this is part of also why I'm like, I just love
Amy Lykosh:entrepreneurs and business people because there often is such a.
Amy Lykosh:An internal drive to say, I'm, I'm trying something new.
Amy Lykosh:I'm going in a new direction.
Amy Lykosh:I'm not actually willing to just accept the status quo.
Amy Lykosh:And they're often just a little bit more interesting, right?
Amy Lykosh:Oh,
Tim Winders:Are you ready to unlock the power of prayer in every Aspect of your
Tim Winders:life, including the workplace today on seat, go create the leadership journey.
Tim Winders:We welcome Amy Lykos, the executive director of workplace prayer.
Tim Winders:She has a passion for intertwining prayer and leadership.
Tim Winders:After reconnecting with prayer and experiencing its transformative
Tim Winders:power firsthand, Amy has dedicated her life to guiding others in
Tim Winders:nurturing their spiritual journeys.
Tim Winders:From overseeing a dynamic workplace prayer movement to managing complexities of cool
Tim Winders:stuff like homeschooling and homeopathy, Amy's story is a testament to the enduring
Tim Winders:strength and guidance that prayer brings.
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Tim Winders:Before I brought our guest on.
Tim Winders:So Amy, welcome to Seek, Go, Create.
Amy Lykosh:Thank you, that was a beautiful introduction.
Tim Winders:So, Amy, we have just met, we've got a great connector
Tim Winders:in Sabrina that connected us.
Tim Winders:I always honor and love whoever Sabrina connects me with.
Tim Winders:But, Let's do a little bit of a pretend.
Tim Winders:I don't know.
Tim Winders:I was trying to say where we are, maybe an airport.
Tim Winders:We sort of bumping each other in an airport.
Tim Winders:I just recently flew this last week and we're just chit chatting.
Tim Winders:And you know, I find out you're in Virginia.
Tim Winders:You find out something.
Tim Winders:I say, Amy, do you do, what's your answer when someone asks you that question?
Amy Lykosh:I say, I pray for businesses and there's usually a little bit of a
Amy Lykosh:pause and then people are like, wait.
Amy Lykosh:Wait, what?
Amy Lykosh:So I pray for businesses.
Amy Lykosh:That is my privilege.
Amy Lykosh:My joy.
Amy Lykosh:And my full time job.
Tim Winders:so, all right, good.
Tim Winders:That's cool.
Tim Winders:Because we can kind of dive into that right away because my followup would be.
Tim Winders:Oh, okay.
Tim Winders:You know, I'm a prayer guy.
Tim Winders:I believe in prayer.
Tim Winders:I'm also a business guy praying
Tim Winders:for businesses.
Tim Winders:I've never really heard that.
Tim Winders:Tell me more.
Amy Lykosh:Oh, yeah, thank you.
Amy Lykosh:So, probably the best place to start is my own journey, which my parents were
Amy Lykosh:on missions, they were involved with the missions movement on staff with
Amy Lykosh:the missions agency in the late 1980s.
Amy Lykosh:And so every day they had staff meeting and they would pray.
Amy Lykosh:And at some point they realized that the second reason why people
Amy Lykosh:went home from the mission field was because, they, didn't know what to
Amy Lykosh:do with their children for education.
Amy Lykosh:And so my parents thought, well, we can help with that.
Amy Lykosh:The number one reason was because they didn't get along with their team members.
Amy Lykosh:Not much you can do about that one.
Amy Lykosh:But in terms of educating, they said we can help with that.
Amy Lykosh:So they developed a homeschool curriculum and that did allow missionaries to stay
Amy Lykosh:on the field one more day, one more year.
Amy Lykosh:But the great thing was they thought we really liked having prayer.
Amy Lykosh:And so let's do that with our own business.
Amy Lykosh:And so they always allowed space for the staff to come together
Amy Lykosh:and have morning prayer time.
Amy Lykosh:And so for 30 years, that was their thing.
Amy Lykosh:They started in 1990.
Amy Lykosh:And then by 2020, there were certain things that when I looked
Amy Lykosh:at the business, I thought we are just not getting breakthrough.
Amy Lykosh:We've seen so many beautiful Answers to prayer over the years,
Amy Lykosh:miracles, just the Lord's provision.
Amy Lykosh:So precious, but there were places where I just thought, Oh, if
Amy Lykosh:I knew better how to pray more effectively, I feel like I would have.
