The feminine does not communicate through words alone.

She speaks in subtleties through the openness of her heart, the

tension in her breath, a shift in her energy, a softening, a contraction.

And most men, they miss it entirely.

Not because they don't care, but because they've never been taught how to truly

feel the feminine, how to be attuned to the feminine on an energetic level.

And that disconnect.

Is what erodes intimacy.

It's why she doesn't feel safe, and it's why he feels lost, stuck in

his head, wondering what went wrong.

This is not just about understanding the feminine, this is about being able

to meet her with a deep and powerful presence, a total different way of

relating that is infinitely deeper, creates infinitely more intimacy, love,

passion and safety, and all the good things that is ultimately magnetic.

It couldn't be more magnetic.

Because the man who is attuned to the feminine, the man who can

truly feel her is the man every woman deep down is waiting for.

Welcome to the Masculine and Feminine Dynamics podcast.

My name is Lorin Krenn and I'm a coach, author, and hypnotherapist.

I help you to understand masculine and feminine dynamics.

Let's dive in.

Most men try to communicate to women through words solely.

After all, that's what we've been taught.

If she says something, she'll say it, but the truth is not that simple because

the feminine communicates for subtleties.

It's part of her essence, it's part of her mysticism.

Her heart, her body and her energy are always speaking, or almost

always speaking louder and more clearly than the words she's saying.

Now, for everyone thinking here does this mean women don't need

to learn how to communicate?

The feminine can just be subtle all the time and indirect?

Absolutely not.

So let's make a really powerful distinction that every confusion here

is cleared up, and we can go right into the depth of this beautiful,

sacred dynamic that I'm going to get practically into deeper and deeper today.

Here is the distinction.

The awakened feminine invites, she does not instruct.

What does this mean?

Well, imagine in a relationship that a woman says to a man, right now, there

is a contraction inside my heart.

There is tension in my breath because you have been disconnected all day.

I want to feel your heart.

Why don't you do a five minute embodiment practice where you breathe in for

four seconds, hold your breath for 6.2 seconds and then exhale for 9.6 seconds?

Do this for 10 rounds and then you can meet my heart and we can all

experience deep and divine intimacy.

I, on purpose, exaggerated this.

What I'm trying to say here is no man wants to be instructed.

That's when, where we all get triggered.

I'm not being respected, I don't wanna be instructed.

I know who I am and all of that.

So, what is it going to be?

Because it can't be both.

I want a woman to be deeply feminine and at the same time, I want

her to, I want her to be always completely clear through her speech.

But if she always were completely clear through her speech in the way we think

this is supposed to be, then it would very quickly go into the realm of instructing.

And that's not magnetic.

That doesn't create deeper intimacy, specifically talking through the

lens of sacred polarity between the masculine and the feminine.

So this doesn't mean there is a bypass for women.

Um, it doesn't mean to become passive aggressive or to shut down

and just say, no, everything is fine while clearly it's not fine.

That's not what it means.

We have to use and grounded, a grounded and and spiritually wise approach to this.

It's not about bypassing healthy and loving and conscious communication

and being able to express your needs.

That has to be a given.

That has to be there in a relationship.

What I'm talking about here is something deeper, and what I'm talking about is

that most people actually never access this level of intimacy and depth in a

relationship because they communicate solely through words, and they believe

that's the only way we communicate.

But the truth is we communicate much deeper through our presence, through

our body, through how we are showing up in each moment, how our energy is, our

state of consciousness is in each moment.

So the feminine, the awakened feminine, does not instruct, she invites.

What is an invitation?

An invitation is that she's communicating to us.

She's inviting us from her heart.

She's inviting us through her energy.

And if a man is attuned to this, if a man can feel this, and he actually

makes it a conscious practice, which needs a lot of awareness and a lot of

spiritual mastery and practice, a lot.

To be able during the day to feel her in this way, a whole new fire

is ignited in the relationship.

Suddenly a level of intimacy and depth is there that was

unseen, unheard of, unspoken of.

No one knew it was there, and suddenly it is there.

And the relationship starts to thrive.

Not everyone understands they're doing this, but they're doing it, and some

people have this as a conscious practice.

But whether someone does it consciously, unconsciously, it doesn't matter,

they're tapped into something deeper.

And what they're tapped into is a deeper and more sacred way of relating.

And that's what the feminine is.

Inviting the masculine to rise into.

A way of relating where our heart is more open.

We are attuned to energy, where we become truly grounded and truly present.

It's also creating a higher standard because the standard is this is

not a relationship where both are totally checked out and you know,

just watch Netflix all day or don't communicate or disconnected.

This is a relationship that causes to a higher standard.

It's a relationship where presence, working and shifting our energy from

moment to moment facing what needs to be faced and growing together, being devoted

to the sacred union, that's the standard.

So that standard will, will, will call the masculine to rise.

And this in its nature can be very triggering for men.

But we have to understand if we're fully honest with ourselves, the fact that

the feminine so often communicates very differently and much more subtly than the

masculine, is what makes her so magnetic.

It's in one way what freaks men out, what gets them triggered.

But at the same time, it's also what creates this incredible magnetism.

We don't want to be the exact same.

Difference is beautiful and it's not very uncommon that when you have a, a

very strong union between a masculine and the feminine, that both have almost

polar opposites ways of responding to certain situations or communicating

certain things, and that's what creates so much passion and heat.

And yes, it can also create triggers.

And that's fine.

That's okay.

That's allowed to be there because we can work through that.

So the first shift here, the practical shift is for men to stop resisting the

feminine subtlety, to understand and acknowledge and accept that this is

actually what draws them in, what makes them feel deeply attracted to her.

