This is More Than Work, the podcast reminding you that your self-worth
Rabiah Coon:is made up of more than your job title.
Rabiah Coon:Each week I'll talk to a guest about how they discovered that for themselves.
Rabiah Coon:You'll hear about what they did, what they're doing, and who they are.
Rabiah Coon:I'm your host, Rabiah.
Rabiah Coon:I work in IT, perform standup comedy, write, volunteer, and of course, podcast.
Rabiah Coon:Thank you for listening.
Rabiah Coon:Here we go.
Rabiah Coon:All right.
Rabiah Coon:Welcome back to More Than Work everybody.
Rabiah Coon:I am really excited to have this guest on.
Rabiah Coon:We've been talking for a while actually on other calls, not, not More Than Work, but
Rabiah Coon:actually my other work calls I would say.
Rabiah Coon:And uh, I'm really glad to bring you Elizabeth Mhangami.
Rabiah Coon:She is a social entrepreneur.
Rabiah Coon:So thanks for being on the podcast, Lizz.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Thank you for having me, Rabiah.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I'm glad we finally found a time to do this that works for both of us.
Rabiah Coon:Yeah, totally, totally.
Rabiah Coon:So where am I talking to you from today?
Elizabeth Mhangami:I am currently in Hoffman Estates, which is a
Elizabeth Mhangami:suburb sort of northwest of Chicago.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So that's where I am.
Rabiah Coon:Nice.
Rabiah Coon:And the last time I talked to you, you were in Southern?
Rabiah Coon:Yeah.
Rabiah Coon:In Southern Africa.
Rabiah Coon:Yeah.
Rabiah Coon:In Zimbabwe.
Rabiah Coon:Yeah.
Rabiah Coon:And uh, just so people know why I was talking to you before, my boss, my former
Rabiah Coon:boss now, just my friend and coworker Jamila and you are really good friends.
Rabiah Coon:And we just ended up chatting on my work calls sometimes.
Rabiah Coon:So
Elizabeth Mhangami:Yes, I would listen in to you and Jamila's
Elizabeth Mhangami:calls and have an opinion about a workplace that I do not work at.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And I also don't actually know what you all do, but I had a lot of opinions.
Rabiah Coon:Yeah.
Rabiah Coon:And you'd share them with me and that's how we bonded.
Rabiah Coon:So now,
Elizabeth Mhangami:I suppose the experience of work is universal.
Rabiah Coon:Exactly.
Rabiah Coon:We're gonna find out, right?
Rabiah Coon:That's what we're gonna do right now.
Rabiah Coon:So, yeah.
Rabiah Coon:So I guess first of all you're in Chicago now.
Rabiah Coon:You were in Zimbabwe, that's where you're actually from originally, right?
Rabiah Coon:Yeah.
Rabiah Coon:So just let me maybe just tell people about you, kind of, you know, going
Rabiah Coon:from Zimbabwe to the US back there now back, back here, and just whatever you
Rabiah Coon:wanna say about, about that part really.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Yeah, sure um, so I left Zimbabwe for the first time
Elizabeth Mhangami:to come to the US when I was 19, and I spent about 10 years in the US.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And during that time I was as an immigrant trying to figure out what
Elizabeth Mhangami:opportunities existed for me in the US.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So I started off working jobs as a nanny.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And then I started going to school, trying to work and go to school at the same time.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And I managed to get myself a lot of really interesting work experiences.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So I worked as a nanny.
Elizabeth Mhangami:At one point I was a telemarketer selling insurance.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I wasn't very good at it.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Then I worked in Victoria's Secret.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I worked at Smoothie King.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I didn't last at Smoothie King.
Rabiah Coon:I worked at Dairy Queen, so I'm also a food court,
Rabiah Coon:I'm food court royalty also.
Rabiah Coon:Yes,
Elizabeth Mhangami:I love it.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I've never heard of food court royalty, but I can't wait to start using it.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Then I had a stint as the membership director for the
Elizabeth Mhangami:Chicago Athletic Association.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And then, and during that time I was.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Attending community college, trying to get myself into a four year institution.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And I eventually got myself into Loyola here in Chicago to do the last
Elizabeth Mhangami:two years of a bachelor's degree.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And during that time I got a job working or running a youth employment
Elizabeth Mhangami:program in the north neighborhood in Chicago called Rogers Park.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So I was responsible to get the youth job ready and then also find them work
Elizabeth Mhangami:opportunities in the community as well as do a little bit of fundraising to
Elizabeth Mhangami:keep the program supported outside of the state funds that existed.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And so I would say that that job in particular started shaping what
Elizabeth Mhangami:has ended up being a career for me.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And that's working with young people.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So that job led me to my graduation and I went on to work for a nonprofit
Elizabeth Mhangami:in Chicago called Women Employed.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And I was in a position that allowed me to work with human service.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Agencies that were helping people who were living in public housing.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And our focus, of course, was on women and trying to work on their asset building
Elizabeth Mhangami:and employability that while that was going, I had Quite a robust volunteer
Elizabeth Mhangami:life I was affiliated, still am I suppose, with Rotary International at the time.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And for people who don't know about Rotary, it's a service organization
Elizabeth Mhangami:that was started in Chicago actually, but I learned about it in Zimbabwe
Elizabeth Mhangami:because they have high school clubs, this service learning clubs.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And so I joined Interact in Zimbabwe in Lowai in the city that I grew up in.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And I then, because it's a nat...
