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Joel ByersHot breath verse.
Joel ByersWelcome back to Hot Breath Live, your weekly comedy tune up with comedian Joel Byers and Yoshi.
Joel ByersSo we do these every Tuesday on our YouTube channel where we answer your questions live on the air and bring on some special guests every now and then.
Joel ByersAnd this is a very special occasion.
Joel ByersAs we've been talking about comedy specials a lot, this cat just dropped one of the most unique specials I've ever seen that you're definitely going to want to check out.
Joel ByersAvailable on YouTube.
Joel ByersHot breathe called live from my mother's funeral, hot brethren and sister.
Joel ByersAnd welcome to the hot breath verse.
YoshiYeah, special Benny blue, everyone.
Benny BlueYeah, my mom's dead.
Benny BlueWhat's up?
Benny BlueYeah, yeah, what's going on?
YoshiLet's go, gentlemen.
Benny BlueWe're here.
Benny BlueWe're live.
Benny BlueWe're officially live.
Benny BlueEverybody troll Joel in the comments.
Benny BlueYeah, forgot to hire a production intern.
Benny BlueAnd you know, we're raising the budgets here on hot breaths of.
Benny BlueSo we'll get a GoFundme going.
Joel ByersYeah, go join that Patreon, that patriot.
Benny BlueAh, here we go.
YoshiSame.
Joel ByersBut thanks for joining us, Benny.
Joel ByersBefore we start mentioning enjoying the show.
Joel ByersSo we appreciate the kind words as well.
Benny BlueYep, hot breath guy put on a t shirt down with the cause, man.
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Joel ByersBut right out the gate, you know, we've had a few comics on where they've kind of done specials based on grief, like Glen Tickle and Winston Hodges, based on different family member deaths.
Joel ByersAnd they did specials around them.
Joel ByersWhat, besides it being about the death of your mother, like, what kind of inspired this and what made you think to take this format?
Joel ByersBecause I think what I find really interesting about it is just with everyone having accessibility to do comedy specials now, it's we're all thinking, how can I make this uniquely mine?
Joel ByersHow can I take the format and make it uniquely me?
Joel ByersWhich is what you achieved beautifully.
Joel ByersSo maybe kind of take us through, oh, I want to do a special about this topic and then how do you start to work it out to then get it onto YouTube?
Benny BlueYeah, for sure.
Benny BlueWell, no, I appreciate you checking it out and the kind words, it means a lot.
Benny BlueAnd to be honest, I think it was kind of a confluence of different factors that just sort of passed each other at the right time.
Benny BlueI think Covid had a lot to do with it, because, you know, by the time Covid hit, I was probably about, I don't know, five years in chains, you know, into this racket.
Benny BlueAnd I kind of.
Benny BlueI was actually grateful for it because it kind of forced me to stop and think about, like, you know, what do.
Benny BlueWhat do I really want?
Benny BlueWhat do I really want to do with this and what's going to be kind of the next thing to sort of get me to where I want to go?
Benny BlueNot necessarily, you know, what we.
Benny BlueI'm sure you've talked about here on hot breath many times what we consider kind of the sort of linear path for success that's been sort of the traditional way to do things.
Benny BlueSo I was very, like, aware of that.
Benny BlueAnd then also kind of to the point that you just made about the approach to stand up in terms of making specials.
Benny BlueNow, I knew going into this that I wanted to do something that was equal parts funny and interesting.
Benny BlueThere's a million funny people.
Benny BlueThere's no shortage of funny.
Benny BlueBut I think to really get people on board, especially with something longer form, certainly something longer than you're just gonna, you know, scroll through while you're on the toilet, you need to do something that's gonna be a little bit more of a hook, and I think, bring people into your story.
Benny BlueSo when I, you know, my mom was, you know, essentially in the process of dying, you know, that was kind of the catalyst for me to really examine my life, examine my life with her, how I grew up, how that affected my sense of humor, you know, some of the things that she did or didn't do and how that all kind of ties into, you know, the place that I got to by the time I actually wrote the special, because, you know, as you watch, it's very autobiographical.
Benny BlueIt's not just me, you know, me having conversations with my mom.
Benny BlueI'm taking you on this ride about, you know, these stages of my life and how she, you know, affected it one way or another.
Benny BlueSo I think.
Benny BlueI think for a lot of it, it was just kind of right place and right time going into it, because I knew that I just wasn't.
Benny BlueI wasn't just going to compile some jokes about, you know, dating is hard in spirit airlines.
Benny BlueI mean, I just.
Benny BlueWe just.
Benny BlueWe need it.
Benny BlueWe needed to.
Benny BlueWe just.
Benny BlueThis is my day.
Benny BlueWe need opportunity.
Benny BlueWe need to do something.
Benny BlueWe need to do something to come out the gate swinging and offer something that's a little just, you know, just a bit more interesting.
Benny BlueAnd honestly, man, like, the response has been overwhelmingly positive.
Benny BlueAnd the intended.
Benny BlueThe intended kind of takeaway that I was hoping people would get from it has been that to almost a 100% clip.
Benny BluePeople are understanding.
Benny BlueLike, it's funny, but also, you know, they are catching on to the emotion and finding a way to connect with it, you know, in terms of, you know, their own grief and, you know, their.
Benny BlueTheir own experience of loss and that sort of thing.
Benny BlueSo that's all kind of went into the gumbo of, you know, my motivation to make this thing.
Joel ByersYeah.
Joel ByersAnd I'm gonna put a link to it in the show notes for people to check out because everyone definitely needs to watch this.
Joel ByersI'm sorry if I cut you off there, Yoshide.
Joel ByersI just want to let.
YoshiNo, no, no.
YoshiI mean, I think when we got the link, we were like, this is so different, so far from the norm in what a special is.
YoshiDid you think about, like, I guess, what was your motivation behind the special in terms of what you wanted to put out to the world?
YoshiWhat do you want people to get.
Benny BlueOut of it so for.
Benny BlueSo the first part of that, I mean, the main thing, you know, I did, of course, want to honor my mom.
Benny BlueThat was the main thing.
Benny BlueAnd I wanted to make sure I did right by her.
Benny BlueAnd I've had a couple people ask me whether it's just, like, talking to other folks or even just, like, people in passing about how I thought she would feel about it.
Benny BlueAnd I do genuinely think, you know, she would really enjoy it.
Benny BlueShe never actually, my mom was disabled, and she fought cancer, and she ultimately died of cancer.
Benny BlueSo I didn't grow up with, like, a quote unquote regular mom in that sense.
Benny BlueSo she never got to see me do stand up live.
Benny BlueShe saw, like, clips and stuff, but she did get to see me on tv, which was really cool.
Benny BlueAnd obviously, you know, her being kind of a, you know, redneck lady from Michigan that's like.
Benny BlueThat's like the bar for success.
Benny BlueYour son moves to California.
Benny BlueIs he in tv or is he, you know, is he in a movie?
Benny BlueYou know, hopefully not smoking crack, doing porn, but, you know, that's adjacent.
Benny BlueAnd fortunately, it didn't get that low for me.
Benny BlueCame close.
Benny BlueWe got real close with some, like, choices, but thankfully, we did all right.
Benny BlueAnd I got on tv so she could flip between, you know, seeing the same episode of criminal minds and big bang theory, whatever she's watching.
Benny BlueAnd then she would see me.
Benny BlueShe saw me on several episodes of a tv show, which is really cool.
Benny BlueSo I think, you know, you know, I know one of my favorite things about this podcast is I think the show gets into kind of the inside baseball of comedy, but like, in a good, meaningful way, not just like work hard and do this.
Benny BlueAnd I think that's what I really.
YoshiEnjoy about the, we stopped telling people to work hard.
YoshiLike.
Benny BlueYeah, if you need to know how to work hard, go to target and get a Walmart gift card.
Benny BlueLike, just like, feel, like, get, like, you know what I mean?
Benny BlueLike, it's gonna be on, it's gonna be on a card.
Benny BlueAt this point, you don't need us to tell you to work hard.
Benny BlueBut the thing I think about it, you know, for the position that I was at as a comic was to be honest with you, man.
Benny BlueLike, I'm, we're all competitive as comics, but, like, I try to tamper it back because I can be extremely competitive.
Benny BlueAnd I was just like, for me, kind of not only being in LA, but just kind of like the, you know, the world at large, you know, I wanted to put out a body of work and show people, like, listen, I can do this at a high level.
Benny BlueI don't think I'm by any means great at comedy yet.
