1 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:17,990 So, before we start today's episode, just remember that although I am a attorney, I am not your attorney and I am not offering you legal advice in today's episode. 2 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:22,710 This episode and all of my episodes are informational and educational only. 3 00:00:22,710 --> 00:00:27,060 It is not a substitute for seeking out your own advice from your own lawyer. 4 00:00:27,060 --> 00:00:29,880 And please keep in mind that I can't offer you legal advice. 5 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:33,990 I don't ever offer any legal services, but I think I offer some pretty good information. 6 00:00:35,460 --> 00:00:41,160 One more thing before we get started, also remember that I am based in the United States, so that's what I'll focus on today. 7 00:00:41,190 --> 00:00:43,440 With that, let's actually get into it. 8 00:00:49,730 --> 00:00:52,840 Hey there, and welcome to a brand new episode of On Your Terms. 9 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:54,290 I'm your host, Sam Vander Wielen. 10 00:00:54,290 --> 00:01:02,990 I'm an attorney turned entrepreneur who helps online coaches and creatives legally protect and grow their online businesses using my DIY legal templates. 11 00:01:02,990 --> 00:01:06,940 I also just so happen to be in the process of writing my own book. 12 00:01:06,950 --> 00:01:08,900 I'm at the beginning stages. 13 00:01:08,900 --> 00:01:11,050 I am working on my book proposal. 14 00:01:11,050 --> 00:01:15,500 And I haven't shared this too much yet, but I'm so excited to be working on it. 15 00:01:15,530 --> 00:01:17,570 It's been quite the adventure. 16 00:01:17,570 --> 00:01:27,410 And I've always wanted to write a book, but I held back because I had all kinds of ideas about what I needed to have in place first before I was ever able to write a book, 17 00:01:27,410 --> 00:01:34,520 not to mention all the mindset issues and imposter syndrome and all the things that came up thinking like, "Who am I to tell my story? 18 00:01:34,550 --> 00:01:35,810 Will anyone care? 19 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:38,210 People have told this story before, it's not interesting. 20 00:01:38,210 --> 00:01:41,240 What if no one buys it?" All of the things. 21 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:42,880 If you've thought it, I've probably thought it too. 22 00:01:42,890 --> 00:01:45,380 So, you're definitely not alone. 23 00:01:45,380 --> 00:01:48,710 But I kind of had this, like, wild series of events earlier this year. 24 00:01:48,710 --> 00:01:58,670 I'm not like Super Woo, but I'm open to woo things, and I actually scheduled a chart reading with an astrological therapist, actually, 25 00:01:58,670 --> 00:02:00,190 believe it or not, in New York City. 26 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:07,220 And she actually brought up the fact that I was meant to share my story in the form of a book and that it was also meant to be published. 27 00:02:07,220 --> 00:02:12,390 It wasn't something that was meant to be like writing in a journal and locked up for only me to see. 28 00:02:12,390 --> 00:02:17,660 And I thought that was so interesting because I hadn't said anything about it, and that has always been a hope and a dream of mine. 29 00:02:17,660 --> 00:02:27,530 I actually explored the idea years ago, but the person that I spoke to at the time shut it down pretty quickly because I had, like, 800 Instagram followers at the time, and she said, "Forget it," which, 30 00:02:27,530 --> 00:02:32,150 by the way, you'll hear about in this episode about whether or not that's actually correct advice. 31 00:02:32,150 --> 00:02:39,110 But I buried the idea at that time, and so I hadn't brought it up to this person in my chart reading. 32 00:02:39,110 --> 00:02:48,530 But she also said that, not only would I write a book and would it be published, but that I would fall into this process through an organic connection . 33 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:53,280 That it wouldn't be something I'd have to fight for really hard or something like this. 34 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:56,240 And so, I thought that was so interesting. 35 00:02:56,240 --> 00:03:04,000 And what do you know? A few days later, I was talking with a friend named Jen Racioppi, and we were talking about her book that she just came out with. 36 00:03:04,010 --> 00:03:07,460 And I said, "You know, I really want to write a book. 37 00:03:07,490 --> 00:03:10,880 Do you have any recommendation on where to start?" And she said, "Yes. 38 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:12,110 I'll tell you where to start. 39 00:03:12,110 --> 00:03:22,070 You need to start by talking with Richelle Fredson." I was like, "Who is Richelle?" And Jen connected me with Richelle and, bada bing, bada boom, Richelle is now my book consultant, my book coach, 40 00:03:22,070 --> 00:03:24,950 and we are working on this book proposal together. 41 00:03:24,950 --> 00:03:27,870 I'm writing the proposal with Richelle's help. 42 00:03:27,890 --> 00:03:31,460 And it has just been an amazing process. 43 00:03:31,460 --> 00:03:39,380 But I really wanted to bring you this episode with Richelle today because I wanted to create an episode that I wish that I could have heard before. 44 00:03:39,830 --> 00:03:49,520 For the person who has always had this feeling, this intuition that they were meant to write a book, or you just have a genuine interest in writing and telling your story and expressing 45 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:53,050 yourself in that way, but you also really don't know where to start. 46 00:03:53,050 --> 00:04:02,990 And you might have heard so many different things like, "You have to self-publish your first book." Or, "If you self-publish, you'll never be able to get published in a traditional way again." 47 00:04:03,410 --> 00:04:04,780 There are all these things. 48 00:04:04,780 --> 00:04:10,670 Even about your social following, you might have heard like, "You have to have a huge following in order to do this." 49 00:04:10,670 --> 00:04:18,680 So, I wanted to bring you the real deal from a trusted, trusted expert and resource, which Richelle most certainly is. 50 00:04:18,710 --> 00:04:28,670 So, in this episode, Richelle and I talk a lot about the confusion around writing a book, some of the myths, and we demystify a lot of the things that people think about, what 51 00:04:28,670 --> 00:04:30,860 you need to do to write a book, and all of that. 52 00:04:31,250 --> 00:04:40,340 We talk about Richelle's experience and how all the different pieces of her career led to her having the book consulting business that she has today. 53 00:04:40,370 --> 00:04:49,130 I really love that as an example of seeing how your prior experiences play into what you do now and how nothing is a wasted experience, because I believe in that so strongly. 54 00:04:49,670 --> 00:04:53,780 And she tells us what a book coach is and what they really do for you. 55 00:04:53,780 --> 00:04:58,370 Like, the different types of book coaches that you can reach out to and who needs one. 56 00:04:58,370 --> 00:05:08,360 We also break down the three different types of book publishing, so from self-publishing, to the hybrid model, to traditional publishing, which I knew nothing about and Richelle was so 57 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:12,620 helpful. And she really breaks it down for you so beautifully in this episode. 58 00:05:12,620 --> 00:05:17,090 Also, I think the gold is in the middle of this episode, where she gives us three things that people should do now. 59 00:05:17,090 --> 00:05:24,190 If you know that you someday want to write a book or if you're just starting out and you want to write a book, she tells you the three things exactly what you should do. 60 00:05:24,190 --> 00:05:30,980 She talks to you about some of the biggest changes and shifts in the book industry, whether you really need a big following, everything in between. 61 00:05:30,980 --> 00:05:33,350 I just thought this was such a great episode. 62 00:05:33,590 --> 00:05:36,710 It's actually my first guest episode that I've ever recorded. 63 00:05:36,710 --> 00:05:41,720 And I was so excited that it was with Richelle because she's just lovely and I know that you're going to love her, too. 64 00:05:41,750 --> 00:05:51,010 So, with that, let's get into this interview with my friend, my book coach, and consultant, Richelle Fredson, all about how to 65 00:05:51,010 --> 00:05:54,820 publish a book, how to start writing your first book. 66 00:05:54,820 --> 00:06:02,330 And if you like this episode, I would love for you to screenshot and share it by tagging me, @samvanderwielen, and Richelle, @richellefredson, on Instagram. 67 00:06:02,350 --> 00:06:03,990 Send me a DM. Send Richelle a DM. 68 00:06:03,990 --> 00:06:05,860 Let us know what you thought about this episode. 69 00:06:05,860 --> 00:06:11,970 And make sure, if you're not already, follow and subscribe to On Your Terms that you get a notice for every new episode. 70 00:06:11,980 --> 00:06:17,950 And if you listen on Apple Podcasts, it would mean the world to me if you rated and reviewed the podcast as well. 71 00:06:18,130 --> 00:06:26,460 With that, let's learn how to write your own book. 72 00:06:26,460 --> 00:06:32,300 So, I am so excited to be doing my first guest podcast interview today on On Your Terms. 73 00:06:32,300 --> 00:06:35,910 And it's with my friend and my own book coach, Richelle Fredson. 74 00:06:35,910 --> 00:06:38,430 I'm so excited that Richelle is here. 75 00:06:38,430 --> 00:06:48,390 So, for her formal fancy introduction, Richelle is a book publishing coach and consultant helping aspiring authors with book concept development, book proposals, platform growth, 76 00:06:48,390 --> 00:06:49,680 and book launches. 77 00:06:49,710 --> 00:06:53,630 She's also the host of her own podcast called Bound & Determined. 78 00:06:53,630 --> 00:06:56,770 And at the end, we'll share more about where you can connect and listen. 79 00:06:56,790 --> 00:06:57,720 Welcome, Richelle. 80 00:06:58,200 --> 00:06:59,650 I'm so excited to be here. 81 00:06:59,650 --> 00:07:03,420 And I'm honored that I'm your first guest on this podcast. 82 00:07:03,450 --> 00:07:04,910 Yeah. I'm so excited too. 83 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:10,950 Well, it works out for me because I'm so used to talking to you anyway, so it's not that awkward for me. 84 00:07:11,340 --> 00:07:13,410 Not yet, but maybe later. 85 00:07:13,410 --> 00:07:14,250 Very easy. 86 00:07:14,250 --> 00:07:20,430 Yeah. Exactly. So, I am so excited that you're here because I wanted to bring you on today for two reasons. 87 00:07:20,430 --> 00:07:25,530 One, I am only taking a very select handful of guests whom I love, and you are one of them. 88 00:07:26,070 --> 00:07:27,900 So, it's not going to be a regular thing. 89 00:07:27,900 --> 00:07:32,580 And I want to talk with people who do things on their terms, who help other people do things on their terms. 90 00:07:32,590 --> 00:07:35,880 You're definitely a person that came to mind when I thought about that. 91 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:40,690 But, also, because in my own community, I know that there are so many people who want to write a book. 92 00:07:40,690 --> 00:07:42,990 And I think that there's a lot of confusion around it. 93 00:07:42,990 --> 00:07:46,920 I know I had my own confusion around it that you helped me break down. 94 00:07:47,190 --> 00:07:52,860 But there's also a lot of, like, there's only one way to write a book or there's a right way to write a book. 95 00:07:52,860 --> 00:08:02,040 And you have a lot of people on social media being like, "The only way to write a book will ever be self-publishing." Or, "The only good way to write a book is to do traditional publishing." And it feels really 96 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:03,060 overwhelming. 97 00:08:03,060 --> 00:08:11,310 And I also talk a lot on On Your Terms about not focusing so much on social following and getting hung up in vanity metrics. 98 00:08:11,310 --> 00:08:20,760 And I think you're really helpful, and you were helpful to me in understanding that writing a book is not only for those people or people with a big 99 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:26,670 following. So, I'm really excited to get into the real deal of book writing with you today. 100 00:08:27,210 --> 00:08:35,280 I'm excited. I love demystifying publishing because, I think you're right, there's so much information out there and everyone is pushing their own agenda. 101 00:08:35,970 --> 00:08:45,630 And I have very little agenda besides just letting people know what their options are, because I think people get very attached to 102 00:08:45,630 --> 00:08:48,980 one style of publishing or they think there's only one route. 103 00:08:48,980 --> 00:08:52,730 But there are more options available now than ever before. 