Hey Matthew,
Speaker:I've got a question for you.
Speaker:Do you think you could do 3,214 pushups?
Speaker:if you gave me a little bit of a time
Speaker:What about if I said you could do it over 23 days?
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:I can give it a pretty good crack,
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:Well, today we are joined by Nick Hudson from the Pushup Challenge.
Speaker:Nick, welcome.
Speaker:Thanks.
Speaker:It's great to be on.
Speaker:of the motivations behind this podcast for myself and Matt is, is not only
Speaker:to talk about, , our lives as builders because it can be quite stressful, but.
Speaker:we're also talking about how stressful it can be.
Speaker:We've got a big emphasis on mental health.
Speaker:Um, you know, I've shared some personal journey, personal stories for myself.
Speaker:You know, I'm diagnosed anxiety disorder, diagnosed A DHD.
Speaker:You know, I quite often ride a bit of a roller coaster from, from month to month.
Speaker:but enough about me.
Speaker:I would love to hear about you and the story behind the pushup challenge
Speaker:My journey with mental health began when my dad, uh, had his own, you call
Speaker:it, I guess, journey with depression.
Speaker:I was out at a restaurant, my parents.
Speaker:night, and dad, as he, as he often does, went off to pay the bill I'm
Speaker:left, left there sitting with mom, and of a sudden mom just starts
Speaker:crying, I was bawling her eyes out.
Speaker:Oh my gosh.
Speaker:I was thinking, what have I done?
Speaker:What have I said Was the meal that bad?
Speaker:reached across the table and said, oh, mom, you grab mom's hand.
Speaker:Oh, mom, you okay?
Speaker:What's, what's going on?
Speaker:She said, Nick, I can't keep it a secret any longer, I have to tell you.
Speaker:your dad has depression, I knew nothing about depression at this time.
Speaker:Nothing.
Speaker:I didn't know how to respond other than I could see the bad
Speaker:state that mum was in and thought, oh, okay, obviously this is bad.
Speaker:And just, just went with it.
Speaker:Just, you know, listened and, and, uh, let her say her thing.
Speaker:Um, dad comes back to the table a few minutes later.
Speaker:Mum's still quite teary.
Speaker:And, and, and dad's, oh, oh, what, what's going on?
Speaker:What happened?
Speaker:And mum said, oh, I had to tell Nick that, you've got depression.
Speaker:And dad's, head just, just sunk.
Speaker:And he looked, looked ashamed.
Speaker:and that really saddened me.
Speaker:like many guys or girls, you know, my dad's a hero.
Speaker:and hearing that, you know, he, he was in a bad way, you know, hit me really hard.
Speaker:it turns out that dad had been suffering from depression for a long time.
Speaker:He 15, 20 years, something like that.
Speaker:Mom and him had been keeping it a secret from my brother and
Speaker:I, you know, all those years.
Speaker:when all this came out, I felt well in, in a way I was a little bit
Speaker:disappointed with, with, with mom and dad for not, know, not telling me.
Speaker:But again, I, I had no idea what depression was.
Speaker:So, I needed to learn.
Speaker:I respected.
Speaker:They didn't, they didn't tell me.
Speaker:And, and hats off to mom in particular.
Speaker:I mean, dad had been going through a super rough ride, but hats off to
Speaker:mom for, for shouldering all that, you know, for helping dad navigate
Speaker:all that and trying to keep that, and keep the household together and
Speaker:put on the smiling face and all that.
Speaker:Whilst my brother and I were navigating school, that, that was my first.
Speaker:Experience with, depression and mental health, which was, yeah, an
Speaker:eye opener for me at that stage.
Speaker:And again, I, I was coming from a baseline of knowing almost zero mental health.
Speaker:So that's where my journey, I guess, I guess, began.
Speaker:quite a challenging conversation probably for you to have in your own head as well,
Speaker:because you're probably not wanting to then put the burden back on your parents.
Speaker:To add more pressure to them.
Speaker:So not only are you trying to there, because you said this, well, I've,
Speaker:I've literally written this down.
Speaker:You've written the word, you said the word listened, you said it, which is
Speaker:such a key thing to doing that time.
Speaker:But you're there to support your, your, your dad and your mom and airing that
Speaker:conversation is also a positive and then move in the right direction, you
Speaker:probably also then had to start going through, well now how do I process in my
Speaker:head without putting that back on them?
Speaker:that, that listening thing, it's so important, right?
Speaker:Men and women, but particularly for men you okay?
Speaker:I've got some really good tools about this, but The listening
Speaker:thing, just being able to.
