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This is More Than Work, the podcast reminding you that your self-worth

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is made up of more than your job title.

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Each week I'll talk to a guest about how they discovered that for themselves.

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You'll hear about what they did, what they're doing, and who they are.

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I'm your host, Rabiah.

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I work in IT, perform standup comedy, write, volunteer, and of course, podcast.

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Here we go.

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All right.

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Welcome back to More Than Work everybody.

Rabiah Coon:

I am really excited to have this guest on.

Rabiah Coon:

We've been talking for a while actually on other calls, not, not More Than Work, but

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actually my other work calls I would say.

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And uh, I'm really glad to bring you Elizabeth Mhangami.

Rabiah Coon:

She is a social entrepreneur.

Rabiah Coon:

So thanks for being on the podcast, Lizz.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Thank you for having me, Rabiah.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I'm glad we finally found a time to do this that works for both of us.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah, totally, totally.

Rabiah Coon:

So where am I talking to you from today?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I am currently in Hoffman Estates, which is a

Elizabeth Mhangami:

suburb sort of northwest of Chicago.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So that's where I am.

Rabiah Coon:

Nice.

Rabiah Coon:

And the last time I talked to you, you were in Southern?

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

In Southern Africa.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

In Zimbabwe.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

And uh, just so people know why I was talking to you before, my boss, my former

Rabiah Coon:

boss now, just my friend and coworker Jamila and you are really good friends.

Rabiah Coon:

And we just ended up chatting on my work calls sometimes.

Rabiah Coon:

So

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Yes, I would listen in to you and Jamila's

Elizabeth Mhangami:

calls and have an opinion about a workplace that I do not work at.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I also don't actually know what you all do, but I had a lot of opinions.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

And you'd share them with me and that's how we bonded.

Rabiah Coon:

So now,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I suppose the experience of work is universal.

Rabiah Coon:

Exactly.

Rabiah Coon:

We're gonna find out, right?

Rabiah Coon:

That's what we're gonna do right now.

Rabiah Coon:

So, yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

So I guess first of all you're in Chicago now.

Rabiah Coon:

You were in Zimbabwe, that's where you're actually from originally, right?

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

So just let me maybe just tell people about you, kind of, you know, going

Rabiah Coon:

from Zimbabwe to the US back there now back, back here, and just whatever you

Rabiah Coon:

wanna say about, about that part really.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Yeah, sure um, so I left Zimbabwe for the first time

Elizabeth Mhangami:

to come to the US when I was 19, and I spent about 10 years in the US.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And during that time I was as an immigrant trying to figure out what

Elizabeth Mhangami:

opportunities existed for me in the US.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I started off working jobs as a nanny.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And then I started going to school, trying to work and go to school at the same time.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I managed to get myself a lot of really interesting work experiences.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I worked as a nanny.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

At one point I was a telemarketer selling insurance.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I wasn't very good at it.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Then I worked in Victoria's Secret.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I worked at Smoothie King.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I didn't last at Smoothie King.

Rabiah Coon:

I worked at Dairy Queen, so I'm also a food court,

Rabiah Coon:

I'm food court royalty also.

Rabiah Coon:

Yes,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I love it.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I've never heard of food court royalty, but I can't wait to start using it.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Then I had a stint as the membership director for the

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Chicago Athletic Association.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And then, and during that time I was.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Attending community college, trying to get myself into a four year institution.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I eventually got myself into Loyola here in Chicago to do the last

Elizabeth Mhangami:

two years of a bachelor's degree.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And during that time I got a job working or running a youth employment

Elizabeth Mhangami:

program in the north neighborhood in Chicago called Rogers Park.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I was responsible to get the youth job ready and then also find them work

Elizabeth Mhangami:

opportunities in the community as well as do a little bit of fundraising to

Elizabeth Mhangami:

keep the program supported outside of the state funds that existed.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And so I would say that that job in particular started shaping what

Elizabeth Mhangami:

has ended up being a career for me.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And that's working with young people.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So that job led me to my graduation and I went on to work for a nonprofit

Elizabeth Mhangami:

in Chicago called Women Employed.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I was in a position that allowed me to work with human service.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Agencies that were helping people who were living in public housing.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And our focus, of course, was on women and trying to work on their asset building

Elizabeth Mhangami:

and employability that while that was going, I had Quite a robust volunteer

Elizabeth Mhangami:

life I was affiliated, still am I suppose, with Rotary International at the time.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And for people who don't know about Rotary, it's a service organization

Elizabeth Mhangami:

that was started in Chicago actually, but I learned about it in Zimbabwe

Elizabeth Mhangami:

because they have high school clubs, this service learning clubs.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And so I joined Interact in Zimbabwe in Lowai in the city that I grew up in.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I then, because it's a nat...

