This is Women Road warriors with Shelly Johnson and Kathy Tucaro.
Speaker AFrom the corporate office to the cab of a truck, they're here to inspire and empower women in all professions.
Speaker ASo gear down, sit back and enjoy.
Speaker BWelcome.
Speaker BWe're an award winning show dinner dedicated to empowering women in every profession through inspiring stories and expert insights.
Speaker BNo topics off limits on our show.
Speaker BWe power women on the road to success with expert and celebrity interviews and information you need.
Speaker BI'm Shelly.
Speaker CAnd I'm Kathy.
Speaker BToo often women run into roadblocks as they navigate their careers.
Speaker BThey can get frustrated when they transition into roles that don't completely align with their goals.
Speaker BThey, they experience career barriers and sometimes doubt themselves.
Speaker BThere are ways to overcome all of this and lead with confidence.
Speaker BVioleta Ringel is a fintech executive and career transformation coach who's passionate about women breaking through these barriers.
Speaker BShe's guided countless professionals in reinventing their careers, overcoming imposter syndrome and thriving in male dominated industries.
Speaker BShe's a highly sought after keynote speaker.
Speaker BShe helps women uncover the secrets of authentic leadership with her triple R framework.
Speaker BWe have Violetta on our show today and we're eager to learn more.
Speaker BWelcome Violeta.
Speaker BThank you for being with us.
Speaker DThank you.
Speaker DThat's quite an introduction.
Speaker DThank you.
Speaker DI really appreciate your words.
Speaker COh yes, welcome to the show.
Speaker DGreat.
Speaker BWe're looking forward to your insight, Violeta.
Speaker BAnd I'm thinking before we explore all of that, would you mind telling our listeners a bit about yourself and how you became such a dynamic coach?
Speaker DYes, absolutely.
Speaker DAnd I think all the different experiences that I've lived in life, it's what have driven me here and why I do this work for women.
Speaker DSo I like starting introducing myself as a single mother because that is a key aspect of who I am and why I do the things that I do.
Speaker DAnd I've been navigating the corporate life for now for almost, you know, more than 20 years in a male dominated world.
Speaker DRight.
Speaker DUsually the financial services environment and the last 11 years in the fintech space.
Speaker DAnd the reason why I started doing this coaching a couple of years ago is because I, I learned a lot of these things the hard way.
Speaker DHow to navigate transitions, how to elevate yourself, how to reinvent yourself in the corporate world.
Speaker DAnd after learning this through difficult ways, I decided to make it easier for other women out there because my mission is to make sure that more women remain in corporate, that they elevate themselves, that I put more women in positions of power.
Speaker DAnd with more money, of course, because with money we get more power.
Speaker DSo that's me in a nutshell.
Speaker DI am from Mexico and I've been living in Canada in Toronto for the last nine years.
Speaker BExcellent.
Speaker BThat's a great city, by the way.
Speaker CNo, I'm Canadian too.
Speaker CYes, I'm working in Alberta right now.
Speaker DI was in Edmonton last week and it was so beautiful.
Speaker DThe weather was amazing.
Speaker DYeah, yeah, it was really nice.
Speaker CIt is.
Speaker CMy daughter lives in Calgary, so I fly in and out.
Speaker CSo love my fellow Canadians.
Speaker CLove my fellow U.S. citizens too, because I live in the U.S. by the way.
Speaker CActually, I just work here in Canada.
Speaker CI fly back and forth.
Speaker DI'm a gypsy.
Speaker BYou're all over the place, Kathy.
Speaker BSo, Violetta, what would you say are the biggest challenges women face today in moving up in their careers?
Speaker BI know things have evolved, but I'm wondering what is still a barrier?
Speaker DThere's many barriers, and I think one of the biggest ones is mindset.
Speaker DAnd things have evolved.
Speaker DI think definitely things are different than when I started my career 20 years ago.
Speaker DBut I think the mindset barrier is something that is very difficult to overcome because the rules that society impose on us and women in general tend to make us feel not ready for challenges and not ready for new things, not ready for risk taking.
Speaker DAnd that's where the imposter syndrome kicks in, right?
Speaker DThat.
Speaker DI do not like that term.
Speaker DThat implies that there's something wrong with us, but it's not.
Speaker DThere's nothing wrong with us.
Speaker DWe're just reacting normally to a way that society has imposed us or imposed on us, that we.
Speaker DWe are not supposed to feel ready.
Speaker DWe're not supposed to feel like we check all the boxes.
Speaker DSo I think that is the biggest barrier and the barrier that prevents many women from taking risks, from moving to the next step, from asking for more, because we believe that we're not ready.
Speaker DAnd that's something that I work really, really hard with my clients and to be fair with myself all the time that, you know, just.
Speaker DJust to make that mindset shift of like, well, girl, you're ready and you want more and you.
Speaker DAnd you want it and you're more qualified than other people out there.
Speaker DSo that's.
