There are two types of counseling which are biblical and unbiblical.
Speaker AWhat does it actually mean to counsel someone biblically?
Speaker AAnd what sets it apart from unbiblical or secular counseling?
Speaker AIn part one of this episode, we need to stop and think about the foundation of biblical counseling and how it was the initial type of counseling before being hijacked by secular counselors and counseling.
Speaker AJoin us as we take this time to stop and think about it.
Speaker BHello?
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Speaker CThink, McFly, think.
Speaker CI'm thinking.
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Speaker BI'm trying to think, but nothing happens.
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Speaker CNow just think about it.
Speaker CYou're listening to Stuck and Think About It, a podcast for the Christian thinker.
Speaker CIn a day when sound biblical preaching has been replaced by man centered entertainment and the church has become increasingly anti intellectual, this podcast will encourage believers to think biblically and theologically.
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Speaker AGreetings, friends and fellow saints and sinners.
Speaker AWelcome to episode 61 of the Stop and Think about it podcast.
Speaker AI am your host, Phil Sessa, AKA the Bronx Expositor, along with our producer, also host of the Breaking Bread podcast, Ishmael with no H, Claudio.
Speaker AAnd today we have special guest Rick Thomas from Life Over Coffee.
Speaker AWell, greetings, Rick.
Speaker AThank you for joining us on this episode of the Stop A Thing about it podcast.
Speaker ADo you remember when you and I met?
Speaker BI remember being up there in 2016, but I am an old man now, so I honestly do not remember us.
Speaker AYou got the date, the place?
Speaker BWere we in Brooklyn at a Baptist church?
Speaker BA Reformed Baptist church?
Speaker ANot too far off.
Speaker AWe were in North Shore Baptist Church.
Speaker BNorth Shore.
Speaker BNorth Shore Baptist Church.
Speaker BYes, I.
Speaker BAnd I spoke on communication.
Speaker AYes, yes, Amen.
Speaker AAnd I, I went that night because I was very excited that you were coming and, and it was such a blessing to hear that message and be trained unto you.
Speaker AAt that time.
Speaker BI was so glad you didn't say we met in a bar.
Speaker BI didn't know.
Speaker BWell, I didn't know where we met, so I didn't know where this conversation was going.
Speaker AWe met a back alley.
Speaker ANo.
Speaker BBut we met in a church.
Speaker AWe met in a church.
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker AAmen.
Speaker AWell, I'm really, you know, you did good as far as you remembered the, the year and, and the state.
Speaker ASo, you know, that's probably the better than most people would remember because it's been several years.
Speaker ASo tell us a little bit about yourself and your ministry.
Speaker BYeah, we're in Greenville, South Carolina.
Speaker BI'm Married to my wife, Lucia.
Speaker BWe have three children that have flown the coop.
Speaker BSo we are empty nesting at this stage in our life.
Speaker BWe started a discipleship ministry and twin in 2008, so we're 17 years old.
Speaker BPrior to that, I pastored five years, and prior to that, I was leading a counseling ministry at a local church here in South Carolina.
Speaker BBut in 2008, we started life over coffee, which basically means that any two Christians can come together and do life over a cup of coffee.
Speaker BWhat it really is is discipleship, but we brand it as life over coffee because coffee is ubiquitous.
Speaker BPeople know what it is.
Speaker BThey kind of get it.
Speaker BBut if you drill deeper into it, what it really is is biblical counseling.
Speaker BAnd so we do biblical counseling, or we train people to do biblical counseling, but we call it life over coffee.
Speaker BBecause if I said we want to teach you how to do biblical counseling, I think most of the church would say, you know, I can't do that.
Speaker BThere's something about it that is mysterious or it sounds hard or whatever.
Speaker BNow, there is some complexity there and some sophistication for sure, but everybody's called to go and make disciples.
Speaker BAnd so what we do is we train people to do life over coffee, and that's what our ministry is.
Speaker BI mean, there's more to it than that.
Speaker BWe have a school.
Speaker BI write books, we do public speaking, etc.
Speaker BBut it is a discipleship ministry, to put it just in a short phrase.
Speaker DDo you produce coffee as well?