Elizabeth Mhangami:

International organization, it allows you to then meet other

Elizabeth Mhangami:

people who are affiliated with it in whatever city you are in the world.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So it's that you always have community.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I came to Chicago and joined the junior Rotarians called Rotoract.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And through that I was engaged in a project to send

Elizabeth Mhangami:

medical supplies to Zimbabwe.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And that really got me going on thinking about sort of a more sustainable

Elizabeth Mhangami:

way to be involved with some of the challenges that Zimbabwe was

Elizabeth Mhangami:

experiencing as a result of political in international sort of machinations

Elizabeth Mhangami:

that were happening at the time.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And coupling that experience with working with youth in, in Chicago and also working

Elizabeth Mhangami:

with women in low income communities, I really started thinking about what

Elizabeth Mhangami:

was happening at home and thinking specifically about youth communities in

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Zimbabwe and what was happening with them.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I ended up creating a nonprofit whose mission was to do something

Elizabeth Mhangami:

similar to what I'd been doing in Rogers Park with the youth.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So job readiness, entrepreneurship, targeted at young people who show an

Elizabeth Mhangami:

interest or an acumen for business, but don't have the social capital or the

Elizabeth Mhangami:

experience to to ha have that happen.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Been in a way that we hear about different entrepreneurs

Elizabeth Mhangami:

who have the wealth of network.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I moved back to Zimbabwe in 2008, 2009, sorry.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And at that time I set up a 501c3 in the U.S.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I had two entities; one that I fundraised through, and then the one

Elizabeth Mhangami:

in Zimbabwe working with the youth and did that for about eight years.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Our youth that we worked with were child heads of household, so they'd lost

Elizabeth Mhangami:

their parents mainly to AIDS related complications and the oldest of the

Elizabeth Mhangami:

children often always a girl would take on the responsibility of work of, of

Elizabeth Mhangami:

taking care of the family economically, socially in as much as a kid at that age

Elizabeth Mhangami:

can do when they no longer have parents.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And that really e evolved into a social enterprise where we were trying

Elizabeth Mhangami:

to help these young people create a business or businesses, and also

Elizabeth Mhangami:

help the organization find financial independence from donor funding.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But we wanted to create a business that had social impacts in terms of providing

Elizabeth Mhangami:

services and products that the community needed, but also providing young people

Elizabeth Mhangami:

with a source of income and also giving them experience to, you know, learn

Elizabeth Mhangami:

a skill learn how to work, because many of the youth we were working with

Elizabeth Mhangami:

weren't entrepreneurial out of a desire.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It was out of necessity.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So some of them, you know, really just wanted a job or some of

Elizabeth Mhangami:

them wanted to go back to school.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

There were different number of different interests, but then the organization

Elizabeth Mhangami:

itself also needed sustainability.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So we were hoping that the social enterprise could also keep the

Elizabeth Mhangami:

organization buoyant so that we could continue to impact the

Elizabeth Mhangami:

lives of different young people.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

As many people who might be listening to the podcast will know fundraising,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

nonprofit, fundraising also in a country that had its unique challenges, it became

Elizabeth Mhangami:

a little harder to keep myself in a salary as well as keep the organization going.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I started within the seventh year working toward transitioning leadership

Elizabeth Mhangami:

of the organization to the community that we were working within, and some

Elizabeth Mhangami:

of the youth that had been involved with the organization from when I started it.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I managed to do that at the end of 2018.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And then I took on a, a job, a salary was important at that point, in Swaziland,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

or it's now called the Kingdom of Eswatini, which is in Southern Africa.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So if people think of this map of South Africa, there's two countries within

Elizabeth Mhangami:

the borders of South Africa, and one of them is the Kingdom of Eswatini.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I joined an international school there called Waterford Kamhlaba.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It's part of a network of 18 schools called the United World Colleges that

Elizabeth Mhangami:

focus on helping youth become change makers through a the IB curriculum

Elizabeth Mhangami:

in the last two years of high school.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I was there for four years as an advancement director, so I

Elizabeth Mhangami:

managed the school's fundraising for scholarships, alumni relations,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

marketing, and communications.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And that I did for, for four years until the end of last year, and I

Elizabeth Mhangami:

have just come back to Chicago in February to start a position with

Elizabeth Mhangami:

another youth organization here in Chicago called the Mikva Challenge.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And we focus on civic education and youth voice.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So we work with youth in community as well as teachers in schools.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And my role is director of major gifts.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I would say, I guess all the experiences that I've had with fundraising

Elizabeth Mhangami:

has sort of brought me to this position.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I think that kind of gives a synopsis of I come to be here now.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

I like that you have your story down cause I know I've moved a few times and you

Rabiah Coon:

kind of get the highlights going, right?

Rabiah Coon:

Through each thing.

Rabiah Coon:

But, so, no, that was good.

