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Welcome everyone to our latest episode.

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We are absolutely thrilled to have our special guest.

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His name is Josh Ellich.

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His company is Up My Influence and Josh is a U.

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S.

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Navy veteran, and he launched Up My Influence to help agencies, consultants,

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coaches, and other high ticket B2B service providers skyrocket their sales.

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He's a keynote speaker.

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He writes a syndicated column.

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Thank you. To 1.

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1 million readers.

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He regularly appears on more than 75 TV stations across the country.

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So there's a very good chance that you've already seen him or heard him.

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But we're absolutely thrilled that he came to join us today.

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So welcome Josh.

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Hey, it's great to be here.

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We're excited to have you.

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And we're having one of our favorite conversations, which is sales.

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And I know earlier when we spoke before we hit record, you said there

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aren't many problems in business.

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That increasing your sales won't solve and I thought that was a

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brilliant statement and a great way to start this conversation off.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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It's the number one stress that SMB founders have.

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It's in fact according to the Federal Reserve, two thirds of us say to, that

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financial challenges are significant source of stress in our business.

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And it, it leads to burnout.

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It leads to people throwing in the towel.

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At the end of the day hopefully again, we want to have our offers dialed in,

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hopefully we're good at what we do.

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For most of us, if you're good at what you do, you have a decent offer, people

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have bought it before, listen, your cashflow is going to come down to one.

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Factor you just simply need to build more high level relationships.

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That's what you need more than anything.

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And that's what we're going to be talking about today.

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So again, if you're frustrated that your results are inconsistent, you

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got good months and you got not so good months, that's maddening, like an

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agency owners, consultants, coaches.

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A lot of B2B service providers who specialize in, these bigger

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ticket type transactions that, that can be really frustrating.

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So I hope we can keep some folks in business and help them

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flourish and grow this year.

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Absolutely.

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And I love the fact that you talk about relationships.

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So the sleazy tactics are out, right?

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Relationship building is part of the process.

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So how do you see that playing a role with your clients?

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Yeah that's it, right?

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So we only work with folks that do account based relationship oriented sales.

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And what I mean by that is that if you're a bro y salesperson, that's just slamming

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numbers through and you're going for the jugular you got all your closing tactics,

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and that's just the way you do business.

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I don't think you're going to really resonate with what I have to share.

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I just, I appreciate that.

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That's not my style.

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Who we typically work with are people that don't mind.

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In fact they want to.

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And they know that their best clients come when there is a bit of a friendship

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and a relationship build first.

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If you love getting organic business where let's say you go to an event, you meet

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someone, it just feels very serendipitous.

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You get to talking and that you can help one another.

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And ultimately that leads to engagement.

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If you really enjoyed that type of dynamic.

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That's what I can encourage in your weekly schedule on a regular basis by following

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what we're going to talk about today.

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And it's really rooted in, in, in essentially three foundations.

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Number one, you got to have a little bit of authority.

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We'll touch on that briefly, but number two, this is most critical is you must.

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Lead in generosity and noble intent.

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You must have noble intent.

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You must exercise generosity.

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And again, we'll get into the go giver a little bit, but then finally, number

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three is we're going to talk about how to enable that better than anything today.

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And honestly, there's nothing on the planet that comes close to the

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amount of business development or business, high level relationship

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building that you can do that.

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Nothing comes close compared to what you can do with platform.

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And we'll talk about how to leverage platform to give you an

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unlimited number of high level relationships with the people that

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you should be doing business with.

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I'm excited about point number one.

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I was just going to say that.

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So you're talking about authority.

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So tell us a little bit more about what you mean by that.

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Yeah.

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Yeah. Yeah.

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Here's an analogy, right?

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So let's say you go into a VIP mixer or a speaker mixer.

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If you've ever spoken at a conference you've likely been

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invited to a special side event.

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And those meetings are the best.

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Opportunity those meetings are that those little, mixers are

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absolutely historically where I used to get all of my best business.

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Why?

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Everyone's relaxed.

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No, 1 selling.

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We're all just talking, get to know each other.

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Just mingling about seeing what people are doing.

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But then inevitably, there's going to be someone or you go, that sounds

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really like we should chat sometime to see if there's, I don't know

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if we should be doing something together, if I can help in any way.

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And listen, when you extend that type of invitation, everyone says, yes.

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Okay.

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So that's in person, right?