Speaker DThat's what I think.
Speaker DIt's the biggest barrier.
Speaker BDo you think a lot of women sometimes are afraid to ask for, say, a raise or more money?
Speaker BThe negotiations that men may do pretty naturally or don't have any kind of hesitation to saying, yes, this is what I want.
Speaker BDo you think that's part of the barrier?
Speaker BWomen actually, they want be too Polite about it.
Speaker DIt is, it is.
Speaker DAnd I think that is, you know, that's why money mindset is a key pillar of my program as well.
Speaker DBecause I think women in particular and women of color, more, more than anything have these money stories that have been passed on by us, to us, by our previous generations.
Speaker DMoney stories that we are not even aware of.
Speaker DAnd that prevents us from, like you said, asking for more money, negotiating.
Speaker DI was just having a conversation yesterday with a group of women senior executives and we were all discussing how just in the last three years is when we started negotiating our own salaries and we asked for more.
Speaker DWhen our male peers have been doing it since day one, since their first job, they negotiated a higher salary.
Speaker DBut for us, I think it's difficult.
Speaker DAnd I do think it's.
Speaker DIt's because we don't feel like we are allowed to ask for more.
Speaker DAnd it comes back to the imposter syndrome, right?
Speaker DLike, who am I to ask for more when I should be grateful for this opportunity?
Speaker DSo I do think that that happens very, very often.
Speaker DAnd I think it's also women being afraid of money to a certain degree.
Speaker DI mean, everybody has their own different money stories based on how, how we grew up, the stories of our families and so on.
Speaker DBut I do think that there's fear around money that is more common in women than in men.
Speaker BWomen like security.
Speaker BAnd I think men may be more prone to doing some risk taking.
Speaker BAnd I think women are also conditioned to be ladylike.
Speaker BGee, that's not ladylike.
Speaker BFor me to ask for more, I should say yes, please.
Speaker BThank you.
Speaker BRight?
Speaker DYeah, yeah.
Speaker DAnd it's a risk taking as well, right?
Speaker DBecause if you ask for more, how are they gonna perceive you?
Speaker DRight?
Speaker DAnd then it causes.
Speaker DSounds kind of like the people pleasing aspect.
Speaker DAnd if you think about it like girls do better in school and everything because we are conditioned to be good girls, to be good at school, to be good at what we do.
Speaker DSo it goes back to that people pleasing aspect that women tend to have more, more than men.
Speaker DSo, you know, what are they going to think about me if I ask for more?
Speaker DThey're going to think I'm ungrateful.
Speaker DThey're going to think, you know, this is not the right person.
Speaker DShe's not doing it because of the passion of her work.
Speaker DShe's just doing it for the money.
Speaker DSo I think all of those things definitely play a role and it is part of the mindset that we should be collectively working and changing.
Speaker BI totally agree.
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Speaker BIf you've ever felt stuck in a role that didn't quite match your ambition, if you've wrestled with self doubt imposter syndrome or the frustration of navigating male dominated spaces, you're not alone.
Speaker BAnd today's guest knows exactly what that feels like.
Speaker BWe're continuing our conversation with Violetta Rangel, a powerhouse fintech executive, career transformation coach and single mom who spent more than 20 years climbing, surviving and ultimately thriving in corporate America.
Speaker BHer journey didn't begin with confidence.
Speaker BShe built it step by step after facing the very same challenges so many professional women encounter.
Speaker BNow she's on a mission to help women reinvent their careers, break through internal and external barriers, and step into authentic leadership using her acclaimed Triple R framework.
Speaker BFrom overcoming imposter syndrome to cultivating a proactive money mindset that empowers women to negotiate stronger salary packages, Violetta is teaching women how to claim what they deserve without apology.
Speaker BShe's a sought after keynote speaker, a champion for women staying and succeeding in the corporate world, and we're thrilled thrilled to have her with us.
Speaker BVioletta I see that you've got some practical strategies to build self belief and take up space in competitive industries and of course, navigating the challenges.
Speaker BDid you want to talk about some of the strategies?
Speaker BBecause I think all of that self belief, certainly that it talks about the imposter syndrome and overcoming that, building the strength that women need to have.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker DI have, like you said at the beginning, this triple R framework, and it's very interesting because I think the self belief comes to us as we get to know each other better.
Speaker DI mean ourselves better.
Speaker DWhen we get to get to know ourselves better, then we understand who we are, how we operate in the world and what's the value and the impact that we bring to every aspect of our lives.
Speaker DRight.
Speaker DIt doesn't necessarily have to be in an office or in a cubicle.
Speaker DSo I think one of the very important things that we should work on is understanding who we are and the clarity about our mission and our vision.
Speaker DBecause, you know, we're very busy.
Speaker DWe're always in this hamster wheel working, taking care of our families and whatnot.
Speaker DWe lose sight of who we are very easily.
Speaker DYou know, after 20 years working, you kind of look back and say, like, what am I doing?
