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There's no reason to regret your life. Everything is on the way,

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and you've never made a mistake unless you compare your actions to some frigging

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other people's values that you've put on a pedestal.

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Our purpose is the most efficient and effective pathway to fulfill the greatest

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amount of voids with the greatest amount of value.

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And our voids are derived from our past judgments,

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and every experience we have, we've judged.

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We're the ones that make it into something. We make a

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as Milton said. You see,

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I don't, in Breakthrough Experience when people come to me,

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and I get it every week,

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every week I teach the Breakthrough I get people coming in there labeling things

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abusive. I've yet to see abuse on the planet.

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I know that sounds very odd to you.

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I've seen events in the planet. Abused is a broad, vague,

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general label of something we've seen the downsides to,

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we didn't see the upside to,

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we didn't see our reasons for having it in our life,

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we didn't find the causal relationship and we go around and we call it abuse

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because we haven't been accountable enough to take the time to ask the

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questions, How specifically is this actually helping me in my life,

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serving me in my life and helping me be unique and express something amazing?

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If we ask that question and ask that and be accountable to answer the question

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and quit running our story and dramatizing the illusion by some

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psychotherapy babble, and go in there and ask, how has this helped me?

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You know, I can compete with anybody on the stuff that's happened in my life.

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I've been shot at, I've been beaten, I've been attacked,

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I've had all kinds of things in my life.

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Every one of those things have helped me be who I am today and I'm grateful for

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it.

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There's nothing your body can experience unless you want to play victim in your

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life, which is a disempowerment. And by the way, no,

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one's going to continue to do that unless they perceive more advantage than

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disadvantage out of doing it. They're either getting sympathy out of it,

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they're getting points out of it, they're avoiding accountabilities.

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There's some internal benefit out of why they're playing those games.

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And in Breakthrough I don't let them get away with it. I hold them accountable,

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I have them go and find the blessings and I've seen thousands of people who

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thought they were abused and turn what they experienced into opportunity and

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thanks.

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And gone back and actually freed themselves of that drama that they've

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self-imposed because they chose to see only the downside of that event.

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The same thing if somebody sees only the upside and they think it's terrific,

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they get caught in a fantasy.

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I'm not here for fantasy promotion or nightmare avoidance.

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I'm here to help you realize that none of those are what matter,

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it's your perception, decisions, and actions about them. So I don't allow,

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in my Demartini Method, that's not even allowed that terminology of abuse,

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because what that does is programs the brain that it's a causal outside you

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instead of your own cause.

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No therapy's ever going to be complete until cause equals effect in space-time.

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Until you realize you're accountable in your own reality. Now, some people say,

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'Well, that's not the case.' Well remember what Epictetus said,

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at first on the journey of self-development you start

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and you're disempowered. Then you go around and blame yourself,

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which is another delusion. And then you realize,

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you look again and you balance out the equation you realize there's nothing to

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blame. Everything was on the way.

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And that's not optimism. That's not positive thinking,

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unless you're down in negative,

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because if you're up in a fantasy and you got an infatuation,

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you need negative thinking to get you back into the balance.

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I'm interested in objective thinking and seeing things on the way.

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And that means if you infatuate,

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you get to see the downsides to extract meaning out of it.

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If you're on the resentment side,

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you extract the upsides to get the meaning out of it.

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So I'm a firm believer in asking the quality questions to make you fully

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conscious, instead of wandering around,

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living in conscious and unconscious states.

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Because if you're labeling something abusive,

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you're unconscious of the benefits and you're choosing to hold on and run the

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story about how it's done this to you,

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and it did this to you and you're blaming,

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and then you'll be looking for some outside solution to yourself,

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some savior out there to rescue you. That's the height of the animal,

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not the, not the height of the human angelic state. So no,

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it's not that what's out there that does things. You're not abused.

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You got an experience. And by the way, whatever you're attracting in your life,

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you're addicted to it's opposite,

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that's why you're labeling it as something abusive anyway,

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you're not going to comprehend that until you come to Breakthrough probably,

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but if you come to Breakthrough I can prove that to you and show that to you,

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I've done it and I've had skeptics of all different sorts and psychiatrists and

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psychologists at first, not comprehend that, but when they see it live,

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they go 'By God,

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he's onto something here.' We have amazing resilience and adaptability and

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we can use whatever happens in our life, no matter what it is.