Speaker BWell, yes, we don't, but we do have a roaster.
Speaker BAnd so if you.
Speaker BIf you went into our store, I mean, if we're going here, let's go there.
Speaker AThat's okay.
Speaker BTumblers and so forth and so on.
Speaker BBut we have a roaster in Florida, a plug to him, by the way, Christian kitchens, and they roast coffee, and so they do that for us.
Speaker BSo, yeah, I mean, the answer is yeah, and it's great.
Speaker BIt's great coffee.
Speaker BAnd you can actually get a subscription and have coffee come into your door every week, month, or however you.
Speaker BHowever you want it.
Speaker BBut, yeah, it's great coffee.
Speaker ABiblically, you're the one who makes the coffee in the house between you and your wife.
Speaker AHer name is Lucia.
Speaker BYeah, we call her Saint Lucia, but you can call her.
Speaker BYou can.
Speaker BYou can call her Lucia.
Speaker BShe's.
Speaker BShe's an island and in the Caribbean.
Speaker BBut I don't make the coffee.
Speaker BI drink it.
Speaker BShe's actually the barista.
Speaker BShe has a.
Speaker BShe's very gifted in many ways, and she loves making coffee.
Speaker BAnd I love drinking the coffee that she makes.
Speaker AOkay, cuz somebody tell me as a biblical counselor, you're supposed to make it because the Bible says that.
Speaker AThat Hebrews.
Speaker BYes, the Bible says a lot of.
Speaker AThings that people take out of context, such as that.
Speaker ASo tell us, so what is biblical counseling as opposed to unbiblical or secular counseling?
Speaker AWhat's the difference?
Speaker BWell, biblical counseling is the application of God's Word.
Speaker BAnd so theology is absolutely essential.
Speaker BBiblical counseling is applying God's Word to somebody's life.
Speaker BAnd so you could say that studying the Bible is orthodoxy and the application is orthopraxy.
Speaker BAnd those are the two key components to being mature, to growing up in Christ likeness.
Speaker BThe simple formula for wisdom is knowledge applied.
Speaker BAnd so the Bible applied to our lives.
Speaker BThat's how we grow in wisdom.
Speaker BAnd so biblical counseling is the application aspect, applying God's Word to our lives practically.
Speaker BNow biblical counseling is exactly as it sounds.
Speaker BWe believe in the sufficiency of God's Word, as Peter said, that God has given us all things for life and godliness, as Paul said in 1st Timothy 3:16, that God's word is profitable for things, for teaching, for rebuking, for correcting, and for training in righteousness.
Speaker BAnd so God's Word is the primary, all sufficient text that we use to apply in people's lives.
Speaker BAnd so that is biblical counseling.
Speaker BThere is another form as you mentioned, I would say secular counseling.
Speaker BAnd that's really just the world trying to figure out how to help people.
Speaker BAnd so if you're going to reject God, you have to come up with an alternate plan.
Speaker BWe believe in creation, they don't.
Speaker BSo they came up with evolution.
Speaker BWe believe in God's Word as the answer to our problems.
Speaker BThey came up with their own Bible and their Bible.
Speaker BBy the way, for those who are interested, I'm using Bible in air quotes here.
Speaker BIt's the DSM 5, which is the Diagnostic Statistical Manual Edition number 5.
Speaker BIt's now it's Edition 5TR, which means text revised.
Speaker BSo they have actually revised the fifth edition of their Bible.
Speaker BAnd so they use that.
Speaker BAnd that's where you get all the acronyms, adhd, ocd, ptsd, so forth and so on.
Speaker BAll of that language comes from their Bible, comes from the dsm and that is secular counseling.
Speaker BAnd so there would be, those would be the two competing entities, just like creation and evolution.
Speaker BNow there is a hybrid of those two which is, it's called integration, where they integrate the Bible and the world and they come up with this version of counseling.
Speaker BIt's not biblical counseling, and it's messy, it's hard to discern.
Speaker BIs commonly used within Christianity where they're just trying to blend two competing worldviews into this hybrid.
Speaker BAnd that's called integration.
Speaker BAnd so they would be three types of counseling, primarily biblical integration, and then purely secular.
Speaker BI would be a biblical counselor.
