1 00:00:00,780 --> 00:00:03,780 As the summer season draws to a close, we are starting to look forward 2 00:00:03,780 --> 00:00:05,370 to the autumn and winter months. 3 00:00:05,640 --> 00:00:09,330 One thing that happens every autumn is lots and lots of wedding 4 00:00:09,330 --> 00:00:11,160 exhibitions and bridal fairs. 5 00:00:11,550 --> 00:00:14,730 And that may be something that you are thinking about, or perhaps you're already 6 00:00:14,730 --> 00:00:16,440 booked in to exhibit your business. 7 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:20,130 At one of these shows, I love attending bridal shows and then 8 00:00:20,130 --> 00:00:21,660 wedding fairs across the country. 9 00:00:21,930 --> 00:00:26,070 But I know that many of you don't make the most of this marketing opportunity. 10 00:00:26,884 --> 00:00:31,985 Now I'm often asked to speak on online summits or in conferences or even on other 11 00:00:31,985 --> 00:00:33,845 people's podcasts or in their memberships. 12 00:00:33,964 --> 00:00:37,325 And I speak on a variety of subjects, but one of the talks that I like 13 00:00:37,330 --> 00:00:41,135 to give is all about how to convert more at these wedding fairs. 14 00:00:41,375 --> 00:00:43,745 So I thought on today's podcast, I would do something a little bit 15 00:00:43,745 --> 00:00:47,435 different and share with you the audio from a presentation that I 16 00:00:47,435 --> 00:00:49,504 did recently on this very subject. 17 00:00:49,775 --> 00:00:51,095 I hope you find it helpful. 18 00:00:51,245 --> 00:00:53,254 Let me know on Instagram, how you found. 19 00:00:53,370 --> 00:00:56,820 And if you want any more help in this area, then go to the show notes where 20 00:00:56,820 --> 00:01:01,260 there's a link, a three part video series that I've also created all about 21 00:01:01,260 --> 00:01:03,059 how to do better at wedding fairs. 22 00:01:03,059 --> 00:01:05,759 And it goes into everything in even more detail. 23 00:01:07,830 --> 00:01:11,139 I'm Becca Pountney, wedding business marketing expert, speaker, and blogger. 24 00:01:11,419 --> 00:01:14,220 And you are listening to the wedding pros who are ready to grow podcast. 25 00:01:15,365 --> 00:01:18,755 I'm here to share with you actionable tips, strategies, and real life 26 00:01:18,755 --> 00:01:21,785 examples to help you take your wedding business to the next level. 27 00:01:22,325 --> 00:01:26,075 If you are an ambitious wedding business owner that wants to take your passion 28 00:01:26,075 --> 00:01:29,465 and use it to build a profitable, sustainable business, doing what you 29 00:01:29,465 --> 00:01:31,115 love, then you're in the right place. 30 00:01:31,505 --> 00:01:33,335 Let's get going with today's episode. 31 00:01:34,980 --> 00:01:35,940 In just a few moments. 32 00:01:35,940 --> 00:01:38,070 You're gonna hear the full presentation. 33 00:01:38,250 --> 00:01:42,240 Please bear in mind that this was a live recording of that presentation. 34 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:45,930 So the audio quality, maybe isn't as good as it would normally be on 35 00:01:45,935 --> 00:01:49,260 the podcast, but hopefully it's good enough for you to hear what I'm saying. 36 00:01:50,925 --> 00:01:53,625 Well, hello and welcome to this session. 37 00:01:53,835 --> 00:01:56,835 If you are here to learn all about how to convert more at bridal 38 00:01:56,835 --> 00:02:00,524 expo or bridal fair, then you are absolutely in the right place. 39 00:02:00,524 --> 00:02:01,994 And it's great to have you here. 40 00:02:02,205 --> 00:02:05,145 My name is Becca, and I'm gonna be leading you through today's session. 41 00:02:05,505 --> 00:02:09,495 Now, before we get started and dive into the presentation, just a word of warning 42 00:02:09,495 --> 00:02:13,155 that I'm gonna cover a lot of ground and give you a whole lot of information. 43 00:02:13,334 --> 00:02:17,415 So you might wanna pause this right now and go and grab a paper and pen. 44 00:02:17,685 --> 00:02:18,345 Get that notebook. 45 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:19,750 Get your pen ready? 46 00:02:19,810 --> 00:02:23,019 Because I talk fast and I deliver a lot of information. 47 00:02:23,019 --> 00:02:25,000 So pause the video, go and grab that. 48 00:02:25,239 --> 00:02:29,019 And when we come back, you're gonna be talking with me all about how to 49 00:02:29,019 --> 00:02:33,130 convert more at a bridal or wedding expo. 50 00:02:33,340 --> 00:02:33,670 Okay. 51 00:02:33,700 --> 00:02:36,010 I'm gonna get straight on with the presentation. 52 00:02:36,010 --> 00:02:39,100 I'm gonna share my screen so you can see my slides and we're gonna 53 00:02:39,100 --> 00:02:42,010 dive straight into all of my tips. 54 00:02:44,775 --> 00:02:45,225 Okay. 55 00:02:45,345 --> 00:02:49,995 So as I said, today's session is all about how you as a wedding business owner can 56 00:02:49,995 --> 00:02:55,655 convert more at a wedding expo, whether that's a wedding expo, a bridal expo a, 57 00:02:55,755 --> 00:03:00,015 a wedding open evening, a hotel anywhere where you are putting your business. 58 00:03:00,510 --> 00:03:04,500 As part of a stand in front of potential couples and trying to 59 00:03:04,500 --> 00:03:07,710 promote yourselves to them, that's what we're gonna be talking about today. 60 00:03:07,740 --> 00:03:11,670 It doesn't matter about the size or the scale of those particular expos. 61 00:03:11,790 --> 00:03:18,450 This is going to be helpful for you now, before we dive in, I want to know what 62 00:03:18,450 --> 00:03:22,380 do you think of when I say wedding expo? 63 00:03:22,710 --> 00:03:24,930 Just think for a second, what does it make you think? 64 00:03:26,340 --> 00:03:32,250 Now when I first got engaged way back in 2009, I was really excited to go to 65 00:03:32,250 --> 00:03:34,470 my first wedding expo here in the UK. 66 00:03:34,475 --> 00:03:37,920 We call them wedding fairs and I called up my best friend who 67 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:39,090 was gonna be my bridesmaid. 68 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:42,780 And we decided to plan a girl's trip to go to a bridal show. 69 00:03:42,989 --> 00:03:47,250 I travelled two hours across the country to meet her, and we went along to. 70 00:03:47,510 --> 00:03:48,380 Bridal fair. 71 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:49,760 We were so excited. 72 00:03:49,850 --> 00:03:50,570 We were buzzing. 73 00:03:50,570 --> 00:03:53,570 We thought just like this picture, it is gonna be a really fun day out, 74 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:55,609 a girly trip to plan the wedding. 75 00:03:56,239 --> 00:03:59,450 However, the reality was somewhat disappointing. 76 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:02,600 In fact, I found the day a little bit boring. 77 00:04:03,019 --> 00:04:03,440 Yes. 78 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:04,549 It was great to see my friend. 79 00:04:05,235 --> 00:04:09,705 But our wedding expo's as exciting as they seem to be in the way they're marketed. 80 00:04:10,065 --> 00:04:14,775 In fact, really all it was was a bunch of people standing behind tables, 81 00:04:14,925 --> 00:04:18,584 trying to sell me stuff that I didn't necessarily need for my wedding day. 82 00:04:18,915 --> 00:04:21,405 It wasn't the girls day out that I had in my mind. 83 00:04:21,615 --> 00:04:23,805 It was just one big sales pitch. 84 00:04:24,195 --> 00:04:28,515 Now, as I walked around that bridal expo way back in 2009, 85 00:04:28,875 --> 00:04:31,065 this is the sort of people I came. 86 00:04:31,995 --> 00:04:33,435 There was two types of people. 87 00:04:33,795 --> 00:04:38,535 The first type was the people who didn't seem like they really wanted to be there. 88 00:04:38,955 --> 00:04:43,365 Maybe they was just sat behind the table, scrolling their phone, talking to 89 00:04:43,365 --> 00:04:45,645 someone else, doing work on their laptop. 90 00:04:45,885 --> 00:04:48,825 And there was me and they just weren't engaging with me barely at all. 91 00:04:48,825 --> 00:04:50,295 So I just walked past their stand. 92 00:04:50,595 --> 00:04:51,495 They looked nervous. 93 00:04:51,615 --> 00:04:53,235 They look like they didn't know what they were doing. 94 00:04:53,295 --> 00:04:55,275 And they looked kind of bored as well. 95 00:04:55,485 --> 00:04:58,545 It really wasn't an attractive proposition to go over and speak to. 96 00:04:59,505 --> 00:05:03,705 And then there was the second type of person, the other end of the scale. 97 00:05:03,855 --> 00:05:07,035 This is the person that I've described here as the used car sales man, 98 00:05:07,245 --> 00:05:09,555 because they were a proper salesperson. 99 00:05:09,735 --> 00:05:13,995 They were the sort of people that jumped out from inside, uh, and 100 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:15,750 said, Do you want to buy this? 101 00:05:15,810 --> 00:05:18,900 And then they'd go straight into a massive long sales pitch, all about 102 00:05:18,900 --> 00:05:22,230 their products or service, why it was amazing why I needed to do it, what 103 00:05:22,230 --> 00:05:26,220 discounts I could get all of the things and did I want to buy it right now? 104 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:28,440 It was the other end of the scale. 105 00:05:28,470 --> 00:05:30,240 It was totally overwhelming. 106 00:05:30,450 --> 00:05:34,500 It felt like the hard sell and they didn't actually take any time to ask 107 00:05:34,500 --> 00:05:38,790 me about myself, about my wedding day, about any of the things I had planned. 108 00:05:38,940 --> 00:05:41,760 They just had their preprepared sales pitch. 109 00:05:42,700 --> 00:05:46,270 Now that doesn't make an enjoyable day out for any bridal group. 110 00:05:46,540 --> 00:05:47,260 Trust me. 111 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:50,230 And that was my experience of going to the bridal expo when 112 00:05:50,235 --> 00:05:51,970 I was planning my own wedding. 113 00:05:53,430 --> 00:05:55,560 Now I'm gonna ask you that same question again. 114 00:05:55,770 --> 00:05:58,620 What do you think of when I say wedding expo? 115 00:05:59,190 --> 00:06:02,490 Because for you, you might be thinking of it from a different perspective. 