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Welcome to the Six Figure Business Mastery Podcast, where every week,

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So today we are absolutely thrilled to have an amazing woman with us.

Her name is Sheila Dorfler.

Her company is soul deep journey, and she is a biofield tuning practitioner.

Stick around and let's learn more about what that actually is.

So welcome Sheila.

We're so happy to have you here today.

Thank you, Jeannie.

And thank you, Kirsten, for having me.

I'm thrilled to be here.

I am so excited to have you because I got a session with you, which was fantastic.

And we'll talk more about that in a little while, but oh my gosh,

we know that everything is energy and everything is a vibration.

So I'm really excited to hear about how you started helping business owners.

fine tune themselves, so to speak, so that they're that right energy

to attract the right clients and to build their businesses.

And I know we all suffer from a lot of trauma.

So I'm excited to learn about how you help with trauma and energy work.

So we're really glad to have you here today.

There's so much to this topic.

So narrowing it down is the challenge.

So I've noticed in the five years that I've been doing Psyche K and biofield

tuning, that a lot of the people that come to me are either also healers

or coaches, people who are on this entrepreneurial journey and to start

to see this pattern in my clients and who I started working with and how I've

There are like these common threads to the earliest trauma, like before age

four, and how that can be impacting our ability to move forward in our businesses

or to attract clients and abundance and the goals and the dreams that we have.

So it's been really fascinating to see how, especially those earliest imprints

for entrepreneurs who start to see these same patterns showing up again and again.

And.

When you start looking at some of those earliest things like womb trauma or birth

trauma, a lot of times those can be the deepest imprints that are holding us back.

And what I find with those earliest imprints is a lot of us tend to, with

mindset work and things, we're working with a lot of stuff that's more our

conscious memories and our identity.

And what we think.

The traumas are that are blocking us, but sometimes long before the trauma

that we remember at seven or eight, there was already something in play from

birth or womb, or even earlier, that is playing out way below the surface.

And when people start to clear those, a lot of these things that they've been

struggling with in their business or life, just start to shift and open for them.

That's amazing.

So now when you talk about trauma, you're talking about can be physical, can be

emotional, All different kinds of trauma.

Is that right?

Yes.

Yeah.

So when I'm talking about trauma, I'm talking about capital T trauma, pervasive

trauma, or something that was so significant that it left a deep imprint.

So birth trauma can be anything from forceps to other kinds of interventions

or being separated from your mother.

Right after birth and then womb trauma can be lots of factors that were going

on in your parents relationship or maybe I've had a number of clients where their

mom had lost a child before conceiving them and a lot of that fear and worry

and anxiety is something that they picked up in the womb and then affects

them subconsciously all the time.

There's people who grow up with.

Maybe less significant trauma, like maybe little t trauma and that can leave wounds.

So I think of wounds as maybe not so much physical or emotional abuse, but more like

those kinds of things where the pecking order where you were in the sibling.

So like I'm a middle child and then I can see how being a middle

child and the little sister impacts my business all the time.

And has been something that I've had to bring into my awareness in order to step

into leadership that because that identity is so strong of being the little sister.

It's interesting to see how, when we get into the dynamic of a family, even

a lot of those things that may not be big scars, they affect our identity.

And so we can grow up in a loving family with fairly easy,

easygoing parents or whatever.

But if we had a difficult birth, that trauma could have set our nervous system

at like high alert from that early experience that could be manifesting

in ways in our life that maybe We don't understand because for someone where

there's that disconnect, oh, but I grew up in a good family and I don't

understand why I have this deep feeling of fear and not feeling safe in the world.

So, there are so many layers to us as human beings.

And so I guess what I noticed in my own healing journey

and with many of my clients.

Is when they've been on the journey for years and years, and they've done

tons of inner work, tons of mindset work, and maybe tons of coaching.

If they still have these patterns and these blocks that that

they just can't seem to shift.

I would encourage them.

to maybe if they don't know their birth story or they don't know what their

womb experience might have been like.