Speaker DLike, what is this?
Speaker DLike, how does this happen?
Speaker DSo I think that's the first aspect.
Speaker DAnd then when we go to the triple R framework that I mentioned, the three Rs are risk management, resourcefulness and relationships.
Speaker DAnd the reason that I came up with this framework is because when I did my own clarity work, when I did my own self assessment of who I am, how do I operate in this world, what is, what is, you know, what defines me, what sets me apart from everybody else is my experiences.
Speaker DAnd I looked into the difficult or pivotal moments in my life and, and I noticed that these three Rs were the common thread, were the things that were getting me out of there.
Speaker DSo, you know, every time that I had to reinvent myself and start from scratch, which has been plenty of times, these three Rs have been there.
Speaker DAnd so the first one that I really, really talk to my clients about is risk management.
Speaker DSo once you understand who you are and you have clarity about the things that are important to you and what is your mission and your vision, then you're going to be able to take more risks.
Speaker DBut you still need to have a good risk management framework to understand the different variables to which you are exposed to whenever you make a change, whenever you make a transition.
Speaker DAnd that will help you take that step with more confidence.
Speaker DJust without second guessing yourself.
Speaker BDoing a self assessment is kind of intimidating.
Speaker BI'm not sure everybody knows how to.
Speaker CDo that, but, you know, you're right.
Speaker CBut I think it's very important that we stop sometimes and just reflect on where we are, what's happening around us, what we like, what we don't like, what we want to remove, who's toxic, who's poisonous, you know, who's infiltrating our space and then just clearing it out.
Speaker CIt takes that time for ourselves in order to recognize where we need to grow and what we don't need anymore.
Speaker CBecause if you don't look back and see how far you've advanced, I mean, how do you know?
Speaker CAnd a lot of the times I think that people that tend to pull us down or keep us back are the ones that are almost closest to us.
Speaker CAnd so you have to really be strong in your own belief and who you want to be, what your dreams and goals are, and then just take a look and take action.
Speaker BI agree with that.
Speaker DYeah, absolutely.
Speaker DAnd I think it is a very difficult thing to do.
Speaker DTo be fair, sometimes the common that I most often hear from my clients is I really appreciate, you know, having the time to dig into who I am and gaining that clarity.
Speaker DBecause like you said, we never take that time.
Speaker DIt's just really difficult to pause for a little bit and then do a self assessment.
Speaker DI think it's also scary.
Speaker DI think we try to be busy in doing other stuff that don't require so much emotional and intense work.
Speaker BYou really have to be vulnerable and objective.
Speaker BObjectivity, that's kind of hard to do with yourself sometimes, but sitting down and doing an assessment makes absolute sense.
Speaker BAnd I do think because women are taught to be people pleasers, you know, you're supposed to raise families and all of that and fix everything in that regard and look out for everybody else.
Speaker BWe forget how to look out for ourselves.
Speaker DYeah, absolutely.
Speaker DAnd I think that's why having a coach is good.
Speaker DI mean, it has helped me significantly having not one coach, but I've worked with many coaches, phenomenal coaches.
Speaker DRight.
Speaker DAnd I think it's that accountability and holding your hand throughout the process that had really helped me.
Speaker DSo I think doing it on our own, it's doable, but it's harder.
Speaker DAnd the accountability aspect is also important.
Speaker BWhere do you think women have really made gains in the past 20 years?
Speaker BI think that they're getting more in the C suite that they weren't maybe 20, even 30 years ago.
Speaker BSo that's good.
Speaker BBut where do they need to improve?
Speaker BBecause I know that there are barriers to entry still.
Speaker DThere's still barriers to entry.
Speaker DBut I think, you know, women have made it to the C suite, women have made it to the board level, but not in the level or at the pace that we thought we were going to be by 2025.
Speaker DRight.
Speaker DSo we are still way behind.
Speaker DAnd there is this concept of the leaky pipeline.
Speaker DAnd the leaky pipeline really is women in middle management, which tends to be women in middle age.
Speaker DWhat happens there is you've been very successful so far.
Speaker DYou've worked really hard, your hard work has been recognized.
Speaker DBut now then, you're in this middle level, middle management level.
Speaker DYou don't have the power yet to make decisions, but you have a lot of responsibility and you have a lot on your plate.
Speaker DAnd if you think about it, you also have outside family responsibilities.
Speaker DYou may be taking care of your family or your parents.
Speaker DYou may be taking care of everybody around you.
Speaker DYou may be going through perimenopause or menopause.
Speaker DEverything plays a role.
Speaker DAnd a lot of women ask themselves, what am I doing here?
Speaker DI'm not going anywhere.
Speaker DThis is just more work, no recognition.
Speaker DI'm not getting to that level that I want to be anytime soon.
Speaker DThey're just piling more work on me and they leave.
Speaker DBecause if you think about it, nobody wants to stay under those conditions, right?
