Dawn?
Speaker:Let's start with
Speaker:Dawn's question.
Speaker:Dawn has asked, what led you to creating altitude?
Speaker:It feels like it happened to us.
Speaker:I think it wasn't something we intentionally set out to do.
Speaker:So like a lot of things that we've done with our work the last
Speaker:10, 12 years, it's been, I think connection, collaboration, really.
Speaker:So the reason we started the first one, which is still why we go
Speaker:back, was our friend Jack Hubbard.
Speaker:Came to speaker our first summer camp back in 2014, and he gave an amazing
Speaker:talk, which you can still see online called Bucket List Business Planning.
Speaker:And in that talk, he shared his business journey and how he hadn't fitted in in
Speaker:other business networks and conferences.
Speaker:So really aligned with our thinking about doing things differently in business.
Speaker:And hence he came to summer camp.
Speaker:He loved it there.
Speaker:He talked about free range business.
Speaker:The idea of, um.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Not fitting into business as we've been told to be and be,
Speaker:be ourselves in the work we do.
Speaker:And he shared this vision that he had for this place he called Dream Valley.
Speaker:and he just moved to the mountains.
Speaker:He just got married out there.
Speaker:He had a big wedding with like 200 people.
Speaker:So we got to know all the shallow owners, some guides, some cool people who
Speaker:live out there and invite us out there just for a, a little wrecky I suppose.
Speaker:So me, Carlos, said.
Speaker:I think we've been doing the Happy Startup School for about a year
Speaker:or two at that point, haven't we?
Speaker:So we, um, I love the idea of doing an event overseas.
Speaker:We, we were starting to see a global following from blogging online and
Speaker:sharing some of the summer camp talks.
Speaker:And it just felt really exciting to break out of the Brighton bubble and get out of
Speaker:our comfort zone, really, like physically and mentally it felt like pushing
Speaker:ourselves to do something different.
Speaker:So yeah, we did that first trip.
Speaker:I think Carlos came up with the name and the altitude in that walk, didn't he?
Speaker:The first, first day we were out there.
Speaker:That long walk that was maybe about an hour and turned out
Speaker:to be about three or four.
Speaker:thanks to Jack.
Speaker:so that was, I think we went over in December, 2014.
Speaker:And then the first aptitude happened in May, 2015, so
Speaker:about five, six months later.
Speaker:And really behind it was this idea of we'd experienced, um, lots of
Speaker:conferences, lots of events, and.
Speaker:The best bits for me were always the in-between bits where we got to meet
Speaker:people and hang out and maybe do some fun things less so sitting still for eight
Speaker:hours in sort of solos conference centers.
Speaker:And yeah, that was the premise of it really.
Speaker:What if we created a whole week with the in-between bits and
Speaker:brought some great people to a great place and let it unfold, really?
Speaker:And that was the intention at the start, was creating that
Speaker:space and seeing what emerged.
Speaker:and to be honest, we have changed a little bit.
Speaker:It's evolved a bit, but the essence of it, I think is still the same.
Speaker:I, I was busy trying to find
Speaker:photos of you, me and Tams in Fiona and uh,
Speaker:okay.
Speaker:Neil.
Speaker:Uh, walking through Misty forests, trying to work out what, what, what
Speaker:is so special about this place?
Speaker:'cause we can't see anything.
Speaker:No.
Speaker:Yeah, we didn't see any mountains on that first trip.
Speaker:None whatsoever.
Speaker:But we did stay at this most beautiful chalet.
Speaker:It was just amazing.
Speaker:This like four story high-end, 18th, no 19th century.
Speaker:chalet that had been renovated by, by someone that Jack knew.
Speaker:Uh, and that I think also swung it in terms of the idea.
Speaker:'cause it wasn't just roughing it on the side of a mountain.
Speaker:It was this quite a luxurious space that we could, we had the, the luck of
Speaker:being able to, to use because he just, this person has just renovated it.
Speaker:Uh, and so there's that element of, oh yeah, it's great being
Speaker:in the mountains and personally.
Speaker:I haven't been brought up with being in nature.
Speaker:Um, my, my experience of nature a lot of the time is insects and discomfort.
Speaker:Um, but this idea of going into the mountain and even the
Speaker:mountains for me was just like.
Speaker:Cold and, and and basically scrape knees on rocks.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:But that idea of being able to take refuge back in a beautiful, luxurious
Speaker:bed with amazing food in the kitchen, the most amazingly huge kitchen is
Speaker:ridiculous and interspersed with light.
Speaker:We'll go for a hike up a mountain.
Speaker:We'll go and do some whitewater rafting.
Speaker:We'll go and have a little walk to a lake.
Speaker:It's like, it was like nature light.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:Yeah, which, which allowed us, well for me, allowed me to tap
Speaker:into this love of nature without being chucked into the deep end.
Speaker:But yeah, that first chalet was incredible, isn't it?
Speaker:And um, yeah, that set the tone for everything else really.
Speaker:I think the thing I loved about that first trip was after the summer
Speaker:camp, the busyness of that first summer camp, you know, a hundred
Speaker:people was probably the first one.
Speaker:Three days we were there probably five days coming away from it,
Speaker:like feeling exhausted I think.
Speaker:'cause it was, you just dunno what you don't know when
Speaker:you run an event like that.
Speaker:So going to altitude, it just felt so spacious.
Speaker:So we had so much time.
Speaker:I think I was chatting to Jack about this recently.
Speaker:The thing I remember about that trip was, and this is.