116 00:06:02,700 --> 00:06:05,670 You're thinking about it from the perspective of the potential bride and 117 00:06:05,670 --> 00:06:09,300 groom, but you are thinking it from your perspective as the wedding business 118 00:06:09,300 --> 00:06:13,680 owner, perhaps you've already exhibited at some of these kind of events and they 119 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:15,690 make you feel a little bit uncomfortable. 120 00:06:16,830 --> 00:06:19,950 Perhaps you're thinking some of these things I've put loads of effort. 121 00:06:20,100 --> 00:06:21,120 I've created an amazing. 122 00:06:22,005 --> 00:06:24,465 Why do couples always just bypass my stand? 123 00:06:24,495 --> 00:06:25,935 Why do they never come over? 124 00:06:26,175 --> 00:06:27,735 Why do they never stop and chat? 125 00:06:29,445 --> 00:06:31,455 Perhaps you're thinking I'm a little bit nervous. 126 00:06:31,455 --> 00:06:32,565 I'm not a salesperson. 127 00:06:32,865 --> 00:06:35,145 I don't really know how to start a conversation. 128 00:06:35,150 --> 00:06:37,515 And that's why I'm sat there scrolling my phone because 129 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:39,075 I'm uncomfortable and nervous. 130 00:06:39,255 --> 00:06:41,715 And therefore, I don't know how to start that conversation. 131 00:06:43,155 --> 00:06:45,795 Perhaps you're thinking, I know that I need to sell. 132 00:06:46,109 --> 00:06:48,960 But I don't know how to do that without coming across sleazy. 133 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:51,270 I don't want to be like the used car sales man. 134 00:06:51,419 --> 00:06:56,219 And so I just stay quiet or perhaps you're thinking, I know I 135 00:06:56,219 --> 00:06:57,690 really wanna get people's details. 136 00:06:57,695 --> 00:07:01,890 I wanna get them booked in, but I just don't know how to get people to do it. 137 00:07:02,370 --> 00:07:06,299 So maybe this is what you think of when I talk about wedding expos, 138 00:07:06,510 --> 00:07:09,809 maybe it's all those uncomfortable feelings that you thought, or maybe 139 00:07:09,809 --> 00:07:12,929 you've never done one before and you just don't know where to start. 140 00:07:14,355 --> 00:07:16,095 Well, how about this? 141 00:07:17,595 --> 00:07:21,735 What if we could solve both problems and convert more leads? 142 00:07:23,835 --> 00:07:28,065 What if I could show you how to give those couples a great experience, 143 00:07:28,215 --> 00:07:32,114 not a disappointing experience like I experienced so that they then 144 00:07:32,114 --> 00:07:39,015 flock to your stand and you walk away with hot leads and even some sales. 145 00:07:40,030 --> 00:07:43,359 Well, if that's what you want, then you are in the right place, because that's 146 00:07:43,359 --> 00:07:45,340 exactly what I'm gonna be showing you in. 147 00:07:45,340 --> 00:07:49,450 Today's presentation, how to give couples a much greater experience. 148 00:07:49,599 --> 00:07:54,070 So they flock to your stand and you walk away with hot leads and sales. 149 00:07:55,635 --> 00:07:58,245 If we've not met before, my name is Becca Pountney. 150 00:07:58,425 --> 00:08:02,895 I'm a based here in the UK, as you can probably hear from my accent, I've popped 151 00:08:02,895 --> 00:08:04,875 my Instagram handle at the top there. 152 00:08:04,875 --> 00:08:09,005 So if you love Instagram, as much as I do go and connect with me at Becca Pountney. 153 00:08:09,105 --> 00:08:12,015 If you're watching this snap a picture tag me in your stories, 154 00:08:12,015 --> 00:08:15,555 wherever you are in the world, I would love to see it and drop me a DM. 155 00:08:15,615 --> 00:08:18,795 And tell me what you've learned from today's session, because I love 156 00:08:18,795 --> 00:08:20,445 to chat and I'm more than happy. 157 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:24,369 Get into a conversation and chat with you about your business at Becca Pountney. 158 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:27,840 Now I've been in the wedding industry a number of years, eight years. 159 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:31,320 In fact, following a successful career in TV and radio marketing. 160 00:08:31,740 --> 00:08:34,860 Um, for the last five years since finishing my wedding 161 00:08:34,865 --> 00:08:37,559 videography business, I've become an award winning wedding blogger. 162 00:08:37,830 --> 00:08:39,390 I'm a wedding business consultant. 163 00:08:39,750 --> 00:08:43,350 I'm a podcaster and I speak around the world, helping people, just like 164 00:08:43,350 --> 00:08:46,980 you to grow your wedding business for success, to market yourself 165 00:08:46,980 --> 00:08:48,569 successfully and to bring home. 166 00:08:49,100 --> 00:08:49,580 Money. 167 00:08:49,580 --> 00:08:54,020 And it's an absolute pleasure to be here talking to you about this topic today. 168 00:08:56,250 --> 00:08:56,730 Okay. 169 00:08:56,880 --> 00:09:01,080 So I'm gonna walk you through my three step process to 170 00:09:01,080 --> 00:09:03,150 converting at a wedding expo. 171 00:09:03,450 --> 00:09:05,940 And I call that process elf. 172 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:10,770 No, not that little guy on the side there that brings many parents much, uh, stress 173 00:09:10,770 --> 00:09:17,220 at Christmastime, but elf is a good way for you to remember my strategy E L F. 174 00:09:17,430 --> 00:09:22,110 So what does E.L.F stand for the E stands for explore and. 175 00:09:23,110 --> 00:09:27,640 The L stands for look appealing and the F stands for follow up. 176 00:09:27,850 --> 00:09:32,650 And this is the framework I'm gonna talk you through today to help you plan ahead. 177 00:09:33,530 --> 00:09:37,140 Organize yourself, have a great expo follow up and most 178 00:09:37,140 --> 00:09:39,750 importantly, make sales and convert. 179 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:42,150 So that's why we're gonna be going today. 180 00:09:42,390 --> 00:09:45,840 Get ready, because there's lots of information coming your way. 181 00:09:46,290 --> 00:09:48,040 So let's start with E then. 182 00:09:48,060 --> 00:09:49,370 Explore and plan. 183 00:09:50,125 --> 00:09:52,824 Now E is an essential part of this process. 184 00:09:53,035 --> 00:09:59,095 And this part comes before you even get to the wedding show day itself, because if we 185 00:09:59,095 --> 00:10:02,995 are not in the right place, if we are not promoting ourselves at the right bridal 186 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:06,745 or wedding expo, then the conversion is going to be almost impossible. 187 00:10:07,449 --> 00:10:11,199 So, what do we do then in this explore and plan stage? 188 00:10:11,650 --> 00:10:15,219 Well, first of all, do you have a really clear idea about 189 00:10:15,224 --> 00:10:17,110 who your ideal couple are? 190 00:10:17,589 --> 00:10:20,680 Do you know the kind of wedding they're gonna have, the kind of budget 191 00:10:20,685 --> 00:10:21,939 that they're gonna be working to? 192 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:24,790 Do you know what sort of venues they're gonna be choosing to get 193 00:10:24,790 --> 00:10:26,560 married in and what time of year? 194 00:10:26,740 --> 00:10:29,439 How well do you know the couples that you serve? 195 00:10:30,069 --> 00:10:34,420 Because if you know them well, then you can move on to the next section, which. 196 00:10:34,964 --> 00:10:36,645 Well, where are they actually hanging out? 197 00:10:36,915 --> 00:10:39,105 Which of the shows are they going to be at? 198 00:10:39,555 --> 00:10:45,105 For example, some of the couples won't be at the massive big wedding expos that 199 00:10:45,105 --> 00:10:46,814 might not be where your couple like to be. 200 00:10:46,995 --> 00:10:50,725 They might like to be at the smaller boutique, more alternative expos, 201 00:10:51,045 --> 00:10:52,785 or perhaps it's the other way round. 202 00:10:53,055 --> 00:10:56,084 So get a grip on who it is that you're trying to promote to. 203 00:10:56,385 --> 00:10:58,064 There is no point you being in the wrong. 204 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:03,449 If, for example, you want to work with wedding, uh, couples who want to get 205 00:11:03,449 --> 00:11:06,869 married at huge Manor house type venues. 206 00:11:07,319 --> 00:11:11,550 There's no point in going and exhibiting your business at the local motel because 207 00:11:11,550 --> 00:11:13,140 your clients are going to be there. 208 00:11:13,349 --> 00:11:16,739 If someone wants to get married in a grand Manor house, they're not gonna 209 00:11:16,739 --> 00:11:20,099 be going to a local motel wedding exhibition to plan their wedding. 210 00:11:20,489 --> 00:11:24,040 So do your research and find out what shows they're going to be. 211 00:11:25,075 --> 00:11:27,115 Also consider your dream venues. 212 00:11:27,415 --> 00:11:29,575 What venues do you wish you could work at more? 213 00:11:29,755 --> 00:11:31,585 Which venues do your couples go to? 214 00:11:31,585 --> 00:11:35,725 Which venues are you working at all of the time, find out if those venues are 215 00:11:35,725 --> 00:11:40,075 having their own expos, are they having their own open days and showcases where 216 00:11:40,075 --> 00:11:44,185 you can get involved, do your research, because if you put yourself in the right 217 00:11:44,185 --> 00:11:48,595 place, you've got much more chance of converting yourself into getting business. 218 00:11:48,835 --> 00:11:52,285 But if you're in the wrong place, you are already on an uphill battle. 219 00:11:54,585 --> 00:11:59,565 Now before you book or pay any money, I highly recommend if possible that 220 00:11:59,565 --> 00:12:04,455 you visit the show first often shows happen twice a year in different places. 221 00:12:04,635 --> 00:12:07,785 So perhaps you can go to the spring show and then exhibit at 222 00:12:07,785 --> 00:12:09,555 the autumn show or vice versa. 223 00:12:10,495 --> 00:12:14,064 The reason you wanna visit the show is because yes, their marketing team are 224 00:12:14,064 --> 00:12:17,395 gonna tell you it's the best thing in the whole world, but when you go and 225 00:12:17,395 --> 00:12:21,115 experience it for yourself, you're gonna get much more of a feel for whether 226 00:12:21,115 --> 00:12:22,885 your ideal couples are in the room. 227 00:12:23,515 --> 00:12:26,935 Also, when I visit a show, I quite often go round and talk to the other 228 00:12:26,935 --> 00:12:30,535 exhibitors who are there and just ask them how they're getting on at the show. 229 00:12:30,535 --> 00:12:31,795 Has the show been good for them? 230 00:12:31,975 --> 00:12:33,505 Are they getting a lot of interest? 