Benny BlueI still think I have years off of that.
Benny BlueBut the one thing I wanted to prove mostly to myself and others is like, I can put out a really good body of work that's going to be funny from top to bottom, but it's also going to be memorable and be like, oh, man, I remember when, like, Benny, like, did that thing and that was like, I remember when I first put it out there, a bunch of comics commented on it and they're like, they're like, I remember one buddy specifically, he was like, dude, if you land the plane on this, this is actually going to be really, really good.
Benny BlueAnd I'm like, well, spoiler alert, I did.
Benny BlueSo just wait till I drop it because I'm not playing around with this.
Benny BlueLike, yeah, I do.
Benny BlueAnd you guys can relate to this running material like this at bad bar shows and open mics and the occasional club shows when everybody's trying to be punchy.
Benny BlueAnd I get it.
Benny BlueI totally get it.
Benny BlueBut, like, this is just not that type of thing.
Benny BlueAnd sometimes it'd be great and sometimes they would look, they were looking at me like I had, like, a dick coming out of my forehead.
Benny BlueYou know what I mean?
Benny BlueIt was just like, and it's just, and even to the point when I was, like, doing, like, early dry runs of this, I was like, and this is like two or three months out, I'm like, man, if I, if I, if I shoot myself in the foot on this, I have one show and one take to get this, it's, I'm gonna be so frickin in the gutter, you don't even understand.
Benny BlueSo I was worried even a couple months out, and then I think, and that was just kind of like, my motivation going in is kind of being able to prove to myself that I was ready to do something like this.
Benny BlueAnd I think the second part of what you're saying, yoshi, I mean, I think the big takeaway is, but it's not even really so much about you getting invested into me as a comic.
Benny BlueI hope that's obviously a byproduct.
Benny BlueAnd when we do things like this, of course, selfishly, we want this to in some way, one, you know, some shape or form or another, advance our career, whatever that means to us.
Benny BlueBut I do think I would like people, and the feedback I've been getting pretty much across the board and all the platforms is I want to be able to hit people in a certain place in their heart where they're like, you know what?
YoshiI'm.
Benny BlueI went through something similar to that.
Benny BlueIt was really freaking hard to talk about in the moment.
Benny BlueBut as a comic, anytime I'm faced with that sort of stuff, of course I can be serious once time to be serious, but I use jokes and stories to navigate the craziness of watching somebody die or, you know, bad things that happen to you in life.
Benny BlueAnd I think I.
Benny BlueIt can honestly kind of be, like, an undervalued thing about how we present comedy to the marketplace.
Benny BlueI feel like it's a great way to connect with people.
Benny BlueAnd I think it's deeper than just saying, hey, man, I saw your funny joke about Biden on Instagram, and it's like, that's great if that's how you find me, cool.
Benny BlueBut I feel like this is going to create a more lasting relationship because I feel like this allows me to kind of build trust with an audience because I'm going to a place that's hard for a lot of people to talk about.
Benny BlueGrief and death is, like, the hardest stuff to joke about.
Benny BlueI mean, other than the.
Benny BlueOther than grape.
Benny BlueBut beyond that, it's like, this is, like, what people don't want to talk about, and they avoid it.
Benny BlueAnd I think it was really.
Benny BlueIt's been really cool to get that experience from talking to people, whether it's, like, in the comments of the DM's about that being their takeaway, because that's exactly what I was going for.
Benny BlueSo lets me know I was on the, on the right track for sure.
YoshiYeah.
YoshiI mean, I think at the end of the day, your special, I know just starting it, I was like, instantly transformed to the last death that I dealt with and the last funeral that I dealt with.
YoshiAnd I think that's what made it really, really fun to watch, was you took a moment that everyone has experienced and you found a lot of joy for however many minutes your special washing.
YoshiAnd I truly appreciate it.
YoshiYou're like, oh, not only were you telling stories, you were self deprecating.
YoshiYou were telling stories about your, your history, her history.
YoshiYou're growing up, like all those things, and then you're, you also remember, you're also at a funeral, like, and it's just like the, just that element of sort of just bringing it back to your.
YoshiAnd I think for me, it reminded me, I was like, this is how funeral should be.
YoshiLike, that's what I, like, really felt, julian.
YoshiLike, I mean, I know for me, I've told my wife, I was like, whatever happens to me, we better have a good time.
YoshiLike, and yes, I want a lineup.
YoshiLike, go through the list, get a lineup of people to either roast me, talk about me, whatever, but I want people to have a good time even in my death.
YoshiAnd so it, like, brought back a lot of, like, just subtle memories of going through people who've died, going through, like, trying to figure out how to, like, feel about it, but ultimately, just the fun that you had.
YoshiAnd you're right, people don't necessarily associate fun and funerals together.
YoshiAnd I think you really accomplished that with the special.
Benny BlueNo, I really appreciate you saying that.
Benny BlueAnd that, that's a, that's a great observation.
Benny BlueAnd something I haven't really talked about a lot is that's, I think even really the, the overarching takeaway is that when you go to real funerals and it's to be, you know, understood, it's, you know, it's people's highlight reel.
Benny BlueAnd especially when you're in a church, there's going to be a certain level of respect and just, you're not really going to go for the gusto so much in certain settings now, you know, people have different funerals.
Benny BlueYou know, like you said, like, people can have more fun and treat it more like a party, but using this as kind of like, the backdrop of, like, obviously you're looking at the stage and you see the urn and you see the wreath and you see the pictures and I'm in my suit, and it's, the presentation of it is tinged in that one man show way where it's like, hey, this guy's giving a eulogy, but then he's turning it into a stand up show.
Benny BlueAnd that was the big thing I wanted to.
Benny BlueThere was a real funeral, which obviously I touched on the special, but then there's this kind of packaging about all these different things about this person's life and how I felt about it and our family and everything that you're just not going to say in that real kind of setting.
Benny BlueAnd this was kind of that outlet to be like, no, this is the real deal.
Benny BlueLike, I'm giving you the good, bad, and ugly, and I'm still going to put a bow on it and make sure I show this person the proper love and respect.
Benny BlueBut I'm also not going to be fake.
Benny BlueLike, we're going to kind of bring it all together in that way.
Benny BlueSo that's a great observation.
Benny BlueLike, that's exactly what I.
Benny BlueWhat I was going for.
Benny BlueAnd I think it's why it's connecting to people, because it's like, like you said, like, when you do you think about, like, when you die, like, you don't want some, like, you don't want, like, a bland, like, everybody, you know, standing by the casket and throwing the dirt on and saying, well, that's it.
Benny BlueAnd you just kind of keep it moving.
Benny BlueIt's like, no, like, Yoshi want.
Benny BlueYoshi wants a lineup.
Benny BlueThis needs to be something that would be representative of your life.
Benny BlueAnd I get a lot of my sense of humor from my mom.
Benny BlueAnd so I know these were jokes and styles of jokes that she would like.
Benny BlueSo, like, if I'm gonna write this, I'm gonna be sarcastic.
Benny BlueI'm gonna be biting, because that's what she liked and that's what we like together.
Benny BlueSo I'm hopeful.
Benny BlueI'm glad that you noticed that.
Benny BlueAnd that's something that I really, really wanted to come across and how I, like, presented this and shot it.
YoshiSo mission accomplished, dude.
YoshiThat was.
YoshiThis is nice.
YoshiI just.
YoshiBecause it's so different.
YoshiNo one, you know, we talked about, we've talked about specials and just how.
YoshiHow do you stand out in the sea of all the specials?
YoshiAnd, you know, obviously, the comedy game is changing, but this is so different, dude.
YoshiThis is so next level, but also so heartfelt.
YoshiAnd I think that's a difference in the comedy game is you brought heart to funny, but you also brought yourself into it.
YoshiRight.
YoshiAnd brought like your story into the whole thing.
YoshiSo very memorable, man.
YoshiI big fan of it.
Joel ByersIt's also a great writing exercise for to be working towards like a specific topic or theme.
Joel ByersLike, okay, I know I want to do a comedy special about this topic.
Joel ByersSo all my writing is in this direction.
Joel ByersSo it can help with writer's block maybe, or just I don't know what to write about today.
Joel ByersWell, I know this is the end goal.
Joel ByersI'm writing a special about this one theme or event.
Joel ByersSo that may have helped with the writing and overall just remaining productive and online because I can be like, oh, here's a bit.
Joel ByersThere's a bit, and be all over the place.