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And sometimes the people who've been most down and out with the most outrageous

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stuff are the people that go the most powerful achievements in life.

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I was told I would never read, write or communicate, never amount to anything,

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never go very far in life when I was a child. I am grateful for that today.

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The purpose is right there in their life. If you look very carefully,

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your life demonstrates it. Every single day,

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you spontaneously do actions and whatever those things that you spontaneously do

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that you don't need to be reminded to do,

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you don't need any extrinsic motivation to do, that's the pathway.

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People sometimes compare themselves to others, they beat themselves up,

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I'm going to share a story. This is a classical story.

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I'm having a lady in

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London who came to the Breakthrough Experience seven years ago maybe.

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And she said, 'Dr. Demartini I just don't know what my purpose is.

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I don't know what my mission is. I just don't know.

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I'm lost.' I said, 'Stop, stop lying to yourself.

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Stop lying to yourself.

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Stop giving your power away with statements that are

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was shocked by that. I said,

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'What do you do every single day that nobody has to remind you to do that you

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spontaneously do that you love to do?'

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'I don't have anything like that.' I said, 'Stop and answer my question.

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I didn't ask if you didn't. I asked you to answer my question, be accountable.

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You're not going to master your life running stories and coming up with excuses

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and dodging accountable actions. So let's ask that question again.

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What do you do every single day that you're inspired by that you spontaneously

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do that nobody has to remind you to do that you love doing?'

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And she finally looked, instead of running the story that she didn't,

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'Okay. Well,

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I spend my day with my children.' I said, 'Do you love that?' She says,

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'I definitely do.' 'Do you do it spontaneously every day?

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You don't have to be reminded to do it? Does anybody have to call you and say,

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go spend time with your children?' 'No.'

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'Are you inspired to do it?' 'Yes.

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I'm inspired watching them grow.' And she got a little welled up inside. I said,

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'You love doing that, don't you?' She goes,

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'Yes.' 'Your highest value reveals that.

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But what's happening is you're comparing yourself to somebody else.

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And you're comparing yourself to some other woman.'

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And she's kind of looking. And I said,

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'You're thinking that that's not enough.' She goes, 'You're right.

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I should be having a job, a career path.

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I should be doing something more socially impactful.' I said,

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'Did you hear the 'shoulds'? Anytime you hear 'should', 'ought to',

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'supposed to's', 'got to's', 'have to', must, need to, from the outside world,

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those are injected values by outer authorities, traditions, and conventions,

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that extrinsically sourced that you are comparing your life to,

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that you think you 'should' be doing.

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And that's clouding the clarity of what your calling is,

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that you know what your life spontaneously does.'

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I said,

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'The lady there that's dedicated to business that you're comparing yourself to

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that has children.

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She's probably delegating things and hiring people to

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her business.' She's well,

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'She does.' 'And the other lady is probably doing the same thing but she's

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focused on her social life.' She's well,

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'She does.' But I can't seem to get a business off the ground.

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And no matter what I do,

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I just keep going back and spending time with my children cause they always have

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something that I need to do.' I said 'That's because you have a high value

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there. Your mission is that. Rose Kennedy from the Kennedy family,

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her mission was 'I dedicate my life to raising a family of world leaders.'

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And she first said,

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'Well is that good enough to be dedicated to family?' I said,

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'There are seven areas of life, spiritual, mental career, financial family,

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social, physical, all of them are equally valuable in the planet.

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And if yours right now at this stage of your life is called to deal and

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dedicate to a family, then by God, that's your path. That's your mission.

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Quit trying to compare yourself to others,

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compare your daily actions to your own mission.' I said, 'You're a mother.

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You're dedicated to your children,

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honor that and quit being a cat expecting to swim like a fish.' And she cried

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right there on the spot. And she ran up to me and gave me a hug.