104 00:08:52,740 --> 00:08:55,800 Like, if you want to write a book, you can write a book. 105 00:08:55,950 --> 00:09:05,910 Yeah. I'm excited, too, for you to break down what all those different types are, because I remember that was the thing you kind of blew my mind with because I had only been exposed to people who 106 00:09:05,910 --> 00:09:08,410 had very specific types of businesses. 107 00:09:08,410 --> 00:09:11,900 And they were, like, book coaches who help people to self-publish. 108 00:09:11,900 --> 00:09:15,180 And to me, personally, there's nothing wrong with that option, obviously. 109 00:09:15,180 --> 00:09:18,780 But, for me, as Richelle knows, that was just not the way I wanted to go. 110 00:09:18,780 --> 00:09:23,390 But it was helpful even to understand why and what the pros and cons are. 111 00:09:23,390 --> 00:09:32,490 There are cons, too. But I think before we get into all that, it would be so helpful for people to know what you were doing before you started your own book coaching business. 112 00:09:32,820 --> 00:09:40,500 Yeah. So, I started my career in PR media work at, actually, an agency in Southern California. 113 00:09:40,500 --> 00:09:50,070 And I was doing products like WD-40, and McDonald's, and the Sony Vaio laptop launch, and all of these very big things with very 114 00:09:50,070 --> 00:09:54,990 big juicy budgets, and just tons of money to spend a lot of fun to do. 115 00:09:54,990 --> 00:09:57,760 But what happened was I looked around and went, "Oh, my gosh. 116 00:09:57,760 --> 00:10:01,050 The people that are sitting in these jobs, they're not me. 117 00:10:01,050 --> 00:10:06,570 Like, this isn't actually how I want to live my life." There was a lot of pressure, super high pressure. 118 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:08,700 There wasn't a lot of movement and growth. 119 00:10:08,700 --> 00:10:11,850 And I just said, "It's for many people. 120 00:10:11,850 --> 00:10:13,500 This is not for me." 121 00:10:13,500 --> 00:10:22,710 And I sort of accidentally fell into book publishing, which makes my parents laugh to this day, because I was the kid that never finished a book in school. 122 00:10:22,710 --> 00:10:25,980 Just forget it. I wanted the cliff notes version of everything. 123 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:28,240 I don't even know if cliff notes is a thing anymore. 124 00:10:28,350 --> 00:10:28,740 Did I just age myself? 125 00:10:29,100 --> 00:10:31,070 I don't know. It's probably all online now, I know. 126 00:10:31,070 --> 00:10:33,450 It's all online. You have to go by the little yellow- 127 00:10:33,450 --> 00:10:35,070 Just Google it. Yeah, I think you Google it now. 128 00:10:35,820 --> 00:10:42,010 So, essentially, I started my career in publishing about 18 years ago. 129 00:10:42,010 --> 00:10:44,130 And I, again, started on the PR side. 130 00:10:44,130 --> 00:10:45,450 It was my comfort zone. 131 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:48,060 I thought I know how to write a pitch. 132 00:10:48,060 --> 00:10:50,730 I know how to get people on TV shows. 133 00:10:50,730 --> 00:10:53,670 Like, let's stay in my comfort zone in this new industry. 134 00:10:54,210 --> 00:10:59,370 And then, over the years, grew through much bigger PR campaigns for books. 135 00:10:59,970 --> 00:11:02,370 I had lunch with Oprah in her house. 136 00:11:02,370 --> 00:11:03,810 I would have died, just for the record. 137 00:11:05,820 --> 00:11:07,770 Delicious gazpacho. 138 00:11:07,950 --> 00:11:09,650 Wait. Was this in her Santa Barbara home? 139 00:11:09,650 --> 00:11:12,430 The one that I want to live next to one day. 140 00:11:12,430 --> 00:11:14,780 It's beautiful. Yeah. Exactly right. 141 00:11:14,780 --> 00:11:20,940 So, I was booking clients on Super Bowl Sunday, and her old studio show in Chicago, and Dr. 142 00:11:20,940 --> 00:11:22,460 Oz, and all the big things. 143 00:11:22,460 --> 00:11:25,050 And it was so fun until it wasn't. 144 00:11:25,270 --> 00:11:30,040 That's really, again, a high pressure job trying to please a lot of people. 145 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:38,950 It's hard because authors, really, are writing about so many things that are really important to them and really intimate and vulnerable. 146 00:11:38,950 --> 00:11:45,720 And so, when you aren't able to always match the industry excitement with their excitement, you know, it's tricky. 147 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:48,130 But it was really rewarding for a long time. 148 00:11:48,130 --> 00:11:55,270 And my role sort of segued from PR into digital marketing launches at the time that publishing sort of said, "Okay. 149 00:11:55,270 --> 00:11:57,480 Social media is this thing now. 150 00:11:57,480 --> 00:11:59,610 Email lists are a thing now. 151 00:11:59,620 --> 00:12:07,200 How do we meet those standards?" And so, a lot of the PR roles started to transition into digital marketing roles. 152 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:13,050 Like, how can we reach the most people through these somewhat organic channels that authors have created? 153 00:12:13,060 --> 00:12:20,940 So, I spent a long time doing big digital marketing launches for New York Times Best Selling Authors and first time authors. 154 00:12:20,940 --> 00:12:28,510 So, really learning how to communicate that goal differently to two different types of people at different parts of their journey. 155 00:12:28,510 --> 00:12:32,680 And then, ultimately, began working in acquisitions in tandem with that role. 156 00:12:32,680 --> 00:12:42,490 And that was really cool, because now I got to meet with agents and authors, and read many, many book proposals, and help decide what we would 157 00:12:42,490 --> 00:12:43,610 buy and publish. 158 00:12:43,630 --> 00:12:53,500 So, I got to use all my former hats, from PR and media to digital marketing and social media and all of that, to determine what would be the most marketable buy for the 159 00:12:53,500 --> 00:13:03,480 publisher. So, that's what makes my job now so incredibly fun because I get to use all of that former experience to help craft things from the 160 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:04,120 ground up. 161 00:13:04,300 --> 00:13:07,980 Yeah. I can see that firsthand, obviously, as a client. 162 00:13:07,980 --> 00:13:17,920 And I love how much your background plays into what you do now, because as you have taught me so much about, that nowadays writing your own book, wanting to go the traditional 163 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:23,170 publishing route, it's not this fairytale story that people like myself dreamed of. 164 00:13:23,350 --> 00:13:28,270 That, like, my book would just show up in Barnes and Noble and everyone would be celebrating it. 165 00:13:28,420 --> 00:13:32,280 And so, there's a lot of legwork on our own end for marketing the book. 166 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:39,220 And so, I can just see how much that would help in what you do and how much realistic advice you bring to the table. 167 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:43,810 Thank you. And, really, what everyone should want is a book that sells for a long time. 168 00:13:43,810 --> 00:13:50,100 And I think sometimes when we get caught up in publishing a book, it's how do I make this a bestseller right away? 169 00:13:50,110 --> 00:13:53,590 How do I sell thousands of copies in my first week? 170 00:13:53,590 --> 00:13:57,190 And that's a sort of short sighted way to look at the publishing process. 171 00:13:57,190 --> 00:13:59,470 I mean, a book is this concrete thing. 172 00:13:59,470 --> 00:14:00,970 We're holding it in our hands. 173 00:14:00,970 --> 00:14:03,250 It's not easy to reproduce. 174 00:14:03,250 --> 00:14:06,070 You're printing thousands and thousands of copies. 175 00:14:06,220 --> 00:14:10,240 And, of course, there's e-books and audiobooks which take a lot of production. 176 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:16,180 So, the goal is always how can I create a book that's going to sell well long term and sell consistently? 177 00:14:16,180 --> 00:14:23,830 So, part of that is that marketing lens of how do we get that flash and how do we create something that's sustainable? 178 00:14:23,860 --> 00:14:28,480 What do you think distinguishes a book that would sell for a long time? 179 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:31,390 What ingredients does a book like that need? 180 00:14:31,780 --> 00:14:36,190 Yeah. I mean, usually tackling the things that are plaguing everybody all the time. 181 00:14:37,420 --> 00:14:38,990 The me too factor. 182 00:14:38,990 --> 00:14:40,290 People just being like, "Oh. 183 00:14:40,290 --> 00:14:41,940 Me too." Or like, "You're in my mind. 184 00:14:41,940 --> 00:14:51,910 You're in my head." I don't know if it's helpful, but when people on your email list or whatever write back and we'll say, "It's like you're in my head." It's always those topics I tried 185 00:14:51,910 --> 00:14:54,850 to think about, obviously, that's what's connecting with people. 186 00:14:55,090 --> 00:14:57,640 Yeah. And it's a lot of the emotional components. 187 00:14:57,640 --> 00:15:06,490 So, when I think about sort of flash books that will sell quickly but for a short amount of time, they're things like fad diets or the next great 188 00:15:07,090 --> 00:15:10,000 cookbook genre or something like Instant Pot things. 189 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:16,100 They have a great kick at the beginning and then they're going to slow down naturally when the next great thing happens. 190 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:21,640 But when we talk about human emotion and the human experience, that is forever. 191 00:15:21,640 --> 00:15:27,270 And it's proven to me all the time when I just show up more vulnerably on my social media too. 192 00:15:27,270 --> 00:15:33,340 Last night, I did a post about feeling really conflicted as someone who runs a business and is a mom. 193 00:15:33,340 --> 00:15:38,170 And my son is sick and I felt guilty for having to move things around my schedule. 194 00:15:39,010 --> 00:15:48,300 And my final line was, "We have to remember we're more than the work that we do." And the comments were blowing out with people going, "This was me today. 195 00:15:48,310 --> 00:15:52,150 I needed to hear this." And those are the tidbits that create a good book. 196 00:15:52,150 --> 00:15:56,260 Like, how can you get people jumping in and going, "This is me. 197 00:15:56,260 --> 00:15:58,570 I needed this. This sounds exactly like me. 198 00:15:58,570 --> 00:16:01,870 I see myself in your book, in your story." 199 00:16:02,020 --> 00:16:04,320 Yeah. That's exactly what I was thinking when you said that. 200 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:13,600 It's like, in every good copywriting course class, whatever that you take, I always think of anything that I write as a mirror for other people - or a mirror, as my dad would 201 00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:18,550 say - that they're seeing themselves in it. 202 00:16:18,550 --> 00:16:24,580 At the end of the day, let's just be real, when people read stuff, they're thinking the what's in it for me factor. 203 00:16:24,580 --> 00:16:24,590 Completely. 204 00:16:24,590 --> 00:16:29,240 So, I think we all get real excited about telling our stories in a book like, "Oh. 205 00:16:29,420 --> 00:16:35,960 I've had the story of my whole life." But the point is it has to be helpful to other people and has to reflect back to to them. 206 00:16:35,960 --> 00:16:40,610 A hundred percent. But that's like a reflex for me now when I'm talking people through their book process. 207 00:16:40,610 --> 00:16:42,500 It's like, "This is so good. 208 00:16:42,500 --> 00:16:47,720 I love this story about your life." And how do we show up in the teacher seat? 209 00:16:47,750 --> 00:16:55,640 How do we now turn the camera and bring the reader into the fold and help them have that reflection or look at that experience? 210 00:16:55,640 --> 00:17:05,300 But you're right, when people read story, anecdotal story or personal story, they're often substituting in their own experience into that. 211 00:17:05,300 --> 00:17:10,430 So, when people ask me, how much do I need to share in my book, like, how vulnerable do I need to be? 212 00:17:10,430 --> 00:17:11,810 How open do I need to be? 213 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:18,950 Only as much as you're comfortable with and only as much as they need to get the point and see themselves in that story. 214 00:17:18,950 --> 00:17:20,750 We're all just thinking about ourselves. 215 00:17:20,990 --> 00:17:24,380 It is true. I mean, it's just the way the human psyche works. 216 00:17:24,380 --> 00:17:27,920 But I mean, the people who are reading your post last night were probably like, "Oh. 217 00:17:28,090 --> 00:17:37,970 Thank, God. I'm not alone. I'm not the only person who feels this conflict, and this guilt, and this poll to want to be both a business owner and an entrepreneur and a great mom, and then feeling like you're not doing 218 00:17:37,970 --> 00:17:48,920 either that great sometimes because you're being pulled." So, people can really relate to that and people don't want to feel alone, period, end of story. 