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Hey Matthew,

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I've got a question for you.

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Do you think you could do 3,214 pushups?

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if you gave me a little bit of a time

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What about if I said you could do it over 23 days?

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Okay.

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I can give it a pretty good crack,

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Right.

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Okay.

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Well, today we are joined by Nick Hudson from the Pushup Challenge.

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Nick, welcome.

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Thanks.

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It's great to be on.

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of the motivations behind this podcast for myself and Matt is, is not only

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to talk about, , our lives as builders because it can be quite stressful, but.

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we're also talking about how stressful it can be.

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We've got a big emphasis on mental health.

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Um, you know, I've shared some personal journey, personal stories for myself.

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You know, I'm diagnosed anxiety disorder, diagnosed A DHD.

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You know, I quite often ride a bit of a roller coaster from, from month to month.

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but enough about me.

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I would love to hear about you and the story behind the pushup challenge

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My journey with mental health began when my dad, uh, had his own, you call

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it, I guess, journey with depression.

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I was out at a restaurant, my parents.

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night, and dad, as he, as he often does, went off to pay the bill I'm

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left, left there sitting with mom, and of a sudden mom just starts

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crying, I was bawling her eyes out.

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Oh my gosh.

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I was thinking, what have I done?

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What have I said Was the meal that bad?

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reached across the table and said, oh, mom, you grab mom's hand.

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Oh, mom, you okay?

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What's, what's going on?

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She said, Nick, I can't keep it a secret any longer, I have to tell you.

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your dad has depression, I knew nothing about depression at this time.

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Nothing.

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I didn't know how to respond other than I could see the bad

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state that mum was in and thought, oh, okay, obviously this is bad.

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And just, just went with it.

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Just, you know, listened and, and, uh, let her say her thing.

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Um, dad comes back to the table a few minutes later.

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Mum's still quite teary.

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And, and, and dad's, oh, oh, what, what's going on?

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What happened?

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And mum said, oh, I had to tell Nick that, you've got depression.

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And dad's, head just, just sunk.

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And he looked, looked ashamed.

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and that really saddened me.

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like many guys or girls, you know, my dad's a hero.

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and hearing that, you know, he, he was in a bad way, you know, hit me really hard.

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it turns out that dad had been suffering from depression for a long time.

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He 15, 20 years, something like that.

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Mom and him had been keeping it a secret from my brother and

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I, you know, all those years.

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when all this came out, I felt well in, in a way I was a little bit

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disappointed with, with, with mom and dad for not, know, not telling me.

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But again, I, I had no idea what depression was.

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So, I needed to learn.

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I respected.

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They didn't, they didn't tell me.

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And, and hats off to mom in particular.

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I mean, dad had been going through a super rough ride, but hats off to

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mom for, for shouldering all that, you know, for helping dad navigate

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all that and trying to keep that, and keep the household together and

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put on the smiling face and all that.

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Whilst my brother and I were navigating school, that, that was my first.

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Experience with, depression and mental health, which was, yeah, an

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eye opener for me at that stage.

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And again, I, I was coming from a baseline of knowing almost zero mental health.

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So that's where my journey, I guess, I guess, began.

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quite a challenging conversation probably for you to have in your own head as well,

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because you're probably not wanting to then put the burden back on your parents.

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To add more pressure to them.

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So not only are you trying to there, because you said this, well, I've,

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I've literally written this down.

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You've written the word, you said the word listened, you said it, which is

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such a key thing to doing that time.

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But you're there to support your, your, your dad and your mom and airing that

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conversation is also a positive and then move in the right direction, you

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probably also then had to start going through, well now how do I process in my

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head without putting that back on them?

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that, that listening thing, it's so important, right?

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Men and women, but particularly for men you okay?

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I've got some really good tools about this, but The listening

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thing, just being able to.

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To make someone feel heard and to hear your emotions validated right and

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understood by another, can be so powerful

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if I'm thinking about, I guess the timeframe, so that was 20 years ago,

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you know, just outta school, and you're saying that your dad was experiencing

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this for 15 to 20 years, like you were a young kid when he was going through this.

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If I think about my dad, and I think that our parents are probably of a similar,

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similar age and similar generation.

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Why do you think that our parents' generation seem to be so stoic about this

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and see shame in admitting these things?

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it's part of that cultural evolution, right?