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And she looked up at me and she said, 'That's all I've ever really, really,

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really wanted to do.' I said,

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'Well then honor it and quit trying to be somebody you're not.

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It's torture.' She got it. I said,

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'Now go write that down and write down the dream you honestly have that your

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life is demonstrating.' Your life demonstrates your purpose in life.

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But we do is we get so clouded by comparing ourselves to other people

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and futilely trying to get other people to live in our values or trying to get

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us to live in somebody else's values. And we disempower ourselves by doing that.

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And then we create more voids that confuse us. Instead of look at what's real.

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Look at what you fill your space with every day.

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Look at what you spend your time on every day.

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Look at what energizes you every day. Look at what you spend your money on.

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Look at what you're organized in, where you're most disciplined, spontaneously.

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What is it you think about, visualize,

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affirm every day about how you want your life that shows evidence of coming

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true. Look at what you want to converse with other people about,

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talk about most. Look at what inspires you and brings tears to your eyes.

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Look at what it is that you actually have as a goal that's coming true.

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And look at what you can't wait to get up and learn.

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And that will tell you what your mission is,

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because a mission is not something extrinsically motivated.

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A mission is calling from within.

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In the Breakthrough Experience I'm interested in helping people get that.

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Cause you do not require motivation anymore.

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I don't need motivation in my life to do what I'm doing.

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I've been doing it 47 going on 48 years. And I love it.

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And there's absolutely no reason why you can't prioritize your life,

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delegate lower priority things and get inspired,

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where you can't wait to get up in the morning and do what you're here to do.

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And a mission is there, it's inside every one of us,

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and people come up every week in the Breakthrough Experience trying to pretend

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they don't know what it is, and they cloud it. And I guarantee you,

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I am certain I've been doing this so long for 42 years I've been working with

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values and mission statements, I am certain,

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that that is because of comparisons.

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And as long as you put people on pedestals or pits, you'll be clouded,

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you'll be clouded and unclear about your mission.

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But your mission is sitting there yearning to express itself, spontaneously,

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waiting for you to get your facades and personas out of the way,

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the real essential being that you are.

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And the magnificence who that is far greater than any

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on yourself. You got to give yourself permission to shine there,

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cause that's the enlightened you,

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and not shroud and shrink and gravitate into conformity.

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Trying to please other people, not by service, but by subordination.

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And live by duty you'll shrink.

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If you live by design with foresight in your highest values,

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you'll be a leader and you'll be inspired by your life.

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And you won't have Bronnie Wares five major regrets at the end of your life,

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which most people do. There's no reason to regret your life.

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Everything is on the way,

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and you've never made a mistake unless you compare your actions to some frigging

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other people's values that you've put on a pedestal.

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And no other other people are making mistakes either,

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unless you project your values onto them,

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they're living according to their values, but we aren't honoring them.

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Honor the people's values and let them live their values and honor your own and

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watch the difference in your life. It makes a huge difference.

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In Breakthrough I'm training people how to do that. It's freedom.

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It's a freedom to be loved for who you are.

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How you going to love you for who you are if you're exaggerating yourself with

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pride and minimizing yourself with shame,

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putting people on pedestals and minimizing yourself,

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putting people in pits and exaggerating yourself,

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and you're never allowing to be yourself.

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The real you is the center of those two. It's not proud. It's not shamed.

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It's filled with love and filled with inspiration.

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And it's filled with enthusiasm, the divine within, if you will, entheos,

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which is equanimity, which is objectivity,

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which is something that is certainty, not volatile,

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and something that's present that's not past and future oriented.

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And so I'm a firm firm believer that you have that capacity to do that.

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Your perceptions are filtered by your values.

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You have a pulmonary nuclei in the thalamus that is a

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that selects with confirmation bias and disconfirmation bias,

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with false positives and false negatives.

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We select our information so we can extract out a

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of an infinite possible, data in the universe.

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The universe is potentially infinite, but we only get a small reality of it.

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All of our senses are very small smidgens of what's there.

