Welcome back, you guys.
Maria:It's week seven of Our Mothers Knew It.
Maria:And this week, we're gonna head a little deeper into 2 Nephi.
Maria:We're gonna go three, four, and five this week.
Maria:And it's a period of unrest.
Maria:We have the end of Lehi's life, so you're going to hear the end of his guidance to
Maria:his son, specifically to his son Joseph.
Maria:You're going to see him pass away in that prophetic mantle,
Maria:shift onto Nephi's shoulders.
Maria:You see him try to bear that burden with dignity and struggle because
Maria:of all that is in front of him.
Maria:You also see Laman and Lemuel Divide off they break off and are cut off from
Maria:this covenant connection to God and you see this Sweeping change happen in this
Maria:people over the course of these three chapters 30 to 40 years past I mean this
Maria:is a lot of time that goes by but most of it happens at the very end in that
Maria:last chapter in five and I think What was fascinating to me to study throughout
Maria:the chapters is to watch for instability.
Maria:I was listening to a devotional recently from Sister Porter.
Maria:President Porter has this incredible BYU devotional about feeling unstable.
Maria:In fact, the analogy she brought up, it's in the notes as well, but she talked
Maria:about, molecules, compounds, and how oftentimes they are unstable, meaning
Maria:they need an electron in that outer shell.
Maria:And so they're going to seek to find stability and connect with others and
Maria:to get the electrons that they need in order to be a stable compound.
Maria:And then she related that to her life.
Maria:In fact, one of the reasons I don't tear up very often, but that talk.
Maria:choked me up a little bit because she talks about her situation in Lowe's.
Maria:If you haven't heard it, I'm not going to reiterate it just because it's so good.
Maria:You need to hear it from her words, but she spoke about that period right after
Maria:her husband's passing, where there was a like horrific thing to happen to her
Maria:house and she had to go and handle it by being in Lowe's and How she felt unrest.
Maria:She felt unstable.
Maria:This was this moment of clearly there are electrons missing and I need help.
Maria:And then she talks about how divine help came.
Maria:And I think that's what you see throughout these chapters.
Maria:You see Lehi, Nephi, the Laman and Lemuel, all of them are wrestling
Maria:with some sort of disconnect.
Maria:Some kind of discontent.
Maria:Lehi's worried about his posterity.
Maria:He knows they're not going to get the guidance they need from
Maria:Laman and Lemuel, so He sees his grandchildren and he's worried for them.
Maria:Nevi is going to struggle with discontent because he sees that he's
Maria:supposed to lead this family and his brothers hate him and won't listen.
Maria:So he's struggling with discontent.
Maria:Laman and Lemuel are struggling because they have these ideas in their mind
Maria:that Nevi wants to rule over them.
Maria:And so he's seeking power and they feel discontent.
Maria:But I think it's powerful is this week in these chapters, you get to
Maria:see how all these different parties handle that feeling of instability.
Maria:That those who turn to the Lord and ask Him to fill in the gaps, those
Maria:who follow His promptings and do what He asks, find that stability.
Maria:They find peace.
Maria:Lehi finds peace by the end of his life.
Maria:Nephi finds peace by taking his family and moving to a new land.
Maria:And Laman and Lamuel and their posterity See the opposite of that.
Maria:They just stagnate.
Maria:There is a, they just stand still and then atrophy.
Maria:And you get to see those choices laid out for you boldly.
Maria:And I think since all of us wrestle with discontent, I think knowing
Maria:how to channel it towards the divine rather than towards the discouraging is
Maria:powerful and instructive for all of us.
Maria:This is a week you don't want to miss.
Maria:Grab your scriptures.
Maria:Grab your notes.
Maria:It's time to get started.
Maria:All right, you guys, just like we've done week after week, we're
Maria:going to do a 7 5 3 approach.
Maria:I say that just because there are new people coming to join us every week.
Maria:It's been fun to see how those numbers have grown.
Maria:Sam made me a cardboard YouTube play button plaque this week because we,
Maria:we hit a big milestone and it was fun.
Maria:So thank you for joining us and let me explain how we do things here.
Maria:Basically, we're going to do a 7 5 3, which means I'm going
Maria:to share seven key sparks.
Maria:Things that just lit up for me as I was studying my scriptures that I'm
Maria:hoping will intrigue you to get into your own and find your own sparks in the
Maria:scriptures, or maybe even just to dig into mine and see what else you can learn.
Maria:And then five good questions.
Maria:I'm hoping that these questions help inspire you to have good conversations.
Maria:Whether it just be in your family settings or in a classroom, I
Maria:hope it helps get new ideas going and good conversations happening.
Maria:And then we'll do a separate video of the object lessons.
Maria:So that's my way of taking three core principles that we learned from the
Maria:verses this week and finding ways to make them meaningful and memorable and
Maria:simple so that you can pull them off with your families or with your classmates.
Maria:So let's get started.
Maria:Okay, spark number one, I'm calling joy in the wilderness because I found
Maria:myself really delighted and intrigued by how Lehi begins these verses.
Maria:He's talking to Joseph.
Maria:So where last week we talked to the oldest son that was born in
Maria:the wilderness, Jacob, now we're talking to the very youngest one.
Maria:We know there are daughters that happen in the middle, maybe even other sons, but
Maria:he's going to talk to his last born son in the wilderness, and that is Joseph.
Maria:And he has some pretty remarkable things to say to Joseph.
Maria:Because Lehi is such a diligent study, studier of the scriptures,
Maria:he has read the prophecies.
Maria:He has read about Joseph in Egypt and how he had prophecies
Maria:of Lehi's day and beyond.
Maria:So Joseph is going to get some special guidance from Lehi.
Maria:To me, this is just sweet, right?
Maria:I don't know how old Joseph is at this point in time.
Maria:He's really young, I imagine.
Maria:If you watch the Book of Mormon videos, he looks young, you
Maria:know, like maybe eight or ten.
Maria:We don't know exactly, but we do know that he was young enough that his mother need,
Maria:needed to take care of him on the boat.
Maria:And you hear Lehi talk about when he was born.
Maria:So this is 2nd Nephi 3, 1 through 3.
Maria:It says, And now I speak unto you, Joseph, my lastborn.
Maria:Thou wast born in the wilderness of mine afflictions.
Maria:Yea, in the days of my greatest sorrow did thy mother bear thee.
Maria:And may the Lord consecrate also unto thee this land, which is the most
Maria:precious land, for thine inheritance, and the inheritance of thy seed with
Maria:thy brethren, for thy security forever, if it so be that ye shall keep the
Maria:commandments of the Holy One of Israel.
Maria:And now, Joseph, my lastborn, whom I have brought out of the wilderness
Maria:of my afflictions, may the Lord bless thee forever, for thy seed
Maria:shall not be utterly destroyed.
Maria:And then Lehi teaches him about how his seed will make it.
Maria:We actually studied this in the Doctrine and Covenants.
Maria:Remember, I think it's in D& C 3.
Maria:It's in the notes, but we learned that the gospel is going to come back to
Maria:different tribes within this, those who survive the end of the Book of Mormon.
Maria:And one of the tribes that's listed in the Doctrine and Covenants is the Josephites,
Maria:which I just think is fascinating.
Maria:So this is, some of his posterity are going to make it, and
Maria:they're going to be reclaimed.
Maria:They're going to be brought back to the truth.
Maria:And so Lehi wants his son to know that.
Maria:What I just thought was so interesting is the way Lehi described his
Maria:feelings about when his son was born.
Maria:He talks about it being the days of his greatest sorrow.
Maria:And I found myself wondering, Why?
Maria:I don't know, and nobody knows for sure, but I, I wondered what
Maria:precipitated that statement.
Maria:It's, it's possible to me, since we know that he was born, or was
Maria:very young, on the boat, maybe his mom never bounced back.
Maria:Remember how we talked about that with Lehi last week, that maybe that's why
Maria:he's hitting the end of his life a little soon, is that he just Never bounced back.
Maria:Maybe that time on the boat is a time of great sorrow for Lehi, because
Maria:although I think Saria makes it to the Promised Land, I don't know how
Maria:long she gets to live beyond it.
