Hello, and welcome to the Borealis experience. I'm

your host Aurora, life coach and companion on this beautiful

journey called life. I hope you're doing well I hope you

feel good. And if you do not feel all too good, I hope I can

get my message across loving, and inspiring and empowering.

And yeah, lifting up. Today I want to talk about a couple

myths, myths around successful people. I feel it is very

important to talk about it because most of the time, we

think that people who are successful, never go through

pain are born that way, had it easy because of their family,

had money from their family just are a different species a very

different kind of human being than we feel we are. And I love

to bust myths. I love to give you all the tools that you need

to feel successful to feel liberated from old stuff that

doesn't serve you anymore. And to feel yourself strongest

version of yourself. It is a little bit weird to disturb the

record. But yeah, let's

let's dive into this juicy topic.

The first myth I want to attack is the myth that we think that

successful Happy, Healthy People never struggle. They do

struggle, they do struggle a lot, even. The only thing that

is maybe different from our struggles is that they ask for

help. They reach out. They have advisors, they have people that

support them, listen to them, and then

give them advice, make them feel supported and good about

themselves

again, and most of us, I feel or I can just speak for myself. For

the longest time, I thought I have to struggle by myself. It

has to feel hard. Otherwise, I'm not earning deserving success.

And this is totally wrong. I lose so much energy, confidence,

and life force when I'm trying to do it all. As soon as I reach

out as soon as I know that there's people out there who can

do something better than I can do certain things. I feel

supported, I feel we can do this, I feel I can move on,

instead of feeling stuck getting frustrated and wanting to throw

everything into the garbage bin.

So mess number one.

We can do it alone. No. Successful people need advisors,

coaches and support. We cannot do it alone. I never heard of

any success story where the person did it all by themselves.

People struggle, we all struggle. But some people choose

to ask for help. And some people just choose to try to do it by

themselves and sometimes it's just not possible. Myth number

two, success is genetic. You have to be born into a

successful rich family. Otherwise you cannot make it in

this world. This is absolute B S. If you look into it a little

bit deeper, you will find out that the most successful people

came out from adversity, stress, chaos, pain, trauma, and were

able to overcome these extreme obstacles. They were able to see

opportunity in these obstacles and overcoming them by reaching

out by having people close to them that believe in them. Or by

simply knowing that there is no other way than moving forward.

So, my dear, if you feel that success is only reserved for a

special

species of human being, I'm very happy to announce that this is

not the truth. And I really encourage everybody to look up

successful people and their stories and to see how much pain

and suffering they had to go through before they became

successful. The third myth I want to bust today is that in

order to be successful, you need a lot of money. Well, my friend

is also not true. Because again, if you look into it, yes, there

are some people who had money, maybe old family money, and were

able to use it in order to be successful. But there's also

very successful people out there who had absolutely nothing.

Where their families had absolutely nothing, it was post

war, everything was bombarded and destroyed. But they found a

way to become successful. And the trick here is really very

simple. You just need to be connected to the world around

you and clearly see what it is that people need, how you can be

of service to people, or, and find something that is necessary

to get done. But nobody really wants to do it. There's an

example I forgot his name, he started a cleaning business back

then, I think it was in New York, and started cleaning huge

companies at night when everybody was at home sleeping,

watching movies, partying, and started cleaning more and more

buildings and had to start hiring people because he got

more contracts. And so he had built a business, on serving

others and finding an activity, a duty that nobody else wanted

to do. But something that has to get done in order to have a

beautiful running business, a clean workspace is important.

This is what everybody figured. And he had a company with very

reliable, trustworthy janitors, and was, yeah, very successful

with this idea. So find something that brings value to

other people. And you don't have to worry about any, you know,

big investment, money or capital. At the beginning,

people will see your potential, they will feel your energy, they

will see your work, they will see that you do it out of the

goodness of your heart. And that is when money flows, and money

starts building up. And you can use that money to build a

successful life a successful business. Another myth that I

want to bust here is that successful people buy a lot of

things have a lot of things. Now we want to distinguish between

rich people who love to brag with all their goods, their

cars, their jewelry, their awesome vacations, and wealthy

people. Wealthy people are the people who are really rich, who

absolutely have nothing to do with bragging and they like to

stay to themselves and work hard. They make investments they

invest into assets, instead of purchasing consumer goods or

liabilities. So one thing will cost you money and depreciate

over time. And the other thing is gonna make you more money.

So, example here, buying jewelry buying an expensive car And

watch us going out to fancy restaurants. This is all money

that goes into another person's pocket, it goes out of your

wallet into another person's pocket. If you invest in that,

say, a computer, or a dump trailer,

or machinery that you can use to make more money, like get more

work done and less time, less time than you are investing into

an asset, it is going to generate you money, yes, you are

buying something. So money goes out of your pocket, but that's

something is going to help you to generate even more money. So

it is very important to see how you use your money. Are you

using money to consume things? Or are you using money to help

you make more money, there's awesome podcasts and books out

there that can help you when it comes to financial health. All

right, this is what I wanted to talk about today. You have it

inside of you, you have all the resources you need to be

successful, happy and content. It is a matter of and digging

these resources if you don't quite see them right now. And it

is about getting unstuck, liberating you and making you

see the potential that you have living inside of you. This is

what I do as a coach. Once we talk on a free call and the

first 60 minutes, I usually find out pretty quickly what the

person needs. And from there, we just hit it off and find out

what the person is meant to do here on planet earth or if they

found their purpose already, how to be even more successful.

Also, addressing relationships and how to be happy and

fulfilled and so desirable and lovable, that you either attract

the partner into your life that is good for you or that you have

a totally fulfilling relationship that will be

unshakable. All right. I'm gonna leave you on this. always

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with lots of love, Aurora. Until next time, bye bye