1 00:00:24,345 --> 00:00:28,665 Hello and welcome to this week's episode of the Wedding Lounge Podcast. 2 00:00:28,665 --> 00:00:31,105 We have another wonderful guest of us this week. 3 00:00:31,105 --> 00:00:35,305 We have Patrick Heisel, who is a live wedding artist. 4 00:00:35,305 --> 00:00:36,425 Hi, Patrick. 5 00:00:36,425 --> 00:00:37,265 Hi, hi. 6 00:00:37,265 --> 00:00:38,025 You're last to be here. 7 00:00:38,025 --> 00:00:39,785 Thank you for inviting me. 8 00:00:39,785 --> 00:00:42,625 Thanks for coming on and joining us. 9 00:00:42,625 --> 00:00:47,225 So to start off with for our listeners, who may not know what we mean. 10 00:00:47,225 --> 00:00:51,145 What do we actually mean by a live wedding and event artist? 11 00:00:51,145 --> 00:00:58,945 Yes. So a live wedding artist or event artist is somebody who basically captures a moment 12 00:00:58,945 --> 00:01:03,905 at a wedding or at any event that might be a retirement event or dinner or something 13 00:01:03,905 --> 00:01:09,665 like that and translates, if you like, that moment into an art form. 14 00:01:09,665 --> 00:01:15,545 So it may be a painting, for instance, certainly in my case, or drawing. 15 00:01:15,545 --> 00:01:21,145 And then that's presented to say the couple or the clients. 16 00:01:21,145 --> 00:01:23,425 So it's there to capture a moment. 17 00:01:23,425 --> 00:01:25,825 And I think it has very free features to that. 18 00:01:25,825 --> 00:01:29,065 I think the first thing is, hey, they're capturing a moment. 19 00:01:29,065 --> 00:01:32,505 It might be the kiss or it's exchange of fouls. 20 00:01:32,505 --> 00:01:38,345 Secondly, they're using some kind of canvas or paper to translate that moment, 21 00:01:38,345 --> 00:01:40,665 that vision into an art form. 22 00:01:40,665 --> 00:01:43,385 And then I think the third thing, and it's really important, is that you're there 23 00:01:43,385 --> 00:01:47,785 to also entertain your guests and to, if you like, show them the process 24 00:01:47,785 --> 00:01:50,825 and see that process unfold throughout the day. 25 00:01:50,825 --> 00:01:56,145 So for me, those are the kind of key and unique features of a live wedding artist. 26 00:01:56,145 --> 00:01:57,425 How do you capture that moment? 27 00:01:57,425 --> 00:02:02,665 Is it something that you capture it in your mind and then you paint from that? 28 00:02:02,665 --> 00:02:07,225 Or is it something that you take an image and then you take that image 29 00:02:07,225 --> 00:02:11,105 and during the drinks reception, you're there performing, if you like, 30 00:02:11,105 --> 00:02:12,905 and creating the art for them? 31 00:02:12,905 --> 00:02:18,865 Yeah, so it really starts with a conversation with the clients, with a couple, 32 00:02:18,865 --> 00:02:23,145 about what their vision is in terms of what they would like to capture. 33 00:02:23,145 --> 00:02:26,745 So we're talking about things around, would they like to capture the kiss 34 00:02:26,745 --> 00:02:29,585 or maybe exchange of fouls. 35 00:02:29,585 --> 00:02:34,105 But what an artist brings to the table, if you like, is the sense of poetry, 36 00:02:34,105 --> 00:02:38,545 it's about bringing emotion, bringing joy, celebration. 37 00:02:38,545 --> 00:02:41,745 And every artist has their own unique style. 38 00:02:41,745 --> 00:02:44,185 I have mine, of course. 39 00:02:44,185 --> 00:02:49,465 And what you're trying to do in a particular moment like that is following a conversation 40 00:02:49,465 --> 00:02:53,985 that you will have had with your client about the event, what they'd like to see, 41 00:02:53,985 --> 00:02:57,945 how they'd like to sort of examine cause they like in terms of what they've seen, 42 00:02:57,945 --> 00:02:59,785 perhaps on your website. 43 00:02:59,785 --> 00:03:03,745 My job is to kind of also give that slightly different interpretation of reality. 44 00:03:03,745 --> 00:03:07,825 So bringing out some of the colours that you might not otherwise see in a white dress. 45 00:03:07,825 --> 00:03:12,665 They'll be losing reds bouncing off the light that I will see and I will embellish 46 00:03:12,665 --> 00:03:15,705 and exaggerate a bit into the painting. 47 00:03:15,705 --> 00:03:20,345 There might be other areas where something might be going on that might not be in the scene 48 00:03:20,345 --> 00:03:24,745 that I've captured, say from a photograph, but I'll bring that into play. 49 00:03:24,745 --> 00:03:26,585 It might be a beautiful plant. 50 00:03:26,585 --> 00:03:30,265 It might be a constellation in the sky that one otherwise be there, 51 00:03:30,265 --> 00:03:33,825 but I think needs to be there to give that sort of personal touch. 52 00:03:33,825 --> 00:03:36,865 So you're bringing all of that into play. 53 00:03:36,865 --> 00:03:43,545 It's about emotion, it's about feeling, but it's also about giving that sense of love 54 00:03:43,545 --> 00:03:49,705 and I can see myself within that moment that I will remember for many years to come. 55 00:03:49,705 --> 00:03:51,225 Does that make sense? 56 00:03:51,225 --> 00:03:52,705 Yeah, no, definitely. 57 00:03:52,705 --> 00:03:56,105 I would just sort of you touched upon different things there. 58 00:03:56,105 --> 00:03:59,025 Why do you think most couples book a live artist? 59 00:03:59,025 --> 00:04:02,505 Is it because they want sort of the experience, as you say, 60 00:04:02,505 --> 00:04:04,305 like to entertain the guests on the day? 61 00:04:04,305 --> 00:04:08,945 Or is it more that they want the focus of something, you know, photographs are beautiful. 