If you look honestly at your life,
Speaker:you will see that the most fulfilling moments of your life are when you've just
Speaker:solved the problem for some other human being.
Speaker:I think we're designed to do that.
Speaker:You measure an individual by their most distant ends.
Speaker:Every human being, regardless of culture, age,
Speaker:gender, or sexuality,
Speaker:lives by a set of priorities, a set of values,
Speaker:things that are most to least important to them, individually, that are unique,
Speaker:which do evolve over time but at any one moment,
Speaker:there's a set that they live by,
Speaker:whenever they are pursuing
Speaker:what is most deeply meaningful, most important, what's highest on the value,
Speaker:what's highest in priority to them, they
Speaker:maximize their genius, creativity, innovation,
Speaker:and capacity for problem solving.
Speaker:So the first thing you want to write down is,
Speaker:that if you don't feel your day with the very highest priority
Speaker:action that you can do,
Speaker:you're going to decrease the probability of waking up the most innovative state
Speaker:of being.
Speaker:It is only in our highest value,
Speaker:the thing that is most important when we're in pursuit of it,
Speaker:that we are spontaneously inspired to act.
Speaker:Spontaneously inspired to solve the problems that we face.
Speaker:It is in that particular value system and that one alone
Speaker:that awakens the greatest potential in a human being.
Speaker:I've said many times that if you don't fill your day with the highest priority
Speaker:action that inspires you, your day fills up with lower,
Speaker:progressively lower priority distractions that don't.
Speaker:And when you're distracted by lower priority actions,
Speaker:your brain is somewhat multitaskingly scattered,
Speaker:and not able to be focused and disciplined and reliable to solve
Speaker:problems.
Speaker:When we're living according to highest priority, our blood,
Speaker:our glucose and our oxygen migrates into the forebrain
Speaker:where we have the greatest executive function for solving problems.
Speaker:The greatest ability to visualize options,
Speaker:mitigate risks, come up with solutions,
Speaker:navigate through the obstacles,
Speaker:and spontaneously take actions,
Speaker:executive actions without distractions.
Speaker:There's nerve fibers from the medial prefrontal cortex, the forebrain,
Speaker:that actually calm down distractive,
Speaker:cloudiness of the mind and calm down
Speaker:the amygdala and the lower subcortical areas,
Speaker:so you can be sharp and clear and focused and
Speaker:present with the challenges you face.
Speaker:And just like filling your day with high priority actions that inspire you,
Speaker:your day doesn't fill up with low priority distractions that don't.
Speaker:If you don't fill your day with challenges that inspire you,
Speaker:your day fills up with challenges that don't. And please write that,
Speaker:make sure you get that.
Speaker:If you don't fill your day with challenges that inspire you,
Speaker:you are designed to attract challenge that don't.
Speaker:When you're pursuing challenges that inspire you
Speaker:and you're in the forebrain,
Speaker:you create resilience, adaptability, and eustress,
Speaker:and you tend to see things as on the way, not in the way.
Speaker:You tend to see things as a way to an objective. Your
Speaker:highest value is your chief aim. It is your primary objective,
Speaker:it is your real mission in life and purpose in life.
Speaker:Your purpose in life revolves around your highest values, your identity,
Speaker:your authentic ontological identity revolves around your highest values.
Speaker:So by filling your day with the highest priority actions and pursuing
Speaker:challenges that you want to solve,
Speaker:particularly problems that make a difference in other
Speaker:be remunerated and rewarded economically for doing that.
Speaker:Imagine waking up your genius and getting paid to do that,
Speaker:and innovating something original.
Speaker:As long as we're in lower values and not our highest
Speaker:values,
Speaker:that is primarily a result of subordinating to outer authorities.
Speaker:The moment we meet somebody that we think is smarter than us,
Speaker:more successful than us, more financially viable than us,
Speaker:more stable in relationship than us,
Speaker:more socially savvy or connected or networked than us,
Speaker:more physically fit than us, more spiritually aware than us,
Speaker:the moment we perceive ourselves the underdog and are too humble to admit what
Speaker:we see in these people inside us,
Speaker:we will automatically diminish ourselves relative to them
Speaker:and values in life go from those who have most power to least power,
Speaker:so we'll tend to inject those values into our life that they hold,
Speaker:try to be somebody we're not, be inauthentic.