219 00:17:48,920 --> 00:17:50,660 That's the whole point of creating a great book, right? 220 00:17:50,690 --> 00:17:53,060 Like, let's just know that we're all in this together. 221 00:17:53,360 --> 00:17:54,530 Yeah. It's like a hug. 222 00:17:54,530 --> 00:18:01,730 I mean, I was an avid reader as a kid, and I felt like the characters in books were my friends. 223 00:18:02,090 --> 00:18:05,870 So, that sounds really sad when you say it out loud. 224 00:18:05,870 --> 00:18:07,310 It's not sad. My husband says that too. 225 00:18:07,310 --> 00:18:12,940 Like, he has a few books and he's like, "I'm definitely the Holden Caulfield." He definitely has references. 226 00:18:13,070 --> 00:18:14,840 Yeah. I feel like that for sure. 227 00:18:15,140 --> 00:18:25,100 So, tell me a little bit about how you went from all these, having lunch with Oprah - which I'm now super jealous about - and to actually starting your own business and you're 228 00:18:25,100 --> 00:18:27,710 coaching? And is that what brought you to New York, by the way? 229 00:18:28,100 --> 00:18:36,090 So, the publishing house brought me to New York, and part of that move was that it was a Southern California based publisher, Hay House. 230 00:18:36,090 --> 00:18:40,610 And the company grew large enough to really be competitive with some of these major publishers. 231 00:18:40,610 --> 00:18:49,160 We needed a New York presence, so they sent me out here with one other person to start the New York office and really start meeting with agents and talent in person. 232 00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:53,810 And so, that was very exciting for me. 233 00:18:53,810 --> 00:18:56,210 I was the first one in my family to move away. 234 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:57,860 They're all still back in California. 235 00:18:58,210 --> 00:19:00,020 You know, I sold my car. 236 00:19:00,020 --> 00:19:05,150 It was like a whole different lifestyle moving to the big city, and I loved it so much. 237 00:19:05,150 --> 00:19:14,930 But, really, the tipping point for starting my business - and this is like the ultimate On Your Terms moment - is I had my son, so I 238 00:19:14,930 --> 00:19:16,100 gave birth to Cooper. 239 00:19:16,130 --> 00:19:21,710 Before that, just working a lot of hours and managing a lot of campaigns. 240 00:19:21,710 --> 00:19:30,200 It was a lot and I loved it and it filled me up, but I was thriving on sort of that chaos a little bit, the go, go, go hustle. 241 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:31,370 And then, I had Cooper. 242 00:19:31,370 --> 00:19:41,330 And while I was on maternity leave, I was like, "If I could curate a business, or a role, or a position that only 243 00:19:41,330 --> 00:19:50,810 tapped into the things I really love about the work that I do, what would it look like?" And about two months into maternity leave, my brain started firing on all 244 00:19:50,810 --> 00:19:53,530 cylinders, just ready to be back to doing something. 245 00:19:53,540 --> 00:19:57,800 I mean, God bless motherhood, but I was ready to start thinking about something else. 246 00:19:58,910 --> 00:20:02,660 And, of course, still sleep deprived and not making a lot of sense. 247 00:20:02,660 --> 00:20:12,650 But I would just walk to the local coffee shop in Brooklyn, where I was at the time, and just listen to podcasts and take notes and think about could I really create something for myself 248 00:20:12,650 --> 00:20:22,380 that feels like it would fill me up, and be an actual lucrative business, and allow me to not miss the moments of my life that I don't want to miss? 249 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:24,950 And I went back to work. 250 00:20:24,950 --> 00:20:27,320 And, again, I loved everyone I worked with. 251 00:20:27,350 --> 00:20:30,730 It was a great job to have. 252 00:20:30,730 --> 00:20:34,070 And I realized very quickly the shoe didn't fit anymore. 253 00:20:34,070 --> 00:20:41,990 I had this sort of wake up call to what I wanted my life to look like every day as a mom and someone who built a career. 254 00:20:42,020 --> 00:20:50,650 And so, the someday when plan became the now plan, and I just leapt into the great unknown. 255 00:20:50,660 --> 00:20:54,910 I had very little plan in place before. 256 00:20:54,910 --> 00:20:56,840 I was like, "This is what I'm doing, guys. 257 00:20:56,840 --> 00:21:03,470 I'm going all in." I want to help the people that don't have the roadmap to getting published. 258 00:21:03,470 --> 00:21:09,360 Like, I've worked with some of the biggest names in the nonfiction industry, and they're wonderful. 259 00:21:09,380 --> 00:21:11,720 They also have huge teams of support. 260 00:21:11,780 --> 00:21:15,350 How do I help the people that don't know who to look to? 261 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:18,470 And that's really when Purposeful Platforms was born. 262 00:21:18,770 --> 00:21:23,600 That's amazing. Yeah, people who still have incredible stories but don't have the same resources, obviously. 263 00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:26,960 That's really cool. 264 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:32,530 And had you heard of book coaches before you kind of created this business? 265 00:21:32,710 --> 00:21:42,430 No. And I have to tell you, I had a real identity crisis with calling myself a coach just because, especially being in the industry that I'm in, people are very quick to use that label. 266 00:21:42,460 --> 00:21:48,700 And so, for a long time, I was just kind of framing it as a consultant, a publishing consultant. 267 00:21:48,700 --> 00:21:55,960 And when I first started the business, I was really focused on helping people understand the benefit of a platform. 268 00:21:55,960 --> 00:22:05,050 Because I'd spent so long having to turn down really great books because the platform wasn't there, because that's where the traditional publishing model was, and they still are. 269 00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:07,140 They're very focused on the platform. 270 00:22:07,140 --> 00:22:17,080 But there were so many great teachers and great writers that weren't getting the attention they needed because they didn't know how to teach online or how to show up online in a 271 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:21,250 way that was effective. So, I started really heavily on the platform side. 272 00:22:21,250 --> 00:22:25,720 And then, I was like, "I have all of this amazing PR and marketing experience. 273 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:30,520 I know what makes a good book proposal because I was the person on the other side of the table for a long time. 274 00:22:30,670 --> 00:22:40,120 How do I take all of that knowledge and develop the idea for these great books?" And so, I just started doing it because I was also really 275 00:22:40,120 --> 00:22:42,700 confident in what I knew. 276 00:22:42,700 --> 00:22:48,160 And so, that's one thing that I've never really been hung up on is like, I know that I have what it takes. 277 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:51,340 It's just about doing it in a way that doesn't burn me out. 278 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:54,610 And so, I had to build a formula that did that. 279 00:22:55,060 --> 00:22:59,920 Yeah. But I love how you went into it ahead of time knowing that you wanted to do things on your terms. 280 00:22:59,920 --> 00:23:06,280 I mean, a lot of people say they want to start a business because they want freedom and flexibility, but it's kind of a loftier thing. 281 00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:15,910 I think, also, when people come from a corporate world and transition into being their own boss, you have a better idea sometimes of 282 00:23:15,910 --> 00:23:19,720 exactly what that looks like because you've done the other way. 283 00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:29,280 You've given up all the small moments in your life and you've sacrificed, probably, your health, and your wellbeing, and your sleep, and a whole bunch of other stuff at the time. 284 00:23:29,290 --> 00:23:32,650 I was sick so much when I had a more corporate position. 285 00:23:32,650 --> 00:23:42,640 I was sick all the time and I didn't recognize that it was connected to the way that I was treating myself because I was so focused on the next great thing, and climbing the ladder, and 286 00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:44,680 just giving so much of myself. 287 00:23:44,710 --> 00:23:54,670 And what's interesting is that transition into the new business, there was a period of time where things felt very quiet because I was used to such a juggle, and I had to get comfortable in 288 00:23:54,670 --> 00:23:58,930 the moments that were more quiet and not make abrupt decisions. 289 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,920 Not take on a client because I felt like I needed the money. 290 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:06,910 And, of course, everyone at the beginning of their business does that stuff because you're like, "Oh, my God. 291 00:24:06,910 --> 00:24:16,180 I need to pay the bills, so I'm going to take on a client." I learned pretty quickly, about six months in, that if I took a client based on money, it often didn't turn out well. 292 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:23,170 So, I had to get really clear on who the right person was for me, and that was just trial and error at the beginning. 293 00:24:23,350 --> 00:24:24,390 For sure. 294 00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:34,350 And by the way, if anybody wants to learn more about this topic, I just did a few episodes ago about client warning signs, and bad clients, and who to take on and 295 00:24:34,420 --> 00:24:40,840 who not. But I also talk about how, sometimes, it's good to make some of those mistakes in the beginning because you'll stumble through. 296 00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:42,700 So, I'll link to that at the bottom. 297 00:24:42,700 --> 00:24:48,130 But I was hoping, too, Richelle, you would tell people what is a book coach or a book consultant. 298 00:24:48,130 --> 00:24:51,530 Like, what exactly does a book consultant do for people? 299 00:24:51,530 --> 00:24:52,870 And who would need one? 300 00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:55,170 There's all different kinds. 301 00:24:55,170 --> 00:25:00,820 So, there's certainly people that coach you through the proposal process and help you write the book and things like that. 302 00:25:00,820 --> 00:25:03,510 They're more of editors, I would say, more than book coaches. 303 00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:08,800 And then, like you said, there are some people who coach you because they have their own publishing model within their business. 304 00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:12,690 And it's only for self-publishing that I have seen. 305 00:25:12,690 --> 00:25:14,950 There may be other kinds out there. 306 00:25:14,950 --> 00:25:24,940 But the way that I work is, essentially, you come to me when you have an idea for a book, or you have a business and you know that that book 307 00:25:24,940 --> 00:25:27,760 is going to be a part of your business and part of your offerings. 308 00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:37,540 And you're like, I have this coaching practice, or I have this legal business, or I have all these things that I do for entrepreneurs, how do I take what I know and create a 309 00:25:37,540 --> 00:25:45,340 tool that brings in business that fills my coaching programs that becomes this entry point for people to discover what I do? 310 00:25:45,340 --> 00:25:48,450 So, people come to me at, like, the bud of an idea. 311 00:25:48,450 --> 00:25:57,740 And usually my consults start with people saying, "I'm not a writer, but I want to write a book." And I tell them that everybody says that. 312 00:25:57,740 --> 00:26:00,670 And I help them, essentially, develop the idea. 313 00:26:01,090 --> 00:26:05,550 And it's the marriage of what I know and what they know. 314 00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:08,800 And, together, that makes a really marketable idea. 315 00:26:08,890 --> 00:26:12,050 So, we work through the proposal process. 316 00:26:12,050 --> 00:26:16,570 And, oftentimes, I'll do agent introductions and help them through the process. 317 00:26:16,570 --> 00:26:22,870 And a lot of it is just being that person they can turn to when, number one, they hit those moments of uncertainty. 318 00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:31,250 I'm not a substitute for therapy, but there is a lot of sort of therapy conversation happening in the work that we do because it's vulnerable. 319 00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:34,060 But helping them navigate all the questions that come up. 320 00:26:34,060 --> 00:26:36,610 Like, what type of agent do I need? 321 00:26:36,620 --> 00:26:39,830 Do I want to go self-hybrid or traditional? 