Welcome everyone to our latest episode.
Speaker:We are absolutely thrilled to have our special guest.
Speaker:His name is Josh Ellich.
Speaker:His company is Up My Influence and Josh is a U.
Speaker:S.
Speaker:Navy veteran, and he launched Up My Influence to help agencies, consultants,
Speaker:coaches, and other high ticket B2B service providers skyrocket their sales.
Speaker:He's a keynote speaker.
Speaker:He writes a syndicated column.
Speaker:Thank you. To 1.
Speaker:1 million readers.
Speaker:He regularly appears on more than 75 TV stations across the country.
Speaker:So there's a very good chance that you've already seen him or heard him.
Speaker:But we're absolutely thrilled that he came to join us today.
Speaker:So welcome Josh.
Speaker:Hey, it's great to be here.
Speaker:We're excited to have you.
Speaker:And we're having one of our favorite conversations, which is sales.
Speaker:And I know earlier when we spoke before we hit record, you said there
Speaker:aren't many problems in business.
Speaker:That increasing your sales won't solve and I thought that was a
Speaker:brilliant statement and a great way to start this conversation off.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:It's the number one stress that SMB founders have.
Speaker:It's in fact according to the Federal Reserve, two thirds of us say to, that
Speaker:financial challenges are significant source of stress in our business.
Speaker:And it, it leads to burnout.
Speaker:It leads to people throwing in the towel.
Speaker:At the end of the day hopefully again, we want to have our offers dialed in,
Speaker:hopefully we're good at what we do.
Speaker:For most of us, if you're good at what you do, you have a decent offer, people
Speaker:have bought it before, listen, your cashflow is going to come down to one.
Speaker:Factor you just simply need to build more high level relationships.
Speaker:That's what you need more than anything.
Speaker:And that's what we're going to be talking about today.
Speaker:So again, if you're frustrated that your results are inconsistent, you
Speaker:got good months and you got not so good months, that's maddening, like an
Speaker:agency owners, consultants, coaches.
Speaker:A lot of B2B service providers who specialize in, these bigger
Speaker:ticket type transactions that, that can be really frustrating.
Speaker:So I hope we can keep some folks in business and help them
Speaker:flourish and grow this year.
Speaker:Absolutely.
Speaker:And I love the fact that you talk about relationships.
Speaker:So the sleazy tactics are out, right?
Speaker:Relationship building is part of the process.
Speaker:So how do you see that playing a role with your clients?
Speaker:Yeah that's it, right?
Speaker:So we only work with folks that do account based relationship oriented sales.
Speaker:And what I mean by that is that if you're a bro y salesperson, that's just slamming
Speaker:numbers through and you're going for the jugular you got all your closing tactics,
Speaker:and that's just the way you do business.
Speaker:I don't think you're going to really resonate with what I have to share.
Speaker:I just, I appreciate that.
Speaker:That's not my style.
Speaker:Who we typically work with are people that don't mind.
Speaker:In fact they want to.
Speaker:And they know that their best clients come when there is a bit of a friendship
Speaker:and a relationship build first.
Speaker:If you love getting organic business where let's say you go to an event, you meet
Speaker:someone, it just feels very serendipitous.
Speaker:You get to talking and that you can help one another.
Speaker:And ultimately that leads to engagement.
Speaker:If you really enjoyed that type of dynamic.
Speaker:That's what I can encourage in your weekly schedule on a regular basis by following
Speaker:what we're going to talk about today.
Speaker:And it's really rooted in, in, in essentially three foundations.
Speaker:Number one, you got to have a little bit of authority.
Speaker:We'll touch on that briefly, but number two, this is most critical is you must.
Speaker:Lead in generosity and noble intent.
Speaker:You must have noble intent.
Speaker:You must exercise generosity.
Speaker:And again, we'll get into the go giver a little bit, but then finally, number
Speaker:three is we're going to talk about how to enable that better than anything today.
Speaker:And honestly, there's nothing on the planet that comes close to the
Speaker:amount of business development or business, high level relationship
Speaker:building that you can do that.
Speaker:Nothing comes close compared to what you can do with platform.
Speaker:And we'll talk about how to leverage platform to give you an
Speaker:unlimited number of high level relationships with the people that
Speaker:you should be doing business with.
Speaker:I'm excited about point number one.
Speaker:I was just going to say that.
Speaker:So you're talking about authority.
Speaker:So tell us a little bit more about what you mean by that.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker:Here's an analogy, right?
Speaker:So let's say you go into a VIP mixer or a speaker mixer.
Speaker:If you've ever spoken at a conference you've likely been
Speaker:invited to a special side event.
Speaker:And those meetings are the best.