Speaker:Scatter ourselves with diffraction distraction,
Speaker:trying to be second at being them instead of being first at being us.
Speaker:And we become borrowed visionaries instead of an unborrowed visionary,
Speaker:and it's the unborrowed visionary that actually creates an original
Speaker:pathway, original thinking.
Speaker:Original thinking is a by-product of authenticity and
Speaker:pure reflective awareness. See,
Speaker:as long as we put people on pedestals and inject their values,
Speaker:we're going to want to try to be more like them. When we put people in pits,
Speaker:we want to try to get them to be more like us.
Speaker:And as long as our energy is futilely trying to be somebody we're not or trying
Speaker:to get others somebody they're not,
Speaker:all that energy is dissipated energy stopping us from being ourselves.
Speaker:And the magnificence of ourself is the secret to the unborrowed visionary.
Speaker:The unborrowed visionary is an original thinker that has the courage to
Speaker:not conform, but to go on and walk a path of original thinking.
Speaker:The gentleman that you know, from founder of apple, Steve Jobs,
Speaker:talked at Stanford University about, it's the misfits,
Speaker:it's the square pegs in round holes,
Speaker:it's the people that don't fit into the rest of society and don't conform
Speaker:and don't abide by traditions, conventions, and don't
Speaker:fathers, and preachers and teachers, and conventions,
Speaker:traditions and morays around them,
Speaker:but go within them and let the voice and the vision on the inside be louder than
Speaker:all those opinions on the outside.
Speaker:Those are the ones that activate their original thinking, their creativity.
Speaker:Because they're the only ones that give themselves permission to shine and not
Speaker:shrink and to stand out and not fit in and to be original,
Speaker:not subordinate to the tradition.
Speaker:Ernest Becker in his 'Denial of Death' wrote tremendously
Speaker:about the difference between the collective heroism and
Speaker:And it's the people that made the difference in history are the individual
Speaker:heroes, not the collective heroes.
Speaker:The collective hero's the person who fits into society and becomes respected by
Speaker:society because they fit in, not because they stand out.
Speaker:None of the Nobel prize winners, none of the Olympic medalists,
Speaker:none of the great leaders, none of the people that have set new standards,
Speaker:have been the ones that conformed.
Speaker:They're the ones that had the courage to walk and beat a drum that had been
Speaker:unbeaten and drummed before you might say.
Speaker:So it starts by living by your highest values because the second you live by
Speaker:your highest values, you give yourself permission to stand out.
Speaker:And the second you live by lower values, because you're unfulfilled,
Speaker:ou get your blood glucose and oxygen going into the
Speaker:hindbrain and the amygdala where you want to avoid pain and seek pleasure,
Speaker:so you're automatically now wanting to avoid rejection.
Speaker:And as long as you want to avoid rejection from people's opinions,
Speaker:then tradition of the past stays stagnant.
Speaker:Aristotle spent 20 years with Plato,
Speaker:from age 17 to 37.
Speaker:And some of his ideas stood the test of time,
Speaker:all the way to the time of Copernicus, centuries later,
Speaker:very few people had the courage to challenge him
Speaker:and many people were illiterate, they didn't have the courage to stand out,
Speaker:but Copernicus studying some of the heliocentristic of Philolaus and
Speaker:Aristarchus, the Pythagoreans and made observation,
Speaker:looked at some of the things that were coming in on the telescope.
Speaker:He started to realized, 'no,
Speaker:we have a heliocentric system' and became an original thinker,
Speaker:got ridiculed, violently opposed, challenged in some respects,
Speaker:had a new way of looking at it. It broke the boundary of thinking.
Speaker:Giordano Bruno was another original thinker. They burned him at the stake,
Speaker:but 400 years later, they honored him as a genius 400 years ahead of his time.
Speaker:You may not be appreciated while you're original thinking,
Speaker:you may be laughed at and ridiculed.
Speaker:I remember when I was 18 years old,
Speaker:I was driving to the beginning of where I was starting college at the time,
Speaker:trying to go back to school after being a high school dropout.
Speaker:And I was sometimes doing carpooling with this other gentleman who was an
Speaker:engineer and he had a dream of creating magnetic trains.
Speaker:This was back in 1973.