322 00:26:39,830 --> 00:26:42,210 And just figuring out a route that's right for them. 323 00:26:42,210 --> 00:26:45,150 And so, there's no template to what I do. 324 00:26:45,170 --> 00:26:50,270 It's just it's connecting to another human and guiding them from what I know in the industry. 325 00:26:50,450 --> 00:26:55,720 Yeah. Yeah. And just to let everyone know, I hired Richelle in that way too. 326 00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:57,550 I don't think I said I wasn't a writer. 327 00:26:57,550 --> 00:27:01,700 Not that I think I am a writer, but I like to write, so I don't think I said it. 328 00:27:02,310 --> 00:27:06,200 But I came to Richelle saying, like, "I have a lot of ideas. 329 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:12,380 I just don't know what direction to go in." And so, you were really helpful not only nailing down that idea. 330 00:27:12,380 --> 00:27:22,190 But I think what's been so great about our work together so far and what we're working on the book proposal now is that you've helped me so far to craft something that balances this storytelling. 331 00:27:22,190 --> 00:27:28,670 Like, the stories that I did want to get out and do emotionally connect with other people, to here are tips about how to grow your business. 332 00:27:28,670 --> 00:27:32,600 Because I didn't want - I don't know - a Gary V. 333 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:34,890 style book or something. 334 00:27:34,890 --> 00:27:38,680 I didn't want this like bro marketing or this straight up strategic. 335 00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:40,100 I wanted the hybrid. 336 00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:45,170 But, I, obviously, first and foremost, wanted to be helpful to other people. 337 00:27:45,170 --> 00:27:54,860 So, I guess I wanted to say to anyone who maybe has an idea but is struggling to figure out how that's a marketable idea, it can be really helpful to work with someone like Richelle. 338 00:27:55,460 --> 00:28:02,080 Thank you. And more often than not, people come to the table and they have ten ideas that they're trying to fit into one book. 339 00:28:02,370 --> 00:28:07,590 I'm like, this is a whole series of books, but how do we not overwhelm the reader? 340 00:28:07,590 --> 00:28:13,830 And the beautiful thing about integrating a story, is, some people will learn from the tactical tidbits that you give them. 341 00:28:13,830 --> 00:28:17,090 And some people will learn because they see themselves in your story. 342 00:28:17,090 --> 00:28:21,350 So, having all of that makes a really complete beautiful book. 343 00:28:21,500 --> 00:28:26,780 I love the sort of straddling line of prescriptive memoir storytelling and help. 344 00:28:27,620 --> 00:28:29,090 Yeah. It is fun. 345 00:28:29,090 --> 00:28:38,630 And if anybody does something like what I do in the sense that it's very technical and can be dry and boring, I found that storytelling has broken me out of this 346 00:28:38,630 --> 00:28:47,870 cycle of I used to feel frozen about what to write about, because I'm like, "Oh, can I really write another post called what three website policies you need on your website?" 347 00:28:47,870 --> 00:28:53,150 That's how I write and so I connect. 348 00:28:53,150 --> 00:28:58,790 Even all of my emails to my list about these podcast episodes is all a story that then links to this episode. 349 00:28:58,790 --> 00:29:05,360 And so, I just find that it can unlock for some of us who feel like we have to express ourselves in that way. 350 00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:11,060 And so, I found the book writing or book proposal writing process really freeing in that way. 351 00:29:11,390 --> 00:29:13,400 Yeah. Absolutely. 352 00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:22,130 I think it would be helpful for you to explain to people what the publishing options are and then like what the differences are between options like self-publishing, 353 00:29:22,940 --> 00:29:24,860 traditional publishing, hybrid, all of that. 354 00:29:24,860 --> 00:29:29,740 So, the three options are what you just said, self-publishing, hybrid, and traditional. 355 00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:30,690 You taught me a lot. 356 00:29:30,690 --> 00:29:32,600 Yeah. You're such a good student. 357 00:29:33,710 --> 00:29:36,680 Let's start from sort of the biggest down. 358 00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:41,100 So, traditional publishing is what people mostly know about book publishing. 359 00:29:41,100 --> 00:29:42,170 It's Simon and Schuster. 360 00:29:42,170 --> 00:29:44,780 It's Random House. It's the agent process. 361 00:29:44,780 --> 00:29:51,940 So, you would need to create a book proposal and you would need to have a pretty thriving platform. 362 00:29:51,940 --> 00:30:01,770 So, your social media is kicked off, you've started building a community - and I don't like to assign a number to that because I have seen books with 5,000 followers 363 00:30:03,020 --> 00:30:04,490 get a six figure deal. 364 00:30:04,490 --> 00:30:07,580 And I've seen people with 200,000 followers get a more modest deal. 365 00:30:07,580 --> 00:30:10,160 So, I don't like to give a number. 366 00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:15,560 It's really about are you showing up and talking about what you want to write this book about? 367 00:30:15,770 --> 00:30:20,900 Are you present? Are you showing up publicly to teach or to create conversation in communities? 368 00:30:20,900 --> 00:30:22,670 So, you need the proposal. 369 00:30:22,670 --> 00:30:25,650 You need that platform to be thriving. 370 00:30:25,650 --> 00:30:28,040 And then, you would need an agent. 371 00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:37,940 So, the first sort of hurdle is getting an agent to represent you, because they're the ones that are going to go and knock on the doors of all the publishers and say, "I have something really great that you 372 00:30:37,940 --> 00:30:41,780 should pay attention to." Your agent is like your best friend in this process. 373 00:30:41,780 --> 00:30:49,180 It's why I work so closely with agents because, to me, it's an energetic decision in addition to sort of a tactical decision. 374 00:30:49,180 --> 00:30:52,910 You want to work with an agent that's going to champion you. 375 00:30:52,940 --> 00:30:55,590 And so, it has to be the right fit. 376 00:30:55,590 --> 00:31:01,880 So, once you've secured your agent, they will look at your proposal and make any tweaks that they feel it needs. 377 00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:03,440 And then, you're sort of off to the races. 378 00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:06,830 You will start getting some interest from publishers. 379 00:31:06,830 --> 00:31:09,240 Your agent sends out your proposal. 380 00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:13,770 And you have publisher meetings - and now they're on Zoom. 381 00:31:13,770 --> 00:31:22,250 But you, essentially, talk to their editorial team, sometimes their marketing and salespeople, and they will make a decision if it's something they'd like to publish. 382 00:31:22,610 --> 00:31:27,030 And then, they offer you an amount of money, and that's called an advance. 383 00:31:27,030 --> 00:31:30,290 So, you get paid an advance to write the book. 384 00:31:30,290 --> 00:31:35,970 For first time authors, it could be $10,000 to $250,000 up to $500,000. 385 00:31:35,970 --> 00:31:39,590 I've seen it in every range possible. 386 00:31:39,590 --> 00:31:47,240 But, typically, first time author advances are a little bit more modest, unless you have a sizable platform. 387 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:49,270 So, that's the traditional publishing process. 388 00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:59,120 You, obviously, have internal teams, so you have a marketing team, you have a sales team, you have your on staff editors, you have distribution so it's being put 389 00:31:59,390 --> 00:32:04,800 in Barnes and Noble and trying to be sold to Target and Costco and all the big box stores. 390 00:32:04,820 --> 00:32:09,290 So, it's sort of this all encompassing way to publish. 391 00:32:09,290 --> 00:32:13,820 The challenge in today's market is that it does skew platform heavy. 392 00:32:13,820 --> 00:32:23,090 So, to break through the noise, you either need a really strong proposal that builds the case or you need a really strong platform, preferably 393 00:32:23,090 --> 00:32:26,470 both. 394 00:32:26,470 --> 00:32:36,110 But hybrid publishing, which is the middle ground - so the middle ground between self-publishing and traditional publishing - is a more recent model that's emerged over about five, six years - 395 00:32:36,110 --> 00:32:44,080 credibly speaking over the last five, six years - and has basically been formed of people that left traditional publishing because they felt it wasn't an author-centric 396 00:32:44,860 --> 00:32:46,540 model. 397 00:32:46,540 --> 00:32:54,100 So, they wanted to leave the sort of stricter business side of publishing and create a model that put more of the power back in the author's hands. 398 00:32:54,370 --> 00:32:58,150 It doesn't require you to sign over your creative rights to your material. 399 00:32:58,180 --> 00:32:59,890 You don't need an agent. 400 00:32:59,920 --> 00:33:01,350 You need a proposal. 401 00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:06,580 But the whole point being that they acquire more based on content, less about platform. 402 00:33:07,330 --> 00:33:13,300 Whereas, in traditional publishing, the platform is more of a contender for getting a deal. 403 00:33:13,300 --> 00:33:15,850 So, hybrid publishing you do not get paid in advance. 404 00:33:16,180 --> 00:33:19,350 You pay for the services that you use within the publisher. 405 00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:23,360 So, if you want to use their editorial services, there's a price for that. 406 00:33:23,380 --> 00:33:31,280 If you want to have them design your cover, if you want them to sell your book and distribute it, there's a price point for all of that. 407 00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:34,720 Kind of all in, you could expect about $15,000 for that. 408 00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:38,560 You're also paying for the cost to print the books, which is in there. 409 00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:44,580 But the highlight being, you earn more of a royalty on each book sold. 410 00:33:44,580 --> 00:33:49,840 So, you can earn anywhere from 30 to 85 percent on every book you sell. 411 00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:53,500 As opposed to traditional publishing, you get on average ten percent. 412 00:33:53,770 --> 00:34:00,760 So, there is opportunity to make a little bit more money faster, though you're not getting paid in advance. 413 00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:06,120 But you get to be in creative control, which for a lot of my clients, they really want. 414 00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:09,130 And you're faster to market. 415 00:34:09,130 --> 00:34:12,460 So, traditional publishing, there's not a lot of wiggle room on the timeline. 416 00:34:12,460 --> 00:34:16,190 You can expect 18 to 24 months from the moment that you sell the book. 417 00:34:16,190 --> 00:34:21,760 From the moment you sell the book to the publisher, not counting proposal and all that other stuff. 418 00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:24,760 In hybrid publishing, you could expect nine months to a year. 419 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:32,680 So, if you're someone who's like, "I need a book in my business stat," that can be really helpful to look at the hybrid publishing model. 420 00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:36,970 And I have a couple of clients that just really love having more of that creative control. 421 00:34:37,450 --> 00:34:42,190 And then, beyond hybrid publishing, they're self-publishing and that is the you and you model. 422 00:34:43,720 --> 00:34:43,930 So, it's you. 423 00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:45,520 So, essentially, it's all on you. 424 00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:55,750 And I have clients and friends that have self-published and love it and wouldn't do it any other way, but what they learned from book one to book 425 00:34:55,750 --> 00:34:58,930 two and book three is that they needed to hire support. 426 00:34:58,930 --> 00:35:08,740 So, to make a really professional product, you will need to hire an editor, and a designer, and all of those things because you want it to look substantial and be competitive in the 427 00:35:08,740 --> 00:35:10,080 market. 428 00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:13,650 So, of course, you're making 100 percent of the money, which is awesome. 