Speaker:Where you learn really quickly seeing, um, one of our participants,
Speaker:Kuran, our Indian friend, um, walking around the supermarket trying to find
Speaker:somewhere to buy lunch on the second day because we only did breakfast and
Speaker:dinner and we realized quite quickly, yeah, we don't wanna have that happen.
Speaker:This is not the experience we wanna create.
Speaker:So the next altitude.
Speaker:All inclusive.
Speaker:Uh, yeah, we just wanted to take any decisions away from people and
Speaker:create as much space for connection and conversation as possible.
Speaker:there was a few learnings, but ultimate, oh, the other thing, we
Speaker:brought kids to that first one.
Speaker:Oh yes.
Speaker:Oh yes.
Speaker:That was a lesson we learned very quickly.
Speaker:They didn't come back.
Speaker:I mean, we've still got those kids and there were other kids, but, uh,
Speaker:I think it was more challenging for the people with kids and not everyone
Speaker:else seemed to be quite cool with it.
Speaker:We had two different shallows, one with those with families, that one without.
Speaker:Um, but yeah, it, I found it hard to be fully present when kids were around,
Speaker:especially young, young children.
Speaker:So, um, well, this for me
Speaker:is, kind of the story of an evolving vision because.
Speaker:If I remember correctly, Lawrence, the vision was how can we basically
Speaker:integrate our lives into our work?
Speaker:You know, that's ultimately the big vision.
Speaker:And so that meant family.
Speaker:It's like how could we go to these beautiful places and bring family along?
Speaker:And so on one hand it was very true to that intention.
Speaker:And then there's the practicalities and the practicalities because on one level
Speaker:it's like, others bring their kids along and they can get along and you know,
Speaker:they can play while we are doing stuff.
Speaker:But then some didn't have kids.
Speaker:And so what did that mean?
Speaker:And then it, it starts to evolve that what is the real intention of this for
Speaker:us as well as for the attendees, so that we can then manage that space in a way.
Speaker:The people get what they need and, and definitely now where we're at, where it
Speaker:is about finding some peace to really.
Speaker:Think more clearly, having kids running around does not
Speaker:contribute to that vision anymore.
Speaker:And from a logistical point of view, I mean, anyone who's run an event, might
Speaker:be useful to know, just not knowing how many, like people have different
Speaker:amounts of kids, different age kids.
Speaker:So in terms of logistics, organizing rooms, organizing the size of the
Speaker:group, organizing meals, it just adds a layer of complexity to it,
Speaker:as well as different ways of parenting.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:So we discover.
Speaker:Uh, you really get to know people when you go on holiday with their kids.
Speaker:Um, so yeah, talking a bit to more to Harry's, Question or comment, you know,
Speaker:here to hear about the experiencing the experiences of running retreats in nature.
Speaker:I would say.
Speaker:One of the learnings is to create, um, a helpful cadence.
Speaker:is having that balance.
Speaker:Uh, and the balance that we have broadly tried to create was having
Speaker:the mornings for conversations, structured health spaces.
Speaker:then the afternoons for free time to then, whether you want to continue those
Speaker:conversations or whether you want to go off and just be by yourself or you wanna
Speaker:adventure to take that time for yourself.
Speaker:Uh, and the, the benefit of having that structure in the morning
Speaker:that I've seen is a, everyone knows where to be at what time.
Speaker:'cause that's the other thing.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:When you have 15, 20 people.
Speaker:Many of whom are entrepreneurs, creative freedom types, it can get chaotic.
Speaker:Very quickly.
Speaker:And so if you said, alright, yeah, we might meet in the mornings for
Speaker:a chat and there's only two of you and the other 3, 4, 5, 6, you
Speaker:know, you dunno where anyone is.
Speaker:It doesn't create for a connecting vibe.
Speaker:So having, you know, to be, and this is why it's great to have Claire, to have
Speaker:someone who can, I'm not saying Claire is strict, but she gives us very clear
Speaker:instructions about where we need to be and when having that is a godsend.
Speaker:I, I believe that's really, really important if you're gonna create
Speaker:the vibe that we're trying to create, which is about connection,
Speaker:because you, especially around meal
Speaker:times as well.
Speaker:'cause those, those times are so connecting.
Speaker:I think it's not just about eating, it's about, um, yeah, these are,
Speaker:these are touch points with the group.
Speaker:Well
Speaker:the logistically and energetically.
Speaker:It's important to people to be in sync at a certain level.
Speaker:And all of this is dependent, I believe, on what kind of culture
Speaker:in the end you want to create.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:What kind of environment you wanna create.
Speaker:So it isn't like this is the way, but from how many have we done now these,
Speaker:uh, retreats, including India and the us?
Speaker:15, 16?
Speaker:well I think I worked out including out, including summer camp.
Speaker:We're talking 30 retreats, if you include that.
Speaker:So yeah.
Speaker:So 30 experiences in nature.
Speaker:and having, you know, to hold a group of people together, there is a, a
Speaker:container that needs to be created.
Speaker:It can't be just a free for all.
Speaker:well, we would not be comfortable if it was just a free for all.
Speaker:That's, whatever the word.
Speaker:No.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Because in terms of, you know, there's, while there's a, a structure, well,
Speaker:while there's a cadence to the day and the week, uh, the content can shift and
Speaker:change depending on the people there.
Speaker:And that's the mm-hmm.
Speaker:And that's the, that's the letting unfold bit, Mm-hmm.
Speaker:Is allowing.
Speaker:Um, those who attend to share and take part in whichever way they want.
Speaker:Uh, and while, you know, having done this, these experiences in nature 30
Speaker:times, there is a lot that we can share and we can talk to and teach even.
