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Speaker:Hello, everyone.
Speaker:It's Tuesday, our favorite day of the week.
Speaker:We like to bring you ideas and information about marketing and
Speaker:growing and building businesses.
Speaker:So are you ready to get started, Jeannie?
Speaker:Ready?
Speaker:Great.
Speaker:So I'm Kirsten and that's my business partner, Jeannie, with
Speaker:Six Figure Business Coaching.
Speaker:We help our clients leverage video marketing using a trained
Speaker:marketing virtual assistant.
Speaker:So Jeannie, introduce us to our guest today.
Speaker:Yes, we're so excited.
Speaker:We have Maya Mansour from The Small Business Path and she has
Speaker:had such amazing experience.
Speaker:She was 20 years in corporate or not 20 years in corporate.
Speaker:Corporate was the first part of your life.
Speaker:And she called herself a well balanced nerd.
Speaker:I love that.
Speaker:And her gift to the business world has always been building a bridge between
Speaker:business and software developers.
Speaker:So 20 years ago, she kind of thought, what could I do differently so that I
Speaker:can earn a living and have my dream life?
Speaker:I wanted to, she wanted to spend more time with her teenage daughters and
Speaker:help people in a meaningful way with something you're passionate about.
Speaker:So she has had careers spanning from photography to real estate.
Speaker:And now she has a book called The Photographer's Focus.
Speaker:Do what you love, tell your client's story through images, and
Speaker:have the business of your dreams, where she documented her story.
Speaker:So we are so thrilled to have you today, Maya.
Speaker:Thank you so much for having me.
Speaker:Yeah, it's always fun to see how many, like we're all like cats,
Speaker:like we've had nine lives, right?
Speaker:Like, you know, and I think that's what's so wonderful about living in our time, is
Speaker:that You know, you do have the opportunity to work for corporate or to be self
Speaker:employed, or to bounce back and forth from time to time, because we evolve.
Speaker:Yeah, my journey has been a long and winding path.
Speaker:And I have had many years in corporate.
Speaker:I started my own business.
Speaker:My first business was the photography, wedding photography business
Speaker:that I wrote about in my book.
Speaker:About five years into that business, I helped a family relative with
Speaker:a problem they were having to needing to sell their home.
Speaker:And I accidentally created a whole business doing home staging because
Speaker:I, it's a serious problem that.
Speaker:Home sellers and realtors have it was something that I really enjoyed the
Speaker:process of doing and I was able to come up with a plan of action that.
Speaker:The realtor was thrilled to then take to her other clients.
Speaker:So, you know, along the way, I've had all of this business experience and
Speaker:have been helping friends, family, people I networked with, helping
Speaker:them with their small businesses.
Speaker:And it's really just grown into something that I love when people find that thing
Speaker:that they are just so passionate about and they figure out that they can do
Speaker:what they love and earn their dream life.
Speaker:I love that.
Speaker:There's nothing more exciting than starting a business.
Speaker:Well, maybe having kids.
Speaker:I don't know about that.
Speaker:But anyway, for me, there's nothing more exciting than
Speaker:starting and building a business.
Speaker:So you really get to work with people who are just maybe at that point where
Speaker:they're thinking, I want to travel this road of being an entrepreneur.
Speaker:I'm ready to just step out on my own.
Speaker:So what is the first piece of advice that you give to them?
Speaker:You know, it's actually interesting.
Speaker:I find that I help two different groups of people that have the same problem.
Speaker:One group are the people who want to figure out how to do what they love.
Speaker:The other is small business owners that are struggling with their business.
Speaker:And regardless of who they are, we always start with tapping into their
Speaker:inner dreamer so that they can really connect with what it is that they love.
Speaker:Even the people who have started a business and they're struggling with
Speaker:their message or they're struggling to find clients or they're struggling
Speaker:to keep clients biggest issue is they, because they're struggling, they're
Speaker:trying to become everything to everybody.
Speaker:And that doesn't work because you need to really know what is that part
Speaker:of my business I'm really passionate about or what is that thing in life?
Speaker:I'm really passionate about.
Speaker:And if you start by tapping into your inner dreamer that you can imagine a
Speaker:life where you could be doing this.