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I'm sure there's things in, in, in generation before theirs that, uh, that

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they look back on and go, oh, how, how, how the hell did you operate like that?

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I don't know the answer,

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I was gonna say, I wasn't actually expecting you to come back with an answer

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because I've thought about it a lot and I don't think that even your dad, or even

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my parents or my dad or even his parents could answer the question as to why.

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' and I dunno if you've got kids, but I've got kids, Matt's

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about to have his first kid.

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the narrative that our kids are actually having these days around mental

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health is wildly different to what it was like when I was that age and

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the conversations that we're having.

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What makes me happy, I guess, in a way, is that we're seeing

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this change in generation of that communication and the way that we're

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actually talking about mental health.

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And now that it's actually just not gonna say it's normal.

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I don't think we're quite there yet, particularly in our industry, but

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it, there is a change in, in this n around mental health and when we're

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actually feeling these feelings, we're actually talking about them.

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there's certainly cultural change.

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It'd be real interesting to see how that changes.

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You know, over the next couple of generations when you ask the question

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of, you know, what was so different with the last generation or what caused

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that, stoic, and that that lack of openness there, I think if we, if we

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knew the pure answer to that in, in its, you know, completely scientific form,

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that would significantly help us today in unraveling that it'd be interesting

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to see how the next generation goes.

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And I am scared nervous about the next generation as well

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as I am excited and hopeful.

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I mean, I'm loving all these good chats that are happening and complete

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change, what seems to be like complete change in how we tackle this.

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But I, I. But, you know, with social media and, and information just being so

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readily available along with the good, there's, there's bad in that as well.

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So, um, I'm excited about the, the future, but also a little bit nervous, you know.

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And it's totally understandable and, and you know, I'm sure Matt's having

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these thoughts too with his, you know, child on the way too and myself

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with two, and I'm expecting a third.

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I'm gonna just add one more thing to what you just said there, Nick.

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There's people like you out there who are making a real change, that

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are blocking out all that other noise because we can't stop that.

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I always say to my team, and I say to, if anyone ever asks me for

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business advice, is to focus on the things that you can control.

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And I kind of feel like what you are doing with the pushup challenge

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is actually focusing on something that you can control and you are

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putting out a positive message.

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So I agree with you.

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There's lots and lots and noise out there.

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There a hundred percent is, but it's people like you and organizations like

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the Pushup Challenge who are actually gonna make a really big change.

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As best as you can, try and block out that noise.

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It's gonna exist.

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It's always exists, but know that there's also people like you who are gonna help

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change that narrative and change the way that people are thinking about it.

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I really appreciate you saying that.

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And look, it's gonna be a, it's gonna be a team effort here, right?

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It's gonna take, uh, what do they say, a village, all these different individuals,

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all these different organizations, working towards that cul cultural change and what

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working towards those individual changes.

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But I, I, I will, I will layer in this, which, which I think, um, is hopefully

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building on your previous point.

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Life is hard.

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Life is challenging.

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Bad stuff is gonna happen, right?

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People get sick, people die.

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People lose jobs to your, know, bad grades at school.

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Break up with your partner break up their partners.

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Bad stuff happens.

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So.

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Understanding that bad stuff happens.

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What do we do about that?

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do we prepare ourselves for that?

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And I'm not talking about preparing yourself financially or, or

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anything like that, but I'm talking about, you know, emotionally,

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I'm talking about mental fitness.

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How do we prepare ourselves, build up that mental fitness

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those bad things happen, sure.

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you know, we mourn.

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learn, we, we kick ourselves, all that sort of stuff.

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But we're strong enough to get through it in a reasonable state.

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And there are times where I know through, I've been through those periods where

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it feels like, geez, this week or this month or this year, I've been hit with

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just so many things, many bad things.

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And I know this is easier said than done, but at the end of the day.

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I know I've got a choice to, I can let those things get me down and, sometimes

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they really do get me down I can try and do I can to lift myself back up.

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Now I know there might be some people watching this podcast or

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listening or other people talking about this and going, yeah, righto

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will, sometimes people just can't.

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And I understand that sometimes we're in such a bad state and we are lucky

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to live in a country where there were some pretty good services available

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to us out there us, you know, get out of those really rotten states.

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So I'd be encouraging people who are in that really bad place to, you know,

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reach out to those services to get help.

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if you are in a good way.

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Think about what you can do to improve your mental fitness, you know, today

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in terms of diet, exercise, time with others, time outside, that sort of thing.