Speaker:We also know that there is, uh, a beauty in the emergent space where people are
Speaker:allowed to bring what they know and what they think and, and their own experiences.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:so it's, it's, it's about having, uh, a place where you feel really comfortable
Speaker:and someone who makes that experience even more comfortable is just about to join us.
Speaker:Hey, Claire, How are you?
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Good.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Loving, loving hearing this conversation.
Speaker:It's so nice to be now.
Speaker:Thinking about altitude and it's just on the horizon really, isn't it?
Speaker:my role at Altitude is to coordinate the event and work with Lawrence
Speaker:and Carlos to make sure everything's running nice and smoothly and everybody
Speaker:has what they need and we are where we need to be at the right times.
Speaker:Which is a lovely job.
Speaker:And it sounds, yeah, it sounds all a bit clipboardy Andy, but it's not, it's
Speaker:more about, well, it's that, but it's also about, you know, understanding
Speaker:what's needed and when it's needed, which is, is lovely 'cause that that's
Speaker:based on the people that are there and what's happening when we're there.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:I think this is an important part for me, for anyone thinking about doing this.
Speaker:Work and we did it at the beginning.
Speaker:It was just myself, Lawrence, and, and at the time, Fiona, uh, actually I was
Speaker:thinking about even with summer camp, just not really being clear about the
Speaker:roles and essentially Lawrence and myself still trying to do everything.
Speaker:And at the beginning, I think it's really important to go through that
Speaker:pain and it is pain to really know what's needed and to be able to
Speaker:understand what, what, what are the bits and pieces that need to be done.
Speaker:But if you are going to be a host and if you are gonna be holding space,
Speaker:and if you are going to try and.
Speaker:Essentially manage, not necessarily the logistics, but the personalities,
Speaker:the needs, the energies.
Speaker:You can't be doing that while you're trying to work out what's for
Speaker:lunch and where's this and where's that and where people are going.
Speaker:And it, it will blow your mind and it It will, that energy
Speaker:will leak into the group.
Speaker:And I think that's the beauty of it as well, is that you've experienced
Speaker:it enough where you, you're not just there logistically either.
Speaker:There is something, you are part of the group.
Speaker:Mm. And you do, uh, contribute to holding the space, being with
Speaker:others, even just getting something out of it yourself, would you say?
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Well, yeah, absolutely.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:I mean, I, yeah, for many years worked in various different sorts
Speaker:of events, whether it's press events or whether it's a corporate event.
Speaker:And what I love about these events that we work on together is that.
Speaker:you know, the content of everything is so enriching as, as somebody who's working on
Speaker:the event as well, you know, to be around.
Speaker:Everybody when you know, there's the group discussions or whether people
Speaker:are coming to realizations about things or learning about themselves or their
Speaker:business or whatever it is, all of those personal moments, yeah, that's
Speaker:what makes it so special, I think, versus, doing, uh, kind of like more
Speaker:cut and dry event where you are, you are just, you are just purely delivering.
Speaker:you've sort of carved out a little space for yourself on
Speaker:the final day, haven't you?
Speaker:I dunno what's, we haven't even talked about what you're gonna do this
Speaker:year, but you think you did a vision board session a couple years ago?
Speaker:Last year it was literally the whole group altogether just making, um,
Speaker:We were weaving, weren't we?
Speaker:We, that was it.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:We were weaving and everyone, it's so funny.
Speaker:Everyone just got so, I dunno.
Speaker:It felt like they tapped into the inner child.
Speaker:I'm trying to dig out a picture because you were, it was such a lovely moment.
Speaker:Music was on, the sun was out.
Speaker:Everyone was just in that creative space and reflecting on the week together.
Speaker:yeah, there's, it's, there's like a processing moment, isn't it?
Speaker:I mean, a lot happens over the week, um, and there's lots of different
Speaker:experiences and it's about making that space and time to process that.
Speaker:Individually together.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:And it's just not, yeah.
Speaker:It's just lovely to do something that's a bit like with your hands, you know?
Speaker:That hand mind connection is so important.
Speaker:Well, this for me speaks to the emergent aspect of, of.
Speaker:The retreat.
Speaker:Within the seven days itself, we have people from all sorts of backgrounds
Speaker:and geographies and they'll bring stories and, and because of that we
Speaker:never know exactly what might turn up and what might, what we might learn.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:And just over the arc of the last three or years or so, you not even
Speaker:10, 11 years of just doing this that we've always tried to work out, you
Speaker:know, how do we reflect on this week?
Speaker:Because it's like, it's quite a lot for some people and, and sometimes that the
Speaker:last two days feel like there's just go, you know, you just like first two
Speaker:days feel like I've been here a month.
Speaker:The last two days would feel like they've just gone.
Speaker:and what was lovely is like you bringing your skills and your knowledge,
Speaker:and
Speaker:what you do naturally, that lended itself to, well, what about
Speaker:using this as a way to reflect?
Speaker:So rather than us controlling it, saying, all right, this is how it should work.
Speaker:We're gonna sit there, we're gonna journal and we're gonna blah, blah, blah.
Speaker:You know how, why don't we play with this?
Speaker:Yeah, and
Speaker:that was
Speaker:beautiful.
Speaker:And this is what I think we see over, um, come out the week, which is why I love.
Speaker:The unknowns with altitude in terms of, you know, we might know who's
Speaker:gonna come, but people have gifts, they have needs, they have things
Speaker:that they can bring to the table.
Speaker:And often it's things we don't know, right?
Speaker:So they might share it at the start of the week.
Speaker:It's like, oh, we've got a bit of space for that.
Speaker:So that excites me too.