231 00:12:33,745 --> 00:12:36,925 Because if it's successful for them, chances are, if you're in a 232 00:12:36,925 --> 00:12:41,520 similar niche or in a similar kind of category, It will work for you as well. 233 00:12:42,405 --> 00:12:46,635 And also never hand any money over to a show organizer without 234 00:12:46,635 --> 00:12:50,925 asking some good questions, ask them what is the demographic that 235 00:12:50,925 --> 00:12:52,665 you're expecting at your show? 236 00:12:53,415 --> 00:12:56,745 What are the expected attendance numbers at the show now? 237 00:12:56,775 --> 00:13:00,375 They can't always know exactly, but they will know roughly what to expect, 238 00:13:00,375 --> 00:13:02,145 whether you're gonna get 10 couples there. 239 00:13:02,785 --> 00:13:06,505 A thousand couples there, however many couples, you need to know what your 240 00:13:06,505 --> 00:13:07,975 return on investments is gonna be. 241 00:13:08,305 --> 00:13:11,095 Often we talk about cost per head in marketing. 242 00:13:11,365 --> 00:13:15,175 So how much is it gonna cost you to exhibit there versus how many people are 243 00:13:15,175 --> 00:13:18,805 coming through the door and then you can work out what that cost per head would 244 00:13:18,805 --> 00:13:20,605 be and whether or not it's good value. 245 00:13:21,540 --> 00:13:24,180 And then the other question you wanna ask is there, are there any 246 00:13:24,180 --> 00:13:25,890 other ways I can get involved? 247 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:30,510 Often we are sold an exhibition stand, but quite often there are other little 248 00:13:30,510 --> 00:13:34,020 things that we can get involved with, which can showcase ourselves even 249 00:13:34,025 --> 00:13:37,680 more ask if they've got a stage and they need someone to talk about your 250 00:13:37,680 --> 00:13:41,069 subject, ask if they have a show program that you can contribute to. 251 00:13:41,310 --> 00:13:44,370 So they have goody bags that you can put some branded merchandise in. 252 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:47,119 Is there workshop area where you could run a workshop? 253 00:13:47,305 --> 00:13:50,455 Is there a place where you could play live music, whatever it is that you 254 00:13:50,455 --> 00:13:54,235 do, is there another way you can get involved in the show to go above and 255 00:13:54,235 --> 00:13:58,615 beyond just having the stand that will put you ahead of your competition and 256 00:13:58,615 --> 00:14:00,835 make it even more worth your while. 257 00:14:01,195 --> 00:14:04,945 So before agreeing to anything, please, please, please make sure 258 00:14:04,945 --> 00:14:07,225 you're asking questions first. 259 00:14:09,390 --> 00:14:09,750 Okay. 260 00:14:09,810 --> 00:14:15,030 So once we have decided which show we want to go to, then we need to do a few 261 00:14:15,030 --> 00:14:17,310 other things before the show day itself. 262 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:22,020 First up, you need to work out how much that show is costing you to be at. 263 00:14:22,350 --> 00:14:25,800 That includes how much it is to be there on the day and how much. 264 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:27,040 You're giving away. 265 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:30,160 So for example, if you're giving away cake, how much is that costing you? 266 00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:32,560 If you're giving away merchandise, how much is that costing you? 267 00:14:32,770 --> 00:14:35,500 If you're decorating the stand, how much is that costing you? 268 00:14:35,650 --> 00:14:37,750 If you're paying someone else to be with you there on the 269 00:14:37,750 --> 00:14:39,280 day, how much is that costing? 270 00:14:39,280 --> 00:14:42,280 You add it all together and then work out. 271 00:14:42,750 --> 00:14:45,150 How many sales you need to make from that show. 272 00:14:45,450 --> 00:14:46,770 Number one, to pay for it. 273 00:14:46,950 --> 00:14:49,080 And number two, to make it worth your while, because there's no 274 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:50,460 point just doing it to pay for it. 275 00:14:50,460 --> 00:14:52,020 You need to go above and beyond. 276 00:14:52,020 --> 00:14:52,950 You need to be in profit. 277 00:14:53,370 --> 00:14:59,280 So work out how many sales you need to break even, and to make a profit and then 278 00:14:59,285 --> 00:15:03,840 use that as your sales target, going into the show, have that number clear in your. 279 00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:08,550 Give yourself some targets from this show, I need to convert 280 00:15:08,670 --> 00:15:10,470 X number of people into sales. 281 00:15:10,620 --> 00:15:14,190 And I want to collect X number of email addresses to know whether 282 00:15:14,190 --> 00:15:15,390 or not it's been successful. 283 00:15:15,930 --> 00:15:18,060 Now you will not always convert on the day. 284 00:15:18,060 --> 00:15:21,840 Sometimes those conversions will come later on, but it's important to track it. 285 00:15:21,990 --> 00:15:25,800 So it's worth knowing whether or not to go back to the same expo next year. 286 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:28,860 If you don't know whether or not it's worked for you, how can you decide 287 00:15:28,860 --> 00:15:30,630 whether to put marketing budget into it? 288 00:15:32,685 --> 00:15:36,735 The next thing you wanna be doing before the show itself is actually promote the 289 00:15:36,735 --> 00:15:40,605 fact that you are going to be attending the show and tell people why they 290 00:15:40,605 --> 00:15:42,435 want to find you before the events. 291 00:15:42,675 --> 00:15:46,545 This is a great strategy because if your couples or couples attending the 292 00:15:46,545 --> 00:15:51,045 show, see about you before they even get to the show, they're going to be 293 00:15:51,045 --> 00:15:54,375 seeking you out, especially if you have something great to offer them. 294 00:15:54,825 --> 00:15:57,855 So tag the show in Instagram, on Facebook. 295 00:15:58,050 --> 00:16:00,870 Because they might share it to their stories and therefore 296 00:16:00,870 --> 00:16:02,339 their show attendees will see it. 297 00:16:02,819 --> 00:16:05,069 Talk about what you're gonna be doing at the show where you're 298 00:16:05,069 --> 00:16:08,280 gonna be located and why couples should come and visit your stand. 299 00:16:08,819 --> 00:16:12,359 I've seen people have great success with this, where they're at the show and people 300 00:16:12,365 --> 00:16:15,630 keep coming over to them and saying, I came because I knew you were here. 301 00:16:15,630 --> 00:16:18,719 I knew you had this going on and they're actually seeking them 302 00:16:18,719 --> 00:16:20,400 out and finding their stand. 303 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:22,410 And obviously that often leads to. 304 00:16:28,050 --> 00:16:28,469 Okay. 305 00:16:28,500 --> 00:16:32,010 So that is the explore and plan section. 306 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:35,069 Do not discount that it is incredibly important. 307 00:16:35,069 --> 00:16:38,490 If you are not promoting and marketing yourself in the right place at 308 00:16:38,490 --> 00:16:41,310 the right time, it's going to be really hard for you to convert. 309 00:16:43,260 --> 00:16:47,459 Okay, that then moves us then onto L look appealing. 310 00:16:48,030 --> 00:16:51,329 I talked to the beginning about my own bridal show experience 311 00:16:51,569 --> 00:16:53,219 and how boring the show was. 312 00:16:53,280 --> 00:16:57,360 It was literally a bunch of tables with people trying to sell me stuff. 313 00:16:57,599 --> 00:17:00,030 There was leaflets everywhere that were being given out. 314 00:17:00,209 --> 00:17:02,490 And it wasn't what I'd imagined in my head. 315 00:17:03,689 --> 00:17:08,349 Now I want to change the way that you think about these exhibitions, 316 00:17:08,639 --> 00:17:11,250 because just because that's what everyone else is doing. 317 00:17:11,909 --> 00:17:13,679 Doesn't mean, you need to do that as well. 318 00:17:14,189 --> 00:17:18,089 And if you can do something totally different to stand out from the crowd, 319 00:17:18,929 --> 00:17:20,459 everyone's gonna be remembering you. 320 00:17:20,520 --> 00:17:25,079 And in fact, if the show is incredibly boring, but your stand is amazing. 321 00:17:25,290 --> 00:17:25,859 Guess what? 322 00:17:26,219 --> 00:17:28,530 Everyone's gonna remember you and you are the one that's going 323 00:17:28,530 --> 00:17:29,820 to be getting the bookings. 324 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:33,389 So number one, you need to be making sure you stand out from the crowd. 325 00:17:33,810 --> 00:17:37,350 And secondly, I want you to start thinking differently about how you 326 00:17:37,350 --> 00:17:39,840 can create a memorable experience. 327 00:17:40,305 --> 00:17:44,925 A memorable experience for the couples at the show, they don't 328 00:17:44,925 --> 00:17:47,085 want a boring sales experience. 329 00:17:47,265 --> 00:17:48,555 They want something memorable. 330 00:17:48,675 --> 00:17:50,535 They're excited to plan their wedding day. 331 00:17:50,535 --> 00:17:52,665 They're bringing their friends, they're bringing their partner, 332 00:17:52,665 --> 00:17:55,275 they're bringing their mom, they're ready to plan their wedding. 333 00:17:55,305 --> 00:17:56,805 And they're there for a day out. 334 00:17:57,105 --> 00:17:58,725 Let's give them something memorable. 335 00:17:58,725 --> 00:17:59,745 So they remember us. 336 00:17:59,985 --> 00:18:01,605 I want us to be there on their wedding. 337 00:18:03,885 --> 00:18:08,655 I wanna encourage you at this point to think outside of the box and be creative. 338 00:18:08,925 --> 00:18:10,395 There are no bad ideas. 