Speaker:And step number two is always give yourself permission to do it.
Speaker:I call it declaring dominion.
Speaker:I declare dominion over being able to follow this path.
Speaker:And that really shifts the mindset into being focused on doing what you love.
Speaker:And that's important because I think like Jeannie, when you left corporate
Speaker:America, you didn't really have any friends or family that were self employed.
Speaker:So you almost, and so people wouldn't understand why would you
Speaker:leave a perfectly good job, right?
Speaker:To, to try something on your own.
Speaker:And I love the fact that you talk about declaring dominion.
Speaker:So being able to say, I have the right to pursue this and I'm smart and I work
Speaker:hard and I know I can make this happen.
Speaker:So that, I think that's so important and I love the inner dreamer.
Speaker:Jeannie and I have a process called dream catcher journaling, where we just, you
Speaker:know, it's kind of like that, like using your subconscious mind to just randomly
Speaker:journal, like your hopes and your dreams and your goals and the ideal clients.
Speaker:And it just puts you in this great energy, this great space of realizing that you
Speaker:do have so much to offer the world and you do have the right to dream about it.
Speaker:So I love that of tapping into your inner dreamer.
Speaker:I have people write a letter to their inner, you know, it's one thing to
Speaker:think and to dream and as you know, it's another to write, but to write a
Speaker:letter to your inner dreamer to say, I want a life without limitations.
Speaker:Like, if I had a life without limitations, what would that be?
Speaker:Because even when we dream, we all have those.
Speaker:Limitations that we have put in our head or other people have put in our head.
Speaker:So we're always like, remove the limitations, remove
Speaker:the physical aspects of it.
Speaker:Because to really dream and to really do what you love, it's
Speaker:all about, it's emotionally, it's physically, it's spiritually.
Speaker:What is aligned with my sacred purpose?
Speaker:Because I believe we each have a sacred purpose that we came here to live.
Speaker:Absolutely.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:And I feel like when we're not in that direction, we often have so many
Speaker:stumbling blocks or, you know, we're fighting against something instead
Speaker:of being in the flow with that.
Speaker:Does that make sense?
Speaker:Absolutely.
Speaker:You know, I find that in my own life, you know, life happens
Speaker:and things get in the way.
Speaker:And in my own life, I had two very successful businesses and then my daughter
Speaker:passed away and I had to take time out.
Speaker:So there are big stumbling blocks.
Speaker:And yet, when I got far enough along in processing my grief, I was immediately
Speaker:back to helping people and helping people do what they love and helping,
Speaker:you know, focusing myself on what is, what is it that I really want to do?
Speaker:And so even though, you know, life happens and you have these stumbling
Speaker:blocks, if you've given yourself permission to follow your dream and you
Speaker:know that your soul is not going to be satisfied till you get there, it makes
Speaker:it so much easier to continue the path and continue to figure out the process.
Speaker:That is like, that's so brilliant because I think we live in a world
Speaker:where everyone's chasing happiness.
Speaker:And I think happiness, if we replaced it with fulfillment and contentment,
Speaker:so if you're living a fulfilling life where you're doing what you love
Speaker:and you're helping other people and you're content in who you are in that
Speaker:journey, I think that's happiness.
Speaker:And I think sometimes we use this word happiness without
Speaker:having a definition for it.
Speaker:Well, you know, after my daughter passed, I was desperate to know peace.
Speaker:I just wanted to be at peace.
Speaker:And of course, at that point, it was unrecognizable.
Speaker:How can you have peace after something so traumatic happens?
Speaker:And I've come to define peace as the state of being when you can find contentment,
Speaker:joy and meaningful connection, regardless of your circumstances.
Speaker:And so contentment, and I teach this as part of having your business.
Speaker:Do you make enough money?
Speaker:Do you have enough time to do your work?
Speaker:Do you have enough time to be with the people that you love?
Speaker:Do you have enough time for yourself?
Speaker:Right?
Speaker:If you don't, you're not going to create a business that's sustainable.
Speaker:Do you have joy in what you do?