Rabiah Coon:

And it just leaves me with a lot of questions now.

Rabiah Coon:

Your path definitely clearly even from high school was, you know, you

Rabiah Coon:

had service kind of as a part of it.

Rabiah Coon:

What was it like for you, I guess growing up in Zimbabwe?

Rabiah Coon:

I mean, did you come from a family that is service oriented or is this just something

Rabiah Coon:

like, did you happen to just do it in high school cuz you had nothing else to do?

Rabiah Coon:

What, what, what drove that?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I think it's a combination of yes to the two questions

Elizabeth Mhangami:

that I heard out of that, do I come from a family that is service oriented?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It's only until recently that I thought about it, but yeah, I do.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

My family is Catholic and I think social justice and service is

Elizabeth Mhangami:

a huge part of Catholicism and the tenants of being a Catholic.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I don't describe myself as as Catholic.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

In fact, I don't ascribe to any organized religion anymore.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But I watched my mother growing up being a part of different

Elizabeth Mhangami:

groups related to the church.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So the Catholic Women's League, there's a sort of an order of, I don't know.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Yeah.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It's an order called St.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Anne's that she's a part of.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I saw her take up roles on the committee.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And then in our community, my mom and her girlfriends would have these clubs.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

The official term is Village Savings Clubs.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It's a model where women get together and we all put money in a pool.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

If there's, you know, five of us, we each get a chance to get that money to use for

Elizabeth Mhangami:

some sort of investment, but we always have to bring back sort of the seed money.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It's called a round, so as that the next person can pick up on the round.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I definitely grew up seeing that and Interact.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I, I love to tell the story because I think it says a lot about me.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I went to a school in Zimbabwe.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

That is a school that was started by Bavarian nuns.

Rabiah Coon:

Okay.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

About 120, maybe 130 years ago.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So definitely as part of the colonizing mission of Africa,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

the school was established.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And as a student there in the nineties, it was a Catholic school that was very

Elizabeth Mhangami:

interested in protecting our chastity.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So we weren't allowed to engage or talk to boys in school uniform.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And the only way that you could do that sanctioned was to join

Elizabeth Mhangami:

the Interact Club because the Interact Club always had a social.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And so, you know, at 15, that was the first club I was joining

Elizabeth Mhangami:

because then you got to see boys and they're boys of a particular

Elizabeth Mhangami:

school that I was interested in that.

Rabiah Coon:

amazing.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So the year that I joined Interact, 1995, was

Elizabeth Mhangami:

10 years before Rotary International would be celebrating its centennial.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And so the, the, the international organization decided that they would spend

Elizabeth Mhangami:

that last decade leading up to a hundred years eradicating polio from the world.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So as Interactors joining the club, one of the first service activities

Elizabeth Mhangami:

we did was to help the Rotary Club members administer polio vaccines

Elizabeth Mhangami:

in communities that were peri-urban.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So surrounding the city that I was growing up in, and I think for me

Elizabeth Mhangami:

at fifteen, because my, I mean, my family is big and we have varying

Elizabeth Mhangami:

degrees of socioeconomic status.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So there are, some of my mom's siblings and herself we're like highly educated

Elizabeth Mhangami:

through my grandparents' efforts.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But then there are some members of the family who aren't.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I wouldn't say that, you know, doing that polio vaccination thing was

Elizabeth Mhangami:

exposure to difference in, in, in, in, in economic status and what people have.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But it, there was something about going a few minutes outside of my

Elizabeth Mhangami:

city, a few minutes outside of my high school and seeing people living

Elizabeth Mhangami:

in a way that one at that point could have described as abject poverty.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Yet I was going to the school and I, I must say that I was

Elizabeth Mhangami:

a, a bursary kid at the school.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

My mom was a widow.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

My dad died when, I'm the youngest of four kids, so my dad died when I was three.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And so my mother ma was managing to educate my siblings and myself on her own.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I did have a bursary.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I wasn't one of the rich kids of what is a private school, but I

Elizabeth Mhangami:

certainly was aware of the privilege that I did have in comparison to

Elizabeth Mhangami:

the families that we were meeting.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I was seeing a lot of young women who might have been my age or, or a

Elizabeth Mhangami:

few years older than me, maybe the ages of my sisters, who were carrying

Elizabeth Mhangami:

babies and were obviously in a stage of life that I, you know, the, the

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Falcon College Boy chaser was not in.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And that just, it had an impact on me, you know, in years, now that I talk

Elizabeth Mhangami:

about it, I don't talk about it the way I used to in my twenties when I would

Elizabeth Mhangami:

sort of say that it changed my life.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And Rotary's motto is "service above self".