339 00:18:10,395 --> 00:18:13,875 And like I said, just because no one else is doing it doesn't mean that you 340 00:18:13,875 --> 00:18:17,475 shouldn't be doing it because I promise you if you find something that works and 341 00:18:17,475 --> 00:18:22,005 everyone's flocking to your stand next time, you'll see other people copying you 342 00:18:22,185 --> 00:18:23,775 and you wanna be the leader of the pack. 343 00:18:24,745 --> 00:18:28,195 Get rid of all your preconceptions, get rid of all those nagging doubts in 344 00:18:28,195 --> 00:18:32,275 your mind that it won't work and think outside of the box and go with me today. 345 00:18:34,015 --> 00:18:34,375 Okay. 346 00:18:34,405 --> 00:18:36,535 I want you to ask yourself this question. 347 00:18:37,225 --> 00:18:43,705 How can you showcase your product or service in an interactive way? 348 00:18:44,399 --> 00:18:50,490 How can you showcase your product or service in a fun, interactive, memorable 349 00:18:50,790 --> 00:18:54,840 way now, depending on what you do and what you offer for a wedding is going 350 00:18:54,840 --> 00:18:56,970 to depend on how you execute this. 351 00:18:57,270 --> 00:18:58,810 But like I said, there's no bad ideas. 352 00:18:58,830 --> 00:19:02,790 So I want you to start with the craziest idea and the biggest grandest idea you can 353 00:19:02,790 --> 00:19:06,510 think of, and then bring it back down to something that you could actually manage. 354 00:19:06,780 --> 00:19:08,419 I'm gonna share some ideas with you, right? 355 00:19:09,975 --> 00:19:15,615 Idea one, for example, if you're a hair stylist, why not set up a mini salon 356 00:19:15,675 --> 00:19:19,665 area at the wedding show instead of a table, set up a mini salon with a 357 00:19:19,665 --> 00:19:24,045 chair, a mirror, make it look beautiful and run mini hair trials on the day. 358 00:19:24,770 --> 00:19:27,290 No one wants to be told that you are good at doing hair. 359 00:19:27,500 --> 00:19:28,310 They want to see it. 360 00:19:28,310 --> 00:19:29,150 They want to feel it. 361 00:19:29,150 --> 00:19:31,160 They wanna see themselves looking amazing. 362 00:19:31,670 --> 00:19:34,820 Now I've had a client who's done this incredibly successfully at the 363 00:19:34,820 --> 00:19:36,050 national wedding show in London. 364 00:19:36,350 --> 00:19:40,370 She set up her stall exactly like this, like a mini salon as suggested. 365 00:19:40,550 --> 00:19:44,210 And then she had her mom and a friend there as a helper on the day. 366 00:19:44,210 --> 00:19:47,669 So she could do the hair and talk to the brides, but the other people 367 00:19:47,690 --> 00:19:51,530 could talk to other passes by now, when someone sees someone else 368 00:19:51,530 --> 00:19:52,580 in the chair getting their hair. 369 00:19:53,110 --> 00:19:54,310 It attracts attention. 370 00:19:54,490 --> 00:19:55,540 They want to be next. 371 00:19:55,660 --> 00:19:57,910 They want to flock over and see what's going on. 372 00:19:58,450 --> 00:20:00,790 And you are also showcasing what you can do for them. 373 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:02,680 It's like a mini free hair trial. 374 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:06,520 And then obviously you can then go ahead and book those people 375 00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:10,180 in for a proper trial and work with them on their wedding day. 376 00:20:10,870 --> 00:20:13,930 Just think for a moment as a bride, would you rather someone gave you a 377 00:20:13,930 --> 00:20:17,470 leaflet with pictures of hair or would you rather experience what it's like 378 00:20:17,470 --> 00:20:19,060 to have your hair looking great for. 379 00:20:20,515 --> 00:20:23,535 If you're a musician, maybe you could have a little set area set 380 00:20:23,535 --> 00:20:26,055 up a little stage where you can play music live at the event. 381 00:20:26,475 --> 00:20:29,175 If you're a Florist, perhaps you could create a little workshop 382 00:20:29,180 --> 00:20:32,445 area in your stand where people can come over and you can talk to them 383 00:20:32,445 --> 00:20:35,895 about flowers and help them make a flower crown or something like that. 384 00:20:36,105 --> 00:20:38,655 Perhaps you could run a little mini bouquet demonstration. 385 00:20:38,835 --> 00:20:41,835 So people come over and hover around your stand. 386 00:20:42,075 --> 00:20:43,125 You're doing something fun. 387 00:20:43,130 --> 00:20:46,065 You're doing something interactive and you're doing something memorable. 388 00:20:46,485 --> 00:20:48,285 Showcase your expertise. 389 00:20:49,755 --> 00:20:50,055 Okay. 390 00:20:50,055 --> 00:20:50,865 Second idea. 391 00:20:51,585 --> 00:20:56,615 One thing I find at a wedding exhibition, or a wedding expo. 392 00:20:56,925 --> 00:21:00,465 There's a lot of standing around and there's often minimal seating. 393 00:21:00,825 --> 00:21:05,295 So why not turn your stand, your booth, your area into a really 394 00:21:05,300 --> 00:21:07,365 comfortable area for people to hang out. 395 00:21:07,785 --> 00:21:10,815 I've seen a photographer do this incredibly successfully, where 396 00:21:10,815 --> 00:21:14,774 they bought lounge furniture from their home and set up their stand 397 00:21:14,780 --> 00:21:16,995 as a mini kind of living room area. 398 00:21:17,385 --> 00:21:20,595 And they put out their photo albums and people could come and hang 399 00:21:20,595 --> 00:21:22,425 out at their stand, sit on the so. 400 00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:26,850 Chill out for a bit and look through the wedding, photograph albums, and 401 00:21:26,850 --> 00:21:30,510 then they could sit with them and chat, and it was so much better and 402 00:21:30,510 --> 00:21:34,890 more enjoyable than just a stand with tables and pictures up, and guess what 403 00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:36,390 they did incredibly well from the show. 404 00:21:36,390 --> 00:21:37,590 People enjoyed chatting with them. 405 00:21:37,590 --> 00:21:38,570 People enjoyed chilling out. 406 00:21:39,360 --> 00:21:40,920 Perhaps you're a cake maker. 407 00:21:41,220 --> 00:21:43,530 And you wanna give out cake samples at the show? 408 00:21:43,830 --> 00:21:47,040 Well, yes, you could just give them out, wrapped up to everyone who passes 409 00:21:47,310 --> 00:21:51,030 or perhaps you could set up a mini tea room inside your booth, have a few 410 00:21:51,030 --> 00:21:55,139 tables and chairs, invite people to sit for a few minutes and have your 411 00:21:55,260 --> 00:21:57,600 cake served on a plate and try it. 412 00:21:57,810 --> 00:21:59,580 Maybe you can do a flavor test with them. 413 00:21:59,580 --> 00:22:00,960 See if they can guess the flavors. 414 00:22:01,170 --> 00:22:01,950 I don't know. 415 00:22:01,950 --> 00:22:05,419 There's so many different ideas where you can create an enjoyable environment. 416 00:22:06,735 --> 00:22:10,814 Perhaps, if you are someone that sells suits and you're trying to attract the 417 00:22:10,814 --> 00:22:15,465 men often, the men are hanging about at the wedding expos while they're wives to 418 00:22:15,465 --> 00:22:18,225 be, or parents or whoever are off making. 419 00:22:19,260 --> 00:22:23,520 So, if you were a suit salesperson, perhaps you could turn it into some kind 420 00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:27,120 of men's hangout area where you've got a rack of suit jackets that they can have 421 00:22:27,120 --> 00:22:32,130 a look at, but maybe you've got a, a set there, or some gaming chairs, a switch 422 00:22:32,135 --> 00:22:36,120 or a PlayStation that they can play on somewhere where they can hang out while 423 00:22:36,125 --> 00:22:37,710 their partners are going around the show. 424 00:22:38,445 --> 00:22:39,554 Very memorable. 425 00:22:39,614 --> 00:22:42,524 And also they're going to want to come to you for the suits. 426 00:22:42,764 --> 00:22:45,344 There's so many different ideas, but think about how you could 427 00:22:45,344 --> 00:22:49,004 create an enjoyable environment or a seating area for people at the show. 428 00:22:50,669 --> 00:22:54,179 Idea three is to do something totally different, but something 429 00:22:54,179 --> 00:22:55,679 that's going to attract attention. 430 00:22:56,189 --> 00:22:59,639 Now, imagine you're at a fun, fair, you know, all those different games, 431 00:22:59,645 --> 00:23:03,360 whether people are trying to attract you over to play, perhaps you could 432 00:23:03,360 --> 00:23:07,350 have some kind of interactive game set up going on at your stand. 433 00:23:07,740 --> 00:23:11,939 I'm imagining some kind of large spin the wheel where people come over. 434 00:23:12,275 --> 00:23:14,555 They give their email address in that's important. 435 00:23:14,555 --> 00:23:16,895 You take their email address and they get to play the game. 436 00:23:17,075 --> 00:23:19,295 They spin the big wheel and then win something. 437 00:23:19,295 --> 00:23:20,975 Maybe you've got some sweets to give away. 438 00:23:21,185 --> 00:23:24,065 Maybe they win a special offer for your services. 439 00:23:24,245 --> 00:23:26,315 Maybe they win a can of drink or voucher. 440 00:23:26,345 --> 00:23:27,845 I don't know what you wanna give away. 441 00:23:27,850 --> 00:23:28,805 That's up to you. 442 00:23:29,165 --> 00:23:31,955 But just having that big wheel will attract attention. 443 00:23:32,165 --> 00:23:34,985 People will want to come and play, because people love playing games 444 00:23:34,985 --> 00:23:36,335 and people love winning prizes. 445 00:23:36,545 --> 00:23:37,915 And it's definitely memorable. 446 00:23:38,455 --> 00:23:40,945 Or you could have a big play your cards right, that kind of thing 447 00:23:40,945 --> 00:23:43,344 to attract attention over again. 448 00:23:43,344 --> 00:23:46,254 People will be flocking to your store to find out what you do. 449 00:23:46,524 --> 00:23:49,375 And while they're there playing the game, you're chatting to them, 450 00:23:49,375 --> 00:23:52,405 asking them questions, finding out about their wedding day and telling 451 00:23:52,409 --> 00:23:54,205 them about the service you provide. 452 00:23:55,875 --> 00:23:58,935 Like I said, at this point, you have to let go and think outside of the box, 453 00:23:59,175 --> 00:24:02,505 what could you be doing differently for whatever product or service you sell? 454 00:24:02,745 --> 00:24:03,345 What can you do? 455 00:24:03,345 --> 00:24:07,995 That's interactive, fun and memorable for the people coming to the show and makes it 456 00:24:07,995 --> 00:24:11,685 easier for you because people are flocking over rather than you standing there 457 00:24:11,715 --> 00:24:13,575 awkwardly waiting for someone to stop. 458 00:24:13,845 --> 00:24:14,235 Bye. 459 00:24:16,530 --> 00:24:18,990 The next thing you need to think about when it comes to the show 460 00:24:18,990 --> 00:24:24,899 day itself is ensuring you and your stand can be spotted from a distance. 