Speaker DSo I think that is the very, very risky space in corporate.
Speaker DAnd it's a very isolating space, middle management, because you don't know how to move forward.
Speaker DThe strategies that have helped you get there are not going to help you get to the C suite.
Speaker DAnd we're not investing enough in advancing or teaching leadership skills to these women.
Speaker DBecause at the end of the day, they are very useful where they are because they're very good at what they do.
Speaker DSo, no, it's not.
Speaker DIt's not in anybody's interest to advance them to the C suite.
Speaker DRight?
Speaker DSo I think that is where we need to work more.
Speaker DAnd I think that's getting into the workforce is not an issue.
Speaker DWe have women entering the workforce just as we do with men is elevating them and not losing them in that middle management level.
Speaker BIt's like they're getting stuck.
Speaker BAnd men don't get stuck.
Speaker BWell, you look at some CEOs, they're in their 40s, they're men, and they just naturally just kind of go to the top.
Speaker BWhat is the biggest.
Speaker BI don't know if it's a barrier or what is the biggest hurdle that women have to overcome in that area.
Speaker BBecause it is interesting that men just kind of do this trajectory and women do, and then they level off and they plateau.
Speaker DThey plateau, they leave.
Speaker DRight.
Speaker DBecause then they don't want to keep grinding there because it's not getting them anywhere.
Speaker DI think one aspect that I mentioned from the Triple R framework is the relationships.
Speaker DSo women are very good at making relationships and creating connections with other people, but women are not very good at leveraging those relationships and that network.
Speaker DAnd I think that's something that we should be more comfortable with, that men are naturally comfortable at.
Speaker DThey're very comfortable at navigating their network and asking for help whenever they need it.
Speaker DAnd we know that that network is going to help you advance faster than on your own.
Speaker AStay tuned for more of Women Road warriors coming up.
Speaker EDean Michael, the tax doctor here.
Speaker EI have one question for you.
Speaker EDo you want to stop worrying about the irs?
Speaker EIf the answer is yes, then look no further.
Speaker EI've been around for years.
Speaker EI've helped countless people across the country and my success rate speaks for itself.
Speaker ESo now you know where to find good, honest help with your tax problems.
Speaker EWhat are you waiting for?
Speaker EIf you owe more than $10,000 to the IRS or haven't filed in years, call me now at 888-557-4020 or go to mytaxhelpmd.com for a free consultation and get your life back.
Speaker AWelcome back to Women Road warriors with Shelly Johnson and Kathy Tuccaro.
Speaker BWe've been talking with Violeta Rengel, a fintech executive and career transformation coach whose passion comes from lived experience.
Speaker BAs a single mom who spent more than two decades in corporate America, she knows the pressure, the politics and the quiet self doubt that can creep in when we're trying to climb.
Speaker BVioleta has helped countless women reclaim their confidence and step into leadership roles that fit their true goals and push past the career barriers that often derail so many talented professionals.
Speaker BHer Triple R framework gives women a roadmap to reinvent their careers with clarity and courage.
Speaker BAnd one of her most powerful develop a proactive money mindset because women should never be afraid to negotiate for the salary, respect and opportunities they've earned.
Speaker BAlso, do risk management and understand your variables when you make a change that helps you take that step without second guessing yourself.
Speaker BIf you've been struggling with alignment in your career or you're tired of feeling stuck or underestimated, this discussion's for you.
Speaker BYou need to get aligned with your mission and your vision when it comes to your career.
Speaker BVioletta.
Speaker BIn our previous segment, we were talking about the importance of networking.
Speaker BAre we not taught to do that growing up or something?
Speaker BI don't recall it ever being in school.
Speaker BHow to properly network, that was a concept that I Learned in my 20s.
Speaker CI learned it in my 40s.
Speaker BOkay, there you go.
Speaker CI'm a late bloomer.
Speaker DI think it's, it's probably, you know, we're very good at building relationships genuinely and authentically being there for each other.
Speaker DWhile, you know, networking tends to be a little bit more transactional.
Speaker DSo it could be that transactional aspect that makes us uncomfortable.
Speaker BThat's true.
Speaker BThat makes sense that there's risk taking involved.
Speaker BBut it almost seems like men are taught or conditioned or something to do this naturally and they don't find it intimidating.
Speaker BWhereas women are more likely maybe to be hesitant.
Speaker BAnd if you want to grab that brass ring, you can't be hesitant.
Speaker DYes.
Speaker DAnd you know, I think that comes from everything that we do.
Speaker DWe are hesitant and we are risk averse.
Speaker DAnd I think that's something, something that if we go back to the, what we were discussing at the beginning.
Speaker DRight.
Speaker DSelf confidence.
Speaker DSelf confidence is everything.
Speaker DAnd we know that there's a lot of research behind how many women apply for a job.
Speaker DThey only apply when they tick all the boxes, but men apply when they tick three out of 10 boxes.
Speaker DAnd that's self confidence.
