And metaphorically, that's exactly

what happens with opinions from other people, things we hear in

the news and and we don't realize that we take on so much

stuff from the outside that that's not ours, and then people

get and toxins and and negativity and stress and

worries and fears that are not ours, right? And that starts

with conditioning in family and our loved ones, right? And then

it goes into media and news and all that. So if you don't have a

regular practice to cleanse yourself of that and clear this

clutter, there's no wonder that people are stressed or worried

about it. And then, speaking of relationships, you take on your

best friends are in a relationship, and it's not

working, and because you love them, you're kind of like

thinking, so you're seeing things outside of you, and you

love these people, and they're doing their best, but it's not

what you really want, but you're taking it on, and your friends

are giving you advice, and they mean really well, but actually

it's only coming through their lens, and very often The lens

that's not very clean, right? Because they haven't done the

cleaning and the purifying work, right? Hello,

beautiful. Before you get into this week's

episode, this really beautiful, really expansive, inspiring

conversation about how to create, the relationship of your

dreams, create is the keyword I wanted to share a little bit

about Gabby Fritz, Gabrielle Fritz, who is a beautiful friend

of mine, and she is a long time psychic medium, very well sought

after psychic medium and intuitive coach, based out of

London. I have talked about her on the podcast before. You

definitely have heard me mention her in the past, and I know a

ton of the women from the reclamation had readings with

her because they were so blown away by a reading that I had a

year ago with her. She is the real deal. Actually, she did a

reading for me at a retreat, very it was kind of a casual

setting, and she not that she does a ton of predictive

readings, but she talked about love coming in and described

Patricio to a T, my last partner and everything about our

relationship to a T. So when I realized that I had found the

notes that I'd taken from this reading with her, and I went

back and read them to Patricio, and he was like, Whoa, you gotta

book another reading. She's incredibly gifted and really

lives her life guided by the magic of life and source, which

I talk so much about on every episode about learning to put

your oars in the boat and let the boat carry you. She really,

truly lives her life from her internal guidance and the divine

leading the way, and her life is unbelievably magical. So she's

so inspiring and so embodied in what she teaches. Her work

weaves ancient and modern techniques to help women

discover their inner guidance and their true power. And I

think so many women, that's the this is the challenge is that

their saboteur, ego mind is is running the show the scripted

self, and they don't know how to access their inner guidance. So

that's her gift. Is helping women access their inner

guidance and shift the inner dynamics that are happening so

they can change their outer world. So in this episode, we

talked so much about, I'm sure you've had the thought about

manifesting, and is manifesting fantasy, or is it reality? This

episode will answer that question of how to manifest in

such a way that you actually create the life of your dreams,

rather than sit on your meditation cushion with your

vision board wishing for some guy to come knock on your door.

So whether you're in a relationship that you're ready

to up level, or you're single and you're ready to call in high

quality love, this episode is for you and share it with all of

your friends, as always, lots of love. Enjoy.

Hello, beautiful. Welcome back to the new truth podcast. Very

excited to share this magical human with you today, all on the

topic of how to create the relationship of your dreams.

Keyword here is create. I'm so excited to share your magic. I

feel like one of the biggest gifts that you've brought to my

life and that you are in the world is just magic. Everything

you do every the way you see every situation, there's just

this beautiful lightness to it all. And I feel like that's what

people need more than ever right now is lightness, like there's

just so much drama and intensity and density. And yeah, I'm

excited to talk talk about this topic that is a heavy one, or

can be a heavy one for people wanting relationships so bad,

but not having it, or having it but not having the one they

desire. So where do you want to start? How to create the

relationship of your dreams. What do you think they're doing

wrong out there? Gavin already

wanted to jump in 15 times when you were

talking, great, great, great. Now about what you said about

it's very interesting. What you were just saying, that people

have a belief that it's hard to create a beautiful relationship,

right? And you are such a beautiful symbol of this, how,

how life can be so easy and fluid and fun and playful,

right? So I think what, what kind of connects the two of us

and our friend Mariana as well, is how we met. Is this childlike

playfulness, right, to bring into creating everything,

whether it's a relationship, whether it's your job, your

career. And I think what adults in this world? Let's call them

adults, right? Because we're not all the same, but what they

sometimes do is create this heaviness and add it to topics

such as relationships and and I don't think it needs to be that

as a first I don't know, first thing that I just wanted to say,

based on what you just said, does it need to be hard? Because

the best things in life, and I speak from experience in my own

life, with things that I've manifested, created, and then

friends of mine who are in beautiful, amazing

relationships, it was not hard. The right thing comes to us

without effort. Almost, it's almost like it's not us learning

to do something. It's about us learning to undo I feel. And

this year we're in the in the year astrologically, in the

Chinese calendar. We're in the year of the snake, right? So

which is exactly about that the I didn't know that. You didn't

know that? No, yes, the year of the snake in Chinese astrology,

yeah, which is going to be a very big year. And I've already

had it for the first because I consciously went into it. So I

already said, Okay, please help me as sort of my new one of my

New Year's resolutions to help me to let go of anything that

I'm no longer that I no longer need. That's hope that holds me

back, that makes me get in my own way. You know, fears, all of

these old conditionings that we no longer need. And that's what

snakes do regularly. And I feel that's one of the things that

most people as adults, we're not in the Western world, at least,

maybe your listeners are different because they're

already more conscious, but I think that's something we need

to do regularly, this shedding of old things, because we live

in an environment where we take on other people's opinions,

toxins, noises, we're on our phones, on our gadgets on a

daily basis, right? But we never spend enough time to actually

release and cleanse. That's again, at the end of a day,

right? It would be like, what happens if you don't brush your

teeth for five months,

right? I don't want to know. I don't want to know,

right? You

have all this stuff from all the food that

you've consumed, right? That will stain, so to speak, what

your natural, what your teeth naturally look like, right? So

there's a layer on top of who you really are, and

metaphorically, that's exactly what happens with opinions from

other people, things we hear in the news and and we don't

realize that we take on so much stuff from the outside that

that's not ours, and then people get and toxins and and

negativity and stress and worries and fears that are not

ours, right? And that starts with conditioning in family and

our loved ones, right? And then it goes into media and news and

all that. So if you don't have a regular practice to cleanse

yourself of that and clear this clutter, there's no wonder that

people are stressed or worried about it. And then, speaking of

relationships, you take on, your best friends are in a

relationship, and it's not working, and because you love

them, you're kind of like thinking so you you're seeing

things outside of you, and you love these people, and they're

doing their best, but it's not what you really want, but you're

taking it on, and your friends are giving you advice, and they

mean really well, but actually it's only coming through their

lens, and very often the lens that's not very clean, right?

