1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,520 Ralph: Welcome friends to this special mother's day episode. 2 00:00:03,120 --> 00:00:03,390 Today. 3 00:00:03,390 --> 00:00:06,270 I want to take some time to honor our mothers. 4 00:00:06,750 --> 00:00:09,570 Considering what the Bible says about their vital role. 5 00:00:09,939 --> 00:00:14,890 And the immense impact they have on all of our families and all of our lives. 6 00:00:16,670 --> 00:00:35,770 Intro: Welcome to the Ask Ralph Podcast, where listening to an experienced financial professional with over 30 years of experience can help you make sense of confusing questions, current headlines, and industry trends about taxes, small business, financial decision making, investment strategies, and even the art of proper budgeting. 7 00:00:36,070 --> 00:00:42,860 Ask Ralph makes the complex simple by sharing his real world knowledge from a Christian perspective with all things financial. 8 00:00:43,100 --> 00:00:45,649 Now here's your host, Ralph Estep, Jr. 9 00:00:47,343 --> 00:00:51,543 Ralph: The Bible has a lot to say about the beauty and nobility of motherhood. 10 00:00:52,353 --> 00:00:56,253 In Proverbs chapter 31, we're given a picture of an excellent wife. 11 00:00:56,793 --> 00:01:01,443 And mother working hard for her family, extending compassion to the poor. 12 00:01:01,803 --> 00:01:05,973 And carrying herself with strength and dignity that points to the Lord. 13 00:01:06,513 --> 00:01:10,113 Her children and husband praise her saying many women do noble things. 14 00:01:10,533 --> 00:01:12,093 But you surpass them all. 15 00:01:12,603 --> 00:01:14,193 What an incredible legacy. 16 00:01:14,686 --> 00:01:19,546 In second Timothy chapter one, verse five, Paul highlights, Timothy's sincere faith. 17 00:01:19,846 --> 00:01:23,926 That first lived in his grandmother, Lois and mother Eunice. 18 00:01:24,346 --> 00:01:27,316 Before spurring Timothy on to noble service. 19 00:01:27,826 --> 00:01:31,756 Truly a mother's faith and instruction makes all the difference in our lives. 20 00:01:32,236 --> 00:01:37,096 And of course Jesus showed incredible compassion and care for his own mother, Mary. 21 00:01:37,636 --> 00:01:39,916 Even ensuring that she was provided for. 22 00:01:40,186 --> 00:01:42,646 As he hung dying for our sins on the cross. 23 00:01:43,426 --> 00:01:46,336 The special parent child bond meant everything to him. 24 00:01:46,978 --> 00:01:53,603 As many of, you know, I sadly lost my own mother in March of last year, after a courageous fight with brain cancer. 25 00:01:54,233 --> 00:01:59,963 She was an amazing woman of faith who poured so much love and wisdom into me over the years. 26 00:02:00,743 --> 00:02:02,243 I'm still grieving her loss. 27 00:02:02,785 --> 00:02:05,453 As I know many of you are for your own mothers. 28 00:02:06,143 --> 00:02:07,313 My heart goes out to you. 29 00:02:08,123 --> 00:02:10,973 For those happy times we shared I'm overwhelmingly, thankful. 30 00:02:11,723 --> 00:02:15,743 Her memory lives on spurring me towards a greater obedience to Christ. 31 00:02:16,673 --> 00:02:22,253 So on this mother's day, I want to charge us with showing special honor to the mothers, still with us. 32 00:02:22,823 --> 00:02:24,953 And cherishing the memories of those departed. 33 00:02:25,673 --> 00:02:30,443 Here are some practical ideas first, and I can't stress this enough. 34 00:02:30,983 --> 00:02:34,463 Spend quality time together, making memories. 35 00:02:35,363 --> 00:02:36,443 Plan a fun outing. 36 00:02:36,443 --> 00:02:37,463 She would enjoy. 37 00:02:38,323 --> 00:02:41,843 Ask questions about her life and really listen to what she's saying to you. 38 00:02:42,473 --> 00:02:46,043 Dig into that old photo album, reminiscing, treasured moments. 39 00:02:46,593 --> 00:02:49,373 Capture some videos, sharing her stories alive. 40 00:02:50,123 --> 00:02:53,663 If geographically separated schedule video calls, sharing your hearts. 41 00:02:54,113 --> 00:02:57,263 Listen, technology can make us closer than we've ever been. 42 00:02:57,983 --> 00:03:04,913 Secondly, give a meaningful, personalized gift, expressing your gratitude for her nurture and wisdom over the years. 43 00:03:05,363 --> 00:03:06,773 Perhaps a piece of jewelry. 44 00:03:07,283 --> 00:03:13,943 Something related to a hobby, she enjoys a book of precious family photos or whatever else would mean the most to her. 45 00:03:14,603 --> 00:03:14,793 Write. 46 00:03:14,813 --> 00:03:17,723 A heartfelt letter sharing how she's impacted your life. 47 00:03:18,683 --> 00:03:19,343 Thirdly. 