1 00:00:08,130 --> 00:00:10,590 Well, Hey everybody, Jonathan Doyle with you. 2 00:00:10,590 --> 00:00:11,130 Once again. 3 00:00:11,130 --> 00:00:13,860 Welcome aboard my friends to the daily podcast. 4 00:00:13,860 --> 00:00:15,300 It is good to have you with me. 5 00:00:16,050 --> 00:00:17,970 There is so much going on in our world. 6 00:00:17,970 --> 00:00:19,380 We all need new skills. 7 00:00:19,410 --> 00:00:22,980 We need to be a constantly encouraged and inspired. 8 00:00:23,490 --> 00:00:27,509 Karen and I were on a conference call today and, uh, it was just fascinating to 9 00:00:27,509 --> 00:00:29,250 hear the number of people talking about. 10 00:00:29,669 --> 00:00:31,020 How much they have going on. 11 00:00:31,050 --> 00:00:33,300 It's just seems to be this moment in human history. 12 00:00:33,300 --> 00:00:33,690 Doesn't it. 13 00:00:33,690 --> 00:00:34,920 So we've got to be so conscious. 14 00:00:35,430 --> 00:00:39,030 About taking care of ourselves, using all the different skills 15 00:00:39,060 --> 00:00:41,849 and capacities that we have and all the tools that are out there. 16 00:00:42,239 --> 00:00:42,870 Hopefully. 17 00:00:43,170 --> 00:00:45,209 This podcast is one of those tools. 18 00:00:45,209 --> 00:00:47,879 One of those things that gets you going each day, I'm excited about 19 00:00:47,879 --> 00:00:49,739 the direction of the podcast we have. 20 00:00:50,580 --> 00:00:51,720 We're going to have a big pivot. 21 00:00:51,750 --> 00:00:53,790 We're going to be doing a lot more guest interviews. 22 00:00:54,450 --> 00:00:56,760 In the weeks ahead, I've got a teamwork with me at the moment. 23 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:59,819 It's going to be, uh, bringing some great guests on the shows. 24 00:00:59,819 --> 00:01:02,970 So it's a great chance to hear the wisdom and insight of so many. 25 00:01:03,269 --> 00:01:04,050 Other people. 26 00:01:04,050 --> 00:01:07,500 I just finished Jenny Tufts books solo in recent episodes. 27 00:01:07,500 --> 00:01:08,610 I've been talking about that. 28 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:12,720 This remarkable woman that, uh, decided to run across most of the 29 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:14,910 world's greatest mountain ranges. 30 00:01:15,540 --> 00:01:16,260 Why not. 31 00:01:16,740 --> 00:01:18,570 I mean, if you got to do something with your time, right. 32 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:21,150 And then instead of sitting in front of the TV, want to go out 33 00:01:21,150 --> 00:01:22,530 and run the world's greatest. 34 00:01:23,250 --> 00:01:25,770 Greatest mountain ranges, but what I took out of the book. 35 00:01:26,220 --> 00:01:27,840 I talked about a few weeks ago was just. 36 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:31,140 An interesting quote, you made about decision-making and just 37 00:01:31,140 --> 00:01:33,630 about how sometimes you just got to make it, you just got to take 38 00:01:33,630 --> 00:01:35,850 that choice and keep moving. 39 00:01:35,850 --> 00:01:39,720 Karen and I have so much happening in our sort of business professional 40 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:42,090 lives and all the different things that we do and that she does. 41 00:01:42,570 --> 00:01:45,930 Um, we often talk about this, that you just got to keep 42 00:01:45,930 --> 00:01:47,400 making decisions each day. 43 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:47,790 For us. 44 00:01:47,790 --> 00:01:50,820 It's just a process of decision after decision after decision. 45 00:01:51,390 --> 00:01:53,880 So I think in life, people tend to fall into different categories. 46 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:55,770 Don't they, some people are really good at it. 47 00:01:55,980 --> 00:01:59,130 Some people go into avoidance, they just don't make decisions. 48 00:01:59,130 --> 00:02:03,510 And always remember that not making a decision is still making a decision. 49 00:02:03,510 --> 00:02:03,810 Right. 50 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:05,460 So we've got to be conscious. 51 00:02:05,490 --> 00:02:06,000 We've got to be. 52 00:02:06,540 --> 00:02:08,970 Deliberately making the choice. 53 00:02:09,420 --> 00:02:10,650 To make choices. 