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Hello.

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Hello, everyone.

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It's Tuesday, our favorite day of the week.

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We like to bring you ideas and information about marketing and

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growing and building businesses.

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So are you ready to get started, Jeannie?

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Ready?

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Great.

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So I'm Kirsten and that's my business partner, Jeannie, with

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Six Figure Business Coaching.

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We help our clients leverage video marketing using a trained

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marketing virtual assistant.

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So Jeannie, introduce us to our guest today.

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Yes, we're so excited.

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We have Maya Mansour from The Small Business Path and she has

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had such amazing experience.

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She was 20 years in corporate or not 20 years in corporate.

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Corporate was the first part of your life.

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And she called herself a well balanced nerd.

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I love that.

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And her gift to the business world has always been building a bridge between

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business and software developers.

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So 20 years ago, she kind of thought, what could I do differently so that I

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can earn a living and have my dream life?

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I wanted to, she wanted to spend more time with her teenage daughters and

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help people in a meaningful way with something you're passionate about.

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So she has had careers spanning from photography to real estate.

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And now she has a book called The Photographer's Focus.

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Do what you love, tell your client's story through images, and

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have the business of your dreams, where she documented her story.

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So we are so thrilled to have you today, Maya.

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Thank you so much for having me.

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Yeah, it's always fun to see how many, like we're all like cats,

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like we've had nine lives, right?

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Like, you know, and I think that's what's so wonderful about living in our time, is

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that You know, you do have the opportunity to work for corporate or to be self

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employed, or to bounce back and forth from time to time, because we evolve.

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Yeah, my journey has been a long and winding path.

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And I have had many years in corporate.

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I started my own business.

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My first business was the photography, wedding photography business

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that I wrote about in my book.

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About five years into that business, I helped a family relative with

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a problem they were having to needing to sell their home.

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And I accidentally created a whole business doing home staging because

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I, it's a serious problem that.

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Home sellers and realtors have it was something that I really enjoyed the

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process of doing and I was able to come up with a plan of action that.

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The realtor was thrilled to then take to her other clients.

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So, you know, along the way, I've had all of this business experience and

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have been helping friends, family, people I networked with, helping

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them with their small businesses.

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And it's really just grown into something that I love when people find that thing

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that they are just so passionate about and they figure out that they can do

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what they love and earn their dream life.

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I love that.

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There's nothing more exciting than starting a business.

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Well, maybe having kids.

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I don't know about that.

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But anyway, for me, there's nothing more exciting than

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starting and building a business.

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So you really get to work with people who are just maybe at that point where

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they're thinking, I want to travel this road of being an entrepreneur.

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I'm ready to just step out on my own.

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So what is the first piece of advice that you give to them?

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You know, it's actually interesting.

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I find that I help two different groups of people that have the same problem.

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One group are the people who want to figure out how to do what they love.

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The other is small business owners that are struggling with their business.

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And regardless of who they are, we always start with tapping into their

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inner dreamer so that they can really connect with what it is that they love.

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Even the people who have started a business and they're struggling with

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their message or they're struggling to find clients or they're struggling

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to keep clients biggest issue is they, because they're struggling, they're

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trying to become everything to everybody.

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And that doesn't work because you need to really know what is that part

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of my business I'm really passionate about or what is that thing in life?

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I'm really passionate about.

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And if you start by tapping into your inner dreamer that you can imagine a

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life where you could be doing this.

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And step number two is always give yourself permission to do it.

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I call it declaring dominion.

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I declare dominion over being able to follow this path.

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And that really shifts the mindset into being focused on doing what you love.

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And that's important because I think like Jeannie, when you left corporate

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America, you didn't really have any friends or family that were self employed.

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So you almost, and so people wouldn't understand why would you

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leave a perfectly good job, right?

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To, to try something on your own.

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And I love the fact that you talk about declaring dominion.

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So being able to say, I have the right to pursue this and I'm smart and I work

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hard and I know I can make this happen.

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So that, I think that's so important and I love the inner dreamer.

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Jeannie and I have a process called dream catcher journaling, where we just, you

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know, it's kind of like that, like using your subconscious mind to just randomly

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journal, like your hopes and your dreams and your goals and the ideal clients.