Speaker:To make someone feel heard and to hear your emotions validated right and
Speaker:understood by another, can be so powerful
Speaker:if I'm thinking about, I guess the timeframe, so that was 20 years ago,
Speaker:you know, just outta school, and you're saying that your dad was experiencing
Speaker:this for 15 to 20 years, like you were a young kid when he was going through this.
Speaker:If I think about my dad, and I think that our parents are probably of a similar,
Speaker:similar age and similar generation.
Speaker:Why do you think that our parents' generation seem to be so stoic about this
Speaker:and see shame in admitting these things?
Speaker:it's part of that cultural evolution, right?
Speaker:I'm sure there's things in, in, in generation before theirs that, uh, that
Speaker:they look back on and go, oh, how, how, how the hell did you operate like that?
Speaker:I don't know the answer,
Speaker:I was gonna say, I wasn't actually expecting you to come back with an answer
Speaker:because I've thought about it a lot and I don't think that even your dad, or even
Speaker:my parents or my dad or even his parents could answer the question as to why.
Speaker:' and I dunno if you've got kids, but I've got kids, Matt's
Speaker:about to have his first kid.
Speaker:the narrative that our kids are actually having these days around mental
Speaker:health is wildly different to what it was like when I was that age and
Speaker:the conversations that we're having.
Speaker:What makes me happy, I guess, in a way, is that we're seeing
Speaker:this change in generation of that communication and the way that we're
Speaker:actually talking about mental health.
Speaker:And now that it's actually just not gonna say it's normal.
Speaker:I don't think we're quite there yet, particularly in our industry, but
Speaker:it, there is a change in, in this n around mental health and when we're
Speaker:actually feeling these feelings, we're actually talking about them.
Speaker:there's certainly cultural change.
Speaker:It'd be real interesting to see how that changes.
Speaker:You know, over the next couple of generations when you ask the question
Speaker:of, you know, what was so different with the last generation or what caused
Speaker:that, stoic, and that that lack of openness there, I think if we, if we
Speaker:knew the pure answer to that in, in its, you know, completely scientific form,
Speaker:that would significantly help us today in unraveling that it'd be interesting
Speaker:to see how the next generation goes.
Speaker:And I am scared nervous about the next generation as well
Speaker:as I am excited and hopeful.
Speaker:I mean, I'm loving all these good chats that are happening and complete
Speaker:change, what seems to be like complete change in how we tackle this.
Speaker:But I, I. But, you know, with social media and, and information just being so
Speaker:readily available along with the good, there's, there's bad in that as well.
Speaker:So, um, I'm excited about the, the future, but also a little bit nervous, you know.
Speaker:And it's totally understandable and, and you know, I'm sure Matt's having
Speaker:these thoughts too with his, you know, child on the way too and myself
Speaker:with two, and I'm expecting a third.
Speaker:I'm gonna just add one more thing to what you just said there, Nick.
Speaker:There's people like you out there who are making a real change, that
Speaker:are blocking out all that other noise because we can't stop that.
Speaker:I always say to my team, and I say to, if anyone ever asks me for
Speaker:business advice, is to focus on the things that you can control.
Speaker:And I kind of feel like what you are doing with the pushup challenge
Speaker:is actually focusing on something that you can control and you are
Speaker:putting out a positive message.
Speaker:So I agree with you.
Speaker:There's lots and lots and noise out there.
Speaker:There a hundred percent is, but it's people like you and organizations like
Speaker:the Pushup Challenge who are actually gonna make a really big change.
Speaker:As best as you can, try and block out that noise.
Speaker:It's gonna exist.
Speaker:It's always exists, but know that there's also people like you who are gonna help
Speaker:change that narrative and change the way that people are thinking about it.
Speaker:I really appreciate you saying that.
Speaker:And look, it's gonna be a, it's gonna be a team effort here, right?
Speaker:It's gonna take, uh, what do they say, a village, all these different individuals,
Speaker:all these different organizations, working towards that cul cultural change and what
Speaker:working towards those individual changes.
Speaker:But I, I, I will, I will layer in this, which, which I think, um, is hopefully
Speaker:building on your previous point.
Speaker:Life is hard.
Speaker:Life is challenging.
Speaker:Bad stuff is gonna happen, right?
Speaker:People get sick, people die.
Speaker:People lose jobs to your, know, bad grades at school.
Speaker:Break up with your partner break up their partners.
Speaker:Bad stuff happens.
Speaker:So.
Speaker:Understanding that bad stuff happens.
Speaker:What do we do about that?
Speaker:do we prepare ourselves for that?
Speaker:And I'm not talking about preparing yourself financially or, or
Speaker:anything like that, but I'm talking about, you know, emotionally,
Speaker:I'm talking about mental fitness.