429 00:35:13,660 --> 00:35:19,930 You just need to know that you're going to invest in some support from editorial and design to make sure you get it out there. 430 00:35:25,450 --> 00:35:30,080 Have you ever felt lost about where to begin with the legal side of protecting your online business? 431 00:35:30,100 --> 00:35:33,610 Some people say you can just wing it at the beginning and get officially set up later. 432 00:35:34,240 --> 00:35:35,950 Not a good idea, by the way. 433 00:35:35,950 --> 00:35:45,940 Whether you're afraid to even start working with clients because you don't want to do something wrong legally and then get in trouble or your business is growing and you sort of forgot to take care of the legal 434 00:35:45,940 --> 00:35:48,010 pieces, I've got you. 435 00:35:48,010 --> 00:35:57,550 I don't want you to live in fear of the internet police coming after you and your business, but you do have to do certain things and get certain things in place in order to legally and safely run your business 436 00:35:57,550 --> 00:36:04,900 online. As much as it just feels like an unregulated Wild Wild West online, that is very much not the case. 437 00:36:04,900 --> 00:36:09,940 As an attorney turned entrepreneur and former corporate litigator, I can assure you that there are rules. 438 00:36:09,940 --> 00:36:14,950 There are real steps that everybody who runs or starts an online business needs to take. 439 00:36:15,250 --> 00:36:17,080 And you're not behind at all. 440 00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:19,470 We can get you set up and following the rules right away. 441 00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:21,610 In fact, we can even do it today. 442 00:36:21,610 --> 00:36:26,560 I want to teach you the five very simple steps to take to legally protect and grow your online business. 443 00:36:26,620 --> 00:36:36,190 You don't need an MBA to be a successful entrepreneur and stay out of legal hot water, but you do need to dot your legal I's and cross your T's in a few key areas that can't be skipped. 444 00:36:36,190 --> 00:36:42,380 That's exactly what I'll teach you in my free one hour legal workshop called Five Steps to Legally Protect and Grow your Online Business. 445 00:36:42,380 --> 00:36:51,160 Just head to mylegalworkshop.com, drop in your email address, pick the time, and I'll send you a link to watch the workshop video whenever you have time. 446 00:36:51,160 --> 00:37:00,940 This is the best place to begin if you're just getting started legally legitimizing your business, so head on over to mylegalworkshop.com and sign up to watch Five Steps to Legally Protect and Grow your Online 447 00:37:00,940 --> 00:37:01,840 Business now. 448 00:37:08,730 --> 00:37:09,860 That was so helpful. 449 00:37:09,870 --> 00:37:14,850 Before working with you, I didn't even know that the hybrid model existed. 450 00:37:15,030 --> 00:37:19,200 And I think it's really helpful for people to understand that there are different options. 451 00:37:19,230 --> 00:37:29,070 What would you tell someone, though, who has this idea, wants to start a book, is at the beginning of the process, really doesn't know where to go about which one of these little 452 00:37:29,070 --> 00:37:30,510 branches to choose? 453 00:37:30,510 --> 00:37:33,000 Like, which one is right for the right person? 454 00:37:33,270 --> 00:37:34,800 Yeah. That's a really great question. 455 00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:37,200 I think at the beginning, you don't need to decide. 456 00:37:37,230 --> 00:37:42,570 I think the beginning is, what is this book going to be and what is the impact that I want to make? 457 00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:51,620 Which is why even my friends who have self-published would tell you the value of doing a book proposal, even if you want to self-publish. 458 00:37:51,620 --> 00:38:01,590 Because, as you're experiencing now, the discovery that comes from creating a book proposal and the clarity and defining the mission and all of 459 00:38:01,590 --> 00:38:02,970 that is really invaluable. 460 00:38:02,970 --> 00:38:09,360 So, you want to go through that process and then go, How long do I want to wait to have the book out? 461 00:38:09,690 --> 00:38:13,830 Do I want to take the time to build a more substantial platform? 462 00:38:13,830 --> 00:38:16,160 Is my business ready to launch this book? 463 00:38:16,170 --> 00:38:18,040 There's a lot of personal considerations. 464 00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:27,690 But at the beginning it's like, let's just figure out what the book is and feel confident in that so that I can feel empowered to make the right decision on how I want to 465 00:38:27,690 --> 00:38:28,370 publish. 466 00:38:28,380 --> 00:38:30,480 Yeah. Really give yourself options. 467 00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:39,660 And it sounds like one of the most important things to think about ahead of time would be how does this fit into my business, considering everyone who listens to this podcast is an entrepreneur. 468 00:38:39,690 --> 00:38:47,340 So, if you're writing this book as a personal project versus is this going to be an entry point to a funnel or is this part of your marketing. 469 00:38:47,340 --> 00:38:53,760 And even as you're describing all the different options, I'm thinking how long term this is. 470 00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:55,770 Like, how much this is in the long game. 471 00:38:55,770 --> 00:39:00,340 So, for somebody like me now who's been in business for, like, five years I was like, "Okay. 472 00:39:00,340 --> 00:39:07,270 It doesn't matter to me it takes a couple of years." Like, we're planning for things that are that long term. 473 00:39:07,270 --> 00:39:17,160 So, I could see an argument for maybe going more of the hybrid or self-publishing route if you're closer to the beginning of your business need to get your feet under you and start that marketing funnel. 474 00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:21,360 As opposed to this being something that you have an audience to sell to already. 475 00:39:21,870 --> 00:39:28,040 I mean, the truth is your business or your platform are your only customers at the beginning. 476 00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:37,770 Which is part of why traditional publishing puts so much emphasis on the platform because they're like, "This lessons are risks." If we know that we can marry our 477 00:39:37,770 --> 00:39:41,700 contacts with their contacts, we have a better chance of success. 478 00:39:41,710 --> 00:39:47,970 And, obviously, in traditional, you get a certain number of weeks of PR and marketing support, which is awesome. 479 00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:51,720 Hybrid is now matching that, too, with some of their services. 480 00:39:51,720 --> 00:39:55,020 If you self-publish those are additional investments you're going to make for yourself. 481 00:39:56,010 --> 00:40:04,440 So, look, for the average business owner or entrepreneur, the number one question you should be asking yourself is, Is this a tool to grow my business? 482 00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:12,630 Because you can integrate so much of yourself and your personal experience into this, but the book should be rooted in what your core expertise is. 483 00:40:12,630 --> 00:40:21,740 And that's something that we've talked about in our work together, especially traditional publishers, they want to know that your first book out of the gate is grounded in what you do. 484 00:40:21,740 --> 00:40:31,710 So, you have a better chance if you have a business of your own, or you're starting a non-profit, or any of those things that you want to make sure that the book is an 485 00:40:31,710 --> 00:40:35,290 offshoot of what that core expertise is. 486 00:40:35,310 --> 00:40:42,720 And I know that so many people think that writing a book, in it of itself, and then selling that book is what makes you rich. 487 00:40:42,720 --> 00:40:52,440 I mean, not only through our own work together - I wish you guys could see Richelle laughing - but even just in our conversation, it sounded to 488 00:40:52,440 --> 00:41:02,280 me like what people should be focusing on instead is how the book will actually be part of the marketing funnel that could make you rich because it leads to the service, the program, the 489 00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:03,890 product, whatever that you sell. 490 00:41:03,900 --> 00:41:06,420 But the book itself does not make you rich. 491 00:41:06,420 --> 00:41:08,490 I feel like you should have this like a big sign somewhere. 492 00:41:08,490 --> 00:41:12,880 I do. very time I speak in public, I go, "Do not write a book to make money. 493 00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:21,360 Launch a course, launch a mastermind, a group program, and a membership, anything." A book is so wonderful for so many reasons. 494 00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:26,910 I mean, again, like bringing in clients, growing your business legacy, all of those beautiful things. 495 00:41:26,910 --> 00:41:28,800 But it's not a fast moneymaker. 496 00:41:28,830 --> 00:41:38,010 There's this beautiful permanence to it, which we talked about earlier, but it really, really is the long game, but it's an incredible tool for opening more doors of opportunity. 497 00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:41,790 I always think about Phoebe Lapine who wrote The Wellness Project. 498 00:41:41,790 --> 00:41:49,410 And so, she wrote The Wellness Project which chronicled 12 months of her life where she focused on a different wellness aspect each month. 499 00:41:49,410 --> 00:41:52,310 And so, it's kind of broken up The Happiness Project. 500 00:41:52,320 --> 00:42:01,410 And then, she started a group program called The Wellness Project, so every time people were reading the book, they were then going to her website, opting into her email list. 501 00:42:01,410 --> 00:42:08,390 Then, she was emailing out however many times a year to say, "Hey, this group program is opening." And then, people were enrolling in this program. 502 00:42:08,390 --> 00:42:12,520 And I was like, "Oh, that's how a book fits into this marketing funnel." 503 00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:18,530 It's so good. And I use my client, Chrissy King, as an example all the time - and she's so great. 504 00:42:18,550 --> 00:42:26,710 And so, she wrote an article for Shape that was around body liberation and her experience in the fitness industry. 505 00:42:26,710 --> 00:42:36,490 And she got contacted by a publisher that was like, "Would you write a book?" And it was a great 506 00:42:36,490 --> 00:42:38,310 offer. She had no clue. 507 00:42:38,310 --> 00:42:40,040 And she would tell the story the same herself. 508 00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:43,450 But she had no clue how to make this decision and was this the right decision. 509 00:42:43,450 --> 00:42:51,530 And so, she reached out to friends who put her in touch with a literary agent who then sent her to me because we know the power of a great book proposal. 510 00:42:51,530 --> 00:42:59,950 And so, that book proposal was a significant difference in publisher interest and offers for her. 511 00:42:59,980 --> 00:43:01,960 And that's the truth. 512 00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:03,730 And she's not the only example I have like that. 513 00:43:03,730 --> 00:43:12,890 It's like if you're out there in the world doing great work and making waves in your industry, there's probably people already watching you. 514 00:43:12,910 --> 00:43:15,040 I have a number of clients who say, "Oh, my gosh. 515 00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:21,780 [Torture or Hachette] are following me." Or, "An editor reached out to me." And what I always tell them is like, "Great. 516 00:43:21,790 --> 00:43:30,940 Now, write the book proposal." Because it's hard to hit pause for a minute because you want to take that opportunity. 517 00:43:30,940 --> 00:43:36,570 But doing a great book proposal puts the power back in your hands so you can negotiate for the best deal possible. 518 00:43:36,580 --> 00:43:40,330 I had a client who had an offer on the table, a great offer. 519 00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:42,320 She called me and I said, "Write the proposal. 520 00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:43,990 Write the proposal." She's like, "Are you kidding me? 521 00:43:43,990 --> 00:43:47,410 Like, they sent me the contract." And she got three times the offer. 522 00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:49,790 She knew she wanted to be with that publisher. 523 00:43:49,790 --> 00:43:55,960 It gave you negotiating power, and I'm all about giving authors the power to make those decisions for themselves. 524 00:43:55,990 --> 00:44:01,390 Yeah. Because when you have clarity, you can speak so much more confidently about what you're actually bringing to the table. 