Speaker:Opportunity those meetings are that those little, mixers are
Speaker:absolutely historically where I used to get all of my best business.
Speaker:Why?
Speaker:Everyone's relaxed.
Speaker:No, 1 selling.
Speaker:We're all just talking, get to know each other.
Speaker:Just mingling about seeing what people are doing.
Speaker:But then inevitably, there's going to be someone or you go, that sounds
Speaker:really like we should chat sometime to see if there's, I don't know
Speaker:if we should be doing something together, if I can help in any way.
Speaker:And listen, when you extend that type of invitation, everyone says, yes.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:So that's in person, right?
Speaker:What's going on there?
Speaker:All they can do to base their judgment of you on is your competence
Speaker:and energy in the moment, right?
Speaker:That's what they're basing as they're sizing you up.
Speaker:Now.
Speaker:In person.
Speaker:That's great.
Speaker:Now they're probably still going to do their due diligence.
Speaker:So again, we're going to have to focus on authority anyway, but
Speaker:authority simply is, how do we know that you're good at what you do and
Speaker:that you solve problems for people just this guest or potential client.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:And that you need to communicate that trust somehow.
Speaker:So today That's done on social media that's done on your website, and that's
Speaker:done through other authority indicators.
Speaker:How might we know that you are good at what you do and that you create results?
Speaker:So listen, Rome wasn't built in a day.
Speaker:I don't expect you to to obsess on this and then, get.
Speaker:30, 60, 90 days from now, you find out finally have a better
Speaker:looking website and then the sales are going to come flowing in.
Speaker:There's more to it than that.
Speaker:So what I'm going to suggest is authority should be something or your authority
Speaker:indicators or how you communicate yourself should be something that you work on.
Speaker:Every week, brick by brick, Rome wasn't built in a day.
Speaker:You just, it's like you're in, you're creating video content, you embed it,
Speaker:you work on your branding, you work on your bio, you work on your presentation,
Speaker:like all of this stuff, just keep at it week after week, just a little bit.
Speaker:Because.
Speaker:Listen, if you work on your authority, imagine if you had 10 times the authority
Speaker:in your industry than you currently did and you communicated it as such.
Speaker:Life's going to be a lot easier for you.
Speaker:It's going to feel like you have the lucky juice.
Speaker:So look, I'm not a branding expert.
Speaker:But what I can say is we all know what it's like when we go to a website
Speaker:and it looks like amateur hour.
Speaker:And social media and it looks like amateur hour and we also
Speaker:all know what it looks like.
Speaker:We're like, go to a website.
Speaker:We're like, Whoa, Hey, wow.
Speaker:So I don't want anyone to feel bad because again, those things just take
Speaker:time but the more you inch toward that, the easier life will get.
Speaker:So start now, right?
Speaker:It's the Chinese proverb.
Speaker:The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago.
Speaker:The second best time is now get going on it.
Speaker:Absolutely.
Speaker:I love that because the concept of just improving it little by little
Speaker:week after week is so absurd in our society of quick fixes, right?
Speaker:So I like that you're talking about, because again, authority is built
Speaker:over time and by constantly improving with the assets that you have and
Speaker:continuing to put great content out is going to continue to make you show.
Speaker:As the expert in the authority.
Speaker:Now, the next part I love because you really focus a
Speaker:lot on the go giver concept.
Speaker:So how does that play into how you really serve people?
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:So here again, say, if we think about the way that we like to do business
Speaker:look, I just ask a simple question to our friend that's listening right now
Speaker:or watching, do you like being sold at?
Speaker:How does that feel?
Speaker:When you're treated like a number or a piece of meat and you can tell that
Speaker:the other person is just looking out because they want to make the sale.
Speaker:How does that feel to you?
Speaker:How does that affect the chances that you might engage with that person?
Speaker:It goes down significantly.
Speaker:The best thing you can do.
Speaker:And this is, listen, I don't expect you to have this thing fixed overnight either,
Speaker:but you got to work on your intent.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:And the way I refer to it is noble intent.
Speaker:What do you want?
Speaker:If what you want is money, got to make this sale.
Speaker:And everyone is a prospect in your eyes.
Speaker:And everyone that comes into that prospect world is going to get one
Speaker:pitch and one possible outcome.
Speaker:And that's really what you're focused on.
Speaker:We're all going to know it.
Speaker:And you're going to be really frustrated.
Speaker:And you're going to feel like you're stuck in the hamster wheel.
Speaker:Why?
Speaker:Because you've got sales breath.
Speaker:We all smell it.
Speaker:You can't fake it.
Speaker:This is one thing you need to know is that consumers have never been more skeptical.
