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Welcome back, you guys.

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It's week seven of Our Mothers Knew It.

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And this week, we're gonna head a little deeper into 2 Nephi.

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We're gonna go three, four, and five this week.

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And it's a period of unrest.

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We have the end of Lehi's life, so you're going to hear the end of his guidance to

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his son, specifically to his son Joseph.

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You're going to see him pass away in that prophetic mantle,

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shift onto Nephi's shoulders.

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You see him try to bear that burden with dignity and struggle because

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of all that is in front of him.

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You also see Laman and Lemuel Divide off they break off and are cut off from

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this covenant connection to God and you see this Sweeping change happen in this

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people over the course of these three chapters 30 to 40 years past I mean this

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is a lot of time that goes by but most of it happens at the very end in that

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last chapter in five and I think What was fascinating to me to study throughout

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the chapters is to watch for instability.

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I was listening to a devotional recently from Sister Porter.

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President Porter has this incredible BYU devotional about feeling unstable.

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In fact, the analogy she brought up, it's in the notes as well, but she talked

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about, molecules, compounds, and how oftentimes they are unstable, meaning

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they need an electron in that outer shell.

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And so they're going to seek to find stability and connect with others and

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to get the electrons that they need in order to be a stable compound.

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And then she related that to her life.

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In fact, one of the reasons I don't tear up very often, but that talk.

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choked me up a little bit because she talks about her situation in Lowe's.

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If you haven't heard it, I'm not going to reiterate it just because it's so good.

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You need to hear it from her words, but she spoke about that period right after

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her husband's passing, where there was a like horrific thing to happen to her

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house and she had to go and handle it by being in Lowe's and How she felt unrest.

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She felt unstable.

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This was this moment of clearly there are electrons missing and I need help.

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And then she talks about how divine help came.

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And I think that's what you see throughout these chapters.

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You see Lehi, Nephi, the Laman and Lemuel, all of them are wrestling

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with some sort of disconnect.

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Some kind of discontent.

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Lehi's worried about his posterity.

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He knows they're not going to get the guidance they need from

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Laman and Lemuel, so He sees his grandchildren and he's worried for them.

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Nevi is going to struggle with discontent because he sees that he's

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supposed to lead this family and his brothers hate him and won't listen.

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So he's struggling with discontent.

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Laman and Lemuel are struggling because they have these ideas in their mind

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that Nevi wants to rule over them.

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And so he's seeking power and they feel discontent.

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But I think it's powerful is this week in these chapters, you get to

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see how all these different parties handle that feeling of instability.

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That those who turn to the Lord and ask Him to fill in the gaps, those

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who follow His promptings and do what He asks, find that stability.

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They find peace.

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Lehi finds peace by the end of his life.

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Nephi finds peace by taking his family and moving to a new land.

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And Laman and Lamuel and their posterity See the opposite of that.

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They just stagnate.

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There is a, they just stand still and then atrophy.

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And you get to see those choices laid out for you boldly.

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And I think since all of us wrestle with discontent, I think knowing

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how to channel it towards the divine rather than towards the discouraging is

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powerful and instructive for all of us.

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This is a week you don't want to miss.

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Grab your scriptures.

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Grab your notes.

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It's time to get started.

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All right, you guys, just like we've done week after week, we're

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going to do a 7 5 3 approach.

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I say that just because there are new people coming to join us every week.

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It's been fun to see how those numbers have grown.

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Sam made me a cardboard YouTube play button plaque this week because we,

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we hit a big milestone and it was fun.

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So thank you for joining us and let me explain how we do things here.

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Basically, we're going to do a 7 5 3, which means I'm going

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to share seven key sparks.

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Things that just lit up for me as I was studying my scriptures that I'm

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hoping will intrigue you to get into your own and find your own sparks in the

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scriptures, or maybe even just to dig into mine and see what else you can learn.

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And then five good questions.

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I'm hoping that these questions help inspire you to have good conversations.

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Whether it just be in your family settings or in a classroom, I

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hope it helps get new ideas going and good conversations happening.

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And then we'll do a separate video of the object lessons.

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So that's my way of taking three core principles that we learned from the

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verses this week and finding ways to make them meaningful and memorable and

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simple so that you can pull them off with your families or with your classmates.

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So let's get started.

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Okay, spark number one, I'm calling joy in the wilderness because I found

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myself really delighted and intrigued by how Lehi begins these verses.

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He's talking to Joseph.

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So where last week we talked to the oldest son that was born in

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the wilderness, Jacob, now we're talking to the very youngest one.

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We know there are daughters that happen in the middle, maybe even other sons, but

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he's going to talk to his last born son in the wilderness, and that is Joseph.

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And he has some pretty remarkable things to say to Joseph.

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Because Lehi is such a diligent study, studier of the scriptures,

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he has read the prophecies.

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He has read about Joseph in Egypt and how he had prophecies

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of Lehi's day and beyond.

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So Joseph is going to get some special guidance from Lehi.

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To me, this is just sweet, right?

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I don't know how old Joseph is at this point in time.

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He's really young, I imagine.

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If you watch the Book of Mormon videos, he looks young, you

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know, like maybe eight or ten.

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We don't know exactly, but we do know that he was young enough that his mother need,

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needed to take care of him on the boat.

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And you hear Lehi talk about when he was born.

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So this is 2nd Nephi 3, 1 through 3.

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It says, And now I speak unto you, Joseph, my lastborn.

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Thou wast born in the wilderness of mine afflictions.

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Yea, in the days of my greatest sorrow did thy mother bear thee.

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And may the Lord consecrate also unto thee this land, which is the most

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precious land, for thine inheritance, and the inheritance of thy seed with

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thy brethren, for thy security forever, if it so be that ye shall keep the

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commandments of the Holy One of Israel.

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And now, Joseph, my lastborn, whom I have brought out of the wilderness

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of my afflictions, may the Lord bless thee forever, for thy seed

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shall not be utterly destroyed.

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And then Lehi teaches him about how his seed will make it.

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We actually studied this in the Doctrine and Covenants.

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Remember, I think it's in D& C 3.

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It's in the notes, but we learned that the gospel is going to come back to

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different tribes within this, those who survive the end of the Book of Mormon.

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And one of the tribes that's listed in the Doctrine and Covenants is the Josephites,

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which I just think is fascinating.

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So this is, some of his posterity are going to make it, and

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they're going to be reclaimed.

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They're going to be brought back to the truth.

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And so Lehi wants his son to know that.

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What I just thought was so interesting is the way Lehi described his

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feelings about when his son was born.

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He talks about it being the days of his greatest sorrow.

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And I found myself wondering, Why?

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I don't know, and nobody knows for sure, but I, I wondered what

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precipitated that statement.

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It's, it's possible to me, since we know that he was born, or was

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very young, on the boat, maybe his mom never bounced back.

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Remember how we talked about that with Lehi last week, that maybe that's why

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he's hitting the end of his life a little soon, is that he just Never bounced back.