Because they haven't done the cleaning and the purifying work,

right?

That is such a good point. If your friends aren't

meditating on a regular basis, if your friends aren't like

doing Yeah, practices that clean them, and I've never thought of

it in that way before, don't take their advice. Like, just

how often people take advice on relationships from people who

have toxic relationships don't have relationships.

I tell my clients very often. I say that,

okay, if you want to learn a new language, if you want to learn

Russian, who do you go to to learn Russian, you go to a

Russian teacher, right? You don't come to me. If you want to

learn the piano, who do you go to? You go to a piano teacher,

right? To someone who does that professionally and I personally,

in every field, whether it's creatively or something else

that I want to learn. I always go to the best people, not just

to someone who's kind of like, Yeah, okay. Starts with yoga

teachers. Starts with everyone I go to. I go to the best because

I want to become that, or I want to learn from the best, right?

So if you want to learn about loving, conscious, beautiful,

amazing relationships, maybe don't. Go to your friends or

don't take advice from the people who are not in those

relationships, or who don't, who are not in a relationship with

themselves. That's loving, right? Because that's where it

starts. Everything on the outside starts with with a

reflection of that on the inside, right? So your primary

relationship, when we talk about, okay, how do you create

the relationship of your dreams? Is you creating the relationship

of your dreams with yourself first? And I know that this is,

I think, what your podcast is about, right? To take charge, to

to step into the driver's seat, to create the life of your

dreams, right? So if you don't know who you are, first of all,

deeply, not just on the surface, right? Because people try to

create and manifest. They try to get quick fixes and quick

manifestations. And we live in a world where we get everything on

our phones straight away, right? So we're not used to building

something over time and investing time into something

right and patience. And if you look at all the things, the

monuments from the past, like Mayan pyramids or the, you know,

the Egyptian pyramids, or amazing buildings in, in, in,

you know, the most beautiful buildings in Vienna, the

cathedrals, or whatever it is, right? How much time or castles,

how much time did it take to build these places? It wasn't.

It didn't take a year, or even two years. It took years of

dedicated, committed work to create this masterpiece that

lasts for centuries and is going to last for centuries, right?

It's the same with creating relationships and the

relationship with yourself, right? It takes time. It takes,

don't

take a couple 100 years. So maybe not.

That's not, I know it's not what I mean, but

it's kind of like people very often, and clients included,

they come to me they want to have quick fixes, yes, exactly.

And especially the ones that come out of bad relationships,

right? And they're like, they come out of a bad relationship,

they know they want to leave it, and then they jump right into

the next one, without doing the inner work to fully understand,

why was I even in that? How did I track that? Because it's, it's

always a co creation. It's never just, it's that person's fault,

it's the government's fault, it's my mom's fault. It's it's

you, there's something you're doing that's co creating that,

right? That's allowing certain things to happen. So if you

don't fully understand why this is happening, and you jump right

into the next thing, it's going to be the same situation, just

with a different person. Yes, it's like an actor. It's a

different actor playing a different role, but it's the

same scenario, the same same movie, and it's going to end the

same way, right? Sometimes we improve a little bit, but so if

you don't take the time to understand who you really are on

a regular basis, not just when things go wrong, right, people

very often come to coaches or to mediums or psychics like myself

when something is wrong, or people go to church and pray

when they're already in debt, or when something bad has happened,

that would be like going to the gym and starting to work out

when you've already injured yourself. It's too late at that

point, right? Or not too late, but it's quite late, yeah,

right. So

going to the dentist after you haven't

brushed your teeth for five years, or whatever the example

is, yeah,

so it's kind of doing that that's an ongoing

practice where you strengthen yourself. You're getting to know

yourself like in the gym. You're strengthening your physical

muscles in the gym with doing this internal work, such as

meditation or conscious work on yourself, right? You're you're

strengthening your connection with yourself, your connection

and not just to the human self. I work as a medium and a psychic

right? We are connected to, up to a divine self in every single

moment. But how strong is that connection? So again, when I

say, How well do you really know yourself? It's not just the

physical self. My name is Gabby. I grew up here and there. No,

no, no, no. You've had past lives. You've had, right?

There's something much deeper that that has a deeper wisdom, a

deeper reason for being here on this planet, even. Why are you

really here and based on that create your life or your dream?

So when we talk about creating the relationship of our dreams,

well, what is, where does that dream even come from? Because

very often people go through life in their dream, what they

think their dream is is actually something that society has fed

them, has told them, Well, you need to have this. You need to

have that. And it's a, it's a, it's a list of boxes that you

just take. Okay, I need to have a car. I need to have a house. I

need to have this relationship. I need to have kids. I need to

look like it comes from the outside, yeah, it comes from the

outside, right? And we become photocopies of of society. So

depending on whether you grew up in in America or in Greece or in

in a Buddhist monastic. Right? You just become a product of the

outside world, right? That's what conditioning is about. And

then people wonder, they have all these things, they tick all

the boxes, and then they're still unhappy because they've

never manifested or created, okay, what is it actually that I

want? It never came from something deeper, right? And

then they go into this midlife crisis and then, and then it's

like, okay, something isn't working, and I'm really unhappy,

and I don't understand why, because they've never taken the

time to actually go deeper and understand Well, where did my

dream even come from? Was it a dream that came from my head,

from conditioning, from the outside world, everything that

my girlfriends are doing and my family or my best friends, or is

it actually something that no what's, what's coming from

within myself? What does my soul want? Right? Why am I here? Why

am I living this beautiful life on this planet Earth, right?

Or this horrible life, if I'm not connected to,

if you're not, if it feels horrible, you're just gonna

you're not connected to your soul into that your divinity,

really. And I think, you know, I love everything you just said. I

think that until a woman really has that deeper connection to

the divine, the universe, God, Goddess, whatever we want to

call it, or a man, yeah,

what do you mean? No, because he's a woman.

Oh, no.

Well, this podcast is for women. I There are, like,

there are, there are, but it's mostly women. Sorry, men, if

you're here, they usually just fill in the blank, but that when

we're not connected and we don't believe in the support that's

all around us, you are suffering. So I think everything

you're saying like to create the relationship of your dreams, you

have to be connected to something greater. So for people

who aren't spiritual, per se, or who have never dealt, and this

was me, like 15 years ago, who'd never who've never delved into

their spiritual self, because you are so connected. I actually

reached out to Gabby when I was writing my book, and I said, Can

you, can you open my channel for me? Or, like, teach me how to

channel my book? And she was like, Kate, it's a devotional

practice every single day. That's what you said you I wrote

pages and pages and pages of notes because your response was

15 minutes long. But, but, and I think there were like four of

them, but it was like, you can't just be like, Okay, now I'm

ready for the book channel. Now I'm now, I'm open. You have to

build that relationship. So how would you say for a woman who is

not connected in any way, and when sometimes I think we use

language that they might not even understand, how would you

say to start that path of building that connection. You

just said the key word, and it's in the title

as well. Relationship. It's no different from creating a late

relationship with another human being, right? So creating a

relationship with your higher self, your true self, your true

essence, whatever you want to call it, with your soul, is

exactly the same. So you need to start by creating a connection.