Speaker BJust one other thing is that the word psychology is a Greek word, psychologos.
Speaker BJust like we have all the ologies within theology.
Speaker BBibliology means the study of the Bible.
Speaker BTheology means the study of God.
Speaker BSoteriology means the study of salvation.
Speaker BHermetology, the study of sin, anthropology, the study of man, ecclesiology, the study of the church, eschatology, the study of end times.
Speaker BAnd there's more.
Speaker BBut psychology is the study of the soul.
Speaker BThat's what the word means.
Speaker BAnd so in my view, God created the Soul.
Speaker BIn Genesis 2:7, God formed man out of the dust of the ground, breathed into his nostrils, and he became living soul.
Speaker BSo he created the psyche.
Speaker BAnd as I referenced Timothy 3:16 a while ago, he breathed again into men and they wrote the Bible.
Speaker BAnd so the purest form of psychology in the world is this Bible.
Speaker BThis is the word concerning the soul.
Speaker BAnd so for all of our soul problems, we have the word for it, and it is the Bible.
Speaker BAnd so psychology is actually a good word.
Speaker BIt's.
Speaker BIt is a Bible word when it's defined biblically.
Speaker BLike all of the other ologies that I listed, Jesus was the greatest psychologist that ever lived.
Speaker BWe have the greatest psychology book that's ever been written.
Speaker BAnd the more that we grow in learning theology and the application of it, we too can bring pure psychology to people's lives to help them to mature.
Speaker AAmen.
Speaker AWell, I really like some of the things you shared, just the.
Speaker AThe way you unpacked it.
Speaker ASo our Bible is immutable because it's unchanging, just like the character of God.
Speaker AI noticed that you said we're on the DSM 5 and it's.
Speaker AIt's in a rev.
Speaker AA revised version at this time.
Speaker ASo if it's in the fifth revision, if you will, that tells us it's not immutable, it's ever changing.
Speaker ATo my understanding, homosexuality used to be.
Speaker AAnd what version of the DSM before they removed it?
Speaker BThe DSM 2.
Speaker BAnd it went from 2 to 3 in like 1972, 73, 74, right in there when they went to the DSM 3.
Speaker BAnd the way the reason it changes is because there's multiple entities that really are working, and they're all lobbying from their position.
Speaker BAnd so you would have the psychiatric community.
Speaker BThere would also be the LGBT community.
Speaker BYou'll have the pharmaceutical community as well, because they have a vested interest in creating these acronyms, adhd, for example, because, again, they're selling medication.
Speaker BYou also have the political lobby as well.
Speaker BAnd so there's multiple lobbies that come together, and they all have their particular thing that they're trying to create or speak into.
Speaker BThat's the primary reason that it changes.
Speaker BOf course, there's cultural changes, too.
Speaker BAnd you mentioned homosexuality.
Speaker BIt did used to be a deviant behavior according to the dsm, and now it's, you know, moved completely out.
Speaker BIt's not a deviant behavior, and the same as gender dysphoria and those types of things.
Speaker BAnd so it really moves along with the culture.
Speaker BAnd so it's not anchored in anything other than the zeitgeist.
Speaker BAnd as the zeitgeist continues to change, it changes with it.
Speaker BAnd so basically, it has its feet firmly planted in midair as far as the Bible is concerned.
Speaker BIt's been anchored since it was.
Speaker BThe canon was closed 2000 years ago, and it hasn't changed since.
Speaker AAmen.
Speaker AAmen.
Speaker ASo my understanding is that a bunch of these guys, they kind of get together in a room and they vote on these things to mold and come up with the dsm.
Speaker BYeah, I mean, basically, it would be a simplistic way, and I don't know, you know, how it exactly happens if, technically speaking, if they get in a room.
Speaker BBut, yeah, there's a continual ongoing discussion and in some ways, negotiation and just going back and forth because everybody has their particular interest.
Speaker BAnd again, the culture has a lot to do with it as well.
Speaker BAnd so there's a lot of play there.
Speaker BIt mirrors the culture, actually.
Speaker BI'm.
Speaker BI'm 66 years old.
Speaker BI was.
Speaker BI came up in the late 60s and early 70s, and the culture was a certain way then, but it is nothing like that now.