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Maybe that time on the boat is a time of great sorrow for Lehi, because

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although I think Saria makes it to the Promised Land, I don't know how

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long she gets to live beyond it.

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And I wonder sometimes if that's a struggle for Joseph, you know, knowing

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that that is part of his history.

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And what I love that Lehi does in this moment is he says, You are the joy.

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You know, like, even though you came from a time of great

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sorrow for me, I delight in you.

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The Lord delights in you, and you were intended to be here.

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I just think it's fascinating that Lehi and Sariah choose to have

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children in the wilderness at all.

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You know, I understand how they had children in Jerusalem when they

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had a house, and they had maybe, maybe even servants, and at least

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some wealth from what we learned about with the brass plate scenario.

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So I just think the very fact that they choose to continue to

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have children in the wilderness.

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says something to me.

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For me, I just think it would have been easy for them to say, if the

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Lord wants us to have kids, we'll wait until we get to the promised land.

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It would have made their travels easier.

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It would have made things smoother.

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It would have made Soraya's efforts much lighter, supposedly, right?

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And I found myself just wondering, like, why?

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Why does the Lord ask them to have children in the wilderness?

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And I don't know the exact answer.

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I just know the answer from my own life.

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That I think We got that question a lot when we were young.

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Um, since I'm making these videos for my posterity, I thought it would

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be good to point out that like we, we had that, we had three kids.

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Our first, oldest three, we had our, we have a gap between

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our two sets of three kids.

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And our oldest three came really fast when we were really young and still in

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school and struggling and had no money and I would get that question all the time.

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Especially because we didn't live.

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around other members of the church.

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Very often we, we were out in, in the margins, and it was something that people

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were kind of astounded and confused by.

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And I remember feeling like They just didn't get it, you know, like

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they would say things like, Oh, it's going to be so much harder

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for your husband to finish school.

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Or it's going to be so much more expensive.

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We go into so much more debt.

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And all that was probably true.

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But I think what meant the most to me is when he came home from taking a test

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or when, when we had hard days, he came home to a house full of kids who like.

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Rushed him, you know, like they like couldn't wait to pile up on him.

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I just think that's what, maybe that's the purpose of having

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children in the wilderness.

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Because God knows that they are a light, you know, that they can be

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a light to carry in the wilderness.

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They bring joy and peace and we felt the same kind of thing.

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We had A miscarriage that was hard in the middle between our two sets of three.

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And it was honestly hard for me to want to begin again.

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I just wasn't sure my heart could take it.

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And we really felt pulled that we were supposed to have more.

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And so we did.

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And honestly, you guys, I can't imagine life without my little three.

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They're not that little anymore.

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You know, Will's going to be a junior next year.

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But like, I can't imagine my life without those.

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I can't imagine us going through.

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The last seven years of cancer without Violet, without Will and Sam to

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entertain us, like, Violet was two when Jason was diagnosed, and she

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was not a burden, she was a light.

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And I think that's what prophets are trying to help us understand today,

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that this gift of family is a gift, no matter how hard your circumstances

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are, how impractical it seems.

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That, I love, there's this great talk from Elder Anderson back

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in twenty I think it's 2011.

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I didn't write down the year.

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Somewhere around there.

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And he talks about the value of children.

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He was quoting this other woman who was writing a blog.

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It says, many voices in the world today marginalize the importance of

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having children, or suggest delaying or limiting children and family.

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My daughter's recently referred me to a blog written by a Christian mother,

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not of our faith, with five children.

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She commented, Growing up in this culture is very hard to get a

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biblical perspective on motherhood.

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Children rank way below college, below world travel for sure, below the ability

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to go out at night at your leisure, below honing your body at the gym, below

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any job you have or may hope to get.

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Then she adds, Motherhood is not a hobby, it is a calling.

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You do not collect children because you find them cuter than stamps.

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It is not something for you to do if you can squeeze the time in.

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It is what God gave you time for.

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Isn't that just a beautiful stance on parenting?

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I think that's what Lehi and Zariah understood.

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I think that's why they choose to have children in the wilderness.

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And I think it, it is a delight.

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The very way that he interacts with his sons, Jacob and Joseph, tells

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you that he delights to have them.

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And I just think it's a sweet reminder that you find right in

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this first chapter and called the second spark understanding Moses.

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Because one of my favorite things that I learned this week had

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nothing to do with Book of Mormon.

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And well, I mean, I guess it, it's tangentially connected, but I,

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what I loved is the understanding that I gained about Moses.

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There is this sweet prophecy.

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So like I mentioned, Joseph is being guided by Lehi and he's telling him

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about prophecies that he read, I assume in the brass plates, or maybe he

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received them from other understandings.

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But we do know that when Joseph Smith does a inspired translation of the Bible.

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This is something he records, that Joseph in Egypt had these beautiful prophecies.

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In fact, there's some kind of deathbed prophecies that

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Joseph offers to his posterity.

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And Joseph Smith gives us those in the Joseph Smith translation.

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And now we get to see Lehi Reading, it sounds like those same passages,

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because what he's trying to help his son Joseph understand is that he is part

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of this giant covenant connection, and that there is a bigger work at play.

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What's intriguing to me is the time difference.

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I mean, if you think about Joseph in Egypt, so he is someone who, his

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story begins the Israelites, right?

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Like, he is one of the sons of Jacob, Israel.

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And so his posterity kind of begin those generations.

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There's a few generations between Joseph and Moses.

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Joseph is the person who kind of guides the Israelites into Egypt and they come

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in, you know, welcomed and greeted warmly.

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By the time they leave Egypt, they are slaves.

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But that's, you know, 400 years ish later.

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So Joseph, when he's prophesying all of this, can see this play out.

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Joseph in Egypt can see there's going to be a time of bondage, and then

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there's going to be a Moses that's going to lead the people out of Egypt.

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And then he can see, much further down the line, like, 3500 years down

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the line when Joseph Smith restores the gospel and brings light and

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law and truth to the world again.

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So what he does is he compares these two.

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Joseph in Egypt compares Moses to Joseph Smith.

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And so you see that reference a few times in the chapters.

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What I thought was beautiful is I came out of the Old Testament Admiring

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Moses for lots of reasons, you know, he and Joseph Smith have some really

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similar similar characteristics.

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They have different upbringings for sure You know, Moses is in Pharaoh's court and

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has a pretty posh living but Joseph Smith has a very different one in his little log

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cabin But they have some similar issues.

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They have insecurities about their ability to speak They don't feel

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worthy of the calling that they have.

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They are kind of on their own trying to reestablish truth and

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They bring the law to their people.

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Both of them bring the law.

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They also both have really high hopes for their people.

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You know, they, I think Moses, when he came off that mount with the

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law, had such high hopes that he could offer them all the blessings

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that the priesthood can extend.

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And they Made the golden calf.

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And I think in the Doctrine and Covenants, we saw over and over again

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how Joseph had high hopes for Zion.

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He taught and guided and enticed and, you know, like he wanted Zion to happen

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and the people just didn't quite rally.