62 00:04:08,945 --> 00:04:11,905 Some of us have albums, some haven't bought it yet. 63 00:04:11,905 --> 00:04:15,025 Natasha hasn't had her wedding photos printed, but, you know, 64 00:04:15,025 --> 00:04:19,265 you don't necessarily blow up a picture of yourself and shove it on the wall. 65 00:04:19,265 --> 00:04:21,185 The people sometimes choose to have a live artist 66 00:04:21,185 --> 00:04:24,865 so that they can have something to display in their homes after it's sort of. 67 00:04:24,865 --> 00:04:29,425 What do you tend to find your clients remains on a focus for choosing you? 68 00:04:29,425 --> 00:04:35,505 Yeah, there's those things. If you think about, think about, you know, photographs, 69 00:04:35,505 --> 00:04:37,745 sort of there to kind of preserve that moment. 70 00:04:37,745 --> 00:04:42,385 I think it's an art form in itself and photography. 71 00:04:42,385 --> 00:04:46,385 But the power of a painting brings into play poetry, 72 00:04:46,385 --> 00:04:49,665 bringing that preserved moment into a sense of poetry. 73 00:04:49,665 --> 00:04:53,185 Let's face it, on a wedding day, certainly in mind, 74 00:04:53,185 --> 00:04:56,865 it's probably the best time in your life that you're going to look your best. 75 00:04:56,865 --> 00:05:00,705 You spend all this money, you know, looking at your wedding dress, 76 00:05:00,705 --> 00:05:02,705 your makeup, etc. for the guys. 77 00:05:02,705 --> 00:05:05,025 I'm either with with shave with a tattoo. 78 00:05:05,025 --> 00:05:08,145 I've never had a with shave and a hot towel ever before. 79 00:05:08,145 --> 00:05:11,505 Or one wedding day, that was going, that was going, that was going to happen. 80 00:05:11,505 --> 00:05:13,025 Great name. 81 00:05:13,025 --> 00:05:18,305 That's quite, so if you're ever going to have a painting of yourself, 82 00:05:18,305 --> 00:05:20,945 then it just has to be the wedding day. 83 00:05:20,945 --> 00:05:24,145 So I think there's something about the opportunity they are 84 00:05:24,145 --> 00:05:28,465 to have a painting of yourself and to kind of capture that moment. 85 00:05:28,465 --> 00:05:31,025 It's a personal interpretation of that day, 86 00:05:31,025 --> 00:05:35,745 which for me, essentially allows that to be a bit of an earloom 87 00:05:35,745 --> 00:05:37,985 for that particular client. 88 00:05:37,985 --> 00:05:41,265 It's something that a client will feel deeply connected to. 89 00:05:41,265 --> 00:05:45,105 And if you're bringing in quite a bit of artistic licence, 90 00:05:45,105 --> 00:05:49,505 which is what I tend to do, whether it may be bringing in perhaps, 91 00:05:49,505 --> 00:05:54,385 for instance, I had a query this week from a client wanting to capture their 92 00:05:54,385 --> 00:05:57,825 late grandparents into the art form. 93 00:05:57,825 --> 00:06:00,385 Well, I think that's pretty sweet and quite moving. 94 00:06:00,385 --> 00:06:03,025 Others have asked for their children, young children, 95 00:06:03,025 --> 00:06:07,505 to be captured into the portrait. 96 00:06:07,505 --> 00:06:10,465 So those things are quite personal to them. 97 00:06:10,465 --> 00:06:12,065 And I think it's just classy. 98 00:06:12,065 --> 00:06:14,705 I think it's just beautiful to have, you know, 99 00:06:14,705 --> 00:06:19,425 your self, your couple being painted real time in front of your guests. 100 00:06:19,425 --> 00:06:21,425 It's a beautiful art form. 101 00:06:21,425 --> 00:06:27,425 That's primarily why I think couples employ a live-winning artist 102 00:06:27,425 --> 00:06:29,425 out there at their weddings. 103 00:06:29,425 --> 00:06:34,225 And you typically work with watercolour as a medium. 104 00:06:34,225 --> 00:06:35,825 Yes, yes. 105 00:06:35,825 --> 00:06:38,225 But what other alternatives are there out there? 106 00:06:38,225 --> 00:06:43,025 What can couples look for when they're looking for a live artist? 107 00:06:43,025 --> 00:06:44,225 Yes. 108 00:06:44,225 --> 00:06:49,025 So if we're talking about mediums, certainly my medium is watercolour. 109 00:06:49,025 --> 00:06:51,825 I like watercolour because it's light and vibrant. 110 00:06:51,825 --> 00:06:54,625 I love the way the water moves over the play part. 111 00:06:54,625 --> 00:06:56,225 It's quite romantic, yes. 112 00:06:56,225 --> 00:06:57,825 It's very romantic. 113 00:06:57,825 --> 00:06:59,025 Yes, yes. 114 00:06:59,025 --> 00:07:02,225 And you can get some really happy accidents with watercolour. 115 00:07:02,225 --> 00:07:07,025 And kind of that's the sweet spot when you're painting with watercolour. 116 00:07:07,025 --> 00:07:11,025 And it comes in a lovely beautiful glass frame ready to go up on the wall. 117 00:07:11,025 --> 00:07:13,425 So that's my preferred medium. 118 00:07:13,425 --> 00:07:16,225 But of course you can make it acrylic. 119 00:07:16,225 --> 00:07:20,225 Slightly much darker colours, styles can be slightly more blocky 120 00:07:20,225 --> 00:07:23,025 or much more elegant in terms of its look. 121 00:07:23,025 --> 00:07:27,025 But really what you're looking for, I would suggest couples look for, 122 00:07:27,025 --> 00:07:29,425 is the style of painting. 123 00:07:29,425 --> 00:07:34,625 So any live-winning artist worth this will have dreams of their work. 124 00:07:34,625 --> 00:07:38,625 All over plastered on the Instagram page or their website. 125 00:07:38,625 --> 00:07:41,825 And you've got to look at that and think, what connects with me? 126 00:07:41,825 --> 00:07:43,825 What do I like to see? 127 00:07:43,825 --> 00:07:46,625 And I visualise that pain on my wall. 128 00:07:46,625 --> 00:07:49,025 Is that something that I would like to see? 129 00:07:49,025 --> 00:07:53,425 And that's where the sort of difference is coming to play. 130 00:07:53,425 --> 00:07:58,225 You should also say, with watercolour, we work from strictly from light to dark. 131 00:07:58,225 --> 00:08:02,625 So you'll always see me doing a sketch then going from light to dark 132 00:08:02,625 --> 00:08:03,825 and it has to be in that order. 