Speaker:He used to draw magnetic trains.
Speaker:And we used to talk in the front seat as we're going to school,
Speaker:that his dream was to create magnetic trains. He drew them, he drew the tracks,
Speaker:he was amazing artist too.
Speaker:And I told him that I wanted to travel the world and teach.
Speaker:And we were enthused about our dreams at the time.
Speaker:And one day we picked up another guy who caught a carpool with us,
Speaker:and when we told him some of the things we were working on, he laughed.
Speaker:He said, 'You come from a small town. You know, you're not educated.
Speaker:Don't have fantasies, don't have expectations,
Speaker:He ridiculed, he kind of condemned.
Speaker:He didn't understand the meaning that we both had for our dreams.
Speaker:He hadn't found his.
Speaker:And people of mediocrity always pick on people that stand out.
Speaker:And that was 1973. Just a few years ago,
Speaker:I was doing a live presentation
Speaker:and on one of our social media blogs that gentlemen who had not
Speaker:ever seen since, got online and made an announcement,
Speaker:'By the way, I'm a friend of Dr. Demartini. I used to carpool with him.'
Speaker:And then underneath that, he said, 'You friggin did it.
Speaker:You friggin did.'
Speaker:He basically was saying that I never thought you would actually pursue it and
Speaker:stay with it. When you're living by your highest values,
Speaker:your space and time horizons grow, you achieve,
Speaker:you're disciplined, reliable, and focused. You see things on the way,
Speaker:not in a way.
Speaker:And you embrace the pains and pleasures in the pursuit of that which is
Speaker:purposeful to you. And you give yourself permission, because,
Speaker:in that area, the way your brain is set up,
Speaker:it has a filtering and gating mechanism in the thalamus,
Speaker:the pulmonary nuclei,
Speaker:that makes sure that you filter out of all of your reality,
Speaker:every bit of information that helps you fulfill that highest value.
Speaker:So you're going to excel in the highest value.
Speaker:That is where you're going to actually do the most powerful accomplishment.
Speaker:And in the process of doing that,
Speaker:you're going to expand your space and time horizons.
Speaker:If you can expand your space and time horizons by achieving and setting a bigger
Speaker:goal and achieving and setting a bigger goal,
Speaker:you'll eventually set a goal that's beyond your own life.
Speaker:You wake up your legacy, immortality you might say,
Speaker:as Heraclitus described in sixth century BC, century BC almost.
Speaker:Giving yourself permission to shine, not shrink,
Speaker:giving yourself permission to walk an unborrowed visionary's pathway,
Speaker:giving yourself permission to find a problem, a challenge,
Speaker:that really deeply means something to you that you're inspired to pursue,
Speaker:that you can't wait to get up in the morning and work on, will guarantee,
Speaker:not only your legacy, your immortality, but an original idea.
Speaker:And to be crucified means you're on purpose. To be great means you're on,
Speaker:to be great is to be misunderstood,
Speaker:to be ridiculed and violently opposed until your evidence is so
Speaker:evident to people then claim that they have known you and believed in you the
Speaker:whole time, because you've turned them around and created a culture.
Speaker:We can follow cultures or we can build a culture.
Speaker:People who live by the lower values are followers.
Speaker:They're like the animals avoiding pain and seeking pleasure,
Speaker:trying to fit into the herd for protection.
Speaker:But it's the executives,
Speaker:it's the angels inside us that have a celestial view that see
Speaker:beyond the moralities of hypocrisy,
Speaker:and give themselves permission to go after something profoundly impactful on the
Speaker:planet, because they want to make a difference.
Speaker:I was speaking in a prison in South Africa,
Speaker:Krugersdorp prison many years ago, probably 14 years now. And
Speaker:I asked a thousand inmates in maximum security position,
Speaker:three stories underground in orange uniforms,
Speaker:'How many of you want to make a difference?' In a billionth of a second,
Speaker:every hand went up.
Speaker:No matter what they'd been through and no matter what they're going through,
Speaker:these people are 25 years to life sentences,
Speaker:they still want to make a difference, every one of them.
Speaker:It's innate within us to express our authenticity.
Speaker:We may not know the strategies or the skills to do it,
Speaker:but I can tell you that living by priority is the secret.
Speaker:Living by the highest priority action is one of the keys to mastering your life.