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And they had a lot of opposition and other things, but it was just, I think

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they have some similar things, but Probably what I love the most, you guys,

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is what I read about them being compared.

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So this is 2 Nephi 3, 8 through 11.

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And I will give unto him a commandment, that he should do no other work save

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the work that I shall command him.

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And I will make him great in my eyes, for he shall do my work.

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And he should be great, like unto Moses, whom I have said I would raise up unto you

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to deliver my people, O house of Israel.

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And Moses will I raise up to deliver thy people out of the land of Egypt.

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But a seer, speaking of Joseph, will I raise up out of the fruit of thy loins,

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and unto him will I give power to bring forth my word unto the seed of thy loins.

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And not to the bringing forth of my word only, saith the Lord, but to

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the convincing them of my word, which shall have gone forth among them.

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The reason I think we see it laid out this way, that Joseph and Egypt is putting

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these two right up against each other, is I think we're supposed to see similarities

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beyond What is more obvious, you know, the fact that Moses builds the tabernacle

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and Joseph was the first temple, you know, like I think there's some really obvious

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ones, but the one that hit me the hardest was I love the stories about Joseph.

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There's a great talk from Elder Maxwell, it's in the notes this week, where he

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lays out some of these stories that I had never read before, you know,

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about Joseph wrapping infants in these blankets and holding them by the fire.

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before he returned to somebody else's house and blessing those who were sick.

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And, you know, don't you love those stories about Joseph?

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Like him wrestling with the boys in the grass or like wrestling with his kids

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in the, in the front room when that guy comes over and he's so offended that

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a prophet would wrestle with his kids.

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Like, I just, I love the humanity of Joseph.

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I love, when I picture Joseph Smith, I picture someone who is joyful

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and hopeful and fast to forgive.

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And, you know, just, has a countenance of cheer.

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And I have never thought of that with Moses before.

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Maybe Hollywood is to blame, or maybe this is just my own misunderstanding

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of Old Testament scripture.

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I went through the whole Old Testament, you guys, and I never

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pictured Moses with a smiling face.

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Not that I thought he was mean, I just kind of picture him austere.

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And this week, what I learned, the more I studied, especially the more

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I studied Joseph Smith, The more I was like, Oh, he's like unto Moses.

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What if they're alike in temperament?

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What if they're alike in the way they took care of their people?

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What if I could start picturing Moses the way I picture Joseph?

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And I picture Moses playing with kids in their camp in Israel.

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If I picture Moses going around with a handkerchief and trying to help

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and heal and, you know, bless as many widows and children as he can.

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What if I picture Moses instead of austere with this brass serpent on a

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stick, if I picture him carrying that stick to everyone, pleading for them to.

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Look up and see.

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I just It softened for me.

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The Old Testament softened for me as I read the Book of Mormon.

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And I think that's one of the sweetest evidences of the Book of Mormon

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and the Bible working together.

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That as we study the Book of Mormon, and that's going to be in the prophecies

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this week too, you're going to see Joseph in Egypt prophesy that the

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words of the Bible and the words of the Book of Mormon will grow together

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and that they will teach people about their covenant connection to God.

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And I saw that.

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In a roundabout way, you know, I saw that happen in my heart.

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I saw myself soften towards Moses and start to envision him the way

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I envisioned the Prophet Joseph.

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And it was sweet to me.

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So, I would just encourage you to go back in.

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It made me picture things differently.

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So, if you go in 2 it says, Wherefore, the fruit of thy loins shall write, and the

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fruit of the loins of Judah shall write.

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And that which shall be written by the fruit of thy loins, and also that which

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shall be written by the fruit of the loins of Judah, shall grow together, unto the

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confounding of false doctrines, laying down contentions, and establishing peace

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among the fruit of thy loins, and bringing them to the knowledge of their fathers

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in the latter days, and also to the knowledge of my covenants, saith the Lord.

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I love this because of what we studied in the Doctrine and Covenants.

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Remember when Joseph Sr.

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gives Joseph Smith his patriarchal blessing?

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If you go to the patriarchal blessing template that we have on the site, you can

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see Joseph Smith's patriarchal blessing.

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And it was because I just posted this a few weeks ago that I happened

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to see this again, but it's just this beaming light where he, in the

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patriarchal blessing, talks about Joseph in Egypt and how Joseph Smith Jr.

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is, you know, this Prophecy come to life, and it's supposed to give him peace.

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I think it's the same thing Lehi's trying to give his son right now.

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He's trying to say, you are of noble blood.

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Look who you are named after.

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Look at the work that is ahead of you.

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This is a good work.

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And even though Lehi himself can't be there with his son Joseph to watch some

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of these things play out, he is, he is connecting him to something so much more.

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bigger.

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And I just love it.

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I found myself picturing heaven differently with these two prophets.

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You know, I almost picture Moses and Joseph Smith together, you know,

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like putting their arms around each other, watching these things play out.

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And, you know, like, I just think there's, there's more connection

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between these two mighty prophets of God than, than what is on the surface.

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And if you go into the verses, I think you'll find it.

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Spark number three, I call Covenant Connections, because you see covenant

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everywhere in these chapters.

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And I found myself wondering, why?

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Why is Joseph learning all of this from Lehi?

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Joseph is little.

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He is a kid at this point, and I'm sure he can't understand covenant that well

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or what that implies, but why is Lehi, at the end of his life, taking so much

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time to talk about covenant connections?

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And honestly, what helped me the most is the live we did this week.

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So over on gather.

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macmom.

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com, we did a live with Melinda Brown.

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She's the author of Even Adam that I talked about last week.

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And in the live, Mindy talked about her favorite name for Jesus Christ,

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that it is Immanuel, God with us.

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And then she talked about how when Adam and Eve had to leave the garden.

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They took God with them, you know, in lots of different ways.

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The priesthood went with Adam.

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They had these coats of skins.

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They had truth.

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They had these promises.

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They had their sealing.

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They, all these things that allowed them to take God with them.

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And not just in a figurative way, but Jehovah guides them, right?

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All throughout the Old Testament, Jehovah is with his people.

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And so I loved her.

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She cast a big light on that.

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And I feel like that's what Lehi is trying to do with his son as well,

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because Lehi can't Little Joseph, if, if Joseph did lose his mother early in his

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life, then Lehi's his only parent left.

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And to lose Lehi would have been devastating, except for Lehi

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chooses to focus on the covenant.

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So he makes him feel woven into something so much bigger.

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In fact, I listened to Mindy Brown on the Desert Book Magnify podcast this week.

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And she made this.

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sweet statement.

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She said, we often think of things in a chain when it comes to posterity,

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we think of a chain around our ancestry, but really it's lace.

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You know, it's this, we are interwoven into so many other lives.

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And I think that's what he's trying to help Joseph understand.

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You are part of this great web of God and he, you don't need to be afraid.

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Because you've got ancestors you can lean on.

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You've got a big brother in Nephi that you can look towards.

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You've got a future that is bright.

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Your posterity will make it and they will know the truth.