Speaker:Not just us bring something to it and Claire, but also, yeah, the
Speaker:unknown sort of, uh, party tricks that people have up this sleeve.
Speaker:Yeah, I mean, um, Farrow was a case in point with that, wasn't she?
Speaker:Where she, yeah.
Speaker:Did us a, a beautiful impromptu, gig essentially.
Speaker:Um, and she was really excited to do that.
Speaker:it was a bit of a surprise for you two, um, for the rest of the group,
Speaker:but she had been, yeah, she'd been kind of working herself up to doing
Speaker:that, and it was just beautiful.
Speaker:It was, it's gorgeous to see, you know, she gave us such a
Speaker:special gift in that I thought.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:And I would say as a unique aspect of altitude is that balance
Speaker:between safety and surprise.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:You know, having real structure and clarity where we're gonna be,
Speaker:how we, where we're gonna stay.
Speaker:And having these elements of like, yeah.
Speaker:Just things that you wouldn't have expected or wouldn't know,
Speaker:wouldn't have been able to plan for, even without being there.
Speaker:Being there brings so much into the week, doesn't it?
Speaker:Whether that is something we might have to adapt weather.
Speaker:What?
Speaker:You know, things like weather being in the mountains, or, you know,
Speaker:I think Harry running, running, running, retreats in nature, just,
Speaker:well, it feels to me like it's almost a metaphor for entrepreneurship, isn't it?
Speaker:We have to adapt to.
Speaker:The changing environment and like you said, the weather,
Speaker:storms, whatever it might be.
Speaker:Yeah, we, if you're too fixed, then it doesn't work and you get annoyed rather
Speaker:than going with the flow a bit more.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Well there's a LinkedIn post there if I ever heard one.
Speaker:Exactly.
Speaker:I'll leave that to you, Carlos.
Speaker:Well,
Speaker:climbing up a mountain taught me about entrepreneurship.
Speaker:But there's also something about the, the group as well.
Speaker:'cause we have a fairly big group, so we have to again, adapt to people's
Speaker:physical abilities and making sure that everyone feels, um, looked after as well.
Speaker:It's not like a race.
Speaker:If when we go on a big hike, I think there's a fear.
Speaker:It's gonna be like an ultra run or something.
Speaker:And it's like about pushing yourself.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:And it's gonna be really hard.
Speaker:But I love this idea of mountain bathing that Arno introduced us to this idea of
Speaker:we can be in the mountains, but it doesn't have to be an adventure in terms of.
Speaker:We think of like yoga retreats in on a beach, but we don't think about
Speaker:mindful retreats in the mountains.
Speaker:So I like this idea of which we've tried to do again with Sally Ann and
Speaker:some of the work we've done to have a bit of physical challenge and also have
Speaker:lots of space and stillness and time to just notice the little things or
Speaker:notice what's going on for each of us.
Speaker:So this brings me onto Anya's question.
Speaker:Um, why does being in the real mountains help.
Speaker:When contemplating your second mountain?
Speaker:Well, I guess it'd be interesting for your perspective, Claire, seeing other people.
Speaker:Because a lot of people come with a question or a thing that they're trying
Speaker:to navigate and it doesn't always have to be a seismic change in terms of
Speaker:whether it's starting something new or Mm, changing what they're doing.
Speaker:But I guess there are people doing a lot of reflection 'cause it is
Speaker:a chance to have a bit of a reset.
Speaker:Um,
Speaker:yeah, I think, like there's a lot of time and space I think for just.
Speaker:Really feeling into yourself, you know, actually, you know, when you
Speaker:are just in normal life and you are just cracking on and it, it
Speaker:tends to be a bit busy and noisy.
Speaker:And I think being in that space, I mean, those massive skies, yeah,
Speaker:just maybe it's just easier to connect with what, what's really
Speaker:going on and what, what's important.
Speaker:And it, it kind of surfaces stuff that may be Yes, bubbling and you,
Speaker:you didn't realize it or I don't know.
Speaker:It just feels, I don't know.
Speaker:It, it's the, the, the slowing down and again, you know, we are moving
Speaker:through the week and doing different things, but I think it's just the
Speaker:slowing down and be feeling a bit more, I like connected, I guess.
Speaker:I dunno.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:For me there's something about like the days feel.
Speaker:Long in a good way.
Speaker:Like time seems to slow down.
Speaker:So like almost every year after two days, everyone's like, oh my God,
Speaker:we've still got a whole week ahead.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:You know, it seems you're very present, I think, and maybe it's,
Speaker:again, getting away from screens.
Speaker:We're in the sort of foot of these amazing, uh, mountains.
Speaker:Um, so there's something for me about, I don't know, feeling humble
Speaker:in the power of these things as well.
Speaker:Like Oh yeah.
Speaker:Yeah, when we think actually these things have been here for hundreds of millions
Speaker:of years, we're pretty insignificant in the scheme of things, so, mm-hmm.
Speaker:In some ways I find it helps to be a bit bolder when we come back
Speaker:because you actually think, why not just give, give something a go?
Speaker:What's, what's the worst that could happen?
Speaker:You know, that courage that comes from, I think just having that perspective.
Speaker:There's a couple of things that's come up for me.
Speaker:A to get to the mountains is a commitment.
Speaker:You can't just walk down the road from Brighton and there
Speaker:you are on the French office.
Speaker:You, you actually have to make an an intentional commitment yourself
Speaker:to be somewhere, which means okay, you've gotta commit to the space.
Speaker:And then when you're in a space like the French Alps.
Speaker:This is very different to your day-to-day.
Speaker:Harry just talks about it interrupts patterns.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:And I think one of the patterns that I think I see it interrupting is
Speaker:the pattern of keeping the armor up.