Let's honor it.

Let's revere it.

Let's stop trying to change it.

And that in itself, that melting of resistance is an immensely powerful step.

Sometimes I will say to my wife as a joke, but a joke that is rooted in.

reverence, I will say You are the feminine, right?

Specifically when she expresses something in a more subtle way, I will say you are

the feminine in how you express that.

And it might come across as a joke, but it's a deeper form of acknowledgement that

there is so much beauty that she expressed something which was so subtler, and yet

it invited me, I felt it energetically.

And this is an ongoing practice for me, i'm not perfect.

I'm not perfectly enlightened.

But when I dropped a huge part of that resistance, it actually created deeper

intimacy between me and her instead of tension, which so many couples experience

and so many people in a relationship.

Now, let's go even deeper.

What does feeling her actually mean?

Let's get practical.

To feel the feminine is to be attuned to what's underneath the surface.

Her body, her heart, her nervous system, her energy.

But at the same time, it doesn't mean to become hypervigilant or or, or anxious.

It's not about constantly asking, is something wrong?

Is something wrong?

Did I do something wrong?

That has nothing to do with being attuned and everything

to do with feeling insecure.

I know it's hard to hear, but it's about feeling insecure.

It's about fear of rejection.

It's fear.

It's not presence.

And I don't say this in a way of being judgemental.

I say it needs to be acknowledged as that and then faced as that.

Feeling her means responding from grounded awareness.

It means meeting her and not fixing or defending.

So you feel her body and energy as you make love.

You feel her as you speak with her.

You feel her as you walk or sit or stand beside her in silence.

And naturally as you feel her.

As you are attuned to her body and heart, your presence and something deeper

inside you will know how to respond.

Let me give an example.

When a woman is irritated, perhaps even angry, deeply frustrated about something

that happened again, even though a promise was made and the man feels her

and meets her there, then his presence will naturally become understanding

and grounded, rather than reactive, defensive, wanting to prove that he's

right, she's wrong, that it was different.

And that changes everything and that creates a deeper

level of safety emotionally, energetically, and physically.

It's not something a man does.

It is something a man becomes.

She's always inviting the masculine, deeper, speaking a language beyond words.

And when men start to listen to that language, not with their ears, but

with their heart, their presence, their whole body, that's when a

level of intimacy is awakened beyond what most people believe is possible

to experience in a relationship.

This is like.

Unlocking a key, and when that key's unlocked, a portal opens, a door opens

inside the heart of the feminine, not from performance or trying to

get there, but from meeting her with full presence, and this is what the

feminine has been craving for and waiting for, most likely all her life.

Let's get even more practical.

Her heart is whispering can you feel me?

Can you meet me here?

She doesn't say it out loud.

The invitation is always there underneath her words, in her energy, in her breath,

in her heart, in the way she breathes, in the way she moves, expands, or contracts.

So here is a practice.

You first have to shift as the masculine.

You have to shift your awareness into your body.

You can't be in your head or disconnected or out of your body.

And then as your awareness is in your body, you're able to

censor, you're able to feel her.

Now, instead of analyzing it, trying to understand it, you allow your

presence to respond naturally.

This is what presence looks like in action.

She feels so vulnerable, you sense it, your presence becomes protective.

She feels tense, your presence becomes grounding.

She feels angry or annoyed at you, your presence becomes

understanding, compassionate.

This is like a breath of fresh air.

The key to understand here is your presence knows exactly

what to do if you can feel her.

And let's be honest, this is intensely vulnerable and challenging

territory for most men because to feel her, we have to feel ourselves.

To be attuned to a woman, to feel a woman's heart, we have to feel

our own heart, our own presence.

So by nature, if we want to step into a deeper level of intimacy

with a woman, we have to confront our own emotional backlog.

The pain, the shame, the defensiveness, the numbness.

So what is this?

Ultimately, its spiritual mastery.

Its presence, training level 100, not level one.

And it's also the ultimate path to true freedom because a man who's

trapped in his head will never be free.

But a man who trusts his presence to respond in the most aligned way,

being attuned to the feminine heart and energetic body, who leads from

this space, who embodies this energy, becomes unstoppable, and not just

that, creates a level of intimacy and depth and union the feminine has been

most likely waiting for all her life.

So as the, as the masculine, the practice is during the day, can you

become so conscious and so present that you can feel any shift in her, not to

be anxious and fear rejection, but to meet her with your powerful presence.

And the more you practice this, the more you naturally become present

and conscious throughout the day, and is becoming conscious and

presence throughout the day, not the ultimate path to spiritual freedom?

Yes, the path of higher level of union and intimacy is the same as the path of

spiritual freedom and spiritual evolution.

They're one and the same.

This is why I am so passionate about this work, because I don't

believe it gets more sacred and this because it is the sacred, in its

highest form, in its pure embodiment.

When the man does this, she feels it.

She doesn't need to hear it unless your words are born from a

deeper presence, that's different, sometimes words will be there.

It's not just good communication, then.

It's a different and deeper form of communicating in a relationship, a

deeper, mystical, transcendental, sacred way of, of relating in a relationship.

And this is only possible if both have devoted themselves, not

just to experience the highest level of intimacy, but to growth.

If both have made the decision, I no longer want to live a life where

I'm disconnected and go unconscious throughout the day, that's not my

standard anymore, my standard is not that I'm unconscious all day and run

away, my standard is, that I become more conscious with each day that passes,

this is what the feminine is inviting the masculine to rise into, and ultimately

the relationship and union to rise into.

Can it be more divine?

Can it be more sacred?

Can it be more profound than this?

I would argue it cannot.

This is as sacred as it can get.

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