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Like, he is trying to show him this web.

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And what I thought was so powerful about that is I think

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it's what we should do too.

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I think you hear President Nelson speak about the covenant all the time, and I

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think part of the reason he encourages us to teach that, even to the very young, is

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because it gives a chance for stability.

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You know, we kept talking at the beginning of this video about, What

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it feels like to feel unstable.

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Kids in this world are going to feel unstable.

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And what gives them those added electrons to bring them to stability

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is understanding of the covenant.

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That God keeps his promises.

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He's always kept his promises and he will keep them forevermore.

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That is something that your kids can rest on, no matter what

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their life circumstances are.

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And I think that applies to Joseph as well.

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I think no matter how he, how afraid he is, he can be assured in the covenant.

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In fact, I love how that chapter ends.

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So at the end of 3, in 20, verse 25, he says, And now blessed art thou, Joseph.

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Behold, thou art little.

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Wherefore, hearken unto the words of thy brother Nephi, and it shall

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be done unto thee, even according to the words which I have spoken.

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Remember the words of a dying father.

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Amen.

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I don't think he's just pointing to Nephi because he's his great, good, big brother.

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I think he's pointing to Nephi because he'll be the next living prophet.

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And when we look to the next living prophet Always, we can be assured.

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We don't need to be afraid.

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Even in a tumultuous, chaotic world, there will be a living prophet

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to guide and direct his people.

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And that's where Lehi wants Joseph to look to.

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Spark number four is one of my favorites.

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I call this a father's blessing.

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So this is chapter four.

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Lehi pulls his other sons aside.

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So he's offering a blessing to all of his sons and these are

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specifically to Laman and Lemuel.

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He asked Laman to gather his children together and to come and sit at

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Lehi's feet and learn from him.

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And then he'll offer that same blessing to Lemuel's children as well.

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And it's just kind of interesting to me to watch how Lehi does this.

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He cannot control his sons.

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They have their agency.

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They have their choices.

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And frankly, as a father, he knows what they're going to pick.

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He knows their character well enough that he can see where this road goes.

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What breaks his heart, I think, is what the next generation will

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suffer because of their choices.

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That they will suffer being separated from the prophet and from the

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promises and the temple and all those things and it breaks his heart.

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And so he does what he can't.

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He can't do all things, but he can offer a father's blessing to his posterity.

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I just love it.

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It's, it's like he understands, you know, in Doctrine and Covenants

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130, where this is 20 and 21.

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This is where we learn that like blessings come because they

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are predicated with obedience.

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You have to have the obedience first in order to Obtain the blessings.

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So what Lehi does is he prays to the Lord to offer this Exception, almost.

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He basically says, if my grandchildren or great grandchildren, any after them,

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make mistakes, it's not their fault.

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They weren't led by parents who would teach them truth, so please

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don't hold them accountable.

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And because of that blessing, promises are made.

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So if you look, this is from 5 to 7 of verse, or chapter 4.

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But behold my sons and my daughters, I cannot go down to my grave save

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I should leave a blessing upon you.

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For behold, I know that if you are brought up in the way you should

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go, you will not depart from it.

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It's almost like he knows the character of his grandkids, and he knows.

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It's not their fault.

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And then in six, wherefore if you are cursed, behold, I leave my

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blessing upon you, that the cursing may be taken from you and be answered

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upon the heads of your parents.

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Wherefore, because of my blessing, the Lord will not suffer that ye shall perish.

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Wherefore, he will be merciful unto you and unto your seed forever.

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This is his promise, right?

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This is, this is grandpa intervening on the behalf of his grandchildren without

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breaking the bands of agency at all.

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It's basically what we read in the bible dictionary about prayer.

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So it says this, prayer is the act by which the will of the father and

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the will of the child are brought into correspondence with each other.

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The object of is not to change the will of God, but to secure

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for ourselves and for others.

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The blessings that God is already willing to grant, but that are made

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conditional on our asking for them.

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This is, I think, what Lehi understands.

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That if he prays for this offering to be made to his grandchildren, that the

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accountability will rest squarely on the shoulders of those who chose it first.

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Laman and Lemuel have had understanding and light and knowledge and visions of

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angels and heard the word of god like they have heard and seen remarkable

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things and are choosing to rebel against it their children won't see any of those

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things and therefore shouldn't be held accountable so god offers this promise.

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Lehi feels assured in this moment that his grandkids will be safe.

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What I loved about this is they're not going to be safe

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for many generations, right?

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It's going to take a long time before the Lamanites finally are taught by the

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Nephites and get to come around, you know, but I just, the promise is kept and

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what it inspired me to do is pray more.

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You know, I, I just think what are, what blessings do I want for my kids?

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I should pray for them.

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I should seek them out.

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The visual that came into my mind, you guys, from the Old Testament,

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it just kept coming back every time I went through these verses.

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It was that story about the widow with the vessels.

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Do you remember this?

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Like, she's someone who, she goes to Elisha and she says,

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My husband has been killed.

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He was a diligent I can't remember the exact words, but she's like, he was a

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diligent, faithful member of follower of God and he he's killed and now his those

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who we owe debts to are coming after me and they want to take my sons what can

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I do and I wrote some of the verses down this is 2nd Kings 4 6 7 and it came to

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pass oh so sorry he told he tells her go gather the vessels remember this in the

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Old Testament he says go to your neighbors ask for as many vessels as you can because

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first he says to her what do you have And she says, I only have this one pot of oil.

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And he says, go to all your neighbors, gather as many vessels as you can,

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and then shut all the doors and go inside and pour out the oil.

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So she takes what she did have and she pours it into these empty

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containers and it fills every single container till there are none left.

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And that's how I feel about.

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Father's blessings and prayers of faith by diligent mothers.

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They are this opportunity to fill those vessels.

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I just Here's second kings four six and seven and it came to pass that when

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the vessels were full that she said unto her son Bring me yet a vessel and

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he said unto her There is not a vessel more and the oil stayed and then she

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came and told the man of god and he said Go and sell the oil pay the debt live

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thou and thy children of of the rest.

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This is how The Lord wants to care for our posterity.

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He basically says, gather as many vessels as you can.

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To me, this is an imitation, you know, because I just started being

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a grandma just a couple years ago.

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This is an imitation, like, gather as many vessels as you can.

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You gather as many places where your kids can interact with the Spirit and create

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as many opportunities for your kids and your grandkids to, to know truth.

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And then just start pouring.

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Pour abundantly and trust that as you pour truth in all

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these different circumstances, they'll be able to be filled.

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There's a promise that somehow truth will seep through.

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They will come to know.

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It might take generations of time, like it does with the Lamanites,

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but those promises are kept.

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We know that because you see it in the Book of Mormon over and over again.

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I mean, you could ask King Mosiah or Alma Senior, do prayers of grandfathers work?

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Yes.

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You know, like think about how their testimonies and their

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diligent prayers change the lives of their sons in key moments, which

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changed the lives of generations.

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I mean, that's why we have Helaman, that's why we have Nevi and Lehi down the road.