Speaker BThings that we would never do, never say never think, you know, we're just doing them just with no blushing and doing it in public spaces.
Speaker BAnd it's just a different world.
Speaker BAnd the DSM has evolved that way as well, which means it really has a degenerative effect.
Speaker BNow, ultimately, the DSM is not a book that helps you.
Speaker BIt is a book that describes things.
Speaker BAnd so it's called descriptive psychology, meaning all they're doing is describing how a person is behaving or how a person is iterating, like adhd for example, if they're meeting certain criteria, then they look at that criteria and put it up against, well, that's adhd.
Speaker BThen from there, from the psychologist, they go to the psychiatrist, and the psychiatrist will give medication based on that label, adhd.
Speaker BAnd then the medication, all it does is mutes the behavior.
Speaker BSo it just externally changes the person, but it doesn't do any heart work.
Speaker BThere's no solution there.
Speaker BAgain, it's just descriptive psychology.
Speaker BIt's important that they have those labels, because the labels, it serves several means.
Speaker BFor example, the label is tied to insurance coding.
Speaker BAnd so if I get this label, then the insurance will pay for this diagnosis.
Speaker BAlso, this label will determine the type of medication that I have.
Speaker BAnd then thirdly, that label gives me an identity.
Speaker BI have adhd.
Speaker BAnd so it gives them a way of thinking about their problem.
Speaker BBut again, it's just behavioral modification through medication.
Speaker BNow, the Bible, on the other hand, we counsel the heart, we disciple the heart.
Speaker BAnd so it's internal transformation.
Speaker BAs Paul would say in Ephesians 4, 22, 23, 24, put off the old person and renew the spirit of the mind and.
Speaker BAnd put on a new person.
Speaker BFinally, in Luke 6:45, Jesus says, out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.
Speaker BAnd so we do not primarily do behavioral modification.
Speaker BWe do mortification of the heart.
Speaker BThere is a place for behavioral modification in Matthew 5, 24, 29 and 30, where Jesus says, your eye offends you.
Speaker BPluck it out.
Speaker BI mean, there are some behavioral things that we should do, but the Bible is more sufficient than that.
Speaker BIt will not only modify behavior, but it will address root cause.
Speaker BThe DSM does not address root cause.
Speaker BIt is medicating a problem.
Speaker AIt makes assessments.
Speaker ARight.
Speaker AInstead of testing for a sinful issue.
Speaker AAnd then basically in the assessment, they match it with the label, and then it goes to the insurance company.
Speaker AThey could put it on.
Speaker AI work in a public school.
Speaker AThey put it on the IEPs for students and so on and so forth.
Speaker ASo it's this sort of messy machine that's all trying to work together.
Speaker AAnd there's no.
Speaker AThere's no resolution.
Speaker AThere's.
Speaker AThere's no heart change as the goal at the end of the day.
Speaker BYeah, and they're very honest about it in some ways, but they say it in the front of the DSM that we don't know why people do what they do.
Speaker BAnd so we can just describe the behavior and then come up with a chemical that they can take to modify.
Speaker BIronically, that's what I did in the 70s, I called it pot.
Speaker BBack then I would smoke marijuana.
Speaker BIt would modify my behavior as long as I was under the power of the narcotic.
Speaker BAnd so it's really not different from that.
Speaker BBut one other thing is that they're not dichotomous.
Speaker BThey do not believe in the soul.
Speaker BThey're materialists.
Speaker BAnd so they, they were just meat puppets.
Speaker BAnd so because they are materialists, they see everything physical, organic, not non organic or spiritual.
Speaker BWe would believe in both body and soul.
Speaker BAnd so because they are materialists, they're doing in these psychological world what the medical doctor does in his world.
Speaker BIt's just, it's just a body that a doctor is assessing, diagnosing and bringing solutions to.
Speaker BPhysically, in the psychological world, they're looking at the same materialistic person.
Speaker BThat's also why they can, that's why they can do an abortion, because it's not a soul.
Speaker BThere's no imago dei, this is just a sack of meat.
Speaker BAnd so there's no value here.
Speaker BBut having a materialist worldview, it makes sense that what you would do is you would medicate it.