Speaker:Consumers have never been more protective because we don't like
Speaker:that feeling of being sold out.
Speaker:So you gotta stop it.
Speaker:Instead, you should be aiming To be a friend who happens to be
Speaker:really good at what you do and you are here to be of service in
Speaker:however that looks to your friends.
Speaker:Now, granted, you're not going to work for free and high level leaders
Speaker:are not going to ask you to work for free, but you need to have the energy
Speaker:of someone who is willing To just work in your friend's best interest in
Speaker:order to help them get what they want.
Speaker:Now, if you'll do that, then you'll earn trust more, more more readily.
Speaker:And then that's what's going to be the go juice for actual engagement.
Speaker:And you should know that if you presuppose What your guest wants and needs and you
Speaker:assume 100 percent time it's your product.
Speaker:Again, we're going to feel that and we're not going to like it.
Speaker:And you may be missing out on different opportunities that
Speaker:could have been far more valuable.
Speaker:And the only way to figure that out is if it's just, just.
Speaker:Relax, man.
Speaker:Don't go into pitch mode.
Speaker:Like anyone who did that in a mixer, everyone would start like
Speaker:making faces and warning each other.
Speaker:Oh, we have a me monster in the room slapping business cards in
Speaker:people's hands and just trying to sell them on whatever their thing is.
Speaker:That's really annoying.
Speaker:Don't ever be that person.
Speaker:Honestly, leaders don't do that.
Speaker:That's an amateur play.
Speaker:So please don't do that.
Speaker:So again, noble intent means you're exercising and you're
Speaker:leading in generosity.
Speaker:Now in the go giver, what that means is you always lead with give first and you
Speaker:are open to whatever the outcome is.
Speaker:In other words, you're not giving just so you can get.
Speaker:So if you're going into it, Saying I'm going to give this
Speaker:because I want this in exchange.
Speaker:That's just transactional.
Speaker:That's not generosity.
Speaker:People know where your heart is.
Speaker:And I'll just close with this on this concept.
Speaker:When you give into your industry, people are going to start to take notice and
Speaker:the leaders and the people who care about the industry, especially your customers
Speaker:world are going to take notice to that.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:It's the we'll get into this a little bit more when we talk about platform in
Speaker:terms of what will happen, but what I can say, I'll just sum it up this way.
Speaker:You will get to a point.
Speaker:where you will not be able to out give your industry.
Speaker:In other words, because the seeds that you planted back,
Speaker:six months ago come to fruition.
Speaker:You have no idea in which ways those are going to happen, right?
Speaker:That's your job where you plant your seeds is not necessarily
Speaker:where you will reap your harvest.
Speaker:Interesting.
Speaker:So for somebody who has this, they have noble intention,
Speaker:they have a go givers attitude.
Speaker:They know that they're going to give without expecting an outcome.
Speaker:And I love the fact that they will not have the sales breath.
Speaker:How do you suggest that they make these connections and start
Speaker:to build these relationships?
Speaker:How do they go about doing that consistently week after week so that they
Speaker:can start to see the relationships bloom?
Speaker:And then the sales and results come from that.
Speaker:Great.
Speaker:That's a great question.
Speaker:And it's one of the most popular ones that people, I just need.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:How do I get more people?
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:We'll talk specifically about that when we talk about platform, but, as a, as
Speaker:way of a segue into that I want to ask you a question to our, or to our listener
Speaker:or a friend that's listening here.
Speaker:If your job over the next several months was to collect a bunch of butterflies.
Speaker:How would you do that?
Speaker:Unfortunately, far too many people are looking for immediate tactics that they
Speaker:can run out and desperately do today.
Speaker:And unfortunately, there are a lot of gurus that want to take your
Speaker:money and you end up looking foolish as a result of it because you're
Speaker:doing stuff that you don't enjoy.
Speaker:You're doing stuff that's that reeks of desperation.
Speaker:It's not your fault.
Speaker:Someone just told you that's what you were supposed to do, right?
Speaker:If you're, if you love leadership consulting, that's what you want to
Speaker:do, but someone convinced you that in order to do what you really love,
Speaker:you have to do this other activity that you don't love, meaning.
Speaker:You know, chasing people down or doing tick tock dances to drum up business
Speaker:or, again, slamming people in the DMS or, the kind of this spray and pray
Speaker:tactic where you just treat people like numbers and then people email you back
Speaker:or DM you back saying spammer leave me alone like that does not feel good.
Speaker:99 percent of us there.
Speaker:There's no way that's going to be sustainable for us.
Speaker:It's just emotionally, energetically, spiritually, it feels off.
Speaker:So that's what then leads to burnout.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:I'm here to suggest that you don't need to ever do that ever again.
