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Everyone is just so easily offended and everyone's looking something

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to be offended over. I used the word sheep in a comment and

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How many people don't like Trump? How many people think that America is

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going to go to shit and Trump gets in? I think a lot of people want to kill him.

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You reckon it's scripted? Scripted? No. It's so hard to give money

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Seriously? Not knocking Beyond Blue, but a little bit ridiculous that

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they wouldn't accept raised funds. The group was branded

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that we promote rape culture in Australia and it was my

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Welcome to the Better Bloke Podcast. I'm Matty. I'm Rob. And

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we're just a pair of average blokes on a mission to try and be a

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We're going to speak about all things highs and lows of what it feels like to be a bloke,

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plus speak to some legends along the way about what it takes to be a better bloke. Let's

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Welcome back to the Better Bloke Project. We're here with the

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OG founder of Bloke's Advice and the third

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member of Better Bloke Project. You're making your debut

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Oh, I don't know. Yeah, me neither. I don't

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Welcome to the set. Thank you. It's good to finally be here. Bit

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of a process getting here, but thanks for having

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No, probably not a shout out to Jetstar, but just for

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any future endorsement deals that might be coming our way. But

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yeah, I won't be flying Jetstar for the foreseeable

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future. No, not a fun experience? Well, we

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missed our flight yesterday. We had

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to, it was an expensive day. So yeah,

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missed our flight by two minutes and there was no leniency. So

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yeah, it was just ridiculous. So I think Jetstar has

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like moved their time to, it's now 40 minutes. You have

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to be there 40 minutes before where all the other airlines are 30. Stitched

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Taken aback. It's been what, eight, nine years ago since, you

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know, you kickstarted. 2016, yeah. Kickstarted this little Facebook page

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Right? Yeah. It's a long time, long time ago now. It

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Those first couple of years were really chaos. It

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was a whirlwind. Um, you were, you were a young bloke at the time now

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and not so much anymore if you're grazing the deer, but walk

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us through like, how your life was sort of

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chaotically changing, dealing with this like

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sudden, what would you call it? It was almost like a cultural phenomenon.

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Yeah, it, mate, I was, uh, a

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uni student sitting in a lecture at the back of a lecture when it all

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kind of kicked off and was kind of just like inviting my

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mates in that were in the uni lecture and you could just kind of

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see like one by one it was like a because I was like sitting at the back

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so like you could see like all their heads kind of roll and then it

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just blew up like as Rob would know Rob was in

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it from an early stage it just went absolutely nuts.

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It was the, I'd call it the wild, wild west of

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Facebook. It was when stuff was unregulated. It

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was just, yeah. Uncensored. Uncensored. It

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was just, yeah, it was, it was a crazy, crazy time. Um,

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and I guess having no experience in running a Facebook group,

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it was just, yeah, the first, the first month was just wild, wild.

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Um, but. As yeah, it was just

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like, what's the word? Yellow.

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Yeah. Okay. No, unsustainable, unsustainable.

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Yeah. Very different to the word yellow. Um, but

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yeah, so kind of moved it with the help of Rob and

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a couple of other pretty important boys moved the page in a

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more sustainable, um, like direction. And yeah,

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About eight years. People always talk about it like, because obviously

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the variety of posts that go up, there's a

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little bit of something for everyone. Yeah. And sometimes still it

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ticks people off and they're like, nah, this is bloke's advice. This

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shouldn't be in bloke's advice. And it's like, who's to say what it is?

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No one. That's the, that's the beauty of the page. It's, there

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is something for, for like for everyone, you know, there's something for

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you, there's something for you, something for me. Um, But

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yeah, it's the, it's the beauty of the page and that's what makes it so unique is

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there's, it caters to someone from 18 all

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up until like my dad's age at 65, you know, like he's

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on it and a couple of like other older boys I know they froth it,

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you know, cause like there's stuff about cars and motorbikes and

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I think the way that with what you were saying before was sort of the way that we

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all took it to what it is now. A lot

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of people bitch and moan about that. But it

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had to go that way or else it would be non-existent now. Absolutely. With

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Dude, you've seen what it's like now. I use

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the word sheep in a comment and I got banned for

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30 days because that was bullying.