Speaker:And I think that's the secret to really admitting that finding what the
Speaker:second mountain is for you is actually realizing, actually all of these
Speaker:patterns, all of this personality that I created for myself, it might not be me.
Speaker:And, and being able to be in a space to talk with other people
Speaker:who, who are also being open.
Speaker:You actually, you probably get to know yourself better.
Speaker:So you realize actually this mountain that I have been climbing so far,
Speaker:I realized really isn't mine.
Speaker:Well, you're talking, the thing that kind strikes me is the power of doing
Speaker:the things we might do online in.
Speaker:Incredible environment, which for me, I, I can always remember where someone
Speaker:shared something that was really powerful or where someone asked a
Speaker:question that they're struggling with.
Speaker:Like, you can always pinpoint where we were on a walk or if we're up in the
Speaker:mountain hut or if we're by the chalet.
Speaker:Like for me, the environment of the mountains adds to the experience.
Speaker:It kind of creates more of a visceral experience.
Speaker:Um, so for me, yeah, it's, I think it's a combination of the mountains and.
Speaker:The people that we bring together.
Speaker:There's us, but also we seem to attract an amazing group of people who are
Speaker:great listeners and great, great.
Speaker:And guiding people in the direction that's good for them as well.
Speaker:I think so.
Speaker:I see that a lot, that collective support that is, I find very inspiring.
Speaker:I think it's having the trust that when you come to a place like Altitude,
Speaker:there will be the right people for the journey that you wanna go on.
Speaker:Not magical right.
Speaker:People as such though that comes into it is that we, we know the kinds of people
Speaker:who would benefit from this space and we, you know, people apply to join Altitude.
Speaker:It isn't just a case of like buy and you can come.
Speaker:There is a specific energy and intention and a way of
Speaker:being that is important to us.
Speaker:In order for altitude to be successful.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:And so it is really that creating that safety in a sense that you can just
Speaker:turn up who you as as you are, whoever you are, because you're gonna be in
Speaker:a space where that's gonna be held.
Speaker:Well, not, oh, what's this weirdness?
Speaker:And again, I've conversation, I'm sure we both do it.
Speaker:People aren't the right fit.
Speaker:If they want certainty of like, what is the training?
Speaker:You know, what am I going to, where am I gonna get to by the end of the week?
Speaker:Like, guaranteed outcomes, they wanna sort of get the certificate almost at the end.
Speaker:It's a leadership retreat, so shown me the accreditation that I can get almost.
Speaker:and that's fine.
Speaker:Those things exist, but this is, it's a bit of an antidote to that, isn't it?
Speaker:I think it's for people who are much more comfortable in company of people who they
Speaker:know that stories and experiences are.
Speaker:More important than any sort of tick box.
Speaker:I think for me there's also something deeper energetically.
Speaker:There's the, I wanna be right kind of person.
Speaker:I want to tell you what I know, kind of person, you know, I wanna,
Speaker:uh, show my status kind of person.
Speaker:Oh, I, you know, there's nothing wrong with me kind of person.
Speaker:You know that Alright,
Speaker:I'll come to contribute.
Speaker:Yeah,
Speaker:that doesn't work.
Speaker:You know, if you feel like you're coming here to be the, to show off in a vertical,
Speaker:not show off is even the wrong word.
Speaker:It's like there's a defensiveness that I can feel like in that
Speaker:energy as opposed to, you know, I dunno where I'm getting to.
Speaker:I have feel, you know, I wanna be around other people.
Speaker:I value conversations with other people and I also value being me.
Speaker:And that's where I wanna find a space to be me, as opposed to
Speaker:be the successful person or the one who knows it all that, yeah.
Speaker:Whether that's, oh, I wanna win at something, or, you know,
Speaker:find the next business idea.
Speaker:If you, if you're focused on that, I think it relates to an
Speaker:energy of just gimme answers.
Speaker:Gimme answers, or I'm gonna tell you my answers.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:There's a little bit of vulnerability isn't there, in
Speaker:showing up as yourself and Yeah.
Speaker:Connecting with the other people that, that you are with.
Speaker:But like you said, well, I seem to remember we don't get as many of these
Speaker:inquiries now, but certainly in the early days, a lot of people would say,
Speaker:I wanna come and speak at Altitude.
Speaker:I wanna come and give a workshop at Altitude.
Speaker:So thinking it's a conference where they come, come fly in, do their thing,
Speaker:and inspire the group and then leave.
Speaker:So yeah, I think we realized that just doesn't work.
Speaker:And actually.
Speaker:Anyone who comes to altitude could be, could be a speaker in their own right.
Speaker:They've all got stories to share.
Speaker:So that kind of collective Yeah.
Speaker:This idea of we're all smarter than any of us almost, you know, we, we benefit
Speaker:from that collective wisdom rather than anyone parachuting in from the outside.
Speaker:And I, I, I love, I value, I enjoy people who come with real
Speaker:deep knowledge around something.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:but.
Speaker:Only if it's needed.
Speaker:We don't want, oh, I just wanna run this workshop because I wanna run a workshop.
Speaker:It is like, if the space wants it, if the people in it need it, then it's great.
Speaker:That's amazing.
Speaker:You know, we could probably spend half a day on it sometimes because it's,
Speaker:everyone really wants, and people will want a piece of you if it's like
Speaker:something really pertinent to them, but just to say, all right, we're gonna
Speaker:fill an agenda and then we need to figure out who wants to run a workshop.
Speaker:That we've known that doesn't really create the energy
Speaker:that altitude is best for
Speaker:Whereas color of links to Harry's question, just as have we grown
Speaker:as facilitators over the time we've been running these retreats.