133 00:08:03,825 --> 00:08:07,025 We can't paste a light colour on top of a dark colour. 134 00:08:07,025 --> 00:08:08,225 It has to be in that order. 135 00:08:08,225 --> 00:08:10,225 So it's a four days work. 136 00:08:10,225 --> 00:08:13,025 With our critic, you can finally get a bit of a head start. 137 00:08:13,025 --> 00:08:18,625 Even before the ceremony has begun, some live-winning artists will attend a ceremony 138 00:08:18,625 --> 00:08:21,425 and start doing the background scene first. 139 00:08:21,425 --> 00:08:25,825 And then they can introduce the couple much later. 140 00:08:25,825 --> 00:08:29,025 It's much more forgiving and it allows that to happen. 141 00:08:29,025 --> 00:08:32,225 So that plays into kind of logistics and timings. 142 00:08:32,225 --> 00:08:35,425 Or what medium you might choose for your event. 143 00:08:35,425 --> 00:08:39,425 And do couples typically choose to have a moment from their ceremony? 144 00:08:39,425 --> 00:08:43,425 Or can it be from, I mean, obviously it's a day's work. 145 00:08:43,425 --> 00:08:46,625 It needs to be from something earlier on in the day. 146 00:08:46,625 --> 00:08:51,025 Is there other moments they can choose to have captured? 147 00:08:51,025 --> 00:08:53,025 They can, they can. 148 00:08:53,025 --> 00:08:57,025 The ceremony is the most popular because it's the earliest. 149 00:08:57,025 --> 00:09:01,025 And obviously we're capturing the case exchange of vowels. 150 00:09:01,025 --> 00:09:04,625 That's what most couples do like. 151 00:09:04,625 --> 00:09:09,425 I have done that much later moments, perhaps a dinner or instance. 152 00:09:09,425 --> 00:09:15,425 Or just I guess mingling in the lawn with the couple and having a chat. 153 00:09:15,425 --> 00:09:18,225 It's the kind of capture of that moment. 154 00:09:18,225 --> 00:09:23,825 But one thing to bear in mind that later you're trying to capture that moment. 155 00:09:23,825 --> 00:09:25,825 The less time you have to paint. 156 00:09:25,825 --> 00:09:28,625 So I'm always trying to encourage couples. 157 00:09:28,625 --> 00:09:32,625 Look, we want to try and show something by the end of the night. 158 00:09:32,625 --> 00:09:37,825 And near completion, well, let's try and go for something much earlier in the day. 159 00:09:37,825 --> 00:09:42,225 Then as opposed to much later, I've tried the much later bit. 160 00:09:42,225 --> 00:09:50,225 And I have to say sometimes I've had to kind of decline requests because the paint time is so much more reduced. 161 00:09:50,225 --> 00:09:52,225 Or for that reason. 162 00:09:52,225 --> 00:09:57,225 So when couples are choosing a live live artist for their wedding. 163 00:09:57,225 --> 00:10:01,225 Obviously they need to think about what style is actually painting they want. 164 00:10:01,225 --> 00:10:05,625 And then also the logistics of how that would work on their day. 165 00:10:05,625 --> 00:10:10,825 That's right, but that's something I will walk them through and talk to them about. 166 00:10:10,825 --> 00:10:16,825 So it sort of starts off with an initial query about venue and date. 167 00:10:16,825 --> 00:10:19,625 And then we'll go and talk about logistics. 168 00:10:19,625 --> 00:10:22,825 And from that, what I tend to do is send them a question here, 169 00:10:22,825 --> 00:10:24,825 which will bring some of that detail out. 170 00:10:24,825 --> 00:10:29,225 That would inform the agenda or a short meeting that we'll have. 171 00:10:29,225 --> 00:10:34,025 We can explore their painting vision, but also the logistics for the day and how that might work. 172 00:10:34,025 --> 00:10:38,825 And then of course, this is normally booked quite some time in advance of the wedding days. 173 00:10:38,825 --> 00:10:43,625 So four weeks before I'll relook at the notes that we've made. 174 00:10:43,625 --> 00:10:48,825 And then I'll set out a very brief outline of how all work on the day. 175 00:10:48,825 --> 00:10:54,625 We talked about just in case anything's changed since the time that we had the initial conversation. 176 00:10:54,625 --> 00:10:59,025 But the idea is to make it very simple and very straightforward as possible. 177 00:10:59,025 --> 00:11:00,625 That's the key. 178 00:11:00,625 --> 00:11:02,225 Do you practice in advance? 179 00:11:02,225 --> 00:11:10,825 And do you request an image of the couple to kind of get a sense of their features or the venue or anything like that? 180 00:11:10,825 --> 00:11:13,225 Or is it you go in lined almost? 181 00:11:13,225 --> 00:11:14,225 Yeah. 182 00:11:14,225 --> 00:11:19,225 Sometimes, I'm very really asked for a picture of the couple I have to say or the venue. 183 00:11:19,225 --> 00:11:23,625 The venue is something I can find out myself. 184 00:11:23,625 --> 00:11:26,825 And as I said, I'm there to try and make things very simple. 185 00:11:26,825 --> 00:11:31,625 So I'm not going to be giving reams of homework to my clients to say certainly pictures. 186 00:11:31,625 --> 00:11:35,625 Obviously, that's something I can certainly do myself as a good artist. 187 00:11:35,625 --> 00:11:40,425 You know, I should be able to certainly turn up and be able to paint someone I see. 188 00:11:40,425 --> 00:11:49,625 So I'm really, really to see how a photograph beforehand and is sufficient time in the day to kind of make that assessment. 189 00:11:49,625 --> 00:11:54,625 What I certainly do up for are things that we may not be on the day. 190 00:11:54,625 --> 00:12:00,425 So for instance, I've had clients who have asked for their pits to feature into their paintings. 