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I wasn't even saying it in that sense, but unfortunately

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that's the world we live in today where everyone's

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a pussy. It's fair. Yeah. It's

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the nicest way of putting it is everyone is just so easily offended

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and everyone's looking for something to

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And I think that's what's made Bloke's advice. continue on its journey,

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what it is, as much as everyone goes like, oh, you know, admin

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are doing this and this and this, we don't let

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anyone not talk about whatever the fuck they want. It's so,

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all the bands that get handed out, like you just said with, you know, using

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the term sheep and that, that all comes down from the algorithm that just comes through.

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Facebook's got their AI pumping now, which is kind of like,

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without us doing it as reined in what can happen inside

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the group. Yeah. But like, as long as you're somewhat civil in

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your discourse, you can talk about whatever the hell you want. And I

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mean, still plenty of space to offend some people and

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At getting offended. I mean, I'm a lot smarter in how I do it

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now. But it comes back to that whole what we were talking about the other day. People

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can't just say shit and not expect a rebuttal that they're not going to

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All behind a keyboard. I love it. But now I'm not doing it

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behind a keyboard. I'm looking at you while I'm doing it. Yeah. Rob's not

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tough at all. No, I'm not. Just cuddle me. Like

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I said, none of the way that we directed it had any

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input on which way it was already going. We may have just- We

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It was the members ultimately who dictated where

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we went. We really just jumped on

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and we've been along for the ride ever since. Yeah, we

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might try and help it go in a certain direction if it's veering off

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track, but Yeah. It's the

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With, with the early days. So you, you come under a bit of fire back

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in the early days. A little bit. We won't go into too

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Okay. So there was, we'll

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use the, the big under fire moment. Was

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Page 11, baby. Page 11. So I was meant to be,

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we were meant to be, but unfortunately it was

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my face on the thing. We were meant to be page

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one of the Sunday Mail, but... Benny

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Barber was up to trouble again. He stole the

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limelight and he was page one. So I think we, yeah, page 11. And

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the group was branded that we promote rape

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culture in Australia. And it was my face

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that was attached to that. Um, and the, it

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was ridiculous because everyone wanted to, every

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news agency, they wanted a piece. Everyone wanted to

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do the story. And I knew someone who was, uh,

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in the career mail at the time. So I was like, I've drank with

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that dude. I've partied with him. He's a good dude. He's not going to throw me

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under the bus, dude. Right under. Do

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you know what? I actually need a car jack or something

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to get me out underneath the bass that I got thrown under. It

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was ridiculous. It just got

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completely thrown out of context. His whole article was just

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negative, negative, negative, negative, negative, negative. And

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at the end it was like, and Brock wants to do good with the

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group in the future. That was like the last little bit. I was like, so

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yeah, it was a two page spread. My mug. on

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Shout out, shout out Devo. Rolled me a, rolled me a

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tailor. No filter as he likes to do it. And

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yeah, got a, got a photo on the OG, OG shirt for it.

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Yeah, it's probably not the best headline. But now we get to talk about it. Do you remember

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Or maybe it was the online one. It was Bloke's Advice's Disgusting

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and Brutal Guide to Raping Women. Oh, wow. That's what's online

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to this day. And we should probably mention the

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whole thing stemmed from, in the early days, I think it

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No, I'll tell you. Sorry. I'll tell you what it stemmed from, that thing.