Speaker:All right. So let's go back to the butterfly analogy.
Speaker:If you wanted to collect a bunch of butterflies, what would you do?
Speaker:You're going to give yourself a few months to do this, right?
Speaker:Again, a guru will sell you a ridiculously looking oversized butterfly net and
Speaker:say, go run it up and down the street.
Speaker:And try to catch butterflies because that's how it's done.
Speaker:And so you can do that.
Speaker:That is a way of doing it.
Speaker:You look ridiculous.
Speaker:And what happens tomorrow?
Speaker:What happens six months from now?
Speaker:You got to keep doing it.
Speaker:You've done nothing wrong.
Speaker:to build your network.
Speaker:You've done very little to build authentic relationships where you've invested into
Speaker:key leaders and centers of influence.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:You're just out there, again just pitching and selling.
Speaker:And it just, you're, it's not an elevated energy.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:So you're competing with the lead gen amateurs when you do that stuff.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:So what's the solution?
Speaker:Obviously you plant a what?
Speaker:But yes, you plant a butterfly garden.
Speaker:It's not that difficult.
Speaker:All right.
Speaker:Now, are you going to get butterflies on day one?
Speaker:Probably not.
Speaker:It's going to take a few days for them to find you.
Speaker:But eventually, what?
Speaker:They will you got to have the patience, you got to do the right thing.
Speaker:Trust people have been there, done that.
Speaker:We've listened, we've worked with over two, somewhere
Speaker:between 200 and 250 clients.
Speaker:We've we'll get into platform.
Speaker:We've implemented these strategies.
Speaker:I work with a lot of VPs of sales.
Speaker:Our clients are all six to eight figure business leaders.
Speaker:They are all selling products generally that have ALVs north of 20, 000.
Speaker:These are higher value engagements.
Speaker:You can't sell those people.
Speaker:Like maybe you could get away with selling, 29 things.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Go do the typical click funnel kind of hypnotic sales language stuff.
Speaker:That's not my area of expertise but that's not going to work
Speaker:for bigger, for decision makers.
Speaker:We're way, we know exactly what you're doing.
Speaker:And we generally don't like to be.
Speaker:Again, higher level leaders don't like to be just thrown in with the masses.
Speaker:That they're, they've evolved a little bit beyond that.
Speaker:Yeah. And not nickel and dime with the upsell.
Speaker:That is absurd stuff.
Speaker:In fact, like for example, like when I give away stuff again, that's
Speaker:so transactional and that ensures that a high level leader is not
Speaker:going to waste their time with you.
Speaker:They're not going to give you 7 for your little tripwire thing.
Speaker:They're like, listen, either we can talk and figure out If this is going to
Speaker:be a good pairing or not, they're not interested in your Ascension model funnel.
Speaker:That's silly stuff.
Speaker:We all know what that is.
Speaker:I'm not saying it doesn't work for lower ticket folks, but these
Speaker:are two different personas, right?
Speaker:And if you really do some customer avatar work, you will find that these
Speaker:are completely different people and should not be sold at the same way.
Speaker:So stop.
Speaker:Trying to shove your high ticket folks down a low ticket path high level.
Speaker:People expect express lanes that are going to be respectful
Speaker:of their time and attention.
Speaker:They're not going to they don't have time to kick around or experiment.
Speaker:They're not going to, again, they're just going to be very protective of their time.
Speaker:And it begins, you brought up a good point, right?
Speaker:About the setting up gateways and these all this friction
Speaker:in engaging with you is just.
Speaker:It's weird, right?
Speaker:For example, it's if you want to come learn about what I'm talking about, you
Speaker:are a little bit more longer form version of this, where I can go through a little
Speaker:bit more data and I source everything.
Speaker:And I share a lot of stories about VPs of sales that have implemented this.
Speaker:And here's what their results were.
Speaker:A lot of founders that have implemented this, there's the results are.
Speaker:I've got an attraction mastery workshop on my website.
Speaker:I don't need your email address.
Speaker:I don't need.
Speaker:Up front.
Speaker:I don't need this.
Speaker:I trust you.
Speaker:You're an adult.
Speaker:If you like what cool.
Speaker:Let's chat.
Speaker:If but I'm, to imagine that, again, Oh I'll share with you some information
Speaker:and I'll share with you a free video.
Speaker:But 1st, you have to give me your email address.
Speaker:I just don't do that.
Speaker:That to me, it just does.
Speaker:It shows a lack of trust in people and it shows a lack of confidence in
Speaker:your ability to win hearts and minds.
Speaker:Start opening the gates for folks.
Speaker:That's just my pov.