Amy Lykosh:Just maybe these places would get breakthrough more quickly.
Amy Lykosh:I felt a little bit like I was trying to water a football field with a garden hose.
Amy Lykosh:And I thought I either need something more like a fireman's hose, or I need
Amy Lykosh:a sprinkler system, or I need some rain from heaven, but I just need
Amy Lykosh:something that's a little stronger.
Amy Lykosh:And so at that point, I went looking for people to help either
Amy Lykosh:teach me how to pray better.
Amy Lykosh:That was kind of my first option.
Amy Lykosh:Let me find out more how to do it effectively.
Amy Lykosh:But then I also thought if there was actually somebody out there
Amy Lykosh:who knows more and would just pray, I would really like that too.
Amy Lykosh:That proved to be.
Amy Lykosh:Surprisingly difficult to find people.
Amy Lykosh:And so when I finally found someone, I was like, well, hallelujah, let's try this.
Amy Lykosh:And so my parents hired him.
Amy Lykosh:And the third day I sent him a text at 11 PM and I said, We have
Amy Lykosh:had 10 answered prayers today.
Amy Lykosh:I could not even believe it.
Amy Lykosh:And it wasn't like I had sent him the list of my top 1, 000, It was
Amy Lykosh:more just things that I had been watching for and paying attention.
Amy Lykosh:And so, When I said that we've had 10 answered pros today, I was expecting
Amy Lykosh:a response like that's fantastic.
Amy Lykosh:And instead I got an answer back that said, let's go for a dozen.
Amy Lykosh:And I remember looking at my phone, like, who is this person?
Amy Lykosh:Like, he's not content with 10.
Amy Lykosh:He wants a dozen.
Amy Lykosh:And it's 11 PM at night and he clearly really believes that prayer works.
Amy Lykosh:And so that was my initial introduction day three to, Bob Perry.
Amy Lykosh:And by the middle of the month, I was like, I've got to do this with you.
Amy Lykosh:This is the most exciting thing.
Amy Lykosh:Cause we did hit a dozen that day and we never hit less than a
Amy Lykosh:dozen for the rest of the month.
Amy Lykosh:There were days we had two dozen.
Amy Lykosh:I mean, I truly was like.
Amy Lykosh:This is incredible.
Amy Lykosh:And I already thought that prayer worked.
Amy Lykosh:So it became, now I was like a very, very committed to this idea.
Tim Winders:that is pretty awesome.
Tim Winders:I'm sitting here.
Tim Winders:This is what's going through my mind.
Tim Winders:I want to keep going down that path, but I also like to get
Tim Winders:people's background and story.
Tim Winders:So I think what I'm going to do is I'm going to put a comma right there
Tim Winders:at what you just said, and we're going to come back to that shortly.
Tim Winders:But I kind of first want to ask like a bigger picture question.
Tim Winders:And, and that
Tim Winders:in your opinion,
Amy Lykosh:Thank
Tim Winders:why do we not spend time In prayer.
Tim Winders:I mean, for those that are believers, I mean, listen, and someone's
Tim Winders:probably gotten this far, even in this episode, it's not like they're
Tim Winders:trying to figure out, you know, what are they talking about right now?
Tim Winders:It's probably even the title and stuff is probably going to be okay.
Tim Winders:This has something to do, but, but what would be, what would be
Tim Winders:some reasons why we don't do this?
Tim Winders:Because what you just said, it seems like, well, why wouldn't we, but why don't we?
Amy Lykosh:Yeah, that's a beautiful question and it's one that I would
Amy Lykosh:say my mom who founded the business, and she said at one point, she's like,
Amy Lykosh:Amy, I was the head of the prayer committee, or not the committee, but
Amy Lykosh:like the small group that met at church.
Amy Lykosh:She said, I did that for years and we would meet every Wednesday and I had my
Amy Lykosh:list of things I wanted to pray about.
Amy Lykosh:And she said, but business was never on the list.
Amy Lykosh:Like I was praying for the single moms and the homeschooling moms and the
Amy Lykosh:children as they went off to school.
Amy Lykosh:And I was praying for the pastors and like there was, we felt
Amy Lykosh:like we covered everything.