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It was a Jake the Musk meme. that's what it was. Someone

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put in the group, it was a Jake the must meme, which everyone's probably seen the movie

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Jake the must, not the greatest role model for your kids, but

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it's a movie, all right? So anyway, someone put a

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meme up, it was something, I think it was about cook me some eggs or

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it was something, and that's what they grabbed. And

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so that was the whole, that's where it started. And

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then unfortunately, it's like a couple of comments from different

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people, which Like, at the time, how

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That year, I think we would have got somewhere around 15 million fucking

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comments. Like, it was literally, there

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was almost like eight, nine hundred thousand people by the time

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that group ended. Like you said, Wild West,

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chaos. It was unfiltered. Facebook didn't take anything down. So

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Nah, you lose that many comments. Like when that

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many comments are coming through on a post, you lose them until unfortunately, the

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algorithm will put that section of comments in someone's feed and

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But even then there was like, there was this hype around it because

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at that point it was still like the secret group. Oh yeah. And it was like

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invite only. And there was this big hype going around that. There

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was so many burner accounts getting made by a

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Oh yeah. They found my, um, they found my home number. So

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they found, so you've both met my mum, shout out Jano, absolutely

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lovely lady. One of the best. Actually one of

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the best. Um, so you could imagine her,

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this sweet, sweet little lady getting phone calls from very, very

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angry females, um, telling them that they, yeah, wanted

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to kill me wanted to do this I've got it you've like you've got

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it coming to you so it was a bit of a scary time

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as well you know because you didn't know what was going

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to happen and like that whole um uh like

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feminist movement but the aggressive like what's the like

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uh toxic feminine yeah yeah that whole movement man

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I don't know. Are we going to attach it to Clementine? Cause she embodies the not hot

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Talking about someone who was hot. Off

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Off all that controversy, it did see the growth, right?

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Yeah, absolutely. So whenever you stand for something and

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we stood for bloke culture and not being offended, don't

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be a fucking snowflake, it saw... Also not

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raping though, they just took that out of context. Yeah, that was fully out of context. We

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don't condone that. So obviously it offended a lot of people. Yeah. At

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the same time, that controversy is what made people

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love it as well. That's what draw people in. Yeah. And you saw a lot

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of growth off like kind of having two sides and

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Well, yeah, it's like with, I guess without that, what

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you just said, we wouldn't have grown. I don't think we would have grown to where

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we, like where we got to and where we are today. And

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without, without growing, I guess, to that rate, we wouldn't have

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been able to do all the fantastic things like that we've done, you

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know? Um, and like, I remember, I think I was, was I

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speaking to you before I took that, um, career article?

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the Korea Mail article. I can't remember if it was you. I'm pretty sure

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it was though. And Rob was just like, any

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publicity is good publicity at the moment. And

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that's what, and you know what? And yeah, I just, I ran with that

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and it did, you know, like it was, and I guess you, you

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bottle that up with the, the secrecy of the

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group, you know, like, of course blokes want to get involved, you know, they want to

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see what we're up to. They want to see what we're doing. And then I guess

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when the word gets out about all the fantastic things that we were doing, Everyone

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It sort of makes it like that, that bit of secrecy and like taboo

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of like this old man's club. Yeah. Like

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if you're, if you're a bloke and you're not part of it, you're missing the fuck

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out. Yeah, absolutely. Everyone wanted in. I remember we were at

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EH years ago and it was literally,

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that was like every fucking conversation was like, were you in

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Only the ones, but it may be for life. Sorry, it's

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It's 2099. It says on it. Oh, that's right. Yeah. So

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Here's what it is. But like everywhere in

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that peak time, everywhere you would go out.

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I remember I went to, did you ever go GPO? A

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couple of times. Shout out GPO. Stomping ground for many years. I

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remember one of the bartenders just was like, he frothed it.

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And I think I got in there at nine o'clock. It is the drunkest

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I have ever been. I think in my, there's photos I had

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at my cover photo on Facebook for a while. One of the boys actually dropped me home at like

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one, one o'clock, I think. And he took a photo of me.

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I was like passed out in the front yard of my house.