Speaker:How do we prepare ourselves, build up that mental fitness
Speaker:those bad things happen, sure.
Speaker:you know, we mourn.
Speaker:learn, we, we kick ourselves, all that sort of stuff.
Speaker:But we're strong enough to get through it in a reasonable state.
Speaker:And there are times where I know through, I've been through those periods where
Speaker:it feels like, geez, this week or this month or this year, I've been hit with
Speaker:just so many things, many bad things.
Speaker:And I know this is easier said than done, but at the end of the day.
Speaker:I know I've got a choice to, I can let those things get me down and, sometimes
Speaker:they really do get me down I can try and do I can to lift myself back up.
Speaker:Now I know there might be some people watching this podcast or
Speaker:listening or other people talking about this and going, yeah, righto
Speaker:will, sometimes people just can't.
Speaker:And I understand that sometimes we're in such a bad state and we are lucky
Speaker:to live in a country where there were some pretty good services available
Speaker:to us out there us, you know, get out of those really rotten states.
Speaker:So I'd be encouraging people who are in that really bad place to, you know,
Speaker:reach out to those services to get help.
Speaker:if you are in a good way.
Speaker:Think about what you can do to improve your mental fitness, you know, today
Speaker:in terms of diet, exercise, time with others, time outside, that sort of thing.
Speaker:support the mental fitness of others as well.
Speaker:I also wanna add in sleep to that one.
Speaker:I feel like sleep's a really important thing.
Speaker:I, I think that's something that also gets missed a huge amount with
Speaker:this sort of, these conversations.
Speaker:Sleep is absolutely number one.
Speaker:I had a period a few years ago, uh, where I was running on, uh, about two
Speaker:hours of sleep for a couple weeks, and I was going insane, going absolutely
Speaker:insane, and I. wasn't until I spoke to a doctor about it and, and got a bit
Speaker:of help that I helped steady that ship.
Speaker:I was trying to solve all these problems I was trying to, I was focusing my
Speaker:exercise, my diet, all these things.
Speaker:My sleep was.
Speaker:Out of control, bad.
Speaker:I know Matt, on the, on the eve of having a, having a child, this
Speaker:Just rip the bandaid off here.
Speaker:Rip it off.
Speaker:yeah.
Speaker:But, uh, but, but sleep is number one.
Speaker:If, if you're not, if you're not well rested, it's gonna be really hard to make
Speaker:those decisions to regulate your emotions.
Speaker:Uh, all those sorts of things, and yes, I know it might be hard for, um,
Speaker:for a, a young family, but it, it's something people need to focus on.
Speaker:so the proportion of sort of a health expenditure that's dedicated
Speaker:to mental health, it lags behind a lot of the spending, say to
Speaker:cardiovascular disease, respiratory.
Speaker:Why is that?
Speaker:Hmm.
Speaker:I don't know the answer.
Speaker:there's a number of things that can be done in the mental health space.
Speaker:The preventative is just so important.
Speaker:So rather than up the acute end, right, where we also need support,
Speaker:but up the, the preventative end, we, we also need investment.
Speaker:know, we need the good behaviors, put in place.
Speaker:there's a study that, that was done, uh, recently about impact of, you
Speaker:know, long-term focus on mental health.
Speaker:So, you know, interventions over extended period of time, we're talking
Speaker:about years having a positive impact.
Speaker:And if you look at that.
Speaker:An intervention of that duration, the investment behind that's
Speaker:gonna be significant, right?
Speaker:it might be hard for the government to, you know, to be able to justify
Speaker:to itself around, I mean, the numbers should say otherwise, uh,
Speaker:but it might be hard to government.
Speaker:If you look at cardiovascular disease and, you know, cancer, they get,
Speaker:um, a, a lot of as they should.
Speaker:but the reason the funding comes from that, because if that someone can develop
Speaker:a tablet or a system to cure these diseases, the, it's highly profitable.
Speaker:look at, like, for example, a Covid vaccine.
Speaker:Um, major money made out of creating a vaccine.
Speaker:The issue with say, mental health, there's no vaccine and there's
Speaker:never gonna be a magic pill.
Speaker:So from an investment perspective, the return on income is never gonna be there.
Speaker:And that's the harsh reality from an investment.
Speaker:When a government's gonna look at something or a company's going to look
Speaker:at something, they gonna go to ROI on it?
Speaker:The answer's probably not, but they will along the lines somewhere,
Speaker:because these can lead to other issues within lives and domestic violence and
Speaker:assault and all these other things.
Speaker:But I totally agree on your comment around being preventive.