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support the mental fitness of others as well.

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I also wanna add in sleep to that one.

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I feel like sleep's a really important thing.

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I, I think that's something that also gets missed a huge amount with

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this sort of, these conversations.

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Sleep is absolutely number one.

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I had a period a few years ago, uh, where I was running on, uh, about two

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hours of sleep for a couple weeks, and I was going insane, going absolutely

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insane, and I. wasn't until I spoke to a doctor about it and, and got a bit

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of help that I helped steady that ship.

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I was trying to solve all these problems I was trying to, I was focusing my

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exercise, my diet, all these things.

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My sleep was.

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Out of control, bad.

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I know Matt, on the, on the eve of having a, having a child, this

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Just rip the bandaid off here.

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Rip it off.

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yeah.

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But, uh, but, but sleep is number one.

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If, if you're not, if you're not well rested, it's gonna be really hard to make

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those decisions to regulate your emotions.

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Uh, all those sorts of things, and yes, I know it might be hard for, um,

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for a, a young family, but it, it's something people need to focus on.

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so the proportion of sort of a health expenditure that's dedicated

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to mental health, it lags behind a lot of the spending, say to

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cardiovascular disease, respiratory.

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Why is that?

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Hmm.

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I don't know the answer.

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there's a number of things that can be done in the mental health space.

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The preventative is just so important.

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So rather than up the acute end, right, where we also need support,

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but up the, the preventative end, we, we also need investment.

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know, we need the good behaviors, put in place.

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there's a study that, that was done, uh, recently about impact of, you

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know, long-term focus on mental health.

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So, you know, interventions over extended period of time, we're talking

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about years having a positive impact.

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And if you look at that.

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An intervention of that duration, the investment behind that's

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gonna be significant, right?

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it might be hard for the government to, you know, to be able to justify

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to itself around, I mean, the numbers should say otherwise, uh,

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but it might be hard to government.

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If you look at cardiovascular disease and, you know, cancer, they get,

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um, a, a lot of as they should.

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but the reason the funding comes from that, because if that someone can develop

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a tablet or a system to cure these diseases, the, it's highly profitable.

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look at, like, for example, a Covid vaccine.

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Um, major money made out of creating a vaccine.

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The issue with say, mental health, there's no vaccine and there's

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never gonna be a magic pill.

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So from an investment perspective, the return on income is never gonna be there.

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And that's the harsh reality from an investment.

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When a government's gonna look at something or a company's going to look

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at something, they gonna go to ROI on it?

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The answer's probably not, but they will along the lines somewhere,

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because these can lead to other issues within lives and domestic violence and

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assault and all these other things.

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But I totally agree on your comment around being preventive.

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Like everything, we should be preventive, not reactive.

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And I, I have a personal opinion, like didn't we just see recently

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a decrease from the governments around the amount of mental health

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sessions that someone can get?

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They've dropped it from 20 down to 10.

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The reality is most people, the people that we are probably around

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a lot of the time, can afford it.

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There's so many people that can't access this and don't have the money to access

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these things, and it just puts so much pressure on all these non-for-profits

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to to, to lift that burden.

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It does, and it's unfortunate that, uh, the people who

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may really need it, , can't.

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Afford those sessions, which, which just creates a spiral of not good.

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it's challenging when you've got so many competing causes out there, good

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causes, but they are in a way competing.

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I think the tricky part about mental health is that there's so many different

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contributing factors that what might lead to you feeling in a certain way.

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this might be a really great segue into you talking about your experience with

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a physical health problem, which I would imagine has led into a depressive period.

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I might just throw over to you, Nick, just to maybe talk about that and

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probably, you know, start talking about like, the genesis of where

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like the pushup challenge came from.

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Because I feel really great when I'm training.

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I. When I'm physically active, you know, and I know that, that makes me feel good.

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And I, I actually love the connection between mental health and fitness.

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So could you maybe share with us, um, I guess way back, the, maybe after you,

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you know, you, you hearing about your dad and, and your personal experience.

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Number of years later, I was, uh, was, uh, winter and myself and mates

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wanted something new to do, and we were, you know, exercising a fair bit,

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but we wanted to do something else.

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So I, I challenged the guys to, to take on a, a stack of pushups over a month.

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it worked really well.

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We, we got fit along the way.

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had a bit of fun with it, but there was an unintended consequence.

