Joel Byers

What's goody?

Joel Byers

Hot breath verse.

Joel Byers

Welcome back to Hot Breath Live, your weekly comedy tune up with comedian Joel Byers and Yoshi.

Joel Byers

So we do these every Tuesday on our YouTube channel where we answer your questions live on the air and bring on some special guests every now and then.

Joel Byers

And this is a very special occasion.

Joel Byers

As we've been talking about comedy specials a lot, this cat just dropped one of the most unique specials I've ever seen that you're definitely going to want to check out.

Joel Byers

Available on YouTube.

Joel Byers

Hot breathe called live from my mother's funeral, hot brethren and sister.

Joel Byers

And welcome to the hot breath verse.

Yoshi

Yeah, special Benny blue, everyone.

Benny Blue

Yeah, my mom's dead.

Benny Blue

What's up?

Benny Blue

Yeah, yeah, what's going on?

Yoshi

Let's go, gentlemen.

Benny Blue

We're here.

Benny Blue

We're live.

Benny Blue

We're officially live.

Benny Blue

Everybody troll Joel in the comments.

Benny Blue

Yeah, forgot to hire a production intern.

Benny Blue

And you know, we're raising the budgets here on hot breaths of.

Benny Blue

So we'll get a GoFundme going.

Joel Byers

Yeah, go join that Patreon, that patriot.

Benny Blue

Ah, here we go.

Yoshi

Same.

Joel Byers

But thanks for joining us, Benny.

Joel Byers

Before we start mentioning enjoying the show.

Joel Byers

So we appreciate the kind words as well.

Benny Blue

Yep, hot breath guy put on a t shirt down with the cause, man.

Joel Byers

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Joel Byers

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Joel Byers

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Joel Byers

But right out the gate, you know, we've had a few comics on where they've kind of done specials based on grief, like Glen Tickle and Winston Hodges, based on different family member deaths.

Joel Byers

And they did specials around them.

Joel Byers

What, besides it being about the death of your mother, like, what kind of inspired this and what made you think to take this format?

Joel Byers

Because I think what I find really interesting about it is just with everyone having accessibility to do comedy specials now, it's we're all thinking, how can I make this uniquely mine?

Joel Byers

How can I take the format and make it uniquely me?

Joel Byers

Which is what you achieved beautifully.

Joel Byers

So maybe kind of take us through, oh, I want to do a special about this topic and then how do you start to work it out to then get it onto YouTube?

Benny Blue

Yeah, for sure.

Benny Blue

Well, no, I appreciate you checking it out and the kind words, it means a lot.

Benny Blue

And to be honest, I think it was kind of a confluence of different factors that just sort of passed each other at the right time.

Benny Blue

I think Covid had a lot to do with it, because, you know, by the time Covid hit, I was probably about, I don't know, five years in chains, you know, into this racket.

Benny Blue

And I kind of.

Benny Blue

I was actually grateful for it because it kind of forced me to stop and think about, like, you know, what do.

Benny Blue

What do I really want?

Benny Blue

What do I really want to do with this and what's going to be kind of the next thing to sort of get me to where I want to go?

Benny Blue

Not necessarily, you know, what we.

Benny Blue

I'm sure you've talked about here on hot breath many times what we consider kind of the sort of linear path for success that's been sort of the traditional way to do things.

Benny Blue

So I was very, like, aware of that.

Benny Blue

And then also kind of to the point that you just made about the approach to stand up in terms of making specials.

Benny Blue

Now, I knew going into this that I wanted to do something that was equal parts funny and interesting.

Benny Blue

There's a million funny people.

Benny Blue

There's no shortage of funny.

Benny Blue

But I think to really get people on board, especially with something longer form, certainly something longer than you're just gonna, you know, scroll through while you're on the toilet, you need to do something that's gonna be a little bit more of a hook, and I think, bring people into your story.

Benny Blue

So when I, you know, my mom was, you know, essentially in the process of dying, you know, that was kind of the catalyst for me to really examine my life, examine my life with her, how I grew up, how that affected my sense of humor, you know, some of the things that she did or didn't do and how that all kind of ties into, you know, the place that I got to by the time I actually wrote the special, because, you know, as you watch, it's very autobiographical.

Benny Blue

It's not just me, you know, me having conversations with my mom.

Benny Blue

I'm taking you on this ride about, you know, these stages of my life and how she, you know, affected it one way or another.

Benny Blue

So I think.

Benny Blue

I think for a lot of it, it was just kind of right place and right time going into it, because I knew that I just wasn't.

Benny Blue

I wasn't just going to compile some jokes about, you know, dating is hard in spirit airlines.

Benny Blue

I mean, I just.

Benny Blue

We just.

Benny Blue

We need it.

Benny Blue

We needed to.

Benny Blue

We just.

Benny Blue

This is my day.

Benny Blue

We need opportunity.

Benny Blue

We need to do something.

Benny Blue

We need to do something to come out the gate swinging and offer something that's a little just, you know, just a bit more interesting.

Benny Blue

And honestly, man, like, the response has been overwhelmingly positive.

Benny Blue

And the intended.

Benny Blue

The intended kind of takeaway that I was hoping people would get from it has been that to almost a 100% clip.

Benny Blue

People are understanding.

Benny Blue

Like, it's funny, but also, you know, they are catching on to the emotion and finding a way to connect with it, you know, in terms of, you know, their own grief and, you know, their.

Benny Blue

Their own experience of loss and that sort of thing.

Benny Blue

So that's all kind of went into the gumbo of, you know, my motivation to make this thing.

Joel Byers

Yeah.

Joel Byers

And I'm gonna put a link to it in the show notes for people to check out because everyone definitely needs to watch this.

Joel Byers

I'm sorry if I cut you off there, Yoshide.

Joel Byers

I just want to let.

Yoshi

No, no, no.

Yoshi

I mean, I think when we got the link, we were like, this is so different, so far from the norm in what a special is.

Yoshi

Did you think about, like, I guess, what was your motivation behind the special in terms of what you wanted to put out to the world?

Yoshi

What do you want people to get.

Benny Blue

Out of it so for.

Benny Blue

So the first part of that, I mean, the main thing, you know, I did, of course, want to honor my mom.

Benny Blue

That was the main thing.

Benny Blue

And I wanted to make sure I did right by her.

Benny Blue

And I've had a couple people ask me whether it's just, like, talking to other folks or even just, like, people in passing about how I thought she would feel about it.

Benny Blue

And I do genuinely think, you know, she would really enjoy it.

Benny Blue

She never actually, my mom was disabled, and she fought cancer, and she ultimately died of cancer.

Benny Blue

So I didn't grow up with, like, a quote unquote regular mom in that sense.

Benny Blue

So she never got to see me do stand up live.

Benny Blue

She saw, like, clips and stuff, but she did get to see me on tv, which was really cool.

Benny Blue

And obviously, you know, her being kind of a, you know, redneck lady from Michigan that's like.

Benny Blue

That's like the bar for success.

Benny Blue

Your son moves to California.

Benny Blue

Is he in tv or is he, you know, is he in a movie?

Benny Blue

You know, hopefully not smoking crack, doing porn, but, you know, that's adjacent.

Benny Blue

And fortunately, it didn't get that low for me.

Benny Blue

Came close.

Benny Blue

We got real close with some, like, choices, but thankfully, we did all right.

Benny Blue

And I got on tv so she could flip between, you know, seeing the same episode of criminal minds and big bang theory, whatever she's watching.

Benny Blue

And then she would see me.

Benny Blue

She saw me on several episodes of a tv show, which is really cool.

Benny Blue

So I think, you know, you know, I know one of my favorite things about this podcast is I think the show gets into kind of the inside baseball of comedy, but like, in a good, meaningful way, not just like work hard and do this.

Benny Blue

And I think that's what I really.

Yoshi

Enjoy about the, we stopped telling people to work hard.

Yoshi

Like.

Benny Blue

Yeah, if you need to know how to work hard, go to target and get a Walmart gift card.

Benny Blue

Like, just like, feel, like, get, like, you know what I mean?

Benny Blue

Like, it's gonna be on, it's gonna be on a card.

Benny Blue

At this point, you don't need us to tell you to work hard.

Benny Blue

But the thing I think about it, you know, for the position that I was at as a comic was to be honest with you, man.

Benny Blue

Like, I'm, we're all competitive as comics, but, like, I try to tamper it back because I can be extremely competitive.

Benny Blue

And I was just like, for me, kind of not only being in LA, but just kind of like the, you know, the world at large, you know, I wanted to put out a body of work and show people, like, listen, I can do this at a high level.

Benny Blue

I don't think I'm by any means great at comedy yet.