191 00:12:00,425 --> 00:12:02,425 I'll definitely need a picture of that. 192 00:12:02,425 --> 00:12:08,425 Or as I said, I gave you the early example of the client who wanted their late grandparents featured. 193 00:12:08,425 --> 00:12:15,825 So those are certainly photographs and that I request to see before the hand. 194 00:12:15,825 --> 00:12:18,625 But essentially, you turn up on the date. 195 00:12:18,625 --> 00:12:21,025 I turn up early, says my composition. 196 00:12:21,025 --> 00:12:24,625 Where things are going to be we're talking with photographer, etc. 197 00:12:24,625 --> 00:12:29,625 And then you start the sketch process once I've seen the couple. 198 00:12:29,625 --> 00:12:34,825 So as a live artist who obviously turns up on the day to venue, there's numerous guests. 199 00:12:34,825 --> 00:12:36,825 There's a lot going on on a wedding day. 200 00:12:36,825 --> 00:12:41,825 Well, there are any challenges that you've experienced when you've been painting someone's wedding. 201 00:12:41,825 --> 00:12:45,825 I mean, I can think of whether being one of them because we both specialise in marquee wedding. 202 00:12:45,825 --> 00:12:49,225 So a lot of the celebration and ceremonies have outside. 203 00:12:49,225 --> 00:12:53,625 Are there any other challenges that you faced as a live wedding and event artist? 204 00:12:53,625 --> 00:13:05,425 I think firstly, the first challenge of any live wedding artist is in trying to ensure that you are bringing it into play the vision that the client has expressed to you. 205 00:13:05,425 --> 00:13:07,425 So it's all obviously in discussion. 206 00:13:07,425 --> 00:13:11,425 And it only becomes real once we've started to put things down on paper. 207 00:13:11,425 --> 00:13:17,425 And sometimes you have that point, make very quickly decisions about what you put in and what you leave out. 208 00:13:17,425 --> 00:13:20,625 So, and what you think the client might like. 209 00:13:20,625 --> 00:13:27,425 So I always encourage clients to calm over partway through the day and have a look at the sketch and see that they kind of have happy with it. 210 00:13:27,425 --> 00:13:34,025 And then they can't move on, but there's an element of trust that has to be said with regards to employing a live wedding artist. 211 00:13:34,025 --> 00:13:38,625 The reference, the second thing is a reference photo. 212 00:13:38,625 --> 00:13:45,425 So as you know, we paint from a reference photo from the day that we take of that moment. 213 00:13:45,425 --> 00:13:52,625 We use that throughout the day, obviously, and back at the studio, getting that shot is absolutely crucial. 214 00:13:52,625 --> 00:13:57,625 I don't relax, I have to say any event until I've got that moment shot. 215 00:13:57,625 --> 00:14:00,225 And that can be quite challenging. 216 00:14:00,225 --> 00:14:06,825 So for instance, if you take, for example, the case last like three seconds, you've got to make sure you're at that right spot. 217 00:14:06,825 --> 00:14:11,225 You're not in the way of the photographers also wanting to achieve that shot as well. 218 00:14:11,225 --> 00:14:17,425 And you've got to kind of come away with that reference piece that you can then use to, to, to, to page. 219 00:14:17,425 --> 00:14:19,225 And it needs to be that moment in time as well, doesn't it? 220 00:14:19,225 --> 00:14:24,625 It needs to be a not state, it needs to be the natural moment that the couples are feeling. 221 00:14:24,625 --> 00:14:27,225 And I mean, I guess you could recreate it. 222 00:14:27,225 --> 00:14:34,225 And then you having watched it initially can sense the emotion that comes out of that, that moment, but that's quite a key. 223 00:14:34,225 --> 00:14:36,225 Yeah, key thing, isn't it? 224 00:14:36,225 --> 00:14:43,425 Absolutely, it really, it really is. And my, my backup, I mean, you, you, you have to have backups in this business. 225 00:14:43,425 --> 00:14:47,825 But what, what if I didn't get the shot, if somebody was in the way all for, for instance? 226 00:14:47,825 --> 00:14:56,625 So what I tend to ask my couple is, is that can we, or indeed the photographer after that moment, if I haven't quite got the shot on one, 227 00:14:56,625 --> 00:15:04,625 it's never happened before, but if it did, then we'll try to recreate that after the ceremony when they're taking the general pictures. 228 00:15:04,625 --> 00:15:12,625 And then the job of the artist is then to, okay, I've got that shot, transport that into the scene that we had earlier. 229 00:15:12,625 --> 00:15:17,625 We've already artistic license. That's what we bring to the table and make it perfect. 230 00:15:17,625 --> 00:15:20,625 That's beauty of artistic license, though, isn't it? 231 00:15:20,625 --> 00:15:29,025 And beauty of the fact you are painting it, you can paint those feelings in, rather than if a photographer misses something. 232 00:15:29,025 --> 00:15:36,425 Like when we had our episode a few weeks ago, I had a photographer who missed the entrance with the bride and her father to the church. 233 00:15:36,425 --> 00:15:44,625 You can't get that moment back. It's classic, it's done. Whereas for you, you can, I mean, witness that moment, might not have captured the right shot. 234 00:15:44,625 --> 00:15:50,025 You can go back, capture the shot, that's still to the emotion that was in that actual line. 235 00:15:50,025 --> 00:16:03,025 I'm not saying the last thing, I think the challenge is around heat time. So a good watercolour, fresh watercolour can take up to eight to 10 hours. 236 00:16:03,025 --> 00:16:09,025 Now, I don't have that amount of time during a wedding. If you take into account set up and all the rest of it. 237 00:16:09,025 --> 00:16:19,025 So normally I'm able to produce the bride, the couple, that showable and will be near finish. 