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during the challenge, during this, this thing that, you know, we were doing,

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you, you'd wake up the morning, it'd be, you know, six 30 uh, we, we had this

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little lap that, that I built to help us.

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track our pushups it was really, really basic.

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Uh, but it worked and it was, it was, it was great.

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And everyone would put their pushups in there.

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Yeah.

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So again, you wake up in the morning, you, you'd fire up the app and you, see that,

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for instance, Hamish had always Yeah.

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60 pushups.

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Like It's six 30 Hamish.

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I know you're a bit of a bit of a machine, how have you managed to do 60 pushups?

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And so, you know, you message a group, Hamish would inevitably say, well,

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you know, the kids woke me up at four.

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Um, so I thought, yeah, why not?

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Um, I was going to smash out a few now.

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And so the conversation would start about pushups, right?

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And then evolve into one other things and you know, it'd come to 10:00 AM on the

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app, check up, you know, fire up the app.

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See, Matt still hadn't done any pushups.

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like Matt Classic.

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Matt, come on late.

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not working.

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Can't download it.

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the conversation would start about pushups, then evolve into life things.

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Yeah, kids about girlfriend, your partner, you know, whatever.

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so I found this, this, this challenge kept us really well connected.

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Because we're all busy, right?

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We've got families, we're extended families, we've got our partners

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or our mates at work, whatever, and catching up with some mates

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or, or some people, it can be hard.

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And this way of staying connected worked really well.

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We live in the era of, of, you know, group chats.

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I look at how many of my social groups are just around group chats now and how,

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how much that sort of drives activity.

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So I thought, well maybe it's something more in this, maybe we can get more

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people involved, get 'em better connected, have a bit of fun with it, fit.

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I. That's the Venn diagram of good things, right?

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All those things connected.

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good stuff.

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So I put a bit more effort into it and got some, some more mates

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involved, got friends involved, and the following year we had a

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thousand people taking part across Australia, which I always stoked by.

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It's like, this is awesome.

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The app, I improved, it, had all these new features in it.

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You can do all these new things like this is, this is great.

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after two, a thousand people involved.

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I said to the mates, all right, let's, let's celebrate.

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Let's, this is great.

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Um, and we did want, you know, any bunch of guys I. In Perth, we'd do to celebrate.

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We went over to, uh, went over to Bali for a few days, for a few days

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and, uh, you know, hit, hit the waves and, and, um, had a bit of fun.

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But coming back, , or even out in the surf there, I realized, I felt quite unfit.

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Went and saw a doctor who, um, who.

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referred me to a cardiologist who told me that my heart was in a bad way

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that I needed to have work done on it.

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didn't really like that news.

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to some other cardiologists who confirmed yes, I needed to have open heart surgery

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in the, you know, very, very near future.

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And so that, that hit me very poorly, I got depressed.

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I. Hearing that I couldn't exercise for a while, I'd be at risk of having

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to go on, you know, warfarin and, and not be able to, know, drink

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and eat funky foods and all that.

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yeah, I went downhill and I started rejecting my mates, started rejecting

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my family, you know, withdrew from work with, withdrew from, from life.

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It was a, it was a low point.

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So I thought, you know what?

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Let's, let's do something more for mental health.

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Let's build this pushup into something real, something big

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into there with my laptop.

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of time in bed, completely bored with Netflix and, and all that.

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I thought, yeah, let's, let's build a pushup challenge.

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And so that's, that's when it was on put a stack more effort into it.

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Developed all this, you know, developed a website and app and marketing stuff.

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And, and yeah, that year we had about 50,000 people taking

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part across Australia, which was just, yeah, mind blowing.

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As I kind of touched on before, we've got, um, Julie, who's a psychologist that comes

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onto this, uh, podcast regularly and she talks about like a few things that helps,

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I guess with your mental resilience, and that is purpose being physical.

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Connections and being out in nature and just listening to you, um, as you're going

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through that post-surgery, um, stage where you couldn't do much, you had a purpose.

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You were trying to do something physical.

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You were creating connections.

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Now, I don't know if you could go outside and enjoy nature or you had

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a nice window there or whatever, but like you're kind of hitting three outta

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those four really key ingredients.

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And if I think about like what the pushup challenge is actually doing,

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like it's hitting off so many of those things that we know plays such

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a big role into our mental fitness.

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coming out of that, that surgery and, you know, for a while you can, you

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can't do much, but I knew as soon as I was, you know, well enough to.