Elizabeth Mhangami:International organization, it allows you to then meet other
Elizabeth Mhangami:people who are affiliated with it in whatever city you are in the world.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So it's that you always have community.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So I came to Chicago and joined the junior Rotarians called Rotoract.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And through that I was engaged in a project to send
Elizabeth Mhangami:medical supplies to Zimbabwe.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And that really got me going on thinking about sort of a more sustainable
Elizabeth Mhangami:way to be involved with some of the challenges that Zimbabwe was
Elizabeth Mhangami:experiencing as a result of political in international sort of machinations
Elizabeth Mhangami:that were happening at the time.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And coupling that experience with working with youth in, in Chicago and also working
Elizabeth Mhangami:with women in low income communities, I really started thinking about what
Elizabeth Mhangami:was happening at home and thinking specifically about youth communities in
Elizabeth Mhangami:Zimbabwe and what was happening with them.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So I ended up creating a nonprofit whose mission was to do something
Elizabeth Mhangami:similar to what I'd been doing in Rogers Park with the youth.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So job readiness, entrepreneurship, targeted at young people who show an
Elizabeth Mhangami:interest or an acumen for business, but don't have the social capital or the
Elizabeth Mhangami:experience to to ha have that happen.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Been in a way that we hear about different entrepreneurs
Elizabeth Mhangami:who have the wealth of network.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So I moved back to Zimbabwe in 2008, 2009, sorry.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And at that time I set up a 501c3 in the U.S.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So I had two entities; one that I fundraised through, and then the one
Elizabeth Mhangami:in Zimbabwe working with the youth and did that for about eight years.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Our youth that we worked with were child heads of household, so they'd lost
Elizabeth Mhangami:their parents mainly to AIDS related complications and the oldest of the
Elizabeth Mhangami:children often always a girl would take on the responsibility of work of, of
Elizabeth Mhangami:taking care of the family economically, socially in as much as a kid at that age
Elizabeth Mhangami:can do when they no longer have parents.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And that really e evolved into a social enterprise where we were trying
Elizabeth Mhangami:to help these young people create a business or businesses, and also
Elizabeth Mhangami:help the organization find financial independence from donor funding.
Elizabeth Mhangami:But we wanted to create a business that had social impacts in terms of providing
Elizabeth Mhangami:services and products that the community needed, but also providing young people
Elizabeth Mhangami:with a source of income and also giving them experience to, you know, learn
Elizabeth Mhangami:a skill learn how to work, because many of the youth we were working with
Elizabeth Mhangami:weren't entrepreneurial out of a desire.
Elizabeth Mhangami:It was out of necessity.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So some of them, you know, really just wanted a job or some of
Elizabeth Mhangami:them wanted to go back to school.
Elizabeth Mhangami:There were different number of different interests, but then the organization
Elizabeth Mhangami:itself also needed sustainability.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So we were hoping that the social enterprise could also keep the
Elizabeth Mhangami:organization buoyant so that we could continue to impact the
Elizabeth Mhangami:lives of different young people.
Elizabeth Mhangami:As many people who might be listening to the podcast will know fundraising,
Elizabeth Mhangami:nonprofit, fundraising also in a country that had its unique challenges, it became
Elizabeth Mhangami:a little harder to keep myself in a salary as well as keep the organization going.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So I started within the seventh year working toward transitioning leadership
Elizabeth Mhangami:of the organization to the community that we were working within, and some
Elizabeth Mhangami:of the youth that had been involved with the organization from when I started it.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And I managed to do that at the end of 2018.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And then I took on a, a job, a salary was important at that point, in Swaziland,
Elizabeth Mhangami:or it's now called the Kingdom of Eswatini, which is in Southern Africa.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So if people think of this map of South Africa, there's two countries within
Elizabeth Mhangami:the borders of South Africa, and one of them is the Kingdom of Eswatini.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And I joined an international school there called Waterford Kamhlaba.
Elizabeth Mhangami:It's part of a network of 18 schools called the United World Colleges that
Elizabeth Mhangami:focus on helping youth become change makers through a the IB curriculum
Elizabeth Mhangami:in the last two years of high school.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And I was there for four years as an advancement director, so I
Elizabeth Mhangami:managed the school's fundraising for scholarships, alumni relations,
Elizabeth Mhangami:marketing, and communications.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And that I did for, for four years until the end of last year, and I
Elizabeth Mhangami:have just come back to Chicago in February to start a position with
Elizabeth Mhangami:another youth organization here in Chicago called the Mikva Challenge.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And we focus on civic education and youth voice.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So we work with youth in community as well as teachers in schools.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And my role is director of major gifts.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So I would say, I guess all the experiences that I've had with fundraising
Elizabeth Mhangami:has sort of brought me to this position.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And I think that kind of gives a synopsis of I come to be here now.
Rabiah Coon:Yeah.