461 00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:28,620 I've put some examples in here of some amazing wedding show stands. 462 00:24:28,620 --> 00:24:30,629 I've seen at places where I've been speaking. 463 00:24:30,990 --> 00:24:36,240 Um, you can see how incredibly, uh, how incredible these are and how much they're 464 00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:38,570 gonna stand out against a normal booth. 465 00:24:39,260 --> 00:24:42,140 You can see that they've gone all out with neon lights, with 466 00:24:42,140 --> 00:24:45,590 seating areas, Instagramable spots for people to take a photo. 467 00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:46,880 I love this cake stand. 468 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:49,850 The photo's not very good because it's taken on my phone, but instead of just 469 00:24:49,855 --> 00:24:54,140 having cakes on a table, how much more exciting do those cakes look in that 470 00:24:54,145 --> 00:24:57,770 display and people were talking to me later in the day and saying, oh, I love 471 00:24:57,770 --> 00:24:59,630 the cake maker with the amazing balloons. 472 00:24:59,930 --> 00:25:01,169 It was really memorable. 473 00:25:01,660 --> 00:25:05,680 So, what can you do to make sure your stand and your amazing area that you 474 00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:08,020 set up is spotted from a distance. 475 00:25:08,020 --> 00:25:11,650 So people look at it and want to come and see what it's all about. 476 00:25:13,180 --> 00:25:13,450 Okay. 477 00:25:13,450 --> 00:25:16,960 Here's some top tips in to think about how to do that. 478 00:25:19,060 --> 00:25:20,020 Actually, I'm gonna go back to. 479 00:25:22,215 --> 00:25:23,175 I've missed a slide out. 480 00:25:23,235 --> 00:25:24,705 Okay, let's stick with this. 481 00:25:24,854 --> 00:25:25,995 How can you achieve that then? 482 00:25:25,995 --> 00:25:27,885 Because you might be thinking I can't achieve this. 483 00:25:27,885 --> 00:25:29,205 I don't have the money for it. 484 00:25:29,594 --> 00:25:32,625 Well, first of all, I wanna say, why don't you collaborate? 485 00:25:32,804 --> 00:25:35,564 See if you can collaborate with other people that do what you 486 00:25:35,564 --> 00:25:38,235 want on your stand and see if you can collaborate on the stand. 487 00:25:38,445 --> 00:25:41,804 Perhaps you can give out some of their business cards, uh, to say, thank you. 488 00:25:41,804 --> 00:25:44,925 If they've set up the balloons for you, perhaps you can share a stand. 489 00:25:44,925 --> 00:25:47,385 You need to ask the expo for the rules around those things, 490 00:25:47,594 --> 00:25:50,175 but if you can collaborate, that's gonna make it better for. 491 00:25:50,879 --> 00:25:55,260 Or make sure you've set aside some budget to pay for your stand, because 492 00:25:55,260 --> 00:25:58,770 if your stand looks amazing, it'll be a lot easier to attract people over. 493 00:25:59,010 --> 00:26:01,860 And the more people that come over to your stand and love it, the more 494 00:26:01,860 --> 00:26:03,690 likely you are to get them to convert. 495 00:26:05,190 --> 00:26:05,610 Okay. 496 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:09,930 Let's have some top tips then for being on the show, date itself, once 497 00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:13,409 you've got your stand and everything looking attractive and amazing. 498 00:26:14,354 --> 00:26:18,854 When you are chatting to people, use questions, be friendly 499 00:26:18,854 --> 00:26:20,715 with people and qualify the. 500 00:26:21,435 --> 00:26:24,975 So don't go over to someone and launch into a sales pitch. 501 00:26:25,485 --> 00:26:27,675 Ask questions, be normal. 502 00:26:28,155 --> 00:26:29,805 How are you enjoying the show today? 503 00:26:29,805 --> 00:26:31,095 Do you wanna take part in our game? 504 00:26:31,095 --> 00:26:32,265 Do you wanna have your hair done? 505 00:26:32,415 --> 00:26:34,245 We'd like to sit down and have a cup of tea. 506 00:26:34,365 --> 00:26:35,715 How's your wedding planning going? 507 00:26:35,715 --> 00:26:36,795 Is it you getting married? 508 00:26:36,975 --> 00:26:38,115 When are you getting married? 509 00:26:38,265 --> 00:26:39,315 When did you get engaged? 510 00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:40,665 How long have you been together? 511 00:26:40,755 --> 00:26:42,345 How are you finding the show today? 512 00:26:42,465 --> 00:26:44,325 How's this wedding planning business going? 513 00:26:44,415 --> 00:26:46,245 Have you thought about your wedding flowers yet? 514 00:26:46,395 --> 00:26:47,745 Where are you in the process? 515 00:26:48,290 --> 00:26:51,170 Ask questions, listen to their responses. 516 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,980 And it's important to qualify the lead because, and we'll talk about this more 517 00:26:54,980 --> 00:26:57,830 in a minute when I talk about follow up, because if they're not actually 518 00:26:57,830 --> 00:27:00,620 the person getting married or they're not actually there to get married, 519 00:27:00,620 --> 00:27:01,879 they're just there for a bit of fun. 520 00:27:02,060 --> 00:27:04,010 You don't wanna spend too much time talking to them. 521 00:27:04,310 --> 00:27:04,730 Okay. 522 00:27:04,735 --> 00:27:06,500 But be friendly and qualify the lead. 523 00:27:07,455 --> 00:27:11,595 Secondly, often people have offers at shows because they want to use 524 00:27:11,595 --> 00:27:13,275 the offer to collect email addresses. 525 00:27:13,875 --> 00:27:17,715 But I want to recommend you that you have upsell offers, but that 526 00:27:17,715 --> 00:27:20,355 you don't discount discounting. 527 00:27:20,385 --> 00:27:21,855 Isn't always a great strategy. 528 00:27:21,855 --> 00:27:24,405 It looks a little bit desperate and actually you are worth 529 00:27:24,405 --> 00:27:25,515 the price that you're paying. 530 00:27:25,815 --> 00:27:29,805 So instead of discounting, don't say if you book today, you get 20% off. 531 00:27:30,105 --> 00:27:32,595 Say if you book today, I will also include. 532 00:27:32,780 --> 00:27:36,440 Two hours, extra footage, or I will include a photo album, or I 533 00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:40,220 will include a gift bouquet for the bride or whatever it is that you do. 534 00:27:40,580 --> 00:27:41,870 Add something on. 535 00:27:42,050 --> 00:27:45,260 If they give their email address, don't discount off your price. 536 00:27:45,350 --> 00:27:48,440 You don't need to do that and make sure that offer is time sensitive. 537 00:27:48,710 --> 00:27:52,399 So if you sign up for today and you book within the next three weeks, 538 00:27:52,460 --> 00:27:54,379 you will get this added bonus. 539 00:27:55,575 --> 00:27:58,004 You wanna make sure you're getting contact information from as 540 00:27:58,004 --> 00:27:59,895 many people as you possibly can. 541 00:28:00,105 --> 00:28:03,495 You don't wanna leave the power in their hands to walk away and forget about you. 542 00:28:03,705 --> 00:28:07,215 You want the power to be able to contact them again and remind them why you are 543 00:28:07,215 --> 00:28:08,534 amazing and why they should book you. 544 00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:11,010 Next make sure. 545 00:28:11,010 --> 00:28:14,250 And I'm surprised how many people forget about this, make sure you 546 00:28:14,250 --> 00:28:16,200 have your diary with you on the day. 547 00:28:16,410 --> 00:28:19,740 So if people ask about availability, you can tell them whether you've got 548 00:28:19,740 --> 00:28:24,060 availability for their wedding date, and also find a way to take payment. 549 00:28:24,065 --> 00:28:24,660 On the day. 550 00:28:25,020 --> 00:28:28,700 These days, you can get those little card machines, very low cost, where 551 00:28:28,705 --> 00:28:30,420 you can take deposits on the day. 552 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:32,610 If someone wants to give you money on the. 553 00:28:33,165 --> 00:28:34,905 You don't wanna be turning it down. 554 00:28:35,055 --> 00:28:38,985 So make sure you invest in one of those little machines where you can take 555 00:28:38,985 --> 00:28:40,875 money on the day, because it will. 556 00:28:41,265 --> 00:28:42,525 Yeah, it's just a good idea. 557 00:28:42,525 --> 00:28:44,205 Why would you wanna turn money away? 558 00:28:44,205 --> 00:28:47,205 And if you don't take the money, I guarantee someone else around the corner 559 00:28:47,205 --> 00:28:49,135 at the expo will take their money instead. 560 00:28:50,910 --> 00:28:54,690 And finally, if you have products that you can sell individually, 561 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:56,610 have them there for sale on the day. 562 00:28:56,940 --> 00:29:00,300 So for example, if you're a cake maker and you can have some cupcakes 563 00:29:00,305 --> 00:29:03,930 or something that people can buy for a pound or a dollar, uh, on the day, 564 00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:07,110 do that and take the money, make some money back towards the stand. 565 00:29:07,380 --> 00:29:10,400 If you are a makeup artist, uh, perhaps you can offer. 566 00:29:10,490 --> 00:29:14,600 A mini makeover on the day that they pay for, if you sell a product like 567 00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:18,350 candles, perhaps you can sell individual candles or gift sets on the day. 568 00:29:18,590 --> 00:29:20,330 If there's something you can sell on the day, do it. 569 00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:24,140 I, again, at the national wedding show in London, there was amazing, 570 00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:26,870 uh, lady there who sold cocktails. 571 00:29:27,020 --> 00:29:29,720 So her offering was that she'd come to your wedding with her 572 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:33,290 cocktails and create favors for all the guests and that kind of thing. 