238 00:16:19,025 --> 00:16:24,025 But certainly background and other elements will remain probably what needs to work back at the studio. 239 00:16:24,025 --> 00:16:34,025 So invariably, I really, and I have shamefully had to decline any form of a meal or wedding breakfast just takes up time. 240 00:16:34,025 --> 00:16:42,025 I'm usually in the back of my car for like 10 minutes to get in a quick sandwich. 241 00:16:42,025 --> 00:16:52,025 The best time for me to paint it, it has to be said, it's during the wedding breakfast. I get that moment to myself where I'm actually getting in my moment, planning it. 242 00:16:52,025 --> 00:16:58,025 And once the guests have finished the wedding and they come, they can see more kind of a seamless paint and so I can interact. 243 00:16:58,025 --> 00:17:07,025 And it's much more comfortable paint. So that's really important paint time and preserving paint time. So the earlier the moment, the better. 244 00:17:07,025 --> 00:17:17,025 I'm usually the first to arrive in the last to leave such as the time you need to make sure that you create something beautiful by the end of the evening or into the night. 245 00:17:17,025 --> 00:17:22,025 I was going to say sort of what hours are you there on a wedding day. I've not had a wedding with the life. 246 00:17:22,025 --> 00:17:33,025 No, I've got one next year. I'm really excited about it. So yeah, you are literally there all day obviously doing your prep beforehand and then painting long into the cocktails and the dance floor. 247 00:17:33,025 --> 00:17:43,025 Just going to add to that. Yeah, I mean, I can, you know, I leave very, very early hours of the morning depending on where the location is. 248 00:17:43,025 --> 00:17:54,025 Normally to two hours before so that's in the morning. And the key thing I always say to my, my, my, my, my couples is that you want your guests to see a lot of wedding artists in action. 249 00:17:54,025 --> 00:18:09,025 So before yesterday, you need to show me to begin at the point at which guess walking and see something quite interesting. So that's the point which all starts and then obviously all the way into the evening and into into into the night. 250 00:18:09,025 --> 00:18:16,025 I don't have a kind of cut off because I do have to make sure I travel back safely and I'm not only tired, you know, on the road and that. 251 00:18:16,025 --> 00:18:26,025 So there are breaks during the day, but I invariably try to finish around half past nine and keep the painting on show up to maybe 10 o'clock or show that they're out. 252 00:18:26,025 --> 00:18:29,025 And then I'll take it back home and finish it back out of studio. Yeah. 253 00:18:29,025 --> 00:18:34,025 What is one of the most memorable weddings you've painted? 254 00:18:34,025 --> 00:18:43,025 Okay, so I could say some of the thematic weddings of, you know, there was a wedding theme of dinosaurs. 255 00:18:43,025 --> 00:18:56,025 That wouldn't be honest. The wedding that gives me goose bumps, bricks at the back of my head, even if you've asked that question, is the live wedding event that went wrong quite simply. 256 00:18:56,025 --> 00:18:59,025 It's my first one. I don't know if you're interested in this. 257 00:18:59,025 --> 00:19:02,025 Yeah, you want to give another. 258 00:19:02,025 --> 00:19:13,025 You get you get at the place for my counseling afterwards. I have to say because I still I still get I still get beads of where of sweat every time I think about it. 259 00:19:13,025 --> 00:19:20,025 And it's interesting to kind of just say how I kind of got into the business very brief because it's one of those things just like couples. 260 00:19:20,025 --> 00:19:31,025 You see a lot of wedding artists on Instagram and that's where I first saw this unfold and I saw this artist in his beautiful surroundings in the summer. 261 00:19:31,025 --> 00:19:37,025 I'm failing. It's beautiful painting in front of this to a round of applause. 262 00:19:37,025 --> 00:19:43,025 And I looked at that in my sort of South London cottony accent, I thought to myself, I'll have some of that. 263 00:19:43,025 --> 00:19:48,025 I can do that. That's just got to be me. I've been painting for 10 years. I'm a good artist. 264 00:19:48,025 --> 00:19:55,025 You know, it's so easy. Just looking at it and you know that that's what rules do. They on Instagram. 265 00:19:55,025 --> 00:20:04,025 You know, no one knows the amount of work that goes on behind the scenes, but I thought to myself, I'm going to have a go at this. 266 00:20:04,025 --> 00:20:11,025 And so I mainly advertise my services. I client in contact with me. 267 00:20:11,025 --> 00:20:20,025 And I was booked. Now I have to say everything that could have gone wrong went wrong on that particular day. 268 00:20:20,025 --> 00:20:27,025 It started later than it should have. So, and I'll probably pull out some of the learning outcomes as I'm telling you this, because many people. 269 00:20:27,025 --> 00:20:35,025 Artists generally might want to get into this business and might want to understand a little bit about kind of the tips and things to be mindful. 270 00:20:35,025 --> 00:20:42,025 So the first thing is that the paint time, as I mentioned earlier, that was reduced because the start time. 271 00:20:42,025 --> 00:20:50,025 I started much later. We're talking an hour or so then the actual time it was supposed to start. I can't believe it. 272 00:20:50,025 --> 00:20:52,025 That's how you're controlled. 273 00:20:52,025 --> 00:21:00,025 Right. Quiet. And I'm thinking this is now my anxiety levels are beginning to rise slightly once that had happened. 