There's no reason to regret your life. Everything is on the way,
Speaker:and you've never made a mistake unless you compare your actions to some frigging
Speaker:other people's values that you've put on a pedestal.
Speaker:Our purpose is the most efficient and effective pathway to fulfill the greatest
Speaker:amount of voids with the greatest amount of value.
Speaker:And our voids are derived from our past judgments,
Speaker:and every experience we have, we've judged.
Speaker:We're the ones that make it into something. We make a
Speaker:as Milton said. You see,
Speaker:I don't, in Breakthrough Experience when people come to me,
Speaker:and I get it every week,
Speaker:every week I teach the Breakthrough I get people coming in there labeling things
Speaker:abusive. I've yet to see abuse on the planet.
Speaker:I know that sounds very odd to you.
Speaker:I've seen events in the planet. Abused is a broad, vague,
Speaker:general label of something we've seen the downsides to,
Speaker:we didn't see the upside to,
Speaker:we didn't see our reasons for having it in our life,
Speaker:we didn't find the causal relationship and we go around and we call it abuse
Speaker:because we haven't been accountable enough to take the time to ask the
Speaker:questions, How specifically is this actually helping me in my life,
Speaker:serving me in my life and helping me be unique and express something amazing?
Speaker:If we ask that question and ask that and be accountable to answer the question
Speaker:and quit running our story and dramatizing the illusion by some
Speaker:psychotherapy babble, and go in there and ask, how has this helped me?
Speaker:You know, I can compete with anybody on the stuff that's happened in my life.
Speaker:I've been shot at, I've been beaten, I've been attacked,
Speaker:I've had all kinds of things in my life.
Speaker:Every one of those things have helped me be who I am today and I'm grateful for
Speaker:it.
Speaker:There's nothing your body can experience unless you want to play victim in your
Speaker:life, which is a disempowerment. And by the way, no,
Speaker:one's going to continue to do that unless they perceive more advantage than
Speaker:disadvantage out of doing it. They're either getting sympathy out of it,
Speaker:they're getting points out of it, they're avoiding accountabilities.
Speaker:There's some internal benefit out of why they're playing those games.
Speaker:And in Breakthrough I don't let them get away with it. I hold them accountable,
Speaker:I have them go and find the blessings and I've seen thousands of people who
Speaker:thought they were abused and turn what they experienced into opportunity and
Speaker:thanks.
Speaker:And gone back and actually freed themselves of that drama that they've
Speaker:self-imposed because they chose to see only the downside of that event.
Speaker:The same thing if somebody sees only the upside and they think it's terrific,
Speaker:they get caught in a fantasy.
Speaker:I'm not here for fantasy promotion or nightmare avoidance.
Speaker:I'm here to help you realize that none of those are what matter,
Speaker:it's your perception, decisions, and actions about them. So I don't allow,
Speaker:in my Demartini Method, that's not even allowed that terminology of abuse,
Speaker:because what that does is programs the brain that it's a causal outside you
Speaker:instead of your own cause.
Speaker:No therapy's ever going to be complete until cause equals effect in space-time.
Speaker:Until you realize you're accountable in your own reality. Now, some people say,
Speaker:'Well, that's not the case.' Well remember what Epictetus said,
Speaker:at first on the journey of self-development you start
Speaker:and you're disempowered. Then you go around and blame yourself,
Speaker:which is another delusion. And then you realize,
Speaker:you look again and you balance out the equation you realize there's nothing to
Speaker:blame. Everything was on the way.
Speaker:And that's not optimism. That's not positive thinking,
Speaker:unless you're down in negative,
Speaker:because if you're up in a fantasy and you got an infatuation,
Speaker:you need negative thinking to get you back into the balance.
Speaker:I'm interested in objective thinking and seeing things on the way.
Speaker:And that means if you infatuate,
Speaker:you get to see the downsides to extract meaning out of it.
Speaker:If you're on the resentment side,
Speaker:you extract the upsides to get the meaning out of it.
Speaker:So I'm a firm believer in asking the quality questions to make you fully
Speaker:conscious, instead of wandering around,
Speaker:living in conscious and unconscious states.