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Because I would, I used to say that service above self became

Elizabeth Mhangami:

what I am about, but I think I'm, I've, I've moved slightly on that.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But it did really that, that experience impacted me.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I did go on to chase boys and go to socials, but I was definitely quite

Elizabeth Mhangami:

aware of the role that I had within this Interact Club as a young person to be

Elizabeth Mhangami:

able to do or make a difference or just be in, involved in community development

Elizabeth Mhangami:

in a way that I hadn't been exposed to.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I would say that those are kind of what my influences are, but I,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

yeah, it's, it's, it's being raised and educated by Catholics and then

Elizabeth Mhangami:

having this orientation around service and community at such a young age

Elizabeth Mhangami:

and it having a lasting impression.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah, definitely.

Rabiah Coon:

And what did you study when you were in school?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So at Loyola, I graduated with a degree in

Elizabeth Mhangami:

political science and women.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It was called, Women's Studies.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I had courses in international relations as well.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So there was a time where I really felt that my place for work would

Elizabeth Mhangami:

be the UN or an international organization of some sort.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I was very interested, especially having left Zimbabwe because of, you

Elizabeth Mhangami:

know, economic challenges and political challenges, I was very interested

Elizabeth Mhangami:

in affecting change politically, geopolitically in Zimbabwe because

Elizabeth Mhangami:

that kind of the history of Zimbabwe at that time and my being in the US

Elizabeth Mhangami:

as an immigrant, I found that that was something that I spoke about a lot in

Elizabeth Mhangami:

terms of explaining why I was in the US and also just trying to find purpose

Elizabeth Mhangami:

within a survivor's guilt that comes from leaving your home country because

Elizabeth Mhangami:

of political and economic challenges.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Because you leave family and friends there and you are now in a different place.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And so I felt a compulsion to be representative of Zimbabwe somehow.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So that's what I studied and I met jamila in graduate school where I started off

Elizabeth Mhangami:

as an International Studies master's student but then I ended up switching to,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

to Women's Studies and my focus then was around looking at ideas of citizenship

Elizabeth Mhangami:

and, and na and national identity for women in post-colonial Southern Africa.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I was looking at, because at the time Zimbabwe was had seen the

Elizabeth Mhangami:

rise of opposition politics and there was one party in particular

Elizabeth Mhangami:

that was giving the then ruling.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Party a run for their money.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And the women within that party were emerging as strong leaders,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

but also ones that were severely targeted by the, by the state.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And through that, that targeting questions around citizenship and national identity

Elizabeth Mhangami:

where women were concerned were coming up.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And as you know, a, a a, an academic aspiring academic at

Elizabeth Mhangami:

the time, I was very interested

Elizabeth Mhangami:

in, in the sort of creation of nation state and the, and

Elizabeth Mhangami:

the role that women play.

Rabiah Coon:

Hmm.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

I mean that's, I was gonna make an assumption, but I'd rather just ask you,

Rabiah Coon:

was, what was the biggest shock to you if there was one about coming to the

Rabiah Coon:

US and just seeing things in the US and then in the parts of Chicago you were

Rabiah Coon:

in versus in Zimbabwe where you grew up?

Rabiah Coon:

Cause I think I, like, I live in England now, right?

Rabiah Coon:

So, and I'm from the States, so I had ideas about things and of

Rabiah Coon:

course culturally they're not, that, they're not as dissimilar as

Rabiah Coon:

everyone pretends they are, you know?

Rabiah Coon:

But for you, how is that, I guess, going from the country and, and

Rabiah Coon:

what it was like, but still loving your country, clearly loving it.

Rabiah Coon:

And then going into the us what, just, what was that experience like?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

so I, it's, it's poverty.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Let me, let me answer things succinctly.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Poverty.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I was not expecting to see as much poverty, was I expecting to

Elizabeth Mhangami:

see it at the level that I did.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Now, I will also caveat that by saying I think that as an immigrant, especially

Elizabeth Mhangami:

an immigrant who comes into this country with education and social capital.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So my experience, my, and, and, and that of my family is that we have arrived

Elizabeth Mhangami:

in the US and managed to participate in American society at a middle class level.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So that also means that socially our family wasn't immediately exposed

Elizabeth Mhangami:

to the experience of being of lower income and being of color in the US and

Elizabeth Mhangami:

having those two things work against you and because of the way society, I

Elizabeth Mhangami:

think it's, it's, it's, it's existent in any society, there is always that

Elizabeth Mhangami:

elevation of the good immigrant.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I think that we, in our initial years, we played at that level and often

Elizabeth Mhangami:

didn't see what was really The diversity of experience and also because even a

Elizabeth Mhangami:

person who is on state benefits is often in a better position materialistically

Elizabeth Mhangami:

to a person who is in that same level of being without in Zimbabwe.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So we were also of the opinion that black and brown people in America,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

especially those born here were the luckiest black and brown people in the

Elizabeth Mhangami:

world because they have all these things.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But for me, then working within programs that were funded by the state trying