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Our sight only sees the electromagnetic spectrum between 400 and 700 nanometers

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and the higher frequency, smaller wavelength, 400 and beyond,

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the ultra violet, x-ray and gamma, we don't see,

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and the infrared microwave and Longwave radio, we don't see,

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beyond the 700 nanometers. And so we live in a very small finite world.

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Our hearing is 30 to 30,000 cycles per second.

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Our tactile is limited by the grooves of our fingers and we,

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in the sensory receptors, we live in a very finite world. And we,

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in addition to that, our mind filters out things further.

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So we live in a very,

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very finite world and we have the capacity to take

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whatever received through our senses, receptors give us,

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and with past experience stored in our subconscious mind,

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we can take that with new associations,

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from various regions of the brain and other experiences,

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and we can take that and we can make a mountain out of it or a molehill.

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We can turn into heaven or hell.

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We can take any stimulus and turn into anything we want.

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I've met people that I can have have them take something they thought was

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terrible, and I could make them grateful for it.

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And I've had people that have actually thought they had something they were

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infatuated with it,

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and I can show them that I can become where they actually are disgusted by it.

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And I've proven, and I've won every time.

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Because I know how to ask the question to reveal the unconscious and to balance

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out those perceptions or polarize those perceptions.

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And believe it or not, you have the capacity to do that.

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So you can take a perception and stack new associations with it and

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make a heaven or hell out of anything. So you have that capacity.

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So blaming things on the outside is a disempowerment.

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Giving credit for something outside is a disempowerment.

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It's a denial of what you see out there inside you and denying of your capacity

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to realize you have the ability to take whatever that is and turn it into

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whatever you want. That's the power of your mind,

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power of your perceptual system.

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And that's the beauty of your executive function because it has the capacity to

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neutralize anything that comes your way.

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So changing your perception is asking questions.

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The quality of your life's based on the quality of the questions you ask,

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if you ask questions that make you the unconscious conscious,

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so if somebody happens and they think this terrible events occurring a day,

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a week, a month, a year or five years later, you find out that it was terrific,

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but why wait for the years to go by before you see the terrific,

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why not look right now and discover it?

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It doesn't take time and space with the aging process to have wisdom,

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all you got to do is ask the right question and become aware of it now.

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Every week in the Breakthrough Experience I show people how to do that.

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And they've taken so-called abuses and so-called bad things which

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they're labels,

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they're just labels because they've been unwilling to look at the other side.

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And I show them how to see the other side and they turn it around

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and all of a sudden that load that they've been carrying,

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that weight they've been carrying is gone.

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And they realize it had nothing to do with that event out there.

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And they've been blaming that event for years and running that story to their

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frigging psychotherapist, which is almost,

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it's insane that that is even still allowed in psychology,

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running dramatic stories and thinking that somehow going to make you empowered.

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All that's going to do is keep your amygdala running.

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Myelinate the lower areas of the brain,

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damage and weaken the forebrain and make you a victim,

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so they can keep you on your little cycle all your life. That's insanity.

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No, you take command of your perceptions and find out exactly how whatever's

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happened, how is it helping you get what's most important?

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That's a powerful question. And answer it. Don't sit there, 'I don't know.

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I can't find it.' and act like a little kid,

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be mature enough to find the answer, solve that problem. You can practice.

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Benson's law is a law that says, if you practice something consistently,

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you'll master it.

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If you practice your perceptions in a balanced way and master it,

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nothing outside you affects your life. If you master your prioritization,

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you're no longer in depreciating yourself. And the same thing on decisions,

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the decisions that you make, if you let the amygdala making those decisions,

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you're going to be impulsive and reactive,

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and you're going to be instinctual all the time.

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And you're going to let the world on the outside run you because you have a bias

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perception. But if you get objective and live by your highest values,

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you will govern your decisions with wisdom, prudence,

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and inspiration. And you will spontaneously act, not out of a decision,

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but out of a calling.

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And most people don't even know what the transcendental awakening is for people.

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In the Breakthrough Experience I teach people how to access that,

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so they're not sitting there running decisions from the outside.

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They're called from within.

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It's hard to comprehend that if you've never experienced it, but it's powerful.

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And the same thing, there's nobody telling you that you have to do something.