Benny Blue

I still think I have years off of that.

Benny Blue

But the one thing I wanted to prove mostly to myself and others is like, I can put out a really good body of work that's going to be funny from top to bottom, but it's also going to be memorable and be like, oh, man, I remember when, like, Benny, like, did that thing and that was like, I remember when I first put it out there, a bunch of comics commented on it and they're like, they're like, I remember one buddy specifically, he was like, dude, if you land the plane on this, this is actually going to be really, really good.

Benny Blue

And I'm like, well, spoiler alert, I did.

Benny Blue

So just wait till I drop it because I'm not playing around with this.

Benny Blue

Like, yeah, I do.

Benny Blue

And you guys can relate to this running material like this at bad bar shows and open mics and the occasional club shows when everybody's trying to be punchy.

Benny Blue

And I get it.

Benny Blue

I totally get it.

Benny Blue

But, like, this is just not that type of thing.

Benny Blue

And sometimes it'd be great and sometimes they would look, they were looking at me like I had, like, a dick coming out of my forehead.

Benny Blue

You know what I mean?

Benny Blue

It was just like, and it's just, and even to the point when I was, like, doing, like, early dry runs of this, I was like, and this is like two or three months out, I'm like, man, if I, if I, if I shoot myself in the foot on this, I have one show and one take to get this, it's, I'm gonna be so frickin in the gutter, you don't even understand.

Benny Blue

So I was worried even a couple months out, and then I think, and that was just kind of like, my motivation going in is kind of being able to prove to myself that I was ready to do something like this.

Benny Blue

And I think the second part of what you're saying, yoshi, I mean, I think the big takeaway is, but it's not even really so much about you getting invested into me as a comic.

Benny Blue

I hope that's obviously a byproduct.

Benny Blue

And when we do things like this, of course, selfishly, we want this to in some way, one, you know, some shape or form or another, advance our career, whatever that means to us.

Benny Blue

But I do think I would like people, and the feedback I've been getting pretty much across the board and all the platforms is I want to be able to hit people in a certain place in their heart where they're like, you know what?

Yoshi

I'm.

Benny Blue

I went through something similar to that.

Benny Blue

It was really freaking hard to talk about in the moment.

Benny Blue

But as a comic, anytime I'm faced with that sort of stuff, of course I can be serious once time to be serious, but I use jokes and stories to navigate the craziness of watching somebody die or, you know, bad things that happen to you in life.

Benny Blue

And I think I.

Benny Blue

It can honestly kind of be, like, an undervalued thing about how we present comedy to the marketplace.

Benny Blue

I feel like it's a great way to connect with people.

Benny Blue

And I think it's deeper than just saying, hey, man, I saw your funny joke about Biden on Instagram, and it's like, that's great if that's how you find me, cool.

Benny Blue

But I feel like this is going to create a more lasting relationship because I feel like this allows me to kind of build trust with an audience because I'm going to a place that's hard for a lot of people to talk about.

Benny Blue

Grief and death is, like, the hardest stuff to joke about.

Benny Blue

I mean, other than the.

Benny Blue

Other than grape.

Benny Blue

But beyond that, it's like, this is, like, what people don't want to talk about, and they avoid it.

Benny Blue

And I think it was really.

Benny Blue

It's been really cool to get that experience from talking to people, whether it's, like, in the comments of the DM's about that being their takeaway, because that's exactly what I was going for.

Benny Blue

So lets me know I was on the, on the right track for sure.

Yoshi

Yeah.

Yoshi

I mean, I think at the end of the day, your special, I know just starting it, I was like, instantly transformed to the last death that I dealt with and the last funeral that I dealt with.

Yoshi

And I think that's what made it really, really fun to watch, was you took a moment that everyone has experienced and you found a lot of joy for however many minutes your special washing.

Yoshi

And I truly appreciate it.

Yoshi

You're like, oh, not only were you telling stories, you were self deprecating.

Yoshi

You were telling stories about your, your history, her history.

Yoshi

You're growing up, like all those things, and then you're, you also remember, you're also at a funeral, like, and it's just like the, just that element of sort of just bringing it back to your.

Yoshi

And I think for me, it reminded me, I was like, this is how funeral should be.

Yoshi

Like, that's what I, like, really felt, julian.

Yoshi

Like, I mean, I know for me, I've told my wife, I was like, whatever happens to me, we better have a good time.

Yoshi

Like, and yes, I want a lineup.

Yoshi

Like, go through the list, get a lineup of people to either roast me, talk about me, whatever, but I want people to have a good time even in my death.

Yoshi

And so it, like, brought back a lot of, like, just subtle memories of going through people who've died, going through, like, trying to figure out how to, like, feel about it, but ultimately, just the fun that you had.

Yoshi

And you're right, people don't necessarily associate fun and funerals together.

Yoshi

And I think you really accomplished that with the special.

Benny Blue

No, I really appreciate you saying that.

Benny Blue

And that, that's a, that's a great observation.

Benny Blue

And something I haven't really talked about a lot is that's, I think even really the, the overarching takeaway is that when you go to real funerals and it's to be, you know, understood, it's, you know, it's people's highlight reel.

Benny Blue

And especially when you're in a church, there's going to be a certain level of respect and just, you're not really going to go for the gusto so much in certain settings now, you know, people have different funerals.

Benny Blue

You know, like you said, like, people can have more fun and treat it more like a party, but using this as kind of like, the backdrop of, like, obviously you're looking at the stage and you see the urn and you see the wreath and you see the pictures and I'm in my suit, and it's, the presentation of it is tinged in that one man show way where it's like, hey, this guy's giving a eulogy, but then he's turning it into a stand up show.

Benny Blue

And that was the big thing I wanted to.

Benny Blue

There was a real funeral, which obviously I touched on the special, but then there's this kind of packaging about all these different things about this person's life and how I felt about it and our family and everything that you're just not going to say in that real kind of setting.

Benny Blue

And this was kind of that outlet to be like, no, this is the real deal.

Benny Blue

Like, I'm giving you the good, bad, and ugly, and I'm still going to put a bow on it and make sure I show this person the proper love and respect.

Benny Blue

But I'm also not going to be fake.

Benny Blue

Like, we're going to kind of bring it all together in that way.

Benny Blue

So that's a great observation.

Benny Blue

Like, that's exactly what I.

Benny Blue

What I was going for.

Benny Blue

And I think it's why it's connecting to people, because it's like, like you said, like, when you do you think about, like, when you die, like, you don't want some, like, you don't want, like, a bland, like, everybody, you know, standing by the casket and throwing the dirt on and saying, well, that's it.

Benny Blue

And you just kind of keep it moving.

Benny Blue

It's like, no, like, Yoshi want.

Benny Blue

Yoshi wants a lineup.

Benny Blue

This needs to be something that would be representative of your life.

Benny Blue

And I get a lot of my sense of humor from my mom.

Benny Blue

And so I know these were jokes and styles of jokes that she would like.

Benny Blue

So, like, if I'm gonna write this, I'm gonna be sarcastic.

Benny Blue

I'm gonna be biting, because that's what she liked and that's what we like together.

Benny Blue

So I'm hopeful.

Benny Blue

I'm glad that you noticed that.

Benny Blue

And that's something that I really, really wanted to come across and how I, like, presented this and shot it.

Yoshi

So mission accomplished, dude.

Yoshi

That was.

Yoshi

This is nice.

Yoshi

I just.

Yoshi

Because it's so different.

Yoshi

No one, you know, we talked about, we've talked about specials and just how.

Yoshi

How do you stand out in the sea of all the specials?

Yoshi

And, you know, obviously, the comedy game is changing, but this is so different, dude.

Yoshi

This is so next level, but also so heartfelt.

Yoshi

And I think that's a difference in the comedy game is you brought heart to funny, but you also brought yourself into it.

Yoshi

Right.

Yoshi

And brought like your story into the whole thing.

Yoshi

So very memorable, man.

Yoshi

I big fan of it.

Joel Byers

It's also a great writing exercise for to be working towards like a specific topic or theme.

Joel Byers

Like, okay, I know I want to do a comedy special about this topic.

Joel Byers

So all my writing is in this direction.

Joel Byers

So it can help with writer's block maybe, or just I don't know what to write about today.

Joel Byers

Well, I know this is the end goal.

Joel Byers

I'm writing a special about this one theme or event.

Joel Byers

So that may have helped with the writing and overall just remaining productive and online because I can be like, oh, here's a bit.

Joel Byers

There's a bit, and be all over the place.

Joel Byers

But as I've been more thinking of having the next special being more of a themed special about a specific topic, because I think the first time I talked to Steve Byrne about it is what he said.

Joel Byers

That's what he does with all his specials.