Speaker:Because if you are not joyful, your soul is just going to continue to
Speaker:put obstacles in your place until you find a way to bring that joy.
Speaker:And then the third part of it is the meaningful connection.
Speaker:When you have meaningful connection with the people you work with, the
Speaker:people you serve in your business.
Speaker:Then you have peace in how you earn your living.
Speaker:And when you have peace in how you earn your living, then you can build
Speaker:peace in the rest of your life.
Speaker:That is amazing.
Speaker:I know when we first spoke about your daughter, you were really at a place
Speaker:where you were like, why am I here?
Speaker:Cause she's not.
Speaker:So it took a while to go through that grief and get to this place.
Speaker:But I think it's astonishing that you are now helping other
Speaker:people get to this place.
Speaker:You know, I feel like this is my sacred purpose, is to be able to show people,
Speaker:help people, so that when they do go through the hard stuff, they still
Speaker:have a way that's meaningful that they can have impact in this world.
Speaker:So when someone wants to start a business, so you help them kind of get in alignment
Speaker:with who they are and the joy and the peace, and then helping them figure
Speaker:out what business to start, what would you say the first step for that is?
Speaker:It's actually pretty easy.
Speaker:The first step in any business is figuring out what problem you're
Speaker:solving and who you're helping.
Speaker:And specific to the problem, it needs to be a human need that someone
Speaker:else is willing to pay you to solve.
Speaker:You know, if I love gardening, not everybody's going to pay me,
Speaker:but maybe there's specific people under specific circumstances.
Speaker:So what is the problem Am I solving the right problem?
Speaker:And who is it that I want to help?
Speaker:If you're not helping a group of the population that you are
Speaker:really meaningfully connected to, then it's not the right people.
Speaker:Yeah, because if you don't have that meaningful connection with them,
Speaker:then it's just selling to make money.
Speaker:And I think that's not, most people don't want to see themselves as a sales
Speaker:person that just sells to make money.
Speaker:But if you have a meaningful connection with them and the problem that they have.
Speaker:And the transformation that, you know, you can help them get, then that's a lasting
Speaker:relationship with that person in some way.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:I think for me, it is definitely not about how much money I make.
Speaker:It's how much value can I add to someone's life.
Speaker:And when you can add value to someone's life.
Speaker:The money will follow.
Speaker:Yeah, if your business isn't making money, you often don't have a money problem.
Speaker:You have a value problem or you have a problem stating your value, right?
Speaker:Your value proposition.
Speaker:So sometimes you may have the value, but you're not able to get the words down.
Speaker:So yeah, I think that's so true.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:And I mean, entrepreneurship is not an easy, it's not an easy life per se.
Speaker:So you have to, you know, be willing to go in every which
Speaker:way you need to go to get there.
Speaker:You know, it's just ongoing and you know, and that's great for some
Speaker:people and not so great for others.
Speaker:I mean, we love it and we can't get enough of learning and
Speaker:growing and helping our clients.
Speaker:Um, but, you know, not everyone wants that.
Speaker:Some people just want to do the nine to five and go home and forget about it.
Speaker:That's fine too.
Speaker:That kind of leads into your second point though, doesn't it?
Speaker:It does.
Speaker:That's what I was just going to say.
Speaker:You know, this, the second point of any business is your passion for it.
Speaker:And that's the why, the why of, Why am I doing this?
Speaker:Why am I solving this problem?
Speaker:Right?
Speaker:You want to pick something.
Speaker:You want to solve a problem where you have so much joy around it.
Speaker:And something that Jeannie said is like, I want to spend my, I want to spend the
Speaker:rest of my life learning how to help people find what they love to do for work.
Speaker:And not everybody that I help is going to have it.
Speaker:Go through exactly the same steps, like everyone is unique,
Speaker:everyone's path is unique.
Speaker:So part of my joy is spending the rest of my life figuring out how
Speaker:to help people do this in all of the different ways and all of the
Speaker:pieces of information that they need.
Speaker:If you don't have that passion to learn as much as you can and help
Speaker:in different ways and just to get joy out of doing it, then this isn't
Speaker:the right problem for you to solve.
Speaker:There may be a different problem where you have more passion.
