part of it's marketing and sales and running your

01:51:53.331 --> 01:51:54.931

finances and operations, all of that stuff.

01:51:55.171 --> 01:51:59.791

But a massive part of it is the actual product itself.

01:52:01.911 --> 01:52:10.331

And you've got to scale up your ability to deliver that to 200 people or 500 people or 1,000 people.

01:52:10.351 --> 01:52:12.611

And the way you do that is through other people.

01:52:12.891 --> 01:52:18.171

And so you have to, dear listener, just get over your fucking head shit,

01:52:19.271 --> 01:52:23.991

about being a leader and be a leader and the way you be a leader is what we've

01:52:23.991 --> 01:52:28.951

described in this episode and you just do it scared and you make a hash of it

01:52:28.951 --> 01:52:31.611

and then next time you do it a little bit less scared and make a little bit

01:52:31.611 --> 01:52:34.131

less of a hash of it and if you follow our advice,

01:52:34.611 --> 01:52:36.551

you will make a lot less of a hash of it,

01:52:37.271 --> 01:52:41.351

and you can save like a few dozen reps of doing it badly,

01:52:42.351 --> 01:52:46.271

and you can skip to the part where you're sort of adequate and then you can

01:52:46.271 --> 01:52:50.571

polish that up and get more comfortable but it doesn't get easier until you start doing it.

01:52:50.751 --> 01:52:56.191

And you have to beat that boss at each level of the video game in order to get to the next level.

01:52:56.291 --> 01:52:58.731

And the boss at your current level might be having that hard conversation with

01:52:58.731 --> 01:53:02.371

that one instructor, or it might be creating your system, or whatever it might be.

01:53:02.451 --> 01:53:09.331

But the impact that you crave lies on the other side of the conversations you've

01:53:09.331 --> 01:53:10.231

been avoiding, essentially.

01:53:12.571 --> 01:53:14.811

And now I do have a session I've got to go to.

01:53:18.371 --> 01:53:21.351

Good talk. Yeah, thanks, Raph. See you next time.

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Music.