We've journeyed together for almost 30 incredible episodes in this
Ralph:series, and we've worked together building powerful financial habits
Ralph:and finding contentment and really anchoring our confidence in Christ.
Ralph:But now you might be saying, Ralph, what happens now that the series is ending?
Ralph:Is financial peace a destination you just reach?
Ralph:Or can it truly be a lifelong journey of growth and faithfulness?
Ralph:Stick with me today 'cause we're gonna embrace the path forward together.
Ralph:Hey there, and welcome back to your daily, financially Confident Christian.
Ralph:I'm Ralph and it is great to be here again with you today as we talk about
Ralph:the things of faith, and we answer that big question, how can I become
Ralph:a financially confident Christian?
Ralph:That's our goal.
Ralph:Today is a really special day as we begin to wrap up this series of dealing
Ralph:with the stress of money worries.
Ralph:And over the past 30 days, we've walked through major transformation.
Ralph:We've transformed our mindsets, we've built practical habits, and
Ralph:we've integrated faith into every one of those financial decisions.
Ralph:And if you've been with me the whole time, I just wanna say thank you and
Ralph:think about how much you've learned.
Ralph:And if you miss some of 'em, you can always go back and check 'em out.
Ralph:We've explored big topics like challenging consumerism and cultivating gratitude.
Ralph:We talked about defining values, trusting God, breaking that impulse, buying trap,
Ralph:and making every dollar serve a mission.
Ralph:And today we're gonna start to bring all those pieces together
Ralph:and really embrace this ongoing journey of financial stewardship.
Ralph:So let's ask this question today.
Ralph:Am I truly embracing the lifelong journey of savvy and faithful stewardship?
Ralph:That's really my focus and my goal today.
Ralph:Am I truly embracing that lifelong journey of savvy and faithful stewardship?
Ralph:And you're listening right now.
Ralph:Maybe you feel this, you've made some incredible progress.
Ralph:You're feeling more confident, you're feeling less stress.
Ralph:You're starting to feel some of that peace.
Ralph:Part of you says, you know what?
Ralph:Crap, great, great, great.
Ralph:30 days I'm done.
Ralph:I wanna be done with this money work.
Ralph:I just don't wanna worry about it anymore.
Ralph:Maybe right now you're afraid that a setbacks gonna undo all your progress.
Ralph:Man, I've been there.
Ralph:And see, here's the struggle we're talking about.
Ralph:The struggle is really seeing financial peace as a destination.
Ralph:We can't do that.
Ralph:We can't.
Ralph:We can't always be looking at financial pieces of destination,
Ralph:some that we've reach and then Hey, hey, destination's over.
Ralph:We made it, the bus stops here and we stop.
Ralph:' cause that's not how financial peace works.
Ralph:'cause If you do that, you're going to find yourself in a place of complacency.
Ralph:You're gonna win and then discouragement, and then quitting
Ralph:after you lose sometimes.
Ralph:'cause you're not gonna win all the time.
Ralph:Maybe for you, like me, maybe you're burdened by perfection.
Ralph:You just have this perfectionist mentality.
Ralph:I've heard many people say that to me, Ralph, you're just such a perfectionist.
Ralph:Maybe you're listening right now and you feel that same way
Ralph:and you feel burdened by that.
Ralph:And instead of embracing this ongoing relationship with money,
Ralph:and more importantly, this ongoing relationship with God, now I'm done.
Ralph:God, you've given me what I need.
Ralph:I'm good.
Ralph:The problem is that static mindset, that belief that it's just this
Ralph:destination reach and I'm done.
Ralph:It causes stress and that stress just blocks resilience and it
Ralph:blocks the true growth that you have the capacity to get to.
Ralph:Here's the thing I want you to understand.
Ralph:My big takeaway for today, if you hear nothing else, I say, I got a lot to
Ralph:say today, but if you hear nothing else I say today, I want you to hear this.
Ralph:Financial stewardship isn't a program that you just check the boxes and complete.
Ralph:I can't give you a course on, Hey, financial stewardship.
Ralph:Here you go.
Ralph:You've won.
Ralph:Here's your diploma.
Ralph:Go enjoy life.
Ralph:It doesn't work that way.
Ralph:Financial stewardship is a lifelong discipleship journey.
Ralph:I talk about this on the show all the time.
Ralph:It's a journey.
Ralph:My weight loss right now is a journey.
Ralph:My, my health, you know, decisions are a journey.
Ralph:Financial stewards is the same thing.
Ralph:It's a process of learning, learning new skills, learning to
Ralph:adapt to some of those skills.
Ralph:But it's a process.
Ralph:It's a process of growing.
Ralph:And when you first started this, you might say, I, Rob, I even thought
Ralph:about, donating to charity or tithing.
Ralph:Man, I'm, I'm up to 20% now.
Ralph:That's growth.
Ralph:And I hope at the end of this, at the end of this series, we're gonna
Ralph:start another one, just a couple days.
Ralph:But I hope you're growing this reliance on God.