Speaker:I think, like you said at the, at the beginning, it feels like
Speaker:maybe we try and cram lots in, so like who wants to contribute?
Speaker:And there'd be like all these invitations of con contribution.
Speaker:Um.
Speaker:Like you said, now we try and base it on ultimately what the need is in the group.
Speaker:And that's one thing we do at the start of the week, which we haven't changed
Speaker:since the start, really, is it really tapping into why are people there?
Speaker:Why are people there, and what is it they need from the group, um, over the week?
Speaker:And maybe they know, or maybe that becomes clearer over the course of the week.
Speaker:How, how have you grown Lawrence as a, as a facilitator?
Speaker:I dunno, really.
Speaker:It's hard to say from my own perspective.
Speaker:Um.
Speaker:I think for me it's, it's partly trusting the process.
Speaker:So aptitude for me is hard as an event organizer because in some ways
Speaker:it's a lot easier to have everything programmed and everything certain,
Speaker:uh, and with summer camp there's a lot more of that, isn't there?
Speaker:We do a lot more programming.
Speaker:We have a lot more things in the schedule.
Speaker:I think with altitude it, it, for me it is, so it's how I've grown a
Speaker:facilitator, but probably more how I've got more comfortable with space and.
Speaker:Trusting in that space rather than trying to fill it just to kind of
Speaker:appease my need for control or structure.
Speaker:How about you, Claire?
Speaker:Have you felt any growth that's related to being altitude?
Speaker:I think just know, being able to better tap into what is needed
Speaker:and what's happening at the time.
Speaker:Um, but whilst also knowing the bigger picture of the week and what we've gotta
Speaker:do and, you know, the, the things that we do have to do and how those things work
Speaker:best to make sure that everybody kind of has the week that they need to have.
Speaker:Um, making sure that we are.
Speaker:Giving space for stuff.
Speaker:And sometimes that mean does mean, right, we're gonna do
Speaker:this, then that has to happen.
Speaker:Then these things, you know, these things are important.
Speaker:So yeah, it's, it is just a confidence in knowing where we have to stick
Speaker:and where we can twist a bit.
Speaker:Uh, I, I love this question, um, because I definitely feel like
Speaker:altitude and more broadly just.
Speaker:Building the Happy Startup School has been a complete personal growth journey.
Speaker:Uh, but, but specifically with altitude, the elements that I feel I've grown in
Speaker:a is just being able to run a session.
Speaker:Anytime.
Speaker:You know, now I feel like we've done it so many times.
Speaker:If like, if someone said we've got, uh, two hours to fill, I wouldn't
Speaker:have a problem filling that.
Speaker:I know exactly what we can do here.
Speaker:I know exactly how we can create some interesting, uh, connection
Speaker:and, and some kind of experience that people are gonna enjoy.
Speaker:The other element I think for me is this is, um, dealing
Speaker:with different personalities.
Speaker:And challenging personalities and conflict.
Speaker:I think I've learned so much about the painful aspects of that and how that,
Speaker:you know, can land on me the mm-hmm.
Speaker:I feel less concerned about those things anymore.
Speaker:I, I, you know, I'm less, I know how to deal with them a lot
Speaker:more and I think that, mm-hmm.
Speaker:When you have a diverse bunch of people, some with very different energies
Speaker:and needs, and also being in the mountain can open up a load of shit.
Speaker:And we're not therapists.
Speaker:We don't have any degrees in sort of like, you know, mental wellbeing.
Speaker:But I think from doing this stuff so many times, we, we know what our own shit is
Speaker:and how to create space and how to create safety and know how to create boundaries.
Speaker:and that, I think that's the biggest thing I've learned and
Speaker:how that contributes to safety.
Speaker:I, I would argue as well.
Speaker:I think we've grown as facilitators on Vision 2020, which I feel like we've
Speaker:brought a lot of that into altitude.
Speaker:So the learnings from that, like wise crowds and just other formats that we use.
Speaker:Um, I think even just like you said, getting to know people and
Speaker:their journeys more and more, and certainly people on embarking on the
Speaker:more second Mountain type journey.
Speaker:I, I feel just got a lot more experience with people on that journey.
Speaker:And for me, altitude, I love.
Speaker:yeah, just the conversations, like the walks and the one-to-one time with people.
Speaker:Um, whether that's facilitation or not, probably not.
Speaker:It's probably just listening.
Speaker:But ultimately, I, I love that because for me that's what Altitude gives is
Speaker:you've got the time and space to do that.
Speaker:You're not rushed, you're not feeling like I need to be somewhere and do something,
Speaker:and the days feel long for that reason.
Speaker:So, yeah, I cherish it because rest of the year it doesn't happen
Speaker:as easily as it does at Altitude.
Speaker:Claire, I'm conscious of your time and I know you weren't meant to be on this.
Speaker:I dunno if you, do you need to jump off or you get good to hang
Speaker:around, you might be starving
Speaker:or, yeah, maybe I'll, I've got a couple of commissions that I've gotta finish.
Speaker:Um, it was gorgeous to see you and thank you.
Speaker:Appreciate.
Speaker:Yeah, I, I think I'd like to add onto that, uh, what I believe we know our
Speaker:people well, we've done this for so long.
Speaker:We know exactly the kinds of people who come, you know, the kinds of
Speaker:conversations that will happen and also kinds of things that will get in the way.
Speaker:And so while you talk about, you know, it's growing up a mountain
Speaker:facilitating, you know, we did a whole, went to a whole event on this
Speaker:whole idea of coaching in nature.