Speaker:And how many people do you think the problem they end up solving
Speaker:for other people is a problem they solve for themselves?
Speaker:Because I feel like that was part of our journey with outsourcing, you
Speaker:know, when Jeannie had her agency and I said, I've read about outsourcing
Speaker:overseas, would you want to try it?
Speaker:And she's like, sure.
Speaker:You know?
Speaker:And so we went down this journey and we learned a lot the hard way and we
Speaker:made a million mistakes But we saw the value in having a team built overseas
Speaker:and building a business with the support of having virtual assistants.
Speaker:So do you feel like a lot of people end up solving a problem for other people that
Speaker:they've already solved for themselves?
Speaker:I think that's probably the best kind of problem to solve for
Speaker:someone else for two reasons.
Speaker:One is if you haven't been through it, you don't know when you have a problem
Speaker:that you have to solve for yourself.
Speaker:You already know the why other people are going to need this.
Speaker:You already know it's a problem that's waiting to happen, you know, and for
Speaker:me, part of the why I'm doing this is I did the corporate thing and I did
Speaker:the corporate thing for about 20 years.
Speaker:And then I made the leap and started my 1st business and I was, I almost felt
Speaker:backed into a corner in some respects of.
Speaker:The point in my life where I just had so much driving me to drop the great
Speaker:corporate job with the corner office and the great salary and all the employees.
Speaker:What I didn't know at that point was how easy it actually was to start your own
Speaker:business and how many people out there that are willing to help you on that path.
Speaker:And I would agree to some degree.
Speaker:I'm, I'm addicted to creating new businesses.
Speaker:You know, I started the photography business.
Speaker:Because it was my passion and I picked wedding photography because I had just
Speaker:photographed two family weddings and I knew there was a market and I, there was
Speaker:a lot of information I could go research.
Speaker:I accidentally started the real estate, the home staging business
Speaker:by solving a problem for someone I love and having the realtor reach out
Speaker:about two weeks later and say, hey, can you do that for my other clients?
Speaker:And being a small business person, I said, yes, I can and then had
Speaker:to figure out how to go do that.
Speaker:I actually started a third business that would have become very laborsome,
Speaker:so it didn't last very long, but I had a friend who was gluten free.
Speaker:In the day, early days when there wasn't much available, so she and I
Speaker:researched all kinds of recipes and flour mixtures and started baking for family.
Speaker:And then we had cafes come out and say, Hey, we really liked that.
Speaker:We tried that as house.
Speaker:Can you sell that?
Speaker:Can we sell your products at our cafes?
Speaker:I want to show people that when you find that problem that you know how
Speaker:to solve, it's not hard to take the leap and then make that a business.
Speaker:It's Absolutely.
Speaker:Especially the passion.
Speaker:They give the passion for it.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:I thought you were, you are a serial entrepreneur.
Speaker:Yes, I am.
Speaker:You know, you just see that problem and you can solve it and then you decide
Speaker:which one you want to stick with or not.
Speaker:My ideal is like helping other people get it, get their stuff off the ground.
Speaker:Perfect.
Speaker:So once they have the problem that they can solve, and they know that they
Speaker:have people willing to pay for it, and they have the passion for helping those
Speaker:people, what would you say the next step is for them after problem and passion?
Speaker:Plan of action.
Speaker:So once you know that there's a problem to be solved, and there's people out there
Speaker:willing to pay, and you are passionate about doing it, the plan of action is
Speaker:like the where, the when, and the how.
Speaker:When do you work?
Speaker:When do your customers need you to work?
Speaker:Is it a 9 to 5 thing?
Speaker:Is it an after hours and weekends thing?
Speaker:Does that work with your schedule?
Speaker:So you need a solid when.
Speaker:Then you need a solid where.
Speaker:You know, is this something that you needed a space for?
Speaker:Is it something that you're going to go to somebody else's space for?
Speaker:You know, like where are you physically going to do this work?
Speaker:And then the last part is how are you going to solve this problem?
Speaker:You need to be able to tell customers, you know, here's my framework.
Speaker:I normally do steps 1 through 7, and I'm going to talk to
Speaker:you about your circumstance.