So by meeting that person, sitting with yourself, right?

That could be in meditation, that could be going for walks in

nature, doing the things that you love, right? It's much more

simple. If you look at a child, so you said something earlier

about, you know, some people are not as spiritual as others. I

would actually disagree with that, with that labeling, in a

way, because we're all spiritual. As little kids, we

knew exactly who we were, so it's actually natural to us to

be connected with

a forgotten Yeah, yes. So

it's that stuff that stuff that you have on your

teeth when you eat food, right? It's a covering again, right? Of

subject. So it's whatever the world taught us to cover our

natural connection to God, to the Divine, to what we love,

right? So it's about creating a so it's about reconnecting to

that and reconnecting to that relationship of Yeah, to

yourself to the things that you love that make you you, rather

than doing the things that you always have to do and other

people are telling you to do, just going back to, all right,

the things that you love to do when you were younger, that you

maybe haven't given yourself the time to do. And yes, it can

meditation, yeah, I

just want to pause you for a sec. I think this is

revolutionary, what you're saying. So I just want to, like,

stop and like, expand it a little bit. I know you are

expanding it, but I just want to pause right here. Most people

think of their spiritual self as like, because religion, I'm sure

we have to, like, pray to something out there and like,

wait for it to deliver us something. And it's so beautiful

what you're saying. It's just like it's our innate it's our

innate way of being, and that you connect to it through your

joy and pleasure and your your feeling truly

magical you are. This is who you are.

There's a child within you, right? And that's why we go back

to what we said at the very beginning, when you can. Started

that idea of easy versus hard. For Kids, things are naturally

easy, right? If they play a game, if they play something, if

they no longer feel like doing it, they stop it. And we, as

adults, our mind overrides how we feel constantly. No, I need

to get this done. I need to work harder. I need to right, so we

so the feeling and the intuition and the soul speaking to us,

because it constantly does right, gets overridden by this

logical mind, or by the mind of of our parents, and, you know,

the external constantly right, and we forget to listen to what

actually comes from here, from the heart, from the soul. So

it's actually, again, much more about undoing, and it's actually

much simpler than we make it out to be, right? And when we speak

of someone as being spiritual, to me, it's not some going to

church or knowing everything about the chakras or all these

kind of things, right? There are people who know all of these

things, but they're not really connected to something higher,

and they're not, more importantly, they're not kind

and loving people. To me, spiritual people are loving

people who treat everyone the same. And you don't need to

follow any path. You just need to be a good human being. You

need to be loving and open again, like a child is. A child

doesn't know about meditation or this or a spiritual path, or

they naturally are compassionate. If someone cries,

they go over and will, will empathize with that being and

try to help and try to make them feel better, right? So again,

it's, it's all natural, and I feel like we just over

complicate, and it's the rational mind that over

complicates everything and on a bigger picture, right? And when

you said, I always have an interesting way of seeing

things, is because I tried to look at everything from a bigger

picture, not from this small human self called Gabby or

called Kate, right, right? There's a bigger picture to

everything happening every single day, right? And if you

zoom out a little bit, so the way I tell my clients how to see

it is, there's a difference between you watching a TV show,

your favorite, let's say soap opera, right? And it kind of the

emotions go up and down. It's like, oh, you know how movies

try to take us on this emotional roller coaster? Very much.

There's a difference between just watching it, so observing

it, and actually being in it, being a character that goes

through, oh, my God, I'm going up and down and forward and

back, and most people are trapped in that story of up and

down, so kind of in the illusion of life, right, in this smaller

part of themselves. And what you and I, what we are very good at

practice, because it's just practice right or remembering

are very good at doing is taking a step back and going, Is this

really me, or is this just some a habit that I've or

conditioning, right? And then you can start to kind of undo

bit by bit if you start to observe yourself, okay, why am I

feeling this way? Why am I thinking this way? Why am i

Believing I can I'm not deserving of a good

relationship, or, Why am I, uh, have, why do I have certain

beliefs and thought forms and old emotional patterns? Why are

they even there? And when you take a little bit of a step back

through meditation or through conscious reflection or talking,

right, we don't have to meditate, we can talk. That's

why people go to therapists, right? It's kind of like getting

a different outside view of why is Gabby Gabby, why do I do the

things I do? Why do I say things I say? Why do I speak the way I

do? Right? And when you can start to observe it a little

bit, then you can change it. If you're not aware of what you're

doing and who you are and who you're not, you cannot change

it. So awareness, getting yourself aware, is the first

step so learning to observe yourself, and that's through

practices like meditation, through listening to people who

spread awareness, right? So, learning, it's a way of

learning. I'm not I don't know very aware of quantum physics or

other kinds of things. How do I become more knowledgeable or

aware? By reading, by studying, by listening to people who've

already gone much further along that path than I have, right? So

that's one step. The first step is reconnecting with yourself in

a very natural way, doing more things that you love, doing more

thing you know, spending more time with yourself. Even most

people are in families. They do they're, they're in their

routines of 24/7, doing this, doing that. They're just in

this, like a mouse in the, in a in a wheel, right? They're

doing, yeah, so they're in this program, yes? So,

yeah, I have two, two things first. I just

sorry. I just go and go and go. No,

no, I love it. It's so good. There's just, like,

when things stand out, I just want to to pin them. So, you

said illusion, the in the illusion. And I was thinking,

how so so many people like Mariana, her whole life had

people say, like, get in the real world. And like, even when

my clients are at. Immersion, and they feel so expanded.

They're like when I get back to real life, as if like being in

the magical, co creative space with the universe and life. And

when things are easy and synchronistic and magical and

beautiful, it feels like that's the fake world and that's the

illusion. And I think a lot of people who are really hooked on

the conditioning and on the like life has to be a struggle, rat

race, thing that you were just talking about, they look at us

and think we're the dreamers and the crazy ones and like the

living the illusion. But actually, like the illusion is

the fear, the illusion is the suffering. And what's what's

available to us in any moment is pure presence. And actually like

seeing things through the heart and everything you're talking

about actually living from a different place, and then you

attract completely different things.