Speaker DThat's all, that is all that we are missing.
Speaker DAnd I think that's something that if we use those little tools and skills to bump up our self confidence, like getting to know ourselves better, understand what are our superpowers, what is our own framework, how we operate in the world.
Speaker DThen we're more confident in the impact that we bring and the knowledge and the skills that we have.
Speaker DAnd then we can navigate the world and the relationships and everything better.
Speaker DI do think that all goes back to self confidence.
Speaker BOkay.
Speaker BSo that's something that we need to instill in our little girls too, growing up.
Speaker BBecause if it's natural.
Speaker BYeah, yeah.
Speaker BBecause if it's not something that you grew up with, it's going to be harder to develop it, I would think.
Speaker DYes.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker DAnd I think it's, you know, I was just today I was at my son's martial arts test and I saw a huge difference between the boys and the girls.
Speaker DThey're doing the test and, and the girls are, you know, looking down and, and holding their hands and like just more shy in general.
Speaker DRight.
Speaker DSo I, I think it starts at a Very early age.
Speaker DThis disparity in self confidence.
Speaker BDo you think it's hormonal?
Speaker BDo you think testosterone plays a role in them somehow?
Speaker DI never thought about it.
Speaker DIt could be.
Speaker DIt could be.
Speaker DI thought it was more, you know, how we as a society treat girls and boys differently.
Speaker DIt could be both.
Speaker DI mean, I honestly would be very interesting to look into that testosterone research.
Speaker DIt could be.
Speaker DIt could be that they just feel more empowered.
Speaker DRight.
Speaker BWell, I remember little boys in elementary school, I always thought that they were stupid because they took a lot of risks and they'd hurt themselves and do it again and hurt themselves and do it again.
Speaker BAnd I just stand back and go, what is wrong with you?
Speaker DYes.
Speaker DYeah, I see it today.
Speaker DRight.
Speaker DMy boy is 11 years old, so I see it all the time.
Speaker DLike I said, I see the difference between the girls in his orbit.
Speaker DSo I think it's totally.
Speaker DYeah, the risk taking is very different, for sure.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker DSo it could be.
Speaker DIt could be something that we were born with or it could be something that, you know, it's imposed to us by society or like, just like the way we navigate this world.
Speaker DBut it's a very interesting phenomenon and I do think that is costing women their careers and it's costing women money because that's also why, you know, women do not have the same salary and the way that the pay gap is still that big.
Speaker BWell, there's statistics out there that women have a much smaller pension, much smaller nest egg, if you will, when they retire than men.
Speaker BMany are at risk not to have enough money throughout their retirement.
Speaker DIt is very difficult because if you think about it, women tend to take maternity leaves.
Speaker DThey tend to take time off to take care of their parents or whatnot.
Speaker DAnd all of those years are actually counting towards your pension and counting towards you not having the same as your partner or your mal.
Speaker DPeers.
Speaker DRight.
Speaker DSo that's.
Speaker DThere's a lot of aspects there that influence, because the pay gap is not just during your working years.
Speaker DIt lasts forever.
Speaker DAnd that is a very difficult scenario for elders.
Speaker BSo how can a woman navigate challenges and step into leadership positions with confidence?
Speaker BThat whole sentence sounds intimidating.
Speaker DActually.
Speaker DAnd I don't think we have a magic wand to tell women how to do it.
Speaker DBut, but I think, you know, the, the way that I've done it and the way that I do it with myself and with my clients, because I'm still there.
Speaker DI'm still in that hamster wheel myself.
Speaker DRight.
Speaker DSo it's really trying to bring back my values every day and my Values, I understand very well my values now after doing a lot of self discovery, but my values also evolve.
Speaker DRight.
Speaker DAnd my mission and everything evol.
Speaker DSo it's kind of a constant work in progress that you have to do with yourself.
Speaker DAnd like I said, once I did some self discovery for myself.
Speaker DWhat I identified was the common thread of how I work through challenges and how I overcome difficulties.
Speaker DAnd that first made me very aware of all the difficult things that I have overcome.
Speaker DSo that now I can look back and say, wow, I've done all, all of this when we really never take the time to do that.
Speaker DAnd second, you know, I understand now what were the things that I was doing during that time.
Speaker DRight.
Speaker DHow.
Speaker DWhat was my framework doing during those challenging times?
Speaker DAnd that's something that I keep bringing to the front of my mind every time I'm in a difficult situation or in a challenging position where I need to keep at it.
Speaker DSo that's something that I try to work on with my clients and help them find that for themselves.
Speaker DAnd, and then the second aspect that, that I work with them is now that you have very good clarity about who you are.
Speaker DWhat's your story?
Speaker DLet's put your story out there.
Speaker DNobody talks about themselves other than, you know, I'm a lawyer or you know, I'm a teacher, whatever.
Speaker DLike that's just what we do for a living.
Speaker DI think there's way more of ourselves that we should be putting out there because what sells is our story.