Speaker:And maybe you need all of it.
Speaker:Maybe you need part of it, or maybe you need something different and
Speaker:I need to customize a little bit.
Speaker:But that solid plan of action is how you communicate to others.
Speaker:Thank you.
Speaker:What it is that you do and how you're going to help them.
Speaker:Process of working with you.
Speaker:And it's interesting when you're talking about the hours, obviously
Speaker:if you wanna work Monday through Friday, you're not gonna be a wedding
Speaker:photographer, right, . Exactly.
Speaker:Yeah, exactly.
Speaker:And I think these people don't always think about like, so
Speaker:what are, what are your values?
Speaker:And like, 'cause again, if your weekends are super important because your spouse
Speaker:works Monday through Friday and your kids are in school, And you don't want
Speaker:to be away from them when they're at home, then that might be a business
Speaker:you could pursue later in life when the kids are off the college or graduated.
Speaker:And this is right now you need to find something else to do.
Speaker:That could be Monday through Friday.
Speaker:And also even like, not only when do your clients want to meet with you and
Speaker:when are you actually front facing with them, but when are you going to do all
Speaker:of that paperwork, the bookkeeping, the, you know, everything else about the
Speaker:business, you know, if you're a mom and want to work, you know, school hours.
Speaker:Maybe you have those hours and then you have after the kids go
Speaker:to bed hours, or, you know, it's like what works for your family.
Speaker:It's not about the business.
Speaker:It's not about your life fitting into the business.
Speaker:It's how does this business fit into your life and making priority of
Speaker:time, you know, especially I started my small business path when my
Speaker:girls were 12 and 14, and I did it.
Speaker:So I could be.
Speaker:With them more lost my older daughter nine years later, and I can tell you
Speaker:there is not a day that goes by where I am not just humbly eternally grateful
Speaker:that I changed my lifestyle so that I could be with them because I think back
Speaker:and think about what I would have missed.
Speaker:And I just can't even imagine what that life would be.
Speaker:So I really encourage people to be like, Your family is so important.
Speaker:You need to make sure you have time with them.
Speaker:You'll never get that time back.
Speaker:So important.
Speaker:So very important.
Speaker:Wow.
Speaker:And like you said, looking back, you realize, you know, when you made that
Speaker:choice, you didn't know this, you didn't know what was coming your way.
Speaker:But you stepped out in faith and you made it work because
Speaker:the priority was your girls.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Well, and not only that, but like, I didn't know when I
Speaker:started my passion project that it would become theirs as well.
Speaker:Both of my girls came into the business as they got a little older.
Speaker:My oldest daughter, by the time she passed away, she was my business partner.
Speaker:She was photographing weddings with me and on her own.
Speaker:We had this entire life.
Speaker:Beyond being mother and daughter that we had, because I had started this
Speaker:business, she studied small business and entrepreneurship in college.
Speaker:Both of my girls, their lives, how they live their lives is totally
Speaker:different than it would have been had I not taken this leap.
Speaker:And that's also part of my passion, why I want to do this for others.
Speaker:Yeah, your passion definitely shines through.
Speaker:Well, Maya, if people want to get in touch with you, how would
Speaker:they get in touch with you?
Speaker:You certainly could go to the small business website, path.
Speaker:com, but if they would like to get a free copy of a book called finding
Speaker:your sacred purpose, how to do what I love and earn my dream life, they
Speaker:could go to find my sacred purpose.
Speaker:com.
Speaker:And there's a, an offering for free book, and there's also a 5 a month
Speaker:subscription course and community that they could join that will walk them
Speaker:through finding their sacred purpose.
Speaker:Thanks.
Speaker:Thank you so much for being here and sharing all this with us today.
Speaker:It was absolutely lovely.
Speaker:Thank you for having me.
Speaker:My pleasure.
Speaker:Thank you, Maya, so much for being here.
Speaker:We really appreciate it.
Speaker:And Maya, we appreciate you talking about such personal issues and your passion.
Speaker:It really comes through and we're excited to hopefully help you find those people
Speaker:that you're looking for here in our group or people in our group might know people.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:Thank you so much, everyone.
Speaker:Bye.