Well, the thing, when you said, you know,

like illusion versus reality, that's just, we humans like to

give names to things, right? Put things in boxes. You know, the

Western world especially, likes to put things in boxes. Likes to

call this one way, or that way or and we do that in order to

feel safe, right? Our our logical mind is not there has a

beautiful purpose. I you know, I'm not saying the logical mind

has no purpose at all, not at all. It helps us to make sense

of the world, right, and the physical world, and it helps us

to to once you've learned how to ride the bicycle, to remember

that and keep doing the same. So these programs are to a degree

necessary, right, but if you mistake the program for reality,

right? And you it's just there as a helpful tool, right? These

things, putting things into boxes, but then it can also

limit us, right? And stepping out of and when you say, Okay,

this is reality, and this is not reality. So this is why a

retreat, for instance, that you know the things that you do are

so powerful for people who are living in their day to day

wheels, right, their daily habitual selves, right? That's

That's all conditioning is? It's just habits. We become good or

conditioned to something because we repeat it over and over and

over again, and that's what you then believe reality is right.

So there are experiments even in science right, where there's an

example of, you know, elephants, when they get taken by circuses

and they get tied to a specific place right from the time of

their birth, when they then and they've they, they live in that

state for years and years, when they then get freed physically,

right and into, you know, they they stop working for the for

the circuses, and they become free. They still, apparently,

they don't have the courage or the desire even to venture

outside of that little circle that they lived in, right?

That's mental conditioning, right? Yes, when actually, there

is this whole world outside, and you can now run free, but it's

so it's repetition. It's a program that's runs and runs and

runs. So when we say reality people live in these programs.

Of this, my job is my identity, right? So I go back to the same

thing over and over. It's the same thing. And the pandemic was

an amazing, beautiful inception. I want to call it almost right.

Of people suddenly from their usual realities, being stopped.

But, you know, there was like, stop and suddenly remember this

term. Even though I don't agree with again, they created a term

right of new the new What did they say? The new normal? Yeah.

Is this normal? So if I blocked it out to the next, yeah, no.

But now let's, let's use it in a really positive way, right where

everything, the normal stuff, the wheel stopped. We were

forced to stop, and we were forced through a horrible

condition to suddenly change really quickly. Yeah, human mind

can do the same thing, and people have these experiences

when something horrific, very often through horrific things,

right? When people don't do it consciously, it happens when

someone dies or when they lose their jobs or something, right?

And then they're forced to make a really quick change out of

that loop of reality, right? And then suddenly they're forced to

do it, and they can do it. I have an uncle. I'm going to give

you a very practical example. I have an uncle who's now 88 but

back when he was maybe 60 or something. He was always

conditioned or raised himself to eat very bad food, right? He was

overweight and everything. He developed a diabetes, all kinds

of other things. And his doctor always used to tell him, you

need to start going on a different diet. And and he was

always resisting, no, no, I can't. I can't. So His mind was

always the door was closed, right until he developed cancer,

kidney cancer, right? And then within, and then he was told

this could be terminal, right? So within three months, and the

how the universe works, within that time, he had a girlfriend

coming in, a new girlfriend, right? That came in. So. Yes.

And all of a sudden, because of this condition that could have

been terminal, and because of this new love coming in, he had

a reason, a new reason. And that's the difference between

motivation and inspiration, right? Inspiration pulls us.

Motivation push it pushes us. He had a reason for wanting to

change his old conditioning, and suddenly, within a month, he

changed his diet, he lost a lot of weight, right? Suddenly, it

was possible, right? Do you think it wasn't possible before?

Of course, it was. But his mind didn't allow it, right? Because

the door, it's like, it's really like a door. If a door is

closed, you cannot experience what's on the other side of that

door, right? So the first thing also to changing your reality

needs to be that you're open to new things and changing. And

that's again, going back to kids. That's the reason in kids,

by the way, I'm some of my most favorite teachers, right?

They're amazing teachers, if, if that's why kids can learn new

things from one year, from one month to the next. If you

haven't seen your friends, kids for like, a month or two,

they're like a different person.

It's like language. Oh, my God, you stick kids in

language class. They can learn many languages. They can learn

how to speak fearlessly, yeah. And their

personality shift, and, you know, modify,

and we are all these things. So at the what's really real?

Reality is that we are, we're consciousness, pure

consciousness that's able to be molded in any direction. So

that's why, if you're born in a Buddhist monastery, you're going

to have a very different mindset, and therefore openness

to life. Then when you're born in a Christian family in, I

don't know, in Idaho. I don't know why I'm saying Idaho, but

or in the south of France, or in Italy, or does that make sense

based on the conditioning, and also not just the country, but

your family. You can grow up in a very loving, open, conscious

family, right? Or you can grow up in a family where everything

is just right. So

so many interesting way

find things reality. It's not the same, and

we saw that so clearly during the pandemic, that we were all

living in the same world, the physical planet, but we were all

living in very different realities. The ones that latched

on to fear were living in one reality. The ones that were a

lot of the conscious and, you know, spiritual people, they

were kind of like, had a great, had a had a sort of use that

time to grow and expand, and it wasn't a horrible time. Does

that make sense? The same for everyone. That's what we think.

No life is this. Life is that. No. Life is different for me,

for you, for everyone, each individual listening. So it's

about figuring out again, who do I want to be, not just who I am

right now, but who do I want to be moving forward? And that's

the dream you can change and mold at any point in your life.

Again, this is what Neuroscience tells us, right? Neuroplasticity

is not limited to age. You know that old saying of you can't

teach an old dog new tricks? Completely wrong. But these,

again, are just, you know, beliefs, stories that we buy

into.

They keep keep us stuck, that keep us stuck over

and over again and coming back to a relationship. I just love

how you explain everything. It's so beautiful and so clear

relationships. So women have so many stories around

relationships, around men, around what's possible around

themselves and their worthiness for someone who has a really

strong mind and men too. If you're there, are you there?

Feeler for someone who has a really strong mind and their

beliefs like they they're just so used to glasses, half empty

glasses, half empty, victim mentality. I am stuck like, just

as you describe, any everything it so many people think they're

stuck in their reality. What would you advise them to do, or

where's the best I mean, I know you've already shared a lot of a

lot of tips, but have you worked with clients? I'm sure you have

like that, that just are have a really stubborn mind. I have

clients like that. I have clients like that.