Elizabeth Mhangami:

to implement social changes through the varying programs, I sort of came

Elizabeth Mhangami:

to face-to-face with poverty in America and those people who are living in,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

in that bracket of, of vulnerability.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It gave me a, just, that was a shock for me.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It took me a while to understand.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And it's actually a story Jamila likes to tell just in terms of --I don't know how

Elizabeth Mhangami:

familiar you are with Chicago, but Chicago has, you must have heard of Cabrini-Green.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It's been transformed now to be a mixed income neighborhood, but there

Elizabeth Mhangami:

were the towers and, and the row houses that people will remember.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I had a job working for a human services organization there,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

and it was just eye-opening.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I hadn't seen or experienced and didn't expect it in America because it's the

Elizabeth Mhangami:

land of milk and honey, so everybody is just got cash and everything they need.

Rabiah Coon:

So then, yeah, in your view, changes of what the impoverished

Rabiah Coon:

in America really are experiencing and I don't know if it's a fair like comparison

Rabiah Coon:

to make, but it's not much different than I think kind of what's happened in general

Rabiah Coon:

with people having a different perspective like white people having a different

Rabiah Coon:

perspective on people of color, right?

Rabiah Coon:

Because.

Rabiah Coon:

I think, you know, in the last couple years with what happened with

Rabiah Coon:

the death of George Floyd and then other things, I think that became

Rabiah Coon:

a big thing where all of a sudden people are like, whoa, now I get it.

Rabiah Coon:

Like, people who before said, oh, why, why are, you know, it's the same

Rabiah Coon:

thing, men say, why do women complain?

Rabiah Coon:

Well,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Yeah, just work hard.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Pull up, pull yourself by your bootstraps.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah and like, you know, you can't say anything anymore.

Rabiah Coon:

Well, why do you have to say sexually explicit things to me?

Rabiah Coon:

I don't understand.

Rabiah Coon:

You know?

Rabiah Coon:

But then it goes to the more serious thing of like race in America

Rabiah Coon:

where it's white versus whatever.

Rabiah Coon:

And, and white people really, I mean, a lot of them not like the, you have

Rabiah Coon:

the white people who say they don't see color, which is totally ridiculous,

Rabiah Coon:

unless they mean they're color blind and then it's red and green.

Rabiah Coon:

It has nothing to do with people.

Rabiah Coon:

Or the white people who completely ignore the fact that there's an issue.

Rabiah Coon:

And then, but then you get into like another subset of people who you learn

Rabiah Coon:

about what other people are going through and go, oh, wow, that's going on there.

Rabiah Coon:

But I don't know.

Rabiah Coon:

It's, it's a, it's a thing of, of perspective and gaining

Rabiah Coon:

perspective and, and seeing, you know, what, it's, what's going on.

Rabiah Coon:

One, one thing that struck me a lot was when you just talked about leaving your

Rabiah Coon:

organization in Zimbabwe and leaving it to the people, really, the leadership

Rabiah Coon:

and, and having the community then lead and that reminds me a lot of, you know,

Rabiah Coon:

servant leadership, which I don't know if that's something that you feel you

Rabiah Coon:

practice, but also something I learned.

Rabiah Coon:

I was in a program at Harvard, a Public Leadership Credential, and

Rabiah Coon:

we learned about moral leadership.

Rabiah Coon:

But that really, truly is what you were doing there by, by putting

Rabiah Coon:

the people at the focus and then ultimately having them be empowered

Rabiah Coon:

to kind of run the organization.

Rabiah Coon:

Or even what you talked about the women in Zimbabwe would do with the money and, and

Rabiah Coon:

they would be empowered to make decisions.

Rabiah Coon:

I mean, that just really strikes me as really forward thinking because a

Rabiah Coon:

lot of people who are quote unquote leaders won't think in that way.

Rabiah Coon:

They'll make themselves the most important.

Rabiah Coon:

And how did you come to that decision?

Rabiah Coon:

Or what, did you learn something that made you go that way?

Rabiah Coon:

Or is that instinct?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

You know, it's something that I, I, I don't know.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I have a lot of discomforts around certain things.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I think one of the things that I have really struggled with embracing

Elizabeth Mhangami:

and, and being able to articulate for myself is that I am a leader.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I, I have a lot of discomfort with that because I immediately

Elizabeth Mhangami:

go to thinking that people see ego in me saying and stating that.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I, I think that I was always keenly aware of wanting to make

Elizabeth Mhangami:

sure that the organization is not about me or dependent on me.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So there was always an intention, an intentionality around.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

My dream was that the first group of youth that I started working with, that

Elizabeth Mhangami:

one of them would replace me and, and continue the organization without me.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