Joel ByersBut as I've been more thinking of having the next special being more of a themed special about a specific topic, because I think the first time I talked to Steve Byrne about it is what he said.
Joel ByersThat's what he does with all his specials.
Joel ByersHe starts with the end and then works backwards.
Joel ByersSo seeing you execute this was something very easily not funny, but you making it funny and cathartic for people that watch it.
Joel ByersIt's.
Joel ByersYeah, I don't, I don't know what my question is.
Joel ByersMaybe how did you decide what to add and what to get rid of to help the story arc and still.
YoshiBe your writing process to get, for sure.
Benny BlueSo a lot of it, a lot of it felt like Beethoven sitting on the floor at the piano feeling for vibrations and dumping buckets of cold water over my head.
Benny BlueLike, dude, like, if you, if you look at my, if you look at my Google, my Google Doc for the actual special, it's like, it's like v five, v six.
Benny BlueYou know what I mean?
Benny BlueBecause like, it's just like, it's just, it's just chopping wood, carrying water, folding the sword, hammering it, all of that.
Benny BlueAnd I, you know, to Joel, to your point, I mean, I think I, that's what made it not only interesting but also motivating for me was that I knew that I was going to write this thing, obviously, when I started writing it.
Benny BlueYou don't know quite the shape it's going to be in.
Benny BlueYou just kind of know the area that you might live in if you're doing it kind of about one central theme or a big theme and then kind of things sort of orbiting around it or whatever.
Benny BlueSo that kind of gave me, that kind of gave me the goal.
Benny BlueAnd then when I also gave myself a, you know, a shooting deadline, I shot this in December of last year.
Benny BlueAlso.
Benny BlueI like you know, I like to kind of, you know, be a little bit of a pressure player.
Benny BlueLike, okay, you got a deadline, man.
Benny BlueLike, you can't.
Benny BlueYou put the deposit down in theater.
Benny BlueYou can't get out of it.
Benny BlueYou got a director, you got rented cameras.
Benny BlueYou got to do the thing.
Benny BlueWhatever the thing is going to be, you got to do it.
Benny BlueYou're, you know, doing hello, my baby, hello, my honey spinning plates figured out so that those kind of two things were big motivating factors.
Benny BlueAnd then actually writing it, um, I was able to sort of start with the, you know, central stories, and then from there, what I would kind of do is not only work on the flow, but then also get even more granular and then start to work on, like, the punches and, like, the sub punches.
Benny BlueA good thing that I actually.
Benny BlueAnd you guys will appreciate this.
Benny BlueSo when I was kind of rounding third on writing this, a big inspiration for me was the hot breath episode with Maple Gotzi.
Benny BlueAnd I remember a specific thing that he said.
Benny BlueThere you go.
Benny BlueThere it is.
Benny BlueChildren's claps.
Benny BlueWe love it.
Benny BlueAnd it was a big motivation for me because there's a clip, and I'm sure you can link it in the chat or in the show notes and stuff, but you took a jolly, you clip something.
Benny BlueIt was a section, I think, when you're just kind of getting into advice.
Benny BlueAnd there was one thing that really stuck out to me that was really motivating for how I really filled out these stories and the punches, and it was Nate.
Benny BlueAnd, of course, I'm butchering and paraphrasing, but Nate said something to the effect of, when you're telling a longer story, the longer that you go without a joke, he said something to the effect of, like, it's like filling a balloon with air or something like that.
Benny BlueAnd it's like, just kind of you, the more you can kind of, like, punch it up and kind of take people along with you, the less pressure that you have, you have for that kind of big bang at the end of the story.
Benny BlueAnd that's kind of what I was avoiding with writing this.
Benny BlueSo by the time I got to the final material for the special, I felt really good about, okay, there is a cohesive narrative.
Benny BlueThere's jokes without, and I felt really good about how things could tie together with callbacks, that sort of thing.
Benny BlueAnd I did kind of the Louis ck method where I took my strongest bit, and I started with that.
Benny BlueSo I think the funniest bit is the one that I start with.
Benny BlueIt's the cousin Kathy bit.
Benny BlueSo right, right out of the gate, I'm hitting you at a high, and then I'm kind of bringing you down, and then I'm taking you back up the roller coaster slowly but surely to hopefully kind of peek at, you know, sort of peek at the end in that way.
Benny BlueSo that was all kind of the part of the process.
Benny BlueAnd then the urn spots that basically, for those who haven't seen it, I would do joke stories.
Benny BlueAnd then I go kind of over to the urn, and then I'm sort of reading things and saying things to the urn as if I were saying them to my mom that I wanted to say when she was still here.
Benny BlueTo be honest, from pure comic brain, I didn't want to do that at first.
Benny BlueThat was my friend Matt who directed it.
Benny BlueThat was his influence to push me to add that section of it.
Benny BlueSo I wrote those things, but I just wanted to.
Benny BlueI.
Benny BlueAt first, I just wanted to keep it strictly jokes and stories.
Benny BlueBut I'm so glad that he pushed me to add that because I think that's what kind of adds that sort of interesting and unique sort of tie in about what are we really talking about here and what is the kind of the overall theme.
Benny BlueAnd I think that also kind of brought viewers back in to the fact that, oh, this is supposed to be at a funeral.
Benny BlueIt's not this guy just going willy nilly and just saying a bunch of crazy stuff and then saying, all right, good night.
Benny BlueIt brought it all back to, I think, the emotion and the connective tissue of all the stories, rather than just, like, you know, just telling a bunch of jokes and kind of getting out of there.
Benny BlueWould it have worked?
Benny BlueSure.
Benny BlueBut I do think it elevated it to another level to kind of have that element in this with the whole presentation.
Benny BlueAnd so by the time I got to kind of the final spots, like, you know, I really got it tight.
Benny BlueI really drilled it.
Benny BlueThere was nothing from when we shot it that I cut.
Benny BlueEverything that you see in there is what was shot.
Benny BlueThe only thing that we edited was, like, the transitions from the jokes to the earn spots to the ending poem and all that stuff.
Benny BlueSo I didn't have to cut any material, which was great.
Benny BlueSo everything that I did there, we kept.
Benny BlueSo, yeah, like, that was really kind of, like, the overall, you know, sort of process of.
Benny BlueOf writing it and, like, kind of like, my experience of, like, how am I going to take this big overarching thing and just get it to its best points and get it, you know, just get it into shape to perform as best as I could.
YoshiSo just out of curiosity, is this your first special?
Benny BlueYeah, it's my first one.
YoshiOkay.
YoshiSo when you decided to do a special, did you take any of the material that you already had just as a comedian, or did you think this theme and then said, I'm gonna write around this theme for just this special?
YoshiSo what was your process of your old jokes versus stuff for this material?
YoshiBecause I didn't, I guess.
YoshiWhat was your thought process when you thought about doing this special around the, this topic?
YoshiAnd did you take your old stuff and try to smush it in?
YoshiOr did you say, I'm just going to write based on this theme and work it out?
Joel ByersAnd how long you been doing comedy?
Benny BlueSo I'm in.
Benny BlueI'm depending on how you count the COVID recess, I am about eight and a half years, nine ish, give or take.
Benny BlueBut yoshi, to your question.
Benny BlueSo it was kind of a combination of both.
Benny BlueSo for the most part, it was all new stuff from scratch.
Benny BlueThe only bits that I were kind of considered older bits that I would do kind of standalone that would work well, but I sort of refashioned them for.
Benny BlueThis was the bit where I'm talking about going to music school and then the bit where I'm talking about walking in on my parents having sex.
Benny BlueThose had existed, but I had essentially rewrote those and kind of just did them in a way that fit better with the, with the special.
Benny BlueYeah.
Benny BluePretty much everything else was, you know, a year out was like, you know, shoddy versions of what they eventually became and then obviously working them out as best they could.
Benny BlueBecause, you know, it's like when it's your first thing and nobody really knows who you are and you have a limited budget and limited resources, you got to kind of, you have to work with the tools that you're given.
Benny BlueSo it just took me, it just took a lot of work and a lot of trust in myself to, like, have my instincts to really tighten the writing and all that.
YoshiWhat was the time period between when you thought you were going to shoot it to when you shot it?
Benny BlueUm, probably like a year and a half.
YoshiOkay.
Benny BlueGive or take?
Benny BlueYeah, probably about a year and a half.
YoshiSo then you worked out all the new stuff within that year and a half?
Benny BlueYeah.
Benny BlueReally?
Benny BlueYeah, really.