54 00:02:10,950 --> 00:02:14,820 We've got to be as often as possible looking at our life and constantly 55 00:02:14,820 --> 00:02:17,190 moving towards what it is that we want. 56 00:02:17,730 --> 00:02:19,320 We're never going to get perfection in this life. 57 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:23,430 We're never going to get things exactly the way we want them completely, but 58 00:02:23,430 --> 00:02:27,420 there is something unique about the human journey is that we are desiring creatures. 59 00:02:27,420 --> 00:02:30,810 We are capable of envisioning a different future. 60 00:02:30,810 --> 00:02:34,560 I was talking to a friend on a training ride the other day about leadership and. 61 00:02:35,130 --> 00:02:40,110 I remember quoting a Nepalian who famously said that the first duty of a leader. 62 00:02:40,770 --> 00:02:42,510 Is to define reality. 63 00:02:42,510 --> 00:02:44,340 And the last is to say, thank you. 64 00:02:45,030 --> 00:02:48,990 I like this idea of defining reality, that Napoleon was like able 65 00:02:49,020 --> 00:02:50,610 to kind of look into the future. 66 00:02:51,060 --> 00:02:52,230 And construct it. 67 00:02:52,260 --> 00:02:54,330 And it's interesting cause you know, Abraham Lincoln all assessed 68 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:57,840 that the best way to predict your future is to create it. 69 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:00,840 The best way to predict your future is to create it. 70 00:03:00,870 --> 00:03:02,220 So there's this constant sense of. 71 00:03:03,030 --> 00:03:05,610 Looking ahead and going, what do I want from this life? 72 00:03:05,610 --> 00:03:05,670 What. 73 00:03:06,060 --> 00:03:09,030 You know, you always hear me say what I want to have be, or do. 74 00:03:09,630 --> 00:03:12,600 Because sometimes the criticism of motivation and personal development 75 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:15,210 is people like, well, we're always focusing on getting stuff. 76 00:03:15,210 --> 00:03:15,300 Well, 77 00:03:15,330 --> 00:03:17,940 It's having being, and doing and contributing. 78 00:03:17,940 --> 00:03:18,180 Right? 79 00:03:18,180 --> 00:03:19,740 What do you want to contribute in the world? 80 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:25,050 So we want to consciously deliberately be aware of what it is that we want. 81 00:03:25,740 --> 00:03:28,170 And then look at those steps and choices on a daily basis. 82 00:03:28,530 --> 00:03:32,340 And I really believe that small steps matter that just these constant daily 83 00:03:32,340 --> 00:03:34,950 small steps can make a huge difference. 84 00:03:34,950 --> 00:03:35,850 They're significant. 85 00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:36,570 They really are. 86 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:40,560 So don't underestimate just making little tweaks on a daily basis. 87 00:03:41,010 --> 00:03:42,480 Now today, today's quote. 88 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:45,390 I want to focus on a great quote from president Theodore Roosevelt. 89 00:03:45,780 --> 00:03:48,240 It resonates with something that's been on my mind a bit lately. 90 00:03:48,300 --> 00:03:51,270 Uh, president Roosevelt said this believe you can. 91 00:03:51,900 --> 00:03:53,970 And you're halfway there. 92 00:03:54,630 --> 00:03:55,620 Believe you can. 93 00:03:55,620 --> 00:03:57,300 And you're halfway there. 94 00:03:58,020 --> 00:04:01,680 It's a great quote, reminds us of so many crucial principles, right? 95 00:04:01,710 --> 00:04:03,030 This, this concept of faith. 96 00:04:03,060 --> 00:04:06,990 I was listening to, uh, to ed Merlot's new book or ed my lip, 97 00:04:07,050 --> 00:04:08,940 as he says his new book recently. 98 00:04:09,390 --> 00:04:12,660 And the concept of faith, this remarkable. 99 00:04:12,660 --> 00:04:13,380 It's a theory. 100 00:04:13,470 --> 00:04:13,800 Isn't it? 101 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:16,200 It's hard to pin it down and go, well, what exactly is it? 102 00:04:16,649 --> 00:04:21,000 Is it wishing his faith just to kind of hoping, you know, of course 103 00:04:21,030 --> 00:04:24,210 in the Bible, it talks about faith is the, uh, you know, the hope of 104 00:04:24,210 --> 00:04:25,650 things that we haven't yet seen. 105 00:04:26,250 --> 00:04:27,780 The things that we know are coming. 106 00:04:27,780 --> 00:04:30,450 We've just got a hold in there with faith and believe in them. 107 00:04:31,260 --> 00:04:33,150 I think faith is a deliberate choice as well. 108 00:04:33,150 --> 00:04:34,830 We're talking about choice today and decisions. 