The one thing that I didn't anticipate was that when you are a founder

Elizabeth Mhangami:

of something almost, you birth something so it, it becomes your baby.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It's your thing.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And you also have very clear ideas about where this baby's going to end up in

Elizabeth Mhangami:

college, what career it's going to have.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I had a very clear idea about my organization becoming a youth led

Elizabeth Mhangami:

youth run social enterprise that had three businesses encompassed in it,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

a organic market garden, a beekeeping enterprise that produced beeswax candles

Elizabeth Mhangami:

and beeswax lip balms, and a soap.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Cold press soap, that was also going to have inputs from our organic garden.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And then we were also going to have a business that was doing

Elizabeth Mhangami:

rooftop gardens for hotels and putting soaps in hotel rooms.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And it would become the.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Beautiful.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I still see it.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

This beautiful ecosystem of product being made from the organization is called

Elizabeth Mhangami:

vu, which means children of the soil.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And, and yeah, and, and, and we were going to be this wonderful machine where

Elizabeth Mhangami:

the youth would find job opportunities within the social enterprise or they

Elizabeth Mhangami:

would start their own businesses related to that ecosystem selling us beehives,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

repairing our beehives, making bee suits.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

There was all the stuff that could happen, but it was a vision that

Elizabeth Mhangami:

was based in my subjectivity and not in the subjectivity of the youth.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I came to a realization when we finally, and I, I, I was a bulldozer about a

Elizabeth Mhangami:

lot of things, but we finally got to a point where a hotel agreed to us

Elizabeth Mhangami:

putting a rooftop garden on their roof in Victoria Falls, which is the, you

Elizabeth Mhangami:

know, premium destination in Zimbabwe.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I was closer to our social enterprise, finding business within

Elizabeth Mhangami:

the tourism sector, and then I took a group of our youth to Victoria Falls.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

We sat in a hotel room and one of them went into the bathroom of that

Elizabeth Mhangami:

hotel room and walked out, holding a piece of soap and said, so this

Elizabeth Mhangami:

is what you've been talking about.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And in that moment it was, and you'd think as a social worker, I would've remembered

Elizabeth Mhangami:

this, but then I was like, oh my goodness, these kids have just been following me.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Blind faith.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Because they either believe in me or I am a source of income at the moment.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So whatever this crazy lady is talking about, we are gonna do it with her.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But of course, they'd never seen a hotel.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Or understood the con, cuz I kept, because they kept asking, why

Elizabeth Mhangami:

are we learning how to make soap?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Because we are gonna make smaller soaps that will go into the hotels.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And they'd be like, oh, okay.

Rabiah Coon:

They're like, fine.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But in that moment is when I thought, okay, so is

Elizabeth Mhangami:

this my dream or is it their dream?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

They have the skillset because they're the ones who put up the,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

we did um, raised beds for this rooftop garden with drip irrigation.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I mean, the skillset and the, the, the level of expertise that these youth

Elizabeth Mhangami:

developed, I will always be proud of that.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But the concept was not theirs.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And that's when, and that was, I think that was 2017 and that's when

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I really realized that it was, it was time for me to make a decision.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And, a few years before that, I had been of the opinion, I

Elizabeth Mhangami:

don't know how I came to it.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It's very specific that a nonprofit founder should not be the head of

Elizabeth Mhangami:

that organ, the operating head of that organization past seven years.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I don't know where I came up with that.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I said that in a New York Times article in 20, 11, so I also had seven

Elizabeth Mhangami:

years was always playing on me and so I had essentially signed my resignation

Elizabeth Mhangami:

date and, but in terms of the organization and the mission, that moment in that

Elizabeth Mhangami:

hotel room showed me that I had to allow this organization that I had created in

Elizabeth Mhangami:

partnership with a community of young people had to evolve in what it was going

Elizabeth Mhangami:

to be and not what I wanted it to be.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I started the process of letting go at that point.

Rabiah Coon:

Wow.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah, I mean that's, that is eye-opening cuz to to just be

Rabiah Coon:

like, their lived experience was so different by then from yours, even

Rabiah Coon:

though you had in theory grown up in.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It's so funny that I didn't click in that moment because I.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I was like, yeah, we're the same.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

We're the same.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I just have had this experience, but I'm sharing this

Elizabeth Mhangami:

experience with them, you know?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I was thinking, my experience was that of having gone to the US but my

Elizabeth Mhangami:

experience was so different in terms of the school I went to, the neighborhood

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I lived in, the fact that I was from a different ethnic group, from many of them.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

The organization is named Vanavevhu which is Shona, the language that I,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

that's my mother tongue, although I grew up in Ndebele speaking

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Zimbabwe, so I speak in Ndebele and I could speak to many of the youth.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

They mostly spoke in Ndebele.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So even the naming of the organization was deeply entrenched in my, in

Elizabeth Mhangami:

my identity and subjective lens.