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What's going on there?

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All they can do to base their judgment of you on is your competence

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and energy in the moment, right?

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That's what they're basing as they're sizing you up.

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Now.

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In person.

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That's great.

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Now they're probably still going to do their due diligence.

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So again, we're going to have to focus on authority anyway, but

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authority simply is, how do we know that you're good at what you do and

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that you solve problems for people just this guest or potential client.

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Okay.

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And that you need to communicate that trust somehow.

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So today That's done on social media that's done on your website, and that's

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done through other authority indicators.

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How might we know that you are good at what you do and that you create results?

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So listen, Rome wasn't built in a day.

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I don't expect you to to obsess on this and then, get.

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30, 60, 90 days from now, you find out finally have a better

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looking website and then the sales are going to come flowing in.

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There's more to it than that.

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So what I'm going to suggest is authority should be something or your authority

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indicators or how you communicate yourself should be something that you work on.

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Every week, brick by brick, Rome wasn't built in a day.

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You just, it's like you're in, you're creating video content, you embed it,

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you work on your branding, you work on your bio, you work on your presentation,

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like all of this stuff, just keep at it week after week, just a little bit.

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Because.

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Listen, if you work on your authority, imagine if you had 10 times the authority

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in your industry than you currently did and you communicated it as such.

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Life's going to be a lot easier for you.

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It's going to feel like you have the lucky juice.

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So look, I'm not a branding expert.

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But what I can say is we all know what it's like when we go to a website

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and it looks like amateur hour.

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And social media and it looks like amateur hour and we also

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all know what it looks like.

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We're like, go to a website.

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We're like, Whoa, Hey, wow.

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So I don't want anyone to feel bad because again, those things just take

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time but the more you inch toward that, the easier life will get.

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So start now, right?

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It's the Chinese proverb.

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The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago.

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The second best time is now get going on it.

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Absolutely.

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I love that because the concept of just improving it little by little

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week after week is so absurd in our society of quick fixes, right?

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So I like that you're talking about, because again, authority is built

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over time and by constantly improving with the assets that you have and

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continuing to put great content out is going to continue to make you show.

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As the expert in the authority.

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Now, the next part I love because you really focus a

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lot on the go giver concept.

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So how does that play into how you really serve people?

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Yeah.

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So here again, say, if we think about the way that we like to do business

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look, I just ask a simple question to our friend that's listening right now

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or watching, do you like being sold at?

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How does that feel?

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When you're treated like a number or a piece of meat and you can tell that

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the other person is just looking out because they want to make the sale.

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How does that feel to you?

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How does that affect the chances that you might engage with that person?

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It goes down significantly.

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The best thing you can do.

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And this is, listen, I don't expect you to have this thing fixed overnight either,

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but you got to work on your intent.

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Okay.

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And the way I refer to it is noble intent.

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What do you want?

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If what you want is money, got to make this sale.

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And everyone is a prospect in your eyes.

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And everyone that comes into that prospect world is going to get one

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pitch and one possible outcome.

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And that's really what you're focused on.

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We're all going to know it.

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And you're going to be really frustrated.

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And you're going to feel like you're stuck in the hamster wheel.

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Why?

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Because you've got sales breath.

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We all smell it.

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You can't fake it.

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This is one thing you need to know is that consumers have never been more skeptical.

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Consumers have never been more protective because we don't like

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that feeling of being sold out.

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So you gotta stop it.

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Instead, you should be aiming To be a friend who happens to be

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really good at what you do and you are here to be of service in

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however that looks to your friends.

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Now, granted, you're not going to work for free and high level leaders

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are not going to ask you to work for free, but you need to have the energy

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of someone who is willing To just work in your friend's best interest in

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order to help them get what they want.

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Now, if you'll do that, then you'll earn trust more, more more readily.

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And then that's what's going to be the go juice for actual engagement.

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And you should know that if you presuppose What your guest wants and needs and you

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assume 100 percent time it's your product.

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Again, we're going to feel that and we're not going to like it.

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And you may be missing out on different opportunities that

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could have been far more valuable.

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And the only way to figure that out is if it's just, just.

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Relax, man.

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Don't go into pitch mode.

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Like anyone who did that in a mixer, everyone would start like

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making faces and warning each other.

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Oh, we have a me monster in the room slapping business cards in

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people's hands and just trying to sell them on whatever their thing is.

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That's really annoying.