Speaker:Because if you're labeling something abusive,
Speaker:you're unconscious of the benefits and you're choosing to hold on and run the
Speaker:story about how it's done this to you,
Speaker:and it did this to you and you're blaming,
Speaker:and then you'll be looking for some outside solution to yourself,
Speaker:some savior out there to rescue you. That's the height of the animal,
Speaker:not the, not the height of the human angelic state. So no,
Speaker:it's not that what's out there that does things. You're not abused.
Speaker:You got an experience. And by the way, whatever you're attracting in your life,
Speaker:you're addicted to it's opposite,
Speaker:that's why you're labeling it as something abusive anyway,
Speaker:you're not going to comprehend that until you come to Breakthrough probably,
Speaker:but if you come to Breakthrough I can prove that to you and show that to you,
Speaker:I've done it and I've had skeptics of all different sorts and psychiatrists and
Speaker:psychologists at first, not comprehend that, but when they see it live,
Speaker:they go 'By God,
Speaker:he's onto something here.' We have amazing resilience and adaptability and
Speaker:we can use whatever happens in our life, no matter what it is.
Speaker:And sometimes the people who've been most down and out with the most outrageous
Speaker:stuff are the people that go the most powerful achievements in life.
Speaker:I was told I would never read, write or communicate, never amount to anything,
Speaker:never go very far in life when I was a child. I am grateful for that today.
Speaker:The purpose is right there in their life. If you look very carefully,
Speaker:your life demonstrates it. Every single day,
Speaker:you spontaneously do actions and whatever those things that you spontaneously do
Speaker:that you don't need to be reminded to do,
Speaker:you don't need any extrinsic motivation to do, that's the pathway.
Speaker:People sometimes compare themselves to others, they beat themselves up,
Speaker:I'm going to share a story. This is a classical story.
Speaker:I'm having a lady in
Speaker:London who came to the Breakthrough Experience seven years ago maybe.
Speaker:And she said, 'Dr. Demartini I just don't know what my purpose is.
Speaker:I don't know what my mission is. I just don't know.
Speaker:I'm lost.' I said, 'Stop, stop lying to yourself.
Speaker:Stop lying to yourself.
Speaker:Stop giving your power away with statements that are
Speaker:was shocked by that. I said,
Speaker:'What do you do every single day that nobody has to remind you to do that you
Speaker:spontaneously do that you love to do?'
Speaker:'I don't have anything like that.' I said, 'Stop and answer my question.
Speaker:I didn't ask if you didn't. I asked you to answer my question, be accountable.
Speaker:You're not going to master your life running stories and coming up with excuses
Speaker:and dodging accountable actions. So let's ask that question again.
Speaker:What do you do every single day that you're inspired by that you spontaneously
Speaker:do that nobody has to remind you to do that you love doing?'
Speaker:And she finally looked, instead of running the story that she didn't,
Speaker:'Okay. Well,
Speaker:I spend my day with my children.' I said, 'Do you love that?' She says,
Speaker:'I definitely do.' 'Do you do it spontaneously every day?
Speaker:You don't have to be reminded to do it? Does anybody have to call you and say,
Speaker:go spend time with your children?' 'No.'
Speaker:'Are you inspired to do it?' 'Yes.
Speaker:I'm inspired watching them grow.' And she got a little welled up inside. I said,
Speaker:'You love doing that, don't you?' She goes,
Speaker:'Yes.' 'Your highest value reveals that.
Speaker:But what's happening is you're comparing yourself to somebody else.
Speaker:And you're comparing yourself to some other woman.'
Speaker:And she's kind of looking. And I said,
Speaker:'You're thinking that that's not enough.' She goes, 'You're right.
Speaker:I should be having a job, a career path.
Speaker:I should be doing something more socially impactful.' I said,
Speaker:'Did you hear the 'shoulds'? Anytime you hear 'should', 'ought to',
Speaker:'supposed to's', 'got to's', 'have to', must, need to, from the outside world,
Speaker:those are injected values by outer authorities, traditions, and conventions,
Speaker:that extrinsically sourced that you are comparing your life to,
Speaker:that you think you 'should' be doing.
Speaker:And that's clouding the clarity of what your calling is,
Speaker:that you know what your life spontaneously does.'
Speaker:I said,
Speaker:'The lady there that's dedicated to business that you're comparing yourself to
Speaker:that has children.