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Walk a reasonable amount.

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It's on.

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I'm throwing everything at 'cause I'm still quite depressed.

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I am trying to get my sleep back, back on track, eating well, time of

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nature, time with good people and that sense of purpose, you know, that was

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incredibly, uh, prominent real for me and deliberately, you know, moving in

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those dimensions and trying to, um.

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To make all those happen at the same time with the pushup challenge, how

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do I encourage, how do I nurture a community of people to do the same?

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that's one of the reasons why the Pushup challenge has been so successful, it's

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got all those elements of goodness.

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And it's, it's fun.

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so pushups 3,214.

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Why that many?

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yeah, so this year in 2025, we're encouraging Australians to take

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on that many 3,214 represents the number of Australians who tragically.

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Took their own lives.

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And in 2023, which is the last year of, um, of mentioned data.

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number we wanna do something about.

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we've had participants taking part in contacting us, and, and I've met, you

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know, many of them who will tell me, Nick, my brother, my dad, my sister, my

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son, was one of those, you know, 3,214.

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it's heartbreaking, but it's also, really motivating.

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' is one of your business goals for the pushup challenge, given that

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there's, the last count was 3002 14.

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People that took their lives in 2023 would one of your goals for

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the business to not have to exist?

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Yes, absolutely.

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So if, if, if we're successful, and the whole, village is successful, then

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that number should reduce over time.

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To get, you know, close to, if not to zero, then the challenge to us

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will be, How do we to maintain our mental fitness, our resilience?

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when those things do happen.

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We've got a better chance of getting through them.

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I absolutely love this term of mental fitness, like, I think, you know,

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mental health or, or, or, or mental disease or whatever you wanna call it.

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I feel like mental fitness brings across these connotations of

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something can actually do about it.

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And I know you are not a. Um, psychologist or, or mental health, or

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maybe you are a mental health expert or, or, or trained in that field, but

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what are some tips that you can give people to work on their mental fitness?

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mental fitness is a term that's getting more and more discussion at the moment.

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More airtime, which is fantastic.

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I can tell you my interpretation of it.

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I can also tell you what it's not.

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Right.

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So there are some, uh, some things out there that suggest that, Mental

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fitness is about keeping your, your brain alert and whatnot.

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Uh, you know, there's games that you know help, you know, there's problem

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solving games with apps or, or websites, et cetera, that, know, say, I'll do

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this and you'll be more mentally fit.

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I'm not sure about that.

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It's certainly not what we're aiming for.

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Okay.

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We're, we're aiming for.

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Ability to, uh, adapt.

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So encouraging or, or enabling people's ability to adapt

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when those bad things happen.

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What works for me my mental fitness, uh, the dimensions we just talked about

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and, and little things within there around, diets, exercise, time in nature,

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time with with people, time with.

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Um, I'm gonna say good people, but what I mean by that is people you get along

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with, people who make you laugh and who you can make laugh, uh, and then sleep.

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And I leave sleep to last, but it's really number one if you haven't got your sleep

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right, everything else is just so, so challenging And see what we did in, in

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2024 with the pushup challenge we, we had Melbourne University do a study the event.

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' Well, they set up this study to help, you know, measure the

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impacts of, of the event on people.

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And, you know, we, we surveyed over 40,000 people taking part in the event

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to see the impact of them, the mental fitness pre-event and post-event.

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And then three months down the track, so, you know, the, the

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lasting, you know, lingering impacts.

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the results were just amazing.

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In terms of people's ability to adapt, to change, um, the severity of anxiety

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symptoms, the severity of, um, depressive depression symptoms, all, all these

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good things came, came from it, which has validated what validated out of

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what we do, validated our model just makes me wanna do more in this space.

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So I've got my own little things that I do.

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Uh, I'm not always super diligent with them, staying off the phone

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for a while before you, uh, before you switch off the lights.

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too close to your sleep time, but caffeine intake, think people are

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familiar with, with these things.

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The trick is just,

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discipline.

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a great way to stay disciplined around this is, yeah, having that structure,

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being clear on that structure and, and sticking to it and having others.

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I. Help you stay honest with that structure.

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So if you do live with others, you know, a little bit of banter, a

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little bit of, um, little bit of stick, if you're not, you know,

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aligning to those guidelines can help.

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Uh, yeah.