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Like, you have these mighty men of God in this line because

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a grandfather chose to pray.

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And I think that applies to grandmothers, mothers, fathers.

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Diligently pray and seek for blessings for your children, even

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if they don't think they want them.

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And then watch what God can do.

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Chapter four has some of the most beautiful scripture

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in all the Book of Mormon.

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This is what a lot of people call Nephi's psalm.

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It's after Lehi's death, before the separation.

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There's this, where Nephi exposes his soul.

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He talks about what's in his heart and what he's wrestling with.

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And what I think is really interesting is how we read it.

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There's a lot of different ways you can read these verses, and I'm in no

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way pretending mine is the right one.

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I just think sometimes we tend to make this seem so heavy, you know,

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that Nephi is completely and utterly dejected, that he is heavily depressed.

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I don't, it's, that's possible.

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That's just not how I read it, you guys.

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I think he is.

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Just diligent and honest.

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So these are the verses.

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So if you look at 2nd Nephi 4, this is 16 through 19.

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Behold, my soul delighteth in the things of the Lord, and my heart

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pondereth continually upon the things which I have seen and heard.

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Nevertheless, notwithstanding the great goodness of the Lord in showing me his

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great and marvelous works, my heart exclaimeth, O wretched man that I am, yea,

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my heart sorroweth because of my flesh, my soul grieveth because of mine iniquities,

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I am encompassed about because of the temptations and the sins which so easily

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beset me, and when I desire to rejoice, my heart groaneth because of my sins.

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Nevertheless, I know in whom I have trusted.

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To me, where Nephi begins is an indicator of where his heart is.

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I don't think he's coming from a state of hopelessness.

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He's saying he's been reading the scriptures and he delights in those

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scriptures, but the scriptures, as he comes closer to them and

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closer to the Lord by extension, he sees himself more clearly.

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Yeah, this is the divine discontent that Michelle Craig talked about.

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This is where you see, as you come closer to God, you actually see your flaws.

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better.

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You see them more clearly.

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It's almost like if you've ever held up one of those cosmetic magnifying

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mirrors, you know, where you like see your pores really big and you're like,

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oh wow, you know, or if you did one of those experiments in biology where you

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realized how many germs you create in a day on your toothbrush or whatever.

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I just think that's what happens when you come closer to God.

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You realize your own weaknesses.

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and they're in a more vivid relief, you know, like you can see them much

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more clearly because you have come to see the light and the warmth and

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the perfection of Christ better.

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And I don't think that necessarily leads to Hopelessness, I

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think it leads to progress.

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To me, the thing that helped me the most on these verses was Come Thou Fount.

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In fact, that's what I'm calling this spark because I, when I

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was reading this, I started to hear Come Thou Fount in my head.

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Jason had just given a talk on it and the memories of singing that song, I had

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this great experience in girls camp years ago with my girls where We were asked

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to do one of those singing tree things.

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I don't know if you've ever done this, you guys, but you go in girls camp and

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each ward is sort of at their own camp and each of you, each ward, stands by

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one of the trees in their camp and pushes their flashlights up onto the tree so

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that the tree lights up and then they sing a portion of the song and then

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that song passes to the next camp and although you can't see the girls You

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can see, like, a portion of their tree lighting up on the hillside, and you

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can hear them distantly singing, and you just watch this song go around.

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And we sang this song, Come Thou Fount.

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It was led by my dear friend Janelle, and I can still remember the the

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spirit that just pushed into that camp.

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Like, it was palpable.

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And that's what I felt like when I read Nephi's words.

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Because I feel like that's what he's saying.

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He's saying, I know I am weak.

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I know as the closer I come to thee, and the more I study these scriptures

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and see these mighty men of God, the more I realize how much I need you.

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How much I, how big the distance is, and how much I need the

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atonement of Jesus Christ.

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to bless me and help me.

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That's why I love that so much of his, the rest of his psalm

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is focused on looking forward.

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You know, he, he looks at the way God has supported him in the past,

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and he looks at the way that he can trust that God will support him in

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the future, and he lifts himself up.

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You know, he like arises on his own, where last week we were studying

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Lehi pleading with his sons to arise.

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Nephi finds a way to do it on his own.

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And that I just love.

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So if you go through the words of that hymn, to me, as I wrote those in my

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margins, it helped me read Nephi's words with more hope and more light and more,

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I could relate to it in a different way.

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So for example, I love in the third verse, it says, O to grace, how great

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a debtor daily I am constrained to be.

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Let that grace now like a fetter bind my wandering heart to thee.

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Prone to wander, Lord, I feel it.

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Prone to leave the God I love.

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Here's my heart.

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Oh, take and seal it.

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Seal it for the courts above.

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I feel like that's what Nephi was asking of the Lord.

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He's saying, I can see the disconnect.

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I can see how far I need to go.

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I know you are the only way I can bridge that gap.

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Here's my heart.

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Take and seal it.

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You almost hear it in his words.

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So we read from 30 to 33.

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This is in chapter four.

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Rejoice, O my heart, and cry unto the Lord, and say, O Lord,

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I will praise thee forever.

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Yea, my soul will rejoice in thee, my God, and the rock of my salvation.

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O Lord, wilt thou redeem my soul?

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Wilt thou deliver me out of the hands of mine enemies?

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Wilt thou make me that I might shake at the appearance of sin?

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O Lord, wilt thou encircle me in the robe of thy righteousness?

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O Lord, wilt thou make a way for mine escape before mine enemies?

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Wilt thou make my path straight before me?

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Wilt thou not place a stumbling block in my way, but that thou wouldst

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clear my way before me, and hedge up not my way, but the ways of my enemy?

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It's almost like you can hear a gospel choir singing and

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you want to just chime in.

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Yeah, I, I can relate to this piece of Nephi.

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I don't think he is heavy in this moment.

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I think he is mortal and he knows exactly who to turn to for lift.

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And so he does.

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And he gets it.

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I just think it's powerful.

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Spark number six I call oddly answered prayers.

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Because I found myself wondering what Nephi thought would happen.

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You know, he offers this beautiful psalm and at the end he prays

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that the Lord will ease his way.

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Right?

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That he'll open up a path for him to be righteous and for

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his people to be righteous.

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That he'll hedge up the way of his enemies.

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I found myself thinking, you know, given Nephi's psalm and the introspection of

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it, I don't think enemies necessarily meant Laman and Lemuel, although they

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are his physical enemies in a lot of ways, and they will try to kill him.

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I think, in that psalm, his enemies are his natural man's self.

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You know, his weaknesses, his sins, his reasons that he, he

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can't quite bridge that gap.

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I think he's hoping to hedge off those parts of himself.

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And that's why I think it's really interesting how the

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Lord answers his prayer.

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Because you see the answer come.

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a little bit later.

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You see the end of four, this is 35.

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Yea, I know that God will give liberally to him that asketh.

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Yea, my God will give me if I ask not amiss.

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Therefore, I will lift up my voice unto thee.