Speaker:She's probably delegating things and hiring people to
Speaker:her business.' She's well,
Speaker:'She does.' 'And the other lady is probably doing the same thing but she's
Speaker:focused on her social life.' She's well,
Speaker:'She does.' But I can't seem to get a business off the ground.
Speaker:And no matter what I do,
Speaker:I just keep going back and spending time with my children cause they always have
Speaker:something that I need to do.' I said 'That's because you have a high value
Speaker:there. Your mission is that. Rose Kennedy from the Kennedy family,
Speaker:her mission was 'I dedicate my life to raising a family of world leaders.'
Speaker:And she first said,
Speaker:'Well is that good enough to be dedicated to family?' I said,
Speaker:'There are seven areas of life, spiritual, mental career, financial family,
Speaker:social, physical, all of them are equally valuable in the planet.
Speaker:And if yours right now at this stage of your life is called to deal and
Speaker:dedicate to a family, then by God, that's your path. That's your mission.
Speaker:Quit trying to compare yourself to others,
Speaker:compare your daily actions to your own mission.' I said, 'You're a mother.
Speaker:You're dedicated to your children,
Speaker:honor that and quit being a cat expecting to swim like a fish.' And she cried
Speaker:right there on the spot. And she ran up to me and gave me a hug.
Speaker:And she looked up at me and she said, 'That's all I've ever really, really,
Speaker:really wanted to do.' I said,
Speaker:'Well then honor it and quit trying to be somebody you're not.
Speaker:It's torture.' She got it. I said,
Speaker:'Now go write that down and write down the dream you honestly have that your
Speaker:life is demonstrating.' Your life demonstrates your purpose in life.
Speaker:But we do is we get so clouded by comparing ourselves to other people
Speaker:and futilely trying to get other people to live in our values or trying to get
Speaker:us to live in somebody else's values. And we disempower ourselves by doing that.
Speaker:And then we create more voids that confuse us. Instead of look at what's real.
Speaker:Look at what you fill your space with every day.
Speaker:Look at what you spend your time on every day.
Speaker:Look at what energizes you every day. Look at what you spend your money on.
Speaker:Look at what you're organized in, where you're most disciplined, spontaneously.
Speaker:What is it you think about, visualize,
Speaker:affirm every day about how you want your life that shows evidence of coming
Speaker:true. Look at what you want to converse with other people about,
Speaker:talk about most. Look at what inspires you and brings tears to your eyes.
Speaker:Look at what it is that you actually have as a goal that's coming true.
Speaker:And look at what you can't wait to get up and learn.
Speaker:And that will tell you what your mission is,
Speaker:because a mission is not something extrinsically motivated.
Speaker:A mission is calling from within.
Speaker:In the Breakthrough Experience I'm interested in helping people get that.
Speaker:Cause you do not require motivation anymore.
Speaker:I don't need motivation in my life to do what I'm doing.
Speaker:I've been doing it 47 going on 48 years. And I love it.
Speaker:And there's absolutely no reason why you can't prioritize your life,
Speaker:delegate lower priority things and get inspired,
Speaker:where you can't wait to get up in the morning and do what you're here to do.
Speaker:And a mission is there, it's inside every one of us,
Speaker:and people come up every week in the Breakthrough Experience trying to pretend
Speaker:they don't know what it is, and they cloud it. And I guarantee you,
Speaker:I am certain I've been doing this so long for 42 years I've been working with
Speaker:values and mission statements, I am certain,
Speaker:that that is because of comparisons.
Speaker:And as long as you put people on pedestals or pits, you'll be clouded,
Speaker:you'll be clouded and unclear about your mission.
Speaker:But your mission is sitting there yearning to express itself, spontaneously,
Speaker:waiting for you to get your facades and personas out of the way,
Speaker:the real essential being that you are.
Speaker:And the magnificence who that is far greater than any
Speaker:on yourself. You got to give yourself permission to shine there,
Speaker:cause that's the enlightened you,
Speaker:and not shroud and shrink and gravitate into conformity.
Speaker:Trying to please other people, not by service, but by subordination.
Speaker:And live by duty you'll shrink.
Speaker:If you live by design with foresight in your highest values,
Speaker:you'll be a leader and you'll be inspired by your life.
Speaker:And you won't have Bronnie Wares five major regrets at the end of your life,
Speaker:which most people do. There's no reason to regret your life.