Maria:And I wonder sometimes if that's a struggle for Joseph, you know, knowing
Maria:that that is part of his history.
Maria:And what I love that Lehi does in this moment is he says, You are the joy.
Maria:You know, like, even though you came from a time of great
Maria:sorrow for me, I delight in you.
Maria:The Lord delights in you, and you were intended to be here.
Maria:I just think it's fascinating that Lehi and Sariah choose to have
Maria:children in the wilderness at all.
Maria:You know, I understand how they had children in Jerusalem when they
Maria:had a house, and they had maybe, maybe even servants, and at least
Maria:some wealth from what we learned about with the brass plate scenario.
Maria:So I just think the very fact that they choose to continue to
Maria:have children in the wilderness.
Maria:says something to me.
Maria:For me, I just think it would have been easy for them to say, if the
Maria:Lord wants us to have kids, we'll wait until we get to the promised land.
Maria:It would have made their travels easier.
Maria:It would have made things smoother.
Maria:It would have made Soraya's efforts much lighter, supposedly, right?
Maria:And I found myself just wondering, like, why?
Maria:Why does the Lord ask them to have children in the wilderness?
Maria:And I don't know the exact answer.
Maria:I just know the answer from my own life.
Maria:That I think We got that question a lot when we were young.
Maria:Um, since I'm making these videos for my posterity, I thought it would
Maria:be good to point out that like we, we had that, we had three kids.
Maria:Our first, oldest three, we had our, we have a gap between
Maria:our two sets of three kids.
Maria:And our oldest three came really fast when we were really young and still in
Maria:school and struggling and had no money and I would get that question all the time.
Maria:Especially because we didn't live.
Maria:around other members of the church.
Maria:Very often we, we were out in, in the margins, and it was something that people
Maria:were kind of astounded and confused by.
Maria:And I remember feeling like They just didn't get it, you know, like
Maria:they would say things like, Oh, it's going to be so much harder
Maria:for your husband to finish school.
Maria:Or it's going to be so much more expensive.
Maria:We go into so much more debt.
Maria:And all that was probably true.
Maria:But I think what meant the most to me is when he came home from taking a test
Maria:or when, when we had hard days, he came home to a house full of kids who like.
Maria:Rushed him, you know, like they like couldn't wait to pile up on him.
Maria:I just think that's what, maybe that's the purpose of having
Maria:children in the wilderness.
Maria:Because God knows that they are a light, you know, that they can be
Maria:a light to carry in the wilderness.
Maria:They bring joy and peace and we felt the same kind of thing.
Maria:We had A miscarriage that was hard in the middle between our two sets of three.
Maria:And it was honestly hard for me to want to begin again.
Maria:I just wasn't sure my heart could take it.
Maria:And we really felt pulled that we were supposed to have more.
Maria:And so we did.
Maria:And honestly, you guys, I can't imagine life without my little three.
Maria:They're not that little anymore.
Maria:You know, Will's going to be a junior next year.
Maria:But like, I can't imagine my life without those.
Maria:I can't imagine us going through.
Maria:The last seven years of cancer without Violet, without Will and Sam to
Maria:entertain us, like, Violet was two when Jason was diagnosed, and she
Maria:was not a burden, she was a light.
Maria:And I think that's what prophets are trying to help us understand today,
Maria:that this gift of family is a gift, no matter how hard your circumstances
Maria:are, how impractical it seems.
Maria:That, I love, there's this great talk from Elder Anderson back
Maria:in twenty I think it's 2011.
Maria:I didn't write down the year.
Maria:Somewhere around there.
Maria:And he talks about the value of children.
Maria:He was quoting this other woman who was writing a blog.
Maria:It says, many voices in the world today marginalize the importance of
Maria:having children, or suggest delaying or limiting children and family.
Maria:My daughter's recently referred me to a blog written by a Christian mother,
Maria:not of our faith, with five children.
Maria:She commented, Growing up in this culture is very hard to get a
Maria:biblical perspective on motherhood.
Maria:Children rank way below college, below world travel for sure, below the ability
Maria:to go out at night at your leisure, below honing your body at the gym, below
Maria:any job you have or may hope to get.
Maria:Then she adds, Motherhood is not a hobby, it is a calling.
Maria:You do not collect children because you find them cuter than stamps.
Maria:It is not something for you to do if you can squeeze the time in.
Maria:It is what God gave you time for.
Maria:Isn't that just a beautiful stance on parenting?
Maria:I think that's what Lehi and Zariah understood.
Maria:I think that's why they choose to have children in the wilderness.
Maria:And I think it, it is a delight.
Maria:The very way that he interacts with his sons, Jacob and Joseph, tells
Maria:you that he delights to have them.
Maria:And I just think it's a sweet reminder that you find right in
Maria:this first chapter and called the second spark understanding Moses.
Maria:Because one of my favorite things that I learned this week had
Maria:nothing to do with Book of Mormon.
Maria:And well, I mean, I guess it, it's tangentially connected, but I,
Maria:what I loved is the understanding that I gained about Moses.
Maria:There is this sweet prophecy.
Maria:So like I mentioned, Joseph is being guided by Lehi and he's telling him
Maria:about prophecies that he read, I assume in the brass plates, or maybe he
Maria:received them from other understandings.
Maria:But we do know that when Joseph Smith does a inspired translation of the Bible.
Maria:This is something he records, that Joseph in Egypt had these beautiful prophecies.
Maria:In fact, there's some kind of deathbed prophecies that
Maria:Joseph offers to his posterity.
Maria:And Joseph Smith gives us those in the Joseph Smith translation.
Maria:And now we get to see Lehi Reading, it sounds like those same passages,
Maria:because what he's trying to help his son Joseph understand is that he is part
Maria:of this giant covenant connection, and that there is a bigger work at play.
Maria:What's intriguing to me is the time difference.
Maria:I mean, if you think about Joseph in Egypt, so he is someone who, his
Maria:story begins the Israelites, right?
Maria:Like, he is one of the sons of Jacob, Israel.
Maria:And so his posterity kind of begin those generations.
Maria:There's a few generations between Joseph and Moses.
Maria:Joseph is the person who kind of guides the Israelites into Egypt and they come
Maria:in, you know, welcomed and greeted warmly.
Maria:By the time they leave Egypt, they are slaves.
Maria:But that's, you know, 400 years ish later.
Maria:So Joseph, when he's prophesying all of this, can see this play out.
Maria:Joseph in Egypt can see there's going to be a time of bondage, and then
Maria:there's going to be a Moses that's going to lead the people out of Egypt.
Maria:And then he can see, much further down the line, like, 3500 years down
Maria:the line when Joseph Smith restores the gospel and brings light and
Maria:law and truth to the world again.
Maria:So what he does is he compares these two.
Maria:Joseph in Egypt compares Moses to Joseph Smith.
Maria:And so you see that reference a few times in the chapters.
Maria:What I thought was beautiful is I came out of the Old Testament Admiring
Maria:Moses for lots of reasons, you know, he and Joseph Smith have some really
Maria:similar similar characteristics.
Maria:They have different upbringings for sure You know, Moses is in Pharaoh's court and
Maria:has a pretty posh living but Joseph Smith has a very different one in his little log
Maria:cabin But they have some similar issues.
Maria:They have insecurities about their ability to speak They don't feel
Maria:worthy of the calling that they have.
Maria:They are kind of on their own trying to reestablish truth and
Maria:They bring the law to their people.
Maria:Both of them bring the law.
Maria:They also both have really high hopes for their people.
Maria:You know, they, I think Moses, when he came off that mount with the
Maria:law, had such high hopes that he could offer them all the blessings
Maria:that the priesthood can extend.
Maria:And they Made the golden calf.
Maria:And I think in the Doctrine and Covenants, we saw over and over again
Maria:how Joseph had high hopes for Zion.
Maria:He taught and guided and enticed and, you know, like he wanted Zion to happen
Maria:and the people just didn't quite rally.