Yeah, yeah. So. So the thing is, first of all, I would rephrase

the word stubborn and strong mind, because if you have a

stubborn and strong mind that can actually work for you,

that's a good thing compared to people. So I kind of tell the

story of, there's some people who are like, leaves right in

the blades of grass, right? And if a wind comes from the

outside, they're like being pushed this way, and then

another wind comes from the other side. They're being pushed

this way and that way. So they don't have a very strong, as you

call it, mind or core, right? Compared to people who know who

they are, who have a strong belief in who they are, right?

You can call it mind, who are stubborn, maybe, when a wind

comes. Comes. It kind of might bend them a little bit this way,

but no, they always come back to who they know who they are. You

have kids like that sometimes, right? They can grow up. You can

have siblings who grew up in exactly the same situation, or

with the same parents, with the same circumstances, but one

child is like a follower, and follows everything from the

outside, and another one is like, No, I know. And those are

the ones that that parents would classify as more difficult,

because they don't listen to everything. On the outside, they

listen to something. No, I know what I want, so I would, I would

actually make that a positive thing rather than a negative

thing, right? Having a strong mind, a strong mindset. However,

then it's about, right? How do you use that mindset? Do you use

it positively in a positive direction, right? It's like your

focus. Or do you use it negatively against yourself? Do

you use it to harm yourself and keep yourself limited? Or do you

use it in a positive way where you can grow, where you take

yourself out of suffering? Because that positive mind, if

you've been stuck in something, it's just about so very often

it's very simple, just about switching your focus from what

you did, what it is that you don't want, to what it is that

you do want. So again, when we talk about relationship of my

dreams, knowing what my dream is, very often people who are

very stuck. They're just people who focus more on what they

don't want rather than on what they do want. So it's like

watering. It's like flowers. When you water them right, if

you continue watering the weeds, they will grow. So whatever you

put your attention you focus on will continue to grow, right?

We'll get energy. So if you continue to order what you don't

want, it will continue to grow, and then you will feel stuck. So

the perception of feeling stuck actually doesn't exist, and I

call it a perception, because you're never stuck life in every

moment, constantly, our molecules move and they're

fluctuating. They're not stable. We constantly. We're constantly

in motion, right? Our thoughts are constantly in motion. Our

emotions are constantly in motion. So when someone

perceives themselves as being being stuck, it's only because,

like my uncle, you continue to repeat the same patterns, you

think, the same thoughts, you feel, the same emotions, you do,

the same things, day in, day day out, right? That's exactly what

happened to my uncle, right? He was stuck in his reality. He had

a strong mind. No, I don't listen to anyone on the outside

because he was only because he kept focusing on on the wrong

thing, right? So if you then start, if you take a flower,

your dream, if you suddenly, so people don't, very often know

what they don't want, and they keep focusing on it. I don't

want this, and I don't like this about a person, and very often

it's connected to people's work. So I have a client who's a

scientist and a doctor. So very mental, logical, analytical

work, right so and she overworks, of course, like they

do in that in those kind of, you know, circles, she spends maybe

12 to 1516, hours a day in her analytical head, right in front

of a screen, in front of a microscope, analyzing and

finding faults and finding all that kind of stuff. If you train

your mind to do that and you don't learn how to switch off

after your work, right? It's like taking over off a code,

okay, this is my work. I'm now going home. I'm not taking that

mindset with me. But most people don't do that because they spend

so much time in that energy. And practicing anything we become

good at is only because we practice it. That's the positive

as well as the negative, right? You become good at something

that you want to achieve because you practice it. You also become

good at negative thinking because you repeat it right over

and over. So they take this analytical mind home, and then

they continue with it, at home, with their partners, with, you

know, their relationships with everything. Oh, this is wrong,

and this is wrong, and this is wrong because, you know, the the

amount of time you spend practicing one thing. So it's

about how much time you give something, and that's what I

said earlier, as well about, how about you? Ask me about, okay,

how can we reconnect to this deeper part of ourselves that

the real self? Well, how much time do you give it if you spend

16 hours finding faults or being in front of a computer screen

and this and connecting only with the world instead of with

the inside? Well, there's no wonder that you're then you

know, and you're focusing on what you don't want all the

time. There's no wonder that that's what becomes your

reality, and that's what you then believe reality is, when

actually no if you start to shift that gently, right, and

you begin to spend more time on on so if you a lot of people who

are stuck, they don't know, they know what they don't want, but

they are actually not. Clear about what they do want. Okay? I

mean,

it might think they know, but they've, it's in their

mind versus like they haven't done the exploration of what

lights

up, what does that feel like as well? Exactly,

yeah, their feelings, their body, yeah. But also, if they

might know it, and they've done a little exercise once, or a New

Year's resolution, but they never spent any time. You can

see me going from here to there, right? It's like a different

path. If you never spend time watering the flower of your

dream of what you want, right? If you want more love in your

life, then you need to give that more energy, more thought, more

not just in thought, but in emotion, in deeds, in the things

that you do from day to day, right? So then when you start

watering that flower, it can continue to grow,

as you were saying that I was imagining them,

telling them set or you, whoever's listening, telling,

telling yourself what you want to hear. Because isn't it wild

to think like we can tell ourselves mean things all day

long. You're fat, you suck, you're you're worthless, you're

not enough. Like, look, that person's mad at you, this thing,

whatever. And we're in that toxic, abusive cycle internally,

and then just longing for some guy or some love to come along

and sweep us off our feet and to shower us with love. But we're

abusing ourselves internally. So when you describe the watering

can, I was picturing that how beautiful that would be just

watering the things that they do. Yes,

basically, yes, exactly. So it's about shifting your attention to

flowers or, you know, qualities within yourself, experiences

that you want to have more of. So take your attention in the

direction of what you want more hang out with more people that

are the way you again, going back to if you want to learn

Russian or the piano, go and spend what more time with a

Russian teacher or piano teacher? Does that make sense?

Spend more time in an immersion. Spend more time doing that inner

work, whether it's with other people. And it's always easier

in the beginning, right for people who are not very good at

or practice that doing inner work. It's always easier to do

with people with a coach, with a, you know, in a group, or

something like that, rather than so people who've never meditated

before. It's very difficult for them to get into that practice

because they don't really know how to do it, right. Yeah,

pattern will start to take over. So find people who can, who are

good at what you want to learn, surround yourself with that.