Speaker:Some people would argue against that can I ask a question about that though?
Speaker:Because I think you do you are gonna have a lot of people that
Speaker:are gonna push back because it's all about Build your email list.
Speaker:You've got to own the list.
Speaker:You don't know platforms are going to go away, right?
Speaker:So that has been bammed into everyone's head Yes, and it's interesting because
Speaker:genie and I were having a conversation the other day about we are talking with
Speaker:people in conversations that will often give them, resources, but they're not,
Speaker:we don't ask for the email address.
Speaker:So that's, that shows high trust.
Speaker:We've got this guide.
Speaker:Would you like to check it out?
Speaker:Here it is.
Speaker:And we don't need your email address.
Speaker:So I love that concept.
Speaker:And I think it is that trust in that relationship.
Speaker:I think it also puts you at a much higher level of, Hey, I'm going to give this to
Speaker:you if it resonates with you and you think that what we're doing could help you here.
Speaker:Book a call with me.
Speaker:And so I love that.
Speaker:So what kind of led you to do that, Josh?
Speaker:Because I think it's just so awesome.
Speaker:Yeah. One word empathy.
Speaker:So if we are empathic to where what's going on in our guests life, right?
Speaker:If we're truly trying to put ourselves in their position, do we want them to
Speaker:feel like they are always in control?
Speaker:And they are.
Speaker:And the minute that we start to box them in and take away that
Speaker:control, people don't like that.
Speaker:And they back out of it, right?
Speaker:We always want to feel like we've got the ability to decide what happens next.
Speaker:And so that's where you have to create that world.
Speaker:Now, when you watch.
Speaker:And it's not a say I just teach you this stuff.
Speaker:And at the very end of the presentation, you know what my sales
Speaker:pitch is like, Hey, if this was valuable, we want to grab 30 minutes.
Speaker:Cool.
Speaker:My schedule's below.
Speaker:I hope this was super valuable and I hope that it inspires you to make
Speaker:a lot more sales and get consistency and predictability on your calendar.
Speaker:That's it.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:So when, again, when people hear that and then they have the ability to say, yes.
Speaker:I don't have to push or force the hand because we all know what it's like when
Speaker:we're being manipulated or sold at.
Speaker:So when you do that again, people feel like they're losing their agency.
Speaker:Don't do that to people.
Speaker:Be the butterfly or be the butterfly bush instead.
Speaker:What I will do as well during the presentation, I'll say,
Speaker:listen we've launched over 200 podcasts with Up My Influence.
Speaker:If you are interested in podcasts.
Speaker:Guest opportunities.
Speaker:I send an email once a week, if you're interested in that.
Speaker:And again, we've got about 7, 000 people on that email list.
Speaker:I get a better than 40 percent open rate on that email.
Speaker:It's because I'm just like, listen, I will deliver to you value once a
Speaker:week via this email, you're welcome to take a peek at it and hopefully I
Speaker:find some great opportunities for you.
Speaker:I don't sell.
Speaker:Really in that email, like I'll just make announcements about
Speaker:stuff, occasionally, but mostly it's here are eight new podcasts that
Speaker:are looking for guests right now.
Speaker:So that is valuable enough that people say, I want that.
Speaker:And I justify the ongoing relationship with increased value, not just key
Speaker:insights that they can learn on social media, but why does it matter?
Speaker:Email makes sense for me to deliver that content.
Speaker:Otherwise people say, no, giving you my email address is currency.
Speaker:I don't know that I want to give you my currency because again, I haven't tried.
Speaker:I am, people are just worried about being spammed and people, worried about
Speaker:being abused in their email account.
Speaker:So that's, again, you're just reducing risk here for folks when you show
Speaker:an open hand and you again, just continue to lead in generosity.
Speaker:Perfect.
Speaker:So what platforms do you feel like people should be on to
Speaker:start building relationships?
Speaker:Okay, so yeah, so it's platform is a kind of an agnostic term platform
Speaker:could be a lot of different things.
Speaker:Okay. And I'll share with you how we do this.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:But I'll back up the train a little bit for my other company's savings
Speaker:angel, which I launched back in 2007.
Speaker:I had no money for advertising, but what I was able to do is somehow I convinced
Speaker:a radio station to let me do a 3 minute segment about how consumers can get
Speaker:free groceries and I share and explain exactly how they can get like free box
Speaker:of Cheerios or something like that.
Speaker:That was a compelling enough offer that the radio station said.
Speaker:Okay. Okay.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:Hot shot.
Speaker:If you think you're, and so they let me come on and I did a radio segment and
Speaker:I did, and I gave away lots of value.
Speaker:And because of that, I got customers.