Maria:And they had a lot of opposition and other things, but it was just, I think
Maria:they have some similar things, but Probably what I love the most, you guys,
Maria:is what I read about them being compared.
Maria:So this is 2 Nephi 3, 8 through 11.
Maria:And I will give unto him a commandment, that he should do no other work save
Maria:the work that I shall command him.
Maria:And I will make him great in my eyes, for he shall do my work.
Maria:And he should be great, like unto Moses, whom I have said I would raise up unto you
Maria:to deliver my people, O house of Israel.
Maria:And Moses will I raise up to deliver thy people out of the land of Egypt.
Maria:But a seer, speaking of Joseph, will I raise up out of the fruit of thy loins,
Maria:and unto him will I give power to bring forth my word unto the seed of thy loins.
Maria:And not to the bringing forth of my word only, saith the Lord, but to
Maria:the convincing them of my word, which shall have gone forth among them.
Maria:The reason I think we see it laid out this way, that Joseph and Egypt is putting
Maria:these two right up against each other, is I think we're supposed to see similarities
Maria:beyond What is more obvious, you know, the fact that Moses builds the tabernacle
Maria:and Joseph was the first temple, you know, like I think there's some really obvious
Maria:ones, but the one that hit me the hardest was I love the stories about Joseph.
Maria:There's a great talk from Elder Maxwell, it's in the notes this week, where he
Maria:lays out some of these stories that I had never read before, you know,
Maria:about Joseph wrapping infants in these blankets and holding them by the fire.
Maria:before he returned to somebody else's house and blessing those who were sick.
Maria:And, you know, don't you love those stories about Joseph?
Maria:Like him wrestling with the boys in the grass or like wrestling with his kids
Maria:in the, in the front room when that guy comes over and he's so offended that
Maria:a prophet would wrestle with his kids.
Maria:Like, I just, I love the humanity of Joseph.
Maria:I love, when I picture Joseph Smith, I picture someone who is joyful
Maria:and hopeful and fast to forgive.
Maria:And, you know, just, has a countenance of cheer.
Maria:And I have never thought of that with Moses before.
Maria:Maybe Hollywood is to blame, or maybe this is just my own misunderstanding
Maria:of Old Testament scripture.
Maria:I went through the whole Old Testament, you guys, and I never
Maria:pictured Moses with a smiling face.
Maria:Not that I thought he was mean, I just kind of picture him austere.
Maria:And this week, what I learned, the more I studied, especially the more
Maria:I studied Joseph Smith, The more I was like, Oh, he's like unto Moses.
Maria:What if they're alike in temperament?
Maria:What if they're alike in the way they took care of their people?
Maria:What if I could start picturing Moses the way I picture Joseph?
Maria:And I picture Moses playing with kids in their camp in Israel.
Maria:If I picture Moses going around with a handkerchief and trying to help
Maria:and heal and, you know, bless as many widows and children as he can.
Maria:What if I picture Moses instead of austere with this brass serpent on a
Maria:stick, if I picture him carrying that stick to everyone, pleading for them to.
Maria:Look up and see.
Maria:I just It softened for me.
Maria:The Old Testament softened for me as I read the Book of Mormon.
Maria:And I think that's one of the sweetest evidences of the Book of Mormon
Maria:and the Bible working together.
Maria:That as we study the Book of Mormon, and that's going to be in the prophecies
Maria:this week too, you're going to see Joseph in Egypt prophesy that the
Maria:words of the Bible and the words of the Book of Mormon will grow together
Maria:and that they will teach people about their covenant connection to God.
Maria:And I saw that.
Maria:In a roundabout way, you know, I saw that happen in my heart.
Maria:I saw myself soften towards Moses and start to envision him the way
Maria:I envisioned the Prophet Joseph.
Maria:And it was sweet to me.
Maria:So, I would just encourage you to go back in.
Maria:It made me picture things differently.
Maria:So, if you go in 2 it says, Wherefore, the fruit of thy loins shall write, and the
Maria:fruit of the loins of Judah shall write.
Maria:And that which shall be written by the fruit of thy loins, and also that which
Maria:shall be written by the fruit of the loins of Judah, shall grow together, unto the
Maria:confounding of false doctrines, laying down contentions, and establishing peace
Maria:among the fruit of thy loins, and bringing them to the knowledge of their fathers
Maria:in the latter days, and also to the knowledge of my covenants, saith the Lord.
Maria:I love this because of what we studied in the Doctrine and Covenants.
Maria:Remember when Joseph Sr.
Maria:gives Joseph Smith his patriarchal blessing?
Maria:If you go to the patriarchal blessing template that we have on the site, you can
Maria:see Joseph Smith's patriarchal blessing.
Maria:And it was because I just posted this a few weeks ago that I happened
Maria:to see this again, but it's just this beaming light where he, in the
Maria:patriarchal blessing, talks about Joseph in Egypt and how Joseph Smith Jr.
Maria:is, you know, this Prophecy come to life, and it's supposed to give him peace.
Maria:I think it's the same thing Lehi's trying to give his son right now.
Maria:He's trying to say, you are of noble blood.
Maria:Look who you are named after.
Maria:Look at the work that is ahead of you.
Maria:This is a good work.
Maria:And even though Lehi himself can't be there with his son Joseph to watch some
Maria:of these things play out, he is, he is connecting him to something so much more.
Maria:bigger.
Maria:And I just love it.
Maria:I found myself picturing heaven differently with these two prophets.
Maria:You know, I almost picture Moses and Joseph Smith together, you know,
Maria:like putting their arms around each other, watching these things play out.
Maria:And, you know, like, I just think there's, there's more connection
Maria:between these two mighty prophets of God than, than what is on the surface.
Maria:And if you go into the verses, I think you'll find it.
Maria:Spark number three, I call Covenant Connections, because you see covenant
Maria:everywhere in these chapters.
Maria:And I found myself wondering, why?
Maria:Why is Joseph learning all of this from Lehi?
Maria:Joseph is little.
Maria:He is a kid at this point, and I'm sure he can't understand covenant that well
Maria:or what that implies, but why is Lehi, at the end of his life, taking so much
Maria:time to talk about covenant connections?
Maria:And honestly, what helped me the most is the live we did this week.
Maria:So over on gather.
Maria:macmom.
Maria:com, we did a live with Melinda Brown.
Maria:She's the author of Even Adam that I talked about last week.
Maria:And in the live, Mindy talked about her favorite name for Jesus Christ,
Maria:that it is Immanuel, God with us.
Maria:And then she talked about how when Adam and Eve had to leave the garden.
Maria:They took God with them, you know, in lots of different ways.
Maria:The priesthood went with Adam.
Maria:They had these coats of skins.
Maria:They had truth.
Maria:They had these promises.
Maria:They had their sealing.
Maria:They, all these things that allowed them to take God with them.
Maria:And not just in a figurative way, but Jehovah guides them, right?
Maria:All throughout the Old Testament, Jehovah is with his people.
Maria:And so I loved her.
Maria:She cast a big light on that.
Maria:And I feel like that's what Lehi is trying to do with his son as well,
Maria:because Lehi can't Little Joseph, if, if Joseph did lose his mother early in his
Maria:life, then Lehi's his only parent left.
Maria:And to lose Lehi would have been devastating, except for Lehi
Maria:chooses to focus on the covenant.
Maria:So he makes him feel woven into something so much bigger.
Maria:In fact, I listened to Mindy Brown on the Desert Book Magnify podcast this week.
Maria:And she made this.
Maria:sweet statement.
Maria:She said, we often think of things in a chain when it comes to posterity,
Maria:we think of a chain around our ancestry, but really it's lace.
Maria:You know, it's this, we are interwoven into so many other lives.
Maria:And I think that's what he's trying to help Joseph understand.
Maria:You are part of this great web of God and he, you don't need to be afraid.
Maria:Because you've got ancestors you can lean on.
Maria:You've got a big brother in Nephi that you can look towards.
Maria:You've got a future that is bright.
Maria:Your posterity will make it and they will know the truth.
Maria:Like, he is trying to show him this web.