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And it just puts you in this great energy, this great space of realizing that you

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do have so much to offer the world and you do have the right to dream about it.

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So I love that of tapping into your inner dreamer.

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I have people write a letter to their inner, you know, it's one thing to

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think and to dream and as you know, it's another to write, but to write a

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letter to your inner dreamer to say, I want a life without limitations.

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Like, if I had a life without limitations, what would that be?

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Because even when we dream, we all have those.

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Limitations that we have put in our head or other people have put in our head.

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So we're always like, remove the limitations, remove

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the physical aspects of it.

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Because to really dream and to really do what you love, it's

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all about, it's emotionally, it's physically, it's spiritually.

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What is aligned with my sacred purpose?

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Because I believe we each have a sacred purpose that we came here to live.

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Absolutely.

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Yeah.

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And I feel like when we're not in that direction, we often have so many

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stumbling blocks or, you know, we're fighting against something instead

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of being in the flow with that.

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Does that make sense?

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Absolutely.

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You know, I find that in my own life, you know, life happens

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and things get in the way.

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And in my own life, I had two very successful businesses and then my daughter

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passed away and I had to take time out.

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So there are big stumbling blocks.

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And yet, when I got far enough along in processing my grief, I was immediately

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back to helping people and helping people do what they love and helping,

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you know, focusing myself on what is, what is it that I really want to do?

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And so even though, you know, life happens and you have these stumbling

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blocks, if you've given yourself permission to follow your dream and you

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know that your soul is not going to be satisfied till you get there, it makes

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it so much easier to continue the path and continue to figure out the process.

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That is like, that's so brilliant because I think we live in a world

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where everyone's chasing happiness.

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And I think happiness, if we replaced it with fulfillment and contentment,

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so if you're living a fulfilling life where you're doing what you love

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and you're helping other people and you're content in who you are in that

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journey, I think that's happiness.

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And I think sometimes we use this word happiness without

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having a definition for it.

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Well, you know, after my daughter passed, I was desperate to know peace.

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I just wanted to be at peace.

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And of course, at that point, it was unrecognizable.

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How can you have peace after something so traumatic happens?

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And I've come to define peace as the state of being when you can find contentment,

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joy and meaningful connection, regardless of your circumstances.

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And so contentment, and I teach this as part of having your business.

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Do you make enough money?

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Do you have enough time to do your work?

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Do you have enough time to be with the people that you love?

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Do you have enough time for yourself?

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Right?

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If you don't, you're not going to create a business that's sustainable.

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Do you have joy in what you do?

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Because if you are not joyful, your soul is just going to continue to

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put obstacles in your place until you find a way to bring that joy.

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And then the third part of it is the meaningful connection.

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When you have meaningful connection with the people you work with, the

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people you serve in your business.

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Then you have peace in how you earn your living.

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And when you have peace in how you earn your living, then you can build

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peace in the rest of your life.

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That is amazing.

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I know when we first spoke about your daughter, you were really at a place

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where you were like, why am I here?

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Cause she's not.

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So it took a while to go through that grief and get to this place.

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But I think it's astonishing that you are now helping other

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people get to this place.

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You know, I feel like this is my sacred purpose, is to be able to show people,

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help people, so that when they do go through the hard stuff, they still

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have a way that's meaningful that they can have impact in this world.

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So when someone wants to start a business, so you help them kind of get in alignment

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with who they are and the joy and the peace, and then helping them figure

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out what business to start, what would you say the first step for that is?

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It's actually pretty easy.

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The first step in any business is figuring out what problem you're

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solving and who you're helping.

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And specific to the problem, it needs to be a human need that someone

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else is willing to pay you to solve.

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You know, if I love gardening, not everybody's going to pay me,

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but maybe there's specific people under specific circumstances.

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So what is the problem Am I solving the right problem?

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And who is it that I want to help?

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If you're not helping a group of the population that you are

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really meaningfully connected to, then it's not the right people.

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Yeah, because if you don't have that meaningful connection with them,

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then it's just selling to make money.

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And I think that's not, most people don't want to see themselves as a sales

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person that just sells to make money.

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But if you have a meaningful connection with them and the problem that they have.

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And the transformation that, you know, you can help them get, then that's a lasting

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relationship with that person in some way.

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Yes.