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Uh, time and nature is another big one for me as well, which I have

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grown to appreciate more and more.

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So, I think in, in Japan they call it forest bathing.

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Uh, so deliberately walking through, you know, a, a, a green space.

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letting all that sink in.

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And there was a study done on this actually a couple years ago about,

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people go running, through, you know, forest or whatever with, um, or around

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the park with, you know, earbuds in or headphones in, and they looked

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at the impact of, a 5K run or, or whatever this, it was people used.

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or headphones versus those who didn't and those who didn't.

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It was a much more of a positive impact.

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Oh yeah, I found that really interesting.

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I also found that really disappointing.

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'cause I thought, well, that's a shame I love being able to multi try and

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multitask or walk, walk around my, uh, my local lake where it's all green,

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listen to a podcast and you know, I'm, I'm learning and I'm looking

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after my mental fitness the same time.

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Well, yes, but to get the true impact, you really need to immerse yourself in it.

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And

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it's you.

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Do you like whatever works?

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Whatever works for you If you find that's relaxing.

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I, um, I know we sometimes, and I'm very big on studies and uh, analytical

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thinking brain, but if it works for you and you find that you chill with

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a podcast, music, totally okay too.

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absolutely.

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And, and you hear, you know, GPS say this, you know, more and more often

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that, you know, you ask GP what's, what's the best form of exercise

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they'll say whatever's the one you are most likely to do.

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Just say, say the science said that, that running's the best form of exercise.

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Right?

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And say, you're not a runner.

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Well, then what do you do if you're

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Yeah.

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You don't enjoy running, but you're being forced to run.

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You're not gonna enjoy it.

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You, you're gonna try it for.

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A few days a week or maybe a month, then you're gonna, you know, revert

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back to your, your safe zone.

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So, I mean, it's worth giving a shot, but if you can find that exercise

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you really enjoy doing, there's a lot of, lot of value in that.

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Now I've got two things here because I know you do a lot of

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things with schools as well.

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leading cause of death in children, uh, under the age of 17 is suicide.

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It's overtaken, uh, transport accidents, which is a huge issue.

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what, what, how are you working with schools to get these kids involved?

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it's a really grim stat, isn't it?

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But it's, it's so real.

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So what we we're trying to get more and more schools involved in a pushup

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challenge and a, a few years ago we kicked off our, our student ambassador program.

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year we had over, I think about 500 schools involved across Australia

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in our student ambassador program.

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And something where we're continuing, to grow to really get into the,

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into the minds of, uh, people.

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had a school in, in regional.

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Uh, new South Wales, uh, a place called Don Dongo take part in the

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pushup challenge a few years ago.

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And they had a, a couple of students, approach their principal about, you know,

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taking on the pushup challenge, you know?

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Yeah.

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In the first, first year they were gonna take on this school, and the principal at

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the initially was a little bit hesitant.

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they weren't, you know, scholars.

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Yeah.

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and they weren't known for these sorts of initiatives or, or showing

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much initiative at the school.

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The principal took a punt on them.

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It gave 'em, let 'em have a crack, and they smashed it outta the

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park, and they brought all these conversations to the school.

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This new focus and this new way of looking at.

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Mental health and, and when I hear stories like that, it makes me so proud to be

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able to bring the pushup challenge to, well Australians, but, but also schools.

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And now I also wanna link it back to construction as well.

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'cause at the end of the day, we do have a lot of construction

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people listening to this podcast.

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In the construction industry, you're two times more likely to die from suicide

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compared to other males, and you are six times more likely to die by suicide

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compared to a workplace accident.

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are a BS study statistics as well.

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they're, again, pretty grim, but I, and we'll get into a minute on how you

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can sign up and participate in this challenge, but I feel as an industry being

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predominantly men, uh, and men, as we've probably spoken about through this podcast

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and through all podcasts and known as society, that men don't speak up as much.

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It's the reality.

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It's the reality that 97% of our industry are men.

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It's only gonna be more likely that men are gonna take their lives.

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Um, think that something needs to be done about it personally.

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but as, as an industry, h how can we participate in signing up and

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how do we, how do we as a, as an industry get involved in Hamish?

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We might have a chat about doing something where.

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We can sign up under the mindful builder as many

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I've got that.

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I've already got that written down.

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Mm-hmm.

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Where the mindful push up.

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The mindful push up group.

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Yeah.