Maria:And what I thought was so powerful about that is I think
Maria:it's what we should do too.
Maria:I think you hear President Nelson speak about the covenant all the time, and I
Maria:think part of the reason he encourages us to teach that, even to the very young, is
Maria:because it gives a chance for stability.
Maria:You know, we kept talking at the beginning of this video about, What
Maria:it feels like to feel unstable.
Maria:Kids in this world are going to feel unstable.
Maria:And what gives them those added electrons to bring them to stability
Maria:is understanding of the covenant.
Maria:That God keeps his promises.
Maria:He's always kept his promises and he will keep them forevermore.
Maria:That is something that your kids can rest on, no matter what
Maria:their life circumstances are.
Maria:And I think that applies to Joseph as well.
Maria:I think no matter how he, how afraid he is, he can be assured in the covenant.
Maria:In fact, I love how that chapter ends.
Maria:So at the end of 3, in 20, verse 25, he says, And now blessed art thou, Joseph.
Maria:Behold, thou art little.
Maria:Wherefore, hearken unto the words of thy brother Nephi, and it shall
Maria:be done unto thee, even according to the words which I have spoken.
Maria:Remember the words of a dying father.
Maria:Amen.
Maria:I don't think he's just pointing to Nephi because he's his great, good, big brother.
Maria:I think he's pointing to Nephi because he'll be the next living prophet.
Maria:And when we look to the next living prophet Always, we can be assured.
Maria:We don't need to be afraid.
Maria:Even in a tumultuous, chaotic world, there will be a living prophet
Maria:to guide and direct his people.
Maria:And that's where Lehi wants Joseph to look to.
Maria:Spark number four is one of my favorites.
Maria:I call this a father's blessing.
Maria:So this is chapter four.
Maria:Lehi pulls his other sons aside.
Maria:So he's offering a blessing to all of his sons and these are
Maria:specifically to Laman and Lemuel.
Maria:He asked Laman to gather his children together and to come and sit at
Maria:Lehi's feet and learn from him.
Maria:And then he'll offer that same blessing to Lemuel's children as well.
Maria:And it's just kind of interesting to me to watch how Lehi does this.
Maria:He cannot control his sons.
Maria:They have their agency.
Maria:They have their choices.
Maria:And frankly, as a father, he knows what they're going to pick.
Maria:He knows their character well enough that he can see where this road goes.
Maria:What breaks his heart, I think, is what the next generation will
Maria:suffer because of their choices.
Maria:That they will suffer being separated from the prophet and from the
Maria:promises and the temple and all those things and it breaks his heart.
Maria:And so he does what he can't.
Maria:He can't do all things, but he can offer a father's blessing to his posterity.
Maria:I just love it.
Maria:It's, it's like he understands, you know, in Doctrine and Covenants
Maria:130, where this is 20 and 21.
Maria:This is where we learn that like blessings come because they
Maria:are predicated with obedience.
Maria:You have to have the obedience first in order to Obtain the blessings.
Maria:So what Lehi does is he prays to the Lord to offer this Exception, almost.
Maria:He basically says, if my grandchildren or great grandchildren, any after them,
Maria:make mistakes, it's not their fault.
Maria:They weren't led by parents who would teach them truth, so please
Maria:don't hold them accountable.
Maria:And because of that blessing, promises are made.
Maria:So if you look, this is from 5 to 7 of verse, or chapter 4.
Maria:But behold my sons and my daughters, I cannot go down to my grave save
Maria:I should leave a blessing upon you.
Maria:For behold, I know that if you are brought up in the way you should
Maria:go, you will not depart from it.
Maria:It's almost like he knows the character of his grandkids, and he knows.
Maria:It's not their fault.
Maria:And then in six, wherefore if you are cursed, behold, I leave my
Maria:blessing upon you, that the cursing may be taken from you and be answered
Maria:upon the heads of your parents.
Maria:Wherefore, because of my blessing, the Lord will not suffer that ye shall perish.
Maria:Wherefore, he will be merciful unto you and unto your seed forever.
Maria:This is his promise, right?
Maria:This is, this is grandpa intervening on the behalf of his grandchildren without
Maria:breaking the bands of agency at all.
Maria:It's basically what we read in the bible dictionary about prayer.
Maria:So it says this, prayer is the act by which the will of the father and
Maria:the will of the child are brought into correspondence with each other.
Maria:The object of is not to change the will of God, but to secure
Maria:for ourselves and for others.
Maria:The blessings that God is already willing to grant, but that are made
Maria:conditional on our asking for them.
Maria:This is, I think, what Lehi understands.
Maria:That if he prays for this offering to be made to his grandchildren, that the
Maria:accountability will rest squarely on the shoulders of those who chose it first.
Maria:Laman and Lemuel have had understanding and light and knowledge and visions of
Maria:angels and heard the word of god like they have heard and seen remarkable
Maria:things and are choosing to rebel against it their children won't see any of those
Maria:things and therefore shouldn't be held accountable so god offers this promise.
Maria:Lehi feels assured in this moment that his grandkids will be safe.
Maria:What I loved about this is they're not going to be safe
Maria:for many generations, right?
Maria:It's going to take a long time before the Lamanites finally are taught by the
Maria:Nephites and get to come around, you know, but I just, the promise is kept and
Maria:what it inspired me to do is pray more.
Maria:You know, I, I just think what are, what blessings do I want for my kids?
Maria:I should pray for them.
Maria:I should seek them out.
Maria:The visual that came into my mind, you guys, from the Old Testament,
Maria:it just kept coming back every time I went through these verses.
Maria:It was that story about the widow with the vessels.
Maria:Do you remember this?
Maria:Like, she's someone who, she goes to Elisha and she says,
Maria:My husband has been killed.
Maria:He was a diligent I can't remember the exact words, but she's like, he was a
Maria:diligent, faithful member of follower of God and he he's killed and now his those
Maria:who we owe debts to are coming after me and they want to take my sons what can
Maria:I do and I wrote some of the verses down this is 2nd Kings 4 6 7 and it came to
Maria:pass oh so sorry he told he tells her go gather the vessels remember this in the
Maria:Old Testament he says go to your neighbors ask for as many vessels as you can because
Maria:first he says to her what do you have And she says, I only have this one pot of oil.
Maria:And he says, go to all your neighbors, gather as many vessels as you can,
Maria:and then shut all the doors and go inside and pour out the oil.
Maria:So she takes what she did have and she pours it into these empty
Maria:containers and it fills every single container till there are none left.
Maria:And that's how I feel about.
Maria:Father's blessings and prayers of faith by diligent mothers.
Maria:They are this opportunity to fill those vessels.
Maria:I just Here's second kings four six and seven and it came to pass that when
Maria:the vessels were full that she said unto her son Bring me yet a vessel and
Maria:he said unto her There is not a vessel more and the oil stayed and then she
Maria:came and told the man of god and he said Go and sell the oil pay the debt live
Maria:thou and thy children of of the rest.
Maria:This is how The Lord wants to care for our posterity.
Maria:He basically says, gather as many vessels as you can.
Maria:To me, this is an imitation, you know, because I just started being
Maria:a grandma just a couple years ago.
Maria:This is an imitation, like, gather as many vessels as you can.
Maria:You gather as many places where your kids can interact with the Spirit and create
Maria:as many opportunities for your kids and your grandkids to, to know truth.
Maria:And then just start pouring.
Maria:Pour abundantly and trust that as you pour truth in all
Maria:these different circumstances, they'll be able to be filled.
Maria:There's a promise that somehow truth will seep through.
Maria:They will come to know.
Maria:It might take generations of time, like it does with the Lamanites,
Maria:but those promises are kept.
Maria:We know that because you see it in the Book of Mormon over and over again.
Maria:I mean, you could ask King Mosiah or Alma Senior, do prayers of grandfathers work?
Maria:Yes.
Maria:You know, like think about how their testimonies and their
Maria:diligent prayers change the lives of their sons in key moments, which
Maria:changed the lives of generations.
Maria:I mean, that's why we have Helaman, that's why we have Nevi and Lehi down the road.