525 00:44:01,390 --> 00:44:03,700 But when it's a lofty idea, it would be really hard. 526 00:44:03,700 --> 00:44:09,220 But I feel like if you walk in there with a book proposal, you can actually say to them, "This is exactly what I'm going to talk about. 527 00:44:09,220 --> 00:44:10,390 This is how it's going to connect. 528 00:44:10,390 --> 00:44:11,650 This is what I'm going to teach people. 529 00:44:11,650 --> 00:44:13,180 This is what's unique about it. 530 00:44:13,210 --> 00:44:16,840 This is what people are already asking for." I feel like that would be so helpful. 531 00:44:17,470 --> 00:44:23,500 And social media has just opened up opportunity, too, like in that example of Chrissy sharing the article for Shape. 532 00:44:23,500 --> 00:44:29,500 And I have a client who is a sex therapist, and she has editors from publishers following her. 533 00:44:29,500 --> 00:44:34,380 And it's cool when you don't know who's lurking, like, not in a creepy way. 534 00:44:34,390 --> 00:44:35,830 In general, by the way. 535 00:44:35,830 --> 00:44:40,730 In general. It goes beyond editors. 536 00:44:40,730 --> 00:44:42,750 Just learn a lot. 537 00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:44,300 Lots of great people. 538 00:44:44,300 --> 00:44:49,210 But in the best sense, professionals who can help you get your book done. 539 00:44:49,210 --> 00:44:59,140 But I think it's a great sort of reminder to be conscious in the way that we're teaching, and sharing, and being consistent about it because you just never know where the opportunities are 540 00:44:59,140 --> 00:44:59,980 going to come from. 541 00:45:00,190 --> 00:45:05,960 And you actually were so helpful in teaching this golden nugget I want to pass on to other people. 542 00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:15,790 Once I had my head around what's the book going to be about, what's the general premise, then you started telling me like, "Make sure that you're actually teaching about those topics, so that if 543 00:45:15,790 --> 00:45:25,600 someone goes and looks at 30,000 foot view of your business, do they see some blog posts about this, if you have a podcast, or a YouTube video, or whatever." But making sure that you're actually 544 00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:30,010 touching on those things and that they really are my core teaching areas, I guess. 545 00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:38,380 It's interesting because I think a few years ago, publishers weren't looking so specifically at people's businesses, and now they are. 546 00:45:38,380 --> 00:45:46,360 So, the client who went through my book proposal program - and he's got this really killer book idea - we built out the proposal, it's so, so good. 547 00:45:46,690 --> 00:45:49,500 And he sent it to a few agents that were all like, "I'm obsessed with you. 548 00:45:49,510 --> 00:45:57,100 I love this. I can see the need for this." But there's no place in your business where you can use this as a tool. 549 00:45:57,100 --> 00:46:02,890 That's what I mean about that disconnect between what you want to write about and your core expertise. 550 00:46:02,890 --> 00:46:07,290 And while it was his core expertise, there was no offering in his business to sell it long term. 551 00:46:07,300 --> 00:46:16,900 So, he actually hit pause and said, "I'm going to go build an arm of my business that supports this." And I have no doubt that once that's up and running, publishers will come 552 00:46:17,770 --> 00:46:20,530 knocking down the door because it's so good. 553 00:46:20,530 --> 00:46:25,600 But publishers want to know that you have a way to sell it for the long haul. 554 00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:30,580 And that's probably what has attracted people to their community. 555 00:46:31,390 --> 00:46:38,740 I mean, the legal thing that I always compare this to is, don't sell people health coaching and then talk about vacuums, that's what I always say. 556 00:46:38,740 --> 00:46:44,470 Like, from a legal perspective, that's not okay because of a whole canned spam act thing. 557 00:46:44,470 --> 00:46:51,950 But, also, I think from a marketing perspective, it wouldn't make any sense if I came out now with a self-help book or something. 558 00:46:51,950 --> 00:46:53,470 But it's also the end of the road. 559 00:46:53,470 --> 00:47:01,090 And I think going back to what we were talking about before, for example, if I sold a self-help book, that would be the end of the revenue road for me just buying the book. 560 00:47:01,090 --> 00:47:03,730 And we've now just talked about the fact that books don't make you money. 561 00:47:03,730 --> 00:47:05,580 So then, what the heck is the point? 562 00:47:05,670 --> 00:47:10,060 Like, the book should be an entry point to the larger thing in your business, at least from my perspective. 563 00:47:11,230 --> 00:47:15,840 A hundred percent. And by the way, your podcast has got me thinking about the way I respond to people in my DMs. 564 00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:19,940 Because I get people who are like, "What agent would you recommend? 565 00:47:19,940 --> 00:47:27,470 What do you think about this book idea?" Number one, I can't make any of those decisions without being so immersed in what you do and who you are. 566 00:47:27,470 --> 00:47:34,790 But it's interesting because I could see now how any type of response in those situations could be problematic. 567 00:47:34,820 --> 00:47:36,110 It can be. 568 00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:42,740 We just have no idea what the person on the other end of this question. 569 00:47:43,730 --> 00:47:53,510 You know that I'm obsessed with cooking, Richelle loves cooking, too, but I always think about this when chefs will talk about this on social media, they'll get asked a question about 570 00:47:53,510 --> 00:47:55,340 something about the recipe or changing the recipe. 571 00:47:55,340 --> 00:47:58,380 And they're like, "I need to know what altitude you're cooking at. 572 00:47:58,380 --> 00:47:59,590 And what kind of oven you have. 573 00:47:59,590 --> 00:48:01,430 And whether your oven is even to temperature. 574 00:48:01,820 --> 00:48:03,680 Are you cooking on gas? Are you cooking an electric? 575 00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:05,000 What are the tools you're using? 576 00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:07,940 Are you using cast iron?" There are so many elements. 577 00:48:07,940 --> 00:48:09,740 And whenever they talk about that, I'm like, "Yeah. 578 00:48:09,740 --> 00:48:19,490 That's exactly what it's like for us." When you get a DM from somebody, whether they're asking about a book or their health or fitness or their money or their career, it's like there are nine million questions that have to 579 00:48:19,490 --> 00:48:25,460 be answered, let alone all the legal problems that come up from all of that. 580 00:48:25,460 --> 00:48:27,770 So, yes. 581 00:48:27,770 --> 00:48:37,580 One of the biggest things that I wanted to ask you, because this is something I really wish I would have heard someone answer back in the day, is, what are three things that someone should do right now 582 00:48:37,610 --> 00:48:41,840 if they know that they want to write a book, but they've not taken any steps to do so yet? 583 00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:44,970 Yeah. Read books. 584 00:48:44,970 --> 00:48:45,050 That's the first one. 585 00:48:45,050 --> 00:48:53,450 It's such a hilariously basic answer, but it's true. 586 00:48:53,450 --> 00:49:01,380 I think the more that we read and the more that we consume in our genre, we start to see what we like and what we don't like about certain books. 587 00:49:01,380 --> 00:49:05,210 And it helps get the wheels turning about what we want to create. 588 00:49:05,210 --> 00:49:09,080 So, that's sort of entry level answer. 589 00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:15,090 The second is - throwback to the platform - start experimenting. 590 00:49:15,090 --> 00:49:24,980 Start dabbling with talking, and teaching, and doing videos, and Instagram Lives, or all the things you want to do around that topic, because there's 591 00:49:24,980 --> 00:49:29,150 often a gap between what we want to write and what people actually want from us. 592 00:49:30,020 --> 00:49:38,480 And the more that we can experiment, and gather that feedback, and use it to create our book ideas, the more power we have to create something our community wants. 593 00:49:39,770 --> 00:49:41,130 So, there's that, "Okay. 594 00:49:41,130 --> 00:49:50,870 If this is what I want to write -" if I want to write about meditation or yoga or how to run a YouTube business, I want to 595 00:49:50,870 --> 00:49:54,770 see you out there having some of those conversations and experimenting a little bit. 596 00:49:55,820 --> 00:50:05,780 And then, three - and this is a tough one because there's a few in my mind - I would say this is something I give my group students as a task before 597 00:50:05,780 --> 00:50:12,970 we begin, go on Amazon and not in a snarky way, but start looking at some of the books in your genre. 598 00:50:12,970 --> 00:50:22,640 Like, if you know you want to write a prescriptive memoir, you might look at - I don't know - probably 90 percent of the books on your shelf would fall into that category. 599 00:50:23,510 --> 00:50:33,300 But if you know you want to write about childhood trauma or loneliness or entrepreneurship, search that category and look at some of the leaders in that space. 600 00:50:33,300 --> 00:50:36,920 And then, go beyond that and click on the one and two star reviews. 601 00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:38,690 And this is what I mean about this is not snarky. 602 00:50:38,690 --> 00:50:39,800 This is intel. 603 00:50:40,970 --> 00:50:42,560 This is just how we strategize. 604 00:50:42,890 --> 00:50:50,150 Rule out the reviews that are like, "This was terrible," or "There was a page missing," or any of those things that doesn't tell me anything. 605 00:50:50,150 --> 00:51:00,140 But there are often reviews that say, "This was really great and motivational, but I didn't know what to do once I was inspired." Or, "I felt like the tone was a little 606 00:51:00,140 --> 00:51:03,350 bit this or that." There's this intel that we can get. 607 00:51:03,350 --> 00:51:11,080 And what happens more often than not, especially for my clients, is it energizes them because they go, "Oh, my gosh. 608 00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:13,160 I see where I fit in the market now. 609 00:51:13,190 --> 00:51:23,000 I see where my voice, and my story, and my formula, or protocol, or whatever I do, my framework, I see how it fits in the market now." And so, it's 610 00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:28,070 both research and it helps energize you to get really clear on where you want to go. 611 00:51:28,340 --> 00:51:30,680 Yeah. That's super, super helpful. 612 00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:40,250 I always think of an ice sculpture that starts out as a rectangle, and you're kind of taking the chainsaw and making the little carvings. 613 00:51:40,250 --> 00:51:50,180 And so, one of the books Richelle has behind her is Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb, and I remember when I read that and I really liked the book a lot. 614 00:51:50,180 --> 00:51:57,470 And then, I remember I read the reviews, and there were so many reviews being like, "I found her tone condescending," or "I found that she was too self-involved." 615 00:51:57,470 --> 00:52:04,690 And I was like, "Wow. That wasn't my takeaway at all." And so, it was interesting for me to say like, "Well, that was the kind of book that I was attracted to. 616 00:52:04,690 --> 00:52:10,360 That speaks to me." And so, it just kind of helps me to find my voice, I guess, as a writer. 617 00:52:10,630 --> 00:52:16,600 Exactly right. And I should preface all of that by saying your book is not going to please everyone or nothing you does. 618 00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:16,610 Or anything you do ever. 619 00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:25,540 So, when it's tonal comments or this vibe or whatever it is, if that's not a match, it's not going to be a match for everybody. 620 00:52:25,540 --> 00:52:30,220 But what it can make you conscious of is, how do I want to integrate stories beyond my own? 621 00:52:30,250 --> 00:52:34,120 Do I have anecdotal stories, client stories, success stories? 622 00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:38,610 How do I want to move beyond myself to create more of a balance in the tone? 623 00:52:38,620 --> 00:52:45,570 So, yeah, there's a lot to be discovered, and I don't expect when people go through that exercise that they're going to know how to make sense of everything that they discover. 624 00:52:45,580 --> 00:52:49,840 But that's where someone like me or a coach will come help you dissect it and go, "Okay. 625 00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:51,970 This is what's really valid about what we found here. 626 00:52:51,970 --> 00:52:56,020 And these are the things that are just like someone was having a bad day." We can't judge that. 627 00:52:56,650 --> 00:52:59,730 Yeah. Triggering them for some reason. 