Speaker:But giving yourself permission to go after what's really priority and focusing
Speaker:on what's really the most important thing in your life and sticking to priority.
Speaker:If you ask yourself,
Speaker:what is the highest priority action I can do today that will serve the greatest
Speaker:number of people with the resources you have today,
Speaker:in the most effective and efficient manner,
Speaker:and do that on a daily basis and stick to the highest priority actions and
Speaker:discover the highest priorities of the highest priorities of the highest
Speaker:priorities, you will automatically initiate that unborrowed visionary.
Speaker:That one that has the courage. Courage means one from the heart.
Speaker:Because when you're living authentically, you're living in your heart,
Speaker:you're doing what you love. You're inspired by it. You
Speaker:When you stop and think of a little boy who loves his video games,
Speaker:the second he conquers a video game, he loves it so much,
Speaker:it's highest on his values,
Speaker:he immediately wants to go and tackle a new challenge.
Speaker:He wants another video game that's more advanced.
Speaker:And the second you go and you go after what's really important to you,
Speaker:you're not running from challenge, you're seeking challenges.
Speaker:Leaders pursue challenges that inspire them.
Speaker:And it's the challenges that inspire that wakes up genius.
Speaker:I wrote a little booklet many years ago on awakening genius.
Speaker:And that was one thing I found consistent that it's the individuals that were
Speaker:waked up their genius, awakened their genius,
Speaker:are the individuals that pursue something so deeply meaningful.
Speaker:Some of the Nobel prize winners, they worked for 30, 40, 50,
Speaker:and 60 years trying to solve a problem.
Speaker:They had something so deeply meaningful to them that they wanted to solve that
Speaker:made a difference in the planet, a big problem, that they kept pursuing it.
Speaker:And the key is to go and fill your day with priority.
Speaker:That's where you're going to solve the problems the most.
Speaker:That's where you're going to be the innovation. Your entire physiology,
Speaker:your entire psychology,
Speaker:even the sociological feedback and the theological feedback you have in your
Speaker:life, are all trying to get you to that authentic state,
Speaker:where you maximize your potential and awareness.
Speaker:And maximizing your awareness and potential in your
Speaker:is the key to waking up the solutions to the problems in the world.
Speaker:And there's no end to the problems. The second you solve a problem,
Speaker:there'll be a new problem.
Speaker:And it's the individuals that love solving problems that awaken their genius and
Speaker:wake up their innovation.
Speaker:So the wisest thing I can tell you to do is to take whatever you're experiencing
Speaker:in your sensory awareness, and ask,
Speaker:how is it helping you fulfill what's highest on your value?
Speaker:And everything you're doing in your motor actions,
Speaker:what is the highest priority I can be doing?
Speaker:If you prioritize your motor actions and your prioritize your sensory
Speaker:perceptions and get everything on the way to your highest value, your mission,
Speaker:your purpose, your identity, your authentic self,
Speaker:I'm absolutely certain you're going to maximize your creativity, your genius,
Speaker:and your problem solving capacities.
Speaker:And you're not going to do it just for your own problems,
Speaker:because you're measured,
Speaker:your real impact to the world is based on the problems you solve.
Speaker:If you saw problems in yourself, that's one level. If you do it in your family,
Speaker:that's another, if you do it in the community, that's another, a state,
Speaker:a city, a state, a nation.
Speaker:But if you go after global problems and astronomical problems,
Speaker:you leave a legacy, you leave an astronomical effect.
Speaker:And you're giving yourself permission to actually do that is the key to making a
Speaker:massive difference. It's also the key to financial rewards.
Speaker:Every country that I've traveled in,
Speaker:I've asked how many people have ever used Microsoft windows,
Speaker:almost every hand in every country, by the thousands, put their hand up.
Speaker:No wonder there. Look at the Apple phone.
Speaker:You see people in every country using the Apple phone.
Speaker:Because somebody solved a problem that people needed a solution for,
Speaker:and they became billionaires.
Speaker:Your rewards economic in life are a reflection of problems you solve.
Speaker:So the question you want to ask is,
Speaker:what is the biggest problem that is so deeply meaningful,
Speaker:that you would love to dedicate your life to solving? Find that thing.
Speaker:My highest value is teaching.