Benny BlueWithin, I would say, like eight months to a year was when I really was like, you know, nose to the grindstone, really working hard on getting all that stuff together.
Benny BlueSo that was, that was probably about the timeline.
YoshiYeah.
YoshiThat's awesome.
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Joel ByersSo the question from McGill, I've been doing twelve open mics a week for three months.
Joel ByersI get the strong impression that open mic comedy is more about standout shock than comedy that kills at a show.
Joel ByersHow do you thread that?
Benny BlueInteresting.
Benny BlueShould I do it?
Benny BlueShould I, should I take this one?
Joel ByersGo for it.
Joel ByersYeah.
Benny BlueWell, first of all, wow, lots of, lots of mics a week.
Benny BlueYou've clearly abandoned your whole family and I admire that, to be honest with you.
Benny BlueYou're all in.
Benny BlueHere's the thing about open mics.
Benny BlueI don't know where they're at.
Benny BlueMaybe they can put that in the chat.
Benny BlueBut open mics, definitely, once you start getting a bit longer in the tooth and stand up, they start to, the diminishing value starts to kick in in terms of what to expect out of them and what you're going to get out of them.
Benny BlueNow, when you're really, really new, great to go to mics, particularly if you're still figuring out your voice or you're still getting comfortable on stage.
Benny BlueI mean, that's not anything you probably haven't heard either from this show or anybody else, but it's definitely true.
Benny BlueI do think, though, once you get to a point where you're secure with some of your writing, particularly if you have like a, a short set that you feel really good about, that, you know, can do well in different types of rooms and you've just worked out a lot.
Benny BlueOne thing I would say to be careful of, because it can be deceiving, and I've went through this in spades, is that, you know, you can, you can do stuff in a room full of comics that falls flat, that kills in front of an audience and vice versa.
Benny BlueIt's true.
Benny BlueAnd the, our ears, and it's only just because we've been doing it for a long time.
Benny BlueIt's just harder to, it's harder to make us laugh out loud, but it doesn't mean it's not funny what you're saying, because we're just so.
Benny BlueI mean, Joel has apparently volunteered to sit through open mic comedy lately, and he knows it's, it's, it could be hell on wheels, man.
Benny BlueYou're listening to a lot of people who are not practitioners of the craft yet, and it can be hard on the ears.
Benny BlueSo that's not necessarily a good barometer always of what, what a good joke looks like.
Benny BlueBut on the same token, particularly when you're really new, it can also kind of force you to really sharpen your pen in terms of a very specific reference or a very specific way of saying things, which, to his question doesn't necessarily have to be shock value.
Benny BlueIt could just be something that is very specific and very observational and funny in that way that's going to, you know, catch people off guard.
Benny BlueLike, that's one of my big goals even still as I'm writing stuff is particularly if just more, I don't know, topical stuff or whatever you want to call it.
Benny BlueWhat's that thing that I'm going to say or how I'm going to say it that's really going to kind of get people say, oh, I didn't, you know, whether it's like a misdirection or, you know, whatever kind of tactic you're taking, being an open mics kind of helped that because it kind of forces you to think about it in a deeper way.
Benny BlueIt can be very easy to get lazy on stage in front of an audience and get people to laugh at just a premise and all that sort of stuff.
Benny BlueBut when you are around comics, you do have the opportunity to really sharpen your punchlines, and it just kind of, it just kind of puts the calluses on your hands.
Benny BlueSo if you can deal with that, then you know you're going to be better off once you're in front of audiences because you just know, you know, what a room of disapproving people feels like, so it becomes less scary.
Benny BlueSo now, again, you have to manage the bad habits you can take away, because you can absolutely take bad habits away from open mics.
Benny BlueBut there is that value, I think, particularly as a writer, that forces you, I think, to think a lot more about your jokes.
Benny BlueSo by the time you get, you do get to a real audience, you know, you should already be comfortable on stage and have a good idea of how you want to sound and what you want to talk about.
Benny BlueBut that's going to be like the extra, especially if you're working that hard.
Benny BlueLike sometimes, listen, we all know comics who go to a zillion friggin mics a week who do not get better at stand up at all.
Benny BlueIt is astounding.
Benny BlueAnd, and if you're going to work that hard, you got to come in.
Benny BlueYou got to come into it.
Benny BlueEven with every set about, like, what is that thing?
Benny BlueWhat is that small thing?
Benny BlueI'm going to get better about me as a comic or about that set.
Benny BlueSo hopefully that wasn't too much of a bullet point presentation, but that would be, like, my main takeaway for someone in, in their shoes, for sure.
YoshiNo, that's, that's solid stuff.
YoshiI always tell people, comedians are not real.
YoshiWe're not real people.
YoshiWe are different.
YoshiWe've got some here.
Benny BlueHe's not real.
Benny BlueLook at this.
Benny BlueHe's a ghost.
Joel ByersMy wife was texting me.
Joel ByersI'm sorry.
YoshiYeah, we're not real people.
YoshiAnd so I always say, like, don't use us as the barometer for how your jokes are.
YoshiYes.
YoshiAre there times when comedians feedback is good?
YoshiYes, but not 100%.
YoshiSo if everything's working in a room full of comics, don't believe that it's going to work in a room full of actual people.
YoshiYou got to test your stuff out in front of real people.
YoshiAnd so.
YoshiAnd you got to find that barometer of, well, I did it at an open mic.
YoshiAnd if you're only going to open mics where there's nothing but comedians, you're doing yourself a disservice.
YoshiYou got to find real people to actually, like, consume your material.
YoshiAnd so I think it's helpful to get out into the real world.
YoshiAs I say, yes, it's good if you've got mics with comics, but, man, that combination of comic of mics without comics is good for your soul as well.
Joel ByersBut some people only have access to those shows, especially starting out.
Joel ByersSo it's making the most of those shows.
Joel ByersEven if it is all comics, it's still not phoning it in.
Joel ByersAnd why bother?
Joel ByersWhat does it matter?
Joel ByersBut, like, having an intention for that set, what are you gonna get better at at this one set?
Joel ByersAnd it's a marathon, and it adds up over time, but it really is.
Joel ByersYeah.
Joel ByersMaking the most of each set, regardless of the setting, and performing as if it was a really good show and creating that habit.
YoshiYeah, I just don't want people to get in the habit of thinking that because they've done twelve mics a night for two years, that what they're getting from feedback perspective is real audience members.
YoshiWhen you go to a real mic.
YoshiI mean, when you go to a real showcase show, right.
YoshiI just think you have to have some combination where the people that have heard your jokes are actually potential audience members.
YoshiThat's what I mean.
YoshiI mean, like, that's reality, right.
YoshiAnd I always warn people.
YoshiThat's why I think when you get to a point where you're doing a lot of comedy, you gotta travel.
YoshiYou gotta see if your jokes work in other spaces.
YoshiYou gotta test your stuff out in different rooms, like, we talk about it.
YoshiSee if your joke works in an urban room.
YoshiSee if it works in an alt room.
YoshiSee, it works in a white room.
YoshiSee, it works in the latin room.
YoshiI think just knowing and feeling like how actual, real people consume your material is so important.
YoshiYes.
YoshiIf that's the only thing you can get, great.
YoshiBut I would say try your best to get your jokes said in front of actual, real human beings that are not comedians.
Joel ByersGood stuff.
Joel ByersYeah.
Joel ByersSo just treat each show.
Joel ByersTake each show seriously.
Joel ByersMcGill.
YoshiYeah.
Joel ByersYou know, if it is all comics, just perform as if it was, like, a real audience and really just start to create that muscle that I'm performing as if this is the show I wish it was.
YoshiAnd I would say this, too.
YoshiI would say one of my favorite things about open mics is not being on stage.
YoshiIt's the stuff of working on your jokes with other comedians that you didn't do on stage.
YoshiI think there's so much value that a lot of comics don't have.
YoshiLike, take advantage of just asking another comedian that you respect or someone that you, like, want to get their perspective.
YoshiHey, what'd you think about that joke?
YoshiI think is such an invaluable aspect that a lot of people don't do.
YoshiThat I think is very helpful of just know, hey, was that stupid?
YoshiLike, not necessarily was that stupid, but, like, what do you think about that material?
YoshiOr what do you think about that punchline?
YoshiOr, you know, I always tell people, hey, if you got a tag for me, let me know.
YoshiLike, I'd appreciate it, for sure.
Benny BlueYeah, absolutely.
Benny BlueNo, that.
Benny BlueThat's a.
