Hello, and welcome to the Borealis experience. I'm

your host Aurora, life coach and companion on this beautiful

journey called life. And I'm very, very happy to be spending

a couple minutes with you. Sharing your presence sharing

your time is getting more and more rare to experience among

people, you always have your phone close by, there's always a

next distraction. It is endlessly precious, she can

spend undivided attention and presence with another person. So

I deeply appreciate my time with you here because whenever I

speak with you, I'm just there 100% Nothing else is important.

Nothing else can. Yeah, get my attention. So I hope you can

feel the love, I hope you can feel the appreciation and

respect that I feel for you. Thank you so much for being

here. And for allowing me to do this work. It is my heart's

calling that I'm following. And I hope I can bring you value and

goodness into your life. Today, I want to talk about your inner

beast, conquering your inner beast and I posted a video on

Facebook today where I talked about why is it that we are our

worst enemy. When it comes to reaching our goals and

fulfilling our dreams. There seems to be some something,

manipulating sabotaging you. There seems to be resistance,

there seems to be a disbelief that you deserve the goodness

and your life that you are hoping for. And where does that

come from? What can we do about it? You know, I think we're all

born as level geniuses. You know, we, within a couple

months, know how to talk and walk. Some take longer time than

others. But we earn all learned so incredibly fast. When we're

little every day we we learn to use our body in a different way

we discover something new. And it's just fascinating when you

observe a little baby how fast they comprehend something. And

how they express themselves, how they do not care what's

happening around them. They're just shining their light. And I

imagine yourself fast forward as an adult, reaching your goals

with just as much dedication and willpower than when you first

started to walk. When you first learned how to make a couple of

steps. Do you remember that you kept falling and sometimes you

might even you know hit yourself and hurt yourself a little

because you tried so hard, but you just kept trying. There was

something inside of you that was stronger than wanting to give up

because you failed a couple of times

I find it's fascinating how in how much self hate Some people

live. They look into the mirror and they don't like what they

see.

They get into their clothing in the morning and they just don't

like their body. They go for a walk maybe on their way to work

and they absolutely hate their thoughts is so destructive they

so annoying. Those thoughts? Where does that all start? I

think it starts with beliefs that we have about ourselves and

conclusions sorry that we've made about ourselves. You know,

some people, I don't know. Remember deep pain deep heard

from kindergarten still. And they made conclusions back then

then that, yeah, they're not enough. Yeah, they're chubby and

not really good at basketball. So the never going to be good at

any sport. But it is exactly those people who one day

overcame these self destructive beliefs, and then became a golf

pro, bad as a musician, or a scientist or a magician. You

have to look at yourself, and you have to find out who you

are, what are you made off, and the destructive beliefs that you

have about yourself, trust me, they will come up whenever you

set yourself a goal, whenever you're trying to dream about

something or want to change your lifestyle or habits, it is

exactly those beliefs that are going to come up. And those are

the ones that we need to address. It is with little

habits, that we can change how we think, especially how we

think about ourselves. And at the beginning, it will feel like

a chore, it would feel like homework that you have to do.

But with time your self image will change. With time you will

learn to like yourself more. And that is absolutely necessary to

reach your goals and get closer to your dreams. Because trust

me, if now in a situation. If you find yourself in a situation

where you don't feel deserving, where you don't feel 100%

yourself, where you believe that you don't deserve the goodness

of the world, if all of a sudden your dream was to come true. You

would not be able to reach out to it, you will not be able to

embrace it. If for instance, you are single, and it's painful for

you, and you're just so desperate, and you want to have

a family one day, and you want to get started somewhere with

dating, but you just can't find that person. Imagine that person

standing in front of you right now. Home oh my god, your mind

would go crazy. Yeah, you'd be excited. Yeah, you'd be like,

Oh, my God, like I can't believe this is happening to me. And

then it would start to go into this fear driven, destructive

mode, where you would end up rejecting the very dream that

you were trying to attract into your life. For so long. Work on

your readiness. pretend as if your dream was realized already.

Make the space and time for a partner in your life. Make the

space and time to find out what your dream job would look like.

And how you would present yourself there. How you would

feel working in that field, and what you would accomplish with

it. When you would come home at night, from your dream job. How

would you feel what would you tell your partner? What would

you tell your friends, your parents? You have to start right

now to work through your limiting beliefs. And you have

to start surrounding yourself with people who have either

reached your goals already that you have or similar goals and

try to see how their brain works and get really curious and

interested in how they start their day for instance. And you

have to surround yourself with people that have no or very few

limiting beliefs. Right sometimes we attach to people

because oh yeah, but my friend from 35 years ago, he's been my

good buddy for so long. And of course I'm gonna ask him for

advice. or my mom who's, you know, been studying English and

French for the whole, whole last year? And was her teacher all

her life? Of course, I'm gonna ask her for entrepreneur

questions. No, no, you have to pick and choose people,

sometimes even outside of your circle who can serve you and

help you out. You have to reach higher, and you have to reach

beyond your comfort zone. Right, it is not within your comfort

zone that you're going to reach your goals, you have to stretch

your comfort zone. If not leave it once and for all, maybe your

comfort zone is not your best friend. Maybe it just keeps you

stuck in a mode where, yes, it feels like you know what you're

doing, and it feels comfortable, but only because it's known only

because it's happy to, but not because it makes you happy. Stop

hiding and start living with integrity. Engage in habits each

day that are in alignment with reaching your goals. If you

don't do this, you're not going to get any closer. Watch videos

that inspire you listen to podcasts that empower you.

Engage with people that you can learn from, be a student. And

don't stop and think that you're not worth it. Your purpose, your

dream, your goal has to be way stronger than the your limiting

beliefs and your self doubt. Think of that child that is

learning to walk and that keeps falling but keeps trying that

strong. And transit intrinsic willpower. That unstoppable

pneus that awesomeness. A baby doesn't look into the mirror and

thinks, oh my god, I look ugly today. A baby rejoices me every

time it sees itself. And you can learn from that baby. And be

happy about who you are. untangle yourself from the

limiting beliefs from the conclusions that you've made

about yourself. We have to start working there. We have to start

finding out what is holding you back. Life is so precious. And

life is finit. You know, it's going to end one day. And I want

you to be proud of yourself. When you lay on your deathbed. I

want you to look back and see every person that you've

touched, you know, on a soul level, every person that you

supported and helped out and they put person that you made

smile. I want you to think of all the little goals that you've

accomplished. I want you to think of all the beautiful

countries that you've traveled to. I want you to think of all

the beautiful moments that you had and full presence with loved

ones. You're not going to be thinking about who hurt you, or

how much money you made. You will think about who you have

led down and I don't want you to know and feel that you let

yourself down. I want you to wake up every morning and be

excited to be alive. Be excited about the dreams that you will

one day reach

reaching your goals getting closer to your dreams has

nothing to do with exhausting yourself and burning yourself

out. It is a journey of liberation. It is a journey back

to yourself back to the person that you once were before you

got scared before you felt shame and guilt. Thank you so much for

being here with me. I will be out there very soon again. Take

good care of yourself. And if you have any requests when it

comes to podcast episode topics, never hold back to shoot me a

message on Facebook and I will make sure to make it into an

episode for you. All right. Bye bye