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He somehow got me to the back door. I don't remember. I opened

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the garage door. Remember like at that place? Garage door

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went out and crawled into the dog's kennel where my parents found

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me. I don't remember. I woke up in my bed the

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next morning, completely changed, bucket, towel next

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to me. And I was like, well, my parents undressed me.

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Yeah, and put me back outside. Yeah. But

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yeah, he was in it. So he was just lining up shots.

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And then boys were wearing their BA, the OG

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BA shirts, out underneath their button up shirts. So

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they'd open it up. It was cool. It was a cool part of

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like, it was a cool couple of years. It was sick. Yeah.

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But yeah, I guess we've just gone

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down a different path now, which is fantastic. We

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always wanted to get to where we are now, doing

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what we're doing, but we almost didn't have the tools

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and the know-how. It's pretty

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cool to see how far it's come. the

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It's kind of cool in the sense that, so when we were all like,

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what, 2016, so we were all early 20s, 18 and all

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that sort of stuff. 22, I think I was. Yeah, so early 20s

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then. So everyone was like loose in that period. Very loose.

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BA was loose at that time too. Very loose, yeah. Now, we're

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all grown up. BA's grown up with us and it's sort of

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like, it's like BA's sort of grown up and BA's like, I need to stop partying.

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I need to stop getting on it. I'm going to get a job. I'm

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going to do the right thing in society. That's what BA's done.

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So BA has grown up as we

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It's just evolved with us. That's all it is. But also very unsustainable to

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And that's, and that's what I mean. It's like with me, 22 was

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very loose. Like it's. Yeah.

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I had no idea what I was doing. No idea. Didn't know how to run a Facebook

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group. Didn't know you could approve posts. Like,

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so like everything was just getting approved, like straight away. It

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was just on the feed. So

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At the start, like it had all this loose stuff, but

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it also quickly developed the camaraderie side

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of it. Yeah. So you mentioned before, like all the good shit. Yeah, of course. That

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was all happening during this crazy period. I know. And it

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was almost like even bigger for it because there was such a

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strong bond between this fight club of a secret group.

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Yeah. What are some of like the first things that

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kind of kicked off inside the group, whether it was the raising

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I think the very first one was, it

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was just to the point where I was like, do you know what? I think we could probably do, we

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could do something good. There's this many blokes here, everyone's

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keen to do something. We raised, I think it

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was like 30 grand for a, it was a local men's shelter

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who, it was like a boxing shed. 26K. Yeah,

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yeah. Yeah, so we raised that for

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them, which helped them improve their facilities and get blokes

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down to there. I mean, honestly, the

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list is so big of what we've done, like paid for weddings,

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we've paid for funerals. We've

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helped out when there's been an outcry, we've

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tried to help where we can. So

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And that's only the stuff that has been recorded.

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via like the actual posts itself by donation. Absolutely. The

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amount of boys that- Man, behind the scenes? Yeah, that have gotten around other

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stuff. And like, I mean, how many boys have gone out and

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just, I think it was only a couple of months ago, someone put a post up about an old bloke in

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a house and a whole bunch of guys went around and just fixed his house

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Yeah, nothing to do with us. It was just a connection. That happened when

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Cairns flooded as well. The boys with the boats went out

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and helped. I think something happened with flyers over in WA recently.

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Yeah, exactly. So it's just, yeah,

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the power of the group's just been fantastic. Like it

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When Zuckerberg's not bending us over. Might have enjoyed it though.

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Yeah. It's um, going

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back to The, the 26 K for

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that, the men's shit. Yeah. It wasn't always meant to

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It was, um, so like we raised it

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for beyond blue, but because we didn't

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go down the right raising. platform or

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whatever, they wouldn't accept the money. And

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then I'm pretty sure I tried a

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couple of like those mental health kind of charities and

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no one wanted to take the money because it wasn't done through their correct like

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fundraising avenues. So

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it just got to the point where I was like, well, how about we just help, let's

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help someone local who's struggling and try and make a

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difference that way. So yeah. Probably

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made a bigger impact. 100%. 100% it would have.