Speaker:Everything is on the way,
Speaker:and you've never made a mistake unless you compare your actions to some frigging
Speaker:other people's values that you've put on a pedestal.
Speaker:And no other other people are making mistakes either,
Speaker:unless you project your values onto them,
Speaker:they're living according to their values, but we aren't honoring them.
Speaker:Honor the people's values and let them live their values and honor your own and
Speaker:watch the difference in your life. It makes a huge difference.
Speaker:In Breakthrough I'm training people how to do that. It's freedom.
Speaker:It's a freedom to be loved for who you are.
Speaker:How you going to love you for who you are if you're exaggerating yourself with
Speaker:pride and minimizing yourself with shame,
Speaker:putting people on pedestals and minimizing yourself,
Speaker:putting people in pits and exaggerating yourself,
Speaker:and you're never allowing to be yourself.
Speaker:The real you is the center of those two. It's not proud. It's not shamed.
Speaker:It's filled with love and filled with inspiration.
Speaker:And it's filled with enthusiasm, the divine within, if you will, entheos,
Speaker:which is equanimity, which is objectivity,
Speaker:which is something that is certainty, not volatile,
Speaker:and something that's present that's not past and future oriented.
Speaker:And so I'm a firm firm believer that you have that capacity to do that.
Speaker:Your perceptions are filtered by your values.
Speaker:You have a pulmonary nuclei in the thalamus that is a
Speaker:that selects with confirmation bias and disconfirmation bias,
Speaker:with false positives and false negatives.
Speaker:We select our information so we can extract out a
Speaker:of an infinite possible, data in the universe.
Speaker:The universe is potentially infinite, but we only get a small reality of it.
Speaker:All of our senses are very small smidgens of what's there.
Speaker:Our sight only sees the electromagnetic spectrum between 400 and 700 nanometers
Speaker:and the higher frequency, smaller wavelength, 400 and beyond,
Speaker:the ultra violet, x-ray and gamma, we don't see,
Speaker:and the infrared microwave and Longwave radio, we don't see,
Speaker:beyond the 700 nanometers. And so we live in a very small finite world.
Speaker:Our hearing is 30 to 30,000 cycles per second.
Speaker:Our tactile is limited by the grooves of our fingers and we,
Speaker:in the sensory receptors, we live in a very finite world. And we,
Speaker:in addition to that, our mind filters out things further.
Speaker:So we live in a very,
Speaker:very finite world and we have the capacity to take
Speaker:whatever received through our senses, receptors give us,
Speaker:and with past experience stored in our subconscious mind,
Speaker:we can take that with new associations,
Speaker:from various regions of the brain and other experiences,
Speaker:and we can take that and we can make a mountain out of it or a molehill.
Speaker:We can turn into heaven or hell.
Speaker:We can take any stimulus and turn into anything we want.
Speaker:I've met people that I can have have them take something they thought was
Speaker:terrible, and I could make them grateful for it.
Speaker:And I've had people that have actually thought they had something they were
Speaker:infatuated with it,
Speaker:and I can show them that I can become where they actually are disgusted by it.
Speaker:And I've proven, and I've won every time.
Speaker:Because I know how to ask the question to reveal the unconscious and to balance
Speaker:out those perceptions or polarize those perceptions.
Speaker:And believe it or not, you have the capacity to do that.
Speaker:So you can take a perception and stack new associations with it and
Speaker:make a heaven or hell out of anything. So you have that capacity.
Speaker:So blaming things on the outside is a disempowerment.
Speaker:Giving credit for something outside is a disempowerment.
Speaker:It's a denial of what you see out there inside you and denying of your capacity
Speaker:to realize you have the ability to take whatever that is and turn it into
Speaker:whatever you want. That's the power of your mind,
Speaker:power of your perceptual system.
Speaker:And that's the beauty of your executive function because it has the capacity to
Speaker:neutralize anything that comes your way.
Speaker:So changing your perception is asking questions.
Speaker:The quality of your life's based on the quality of the questions you ask,
Speaker:if you ask questions that make you the unconscious conscious,
Speaker:so if somebody happens and they think this terrible events occurring a day,
Speaker:a week, a month, a year or five years later, you find out that it was terrific,
Speaker:but why wait for the years to go by before you see the terrific,
Speaker:why not look right now and discover it?
Speaker:It doesn't take time and space with the aging process to have wisdom,
Speaker:all you got to do is ask the right question and become aware of it now.