573 00:29:33,980 --> 00:29:37,930 But she was selling on the day mini jars of her cocktail. 574 00:29:38,565 --> 00:29:39,975 She sold out on day one. 575 00:29:40,065 --> 00:29:42,165 She had to go and make more cocktails for day two. 576 00:29:42,405 --> 00:29:46,425 Everyone was buying the mini jars of cocktails, as well as finding out 577 00:29:46,425 --> 00:29:48,195 information about her wedding service. 578 00:29:48,405 --> 00:29:52,545 So she made almost as much money as to pay for the whole show, just on 579 00:29:52,545 --> 00:29:54,285 selling those mini jars of cocktails. 580 00:29:54,495 --> 00:29:57,195 So if you have something to sell, make sure you have it with you on the 581 00:29:57,225 --> 00:29:58,995 day and make sure you have enough of. 582 00:30:00,810 --> 00:30:06,189 Okay, then that brings me onto the final section, which is F in ELF. 583 00:30:06,209 --> 00:30:08,040 And that stands for follow. 584 00:30:08,475 --> 00:30:08,805 Up. 585 00:30:09,255 --> 00:30:12,015 Now, I want you to keep paying attention here because this is 586 00:30:12,015 --> 00:30:13,845 where I find most suppliers. 587 00:30:13,845 --> 00:30:16,425 Most wedding business owners drop the ball. 588 00:30:16,725 --> 00:30:17,625 It's the follow up. 589 00:30:17,955 --> 00:30:19,245 They prepare for the show. 590 00:30:19,365 --> 00:30:20,835 They go all out of the show. 591 00:30:20,955 --> 00:30:24,195 They're exhausted from the show and life gets in the way, and then 592 00:30:24,195 --> 00:30:25,395 not very good at following up. 593 00:30:25,785 --> 00:30:28,965 I spoke to a wedding business owner recently who told me 594 00:30:28,965 --> 00:30:30,465 wedding shows didn't work for her. 595 00:30:30,645 --> 00:30:33,615 And she'd had nothing from her recent show two weeks ago. 596 00:30:34,605 --> 00:30:36,015 I said to her, well, when did you follow. 597 00:30:36,629 --> 00:30:37,679 I haven't followed up yet. 598 00:30:37,679 --> 00:30:38,370 Haven't had time. 599 00:30:38,909 --> 00:30:41,310 Well, that's why you, haven't got very good results. 600 00:30:41,310 --> 00:30:44,639 If you don't follow up, you are not gonna get the results you want from the show. 601 00:30:44,879 --> 00:30:49,320 And if you don't drop the ball and you do well in this area, it absolutely will make 602 00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:50,970 a difference to your conversion rates. 603 00:30:53,010 --> 00:30:53,750 I wanna tell you this. 604 00:30:54,465 --> 00:30:58,725 It's a fact, the quicker you follow up, the more conversions you will 605 00:30:58,725 --> 00:31:02,415 get, the quicker you follow up, the more conversions you will get. 606 00:31:03,165 --> 00:31:06,915 And if you are slow to follow up, they may just book your competitor. 607 00:31:07,604 --> 00:31:10,935 Now we like to think that couples are savvy and they're shopping around for the 608 00:31:10,935 --> 00:31:14,745 best choice, but they don't always know as much about the wedding industry as we. 609 00:31:15,375 --> 00:31:18,495 And often they'll go for the fastest, easiest choice. 610 00:31:18,645 --> 00:31:22,395 And if someone else follows up before you and is in their price range, they 611 00:31:22,395 --> 00:31:24,105 will just go ahead and book them. 612 00:31:24,375 --> 00:31:27,675 So we want to make sure we are following up with our leads incredibly fast. 613 00:31:29,504 --> 00:31:32,925 So how can we do that when we're gonna be tired after the show? 614 00:31:33,705 --> 00:31:37,245 Well, for a start, you can set it up before you even get 615 00:31:37,245 --> 00:31:39,254 to the show, use a system. 616 00:31:39,254 --> 00:31:42,945 These are free systems at a certain level like mailer light is my favorite. 617 00:31:42,945 --> 00:31:44,504 I've got a great training on mailer light. 618 00:31:44,510 --> 00:31:45,584 If anyone wants to see it. 619 00:31:45,870 --> 00:31:48,870 Drop me a DM, and I will send you some information about that. 620 00:31:49,260 --> 00:31:50,400 And also MailChimp. 621 00:31:50,460 --> 00:31:54,630 I don't like MailChimp as much, but lots of you may use it in these systems. 622 00:31:54,630 --> 00:32:00,240 You can set up a form which can be filled in and an automated funnel. 623 00:32:00,270 --> 00:32:04,560 So as soon as they hit submit on that form at the wedding show, 624 00:32:04,830 --> 00:32:06,690 they will get an email from you. 625 00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:10,620 Instantly instantly before they've even left your stand. 626 00:32:10,890 --> 00:32:13,470 So you will be the first person that follows up with them. 627 00:32:13,650 --> 00:32:16,710 Cause I guarantee most other people at the show won't follow 628 00:32:16,710 --> 00:32:18,120 up for at least 24 hours. 629 00:32:18,150 --> 00:32:22,110 If not longer, you can say something like, Hey, it was so great to meet 630 00:32:22,110 --> 00:32:24,720 you just now at the exhibition stand. 631 00:32:24,900 --> 00:32:26,940 Um, here's the information on my packages. 632 00:32:27,030 --> 00:32:29,880 Here's the link to book a call, tell them what you want them to do. 633 00:32:29,940 --> 00:32:32,520 Next set up that form before the. 634 00:32:33,145 --> 00:32:36,685 Have it on an iPad or a laptop, make sure you've got access to internet 635 00:32:36,955 --> 00:32:38,544 and they can fill it in as they go. 636 00:32:38,754 --> 00:32:42,115 It means you're not dealing with loads of paperwork and it means the follow 637 00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:45,895 up the instant follow up is done for you before you get to the show. 638 00:32:46,135 --> 00:32:49,975 So you don't have to sit down that evening and start sending loads of emails out. 639 00:32:50,455 --> 00:32:53,905 So get that set up and if you need additional help and support with the tech 640 00:32:53,905 --> 00:32:57,534 behind that, reach out to me, and I'll give you information about my training. 641 00:32:59,535 --> 00:33:04,725 Here's an important piece of information for you when it comes to that follow up 642 00:33:04,754 --> 00:33:12,825 email, make sure you include a photograph of yourself or include something that's a 643 00:33:12,825 --> 00:33:15,764 memorable about your stand in the email. 644 00:33:16,629 --> 00:33:19,780 I'm gonna say that again, include a photograph of yourself or 645 00:33:19,780 --> 00:33:23,080 include something memorable about your stand in the email. 646 00:33:23,679 --> 00:33:26,350 They will have met a lot of people that day. 647 00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,709 They will have met a lot of wedding, business owners, and all of them will 648 00:33:29,709 --> 00:33:33,340 start to merge into one and they'll be thinking, oh, I really like that girl 649 00:33:33,340 --> 00:33:36,699 with the flowers, but I can't remember which one of these business cards she was. 650 00:33:36,699 --> 00:33:38,409 And I can't remember the name of her business. 651 00:33:38,679 --> 00:33:41,260 However, they will remember you if they talk to you. 652 00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:45,490 So if in your email right near the top, there's a lovely picture of you saying. 653 00:33:45,655 --> 00:33:46,915 Hey, it's Becca. 654 00:33:46,915 --> 00:33:49,195 Thank you so much for chatting today. 655 00:33:49,195 --> 00:33:50,965 I loved meeting you instantly. 656 00:33:50,965 --> 00:33:51,535 They're gonna know. 657 00:33:51,595 --> 00:33:54,055 Oh, that's the person I really enjoy talking to. 658 00:33:54,264 --> 00:33:56,455 That's the person I want to chat with. 659 00:33:57,055 --> 00:34:00,085 If you really don't wanna include a photo of yourself, include 660 00:34:00,090 --> 00:34:01,615 something memorable about your stand. 661 00:34:01,855 --> 00:34:04,675 Hey, it was great to chat to you about my, at my cake stand. 662 00:34:04,825 --> 00:34:07,405 We were the one with the big pink balloon arch, where we were giving 663 00:34:07,405 --> 00:34:10,735 away free cake tasters, and you were guessing and spinning the wheel. 664 00:34:10,915 --> 00:34:11,335 Okay. 665 00:34:11,425 --> 00:34:13,295 Whatever it is that reminds them. 666 00:34:13,315 --> 00:34:13,884 What stand you? 667 00:34:14,569 --> 00:34:16,850 Don't assume they will remember the name of your business. 668 00:34:16,879 --> 00:34:18,620 I guarantee they won't do it yourself. 669 00:34:18,799 --> 00:34:22,040 Walk around a wedding exhibition, walk out and see if you can remember 670 00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:25,549 the names of the businesses, or if you can remember instead what 671 00:34:25,549 --> 00:34:28,339 their stand looked like and what the person was like that you talked to. 672 00:34:31,185 --> 00:34:32,475 Okay, it's really important. 673 00:34:32,475 --> 00:34:36,525 We've covered this already, but it's really important that you get information 674 00:34:36,530 --> 00:34:42,195 from as many people as possible on the day, don't leave the power in their hands. 675 00:34:42,495 --> 00:34:46,695 So often I ask people what their strategy is at a wedding expo, and they say, 676 00:34:46,864 --> 00:34:48,225 I talk to them all about my business. 677 00:34:48,435 --> 00:34:51,195 And then I say, get in touch with me if you are interested. 678 00:34:51,405 --> 00:34:54,075 And then they wave them off from the stand and never hear from them. 679 00:34:54,990 --> 00:34:58,140 Why because they've left the show and they can't remember who you are. 680 00:34:58,470 --> 00:35:02,670 You need to get contact information from as many people as possible 681 00:35:02,670 --> 00:35:06,060 on the day, do not leave the power in their hands to contact you. 682 00:35:06,270 --> 00:35:09,690 You want to have the power to be able to contact them immediately. 683 00:35:09,720 --> 00:35:12,540 And in the days of weeks, following that expo. 684 00:35:13,245 --> 00:35:15,584 Also you wanna try and get them to follow you on social media. 685 00:35:15,734 --> 00:35:18,825 Quite often, I'll say to people, uh, while I'm chatting to them at 686 00:35:18,825 --> 00:35:20,625 a stand, Hey, are you on Instagram? 687 00:35:20,805 --> 00:35:21,674 Like pull out your phone. 