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Welcome to the Peak Revival Podcast.

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My name is Vesna.

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Today we're gonna talk about a really hot topic, which is the

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power of language and how your words shape your life and your results.

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I did a workshop on this, in my community, and, you know, my team were telling

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me, oh, we can hear people in people's language that there's limitations there.

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And so this is a really important topic if you feel like.

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You know, you wanna look at other factors and rather than just the physical

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level things on like what I call the 3D level, the diet, the supplements,

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the labs, the routines, right?

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But

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There's something that's happening on an energetic level that's even more powerful,

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just as powerful, as changing your diet.

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you know, that seem may seem a bit farfetched, but really I've seen how

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much this plays out in people's results.

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So first of all, I wanna start you off with a quote from Bruce

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Lee who I think was something like very supernatural, let's be honest.

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He did amazing work and amazing things, and he really.

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Had control or influenced very much over his mind.

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And he said,

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"Don't speak negatively about yourself,

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not even as a joke.

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Your body doesn't know the difference."

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He said,

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"Words are energy and cast spells.

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That's why it's called spelling.

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Change the way you speak about yourself and you can change your life.

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What you're not changing, you're also not choosing."

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So that's really powerful.

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Right.

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So.

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Words will sh well, your language, what you say, when I hear people talk to

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me, when I hear people talk in our, in our group calls, I can hear in their

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language what their beliefs are, right?

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So Our language points to our beliefs

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and our beliefs shape our outcomes

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a hundred percent of the time.

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So if you believe that something is not going to work for you, it

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most likely will not work for you.

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and, there's many reasons for this, not just simply on an energetic level,

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but it's the actions that we take.

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And so our words are our language.

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Or our beliefs can be working against us, right?

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They're working against your goals.

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And so when somebody asks me, will this work for me, X, Y, Z?

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Well, it depends on what you believe.

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Like some people believe that things need to be so complicated that a diet needs

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to be so restrictive in order to work.

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And if that's your belief, then you will find something restrictive

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and then it will work for you.

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Right?

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But it can work for you without the restriction, okay?

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By really looking at your beliefs.

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the quickest way that we can do that is through our language

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and the words that we use.

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And often it's very invisible to people because your beliefs

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are second nature to you.

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You don't often see them, right?

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They look real, and so therefore they become invisible and very hard to get

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awareness of, and very hard to conquer.

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So our words and the words that we use to describe ourselves or our life or what we

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want or our goals or what's possible for us becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So Negative language keeps you trapped in your limitations.

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So if you say, I'm too old, it's never gonna happen for me anyway.

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I've always had issues sleeping.

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I've always had issues losing weight.

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All women in pre menopause gain weight, right?

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I'll never figure this out.

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I'm hopeless at this.

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I've always been hopeless at this.

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Like it will be very subtle, but it's something that you have thought for a

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long time and you don't even realize it's coming through in your language.

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again, it's pointing to what you believe.

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And in order to get the results and create the life that we want, we

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have to look at these beliefs, right?

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We have to turn them on their head because

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A belief is just something that you've thought a lot.

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That's all it is.

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It's a thought.

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It's a repetitive thought that you've thought so many times that it looks

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real and it looks real about you, but it's really just a thought.

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And so I'm not saying that you have to turn your language around to speak all

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positive and flowery and fluffy and all good things about yourself, which you feel

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like, mm, I don't really believe that.

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But at least be aware of the language that you're using and not to say it anymore.

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There is real power in that, and I'm gonna show you on a scientific level how

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much power it has on our physical body.

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So your beliefs drive your commitment, your action, and your results.

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Remember how I said it's self fulfilling prophecy?

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That is because if you don't believe you're gonna achieve

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something, you won't fully commit.

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You won't do all the things that are required to get the results.

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'cause there's a part of you that's already got one foot back out, right?

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You're not believing that it's gonna work for you.

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So I often take women through these exercise where I trigger

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this way of thinking to see like trigger their motivation.

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So ask 'em different questions.

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If this would happen and that would happen and you were, you know,

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if you were to win, $1 million at the end of losing this weight.

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You know, what would you do differently?

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Like if you, you would work much harder at it.

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You would take all the steps required, you would do all the meal

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preps, you would wake up in the morning, you would have time to meal

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prep, you would make time, right?

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And so that question was really to tap into motivation, but to really

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show you that if you believed you would get those results.

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You would take all the steps and

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When we don't truly believe,

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we actually don't take all the steps.

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We are not fully committed.

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We're not all the way in, and therefore we drop steps.

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We don't show up fully.

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We don't, I mean, I've done this myself, right?

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I've done this in my business.

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When I think, I don't think this is really gonna work.

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I put something out there and I think that's not gonna work, and I can

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see that I don't execute the plan.

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As I would for something else, right?

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Actually, don't send all the emails I drop, oh, I won't do

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that webinar or masterclass.