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Don't ever be that person.

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Honestly, leaders don't do that.

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That's an amateur play.

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So please don't do that.

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So again, noble intent means you're exercising and you're

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leading in generosity.

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Now in the go giver, what that means is you always lead with give first and you

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are open to whatever the outcome is.

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In other words, you're not giving just so you can get.

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So if you're going into it, Saying I'm going to give this

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because I want this in exchange.

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That's just transactional.

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That's not generosity.

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People know where your heart is.

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And I'll just close with this on this concept.

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When you give into your industry, people are going to start to take notice and

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the leaders and the people who care about the industry, especially your customers

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world are going to take notice to that.

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Okay.

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It's the we'll get into this a little bit more when we talk about platform in

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terms of what will happen, but what I can say, I'll just sum it up this way.

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You will get to a point.

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where you will not be able to out give your industry.

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In other words, because the seeds that you planted back,

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six months ago come to fruition.

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You have no idea in which ways those are going to happen, right?

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That's your job where you plant your seeds is not necessarily

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where you will reap your harvest.

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Interesting.

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So for somebody who has this, they have noble intention,

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they have a go givers attitude.

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They know that they're going to give without expecting an outcome.

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And I love the fact that they will not have the sales breath.

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How do you suggest that they make these connections and start

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to build these relationships?

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How do they go about doing that consistently week after week so that they

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can start to see the relationships bloom?

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And then the sales and results come from that.

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Great.

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That's a great question.

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And it's one of the most popular ones that people, I just need.

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Okay.

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How do I get more people?

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Okay.

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We'll talk specifically about that when we talk about platform, but, as a, as

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way of a segue into that I want to ask you a question to our, or to our listener

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or a friend that's listening here.

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If your job over the next several months was to collect a bunch of butterflies.

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How would you do that?

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Unfortunately, far too many people are looking for immediate tactics that they

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can run out and desperately do today.

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And unfortunately, there are a lot of gurus that want to take your

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money and you end up looking foolish as a result of it because you're

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doing stuff that you don't enjoy.

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You're doing stuff that's that reeks of desperation.

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It's not your fault.

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Someone just told you that's what you were supposed to do, right?

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If you're, if you love leadership consulting, that's what you want to

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do, but someone convinced you that in order to do what you really love,

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you have to do this other activity that you don't love, meaning.

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You know, chasing people down or doing tick tock dances to drum up business

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or, again, slamming people in the DMS or, the kind of this spray and pray

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tactic where you just treat people like numbers and then people email you back

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or DM you back saying spammer leave me alone like that does not feel good.

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99 percent of us there.

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There's no way that's going to be sustainable for us.

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It's just emotionally, energetically, spiritually, it feels off.

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So that's what then leads to burnout.

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Okay.

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I'm here to suggest that you don't need to ever do that ever again.

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All right. So let's go back to the butterfly analogy.

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If you wanted to collect a bunch of butterflies, what would you do?

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You're going to give yourself a few months to do this, right?

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Again, a guru will sell you a ridiculously looking oversized butterfly net and

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say, go run it up and down the street.

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And try to catch butterflies because that's how it's done.

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And so you can do that.

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That is a way of doing it.

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You look ridiculous.

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And what happens tomorrow?

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What happens six months from now?

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You got to keep doing it.

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You've done nothing wrong.

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to build your network.

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You've done very little to build authentic relationships where you've invested into

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key leaders and centers of influence.

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Okay.

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You're just out there, again just pitching and selling.

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And it just, you're, it's not an elevated energy.

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Okay.

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So you're competing with the lead gen amateurs when you do that stuff.

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Okay.

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So what's the solution?

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Obviously you plant a what?

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But yes, you plant a butterfly garden.

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It's not that difficult.

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All right.

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Now, are you going to get butterflies on day one?

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Probably not.

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It's going to take a few days for them to find you.

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But eventually, what?

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They will you got to have the patience, you got to do the right thing.

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Trust people have been there, done that.

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We've listened, we've worked with over two, somewhere

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between 200 and 250 clients.

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We've we'll get into platform.

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We've implemented these strategies.

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I work with a lot of VPs of sales.

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Our clients are all six to eight figure business leaders.

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They are all selling products generally that have ALVs north of 20, 000.

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These are higher value engagements.

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You can't sell those people.

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Like maybe you could get away with selling, 29 things.