Maria:Like, you have these mighty men of God in this line because
Maria:a grandfather chose to pray.
Maria:And I think that applies to grandmothers, mothers, fathers.
Maria:Diligently pray and seek for blessings for your children, even
Maria:if they don't think they want them.
Maria:And then watch what God can do.
Maria:Chapter four has some of the most beautiful scripture
Maria:in all the Book of Mormon.
Maria:This is what a lot of people call Nephi's psalm.
Maria:It's after Lehi's death, before the separation.
Maria:There's this, where Nephi exposes his soul.
Maria:He talks about what's in his heart and what he's wrestling with.
Maria:And what I think is really interesting is how we read it.
Maria:There's a lot of different ways you can read these verses, and I'm in no
Maria:way pretending mine is the right one.
Maria:I just think sometimes we tend to make this seem so heavy, you know,
Maria:that Nephi is completely and utterly dejected, that he is heavily depressed.
Maria:I don't, it's, that's possible.
Maria:That's just not how I read it, you guys.
Maria:I think he is.
Maria:Just diligent and honest.
Maria:So these are the verses.
Maria:So if you look at 2nd Nephi 4, this is 16 through 19.
Maria:Behold, my soul delighteth in the things of the Lord, and my heart
Maria:pondereth continually upon the things which I have seen and heard.
Maria:Nevertheless, notwithstanding the great goodness of the Lord in showing me his
Maria:great and marvelous works, my heart exclaimeth, O wretched man that I am, yea,
Maria:my heart sorroweth because of my flesh, my soul grieveth because of mine iniquities,
Maria:I am encompassed about because of the temptations and the sins which so easily
Maria:beset me, and when I desire to rejoice, my heart groaneth because of my sins.
Maria:Nevertheless, I know in whom I have trusted.
Maria:To me, where Nephi begins is an indicator of where his heart is.
Maria:I don't think he's coming from a state of hopelessness.
Maria:He's saying he's been reading the scriptures and he delights in those
Maria:scriptures, but the scriptures, as he comes closer to them and
Maria:closer to the Lord by extension, he sees himself more clearly.
Maria:Yeah, this is the divine discontent that Michelle Craig talked about.
Maria:This is where you see, as you come closer to God, you actually see your flaws.
Maria:better.
Maria:You see them more clearly.
Maria:It's almost like if you've ever held up one of those cosmetic magnifying
Maria:mirrors, you know, where you like see your pores really big and you're like,
Maria:oh wow, you know, or if you did one of those experiments in biology where you
Maria:realized how many germs you create in a day on your toothbrush or whatever.
Maria:I just think that's what happens when you come closer to God.
Maria:You realize your own weaknesses.
Maria:and they're in a more vivid relief, you know, like you can see them much
Maria:more clearly because you have come to see the light and the warmth and
Maria:the perfection of Christ better.
Maria:And I don't think that necessarily leads to Hopelessness, I
Maria:think it leads to progress.
Maria:To me, the thing that helped me the most on these verses was Come Thou Fount.
Maria:In fact, that's what I'm calling this spark because I, when I
Maria:was reading this, I started to hear Come Thou Fount in my head.
Maria:Jason had just given a talk on it and the memories of singing that song, I had
Maria:this great experience in girls camp years ago with my girls where We were asked
Maria:to do one of those singing tree things.
Maria:I don't know if you've ever done this, you guys, but you go in girls camp and
Maria:each ward is sort of at their own camp and each of you, each ward, stands by
Maria:one of the trees in their camp and pushes their flashlights up onto the tree so
Maria:that the tree lights up and then they sing a portion of the song and then
Maria:that song passes to the next camp and although you can't see the girls You
Maria:can see, like, a portion of their tree lighting up on the hillside, and you
Maria:can hear them distantly singing, and you just watch this song go around.
Maria:And we sang this song, Come Thou Fount.
Maria:It was led by my dear friend Janelle, and I can still remember the the
Maria:spirit that just pushed into that camp.
Maria:Like, it was palpable.
Maria:And that's what I felt like when I read Nephi's words.
Maria:Because I feel like that's what he's saying.
Maria:He's saying, I know I am weak.
Maria:I know as the closer I come to thee, and the more I study these scriptures
Maria:and see these mighty men of God, the more I realize how much I need you.
Maria:How much I, how big the distance is, and how much I need the
Maria:atonement of Jesus Christ.
Maria:to bless me and help me.
Maria:That's why I love that so much of his, the rest of his psalm
Maria:is focused on looking forward.
Maria:You know, he, he looks at the way God has supported him in the past,
Maria:and he looks at the way that he can trust that God will support him in
Maria:the future, and he lifts himself up.
Maria:You know, he like arises on his own, where last week we were studying
Maria:Lehi pleading with his sons to arise.
Maria:Nephi finds a way to do it on his own.
Maria:And that I just love.
Maria:So if you go through the words of that hymn, to me, as I wrote those in my
Maria:margins, it helped me read Nephi's words with more hope and more light and more,
Maria:I could relate to it in a different way.
Maria:So for example, I love in the third verse, it says, O to grace, how great
Maria:a debtor daily I am constrained to be.
Maria:Let that grace now like a fetter bind my wandering heart to thee.
Maria:Prone to wander, Lord, I feel it.
Maria:Prone to leave the God I love.
Maria:Here's my heart.
Maria:Oh, take and seal it.
Maria:Seal it for the courts above.
Maria:I feel like that's what Nephi was asking of the Lord.
Maria:He's saying, I can see the disconnect.
Maria:I can see how far I need to go.
Maria:I know you are the only way I can bridge that gap.
Maria:Here's my heart.
Maria:Take and seal it.
Maria:You almost hear it in his words.
Maria:So we read from 30 to 33.
Maria:This is in chapter four.
Maria:Rejoice, O my heart, and cry unto the Lord, and say, O Lord,
Maria:I will praise thee forever.
Maria:Yea, my soul will rejoice in thee, my God, and the rock of my salvation.
Maria:O Lord, wilt thou redeem my soul?
Maria:Wilt thou deliver me out of the hands of mine enemies?
Maria:Wilt thou make me that I might shake at the appearance of sin?
Maria:O Lord, wilt thou encircle me in the robe of thy righteousness?
Maria:O Lord, wilt thou make a way for mine escape before mine enemies?
Maria:Wilt thou make my path straight before me?
Maria:Wilt thou not place a stumbling block in my way, but that thou wouldst
Maria:clear my way before me, and hedge up not my way, but the ways of my enemy?
Maria:It's almost like you can hear a gospel choir singing and
Maria:you want to just chime in.
Maria:Yeah, I, I can relate to this piece of Nephi.
Maria:I don't think he is heavy in this moment.
Maria:I think he is mortal and he knows exactly who to turn to for lift.
Maria:And so he does.
Maria:And he gets it.
Maria:I just think it's powerful.
Maria:Spark number six I call oddly answered prayers.
Maria:Because I found myself wondering what Nephi thought would happen.
Maria:You know, he offers this beautiful psalm and at the end he prays
Maria:that the Lord will ease his way.
Maria:Right?
Maria:That he'll open up a path for him to be righteous and for
Maria:his people to be righteous.
Maria:That he'll hedge up the way of his enemies.
Maria:I found myself thinking, you know, given Nephi's psalm and the introspection of
Maria:it, I don't think enemies necessarily meant Laman and Lemuel, although they
Maria:are his physical enemies in a lot of ways, and they will try to kill him.
Maria:I think, in that psalm, his enemies are his natural man's self.
Maria:You know, his weaknesses, his sins, his reasons that he, he
Maria:can't quite bridge that gap.
Maria:I think he's hoping to hedge off those parts of himself.
Maria:And that's why I think it's really interesting how the
Maria:Lord answers his prayer.
Maria:Because you see the answer come.
Maria:a little bit later.
Maria:You see the end of four, this is 35.
Maria:Yea, I know that God will give liberally to him that asketh.
Maria:Yea, my God will give me if I ask not amiss.
Maria:Therefore, I will lift up my voice unto thee.