Rabiah Coon:

Wow.

Rabiah Coon:

Wow.

Rabiah Coon:

So one thing you mentioned too about the life experience.

Rabiah Coon:

I mean, you were working with youth who maybe were head of household as a

Rabiah Coon:

children and you mentioned also aids, which that's one thing in the US too.

Rabiah Coon:

AIDS was never in the us what it was in African countries.

Rabiah Coon:

It was different.

Rabiah Coon:

There was a different discrimination over here.

Rabiah Coon:

It was very much entrenched in, you know, more around sexuality and that kind of

Rabiah Coon:

thing I'd say, more than just general people, but then thinking you're talking

Rabiah Coon:

about in the two thousands that where here in the US it's not even, I don't know.

Rabiah Coon:

I mean, I don't wanna speak for everyone and I'm not in the US now, but I mean,

Rabiah Coon:

just thinking about prevention and people just, you know, you can live

Rabiah Coon:

with HIV now and stuff, but in, in African countries that still wouldn't

Rabiah Coon:

be necessarily true in the same way.

Rabiah Coon:

Just availability of drugs and stuff.

Rabiah Coon:

And so people losing their parents to AIDS when they're young is that

Rabiah Coon:

still, has, has there been changes to that or is that still something

Rabiah Coon:

like your organization's serving now or the, your former organization?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I think that No one in, in, in Southern Africa, at least

Elizabeth Mhangami:

there's very few people who weren't touched by the scourge of HIV/AIDS.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

There's just, everybody has some experience.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I mean, within my family, their stories, I could tell.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

What has been at least comforting is that socially the disease is not as

Elizabeth Mhangami:

stigmatized as it was when it first started appearing in the early nineties.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I think that that has a lot to do with communities losing just huge sections.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Like there was a time where you would read stories about Uganda, I know

Elizabeth Mhangami:

as a country that was written a lot about how there were just communities

Elizabeth Mhangami:

where there weren't any people between the ages of 18 and 40 anymore.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And you know, these are the people that were parents to the youth that I was

Elizabeth Mhangami:

working in, working within Zimbabwe.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And so I really was moved by a lot of statistics that I, again,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

it's all subjectivity statistics that were related to myself.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I know the year that I founded Vanavevhu in 2007, the statistic

Elizabeth Mhangami:

coming out of Zimbabwe was that life expectancy was 34 and I was 27.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And that again, was another thing of looking at myself and saying, okay,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

so this statistics, this statistics says that in in seven years at 34

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I, in seven years I could be gone.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So what do I do in seven years, maybe?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Actually that's where seven comes from.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

From is this fatalistic connection to life expectancy in my home country.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But that's really, you know, something that I, I thought about.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But there is definitely a lot of work that has been done and people are

Elizabeth Mhangami:

living with HIV, people are taking, have access now to the, the medication.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And they're taking the medication and it's not so much the life sentence that

Elizabeth Mhangami:

it used to be because I really argue or would argue that many of the deaths

Elizabeth Mhangami:

that we saw in our part of the world were because a diagnosis meant death.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Because there was no medication.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And we can, we can criticize are they called international NGOs who

Elizabeth Mhangami:

do public health work in, in Africa for a lot of things, but being able

Elizabeth Mhangami:

to bring communities and put in mechanisms from medical treatment

Elizabeth Mhangami:

being available to behavior modification interventions to changing social

Elizabeth Mhangami:

structure just so that people have access to meds has done a huge thing.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And living in Swaziland, which was one of the countries, the tiny, a tiny

Elizabeth Mhangami:

country that was heavily affected by HIV and AIDS, being there in the last four

Elizabeth Mhangami:

years and, and being around people in the public health sector, there's been

Elizabeth Mhangami:

a lot of wins and it's, it's definitely something that we are grateful that we

Elizabeth Mhangami:

were able to get a hold of it get a handle on the impact that it was having.

Rabiah Coon:

That's incredible.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

Well, I, I think it is, it's great to hear about the progress and just it's

Rabiah Coon:

really inspiring just to hear about how you're, you have evolved into this,

Rabiah Coon:

this service-oriented life and also just kind of the boundaries you've

Rabiah Coon:

set to move on when you needed to.

Rabiah Coon:

So, one thing I like to ask every guest is, do you have any advice

Rabiah Coon:

or mantra that you'd like to share with the people listening?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Do you know, I thought about that and, and I, I, it,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

there's actually like a thank you for this conversation because I'm looking

Elizabeth Mhangami:

forward to watching listening again, because there's realization that has

Elizabeth Mhangami:

come up in this conversation that I don't think I had prior to us pressing record.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So thank you for that and I think choose you.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Just choose yourself all the time.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I'm 42 now, and so there comes, you know, sage and wisdom with that.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But I really, and I'm trying not to live in regret because it's futile, but I'm

Elizabeth Mhangami:

really trying now to be present and to choose me and be comfortable with selfish.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

That's awesome.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

I love it.