Joel Byers

He starts with the end and then works backwards.

Joel Byers

So seeing you execute this was something very easily not funny, but you making it funny and cathartic for people that watch it.

Joel Byers

It's.

Joel Byers

Yeah, I don't, I don't know what my question is.

Joel Byers

Maybe how did you decide what to add and what to get rid of to help the story arc and still.

Yoshi

Be your writing process to get, for sure.

Benny Blue

So a lot of it, a lot of it felt like Beethoven sitting on the floor at the piano feeling for vibrations and dumping buckets of cold water over my head.

Benny Blue

Like, dude, like, if you, if you look at my, if you look at my Google, my Google Doc for the actual special, it's like, it's like v five, v six.

Benny Blue

You know what I mean?

Benny Blue

Because like, it's just like, it's just, it's just chopping wood, carrying water, folding the sword, hammering it, all of that.

Benny Blue

And I, you know, to Joel, to your point, I mean, I think I, that's what made it not only interesting but also motivating for me was that I knew that I was going to write this thing, obviously, when I started writing it.

Benny Blue

You don't know quite the shape it's going to be in.

Benny Blue

You just kind of know the area that you might live in if you're doing it kind of about one central theme or a big theme and then kind of things sort of orbiting around it or whatever.

Benny Blue

So that kind of gave me, that kind of gave me the goal.

Benny Blue

And then when I also gave myself a, you know, a shooting deadline, I shot this in December of last year.

Benny Blue

Also.

Benny Blue

I like you know, I like to kind of, you know, be a little bit of a pressure player.

Benny Blue

Like, okay, you got a deadline, man.

Benny Blue

Like, you can't.

Benny Blue

You put the deposit down in theater.

Benny Blue

You can't get out of it.

Benny Blue

You got a director, you got rented cameras.

Benny Blue

You got to do the thing.

Benny Blue

Whatever the thing is going to be, you got to do it.

Benny Blue

You're, you know, doing hello, my baby, hello, my honey spinning plates figured out so that those kind of two things were big motivating factors.

Benny Blue

And then actually writing it, um, I was able to sort of start with the, you know, central stories, and then from there, what I would kind of do is not only work on the flow, but then also get even more granular and then start to work on, like, the punches and, like, the sub punches.

Benny Blue

A good thing that I actually.

Benny Blue

And you guys will appreciate this.

Benny Blue

So when I was kind of rounding third on writing this, a big inspiration for me was the hot breath episode with Maple Gotzi.

Benny Blue

And I remember a specific thing that he said.

Benny Blue

There you go.

Benny Blue

There it is.

Benny Blue

Children's claps.

Benny Blue

We love it.

Benny Blue

And it was a big motivation for me because there's a clip, and I'm sure you can link it in the chat or in the show notes and stuff, but you took a jolly, you clip something.

Benny Blue

It was a section, I think, when you're just kind of getting into advice.

Benny Blue

And there was one thing that really stuck out to me that was really motivating for how I really filled out these stories and the punches, and it was Nate.

Benny Blue

And, of course, I'm butchering and paraphrasing, but Nate said something to the effect of, when you're telling a longer story, the longer that you go without a joke, he said something to the effect of, like, it's like filling a balloon with air or something like that.

Benny Blue

And it's like, just kind of you, the more you can kind of, like, punch it up and kind of take people along with you, the less pressure that you have, you have for that kind of big bang at the end of the story.

Benny Blue

And that's kind of what I was avoiding with writing this.

Benny Blue

So by the time I got to the final material for the special, I felt really good about, okay, there is a cohesive narrative.

Benny Blue

There's jokes without, and I felt really good about how things could tie together with callbacks, that sort of thing.

Benny Blue

And I did kind of the Louis ck method where I took my strongest bit, and I started with that.

Benny Blue

So I think the funniest bit is the one that I start with.

Benny Blue

It's the cousin Kathy bit.

Benny Blue

So right, right out of the gate, I'm hitting you at a high, and then I'm kind of bringing you down, and then I'm taking you back up the roller coaster slowly but surely to hopefully kind of peek at, you know, sort of peek at the end in that way.

Benny Blue

So that was all kind of the part of the process.

Benny Blue

And then the urn spots that basically, for those who haven't seen it, I would do joke stories.

Benny Blue

And then I go kind of over to the urn, and then I'm sort of reading things and saying things to the urn as if I were saying them to my mom that I wanted to say when she was still here.

Benny Blue

To be honest, from pure comic brain, I didn't want to do that at first.

Benny Blue

That was my friend Matt who directed it.

Benny Blue

That was his influence to push me to add that section of it.

Benny Blue

So I wrote those things, but I just wanted to.

Benny Blue

I.

Benny Blue

At first, I just wanted to keep it strictly jokes and stories.

Benny Blue

But I'm so glad that he pushed me to add that because I think that's what kind of adds that sort of interesting and unique sort of tie in about what are we really talking about here and what is the kind of the overall theme.

Benny Blue

And I think that also kind of brought viewers back in to the fact that, oh, this is supposed to be at a funeral.

Benny Blue

It's not this guy just going willy nilly and just saying a bunch of crazy stuff and then saying, all right, good night.

Benny Blue

It brought it all back to, I think, the emotion and the connective tissue of all the stories, rather than just, like, you know, just telling a bunch of jokes and kind of getting out of there.

Benny Blue

Would it have worked?

Benny Blue

Sure.

Benny Blue

But I do think it elevated it to another level to kind of have that element in this with the whole presentation.

Benny Blue

And so by the time I got to kind of the final spots, like, you know, I really got it tight.

Benny Blue

I really drilled it.

Benny Blue

There was nothing from when we shot it that I cut.

Benny Blue

Everything that you see in there is what was shot.

Benny Blue

The only thing that we edited was, like, the transitions from the jokes to the earn spots to the ending poem and all that stuff.

Benny Blue

So I didn't have to cut any material, which was great.

Benny Blue

So everything that I did there, we kept.

Benny Blue

So, yeah, like, that was really kind of, like, the overall, you know, sort of process of.

Benny Blue

Of writing it and, like, kind of like, my experience of, like, how am I going to take this big overarching thing and just get it to its best points and get it, you know, just get it into shape to perform as best as I could.

Yoshi

So just out of curiosity, is this your first special?

Benny Blue

Yeah, it's my first one.

Yoshi

Okay.

Yoshi

So when you decided to do a special, did you take any of the material that you already had just as a comedian, or did you think this theme and then said, I'm gonna write around this theme for just this special?

Yoshi

So what was your process of your old jokes versus stuff for this material?

Yoshi

Because I didn't, I guess.

Yoshi

What was your thought process when you thought about doing this special around the, this topic?

Yoshi

And did you take your old stuff and try to smush it in?

Yoshi

Or did you say, I'm just going to write based on this theme and work it out?

Joel Byers

And how long you been doing comedy?

Benny Blue

So I'm in.

Benny Blue

I'm depending on how you count the COVID recess, I am about eight and a half years, nine ish, give or take.

Benny Blue

But yoshi, to your question.

Benny Blue

So it was kind of a combination of both.

Benny Blue

So for the most part, it was all new stuff from scratch.

Benny Blue

The only bits that I were kind of considered older bits that I would do kind of standalone that would work well, but I sort of refashioned them for.

Benny Blue

This was the bit where I'm talking about going to music school and then the bit where I'm talking about walking in on my parents having sex.

Benny Blue

Those had existed, but I had essentially rewrote those and kind of just did them in a way that fit better with the, with the special.

Benny Blue

Yeah.

Benny Blue

Pretty much everything else was, you know, a year out was like, you know, shoddy versions of what they eventually became and then obviously working them out as best they could.

Benny Blue

Because, you know, it's like when it's your first thing and nobody really knows who you are and you have a limited budget and limited resources, you got to kind of, you have to work with the tools that you're given.

Benny Blue

So it just took me, it just took a lot of work and a lot of trust in myself to, like, have my instincts to really tighten the writing and all that.

Yoshi

What was the time period between when you thought you were going to shoot it to when you shot it?

Benny Blue

Um, probably like a year and a half.

Yoshi

Okay.

Benny Blue

Give or take?

Benny Blue

Yeah, probably about a year and a half.

Yoshi

So then you worked out all the new stuff within that year and a half?

Benny Blue

Yeah.

Benny Blue

Really?

Benny Blue

Yeah, really.

Benny Blue

Within, I would say, like eight months to a year was when I really was like, you know, nose to the grindstone, really working hard on getting all that stuff together.

Benny Blue

So that was, that was probably about the timeline.

Yoshi

Yeah.

Yoshi

That's awesome.

Joel Byers

Well, we have a question here from Matt Gill, and those of you watching live, please do hit the like button.