Rabiah Coon:I like that you have your story down cause I know I've moved a few times and you
Rabiah Coon:kind of get the highlights going, right?
Rabiah Coon:Through each thing.
Rabiah Coon:But, so, no, that was good.
Rabiah Coon:And it just leaves me with a lot of questions now.
Rabiah Coon:Your path definitely clearly even from high school was, you know, you
Rabiah Coon:had service kind of as a part of it.
Rabiah Coon:What was it like for you, I guess growing up in Zimbabwe?
Rabiah Coon:I mean, did you come from a family that is service oriented or is this just something
Rabiah Coon:like, did you happen to just do it in high school cuz you had nothing else to do?
Rabiah Coon:What, what, what drove that?
Elizabeth Mhangami:I think it's a combination of yes to the two questions
Elizabeth Mhangami:that I heard out of that, do I come from a family that is service oriented?
Elizabeth Mhangami:It's only until recently that I thought about it, but yeah, I do.
Elizabeth Mhangami:My family is Catholic and I think social justice and service is
Elizabeth Mhangami:a huge part of Catholicism and the tenants of being a Catholic.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I don't describe myself as as Catholic.
Elizabeth Mhangami:In fact, I don't ascribe to any organized religion anymore.
Elizabeth Mhangami:But I watched my mother growing up being a part of different
Elizabeth Mhangami:groups related to the church.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So the Catholic Women's League, there's a sort of an order of, I don't know.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Yeah.
Elizabeth Mhangami:It's an order called St.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Anne's that she's a part of.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And I saw her take up roles on the committee.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And then in our community, my mom and her girlfriends would have these clubs.
Elizabeth Mhangami:The official term is Village Savings Clubs.
Elizabeth Mhangami:It's a model where women get together and we all put money in a pool.
Elizabeth Mhangami:If there's, you know, five of us, we each get a chance to get that money to use for
Elizabeth Mhangami:some sort of investment, but we always have to bring back sort of the seed money.
Elizabeth Mhangami:It's called a round, so as that the next person can pick up on the round.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So I definitely grew up seeing that and Interact.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I, I love to tell the story because I think it says a lot about me.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I went to a school in Zimbabwe.
Elizabeth Mhangami:That is a school that was started by Bavarian nuns.
Rabiah Coon:Okay.
Elizabeth Mhangami:About 120, maybe 130 years ago.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So definitely as part of the colonizing mission of Africa,
Elizabeth Mhangami:the school was established.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And as a student there in the nineties, it was a Catholic school that was very
Elizabeth Mhangami:interested in protecting our chastity.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So we weren't allowed to engage or talk to boys in school uniform.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And the only way that you could do that sanctioned was to join
Elizabeth Mhangami:the Interact Club because the Interact Club always had a social.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And so, you know, at 15, that was the first club I was joining
Elizabeth Mhangami:because then you got to see boys and they're boys of a particular
Elizabeth Mhangami:school that I was interested in that.
Rabiah Coon:amazing.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So the year that I joined Interact, 1995, was
Elizabeth Mhangami:10 years before Rotary International would be celebrating its centennial.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And so the, the, the international organization decided that they would spend
Elizabeth Mhangami:that last decade leading up to a hundred years eradicating polio from the world.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So as Interactors joining the club, one of the first service activities
Elizabeth Mhangami:we did was to help the Rotary Club members administer polio vaccines
Elizabeth Mhangami:in communities that were peri-urban.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So surrounding the city that I was growing up in, and I think for me
Elizabeth Mhangami:at fifteen, because my, I mean, my family is big and we have varying
Elizabeth Mhangami:degrees of socioeconomic status.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So there are, some of my mom's siblings and herself we're like highly educated
Elizabeth Mhangami:through my grandparents' efforts.
Elizabeth Mhangami:But then there are some members of the family who aren't.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So I wouldn't say that, you know, doing that polio vaccination thing was
Elizabeth Mhangami:exposure to difference in, in, in, in, in economic status and what people have.
Elizabeth Mhangami:But it, there was something about going a few minutes outside of my
Elizabeth Mhangami:city, a few minutes outside of my high school and seeing people living
Elizabeth Mhangami:in a way that one at that point could have described as abject poverty.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Yet I was going to the school and I, I must say that I was
Elizabeth Mhangami:a, a bursary kid at the school.
Elizabeth Mhangami:My mom was a widow.
Elizabeth Mhangami:My dad died when, I'm the youngest of four kids, so my dad died when I was three.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And so my mother ma was managing to educate my siblings and myself on her own.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So I did have a bursary.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So I wasn't one of the rich kids of what is a private school, but I
Elizabeth Mhangami:certainly was aware of the privilege that I did have in comparison to
Elizabeth Mhangami:the families that we were meeting.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And I was seeing a lot of young women who might have been my age or, or a
Elizabeth Mhangami:few years older than me, maybe the ages of my sisters, who were carrying
Elizabeth Mhangami:babies and were obviously in a stage of life that I, you know, the, the
Elizabeth Mhangami:Falcon College Boy chaser was not in.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And that just, it had an impact on me, you know, in years, now that I talk
Elizabeth Mhangami:about it, I don't talk about it the way I used to in my twenties when I would
Elizabeth Mhangami:sort of say that it changed my life.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And Rotary's motto is "service above self".