Benny BlueThat's a great point.
Benny BlueI take advantage of that.
Benny BlueYou know, I don't go to mics a ton at this point, but when I do, I for sure take advantage of that, because I like to go to rooms where I can be around people that I respect, and particularly when I'm working out, like, brand new stuff.
Benny BlueThat's typically when I'm going to.
Benny BlueNot always, but to mics where I can just kind of like, gut check some of the stuff, and I think that's good.
Benny BlueBut let me add an addendum to what I was just saying real quick that I wish somebody would have told me when I was first starting, or maybe they did and I had been drinking or something like that.
Benny BlueBut, you know, we all make mistakes.
Benny BlueDon't strive to be, especially if you're in a big market, because, like, I already lived here.
Benny BlueSo this is where I started.
Benny BlueBut, like, if I.
Benny BlueIf I had my druthers, I probably would have preferred to start in a smaller market.
Benny BlueBut don't strive, particularly if you're still at the pretty much all mic stage.
Benny BlueDon't strive to be the funniest guy in the room.
Benny BlueStrive to be the best version of your voice, because, believe it or not, one of the biggest lies in the stand up business is that hard work is just automatically rewarded.
Benny BlueAnd it's not.
Benny BlueWhat is rewarded is the people who can find the best way to connect with an audience.
Benny BlueThat's who's rewarded.
Benny BlueSo that's why you'll see people who've been doing this for a year or two, and they'll blow up.
Benny BlueAnd the reason why they've blown up is because they found a specific thing about them, whatever that thing is, that has resonated with an audience at a high level, and they've been able to leverage that, whether it's, like, bigger gigs or people coming out to see them or going on tour, opening or featuring for somebody.
Benny BlueSo that's why if you've been doing this for a minute and you're like, I was like, why is that person feature every night?
Benny BlueIt's like, it's because they figured out that thing about them doesn't mean that they're taking something away from you.
Benny BlueThey're just figuring out that thing about them that works so they can translate that into people wanting to see them.
Benny BlueLike, there are a zillion funny comics out there in every market, but the problem that most of us have is that we're still trying to find our way to.
Benny BlueHow do we translate that from being like, man, I really killed at that club spot.
Benny BlueBut then, you know, you're kind of going home, and you're like, well, dang, like, what?
Benny BlueWhat's really happening?
Benny BlueVersus.
Benny BlueOkay, I know I figured this out.
Benny BlueNow, how can I.
Benny BlueHow can I get that to connect?
Benny BlueBecause at the end of the day, look, man, like, these clubs, these theaters, whatever.
Benny BlueButts in seats, they want butts in seats.
Benny BlueThat's what it comes down to.
Benny BlueHowever we like to spin cycle it for our own eagles egos.
Benny BlueThat's what they want.
Benny BlueAnd you have to be able to find your way to get to that if you're going to be a professional comedian, because if not, then you're just, you're.
Benny BlueEven if you're doing clubs or Jerry's yuck yuck room or whatever, you're still a hobbyist.
Benny BlueUntil we actually get to the point where people, even if it's ten people, people are actually, like, coming out to see you.
Benny BlueSo don't get confused with, I'm pounding the mics and doing this with necessarily advancing your abilities, your career, because they're not directly correlated.
Benny BlueSo you have to kind of navigate that, too.
Benny BlueBut that takes time.
Benny BlueIt takes experience.
Joel ByersShout out to the yuck, yuck hut.
Benny BlueYep.
Joel ByersThere next weekend, I'll send my avails.
Joel ByersYep, I'll let you veil.
Benny BlueMe and Joel Yoshi opening for Gallagher four.
Benny BlueYeah, yeah.
YoshiWho books that?
YoshiLet's get that email.
Joel ByersSo we have a question all the way from India.
Joel ByersSo we want to make sure we get this one.
Benny BlueAll right.
Joel ByersIt's like 03:00 a.m.
Joel Byersover in India, but the hot breath of verse is strong in India.
Joel ByersWe got strong, strong presence over there.
Benny BlueBrush your teeth after this.
Benny BlueGood lord.
Joel ByersAditya Verma, should a new comic practice the performance and material separately?
Benny BlueUm, well, I'm trying to understand that question.
Benny BlueGet.
Benny BlueI mean, I would.
Benny BlueAt first blush, I would say no, because it's all kind of one thing if I'm getting the question right.
YoshiI think.
YoshiI wonder if it's more like there's some people who say their jokes and then some people who perform their jokes.
YoshiSure.
Benny BlueOkay.
YoshiAnd who sound a little different when they're saying the joke versus when they're actually performing.
Benny BlueGot it.
Benny BlueOkay.
Joel ByersI mean, I would reverse, like, do all the one in the same.
Joel ByersSorry.
Benny BlueYeah, no, no, I mean, I would say this if I'm understanding correctly, and I've.
Benny BlueI've run into this as well.
Benny BlueThere are, there are things that you write that they could be just on paper, on their face, it could be very funny.
Benny BlueBut if you haven't made that sort of, like, like, mind body connection of, like, the.
Benny BlueAnd I've run into this.
Benny BlueI run into this now with new stuff that I'm working on now.
Benny BlueIt's incredibly frustrating, but it makes it fun.
Benny BlueYou.
Benny BlueIf you can't find that connection about what you're writing versus, like, how you want to perform it or say it, you could be sitting on something that's very funny.
Benny BlueYou just have not connected the dots, put the puzzle pieces together to actually make that translate on stage.
Benny BlueSo you could be in your mirror right now reciting things that you were just crushing, crushing the stuffed animals.
Benny BlueYou know what I mean?
Benny BlueStanding.
Benny BlueOh.
Benny BlueApplause breaks just for laughs.
Benny BlueBedroom addition.
Benny BlueYou're crushing it.
Benny BlueBut then you get on stage and you just, you, you brick like a masonry.
Benny BlueAnd, you know, because you don't, you haven't made that connection between what you're writing and how you're gonna perform it.
Benny BlueAnd by the way, it doesn't have to be that hard if you can be natural to who you are and what you're trying to say.
Benny BlueThe other thing you also have to reckon with, which is something that I've had to deal with, is, like, as just like a writer, like, I know that I could be, like, in a writer's room writing for other people or like Yoshi, like, you're talking about, like, when you're helping other people tag stuff up.
Benny BlueLike, you can totally help people write stuff that's funny.
Benny BlueBut there are, there are plenty of instances where you and another comic could have the same joke.
Benny BlueAnd it could be equally as funny just as a joke, standalone.
Benny BlueBut it could be extremely funny from that person and bomb horribly from you because it doesn't sound or look right coming from you, by the way, that's not code for saying the n word on stage.
Benny BlueI'm just saying when.
Benny BlueIt's just awkward sometimes.
Benny BlueAnd believe me, we see plenty of people in our travels who go for it off the top rope and you're like, no, abort mission.
Benny BlueBut, like, that's the thing.
Benny BlueYou have, you also have to reckon with, like, I've had, I've had to put jokes to the side or rework them or just say, I gotta put this aside because it's just not gonna work coming from my voice.
Benny BlueAnd you have to kind of find that way with your audience as well.
Benny BlueSo the overall answer, I, for my opinion, feel free to jump in.
Benny BlueBut, like, write, do your best to write.
Benny BlueBut also, you just, there's no way of knowing until you get away from the stuffed animals and do it for real people.
Benny BlueYeah.
Joel ByersYeah.
Joel ByersThat's when you really know.
YoshiYeah.
Joel ByersHe got his answer.
Joel ByersSo, yeah, thanks.
Joel ByersGot my answer.
Benny BlueSo he's like, he's like, benny, I got my answer two minutes ago and you're still rambling.
Benny BlueThanks a lot.
Benny BlueI'm going to bed.
Joel ByersIt's 03:00 a.m.
Joel Byersno, it's, it's all a process.
Joel ByersSometimes I figure out the physicality first, and then I'm like, oh, how can I do that voice on existing jokes?
Joel ByersAnd then other times it's, oh, this church.
Joel ByersThe words are working now.
Joel ByersHow can I perform it as opposed to just reciting it?
Joel ByersIt's.
Joel ByersYeah, they're all like kind of one and the same, but they all happen at different times.
Joel ByersIt's not like it all clicks and you're like, oh, this joke works physically and as written.
Joel ByersIt's.
Joel ByersIt kind of.
Joel ByersIt's an evolution.
YoshiYeah.
YoshiI always say you have to know how a joke feels coming out of your body.