Read about them, watch movies about couples that have the

relationships you have when you're traveling around and you

see people on holiday who are in love, soak up that energy,

observe them. What are they saying? What are they doing that

you want to have more of, and then start implementing that

into your own life, right? It's as simple as that, yes, it

starts with an idea and a dream and thoughts, but then it needs

to go into feeling that way as well. Okay, what does that dream

feel like? What does having more love in my life feel like? So

there's this, there's this belief that that love is outside

of ourselves and not with it, right? So the the ancient Mayan

tradition, you know, the South American ancient wisdom

tradition of the Mayans, they revere the dog as a symbol of

love, because they said that humans, they look for love on

the outside, right in someone else, so something that they

believe they're lacking, and they want to get it from the

outside, whether it's from another person, from, you know,

could be money, could be possessions, all these from a

profession, right? Compared to a dog. And again, dog is exactly

like a child, a small child, preconditioned child, right? A

dog goes out. If you look at a little puppy runs around and

doesn't look for love, it just spreads love. And you know what

I'm doing, right? I want to love you, and I want to, and that's

why everyone's heart just opens, right? Even if you've forgotten,

it's like, wow, that's, that's love, right? So they give it,

and because they give it, they get it back 1000 times. It's

what you do. Kate, by the way, you're very good at right?

You're gonna be just spreading it like a little puppy or like a

little kid, right? And that's what it is. So it's not about

looking for it on the outside. It's actually becoming it and

being in the energy of love, right? So what does the energy

of love feel like, and how do you get more connected with the

energy of love? And you know this in your life. Well, you do

more things that you love. You do more things that you enjoy,

right? You

sing the Moulin Rouge medley. All You Need Is

Love. What? Yeah, exactly you sing.

You sing more exactly. Well, singing is a

vibration, talking about vibration, right? Yeah, that's

why, when people go to a concert, you know, to to their

favorite artists and whatever genre of music, right? Maybe

it's different when you go to a heavy metal concert. I don't

know. I've never been but if you go to these concerts, why people

so they're immersed in two hours of high vibration, and then they

leave and they feel uplifted for days, and then. Yeah, they go

back to him, what you called back to their reality, because

they are not used to holding this energy themselves, because

it comes from the outside. It doesn't come from within. They

don't generate it. They don't know how to generate it.

So beautiful. It makes me think of that A Course

in Miracles, and Marianne Williamson teaches it in return

to love, which is based on A Course in Miracles, you're

either everything we do is either an extension of love or a

call for love. And if it's coming from fear and from our

patterns and from all of those contracted, controlled places,

it's a call for love versus an extension of love, which is

exactly like being the puppy that was such a perfect

metaphor. But that's Yes. Exactly in

ancient traditions, they have this very

powerful, I think it comes from India, from Sanskrit. I don't

know the I Am Presence exercise. Have you heard of I Am? That I

am right. I am so there's a very powerful exercise where you

practice to be the dream that you want in the future. Because

very often, when we when we write down, when I do courses,

when I used to do law of attraction type of courses,

right? And people write down what they want. So they write it

on a piece of paper, and they write, I want this. I want a

loving relationship. I want that. And then I tell them to do

that. And then afterwards, I tell them to cross out every

time they've written want, and replace the word want with I am

or I have, because want puts something in the future, so it

creates a distance between you and the thing that you actually

want, right? Whereas I am, I have brings it to right now. I

am in a loving relationship, because it's a relationship with

myself. I am loved, I am Joy. I am and I have these things, and

it feels completely different when you say it that way, and

when you learn to practice that way. So you can have an exercise

that you can practice of imagining everything that you've

always wanted already being here, right? It's an exercise of

imagination. Einstein used to say, he said many beautiful,

amazing things, but he said Imagination is more powerful

than knowledge. And then he said image, imagination is your

preview of life's coming attractions. So it starts in

imagination, right? It starts in a dream. Everything that you see

here, a cup, a microphone, a phone, was once an idea in

someone's head, until it became something physical, right? So it

starts there, but then it's about physicalizing it feeling

okay. What does it feel like? Already be there and have that

and walking around, it's like a really fun exercise. That's why.

Again, kids, if you tell them, Okay, pretend to be a dragon.

They are. They're a dragon, right? They don't like to wait

get there. It's like, ah, but dragon. But

they're not, they're not like, I'm really bad

at being a dragon. I don't know how to do that. They just

suffer.

The mind is not in the way again, it's the thing

that over complicates things and gets in the way again, is this

layer of the mind, of the rational mind, that stops us

from who we really are, right and why you see with people you

talked about reality and conditioning earlier. Tony

Robbins said that you can see people's true nature when you

get them to do spontaneous things. Because people think,

there are people who think, Okay, I am conservative, I am

this. I am a Republican. I am a good mom. I am that, right? So

these are stories they've created. I am bad in

relationships. I am a failure, whatever it is, right? And

they've created these stories. And then you take them to a

physical workshop, where you physicalize things, and then you

tell them, or they go to a party, right? And suddenly the

music, the favorite song, comes on it. They start to do stuff

physically, right? And then they catch themselves kind of like

doing something that they normally don't allow themselves

to do. That's more the real, the real them than the story, right?

The story is something that you keep yourself in, and you hold

yourself in, and it's like, well, actually the real self is

the one that is free and that wants to move, and that's so who

you really are, that little kid, that little your dream comes

from these moments, doesn't come from these stories. So freeing

yourself of these stories and becoming conscious of them

again, if you're not aware of the stories that you hold and

the beliefs that you hold, you cannot change them. You cannot

let go of them if you don't see what they are first. So again,

that's where meditation and work with maybe a coach or a person

like yourself or myself comes in to help people. And it's always

easier for for someone else to see your stuff then for you to

see your stuff, right? It's always easier in the beginning,

especially

for sure. And giving, giving the objective

perspective. And also, yeah people, other people can see

experts, the piano teacher, can see what you can't see. So it,

it for women to work with you. So you were talking about your

your nude, I was gonna say label. Yeah. New defining label,

your intuitive personal development coach. So I've had

sessions with you. I had a I met you at a retreat, and I Okay,

Gabby, I have to tell the story. Gabby, we played this game

called the guru game that I introduced to Marianas retreat.

And Gabby and I, this was in 2019 and Gabby, everyone played

being a guru. And like, we all had accents, and we were all

like, just had these funny guru names. And because Gabby

actually is a psychic medium, I was like, gonna take notes when

she talks. And then, like, two years later, I found the journal

that you had shared. And I'm not sharing this story to have you

all run over to Gabby to have predictive readings to find out,

like it when your man is coming and what he all the details, but

you predicted Patricio to a t like it was insane, the things

that were inside. He didn't even believe in psychic, the psychic

channel, or whatever, until I read it to him, yeah, it exists.