Elizabeth Mhangami:Because I would, I used to say that service above self became
Elizabeth Mhangami:what I am about, but I think I'm, I've, I've moved slightly on that.
Elizabeth Mhangami:But it did really that, that experience impacted me.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I did go on to chase boys and go to socials, but I was definitely quite
Elizabeth Mhangami:aware of the role that I had within this Interact Club as a young person to be
Elizabeth Mhangami:able to do or make a difference or just be in, involved in community development
Elizabeth Mhangami:in a way that I hadn't been exposed to.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So I would say that those are kind of what my influences are, but I,
Elizabeth Mhangami:yeah, it's, it's, it's being raised and educated by Catholics and then
Elizabeth Mhangami:having this orientation around service and community at such a young age
Elizabeth Mhangami:and it having a lasting impression.
Rabiah Coon:Yeah, definitely.
Rabiah Coon:And what did you study when you were in school?
Elizabeth Mhangami:So at Loyola, I graduated with a degree in
Elizabeth Mhangami:political science and women.
Elizabeth Mhangami:It was called, Women's Studies.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And I had courses in international relations as well.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So there was a time where I really felt that my place for work would
Elizabeth Mhangami:be the UN or an international organization of some sort.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And I was very interested, especially having left Zimbabwe because of, you
Elizabeth Mhangami:know, economic challenges and political challenges, I was very interested
Elizabeth Mhangami:in affecting change politically, geopolitically in Zimbabwe because
Elizabeth Mhangami:that kind of the history of Zimbabwe at that time and my being in the US
Elizabeth Mhangami:as an immigrant, I found that that was something that I spoke about a lot in
Elizabeth Mhangami:terms of explaining why I was in the US and also just trying to find purpose
Elizabeth Mhangami:within a survivor's guilt that comes from leaving your home country because
Elizabeth Mhangami:of political and economic challenges.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Because you leave family and friends there and you are now in a different place.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And so I felt a compulsion to be representative of Zimbabwe somehow.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So that's what I studied and I met jamila in graduate school where I started off
Elizabeth Mhangami:as an International Studies master's student but then I ended up switching to,
Elizabeth Mhangami:to Women's Studies and my focus then was around looking at ideas of citizenship
Elizabeth Mhangami:and, and na and national identity for women in post-colonial Southern Africa.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And I was looking at, because at the time Zimbabwe was had seen the
Elizabeth Mhangami:rise of opposition politics and there was one party in particular
Elizabeth Mhangami:that was giving the then ruling.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Party a run for their money.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And the women within that party were emerging as strong leaders,
Elizabeth Mhangami:but also ones that were severely targeted by the, by the state.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And through that, that targeting questions around citizenship and national identity
Elizabeth Mhangami:where women were concerned were coming up.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And as you know, a, a a, an academic aspiring academic at
Elizabeth Mhangami:the time, I was very interested
Elizabeth Mhangami:in, in the sort of creation of nation state and the, and
Elizabeth Mhangami:the role that women play.
Rabiah Coon:Hmm.
Rabiah Coon:Yeah.
Rabiah Coon:I mean that's, I was gonna make an assumption, but I'd rather just ask you,
Rabiah Coon:was, what was the biggest shock to you if there was one about coming to the
Rabiah Coon:US and just seeing things in the US and then in the parts of Chicago you were
Rabiah Coon:in versus in Zimbabwe where you grew up?
Rabiah Coon:Cause I think I, like, I live in England now, right?
Rabiah Coon:So, and I'm from the States, so I had ideas about things and of
Rabiah Coon:course culturally they're not, that, they're not as dissimilar as
Rabiah Coon:everyone pretends they are, you know?
Rabiah Coon:But for you, how is that, I guess, going from the country and, and
Rabiah Coon:what it was like, but still loving your country, clearly loving it.
Rabiah Coon:And then going into the us what, just, what was that experience like?
Elizabeth Mhangami:so I, it's, it's poverty.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Let me, let me answer things succinctly.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Poverty.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I was not expecting to see as much poverty, was I expecting to
Elizabeth Mhangami:see it at the level that I did.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Now, I will also caveat that by saying I think that as an immigrant, especially
Elizabeth Mhangami:an immigrant who comes into this country with education and social capital.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So my experience, my, and, and, and that of my family is that we have arrived
Elizabeth Mhangami:in the US and managed to participate in American society at a middle class level.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So that also means that socially our family wasn't immediately exposed
Elizabeth Mhangami:to the experience of being of lower income and being of color in the US and
Elizabeth Mhangami:having those two things work against you and because of the way society, I
Elizabeth Mhangami:think it's, it's, it's, it's existent in any society, there is always that
Elizabeth Mhangami:elevation of the good immigrant.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And I think that we, in our initial years, we played at that level and often
Elizabeth Mhangami:didn't see what was really The diversity of experience and also because even a
Elizabeth Mhangami:person who is on state benefits is often in a better position materialistically
Elizabeth Mhangami:to a person who is in that same level of being without in Zimbabwe.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So we were also of the opinion that black and brown people in America,
Elizabeth Mhangami:especially those born here were the luckiest black and brown people in the
Elizabeth Mhangami:world because they have all these things.