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Yea, I will cry unto thee, my God, the rock of my righteousness.

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Behold, my voice shall ascend up unto thee, my rock and my everlasting God.

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Amen.

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Nephi knows.

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I mean, we heard this way back in Bountiful.

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Remember when his brothers were threatening to push him into the water

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and kill him, and he's like, if I need the water to be earth, it'll be earth.

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Nephi knows what he's capable of doing.

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So I sometimes wonder, like, what was the ideal outcome for Nephi?

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In his mind, did he think the Lord would answer his prayer

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by changing his demeanor?

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Like, maybe he wouldn't.

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be quick to anger anymore.

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Maybe he would actually soften the hearts of Laman and Lemuel.

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Maybe he would inspire the daughters to come and soften them again.

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I don't think, this is just my opinion, I don't think Nephi

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expected the answer that came.

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Because the answer that comes is, Nephi, in order for you to hedge up the way

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of your own weaknesses, you need to go.

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This was fascinating to me.

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So let's say, for example, one of Nephi's weaknesses is he's quick to

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anger, justifiably quick to anger because his brothers are awful.

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And he oftentimes is frustrated with them, especially when they, they won't listen

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and they won't learn from experience.

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And it's possible, but that's one of his sins that he, that so easily beset him.

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One of the ways the Lord finds A way for Nephi to stop having that

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problem is to get him separated.

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So he says, there needs to be a divide.

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So if you look in the verses, this is in chapter 5, verses 5 and 6.

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After you learn that the brothers are literally trying to kill

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Nephi, this is what happens.

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And it came to pass that the Lord did warn me that I, Nephi, should depart

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from them and flee into the wilderness and all those who would go with me.

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Wherefore, it came to pass that I, Nephi, did take my family, and also Zoram and

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his family, and Sam, my elder brother, and his family, and Jacob and Joseph,

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my younger brother, and And also my sisters, and all who would go with me.

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And all those who would go with me were those who believed in the

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warnings and the revelations of God.

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Wherefore, they did hearken unto my words.

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I don't, this is just me, but I don't think this is what Nephi expected.

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But I think it is an unconventional way to solve his problem.

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If his problem is, he is struggling so much with his brothers, and it's bringing

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out The worst in Nephi, one of the ways he can solve that problem is to separate.

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I don't think this is often the answer.

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I think the Lord wants families to be together.

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Always.

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I think that's his goal.

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But sometimes I think separation has to happen.

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This is just my opinion, but I was in a Relief Society lesson recently and

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a friend was talking about how she was struggling with this because she has

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a son who was so hard to have at home.

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And the weight of asking him to go and live elsewhere Due to his choices and

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his mistakes and his, he wouldn't honor them as parents and he wouldn't follow

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their guidelines and live a different kind of life than they supported.

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And so they had to make a really hard call to say, You need to live elsewhere.

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We love you, but we can't live with you.

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And it was eating her up a little bit.

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In fact, I've had another friend who similarly, like, was way down

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with the guilt of that choice.

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And I think this passage of scripture is really instructive.

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That in this moment, Nephi is led by God.

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So if you look in the verses, it says that he was led.

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The Lord did warn me that I, Nephi, should depart from them

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and flee into the wilderness.

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Sometimes, I think, the answer that the Lord offers is to separate for a

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season, um, so that things can change.

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Because Nephi chooses to follow this prompting and take all who will follow

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him, you know, anyone who comes, whether it's part of his family or maybe some

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of Laman and Lemuel's Children came, you know, after they heard the words of their

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grandpa, maybe they followed, I don't know, but as many as want to come, can

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come with Nephi, and they go into the wilderness, and they establish a new land,

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they're gonna call Nephi, and because they develop in a place that is safe, and that

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is diligent, you know, a place where the commandments are kept, the scriptures are

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read, a temple is built, all those things, those kids can thrive, and over the course

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of many generations, can circle all the way back to bring this group together.

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back to truth.

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It's, you know, the descendants of this group that settles in the land of

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Nephi who become Ammon and they become the sons of Mosiah and they become,

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you know, those who will seek after the Lamanites and bring them home.

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That can't happen unless at this point in time there's a division where

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truth can flourish and temples can be built and scriptures can be read.

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I just think There's peace in it.

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I'm certainly not trying to dictate what anybody else does in their

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families, but I do think the spirit can prompt you this way and you can

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feel assured no one is forgotten.

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Oftentimes his desires to separate us mean he's finding a way to.

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loop back around.

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And it's a longer road than he hoped for, and he certainly wanted to give blessings,

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but because of obedience issues, he can't.

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So he finds a much longer road around.

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And sometimes you have to separate so that those who are diligent and

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those who want to learn can thrive.

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I think there's application in families and classrooms and all kinds

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of settings, but get into the verses.

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I think it'll help you.

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One of my favorite verses about this actually comes in Alma.

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This is when you learn that those who do get converted, those Lamanites

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who, many generations later, do get converted, they never leave.

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This is Alma 23, 6 and, 6, 7, and 8.

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And as sure as the Lord liveth, so sure as many as believed, or as many as

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were brought to the knowledge of truth, through the preaching of Ammon and his

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brethren, according to the spirit of revelation and of prophecy, and the

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power of God working miracles in them.

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Yea, I say unto you, as the Lord liveth, As many of the Lamanites as believe

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in their preaching were converted unto the Lord, and they never did fall away.

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For they became a righteous people.

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They had laid down their weapons of rebellion, and they did not

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fight against God anymore, neither against any of their brethren.

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Now these are they who were converted unto the Lord.

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The Lord has a long lens.

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He can see another way.

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He can see another way to bring families back together.

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Takes a long time, and it takes a lot of people making choices to be diligent like

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the sons of Ammon did, but it can happen.

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Families will be brought back in.

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So I think he's, God always plays for the team, and he'll find a way

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to keep you connected, if not right now, over generations of time.

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I think the key to that promise being fulfilled is that we never stop

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loving, and we never stop reaching.

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I think that's what you see in Nephi.

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He's gonna continually talk about the Lamanites and his brethren, and he'll

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pray for them, and he'll weep for them.

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I mean, you see the same thing with the Savior when The children of Israel

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are pulling away from his covenant promises that he weaves for them.

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Remember he says, you know, Jerusalem, Jerusalem, like it's that same longing.

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So I think as long as we are constantly reaching out, I think that's what

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conference taught us over and over again, that we keep those doors wide open.

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We keep our love flowing and we keep opportunities open to return.

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Promises are kept

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our last spark.

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I call how to be happy one of those age old Universal questions that we all ask

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ourselves and I think the answers are woven into chapter 5 Because this is after

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the separation occurs you see Nephi's people set up shop, you know, they go out

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into the wilderness It's a lot like Lehi's situation, right, where Nephi grew up as

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a teenager, seeing his dad preach to the people in Jerusalem, having the people in

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Jerusalem seek his life, and then having guidance from the Lord that they needed

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to go into the wilderness and begin fresh.