Joel Byers

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Joel Byers

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Joel Byers

I mean, it's just so real out here.

Joel Byers

The hot breath verse.

Joel Byers

I was just in Raleigh this weekend and there I met like six people that were like, all like, came to the show just to like, connect and say how helpful the show was.

Joel Byers

So let's keep spreading that love.

Joel Byers

So the question from McGill, I've been doing twelve open mics a week for three months.

Joel Byers

I get the strong impression that open mic comedy is more about standout shock than comedy that kills at a show.

Joel Byers

How do you thread that?

Benny Blue

Interesting.

Benny Blue

Should I do it?

Benny Blue

Should I, should I take this one?

Joel Byers

Go for it.

Joel Byers

Yeah.

Benny Blue

Well, first of all, wow, lots of, lots of mics a week.

Benny Blue

You've clearly abandoned your whole family and I admire that, to be honest with you.

Benny Blue

You're all in.

Benny Blue

Here's the thing about open mics.

Benny Blue

I don't know where they're at.

Benny Blue

Maybe they can put that in the chat.

Benny Blue

But open mics, definitely, once you start getting a bit longer in the tooth and stand up, they start to, the diminishing value starts to kick in in terms of what to expect out of them and what you're going to get out of them.

Benny Blue

Now, when you're really, really new, great to go to mics, particularly if you're still figuring out your voice or you're still getting comfortable on stage.

Benny Blue

I mean, that's not anything you probably haven't heard either from this show or anybody else, but it's definitely true.

Benny Blue

I do think, though, once you get to a point where you're secure with some of your writing, particularly if you have like a, a short set that you feel really good about, that, you know, can do well in different types of rooms and you've just worked out a lot.

Benny Blue

One thing I would say to be careful of, because it can be deceiving, and I've went through this in spades, is that, you know, you can, you can do stuff in a room full of comics that falls flat, that kills in front of an audience and vice versa.

Benny Blue

It's true.

Benny Blue

And the, our ears, and it's only just because we've been doing it for a long time.

Benny Blue

It's just harder to, it's harder to make us laugh out loud, but it doesn't mean it's not funny what you're saying, because we're just so.

Benny Blue

I mean, Joel has apparently volunteered to sit through open mic comedy lately, and he knows it's, it's, it could be hell on wheels, man.

Benny Blue

You're listening to a lot of people who are not practitioners of the craft yet, and it can be hard on the ears.

Benny Blue

So that's not necessarily a good barometer always of what, what a good joke looks like.

Benny Blue

But on the same token, particularly when you're really new, it can also kind of force you to really sharpen your pen in terms of a very specific reference or a very specific way of saying things, which, to his question doesn't necessarily have to be shock value.

Benny Blue

It could just be something that is very specific and very observational and funny in that way that's going to, you know, catch people off guard.

Benny Blue

Like, that's one of my big goals even still as I'm writing stuff is particularly if just more, I don't know, topical stuff or whatever you want to call it.

Benny Blue

What's that thing that I'm going to say or how I'm going to say it that's really going to kind of get people say, oh, I didn't, you know, whether it's like a misdirection or, you know, whatever kind of tactic you're taking, being an open mics kind of helped that because it kind of forces you to think about it in a deeper way.

Benny Blue

It can be very easy to get lazy on stage in front of an audience and get people to laugh at just a premise and all that sort of stuff.

Benny Blue

But when you are around comics, you do have the opportunity to really sharpen your punchlines, and it just kind of, it just kind of puts the calluses on your hands.

Benny Blue

So if you can deal with that, then you know you're going to be better off once you're in front of audiences because you just know, you know, what a room of disapproving people feels like, so it becomes less scary.

Benny Blue

So now, again, you have to manage the bad habits you can take away, because you can absolutely take bad habits away from open mics.

Benny Blue

But there is that value, I think, particularly as a writer, that forces you, I think, to think a lot more about your jokes.

Benny Blue

So by the time you get, you do get to a real audience, you know, you should already be comfortable on stage and have a good idea of how you want to sound and what you want to talk about.

Benny Blue

But that's going to be like the extra, especially if you're working that hard.

Benny Blue

Like sometimes, listen, we all know comics who go to a zillion friggin mics a week who do not get better at stand up at all.

Benny Blue

It is astounding.

Benny Blue

And, and if you're going to work that hard, you got to come in.

Benny Blue

You got to come into it.

Benny Blue

Even with every set about, like, what is that thing?

Benny Blue

What is that small thing?

Benny Blue

I'm going to get better about me as a comic or about that set.

Benny Blue

So hopefully that wasn't too much of a bullet point presentation, but that would be, like, my main takeaway for someone in, in their shoes, for sure.

Yoshi

No, that's, that's solid stuff.

Yoshi

I always tell people, comedians are not real.

Yoshi

We're not real people.

Yoshi

We are different.

Yoshi

We've got some here.

Benny Blue

He's not real.

Benny Blue

Look at this.

Benny Blue

He's a ghost.

Joel Byers

My wife was texting me.

Joel Byers

I'm sorry.

Yoshi

Yeah, we're not real people.

Yoshi

And so I always say, like, don't use us as the barometer for how your jokes are.

Yoshi

Yes.

Yoshi

Are there times when comedians feedback is good?

Yoshi

Yes, but not 100%.

Yoshi

So if everything's working in a room full of comics, don't believe that it's going to work in a room full of actual people.

Yoshi

You got to test your stuff out in front of real people.

Yoshi

And so.

Yoshi

And you got to find that barometer of, well, I did it at an open mic.

Yoshi

And if you're only going to open mics where there's nothing but comedians, you're doing yourself a disservice.

Yoshi

You got to find real people to actually, like, consume your material.

Yoshi

And so I think it's helpful to get out into the real world.

Yoshi

As I say, yes, it's good if you've got mics with comics, but, man, that combination of comic of mics without comics is good for your soul as well.

Joel Byers

But some people only have access to those shows, especially starting out.

Joel Byers

So it's making the most of those shows.

Joel Byers

Even if it is all comics, it's still not phoning it in.

Joel Byers

And why bother?

Joel Byers

What does it matter?

Joel Byers

But, like, having an intention for that set, what are you gonna get better at at this one set?

Joel Byers

And it's a marathon, and it adds up over time, but it really is.

Joel Byers

Yeah.

Joel Byers

Making the most of each set, regardless of the setting, and performing as if it was a really good show and creating that habit.

Yoshi

Yeah, I just don't want people to get in the habit of thinking that because they've done twelve mics a night for two years, that what they're getting from feedback perspective is real audience members.

Yoshi

When you go to a real mic.

Yoshi

I mean, when you go to a real showcase show, right.

Yoshi

I just think you have to have some combination where the people that have heard your jokes are actually potential audience members.

Yoshi

That's what I mean.

Yoshi

I mean, like, that's reality, right.

Yoshi

And I always warn people.

Yoshi

That's why I think when you get to a point where you're doing a lot of comedy, you gotta travel.

Yoshi

You gotta see if your jokes work in other spaces.

Yoshi

You gotta test your stuff out in different rooms, like, we talk about it.

Yoshi

See if your joke works in an urban room.

Yoshi

See if it works in an alt room.

Yoshi

See, it works in a white room.

Yoshi

See, it works in the latin room.

Yoshi

I think just knowing and feeling like how actual, real people consume your material is so important.

Yoshi

Yes.

Yoshi

If that's the only thing you can get, great.

Yoshi

But I would say try your best to get your jokes said in front of actual, real human beings that are not comedians.

Joel Byers

Good stuff.

Joel Byers

Yeah.

Joel Byers

So just treat each show.

Joel Byers

Take each show seriously.

Joel Byers

McGill.

Yoshi

Yeah.

Joel Byers

You know, if it is all comics, just perform as if it was, like, a real audience and really just start to create that muscle that I'm performing as if this is the show I wish it was.

Yoshi

And I would say this, too.

Yoshi

I would say one of my favorite things about open mics is not being on stage.

Yoshi

It's the stuff of working on your jokes with other comedians that you didn't do on stage.

Yoshi

I think there's so much value that a lot of comics don't have.

Yoshi

Like, take advantage of just asking another comedian that you respect or someone that you, like, want to get their perspective.

Yoshi

Hey, what'd you think about that joke?

Yoshi

I think is such an invaluable aspect that a lot of people don't do.

Yoshi

That I think is very helpful of just know, hey, was that stupid?

Yoshi

Like, not necessarily was that stupid, but, like, what do you think about that material?

Yoshi

Or what do you think about that punchline?

Yoshi

Or, you know, I always tell people, hey, if you got a tag for me, let me know.

