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So as we enter 2025, I want to talk to you about the mindful path to building a

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successful coaching business, embracing Simplicity and Energy in 2025.

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So if you're a woo- woo, you're going to totally get this.

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If you're not, you'll still get it.

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You've reached a point in life, if you are older, let's say over 50, where wisdom,

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experience, and a touch of magic have rooted deeply.

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You've spent decades learning and growing and refining your ability to know yourself

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so that in turn, now you can guide others to do the same.

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Now you're ready to share this lifetime of growth and inner worldliness with a bigger

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audience, hence starting a coaching business.

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But let's be honest, doubts creep in, don't they?

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Doubts like, Isn't it too late to start something new?

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Am I too old to do this?

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Am I too old to even keep up with the technology and how rapidly it's changing?

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Will anyone take me seriously?

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Especially if you've had a past professional career and now you're leaning

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more into this woo-bu path, where do I even begin?

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So even the most tech savvy of us over 50 are overwhelmed by the online world on a

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good day and downright discouraged on the not so good ones.

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The endless The trends, the hype, the hustle, none of that helps.

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Frankly, the idea of staring at a screen all day doesn't exactly

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light your soul on fire.

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I will admit and confess that lately I have been staring at a screen

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far longer than I really want to.

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While I generally will say to my clients, if you

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don't want to do something, if you really, really don't want to do then don't,

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because you're bringing the wrong energy into it.

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However, I'm going to recognize here, pause for a moment, that we all have goals

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that we want to reach in our businesses.

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Sometimes that requires the bigger desire, I want to reach this goal, overrides

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the smaller, I don't want to be on this screen right now.

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That's what I'm getting to the point of for myself.

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And that's okay.

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We're going to have those moments here and there.

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But I want to recognize that at this point in life, in building a

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coaching business, we're not interested in chasing the shiny objects.

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And what you want in a coaching business in 2025 feels purposeful, aligned, and

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uniquely you, one that's bringing in income, utilizing

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your gifts, and making a difference.

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So that's what I mean about going forward in 2025 and protecting your energy and

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honoring this place that you're at in life where you can now really

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bring a lot to coaching.

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Protecting your energy, protecting your attention.

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We are in an attention economy.

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If you hop on YouTube right now, you'll find over a million videos about

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how to make a million dollars.

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Okay, maybe not a million videos, but darn close.

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And all that hype can dilute what really matters, which is building a business that

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feels really good to you, both in energy and practice.

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How does it fit into your life?

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So it's important to practice energy alignment in business, too.

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Now, there's this quote by Lão Hsu, and I think it's Lão Hsu.

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I'm going to pronounce it wrong, I know, but I apologize.

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He said it right when he said, I have just three Three things to teach:

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Simplicity, patience, and compassion.

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These three are your greatest treasures.

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I absolutely love that.

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It's so very true.

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So simplicity, patience, and compassion.

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Not only compassion for others, but compassion for yourself as someone

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who is building a business.

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So anchor into your energy.

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Let's talk about this a little bit.

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When the noise gets overwhelming or downright agitating, I want you to try

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this, this three-step energy alignment process.

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Close your eyes. Take three deep breaths.

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Picture a moment when everything felt right, like the universe

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was working with you.

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And it is, by the way.

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Ask yourself, what emotions were present?

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How did my energy feel?

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Think about that for a moment and what answers come up for you?

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With those answers in mind, what emotions were present in that memory when

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everything felt right, and how did your energy feel?

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Can you write down just one word that captures that feeling?

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So whether it's calm, magnetic, focused, joyful, whatever that word is, go ahead

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and write it down or hold it in your mind.

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Let this word become your anchor.

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So before making any business decisions, ask yourself, how can I bring

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this energy into my work today?

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So for me, when everything was going right, I'm

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going to say that I felt in the flow.

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In the flow.

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That has multiple meanings for me.

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But just as an example, so anytime I am making business decisions or even if I in

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a moment of frustration, I can stop myself and anchor into that energy and ask

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myself, how can I bring the energy of in the flow into this moment?

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Or how can I bring the energy of calm into this moment?

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How can I bring the energy of being magnetic into this moment?

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Do whatever brings that energy forward, then proceed.

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Everything is energy.

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This is a mindful business building practice.

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And if you're struggling, you can always try my seven minute shift.