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Not knocking Beyond Blue, but a little bit ridiculous that they

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Yeah. We touched on this on a couple of episodes ago that

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But it takes so much to actually do good. It's kind

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We'll also just, on the record, we'll take anything that

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anyone wants to throw our way. We're not picky. No.

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We're not picky. No, we're not. We're not picky. Clearly

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Yeah. We just need a massive Facebook page to be

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Yeah, there's a couple trying, but I think that's the thing, like BA set

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It was like, if you go back, Just BA

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set up this whole different culture. It wasn't there

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online or anything before BA. So

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many things stemmed, like the whole bloke this,

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bloke that, bloke this. As soon as bloke's advice happened,

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Yeah. It changed everything. And it, it even, it came before the podcast game

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really kicked off. So like there's all these podcasts now that kind

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of embody what that BA was. Yeah. There's other... Puppercats. You

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I stand by that. Me too. It's like, what, cause you

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didn't invent the term bloke by no means. Bloke's been

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Yeah. Okay. Sorry. But like you, you

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definitely like reinvigorated the word in

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that time, because before that, like Blokesweld, like

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I reckon they probably got in a little bit

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earlier. I'm actually not going to knock them at all. They're

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Should we, um, kick it onto some other points of conversation?

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Cause we did this episode, like maybe episode four, something

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like that. And we ended it early and we had a whole

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bunch of people that were saying it should

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have gone on longer, but I felt like we couldn't kick it on until

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Brock got here. Do you know the one I'm talking about? Not a clue. It's

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This is very tearful. You take this, Dan. What's your favourite one? Where are

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Yeah, honestly, how much time do you have? How much time do you have?

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Yeah. Now, do you know what I find interesting at the moment is

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the whole assassination attempt. What

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I think it was legitimate. How many people don't like

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Trump, right? How many people think that America is going to go to

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shit if Trump gets in? I think a lot of people want

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You reckon it's scripted? No. Bro, that photo

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of him, he's got like blood on his face. He's

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got like the most pathetic secret service team, clearly

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paid actors, like hugging him. And he's like this, and

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then he's got the American flag behind him. I'm like, that is the most,

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it's out of a movie. It's album cover. Man, that

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Man, do you know what? There's a lot of other words I'd use

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to describe Biden, apart from lizard man, but also don't

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No, look what happened with Kyle. No, actually he

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Oh, tenacious D. I haven't seen that. I

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He said some inappropriate things as a birthday wish. And

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can you, can you repeat them or not? Oh, I can. Cause I'm just

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powerful. You're the, you're the messenger. Yeah. Quotation marks. Quotation marks.

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So I think it was his birthday in Sydney at their Sydney gig. And

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for his birthday wish, he wished that the shooter doesn't

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miss next time. Like, you

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know, this, this was like two days after, so it was still fresh.

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They're comedians at the same time. Actually illegal, apparently. Like

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But also didn't like, um, I read somewhere that Biden had

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put a bullet. He basically said, put Trump in your bull's

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Okay. If he said that, why would a radical follower not

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do what he said? And then it's not scripted. It's legitimate attack

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on Trump. It could be like, you have to feel like there's a lot of people that

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Yeah, do you know what, dude? And

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I love Trump though, so it wasn't me. I

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Yeah. I'm glad we got that scoop here on this

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Matt wasn't there. Next, next

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Not a theory, but what are your thoughts on chemtrails? And

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this is shout out Alex, by the way, he loves my, uh, made our work with

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loves me talking about this at work. Cause in Adelaide, you can just see him

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I don't know enough about chemtrails. Like, is that come down to like cloud

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It's legit. It's a legit thing. It's been proven that it's a legit thing. They put like

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Yeah. But why is that? But people think it doesn't happen. People

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It still is though. That's my thoughts. Exactly. It's a fact. But

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people are like, oh, you're a conspiracy theorist. Take your tinfoil hat off. And I'm like, yeah,

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Oh, bro. That's a conspiracy. Is