Yoshi

Like, I'd appreciate it, for sure.

Benny Blue

Yeah, absolutely.

Benny Blue

No, that.

Benny Blue

That's a.

Benny Blue

That's a great point.

Benny Blue

I take advantage of that.

Benny Blue

You know, I don't go to mics a ton at this point, but when I do, I for sure take advantage of that, because I like to go to rooms where I can be around people that I respect, and particularly when I'm working out, like, brand new stuff.

Benny Blue

That's typically when I'm going to.

Benny Blue

Not always, but to mics where I can just kind of like, gut check some of the stuff, and I think that's good.

Benny Blue

But let me add an addendum to what I was just saying real quick that I wish somebody would have told me when I was first starting, or maybe they did and I had been drinking or something like that.

Benny Blue

But, you know, we all make mistakes.

Benny Blue

Don't strive to be, especially if you're in a big market, because, like, I already lived here.

Benny Blue

So this is where I started.

Benny Blue

But, like, if I.

Benny Blue

If I had my druthers, I probably would have preferred to start in a smaller market.

Benny Blue

But don't strive, particularly if you're still at the pretty much all mic stage.

Benny Blue

Don't strive to be the funniest guy in the room.

Benny Blue

Strive to be the best version of your voice, because, believe it or not, one of the biggest lies in the stand up business is that hard work is just automatically rewarded.

Benny Blue

And it's not.

Benny Blue

What is rewarded is the people who can find the best way to connect with an audience.

Benny Blue

That's who's rewarded.

Benny Blue

So that's why you'll see people who've been doing this for a year or two, and they'll blow up.

Benny Blue

And the reason why they've blown up is because they found a specific thing about them, whatever that thing is, that has resonated with an audience at a high level, and they've been able to leverage that, whether it's, like, bigger gigs or people coming out to see them or going on tour, opening or featuring for somebody.

Benny Blue

So that's why if you've been doing this for a minute and you're like, I was like, why is that person feature every night?

Benny Blue

It's like, it's because they figured out that thing about them doesn't mean that they're taking something away from you.

Benny Blue

They're just figuring out that thing about them that works so they can translate that into people wanting to see them.

Benny Blue

Like, there are a zillion funny comics out there in every market, but the problem that most of us have is that we're still trying to find our way to.

Benny Blue

How do we translate that from being like, man, I really killed at that club spot.

Benny Blue

But then, you know, you're kind of going home, and you're like, well, dang, like, what?

Benny Blue

What's really happening?

Benny Blue

Versus.

Benny Blue

Okay, I know I figured this out.

Benny Blue

Now, how can I.

Benny Blue

How can I get that to connect?

Benny Blue

Because at the end of the day, look, man, like, these clubs, these theaters, whatever.

Benny Blue

Butts in seats, they want butts in seats.

Benny Blue

That's what it comes down to.

Benny Blue

However we like to spin cycle it for our own eagles egos.

Benny Blue

That's what they want.

Benny Blue

And you have to be able to find your way to get to that if you're going to be a professional comedian, because if not, then you're just, you're.

Benny Blue

Even if you're doing clubs or Jerry's yuck yuck room or whatever, you're still a hobbyist.

Benny Blue

Until we actually get to the point where people, even if it's ten people, people are actually, like, coming out to see you.

Benny Blue

So don't get confused with, I'm pounding the mics and doing this with necessarily advancing your abilities, your career, because they're not directly correlated.

Benny Blue

So you have to kind of navigate that, too.

Benny Blue

But that takes time.

Benny Blue

It takes experience.

Joel Byers

Shout out to the yuck, yuck hut.

Benny Blue

Yep.

Joel Byers

There next weekend, I'll send my avails.

Joel Byers

Yep, I'll let you veil.

Benny Blue

Me and Joel Yoshi opening for Gallagher four.

Benny Blue

Yeah, yeah.

Yoshi

Who books that?

Yoshi

Let's get that email.

Joel Byers

So we have a question all the way from India.

Joel Byers

So we want to make sure we get this one.

Benny Blue

All right.

Joel Byers

It's like 03:00 a.m.

Joel Byers

over in India, but the hot breath of verse is strong in India.

Joel Byers

We got strong, strong presence over there.

Benny Blue

Brush your teeth after this.

Benny Blue

Good lord.

Joel Byers

Aditya Verma, should a new comic practice the performance and material separately?

Benny Blue

Um, well, I'm trying to understand that question.

Benny Blue

Get.

Benny Blue

I mean, I would.

Benny Blue

At first blush, I would say no, because it's all kind of one thing if I'm getting the question right.

Yoshi

I think.

Yoshi

I wonder if it's more like there's some people who say their jokes and then some people who perform their jokes.

Yoshi

Sure.

Benny Blue

Okay.

Yoshi

And who sound a little different when they're saying the joke versus when they're actually performing.

Benny Blue

Got it.

Benny Blue

Okay.

Joel Byers

I mean, I would reverse, like, do all the one in the same.

Joel Byers

Sorry.

Benny Blue

Yeah, no, no, I mean, I would say this if I'm understanding correctly, and I've.

Benny Blue

I've run into this as well.

Benny Blue

There are, there are things that you write that they could be just on paper, on their face, it could be very funny.

Benny Blue

But if you haven't made that sort of, like, like, mind body connection of, like, the.

Benny Blue

And I've run into this.

Benny Blue

I run into this now with new stuff that I'm working on now.

Benny Blue

It's incredibly frustrating, but it makes it fun.

Benny Blue

You.

Benny Blue

If you can't find that connection about what you're writing versus, like, how you want to perform it or say it, you could be sitting on something that's very funny.

Benny Blue

You just have not connected the dots, put the puzzle pieces together to actually make that translate on stage.

Benny Blue

So you could be in your mirror right now reciting things that you were just crushing, crushing the stuffed animals.

Benny Blue

You know what I mean?

Benny Blue

Standing.

Benny Blue

Oh.

Benny Blue

Applause breaks just for laughs.

Benny Blue

Bedroom addition.

Benny Blue

You're crushing it.

Benny Blue

But then you get on stage and you just, you, you brick like a masonry.

Benny Blue

And, you know, because you don't, you haven't made that connection between what you're writing and how you're gonna perform it.

Benny Blue

And by the way, it doesn't have to be that hard if you can be natural to who you are and what you're trying to say.

Benny Blue

The other thing you also have to reckon with, which is something that I've had to deal with, is, like, as just like a writer, like, I know that I could be, like, in a writer's room writing for other people or like Yoshi, like, you're talking about, like, when you're helping other people tag stuff up.

Benny Blue

Like, you can totally help people write stuff that's funny.

Benny Blue

But there are, there are plenty of instances where you and another comic could have the same joke.

Benny Blue

And it could be equally as funny just as a joke, standalone.

Benny Blue

But it could be extremely funny from that person and bomb horribly from you because it doesn't sound or look right coming from you, by the way, that's not code for saying the n word on stage.

Benny Blue

I'm just saying when.

Benny Blue

It's just awkward sometimes.

Benny Blue

And believe me, we see plenty of people in our travels who go for it off the top rope and you're like, no, abort mission.

Benny Blue

But, like, that's the thing.

Benny Blue

You have, you also have to reckon with, like, I've had, I've had to put jokes to the side or rework them or just say, I gotta put this aside because it's just not gonna work coming from my voice.

Benny Blue

And you have to kind of find that way with your audience as well.

Benny Blue

So the overall answer, I, for my opinion, feel free to jump in.

Benny Blue

But, like, write, do your best to write.

Benny Blue

But also, you just, there's no way of knowing until you get away from the stuffed animals and do it for real people.

Benny Blue

Yeah.

Joel Byers

Yeah.

Joel Byers

That's when you really know.

Yoshi

Yeah.

Joel Byers

He got his answer.

Joel Byers

So, yeah, thanks.

Joel Byers

Got my answer.

Benny Blue

So he's like, he's like, benny, I got my answer two minutes ago and you're still rambling.

Benny Blue

Thanks a lot.

Benny Blue

I'm going to bed.

Joel Byers

It's 03:00 a.m.

Joel Byers

no, it's, it's all a process.

Joel Byers

Sometimes I figure out the physicality first, and then I'm like, oh, how can I do that voice on existing jokes?

Joel Byers

And then other times it's, oh, this church.

Joel Byers

The words are working now.

Joel Byers

How can I perform it as opposed to just reciting it?

Joel Byers

It's.

Joel Byers

Yeah, they're all like kind of one and the same, but they all happen at different times.

Joel Byers

It's not like it all clicks and you're like, oh, this joke works physically and as written.

Joel Byers

It's.

Joel Byers

It kind of.

Joel Byers

It's an evolution.