Speaker:And back then that was amazing because I didn't even have
Speaker:money to pay my heating bill.
Speaker:And thankfully, I was able to give away so much value that people respected
Speaker:that they liked that now platform today, specifically in the B2B realm for folks
Speaker:that are doing account based sale.
Speaker:Listen.
Speaker:You can do there's so many things that you could do together, but
Speaker:here's the underlying dynamic that I want to illustrate.
Speaker:Most people use platform speaking, podcasting, YouTube, social
Speaker:media, vertical videos, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
Speaker:And you know what, you know where they're shining the spotlight.
Speaker:on themselves.
Speaker:And that's what 90 some percent of people do.
Speaker:Here is something amazing that I learned from my time as a journalist.
Speaker:And that is, I would get journalist credentials and badges to go
Speaker:to these events all the time.
Speaker:And especially if they were an entrepreneurial event
Speaker:and something like the Inc.
Speaker:5, 000 events I've gone to as a journalist, a lot of their events
Speaker:other, social media marketing worlds.
Speaker:And I've also spoke at podcasting conference, Tony Robbins organization,
Speaker:like I've spoke for and when you go to those events and you've got
Speaker:credentials, People treat you differently.
Speaker:People are always like, Oh, Hey, what's going on there, right?
Speaker:Why?
Speaker:What's going on is because founders have a and growth directors have a
Speaker:mandate to get visibility, to tell their story, to attract more audiences.
Speaker:So if you have platform and you shine your spotlight on other
Speaker:people, it automatically puts you in a different category.
Speaker:People want to be around you.
Speaker:High level people want to be around you because of what you represent.
Speaker:Now, you're there to do a job.
Speaker:You have to be good at this.
Speaker:You have to be willing to again, share your stage with other people
Speaker:and make them the star of the show.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:Again, this could look like LinkedIn lives.
Speaker:This could look like vertical videos where you again point
Speaker:and celebrate someone else.
Speaker:But when people see you do this it becomes, it makes you very
Speaker:attractive for that type of person.
Speaker:So for us at up my influence, there are a lot of benefits.
Speaker:To podcasting that nothing else can even remotely touch.
Speaker:We've done a lot of experimenting.
Speaker:I've done over 2000 episodes of my podcast.
Speaker:We've launched over 200 podcasts.
Speaker:We've experimented with lots of other stuff out there.
Speaker:There are so many baked in benefits to the podcast ecosystem that makes
Speaker:this insanely easy for about anybody to do today, if you've dabbled
Speaker:and tried to Start a podcast in the past and it was too much work.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:I believe you today's tools make it so easy zoom and just a conversation
Speaker:with someone else where someone else is the star of the show is , not,
Speaker:that's not the rocket science to what we're doing, but that's the
Speaker:fundamentals of what we're doing, but what you're doing is you are earning.
Speaker:Proximity together.
Speaker:You are earning time together with somebody.
Speaker:And when you earn time together with someone let's say that you like, this
Speaker:is what happened with my influence.
Speaker:There would be no up my influence if I didn't do this.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:Savings angel, my other company was doing well.
Speaker:I started serving pro bono in our local startup community, working with
Speaker:women, known minority owned veteran owned businesses, doing a lot of
Speaker:working, serving on boards, pro bono mentoring workshops, that sort of thing.
Speaker:Anything I could do to help that next generation of business owners figure
Speaker:out like how to get attention, how to get media, that sort of thing.
Speaker:And in that process, I started to get to know my other mentors and
Speaker:one of them wanted to hire me.
Speaker:And I thought, oh okay, I, let me get back to you like, cause
Speaker:I'd never done that before.
Speaker:Savings.
Speaker:I was just, we had a membership based website, but so I
Speaker:called one of my friends.
Speaker:He's yeah, go ahead.
Speaker:And so anyway, that proximity together just get you in the right rooms.
Speaker:So here's another analogy of this.
Speaker:And I'm going to use this.
Speaker:I'll refer back to this a little bit later.
Speaker:Okay. Imagine that you are on a panel.
Speaker:And At a conference, right?
Speaker:And you're in service to an audience.
Speaker:It's a cool honor.
Speaker:It's great to provide value in that way.
Speaker:What happens during that process?
Speaker:You're going to get to know the moderator.
Speaker:You're going to get to know some people with the event.
Speaker:You're going to get to know your fellow panelists.
Speaker:You are building individual.
Speaker:Relationships in that moment.
Speaker:And what I would argue is that those individual relationships can oftentimes
Speaker:be more valuable immediately than your exposure to that crowd because
Speaker:again, you're building relationships.
Speaker:So last thought on this is that if you were to be in that service.
Speaker:And you get to know your other panelists.