Speaker BBut if you, if you don't believe in the soul, that God created the soul, that there's an eternality to the soul, we do.
Speaker BAnd we know that there can be this internal transformation that the Bible speaks to.
Speaker AAmen.
Speaker DSo when you begin biblical counseling, is one of your goals, trying to debunk what the culture is or what the DSM 5 is teaching us?
Speaker DBecause like you said, it's their Bible.
Speaker DAnd if we're not reading our Bibles, we're reading the world Bible pretty much.
Speaker DSo like, when you go into the counseling session, do you find resistance?
Speaker DBecause there are, there are those who uphold the culture.
Speaker BYeah, absolutely.
Speaker BAnd I don't, I don't try to debunk it for a couple of reasons.
Speaker BOne, I'm not a medical doctor, and so I would never, never, I've never have asked anyone to get off medication because that's not my call.
Speaker BTwo, I don't debunk it because this is a faith issue.
Speaker BIf a mom, for example, has seen her son change behavior because of the medication that he is on, and then I start going after that, she believes this works.
Speaker BThat's what I mean by a faith issue.
Speaker BFaith and belief are the same words.
Speaker BSo she believes that this is the path.
Speaker BAnd if I start saying, you know, this is wrong, then it begins to just destroy her faith.
Speaker BThe faith that she has in this diagnosis, the faith she has in the psychologist, the faith she has in the psychiatrist, the faith she has in the medicine.
Speaker BSo I don't talk about that at all.
Speaker BYou could say that it is a religion.
Speaker BBecause of that, it becomes an emotional issue.
Speaker BAnd if I start talking about can become really emotional, I've always described it like a trapeze artist, where they're holding on to this, and I'm asking them to hold on to this, but there's some point in between where they're holding on to nothing.
Speaker BAnd so for them to let go of secular psychology and grab hold to God's word, there's a moment in time where there they're holding on to nothing.
Speaker BAnd so that is a very emotional and attentious time.
Speaker BAnd so I try to be careful there by not telling them to let go when they don't even know what to grab hold to next.
Speaker BAnd so what I do instead is I build a case for the sufficiency of God's Word.
Speaker BAnd so the way that you, or one of the ways that you do that is just listen to what they are saying as a biblical counselor, as they describe their problems.
Speaker BYou listen at two levels.
Speaker BThey're talking up here about whatever's going on in their life, but I'm translating it biblically in the heart.
Speaker BThey may say that, you know, I don't like that person.
Speaker BWell, there's anger here.
Speaker BMaybe I've been hurt for decades from what my daddy did to me.
Speaker BThere's regret there, there's bitterness there.
Speaker BThere's unforgiveness there.
Speaker BI remember one time I've done this several times in a counseling session, is that I will use a whiteboard and I'll draw a big heart on it.
Speaker BAnd then I would listen to them talk for an hour, and I'll start writing these biblical labels inside of the heart.
Speaker BAnd then when they're done talking, I will turn it around and show it to them.
Speaker BDo you struggle with.
Speaker BAnd these are all biblical labels, and so do you struggle with anger?
Speaker BYes, I do.
Speaker BDo you struggle with unforgiveness?
Speaker BYeah, I do.
Speaker BBitterness, so forth, unforgiveness, so forth, and so on.
Speaker BAnxiety, worry, fear, blame.
Speaker BAll of these are biblical categories.
Speaker BAnd then I'll say something like this.
Speaker BI mean, I wouldn't say it exactly like this, but this is what I'm thinking.
Speaker BWhat if we address each one of these one by one, and you overcome them, and then we come back six months later and see whether you need medication or not.
Speaker BNow, I say the first part of that all the time.
Speaker BI don't say the second part.
Speaker BI don't talk about medication in a counseling session.
Speaker BI say, what about if?
Speaker BOkay, so you agree that you struggle with these 15 things that are in the heart.
Speaker BImagine a life where you were free from all of those things.
Speaker BAre you in faith to start working on those things?
Speaker BAnd so I'm building a case for them to grab hold to God's word.
Speaker BI never tell them to let go.