274 00:21:00,025 --> 00:21:03,025 Of course, I didn't speak to anybody. I didn't speak to the photographer. 275 00:21:03,025 --> 00:21:11,025 I just turned up with my iPhone. And of course, the vehicle would have used the right time. It was in the church. 276 00:21:11,025 --> 00:21:16,025 They always say, anyone with a phone, could you make sure you turn it off? We've got a photographer here. 277 00:21:16,025 --> 00:21:25,025 Please refrain from taking any pictures. But then of course, I then stand up. And with my iPhone, trying to take this shot of the couple, the kids. 278 00:21:25,025 --> 00:21:33,025 Now, the photographer didn't know who I was. So he just saw me as an irritant, trying to get this shot. So I managed to get a shot. 279 00:21:33,025 --> 00:21:39,025 But it was blurry. And it had the photographer in the, in the, in the actual reference. It should. Can you believe it? 280 00:21:39,025 --> 00:21:49,025 Yeah. So, of course, I, you know, the show's got to go on. I didn't, I feel, I didn't think for a moment I could maybe use any pictures afterwards from the bride and the groom. 281 00:21:49,025 --> 00:21:57,025 Because time was short. It was moving on. I now had to start the sketch process outside in front of guests. 282 00:21:57,025 --> 00:22:05,025 It was standing behind me, looking at me, sketching this scene of the bride and remember a blurry with a photographer in front of them. 283 00:22:05,025 --> 00:22:14,025 You know, it was, it was absolutely comical. So I thought, I'm going to take a break here. I just, I started to tremble. My hands started to shake. 284 00:22:14,025 --> 00:22:26,025 I had to kind of just get out of that scene. I had to, I had to, I went to my car, phone my wife. She can't be down a little bit. She said, why can't you just get the, it's your taking a car then. 285 00:22:26,025 --> 00:22:36,025 And that's not in the wedding breakfast. It's moving on is at moments now. What am I going to do? She said, but carry on your own artists. You can do this. You've got this, you know, I've tried to disappear. 286 00:22:36,025 --> 00:22:46,025 So I got back and the handshake started to lighten up a little bit. But there were beads of sweat all over my face. I couldn't see what I was doing properly. 287 00:22:46,025 --> 00:22:53,025 I'm very grateful. I was probably a bit odd because I kept looking at them because I, the picture I had was almost useless. 288 00:22:53,025 --> 00:23:04,025 So I was also like, it's staring at them to try and try and draw them all to this, to this canvas. And I'm going to me, I never, this has never happened to me before. 289 00:23:04,025 --> 00:23:18,025 Because of the anxiety, the pressure, my hand just ceased. I've, you know, it's, it's like if you're typing for a long time, and your hands, it was a claw, it was a claw, it couldn't, I couldn't move it. 290 00:23:18,025 --> 00:23:36,025 And I just thought, this has never happened to me before what's, what's going on. So every, you know, when you look at my reals, you'll see that there's a fan on everyone, every, every event I go to, there's a fan stood on top of my easel to deal with that. 291 00:23:36,025 --> 00:23:50,025 But when I showed the painting to the couple, they were gracious and they were lovely, certainly said, honestly, lovely, but I could see on their face, it wasn't right. It wasn't, it just, it wasn't the wow that I was looking for. 292 00:23:50,025 --> 00:23:53,025 And that's what I look for in every painting I produce. 293 00:23:53,025 --> 00:24:09,025 So I took it back home, I read it, I managed to get a proper picture of the couple, I said that, you know, to them. And I just simply charged them as if it was a commission as opposed to me being there as a, as a live-winning artist. 294 00:24:09,025 --> 00:24:29,025 But, you know, it's through that sort of failure, and this is the learning outcome that leads, I think, to success. And it says, you know, and I'm following that I had written a 200 page checklist about all the things that I needed to do and follow through before going to any event. 295 00:24:29,025 --> 00:24:42,025 And that has been successful ever since I've never had a situation like that ever before, but I have to say if you're talking about a memorable event, it was certainly that one for me, which will never happen again. 296 00:24:42,025 --> 00:25:00,025 I mean, everyone starts somewhere and the important thing is is that you learn from it as well, you know, it's when people make the learnings and the failure. Yeah, exactly. If you're just, you know, you obviously learn from it, you've honed your processes, you know, that you need to have a fan, start sketching, you know, you've got all of these things you introduce yourself. 297 00:25:00,025 --> 00:25:12,025 So, you made it right for the couple anyway afterwards, they had the experience of you there on the day and then you just had a different photo that drove towards Patrick, how, how did you get into painting? 298 00:25:12,025 --> 00:25:22,025 Like, obviously, we've just heard a bit about how you got into painting at weddings, but where did the love of art and painting come from? 299 00:25:22,025 --> 00:25:39,025 First back background. So, I'm a generation, it's guy. And what I mean by that is I read a lot of comments when I was little. That was that was the only few ever looked at the comments back in the vein in 1980s. 300 00:25:39,025 --> 00:25:56,025 They were just beautiful art forms, even to this day. And I used to draw a lot. I wasn't particularly good at reading, I'm slightly dyslexic. And so I was drawn to art and expressing my way myself through through art. 301 00:25:56,025 --> 00:26:09,025 And I always, always drew well. I always did art when I was at school, but, you know, I, I was always a traditional family. You were always said, well, they're always concerned about that being a career. 