Speaker:And once it's all done, if you were to lean over to him and say Kirsten,
Speaker:I really liked what you had to share.
Speaker:Listen, let's grab coffee or something or let's grab a call sometime.
Speaker:I'd love to see if there's something we should be doing together
Speaker:or if I can help in any way.
Speaker:Every leader on the planet would say yes.
Speaker:If you've earned just a little bit of trust and a relationship
Speaker:in there, they will all say yes.
Speaker:And now you get the time together to figure out what you should do together.
Speaker:Josh, it's so funny you bring that up.
Speaker:I was on a panel yesterday for a summit and it's exactly what you're
Speaker:talking about before it even ended.
Speaker:I'd already booked a couple of coffee chats with people.
Speaker:I've got a list of people to follow up with today because
Speaker:they were all brilliant.
Speaker:They were all experts in their field, I'm going to reach out to them, not to try
Speaker:to sell them something, but to find out more about what they do and to build a
Speaker:relationship and find out if there is a collaboration and, We host two podcasts
Speaker:and I think you and I met because I was actually a guest on your podcast, but we
Speaker:have found that like just connecting with people and continuing the conversation
Speaker:ends up helping us in so many ways.
Speaker:And I think you want obviously clients, but two, we also find resources.
Speaker:For our other clients or our friends and family who need things, right?
Speaker:I've had so many people say, Hey, I'm looking for X, Y, Z.
Speaker:I'm like, Oh my gosh, I know the perfect person for you.
Speaker:So as we're building these relationships, whether again, it's a joint venture or
Speaker:a collaboration, or just the one that you have in your back pocket to refer
Speaker:out to someone who needs their product or service that you really trust.
Speaker:To refer out.
Speaker:I think that's huge and I love that you're focusing so much on the relationship of,
Speaker:spotlighting other people, continuing the connection and growing that relationship.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:It's, listen, it's that dynamic of that one plus one equals 11 leaders
Speaker:usually have a lot of things going on.
Speaker:So even if you get to talking and they say it doesn't look like
Speaker:there's anything immediately.
Speaker:You know that we need to do together, whatever, they're not in market
Speaker:or whatever that's okay, because I think we have all we've all have
Speaker:you've been around for any length of time have had those, those surprise
Speaker:introductions, someone ends up on your calendar, You're like who's this?
Speaker:And they're like so and so told me about you.
Speaker:And I'm like, so and and you realize that's someone I talked
Speaker:to a year ago, again, your goal, stop pitching it, everyone.
Speaker:And instead strive to be again, your goal of conversion for the
Speaker:first call, especially should be to evoke in your friend, the response.
Speaker:Oh, good.
Speaker:Now I have a friend who does what you do, if that allows you to relax
Speaker:and step into the right energy.
Speaker:Podcasts do have a lot of advantages baked in, and one of the biggest
Speaker:ones is supply and demand.
Speaker:I can tell you this right now, is that for every decent interview show
Speaker:that's out there, there are thousands.
Speaker:Thousands of guests, because most podcasters don't stick with it.
Speaker:They throw in the towel before they hit episode 20, the majority
Speaker:never make it to episode 20.
Speaker:And I'm talking about independent podcasters do an interview stuff.
Speaker:They don't stick with it.
Speaker:Why?
Speaker:Because they get going.
Speaker:They're like, wait a minute.
Speaker:I just.
Speaker:And I got 62 listens.
Speaker:Now, I'm not going to keep doing that.
Speaker:That's not a good use of my time.
Speaker:So they stop when they're in their teens.
Speaker:What they don't realize is that if they just did 16 interviews, but they saw
Speaker:their guest as a means to the end so that they could build their own audience
Speaker:that my friends is like tripping over huge stacks of cash to pick up pennies.
Speaker:And when, again, the person in front of you, you have a meaningful
Speaker:relationship right there, you need to explore how you can help one another.
Speaker:And listen, I, when I've for the thoughtful entrepreneur,
Speaker:I've done over 2000 interviews.
Speaker:And again, we'll talk about how we can make this a little bit
Speaker:more accessible for anybody.
Speaker:But that's one, nearly 100 percent of my business has come through my podcast.
Speaker:And very few of it.
Speaker:Very little very little has come through from a listener.
Speaker:I have people who listen to the podcast, but I can't think of the last time
Speaker:someone said, yes, I'm a regular listener.
Speaker:And now I decided to reach out and book a call with you.
Speaker:I don't get that very often.
Speaker:That's Really rare.
Speaker:So what I'm telling you is a 2000 episodes in, if my only play were to
Speaker:try to get value from listeners, I would not be doing a podcast, even at 2000
Speaker:episodes, even with the size audience we have, I've got over a hundred thousand
Speaker:on social, I, and we repurpose it.