Elizabeth Mhangami:But for me, then working within programs that were funded by the state trying
Elizabeth Mhangami:to implement social changes through the varying programs, I sort of came
Elizabeth Mhangami:to face-to-face with poverty in America and those people who are living in,
Elizabeth Mhangami:in that bracket of, of vulnerability.
Elizabeth Mhangami:It gave me a, just, that was a shock for me.
Elizabeth Mhangami:It took me a while to understand.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And it's actually a story Jamila likes to tell just in terms of --I don't know how
Elizabeth Mhangami:familiar you are with Chicago, but Chicago has, you must have heard of Cabrini-Green.
Elizabeth Mhangami:It's been transformed now to be a mixed income neighborhood, but there
Elizabeth Mhangami:were the towers and, and the row houses that people will remember.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And I had a job working for a human services organization there,
Elizabeth Mhangami:and it was just eye-opening.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I hadn't seen or experienced and didn't expect it in America because it's the
Elizabeth Mhangami:land of milk and honey, so everybody is just got cash and everything they need.
Rabiah Coon:So then, yeah, in your view, changes of what the impoverished
Rabiah Coon:in America really are experiencing and I don't know if it's a fair like comparison
Rabiah Coon:to make, but it's not much different than I think kind of what's happened in general
Rabiah Coon:with people having a different perspective like white people having a different
Rabiah Coon:perspective on people of color, right?
Rabiah Coon:Because.
Rabiah Coon:I think, you know, in the last couple years with what happened with
Rabiah Coon:the death of George Floyd and then other things, I think that became
Rabiah Coon:a big thing where all of a sudden people are like, whoa, now I get it.
Rabiah Coon:Like, people who before said, oh, why, why are, you know, it's the same
Rabiah Coon:thing, men say, why do women complain?
Rabiah Coon:Well,
Elizabeth Mhangami:Yeah, just work hard.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Pull up, pull yourself by your bootstraps.
Rabiah Coon:Yeah and like, you know, you can't say anything anymore.
Rabiah Coon:Well, why do you have to say sexually explicit things to me?
Rabiah Coon:I don't understand.
Rabiah Coon:You know?
Rabiah Coon:But then it goes to the more serious thing of like race in America
Rabiah Coon:where it's white versus whatever.
Rabiah Coon:And, and white people really, I mean, a lot of them not like the, you have
Rabiah Coon:the white people who say they don't see color, which is totally ridiculous,
Rabiah Coon:unless they mean they're color blind and then it's red and green.
Rabiah Coon:It has nothing to do with people.
Rabiah Coon:Or the white people who completely ignore the fact that there's an issue.
Rabiah Coon:And then, but then you get into like another subset of people who you learn
Rabiah Coon:about what other people are going through and go, oh, wow, that's going on there.
Rabiah Coon:But I don't know.
Rabiah Coon:It's, it's a, it's a thing of, of perspective and gaining
Rabiah Coon:perspective and, and seeing, you know, what, it's, what's going on.
Rabiah Coon:One, one thing that struck me a lot was when you just talked about leaving your
Rabiah Coon:organization in Zimbabwe and leaving it to the people, really, the leadership
Rabiah Coon:and, and having the community then lead and that reminds me a lot of, you know,
Rabiah Coon:servant leadership, which I don't know if that's something that you feel you
Rabiah Coon:practice, but also something I learned.
Rabiah Coon:I was in a program at Harvard, a Public Leadership Credential, and
Rabiah Coon:we learned about moral leadership.
Rabiah Coon:But that really, truly is what you were doing there by, by putting
Rabiah Coon:the people at the focus and then ultimately having them be empowered
Rabiah Coon:to kind of run the organization.
Rabiah Coon:Or even what you talked about the women in Zimbabwe would do with the money and, and
Rabiah Coon:they would be empowered to make decisions.
Rabiah Coon:I mean, that just really strikes me as really forward thinking because a
Rabiah Coon:lot of people who are quote unquote leaders won't think in that way.
Rabiah Coon:They'll make themselves the most important.
Rabiah Coon:And how did you come to that decision?
Rabiah Coon:Or what, did you learn something that made you go that way?
Rabiah Coon:Or is that instinct?
Elizabeth Mhangami:You know, it's something that I, I, I don't know.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I have a lot of discomforts around certain things.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And I think one of the things that I have really struggled with embracing
Elizabeth Mhangami:and, and being able to articulate for myself is that I am a leader.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I, I have a lot of discomfort with that because I immediately
Elizabeth Mhangami:go to thinking that people see ego in me saying and stating that.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So I, I think that I was always keenly aware of wanting to make
Elizabeth Mhangami:sure that the organization is not about me or dependent on me.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So there was always an intention, an intentionality around.
Elizabeth Mhangami:My dream was that the first group of youth that I started working with, that
Elizabeth Mhangami:one of them would replace me and, and continue the organization without me.
Elizabeth Mhangami:The one thing that I didn't anticipate was that when you are a founder
Elizabeth Mhangami:of something almost, you birth something so it, it becomes your baby.