Speaker:So any problems in human behavior is the things I love solving.
Speaker:Any solutions for human behavior I work on.
Speaker:Find that thing that is absolutely inspiring to you, that you want to solve.
Speaker:Find that direction that is most meaningful.
Speaker:Go on my Demartini website,
Speaker:drdemartini.com go and do the Value Determination process, it's complimentary,
Speaker:it's free, it's private.
Speaker:And go determine what your real highest value is and answer it honestly,
Speaker:don't write down answers and aren't really true.
Speaker:Don't write anything but what your life demonstrates.
Speaker:Don't write what you think it should be, ought to be, or supposed to be,
Speaker:by some outside authority. Look at what your life demonstrates.
Speaker:Find out the target, where it's focused,
Speaker:and then fill your day with the highest priority actions to fulfill that.
Speaker:And then ask yourself,
Speaker:what is the biggest problem you want to solve on the planet?
Speaker:Give yourself permission to be a solution, not the problem,
Speaker:a solution to the world.
Speaker:Because I guarantee you that inside you is the capacity to solve massive
Speaker:problems. But you've got to give yourself permission to do it.
Speaker:If you meet somebody that you think has done an extraordinary thing,
Speaker:and it's massively creative, you can also sit down and write down,
Speaker:what exactly is the specific traits, the actions, the inactions,
Speaker:that they display or demonstrate that you admire most about their creativity?
Speaker:And then go and dig inside yourself, since nothing's missing inside you,
Speaker:look inside yourself for what you see in them.
Speaker:You're not missing what they have, but it's in the area of your highest values,
Speaker:just like it was in the area of their highest values. If
Speaker:you try to do it and be creative in their area,
Speaker:you may not be as fulfilled because it's not your highest value necessarily.
Speaker:But unless it is, if it is, then fantastic.
Speaker:But if you find somebody that you think is extraordinary creative,
Speaker:and then you go find out what are the character traits you see in them and go
Speaker:look inside them and wake those in you. I assure you nothing's missing in you.
Speaker:I've been doing this exercise for years. Nothing's missing in you.
Speaker:You just think it's missing in you.
Speaker:And the thing you think is missing in you is the things you're too proud or too
Speaker:humble to admit you have that you see in other people.
Speaker:The moment you own all that,
Speaker:is the moment you get to stand on their shoulders, not in their shadows,
Speaker:and believe in your own ability to speak out. You know, public speaking,
Speaker:one of the biggest fears that people have is fear of public speaking.
Speaker:But you really don't have the fear of public speaking.
Speaker:You speak to people in public all day long.
Speaker:But the second you're in front of a group of people that you think are smarter
Speaker:than you, or more success than you, or have more wealth than you,
Speaker:or have more empowerment in any of those seven areas of life than you,
Speaker:you're going to shrink, you're going to have a fear of speaking up,
Speaker:because you're going to worry about their opinion of you and how you are in
Speaker:relative to them. We're not here to compare ourselves to others.
Speaker:We're here to compare our daily actions to our highest values.
Speaker:That's how we maximize our genius. That's how we get gold medals.
Speaker:That's how we solve problems and get the Nobel prize.
Speaker:Because we're not doing a comparison of others. We're taking other people,
Speaker:owning the traits of them, and then leveling the playing field,
Speaker:so there's no need to put them on pedestals or pits.
Speaker:There's simply just a realization that they're a colleague on a journey of
Speaker:solving problems according to their values and our, doing ours,
Speaker:according to our values. The moment we give ourselves permission to do that,
Speaker:we'll stand out, not fit in, we'll rise and not fall,
Speaker:and we'll end up having unborrowed vision.
Speaker:So I'm absolutely certain that you have the capacity to do something
Speaker:extraordinary and solve massive problems in the world.
Speaker:You just haven't given yourself permission to do it. Right now think about that.
Speaker:Tonight, meditate on that. Get a little pad of paper out,
Speaker:or get your phone or whatever, and think,
Speaker:what are the problems in the world that I would love to solve?
Speaker:Find the one that's meaningful.
Speaker:People who are living in their lower values and down in their amygdala want to
Speaker:avoid problems, they want an easy life, but I guarantee you,
Speaker:the second you go towards an easy life and try to avoid problems,
Speaker:you attract problems you don't want. And that causes distress and illness,
Speaker:and pro inflammation in your body.
