Hi, I'm Sam, your inner voice and self trust coach for women who refuse to choose between career success and being fully present with their kids.

This is Journal Entries where we break free from self sabotage, reconnect with our inner wisdom and live truly fulfilled lives in both of our roles.

Let's dive in real quick before we dive in.

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All right, back to the show.

Hello.

Welcome to today's journaling session.

If you listened to Tuesday's episode all about receiving in your nervous system, then you are in the right spot.

This is a continuation to help you actually journal through what's blocking you from receiving.

And if you missed that episode but you enjoyed today's journaling session, I encourage you to go back and listen to that one.

It's where we really dig into what receiving looks like and why it is that we often don't receive.

You know how you need more support, but every time someone offers help, you find yourself saying I've got it.

Or you know how you need an afternoon off or you crave an afternoon off, I should say.

But you keep telling yourself that you have to be productive.

Instead, you have to answer those emails.

Oh my gosh, there's a million things that you have to do instead of taking the afternoon off to nap.

These three prompts that we're going to go over today will help you discover what's really blocking you from receiving and how to change it.

So grab your journal or open your Google Docs, or if your hands are sudsy or you're doing laundry, you can just listen in and think through.

Do some self reflection.

After I ask each question, we are going to dig into your relationship with receiving through three strategic prompts that follow my receive framework.

Don't overthink these, just write down what comes up for you.

Prompt number one When I think about my perfect receiving day again, this is the day that you purely receive from others and receive yourself.

And what we're looking for here is why you are getting in your own way about receiving.

What is the belief around?

Why you can't rest?

What are you afraid would happen if you took a whole day to receive?

Prompt number two what is the voice in your head that stops you from accepting help?

What does she sound like?

Or what is her immediate internal response when someone does offer to help you?

Sam and prompt number three if you gave yourself permission to receive help, support or pleasure without earning it, what are you most afraid people would think?

Another way to look at this is when you see other women receiving.

How do you view them?

What light do you view them in?

Sam, Excellent job.

After you finish writing, read through your responses.

What pattern do you notice?

What is the story that you've been telling yourself about receiving?

From there, I have a challenge for you.

A little integration exercise.

I would love for you to pick the smallest thing from your receiving day list and that was the exercise that we did in Tuesday's episode and but if you didn't do that, simply think of one small way you could practice receiving this week.

Maybe it's 10 minutes of reality TV or drinking your coffee while it's still hot.

Do that small thing today, not as a reward for productivity.

That's something that I often do is I'll tell myself, ooh, I can do this thing.

But after I do the dishes, after I clean up my room, after I do this email for work.

So you're going to do this thing, but not as a reward, but as a practice in receiving just because you are worthy as you are.

Remember, you can't pour from an empty cup.

I know you know this, but today is the day that you are practicing this because you also can't fill it up by working harder.

If these prompts brought up something big for you and you are ready to dive deeper into changing your relationship with receiving, I would love to chat with you.

I'd love to walk you through through the entire receiving framework that I have.

You can head to my website which will be in the show notes to book a clarity call which is completely free.

Just 20 minutes or I will also include the link to work with me.

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I almost signed up for somebody recently for a course that they had and I knew her just from Instagram posts and her emails and I loved her.

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Not even her energy, just the way that she talked, her demeanor, her directness just did not vibe with me.

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I feel like that would not have been a good fit.

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I signed up for her highest ticket item.

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But anyways, thank you so much for tuning in today and for journaling with me.

I'll see you next week.

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