628 00:52:59,740 --> 00:53:02,950 We call them Lynn at Sam Vander Wielen LLC. 629 00:53:03,820 --> 00:53:05,470 Those are Lynns. 630 00:53:05,470 --> 00:53:06,730 Lynns make it in the book too. 631 00:53:06,730 --> 00:53:07,960 Lynn is making it into the book. 632 00:53:07,960 --> 00:53:09,550 She's really made quite an impact. 633 00:53:11,410 --> 00:53:21,190 Because you have been doing this now for so long, what would you say are some of the biggest changes or shifts that you're experiencing right now in the industry and what you 634 00:53:21,190 --> 00:53:24,640 foresee a little foreshadowing of what you see coming in the book publishing industry? 635 00:53:25,780 --> 00:53:31,060 I mean, I think more than anything, more choice for authors, more routes of publishing. 636 00:53:31,630 --> 00:53:36,910 I think for so long, it was traditional or self-publish and there were huge gaps in that. 637 00:53:36,910 --> 00:53:46,840 A lot of the books that were being self-published, people weren't getting support or didn't know how they were going to sell it, didn't have a promotional or marketing plan ready 638 00:53:46,840 --> 00:53:48,910 to go, there wasn't the prep work. 639 00:53:49,180 --> 00:53:51,750 Now, I think there's more options for self-publishing. 640 00:53:51,750 --> 00:53:54,700 And, now, we're seeing hybrid publishing, obviously, take a real hold in the market. 641 00:53:55,750 --> 00:54:03,400 I will say that there are hybrid publishers that do this very well and then there are some, just like any industry, that can feel a little off. 642 00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:05,610 So, you know, you're going to want to do your research. 643 00:54:05,610 --> 00:54:10,510 And I'm always happy to give a few recommendations of who I've worked with previously and my clients have. 644 00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:20,800 Page Two is great if you are writing, especially, for women entrepreneurs or writing personal story primarily for women, they're great health books 645 00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:30,160 . For any of the listeners that are writing very strong business books or sort of social justice and things like that, there is a great publisher named Amplify. 646 00:54:31,240 --> 00:54:33,870 Most people have heard of She Writes, which is great. 647 00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:36,010 You just want to do your due diligence. 648 00:54:36,010 --> 00:54:42,810 And make sure that if your antenna goes up about anything, that you consult a professional to make sure that you're making a great decision. 649 00:54:42,810 --> 00:54:44,800 But just more options, in general. 650 00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:47,740 And I think in the traditional publishing space, it's that arm of the business. 651 00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:55,240 So, the last few years, it's no surprise to anyone that a platform has been a key part of the process. 652 00:54:55,240 --> 00:55:01,040 But, now, I've seen people get deals where they have a strong business and maybe they just haven't been showing up on social media. 653 00:55:01,060 --> 00:55:10,760 I mean, look at a lot of the therapists, and doctors, and physicians, and things that are getting great publishing deals and great books that have just been in practice for 30 years, 654 00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:18,400 they're smart, credentialed, well-known people that are just like, "I'm not going to be on Instagram a lot," and that's okay. 655 00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:27,010 So, it's like building that credibility in the marketplace will continue to be important, whether it's through social media or within your business. 656 00:55:27,020 --> 00:55:29,530 So, just getting that honed in. 657 00:55:29,710 --> 00:55:35,040 And I think we're starting to see more diversity in publishing. 658 00:55:35,740 --> 00:55:37,390 I was going to ask you, what about representation? 659 00:55:37,390 --> 00:55:46,840 It makes me so happy that publishers really have opened their eyes to the fact that we need to learn from diverse voices and 660 00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:48,670 amplify diverse voices. 661 00:55:48,670 --> 00:55:52,030 So, that's really a huge shift. 662 00:55:52,030 --> 00:56:01,300 Thank God, my friend Bex Borucki started her own publishing company, so we might see more of that, Row House Publishers, where she publishes diverse voices and experiences 663 00:56:02,230 --> 00:56:02,890 . 664 00:56:02,890 --> 00:56:02,900 Cool. That's awesome. 665 00:56:02,900 --> 00:56:07,540 And as a result of not feeling that that existed in traditional publishing. 666 00:56:07,540 --> 00:56:11,620 So, now, there's definitely more awareness, which is great. 667 00:56:11,770 --> 00:56:13,060 What else? I don't know. 668 00:56:13,060 --> 00:56:15,460 You know, the second we get off this interview, I'm going to think of one more thing. 669 00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:16,990 But those are the primary things I'm thinking. 670 00:56:16,990 --> 00:56:18,100 Those are all pretty good things. 671 00:56:18,110 --> 00:56:19,660 Those are all pretty good. 672 00:56:19,660 --> 00:56:22,690 I was going to ask you about representation, BIPOC voices. 673 00:56:22,690 --> 00:56:26,140 I definitely feel like I see that on the fiction side - I read a lot of fiction . 674 00:56:26,300 --> 00:56:29,140 So, I feel like I've gotten more diverse stories. 675 00:56:29,140 --> 00:56:30,550 I mean, these stories have always existed. 676 00:56:30,550 --> 00:56:38,680 I think the fact that we just don't get to see them very often and they are probably not being given the same opportunities and platforms and exposure. 677 00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:40,060 So, I hope that that is getting better. 678 00:56:40,060 --> 00:56:45,370 I also hope that the equity, and payouts, and things like that is getting better. 679 00:56:45,970 --> 00:56:47,260 Yeah. Exactly. 680 00:56:47,470 --> 00:56:50,170 Actually, that makes me think of one more thing - two more things, actually. 681 00:56:50,170 --> 00:56:53,950 One is that, I think we'll start to see more creative contracts in traditional publishing. 682 00:56:54,900 --> 00:57:00,830 Whereas, traditionally, the biggest chunk is the advance and then everything breaks down after that. 683 00:57:00,850 --> 00:57:07,360 I think, now, we might start to see if it's a more modest advance sales bonuses and some of those things being more prominent. 684 00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:13,170 They're happening already, but it's not as prominent, or sort of rev share models, things like that. 685 00:57:13,170 --> 00:57:16,290 So, I think people will start getting more creative with contracts. 686 00:57:16,340 --> 00:57:20,640 I mean, I think more equitable contracts as well. 687 00:57:20,670 --> 00:57:22,050 Yeah. I hope so, too. 688 00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:26,150 Maybe that'll have to be a template in my future. 689 00:57:26,150 --> 00:57:32,140 But I'm also, do you all make equitable publishing contracts? 690 00:57:32,140 --> 00:57:42,030 I would just love for you to speak quickly a little bit to that person who feels like, "I can't write a book until I have a huge following." I was stuck in that mindset for a 691 00:57:42,030 --> 00:57:49,590 long time. And I think, you know, talking about maybe how to balance what you're suggesting to people, which is like, focus on that community. 692 00:57:49,590 --> 00:57:54,070 And I know that you're talking more about depth of community versus metrics. 693 00:57:54,070 --> 00:58:04,050 But how do you do that while not staying there too long and being like, "I can't publish this business," or "I can't even start to work on a proposal because I'm not big 694 00:58:04,050 --> 00:58:04,710 enough yet." 695 00:58:04,980 --> 00:58:09,810 I mean, it's interesting because I think they go hand-in-hand in a way. 696 00:58:09,930 --> 00:58:17,250 And, again, I want to throw back to my many clients who have had smaller platforms and still gotten really great deals from major publishers. 697 00:58:17,280 --> 00:58:18,390 It's a factor. 698 00:58:18,390 --> 00:58:19,740 It's not the end all, be all. 699 00:58:19,740 --> 00:58:22,530 So, don't let it stop you from writing the book. 700 00:58:22,530 --> 00:58:26,960 But I think that the biggest piece of advice at the beginning of the process is to niche down. 701 00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:30,230 And I say all the time, a book that's for everybody is a book that's for nobody. 702 00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:40,140 And I think when people are starting out, their scope is so wide, that if they just brought the walls in a little bit and got really 703 00:58:40,140 --> 00:58:47,820 clear on what aspect of what they do, they want to write about, then it starts to energize how you show up online. 704 00:58:47,820 --> 00:58:55,530 And so, you get to then have more confidence in teaching, and being more public facing, and getting really specific in what you do. 705 00:58:55,530 --> 00:58:58,930 I mean, look, my whole business are book proposals. 706 00:58:58,930 --> 00:59:01,130 Do I edit full books? Nope. 707 00:59:01,130 --> 00:59:07,320 And people ask me that all the time, I'm like, "I know my lane." And so, that makes me a really strong expert voice. 708 00:59:07,680 --> 00:59:09,600 And so, I own that. 709 00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:19,410 And so, if you have a very broad lens for what your business is, I would ask you to sort of start shrinking that in to a focal point that's going to help you, 710 00:59:19,590 --> 00:59:24,480 not only create a better book idea, but help you show up on your platform in a more effective way. 711 00:59:24,960 --> 00:59:26,030 That's really helpful. 712 00:59:26,040 --> 00:59:27,090 Yeah, it's really helpful. 713 00:59:27,420 --> 00:59:37,020 My last question for you before we get into, what I'm labeling as, Fun Q&A - we'll see what Richelle thinks later, stay tuned - 714 00:59:37,020 --> 00:59:47,010 was about whether it's possible to write a book nowadays on your terms while also still getting it published and actually putting 715 00:59:47,010 --> 00:59:48,150 it out into the world? 716 00:59:48,450 --> 00:59:49,890 Yes, 100 percent. 717 00:59:49,890 --> 00:59:54,810 I mean, that is what's so great about this time in publishing and all the options that we have. 718 00:59:54,810 --> 01:00:01,080 And it's not that choosing a route other than traditional publishing is any type of failure. 719 01:00:01,080 --> 01:00:07,020 It's you making a decision that fits your life, and your business, and the joy, and the experience you want to have in the process. 720 01:00:07,020 --> 01:00:10,710 So, it's much more empowering than it ever has been before. 721 01:00:10,740 --> 01:00:20,730 Even now that you're saying that, I'm thinking even the route that you choose to publish the book can be on your terms because that can be to your timeline, the way you want to tell the story, the way you want 722 01:00:20,730 --> 01:00:22,980 to control the marketing and publishing of that book. 723 01:00:22,980 --> 01:00:28,830 Like, I was always thinking of it from a storytelling perspective and having somebody kind of whittle down or water down your story. 724 01:00:28,830 --> 01:00:32,670 But that makes a lot of sense too. 725 01:00:32,670 --> 01:00:34,050 All right. Well, that was so helpful. 726 01:00:34,140 --> 01:00:40,680 So, I'm going to force you to come back one day so that we can talk about kind of the next phase because you're also, obviously, a marketing PR expert. 727 01:00:40,680 --> 01:00:46,710 So, for people who maybe already have self-published, we'll talk about marketing or we'll talk about those people who might be in the book writing phase. 728 01:00:47,010 --> 01:00:51,000 But with that, I want to get into our Fun Q&A. 729 01:00:51,960 --> 01:00:55,380 I know the answer to some of these already for you, but I'm going to force you to do it anyway. 730 01:00:55,920 --> 01:01:00,840 Would you rather read fiction or nonfiction? 731 01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:08,460 Nonfiction. It's a pretty even balance, like, I'm drawn to nonfiction because a little bit of it is research and, also, I like self-improvement things. 732 01:01:08,460 --> 01:01:09,780 I like things to open my eyes. 733 01:01:09,900 --> 01:01:14,170 But if I really want to get lost in something, it might be fiction. 734 01:01:14,190 --> 01:01:17,160 Well, is there a great non-fiction book you've read lately that you would recommend? 735 01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:22,180 Yeah. I mean, I really love Dying to Be a Good Mother. 736 01:01:22,180 --> 01:01:23,940 It's nonfiction, part memoir. 