Speaker:Like everything, we should be preventive, not reactive.
Speaker:And I, I have a personal opinion, like didn't we just see recently
Speaker:a decrease from the governments around the amount of mental health
Speaker:sessions that someone can get?
Speaker:They've dropped it from 20 down to 10.
Speaker:The reality is most people, the people that we are probably around
Speaker:a lot of the time, can afford it.
Speaker:There's so many people that can't access this and don't have the money to access
Speaker:these things, and it just puts so much pressure on all these non-for-profits
Speaker:to to, to lift that burden.
Speaker:It does, and it's unfortunate that, uh, the people who
Speaker:may really need it, , can't.
Speaker:Afford those sessions, which, which just creates a spiral of not good.
Speaker:it's challenging when you've got so many competing causes out there, good
Speaker:causes, but they are in a way competing.
Speaker:I think the tricky part about mental health is that there's so many different
Speaker:contributing factors that what might lead to you feeling in a certain way.
Speaker:this might be a really great segue into you talking about your experience with
Speaker:a physical health problem, which I would imagine has led into a depressive period.
Speaker:I might just throw over to you, Nick, just to maybe talk about that and
Speaker:probably, you know, start talking about like, the genesis of where
Speaker:like the pushup challenge came from.
Speaker:Because I feel really great when I'm training.
Speaker:I. When I'm physically active, you know, and I know that, that makes me feel good.
Speaker:And I, I actually love the connection between mental health and fitness.
Speaker:So could you maybe share with us, um, I guess way back, the, maybe after you,
Speaker:you know, you, you hearing about your dad and, and your personal experience.
Speaker:Number of years later, I was, uh, was, uh, winter and myself and mates
Speaker:wanted something new to do, and we were, you know, exercising a fair bit,
Speaker:but we wanted to do something else.
Speaker:So I, I challenged the guys to, to take on a, a stack of pushups over a month.
Speaker:it worked really well.
Speaker:We, we got fit along the way.
Speaker:had a bit of fun with it, but there was an unintended consequence.
Speaker:during the challenge, during this, this thing that, you know, we were doing,
Speaker:you, you'd wake up the morning, it'd be, you know, six 30 uh, we, we had this
Speaker:little lap that, that I built to help us.
Speaker:track our pushups it was really, really basic.
Speaker:Uh, but it worked and it was, it was, it was great.
Speaker:And everyone would put their pushups in there.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:So again, you wake up in the morning, you, you'd fire up the app and you, see that,
Speaker:for instance, Hamish had always Yeah.
Speaker:60 pushups.
Speaker:Like It's six 30 Hamish.
Speaker:I know you're a bit of a bit of a machine, how have you managed to do 60 pushups?
Speaker:And so, you know, you message a group, Hamish would inevitably say, well,
Speaker:you know, the kids woke me up at four.
Speaker:Um, so I thought, yeah, why not?
Speaker:Um, I was going to smash out a few now.
Speaker:And so the conversation would start about pushups, right?
Speaker:And then evolve into one other things and you know, it'd come to 10:00 AM on the
Speaker:app, check up, you know, fire up the app.
Speaker:See, Matt still hadn't done any pushups.
Speaker:like Matt Classic.
Speaker:Matt, come on late.
Speaker:Internet's.
Speaker:in.
Speaker:not working.
Speaker:Can't download it.
Speaker:the conversation would start about pushups, then evolve into life things.
Speaker:Yeah, kids about girlfriend, your partner, you know, whatever.
Speaker:so I found this, this, this challenge kept us really well connected.
Speaker:Because we're all busy, right?
Speaker:We've got families, we're extended families, we've got our partners
Speaker:or our mates at work, whatever, and catching up with some mates
Speaker:or, or some people, it can be hard.
Speaker:And this way of staying connected worked really well.
Speaker:We live in the era of, of, you know, group chats.
Speaker:I look at how many of my social groups are just around group chats now and how,
Speaker:how much that sort of drives activity.
Speaker:So I thought, well maybe it's something more in this, maybe we can get more
Speaker:people involved, get 'em better connected, have a bit of fun with it, fit.
Speaker:I. That's the Venn diagram of good things, right?
Speaker:All those things connected.
Speaker:good stuff.
Speaker:So I put a bit more effort into it and got some, some more mates
Speaker:involved, got friends involved, and the following year we had a
Speaker:thousand people taking part across Australia, which I always stoked by.
Speaker:It's like, this is awesome.
Speaker:The app, I improved, it, had all these new features in it.
Speaker:You can do all these new things like this is, this is great.
Speaker:after two, a thousand people involved.