Elizabeth Mhangami:It's your thing.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And you also have very clear ideas about where this baby's going to end up in
Elizabeth Mhangami:college, what career it's going to have.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So I had a very clear idea about my organization becoming a youth led
Elizabeth Mhangami:youth run social enterprise that had three businesses encompassed in it,
Elizabeth Mhangami:a organic market garden, a beekeeping enterprise that produced beeswax candles
Elizabeth Mhangami:and beeswax lip balms, and a soap.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Cold press soap, that was also going to have inputs from our organic garden.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And then we were also going to have a business that was doing
Elizabeth Mhangami:rooftop gardens for hotels and putting soaps in hotel rooms.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And it would become the.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Beautiful.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I still see it.
Elizabeth Mhangami:This beautiful ecosystem of product being made from the organization is called
Elizabeth Mhangami:vu, which means children of the soil.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And, and yeah, and, and, and we were going to be this wonderful machine where
Elizabeth Mhangami:the youth would find job opportunities within the social enterprise or they
Elizabeth Mhangami:would start their own businesses related to that ecosystem selling us beehives,
Elizabeth Mhangami:repairing our beehives, making bee suits.
Elizabeth Mhangami:There was all the stuff that could happen, but it was a vision that
Elizabeth Mhangami:was based in my subjectivity and not in the subjectivity of the youth.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I came to a realization when we finally, and I, I, I was a bulldozer about a
Elizabeth Mhangami:lot of things, but we finally got to a point where a hotel agreed to us
Elizabeth Mhangami:putting a rooftop garden on their roof in Victoria Falls, which is the, you
Elizabeth Mhangami:know, premium destination in Zimbabwe.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So I was closer to our social enterprise, finding business within
Elizabeth Mhangami:the tourism sector, and then I took a group of our youth to Victoria Falls.
Elizabeth Mhangami:We sat in a hotel room and one of them went into the bathroom of that
Elizabeth Mhangami:hotel room and walked out, holding a piece of soap and said, so this
Elizabeth Mhangami:is what you've been talking about.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And in that moment it was, and you'd think as a social worker, I would've remembered
Elizabeth Mhangami:this, but then I was like, oh my goodness, these kids have just been following me.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Blind faith.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Because they either believe in me or I am a source of income at the moment.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So whatever this crazy lady is talking about, we are gonna do it with her.
Elizabeth Mhangami:But of course, they'd never seen a hotel.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Or understood the con, cuz I kept, because they kept asking, why
Elizabeth Mhangami:are we learning how to make soap?
Elizabeth Mhangami:Because we are gonna make smaller soaps that will go into the hotels.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And they'd be like, oh, okay.
Rabiah Coon:They're like, fine.
Elizabeth Mhangami:But in that moment is when I thought, okay, so is
Elizabeth Mhangami:this my dream or is it their dream?
Elizabeth Mhangami:They have the skillset because they're the ones who put up the,
Elizabeth Mhangami:we did um, raised beds for this rooftop garden with drip irrigation.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I mean, the skillset and the, the, the level of expertise that these youth
Elizabeth Mhangami:developed, I will always be proud of that.
Elizabeth Mhangami:But the concept was not theirs.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And that's when, and that was, I think that was 2017 and that's when
Elizabeth Mhangami:I really realized that it was, it was time for me to make a decision.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And, a few years before that, I had been of the opinion, I
Elizabeth Mhangami:don't know how I came to it.
Elizabeth Mhangami:It's very specific that a nonprofit founder should not be the head of
Elizabeth Mhangami:that organ, the operating head of that organization past seven years.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I don't know where I came up with that.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And I said that in a New York Times article in 20, 11, so I also had seven
Elizabeth Mhangami:years was always playing on me and so I had essentially signed my resignation
Elizabeth Mhangami:date and, but in terms of the organization and the mission, that moment in that
Elizabeth Mhangami:hotel room showed me that I had to allow this organization that I had created in
Elizabeth Mhangami:partnership with a community of young people had to evolve in what it was going
Elizabeth Mhangami:to be and not what I wanted it to be.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So I started the process of letting go at that point.
Rabiah Coon:Wow.
Rabiah Coon:Yeah, I mean that's, that is eye-opening cuz to to just be
Rabiah Coon:like, their lived experience was so different by then from yours, even
Rabiah Coon:though you had in theory grown up in.
Elizabeth Mhangami:It's so funny that I didn't click in that moment because I.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I was like, yeah, we're the same.
Elizabeth Mhangami:We're the same.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I just have had this experience, but I'm sharing this
Elizabeth Mhangami:experience with them, you know?
Elizabeth Mhangami:And I was thinking, my experience was that of having gone to the US but my
Elizabeth Mhangami:experience was so different in terms of the school I went to, the neighborhood
Elizabeth Mhangami:I lived in, the fact that I was from a different ethnic group, from many of them.
Elizabeth Mhangami:The organization is named Vanavevhu which is Shona, the language that I,
Elizabeth Mhangami:that's my mother tongue, although I grew up in Ndebele speaking
Elizabeth Mhangami:Zimbabwe, so I speak in Ndebele and I could speak to many of the youth.