688 00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:24,854 I'll show you my Instagram account, give it a follow and get them following 689 00:35:24,854 --> 00:35:27,464 you so that you are popping up in their news feed all of the time. 690 00:35:30,870 --> 00:35:31,260 Okay. 691 00:35:31,740 --> 00:35:36,390 The last part of this follow up is gonna depend on whereabouts in the process. 692 00:35:36,390 --> 00:35:40,200 These people you're talking to are I talked you earlier about how 693 00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:42,030 it's important to qualify leads. 694 00:35:42,210 --> 00:35:46,920 And I like to put these leads into three separate categories and the way you 695 00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:50,850 follow up and try and convert these leads is gonna be very different depending 696 00:35:50,850 --> 00:35:52,620 on which of these categories they fall. 697 00:35:53,595 --> 00:35:56,325 So the first category is the one that we all want. 698 00:35:56,625 --> 00:35:58,515 And yet they're often in quite short supply. 699 00:35:58,755 --> 00:36:01,305 They are the super hot leads. 700 00:36:01,875 --> 00:36:03,735 These are the people that come over to your stand. 701 00:36:03,735 --> 00:36:05,805 And they're already asking about your availability. 702 00:36:06,045 --> 00:36:06,855 We love what you do. 703 00:36:06,885 --> 00:36:09,555 Are you available on the 10th of March 20, 27? 704 00:36:10,005 --> 00:36:12,505 They're really wanting to know that they can have you on their day. 705 00:36:13,275 --> 00:36:15,555 They're starting to ask you lots of questions. 706 00:36:15,705 --> 00:36:18,225 They're genuinely interested in the product or service. 707 00:36:18,230 --> 00:36:19,455 They're excited about it. 708 00:36:19,575 --> 00:36:21,705 They they're imagining it on their wedding day. 709 00:36:21,944 --> 00:36:24,555 And they're asking a lot of questions about how it works and they're 710 00:36:24,765 --> 00:36:26,444 asking what they need to do to book. 711 00:36:26,625 --> 00:36:27,615 What's the next stages? 712 00:36:27,615 --> 00:36:29,325 Do I need a, do you need a deposit? 713 00:36:29,330 --> 00:36:31,125 How do I make sure I secure that date? 714 00:36:31,605 --> 00:36:32,865 These are the people you want. 715 00:36:33,165 --> 00:36:37,035 If you are talking to someone and that's the signals you're getting mentally 716 00:36:37,035 --> 00:36:39,134 in your head, mark them as super hot. 717 00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:42,360 The second category is hot. 718 00:36:42,630 --> 00:36:43,770 These are also great leads to. 719 00:36:44,895 --> 00:36:48,765 So these are people that you will identify because they're asking lots of questions. 720 00:36:48,765 --> 00:36:52,035 So again, they're interested in what you're doing, but not quite as 721 00:36:52,035 --> 00:36:55,905 interested as the super hot leads, they're taking a genuine interest in 722 00:36:55,905 --> 00:36:57,315 what it is that you have to offer. 723 00:36:57,675 --> 00:36:59,385 And they have a wedding date booked. 724 00:36:59,925 --> 00:37:02,955 They might not be super hot, but they're definitely interested and 725 00:37:02,955 --> 00:37:04,515 they're definitely worth some following. 726 00:37:05,950 --> 00:37:09,730 And then the final set of qualifications is the cold leads. 727 00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:12,670 These are the people that are giving you their email address, but you get the 728 00:37:12,670 --> 00:37:14,200 feeling they're giving it to everyone. 729 00:37:14,410 --> 00:37:17,620 They may be giving you the email address, because they want the offer or the freebie 730 00:37:17,620 --> 00:37:20,980 or the chance to spin the wheel or the free cake or whatever it is you are asking 731 00:37:20,985 --> 00:37:22,690 them to do to give over the email address. 732 00:37:23,140 --> 00:37:25,570 They're not really asking that many questions about what you offer. 733 00:37:25,570 --> 00:37:26,290 They're just there. 734 00:37:26,650 --> 00:37:29,860 And then maybe the people that say, oh, we don't have a date for our wedding yet. 735 00:37:29,860 --> 00:37:30,610 We're just looking. 736 00:37:30,610 --> 00:37:31,810 We're just getting some ideas. 737 00:37:31,815 --> 00:37:32,620 We're thinking about it. 738 00:37:32,890 --> 00:37:33,580 That's great. 739 00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:34,360 Be friendly to. 740 00:37:34,740 --> 00:37:37,919 But in your head, mark them down as a cold lead. 741 00:37:38,399 --> 00:37:41,790 Now, the reason we split them is because each of these different people need 742 00:37:41,790 --> 00:37:43,560 a different follow up at the show. 743 00:37:43,919 --> 00:37:46,169 And if you treat them all the same, it won't work. 744 00:37:46,470 --> 00:37:49,470 If you try and follow up the cold leads with the super hot 745 00:37:49,589 --> 00:37:51,660 examples, it ain't gonna work. 746 00:37:52,109 --> 00:37:55,529 And if you give the super hot people, the cold lead funnel, 747 00:37:55,740 --> 00:37:56,970 it isn't gonna work either. 748 00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:58,589 So once you've identified them? 749 00:37:58,859 --> 00:37:59,419 What do you. 750 00:38:00,270 --> 00:38:03,570 Well, if you've identified someone as super hot, these are the people 751 00:38:03,570 --> 00:38:07,110 that are likely to potentially book in and give you money on the day. 752 00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:10,590 So ask them great love that you like it. 753 00:38:10,590 --> 00:38:13,380 Do you want to secure your date before it goes? 754 00:38:14,535 --> 00:38:17,025 If they say yes, then explain to them. 755 00:38:17,235 --> 00:38:17,685 Great. 756 00:38:17,745 --> 00:38:21,525 All we need to do is take a deposit of X, Y, Z, here and now. 757 00:38:21,615 --> 00:38:23,174 And your date will be in the diary. 758 00:38:23,325 --> 00:38:27,855 We'll then be in contact over the next 24 hours for final information, have a 759 00:38:27,855 --> 00:38:31,525 consultation, whatever it is that you need to do, take the deposit there. 760 00:38:31,525 --> 00:38:31,805 And then. 761 00:38:32,274 --> 00:38:33,205 Get the date booked. 762 00:38:33,384 --> 00:38:35,904 And then when they've left, you can celebrate because that is 763 00:38:35,964 --> 00:38:39,745 ultimately what you want a sale and a sale on the day is incredible. 764 00:38:39,895 --> 00:38:43,285 You don't always make sales on the day, but if you can, them. 765 00:38:46,259 --> 00:38:46,560 Okay. 766 00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:49,319 That second response is the hot response. 767 00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:52,140 So this is the people that maybe aren't quite ready to book there 768 00:38:52,140 --> 00:38:55,230 and then, but are very interested in finding out more about you. 769 00:38:55,950 --> 00:38:59,880 If that is them, say that you'll be in touch with them soon to book 770 00:38:59,880 --> 00:39:02,790 a consultation, to book a call, to get on the phone with them 771 00:39:02,790 --> 00:39:04,080 and give them more information. 772 00:39:04,860 --> 00:39:09,180 Also, once they leave your stand, make a quick note of their names and who they 773 00:39:09,180 --> 00:39:11,120 were and something about the convers. 774 00:39:12,194 --> 00:39:15,765 And then that night, send them a personalized follow 775 00:39:15,765 --> 00:39:18,075 up email saying something. 776 00:39:18,524 --> 00:39:19,694 Hey, Becca and Matt. 777 00:39:19,694 --> 00:39:21,194 So good to talk to you today. 778 00:39:21,194 --> 00:39:24,884 So excited about your wedding at X, Y, Z next year. 779 00:39:25,035 --> 00:39:29,384 I think what you are planning with the red and green color scheme is incredible. 780 00:39:29,384 --> 00:39:31,154 I would love to make your cake. 781 00:39:31,575 --> 00:39:33,045 Here's a link to my diary. 782 00:39:33,285 --> 00:39:37,335 Get in touch let's book a consultation so we can get your date secured, ASAP. 783 00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:38,840 They are a hot lead. 784 00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:41,000 They need a personalized follow up and that follow up 785 00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:43,250 needs to come that night ASAP. 786 00:39:43,430 --> 00:39:46,020 Don't leave it a few days or you will lose the business. 787 00:39:47,295 --> 00:39:48,805 And then we've got those cold leads. 788 00:39:48,805 --> 00:39:51,375 These leads are gonna have a more automated response. 789 00:39:51,645 --> 00:39:53,655 You're gonna add them to your email list. 790 00:39:53,835 --> 00:39:56,565 Maybe you're gonna tag them or categorize them under show, 791 00:39:56,565 --> 00:39:57,855 email list, name of the show. 792 00:39:58,125 --> 00:40:01,455 And then you're going to have prepared a series of follow up emails that 793 00:40:01,455 --> 00:40:03,525 you send out to them periodically. 794 00:40:03,735 --> 00:40:06,195 And then they're gonna end up on your master email list 795 00:40:06,195 --> 00:40:07,365 hearing from you regularly. 796 00:40:07,545 --> 00:40:09,675 So when they've booked a date, when they've got more 797 00:40:09,675 --> 00:40:11,115 information, when they want to go. 798 00:40:11,495 --> 00:40:14,035 They'll get back in touch with you, and you're not spending loads 799 00:40:14,035 --> 00:40:17,404 of time on those cold leads until they become a little bit hotter. 800 00:40:18,005 --> 00:40:21,335 Get them added to that list, send them your preprepared follow up emails. 801 00:40:21,455 --> 00:40:24,964 Maybe once, instantly that they'll get once the day after the show, 802 00:40:25,055 --> 00:40:28,565 once a few days later, and maybe once a few days after that, encourage 803 00:40:28,565 --> 00:40:29,795 them to move to the next step. 804 00:40:29,915 --> 00:40:33,424 Book the call, that kind of thing, and also encourage them to follow you on 805 00:40:33,424 --> 00:40:37,384 your social media both while you're at the stand and on those emails as. 806 00:40:38,985 --> 00:40:42,765 If you follow this process, you will see success. 807 00:40:43,035 --> 00:40:44,565 You will make bookings on the day. 808 00:40:44,565 --> 00:40:48,945 If you identify some super hot leads, you will convert those initial 809 00:40:48,945 --> 00:40:51,435 inquiries of the hot leads to bookings. 