Hello, and welcome to the Borealis experience. I'm

your host Aurora. And I'm very excited to have Adrian Moy with

me today, a man that I met over Facebook and we started

chatting, and we had an intro conversation the other day. And

I just had this awesome feeling that he could bring lots of

value to our audience here today. He is a spiritual guide.

He's a healer. He's a person that when you talk to him, and

he looks into your eyes, he looks into your soul and cracks

open your heart. And you know that there is no mask wearing

needed, you can be yourself. And you can, yeah, communicate

what's going on, and you and He will help you on your path to

feel more like yourself and to feel more empowered, and maybe

even to find your purpose here on planet Earth. Welcome, Adrian

McCoy. I'm so happy to connect with me here. And yeah, thank

you so much for making the time. I'm very excited to talk about

suppressed masculinity with you today and how we can help men to

tap into healthy masculinity again,

thank you for being here. And for maybe give us a little

introduction on how you came about your mission and your

purpose. Because sometimes I feel we have to find it. We

don't know it right away when we're born, we kind of have to

UNdeC our purpose.

Hello, Aurora. And thank you for having me here with you on your

platform. I'm very honored.

Hello, everyone listening. Thank you for taking the time to share

in this energy code, this journey that we are all on

together, it is very important for us. And yeah, it's

a little intro to how I found myself with this drive this

message to share with people

to be very quick. My life was like everyone else's.

I grew up normal, normal family, I saw throughout my history, I

had different. I was very curious. I was very explorative.

I love discovering new. It was like some innate passion within

me that always drove. And so I was the kid in school, and then

family gathering, I wanted to learn every nook and cranny

about everything that I could. And so in that

curiosity, I started noticing when people weren't as curious

with me and didn't want to explore and discover all the

nooks and crannies and the depths of why people do what

they do, why they respond, the way they respond, why they act,

the way they act and why they shape their lives the way they

do. That reflection back to me gave me insight into what people

were doing with their time we're paying attention to, and we're

focusing on. And so it was like I was sitting back watching

psychological dance amongst all the people like I was watching a

play. And so when I realized not many people wanted to be there

with me in the self discovery, I took a seat and watched it

unfold and let it explain itself to in that place. It's like Neo

in the Matrix, I started seeing the code of how people interplay

with each other. And for my own self discovery, I also paid

attention to the things that I valued, and I loved and I wanted

in life. And so of course, I'm gonna want to cultivate these

things in my life. In my desire, and my

adventure of discovering these things for myself, I found there

was much resistance to it, not on my part, I did have to learn

my audience and know how to discover my own self boundaries,

and learn to pay respects to other people's boundaries. But I

also noticed how much people didn't pay respect to their own

self boundaries. And there again, I am now sitting in the

audience watching the story play out, and now I'm paying

attention back again to why people let their boundaries get

crossed. And then so for me in this mindset of curiosity,

discovery and exploration, I asked myself

But where does that come from? Where does that stem from? What

is the root of this, let's go right to the core history, and

how that became the active dynamic, whether people were

aware of it or not, or if they were, and why they settled in

the place that they were at. And that is where I got great

insight, and help me navigate my own experience to the

interactions between the male and the female. And then so

before I go further into my insight and perspective on that,

was that a fair intro to how I got here with you today?

Oh, yes, like, exceeded my expectations. That's

Wow. So very observant child and very intelligent and sharp child

and, and noticing what's going on and yeah, describing it, like

I feel

I see, right now happening, like the huge gap between men and

women, lots of tension, lots of mixed messages.

Not so of suppressed emotions, lots of fear. And

this is why I, I'm Yeah, so incredibly excited to have you

talk about this, because I feel you can help us understand why

men would suppress their feelings so much, and how they

can

communicate more openly without fear of rejection and how women

can receive, I feel I want to hear from you. Like both

how women, you know, sometimes are a little bit too controlling

or too anxious, or too aggressive, sometimes passive

aggressive, and how we can help and heal

as the feminine part.

Right. So

our topic today is about Will you remind me, the specific

title or the overall broad, one statement, designation title for

this tongue, it would be suppressed masculinity, and how

we can heal as a group, how we can help men to

express themselves again, and to feel safe again, because I feel

suppression happens when we don't feel safe.

Thank you. And the reason that I asked for that description from

you, as far as the title of our topic today was just to kind of

recharge myself on my focus. So may I begin? Yes, please. Thank

you.