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Lehi basically sets a template for Nephi to follow, because

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Nephi does the same thing.

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He gets that same prompting from the Lord, and he takes his family

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and anyone who will follow him, and they go into the wilderness.

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and they have to begin again.

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Remember, they've left the land of First Inheritance.

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If you did those maps from last week, you can see where they traverse.

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They have to go many days, it says, and they set up camp.

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And if you've ever set up camp legitimately, like,

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it is not a pleasant task.

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They have to clear things.

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You have to find a spot where there's water.

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It's, it's work.

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But somehow, in the course of this effort, They live after the manner of happiness.

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That's the theme for this week, you guys, in the Come Follow Me Manual,

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because this effort that they have together where they're, they've created

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some separation between them and the temptations that easily beset them.

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They've, they've created some separation from those who don't

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believe and they're starting to build.

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What sounds like Zion?

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To me, it sounds like the waters of Mormon.

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You know, where they go out to this small place that used to be known

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because it was invested with wild beasts and now becomes this place of beauty.

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That's what chapter 5 is.

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Nephi becomes this place of beauty and prosperity.

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So if you look in the verses, it says in 10, We did observe to keep

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the judgments and statutes and the commandments of the Lord in all

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things according to the law of Moses.

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There's your first view in how you can live after the man of God.

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manner of happiness.

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You have to keep the commandments.

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Like there is no other, wickedness never was happiness.

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It can't be.

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So that's his first big instruction to us.

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If you want to be happy, keep the commandments.

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Doesn't that sound really familiar?

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It's like what we just heard from President Nelson in conference

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and several others who quoted him.

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Then in 11, And the Lord was with us, and we did prosper exceedingly.

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For we began to sow seed and reap again in abundance, and we began to raise flocks

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and herds and animals of every kind.

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The fact that the Lord is with them, to me, means they are

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making covenants and keeping them.

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They, they have that close relationship with the Lord, and He is among them.

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They are unified in hearts and minds, and they're working

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together to do something good.

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I just think this idea of Being united in this effort is powerful.

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I think how they use their energy and time is impressive.

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They don't spend all their time seeking ore or gold or things.

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Those, those things come.

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They use their time to develop a city and to build a place for their family

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to be safe and to raise crops and herds.

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Like, there's just something about that simple lifestyle that promises

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happiness if we do it in the Lord's way.

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And then in 12, And I, Nephi, had also brought the records which were engraven

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upon the plates of brass, and also the ball or compass which was prepared

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for my father by the hand of the Lord, according to that which is written.

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Another big way we can find happiness, I think, is to hold tight to the scriptures.

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Not just the scriptures, but miracles from our past.

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When we honor ancestors, when we do our family history and we study their

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stories, that's the Liohona to me.

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It doesn't seem like the Liohona is guiding them the same way it did before.

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I think it had a certain purpose, to get them across the waters and get them

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through the wilderness that's over by Jerusalem, but I think now it's, it is

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a It is a relic that tells them God is with them and has always been with them.

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And so he brings that living memory with them in this journey.

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And then I love 13.

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And it came to pass that we began to prosper exceedingly

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and to multiply in the land.

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That's the fruits of this effort.

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You don't have to take God's word for it.

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Happiness is evident as you live it.

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You get those blessings.

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As you live his commandments, happiness comes to you.

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It is not some prize that it's the end of this life.

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It is something that is a consequence of daily righteous living.

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You can see a bunch more in the verses, but I think he's trying

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to guide us towards happiness.

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A big one for me comes in the middle, where Nephi talks

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about building the temple.

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So this is 16.

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And I, Nephi, did build a temple, and I did construct it after the manner of

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the temple of Solomon, save it were not built of so many precious things, for

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they were not to be found upon the land.

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It could be built like unto, it could not be built like unto Solomon's temple,

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but the manner of the construction was like unto the temple of Solomon and the

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workmanship thereof was exceedingly fine.

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I think one of the best ways to find happiness is to be resourceful and

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not let perfection paralyze you.

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Nephi would have grown up in Jerusalem.

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He would have seen Solomon's temple close up.

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He couldn't have gone inside.

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He's not of the tribe of Levi, but he would have seen those outer courtyards,

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and he would have seen his dad offer sacrifices on those key feast

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days, and he would know its beauty.

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And somehow he doesn't let that perfection freak him out.

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Don't you just think that's cool?

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Like, he just finds a way.

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to make whatever he does exceedingly fine.

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And that, to me, was inspirational when I approached my life.

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There are lots of things where I find myself paralyzed because I

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can look to somebody else and say, Ugh, but he did it so much better.

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She'd be so much better at this.

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Look how, you know, you get.

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And then you just stop.

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You stop progressing.

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Nephi never stops progressing.

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In these moments where he has a vivid memory of something

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glorious and beautiful, he says, I'm gonna do the best I can.

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And it will not have all the jewels, but it will be exceedingly fine.

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He will do whatever he can to build the best house he can unto God.

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And it sounds so much like the saints that we read about in Kirtland who had

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limited means, or in Nauvoo when they had limited means, or in Salt Lake when

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they were, you know, scrapping together and taking 40 years to build a temple.

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They find a way to make Something that lasts, that is exceedingly fine, even if

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it's not a raid like Solomon's Temple.

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And I love that.

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If you go in the notes, you can read, there's a great talk from Elder

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Choi this last conference where he quotes President Nelson about living

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after the manner of happiness.

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And he makes it so simple.

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He says this, President Nelson also taught yoking yourself with the

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Savior means you have access to his strength and redeeming power.

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The reward for keeping covenants with God is heavenly power.

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Power that strengthens us to withstand our trials, temptations,

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and heartaches better.

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This power eases our way.

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Those who live the higher laws of Jesus Christ have access to this higher power.

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Keeping covenants actually makes life easier.

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Each person who makes covenants in baptismal fonts and in temples and keeps

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them has increased power, increased access to the power of Jesus Christ.

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My dear brothers and sisters, do you want to be happy?

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Stay on the covenant path.

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Your life will be easier, happier, and filled with joy.

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Our Savior is inviting us.

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Come unto me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.

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He is the living Christ.

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He carries our wardens and makes our life easier.

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I love that witness from Nephi.

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They found happiness in this effort, and we can find it too.

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Time to get into the questions portion of week 7.

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Alright, I've got 5 good questions for you to just sort of mull

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over, think about, chat about with your families or your classes.

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And then if you have time, share some thoughts.

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I don't know the answer to most of these.

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I don't know that there is one answer.

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I'm just hoping it will get you into your scriptures and you will seek out your own.

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And if you get a chance, of course, I'd hope you'd share them with us.

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If you have a chance, put them on the YouTube comment thread

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or over on the course at gather.

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macmom.

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com.

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I would love to see what the Spirit teaches you.

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Okay, first question.

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This is one about Joseph Smith.

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So in this prophecy that Lehi is teaching his son Joseph about Joseph

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in Egypt and what he saw, that Joseph in Egypt 3, 500 years before Joseph

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Smith saw this mighty work happening.