Elizabeth Mhangami:They mostly spoke in Ndebele.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So even the naming of the organization was deeply entrenched in my, in
Elizabeth Mhangami:my identity and subjective lens.
Rabiah Coon:Wow.
Rabiah Coon:Wow.
Rabiah Coon:So one thing you mentioned too about the life experience.
Rabiah Coon:I mean, you were working with youth who maybe were head of household as a
Rabiah Coon:children and you mentioned also aids, which that's one thing in the US too.
Rabiah Coon:AIDS was never in the us what it was in African countries.
Rabiah Coon:It was different.
Rabiah Coon:There was a different discrimination over here.
Rabiah Coon:It was very much entrenched in, you know, more around sexuality and that kind of
Rabiah Coon:thing I'd say, more than just general people, but then thinking you're talking
Rabiah Coon:about in the two thousands that where here in the US it's not even, I don't know.
Rabiah Coon:I mean, I don't wanna speak for everyone and I'm not in the US now, but I mean,
Rabiah Coon:just thinking about prevention and people just, you know, you can live
Rabiah Coon:with HIV now and stuff, but in, in African countries that still wouldn't
Rabiah Coon:be necessarily true in the same way.
Rabiah Coon:Just availability of drugs and stuff.
Rabiah Coon:And so people losing their parents to AIDS when they're young is that
Rabiah Coon:still, has, has there been changes to that or is that still something
Rabiah Coon:like your organization's serving now or the, your former organization?
Elizabeth Mhangami:I think that No one in, in, in Southern Africa, at least
Elizabeth Mhangami:there's very few people who weren't touched by the scourge of HIV/AIDS.
Elizabeth Mhangami:There's just, everybody has some experience.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I mean, within my family, their stories, I could tell.
Elizabeth Mhangami:What has been at least comforting is that socially the disease is not as
Elizabeth Mhangami:stigmatized as it was when it first started appearing in the early nineties.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And I think that that has a lot to do with communities losing just huge sections.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Like there was a time where you would read stories about Uganda, I know
Elizabeth Mhangami:as a country that was written a lot about how there were just communities
Elizabeth Mhangami:where there weren't any people between the ages of 18 and 40 anymore.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And you know, these are the people that were parents to the youth that I was
Elizabeth Mhangami:working in, working within Zimbabwe.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And so I really was moved by a lot of statistics that I, again,
Elizabeth Mhangami:it's all subjectivity statistics that were related to myself.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And I know the year that I founded Vanavevhu in 2007, the statistic
Elizabeth Mhangami:coming out of Zimbabwe was that life expectancy was 34 and I was 27.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And that again, was another thing of looking at myself and saying, okay,
Elizabeth Mhangami:so this statistics, this statistics says that in in seven years at 34
Elizabeth Mhangami:I, in seven years I could be gone.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So what do I do in seven years, maybe?
Elizabeth Mhangami:Actually that's where seven comes from.
Elizabeth Mhangami:From is this fatalistic connection to life expectancy in my home country.
Elizabeth Mhangami:But that's really, you know, something that I, I thought about.
Elizabeth Mhangami:But there is definitely a lot of work that has been done and people are
Elizabeth Mhangami:living with HIV, people are taking, have access now to the, the medication.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And they're taking the medication and it's not so much the life sentence that
Elizabeth Mhangami:it used to be because I really argue or would argue that many of the deaths
Elizabeth Mhangami:that we saw in our part of the world were because a diagnosis meant death.
Rabiah Coon:Yeah,
Elizabeth Mhangami:Because there was no medication.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And we can, we can criticize are they called international NGOs who
Elizabeth Mhangami:do public health work in, in Africa for a lot of things, but being able
Elizabeth Mhangami:to bring communities and put in mechanisms from medical treatment
Elizabeth Mhangami:being available to behavior modification interventions to changing social
Elizabeth Mhangami:structure just so that people have access to meds has done a huge thing.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And living in Swaziland, which was one of the countries, the tiny, a tiny
Elizabeth Mhangami:country that was heavily affected by HIV and AIDS, being there in the last four
Elizabeth Mhangami:years and, and being around people in the public health sector, there's been
Elizabeth Mhangami:a lot of wins and it's, it's definitely something that we are grateful that we
Elizabeth Mhangami:were able to get a hold of it get a handle on the impact that it was having.
Rabiah Coon:That's incredible.
Rabiah Coon:Yeah.
Rabiah Coon:Well, I, I think it is, it's great to hear about the progress and just it's
Rabiah Coon:really inspiring just to hear about how you're, you have evolved into this,
Rabiah Coon:this service-oriented life and also just kind of the boundaries you've
Rabiah Coon:set to move on when you needed to.
Rabiah Coon:So, one thing I like to ask every guest is, do you have any advice
Rabiah Coon:or mantra that you'd like to share with the people listening?
Elizabeth Mhangami:Do you know, I thought about that and, and I, I, it,
Elizabeth Mhangami:there's actually like a thank you for this conversation because I'm looking
Elizabeth Mhangami:forward to watching listening again, because there's realization that has
Elizabeth Mhangami:come up in this conversation that I don't think I had prior to us pressing record.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So thank you for that and I think choose you.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Just choose yourself all the time.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I'm 42 now, and so there comes, you know, sage and wisdom with that.