YoshiLike, you just have to know how it feels as you're saying it and all the things and all the parts and pieces that you want with the joke, you gotta know how it feels coming out.
YoshiAnd I think, yeah, to your point, it's important just to, like, the performance of it is very different than just the written word of it.
YoshiAnd we all sound different.
YoshiYou know, I've, I've told Joel a bunch of jokes and they haven't worked for him because he's not a nigerian dad.
YoshiYou know what I mean?
YoshiI was like, dude, this perspective is so next level, but it just doesn't work for him.
Benny BlueSo more of a south african dad to me.
Joel ByersYeah, yeah, yeah.
Joel ByersI'm definitely an apartheid, for sure.
Benny BlueBy the way, by the way, quick extension for the previous question and this one.
Benny BlueAnd because it's something that I have to remind myself as well when you're writing one of my biggest things and I would shoot myself in the foot a lot is overwriting, putting too many words into a joke or a setup of a joke or even the punch of it.
Benny BlueLeave yourself some space, and it depends what type of performer you are, but leave yourself some space to organically punch up the joke in the moment rather than being like, I wrote it this way and this is how I have to say it because it's on the page.
Benny BlueLike, I even still fight that bad habit of, like, give yourself some breathing room to perform it and just like, let something, because I'm very good about, like, just finding something and just like, saying it.
Benny BlueBut I can definitely shoot myself in the foot when I feel like I'm quote unquote too committed to the page, if you will.
Benny BlueAnd it's like you just have to kind of give yourself a little bit of space, especially when you're only, you're only allowed like five or seven minute sets.
Benny BlueIt's so easy to be like, I'm going to cram all these great ideas into five minutes, and then you say one and a half of them, and then you get the light and you're like, shit.
Benny BlueNow your set is all completely disjointed because you're trying to do too much.
Benny BlueSo it's like, that was something I've had to kind of tell myself, which I think would be good for those last two questions.
Benny BlueLike, give yourself a little bit of space with your writing because it's going to make you more comfortable and it'll probably make what you're trying to say better because it's just going to feel more natural to whatever your stage presence or Persona is.
YoshiI like that.
Joel ByersSo let's get to the last few questions here.
Joel ByersWe could do a little lightning round.
Joel ByersYeah, we may go a few minutes over.
Joel ByersWe started a few minutes late.
Joel ByersI thought I hit go live, and then eight minutes later, I was like, oh, we're not live yet.
Joel ByersAll the problems that has never happened.
Joel ByersOut of all the tech issues, that's a first.
Benny BlueSo live from South Africa, thank you for.
YoshiIt's good to know that Benny Blue brings the best out of you.
YoshiSo.
Joel ByersYeah, yeah.
Joel ByersDubs general called you Benny boom because you were dropping.
Joel ByersDropping so many gems here.
YoshiOh, yeah.
Joel ByersBenny boom.
Joel ByersSo, Zach Newford, what's the craziest place you've ever performed?
Joel ByersAnd you're in LA, right?
Joel ByersI think that's.
Joel ByersI don't know if we established that.
Joel ByersSo you start in LA, but, um.
Benny BlueYeah, yeah.
Joel ByersWhat's the craziest place you ever perform there, Benny?
Benny BlueOh, wow.
YoshiOr period.
YoshiEven if it's not in LA.
Benny BlueNo, yeah, for sure.
Joel ByersFor sure.
Joel ByersYeah.
Benny BlueI'm trying to.
Benny BlueYou.
Benny BlueI mean, God knows we perform.
Benny BlueIt just people's keats and euros, for God's sake.
Benny BlueI mean, there's everywhere.
Benny BlueI would say that's a little bit of an on the spot question, but I respect it.
Benny BlueI would say the one that kind of comes to mind is I perform.
Benny BlueI had a good set, so thank God this is pre Covid.
Benny BlueI performed at a.
Benny BlueFor sure, like, sent, like, straight out of central casting, like, biker bar.
Benny BlueAnd they were very, like.
Benny BlueThey were.
Benny BlueThey were giving off strong vibes.
Benny BlueLike, make me.
Benny BlueMake me laugh or you're gonna be.
Benny BlueWe're gonna drag you behind our Harley, basically.
Benny BlueLike, that was strong vibes.
Benny BlueLike, like, for sure.
Benny BlueLike, that.
Benny BlueLike, the butterfly knife is, like, in my boot if you say the wrong thing.
Benny BlueAnd they were like, they.
Benny BlueAnd, like, they were, like, to the point where, like, I didn't remember the jokes that I was doing.
Benny BlueBut I remember.
Benny BlueI remember audible quotes of, like, this dude's crazy, right?
Benny BlueThey were enjoying themselves.
Benny BlueWhen they say, this dude's crazy and they're laughing and slapping the bar.
Benny BlueYou're like, all right, I bought myself 15 more minutes to get out of here once this is over.
Benny BlueSo, yeah, that was probably, that was probably a place where I was like, if I, if I try to go too roast heavy and they're not on board with me, this could get real hairy real quick.
Benny BlueAnd it was great.
Benny BlueThey actually were a fantastic audience.
Benny BlueDespite the fact that I look like I thought, I thought Arnold was gonna walk in and demand someone's clothes and their bike.
Benny BlueGeorge thoroughgood was going to start playing.
Joel ByersOver the speaker, so it was a Terminator reference.
Benny BlueThat is a terminator.
Benny BlueTwo reference.
Joel ByersT two.
Joel ByersOh, t two.
Joel ByersThat is when he's naked.
Joel ByersI'm sorry.
Benny BlueCome on.
Benny BlueEdward Furlong from salute your shorts.
Joel ByersCome on.
Joel ByersNo, that's it.
Joel ByersYeah, that's a winner there.
Joel ByersYeah.
Joel ByersAll of y'all will have those shows you just never forget.
Joel ByersSo that's definitely a good example there.
Joel ByersAnd the final question here coming from dubs general.
Joel ByersOh, this will be a good one.
Joel ByersIf you can tell your younger self, comedian, a gym that you know now, what would it be?
Joel ByersAnd who was your og or someone you looked up to?
Benny BlueOh, I like that first part for, for my younger self.
Benny BlueStop wasting time and enjoy the process.
Benny BlueI feel like when we all get into stand up in one way or another, we're trying to, like, we're trying to prove something to ourselves or prove something to other people, and we're trying to get good really fast and blah, blah, blah.
Benny BlueAll that stuff you hear.
Benny BlueBut the thing that I've learned over time is like, dude, you're not.
Benny BlueYou're not on anybody else's scale for success.
Benny BlueI mean, you know, there, there's so, especially being in a market, like, where I am, it definitely can feel like a cattle call.
Benny BlueAnd sometimes it can feel like it's hard to kind of build community and really get a gauge of, like, where you're at in the scene and, like, how you're really doing.
Benny BlueLike, I know my bad habit is, like, flyer watching.
Benny BlueLike, oh, man, that guy got booked on this.
Benny BlueAnd it's just, it's that thing that we all do when we're fighting our kind of insecurity about where we stand in this whole racket.
Benny BlueSo the main thing, if I were to go back, is be like, yes, I was kind of in the shoes of that first question.
Benny BlueI was doing a ton of mics and all that stuff, but it's like you got to understand when you feel like you're kind of spinning your wheels and what are you really doing to get the most out of your time to get better and then also how you're going to enjoy it.
Benny BlueAnd then to the second part, kind of a sort of mentor og, my friend to this day, I think he's in Cleveland now.
Benny BlueHis name is Quincy Jones.
Benny BlueNot no relation to the, the famed music producer.
YoshiI love Quincy Jones, but, yeah, when.
Benny BlueHe, well, when he first, when I first started, he was one of the first comics that I met and actually, like, really talked to me about stand up.
Benny BlueAnd this was when, and which I guess he's still technically battling cancer, but for those who don't know, he actually did an HBO special, and he was able to raise money and get a production team, you know, together.
Benny BlueAnd he did a really cool special for HBO, which I'm sure you can find on Max.
Benny BlueIt's called Burning Light.
Benny BlueAnd I was there.
Benny BlueI was there at the taping, and he was kind of one of those, it was definitely subconscious.
Benny BlueI didn't really think about it too much.
Benny BlueI was writing the special, but he was one of those guys where it's like, it was definitely kind of one of those, like, take this seriously, respect the craft.
Benny BlueBut also there is going to be an element of, like, when you're doing this, like, you know, effort go for, you know, what you want to go for.