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It's the book that I wrote, The Seven Minute Shift.

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It's the book that I wrote, The 7 Minute Shift.

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You can find it on Amazon.

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It's an extended exercise similar to this, but there are more,

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obviously, seven steps.

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I highly encourage you to give it a try.

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It's something I still use nearly daily.

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Okay, so So let's answer the question of, is it too late?

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No, it's never too late. It's never too late.

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You're not too late. You're actually right on time.

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So starting and growing a coaching business is a lot.

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Doing it later in life, even with all of the marketing and

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everything that makes you feel like you have to be young and trendy

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to keep up, it's okay.

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You can still do it, right?

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This is all about the right timing.

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You have more time, you have more attention,

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you, I dare say, have more energy, I think you do, to bring to this

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this venture, this huge project this contribution to the world.

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I talk about this very specifically in the four-part audio series

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Crossing Inner Threshold. It's on my website.

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You can access it for free.

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I talk about that very specifically in there, about why this is

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the right time for you.

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There are some factors that come into play here.

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Here's the thing.

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Your age, your woo- woo perspective, if you have that, you're lived

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experiences, they're not a limitation.

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They're actually your unique edge.

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It was part of it.

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Someone has to have a higher, wider vision, right?

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And that's you.

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But even with that, it It took me a while to figure out things

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like, lean into tried and true

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foundational marketing and ditch the trends, hype and hustle.

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Just let it all go.

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There are going to be some things I may pull back in here and there

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because I find it useful.

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It's something that I want to do.

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But for the moment, I can give myself permission to just let all of that go.

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Create offers that feel aligned with my energy and resonate with my clients.

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Build a business that doesn't just work, but works for me me.

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If it isn't working for me, how can I bring the right energy to my clients?

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It took me even longer to realize that what I create now will likely

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evolve and change over time.

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There's no set it and forget it.

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There's no, let me just put some social media posts out there, start getting

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some clients, and call it a day.

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No, it doesn't work that way.

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But it's a good thing, right?

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Because all I can really do is my best right now and take it day by day,

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protecting my attention and practices and continuing to learn, right?

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All I can do is protect my attention and my awareness as I go.

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One way I do this is through, as I said, practices.

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I have daily practices to keep my vibration high.

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Inside advanced manifesting, you can get a whole library of practices that

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I have put in there for you.

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But let me give you some examples.

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Every morning, I generally read, I may do some journaling,

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and I definitely meditate.

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Now, when I say meditate, what I mean is I take some time to quiet

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my mind and really drop down into that place of pure presence.

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Now, these days, I typically prefer a guided

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meditation, or it might just be music.

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I find that because I'm so very visual and I absolutely love calming, relaxing

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music, that that works faster for me.

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I can certainly sit in silence and meditate as well.

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I've practiced many different disciplines of meditation over 20 years or so.

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However, these days, I would say that I most enjoy a guided meditation

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meditation with music.

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So typically, that's what I will do.

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And then throughout the day, I will add in little moments.

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And I say moments, like literally seconds of an advanced manifesting technique,

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and definitely right before I go to bed.

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So this is just part of my daily practices, right?

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Sometimes, depending on what cycle I'm in, I may have longer meditations.

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I have gone many months with meditating three times a day for at

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least 45 minutes each.

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Sometimes it's only 10 minutes a day, right?

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So it just depends. But that fluctuates a bit.

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But I do have daily practices to protect my energy and raise my vibration.

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And the same goes for you that in order to build something that is such a

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huge contribution to others, i. E.

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A coaching business, you must protect your energy,

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keep your vibration buy, and that comes about through daily practices.

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And you may already have your own, but if you don't, I highly encourage

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you to get some in place.

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The doing side.

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Focus on what matters.

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What if you could attract clients who truly value your wisdom

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and unique perspective?

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Create offers that don't just sell but improve lives and build a business that

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fits seamlessly into your life without the grind or burnout.

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That's what we've been talking about.

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Well, the good news is you can and you will.

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But it's not about doing everything, like posting on social media daily, launching a

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YouTube channel, although I am about to do so, podcast or community, writing

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a book, running ads, speaking, etc.

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All of those things may come about, but it isn't about doing all of

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that immediately and right now.

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There's some things that you're going to need in order for that to happen in a way

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that is aligned and natural, and that's clarity is the big thing.