109 00:04:34,860 --> 00:04:38,940 I think there were so many times in life where you have to choose faith. 110 00:04:39,479 --> 00:04:42,690 It's like a muscle, you have to exercise it, you know, it's even 111 00:04:42,690 --> 00:04:46,650 in the, in the, in the presence of circumstances or difficulties that 112 00:04:46,650 --> 00:04:48,300 can really be quite challenging. 113 00:04:48,300 --> 00:04:48,479 Right. 114 00:04:48,510 --> 00:04:51,000 You can think, well, how do I have fight in the midst of this? 115 00:04:52,140 --> 00:04:53,310 Well, the answer is you choose to. 116 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:56,909 And you choose to, again, you know, for, for people like me and 117 00:04:56,909 --> 00:04:58,080 I think many of you listening. 118 00:04:58,229 --> 00:05:01,140 You know, if you've had, uh, challenges in life of life has really 119 00:05:01,140 --> 00:05:02,760 tested you at times, it can be. 120 00:05:03,300 --> 00:05:04,380 It can weigh you down, right. 121 00:05:04,409 --> 00:05:07,020 You can actually kind of sometimes think what's the point and 122 00:05:07,020 --> 00:05:08,219 what do I, how do I keep going? 123 00:05:08,219 --> 00:05:09,750 Why do I keep getting up every day? 124 00:05:10,409 --> 00:05:13,770 This, this remarkable human capacity for faith. 125 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:15,539 To just keep going. 126 00:05:15,539 --> 00:05:17,039 One more step, one more step. 127 00:05:17,280 --> 00:05:20,370 You know, so many of the great faith traditions in particularly in mind, 128 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:22,920 You know, tradition, Christianity. 129 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:25,740 In Jesus talks so relentlessly about faith. 130 00:05:25,979 --> 00:05:28,770 You know, he sort of says, if you have the tiniest bit of faith, you can tell 131 00:05:28,770 --> 00:05:30,599 a mountain to throw itself into the sea. 132 00:05:31,710 --> 00:05:36,270 And so many of his miracles required faith required this decision to believe. 133 00:05:36,750 --> 00:05:38,490 That things could be different. 134 00:05:39,060 --> 00:05:42,510 You know, when he healed blind people there, the condition was that they 135 00:05:42,510 --> 00:05:44,520 believed that they could possibly see. 136 00:05:45,810 --> 00:05:48,240 You know, many times Jesus would say, do you want to be healed? 137 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:49,260 Do you believe you can? 138 00:05:49,260 --> 00:05:50,280 Do you want to see. 139 00:05:50,700 --> 00:05:53,700 People had to have the faith to at least believe it was possible. 140 00:05:54,270 --> 00:05:56,430 So where did whatever you're facing in life at the moment? 141 00:05:56,760 --> 00:05:59,789 Well, I guess my hope for my prayer for you, my faith for you is. 142 00:06:00,270 --> 00:06:02,520 To start strengthening this muscle muscle. 143 00:06:02,909 --> 00:06:03,810 Almost said muscle. 144 00:06:04,530 --> 00:06:05,070 Muscle. 145 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:10,409 The ability to step into something that hasn't happened yet to keep going 146 00:06:10,409 --> 00:06:13,349 to get up one more day and believe that you're going to get closer. 147 00:06:13,650 --> 00:06:17,400 Just keep going for do one thing in this podcast is going to give you that 148 00:06:17,400 --> 00:06:21,719 daily encouragement, that constant forward progression of hope and 149 00:06:21,719 --> 00:06:23,490 faith, that things can be different. 150 00:06:23,820 --> 00:06:26,640 If you make small, incremental daily choices. 151 00:06:27,270 --> 00:06:27,570 All right. 152 00:06:27,570 --> 00:06:28,830 So what did president Roosevelt's? 153 00:06:28,830 --> 00:06:30,840 I believe you can you're halfway there. 154 00:06:31,260 --> 00:06:32,550 Believe that it's possible. 155 00:06:32,550 --> 00:06:33,659 And you're halfway there. 156 00:06:34,409 --> 00:06:37,530 I watched a few moments the other day of, uh, the only one it's 157 00:06:37,530 --> 00:06:38,550 about three or four minutes of it. 158 00:06:39,180 --> 00:06:42,240 Before as usual, my tribe of children came in, had other ideas 159 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:43,469 about how I was using my time. 160 00:06:43,979 --> 00:06:47,610 I basically never watched TV or anything like that, but I actually was watching 161 00:06:47,610 --> 00:06:49,260 a couple of minutes of this Netflix. 