Speaker:I said to the mates, all right, let's, let's celebrate.
Speaker:Let's, this is great.
Speaker:Um, and we did want, you know, any bunch of guys I. In Perth, we'd do to celebrate.
Speaker:We went over to, uh, went over to Bali for a few days, for a few days
Speaker:and, uh, you know, hit, hit the waves and, and, um, had a bit of fun.
Speaker:But coming back, , or even out in the surf there, I realized, I felt quite unfit.
Speaker:Went and saw a doctor who, um, who.
Speaker:referred me to a cardiologist who told me that my heart was in a bad way
Speaker:that I needed to have work done on it.
Speaker:didn't really like that news.
Speaker:to some other cardiologists who confirmed yes, I needed to have open heart surgery
Speaker:in the, you know, very, very near future.
Speaker:And so that, that hit me very poorly, I got depressed.
Speaker:I. Hearing that I couldn't exercise for a while, I'd be at risk of having
Speaker:to go on, you know, warfarin and, and not be able to, know, drink
Speaker:and eat funky foods and all that.
Speaker:yeah, I went downhill and I started rejecting my mates, started rejecting
Speaker:my family, you know, withdrew from work with, withdrew from, from life.
Speaker:It was a, it was a low point.
Speaker:So I thought, you know what?
Speaker:Let's, let's do something more for mental health.
Speaker:Let's build this pushup into something real, something big
Speaker:into there with my laptop.
Speaker:of time in bed, completely bored with Netflix and, and all that.
Speaker:I thought, yeah, let's, let's build a pushup challenge.
Speaker:And so that's, that's when it was on put a stack more effort into it.
Speaker:Developed all this, you know, developed a website and app and marketing stuff.
Speaker:And, and yeah, that year we had about 50,000 people taking
Speaker:part across Australia, which was just, yeah, mind blowing.
Speaker:As I kind of touched on before, we've got, um, Julie, who's a psychologist that comes
Speaker:onto this, uh, podcast regularly and she talks about like a few things that helps,
Speaker:I guess with your mental resilience, and that is purpose being physical.
Speaker:Connections and being out in nature and just listening to you, um, as you're going
Speaker:through that post-surgery, um, stage where you couldn't do much, you had a purpose.
Speaker:You were trying to do something physical.
Speaker:You were creating connections.
Speaker:Now, I don't know if you could go outside and enjoy nature or you had
Speaker:a nice window there or whatever, but like you're kind of hitting three outta
Speaker:those four really key ingredients.
Speaker:And if I think about like what the pushup challenge is actually doing,
Speaker:like it's hitting off so many of those things that we know plays such
Speaker:a big role into our mental fitness.
Speaker:coming out of that, that surgery and, you know, for a while you can, you
Speaker:can't do much, but I knew as soon as I was, you know, well enough to.
Speaker:Walk a reasonable amount.
Speaker:It's on.
Speaker:I'm throwing everything at 'cause I'm still quite depressed.
Speaker:I am trying to get my sleep back, back on track, eating well, time of
Speaker:nature, time with good people and that sense of purpose, you know, that was
Speaker:incredibly, uh, prominent real for me and deliberately, you know, moving in
Speaker:those dimensions and trying to, um.
Speaker:To make all those happen at the same time with the pushup challenge, how
Speaker:do I encourage, how do I nurture a community of people to do the same?
Speaker:that's one of the reasons why the Pushup challenge has been so successful, it's
Speaker:got all those elements of goodness.
Speaker:And it's, it's fun.
Speaker:so pushups 3,214.
Speaker:Why that many?
Speaker:yeah, so this year in 2025, we're encouraging Australians to take
Speaker:on that many 3,214 represents the number of Australians who tragically.
Speaker:Took their own lives.
Speaker:And in 2023, which is the last year of, um, of mentioned data.
Speaker:number we wanna do something about.
Speaker:we've had participants taking part in contacting us, and, and I've met, you
Speaker:know, many of them who will tell me, Nick, my brother, my dad, my sister, my
Speaker:son, was one of those, you know, 3,214.
Speaker:it's heartbreaking, but it's also, really motivating.
Speaker:' is one of your business goals for the pushup challenge, given that
Speaker:there's, the last count was 3002 14.
Speaker:People that took their lives in 2023 would one of your goals for
Speaker:the business to not have to exist?
Speaker:Yes, absolutely.
Speaker:So if, if, if we're successful, and the whole, village is successful, then
Speaker:that number should reduce over time.
Speaker:To get, you know, close to, if not to zero, then the challenge to us
Speaker:will be, How do we to maintain our mental fitness, our resilience?
Speaker:when those things do happen.