Amy Lykosh:But she also said, you know, when I'm praying at the front of the
Amy Lykosh:church during, you know, after service, sometimes churches have
Amy Lykosh:people who can come up for prayer.
Amy Lykosh:She said, I never had anybody come and ask me for prayer for
Amy Lykosh:their business except once.
Amy Lykosh:And he was trying to sell.
Amy Lykosh:And so when we bought the name for our URL, workplaceprayer.
Amy Lykosh:com.
Amy Lykosh:It was the minimum bid and it, I mean, that was a gift to us, you know,
Amy Lykosh:like, Oh, hooray, we saved money.
Amy Lykosh:But there was another part of us that like, I literally cried about this for
Amy Lykosh:a month because I thought, Lord, that means that nobody is looking for that.
Amy Lykosh:You know, I had gone looking for a name for a reading program for
Amy Lykosh:the homeschool curriculum and they're like the top thousand that
Amy Lykosh:I looked for, it worked all taken.
Amy Lykosh:And so I, the way, the best way I can describe it is that it feels a
Amy Lykosh:little bit like there's a black hole.
Amy Lykosh:Around business and prayer that there's, that there's just actually,
Amy Lykosh:nobody is really thinking about this.
Amy Lykosh:It's almost like here's this place where business owners
Amy Lykosh:are so precious to God's heart.
Amy Lykosh:they're the ones who are creating, they're not just business owners,
Amy Lykosh:but people who are in business, they're offering something to the
Amy Lykosh:world that is solving a problem and they're creating value for people.
Amy Lykosh:And it's so precious.
Amy Lykosh:Like this is so much a part of God's heart.
Amy Lykosh:And yet, I don't know if there's a part where we're just maybe a little
Amy Lykosh:bit embarrassed, like probably God doesn't really care about that.
Amy Lykosh:but I think for whatever reason, we just really don't think about it as
Amy Lykosh:something that is worthy of prayer.
Amy Lykosh:And so I don't know if I have a better answer for you than it's
Amy Lykosh:kind of a mystery to me too.
Tim Winders:it's interesting.
Tim Winders:And I may not be the right guy to bring up the paradigms because I
Tim Winders:was saved in a business setting.
Tim Winders:out in church world and I've always been business guy, partially because
Tim Winders:of of greed and pursuit of money.
Tim Winders:We won't get into that here.
Tim Winders:That's a whole nother story.
Tim Winders:But truthfully, I think that might be why there may not be prayer in business.
Tim Winders:We've kind of in our first world christian americanized culture We've
Tim Winders:sort of I think programmed people and i'm going to say this and then you could
Tim Winders:comment I think we've programmed people to Not bring that filthy mammon talk
Tim Winders:Into our church Which then also says well probably I don't need to bring it
Tim Winders:into my prayer time thoughts on that
Amy Lykosh:yeah, I think that's a really good observation.
Amy Lykosh:I mean, it's interesting because obviously Jesus does say, you
Amy Lykosh:cannot serve both God and mammon.
Amy Lykosh:On the other hand, you know, when you think about it, if the Bible begins in
Amy Lykosh:a garden and it ends in a city, which in some ways there's a lot of organized
Amy Lykosh:gardens, there's a lot of organization and administration and building
Amy Lykosh:things and creating that is necessary.
Amy Lykosh:And so there's an element where I'm like, no, we, we actually want to
Amy Lykosh:be praying for our cities, for our businesses, for all of the things
Amy Lykosh:that are producing and that, that, that the Lord actually has solutions.
Amy Lykosh:So I guess one of the ways that.
Amy Lykosh:For me, maybe, like, this is probably one of the most deeply convicting
Amy Lykosh:moments that I've had as an adult.
Amy Lykosh:I was going to a conference and I ended up, the Uber was driving me through the
Amy Lykosh:streets of the Bronx at like 1am because the flight had been really delayed.
Amy Lykosh:And we were driving through the projects and it was just, Not, you
Amy Lykosh:know, it was just not my favorite environment and we passed a little
Amy Lykosh:strip mall and it had a bunch of, how would I put this chain restaurants?
Amy Lykosh:So I don't remember what it was, but you can imagine Taco
Amy Lykosh:Bell or Pizza Hut or something.
Amy Lykosh:And I know enough about nutrition and such that I had this kind of internal reviling,
Amy Lykosh:like, Whoa, Lord, it's not even food.