Yoshi

Yeah.

Yoshi

I always say you have to know how a joke feels coming out of your body.

Yoshi

Like, you just have to know how it feels as you're saying it and all the things and all the parts and pieces that you want with the joke, you gotta know how it feels coming out.

Yoshi

And I think, yeah, to your point, it's important just to, like, the performance of it is very different than just the written word of it.

Yoshi

And we all sound different.

Yoshi

You know, I've, I've told Joel a bunch of jokes and they haven't worked for him because he's not a nigerian dad.

Yoshi

You know what I mean?

Yoshi

I was like, dude, this perspective is so next level, but it just doesn't work for him.

Benny Blue

So more of a south african dad to me.

Joel Byers

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Joel Byers

I'm definitely an apartheid, for sure.

Benny Blue

By the way, by the way, quick extension for the previous question and this one.

Benny Blue

And because it's something that I have to remind myself as well when you're writing one of my biggest things and I would shoot myself in the foot a lot is overwriting, putting too many words into a joke or a setup of a joke or even the punch of it.

Benny Blue

Leave yourself some space, and it depends what type of performer you are, but leave yourself some space to organically punch up the joke in the moment rather than being like, I wrote it this way and this is how I have to say it because it's on the page.

Benny Blue

Like, I even still fight that bad habit of, like, give yourself some breathing room to perform it and just like, let something, because I'm very good about, like, just finding something and just like, saying it.

Benny Blue

But I can definitely shoot myself in the foot when I feel like I'm quote unquote too committed to the page, if you will.

Benny Blue

And it's like you just have to kind of give yourself a little bit of space, especially when you're only, you're only allowed like five or seven minute sets.

Benny Blue

It's so easy to be like, I'm going to cram all these great ideas into five minutes, and then you say one and a half of them, and then you get the light and you're like, shit.

Benny Blue

Now your set is all completely disjointed because you're trying to do too much.

Benny Blue

So it's like, that was something I've had to kind of tell myself, which I think would be good for those last two questions.

Benny Blue

Like, give yourself a little bit of space with your writing because it's going to make you more comfortable and it'll probably make what you're trying to say better because it's just going to feel more natural to whatever your stage presence or Persona is.

Yoshi

I like that.

Joel Byers

So let's get to the last few questions here.

Joel Byers

We could do a little lightning round.

Joel Byers

Yeah, we may go a few minutes over.

Joel Byers

We started a few minutes late.

Joel Byers

I thought I hit go live, and then eight minutes later, I was like, oh, we're not live yet.

Joel Byers

All the problems that has never happened.

Joel Byers

Out of all the tech issues, that's a first.

Benny Blue

So live from South Africa, thank you for.

Yoshi

It's good to know that Benny Blue brings the best out of you.

Yoshi

So.

Joel Byers

Yeah, yeah.

Joel Byers

Dubs general called you Benny boom because you were dropping.

Joel Byers

Dropping so many gems here.

Yoshi

Oh, yeah.

Joel Byers

Benny boom.

Joel Byers

So, Zach Newford, what's the craziest place you've ever performed?

Joel Byers

And you're in LA, right?

Joel Byers

I think that's.

Joel Byers

I don't know if we established that.

Joel Byers

So you start in LA, but, um.

Benny Blue

Yeah, yeah.

Joel Byers

What's the craziest place you ever perform there, Benny?

Benny Blue

Oh, wow.

Yoshi

Or period.

Yoshi

Even if it's not in LA.

Benny Blue

No, yeah, for sure.

Joel Byers

For sure.

Joel Byers

Yeah.

Benny Blue

I'm trying to.

Benny Blue

You.

Benny Blue

I mean, God knows we perform.

Benny Blue

It just people's keats and euros, for God's sake.

Benny Blue

I mean, there's everywhere.

Benny Blue

I would say that's a little bit of an on the spot question, but I respect it.

Benny Blue

I would say the one that kind of comes to mind is I perform.

Benny Blue

I had a good set, so thank God this is pre Covid.

Benny Blue

I performed at a.

Benny Blue

For sure, like, sent, like, straight out of central casting, like, biker bar.

Benny Blue

And they were very, like.

Benny Blue

They were.

Benny Blue

They were giving off strong vibes.

Benny Blue

Like, make me.

Benny Blue

Make me laugh or you're gonna be.

Benny Blue

We're gonna drag you behind our Harley, basically.

Benny Blue

Like, that was strong vibes.

Benny Blue

Like, like, for sure.

Benny Blue

Like, that.

Benny Blue

Like, the butterfly knife is, like, in my boot if you say the wrong thing.

Benny Blue

And they were like, they.

Benny Blue

And, like, they were, like, to the point where, like, I didn't remember the jokes that I was doing.

Benny Blue

But I remember.

Benny Blue

I remember audible quotes of, like, this dude's crazy, right?

Benny Blue

They were enjoying themselves.

Benny Blue

When they say, this dude's crazy and they're laughing and slapping the bar.

Benny Blue

You're like, all right, I bought myself 15 more minutes to get out of here once this is over.

Benny Blue

So, yeah, that was probably, that was probably a place where I was like, if I, if I try to go too roast heavy and they're not on board with me, this could get real hairy real quick.

Benny Blue

And it was great.

Benny Blue

They actually were a fantastic audience.

Benny Blue

Despite the fact that I look like I thought, I thought Arnold was gonna walk in and demand someone's clothes and their bike.

Benny Blue

George thoroughgood was going to start playing.

Joel Byers

Over the speaker, so it was a Terminator reference.

Benny Blue

That is a terminator.

Benny Blue

Two reference.

Joel Byers

T two.

Joel Byers

Oh, t two.

Joel Byers

That is when he's naked.

Joel Byers

I'm sorry.

Benny Blue

Come on.

Benny Blue

Edward Furlong from salute your shorts.

Joel Byers

Come on.

Joel Byers

No, that's it.

Joel Byers

Yeah, that's a winner there.

Joel Byers

Yeah.

Joel Byers

All of y'all will have those shows you just never forget.

Joel Byers

So that's definitely a good example there.

Joel Byers

And the final question here coming from dubs general.

Joel Byers

Oh, this will be a good one.

Joel Byers

If you can tell your younger self, comedian, a gym that you know now, what would it be?

Joel Byers

And who was your og or someone you looked up to?

Benny Blue

Oh, I like that first part for, for my younger self.

Benny Blue

Stop wasting time and enjoy the process.

Benny Blue

I feel like when we all get into stand up in one way or another, we're trying to, like, we're trying to prove something to ourselves or prove something to other people, and we're trying to get good really fast and blah, blah, blah.

Benny Blue

All that stuff you hear.

Benny Blue

But the thing that I've learned over time is like, dude, you're not.

Benny Blue

You're not on anybody else's scale for success.

Benny Blue

I mean, you know, there, there's so, especially being in a market, like, where I am, it definitely can feel like a cattle call.

Benny Blue

And sometimes it can feel like it's hard to kind of build community and really get a gauge of, like, where you're at in the scene and, like, how you're really doing.

Benny Blue

Like, I know my bad habit is, like, flyer watching.

Benny Blue

Like, oh, man, that guy got booked on this.

Benny Blue

And it's just, it's that thing that we all do when we're fighting our kind of insecurity about where we stand in this whole racket.

Benny Blue

So the main thing, if I were to go back, is be like, yes, I was kind of in the shoes of that first question.

Benny Blue

I was doing a ton of mics and all that stuff, but it's like you got to understand when you feel like you're kind of spinning your wheels and what are you really doing to get the most out of your time to get better and then also how you're going to enjoy it.

Benny Blue

And then to the second part, kind of a sort of mentor og, my friend to this day, I think he's in Cleveland now.

Benny Blue

His name is Quincy Jones.

Benny Blue

Not no relation to the, the famed music producer.

Yoshi

I love Quincy Jones, but, yeah, when.

Benny Blue

He, well, when he first, when I first started, he was one of the first comics that I met and actually, like, really talked to me about stand up.

Benny Blue

And this was when, and which I guess he's still technically battling cancer, but for those who don't know, he actually did an HBO special, and he was able to raise money and get a production team, you know, together.

Benny Blue

And he did a really cool special for HBO, which I'm sure you can find on Max.

Benny Blue

It's called Burning Light.

Benny Blue

And I was there.

Benny Blue

I was there at the taping, and he was kind of one of those, it was definitely subconscious.

Benny Blue

I didn't really think about it too much.

Benny Blue

I was writing the special, but he was one of those guys where it's like, it was definitely kind of one of those, like, take this seriously, respect the craft.

Benny Blue

But also there is going to be an element of, like, when you're doing this, like, you know, effort go for, you know, what you want to go for.