Speaker:We've got a better chance of getting through them.
Speaker:I absolutely love this term of mental fitness, like, I think, you know,
Speaker:mental health or, or, or, or mental disease or whatever you wanna call it.
Speaker:I feel like mental fitness brings across these connotations of
Speaker:something can actually do about it.
Speaker:And I know you are not a. Um, psychologist or, or mental health, or
Speaker:maybe you are a mental health expert or, or, or trained in that field, but
Speaker:what are some tips that you can give people to work on their mental fitness?
Speaker:mental fitness is a term that's getting more and more discussion at the moment.
Speaker:More airtime, which is fantastic.
Speaker:I can tell you my interpretation of it.
Speaker:I can also tell you what it's not.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:So there are some, uh, some things out there that suggest that, Mental
Speaker:fitness is about keeping your, your brain alert and whatnot.
Speaker:Uh, you know, there's games that you know help, you know, there's problem
Speaker:solving games with apps or, or websites, et cetera, that, know, say, I'll do
Speaker:this and you'll be more mentally fit.
Speaker:I'm not sure about that.
Speaker:It's certainly not what we're aiming for.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:We're, we're aiming for.
Speaker:Ability to, uh, adapt.
Speaker:So encouraging or, or enabling people's ability to adapt
Speaker:when those bad things happen.
Speaker:What works for me my mental fitness, uh, the dimensions we just talked about
Speaker:and, and little things within there around, diets, exercise, time in nature,
Speaker:time with with people, time with.
Speaker:Um, I'm gonna say good people, but what I mean by that is people you get along
Speaker:with, people who make you laugh and who you can make laugh, uh, and then sleep.
Speaker:And I leave sleep to last, but it's really number one if you haven't got your sleep
Speaker:right, everything else is just so, so challenging And see what we did in, in
Speaker:2024 with the pushup challenge we, we had Melbourne University do a study the event.
Speaker:' Well, they set up this study to help, you know, measure the
Speaker:impacts of, of the event on people.
Speaker:And, you know, we, we surveyed over 40,000 people taking part in the event
Speaker:to see the impact of them, the mental fitness pre-event and post-event.
Speaker:And then three months down the track, so, you know, the, the
Speaker:lasting, you know, lingering impacts.
Speaker:the results were just amazing.
Speaker:In terms of people's ability to adapt, to change, um, the severity of anxiety
Speaker:symptoms, the severity of, um, depressive depression symptoms, all, all these
Speaker:good things came, came from it, which has validated what validated out of
Speaker:what we do, validated our model just makes me wanna do more in this space.
Speaker:So I've got my own little things that I do.
Speaker:Uh, I'm not always super diligent with them, staying off the phone
Speaker:for a while before you, uh, before you switch off the lights.
Speaker:too close to your sleep time, but caffeine intake, think people are
Speaker:familiar with, with these things.
Speaker:The trick is just,
Speaker:discipline.
Speaker:a great way to stay disciplined around this is, yeah, having that structure,
Speaker:being clear on that structure and, and sticking to it and having others.
Speaker:I. Help you stay honest with that structure.
Speaker:So if you do live with others, you know, a little bit of banter, a
Speaker:little bit of, um, little bit of stick, if you're not, you know,
Speaker:aligning to those guidelines can help.
Speaker:Uh, yeah.
Speaker:Uh, time and nature is another big one for me as well, which I have
Speaker:grown to appreciate more and more.
Speaker:So, I think in, in Japan they call it forest bathing.
Speaker:Uh, so deliberately walking through, you know, a, a, a green space.
Speaker:letting all that sink in.
Speaker:And there was a study done on this actually a couple years ago about,
Speaker:people go running, through, you know, forest or whatever with, um, or around
Speaker:the park with, you know, earbuds in or headphones in, and they looked
Speaker:at the impact of, a 5K run or, or whatever this, it was people used.
Speaker:or headphones versus those who didn't and those who didn't.
Speaker:It was a much more of a positive impact.
Speaker:Oh yeah, I found that really interesting.
Speaker:I also found that really disappointing.
Speaker:'cause I thought, well, that's a shame I love being able to multi try and
Speaker:multitask or walk, walk around my, uh, my local lake where it's all green,
Speaker:listen to a podcast and you know, I'm, I'm learning and I'm looking
Speaker:after my mental fitness the same time.
Speaker:Well, yes, but to get the true impact, you really need to immerse yourself in it.
Speaker:And
Speaker:it's you.
Speaker:Do you like whatever works?
Speaker:Whatever works for you If you find that's relaxing.