If their parents are still alive, being able to have a conversation where you get

that information can reveal so much that you can then unlock with energy work.

With BioTuning, Is it important to know the trauma?

Because like you said, a lot of this happens before we're four.

So do we have to bring it into our consciousness in order to have biotuning

actually heal us on a vibrational level?

Great question.

So with biofield tuning, we're using tuning forks to work with the energy

field of the body or the biofield.

And our biofields actually hold the record of our whole life.

So every experience Every emotion, every memory, your perceptions,

your thoughts, all that information, including the information of your

family, your ancestors, that can all be found in your biofield.

So, when people have an energy block, they may not even be aware of.

The forks will locate that blocked energy and you can actually feel it.

The vibration changes.

So the feel of the fork in my hand or the, the sound of the fork will change.

Sometimes it's just a, like an intuitive feeling, but you will

actually feel and sense in the field.

The blocked spot in the timeline and the forks then bring coherence.

So they locate it, but they also remedy it.

So that's the beauty of biofield tuning is you're working with frequency.

So all those subconscious blocks and maybe traumas or memories that

you don't consciously remember, but your body might remember, or it's

just recorded in your biofield.

The forks will resolve that with the coherent frequency.

And.

Then it can just open up the energy to your life.

So that's what I love about biofield.

Tuning is a lot of these things that can keep us blocked that are

so deeply embedded or ancestral.

So they're not even ours can be healed and resolved.

And then we're freed from that pattern of energy.

So it gets everything moving and just returns you to like your factory

setting, your divine blueprint.

It's true that if we could all start.

Energetically, is that perfect vibration that our body was meant to be in?

What are the possibilities?

And I love how you talk about the fact that you've worked with so

many people who have done the work.

I know Jeannie and I both love all of the energy work.

We're definitely into manifesting.

We've definitely done a lot of coaching and all types of different

things to resolve money blocks or to, to improve energy for manifesting

or just for a happier life.

But like you said, if there's things that we don't know about,

It's hard and sometimes I know that it's always going to be a journey.

We're always going to have some things that we're working on.

So when you talk about people coming to you who've done the

work, what happens after there?

Is it like one tuning session?

Or are there multiples to get to the different layers of

the traumas and the wounds?

That's very individual.

It's one of those things where somebody can have one session and

have a breakthrough energetically.

And then It's one of those things where energetically

there's always room to evolve.

So it's, it's really up to the person to decide, like, how do they see it

fitting in maybe a regime they already have going, or, or if they really have

reached this point where they're tired of trying to figure it out by themselves.

And they want to do several weeks or months of.

Um, tunings to see what they can shift.

It's very much an individual person's decision to see what is

going on and how blocked they feel.

And I guess it really does depend how frustrated are they.

And, but yes, it's one of those.

Situations where each session is very unique and really tunes in

to that person's unique story and their biofield is unique to them.

And there are so many applications of the ways the forts can be used as well.

I've given several clients sessions for their business, where we've actually

tuned the consciousness of their business because it helps to align Their energy

with the consciousness of their business.

And several of the clients had immediate results and changes in the way that

they felt about their marketing.

Even they went from feeling so disconnected from their business

and feeling at odds with it and feeling like it was sucking them

dry to actually having joy again in thinking about their business.

I'm thinking Jeannie and I definitely need, we need sessions together

individually and for the business.

And it's really funny because of the business partnership, we get on really

well, we have different skills, we bring different things to the company.

But you know what, we always joke when it's time to write copy,

whether it's emails or sales copy.

We're like two six year olds bickering, right?

Because as a company, we're bringing two different voices and two

different perspectives to the table.

So that can always be challenging.

And then one of the other things we were often talking about over the years is

we're often not in vibrational alignment.

So like I may be really in flow and super excited and things are great.

And for whatever reason, she's at the toilet.

Or vice versa, she's in really good flow and great vibration and

I'm in the toilet, so to speak.

So we were, we have been talking about, we constantly do, we have a

part of a mastermind on Monday where we have a coach and we're constantly

working on our energy and our mindset.