Speaker DIt's not our resume or, you know, our credentials.
Speaker DSo we work a lot on finding and fine tuning your story and how to share it with the world, of course, the parts that you're comfortable with and so on.
Speaker DSo that's, that's my framework.
Speaker DAnd of course the money, the money stories, we try to work on your, our money stories because that's something that I am very clear on that I don't only want to help them overcome challenges, I want to put more money in their pockets.
Speaker DAnd, and that comes from us.
Speaker BWell, certainly that's necessary.
Speaker BYou have to have money to survive today.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker BAnd certainly lots of it because prices keep going up.
Speaker DNot just to survive.
Speaker DI feel like in this world that we need to make changes and everything.
Speaker DWe just need more money in the hands of women because otherwise we're going to be left behind and decisions are going to be made without us because we are not in a position of power.
Speaker DBecause we know that with money comes power.
Speaker BWell, you know, they have done studies and the statistics prove it out when there is a compromised financial basis with a family, with a mother and her children, the children suffer.
Speaker BI mean, it's a generational issue.
Speaker BSo it just makes sense that women need to thrive, because if they thrive, their families will thrive and future generations.
Speaker CWill that big ripple effect.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker DAnd if you think about it, you're also more secure to take risks.
Speaker DRight.
Speaker DTo take a new position that is more risky and everything.
Speaker DBut if you're just living paycheck by paycheck, you're not going to be looking for a new and exciting career or a new and exciting role because you're afraid.
Speaker DYou're afraid of those losing your money.
Speaker DSo I do think that the financial stability is also critical for women to be a little bit riskier or taking more risks in their careers.
Speaker BFinancial insecurity can certainly erode somebody's confidence.
Speaker BThey start really feeling like they aren't worthy.
Speaker BThey feel like a failure.
Speaker BAnd those are all such negative thoughts that really compromise what we want to do.
Speaker DAbsolutely.
Speaker DYou know, I started sharing that I am a single mother, and I became a single mother by choice, but also by chance.
Speaker DI had worked really hard to build a career for myself in Amsterdam many years ago.
Speaker DI had the job of my dreams.
Speaker DEverything was amazing.
Speaker DBut then I found myself in a relationship where I no longer felt safe, no longer felt good.
Speaker DAnd I had to overnight quit my job, quit my, you know, leave the city that I had worked really hard to build a life on, leave my relationship and start from scratch with nothing in my pockets.
Speaker DI had nothing.
Speaker DSo I had to move across the world, you know, back to Mexico where I could find some place to live and nothing in my pockets and trying to figure out how I'm going to give birth to my baby and like, really messy situation and really difficult.
Speaker DAnd my career was the last thing on my worries.
Speaker DYou know, like, I just needed to put money and I mean, food on the.
Speaker DOn the plate, food on the table, and I needed to put a roof on our heads so that that experience for me showed me really how difficult it is to move in the world when you don't have financial security.
Speaker DYou know, my career took a huge setback during that period of time because at that time, you know, I could do anything.
Speaker DI just needed to put food on the table and I needed to figure out how to raise this child on my own.
Speaker DYou know, I worked hard and I'm here now, and it's a.
Speaker DIt's a better outcome.
Speaker DBut those initial years were really difficult.
Speaker DAnd I'm sure that my pension and my Career suffered a lot from that break that I had to take.
Speaker BBut you had to do it for survival.
Speaker BAnd so you had the potential to thrive as well as your child.
Speaker BThat had to have been terrifying.
Speaker DYes, it was terrifying.
Speaker DIt was really, really difficult.
Speaker DBut you know what I realized after looking back and all of this, that that's where I was actually using my triple R framework.
Speaker DThat's when, you know, when I was, when this difficult situation was developing, I was running scenarios in my head.
Speaker DI was doing risk management in my head.
Speaker DAnd that's actually what helped me make decisions.
Speaker DWhen fear was paralyzing.
Speaker DI was so afraid of taking any decision, as you could imagine.
Speaker DAnd of course, none of the scenarios that I had in front of me were the ones that I wanted.
Speaker DNone of the options were the options that I actually wanted to take.
Speaker DBut I had to analyze in which scenario am I less exposed?
Speaker DAnd I went with that.
Speaker DAnd I went with that with, with its determination, Bigger than fear.
Speaker DBecause I knew that I had done a proper risk assessment and this was the best path for me.
Speaker DAnd even so, I knew that I was going to find myself homeless and without any money on the other side of things.
Speaker DBut I would find freedom and safety for me and my child and that would be better and more important for me than having a roof over my head.
Speaker CI'm just quite shocked right now because you just put into words what my whole life was about.
Speaker CLike, I come from a very abusive background and I spent a lot of time escaping bad situations.
Speaker CBut I never, not once until this very moment that you just said it is that it was a risk assessment that I was continuously doing because I was doing the exact same thing.
Speaker CWhat you're just doing, doing.