Speaker:I still.
Speaker:I would drop the podcast today if that's the only value that I got.
Speaker:Where do I get all my value?
Speaker:It's the relationships that I build behind the scenes in my whisper network.
Speaker:It's not showy.
Speaker:It's not flashy.
Speaker:But that is where the best business gets done.
Speaker:And on the golf course, in the VIP lounge, when everyone's relaxed and
Speaker:we're just getting to know each other.
Speaker:So those of you who feel a lot of pressure to do TikTok dances and you'll constantly
Speaker:be low key selling to your friends and family on Facebook there's a better way.
Speaker:You don't have to do that stuff.
Speaker:Just have quiet conversations like the adults do behind the scenes.
Speaker:By the way, forgive me if the way that I'm delivering this
Speaker:is a little ouchy at times.
Speaker:Understand that this is just my POV, my, just my point of view.
Speaker:I, again, I'm an expert in what I'm an expert in and I'm wildly
Speaker:incompetent in most other things.
Speaker:Oh, we know you're a break dancer and you're doing all kinds of TikTok videos.
Speaker:Watch me do the kangaroo.
Speaker:Here we go.
Speaker:Josh, we always enjoy having conversations with you.
Speaker:We love your energy.
Speaker:We love your passion and we know that you're an expert in what you do.
Speaker:And so if people want to reach out to you, I know that you said they can
Speaker:go to your website and you've got a masterclass on there, but can you give
Speaker:them your domain name and any other resources you'd like to provide today?
Speaker:Yeah, sure.
Speaker:Certainly you could just Google my name and you'll see.
Speaker:You'll learn all about me and my background and see
Speaker:the kind of work that we do.
Speaker:Or again, just here, open up your phone or write this down.
Speaker:Here's the web address.
Speaker:It's www dot up my Influence.
Speaker:com.
Speaker:Now, when you go to that website, there's one of two things you're
Speaker:probably going to be interested in.
Speaker:Number one is that if you're successful in business, you're B2B.
Speaker:I'm always looking for podcast guests.
Speaker:As I mentioned, we have over a hundred thousand in our audience.
Speaker:I make this show about you, not me.
Speaker:I would love to share your story and share your success with my audience.
Speaker:It's a good audience.
Speaker:They're business adults.
Speaker:Go click on that and apply to be a guest.
Speaker:I'd love to have you.
Speaker:We do a daily show.
Speaker:That's number one.
Speaker:Number two is click on the button that says Attraction Mastery
Speaker:Workshop or watch the video.
Speaker:Click that.
Speaker:I don't need your email address.
Speaker:I will never know you're there.
Speaker:But just go ahead.
Speaker:What I'm going to do is I'm going to take about an hour and 15 minutes.
Speaker:You can watch me.
Speaker:The pace I already speak, but you can watch me on 1.
Speaker:5 X speed if you want if you dare but you don't even have to watch me.
Speaker:If you want to get some multitasking time, some dog walking time,
Speaker:some driving time or whatever.
Speaker:Go pull it up and listen to in the background.
Speaker:Just we host it right there for you to click and play, but it's
Speaker:my attraction mastery workshop.
Speaker:And I'm going to go through the state of the lead gen industry right now.
Speaker:And I'm going to go through what's working, what's not working and what
Speaker:to do so that you can keep consistent, predictable introductions on your schedule
Speaker:at all times, how to get a hundred percent inbound in the next six months.
Speaker:And I legitimately mean that's exactly what our clients do.
Speaker:Right now, if you're, if you've got some budget and this is entirely up to you.
Speaker:And your ALV or like when you do an engagement with your
Speaker:client is pretty valuable.
Speaker:I listen, I'm always open to opportunities.
Speaker:Let me know what you're doing.
Speaker:I may have some connections.
Speaker:I don't know if there's an opportunity for us, but happy to explore.
Speaker:Maybe I might have some great resources or an introduction or something else, but
Speaker:you'll see, after you watch the video or whatever, like You'll see opportunities
Speaker:where you can grab some time with me.
Speaker:Love to hear from you.
Speaker:Awesome.
Speaker:Josh, we really appreciate you being here today.
Speaker:It's been amazing.
Speaker:And Jeannie, I know you had something to say to Josh.
Speaker:I was just going to say, it's always a pleasure to see you, Josh.
Speaker:Kirsten said, your energy is amazing.
Speaker:And I know our audience will get a ton of value from all of your expertise.
Speaker:So thank you for joining us.
Speaker:My pleasure, ladies.
Speaker:Thank you so much for having me.