Speaker:Every week in the Breakthrough Experience I show people how to do that.
Speaker:And they've taken so-called abuses and so-called bad things which
Speaker:they're labels,
Speaker:they're just labels because they've been unwilling to look at the other side.
Speaker:And I show them how to see the other side and they turn it around
Speaker:and all of a sudden that load that they've been carrying,
Speaker:that weight they've been carrying is gone.
Speaker:And they realize it had nothing to do with that event out there.
Speaker:And they've been blaming that event for years and running that story to their
Speaker:frigging psychotherapist, which is almost,
Speaker:it's insane that that is even still allowed in psychology,
Speaker:running dramatic stories and thinking that somehow going to make you empowered.
Speaker:All that's going to do is keep your amygdala running.
Speaker:Myelinate the lower areas of the brain,
Speaker:damage and weaken the forebrain and make you a victim,
Speaker:so they can keep you on your little cycle all your life. That's insanity.
Speaker:No, you take command of your perceptions and find out exactly how whatever's
Speaker:happened, how is it helping you get what's most important?
Speaker:That's a powerful question. And answer it. Don't sit there, 'I don't know.
Speaker:I can't find it.' and act like a little kid,
Speaker:be mature enough to find the answer, solve that problem. You can practice.
Speaker:Benson's law is a law that says, if you practice something consistently,
Speaker:you'll master it.
Speaker:If you practice your perceptions in a balanced way and master it,
Speaker:nothing outside you affects your life. If you master your prioritization,
Speaker:you're no longer in depreciating yourself. And the same thing on decisions,
Speaker:the decisions that you make, if you let the amygdala making those decisions,
Speaker:you're going to be impulsive and reactive,
Speaker:and you're going to be instinctual all the time.
Speaker:And you're going to let the world on the outside run you because you have a bias
Speaker:perception. But if you get objective and live by your highest values,
Speaker:you will govern your decisions with wisdom, prudence,
Speaker:and inspiration. And you will spontaneously act, not out of a decision,
Speaker:but out of a calling.
Speaker:And most people don't even know what the transcendental awakening is for people.
Speaker:In the Breakthrough Experience I teach people how to access that,
Speaker:so they're not sitting there running decisions from the outside.
Speaker:They're called from within.
Speaker:It's hard to comprehend that if you've never experienced it, but it's powerful.
Speaker:And the same thing, there's nobody telling you that you have to do something.
Speaker:And if they do, it's because you've chosen to not tell yourself.
Speaker:If you don't empower yourself intellectually, you'll be told what to do.
Speaker:If you don't empower yourself in business, you'll be told what to do there.
Speaker:If you don't empower to have intellectual, be told what to think.
Speaker:You don't empower yourself in finances, you'll be told what you're worth.
Speaker:You don't empower yourself in family,
Speaker:you'll be doing jobs around the house that you could be delegating.
Speaker:If you don't empower yourself in social, you'll be told propaganda,
Speaker:misinformation we see all over the politics.
Speaker:We don't empower ourselves in our health,
Speaker:we'll be told what drugs to take or organs to remove.
Speaker:If we don't empower ourselves spiritually we'll be told some outdated antiquated
Speaker:dogma that is basically there to control you to,
Speaker:so you can be a sheep instead of a shepherd. Man,
Speaker:you have the capacity to be empowered in all seven areas of life.
Speaker:That's what I'm interested in doing in Breakthrough, give you the power back,
Speaker:quit giving your power away. So you have the capacity to change your priorities.
Speaker:On a daily basis, you can fill your day with high priority actions,
Speaker:say no to things that aren't, there's nothing out there stopping it.
Speaker:There's no duty that you have to go by unless you are subordinating to some
Speaker:tradition, convention, mother and father. Bowen, the psychologist,
Speaker:show that most people are trapped in their little family dynamic.
Speaker:They're afraid of upsetting their mommy or daddy,
Speaker:and they're playing like a child all their life,
Speaker:instead of transcending their avoidance of pain,
Speaker:seeking of pleasure and their subordination to
Speaker:subordination to collective authorities.
Speaker:Very few people walk the path of transcendence.
Speaker:But we all have that capacity to do it.
Speaker:And our executive function is giving us permission to do it as we empower our
Speaker:life,
Speaker:but we're not going to do it sitting there subordinating to the outside world.