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there a number I can call? Like, fuck all the police? You

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know, I actually called the police because I got robbed. There's been an assault. Yeah,

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I guess assault on my manhood, but like also robbed. So

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I hadn't had a haircut in a while. Um, booked one

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last night. So like your normal haircut price at

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the moment, like I told you guys at Brachy this morning, it was like your normal haircut

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price is between 50, 50 and 60 bucks. I

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A one all over? Yeah. What do you do it yourself? No, but then they do my beard and

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Yeah. My guy. So like, you know, and I'll lay back and they towel

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my face and then they put all this smelly shit under there. And

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then. I'm getting hot and sweaty too. Nah, but I actually,

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this is going to be a bit rough to hear this. I got violated last

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Like as bad as I did. This is worse. Dude,

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So I was lying back had my eyes shut

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while he's doing me big. So I didn't want my little shit to go in my eyes obviously. Hate

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shit in my eyes. I then come up and one

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of the boys I know is sitting over there. I'm like, Oh, hey, man. He's like,

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yeah, I didn't go down to the gym later on the day. And

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up on the all-star boxing pages story, he's put me sleeping with

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Like he didn't even know the photo was, didn't even have a clue

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Yeah, well, I, yeah, I got, I

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Yeah. Again, but you know what? I got raped, man,

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Financially. Financially. So yeah. Woke

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in, walked in this morning. Lovely dude. Not

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So, $60, like I was saying, normal price for a

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haircut between $50 and $60. So, I was happy to pay that.

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Went in and I was like, man, do you reckon like – I haven't touched my beard. I was just

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like, do you reckon – half a bid. I was like, can

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you just line it up? Make it look just a little bit neater than it is. And he's like, oh

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man, you booked in for a 45 like minute session. I

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don't know if I'll be able to do it. And I was like, oh, okay, no stress. All

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good. So anyway, I got to the end, he pumped it out in half an hour. So he goes, we've

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got 15 minutes free. I can do it if you want. I

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was like, that'd be fantastic. So gave me like

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a little line up there, just like kind of shaved under here a little bit, ran

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the trimmer through there. That was it. Took him probably five minutes max. Did the whole

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tower, like tower treatment. Got up to the counter and

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it was $95 on the thing. And I just kind

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of, it was one of those moments where you just go, you tap

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it and then you walk out and I was like, I just got assaulted. And

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then I phoned my fiance and I said, I've just been robbed. I

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just got robbed. Classic Gold Coast. So $35 to line

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up your beard and just take a little bit off that. So it was essentially I

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Yeah. See, the barber I go to, it's

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50 bucks cash. It's just cash. It's all cash. Yeah.

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That's beard and hair. Mind you, it doesn't take much to cut. I was going to

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say, I'll do it for 50 bucks. Well, usually Jess does it. Do you give

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her 50 bucks? No. Oh,

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wow. Yeah. Yeah. Shit. Now I feel bad. I would,

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Yeah. Before you

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got financially assaulted by the barber. Yeah.

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your clustered fight of

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a travel up BJS style. You came from Adelaide. I

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did come from Adelaide. Where you now live with

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the missus and the little one. Yep. And you're doing an apprenticeship.

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It's very loosely, very loosely. They

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So yeah, I started, um,

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when I moved back from the Sunshine Coast, I started that and

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yeah, it's been, been fantastic ever since. So

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How are you finding, going back on the tools, like

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Yeah, definitely. My body hurts a lot more. Um,

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just like you see some of these young kids just like throwing

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around stuff. And I'm like, man, I used to be able to do that, but

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like, I can't anymore. Like you do that. I'm like, that's a back, that's my

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knees. And like, you're wearing a nail bag around all day and it's just, yeah,

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the wear and tear on your body is definitely, um, Yeah,

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it hurts. It hurts. You definitely come home like a

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little bit more tired and just don't have that pep

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in your step you had when you were 20. But no, it's been

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good. I'm lucky enough to work with some good guys. Got

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a fantastic boss. Shout out Jesse to

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give me the time off to come down here and do this. He's a big believer in what we're doing.