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I think for me, it is definitely not about how much money I make.

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It's how much value can I add to someone's life.

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And when you can add value to someone's life.

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The money will follow.

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Yeah, if your business isn't making money, you often don't have a money problem.

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You have a value problem or you have a problem stating your value, right?

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Your value proposition.

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So sometimes you may have the value, but you're not able to get the words down.

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So yeah, I think that's so true.

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Yeah.

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And I mean, entrepreneurship is not an easy, it's not an easy life per se.

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So you have to, you know, be willing to go in every which

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way you need to go to get there.

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You know, it's just ongoing and you know, and that's great for some

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people and not so great for others.

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I mean, we love it and we can't get enough of learning and

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growing and helping our clients.

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Um, but, you know, not everyone wants that.

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Some people just want to do the nine to five and go home and forget about it.

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That's fine too.

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That kind of leads into your second point though, doesn't it?

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It does.

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That's what I was just going to say.

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You know, this, the second point of any business is your passion for it.

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And that's the why, the why of, Why am I doing this?

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Why am I solving this problem?

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Right?

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You want to pick something.

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You want to solve a problem where you have so much joy around it.

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And something that Jeannie said is like, I want to spend my, I want to spend the

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rest of my life learning how to help people find what they love to do for work.

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And not everybody that I help is going to have it.

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Go through exactly the same steps, like everyone is unique,

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everyone's path is unique.

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So part of my joy is spending the rest of my life figuring out how

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to help people do this in all of the different ways and all of the

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pieces of information that they need.

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If you don't have that passion to learn as much as you can and help

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in different ways and just to get joy out of doing it, then this isn't

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the right problem for you to solve.

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There may be a different problem where you have more passion.

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And how many people do you think the problem they end up solving

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for other people is a problem they solve for themselves?

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Because I feel like that was part of our journey with outsourcing, you

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know, when Jeannie had her agency and I said, I've read about outsourcing

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overseas, would you want to try it?

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And she's like, sure.

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You know?

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And so we went down this journey and we learned a lot the hard way and we

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made a million mistakes But we saw the value in having a team built overseas

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and building a business with the support of having virtual assistants.

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So do you feel like a lot of people end up solving a problem for other people that

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they've already solved for themselves?

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I think that's probably the best kind of problem to solve for

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someone else for two reasons.

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One is if you haven't been through it, you don't know when you have a problem

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that you have to solve for yourself.

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You already know the why other people are going to need this.

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You already know it's a problem that's waiting to happen, you know, and for

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me, part of the why I'm doing this is I did the corporate thing and I did

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the corporate thing for about 20 years.

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And then I made the leap and started my 1st business and I was, I almost felt

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backed into a corner in some respects of.

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The point in my life where I just had so much driving me to drop the great

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corporate job with the corner office and the great salary and all the employees.

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What I didn't know at that point was how easy it actually was to start your own

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business and how many people out there that are willing to help you on that path.

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And I would agree to some degree.

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I'm, I'm addicted to creating new businesses.

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You know, I started the photography business.

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Because it was my passion and I picked wedding photography because I had just

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photographed two family weddings and I knew there was a market and I, there was

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a lot of information I could go research.

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I accidentally started the real estate, the home staging business

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by solving a problem for someone I love and having the realtor reach out

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about two weeks later and say, hey, can you do that for my other clients?

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And being a small business person, I said, yes, I can and then had

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to figure out how to go do that.

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I actually started a third business that would have become very laborsome,

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so it didn't last very long, but I had a friend who was gluten free.

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In the day, early days when there wasn't much available, so she and I

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researched all kinds of recipes and flour mixtures and started baking for family.

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And then we had cafes come out and say, Hey, we really liked that.

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We tried that as house.

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Can you sell that?

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Can we sell your products at our cafes?

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I want to show people that when you find that problem that you know how

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to solve, it's not hard to take the leap and then make that a business.

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It's Absolutely.

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Especially the passion.

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They give the passion for it.

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Yes.

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Yes.

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I thought you were, you are a serial entrepreneur.

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Yes, I am.

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You know, you just see that problem and you can solve it and then you decide

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which one you want to stick with or not.

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My ideal is like helping other people get it, get their stuff off the ground.

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Perfect.