810 00:40:51,585 --> 00:40:55,305 If you get in touch with them very quickly and get that consultation booked in, 811 00:40:55,815 --> 00:40:59,655 and you will be surprised because some of those cold leads will turn to hot, 812 00:40:59,655 --> 00:41:02,385 super hot and booked leads down the line. 813 00:41:02,445 --> 00:41:04,305 It's worth the time and the tracking. 814 00:41:06,069 --> 00:41:11,310 And remember as we start to conclude, that is not a no until it's a. 815 00:41:12,270 --> 00:41:16,409 Just because someone doesn't book on the day doesn't mean they won't just because 816 00:41:16,424 --> 00:41:20,250 someone doesn't book a consultation 24 hours after you've met them doesn't 817 00:41:20,250 --> 00:41:23,549 mean they won't just because someone was a coldly doesn't mean they won't 818 00:41:23,555 --> 00:41:25,890 book once they're in your ecosystem. 819 00:41:25,890 --> 00:41:30,000 Once they're getting your emails, keep that going until they say no 820 00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:33,750 a no is when they say I've already booked another cake maker, but thank. 821 00:41:34,214 --> 00:41:35,384 Remove them from your list? 822 00:41:35,625 --> 00:41:39,165 A no is when they've already gone through your process and they're 823 00:41:39,165 --> 00:41:42,734 not booked a no is when you realize their wedding, date's been gone, make 824 00:41:42,740 --> 00:41:43,845 sure you've got their wedding date. 825 00:41:43,845 --> 00:41:47,145 So, you know, when that leads dead, but it's not a no until it's a no. 826 00:41:47,444 --> 00:41:47,714 Okay. 827 00:41:47,714 --> 00:41:48,915 You're not bothering these people. 828 00:41:48,915 --> 00:41:53,325 You're just periodically following up to remind them how great you are and why 829 00:41:53,325 --> 00:41:54,794 they want to book you for their wedding. 830 00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:59,010 I always remember someone said to me, when I send emails, I worry 831 00:41:59,010 --> 00:42:00,780 about people not opening them. 832 00:42:01,140 --> 00:42:03,570 And I went to a training where they said to us, it doesn't matter 833 00:42:03,570 --> 00:42:05,010 if people don't open your email. 834 00:42:05,385 --> 00:42:08,685 Because they still see your name and it brings you for a moment to the top of 835 00:42:08,685 --> 00:42:11,115 their mind, even if they then hit delete. 836 00:42:11,535 --> 00:42:12,225 I love that. 837 00:42:12,225 --> 00:42:14,295 That's really freed me up to send more emails. 838 00:42:16,095 --> 00:42:16,515 Okay. 839 00:42:16,605 --> 00:42:20,425 I wanna finish by telling you a story because if they can do it, so can you. 840 00:42:21,030 --> 00:42:25,020 So about six months ago, I was talking at the national wedding show in London. 841 00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:27,480 Um, and I met an amazing couple. 842 00:42:27,870 --> 00:42:32,070 I was talking on the stage and straight after I got off the stage, the lady ran 843 00:42:32,070 --> 00:42:35,220 over to me and she was like, Becca, you seem like, you know what you're doing? 844 00:42:35,340 --> 00:42:37,320 We've paid all this money to be at this show. 845 00:42:37,620 --> 00:42:39,030 And we don't really know what we're doing. 846 00:42:39,180 --> 00:42:40,500 We're not seeing much success. 847 00:42:40,740 --> 00:42:42,240 No, one's stopping to talk to us. 848 00:42:42,779 --> 00:42:43,859 I don't what to do. 849 00:42:44,339 --> 00:42:47,279 So I said, give me five minutes to sort myself out, get off the 850 00:42:47,279 --> 00:42:48,569 stage and I'll come and talk you. 851 00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:51,629 So I went over to their stand and asked them, right. 852 00:42:51,634 --> 00:42:52,890 What's your show strategy? 853 00:42:53,430 --> 00:42:54,330 Uh, we don't have one. 854 00:42:54,720 --> 00:42:56,730 Are you getting people's email addresses? 855 00:42:57,029 --> 00:42:57,600 Uh, no. 856 00:42:57,600 --> 00:43:00,149 We're just giving them our business cards and hoping their follow up. 857 00:43:00,540 --> 00:43:02,649 Have you got anything exciting for them to do have you got an 858 00:43:02,669 --> 00:43:04,049 offer on, have you got anything? 859 00:43:04,350 --> 00:43:05,250 No, not really. 860 00:43:05,669 --> 00:43:09,029 Now in that moment, I thought, well, you know, it's kind of too late for me 861 00:43:09,035 --> 00:43:11,910 to do a lot of the preparation stuff for you, but there are things we can. 862 00:43:12,775 --> 00:43:13,555 I said some right. 863 00:43:13,585 --> 00:43:17,335 Let's change this immediately come up with some kind of added value offer. 864 00:43:17,905 --> 00:43:20,635 If they give you their email address, don't discount. 865 00:43:20,635 --> 00:43:21,325 Add something on. 866 00:43:22,315 --> 00:43:26,695 Secondly, get some pieces of paper and start taking contact details. 867 00:43:26,695 --> 00:43:29,365 And when you come back to the show tomorrow, make yourselves a booking 868 00:43:29,365 --> 00:43:33,025 form or an inquiry form, print it out and make sure you've got it on the. 869 00:43:33,690 --> 00:43:36,840 Get people's details in order for them to be eligible for that 870 00:43:36,870 --> 00:43:39,570 offer and follow up quickly. 871 00:43:39,870 --> 00:43:43,680 If you get their email details today, tonight, email them all. 872 00:43:43,860 --> 00:43:47,370 If they're hot leads, send them a personalized email and 873 00:43:47,370 --> 00:43:49,080 try and convert those leads. 874 00:43:49,290 --> 00:43:50,430 I was like, you can do it. 875 00:43:50,430 --> 00:43:53,910 It's not too late, but you've got to take back control of your strategy. 876 00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:57,270 Start getting the email addresses, start converting them into. 877 00:43:58,709 --> 00:44:02,910 Well, you can imagine my joy when the next day or the next evening as I was 878 00:44:02,910 --> 00:44:06,029 already home from the show I'd finished my speaking, I was home on my sofa. 879 00:44:06,419 --> 00:44:08,490 I received this message. 880 00:44:08,700 --> 00:44:11,399 Now it's a bit blurry because I've screenshotted it directly 881 00:44:11,399 --> 00:44:13,709 from my phone from that couple. 882 00:44:14,100 --> 00:44:14,609 Hi Becca. 883 00:44:15,024 --> 00:44:15,745 On our way home. 884 00:44:15,745 --> 00:44:18,654 Now, I just wanted to say thank you again for all your time and advice. 885 00:44:18,654 --> 00:44:20,545 Over the two days, it was a three day show. 886 00:44:20,785 --> 00:44:23,694 So she's saying they're not counting day one because they didn't do it properly. 887 00:44:24,234 --> 00:44:29,875 We've had 88 inquiries, emails taken and 12 confirmed bookings. 888 00:44:30,415 --> 00:44:33,774 We emailed Saturdays people last night in today's focus afternoon. 889 00:44:34,045 --> 00:44:37,875 As it got quiet, four bookings, we took at the actual. 890 00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:39,930 So again, thank you. 891 00:44:39,930 --> 00:44:46,110 Going to sleep well tonight, 12 confirmed bookings is over 12,000 pounds or $15,000 892 00:44:46,290 --> 00:44:50,400 worth of business from a stand that cost them one and a half thousand pounds. 893 00:44:50,730 --> 00:44:53,100 I'm so thankful I met them that day because if they'd had 894 00:44:53,100 --> 00:44:56,370 continued the show with their same strategy, they would not have had. 895 00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:59,350 This same experience, but because they changed what they were 896 00:44:59,350 --> 00:45:00,700 doing, they took back control. 897 00:45:00,700 --> 00:45:02,800 They asked for information, they were friendly. 898 00:45:02,950 --> 00:45:05,680 They found an offer and they followed up quickly. 899 00:45:06,010 --> 00:45:08,320 It led to a huge amount of success for them. 900 00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:11,290 And I guarantee you, they will be doing that show again next year 901 00:45:11,500 --> 00:45:13,450 because it made them so much money. 902 00:45:14,050 --> 00:45:19,060 So if they can do it with no knowledge, no information and no preparation before 903 00:45:19,060 --> 00:45:21,070 the show, by implementing my strategies. 904 00:45:21,310 --> 00:45:23,770 So can you, and you've got a whole lot more time to. 905 00:45:25,725 --> 00:45:28,365 It's been a pleasure talking to you as part of this event. 906 00:45:28,605 --> 00:45:32,065 My name's Becca Pountney you can find me on Instagram at Becca Pountney 907 00:45:32,085 --> 00:45:35,505 for more wedding, business tips and advice, helping to you to grow your 908 00:45:35,505 --> 00:45:37,455 sales and develop your marketing. 909 00:45:37,635 --> 00:45:40,595 Reach out to me on an email, Becca@beccapountney.com. 910 00:45:40,860 --> 00:45:44,700 Or listen to my podcast for more great information and interviews from across 911 00:45:44,700 --> 00:45:48,900 the wedding industry, wedding pros who are ready to grow in all your podcast players. 912 00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:52,020 I would love to work with you further to develop these things. 913 00:45:52,020 --> 00:45:53,040 So reach out to me. 914 00:45:53,250 --> 00:45:55,680 I answer all my messages on Instagram, myself. 915 00:45:55,860 --> 00:45:56,940 So drop me a message. 916 00:45:57,060 --> 00:45:59,910 Tell me what you learn from today's session and how I 917 00:45:59,910 --> 00:46:01,410 can help you moving forward. 918 00:46:01,590 --> 00:46:05,220 And remember a simple, hello could lead to a million things. 919 00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:06,240 So don't be shy. 920 00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:07,140 Thank you for your. 921 00:46:07,605 --> 00:46:10,995 And good luck implementing these strategies at your next expo. 922 00:46:12,285 --> 00:46:15,134 I really hope you've enjoyed today's episode something a little bit 923 00:46:15,134 --> 00:46:16,875 different with that presentation. 924 00:46:17,055 --> 00:46:20,925 Don't forget if you want even more help with wedding expos and wedding fairs. 925 00:46:21,165 --> 00:46:24,855 Go to the show notes now, and there's a link to my three part video 926 00:46:25,005 --> 00:46:28,965 series, all about how to sell more wedding shows and it's totally free. 927 00:46:29,115 --> 00:46:30,585 So sign up and get that now. 928 00:46:30,735 --> 00:46:31,634 I'll see you next week.