48 00:03:19,883 --> 00:03:24,113 Serve her in simple, everyday ways help around the house. 49 00:03:24,683 --> 00:03:25,793 Run an errand. 50 00:03:26,393 --> 00:03:27,803 Cook her favorite meal. 51 00:03:28,463 --> 00:03:29,273 Offer respite. 52 00:03:29,273 --> 00:03:31,823 If she cares for young kids or aging parents. 53 00:03:32,513 --> 00:03:35,453 Show Christ's love in selfless actions. 54 00:03:36,113 --> 00:03:42,113 And most importantly, Simply tell her you love her and are thankful for her. 55 00:03:42,593 --> 00:03:44,123 Those words are golden. 56 00:03:44,603 --> 00:03:47,513 And there will come a day when you won't be able to speak them to her anymore. 57 00:03:48,533 --> 00:03:52,553 Let these ideas stir your imagination on blessing the mothers in your life. 58 00:03:53,243 --> 00:03:54,353 We all fall short. 59 00:03:54,983 --> 00:03:57,713 So approach this with grace, not expectation. 60 00:03:58,763 --> 00:04:01,433 Before we wrap up, let's revisit our opening question. 61 00:04:02,273 --> 00:04:06,773 What are some ways we can show extra love and appreciation to the mothers in our lives. 62 00:04:07,383 --> 00:04:10,593 I hope these practical suggestions give you a launch pad. 63 00:04:11,163 --> 00:04:18,033 Please visit our website at askralphpodcast.com where you can share your own ideas and continue the conversation. 64 00:04:18,673 --> 00:04:22,063 Also feel free to share this episode with friends or on social media. 65 00:04:22,333 --> 00:04:23,503 To spread encouragement. 66 00:04:24,163 --> 00:04:26,113 Let's make this a special mother's day. 67 00:04:26,443 --> 00:04:27,943 We will long remember. 68 00:04:29,293 --> 00:04:33,733 Allow me to ask a prayer father, God, we lift up all mothers to you now in prayer. 69 00:04:34,543 --> 00:04:37,033 For those still with us, grant them strength. 70 00:04:37,753 --> 00:04:41,233 Grant them wisdom and overflowing love as they nurture their children. 71 00:04:42,293 --> 00:04:44,233 May their children in turn honor them. 72 00:04:44,653 --> 00:04:46,873 So their day's going to be long and full of joy. 73 00:04:47,823 --> 00:04:52,813 For Mother's departed may sweet memories flood our hearts, stirring us to finish well. 74 00:04:53,653 --> 00:04:56,743 Calm every grieving soul with assurance of heavenly reunion. 75 00:04:57,253 --> 00:05:01,333 Above all shape us into Christ's image, bearing spiritual fruit. 76 00:05:01,643 --> 00:05:03,433 in every season of life. 77 00:05:03,913 --> 00:05:04,453 Loving. 78 00:05:04,933 --> 00:05:07,663 Peaceful patient kind. 79 00:05:08,493 --> 00:05:10,063 May we point little ones to you. 80 00:05:10,633 --> 00:05:11,803 In Jesus' name. 81 00:05:12,373 --> 00:05:12,883 Amen. 82 00:05:13,513 --> 00:05:16,453 Now don't forget to subscribe to our show and join our email list. 83 00:05:16,903 --> 00:05:21,943 You do that at askralphpodcast.com . So you don't miss tomorrow show tomorrow. 84 00:05:21,943 --> 00:05:25,063 We're going to discuss, building effective business relationships. 85 00:05:25,633 --> 00:05:27,373 My friends our time is up for today. 86 00:05:27,883 --> 00:05:28,873 Thank you for listening. 87 00:05:29,413 --> 00:05:32,203 I know it's a little somber today, but this is a tough day for me. 88 00:05:32,923 --> 00:05:33,343 I pray. 89 00:05:33,373 --> 00:05:35,473 Each of you discovers fresh joy. 90 00:05:35,873 --> 00:05:39,613 in honoring the special woman who shaped your lives. 91 00:05:40,273 --> 00:05:41,923 Stay financially savvy this week. 92 00:05:41,923 --> 00:05:44,083 And remember to make every moment count. 93 00:05:44,773 --> 00:05:45,553 God bless you. 94 00:05:47,253 --> 00:05:50,103 Outro: Thank you for joining us on the AskRalph podcast. 95 00:05:50,233 --> 00:05:53,873 And with a simple click to subscribe, we'll invite you back to our next episode. 96 00:05:54,053 --> 00:05:57,123 And remember, financial issues don't have to be complicated. 97 00:05:57,423 --> 00:05:58,463 Just AskRalph. 98 00:05:58,883 --> 00:06:04,493 The information contained in this episode of AskRalph is based on data available as of the date of its release. 99 00:06:04,553 --> 00:06:07,463 Saggio Accounting Plus and AskRalph Media Inc. 100 00:06:07,623 --> 00:06:10,973 is under no obligation to update this content if changes occur. 101 00:06:11,063 --> 00:06:21,713 Applying this information to your specific situation requires careful consideration of all facts and circumstances, and any information provided is not to be considered as financial, tax, or legal advice. 102 00:06:21,853 --> 00:06:25,803 Please consult your tax advisor or attorney before acting on any material covered.