Ralph:'cause here's the thing you gotta understand, life brings new seasons
Ralph:at, at 52, I'll be 53 in September, I've started to realize that life is a bunch
Ralph:of seasons kind of strung together.
Ralph:There's this season, there's that season, there's seasons of, I
Ralph:remember when my kids were real young.
Ralph:That was a season of, I'll call it early fatherhood.
Ralph:Then there was a season of, of the terrible twos, and then as they grew older
Ralph:and then a season of them going to school and playing sports and high school and
Ralph:high school graduations, and the season of them finding my, my oldest, finding
Ralph:his, his girlfriend and now wife and their seasons ahead with grandchildren,
Ralph:we pray and all those type of things.
Ralph:Life brings those seasons and it brings new opportunities, and you
Ralph:really have to understand and embrace this journey because your journey,
Ralph:that journey is a testimony to God's faithfulness in your life.
Ralph:Let's look at the scripture book of Philippians chapter one, verse six.
Ralph:This is a beautiful piece of scripture.
Ralph:It really talks about that journey.
Ralph:It says, he who began a good work and you will carry it on to completion.
Ralph:Until the day of Christ Jesus, he who began a good work in you began.
Ralph:That's a journey.
Ralph:That's a start.
Ralph:That's a first step.
Ralph:We'll carry it on to completion until the day of Christ.
Ralph:Just as we all pray for, if you're a Christian, listen to this show.
Ralph:You're looking forward to that day when Christ returns.
Ralph:That's what we, that's what we, that's what we prepare for.
Ralph:Your finances work the same way.
Ralph:God will complete his work in your finances, but it's a journey.
Ralph:Look at the book of Proverbs, chapter four, verse 18.
Ralph:It says this, The path of the righteous is like the morning sun shining ever
Ralph:brighter till the full light of day.
Ralph:See your faithfulness grows brighter over time, so you gotta
Ralph:learn to embrace this journey.
Ralph:Your ability to manage your finances is going to grow brighter over time.
Ralph:So embrace the journey.
Ralph:God is with you in every season.
Ralph:So learn today.
Ralph:If you do nothing else today, celebrate your progress.
Ralph:You've done amazing things.
Ralph:And maybe say, Rob, I'm just starting.
Ralph:That's great.
Ralph:You've made the first step.
Ralph:You're starting.
Ralph:Let's keep working together.
Ralph:Let's keep learning and trust his process.
Ralph:So now you're saying, okay, great, Ralph, that's what I wanna do.
Ralph:I wanna be on that journey.
Ralph:What can I do?
Ralph:How do I step forward from here and, and live this faith-filled journey of
Ralph:stewardship that you talk about, Ralph?
Ralph:Well, here's the solution and this is the intentionality part of it.
Ralph:You gotta intentionally commit to lifelong learning and gracious stewardship.
Ralph:You've got to live with a mindset of continuous improvement.
Ralph:A lot of people don't get that, and I don't know if we do a good
Ralph:job of training our kids with it.
Ralph:Hey, you graduated from high school, you're done.
Ralph:Life doesn't work that way.
Ralph:You're not done when you graduate from high school or you graduate
Ralph:from college, or you have a wife and, and you have a family.
Ralph:And life doesn't work that way.
Ralph:Life needs to be a, a set of continuous improvements and you're gonna stumble.
Ralph:So you also have to rely on that grace.
Ralph:So I wanna give you your one action item for today.
Ralph:Sure.
Ralph:One thing, I just want you to celebrate the journey so far.
Ralph:Yes, we're gonna start with a celebration today, and in my head, I'm hearing
Ralph:cool and the gang singing celebration.
Ralph:You don't want me to sing.
Ralph:It's not good.
Ralph:But I want you to take five or 10 minutes to really celebrate your progress.
Ralph:Those things that, that you've accomplished.
Ralph:Bigger than that, I want you to write one or two wins down from the last 30 days.
Ralph:Write them down, put 'em on paper, and look at those and say, yes,
Ralph:with God's grace I got here, that's gonna fuel your momentum.
Ralph:The first thing I want you to do, the second thing I want you to do
Ralph:is make that commitment right now.
Ralph:Promise yourself to Almighty God as well to keep learning, commit
Ralph:to that lifelong learning and that lifelong growth, and revisit those
Ralph:key principles whenever you can.
Ralph:And I'm gonna say at least quarterly you go back and re-listen to some
Ralph:of the episodes we talked about, the different pieces of that puzzle.
Ralph:I encourage you here now read a new finance book or,
Ralph:or take a workshop annually.
Ralph:I'm gonna encourage you to tune in here every day.
Ralph:I bring you content every day, but embrace that commitment to lifelong
Ralph:learning and that lifetime growth.
Ralph:Another thing I really think will help you is what I'm gonna say
Ralph:is establish a financial Sabbath, maybe monthly or quarterly.
Ralph:Just sit down and have a time of review.
Ralph:Reflect on your budget.
Ralph:It's just real easy to get stuck in that, in that it would just
Ralph:keep on that process going.