Speaker:I, um, I know we sometimes, and I'm very big on studies and uh, analytical
Speaker:thinking brain, but if it works for you and you find that you chill with
Speaker:a podcast, music, totally okay too.
Speaker:absolutely.
Speaker:And, and you hear, you know, GPS say this, you know, more and more often
Speaker:that, you know, you ask GP what's, what's the best form of exercise
Speaker:they'll say whatever's the one you are most likely to do.
Speaker:Just say, say the science said that, that running's the best form of exercise.
Speaker:Right?
Speaker:And say, you're not a runner.
Speaker:Well, then what do you do if you're
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:You don't enjoy running, but you're being forced to run.
Speaker:You're not gonna enjoy it.
Speaker:You, you're gonna try it for.
Speaker:A few days a week or maybe a month, then you're gonna, you know, revert
Speaker:back to your, your safe zone.
Speaker:So, I mean, it's worth giving a shot, but if you can find that exercise
Speaker:you really enjoy doing, there's a lot of, lot of value in that.
Speaker:Now I've got two things here because I know you do a lot of
Speaker:things with schools as well.
Speaker:leading cause of death in children, uh, under the age of 17 is suicide.
Speaker:It's overtaken, uh, transport accidents, which is a huge issue.
Speaker:what, what, how are you working with schools to get these kids involved?
Speaker:it's a really grim stat, isn't it?
Speaker:But it's, it's so real.
Speaker:So what we we're trying to get more and more schools involved in a pushup
Speaker:challenge and a, a few years ago we kicked off our, our student ambassador program.
Speaker:year we had over, I think about 500 schools involved across Australia
Speaker:in our student ambassador program.
Speaker:And something where we're continuing, to grow to really get into the,
Speaker:into the minds of, uh, people.
Speaker:had a school in, in regional.
Speaker:Uh, new South Wales, uh, a place called Don Dongo take part in the
Speaker:pushup challenge a few years ago.
Speaker:And they had a, a couple of students, approach their principal about, you know,
Speaker:taking on the pushup challenge, you know?
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:In the first, first year they were gonna take on this school, and the principal at
Speaker:the initially was a little bit hesitant.
Speaker:they weren't, you know, scholars.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:and they weren't known for these sorts of initiatives or, or showing
Speaker:much initiative at the school.
Speaker:The principal took a punt on them.
Speaker:It gave 'em, let 'em have a crack, and they smashed it outta the
Speaker:park, and they brought all these conversations to the school.
Speaker:This new focus and this new way of looking at.
Speaker:Mental health and, and when I hear stories like that, it makes me so proud to be
Speaker:able to bring the pushup challenge to, well Australians, but, but also schools.
Speaker:And now I also wanna link it back to construction as well.
Speaker:'cause at the end of the day, we do have a lot of construction
Speaker:people listening to this podcast.
Speaker:In the construction industry, you're two times more likely to die from suicide
Speaker:compared to other males, and you are six times more likely to die by suicide
Speaker:compared to a workplace accident.
Speaker:are a BS study statistics as well.
Speaker:they're, again, pretty grim, but I, and we'll get into a minute on how you
Speaker:can sign up and participate in this challenge, but I feel as an industry being
Speaker:predominantly men, uh, and men, as we've probably spoken about through this podcast
Speaker:and through all podcasts and known as society, that men don't speak up as much.
Speaker:It's the reality.
Speaker:It's the reality that 97% of our industry are men.
Speaker:It's only gonna be more likely that men are gonna take their lives.
Speaker:Um, think that something needs to be done about it personally.
Speaker:but as, as an industry, h how can we participate in signing up and
Speaker:how do we, how do we as a, as an industry get involved in Hamish?
Speaker:We might have a chat about doing something where.
Speaker:We can sign up under the mindful builder as many
Speaker:I've got that.
Speaker:I've already got that written down.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:Where the mindful push up.
Speaker:The mindful push up group.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Um, we'll, we'll have a chat about something we can do, but just Nick, uh,
Speaker:before I've got one last question for you.
Speaker:How do we sign up?
Speaker:Yeah, so to get involved in pushup challenge, it's easy.
Speaker:It's free to take part.
Speaker:takes part in June each year.
Speaker:Uh, there you go.
Speaker:Now you've just got the app firing up.
Speaker:You know I'm gonna have all this spare time in the middle of the
Speaker:night coming up when I'm up late at night 'cause the baby's not sleeping.
Speaker:I'm gonna be smashing pushups.
Speaker:so yeah, people do want to wanna join, uh, just, yeah, Google the pushup challenge.
Speaker:It should be, should come up as number one or pretty close to it.
Speaker:And, uh, get involved from there.
Speaker:You can take.