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And he has this interesting phrase at the end of 3 verse 11.

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He says, But to the convincing them of my word, which shall

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have gone forth among them.

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He makes this distinction that it's not just that Joseph will bring forth his

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word, but that he, he will convince them.

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And I found myself wondering, why is there a distinction there?

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What do you see in Joseph Smith's life that doesn't just bring the word forth,

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but convinces men that it is true?

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Is it in his writings that you feel that?

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Is it in the way he lived his life?

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Where do you see connection points between what Joseph Smith brought

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to the world and how it convinces men to choose good, to believe?

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that this gospel is fully restored.

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Where do you see that?

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The second one comes from 16 and 17 of chapter 3.

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This is when he's prophesying, he's, Joseph is prophesying about this

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prophet that will come forth and that he won't be mighty in speaking.

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And this one I think he's referring specifically to Moses, that he

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won't be mighty in speaking, that he'll be mighty in writing.

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But I thought it was interesting that you see this pattern

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often in the Lord's prophets.

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You see him, you know, like with Enoch and here with Moses, and you're gonna

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see it with others, where the Lord almost Picks and chooses their gifts.

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I guess that makes sense since we know what we know about spiritual gifts But

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I guess I wonder sometimes if if they can be overcome in these verses The Lord

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makes it sound like he gives him a certain skill and blessing in writing But he

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doesn't give him one in in speaking and I found myself wondering and you know in

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the past I've always sort of assumed that I can acquire all spiritual gifts and

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that I any talent that I really wanted I could pursue Heavily enough and I could

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maybe get it That my life is supposed to be overcoming my insecurities about

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this, but I'm starting to wonder if maybe some, some insecurities or some

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weaknesses in us are intended to stay, if they're intended to tether us to God in

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a certain way so they are never removed.

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I just wondered.

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So I guess my question is this, do you think some insecurities are

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not to be conquered in this life?

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And if so, why?

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Maybe not just insecurities, but talents that you don't have, or

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things that you see in others that you wish you had, but don't.

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Like, do you think all of those are designed to be conquered?

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You know, we know from the DNC that you can, you can pray for all good gifts,

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but do you think there are some that are withheld on purpose, and if so, why?

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Okay, third question.

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This comes from chapter three again.

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This is 19 and 20.

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It says, And the words which ye shall write shall be the words which are

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expedient, and the wisdom should go forth unto the fruit of my loins.

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And it shall be as if the fruit of thy loins had cried unto them from

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the dust, for I know their faith.

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And they shall cry from the dust, yea, even repentance unto their brethren, even

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after many generations have gone by them.

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And it shall come to pass that their cry shall go, even according

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to the simpleness of their words.

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It's the cry from the dust part that I just I've been actually studying this

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for a few weeks now because I keep seeing that Word dust everywhere, you know,

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you can hear about it in the temple.

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You see it in scripture a lot We certainly saw in the Old Testament and I think

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you see it a lot here in the Book of Mormon as well This idea of things

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crying forth out of the dust, but I went into I guess it's I can't remember

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if it was the topical guide I started searching everywhere that dust appears

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in scriptures and there's some really interesting Connecting points, right?

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Like you hear in Genesis about coming forth from the dust, returning to dust.

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You hear things like in Psalms, it talks about how he's cleaving to the dust

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and he almost wants to not do that.

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I started to wonder, like, what does dust represent?

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It seems to be a specific symbol for something.

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I don't know exactly, but it felt to me like maybe it has some connecting point

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to things that are Beyond things that what things would look like if God was

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not there if God didn't allow for things to be organized and created It almost

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seems like dust is Everything left over.

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I just don't know, you guys.

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I did read in Moses 6.

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59 and it helped me a little bit.

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So if you're curious and you want to dig deeper, go read that verse and then read

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a bunch of others and tell me what it is you think dust is supposed to symbolize.

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Why do we see it so often in scripture?

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Especially in the Book of Mormon, you hear words crying forth out of the dust.

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What does that mean?

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I'd love to hear your thoughts.

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Okay, last one.

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This last Oh, sorry, here we go.

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This last one is, I don't have a specific verse to point to.

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I just think it's really interesting that Nephi doesn't get a written blessing.

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You know, of all the brothers, even like the little, little kid brothers, and the

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sons of Ishmael, even Sam gets a blessing.

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Like, they all get these written blessings, but we

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don't have one for Nephi.

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And I'm curious why that is.

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Or, my next question would be Do you think there is a blessing

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for Nephi, but perhaps it's not written in the way we anticipated?

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Maybe it's different.

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How do you look at these verses and see Lehi's guidance to Nephi here?

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And if it's not here, where is it?

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Okay, chapter five.

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This is Nephi when he builds that first temple.

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What I love about Nephi, like I talked about in the insights,

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is his his tenacity, right?

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He doesn't have all the resources that Solomon had.

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He doesn't have the manpower.

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He doesn't have the jewels and the fanciness, but he's going

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to get a temple built and it's going to be exceedingly fine.

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And he does.

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And what I think is interesting is looking back over what we know about

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Nephi so far, there are several things that Nephi is asked to build.

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And I think there's connecting points between them.

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So my question to you is, where do you see Nephi Learning from the bow

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experience, from the boat experience, and from his other travels with his

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family, how does that give him the faith and the abilities to build this temple?

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Are they all, like, leading towards this great epic building project?

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You know, I don't know if you, I'm wondering if you see connection points.

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So how did Nephi's earlier work, when he built the, fixed the bow, built the

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ship, how did it impact his ability to build this house of the Lord?

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I'd love to hear your thoughts.

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Before we head into the object lessons, I just wanted to give you a quick

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little snippet of Michelle Craig's talk.

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She's actually quoting C.

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S.

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Lewis.

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It's in the notes if you want to go find it, but this is where he talks

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about God's building project, that you are God's building project.

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If you look in the notes, you can read it, but it says, Imagine

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yourself as a living house.

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God comes in to rebuild that house.

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At first, perhaps you can understand what he's doing.

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He's getting the drains right, stopping the leaks in the roof, and so on.

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You knew that those jobs needed doing, and so you're not surprised.

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But presently, he starts knocking the house about in ways that hurt abominably.

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You see, he's building quite a different house from the one you thought of.

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You thought you were being made into a decent little cottage.

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And he is building a palace.

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One in which he intends to come and live in himself.

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The prophets have taught, this is Michelle speaking, The prophets have taught that as

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we climb the path of discipleship, we can be sanctified through the grace of Christ.

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Divine discontent can move us to act in faith, follow the Savior's invitations to

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do good, and give our lives humbly to Him.

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That's what I felt like you could see in these three chapters.

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Nephi, Lehi, Zoram, Sam, all of these, and all the families that go with them, they

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all get in these sticky situations and choose to let the grace of Christ flow in.

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So that they are drawn towards good, and they find stability where they

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didn't have it before by allowing the grace of Christ to fill those gaps.

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I think you'll see it on every page, so I hope you dig it.