Speaker CBecause I had my young daughter, I was in a very violent situation and I was trying to figure out all these scenarios and which was the best one to take.
Speaker CAnd, and, but I never thought about it being as a risk assessment thing.
Speaker CSo thank you.
Speaker CBecause now as I look back and I was really analyzing which steps are going to be the best and wow, I just had a breakthrough.
Speaker BYeah, yeah.
Speaker DLike, wow.
Speaker DAnd I think it's, you know, risk management is so important and we're doing it all the time, we just don't think about it.
Speaker DSo that's something that I want, you know, the women that I work with to be more aware of because we're actually taking these decisions all, you know, all day, every day.
Speaker DSo when it comes to major life changing decisions, you gotta be equally confident because, you know, you have the skill in you to make this risk assessment.
Speaker DRight?
Speaker DSo that is, that is why I started sharing my story.
Speaker DFor many years, I never shared this story.
Speaker DYou know, a lot of people that know me in the last 10 years, they have no clue about any of this.
Speaker DBut I decided to start sharing it because I think it's empowering.
Speaker DI think it's empowering to learn from these things and know that there is a better way to live in more confidence in yourself.
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Speaker BNo professional should ever feel pressured to dim their strengths to fit outdated norms.
Speaker BAnd our guest today, Violeta Rangel, is one of those women.
Speaker BShe didn't just break through barriers.
Speaker BShe lived them, struggled with them, and built a framework to help other women rise above them.
Speaker BVioletta is a Fintech executive, career transformation coach, and in demand keynote speaker who spent over 20 years navigating the corporate world as a single mom.
Speaker BShe understands the frustration of landing in roles that don't align with your purpose.
Speaker BThe sting of imposter syndrome and the exhaustion of trying to prove yourself in environments where women are often underestimated.
Speaker BNow she's dedicated to flipping that script through her signature triple R framework.
Speaker BShe empowers women to redefine their goals, rebuild their confidence, and rise into authentic leadership.
Speaker BAnd she doesn't stop there.
Speaker BShe has lots of valuable insight that she's been sharing with us.
Speaker BVioleta, in our last segment, we were talking about doing risk assessments.
Speaker BI think women in terms of risk assessment might be better, stronger in that than they really think.
Speaker BBecause when you think about it, when you're raising children and so forth, you're always looking at risk.
Speaker BChildren get themselves into trouble all the time.
Speaker BSo you have to assess the risk ahead of time without being too overprotective.
Speaker BWe're good at this.
Speaker BI think we're conditioned to do it biologically yeah, no, I mean, there's a.
Speaker DLot of research about women being more, I don't want to say risk averse.
Speaker DI want to say better at doing risk informed decisions or making risk informed decisions.
Speaker DAnd you see it with women managing money and portfolio managers and so on.
Speaker DThey are actually really good at making money and taking less risks or at least more risk informed decisions in their investments than men.
Speaker DSo yes, I think there is some grounds in saying that women are better at risk management than men, for sure.
Speaker BSo how can women pivot and upskill and transition into the roles that align with their goals?
Speaker BThis is one of the topics that you'd mentioned.
Speaker BHow do they do that?
Speaker DYes, and I think maybe we go back to the women that I work with are mostly in midlife because it's the women that I found are in more need of this support and this guidance.
Speaker DSo once you have that self assessment of yourself and you identify where your values look at, what is it that you want for your life in the next 10, 15 years?
Speaker DWhere do you see yourself?
Speaker DThat's going to be our guiding light.
Speaker DAnd then from there we kind of break it down into smaller steps like what do you need to do, you know, the next five years of your life to get there?
Speaker DWhat do you need to do in the next six, six months or, you know, two weeks or whatnot?
Speaker DAnd that's when things start to make it a little bit clearer because a lot of the decisions that we make are not necessarily aligned with our 10 year goal.
Speaker DSo the first thing is to start aligning your, your next steps with your long term goal, with where you want to be 10 to 15 years from now.
Speaker DAnd then the other thing is that once we do this self assessment and we try and we identify better who we are and what drives us, it's going to be very easy to find transferable skills because you not necessarily need to be always stuck in the same career path that you were in before.
Speaker DAnd I think one of the main things that I enjoy about this work is that I help women see the possibilities that they never thought before.
Speaker DIt's kind of like they were looking down at their desk and all of a sudden they're looking up and they see all of this, you know, amazing blue sky, you know, infinite possibilities.
Speaker DAnd that's, you know, just opening your path for everything that you want.
Speaker DAs long as you have very clear who you are, the impact that you bring to the world, skills, your superpowers, as I said, and where you want to be 10 years from now, then the Next step is going to be easier to decide.
Speaker BMakes sense.
Speaker BSo do you work with people remotely, Violeta?
Speaker DYes, mostly remotely.
Speaker DI mean, most of my clients are in Toronto and Montreal because it's where I mostly navigate.
Speaker DBut yeah, remotely.