We're discussing this from the standpoint of the men. But as

you suggested, yes, it is very wise for us to bring up the

points from both sides of this polarity.

As above, so below,

we live in a dualistic reality, light and dark, hot and cold.

They're all they're in tandem with each other, for a purpose.

We have masculine we have feminine. Now, when we first

discussed this topic with each other in our introduction

meeting, we talked about the easel the the importance of

breaking down the gender association to the nature of our

human state. So in society, men will be designated as tough and

protector and warrior and thick skinned and their job is to

protect the herd and be the provider and then women in our

society are commonly the nurturer, gentle, the receptive

those definitely our core resignations of both the

masculine and the feminine, but it's not to say those same

qualities are not within both men and women equal. I am an

extreme nurturer. As a father, I'm very gentle. I am very

loving. I am very even fragile. As a woman, a woman is a

warrior. A woman is a protector. A woman is a provider. She will

safeguard the home in her own feminine way, and the man can

also nurture and love and cultivate as a creator.

The Home and the environment and the relationship. And so it's

good to just point out that our human state, our pure human

state, is we are all of these things each and every one of us

not to put a gender Association on. And that's one of the

greatest predominant illusions that have been coming into our

society from our history, that men will be considered weak, or

a weak link, or authentic, or they should be ashamed of

themselves. If they're having these feminine traits, you're

gonna cry, men don't cry, you're going to be vulnerable, men

aren't vulnerable, men have to be iron, and solid. And so that

just gets ingrained into the male psyche. And then again, the

topic of how women get raised and how they're supposed to be.

And then if a woman is tough, and strong, and independent, and

powerful, and, and by powerful, I mean, like, she is confident,

and she knows herself, they would call her tomboy, or even

go as far as to say, she's some type of a lesbian or something

like those have nothing to do with the gender identities,

those are the true power of the totality of all of our human

state. So now going back to the men, and the main point topic of

our discussion today, the history of men, because of this

illusionary

ideology, this this role that we have told ourselves, we had to

be could have come from a primal state, you know, if men were the

physically muscular, stronger species, they were the ones that

were sent to go out into the wilderness and defend off the

wild wolves or, you know, something of that nature. But,

you know, irrelevant to where it came from, you look at present

day to now in average Cultural Society across the world. And

this is not just my own experience, this has been in

conversation with many people. And as well as all of the

studies that I have done for all of my course training, men don't

show their vulnerable side, men are not open with their

emotions, because they're just not raised that way. They're not

raised that way by their fathers and their fathers are not raised

by their fathers. And so when you're in the Family Circle, as

you're growing up, you don't receive access to this side of

your masculinity, by your masculine role models, you don't

get it from your uncle, you don't get it from your masculine

male neighbor, you don't get it from random men, when you're

walking down the street, and or at the grocery store, you don't

get it from your grandfather, you don't get it from your

father, I do want to take a moment to pause and say, just to

note, this may not be true for every so for any listeners who

are hearing this and say, Well, I didn't grow up that way, I

grew up with a very nurturing, loving, soft, gentle,

vulnerable, open father. And I grew up with a mother who

nurtured his greatness and beauty and did not see him as a

sad, weak, emotional, feminine, not true, pure masculine. And

those two together, raise this child with true beauty. Because

that's available in this world that has happened in this world.

I did not come from that world. But now that I know these

things, I'm cultivating that within myself, for me and my

family. So I just wanted to note that any listener, I'm not going

to blanket the statement and say everybody is subject to these

things, but predominantly in the world that we live in. That is

the commonality that we are addressing today. So we can

usher in the new and the new is actually not new, the new has

already been we've just fortified and rehearsed

ourselves down a path that is no longer serving us, which is very

clear. It is unhealthy. And we're trying to move through

with this medicine. This medicine is the energy and the

connection that you and I are sharing today. And this medicine

we are granting to all of your listeners and everybody who goes

further and beyond us. So back to the topic. Men are raised to

be emotionally constipated. And I use that phrase because I saw

it in some movie, but it just makes perfect sense. They're not

taught to get in touch with their emotions. They're just not

they're suppressed them. And so they don't know what to do with

their emotions. When boys grow up, boys grow up to be

combative, and competitive and see each other as competition

and that's where they get their validation from each other. If

you win a trophy, then you're good. If you can wrestle, then

you're good if you can exhibit your strength, with the way

women get raise.