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And if they do, it's because you've chosen to not tell yourself.

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If you don't empower yourself intellectually, you'll be told what to do.

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If you don't empower yourself in business, you'll be told what to do there.

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If you don't empower to have intellectual, be told what to think.

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You don't empower yourself in finances, you'll be told what you're worth.

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You don't empower yourself in family,

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you'll be doing jobs around the house that you could be delegating.

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If you don't empower yourself in social, you'll be told propaganda,

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misinformation we see all over the politics.

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We don't empower ourselves in our health,

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we'll be told what drugs to take or organs to remove.

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If we don't empower ourselves spiritually we'll be told some outdated antiquated

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dogma that is basically there to control you to,

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so you can be a sheep instead of a shepherd. Man,

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you have the capacity to be empowered in all seven areas of life.

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That's what I'm interested in doing in Breakthrough, give you the power back,

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quit giving your power away. So you have the capacity to change your priorities.

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On a daily basis, you can fill your day with high priority actions,

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say no to things that aren't, there's nothing out there stopping it.

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There's no duty that you have to go by unless you are subordinating to some

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tradition, convention, mother and father. Bowen, the psychologist,

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show that most people are trapped in their little family dynamic.

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They're afraid of upsetting their mommy or daddy,

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and they're playing like a child all their life,

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instead of transcending their avoidance of pain,

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seeking of pleasure and their subordination to

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subordination to collective authorities.

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Very few people walk the path of transcendence.

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But we all have that capacity to do it.

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And our executive function is giving us permission to do it as we empower our

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life,

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but we're not going to do it sitting there subordinating to the outside world.

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You want to make a difference, you're not going to do it by fitting in.

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You're going to do it by standing out.

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And standing out means walking your own path, being your own trailblazer,

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your own unborrowed visionary.

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And that's only going to occur if you live by highest priority.

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And that's gonna occur when you follow Benson's law of practice every day,

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living by priority and practicing every day, asking,

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how specifically is whatever's happening, how's it getting me my dream?

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If you can practice and master that, what's going to be in your way? Nothing.

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You take everything and you spin it in a way where you win.

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And that to me is the only way to go through life,

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is to turn things into opportunities., Challenges are opportunities,

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stresses into blessings, scars into stars. You know,

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we can sit there and pity party, trauma drama,

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whole-home doldrum and have digital craniorectalitus syndrome,

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or we can get off our ass and go do something amazing.

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And even that ass is Awakened Spiritual Service,

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if we turn it into opportunity.

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And so I'm a firm believer that we have the capacity to do that.

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And I try my best to teach people those principles and tools on how to do that

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because there's a science to it. There's not, it's not rocket science,

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it's not something you can't do. I've seen six year olds learn how to do it,

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eight year olds, and 10 year olds. In fact,

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sometimes it's the older people that have been programmed for so many years and

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got caught in the dogma and tradition,

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that the ones that have the most difficult,

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cause they've got hidden agendas to be proud of their opinions, which trap them.

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And they're sitting there worrying about what people think instead of getting on

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with doing something amazing and going through the phases of first being

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challenged and ridiculed and violently opposed until they become self-evident as

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a transformer of the planet. So anyway,

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you have the capacity to change your perceptions, decisions, and actions,

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I'm certain about it.

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Illness is a result of, according to,

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going back all the way back into Hippocrates and before,

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if you go way back into the earliest stages of Greek philosophy,

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you'll see that illness was considered an imbalance of the humors. Well,

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today we have imbalanced chemistry or imbalanced physiology,

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and we call that illness.

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But illness is a feedback mechanism to guide us to authenticity.

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I'm a real believer that we need to ask questions,

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instead of seeing illness,

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as something caused by the outside and looking for a solution on the outside,

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we go around, and we're in the classical period right now, look at it out there,

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we've got people fearful of the corona. And they think, well,

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the Corona virus is the cause and this vaccine is going to be the solution.

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That's pretty crazy when you stop think about it.

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If 1% of the population is being affected by Corona,

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99% of the people are not being affected by it, that bad,

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they get some sick and they get over it and get around their business.