Amy Lykosh:And basically what the Lord said to me was, Do not ever condemn
Amy Lykosh:those again, because there were children who went to bed with
Amy Lykosh:full stomachs because those exist.
Amy Lykosh:And there's this part where I was like, we need to actually be bringing solutions.
Amy Lykosh:Like the world brings solutions and it actually does feed children.
Amy Lykosh:But we, as people who love Jesus, should be solving problems that are large, and so
Amy Lykosh:there's an element even with that where I don't know that that's exactly answering
Amy Lykosh:your question, but it's like if we could combine the beauty of business and problem
Amy Lykosh:solving and bring kingdom solutions, God's solutions to those places, I think
Amy Lykosh:what an amazing transformation process.
Tim Winders:No, I think that ties Together.
Tim Winders:Well, because it goes to something, I'll bring this up and
Tim Winders:get your thoughts on this too.
Tim Winders:I've been doing a lot of study into Middle Eastern culture that
Tim Winders:most of our scriptures and our Bible and everything comes from.
Tim Winders:And many times I'm wondering if we're missing it because we don't understand
Tim Winders:that culture because we're really products of what I call the Greco Roman culture and
Tim Winders:we segment and compartmentalize everything and we judge and all that kind of stuff.
Tim Winders:but I do wonder.
Tim Winders:If, because we're so compartmentalized, we've compartmentalized our business life
Tim Winders:so far away from our walk with the Lord, that it becomes more uncomfortable to have
Tim Winders:a conversation like you and I are having than to someone were to say, we would be
Tim Winders:shocked if they said they didn't pray.
Tim Winders:For their business.
Tim Winders:You know what I mean?
Tim Winders:That would be like, if we were in the Jewish
Tim Winders:culture or the Middle Eastern culture, they would probably be wondering why
Tim Winders:the heck are y'all having a podcast episode about praying in the workplace.
Amy Lykosh:Yeah.
Amy Lykosh:No, that's a really good question.
Amy Lykosh:You know, I've heard that the word in Hebrew for work
Amy Lykosh:is the same as for worship.
Amy Lykosh:And so there's such a beautiful connection, I guess, that yeah, in
Amy Lykosh:the Hebrew mind, I think that would be, there's not really a divide.
Tim Winders:Yeah.
Tim Winders:I mean, it's all together.
Tim Winders:It's one.
Tim Winders:and I think we still try to segment off our Sunday life, our
Tim Winders:Monday life, our work finances and all types of things like that.
Tim Winders:And you know what?
Tim Winders:I just had this vision
Tim Winders:of.
Tim Winders:Jesus in a statement that, and this is to me a business answer to probably a prayer.
Tim Winders:It's cast your nets on the other side of the boat.
Tim Winders:I,
Tim Winders:I just got off the phone with a client where we were talking
Tim Winders:their strategies and all, which is kind of what I do with people.
Tim Winders:And, you know, should we cast it on this side of the net
Tim Winders:or the other side of the net?
Tim Winders:And that's could have been a direct answer to prayer.
Tim Winders:So anyway, all right.
Tim Winders:So those are some big picture things, but Amy, you've got so many things
Tim Winders:that popped up like about Amy.
Tim Winders:I'm going to mention a few and then I'm going to kind of do rapid fire.
Tim Winders:And then you could respond to any of these.
Tim Winders:Homeschooling.
Tim Winders:We homeschooled our kids.
Tim Winders:They're grown.
Tim Winders:Homeschooling is obviously a big deal.
Tim Winders:If it's written on your bio, it's got to be a passion.
Tim Winders:Homeopathy.
Tim Winders:I can't show the camera right now, but I haven't taken any type of
Tim Winders:pharmaceutical in a long time.
Tim Winders:My wife, I don't understand it all, but she gives me things when I say I've got
Tim Winders:a little bit of congestion, whatever.
Tim Winders:So homeopathy is big deal for us.
Tim Winders:But probably the biggest one that was kind of like a little exclamation point
Tim Winders:at the end of your bio was that for four and a half years, you lived in
Tim Winders:200 and something square feet, which my wife and I, for the last five and
Tim Winders:a half have lived in this motor coach.
Tim Winders:Tell me more about Amy
Amy Lykosh:Oh, well, thank you.