Speaker:But the second you're pursuing challenges that inspire you,
Speaker:you don't have to attract the challenges that don't.
Speaker:And in your highest values you look forward to challenges to solve.
Speaker:It's in your lower values you try to avoid them.
Speaker:You will never be creative and innovative and original thinking in your
Speaker:amygdala, trying to avoid problems and seek the easy route,
Speaker:because you're just going to go to the easiest path.
Speaker:It's the innovator that's going out there that's willing to walk the path that
Speaker:unique, blaze a new trail,
Speaker:start a conflagration you might say in your city with an enthusiastic
Speaker:pursuit of solving a problem that nobody's been willing to do.
Speaker:I wanted to do that when it came to grief, since 1984.
Speaker:I found a solution dealing with grief that I can guarantee a result in three
Speaker:hours or less, I can dissolve any grief. I've yet to have it not work.
Speaker:I worked on that to solve that problem.
Speaker:There's no reason to have that problem anymore on this planet.
Speaker:And that's because I had a dream to go and solve that problem.
Speaker:Find inside you what's deeply meaningful that is a problem,
Speaker:that serve vast numbers of people if you solve it,
Speaker:and structure it and package it,
Speaker:and you possibly could be the next Bill Gates or,
Speaker:you know, person from Apple, Steve Jobs or whatever.
Speaker:You could be the next person that has a vast fortune and a vast opportunity to
Speaker:serve vast numbers of people. You got to give yourself permission to do it.
Speaker:There's nothing missing in you. So whatever you see in them,
Speaker:you have inside you.
Speaker:So I just wanted to take a few moments to talk about creativity and genius.
Speaker:And today I know we had a couple of little distractions,
Speaker:but that's part of the game. We just go forward on.
Speaker:Just know that no matter what happens on your life, see it on the way,
Speaker:it'll keep you focused on priority,
Speaker:where you're going to maximize your creativity.
Speaker:Now that's just one of your powers in life, your creative genius,
Speaker:there's many others.
Speaker:And right now I just let you know that after this little talk,
Speaker:I want you to know about a masterclass that I'm giving, that I've given out,
Speaker:it's an online masterclass. It's Accessing Your Greatest Powers.
Speaker:And it's a way of happening, not just creative genius,
Speaker:but taking all of the seven powers, building business, building wealth,
Speaker:building relationships, building social influence,
Speaker:building health and wellbeing, building inspiration.
Speaker:It's Accessing Your 7 Greatest Powers.
Speaker:And today you can get by signing up for this little class,
Speaker:you can actually get a free gift called Awakening Your Astronomical Vision.
Speaker:And that's about giving yourself permission to play
Speaker:You have the capacity to do a global,
Speaker:global influence from an astronomical vision,
Speaker:but you probably won't do it unless you know the tools and I assure you,
Speaker:living by your highest priorities is one of the secrets. So grab the free gift,
Speaker:come to the masterclass, learn how to empower all seven,
Speaker:Accessing Your 7 Greatest Powers,
Speaker:and let's go and take our genius and let's go solve problems.
Speaker:If you look honestly at your life,
Speaker:you will see that the most fulfilling moments of your life are when you just
Speaker:solved the problem for some other human being.
Speaker:I think we're designed to do that.
Speaker:You measure an individual by their most distant ends. How big a vision,
Speaker:how big a problem did they solve,
Speaker:that'll tell you the life that they get to live.
Speaker:So I just wanted to share a few moments on taking your creativity,
Speaker:your innovation, your problem solving capacities to the next level.
Speaker:And please take advantage of this masterclass on Accessing Your 7
Speaker:Greatest Powers and the free gift, Awakening Your Astronomical Vision.
Speaker:And I look forward to seeing you next week on the next webinar.
Speaker:Each week we give just a little tidbit,
Speaker:a little message on how to maximize your awareness and potential in life,
Speaker:so you can go do something extraordinary with your life.
Speaker:I set out to master my life when I was 18 years old,
Speaker:I love sharing ideas that can help you do it. And I love seeing you do that.
Speaker:So let let us know on your feedback from the classes,
Speaker:take advantage of the free class, of the free or the gift,
Speaker:and grab the class and I'll see you next week.