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So what that tells you is that your immune system and your physiology is more of

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a factor. The host is more of the factor than the friggin bug out there.

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And I'm not saying that it's not a veer, a little virus,

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but the reality is the viruses are doing their job.

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And they're basically designed to do that.

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If we can balance out our perceptions, we can balance out our physiology.

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Our sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous systems are epigenetically,

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altering not only our immune function,

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but our physiology and creating symptoms to give us feedback,

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to let us know that we're not authentic and not seeing objectively because we're

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not in our highest values, we're not living by our mission,

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which is where we have the greatest resilience, adaptability,

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and power to bring wellness. Wellness means wholeness.

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It means wellbeing. It doesn't, illness is when you're, you,

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'I' are separate from the universe or world around you and wellness is when it's

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'we', the universe and I are one.

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And I'm a firm believer that if we balance out our physiology,

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that's why in the Breakthrough Experience, over the years,

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thousands of people have had health recoveries or transformations in the

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program. Thousands. I mean, I've had, I've had doctors,

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one doctor sent 400 patients to the Breakthrough Experience.

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Another sent 360 or 75 psychiatric patients to the Breakthrough

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Experience to try to get a result. And you know what?

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We've transformed these people's lives, many of them.

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And I'm a firm believer that your physiology is trying to give you feedback.

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If you pig out and you wake up with a gut that's feeling yucky,

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you got gas and bloating and diarrhea and nasal congestion and a headache and

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you feel nauseous, well, you pigged out and all those symptoms aren't enemies,

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you don't go take a pill to get rid of those symptoms.

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You use those symptoms as a feedback to wake you up about your pigging out.

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And it shows you that you're not governed. And if you go back to priority,

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live by priority, get inspired, fill your day with something meaningful,

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you're not liking to pig out. And when you do your symptoms don't show up.

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Your symptoms are your friends, not your enemies,

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but they've been misinterpreted by a pharmaceutical run model.

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And you're looking for a magic pill instead of actually being accountable and

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the power within, that's the key. I'm 66 years now,

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let's say I'm 66 years almost, 47 plus years,

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almost 48 years without any drug, not an aspirin, not an antibiotics, nothing.

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There's no reason why that's an essential component of your existence.

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That's a symptom of not living by priority.

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And I'm a firm believer that you have the capacity to do something more with

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your life than to succumb to those disempowered

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belief systems. I'm not saying that there's not a place for healthcare.

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There is. Emergency cases, absolutely, but not for daily life.

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We're here to master our life. I'm here to help you with that.

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That's why I teach the Breakthrough Experience and all my programs.

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All 76 of my programs are designed for that,

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cause I want people to be able to give them their power back instead of blaming

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things on the outside, claim your power.

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There's absolutely no reason why you can't do something with your physiology.

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Learn about physiology. Study it.

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John Basmajian did studies on biofeedback and physiology,

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we have the capacity to do extraordinary things with our physiology,

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that Wim Hoff guy, he's going out there and doing amazing things with it.

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We need to listen to people like that that are willing to go out there and do

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something amazing with their physiology.

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Show us what we have the capacity to do.

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That's where you want to put your energy, into mastery of life.

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That's why I teach the Breakthrough Experience. That's

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Cause I want to disseminate information.

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That's been my mission since I was 17 disseminate information that I learned

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from my research that can lead to an inspired and magnificent life.

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We're here to have a awakened potential and awakened service on the planet.

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So yeah, I'm starting to warm up I think.

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Well, if you live by your highest values, your self worth goes up.

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If you live by lower values, your self-worth goes down.

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If you live by your highest values, you're more objective.

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And people that are more objective manage money more wisely,

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they think in advance of the repercussions of immediate gratification and

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consumerism that buying depreciable's does to economics.

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You're not going to be financially independent.

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I set out to be financial dependent at age 28. I did it. I accomplished it.

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I got more passive income now than I do even actively work earning.

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And I'm absolutely certain that that's doable.

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And the only reason is because I made a decision at age 27, 28,

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that I was going to buy assets.

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And I was going to put money into something that gave

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back in my pocket so I didn't have to be a slave to money and I didn't have to,

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I could be its master.