You don't have to believe it. I read it to him, and he was like,

Oh, my God, my love, you've got to have another reading with

Gabby. And that is when we had our second one. But there's

something that happens I've had I was sharing this with you

before we hit record. There's something that happens when I

talk with you, where I've had a lot of readings over the years,

Akashic Record reading, psychic readings, medium, all the

different things, tarot cards. And my experience with you is

it's like it feels it's exactly what intuitive personal

development coach. It feels like I'm learning about myself. I'm

learning it's like it I don't know how to how to even describe

it, but it's like a retreat in itself. There's something so

transformative about those sessions, and it doesn't keep me

in my head waiting for something to happen, but it more like drop

everything you're talking about drops me into the experience. So

if when women work with you, how do you work with your clients?

It's different, depending on what clients want

and need, right, and also how long they're willing to work

with me. So have some people who just simply come from mediumship

readings right, because they want to connect to someone on

the other side, someone they've lost or but then I do have other

people who want to work more on themselves. For some people,

it's a mix of things, right? Because the reason why I was

sort of call to rebrand myself. Intuitive personal development

coach was because being a psychic, being being a medium,

being a law of attraction, coach, being all these other

things felt too limping with what I did, and my work started

to expand, right? And again, even intuitive personal

development coach is just a label, right? Exactly.

You're so much more. It's just like, I feel

like you're a magical wizard, and we should just call you

that. And if you want a magical wizard session to uncover,

uncover more of who you are, like, that's what it is. It's

like uncovering more of who you are, but walking away with tools

and practices to actually deepen your relationship with yourself,

like that. That's what I've got where it's like, and I already

have been working on myself for a very long time, but I always

gain so much value from everything you say and how you

say it like this whole podcast episode is so beautiful and it

there's something about how I feel like you also should have a

podcast. We'll talk about that later, but there's something

about how time communicate. Okay, we'll make time. We create

time. Hey, exactly. Made up construct, but yeah, there's

something very unique about your wizardry. Yeah, so if someone

wants to work, thank you. There's different ways to do

it. Yeah. I think that what distinguishes

me, maybe from other just psychic mediums or just coaches,

right, is that I combine both in a way that feels natural to me.

So I studied this, I studied that, and then it just came

together naturally as something that feels like is very unique

to me, right, and that I was really inspired to do it

something. So the difference is that when you have a psychic

reading, right, you have a reading and a mediumship

reading, and sometimes there can be predictions and things you

know about the future, but it depends, again, on what the

person is supposed to hear as well. It's not up to me. If I'm

doing my job, I'm out of the way completely right, even when I do

things like that. But a prediction sometimes in these

readings, and especially when we talk about time, because time is

very moldable. And, you know, things can sometimes take

longer. You know, people want to know, Oh, do you see me doing

this this year or next year? I'm like, it feels so limiting, even

just to because it's not what comes through most of the time.

So a prediction very often, or a psychic thing, whatever I did

for you in Greece, sometimes comes when a person is supposed

to hear it. For other people, it doesn't come because they're not

supposed to hear it. They're actually supposed to get into an

energy of trusting more where they're don't, where they don't.

So their lesson is different from the one of, okay, hearing

this right,

actually, and probably because when you told

me that reading, I didn't want a relationship. So when you

describe. That man, like, if I was a woman who was, like,

desperately wanting a relationship, and then you told

me one was coming, that that could, that could potentially

put me into more attachment, where I'm actually not trusting

and not letting it happen in divine timing, and it could, you

know, mess with the frequencies. But because I was in such non

attachment, because I actually didn't want a relationship at

the time. That's probably why you could give me that

very often, the people who really want to know

everything and want to they're getting the least amount of what

they actually want sometimes. So if you're really relaxed and

you're just coming in open, sometimes things just drop in.

But at the same time, sometimes they're just possibilities, I

feel and sometimes you get a possibility of various paths.

This is a path, and this is another path, and it depends on

So, okay, this is a path. This is a possibility in the future.

But then where my other work then comes in is, okay, there's

a possibility in the future of you becoming this, having this,

but how you actually get there? Because sometimes what they want

is so big and so huge, and where they are is not is, is too far

away, is. So it's going to take a while to actually get there

and to Yes, so that's when they then come and work with me, and

okay, we work on, how do you actually get there, to become

this, being this person who allows what we want to come in.

So one of the things I've learned when working in the

psychic the medium, the law of attraction, the chatting space,

is we want something, and we kind of write it down, we say it

to the universe, we just send it out, and then what we're

actually not able to do is to receive it. So sometimes what we

want is bigger than what we in that moment, can receive. And

it's actually, again, about releasing all the layers that

resist, that are in the way of whatever is supposed to come to

you, to already come to you. So to give you a concrete example,

very often people want this beautiful, loving relationship.

And have a client right now that I'm working with on this, and

she comes from a from relationships, or a big

relationship that was very toxic, right? So you're in an

energy and there's a reason why she was in that relationship,

right? So there's someone who's already had, who obviously had

things going on, or still has, on some level within herself,

that have co created that toxic relationship or allowed it to

come in, right? So, okay, it took us a long time to for her

to that stubborn mind you were talking about before, very, you

know, very strong will. It took a long time for her to be even

able to let go of that relationship right, in a way

where she felt like she's not going to jump back to it right,

or jump back to something similar. And then we worked on

her in the meantime. And then the next relationship, the

universe sent her. So now the universe knows what she does,

what she sent it out. She's become clear. Okay, I know I no

longer want this. This is what I want instead. And the universe

then sends her people, and this is what always happens. The

Universe sends us similar situations to what we had

before, not as a punishment, but as a next level of clear. So the

way we clear old patterns is not one. We do it once, and then

that's it. We clear in layers, right? There's layers of depth

that you go down to. It's like at the bottom of the ocean, you

have to, it takes a while for you to get to the very bottom

and clear the very deep stuff, still clearing stuff. I've

worked on myself for years and years, and they're little things

that still come up, right? But they're not as heavy or as

they're smaller things, right? So when this new relationship

came in, it was like, Wow, great. And I was like, Okay, now

do it. She was already doing things very differently from the

way she approached it before. So it was already so much healthier

and none of that toxic stuff. But it didn't last, and it came

so the sign that you're there's a sign that you're very close to

attracting the right person, right for you, or something that

could stay is when someone comes in, and they come in and out

very quickly, and you learn a huge, big lesson and a

transformation very quickly. And that's what happened with her.

So the soul mate came in. And why? By the way, we don't have

just one soul mate. We have more than one. Soul mates are

basically just beings that come in. They don't always, aren't

always the ones that we stay with. They're sometimes the ones

that come in Teach us very important lesson and go. It's

like they're they trans. They come in, boom, rock our boat,

make us aware, make us see things, help us to transform and

let go of all that old garbage that we were hanging on to. And

that's basically what happened. It's like what a chakra does, I

guess, right, something comes in, it gets changed, and then it

goes back out. That's what happened with this person. So

this new person came in, it was already much healthier, and she

learned a huge lesson lesson about herself. And it's like

another missing piece to helping her. You. Um, just go higher and

higher in her relationships. So he just came in transformed that

old stuff left. And if you understand the lesson, and you

don't get hung up on what doesn't work, and you see, okay.