Speaker BAnd I've had many people in counseling, you know, months down the road, where now they have a new faith, where they see the sufficiency of God's word, that they're not medicating their life, but they're actually being transformed from the inside out.
Speaker BAnd so they make that decision themselves.
Speaker BThey work with their psychologist, work with their psychiatrist, and they begin to.
Speaker BMany of them begin to go off meds because they just don't need them anymore because they have experienced an internal transformation through the word of God.
Speaker AThat sounds a little bit like when I was teaching my children to walk, and they would.
Speaker AThey would kind of hoist themselves up and hold on to the edge of the couch, and then I would move away from the couch and tell them, you know, to.
Speaker ATo come to me, and they had to let go of one thing.
Speaker AAnd then, you know, if you will, in between me and the couch, they.
Speaker AThey were holding on to nothing, but.
Speaker AAnd then, you know, they were able to realize, you know, that I would catch them if they fell.
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker BAnd they're looking at you like, are you out of your mind?
Speaker ARight.
Speaker BWhat are you asking me to do?
Speaker AExactly.
Speaker AExactly.
Speaker BBut, you know, when they do do that, as you've had that experience, they're over the moon.
Speaker BAnd, you know, what has just happened, you know, once they make that crossing of the great divide, and now.
Speaker BNow they're walking on their own.
Speaker ASo your goal for the counseling in the process is different from the goal that secular counselors have.
Speaker ASo.
Speaker AAnd I.
Speaker AI know you kind of mentioned it, but what would be the goal?
Speaker ABecause it seems that.
Speaker AThat the counseling always is going back to the psychologist, back to the counselor, time and time again, similar to how in Roman Catholicism, they always have to go back to the mass and go back to the priests for confession.
Speaker ASo what's the goal here in biblical counseling in contrast to secular counseling?
Speaker BYeah, you'll hear that a lot.
Speaker BYou know, like with Hollywood stars, for example.
Speaker BYou know, they have their therapist, right?
Speaker BActually, I want to be one.
Speaker BI would love to be a therapist, because you never get over your problem.
Speaker BAnd so, you know, I've Always wanted Brad Pitt or pick anybody.
Speaker BIt doesn't matter.
Speaker BTom Cruise, they pay me.
Speaker BTom Cruise would be great.
Speaker BPay me $5,000 a week to talk for an hour, and we do this for the rest of my life.
Speaker BI think it's a great thing.
Speaker BThing.
Speaker BBut as you're implying with your question, the answer to what they're looking for is relief.
Speaker BThey're looking for relief from whatever's going on in their lives.
Speaker BAnd so that relief, very similar to me smoking pot, you know, when I was 15 years old.
Speaker BIt does give you momentary relief.
Speaker BIt can give you a mental adjustment, let's say, but then you're always going back to the same thing.
Speaker BSo you need the medication or you need to meet with your therapist, and it's ad infinitum.
Speaker BAnd so, again, the best that they can offer is relief.
Speaker BIn the biblical counseling or discipleship world, we offer change.
Speaker BWe offer transformation.
Speaker BWe see that initially in 2 Corinthians 5, 17, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation.
Speaker BAnd so God did not come to give us relief from our problems.
Speaker BHe came to completely change us from the inside out.
Speaker BAnd those are two completely different worldviews.
Speaker AAmen.
Speaker AAnd so is it my understanding in Christian history that some of the first, quote, unquote, psychologists were the Puritans, and they engaged in what's called soul care.
Speaker BYeah, the Puritans did.
Speaker BI mean, prior to 1900, there were only two people in town that ministered to you.
Speaker BOne was the medical doctor that took care of the physical problems, and the other was the pastor who took care of the soul problems.
Speaker BAnd so they work together.
Speaker BThe Puritans have written some wonderful work on how to, you know, do soul care.
Speaker BBut in the.
Speaker BIn 1905, 1906, beginning with Sigmund Freud and Carl Jung, when they came over, they began to create a third person, and that is the psychologist.
Speaker BAnd so it was no longer the medical doctor and the pastor, it was them.
Speaker BPlus, now we have a psychologist.
Speaker BAnd so we've created a third entity or a third category.
Speaker BAnd they have done very well in their marketing.
Speaker BI mean, the messaging has been great because many people in the church and even pastors would say this, you know, I.