Benny BlueAnd a lot of people were, you know, talking crap behind his back and saying, oh, did he, did he really have cancer?
Benny BlueAnd all this sort of stuff, and he, he was really, really hard working and he, he deserved, yeah, like, he deserved to actually have that platform because he was really funny and he put in the work as a comic and he didn't let anybody around kind of, like, sway him to be like, oh, my, am I, am I really deserving of this opportunity?
Benny BlueAm I ready?
Benny BlueAnd, and he kind of put on, you know, blinders and tunnel vision and he, he did the thing and it was great.
Benny BlueSo that was one person.
Benny BlueYeah.
Benny BlueAnd that was, one person was just like, oh, man.
Benny BlueLike, people, people.
Benny BlueYou can actually, there's not, for all of us, there's not going to be too many, but there are that handful of comics that we can, like, really lean on and be like, I get it, man.
Benny BlueYou just started.
Benny BlueYou got, you got, you got a ways to go.
Benny BlueBut, like, this is what, this is where I think you could, this is why I think you could be, and I think this is what you could focus on.
Benny BlueAnd someone like Quincy was like, definitely someone in my corner early who was, like, really valuable to just kind of like, talk shop with, but not like, in a annoying, desperate kind of way.
Benny BlueLike, it was like, oh, this is, like, really enriching and, like, motivating.
Benny BlueSo there you go.
Benny BlueYeah.
YoshiHe's such a good person.
YoshiI'm so glad you brought his name up because he's from here, he's from Georgia, and when he was doing about to do the special, he came down here to, like, do the run of those shows, so.
YoshiYeah, yeah.
YoshiHe's such a good person, such a good soul.
YoshiBut that's awesome.
YoshiYeah, it's such a blast.
Joel ByersReally, really focus on what you can control.
Joel ByersYou know, that's the thing.
Joel ByersThat's what it comes down to.
Joel ByersNot worrying about who's on what flyer where and all of that that we can all get caught up in.
Joel ByersYeah.
Joel ByersJust focusing on what you can control is gonna lead you everywhere you need to be.
Joel ByersBut we did just get a super chat, so I think we do have one.
Benny BlueWhoa, is that like, onlyfans adjacent?
Benny BlueWhat are we.
Benny BlueWhat are we doing?
YoshiYeah.
Joel ByersYeah.
YoshiThat's exactly what it is.
YoshiYeah, yeah.
YoshiWe only fanning for comedy right here.
YoshiFunny.
YoshiOnly fans.
Benny BlueThat's off for this one.
Benny BlueWhat do we.
Joel ByersYouTube is telling me this is their 10th super chat that they've sent us.
Joel ByersThank you so much, McGill.
Joel ByersMcGill knows the game.
Joel ByersThey know that if they do a super chat, the question gets answered.
Joel ByersSo all three of us will be able to split $5.03 ways.
Joel ByersI will tell my wife when she gets home from work.
Joel ByersYou don't have to go back to work tomorrow, honey.
YoshiWe got a super cup.
Benny BlueLicking some cream, baby.
Benny BlueThanks, Miguel.
Joel ByersHilarious.
Joel ByersSo, McGill asked, do you think open mics will naturally lead to showcases or is there extra effort necessary?
Benny BlueThere's extra.
Benny BlueThere's extra effort necessary, for sure.
Benny BlueBecause now you're talking about.
Benny BlueNow you're talking about kind of what I had referenced and we sort of talked about earlier with, like, the.
Benny BlueWhat you consider, like, the linear path of success in comedy, where if you were to kind of break this down into a series of steps, I think, for how most people look at it, which, again, is relevant, but it's not going to be like, kind of what, like Joel was saying about your own path.
Benny BlueLike, it's not going to be a, B, C, D, e.
Benny BlueIt's not.
Benny BlueIt's never going to work like that.
Benny BlueBut from the stage that you're at, it's for sure going to be open mics.
Benny BlueI don't know what market that you're in, but if you're getting hit with your fair share, bring your show is probably going to be part of the game.
Benny BlueThankfully, I move past bring your shows pretty quickly, but there can be value, particularly if you just need real shows because, you know, they can be real shows.
Benny BlueGranted, you can either be, you know, the toast of the town or get, get, you know, pepper sprayed for not bringing enough people.
Benny BlueIt's kind of dealer's choice there, but you figure that out.
Benny BlueBut if you're talking about like, legit showcases, particularly at clubs now, like, you have to do the mics at clubs that are going to be like in front of like the booker or people producing shows because that's who's going to see you.
Benny BlueYou just have to be in those rooms where people are actually going to see you and book that which, you know, some, depending on your town, they may be going to.
Benny BlueIf it's not a big market and there's only like, you know, three or four open mics available in town, chances are that cross pollination is already going to be there.
Benny BlueBut if it's not, then you probably have to, you actually have to go to those rooms to be seen by those people.
Benny BlueSo that would, I think would be the answer to that is like, you, you do have to put in that extra effort because really, and I've still faced this to this day, it's just, it's nothing.
Benny BlueIt's never as simple as working hard and being funny.
Benny BlueIt's never that simple.
Benny BlueYou do have to be, have an element of shaking hands and kissing babies and it's part of the game.
Benny BlueNot my favorite thing to do, but it is a necessary evil if, depending on what type of opportunities you're trying to get and if you're trying to get into clubs and get into showcases, that is 100% a Facetime.
Benny BlueYes, be funny in front of them, but you also have to, you know, hey, how you doing?
Benny BlueNot be a creep, be personable, be professional, and you can usually get at least one opportunity from that.
Benny BlueSo there you go.
Joel ByersEven going to, like, if there's a showcase you want to be on, just going and watching that showcase.
Benny BlueYes.
Benny BlueBeing around the big.
Joel ByersYeah, being around, introducing yourself to the host.
Joel ByersHey, I'm so and so.
Joel ByersI'm a local comic.
Joel ByersI'm a big fan of what you're doing here and even, what's the, I'm curious what the booking process is.
Joel ByersOr what's the best way to contact you about maybe performing in the future?
Joel ByersThat goes a long way.
Joel ByersAnd even when you're at open mics, it's like being nice to the other comics, complimenting.
Joel ByersIf you're a fan of a comic, you know, go compliment their set.
Joel ByersGet a conversation going, because you never know.
Joel ByersThey may be like, oh, you're top of mind.
Joel ByersActually, I have a showcase next week.
Joel ByersWould you be interested or.
Joel ByersI know, so and so.
Joel ByersLike, just being around and more sociable, even at these open mics, it's all comics.
Joel ByersI just.
Joel ByersStill networking can help you to get on those showcases faster as well, which is something I did not do as intentionally early on that I may be more.
Joel ByersI would be more intentional about in hindsight, but it all worked out.
Joel ByersBut, yeah, that's very valuable.
Joel ByersBeing around is valuable.
YoshiAbsolutely.
YoshiWhoo, man, we did it.
Benny Blue$1, please.
Benny BlueWhich, after fees, it's gonna, like, negative $0.37.
Benny BlueSo maybe not.
YoshiYeah.
YoshiHey, guys, make sure you send me your venmo so I can get you that.
YoshiSo you can charge it on your taxes for next year as well.
Joel ByersWell, I'll be sending a 1099 to everyone on the live stream as well, so we'll be sure to get that on the books.
Benny BlueYo, how many advice on the schedule?
Benny BlueC.
Benny BlueYeah.
YoshiOh, my God.
Joel ByersBut, yeah, I know.
YoshiWe talked about ten, ninety nine s.
YoshiI got a 1099 for $15 from a club one time.
Joel ByersI'm not surprised.
YoshiAre we doing this?
YoshiAre we doing this?
YoshiAm I gonna report this?
YoshiI think I am now.
Joel ByersYou know, there's a.
Joel ByersThere's a kind of theme of question that kind of popped up about people not living in a scene with a lot of shows or struggling to balance a busy work life with getting on stage.
Joel ByersI don't know, Benny, if you have any points of view on that kind of struggle.
Benny BlueNo, for sure.
Benny BlueIn many ways, I actually envy those people, because when you're in, particularly when you're in, and, you know, I'm sure every major comedy market has their own version of this, but I think it's particularly true in a place like LA.
Benny BlueWhen you're in a place like here, you don't really have a lot of opportunity to fail.
Benny BlueAnd in terms of, like, the consequences of failure, because obviously, failing is a part of stand up, but the consequences of failure in a place like this are much greater, particularly when you're given certain opportunities and you want to be able to rise the occasion.