Maria:Yea, I will cry unto thee, my God, the rock of my righteousness.
Maria:Behold, my voice shall ascend up unto thee, my rock and my everlasting God.
Maria:Amen.
Maria:Nephi knows.
Maria:I mean, we heard this way back in Bountiful.
Maria:Remember when his brothers were threatening to push him into the water
Maria:and kill him, and he's like, if I need the water to be earth, it'll be earth.
Maria:Nephi knows what he's capable of doing.
Maria:So I sometimes wonder, like, what was the ideal outcome for Nephi?
Maria:In his mind, did he think the Lord would answer his prayer
Maria:by changing his demeanor?
Maria:Like, maybe he wouldn't.
Maria:be quick to anger anymore.
Maria:Maybe he would actually soften the hearts of Laman and Lemuel.
Maria:Maybe he would inspire the daughters to come and soften them again.
Maria:I don't think, this is just my opinion, I don't think Nephi
Maria:expected the answer that came.
Maria:Because the answer that comes is, Nephi, in order for you to hedge up the way
Maria:of your own weaknesses, you need to go.
Maria:This was fascinating to me.
Maria:So let's say, for example, one of Nephi's weaknesses is he's quick to
Maria:anger, justifiably quick to anger because his brothers are awful.
Maria:And he oftentimes is frustrated with them, especially when they, they won't listen
Maria:and they won't learn from experience.
Maria:And it's possible, but that's one of his sins that he, that so easily beset him.
Maria:One of the ways the Lord finds A way for Nephi to stop having that
Maria:problem is to get him separated.
Maria:So he says, there needs to be a divide.
Maria:So if you look in the verses, this is in chapter 5, verses 5 and 6.
Maria:After you learn that the brothers are literally trying to kill
Maria:Nephi, this is what happens.
Maria:And it came to pass that the Lord did warn me that I, Nephi, should depart
Maria:from them and flee into the wilderness and all those who would go with me.
Maria:Wherefore, it came to pass that I, Nephi, did take my family, and also Zoram and
Maria:his family, and Sam, my elder brother, and his family, and Jacob and Joseph,
Maria:my younger brother, and And also my sisters, and all who would go with me.
Maria:And all those who would go with me were those who believed in the
Maria:warnings and the revelations of God.
Maria:Wherefore, they did hearken unto my words.
Maria:I don't, this is just me, but I don't think this is what Nephi expected.
Maria:But I think it is an unconventional way to solve his problem.
Maria:If his problem is, he is struggling so much with his brothers, and it's bringing
Maria:out The worst in Nephi, one of the ways he can solve that problem is to separate.
Maria:I don't think this is often the answer.
Maria:I think the Lord wants families to be together.
Maria:Always.
Maria:I think that's his goal.
Maria:But sometimes I think separation has to happen.
Maria:This is just my opinion, but I was in a Relief Society lesson recently and
Maria:a friend was talking about how she was struggling with this because she has
Maria:a son who was so hard to have at home.
Maria:And the weight of asking him to go and live elsewhere Due to his choices and
Maria:his mistakes and his, he wouldn't honor them as parents and he wouldn't follow
Maria:their guidelines and live a different kind of life than they supported.
Maria:And so they had to make a really hard call to say, You need to live elsewhere.
Maria:We love you, but we can't live with you.
Maria:And it was eating her up a little bit.
Maria:In fact, I've had another friend who similarly, like, was way down
Maria:with the guilt of that choice.
Maria:And I think this passage of scripture is really instructive.
Maria:That in this moment, Nephi is led by God.
Maria:So if you look in the verses, it says that he was led.
Maria:The Lord did warn me that I, Nephi, should depart from them
Maria:and flee into the wilderness.
Maria:Sometimes, I think, the answer that the Lord offers is to separate for a
Maria:season, um, so that things can change.
Maria:Because Nephi chooses to follow this prompting and take all who will follow
Maria:him, you know, anyone who comes, whether it's part of his family or maybe some
Maria:of Laman and Lemuel's Children came, you know, after they heard the words of their
Maria:grandpa, maybe they followed, I don't know, but as many as want to come, can
Maria:come with Nephi, and they go into the wilderness, and they establish a new land,
Maria:they're gonna call Nephi, and because they develop in a place that is safe, and that
Maria:is diligent, you know, a place where the commandments are kept, the scriptures are
Maria:read, a temple is built, all those things, those kids can thrive, and over the course
Maria:of many generations, can circle all the way back to bring this group together.
Maria:back to truth.
Maria:It's, you know, the descendants of this group that settles in the land of
Maria:Nephi who become Ammon and they become the sons of Mosiah and they become,
Maria:you know, those who will seek after the Lamanites and bring them home.
Maria:That can't happen unless at this point in time there's a division where
Maria:truth can flourish and temples can be built and scriptures can be read.
Maria:I just think There's peace in it.
Maria:I'm certainly not trying to dictate what anybody else does in their
Maria:families, but I do think the spirit can prompt you this way and you can
Maria:feel assured no one is forgotten.
Maria:Oftentimes his desires to separate us mean he's finding a way to.
Maria:loop back around.
Maria:And it's a longer road than he hoped for, and he certainly wanted to give blessings,
Maria:but because of obedience issues, he can't.
Maria:So he finds a much longer road around.
Maria:And sometimes you have to separate so that those who are diligent and
Maria:those who want to learn can thrive.
Maria:I think there's application in families and classrooms and all kinds
Maria:of settings, but get into the verses.
Maria:I think it'll help you.
Maria:One of my favorite verses about this actually comes in Alma.
Maria:This is when you learn that those who do get converted, those Lamanites
Maria:who, many generations later, do get converted, they never leave.
Maria:This is Alma 23, 6 and, 6, 7, and 8.
Maria:And as sure as the Lord liveth, so sure as many as believed, or as many as
Maria:were brought to the knowledge of truth, through the preaching of Ammon and his
Maria:brethren, according to the spirit of revelation and of prophecy, and the
Maria:power of God working miracles in them.
Maria:Yea, I say unto you, as the Lord liveth, As many of the Lamanites as believe
Maria:in their preaching were converted unto the Lord, and they never did fall away.
Maria:For they became a righteous people.
Maria:They had laid down their weapons of rebellion, and they did not
Maria:fight against God anymore, neither against any of their brethren.
Maria:Now these are they who were converted unto the Lord.
Maria:The Lord has a long lens.
Maria:He can see another way.
Maria:He can see another way to bring families back together.
Maria:Takes a long time, and it takes a lot of people making choices to be diligent like
Maria:the sons of Ammon did, but it can happen.
Maria:Families will be brought back in.
Maria:So I think he's, God always plays for the team, and he'll find a way
Maria:to keep you connected, if not right now, over generations of time.
Maria:I think the key to that promise being fulfilled is that we never stop
Maria:loving, and we never stop reaching.
Maria:I think that's what you see in Nephi.
Maria:He's gonna continually talk about the Lamanites and his brethren, and he'll
Maria:pray for them, and he'll weep for them.
Maria:I mean, you see the same thing with the Savior when The children of Israel
Maria:are pulling away from his covenant promises that he weaves for them.
Maria:Remember he says, you know, Jerusalem, Jerusalem, like it's that same longing.
Maria:So I think as long as we are constantly reaching out, I think that's what
Maria:conference taught us over and over again, that we keep those doors wide open.
Maria:We keep our love flowing and we keep opportunities open to return.
Maria:Promises are kept
Maria:our last spark.
Maria:I call how to be happy one of those age old Universal questions that we all ask
Maria:ourselves and I think the answers are woven into chapter 5 Because this is after
Maria:the separation occurs you see Nephi's people set up shop, you know, they go out
Maria:into the wilderness It's a lot like Lehi's situation, right, where Nephi grew up as
Maria:a teenager, seeing his dad preach to the people in Jerusalem, having the people in
Maria:Jerusalem seek his life, and then having guidance from the Lord that they needed
Maria:to go into the wilderness and begin fresh.
Maria:Lehi basically sets a template for Nephi to follow, because
Maria:Nephi does the same thing.