Rabiah Coon:

That's perfect.

Rabiah Coon:

The conversation would be great for me too, so I'm, I'm really glad.

Rabiah Coon:

So now I'm gonna do the Fun Five.

Rabiah Coon:

It's the last five questions that I ask every guest.

Rabiah Coon:

So what is the oldest T-shirt you have and still wear?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

The oldest T-shirt I have and still wear is a

Elizabeth Mhangami:

T-shirt my brother gave to me in 1998.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And it's a t-shirt that says Bungee Extreme.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It was a T-shirt, I think he bought in the town of Victoria Falls, where in

Elizabeth Mhangami:

that time, bane Jumping was just coming on the scene and there was a, a tourism

Elizabeth Mhangami:

company there that was promoting bungee jumping and there were stories that

Elizabeth Mhangami:

you could bungee jump naked for free.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And so I wore this t-shirt in the hopes that I would do that one day.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I still wear it because it was, they made good clothes back in the nineties.

Rabiah Coon:

Nice.

Rabiah Coon:

So if every day was Groundhog's Day like it seemed during the pandemic, especially

Rabiah Coon:

like, you know, where the days were all the same, um, what song would you have

Rabiah Coon:

played to wake you up every morning?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

This question was so hard.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I wonder if this will age well.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

. It would be, I'm sorry to not follow the rules, but it's gonna be two

Elizabeth Mhangami:

songs and it's going to be the Indigo Girls galileo and Closer to Fine.

Rabiah Coon:

Oh, nice.

Rabiah Coon:

Okay.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

They would flow into eachother

Rabiah Coon:

We'll pretend it's an A and a B side or something.

Rabiah Coon:

All right, cool.

Rabiah Coon:

And then coffee or tea or neither?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Tea.

Rabiah Coon:

Tea.

Rabiah Coon:

All right.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Vestiges of colonialism, baby.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Four o'clock.

Rabiah Coon:

And I live in the co the colonialism country, believe me.

Rabiah Coon:

So can you think of a time when you like laughed so hard you cried,

Rabiah Coon:

or just something that always cracks you up when you think of it?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Oh gosh, there's so many.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I would say that the scene in The Big Lebowski where his landlord

Elizabeth Mhangami:

comes in, comes to him and says, dude, it's already the fifth.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And he's like far out.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And then the realization happens that his rent is due.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Bar none, will always get me,

Rabiah Coon:

Cause it's so great.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

and I think he's mixing a white Russian.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I'm gonna watch it

Elizabeth Mhangami:

tonight too.

Rabiah Coon:

I know.

Rabiah Coon:

Now we both have something to do this evening.

Rabiah Coon:

I really think I will.

Rabiah Coon:

Oh my God.

Rabiah Coon:

All right.

Rabiah Coon:

That's awesome.

Rabiah Coon:

All right.

Rabiah Coon:

And then the last of the Fun Five, who inspires you right now?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I would say that at the moment it would be Bell Hooks because

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I'm reading all About Love, which I was assigned to read in graduate school.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I read differently.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And so I'm reading it now again and it It's just one of those things

Elizabeth Mhangami:

where I'm like, oh gosh, she was alive in my time and I just wish I

Elizabeth Mhangami:

had paid a lot of attention, but I just did say regret is wasted energy.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I don't regret it, but I am sort of, I don't know, reading her and,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

and receiving and understanding her differently in this moment.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

Huh.

Rabiah Coon:

That's great.

Rabiah Coon:

Well, Liz, this has been awesome.

Rabiah Coon:

I wanna ask if you, if people wanna find you, wanna reach out to you or

Rabiah Coon:

anything like that, where's, where are the best places for them to go?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Trying to wean myself off all the social media.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I think the best place and I think for this context, if anything I've said

Elizabeth Mhangami:

is useful to somebody is on LinkedIn.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It's just Elizabeth Mhangami, but once they see the spelling on the

Elizabeth Mhangami:

podcast, they could just find me.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I'm not, I'm not hard to find.

Rabiah Coon:

Super.

Rabiah Coon:

All right.

Rabiah Coon:

Well, Liz, thanks so much for taking the time to chat with me.

Rabiah Coon:

I really appreciate.

Rabiah Coon:

It was really great.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Thank you Avia.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I'm glad we finally got to do this.

Rabiah Coon:

Me too.

Rabiah Coon:

Thanks for listening.

Rabiah Coon:

You can learn more about the guest and what was talked about in the show notes.

Rabiah Coon:

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Rabiah Coon:

You can find him on Spotify at Joe M A F F I A.

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Rabiah Coon:

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