302 00:26:09,025 --> 00:26:16,025 And so I moved into a different direction travel. I began to serve in the project manager and so on. 303 00:26:16,025 --> 00:26:26,025 So I kind of left that I was getting, you know, the pace of life was just getting very busy, but probably about 10 years ago, I then fought myself. I'm going to pick this up again. 304 00:26:26,025 --> 00:26:36,025 I saw this was the sort of social media now coming through and I'm beginning to see others deducing some beautiful pieces of art and I was drawn to watercolor. 305 00:26:36,025 --> 00:26:54,025 So I started to get trained in medium. I'm going contact with some of the masters in watercolor who were arranging training courses and so on and made sure that I was on those and just sort of developed my art over time, finding my style. 306 00:26:54,025 --> 00:27:09,025 Also, a number of portraits and landscapes and entering competitions, following, following that about quite a military stuff as well and police art as well, which I'm quite fond of and buildings as well. 307 00:27:09,025 --> 00:27:23,025 But as I said, I then came across this real Instagram, which I could do. I said, I left some of that. Yeah, I guess I got into live wedding art. 308 00:27:23,025 --> 00:27:33,025 I wish I'd found it much earlier. I have to say it's such a beautiful thing to do something you love in an environment where people are happy. 309 00:27:33,025 --> 00:27:47,025 There's so much joy and love in the air and you're engaging with people and trying to inspire them to pick up a paintbrush, hopefully after what they've seen and that's that's kind of what I hope to achieve when I'm at these events. 310 00:27:47,025 --> 00:27:52,025 So how long have you been a wedding artist, live wedding painter? 311 00:27:52,025 --> 00:28:11,025 Two and a half years, so I'm relatively new to the industry, but it is a relatively new concept, isn't it? So it's so new. We don't even have our own heading when you try and advertise yourself on a wedding, on a website like each or something like that. 312 00:28:11,025 --> 00:28:19,025 You know, I come under entertainment. So don't quite like, but box the only heading that I can find that that's close to live wedding art. 313 00:28:19,025 --> 00:28:25,025 So yeah, so two and a half, two and a half years now I've been doing this. 314 00:28:25,025 --> 00:28:36,025 And what sort of area do you cover with your live artistry? Can you travel across the UK or do you primarily base your work sort of and have clients around the south east? 315 00:28:36,025 --> 00:28:48,025 Yeah, not really south of Birmingham is generally my catchment area. Anything further than that, then what has to then think about accommodation costs. 316 00:28:48,025 --> 00:28:58,025 I get feeling booked up quickly, so one wedding in the North can take up two days, so that's our weekends and sometimes I can fit two weddings within that time. 317 00:28:58,025 --> 00:29:10,025 I've got to come and take that into account, but what I've, what I tend to do, what I've done is I've built up almost a small portfolio of other artists that can deliver from those areas. 318 00:29:10,025 --> 00:29:24,025 Or indeed, if I'm not available, then others I'll share those details with with the clients to make sure that they can try and find somebody sort of good quality that can deliver what they need to like on their on their wedding day. 319 00:29:24,025 --> 00:29:34,025 I love that. Generally, yeah, I think it's really important. We're here to help, you know, that's what we do as well, you know, is that real community over competition? 320 00:29:34,025 --> 00:29:47,025 Yeah, I think, you know, at the end of the day it's about the client getting exactly and they've come to you because they obviously like your style and for them to be able to find someone else similar if you're not able to do it is such a wonderful thing to be to share with someone else. 321 00:29:47,025 --> 00:30:01,025 Yeah, I'd so recommend that and so one of the things I'd like to do is set up a Facebook group. There's one already there or a live wedding artist, but it covers everywhere around the world. 322 00:30:01,025 --> 00:30:12,025 That's really more focused on the UK, where a lot of wedding artists can sort of join such a group and just just share some tips and and the cheating recommendations as well. 323 00:30:12,025 --> 00:30:19,025 I think talking to each other is really important and certainly that's one of the things I feel to do when I got into this business. 324 00:30:19,025 --> 00:30:33,025 I said I looked at Instagram real thought I could do it and it was a failure when what I should have been doing was talking to the other live wedding artists about this process and what to look out for and they're willing to give this advice. 325 00:30:33,025 --> 00:30:47,025 Yeah, I find the wedding industry is very very kind, we're quite willing to share information, you know, we're all there to do a job for the for the couple and we want to do our best we can. 326 00:30:47,025 --> 00:30:56,025 And it goes a long way if you're if someone shows you kindness, you should other people kindness and you know, you remember people who don't help and you're the team there. 327 00:30:56,025 --> 00:31:00,025 They want you are essentially your as a team that's there. 328 00:31:00,025 --> 00:31:09,025 You're the couples cheerlead that's essentially we're the ones that pull together a wedding day and make it happen and we're the ones who who pull all that together. 329 00:31:09,025 --> 00:31:15,025 So you need to work as a team and everyone pulls their weight in that team and that's so important. 