Speaker:Mm-hmm.
Speaker:And this is something that we've learned by doing as opposed to kind of
Speaker:trying to get qualification from it.
Speaker:It's this, there is about how we use these spaces to let people, be more
Speaker:aware of themselves and what they need.
Speaker:and I dunno if we talked about this, but I'd, I might be good
Speaker:to explore this, like what we personally, why you do it personally.
Speaker:Like why do we do this?
Speaker:Because for me, I do it because I love hosting and I love
Speaker:bringing people to this place.
Speaker:And also I get so much from it every time we go.
Speaker:and it's not necessarily what I thought I needed, which again,
Speaker:is what we see with altitude too.
Speaker:People might come for one reason, but they leave with something hopefully more.
Speaker:more pertinent for where they're at.
Speaker:but yeah, there's something calling them there.
Speaker:So, yeah.
Speaker:I'm curious what's, yeah, what do you get from it going each time?
Speaker:Because we've been on other trips?
Speaker:Well, I mean, I'm going in a few weeks to do a shorter trip.
Speaker:We've taken, we've done snowshoeing, you've taken, you
Speaker:know, family out there, both of us.
Speaker:So there's something bigger than just altitude.
Speaker:So the things that I value just in general, are learning about.
Speaker:People and their stories and their, and their journeys.
Speaker:There's something really life enriching.
Speaker:Being able to connect with people's stories and, and, and, and learn new
Speaker:things about how they've experienced the world, whether that's through
Speaker:building a business, whether that's their own childhood, you know, we've
Speaker:had people come from all over the world.
Speaker:Uh, and so it just, it, I think there's a real sense of connection.
Speaker:A need for connection is definitely met by being altitude.
Speaker:and that the adventure part as well, not just in terms of outward adventure in,
Speaker:in, in the mountains, but just adventure of like these new stories and these
Speaker:new views and these new points of views and these new kind of personalities.
Speaker:That's for me as much as a wonderful adventure But that is only, I think,
Speaker:possible in the way I want it if the people there are open to really sharing.
Speaker:And I've been to other events and, and spaces where, again, there's
Speaker:that real lack of, there's a guardedness that I've never really
Speaker:experienced at any of our events.
Speaker:Um, uh, and maybe it's just the way we turn up, but there is something around,
Speaker:whether it's summer camp Vision 2020.
Speaker:Or altitude.
Speaker:People just feel more free and open to share a bit more about themselves.
Speaker:And then through that it just creates an ease.
Speaker:and then, you know, to be really selfish, just get a chance to eat amazing food,
Speaker:sleep, and the beautiful surroundings.
Speaker:Enjoy the crisp mountain air.
Speaker:Go bike riding, sit in a field, you know, just, you know, it is, it is
Speaker:a, I'm gonna say it's a holiday to a certain extent, there's an element,
Speaker:an energy, an energy of a holiday that
Speaker:mm-hmm.
Speaker:That isn't, that isn't a holiday, if that makes sense, because it's not just
Speaker:sitting around doing nothing as well.
Speaker:Well, yeah, and I think, yeah, there's a swimming pool, there's a hot tub,
Speaker:there's a tour, there's all the things that you might have on a holiday.
Speaker:Um, but it's, for me, there's a, like you said, there's a layer of the people.
Speaker:So you could be sat there having.
Speaker:An amazing conversation with someone you've just met and
Speaker:they've, you or they have shared something that's really moving.
Speaker:Um, and it really connects, like you said, you've got that space and that
Speaker:so many books.
Speaker:We learn about
Speaker:so many books.
Speaker:Oh my God.
Speaker:So book games.
Speaker:So the end of uh, being there is like, we need to put a book list somewhere.
Speaker:And so.
Speaker:A big sort of, um, flip chart appears with, uh, lots of post-its on it.
Speaker:So yeah, there's, there is, and that's the thing I love about this event is,
Speaker:um, yeah, just the stuff you, you hear about that you didn't know, whether it's
Speaker:a book, whether it's a tool, whether it's, um, an idea, someone else is
Speaker:like, oh, you're not heard of that.
Speaker:And you're like, no, it's obvious to me.
Speaker:You've known for years.
Speaker:And so this collision of ideas I think is great 'cause you come back with a
Speaker:whole little notebook of, of things to follow up with and to learn from.
Speaker:there is a lot of learning.
Speaker:There's so much learning that you can get from altitude that you
Speaker:wouldn't necessarily expect, and there's a shed load of laughter.
Speaker:It is.
Speaker:I
Speaker:thought you said there's a shed load of unlearning.
Speaker:That would've been good.
Speaker:Well, yeah, there is that, but I think the laughter bit helps as well.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Actually that was what I think it was last year, um, or last couple years.
Speaker:We, we do a little reflection at the end, don't we?
Speaker:Uh, Claire does a session.
Speaker:We do a little journaling.
Speaker:What did we take from the week?
Speaker:And I just remember thinking, yeah, my laugh equation was, was ridiculously high.
Speaker:Um.
Speaker:I think, yeah, we work a remote a lot, a lot of our community's online,
Speaker:so yeah, we don't, I would say I don't get that year round as much as
Speaker:I'd like to, to have that sense of camaraderie and, and, um, companionship,
Speaker:which leads to fun ultimately.
Speaker:Um, and holding those two things, like quite like you said, like an
Speaker:said, deep stuff that gets shared.
Speaker:Some quite big things come up for people and to be able to hold
Speaker:that lightly as well and to laugh and enjoy each other's company.
Speaker:Well, that's for me a very important mix.