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Yeah, I was going to correct him too. I hate it when people do that. Yeah. What? You

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You came up. Yeah. Man, it's

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my pet peeve too, but I'm so used to like being

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in Queensland and going down. We'll just move back to

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Queensland then. Don't worry, mate. It's on the

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cards. It's getting off that plane and it being like

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20 degrees sunshine and yesterday, like Adelaide,

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You can tell that you've adjusted, like we're both sitting here in hoodies and you're just... Man,

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I was walking around in shorts and a shirt yesterday afternoon and

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people were like, aren't you cold? I was like, bro, it's like...

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I was telling you boys, um, at breakfast, there was a day, a

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couple of weeks ago, it was actually a couple of days that it

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dropped to like zero degrees in Adelaide. So

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it was like the coldest, the coldest morning on history in Adelaide, where

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it, it was like zero degrees and felt like

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negative three. So I had, I had a singlet, my

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long sleeve, my jumper, a jacket, and

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like a vest on over that. And I was still like uncomfortable.

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So yeah, it's not, um, it's not ideal.

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So yeah, I think we'll probably in the next couple of years start trying to

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make some little adjustments to, to get back

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To get back to God's country. Yeah. It is the best

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state to be in. It is absolutely the best state. Like there is

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Probably don't bring that up if you want to keep all your teeth. If I'm being fair

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After we finished these episodes, sometimes he's shadow

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When we walked in, we both, we both went to shadow box each other. And we're like, uh,

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Um, something that you've been thrown into pretty

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hard by the sounds of things is parenthood. Yeah. So

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I'm the dude that doesn't know about kids. We can tell. For the

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How old is he? You're lucky you're pretty. Let's

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restart that. So you're a new dad, bro. Yeah, thank you. Congrats.

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How are you finding being a dad? Yeah, good. I'm, I'm really lucky.

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I like I have a fantastic fiance who is

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just the greatest mother and partner. She

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makes being a parent very, very easy. We've

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got a pretty easy kid. He's very highly strung, like

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me. He's very go, go, go. But He's

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good. We get 12 hours sleep a night. He goes down at seven, gets

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up at seven. So that's pretty good. Yeah. Yeah. I don't

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get that. Yeah. So he's, um, he's a,

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it's man, it comes down to my, my fiance, man. She's just

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a, an absolute guru at being

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a, being a mother. So she's just got all his nap times down to a

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tea. She's got everything. She runs a tight ship, runs

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a tight ship, but it's good because it just means we get sleep.

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Seriously, you kind of have to have all your wits about you. Don't

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get me wrong, there's a couple of nights that might be a rough night where he's up

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a little bit, but you definitely feel that a little bit more in

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the mornings. All in all, I've been

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Has it been that long? As long as it has. Yeah.

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If you move down there, just as she, if they months, I

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use in like months, it gets into like, cause I, it's like a

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year and three months, you know? So like, but I think

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Why don't you just use weeks? Like, Oh yeah. I've

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Yeah. Cool. All right. Maybe I was like, no, maybe I

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I'm prepared to let you just to see what that looks like. I don't

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know, man. He's a big, he's a big boy. It's Oregon. It's gonna look

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I think that's exactly what it would look like, but we might have

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to find out cause who was talking shit about some

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other podcasts earlier. Someone was talking shit and

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Sounds like Brock's definitely the shit talker between the three of us. Yeah.

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Maybe. Yeah. But you know, look,

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if anything does happen with any podcast competitions,

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Yeah. So Brock versus Spaniel or something. We just get him in

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He's such a G, isn't he? He's such a G. He's a weapon of

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He's a G. Yeah. See, that's another bloke going back

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to what we were talking about before with sort of BA turning into

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what it is now. He's done the same thing. Absolutely. All

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his shit that he started with, he was, Pretty thug.