Maria:He gets that same prompting from the Lord, and he takes his family
Maria:and anyone who will follow him, and they go into the wilderness.
Maria:and they have to begin again.
Maria:Remember, they've left the land of First Inheritance.
Maria:If you did those maps from last week, you can see where they traverse.
Maria:They have to go many days, it says, and they set up camp.
Maria:And if you've ever set up camp legitimately, like,
Maria:it is not a pleasant task.
Maria:They have to clear things.
Maria:You have to find a spot where there's water.
Maria:It's, it's work.
Maria:But somehow, in the course of this effort, They live after the manner of happiness.
Maria:That's the theme for this week, you guys, in the Come Follow Me Manual,
Maria:because this effort that they have together where they're, they've created
Maria:some separation between them and the temptations that easily beset them.
Maria:They've, they've created some separation from those who don't
Maria:believe and they're starting to build.
Maria:What sounds like Zion?
Maria:To me, it sounds like the waters of Mormon.
Maria:You know, where they go out to this small place that used to be known
Maria:because it was invested with wild beasts and now becomes this place of beauty.
Maria:That's what chapter 5 is.
Maria:Nephi becomes this place of beauty and prosperity.
Maria:So if you look in the verses, it says in 10, We did observe to keep
Maria:the judgments and statutes and the commandments of the Lord in all
Maria:things according to the law of Moses.
Maria:There's your first view in how you can live after the man of God.
Maria:manner of happiness.
Maria:You have to keep the commandments.
Maria:Like there is no other, wickedness never was happiness.
Maria:It can't be.
Maria:So that's his first big instruction to us.
Maria:If you want to be happy, keep the commandments.
Maria:Doesn't that sound really familiar?
Maria:It's like what we just heard from President Nelson in conference
Maria:and several others who quoted him.
Maria:Then in 11, And the Lord was with us, and we did prosper exceedingly.
Maria:For we began to sow seed and reap again in abundance, and we began to raise flocks
Maria:and herds and animals of every kind.
Maria:The fact that the Lord is with them, to me, means they are
Maria:making covenants and keeping them.
Maria:They, they have that close relationship with the Lord, and He is among them.
Maria:They are unified in hearts and minds, and they're working
Maria:together to do something good.
Maria:I just think this idea of Being united in this effort is powerful.
Maria:I think how they use their energy and time is impressive.
Maria:They don't spend all their time seeking ore or gold or things.
Maria:Those, those things come.
Maria:They use their time to develop a city and to build a place for their family
Maria:to be safe and to raise crops and herds.
Maria:Like, there's just something about that simple lifestyle that promises
Maria:happiness if we do it in the Lord's way.
Maria:And then in 12, And I, Nephi, had also brought the records which were engraven
Maria:upon the plates of brass, and also the ball or compass which was prepared
Maria:for my father by the hand of the Lord, according to that which is written.
Maria:Another big way we can find happiness, I think, is to hold tight to the scriptures.
Maria:Not just the scriptures, but miracles from our past.
Maria:When we honor ancestors, when we do our family history and we study their
Maria:stories, that's the Liohona to me.
Maria:It doesn't seem like the Liohona is guiding them the same way it did before.
Maria:I think it had a certain purpose, to get them across the waters and get them
Maria:through the wilderness that's over by Jerusalem, but I think now it's, it is
Maria:a It is a relic that tells them God is with them and has always been with them.
Maria:And so he brings that living memory with them in this journey.
Maria:And then I love 13.
Maria:And it came to pass that we began to prosper exceedingly
Maria:and to multiply in the land.
Maria:That's the fruits of this effort.
Maria:You don't have to take God's word for it.
Maria:Happiness is evident as you live it.
Maria:You get those blessings.
Maria:As you live his commandments, happiness comes to you.
Maria:It is not some prize that it's the end of this life.
Maria:It is something that is a consequence of daily righteous living.
Maria:You can see a bunch more in the verses, but I think he's trying
Maria:to guide us towards happiness.
Maria:A big one for me comes in the middle, where Nephi talks
Maria:about building the temple.
Maria:So this is 16.
Maria:And I, Nephi, did build a temple, and I did construct it after the manner of
Maria:the temple of Solomon, save it were not built of so many precious things, for
Maria:they were not to be found upon the land.
Maria:It could be built like unto, it could not be built like unto Solomon's temple,
Maria:but the manner of the construction was like unto the temple of Solomon and the
Maria:workmanship thereof was exceedingly fine.
Maria:I think one of the best ways to find happiness is to be resourceful and
Maria:not let perfection paralyze you.
Maria:Nephi would have grown up in Jerusalem.
Maria:He would have seen Solomon's temple close up.
Maria:He couldn't have gone inside.
Maria:He's not of the tribe of Levi, but he would have seen those outer courtyards,
Maria:and he would have seen his dad offer sacrifices on those key feast
Maria:days, and he would know its beauty.
Maria:And somehow he doesn't let that perfection freak him out.
Maria:Don't you just think that's cool?
Maria:Like, he just finds a way.
Maria:to make whatever he does exceedingly fine.
Maria:And that, to me, was inspirational when I approached my life.
Maria:There are lots of things where I find myself paralyzed because I
Maria:can look to somebody else and say, Ugh, but he did it so much better.
Maria:She'd be so much better at this.
Maria:Look how, you know, you get.
Maria:And then you just stop.
Maria:You stop progressing.
Maria:Nephi never stops progressing.
Maria:In these moments where he has a vivid memory of something
Maria:glorious and beautiful, he says, I'm gonna do the best I can.
Maria:And it will not have all the jewels, but it will be exceedingly fine.
Maria:He will do whatever he can to build the best house he can unto God.
Maria:And it sounds so much like the saints that we read about in Kirtland who had
Maria:limited means, or in Nauvoo when they had limited means, or in Salt Lake when
Maria:they were, you know, scrapping together and taking 40 years to build a temple.
Maria:They find a way to make Something that lasts, that is exceedingly fine, even if
Maria:it's not a raid like Solomon's Temple.
Maria:And I love that.
Maria:If you go in the notes, you can read, there's a great talk from Elder
Maria:Choi this last conference where he quotes President Nelson about living
Maria:after the manner of happiness.
Maria:And he makes it so simple.
Maria:He says this, President Nelson also taught yoking yourself with the
Maria:Savior means you have access to his strength and redeeming power.
Maria:The reward for keeping covenants with God is heavenly power.
Maria:Power that strengthens us to withstand our trials, temptations,
Maria:and heartaches better.
Maria:This power eases our way.
Maria:Those who live the higher laws of Jesus Christ have access to this higher power.
Maria:Keeping covenants actually makes life easier.
Maria:Each person who makes covenants in baptismal fonts and in temples and keeps
Maria:them has increased power, increased access to the power of Jesus Christ.
Maria:My dear brothers and sisters, do you want to be happy?
Maria:Stay on the covenant path.
Maria:Your life will be easier, happier, and filled with joy.
Maria:Our Savior is inviting us.
Maria:Come unto me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
Maria:He is the living Christ.
Maria:He carries our wardens and makes our life easier.
Maria:I love that witness from Nephi.
Maria:They found happiness in this effort, and we can find it too.
Maria:Time to get into the questions portion of week 7.
Maria:Alright, I've got 5 good questions for you to just sort of mull
Maria:over, think about, chat about with your families or your classes.
Maria:And then if you have time, share some thoughts.
Maria:I don't know the answer to most of these.
Maria:I don't know that there is one answer.
Maria:I'm just hoping it will get you into your scriptures and you will seek out your own.
Maria:And if you get a chance, of course, I'd hope you'd share them with us.
Maria:If you have a chance, put them on the YouTube comment thread
Maria:or over on the course at gather.
Maria:macmom.
Maria:com.
Maria:I would love to see what the Spirit teaches you.
Maria:Okay, first question.
Maria:This is one about Joseph Smith.
Maria:So in this prophecy that Lehi is teaching his son Joseph about Joseph
Maria:in Egypt and what he saw, that Joseph in Egypt 3, 500 years before Joseph
Maria:Smith saw this mighty work happening.