Speaker BYou know, I can't speak to those issues.
Speaker BYou know, I can, you know, preach, and, you know, we can teach people God's word, but when it comes to these problems, we outsource it to a psychologist.
Speaker BAnd so they have done well in their messaging.
Speaker BAnd I would not know the stats, but there's an overwhelming number of Christians who actually believe that messaging.
Speaker BI'm not saying out of ill motive at all.
Speaker BThey just don't know.
Speaker BI mean, the work of the dsm.
Speaker BI'm using social media and marketing as a way of communicating.
Speaker BCarl Jung didn't know anything about marketing or social media, but the messaging was great as far as that's concerned and is so great that many Christians believe in it that we need a therapist and they don't really.
Speaker BWe would say that God's word is sufficient, but when you begin to unpack that, you'll hear many Christians say, well, you know, they have adhd, they have ocd, they have ptsd.
Speaker BAll of those problems are real.
Speaker BI'm not saying that they're not real.
Speaker BI'm just saying that label is going to take you that way.
Speaker BYou take the same problem and go that way.
Speaker BYou'll find more than relief.
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker AAmen.
Speaker AAmen.
Speaker AI, you know, I like how you kind of just brought that, brought all that together and, and unpacked, you know, the sort of, the different players that speak to this.
Speaker AAnd so it almost sounds like pastors and those in the church have helped the secular cause and said, well, you know, this area is for the expert over here and not see that as.
Speaker ASo I'm a pastor in a Church of Grace Baptist Church in Queens.
Speaker AAnd so if I bought into that, it would say, well, you, you know, you have to go over here with something that is in the Bible that I preach from instead of saying, well, I can help you as well, because it's a problem.
Speaker AAnd, and, and there, maybe there's a sin issue and the Bible speaks to it.
Speaker AAnd so we can use God's word to help you to come to transformation and not just go over here and perhaps band aid the problem, and then you need band aids for the rest of your life.
Speaker BYeah, it's a, it's a complex issue.
Speaker BAnd, you know, part of it is, is that, you know, pastors, when they get an M.
Speaker BDiv and M.
Speaker BDiv, they're not trained in psychology.
Speaker BI mean, they may have a pastoral counseling class as part of their m divorce.
Speaker BBut because of what has happened with secular psychology, there is a whole other training curriculum, which actually is what I have.
Speaker BI don't have an MD I have a master's in biblical counseling.
Speaker BAnd so there's a whole other training regimen that needs to be here.
Speaker BAnd we do have it.
Speaker BYou know, as far as a master's in biblical counseling, prior to psychology, know, taking over the culture, we didn't need that.
Speaker BBut the thing, I don't knock on pastors because they're trained a very particular way to take God's, to take God's word seriously, learn how to be sound, exegese, to have a good hermeneutic, to be able to craft sermons and to preach God's word, etc.
Speaker BBut over the past 150 years, there's this competing, competing doctrine, secular psychology.
Speaker BAnd it kind of caught us off guard.
Speaker BAnd so a pastor would look at that and say, I don't know what OCD is, I don't know what ADHD is.
Speaker BI wasn't trained in that.
Speaker BAnd they weren't, and it's not necessarily their fault.
Speaker BBut there has to be this awareness within each local church of what's going on.
Speaker BSome of the things that I'm saying.
Speaker BThere has to be someone who understands these things and can help shed light on it and be able to help people to walk them through these, some of these complexities that I'm talking about here.
Speaker BIt should not be the lead pastor.
Speaker BI think that would be unfortunate because if he was a biblical counselor, he would spend his entire week with two or three or five families and he would not be able to do the work of actually shepherding the sheep.
Speaker BAnd it would be like a side hustle that would soon dominate his life if he focused on biblical counseling.
Speaker BSo pastors need to continue to get their M divs.
Speaker BThey need to continue to share God's Word faithfully as they do.
Speaker BBut they need to have this awareness that we need to have somebody here that can help address the application of God's Word problems that we have in the church.
Speaker BNow, that's what we do in.
Speaker BWe come alongside churches supplementally to help them to understand, not to put a burden on the pastor.