They're close. They're expressive. They're intimate,

they hug, they touch. They play with each other's hair, they

paint their toenails. Men don't do that. Men don't get that

affection and that nurture

mean and that intimacy from their male role models are from

the other males around them. Women get that from other women

all the time. And that's seen societally as perfectly fine.

But the minute a man shows up for a young boy in any intimate

encounter or affection encounter, and this doesn't have

to do with touch, but it can do with touch. It's conceived as

either pedophile yak or gay network, a homophobic fear comes

into play. And that's where those fears come in. And so,

wherever this stemmed from men, as fathers and parents and

uncles and grandparents shy away from their heart feelings toward

the younger male generation, and so as time progresses, the young

males grow up, not knowing what beautiful healthy male affection

looks like, what does beautiful healthy male touch look at it

being seen as sexual? Of course it can. If a man is holed or

let's say he's rubbing his son's chest for therapy, or rubbing

his arm or hugging or nuzzling his face into his shoulder, if a

man does that was his daughter, I see that there was a certain

point where some people are like, ooh, that touch is a

little creepy. Now, if that was never that fathers intent, it is

other people that will project that out there. And then with

that projection, whether the daughter or the father even are

thinking about it, they'll feel other people's projections, and

then they'll start second guessing themselves. And so

these projections come into our lives. And they affect our true

pure, beautiful, healthy nature with each other, our nurturing

our affection. Now, we also need to address the point of why

those fears are even there. Because those predatorial or

pedophilia, or sexual lusting encounters have happened in our

world, women have been raped and molested, and physically and

sexually abused by men in their life, whether it was from a

stranger, or a neighbor, or a father, or an uncle, or a

grandfather, those things have happened. I believe those things

have happened because those have come from men who didn't even

understand their own desires, and had no idea what they were

doing with their own loss or anything not to excuse them for

what they did. There is no excuse. But I'm only

acknowledging why it happened. Because they came from a lineage

of not knowing what to do with their passion, with their

energy, with what drew them toward the energy of those

women. Women, in my perspective, hold the power of love. Now, men

do too, but it's on a different energetic level, there we tap

into the masculine and the feminine. So a woman is the

womb, she is the living embodiment of creation of life,

she has the generation of her body to produce life, life is

love. She is a conduit, a producer, a factory of the

energy code of love, that's going to draw men to her. But

men who do not know these things will get drawn to the feminine

energy that they feel from the woman. And if they're not in

tune with their own cells, they will express it in these other

horrible manners, they will turn it into lust, they will turn

that energetic resignation toward the feminine love energy

from a very unhealthy, unaware, uneducated manner, because they

know not what they do. Because they were never raised to get in

tune with. Why is this energy that I'm feeling toward the

woman? Why is this attraction that I'm feeling toward the

woman? What is the beauty that I see with her, and then without

that knowledge, they go unchecked, and then it turns

into abuse? It turns into, I want a thing from you. And a lot

of times in our world, we also have been in the practice of

taking what we want, instead of offering someone to receive what

we're looking for. And this is a huge epidemic greater than coke.

This has been our human history that has not been addressed. And

so I'm very happy that we're addressing it to this day. So

how do we help men find the way? How do we help men get in tune

with what they're feeling? We're going to give them some soul

pineapple juice, and that's going to help them on constipate

their emotions and learn to get in touch with their emotions.

And in order to do that you have to go into your past to find out

how you were raised. What were you shown was acceptable, non

threatening, affectionate touch. I believe in one of your videos

you talked about boundaries

theories and how a child is supposed to compromise

themselves when the aunt wants to come and give, and then the

family members say, No, Johnny, you have to let Auntie give you

a kiss because she's your aunt. And she has that right? Well, we

just taught Johnny to compromise. We just taught

Johnny not to listen to what feels comfortable for him. And

we do this to each other. And so men and the male species who are

raised not to touch women, that it's bad not to look at a

woman's breasts or her figure or be curious about what her vagina

looks like. It's taboo, you don't do that that is sinful. So

you repress men from even being curious about it, to the point

where they should be ashamed about it. Now, they have no

knowledge of this. What in turn that does to the woman is when

the woman has been raised, she doesn't know how to empower

herself to know what safe

engagement is with men, because she's been denied that

interaction. She's no longer even receiving it. So now you

have boys that are being raised young men who are being raised,

that are taught not to think about women in an attractive

man, you know, like I like to say, looking at her feet,

features in her face in her eyes, and her hair and her whole

everything, her movement and her representation. It's the same as

looking at an eagle soaring through the sky, or a tiger

galloping through the jungle with grace and ease. They're

beautiful things. Why are we teaching ourselves not to look

at things that we find beautiful.