Elizabeth Mhangami:But I really, and I'm trying not to live in regret because it's futile, but I'm
Elizabeth Mhangami:really trying now to be present and to choose me and be comfortable with selfish.
Rabiah Coon:Yeah.
Rabiah Coon:That's awesome.
Rabiah Coon:Yeah.
Rabiah Coon:I love it.
Rabiah Coon:That's perfect.
Rabiah Coon:The conversation would be great for me too, so I'm, I'm really glad.
Rabiah Coon:So now I'm gonna do the Fun Five.
Rabiah Coon:It's the last five questions that I ask every guest.
Rabiah Coon:So what is the oldest T-shirt you have and still wear?
Elizabeth Mhangami:The oldest T-shirt I have and still wear is a
Elizabeth Mhangami:T-shirt my brother gave to me in 1998.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And it's a t-shirt that says Bungee Extreme.
Elizabeth Mhangami:It was a T-shirt, I think he bought in the town of Victoria Falls, where in
Elizabeth Mhangami:that time, bane Jumping was just coming on the scene and there was a, a tourism
Elizabeth Mhangami:company there that was promoting bungee jumping and there were stories that
Elizabeth Mhangami:you could bungee jump naked for free.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And so I wore this t-shirt in the hopes that I would do that one day.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And I still wear it because it was, they made good clothes back in the nineties.
Rabiah Coon:Nice.
Rabiah Coon:So if every day was Groundhog's Day like it seemed during the pandemic, especially
Rabiah Coon:like, you know, where the days were all the same, um, what song would you have
Rabiah Coon:played to wake you up every morning?
Elizabeth Mhangami:This question was so hard.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I wonder if this will age well.
Elizabeth Mhangami:. It would be, I'm sorry to not follow the rules, but it's gonna be two
Elizabeth Mhangami:songs and it's going to be the Indigo Girls galileo and Closer to Fine.
Rabiah Coon:Oh, nice.
Rabiah Coon:Okay.
Elizabeth Mhangami:They would flow into eachother
Rabiah Coon:We'll pretend it's an A and a B side or something.
Rabiah Coon:All right, cool.
Rabiah Coon:And then coffee or tea or neither?
Elizabeth Mhangami:Tea.
Rabiah Coon:Tea.
Rabiah Coon:All right.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Vestiges of colonialism, baby.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Four o'clock.
Rabiah Coon:And I live in the co the colonialism country, believe me.
Rabiah Coon:So can you think of a time when you like laughed so hard you cried,
Rabiah Coon:or just something that always cracks you up when you think of it?
Elizabeth Mhangami:Oh gosh, there's so many.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I would say that the scene in The Big Lebowski where his landlord
Elizabeth Mhangami:comes in, comes to him and says, dude, it's already the fifth.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And he's like far out.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And then the realization happens that his rent is due.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Bar none, will always get me,
Rabiah Coon:Cause it's so great.
Elizabeth Mhangami:and I think he's mixing a white Russian.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I'm gonna watch it
Elizabeth Mhangami:tonight too.
Rabiah Coon:I know.
Rabiah Coon:Now we both have something to do this evening.
Rabiah Coon:I really think I will.
Rabiah Coon:Oh my God.
Rabiah Coon:All right.
Rabiah Coon:That's awesome.
Rabiah Coon:All right.
Rabiah Coon:And then the last of the Fun Five, who inspires you right now?
Elizabeth Mhangami:I would say that at the moment it would be Bell Hooks because
Elizabeth Mhangami:I'm reading all About Love, which I was assigned to read in graduate school.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So I read differently.
Elizabeth Mhangami:And so I'm reading it now again and it It's just one of those things
Elizabeth Mhangami:where I'm like, oh gosh, she was alive in my time and I just wish I
Elizabeth Mhangami:had paid a lot of attention, but I just did say regret is wasted energy.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So I don't regret it, but I am sort of, I don't know, reading her and,
Elizabeth Mhangami:and receiving and understanding her differently in this moment.
Rabiah Coon:Yeah.
Rabiah Coon:Huh.
Rabiah Coon:That's great.
Rabiah Coon:Well, Liz, this has been awesome.
Rabiah Coon:I wanna ask if you, if people wanna find you, wanna reach out to you or
Rabiah Coon:anything like that, where's, where are the best places for them to go?
Elizabeth Mhangami:Trying to wean myself off all the social media.
Elizabeth Mhangami:So I think the best place and I think for this context, if anything I've said
Elizabeth Mhangami:is useful to somebody is on LinkedIn.
Elizabeth Mhangami:It's just Elizabeth Mhangami, but once they see the spelling on the
Elizabeth Mhangami:podcast, they could just find me.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I'm not, I'm not hard to find.
Rabiah Coon:Super.
Rabiah Coon:All right.
Rabiah Coon:Well, Liz, thanks so much for taking the time to chat with me.
Rabiah Coon:I really appreciate.
Rabiah Coon:It was really great.
Elizabeth Mhangami:Thank you Avia.
Elizabeth Mhangami:I'm glad we finally got to do this.
Rabiah Coon:Me too.
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