Benny BlueAnd I'm more so speaking, like, when you're first starting out.
Benny BlueSo what I kind of envy about comics that are in smaller markets is that right off the bat, you're going to have more opportunity to do longer time.
Benny BlueWhen you do go to open mics, it's funny.
Benny BlueAnd I'm sure you guys noticed this from, like, you know, being around the country.
Benny BlueA lot of, I don't know what it is, but a lot of, like, shows are marketed as open mics.
Benny BlueLike, they call them open mics, but then when you show up, it's like an actual show.
Benny BlueI'm like, there's like, there's like, 150 people here, and you're calling this weird that's billed like that in, like, in, like, smaller places.
Benny BlueSo, and the other thing, too is, like, when you're, when you're in a smaller market, there's more of a direct pipeline to opportunities to, like, open or host or feature for, like, a bigger comic that's coming into town versus, like, when you're in a place, like, here, it's like, well, they're, you know, they're at the improv or they're at the comedy store, the laugh factory, working something out.
Benny BlueSo it's not, you don't have that same kind of, like, visibility to, like, you're really fighting upstream with a lot of other people to kind of get seen and have that opportunity.
Benny BlueSo even though it may feel like you, you have less opportunity, you can actually maximize that more.
Benny BlueAnd I actually think it's, I actually think it's a better place to start.
Benny BlueLike, if I had to, quote unquote, do it over, I would have much rather started in, like, maybe not like a small town, but, like, a smaller city, because I think that would have kind of gave me an opportunity to get better in a way where, yes, I could have some good opportunities, but I would have been able to kind of, I don't know, fail in obscurity a little bit more than, as opposed to being in a place like this that has much more of a spotlight.
Benny BlueAnd I, you know, it's just a lot more competitive.
Benny BlueThat's not to say that, you know, I'm not confident in my abilities and can't rise, you know, rise to the occasion, but it's just like, everything is just higher stakes when you're starting in a place like this because there's just so many people trying to compete for those, those limited opportunities.
Benny BlueWhereas if you're, you know, you're in, you know, whatever, like Bloomington, Indiana, I mean, you can, you can get good there, but then it can be much more noticeable when you're good there.
Benny BlueSo then you can understand when, okay, I've been doing this for a few years.
Benny BlueI'm really crushing it in this market.
Benny BlueMaybe it is time for me to move to Chicago or this place where it kind of makes sense for you to elevate.
Benny BlueAnd that's the other thing.
Benny BlueIt's like if you're in the midwest or the south, as opposed to the west coast, where we do have travel opportunities, kind of like, I'm from Michigan.
Benny BlueLike, people, my comic friends are in Michigan.
Benny BlueIt's like they can bop around from, like, I'm going down to Indiana, I'm going to Ohio.
Benny BlueAnd they can go, they can go all these places wherever.
Benny BlueThey can do spots at clubs and get paid.
Benny BlueThey can get kind of, like, bigger opportunities, but they can do it in a way where it's like, it's not as, like, consequential to the people in LA and New York, where it's like they're the twelve Mike a night guy and they're really grinders.
Benny BlueIt's like, it's okay if you have a family and other stuff going on.
Benny BlueI just think it kind of gives you more opportunity to care about those opportunities more because even though they might seem fewer and more far between, I do think you can get a lot more out of that chance to be in front of people for 15 or 20 minutes at a clip.
Benny BlueEven if you don't necessarily feel ready, it's still good batting practice.
Benny BlueAnd if you bomb, the world's not going to end.
Benny BlueYou're not going to be in front of the booker of all the improvs across the country.
Benny BlueLike, damn it, I blew my shot.
Benny BlueIt's like, dude, you're in fricking Toledo, Ohio.
Benny BlueYou're going to be fine.
Benny BlueYou're going to live another day.
Joel ByersSo, yeah, and get creative.
Joel ByersYou can produce your own show if you're in a small town.
Joel ByersAnd also, is there like a karaoke night?
Joel ByersIs there a music, open mic?
Joel ByersDifferent places.
Joel ByersThey're already doing live entertainment.
Joel ByersYou could maybe squeeze on, like, I mean, I've done stand up at karaoke nights before and was like, do you mind if I do some time?
Joel ByersAnd they're always open to it.
Joel ByersPeople love comedy, so, yeah, get creative if you're in a smaller town and seek to find your own opportunities and creating your own show or connecting with comics and other cities, you can then travel to.
Joel ByersBut speaking of chicken, Joe clark just said, I just signed my first w nine for comedy, and I'm so stoked.
Joel ByersThis show has definitely helped me.
YoshiYeah, when you get from chicken fingers to w nine s, that's next level, baby.
Joel ByersYeah.
YoshiThat's how you know you're on the right path.
Joel ByersYeah.
Joel ByersAnd benny, thank you so much.
Joel ByersWell, one, I'm just, I'm just over the moon that you even enjoy this show and now you're on here and that you dropped such a impactful special.
Joel ByersI mean, I, I love where comedy is headed.
Joel ByersAnd you really pushing it forward with taking the format and kind of making it your own, which I think is the future of comedy.
Joel ByersAnd all of us trying to create our own opportunities.
Joel ByersWhoa.
Joel ByersWhat do I wish existed now?
Joel ByersLet's go have it exist on our terms.
Joel ByersAnd you did that and you knocked it out of the park.
Joel ByersSo the, the special is live for my mother's funeral.
Joel ByersIt's available on Benny's YouTube channel.
Joel ByersI will definitely link it in the show notes, and I linked it in the live chat as well for people.
Joel ByersAnd Benny, is there anything else we can help promote or anything else you'd like to say while you're orbiting the hot breath verse?
Benny BlueListen, big, big hot breath guy, huge fan of the show.
Benny BlueIt was a true honor and a pleasure to, to be on here.
Benny BlueI mean, talking, talking some shop, talking about the special.
Benny BlueI greatly appreciate it.
Benny BlueAnd yeah, I mean, shameless plugs.
Benny BlueLike, you know, like Joel said, it's on my YouTube.
Benny BlueBest place to find me.
Benny BlueBennybueis.net dot.
Benny BlueYou know, you can find all my socials.
Benny BlueYou can listen, you know, if you care to the special on Spotify, apple music and yeah, man, if you enjoy it, give it a, like, give it, you know, give it a supportive comment.
Benny BlueYou know, it would mean a lot.
Benny BlueAnd yeah, hopefully people dig it.
Benny BlueAnd slowly but surely I can, I can find, I can find the people that are into, into what I'm doing.
Benny BlueSo I appreciate you giving me the platform to push it out there.
Benny BlueTalk the brethren and sister.
Benny BlueAnd so there you go.
Joel ByersOf course.
Joel ByersWell, thank you, everyone, for hanging out during this live stream.
Joel ByersAnd if you're listening to the podcast, join us every Tuesday at 05:00 p.m.
Joel Byerseastern Standard Time.
Joel ByersWe're going live to be your weekly comedy tune up, so.
YoshiAbsolutely.
YoshiAnd don't forget we're also releasing the Yoshi special at the end of the month.
YoshiPeople have been asking, oh, buried the lead.
Benny BlueCome on, man.
YoshiNo, no, we wanted to talk about you, Betty special.
YoshiWe were gonna release it last, last, like last Monday and I, but after, honestly, it's been after.
YoshiWe've been talking to people about specials.
YoshiWe were like, man, we got to do this thing right, and we sort of just doing a lot of marketing behind it.
YoshiGetting the trailer right, getting the thumbnails right, and all these things.
YoshiSo, like, stuff that we're like, I think it's important that we do that.
YoshiAnd so, yeah, we will release it at the end of the month.
YoshiOctober 28 is the date.
Benny BlueAll right.
Joel ByersWe'll do a live premiere on our YouTube channel and everything.
Benny BlueI'm following you.
Benny BlueI'm sharing it in the story.
Benny BlueCome on, Mandy.
Benny BlueWe gotta.
Benny BlueWe gotta get.
Benny BlueWe gotta get it out there.
Benny BlueYes.
Benny BlueI love it.
Benny BlueSpecials?
YoshiAbsolutely.
Joel ByersIt's happening.
YoshiIt's happening.
Joel ByersYep.
Joel ByersSo mark the calendars, kids, and join our email list, where you'll get updates on that and our weekly livestreams and much more.
YoshiBoom.
Joel ByersBut until next Tuesday, we'll see y'all next week on hot breath.
Joel ByersBye, y'all.
Joel ByersHot breathe.