1 00:31:15,190 --> 00:31:18,310 So where can people get hold of you, Patrick? 2 00:31:18,310 --> 00:31:20,310 Have you got website, Instagram? 3 00:31:20,310 --> 00:31:23,430 Where can I listen to find out more about Patrick Heisel? 4 00:31:23,430 --> 00:31:24,270 - Thanks for asking. 5 00:31:24,270 --> 00:31:28,670 So if you'd like to see all my work and examples 6 00:31:28,670 --> 00:31:31,910 of my work and also Reels, I've produced a lot of Reels 7 00:31:31,910 --> 00:31:35,070 to give my clients a good understanding 8 00:31:35,070 --> 00:31:37,990 about what's all happened during the day. 9 00:31:37,990 --> 00:31:39,150 Then you can find on Instagram, 10 00:31:39,150 --> 00:31:43,750 I keep a massive blog on all my work there. 11 00:31:43,750 --> 00:31:48,750 On P Heisel Art, okay, so it's P Heisel, H-E-I-C-L-Art. 12 00:31:48,750 --> 00:31:50,430 That's my profile name. 13 00:31:50,430 --> 00:31:52,710 And you'll find all my work there. 14 00:31:52,710 --> 00:31:55,110 And also on stories, I communicate Bayley 15 00:31:55,110 --> 00:32:00,110 about things going on and updates on the wedding scene. 16 00:32:00,110 --> 00:32:04,070 But if you've got further information, detailed information, 17 00:32:04,070 --> 00:32:09,070 then I have a website, it's www.heheiselart.com. 18 00:32:09,070 --> 00:32:13,710 And you'll find all my information there, my terms, 19 00:32:13,710 --> 00:32:17,470 pricing, there's FAQs, there's a questionnaire, 20 00:32:17,470 --> 00:32:20,270 I spoke about earlier, everything's on there. 21 00:32:20,270 --> 00:32:21,790 So that's certainly the go-to place 22 00:32:21,790 --> 00:32:23,870 if you'd like more information. 23 00:32:23,870 --> 00:32:24,710 - Thank you. 24 00:32:24,710 --> 00:32:25,990 We'll pop all those in the show notes as well. 25 00:32:25,990 --> 00:32:28,270 So people can find those quite easily. 26 00:32:28,270 --> 00:32:29,110 - Right. 27 00:32:29,110 --> 00:32:33,030 - We like to end our episodes with a tip for our listeners. 28 00:32:33,030 --> 00:32:35,310 So we'd like to ask you, Patrick, 29 00:32:35,310 --> 00:32:38,550 what would you want to be for our listeners? 30 00:32:38,550 --> 00:32:42,710 - I would say, what currently? 31 00:32:42,710 --> 00:32:46,910 Because why I say it, particularly for live-wedding artists, 32 00:32:46,910 --> 00:32:50,310 you're choosing a live-wedding artist for this style. 33 00:32:50,310 --> 00:32:54,150 There's a sense of uniqueness about them and personality. 34 00:32:54,150 --> 00:32:56,830 And you'll probably won't find no other. 35 00:32:56,830 --> 00:33:00,390 It's not like someone you can sort of book 36 00:33:00,390 --> 00:33:04,870 at the closest moment to your wedding. 37 00:33:04,870 --> 00:33:07,190 Certainly do your research and book 38 00:33:07,190 --> 00:33:09,430 a live-wedding artist early on. 39 00:33:09,430 --> 00:33:11,110 Because they're then very difficult. 40 00:33:11,110 --> 00:33:12,910 The closer you get to your wedding date, 41 00:33:12,910 --> 00:33:15,470 it's very difficult to then find someone else. 42 00:33:15,470 --> 00:33:17,950 You may have similar style or similar approach 43 00:33:17,950 --> 00:33:20,030 to what you're looking for. 44 00:33:20,030 --> 00:33:22,190 We're very few in numbers. 45 00:33:22,190 --> 00:33:23,030 It has to be said. 46 00:33:23,030 --> 00:33:24,870 And I think it's actually picking up. 47 00:33:24,870 --> 00:33:28,710 But I certainly say, you know, the research, 48 00:33:28,710 --> 00:33:31,030 look at the stuff on the website, 49 00:33:31,030 --> 00:33:33,750 what they're showing, look at the reviews, 50 00:33:33,750 --> 00:33:36,590 certainly book early. 51 00:33:36,590 --> 00:33:39,030 I only asked for 10% deposit. 52 00:33:39,030 --> 00:33:41,030 Which just helps with, I think, the cast flow 53 00:33:41,030 --> 00:33:46,030 allows couples to book early on without breaking the bank. 54 00:33:46,030 --> 00:33:48,630 And they'll know that that's fucking insecure. 55 00:33:48,630 --> 00:33:50,910 So that'll be certainly my one tip. 56 00:33:50,910 --> 00:33:52,350 And my other tip will be, you know, 57 00:33:52,350 --> 00:33:53,790 employee wedding planner. 58 00:33:53,790 --> 00:33:56,270 Get the stress out of the whole process. 59 00:33:56,270 --> 00:33:59,510 You know, give it to someone else to do. 60 00:33:59,510 --> 00:34:01,470 You know, we can get behind that tip. 61 00:34:01,470 --> 00:34:02,430 Yeah. 62 00:34:02,430 --> 00:34:03,590 Thank you. 63 00:34:03,590 --> 00:34:05,590 So there we go. 64 00:34:05,590 --> 00:34:06,910 Yes. 65 00:34:06,910 --> 00:34:08,710 Well, thank you so much for coming 66 00:34:08,710 --> 00:34:09,710 on to the podcast. 67 00:34:09,710 --> 00:34:11,190 It's been brilliant having you on. 68 00:34:11,190 --> 00:34:12,150 It's been a great laugh. 69 00:34:12,150 --> 00:34:13,670 And we've learnt so much. 70 00:34:13,670 --> 00:34:17,110 And I loved your honesty about your most memorable event 71 00:34:17,110 --> 00:34:18,950 being your first one. 72 00:34:18,950 --> 00:34:20,030 Yeah, exactly. 73 00:34:20,030 --> 00:34:22,070 Next week, we are going to be talking 74 00:34:22,070 --> 00:34:24,990 about decision fatigue, one of those moments 75 00:34:24,990 --> 00:34:27,270 that I think happens to you every single couple 76 00:34:27,270 --> 00:34:29,030 on your planning journey. 77 00:34:29,030 --> 00:34:29,950 So join us then. 78 00:34:29,950 --> 00:34:30,750 Thank you very much. 79 00:34:30,750 --> 00:34:31,790 I'll see you later. 80 00:34:31,790 --> 00:34:32,950 Bye. 81 00:34:32,950 --> 00:34:33,950 Thank you very much. 82 00:34:33,950 --> 00:34:34,950 Thank you. 83 00:34:34,950 --> 00:34:55,190 [MUSIC PLAYING]