Maria:And he has this interesting phrase at the end of 3 verse 11.
Maria:He says, But to the convincing them of my word, which shall
Maria:have gone forth among them.
Maria:He makes this distinction that it's not just that Joseph will bring forth his
Maria:word, but that he, he will convince them.
Maria:And I found myself wondering, why is there a distinction there?
Maria:What do you see in Joseph Smith's life that doesn't just bring the word forth,
Maria:but convinces men that it is true?
Maria:Is it in his writings that you feel that?
Maria:Is it in the way he lived his life?
Maria:Where do you see connection points between what Joseph Smith brought
Maria:to the world and how it convinces men to choose good, to believe?
Maria:that this gospel is fully restored.
Maria:Where do you see that?
Maria:The second one comes from 16 and 17 of chapter 3.
Maria:This is when he's prophesying, he's, Joseph is prophesying about this
Maria:prophet that will come forth and that he won't be mighty in speaking.
Maria:And this one I think he's referring specifically to Moses, that he
Maria:won't be mighty in speaking, that he'll be mighty in writing.
Maria:But I thought it was interesting that you see this pattern
Maria:often in the Lord's prophets.
Maria:You see him, you know, like with Enoch and here with Moses, and you're gonna
Maria:see it with others, where the Lord almost Picks and chooses their gifts.
Maria:I guess that makes sense since we know what we know about spiritual gifts But
Maria:I guess I wonder sometimes if if they can be overcome in these verses The Lord
Maria:makes it sound like he gives him a certain skill and blessing in writing But he
Maria:doesn't give him one in in speaking and I found myself wondering and you know in
Maria:the past I've always sort of assumed that I can acquire all spiritual gifts and
Maria:that I any talent that I really wanted I could pursue Heavily enough and I could
Maria:maybe get it That my life is supposed to be overcoming my insecurities about
Maria:this, but I'm starting to wonder if maybe some, some insecurities or some
Maria:weaknesses in us are intended to stay, if they're intended to tether us to God in
Maria:a certain way so they are never removed.
Maria:I just wondered.
Maria:So I guess my question is this, do you think some insecurities are
Maria:not to be conquered in this life?
Maria:And if so, why?
Maria:Maybe not just insecurities, but talents that you don't have, or
Maria:things that you see in others that you wish you had, but don't.
Maria:Like, do you think all of those are designed to be conquered?
Maria:You know, we know from the DNC that you can, you can pray for all good gifts,
Maria:but do you think there are some that are withheld on purpose, and if so, why?
Maria:Okay, third question.
Maria:This comes from chapter three again.
Maria:This is 19 and 20.
Maria:It says, And the words which ye shall write shall be the words which are
Maria:expedient, and the wisdom should go forth unto the fruit of my loins.
Maria:And it shall be as if the fruit of thy loins had cried unto them from
Maria:the dust, for I know their faith.
Maria:And they shall cry from the dust, yea, even repentance unto their brethren, even
Maria:after many generations have gone by them.
Maria:And it shall come to pass that their cry shall go, even according
Maria:to the simpleness of their words.
Maria:It's the cry from the dust part that I just I've been actually studying this
Maria:for a few weeks now because I keep seeing that Word dust everywhere, you know,
Maria:you can hear about it in the temple.
Maria:You see it in scripture a lot We certainly saw in the Old Testament and I think
Maria:you see it a lot here in the Book of Mormon as well This idea of things
Maria:crying forth out of the dust, but I went into I guess it's I can't remember
Maria:if it was the topical guide I started searching everywhere that dust appears
Maria:in scriptures and there's some really interesting Connecting points, right?
Maria:Like you hear in Genesis about coming forth from the dust, returning to dust.
Maria:You hear things like in Psalms, it talks about how he's cleaving to the dust
Maria:and he almost wants to not do that.
Maria:I started to wonder, like, what does dust represent?
Maria:It seems to be a specific symbol for something.
Maria:I don't know exactly, but it felt to me like maybe it has some connecting point
Maria:to things that are Beyond things that what things would look like if God was
Maria:not there if God didn't allow for things to be organized and created It almost
Maria:seems like dust is Everything left over.
Maria:I just don't know, you guys.
Maria:I did read in Moses 6.
Maria:59 and it helped me a little bit.
Maria:So if you're curious and you want to dig deeper, go read that verse and then read
Maria:a bunch of others and tell me what it is you think dust is supposed to symbolize.
Maria:Why do we see it so often in scripture?
Maria:Especially in the Book of Mormon, you hear words crying forth out of the dust.
Maria:What does that mean?
Maria:I'd love to hear your thoughts.
Maria:Okay, last one.
Maria:This last Oh, sorry, here we go.
Maria:This last one is, I don't have a specific verse to point to.
Maria:I just think it's really interesting that Nephi doesn't get a written blessing.
Maria:You know, of all the brothers, even like the little, little kid brothers, and the
Maria:sons of Ishmael, even Sam gets a blessing.
Maria:Like, they all get these written blessings, but we
Maria:don't have one for Nephi.
Maria:And I'm curious why that is.
Maria:Or, my next question would be Do you think there is a blessing
Maria:for Nephi, but perhaps it's not written in the way we anticipated?
Maria:Maybe it's different.
Maria:How do you look at these verses and see Lehi's guidance to Nephi here?
Maria:And if it's not here, where is it?
Maria:Okay, chapter five.
Maria:This is Nephi when he builds that first temple.
Maria:What I love about Nephi, like I talked about in the insights,
Maria:is his his tenacity, right?
Maria:He doesn't have all the resources that Solomon had.
Maria:He doesn't have the manpower.
Maria:He doesn't have the jewels and the fanciness, but he's going
Maria:to get a temple built and it's going to be exceedingly fine.
Maria:And he does.
Maria:And what I think is interesting is looking back over what we know about
Maria:Nephi so far, there are several things that Nephi is asked to build.
Maria:And I think there's connecting points between them.
Maria:So my question to you is, where do you see Nephi Learning from the bow
Maria:experience, from the boat experience, and from his other travels with his
Maria:family, how does that give him the faith and the abilities to build this temple?
Maria:Are they all, like, leading towards this great epic building project?
Maria:You know, I don't know if you, I'm wondering if you see connection points.
Maria:So how did Nephi's earlier work, when he built the, fixed the bow, built the
Maria:ship, how did it impact his ability to build this house of the Lord?
Maria:I'd love to hear your thoughts.
Maria:Before we head into the object lessons, I just wanted to give you a quick
Maria:little snippet of Michelle Craig's talk.
Maria:She's actually quoting C.
Maria:S.
Maria:Lewis.
Maria:It's in the notes if you want to go find it, but this is where he talks
Maria:about God's building project, that you are God's building project.
Maria:If you look in the notes, you can read it, but it says, Imagine
Maria:yourself as a living house.
Maria:God comes in to rebuild that house.
Maria:At first, perhaps you can understand what he's doing.
Maria:He's getting the drains right, stopping the leaks in the roof, and so on.
Maria:You knew that those jobs needed doing, and so you're not surprised.
Maria:But presently, he starts knocking the house about in ways that hurt abominably.
Maria:You see, he's building quite a different house from the one you thought of.
Maria:You thought you were being made into a decent little cottage.
Maria:And he is building a palace.
Maria:One in which he intends to come and live in himself.
Maria:The prophets have taught, this is Michelle speaking, The prophets have taught that as
Maria:we climb the path of discipleship, we can be sanctified through the grace of Christ.
Maria:Divine discontent can move us to act in faith, follow the Savior's invitations to
Maria:do good, and give our lives humbly to Him.
Maria:That's what I felt like you could see in these three chapters.
Maria:Nephi, Lehi, Zoram, Sam, all of these, and all the families that go with them, they
Maria:all get in these sticky situations and choose to let the grace of Christ flow in.
Maria:So that they are drawn towards good, and they find stability where they
Maria:didn't have it before by allowing the grace of Christ to fill those gaps.
Maria:I think you'll see it on every page, so I hope you dig it.