737 01:01:23,970 --> 01:01:25,500 I really loved Untamed. 738 01:01:25,770 --> 01:01:27,210 Oh, yeah. Untamed was really good. 739 01:01:27,330 --> 01:01:30,960 Have you read Crying in H Mart yet? 740 01:01:30,960 --> 01:01:31,230 No. 741 01:01:31,230 --> 01:01:32,310 I can't wait to read that. 742 01:01:32,940 --> 01:01:36,360 After the post move, I was like, I can't wait to read Crying in H Mart. 743 01:01:36,690 --> 01:01:37,380 I'm really excited about that. 744 01:01:37,380 --> 01:01:38,520 I want to read that. 745 01:01:38,580 --> 01:01:42,510 I'm reading Casey Wilson's memoir right now, The Wreckage of My Presence. 746 01:01:42,510 --> 01:01:49,230 And it's both hilarious and deep, those are my qualifiers for a great book. 747 01:01:49,230 --> 01:01:52,910 Like, can you make me cry, and laugh, and smore, and sob? 748 01:01:53,080 --> 01:01:55,960 At the same time. Yeah, that's a pretty good qualifier. 749 01:01:55,980 --> 01:02:00,090 All right. We'll try to link to those below. 750 01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:04,560 Okay. Would you rather live at the beach, in the mountains, or at the desert? 751 01:02:05,100 --> 01:02:06,900 Oh, the beach. 752 01:02:06,900 --> 01:02:11,180 I mean, I'm a Southern California girl up until I moved to New York. 753 01:02:11,180 --> 01:02:12,360 And I love being near the water. 754 01:02:12,360 --> 01:02:17,040 In fact, my apartment in New York is on the water because, just, I need it. 755 01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:17,310 You need it. 756 01:02:17,310 --> 01:02:18,820 I need it. 757 01:02:18,820 --> 01:02:19,620 Yeah. 758 01:02:19,620 --> 01:02:22,140 Come visit, there's a lot of water here. 759 01:02:22,140 --> 01:02:23,930 But I love to vacation in the desert. 760 01:02:23,940 --> 01:02:29,790 It's funny, I have a friend that lives in, like, Gilbert, Scottsdale, Arizona area. 761 01:02:30,180 --> 01:02:37,080 And so, when I'm out there and in the desert, like, there's something so calming about that, just like the spaciousness and the heat. 762 01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:40,380 Have you ever done an astrological chart reading with Jen? 763 01:02:40,590 --> 01:02:41,910 Did you do one with Jen? 764 01:02:41,910 --> 01:02:42,870 With Jen? Yeah. 765 01:02:42,870 --> 01:02:45,540 Did she tell you you had a lot of water and fire signs? 766 01:02:45,750 --> 01:02:48,270 I mean, I'm like fire, fire, fire up and down. 767 01:02:48,270 --> 01:02:53,250 But I think the balance to that in the day-to-day is the water. 768 01:02:53,280 --> 01:02:57,180 Yeah. Because I needed water, but I also needed more earth. 769 01:02:57,540 --> 01:03:05,580 But she told one of my friends that being around the desert, if she couldn't live there, then at least going there many times a year was really important to her sign. 770 01:03:05,590 --> 01:03:07,650 So, I was wondering whether she told you that. 771 01:03:07,920 --> 01:03:09,180 I can get very zen in the desert. 772 01:03:09,180 --> 01:03:11,220 That's so interesting. 773 01:03:11,250 --> 01:03:14,700 All right. Would you rather have coffee or tea? 774 01:03:14,700 --> 01:03:14,710 Coffee. 775 01:03:14,730 --> 01:03:18,510 What's your go to coffee order? 776 01:03:18,520 --> 01:03:20,490 Right now, it's coconut milk latte iced. 777 01:03:20,520 --> 01:03:23,130 Do go somewhere near you in New York? 778 01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:31,200 It's funny, when I'm walking Cooper to school, yes, I will go to either Starbucks or there's a place called Jacks. 779 01:03:31,620 --> 01:03:38,820 But I've been ordering a gigantic box of cold brew from La Colombe. 780 01:03:39,570 --> 01:03:43,410 Oh, yeah. Philly's own La Colombe. 781 01:03:43,410 --> 01:03:47,990 It's so good. It's so good. It's like I have the spout coming out of the fridge and so that's most often what I do. 782 01:03:48,000 --> 01:03:50,520 That's what you do. And then, you put your own coconut milk in there? 783 01:03:50,520 --> 01:03:51,200 I do. Yeah. 784 01:03:51,200 --> 01:03:52,950 That sounds really good. And always iced? 785 01:03:54,270 --> 01:03:57,840 In the heat. And then, my winter brew is a little bit more confusing. 786 01:03:57,840 --> 01:04:04,530 I do have Lavazza Dark Roast and half Illy medium roast. 787 01:04:04,530 --> 01:04:07,860 I do a scoop of each and then in the grounds in my coffee pot. 788 01:04:08,010 --> 01:04:11,110 I shake a little cinnamon and stir it into the grounds. 789 01:04:11,130 --> 01:04:12,000 I'm telling you you'll never go back. 790 01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:13,610 So good. I know. 791 01:04:13,610 --> 01:04:15,260 That is so good. I love that too. 792 01:04:15,260 --> 01:04:16,900 All right. 793 01:04:16,900 --> 01:04:17,970 I know you love to cook, too. 794 01:04:17,970 --> 01:04:21,840 So, when you cook, do you clean up as you go or clean up at the end? 795 01:04:22,440 --> 01:04:24,120 This is a great question. 796 01:04:24,240 --> 01:04:30,120 I dump in the sink as I go and then my husband does the dishwasher. 797 01:04:30,120 --> 01:04:31,870 That's the marital agreement. 798 01:04:32,490 --> 01:04:34,440 Richelle does the hybrid option of cleaning. 799 01:04:34,470 --> 01:04:36,330 My mom is a real cleanup as you go. 800 01:04:36,330 --> 01:04:39,930 Like, is loading the dishwasher as she cooks, and I have such admiration for that. 801 01:04:40,150 --> 01:04:42,430 I am not that way, but I will dump in the sink. 802 01:04:42,450 --> 01:04:50,290 Yeah. I have a friend who her and her husband had to have a talk, and they decided that they had to clean up at least before they sat down to eat. 803 01:04:50,290 --> 01:04:54,840 Because they found that if they sat down to eat and then cleaned up after, it was like so miserable and stressful. 804 01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:56,470 So, they agreed. 805 01:04:56,470 --> 01:04:57,450 I thought that was really smart. 806 01:04:57,450 --> 01:04:58,320 I would agree with that. 807 01:04:58,320 --> 01:05:02,970 Good hybrid option. Would you rather go to a fancy restaurant or hit up the best food trucks? 808 01:05:04,590 --> 01:05:08,130 Oh, food trucks, like, 99 percent of the time. 809 01:05:08,130 --> 01:05:09,330 Do you have a favorite one? Into The Waffles, is it called Dingle? 810 01:05:10,170 --> 01:05:11,910 Waffles and Dingies or something like that. 811 01:05:15,740 --> 01:05:19,920 Yeah, that is good. There's also a grilled cheese one, I want to say it was full of grilled cheese. 812 01:05:20,130 --> 01:05:24,070 I love a Hole-In-The-Wall Mexican situation too. 813 01:05:24,070 --> 01:05:24,540 Like, really good Mexican food, taco stand. 814 01:05:24,550 --> 01:05:25,830 Taco trucks. 815 01:05:25,830 --> 01:05:25,840 Especially taco stand, yeah. 816 01:05:25,840 --> 01:05:25,850 That's the California girl in you. 817 01:05:26,130 --> 01:05:27,450 Yeah. Yeah. 818 01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:37,950 If it's my birthday, because I'm such a Leo - you know this - it's going to be a fancy restaurant with, like, 15 people. 819 01:05:38,130 --> 01:05:40,980 What's your favorite fancy restaurant you've gone to in New York? 820 01:05:41,370 --> 01:05:43,680 Oh, gosh. I mean, I love Scarpetta. 821 01:05:43,710 --> 01:05:47,170 I loved the Four Seasons before it shifted. 822 01:05:47,190 --> 01:05:48,690 I haven't been back since. 823 01:05:48,870 --> 01:05:51,780 And my mother-in-law also enjoys the fancy meal. 824 01:05:51,780 --> 01:05:57,680 So, often, my meals have been with her, so we do a lot of the Jean-Georges Restaurants and things like that. 825 01:05:57,690 --> 01:06:00,330 They always taste better when you're not paying for it. 826 01:06:00,420 --> 01:06:02,130 You and I have to go. Yeah, it does taste a little sweeter. 827 01:06:02,130 --> 01:06:03,990 There's something about that. 828 01:06:04,410 --> 01:06:06,360 You and I definitely have to go to something. 829 01:06:06,360 --> 01:06:12,300 I'm dying to go to Eleven Madison Park now, especially now that they're plant-based, even though they would do like a custom menu before. 830 01:06:12,300 --> 01:06:16,320 But I am mostly vegetarian, so I'm very excited about that. 831 01:06:16,330 --> 01:06:17,770 Yes. Come and we'll go. 832 01:06:18,180 --> 01:06:25,190 I'm down. My American Express gets you a reservation - shoutout to Amex - because they hook you up with the reservation. 833 01:06:25,270 --> 01:06:26,520 They're amazing. 834 01:06:26,970 --> 01:06:35,400 Okay. Last question because it's you, would you rather read a physical book like paperback or e-book? 835 01:06:35,400 --> 01:06:38,030 Physical book 100 percent. I don't even know where my Kindle is. 836 01:06:38,040 --> 01:06:39,150 I can't do it. 837 01:06:39,150 --> 01:06:41,730 I can't do it. I can't connect to the material in the same way. 838 01:06:41,760 --> 01:06:43,020 No. It's not the same. It's really annoying. 839 01:06:43,020 --> 01:06:45,120 I can't even do audio books, really. 840 01:06:45,120 --> 01:06:45,990 I really like to hold it in my hands. 841 01:06:46,030 --> 01:06:53,130 I get super distracted, and it probably doesn't help that the only audio book I ever tried listening to is Rachel Hollis. 842 01:06:53,130 --> 01:06:56,980 And, like, 37 seconds in, I was like, "No play, guys. 843 01:06:57,000 --> 01:07:00,030 You're gone." So, it's just- 844 01:07:00,630 --> 01:07:04,080 This is the hard part, like, if the voice doesn't resonate, then it's going to be a miss. 845 01:07:05,110 --> 01:07:06,640 I called that one years ago. 846 01:07:07,670 --> 01:07:09,950 Not for me. 847 01:07:09,970 --> 01:07:12,620 Well, thank you so much, Richelle, for doing this. 848 01:07:12,640 --> 01:07:13,730 This was so helpful. 849 01:07:13,750 --> 01:07:21,520 Will you tell everybody, not only where to find you, but what you've got coming up and how they could work with you if they love you as much as I love you already? 850 01:07:22,570 --> 01:07:23,770 Oh, thank you. 851 01:07:24,100 --> 01:07:27,250 So, purposefulplatforms.com is the website. 852 01:07:27,850 --> 01:07:31,100 You can follow me on Instagram @richellefredson. 853 01:07:31,100 --> 01:07:39,400 And the podcast, as you mentioned, is Bound & Determined with Richelle Fredson, where I teach, I interview industry experts, all the things. 854 01:07:39,430 --> 01:07:49,330 I have a group coaching program called The Book Proposal Blueprint, and I take people through a ten week program of creating their book proposal from the ground up and helping them navigate 855 01:07:49,330 --> 01:07:50,760 the agent process. 856 01:07:50,770 --> 01:07:53,880 And I also work with people one-on-one throughout the year. 857 01:07:53,890 --> 01:07:57,890 So, if you're curious, just hit me up, and we can talk about it. 858 01:07:57,910 --> 01:08:07,360 That's awesome. And it sounds like for anybody who was listening today and probably really had their eyes open to a lot of things that Richelle taught you, it sounds like The Blueprint might be a good fit, if the 859 01:08:07,360 --> 01:08:09,490 one-to-one isn't right for you at the moment. 860 01:08:09,490 --> 01:08:16,480 And you told me earlier that by the time people listen to this episode, you'll be enrolling for the February cohort of that. 861 01:08:16,510 --> 01:08:18,070 Exactly right. February 8th. 862 01:08:18,430 --> 01:08:24,550 Cool. And the best way for them to get into that is to just reach out to you through email/social. 863 01:08:24,550 --> 01:08:28,990 Purposefulplatforms.com, click on the Group Coaching tab and there's a way to set up a consult. 864 01:08:29,080 --> 01:08:30,230 Oh, perfect. Okay. 865 01:08:30,230 --> 01:08:36,190 So, we'll make sure we have that link for everybody, and we'll give you all the links to find Richelle, and the podcast, and everything in between. 866 01:08:36,220 --> 01:08:39,130 Thank you so much, Richelle, for being my first podcast guest. 867 01:08:39,430 --> 01:08:40,450 Thank you for having me. 868 01:08:40,450 --> 01:08:41,350 This is so fun. 869 01:08:45,850 --> 01:08:48,620 Thanks so much for listening to the On Your Terms podcast. 870 01:08:48,640 --> 01:08:53,290 Make sure to follow on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you like to listen to podcasts. 871 01:08:53,320 --> 01:09:00,340 You can also check out all of our podcast episodes, show notes, links, and more at samvanderwielen.com/podcast. 872 01:09:00,370 --> 01:09:08,840 You can learn more about legally protecting your business and take my free legal workshop, Five Steps to Legally Protect and Grow Your Online Business at samvanderwielen.com. 873 01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:14,510 And to stay connected and follow along, follow me on Instagram @samvanderwielen, and send me a DM to say hi. © 874 01:09:14,510 --> 01:09:14,730 2022 Sam Vander Wielen LLC | All Rights Reserved | Any use of this intellectual property owned by Sam Vander Wielen LLC may not be used in connection with the sale or distribution of any content (free or paid, written or verbal), product, 875 01:09:14,730 --> 01:09:14,860 and/or service by you without prior written consent from Sam Vander Wielen LLC.