Speaker:You want to make a difference, you're not going to do it by fitting in.
Speaker:You're going to do it by standing out.
Speaker:And standing out means walking your own path, being your own trailblazer,
Speaker:your own unborrowed visionary.
Speaker:And that's only going to occur if you live by highest priority.
Speaker:And that's gonna occur when you follow Benson's law of practice every day,
Speaker:living by priority and practicing every day, asking,
Speaker:how specifically is whatever's happening, how's it getting me my dream?
Speaker:If you can practice and master that, what's going to be in your way? Nothing.
Speaker:You take everything and you spin it in a way where you win.
Speaker:And that to me is the only way to go through life,
Speaker:is to turn things into opportunities., Challenges are opportunities,
Speaker:stresses into blessings, scars into stars. You know,
Speaker:we can sit there and pity party, trauma drama,
Speaker:whole-home doldrum and have digital craniorectalitus syndrome,
Speaker:or we can get off our ass and go do something amazing.
Speaker:And even that ass is Awakened Spiritual Service,
Speaker:if we turn it into opportunity.
Speaker:And so I'm a firm believer that we have the capacity to do that.
Speaker:And I try my best to teach people those principles and tools on how to do that
Speaker:because there's a science to it. There's not, it's not rocket science,
Speaker:it's not something you can't do. I've seen six year olds learn how to do it,
Speaker:eight year olds, and 10 year olds. In fact,
Speaker:sometimes it's the older people that have been programmed for so many years and
Speaker:got caught in the dogma and tradition,
Speaker:that the ones that have the most difficult,
Speaker:cause they've got hidden agendas to be proud of their opinions, which trap them.
Speaker:And they're sitting there worrying about what people think instead of getting on
Speaker:with doing something amazing and going through the phases of first being
Speaker:challenged and ridiculed and violently opposed until they become self-evident as
Speaker:a transformer of the planet. So anyway,
Speaker:you have the capacity to change your perceptions, decisions, and actions,
Speaker:I'm certain about it.
Speaker:Illness is a result of, according to,
Speaker:going back all the way back into Hippocrates and before,
Speaker:if you go way back into the earliest stages of Greek philosophy,
Speaker:you'll see that illness was considered an imbalance of the humors. Well,
Speaker:today we have imbalanced chemistry or imbalanced physiology,
Speaker:and we call that illness.
Speaker:But illness is a feedback mechanism to guide us to authenticity.
Speaker:I'm a real believer that we need to ask questions,
Speaker:instead of seeing illness,
Speaker:as something caused by the outside and looking for a solution on the outside,
Speaker:we go around, and we're in the classical period right now, look at it out there,
Speaker:we've got people fearful of the corona. And they think, well,
Speaker:the Corona virus is the cause and this vaccine is going to be the solution.
Speaker:That's pretty crazy when you stop think about it.
Speaker:If 1% of the population is being affected by Corona,
Speaker:99% of the people are not being affected by it, that bad,
Speaker:they get some sick and they get over it and get around their business.
Speaker:So what that tells you is that your immune system and your physiology is more of
Speaker:a factor. The host is more of the factor than the friggin bug out there.
Speaker:And I'm not saying that it's not a veer, a little virus,
Speaker:but the reality is the viruses are doing their job.
Speaker:And they're basically designed to do that.
Speaker:If we can balance out our perceptions, we can balance out our physiology.
Speaker:Our sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous systems are epigenetically,
Speaker:altering not only our immune function,
Speaker:but our physiology and creating symptoms to give us feedback,
Speaker:to let us know that we're not authentic and not seeing objectively because we're
Speaker:not in our highest values, we're not living by our mission,
Speaker:which is where we have the greatest resilience, adaptability,
Speaker:and power to bring wellness. Wellness means wholeness.
Speaker:It means wellbeing. It doesn't, illness is when you're, you,
Speaker:'I' are separate from the universe or world around you and wellness is when it's
Speaker:'we', the universe and I are one.
Speaker:And I'm a firm believer that if we balance out our physiology,
Speaker:that's why in the Breakthrough Experience, over the years,
Speaker:thousands of people have had health recoveries or transformations in the
Speaker:program. Thousands. I mean, I've had, I've had doctors,
Speaker:one doctor sent 400 patients to the Breakthrough Experience.