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So once they have the problem that they can solve, and they know that they

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have people willing to pay for it, and they have the passion for helping those

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people, what would you say the next step is for them after problem and passion?

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Plan of action.

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So once you know that there's a problem to be solved, and there's people out there

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willing to pay, and you are passionate about doing it, the plan of action is

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like the where, the when, and the how.

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When do you work?

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When do your customers need you to work?

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Is it a 9 to 5 thing?

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Is it an after hours and weekends thing?

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Does that work with your schedule?

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So you need a solid when.

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Then you need a solid where.

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You know, is this something that you needed a space for?

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Is it something that you're going to go to somebody else's space for?

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You know, like where are you physically going to do this work?

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And then the last part is how are you going to solve this problem?

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You need to be able to tell customers, you know, here's my framework.

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I normally do steps 1 through 7, and I'm going to talk to

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you about your circumstance.

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And maybe you need all of it.

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Maybe you need part of it, or maybe you need something different and

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I need to customize a little bit.

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But that solid plan of action is how you communicate to others.

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Thank you.

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What it is that you do and how you're going to help them.

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Process of working with you.

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And it's interesting when you're talking about the hours, obviously

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if you wanna work Monday through Friday, you're not gonna be a wedding

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photographer, right, . Exactly.

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Yeah, exactly.

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And I think these people don't always think about like, so

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what are, what are your values?

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And like, 'cause again, if your weekends are super important because your spouse

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works Monday through Friday and your kids are in school, And you don't want

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to be away from them when they're at home, then that might be a business

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you could pursue later in life when the kids are off the college or graduated.

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And this is right now you need to find something else to do.

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That could be Monday through Friday.

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And also even like, not only when do your clients want to meet with you and

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when are you actually front facing with them, but when are you going to do all

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of that paperwork, the bookkeeping, the, you know, everything else about the

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business, you know, if you're a mom and want to work, you know, school hours.

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Maybe you have those hours and then you have after the kids go

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to bed hours, or, you know, it's like what works for your family.

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It's not about the business.

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It's not about your life fitting into the business.

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It's how does this business fit into your life and making priority of

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time, you know, especially I started my small business path when my

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girls were 12 and 14, and I did it.

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So I could be.

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With them more lost my older daughter nine years later, and I can tell you

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there is not a day that goes by where I am not just humbly eternally grateful

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that I changed my lifestyle so that I could be with them because I think back

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and think about what I would have missed.

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And I just can't even imagine what that life would be.

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So I really encourage people to be like, Your family is so important.

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You need to make sure you have time with them.

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You'll never get that time back.

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So important.

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So very important.

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Wow.

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And like you said, looking back, you realize, you know, when you made that

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choice, you didn't know this, you didn't know what was coming your way.

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But you stepped out in faith and you made it work because

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the priority was your girls.

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Yes.

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Well, and not only that, but like, I didn't know when I

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started my passion project that it would become theirs as well.

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Both of my girls came into the business as they got a little older.

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My oldest daughter, by the time she passed away, she was my business partner.

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She was photographing weddings with me and on her own.

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We had this entire life.

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Beyond being mother and daughter that we had, because I had started this

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business, she studied small business and entrepreneurship in college.

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Both of my girls, their lives, how they live their lives is totally

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different than it would have been had I not taken this leap.

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And that's also part of my passion, why I want to do this for others.

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Yeah, your passion definitely shines through.

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Well, Maya, if people want to get in touch with you, how would

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they get in touch with you?

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You certainly could go to the small business website, path.

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com, but if they would like to get a free copy of a book called finding

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your sacred purpose, how to do what I love and earn my dream life, they

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could go to find my sacred purpose.

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com.

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And there's a, an offering for free book, and there's also a 5 a month

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subscription course and community that they could join that will walk them

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through finding their sacred purpose.

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Thanks.

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Thank you so much for being here and sharing all this with us today.

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It was absolutely lovely.

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Thank you for having me.

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My pleasure.

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Thank you, Maya, so much for being here.

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We really appreciate it.

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And Maya, we appreciate you talking about such personal issues and your passion.

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It really comes through and we're excited to hopefully help you find those people

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that you're looking for here in our group or people in our group might know people.

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Okay.

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Thank you so much, everyone.

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Bye.