So we're raised that way. And men don't know how to approach

women, and women don't know how to be approached by men. And

then you fast forward onto the playground at school. And men do

what they do to women, what they are taught to do with boys, they

hit, they slap, they pull on bra strings, they pull hair, that's

what they are taught, and women are like you, why are you doing

that? To me, I don't like that. Because the boy doesn't know any

better. He does not know how women like to be approached, he

doesn't know what's healthy. And women don't know how to tell

boys, what's healthy, because they are never taught or

empowered as a young girl, what affectionate touch is from the

masculine? And how to empower the female, so to know what is

good for her? And how would she know because Uncle Johnny gets

to give you a hug because he's Uncle Johnny. So he has that

right. And now she's compromising herself. And if

she's not receiving affectionate, consensual touch

from her father, or from her uncle, or from her grandfather,

she has no idea what that even feels like for herself. So how

can she tell someone what she wants, and what she feels good

with, when she doesn't even know herself? It's a foreign world.

Now we're gonna go further into high school. Now the hormones

are kicking. Now the chemistry is changing. Now, it's not

turning into just attention from the opposite sex, or

companionship from the opposite sex or curiosity about the

opposite sets. Now it's turning into a desire for the opposite

sex. Now, boys and women start paying attention to the smell of

each other's pheromones, and the power of their eye gaze. And the

illustrious sensation from when their skin happens to graze upon

each other. Now it's doing something internally with them.

And now they're very curious. And now they're going to start

going against the grain of what they were told was taboo,

because there's that gravity there, there's that human nature

was in essence says no, this is supposed to be available for

you. You've been denied it by your predecessors, but your

curiosity will always win the day, as we know high school

works. That's how it is. So in high school, kids will find ways

to explore their world if they have to lie to mom and dad about

where they're going. Or if they find little pockets in their

day, some time on the schoolyard where they can hide under the

bleachers, or go in the bathroom. And then when you put

them in this environment, and they do not have a healthy

educated awareness of what is appropriate and available and

beneficial for the masculine and the feminine energy to

communicate with each other without crossing each other's

boundaries. What you're left with is men overstepping their

boundaries, and women letting their boundaries get overstep,

and none of them know the wiser. Now women are being taught, this

is how men will interact with me. And now the men are being

shown by these women allowing it to happen. This is how I

approach women and this is what they're allowing to happen to

them. And so then the man gets his way, the woman thinks that

is the way to let the man get his way. Because she is

attracted to him, and she wants to keep him in her life. She

wants to nourish it. And so she will allow herself to compromise

her boundaries, because she still desires to have attention

from him. And so her value on his attention is greater than

her value on her own self worth. But she doesn't even know she's

doing. Now we're going to fast forward through college.

And now you're in college and you're living away from your

parents. Now you started having the freedom to craft your

schedule, now you're dating more than you were in high school,

you may even have your own apartment, you may even start

seeing a man, but they're still stumbling around in the dark,

with that old habitual pattern of this is what men get to do to

women. And this is what women should allow men to do to them,

because they want to keep the attention. They want to keep the

relationship, but they're not discovering where their values

lie, and where they're compromising themselves, even in

relationships, who are still approaching their woman with the

right to their bodies, it is my right as your partner to have

access to your body. And women will shut down eventually, we've

heard it all. I can't do that tonight, honey, I have a

headache. I can't do that, you know, women will come up with

excuses to avoid it. That's not to say that they don't have good

sexual loving relationships. But have they cultivated it to the

point where they're actually honoring each other? Like when a

man is in the kitchen with his wife or his girlfriend, and

they're at some party or something? And he spanked her on

the butt? Do you even know she appreciates that? Have you ever

had that conversation? And has she ever told him not to do

that, sometimes those little small things happen, and we

don't pay attention. They're very subtle, they're very

slight. It is not how women want to be approached, but they've

never had the voice to say it in the voice that they usually come

out with is what you touched on earlier, where they become rigid

and cold. And then they turn the pendulum to the other direction.