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Yeah.

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Go do the typical click funnel kind of hypnotic sales language stuff.

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That's not my area of expertise but that's not going to work

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for bigger, for decision makers.

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We're way, we know exactly what you're doing.

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And we generally don't like to be.

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Again, higher level leaders don't like to be just thrown in with the masses.

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That they're, they've evolved a little bit beyond that.

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Yeah. And not nickel and dime with the upsell.

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That is absurd stuff.

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In fact, like for example, like when I give away stuff again, that's

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so transactional and that ensures that a high level leader is not

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going to waste their time with you.

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They're not going to give you 7 for your little tripwire thing.

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They're like, listen, either we can talk and figure out If this is going to

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be a good pairing or not, they're not interested in your Ascension model funnel.

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That's silly stuff.

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We all know what that is.

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I'm not saying it doesn't work for lower ticket folks, but these

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are two different personas, right?

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And if you really do some customer avatar work, you will find that these

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are completely different people and should not be sold at the same way.

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So stop.

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Trying to shove your high ticket folks down a low ticket path high level.

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People expect express lanes that are going to be respectful

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of their time and attention.

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They're not going to they don't have time to kick around or experiment.

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They're not going to, again, they're just going to be very protective of their time.

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And it begins, you brought up a good point, right?

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About the setting up gateways and these all this friction

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in engaging with you is just.

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It's weird, right?

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For example, it's if you want to come learn about what I'm talking about, you

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are a little bit more longer form version of this, where I can go through a little

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bit more data and I source everything.

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And I share a lot of stories about VPs of sales that have implemented this.

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And here's what their results were.

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A lot of founders that have implemented this, there's the results are.

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I've got an attraction mastery workshop on my website.

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I don't need your email address.

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I don't need.

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Up front.

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I don't need this.

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I trust you.

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You're an adult.

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If you like what cool.

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Let's chat.

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If but I'm, to imagine that, again, Oh I'll share with you some information

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and I'll share with you a free video.

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But 1st, you have to give me your email address.

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I just don't do that.

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That to me, it just does.

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It shows a lack of trust in people and it shows a lack of confidence in

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your ability to win hearts and minds.

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Start opening the gates for folks.

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That's just my pov.

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Some people would argue against that can I ask a question about that though?

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Because I think you do you are gonna have a lot of people that

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are gonna push back because it's all about Build your email list.

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You've got to own the list.

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You don't know platforms are going to go away, right?

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So that has been bammed into everyone's head Yes, and it's interesting because

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genie and I were having a conversation the other day about we are talking with

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people in conversations that will often give them, resources, but they're not,

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we don't ask for the email address.

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So that's, that shows high trust.

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We've got this guide.

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Would you like to check it out?

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Here it is.

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And we don't need your email address.

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So I love that concept.

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And I think it is that trust in that relationship.

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I think it also puts you at a much higher level of, Hey, I'm going to give this to

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you if it resonates with you and you think that what we're doing could help you here.

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Book a call with me.

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And so I love that.

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So what kind of led you to do that, Josh?

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Because I think it's just so awesome.

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Yeah. One word empathy.

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So if we are empathic to where what's going on in our guests life, right?

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If we're truly trying to put ourselves in their position, do we want them to

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feel like they are always in control?

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And they are.

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And the minute that we start to box them in and take away that

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control, people don't like that.

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And they back out of it, right?

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We always want to feel like we've got the ability to decide what happens next.

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And so that's where you have to create that world.

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Now, when you watch.

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And it's not a say I just teach you this stuff.

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And at the very end of the presentation, you know what my sales

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pitch is like, Hey, if this was valuable, we want to grab 30 minutes.

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Cool.

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My schedule's below.

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I hope this was super valuable and I hope that it inspires you to make

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a lot more sales and get consistency and predictability on your calendar.

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That's it.

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Yeah.

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So when, again, when people hear that and then they have the ability to say, yes.

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I don't have to push or force the hand because we all know what it's like when

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we're being manipulated or sold at.

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So when you do that again, people feel like they're losing their agency.

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Don't do that to people.

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Be the butterfly or be the butterfly bush instead.

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What I will do as well during the presentation, I'll say,

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listen we've launched over 200 podcasts with Up My Influence.

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If you are interested in podcasts.

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Guest opportunities.

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I send an email once a week, if you're interested in that.

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And again, we've got about 7, 000 people on that email list.