Speaker DAnd it's like as you said at the beginning, is not an easy thing to do.
Speaker DSo it's pretty intense and very personal.
Speaker DWe get together three times a month and I'm always available for, you know, to chat on WhatsApp or phone calls or whatever because I think when we start doing this work, a lot of old and raw emotions that come up.
Speaker DSo I like being there for them because it is a very intense work that we do.
Speaker BWhat are your different programs?
Speaker BI'm seeing the VIP one on one career transformation program, the Power Hour.
Speaker BWhat are those about?
Speaker DYeah, so my main program is called the Change program.
Speaker DIt's very straightforward.
Speaker DYou just want to change and that's what we are here to do.
Speaker DSo that program is a four month long program where we meet, like I said, three times a month.
Speaker DAnd then initially we have a very intense strategy session of two hours before we kick off the program so that we really get to know each other and then we dig deeper into these stories and everything, we bring everything to light so that we can get working together.
Speaker DAnd during these four month program, we work on clarity, we work on crafting your story and we work in storytelling techniques because we want to make sure that once you find your story, you're able to start sharing it, that you find the messaging that you want to share with the world, to start creating a personal brand for yourself as well, to make yourself visible, to put yourself out there, whether it's a blog or a podcast or being a speaker, whatever it is.
Speaker DBut you start, you need to start putting yourself out there to gain more confidence.
Speaker DAnd then the last pillar is the money mindset.
Speaker DThat's I put it at the end because it's a.
Speaker DIt's also very intense work that we cannot do in tandem with the clarity because it's a.
Speaker DIt's intense mindset patterns that we need to transform.
Speaker BSure.
Speaker BYou also have the Power Hour.
Speaker BIt's a one hour consultation.
Speaker DYes.
Speaker DThe Power Hour is where, you know, if you don't want to commit for four months, we work in that one hour where we can focus on one area that you want out of these pillars that I mentioned.
Speaker DAnd you know, we can have as many hours as you want.
Speaker DBut yeah, that's the offering that I have.
Speaker DAnd you know, here and there I also offer sometimes workshops so for instance, I think two weeks from now I have a workshop coming up for personal branding where I will give a little bit of techniques to get people started.
Speaker DAnd then I have a newsletter where I share some tips every week.
Speaker DAnd of course on LinkedIn I'm sharing stuff, I think twice or three times a week.
Speaker BThat's helpful.
Speaker BSo where do people find you on the web?
Speaker DSo I'm always on LinkedIn.
Speaker DI'm a LinkedIn person because if you are in the corporate world, everybody's there.
Speaker DUnder my name, Violeta Rangel, you can also find me on my website, that is everbloomgroup ca.
Speaker DThe name that Everbloom came to me because it's an opportunity for us to reinvent ourselves constantly.
Speaker DAnd just like flowers, we have that option to bloom constantly and be ever blooming.
Speaker DSo my website is everbloomgroup ca and there you can find everything about the programs like you mentioned or you can contact me, but on LinkedIn I'm there as well.
Speaker BI love this.
Speaker BDo you have maybe a nugget that you could share with our listeners before we close so that they have something?
Speaker BSome food for thought.
Speaker DYes, I think, you know, the other day somebody asked me, what would you have said to yourself, you know, 20 years ago?
Speaker DAnd I think the biggest thing that I have learned throughout this process is trust yourself.
Speaker DTrust yourself because your intuition is stronger than your fear.
Speaker DAnd trust yourself that you have a plan, but you're also good enough to pivot out of that plan.
Speaker DSo I think for me that's something that has stood out as I did this work on myself of self discovery.
Speaker DMy intuition has been stronger than my fear always and I just need to listen to myself more.
Speaker DAmen.
Speaker BIntuition has some tremendous insight that we don't always listen to.
Speaker DYes.
Speaker DYes, thank you.
Speaker BVioletta, what is your website again?
Speaker BJust in case people didn't write it down.
Speaker BEverbloomgroup ca, thank you for sharing your insight.
Speaker BThis is inspirational.
Speaker DThank you so much.
Speaker DIt was a great conversation.
Speaker CIt was.
Speaker CAnd you know what?
Speaker CI'm going to be thinking about this tonight at work, about how my risk management has affected me over and how not affected me, but how it impacted my life and my life choices since I never looked at it before like that.
Speaker CThank you so much.
Speaker BYes.
Speaker DIt's a different angle and I think it's a good one.
Speaker DYou'll find it is.
Speaker CIt's empowering is what it is.
Speaker BYes, it is.
Speaker DIt is.
Speaker DIt is.
Speaker DYeah.
Speaker DAnd you'll find more common threads as you start thinking about it from that lens.
Speaker BI'm really tickled pink, so it imparts confidence.
Speaker BThis is great.
Speaker BThank you, Violetta.
Speaker BIt's been an honor having you on the show.
Speaker DThank you so much.
Speaker CYep, thank you.
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