162 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:53,760 Uh, documentary on the pro and professional PGA golfers. 163 00:06:54,810 --> 00:06:57,960 And I think it was M J T is it Justin? 164 00:06:57,990 --> 00:07:00,539 Thomas was who's one, one of the U S majors. 165 00:07:00,570 --> 00:07:02,670 He said, Just this line. 166 00:07:02,700 --> 00:07:06,150 He said, you know, from when I was the youngest age, I just wanted to 167 00:07:06,150 --> 00:07:07,560 be the best golfer in the world. 168 00:07:08,909 --> 00:07:11,159 You know, and look at this quote we're talking about today. 169 00:07:11,159 --> 00:07:12,810 Believe you can, and you're halfway there. 170 00:07:12,810 --> 00:07:16,440 I mean, imagine if he's dream had been, you know, I really believe in that 171 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:20,670 I can be in the top 40,000 golfers in the world, or I really believe. 172 00:07:21,060 --> 00:07:21,900 You know, but he didn't write. 173 00:07:21,900 --> 00:07:23,460 It was like, I believe I can be the best. 174 00:07:24,180 --> 00:07:24,990 Now I'm a realist. 175 00:07:24,990 --> 00:07:28,590 I know there's genetics involved and you've got to be born in a certain place. 176 00:07:29,130 --> 00:07:31,500 There's definitely factors that we can't control in life. 177 00:07:31,530 --> 00:07:34,469 But think about the fact that he had that first bedrock, right. 178 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:36,060 He had that belief. 179 00:07:36,539 --> 00:07:39,090 Had the belief that it was possible, he could envision a 180 00:07:39,090 --> 00:07:40,740 future where it was going to happen. 181 00:07:41,130 --> 00:07:42,870 And once that belief was in place. 182 00:07:43,110 --> 00:07:46,380 He was halfway there now, but the other half was the work and the 183 00:07:46,380 --> 00:07:50,099 dismal and the travel and the fatigue and the uncertainty and the losses. 184 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:53,070 But without that preeminent belief. 185 00:07:53,490 --> 00:07:54,750 No one's going anywhere. 186 00:07:54,810 --> 00:07:55,440 Think about everything. 187 00:07:55,469 --> 00:07:57,510 Great that's ever happened in human history. 188 00:07:58,020 --> 00:07:58,440 You know, look good. 189 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:00,539 Martin Luther king Jr's right. 190 00:08:00,539 --> 00:08:03,900 They had to believe it was possible that something could be slightly different 191 00:08:03,900 --> 00:08:06,599 without that faith, nothing was changing. 192 00:08:07,050 --> 00:08:09,450 So, whatever your circumstance is now you could have, it could 193 00:08:09,479 --> 00:08:10,530 be a difficult relationship. 194 00:08:10,530 --> 00:08:12,570 It could be financial problems could be health problems. 195 00:08:12,570 --> 00:08:17,039 You've got to take that first single step of belief. 196 00:08:17,729 --> 00:08:18,180 Okay. 197 00:08:18,210 --> 00:08:19,800 That's my encouragement for you today. 198 00:08:19,800 --> 00:08:20,370 Just begin. 199 00:08:20,789 --> 00:08:22,380 And I really want to be practical. 200 00:08:22,380 --> 00:08:22,469 It's. 201 00:08:22,620 --> 00:08:25,440 It's a moment by moment mental practice. 202 00:08:26,159 --> 00:08:30,539 It's not just a hope or a, or a wish that you send Skywood it's like, no. 203 00:08:31,020 --> 00:08:35,220 I'm going to choose to have faith I'm going to choose to consciously 204 00:08:35,220 --> 00:08:39,630 deliberately mentally believe that this is possible and i will keep moving forward 205 00:08:39,630 --> 00:08:43,410 and I will keep believing this and i'll keep acting on it and speaking about 206 00:08:43,410 --> 00:08:46,920 it and moving towards it All right my friends that's my message for you today 207 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:50,760 believe you can and you're halfway there get to work on your faith and the rest 208 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:55,200 will follow there'll be links floating around here You can book time with me 209 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:58,800 for coaching there'll be other links to book me for speaking but stay tuned 210 00:08:58,830 --> 00:09:01,920 this podcast is going to be growing even more you're going to send great guests 211 00:09:01,920 --> 00:09:06,510 for your soon But um, for now This has been the daily podcast god bless your 212 00:09:06,510 --> 00:09:10,200 friends my name is jonathan doyle and you and i are going to talk again tomorrow