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I get a better than 40 percent open rate on that email.

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It's because I'm just like, listen, I will deliver to you value once a

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week via this email, you're welcome to take a peek at it and hopefully I

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find some great opportunities for you.

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I don't sell.

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Really in that email, like I'll just make announcements about

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stuff, occasionally, but mostly it's here are eight new podcasts that

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are looking for guests right now.

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So that is valuable enough that people say, I want that.

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And I justify the ongoing relationship with increased value, not just key

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insights that they can learn on social media, but why does it matter?

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Email makes sense for me to deliver that content.

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Otherwise people say, no, giving you my email address is currency.

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I don't know that I want to give you my currency because again, I haven't tried.

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I am, people are just worried about being spammed and people, worried about

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being abused in their email account.

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So that's, again, you're just reducing risk here for folks when you show

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an open hand and you again, just continue to lead in generosity.

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Perfect.

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So what platforms do you feel like people should be on to

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start building relationships?

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Okay, so yeah, so it's platform is a kind of an agnostic term platform

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could be a lot of different things.

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Okay. And I'll share with you how we do this.

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Okay.

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But I'll back up the train a little bit for my other company's savings

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angel, which I launched back in 2007.

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I had no money for advertising, but what I was able to do is somehow I convinced

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a radio station to let me do a 3 minute segment about how consumers can get

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free groceries and I share and explain exactly how they can get like free box

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of Cheerios or something like that.

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That was a compelling enough offer that the radio station said.

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Okay. Okay.

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Okay.

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Hot shot.

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If you think you're, and so they let me come on and I did a radio segment and

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I did, and I gave away lots of value.

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And because of that, I got customers.

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And back then that was amazing because I didn't even have

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money to pay my heating bill.

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And thankfully, I was able to give away so much value that people respected

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that they liked that now platform today, specifically in the B2B realm for folks

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that are doing account based sale.

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Listen.

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You can do there's so many things that you could do together, but

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here's the underlying dynamic that I want to illustrate.

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Most people use platform speaking, podcasting, YouTube, social

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media, vertical videos, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

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And you know what, you know where they're shining the spotlight.

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on themselves.

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And that's what 90 some percent of people do.

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Here is something amazing that I learned from my time as a journalist.

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And that is, I would get journalist credentials and badges to go

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to these events all the time.

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And especially if they were an entrepreneurial event

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and something like the Inc.

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5, 000 events I've gone to as a journalist, a lot of their events

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other, social media marketing worlds.

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And I've also spoke at podcasting conference, Tony Robbins organization,

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like I've spoke for and when you go to those events and you've got

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credentials, People treat you differently.

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People are always like, Oh, Hey, what's going on there, right?

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Why?

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What's going on is because founders have a and growth directors have a

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mandate to get visibility, to tell their story, to attract more audiences.

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So if you have platform and you shine your spotlight on other

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people, it automatically puts you in a different category.

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People want to be around you.

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High level people want to be around you because of what you represent.

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Now, you're there to do a job.

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You have to be good at this.

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You have to be willing to again, share your stage with other people

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and make them the star of the show.

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Okay.

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Again, this could look like LinkedIn lives.

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This could look like vertical videos where you again point

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and celebrate someone else.

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But when people see you do this it becomes, it makes you very

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attractive for that type of person.

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So for us at up my influence, there are a lot of benefits.

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To podcasting that nothing else can even remotely touch.

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We've done a lot of experimenting.

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I've done over 2000 episodes of my podcast.

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We've launched over 200 podcasts.

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We've experimented with lots of other stuff out there.

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There are so many baked in benefits to the podcast ecosystem that makes

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this insanely easy for about anybody to do today, if you've dabbled

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and tried to Start a podcast in the past and it was too much work.

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Yeah.

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I believe you today's tools make it so easy zoom and just a conversation

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with someone else where someone else is the star of the show is , not,

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that's not the rocket science to what we're doing, but that's the

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fundamentals of what we're doing, but what you're doing is you are earning.

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Proximity together.

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You are earning time together with somebody.

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And when you earn time together with someone let's say that you like, this

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is what happened with my influence.

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There would be no up my influence if I didn't do this.

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Okay.

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Savings angel, my other company was doing well.

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I started serving pro bono in our local startup community, working with

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women, known minority owned veteran owned businesses, doing a lot of

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working, serving on boards, pro bono mentoring workshops, that sort of thing.