So we are working on that, but I'm just thinking like, how cool would it be if

we were both at the same vibrational frequency, like in flow at the same time.

And that's what's so fascinating when tune a business, the

consciousness of the business.

Will it like messages will come through either I'll get them or the client

will get them and it's gives you the space to hear what your business wants.

Right?

Because it is its own consciousness and it has a desire to manifest in the world.

And it's like a relationship, it's like any kind of relationship, right?

Where it has its needs.

And you need to honor its needs, but it also needs to honor your needs and what

you're capable of and what you bring to the table and what your gifts are.

Both you, it adds a whole layer of complexity when you have a

business partner because it's two very different people's energies.

And then you have this third, you know, energy of the business at play.

And there's so much that we can learn when we start working with

things on the energetic level.

And I'm fascinated by the energetics behind like even our day to day

fluctuations of our energies and what could be going on for us

astrologically or numerology wise.

And yeah, there's so many factors to us.

And all of a sudden I'm thinking now, if the business has a voice in the copyright,

it's going to be three six year olds bickering over what we're going to say.

No, but that makes sense because we always talk about when people

have a business, it's almost like birthing that baby, right?

Like it is a baby.

It is yours, right?

But it is its own identity.

It is its own.

It is its own thing.

So I've never really thought about what the business wants and getting

in that vibrational frequency of having all three of us in alignment,

Jeannie, myself, and then the business.

That would be the trifecta of magic.

That would be amazing, yeah.

I never thought about that either, that the business itself has its own energy.

But it totally makes sense.

But yeah, we just need to figure out how to flow ours into there and make it big.

Yeah, and it's, a couple of the clients that I've done the business

sessions for, They've been in business for quite a few years, and they've

really struggled and it's just like, with any other relationship,

when you have that much hardship in your history, that impacts that

relationship and that energy exchange.

I think that was the biggest shift for each of these clients.

I did these business sessions with was, they just felt like it had cleared.

The history, which is that troubled past with their business, and it

just freed them up to move forward.

Quite a few of them had hit some hardship around three, four years ago with

everything that was going on in the world.

And it's just really impacted them so that they haven't quite moved past that.

The business and they haven't yet moved through that trauma

of how things have changed.

So it was, Fascinating to see how tuning could just free that energy

and breathe new life into their relationship with their business.

And I love how you said they got their marketing voice.

In alignment, like they, they finally got to, because again, it's like you said,

you have trauma or you're thinking about all the things that you've tried that have

failed, or you're listening to a hundred different gurus on what you should do.

It is hard to find that messaging and be consistent with it.

I think it's amazing that once they're in that vibrational, they

cleared all the gunk and they're in a good vibrational energy, then

that all that kind of flows to them.

So that's amazing.

Yeah.

And I think we see it a lot with people, especially with

video, because we know how.

Powerful video marketing can be, but to get people to feel into everything

that they have to offer and not just be paranoid about looking at that

little green light that's on your camera is, yeah, can be challenging.

And actually Jeannie, I'm so glad you brought that up because so many people

I meet, Struggle with marketing, mainly because of a visibility wound, right?

Like there, and I know that for me, 4 or 5 years ago, when I started my

business, that was a huge obstacle for me.

And I did a lot of inner work to work through that.

And.

It was interesting because I had signed up for some marketing courses

and video courses and things.

And the common advice you get from the coaching industry is

feel the fear and do it anyway.

But the issue that someone like me, who has a real deep seated

trauma of being seen, that's advice that can really run counter to.

To their inner child, and their sense of safety in the world.

So plowing through that sort of aggressively for the sake of, like,

trying to be good at business and because you're following the coaching

advice, if you plow ahead, And your inner child is freaking out, it's

going to pop up somewhere else, right?

That inner child is in, it's also like parts work where your inner child,

you can have these protector parts.

And so if you're plowing ahead with this notion of feel the fear and do it

anyway, but you have a real problem.