Speaker:Part by yourself or with a team, with your mates, workmates, et cetera.
Speaker:it's free and, and easy if you do wanna fundraise.
Speaker:So people have the option of fundraising for mental health along the way if
Speaker:they want, but you don't have to.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:is your thing or if you wanna do it by yourself, not the team, for it.
Speaker:Would love to have you involved.
Speaker:if pushups aren't your thing, then, you know, you can do other things as well.
Speaker:You can do up squats, lunges, uh, you know, modified pushups, free to mix it up.
Speaker:And we get a lot of people, we start on day one.
Speaker:then burn out, or they go really hard on day one, know?
Speaker:And then day two, they can't move their arms.
Speaker:day one in particular, I spread 'em out over the day
Speaker:and throw in some alternatives.
Speaker:My dad takes part, he does wall pushups, um, which I find like,
Speaker:I'd certainly encourage those.
Speaker:We had 105 year old take part a few years ago.
Speaker:Uh, and he was doing wall pushups as well.
Speaker:So any come
Speaker:Amazing.
Speaker:very easy to get involved.
Speaker:Again, it's free and it's, uh, hopefully you get to learn about mental health
Speaker:a little bit along the way as well.
Speaker:what are some of the, um, organizations that you support in the pushup challenge?
Speaker:yeah.
Speaker:So this year we're supporting Headspace.
Speaker:Lifeline and our own foundation, the push for better foundation.
Speaker:And so people can choose who they're fundraising for.
Speaker:there are a number of headspace and lifeline centers across Australia.
Speaker:In fact, combined, there's almost 200.
Speaker:the option for you to, to fundraise for one of your, you know, to support your
Speaker:local community by selecting a, a center.
Speaker:It's based on Lifeline Center.
Speaker:That's, that's close to you.
Speaker:Again, fundraising is optional.
Speaker:We certainly encourage it.
Speaker:We'd love you to support.
Speaker:We'd love, you know, people to support their local communities.
Speaker:But we also understand that sometimes people financially just aren't in a, a
Speaker:position to, to donate or they're not comfortable asking their friends, family
Speaker:for donations, which is all right.
Speaker:They do wanna fundraise.
Speaker:We've got a bunch of tools to, to help you out.
Speaker:Nick, I'll finish on this.
Speaker:you've raised $50 million for mental health.
Speaker:What does that mean to you?
Speaker:it's a number we're really proud of.
Speaker:also love the fundraising component.
Speaker:It's, it's not actually a fundraising event, it's a participation event, and
Speaker:what really me is just is getting people involved and we have people reach out to
Speaker:us and say, oh, it's because of the pushup challenge that they've started exercising.
Speaker:Again, it's because of the pushup challenge that they're being
Speaker:able to connect with their mates.
Speaker:It's because of the pushup challenge that they've learnt all this, this
Speaker:new stuff about mental health and that's the stuff that really motivates
Speaker:me, you to do more in this space.
Speaker:So the fundraise is, is pretty cool and I'm very, I'm super proud
Speaker:to be able to support, you know, lifeline Headspace what they do.
Speaker:But it's the participation that really, really motivates me.
Speaker:And I think it's also the numbers that you'll never know, and that's
Speaker:the numbers that you've helped.
Speaker:You know, not become part of that 3214 statistic of people taking their lives.
Speaker:'cause I'm absolutely no doubt that this event has saved
Speaker:probably more lives than you know.
Speaker:So well done Nick.
Speaker:amazing.
Speaker:We are the type of people that we get an idea and we now run with it.
Speaker:And I can only ima our brains just go left and right and I
Speaker:can just imagine the phone call.
Speaker:I'm about to him with Hamish about what we're gonna do with this.
Speaker:But I can
Speaker:Yep.
Speaker:and I'm gonna speak on Hamish's behalf, that we are gonna do something with this.
Speaker:We are gonna get as many builders, architects, engineers, build
Speaker:designers, interior designers, whoever.
Speaker:We are gonna create a. Minefield builder, little page for this.
Speaker:Um, and we're gonna do something pretty special to not only support you, Nick
Speaker:and your foundation, but also, uh, more importantly, support those who are in
Speaker:need because, it's something that I know Hamish is passionate about, something
Speaker:that I'm deeply passionate about.
Speaker:unfortunately, my cousin is a statistic in that number.
Speaker:And so for me, uh, it's something that I really hold close to my chest, um,
Speaker:and, uh, feel very passionate about.
Speaker:So, um, mate, thank you so much for coming on today.
Speaker:Uh, pleasure,
Speaker:Amy.
Speaker:It's been great being on your podcast.