Speaker:Like to be able to, to have powerful conversations, um, to learn something,
Speaker:you know, quite new but also quite helpful and maybe quite useful.
Speaker:Um, that, to do that.
Speaker:In a space where you can just have fun as well.
Speaker:You can just, you know, let the, let the inner child out now and again.
Speaker:So you're not always tight lit and buttoned up.
Speaker:You Yeah, you're able to play with ideas and also just play in general.
Speaker:And there's milky, is it Moy the game?
Speaker:Moy,
Speaker:yeah.
Speaker:You get to be competitive as well.
Speaker:Explain Moy, the people who dunno what Moy is.
Speaker:I'm sure a few people might know it.
Speaker:It's a bit like Skittles, isn't it?
Speaker:But it's, it's a really annoying game if you're competitive
Speaker:because it's quite hard to win at.
Speaker:there's lots of, skittle type things, but they've, yeah, I
Speaker:can't, I can't remember the rules.
Speaker:I remember the first time I played it.
Speaker:It's like there's a whole load of them and if you hit one down, you get a point.
Speaker:But if you hit more than one, no, I can't remember.
Speaker:I need to send you a link.
Speaker:You explain it.
Speaker:You play more at home.
Speaker:I, I, I can't even explain it.
Speaker:I was gonna say it is, it is a bit like pool and Skittles and something else.
Speaker:'cause you do have to name your ball or your, your yeah.
Speaker:Peg or whatever.
Speaker:And if you don't hit that and you hit another, you lose points.
Speaker:And at the same time there are points.
Speaker:It's like, so yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker:You gotta be there to really understand.
Speaker:It's quite
Speaker:addictive.
Speaker:yeah, any, maybe any final.
Speaker:Aspects of aptitude that you'd like to communicate?
Speaker:Anything that speaks
Speaker:to mind.
Speaker:Um, so yeah, I was, I got a voice note from Jack yesterday who
Speaker:mentioned earlier, and yeah, the thing that he reminded me of was.
Speaker:This is actually becoming more of an issue is like the
Speaker:mountains are known for winter.
Speaker:Ultimately people not go there skiing, they go snow snowboarding.
Speaker:and because of climate change, winters are getting shorter and people are
Speaker:coming for less time ultimately.
Speaker:And so there's a, there's a, an issue there for any sort of mountain resort,
Speaker:like how do you stay sustainable year round in terms of financially,
Speaker:but also we've always done altitude in the spring, um, and the start
Speaker:of the summer before the holidays.
Speaker:And the nice thing about that is not many people go there then.
Speaker:So it's actually a lovely time to visit and hearing him talk yesterday,
Speaker:he could hear the bird song.
Speaker:He was saying, this sort of wild flowers are out.
Speaker:It's a very lovely time of year to experience nature.
Speaker:Not just the mountains, but just the meadows and that sort of life,
Speaker:you know, nature coming to life.
Speaker:Um, and I think when people think the mountains, they just think snow and they
Speaker:think sort of adventure and they think.
Speaker:Skiing.
Speaker:And the thing I love about this particular, this time of year is it
Speaker:feels like a nice, like we do summer camp at, at the end of the summer and
Speaker:we do altitude at the start of it.
Speaker:For me, it's almost like leaning into the, the summer and um, nature
Speaker:being the star of the show almost.
Speaker:Yeah, I think that adds to this idea of contributes to idea of spaciousness.
Speaker:You know, you're not queuing and you're not stuck in traffic and,
Speaker:uh, you can go for a walk and maybe not see anyone for an hour.
Speaker:Uh, and that's in service.
Speaker:I say for anyone who's just wanting to minimize the inputs.
Speaker:So I think is like raising your inputs to improve your outputs.
Speaker:And if that's something, if that's where you are at, then being.
Speaker:Place like the mountains in the in between seasons is,
Speaker:will be a game changer for you.
Speaker:You reminded me of last year, so.
Speaker:On the way up to the mountain hut, uh, we'll be gonna stay
Speaker:midweek for one night last year.
Speaker:Do, do you remember this where we, Sally Ann, who helps us out with the
Speaker:week, she invited us all to find a spot for ourselves on the mountain.
Speaker:So we were quite high up and it was beautiful and like lovely sunny day,
Speaker:um, and invited everyone to go and find a spot for themselves to 20 minutes.
Speaker:And everyone's like, 20 minutes.
Speaker:That's gonna be a long time.
Speaker:Just sit on your own.
Speaker:And classic thing, obviously afterwards everyone's like, I could
Speaker:have done that for a lot longer.
Speaker:It was just lovely to sit on your own, stare out.
Speaker:But the moment we sat down, I'm not joking with him, but within about
Speaker:a minute there was nothing around.
Speaker:And then suddenly within a minute you'd hear this guy with a chainsaw
Speaker:about two feet from me starting to saw down his some logs or something.
Speaker:And he was the only person within about five miles of us.
Speaker:Um, so yeah, trying to be mindful when you've got someone, uh, with his
Speaker:chainsaw out was quite, quite a test.
Speaker:Well, that, that's when you need to be even more mindful.
Speaker:Exactly.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Just notice it.
Speaker:Don't get annoyed by it if you are getting annoyed by it.
Speaker:Notice that,
Speaker:Well, I think if, was it something along the lines, if you, if you, you
Speaker:can't meditate for five minutes, you probably need to meditate for an hour.
Speaker:Yeah, that's everyone's in invitation for today.
Speaker:Gonna take five minutes.
Speaker:Cool.
Speaker:Cool.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:Well thank you everyone
Speaker:for Thank you to Claire, everyone for your questions.
Speaker:Um,
Speaker:Or maybe see you in the mountains.