Speaker BI can imagine a pastor who's spending 20 to 25 hours a week crafting a sermon, and then he's got to meet with five different people for counseling sessions.
Speaker BAnd then he has all the other things that he has to do with the administration of the church that would be too much for him to do.
Speaker BAnd so we try to release pastors from doing.
Speaker BIt's almost like having an electrician and a plumber.
Speaker BYou need both of those.
Speaker BOne is trained this way, the other one's trained that way, and then both of them, Orthodoxy and Orthopraxi, they're working together.
Speaker BAnd that's a true benefit for any local church.
Speaker AWhen you look in your Bible, do you see some of these things that you mentioned that are like on the DSM chart, so to speak.
Speaker AWell, you, you mentioned that you sort of take what people are saying, you write them in the heart.
Speaker ABut we, we see some of these issues in the biblical characters.
Speaker ALet's say I preached through the book of Jonah and Jonah seemed to have anger issues, among other things.
Speaker AWe see Peter and, and the disciples, we see impatience.
Speaker ASo when you look at your, at your Bible, do you unpack some of these behavioral things, perhaps sinful things in the biblical characters?
Speaker BOh, yes, they become great illustrations.
Speaker BAll of them do.
Speaker BBecause, you know, people would talk about the Bible that, you know, the Bible is full of sin and sinful people, and it is, but it actually mirrors real life.
Speaker BAnd so that's the beauty of these characters.
Speaker BThey were not saints or in the sense that they were sinlessly perfected.
Speaker BThey were just like you and me.
Speaker BAnd so because they were, we're all born in Adam and so we're no different from them.
Speaker BAnd so to see these stories in the Bible, they actually do become great illustrations.
Speaker BYou mentioned Jonah.
Speaker BHe was a racist, he hated the Ninevites.
Speaker BHe had several other problems.
Speaker BYou know, the anger.
Speaker BHe was very self righteous as he looked down.
Speaker BAnd so, you know, who's not self righteous, who has never struggled with anger, who has never self righteous?
Speaker BRacism is a form of self righteousness where you're looking down on somebody and thinking you're better than them.
Speaker BAnd so who has not done that?
Speaker BOr if you take Joseph in the Bible, who was sinned against, who has not been sinned against.
Speaker BAnd then we see his attitude in Genesis 50:20 that he had an attitude of forgiveness toward his brothers, and so he was managed more by sovereignty than suffering.
Speaker BWell, who hasn't suffered?
Speaker BWe all have suffered to varying degrees.
Speaker BBut are we sovereignty centered or are we suffering centered?
Speaker BIt makes a whole world of difference.
Speaker BAnd then we have Paul in 2 Corinthians 12, who had a thorn in the flesh, whatever that was.
Speaker BThere are some unchangeable things about us.
Speaker BBut he said, through my weakness, God's strength is.
Speaker BOr God said, through your weakness, my strength is perfected.
Speaker BSo all of that is just a reflection of our lives.
Speaker BAnd so in counseling, sure, all of those characters, Jesus, obviously in 2242 of Luke, not my will, but your will be done as he was in the garden of Gethsemane.
Speaker BAnd so trusting God in the most difficult situation in your life, there's a great illustration there.
Speaker BAnd so yes, all the Bible characters, Peter's a wonderful one for many reasons.
Speaker BImpulsiveness, for example.
Speaker BAnd so God's Word is truly sufficient.
Speaker BIt's no different in that way than the actual lives that we live today.
Speaker BWe see ourselves in scriptures through and through.
Speaker BJames would say that the Bible is a mirror.
Speaker AYeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker AAnd all my looking through the book of Jonah, he was also concerned that if Nineveh repented, God might use Nineveh as is in as an instrument of judgment against Israel, who is living in disobedience.
Speaker AAnd so there's this whole sovereignty of God thing in his mind as well.
Speaker ABut you know that he had this prejudice against a group of people and thought that Israel deserved God's grace, but not others, not those outside of Israel.
Speaker AIsrael.
Speaker AAnd so, you know, this is why we need to go into all the world and and preach the gospel.
Speaker AAs we come to the end of today's episode, thank you to our guest Rick Thomas for sharing his time, wisdom and insight with us.
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