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Maybe I'll just, I'll short the timeline.

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Let's just close it up now, that's because I don't believe it's gonna work.

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And then I don't follow through on my actions.

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So your beliefs, which are linked to your words, so your words will show you what

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you're believing, determine the actions you do or don't take, and then will

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determine your results and your outcome.

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So, as I said, when we are looking at making changes, so when it

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comes to physical health or mental emotional health, we are looking at.

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Things like I say on the 3D, not the five D. So what, when I say 3D, I

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mean on the physical level, right?

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If I take this supplement, if I eat this specific food, if I follow this protocol

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or the exact same strategy that somebody else followed, it should work for me too.

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And when it doesn't, you may think, well, what is wrong with me?

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Or what is wrong with this program?

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Right?

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And the thing is, many people just focus on the physical.

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The visible, the tangible, the things that we can measure, you

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know, like food and lab tests and exercise routines and supplements.

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But there are things happening on an energetic level that are invisible

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that we can't see, and this is where our language comes into it.

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I wanna give you some scientific examples.

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You would've heard of the placebo effect, right?

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So this is where in scientific studies, when the testing drugs or a surgery,

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they give, you know, one part of the group, they give them the surgery or

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the medication, and the other part, they give them a sugar pill or a sham surgery.

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And the placebo effect has been proven to be just as effective and sometimes more

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effective than the actual medication.

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Okay?

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And so since the 1960s, the placebo effect has been.

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You know, a bit of a pain in the, in the side of, scientific literature because

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there is something really powerful here with the suggestion that someone may

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be getting a medication, that they may be getting the results of a surgery,

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but actually they didn't have them.

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So it's the power of the mind to create those physical changes based on words.

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Based on language, based on what somebody told you.

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Right?

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So you can see.

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On the other side of this, there's also the no SIBO effect.

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And this is where Through the power of words,

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we can create physical changes

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in somebody that are harmful.

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they've looked at scientific studies where they're told patients, You are,

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you are taking a chemotherapy solution.

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and so there was two groups again.

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One half was receiving a chemotherapy solution, the

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other half were having a saline.

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And the people that received saline were losing their hair and vomiting.

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Okay.

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And so they had no medication.

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And then they also did this to patients.

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They said, you're taking, a medication to stop you from vomiting.

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So people who were really sick with nausea, zero vomiting, and the control

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group, what they actually gave them was something to induce vomiting called iac.

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And the patients with nausea and vomiting actually stopped, vomiting, which

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is, it's just to show the power of.

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Suggest not suggestibility about our words and our beliefs, right?

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If we believe that we are taking medication that will help us, it'll

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create some positive physical changes.

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If we believe that we're taking something or doing something that is

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negative or harmful to us, it will create a harmful change in our body.

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And so when you think about when some people go to the doctor and just

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that white coat syndrome, and they get their blood pressure checked,

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their blood pressure goes up, right?

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And so there's something that's happening on an energetic level

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that's creating a physical.

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Measurable change in the body.

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And one more example, which I think is completely.

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Like it's, it's huge, right?

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So they did a placebo study.

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they were testing the effectiveness of a surgery for osteoarthritis on the knee.

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So an orthopedic surgeon in the us He was, you know, famed as being one of the

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best orthopedic surgeons that he could do the best surgery, the best knee surgery.

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And he was the best at doing this, right?

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And so he wanted to test and get data on how effective his procedures were.

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so we did a study and it was against placebo and against his surgery.

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And so what they did, they split the group and they.

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They took those in for surgery.

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So everyone thought no one knew whether they were getting the surgery or not.

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And the patients that didn't have the surgery, but they were wheeled into the

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operating theater, they were cut open and they, they saw this, they saw themselves

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in the operating theater and When they woke up, there was an incision in their

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knee, right, but they didn't have the surgery and they found at the end when

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they looked at the data, actually the patients that did not receive the surgery

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had better outcomes and better recovery.

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They were up and running around faster and better than the people that actually

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had the surgery for their osteoarthritis.

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Again, the power of the mind when it believes something to create a

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physical, measurable change in the body.

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So I'll often say to my clients, you know, when I can hear

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them talking ne negatively.

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it's like punishing, right?

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And and I try to show them the power of their language.

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And I say to them, would you ever say about the person next to you,

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gosh, I wish they got sick, or, I wish they were in a car accident.

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I mean it, I don't even like to say it here on this podcast.

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But you wouldn't say it right?

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It feels wrong.

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It feels like there's energy behind that.

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It feels like casting a spell.

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And that is because, you know, on a deeper level that our words carry

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energy And so we, we wanna be careful with the words that we choose.

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We wanna be careful of how we speak to ourselves because most of the

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things that we think and that we.

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Feel about ourselves are untrue.

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They're just things that we've been thinking for a long time.

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Okay?

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It doesn't make them more true, it just means we've been stuck on

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the same thought for a long time.