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Anything I could do to help that next generation of business owners figure

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out like how to get attention, how to get media, that sort of thing.

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And in that process, I started to get to know my other mentors and

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one of them wanted to hire me.

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And I thought, oh okay, I, let me get back to you like, cause

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I'd never done that before.

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Savings.

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I was just, we had a membership based website, but so I

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called one of my friends.

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He's yeah, go ahead.

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And so anyway, that proximity together just get you in the right rooms.

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So here's another analogy of this.

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And I'm going to use this.

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I'll refer back to this a little bit later.

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Okay. Imagine that you are on a panel.

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And At a conference, right?

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And you're in service to an audience.

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It's a cool honor.

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It's great to provide value in that way.

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What happens during that process?

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You're going to get to know the moderator.

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You're going to get to know some people with the event.

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You're going to get to know your fellow panelists.

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You are building individual.

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Relationships in that moment.

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And what I would argue is that those individual relationships can oftentimes

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be more valuable immediately than your exposure to that crowd because

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again, you're building relationships.

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So last thought on this is that if you were to be in that service.

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And you get to know your other panelists.

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And once it's all done, if you were to lean over to him and say Kirsten,

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I really liked what you had to share.

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Listen, let's grab coffee or something or let's grab a call sometime.

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I'd love to see if there's something we should be doing together

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or if I can help in any way.

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Every leader on the planet would say yes.

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If you've earned just a little bit of trust and a relationship

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in there, they will all say yes.

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And now you get the time together to figure out what you should do together.

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Josh, it's so funny you bring that up.

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I was on a panel yesterday for a summit and it's exactly what you're

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talking about before it even ended.

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I'd already booked a couple of coffee chats with people.

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I've got a list of people to follow up with today because

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they were all brilliant.

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They were all experts in their field, I'm going to reach out to them, not to try

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to sell them something, but to find out more about what they do and to build a

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relationship and find out if there is a collaboration and, We host two podcasts

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and I think you and I met because I was actually a guest on your podcast, but we

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have found that like just connecting with people and continuing the conversation

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ends up helping us in so many ways.

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And I think you want obviously clients, but two, we also find resources.

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For our other clients or our friends and family who need things, right?

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I've had so many people say, Hey, I'm looking for X, Y, Z.

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I'm like, Oh my gosh, I know the perfect person for you.

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So as we're building these relationships, whether again, it's a joint venture or

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a collaboration, or just the one that you have in your back pocket to refer

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out to someone who needs their product or service that you really trust.

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To refer out.

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I think that's huge and I love that you're focusing so much on the relationship of,

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spotlighting other people, continuing the connection and growing that relationship.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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It's, listen, it's that dynamic of that one plus one equals 11 leaders

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usually have a lot of things going on.

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So even if you get to talking and they say it doesn't look like

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there's anything immediately.

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You know that we need to do together, whatever, they're not in market

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or whatever that's okay, because I think we have all we've all have

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you've been around for any length of time have had those, those surprise

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introductions, someone ends up on your calendar, You're like who's this?

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And they're like so and so told me about you.

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And I'm like, so and and you realize that's someone I talked

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to a year ago, again, your goal, stop pitching it, everyone.

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And instead strive to be again, your goal of conversion for the

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first call, especially should be to evoke in your friend, the response.

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Oh, good.

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Now I have a friend who does what you do, if that allows you to relax

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and step into the right energy.

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Podcasts do have a lot of advantages baked in, and one of the biggest

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ones is supply and demand.

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I can tell you this right now, is that for every decent interview show

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that's out there, there are thousands.

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Thousands of guests, because most podcasters don't stick with it.

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They throw in the towel before they hit episode 20, the majority

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never make it to episode 20.

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And I'm talking about independent podcasters do an interview stuff.

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They don't stick with it.

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Why?

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Because they get going.

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They're like, wait a minute.

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I just.

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And I got 62 listens.

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Now, I'm not going to keep doing that.

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That's not a good use of my time.

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So they stop when they're in their teens.

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What they don't realize is that if they just did 16 interviews, but they saw

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their guest as a means to the end so that they could build their own audience

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that my friends is like tripping over huge stacks of cash to pick up pennies.

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And when, again, the person in front of you, you have a meaningful

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relationship right there, you need to explore how you can help one another.