Now, they don't even want a man in there. But that is not

because they don't want a man in their life. But it's only

because the historical man that has showed up in their life has

never been anything close to what she actually wanted. And so

her answer to her is I'm going to protect my sacred body, I'm

going to protect my sacred space. And that means I need to

cut the man out of my life. Now women have put up this giant

wall around that because they don't know how to be a powerful

woman, and teach men what the men don't know. Now, it's not a

woman's responsibility, especially if she's coming from

a place where no one taught her how to do that, and how to

intern teach the other men. It's both of our jobs, both men and

women to now we cultivate where we've been led wrong, where

we've been led astray, or how we weren't even led for that

matter. And we stumbled in the dark, to now Discover, How do we

show up for each other healthy? How do we show up for each other

compassionately, I do want my counterpart in my life. It

doesn't have to be just in a committed singular relationship,

I should be able to have feminine female counterparts in

my life on various aspects from friends, to sisters, to mothers,

to neighbors to female strangers, and do it in a

healthy manner, as well as a lover or a daughter or a niece.

Same with the women, they can have many male engagements in

their life. But when they're constantly being on slotted by

this ever flowing, almost drowning tidal wave of it always

going to a sexual level, women are just shutting down, they

don't want it anymore. And I love that. That is good, that is

healthy for our community for women to stand up and say

enough, no, we are no longer going to be your predator, you

are no longer your prey. So the masculine energy that has been

sweeping over the history of our species is now finally women are

empowering themselves to say if this is what it means, I do not

want that in my life, I would rather constantly be bombarded.

Now, going back.

It is our job

to learn where we need to show up for the women to allow them

to let down those borders to allow them to take off that arm.

But there is no way they're ever going to do it unless you show

them a man that is different. Unless you show them a man that

is what they actually deserve. I have become one of those men. It

is my nature to be one of those men. I'm honored to be one of

those men and many times in my female encounters. They're very

shy and hesitant to even believe that I am real they're just

waiting for me to spring the trap. Like he's saying all the

right stuff. He's touching my heart He's got me open I am

prostate laid out ready to go. But hell no, because I have all

the red flags because this is way too good to be true. And to

them. I say no, no, it is not too good to be true. It is true.

And if you deny yourself, the availability here, that is your

choice. That is how far your traumas have taken you and I am

not going to be one to push. I'm going to be so true that I'm

going to let you make your own path. I'm going to honor you

you, woman, and let you continue to live within your armor within

your borders. And if that is where you feel comfortable, and

that is where your life is destined to be, so be it. But

I'm going to still be here and be available for any moments in

your life when you think otherwise and show you a real

man, a man that you can hug a man that you can sit and talk

with a man that you can, girlfriends with. I'm going to

use a little expression girlfriends, because the power

of the girlfriend with each other is so beautiful. And I

remember growing up looking at that, and I was like, I want

that with women. why don't women girlfriend out with me? I want

to kick it some night and drink some wine and paint toenails and

watch movies and talk about all the things that we've

experienced in life together. Why don't I have access to this?

Why is it because I have a cock and a masculine body that I'm

excluded from this club. That looks so fun. And I watch them

laugh and dance and play and I'm like, I want that. Well I'm not

getting that from my male counterparts because men don't

do that men bro force out in a whole different manner. Now the

bro force energy is super awesome and the bro force energy

I've even seen some women looking at the row force energy

and be like, Well how come I don't get to bro force out with

the borough's they have so much fun and look at all the fun

they're having. And a lot of times, women will even look

jealous we men I've been in relationships where women get

jealous when I'm hanging out with my buddies, because they're

like, they feel left out in that place. Because they can't. But

it's like it's different energy. So we can build a bridge between

these divides. And we can share, who knows what they're doing,

who's aware of their emotions, who knows what their intentions

are, and literally honestly purely wants to create a space

where I see you, feminine goddess counterpart, I love your

feminine energy. I do not need to have sex with you, I would

love to be in relationship with you and let us share our

feminine and masculine energy together for just that sake, and

that alone. Now if in that interaction, those two wish to

go further with touch, they can go further with touch, and

affection and comfort still does not have to go into a sexual

arena. Sexual arena needs to be cut out of this equation. Many

times people misconstrue sex for love. Love is not sex.

I would like to take a pause for a moment because I want to

dovetail that off into another discovery that I have learned

about the difference between sex and love and why love is

misconstrued with sex. But before I do that, would you like

to say anything about what I've said up until this point?