Benny Blue

And a lot of people were, you know, talking crap behind his back and saying, oh, did he, did he really have cancer?

Benny Blue

And all this sort of stuff, and he, he was really, really hard working and he, he deserved, yeah, like, he deserved to actually have that platform because he was really funny and he put in the work as a comic and he didn't let anybody around kind of, like, sway him to be like, oh, my, am I, am I really deserving of this opportunity?

Benny Blue

Am I ready?

Benny Blue

And, and he kind of put on, you know, blinders and tunnel vision and he, he did the thing and it was great.

Benny Blue

So that was one person.

Benny Blue

Yeah.

Benny Blue

And that was, one person was just like, oh, man.

Benny Blue

Like, people, people.

Benny Blue

You can actually, there's not, for all of us, there's not going to be too many, but there are that handful of comics that we can, like, really lean on and be like, I get it, man.

Benny Blue

You just started.

Benny Blue

You got, you got, you got a ways to go.

Benny Blue

But, like, this is what, this is where I think you could, this is why I think you could be, and I think this is what you could focus on.

Benny Blue

And someone like Quincy was like, definitely someone in my corner early who was, like, really valuable to just kind of like, talk shop with, but not like, in a annoying, desperate kind of way.

Benny Blue

Like, it was like, oh, this is, like, really enriching and, like, motivating.

Benny Blue

So there you go.

Benny Blue

Yeah.

Yoshi

He's such a good person.

Yoshi

I'm so glad you brought his name up because he's from here, he's from Georgia, and when he was doing about to do the special, he came down here to, like, do the run of those shows, so.

Yoshi

Yeah, yeah.

Yoshi

He's such a good person, such a good soul.

Yoshi

But that's awesome.

Yoshi

Yeah, it's such a blast.

Joel Byers

Really, really focus on what you can control.

Joel Byers

You know, that's the thing.

Joel Byers

That's what it comes down to.

Joel Byers

Not worrying about who's on what flyer where and all of that that we can all get caught up in.

Joel Byers

Yeah.

Joel Byers

Just focusing on what you can control is gonna lead you everywhere you need to be.

Joel Byers

But we did just get a super chat, so I think we do have one.

Benny Blue

Whoa, is that like, onlyfans adjacent?

Benny Blue

What are we.

Benny Blue

What are we doing?

Yoshi

Yeah.

Joel Byers

Yeah.

Yoshi

That's exactly what it is.

Yoshi

Yeah, yeah.

Yoshi

We only fanning for comedy right here.

Yoshi

Funny.

Yoshi

Only fans.

Benny Blue

That's off for this one.

Benny Blue

What do we.

Joel Byers

YouTube is telling me this is their 10th super chat that they've sent us.

Joel Byers

Thank you so much, McGill.

Joel Byers

McGill knows the game.

Joel Byers

They know that if they do a super chat, the question gets answered.

Joel Byers

So all three of us will be able to split $5.03 ways.

Joel Byers

I will tell my wife when she gets home from work.

Joel Byers

You don't have to go back to work tomorrow, honey.

Yoshi

We got a super cup.

Benny Blue

Licking some cream, baby.

Benny Blue

Thanks, Miguel.

Joel Byers

Hilarious.

Joel Byers

So, McGill asked, do you think open mics will naturally lead to showcases or is there extra effort necessary?

Benny Blue

There's extra.

Benny Blue

There's extra effort necessary, for sure.

Benny Blue

Because now you're talking about.

Benny Blue

Now you're talking about kind of what I had referenced and we sort of talked about earlier with, like, the.

Benny Blue

What you consider, like, the linear path of success in comedy, where if you were to kind of break this down into a series of steps, I think, for how most people look at it, which, again, is relevant, but it's not going to be like, kind of what, like Joel was saying about your own path.

Benny Blue

Like, it's not going to be a, B, C, D, e.

Benny Blue

It's not.

Benny Blue

It's never going to work like that.

Benny Blue

But from the stage that you're at, it's for sure going to be open mics.

Benny Blue

I don't know what market that you're in, but if you're getting hit with your fair share, bring your show is probably going to be part of the game.

Benny Blue

Thankfully, I move past bring your shows pretty quickly, but there can be value, particularly if you just need real shows because, you know, they can be real shows.

Benny Blue

Granted, you can either be, you know, the toast of the town or get, get, you know, pepper sprayed for not bringing enough people.

Benny Blue

It's kind of dealer's choice there, but you figure that out.

Benny Blue

But if you're talking about like, legit showcases, particularly at clubs now, like, you have to do the mics at clubs that are going to be like in front of like the booker or people producing shows because that's who's going to see you.

Benny Blue

You just have to be in those rooms where people are actually going to see you and book that which, you know, some, depending on your town, they may be going to.

Benny Blue

If it's not a big market and there's only like, you know, three or four open mics available in town, chances are that cross pollination is already going to be there.

Benny Blue

But if it's not, then you probably have to, you actually have to go to those rooms to be seen by those people.

Benny Blue

So that would, I think would be the answer to that is like, you, you do have to put in that extra effort because really, and I've still faced this to this day, it's just, it's nothing.

Benny Blue

It's never as simple as working hard and being funny.

Benny Blue

It's never that simple.

Benny Blue

You do have to be, have an element of shaking hands and kissing babies and it's part of the game.

Benny Blue

Not my favorite thing to do, but it is a necessary evil if, depending on what type of opportunities you're trying to get and if you're trying to get into clubs and get into showcases, that is 100% a Facetime.

Benny Blue

Yes, be funny in front of them, but you also have to, you know, hey, how you doing?

Benny Blue

Not be a creep, be personable, be professional, and you can usually get at least one opportunity from that.

Benny Blue

So there you go.

Joel Byers

Even going to, like, if there's a showcase you want to be on, just going and watching that showcase.

Benny Blue

Yes.

Benny Blue

Being around the big.

Joel Byers

Yeah, being around, introducing yourself to the host.

Joel Byers

Hey, I'm so and so.

Joel Byers

I'm a local comic.

Joel Byers

I'm a big fan of what you're doing here and even, what's the, I'm curious what the booking process is.

Joel Byers

Or what's the best way to contact you about maybe performing in the future?

Joel Byers

That goes a long way.

Joel Byers

And even when you're at open mics, it's like being nice to the other comics, complimenting.

Joel Byers

If you're a fan of a comic, you know, go compliment their set.

Joel Byers

Get a conversation going, because you never know.

Joel Byers

They may be like, oh, you're top of mind.

Joel Byers

Actually, I have a showcase next week.

Joel Byers

Would you be interested or.

Joel Byers

I know, so and so.

Joel Byers

Like, just being around and more sociable, even at these open mics, it's all comics.

Joel Byers

I just.

Joel Byers

Still networking can help you to get on those showcases faster as well, which is something I did not do as intentionally early on that I may be more.

Joel Byers

I would be more intentional about in hindsight, but it all worked out.

Joel Byers

But, yeah, that's very valuable.

Joel Byers

Being around is valuable.

Yoshi

Absolutely.

Yoshi

Whoo, man, we did it.

Benny Blue

$1, please.

Benny Blue

Which, after fees, it's gonna, like, negative $0.37.

Benny Blue

So maybe not.

Yoshi

Yeah.

Yoshi

Hey, guys, make sure you send me your venmo so I can get you that.

Yoshi

So you can charge it on your taxes for next year as well.

Joel Byers

Well, I'll be sending a 1099 to everyone on the live stream as well, so we'll be sure to get that on the books.

Benny Blue

Yo, how many advice on the schedule?

Benny Blue

C.

Benny Blue

Yeah.

Yoshi

Oh, my God.

Joel Byers

But, yeah, I know.

Yoshi

We talked about ten, ninety nine s.

Yoshi

I got a 1099 for $15 from a club one time.

Joel Byers

I'm not surprised.

Yoshi

Are we doing this?

Yoshi

Are we doing this?

Yoshi

Am I gonna report this?

Yoshi

I think I am now.

Joel Byers

You know, there's a.

Joel Byers

There's a kind of theme of question that kind of popped up about people not living in a scene with a lot of shows or struggling to balance a busy work life with getting on stage.

Joel Byers

I don't know, Benny, if you have any points of view on that kind of struggle.

Benny Blue

No, for sure.

Benny Blue

In many ways, I actually envy those people, because when you're in, particularly when you're in, and, you know, I'm sure every major comedy market has their own version of this, but I think it's particularly true in a place like LA.

Benny Blue

When you're in a place like here, you don't really have a lot of opportunity to fail.