Speaker:Another sent 360 or 75 psychiatric patients to the Breakthrough
Speaker:Experience to try to get a result. And you know what?
Speaker:We've transformed these people's lives, many of them.
Speaker:And I'm a firm believer that your physiology is trying to give you feedback.
Speaker:If you pig out and you wake up with a gut that's feeling yucky,
Speaker:you got gas and bloating and diarrhea and nasal congestion and a headache and
Speaker:you feel nauseous, well, you pigged out and all those symptoms aren't enemies,
Speaker:you don't go take a pill to get rid of those symptoms.
Speaker:You use those symptoms as a feedback to wake you up about your pigging out.
Speaker:And it shows you that you're not governed. And if you go back to priority,
Speaker:live by priority, get inspired, fill your day with something meaningful,
Speaker:you're not liking to pig out. And when you do your symptoms don't show up.
Speaker:Your symptoms are your friends, not your enemies,
Speaker:but they've been misinterpreted by a pharmaceutical run model.
Speaker:And you're looking for a magic pill instead of actually being accountable and
Speaker:the power within, that's the key. I'm 66 years now,
Speaker:let's say I'm 66 years almost, 47 plus years,
Speaker:almost 48 years without any drug, not an aspirin, not an antibiotics, nothing.
Speaker:There's no reason why that's an essential component of your existence.
Speaker:That's a symptom of not living by priority.
Speaker:And I'm a firm believer that you have the capacity to do something more with
Speaker:your life than to succumb to those disempowered
Speaker:belief systems. I'm not saying that there's not a place for healthcare.
Speaker:There is. Emergency cases, absolutely, but not for daily life.
Speaker:We're here to master our life. I'm here to help you with that.
Speaker:That's why I teach the Breakthrough Experience and all my programs.
Speaker:All 76 of my programs are designed for that,
Speaker:cause I want people to be able to give them their power back instead of blaming
Speaker:things on the outside, claim your power.
Speaker:There's absolutely no reason why you can't do something with your physiology.
Speaker:Learn about physiology. Study it.
Speaker:John Basmajian did studies on biofeedback and physiology,
Speaker:we have the capacity to do extraordinary things with our physiology,
Speaker:that Wim Hoff guy, he's going out there and doing amazing things with it.
Speaker:We need to listen to people like that that are willing to go out there and do
Speaker:something amazing with their physiology.
Speaker:Show us what we have the capacity to do.
Speaker:That's where you want to put your energy, into mastery of life.
Speaker:That's why I teach the Breakthrough Experience. That's
Speaker:Cause I want to disseminate information.
Speaker:That's been my mission since I was 17 disseminate information that I learned
Speaker:from my research that can lead to an inspired and magnificent life.
Speaker:We're here to have a awakened potential and awakened service on the planet.
Speaker:So yeah, I'm starting to warm up I think.
Speaker:Well, if you live by your highest values, your self worth goes up.
Speaker:If you live by lower values, your self-worth goes down.
Speaker:If you live by your highest values, you're more objective.
Speaker:And people that are more objective manage money more wisely,
Speaker:they think in advance of the repercussions of immediate gratification and
Speaker:consumerism that buying depreciable's does to economics.
Speaker:You're not going to be financially independent.
Speaker:I set out to be financial dependent at age 28. I did it. I accomplished it.
Speaker:I got more passive income now than I do even actively work earning.
Speaker:And I'm absolutely certain that that's doable.
Speaker:And the only reason is because I made a decision at age 27, 28,
Speaker:that I was going to buy assets.
Speaker:And I was going to put money into something that gave
Speaker:back in my pocket so I didn't have to be a slave to money and I didn't have to,
Speaker:I could be its master.
Speaker:And so as long as you buy things that go down in value that are consumables,
Speaker:that's the amygdala.
Speaker:See the consumables is you eating prey,
Speaker:you consuming. And that's the amygdala. And the amygdala is an impulse system.
Speaker:And it's trying to avoid the challenge, its trying to avoid criticism.
Speaker:And so it wants to buy things to look good in front of other people that you're
Speaker:conforming to,
Speaker:that you don't really give a shit about and they don't give a care about you.
Speaker:And that's Spiritual Harmonizing Intelligent Truth, that word.