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He's great. He's great. He still is. But he's like, he's grown with his

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following. Yeah. And shout out to Spaniel. And

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if you want to jump on here, I will a hundred percent fly back for that

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because yeah, that is a, that's a dude that has

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my respect that, that the light, one of the latest ones

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where he was somewhere in, I think it was South America and

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Yeah. Nuts. And all you need to look at is

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like what he's doing. overseas with

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like he's into the hoods and all that sort of stuff. There was a couple of, I think maybe a

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month or two back, um, that whoever

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was helping him get over there was like, Oh, we want you to do this. And he was like, no, fuck

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you. I'm not like, like this is a hood because it's

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like a third world country that you're in a hood because they want to promote

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it or whatever. And he just went like, nah, I'm not, I'm

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not getting about this because they can't help that. And I was just like, fuck that.

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And that's, I like when he jumps on his stories and he says this kind

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of stuff and it's, you know, less scripted than the YouTube

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videos. It's very authentic. And I think he's found his,

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his sort of pace at talking about himself and what

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he believes. He's just sharing it like authentically and

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I don't, do you know what? I don't think he lasts a round. No?

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Nah. Cause to be honest, I'm pretty quick. So I'd

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This is where you look down the barrel and you say that. I don't

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Oh, don't think you'd last a round. That's

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You'd have him. I'm confident. I'm putting money on you. It'll

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Yeah. I think it'd be like a hundred bucks, a

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hundred. I think the Spaniard would be like a dollar one. Actually, I

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think he'd probably be paying like 99 cents. You'd actually lose money betting

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Yeah. Yeah. Well, that's, that's fair, but fair

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judge pigs. Is it like F A I R

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or F A R E? That's a different one.

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Speaking of 50 cent fares in Queensland now, another reason for you to Come

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50 cent fare. I thought you meant like a fare for 50 cent. It

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Yeah. We can finish this podcast off with a

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I reckon. Yeah. Is there anything else you want to get out there before we

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Not really, unless you two- Have you got

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any big plans coming up with,

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like what's your, so you said like long-term you want to move back

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Yeah, I guess it's just finishing off my apprenticeship, gaining

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all the knowledge to put me in a good spot for if we do move that

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I can kind of fit into any company or construction

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mob up here. If that's the direction that like

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me and the family want to go. Not really,

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mate. It's just getting our house finished down at home, like down back

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in SA, a little bit to go there and then, yeah,

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You can't finish a fucking car. Buy

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Fair call. Fair call. No, we didn't finish.

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We actually sold the bus. Oh, you don't. Yeah. Okay. Sold the bus. That's actually

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a bit of a touchy subject, Matt. You're getting really closer to losing those teeth

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And then Valiant as well. Poor Rob. You

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He was showing me earlier. He's like, I'm looking at entering

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my first ever one of those raffle giveaways. And it was Mighty Car

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Mods. Yeah, Mighty Car Mods. They're giving away a car trailer. And

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Yeah. Yeah. So, I mean, a car

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Yeah, that's true. I'll get there. I actually, I

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actually bought some lotto tickets last night. Did you? Yeah, 10 mil. Don't

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What's the first thing that, what do you want? I'd like to finish the valve. I'll finish the

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Thanks, man. I'll finish the valve for you. Oh, cool. That's it. Do you want another Swift?

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No, they're still going. And they're expensive. The new ones are like $36,000. Oh, too

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You can't have one of them. We're just going to keep talking shit

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Yes. On that note guys, we're going

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to call it quits. It was so good having you on and having a recap on

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all those early days. People still talk about the glory

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I think the glory days are to come. I think so too. We're on

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a different path. What we're doing now is

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I think once we kind of... And like, sorry, to bring

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back to what you said, big plans, I think it's this. I think this is

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the ultimate goal at the moment is us getting

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traction with Better Blokes Project and getting art like

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this out there so more men know what we're doing and want to jump on

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