Benny Blue

And in terms of, like, the consequences of failure, because obviously, failing is a part of stand up, but the consequences of failure in a place like this are much greater, particularly when you're given certain opportunities and you want to be able to rise the occasion.

Benny Blue

And I'm more so speaking, like, when you're first starting out.

Benny Blue

So what I kind of envy about comics that are in smaller markets is that right off the bat, you're going to have more opportunity to do longer time.

Benny Blue

When you do go to open mics, it's funny.

Benny Blue

And I'm sure you guys noticed this from, like, you know, being around the country.

Benny Blue

A lot of, I don't know what it is, but a lot of, like, shows are marketed as open mics.

Benny Blue

Like, they call them open mics, but then when you show up, it's like an actual show.

Benny Blue

I'm like, there's like, there's like, 150 people here, and you're calling this weird that's billed like that in, like, in, like, smaller places.

Benny Blue

So, and the other thing, too is, like, when you're, when you're in a smaller market, there's more of a direct pipeline to opportunities to, like, open or host or feature for, like, a bigger comic that's coming into town versus, like, when you're in a place, like, here, it's like, well, they're, you know, they're at the improv or they're at the comedy store, the laugh factory, working something out.

Benny Blue

So it's not, you don't have that same kind of, like, visibility to, like, you're really fighting upstream with a lot of other people to kind of get seen and have that opportunity.

Benny Blue

So even though it may feel like you, you have less opportunity, you can actually maximize that more.

Benny Blue

And I actually think it's, I actually think it's a better place to start.

Benny Blue

Like, if I had to, quote unquote, do it over, I would have much rather started in, like, maybe not like a small town, but, like, a smaller city, because I think that would have kind of gave me an opportunity to get better in a way where, yes, I could have some good opportunities, but I would have been able to kind of, I don't know, fail in obscurity a little bit more than, as opposed to being in a place like this that has much more of a spotlight.

Benny Blue

And I, you know, it's just a lot more competitive.

Benny Blue

That's not to say that, you know, I'm not confident in my abilities and can't rise, you know, rise to the occasion, but it's just like, everything is just higher stakes when you're starting in a place like this because there's just so many people trying to compete for those, those limited opportunities.

Benny Blue

Whereas if you're, you know, you're in, you know, whatever, like Bloomington, Indiana, I mean, you can, you can get good there, but then it can be much more noticeable when you're good there.

Benny Blue

So then you can understand when, okay, I've been doing this for a few years.

Benny Blue

I'm really crushing it in this market.

Benny Blue

Maybe it is time for me to move to Chicago or this place where it kind of makes sense for you to elevate.

Benny Blue

And that's the other thing.

Benny Blue

It's like if you're in the midwest or the south, as opposed to the west coast, where we do have travel opportunities, kind of like, I'm from Michigan.

Benny Blue

Like, people, my comic friends are in Michigan.

Benny Blue

It's like they can bop around from, like, I'm going down to Indiana, I'm going to Ohio.

Benny Blue

And they can go, they can go all these places wherever.

Benny Blue

They can do spots at clubs and get paid.

Benny Blue

They can get kind of, like, bigger opportunities, but they can do it in a way where it's like, it's not as, like, consequential to the people in LA and New York, where it's like they're the twelve Mike a night guy and they're really grinders.

Benny Blue

It's like, it's okay if you have a family and other stuff going on.

Benny Blue

I just think it kind of gives you more opportunity to care about those opportunities more because even though they might seem fewer and more far between, I do think you can get a lot more out of that chance to be in front of people for 15 or 20 minutes at a clip.

Benny Blue

Even if you don't necessarily feel ready, it's still good batting practice.

Benny Blue

And if you bomb, the world's not going to end.

Benny Blue

You're not going to be in front of the booker of all the improvs across the country.

Benny Blue

Like, damn it, I blew my shot.

Benny Blue

It's like, dude, you're in fricking Toledo, Ohio.

Benny Blue

You're going to be fine.

Benny Blue

You're going to live another day.

Joel Byers

So, yeah, and get creative.

Joel Byers

You can produce your own show if you're in a small town.

Joel Byers

And also, is there like a karaoke night?

Joel Byers

Is there a music, open mic?

Joel Byers

Different places.

Joel Byers

They're already doing live entertainment.

Joel Byers

You could maybe squeeze on, like, I mean, I've done stand up at karaoke nights before and was like, do you mind if I do some time?

Joel Byers

And they're always open to it.

Joel Byers

People love comedy, so, yeah, get creative if you're in a smaller town and seek to find your own opportunities and creating your own show or connecting with comics and other cities, you can then travel to.

Joel Byers

But speaking of chicken, Joe clark just said, I just signed my first w nine for comedy, and I'm so stoked.

Joel Byers

This show has definitely helped me.

Yoshi

Yeah, when you get from chicken fingers to w nine s, that's next level, baby.

Joel Byers

Yeah.

Yoshi

That's how you know you're on the right path.

Joel Byers

Yeah.

Joel Byers

And benny, thank you so much.

Joel Byers

Well, one, I'm just, I'm just over the moon that you even enjoy this show and now you're on here and that you dropped such a impactful special.

Joel Byers

I mean, I, I love where comedy is headed.

Joel Byers

And you really pushing it forward with taking the format and kind of making it your own, which I think is the future of comedy.

Joel Byers

And all of us trying to create our own opportunities.

Joel Byers

Whoa.

Joel Byers

What do I wish existed now?

Joel Byers

Let's go have it exist on our terms.

Joel Byers

And you did that and you knocked it out of the park.

Joel Byers

So the, the special is live for my mother's funeral.

Joel Byers

It's available on Benny's YouTube channel.

Joel Byers

I will definitely link it in the show notes, and I linked it in the live chat as well for people.

Joel Byers

And Benny, is there anything else we can help promote or anything else you'd like to say while you're orbiting the hot breath verse?

Benny Blue

Listen, big, big hot breath guy, huge fan of the show.

Benny Blue

It was a true honor and a pleasure to, to be on here.

Benny Blue

I mean, talking, talking some shop, talking about the special.

Benny Blue

I greatly appreciate it.

Benny Blue

And yeah, I mean, shameless plugs.

Benny Blue

Like, you know, like Joel said, it's on my YouTube.

Benny Blue

Best place to find me.

Benny Blue

Bennybueis.net dot.

Benny Blue

You know, you can find all my socials.

Benny Blue

You can listen, you know, if you care to the special on Spotify, apple music and yeah, man, if you enjoy it, give it a, like, give it, you know, give it a supportive comment.

Benny Blue

You know, it would mean a lot.

Benny Blue

And yeah, hopefully people dig it.

Benny Blue

And slowly but surely I can, I can find, I can find the people that are into, into what I'm doing.

Benny Blue

So I appreciate you giving me the platform to push it out there.

Benny Blue

Talk the brethren and sister.

Benny Blue

And so there you go.

Joel Byers

Of course.

Joel Byers

Well, thank you, everyone, for hanging out during this live stream.

Joel Byers

And if you're listening to the podcast, join us every Tuesday at 05:00 p.m.

Joel Byers

eastern Standard Time.

Joel Byers

We're going live to be your weekly comedy tune up, so.

Yoshi

Absolutely.

Yoshi

And don't forget we're also releasing the Yoshi special at the end of the month.

Yoshi

People have been asking, oh, buried the lead.

Benny Blue

Come on, man.

Yoshi

No, no, we wanted to talk about you, Betty special.

Yoshi

We were gonna release it last, last, like last Monday and I, but after, honestly, it's been after.

Yoshi

We've been talking to people about specials.

Yoshi

We were like, man, we got to do this thing right, and we sort of just doing a lot of marketing behind it.

Yoshi

Getting the trailer right, getting the thumbnails right, and all these things.

Yoshi

So, like, stuff that we're like, I think it's important that we do that.

Yoshi

And so, yeah, we will release it at the end of the month.

Yoshi

October 28 is the date.

Benny Blue

All right.

Joel Byers

We'll do a live premiere on our YouTube channel and everything.

Benny Blue

I'm following you.

Benny Blue

I'm sharing it in the story.

Benny Blue

Come on, Mandy.

Benny Blue

We gotta.

Benny Blue

We gotta get.

Benny Blue

We gotta get it out there.

Benny Blue

Yes.

Benny Blue

I love it.

Benny Blue

Specials?

Yoshi

Absolutely.

Joel Byers

It's happening.

Yoshi

It's happening.

Joel Byers

Yep.

Joel Byers

So mark the calendars, kids, and join our email list, where you'll get updates on that and our weekly livestreams and much more.

Yoshi

Boom.

Joel Byers

But until next Tuesday, we'll see y'all next week on hot breath.

Joel Byers

Bye, y'all.

Joel Byers

Hot breathe.