Fear and your inner child's freaking out, then it's going to come up in

like all these self sabotage ways, but really that self sabotage is also,

it's just our protector parts and our inner child wanting to keep us safe.

So that's the beauty of going back and healing the, the deep wound

that's there and working through it.

Because then.

Rather than forcing yourself to do something that really feels that

creates so much inner conflict that then you're going to procrastinate or you're

going to be a perfectionist, right?

You're going to do all those coping mechanisms, right?

That we do to protect ourselves when we get to that deeper underlying thing.

Fear that's there with the visibility, or maybe there's a belief about not

being heard or not being good enough.

And there's such a variety of wounds that we can have that

hold us back in our business.

And so anyone who's got deep seated trauma or very early trauma, a lot of

the coaching advice can feel so scary.

And actually, in some ways, it can just not be appropriate for that person.

To plow through something that just needs some attention and awareness and love.

That's interesting.

And another way that I think we see it on a regular basis

is around hiring help, right?

Because we focus on helping our clients with virtual assistants and getting the

support in their business that they need.

And sometimes we'll have conversations with people and what we do is perfect

for them, but you can tell that they're holding themselves back because they

don't feel worthy of having help.

They don't feel worthy of having that support.

They keep buying coaching programs and which is great.

They have all this great advice and all these things they can do, but they don't

have enough hours in the day to do it all.

So then that, that cycle of beating themselves up and beating themselves up

because they they're not doing it all.

And so that would be interesting to think about what would be the

wound or how can we heal those wounds so that we understand.

That we deserve to have support in our business.

And that once and for all understanding that the entrepreneurial journey doesn't

have to be isolating and lonely, you don't have to reach burnout to be successful.

And I think that's something that Jeannie and I are very passionate about.

So if we have anyone, we see that is fighting the support that they

need, maybe we can talk to them about having a session or two with you.

That is such a good point because.

For many people, they have a coping mechanism or a trauma

pattern that when they are triggered, they go into isolation.

And if you think that having a business can be triggering on so many levels that

for many of us, that's the fight flight.

Freeze response and now there's also the font.

So now fight flight has turned into fight, flight, freeze and fun.

So the freeze response shows up in that way that perfectionism plays out right

or procrastinating and the flight.

Is the hiding, right?

Like the people who hide, they can't trust, they can't trust others.

A lot of that comes from our early experiences.

So the worthiness is so tied into being able to trust others.

And when we have any kinds of beliefs that others always disappoint us.

Or I'm not worthy to get the help I want, or my needs are never met.

What I want is not available to me.

And there's so many core beliefs that we pick up in childhood that any number

of those could be operating, making someone think that they're, They don't

deserve to have the help they need.

This has been absolutely fascinating.

One quick question before we, I know we've got to cut it short here, Jeanne,

but what's the fawn, the fight, flight?

Fawn is if you think of doe or like a deer fawning.

So that's where you appease others.

It's people pleasers.

That is the fawn response.

So that's where you play along.

You, it's self abandonment.

You abandon yourself and you go into the role of Focusing on that person or

focusing on their needs, or if you had a domineering parent and who maybe had

a rage problem, you, everyone would try to walk on eggshells and keep the peace.

That's a fun response.

Yeah.

I think a lot of women do that in their business because they feel like

they have to do everything themselves.

They feel like they have to please everyone when they, and what, in

order to be successful, what you really need to do is just figure

out what are your boundaries.

And then what can you outsource to other people?

That's not your unique ability.

So absolutely Sheila, this is amazing and so fascinating.

I love hearing about it.

I love learning more about it.

So if people want to learn more about what you do, can I go to your website?

Yes.

Soul deep journey.

com.

Excellent.

And we'll put that in the show notes.

You also have an amazing free meditation.

For everyone, for our viewers, our listeners, I'm going to put that in the

show notes as well, but we can't thank you enough, Sheila, for opening our eyes, for

explaining things we don't understand and for hopefully maybe better understanding

why things aren't flowing as they should.

So thank you again for being here.

Thank you for having me.

Absolutely.

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