Ralph:There is a need for a financial Sabbath to sort of reflect on where
Ralph:you are, reflect on your budget.
Ralph:Say, Hey, you know what?
Ralph:I put this together three or four months ago.
Ralph:Does it make sense still?
Ralph:Am I still doing the things that that Ralph said I should do that
Ralph:I feel, you know, compelled to do?
Ralph:Am I doing that tracking?
Ralph:Am I looking at things and comparing the two sides?
Ralph:This, how about my giving?
Ralph:Am I giving the way I should be giving?
Ralph:Am I stretching that?
Ralph:Am I, am I being a cheerful giver like I talked about a few days ago?
Ralph:Look at your progress.
Ralph:Am I making progress?
Ralph:Am I continuing to learn new things or am I just stuck here?
Ralph:And then I just want you to do one more thing.
Ralph:Look at God's provision.
Ralph:Just thank him for all that he's given you, because the truth
Ralph:is he has given you so much.
Ralph:Make that a habit.
Ralph:And then to do all these things, I'm gonna encourage you to embrace grace and embrace
Ralph:that forward motion because listen.
Ralph:Perfection is not the goal.
Ralph:I say this on the show routinely.
Ralph:Some people say to me, Ralph, stop saying it, but it's true.
Ralph:Perfection is not the goal.
Ralph:Perfection will get in the way of progress.
Ralph:You've got to expect that you're going to stumble.
Ralph:'cause guess what?
Ralph:You're gonna stumble.
Ralph:I stumble.
Ralph:But learn, adjust and then keep going because your journey is about
Ralph:consistency and it's about faith.
Ralph:He might be saying, Ralph, okay, that's great, but why does this even help?
Ralph:Because it transforms your finances from task to discipleship.
Ralph:See, I said this the other day about giving.
Ralph:Giving is really worship.
Ralph:Well, guess what?
Ralph:financial stewardship.
Ralph:That is worship.
Ralph:'cause you're taking what God has given you.
Ralph:You've taken the provision that God has given you and you're doing
Ralph:what he wants you to do with them.
Ralph:And that's just gonna build resilience.
Ralph:It's gonna build resilience with grace, and it's gonna ensure that
Ralph:long term you have growth and you have application what God is teaching you.
Ralph:And the biggest thing it does is it anchors your journey in
Ralph:God's presence and God's peace.
Ralph:And hey, isn't that where we all want to be today?
Ralph:I dunno about you, but I want to be in God's presence and
Ralph:I want to be in God's peace.
Ralph:Well, let's pray together.
Ralph:Father God, we just thank you for beginning a good work in us.
Ralph:Yes, we recognize this is just the beginning Lord.
Ralph:This is just the start of a journey.
Ralph:And Lord, we do confess our desire for quick fixes.
Ralph:We live in a culture where we wanna have the answer and we wanna have it now.
Ralph:We wanna put that behind us and be done with it.
Ralph:But Lord, we know that's not how life works.
Ralph:That's not the seasons that you promised in your Word, Lord.
Ralph:And we just ask that you would help us embrace this lifelong
Ralph:journey of stewardship.
Ralph:Lord grant us endurance.
Ralph:Lord, grant us wisdom and grant us the grace that we so desperately need.
Ralph:And strengthen our habits, Lord, and guide our decisions.
Ralph:And mostly anchor our peace in you and in you alone.
Ralph:May our finances always reflect your goodness, and we ask this with
Ralph:confidence in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Ralph:I just wanna congratulate you on this last 29 days, almost 30 tomorrow.
Ralph:We're gonna do a bit of a recap.
Ralph:We got some listener questions.
Ralph:I just wanna congratulate you on completing this journey.
Ralph:You've made a huge start.
Ralph:You've taken real steps towards financial transformation, but as I
Ralph:said, this is just the beginning of a lifetime of faith-filled stewardship.
Ralph:So I just wanna encourage you today, keep learning, keep applying, keep trusting.
Ralph:I also wanna say this, it's been an honor to walk with you and we're gonna continue
Ralph:that walk tomorrow, and if this series has blessed you, do me a big favor.
Ralph:Share it with somebody else.
Ralph:If it's blessed you, say, Hey, you know what?
Ralph:I listened to this series from Ralph.
Ralph:I listen to this show every day.
Ralph:It's blessed me.
Ralph:It will bless you too.
Ralph:You can find all of our episodes and our resources@financiallyconfidentchristian.com,
Ralph:and I've got a special gift for you.
Ralph:I'd love to give you a copy of my book.
Ralph:It's called Mastering Your Finances.
Ralph:You can go to financially confident christian.com/master and you
Ralph:can get a free copy of my book.
Ralph:It's a brief read, but it will be impactful to your life.
Ralph:Well, let's all go out there and be those financially confident
Ralph:Christians on a mission, on a journey.
Ralph:'cause you can do this.
Ralph:I believe in you, and I just want you to believe in yourself.
Ralph:Stay financially savvy.
Ralph:God bless you and you have a great day today.