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That's not something that you want to try and force because it's just going to drain

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your energy at that point rather than build it up.

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It's not about doing everything right now.

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It's about doing the right things in a way that feels right for you

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and when it feels right to.

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Your first step.

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Your simplified action plan.

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So write down three things that you'd like to help people do.

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Identify your who, your target audience, define them well as well

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as you can, describe them.

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Choose one social media platform that they're and make it a goal to learn the

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most effective way to reach them there.

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If you're just starting out, focus on one client persona, one platform,

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one social media platform, and one offer.

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Create one offer that's relevant and appealing to your audience.

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Focus on these until something's working.

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You're getting conversations and clients.

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If things aren't working, you may need to adjust one of the three and try again.

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But you're going to experiment until it's working really, really well.

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And this is important because once you have just those three things working

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really well on one platform, you can then take it to another and another or a

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YouTube channel or a podcast, right?

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Because you will have figured out some really crucial pieces.

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The essentials checklist.

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So when you feel overwhelmed, I want you to go back to this, What three

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things do I help people do?

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Who are my people?

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Where are they?

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What's my offer?

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Once you're clear on this, take it a step further.

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Identify your message.

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Who do you help and what outcome do you help them achieve?

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This is that general messaging statement that we create

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to share in our business through the content that we create.

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And we say, I am a coach.

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I help XYZ do A, B, C, whatever that is for you.

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Create an aligned offer. Start small.

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Solve micro struggles or micro problems, and create stepping stones

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to their desired outcome.

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Discover your unique method.

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What's your blend of gifts and insights?

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Lean into that magic, right?

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There is, regardless of how many people that have the same title as you, let's

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say, for example, that you are a life coach.

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There are a lot of life coaches out there, but each life coach has their own

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unique way of doing what they do. So do you.

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I want you to take some time to discover what that is so that can

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help you stand apart.

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Market with realness. Be raw, conversational, and true.

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Talk about struggles, desired outcomes, and solutions in everyday language

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like you're talking to a friend.

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This is the way that I have always done things.

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It's what comes natural to me.

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Personally, to try to make something super perfect and polished is

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just a lot of stress.

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And so I don't really do that.

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It might be to my detriment, but that's okay.

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I don't really care.

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This is just the way I do things.

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For some people, it's quite the opposite, and that feels really good to

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them and is really easy for them.

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So when you can find your voice and be conversational and real and have these

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conversations like you're talking to a friend, you make deeper connections.

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You show people, in particular, your audience, that you're real.

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You're a real person.

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You make mistakes fakes, you struggle, too.

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But you've done these things to get ahead and reach the goal that your

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target audience is after.

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And in that, they can see themselves and therefore relate to you.

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And that's what we're after.

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Content creation.

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Let's make it simpler.

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So here's a quick exercise to simplify knowing what to talk about.

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Take a piece of paper and write, I wish I could, at the top.

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Step into the mindset of your ideal client and finish the sentence three times.

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I wish I could figure out how to start my business without feeling so overwhelmed.

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Or whatever it is that your target audience, your ideal client,

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however they would finish the I wish I could statement.

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I wish I could feel more confident about the woohoo side of my business.

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I wish I could feel like my age is an asset, not a limitation.

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These are your topics.

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These are topics that you can write about or create posts for social media or emails

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or videos or audios, whatever it is that you want to create.

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This is a very quick way to figure out some ideas on what to talk about.

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Just know that your time is now.

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The world is shifting, it always will be, and people are craving the

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wisdom, energy, and guidance only you can bring.

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And I will interject here.

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Some of the trends that I know are happening right now in terms of marketing

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is that people are really wanting this more real and raw presentation or

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interaction or even just viewing experience.

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Meaning they don't necessarily want the polished presentation.

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They want to see the real person, just like my mistakes here.

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They want to see what they're doing, what's working, what's not working,

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the honesty, the transparency, and the authenticity.

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So lean into that.

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Lean into that.

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Starting your coaching business or growing your coaching business isn't

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about doing everything yourself.

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Even though you are a solo coach, I want you to know that it's about doing

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the right things in a way that's right for you.

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There is so much more that I want to share with you, and we're going to dive in with

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each episode into so many different topics around building a coaching business solo

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and everything that you need to do that.

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And as I said, we're going to talk a lot about the energy side of things as

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well, and I can't wait to talk more.