Amy Lykosh:yeah, so I did grow up in a homeschooling family and then of course, my parents
Amy Lykosh:started the homeschooling business.
Amy Lykosh:homeschooling was kind of a non negotiable when we got married
Amy Lykosh:and then, so we have five boys.
Amy Lykosh:They're not entirely grown, but my oldest is 22 and my youngest is 10.
Amy Lykosh:So I feel like I've been doing homeschooling for a long time
Amy Lykosh:and I have some years yet to go.
Amy Lykosh:I love homeschooling.
Amy Lykosh:I also love homeopathy because I also felt like, when my children were young,
Amy Lykosh:I remember when they would get sick, the only option that I had to feed them was.
Amy Lykosh:You know, like cherry syrup NyQuil, and I thought, you know, I never give them
Amy Lykosh:artificial colors or flavors at all in their normal life, so why, why am I doing
Amy Lykosh:this when they're sick, and so around that time, I was probably preparing
Amy Lykosh:for a home birth, and the midwife said something like, homeopathy has no side
Amy Lykosh:effects, and you can take it from before the child is born all the way until
Amy Lykosh:your dying day, and it's just wonderful.
Amy Lykosh:And I, the, it's a little more nuanced than that.
Amy Lykosh:That's kind of like a very basic level understanding, but
Amy Lykosh:I thought, okay, that's amazing.
Amy Lykosh:And so I did actually go to school and get my two year, certificate.
Amy Lykosh:I did not ever go through,
Amy Lykosh:sitting for the boards.
Amy Lykosh:Instead had kind of a hard right turn into prayer, even before praying for
Amy Lykosh:business, I felt like, Oh, there's, there's other things I'm supposed to do
Amy Lykosh:in the realm of prayer, but I had really asked the Lord to make me a healer.
Amy Lykosh:And so I thought, you know, I'm not going to go to med school.
Amy Lykosh:I don't want to be that kind of a healer.
Amy Lykosh:So homeopathy seemed like a reasonable way to be a healer in other ways.
Amy Lykosh:But yeah, in terms of living in 224 square feet, we lived in a construction trailer,
Amy Lykosh:eight by 28 for four and a half years.
Amy Lykosh:And the story behind that is that we were very normal, very
Amy Lykosh:happy people living in Boulder.
Amy Lykosh:My husband was a forensic structural engineer, somebody who is a building
Amy Lykosh:doctor, basically, he would go and design repairs for that.
Amy Lykosh:And I was happily working with my parents and doing homeschooling.
Amy Lykosh:And there was a day I was walking down the street with all of my boys, probably
Amy Lykosh:dog on the leash around my waist.
Amy Lykosh:And, I felt like the Lord said, go start a farm.
Amy Lykosh:And I was not in the habit of hearing from the Lord.
Amy Lykosh:That was a very unusual event.
Amy Lykosh:So I thought, oh, well, that was kind of unusual.
Amy Lykosh:Went about my day, didn't particularly think a whole lot more of it other
Amy Lykosh:than just like, oh, interesting.
Amy Lykosh:And then my husband came home and he had been on an engineering job up in
Amy Lykosh:the mountains and he walked in and he said, I think the Lord said that
Amy Lykosh:we're supposed to move to a farm.
Amy Lykosh:And I was like, Oh, well, I heard that today too.
Amy Lykosh:So I guess we better do it.
Amy Lykosh:So then we ended up looking around the country for places where there was land
Amy Lykosh:and water, because although Boulder is very beautiful, it is also very
Amy Lykosh:dry and very pricey if you want land.
Amy Lykosh:And so we ended up.
Amy Lykosh:Settling in central Virginia and it was unimproved land.
Amy Lykosh:We opted to get as much land as possible, which I will just say, I believe that
Amy Lykosh:was the Lord's guidance, but it was not necessarily the easier option.
Amy Lykosh:And so we lived in a construction trailer for 4.
Amy Lykosh:5 years and tried to start a farm.
Amy Lykosh:Tried to, anyway.
Amy Lykosh:we were faithful to the call . So thank you for asking.
Tim Winders:Maybe my thought that comes to my mind is how did that end?
Tim Winders:How did you transition because I don't think you're still there
Tim Winders:What was the transition because you're still in Virginia, correct?
Amy Lykosh:Yeah, so that's also a beautiful question.
Amy Lykosh:So we did not move off the land.