Speaker:And so what's interesting is when you're in your executive center and you're
Speaker:living by priority and you're objective,
Speaker:now you're going to think things through and stop and reflect before you act.
Speaker:You're not going to be impulsive and instinctual.
Speaker:See most people go and they buy, they get a credit card,
Speaker:which is the stupidest thing you'll ever do,
Speaker:and get a credit card and go buy something,
Speaker:and then you have the pleasure of the purchase you think, right?
Speaker:Cause it's anabolic, consumer, prey, food. And then over here,
Speaker:weeks later, they have the pain, predator, bills.
Speaker:And you separate those inseparables. They're actually simultaneously going on,
Speaker:but you didn't pay it the moment you did it because that would make you a little
Speaker:bit more disciplined. You waited, you had a delayed gratification,
Speaker:you got the immediate gratification, you got a delayed pain.
Speaker:And so you don't associate the two.
Speaker:And what you do is you allow this with interest to compound,
Speaker:to make pain out of your pleasure. No,
Speaker:what's wise is to actually buy assets and let immediate gratification toss
Speaker:and go into long-term vision where it pays and then allow yourself to not raise
Speaker:your lifestyle until you raise your savings and your taxes equally amounts,
Speaker:and earn the right to a magnificent lifestyle that
Speaker:inflation over time.
Speaker:And this only occurs if you value wealth building, and if you don't value it,
Speaker:it's not going to happen. And it's common sense, but most people don't do it.
Speaker:They're interested in, worrying about fitting in,
Speaker:buying something they don't need, filling up a closet, stop and think about it.
Speaker:If you take all your closet space,
Speaker:you take your garage and you take all the space that's filled up with stuff that
Speaker:depreciates, you'll find out that most of your life is a depreciating life.
Speaker:It's shocking to face this. 24,
Speaker:25% of your house is a car garage, that fills up with junk,
Speaker:that gets stuck,
Speaker:that you store there and you're paying a quarter of your mortgage on it.
Speaker:It's shocking to face this. And then you buy a car that's a depreciating thing.
Speaker:You buy four or five cars and all this is depreciating systems.
Speaker:In the future that's going to be gone.
Speaker:You're going to end up with an automatic Uber system coming and picking you up.
Speaker:You'll own stock in it and get paid to travel. That's way more efficient.
Speaker:But people who don't value themselves and don't value what wealth means.
Speaker:Wealth means wellbeing. If you don't master money,
Speaker:you're not going to have wellbeing.
Speaker:You're gonna be living in stress all the time. And it's the mastery of that.
Speaker:And so by living by your highest values and mastering the mind and mastering
Speaker:governance by those priorities,
Speaker:you'll start to buy assets and let money work for you.
Speaker:You'll be a slave to money if you buy liabilities and depreciable consumables,
Speaker:and you'll be a master if you buy assets and after a while,
Speaker:the patience of long-term vision by living by your highest priorities pays off.
Speaker:And all of a sudden your lifestyle can go up every single year because your
Speaker:assets are growing faster than inflation and faster than what you're consuming.
Speaker:And in the process of doing that, you've now mastered life.
Speaker:You'd be surprised how many even celebrities, they
Speaker:are bankrupt today, because they didn't learn that lesson.
Speaker:It doesn't matter how much you make.
Speaker:And it matters how you manage what you make and your hierarchy values dictate
Speaker:that. And it doesn't matter,
Speaker:you know how much money you've made in your entire life.
Speaker:It's what you've actually kept as a net worth.
Speaker:And that tells you your own self image. So if you're not valuing yourself,
Speaker:don't expect the world to, and if you're not investing in yourself,
Speaker:don't expect the world to. And one of the greatest investments, I'm certain,
Speaker:is education. That's the big leveling, a playing field leveler.
Speaker:That's the thing that allows you to have the greatest advantage.
Speaker:The people who do it the least need it the most,
Speaker:the people that do it the most need it the least.
Speaker:So that's why I'm specializing in education because it's
Speaker:all seven areas of my life and to help me help other people do the same.
Speaker:That's why I teach the Breakthrough Experience because it's a mind blowing
Speaker:educational experience to help people empower those areas. So yes,
Speaker:money and mastery of mind are inseparable because
Speaker:people who can't master their emotions will never manage money.
Speaker:It's exactly what Buffet's trying to tell people.