So the moment when you're when you're free of an old pattern is

when the same or similar situation happens to you again,

but you no longer react or get triggered in the same way,

right? It just comes in, it's there, and you're like, Thank

you for coming. I release you. And you're no longer triggered

in a negative way. You you're able, actually able to accept

it, make peace with it, and then it comes, and then it just goes.

And if you want to have healthy, beautiful, amazing

relationships, like it that we've been taught it love in

such a passive way, like, oh, it just, it just happens, and then

you live happily ever after, versus actually, this is like it

has, you have to look at it like a practice where you're

practicing with that person now, with this person, now with this

person. And you get better and better and better and better,

and you love yourself more and more, and you let more and more,

and you expand yourself more and more, and then your

relationships keep getting better and better and better,

and your friendships and your purpose and everything gets

better and better. So yeah, it's amazing

to quickly say is Yeah, along those lines is

exactly what I say to my clients in a job, right? We have a job.

We work somewhere in a company, and the first job we have is

kind of like, okay, I know what I want to do, and it's going to

be a little bit of this. And then you work in a company if

you have a traditional job, right? Not if you're someone

like us who's never worked in a traditional job, but you go in

and you try this, and then you're like, okay, yes, I have a

little bit of I have all of these things that I've wanted,

but there are also things that I didn't realize that come with

this job that I don't want. So So you kind of like, fine tune,

and you're like, Okay, I'm leaving this company after two

months and or two years. And then you move on to another

thing, right? And then you're like, Okay, now I know what I

don't want more clearly. So let's so knowing what you don't

want actually clarifies what you do want. It's always the

opposite. If you don't earn enough money, what do you want?

You want more money. If you have horrible relationships, you

you're you're being you're not being valued at your job. What

is the opposite of that? You want to be valued, right? So,

but it's just that a matter of actually, okay, I know. So the

contrast knowing what we don't want actually serves us in

becoming clearer in what we do want. So for the next job, we

then look for, okay, I want more money. I want to be treated

nicer, but still want to work in the same thing. Okay, let's go

for this job, right? Then you're in a new company again. All

these other things have already improved, and then you're like,

all right? But now I want something I've just found out

about this new thing. I want to add this too. So we constantly,

we never stop expanding, right, and polishing. It's like Frodo

or in The Lord of the Rings, or Luke Skywalker in all of these

hero stories, right? The hero's journey. It's like most people,

stop halfway through the journey and they settle for, yeah, this

is good enough. It's 60% good enough. And they don't know that

they can have 100% but 100% requires going all the way,

right?

You have to keep willing to go through all those

levels in order to be you be ready for 100% thinking it's

gonna come and you don't have to do anything together.

Journey is not always a smooth. Journey is

sometimes Frodo gets, you know, meets a bad guy and this but,

but he learns things and picks up lessons from every single

encounter. And it's the same in your job, you would never think,

oh, just because I've, I've, I want to leave this job and I

don't like it. I'm not meant to be in another job, right? I

can't have a better job. No, in our jobs, we're like, No, I

don't this. I'll move on. This wasn't good enough. I move on.

And in relationships, we go, we meet the first person, and we're

like, Oh no, but this was the one meant to be. And we have

such a pro a hard time letting go of this one thing, because we

don't believe that we

can have more, more. We're afraid, yes, yeah,

good

things there. Okay, the 60% is amazing, but

40% are not that good. And people don't realize that when

you continue the journey, the 60% or everything that was

actually amazing in the job, in this relationship is a

reflection of you. So when you have the courage to move

forward, most people don't move forward because they're afraid

of losing the good stuff. Right until you realize, no, the good

stuff is is me. The good stuff is a reflection the person we

attract is a reflection of us. The qualities we love in someone

else are qualities that we love and and value deep within

ourselves and carry deep within ourselves, right? So when you're

when you realize, okay, actually, no, I believe that I

can have 100% and I'm gonna keep going, they don't realize, okay,

you you all. It's like a rocket going into space. Is right? The

higher it goes up. What does it do? It just lets go of all the

things it no longer needs, the core, the essence of that

rocket, which is all the good stuff of you still continues,

continuous continues. Continues and things go up and up and up

and get better and better and better.

So here then the metaphor Queen Yeah, and having

the courage

understanding Yes, to keep going entire

journey. Yes. I think this is what most people settle for.

Things, yes,

yes. This is so important. I mean, okay, I we

have to wrap the episode. This is so good, and maybe we'll do

another episode on not not settling. Perhaps there'll be a

part two, but this, it's so good, and I'm so happy that this

is what came through at the end, because that is exactly we've

been taught to settle down. I just want to settle down. And

people say that out loud, just want to settle settle down, be

down, and then they're on antidepressants for the rest of

their life because they've settled down. So this is

amazing. I'm sure a lot of women are going to want readings with

you, sessions with you. I will. We'll link it below the show

notes. What is your your website? You just say it out

loud. We'll also link it below. But do you want to say it out

loud? Gabrielle, dash in a

journey.com, Gabrielle, Double L, E, dash in a journey.com, and

just also to mention, it's a very old website, because I've

been busy with other things, so the prices and times and the

format on it aren't accurate anymore. But then the

information about what I do is pretty accurate, so

perfect. So just and just fill up the form or

send you an email, why don't you say your email to people? Can

tell you to

you can contact me via my website, actually. So

there's contact,

okay, well, we'll link that with the contact page

right below

the email as well, my direct email as well.

Yeah, perfect.

Thank you. My love. Oh my gosh, this was amazing,

and I know we can go, we could do this for five hours, so which

we knew in advance before hitting record. So I will part

two is coming, and thank you for being with us today. Thank you

for sharing all your wisdom and your gifts. And I just feel like

this is one of those episodes that their women will listen. I

know my all my clients will, for sure. Women will listen to this

over and over and over again, because there's endless gems. I

will listen to it over and over again too. You are UK magical

wizard. Is it? What did I call you? A magical wizard? Is that?

Was that the term

we'll need to think about a term like, not

fairy wizard. I don't know. We'll have to think about so I

work with angelic energies very much. I'm Gabriel for reasons.

Yes, is a magical being amazing, and as always,

spread this message to all the women you know who need this

uplifting message. Need to remember the men. No, no women,

but men have enough. Men have had enough in their lifetime.

Women maybe

spread the word to all your gal pals, and we will

see you next week.