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And listen, I, when I've for the thoughtful entrepreneur,

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I've done over 2000 interviews.

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And again, we'll talk about how we can make this a little bit

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more accessible for anybody.

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But that's one, nearly 100 percent of my business has come through my podcast.

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And very few of it.

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Very little very little has come through from a listener.

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I have people who listen to the podcast, but I can't think of the last time

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someone said, yes, I'm a regular listener.

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And now I decided to reach out and book a call with you.

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I don't get that very often.

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That's Really rare.

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So what I'm telling you is a 2000 episodes in, if my only play were to

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try to get value from listeners, I would not be doing a podcast, even at 2000

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episodes, even with the size audience we have, I've got over a hundred thousand

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on social, I, and we repurpose it.

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I still.

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I would drop the podcast today if that's the only value that I got.

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Where do I get all my value?

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It's the relationships that I build behind the scenes in my whisper network.

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It's not showy.

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It's not flashy.

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But that is where the best business gets done.

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And on the golf course, in the VIP lounge, when everyone's relaxed and

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we're just getting to know each other.

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So those of you who feel a lot of pressure to do TikTok dances and you'll constantly

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be low key selling to your friends and family on Facebook there's a better way.

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You don't have to do that stuff.

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Just have quiet conversations like the adults do behind the scenes.

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By the way, forgive me if the way that I'm delivering this

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is a little ouchy at times.

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Understand that this is just my POV, my, just my point of view.

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I, again, I'm an expert in what I'm an expert in and I'm wildly

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incompetent in most other things.

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Oh, we know you're a break dancer and you're doing all kinds of TikTok videos.

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Watch me do the kangaroo.

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Here we go.

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Josh, we always enjoy having conversations with you.

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We love your energy.

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We love your passion and we know that you're an expert in what you do.

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And so if people want to reach out to you, I know that you said they can

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go to your website and you've got a masterclass on there, but can you give

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them your domain name and any other resources you'd like to provide today?

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Yeah, sure.

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Certainly you could just Google my name and you'll see.

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You'll learn all about me and my background and see

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the kind of work that we do.

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Or again, just here, open up your phone or write this down.

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Here's the web address.

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It's www dot up my Influence.

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com.

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Now, when you go to that website, there's one of two things you're

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probably going to be interested in.

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Number one is that if you're successful in business, you're B2B.

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I'm always looking for podcast guests.

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As I mentioned, we have over a hundred thousand in our audience.

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I make this show about you, not me.

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I would love to share your story and share your success with my audience.

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It's a good audience.

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They're business adults.

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Go click on that and apply to be a guest.

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I'd love to have you.

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We do a daily show.

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That's number one.

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Number two is click on the button that says Attraction Mastery

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Workshop or watch the video.

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Click that.

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I don't need your email address.

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I will never know you're there.

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But just go ahead.

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What I'm going to do is I'm going to take about an hour and 15 minutes.

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You can watch me.

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The pace I already speak, but you can watch me on 1.

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5 X speed if you want if you dare but you don't even have to watch me.

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If you want to get some multitasking time, some dog walking time,

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some driving time or whatever.

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Go pull it up and listen to in the background.

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Just we host it right there for you to click and play, but it's

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my attraction mastery workshop.

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And I'm going to go through the state of the lead gen industry right now.

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And I'm going to go through what's working, what's not working and what

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to do so that you can keep consistent, predictable introductions on your schedule

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at all times, how to get a hundred percent inbound in the next six months.

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And I legitimately mean that's exactly what our clients do.

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Right now, if you're, if you've got some budget and this is entirely up to you.

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And your ALV or like when you do an engagement with your

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client is pretty valuable.

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I listen, I'm always open to opportunities.

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Let me know what you're doing.

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I may have some connections.

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I don't know if there's an opportunity for us, but happy to explore.

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Maybe I might have some great resources or an introduction or something else, but

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you'll see, after you watch the video or whatever, like You'll see opportunities

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where you can grab some time with me.

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Love to hear from you.

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Awesome.

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Josh, we really appreciate you being here today.

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It's been amazing.

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And Jeannie, I know you had something to say to Josh.

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I was just going to say, it's always a pleasure to see you, Josh.

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Kirsten said, your energy is amazing.

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And I know our audience will get a ton of value from all of your expertise.

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So thank you for joining us.

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My pleasure, ladies.

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Thank you so much for having me.