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Um, we'll, we'll have a chat about something we can do, but just Nick, uh,

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before I've got one last question for you.

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How do we sign up?

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Yeah, so to get involved in pushup challenge, it's easy.

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It's free to take part.

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takes part in June each year.

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Uh, there you go.

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Now you've just got the app firing up.

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You know I'm gonna have all this spare time in the middle of the

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night coming up when I'm up late at night 'cause the baby's not sleeping.

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I'm gonna be smashing pushups.

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so yeah, people do want to wanna join, uh, just, yeah, Google the pushup challenge.

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It should be, should come up as number one or pretty close to it.

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And, uh, get involved from there.

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You can take.

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Part by yourself or with a team, with your mates, workmates, et cetera.

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it's free and, and easy if you do wanna fundraise.

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So people have the option of fundraising for mental health along the way if

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they want, but you don't have to.

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Right.

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is your thing or if you wanna do it by yourself, not the team, for it.

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Would love to have you involved.

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if pushups aren't your thing, then, you know, you can do other things as well.

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You can do up squats, lunges, uh, you know, modified pushups, free to mix it up.

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And we get a lot of people, we start on day one.

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then burn out, or they go really hard on day one, know?

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And then day two, they can't move their arms.

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day one in particular, I spread 'em out over the day

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and throw in some alternatives.

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My dad takes part, he does wall pushups, um, which I find like,

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I'd certainly encourage those.

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We had 105 year old take part a few years ago.

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Uh, and he was doing wall pushups as well.

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So any come

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Amazing.

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very easy to get involved.

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Again, it's free and it's, uh, hopefully you get to learn about mental health

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a little bit along the way as well.

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what are some of the, um, organizations that you support in the pushup challenge?

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yeah.

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So this year we're supporting Headspace.

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Lifeline and our own foundation, the push for better foundation.

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And so people can choose who they're fundraising for.

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there are a number of headspace and lifeline centers across Australia.

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In fact, combined, there's almost 200.

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the option for you to, to fundraise for one of your, you know, to support your

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local community by selecting a, a center.

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It's based on Lifeline Center.

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That's, that's close to you.

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Again, fundraising is optional.

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We certainly encourage it.

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We'd love you to support.

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We'd love, you know, people to support their local communities.

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But we also understand that sometimes people financially just aren't in a, a

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position to, to donate or they're not comfortable asking their friends, family

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for donations, which is all right.

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They do wanna fundraise.

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We've got a bunch of tools to, to help you out.

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Nick, I'll finish on this.

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you've raised $50 million for mental health.

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What does that mean to you?

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it's a number we're really proud of.

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also love the fundraising component.

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It's, it's not actually a fundraising event, it's a participation event, and

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what really me is just is getting people involved and we have people reach out to

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us and say, oh, it's because of the pushup challenge that they've started exercising.

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Again, it's because of the pushup challenge that they're being

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able to connect with their mates.

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It's because of the pushup challenge that they've learnt all this, this

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new stuff about mental health and that's the stuff that really motivates

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me, you to do more in this space.

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So the fundraise is, is pretty cool and I'm very, I'm super proud

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to be able to support, you know, lifeline Headspace what they do.

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But it's the participation that really, really motivates me.

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And I think it's also the numbers that you'll never know, and that's

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the numbers that you've helped.

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You know, not become part of that 3214 statistic of people taking their lives.

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'cause I'm absolutely no doubt that this event has saved

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probably more lives than you know.

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So well done Nick.

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amazing.

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We are the type of people that we get an idea and we now run with it.

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And I can only ima our brains just go left and right and I

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can just imagine the phone call.

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I'm about to him with Hamish about what we're gonna do with this.

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But I can

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Yep.

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and I'm gonna speak on Hamish's behalf, that we are gonna do something with this.

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We are gonna get as many builders, architects, engineers, build

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designers, interior designers, whoever.

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We are gonna create a. Minefield builder, little page for this.

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Um, and we're gonna do something pretty special to not only support you, Nick

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and your foundation, but also, uh, more importantly, support those who are in

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need because, it's something that I know Hamish is passionate about, something

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that I'm deeply passionate about.

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unfortunately, my cousin is a statistic in that number.

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And so for me, uh, it's something that I really hold close to my chest, um,

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and, uh, feel very passionate about.

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So, um, mate, thank you so much for coming on today.

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Uh, pleasure,

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Amy.

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It's been great being on your podcast.