Thank you so much.

I must say you are a pioneer. You are a pioneer. Because when

you just described how you would communicate with a woman and

behave around a woman, I felt my red flags coming up and not be

present on trust you but because there's so parts in me that I

need to hear. And it just made me aware that

yeah, you're doing the exact thing that that all the women

are dreaming of, and wishing for and then you are this energy,

you are this land. And all of a sudden they feel triggered. They

feel intimidated. Yes, scared.

But we need to keep doing this. We need to keep keep pushing for

this because this is the right path and and you will ignite and

stimulate healing.

And another thing I wanted to say is that we're soon going to

run out of time, and I would love to take you into a second

episode and talk there about love versus sex.

But yeah, if you want to add to what I just said, Please, please

don't hold back and then we will soon start wrapping up.

Excellent. Thank you for that cue. And yes, I did. So let's

turn a different episode. That other dovetail thought to what

you just said yes. I want to say why do the red flags come up?

When I'm presenting myself as the actual thing that a woman

would love to have in her life that does not have to go into a

committed relationship that does not have to go into a sexual

relationship but just to be a man in her life to let her

receive genuine, healthy loving masculine energy and to have

that friend in her life. The red flags come up because there are

men who do what I do, not necessarily the way that I do

it, but they give the woman the promise of safety and a safe

place. And they use that as a tactic to lure them in to do

exactly what I said, The woman is waiting for me to

do that, because they've learned, in order for them to

get what they want from a woman, they have to create that comfort

for her, they have to create that sense of being able to

release her tension and to open up and to feel safe. And so it

is that unfortunate history that we come from. That is a very

true thing. And that is why the women believe this guy has to be

too good to be true. There are women that I open up with that

fall in love with me that suddenly want to couple up with

me. And I have to pull them back and say, Okay, no, my dear, I

apologize. If you feel like our engagement is about to break

your heart. That was never my intention. And it is not where I

ever meant to go. And I made that clear many times. But

understand, it is not your heart that is breaking. If I don't

want to receive the offer of you saying you'd like to be in a

committed relationship with me. It is you feeling like you lost

something, but you're not going to lose something with me, I'm

not going to go away, just because we don't go into a

committed relationship. And just because we don't have a sexual

romantic, intimate relationship doesn't mean the love that you

feel from the connection that we just shared, will leave. And

that's where I want to teach people how to keep the sex. And

the committed relationship like you're my partner, and now we

own each other. I want to keep that out of this entire realm. I

just want to focus on how men can get in tune with their

masculinity on a very Knowledgeable, Wise, intentive

active level, to learn themselves, to show up for the

women to help the women show up for themselves so they can show

up back to the man. So it's a reciprocal energy. Really, I

know we're getting close to the close. And I want to sneak this

one in really quick. To me, a beautiful, loving, nurturing

woman looks like this. She's walking down the street, a man

cat calls at her Hey baby, like yo body, I want to get with

that. A benevolent, empowered goddess would walk up to that

man, and she would say, Oh, my goodness, thank you kind sir,

for the compliment. I appreciate that how well you see my beauty.

But let me tell you, your type of engagement does not feel

healthy to me. And I would love this an opportunity to show you

how I would love to be approached if you would like to

express your attraction to me. And if a woman did that to a

man, she would hit the brake on him. And he'd be like, Whoa,

wait, what? What's going on? No, I was just trying to be like,

no, no, no. And he would almost want to shrink away and she

would grab him and be like, No, you want to my attention. You

have it. Let me show you young child. I want to show you the

way. Let me show you the power of the woman. And then he'd be

like, I don't know what's happening here. And that is the

empowered woman who will have the comfortable and the

fearlessness to be like, oh, hell Oh, man. Let me show you

masculinity. Let me show you what healthy relationships look

like that is an empowered ask the world that I want to see.

Instead of a woman feeling like she needs to pull out her shield

and her sword and either run away or slice them across the

neck and kill her. Yes, yes. Oh my god. Thanks for making me

laugh so hard and, and for making it so yeah, like, easy to

understand and to see what's going on in our society, we can

finally put a finger on it, and learn where we can hear where we

can change, adapt, understand more, and I just love how you

put it into words. I love that. We connected here and I'm so

grateful for this episode, and very excited for the next one

about love and sexuality. Thank you so much.