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And so as long as you buy things that go down in value that are consumables,

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that's the amygdala.

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See the consumables is you eating prey,

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you consuming. And that's the amygdala. And the amygdala is an impulse system.

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And it's trying to avoid the challenge, its trying to avoid criticism.

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And so it wants to buy things to look good in front of other people that you're

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conforming to,

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that you don't really give a shit about and they don't give a care about you.

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And that's Spiritual Harmonizing Intelligent Truth, that word.

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And so what's interesting is when you're in your executive center and you're

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living by priority and you're objective,

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now you're going to think things through and stop and reflect before you act.

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You're not going to be impulsive and instinctual.

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See most people go and they buy, they get a credit card,

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which is the stupidest thing you'll ever do,

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and get a credit card and go buy something,

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and then you have the pleasure of the purchase you think, right?

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Cause it's anabolic, consumer, prey, food. And then over here,

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weeks later, they have the pain, predator, bills.

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And you separate those inseparables. They're actually simultaneously going on,

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but you didn't pay it the moment you did it because that would make you a little

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bit more disciplined. You waited, you had a delayed gratification,

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you got the immediate gratification, you got a delayed pain.

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And so you don't associate the two.

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And what you do is you allow this with interest to compound,

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to make pain out of your pleasure. No,

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what's wise is to actually buy assets and let immediate gratification toss

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and go into long-term vision where it pays and then allow yourself to not raise

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your lifestyle until you raise your savings and your taxes equally amounts,

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and earn the right to a magnificent lifestyle that

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inflation over time.

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And this only occurs if you value wealth building, and if you don't value it,

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it's not going to happen. And it's common sense, but most people don't do it.

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They're interested in, worrying about fitting in,

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buying something they don't need, filling up a closet, stop and think about it.

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If you take all your closet space,

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you take your garage and you take all the space that's filled up with stuff that

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depreciates, you'll find out that most of your life is a depreciating life.

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It's shocking to face this. 24,

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25% of your house is a car garage, that fills up with junk,

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that gets stuck,

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that you store there and you're paying a quarter of your mortgage on it.

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It's shocking to face this. And then you buy a car that's a depreciating thing.

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You buy four or five cars and all this is depreciating systems.

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In the future that's going to be gone.

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You're going to end up with an automatic Uber system coming and picking you up.

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You'll own stock in it and get paid to travel. That's way more efficient.

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But people who don't value themselves and don't value what wealth means.

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Wealth means wellbeing. If you don't master money,

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you're not going to have wellbeing.

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You're gonna be living in stress all the time. And it's the mastery of that.

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And so by living by your highest values and mastering the mind and mastering

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governance by those priorities,

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you'll start to buy assets and let money work for you.

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You'll be a slave to money if you buy liabilities and depreciable consumables,

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and you'll be a master if you buy assets and after a while,

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the patience of long-term vision by living by your highest priorities pays off.

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And all of a sudden your lifestyle can go up every single year because your

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assets are growing faster than inflation and faster than what you're consuming.

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And in the process of doing that, you've now mastered life.

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You'd be surprised how many even celebrities, they

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are bankrupt today, because they didn't learn that lesson.

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It doesn't matter how much you make.

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And it matters how you manage what you make and your hierarchy values dictate

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that. And it doesn't matter,

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you know how much money you've made in your entire life.

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It's what you've actually kept as a net worth.

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And that tells you your own self image. So if you're not valuing yourself,

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don't expect the world to, and if you're not investing in yourself,

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don't expect the world to. And one of the greatest investments, I'm certain,

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is education. That's the big leveling, a playing field leveler.

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That's the thing that allows you to have the greatest advantage.

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The people who do it the least need it the most,

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the people that do it the most need it the least.

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So that's why I'm specializing in education because it's

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all seven areas of my life and to help me help other people do the same.

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That's why I teach the Breakthrough Experience because it's a mind blowing

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educational experience to help people empower those areas. So yes,

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money and mastery of mind are inseparable because

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people who can't master their emotions will never manage money.

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It's exactly what Buffet's trying to tell people.