Amy Lykosh:Part of what happened is that we, we were both very capable, very
Amy Lykosh:energetic people, and so when we moved to land and everything died.
Amy Lykosh:It's like not just the first year, everything died like year after year.
Amy Lykosh:And finally I went to my husband, I said, I can't live under the curse this much.
Amy Lykosh:Like I, or like this close to the curse.
Amy Lykosh:So in Genesis, when Adam and Eve fell, like there's just a curse and things die.
Amy Lykosh:And I just said, I, Emotionally, I cannot handle this.
Amy Lykosh:And after another year or two of kind of valiantly going on by himself, he's just
Amy Lykosh:not somebody who likes working alone.
Amy Lykosh:So he's like, okay, maybe I will be done too.
Amy Lykosh:So we still live on the land.
Amy Lykosh:I think for me, part of what that did is really press into prayer.
Amy Lykosh:Like, Lord, why did you call us to do that?
Amy Lykosh:If.
Amy Lykosh:It was all just going to fail.
Amy Lykosh:That wasn't very nice.
Amy Lykosh:and I think for my husband, he kind of got a new direction.
Amy Lykosh:He does still do some engineering work on the side, but he has a tree service
Amy Lykosh:business now that he runs with some friends and employs several of our sons.
Amy Lykosh:So if all that it was, was that the Lord moved us to central
Amy Lykosh:Virginia, that would have been okay.
Amy Lykosh:On my birthday this year, the Lord gave me a gift.
Amy Lykosh:So this is now 14 years after we moved to the land.
Amy Lykosh:And, I periodically, I just kind of ask him like that
Amy Lykosh:really wasn't very nice Lord.
Amy Lykosh:You know, why, why did you invite us to move to land?
Amy Lykosh:But it was really not going to be very good.
Amy Lykosh:And, he is so funny.
Amy Lykosh:He said to me, Hey, Amy, what was the call?
Amy Lykosh:And I was like, you asked us to like, you, you asked me to start a farm and
Amy Lykosh:you told Phil to move to a farm and Lord was like, well, did you do it?
Amy Lykosh:And I was like, yeah, and he was kind of like, okay, so you had it built up in
Amy Lykosh:your mind that it was going to be like successful farm and really profitable.
Amy Lykosh:And that just wasn't my invitation.
Amy Lykosh:So, anyway, I'm very, very thankful for where we are.
Amy Lykosh:It was not the easiest road to get.
Tim Winders:I mean, yeah some of that stuff is it's it's hard work
Tim Winders:I mean my wife we're in an RV But yet she has a garden because where
Tim Winders:we hang out some in the summer.
Tim Winders:There's a community garden here You And, I'm the laborer and I
Tim Winders:water and, but man, it's hard work.
Tim Winders:And it's just a little patch that's barely, I mean, we're over to my left
Tim Winders:right here, there's one, two, three, four, five stacks of things where
Tim Winders:she's been canning here in our RV and harvesting her crops But it's interesting.
Tim Winders:I want to go back to something.
Tim Winders:Cause this is, I think this is a problem.
Tim Winders:Prayer question or a listening question or a hearing question or something like that.
Tim Winders:Isn't it interesting how we try to fill in the gaps.
Tim Winders:you got an instruction and it seemed like it was a very clear instruction.
Tim Winders:Go live on the land, start a farm or something to that effect.
Tim Winders:But then you started filling in all the gaps of what you expected it to look like.
Tim Winders:And this is how it ends.
Tim Winders:And part of our underlying theme here is redefining success.
Tim Winders:And a lot of it goes back to that.
Tim Winders:you probably had success and your husband had success and maybe even
Tim Winders:the kids and the way you even said it.
Tim Winders:almost is like you feel as if it wasn't a success, but God's got
Tim Winders:you right where He wanted you.
Tim Winders:It's just maybe it looked a little different.
Amy Lykosh:Yes.
Amy Lykosh:Redefining success.
Amy Lykosh:That, that would be a conversation I have had with the Lord regularly because.
Amy Lykosh:And, you know, he's very kind, right?
Amy Lykosh:But there will be times where I'm like, I am an efficient person.
Amy Lykosh:I like things to get done.
Amy Lykosh:Can we please just go straight and stop all of this curving?
Amy Lykosh:And, so we were having this conversation because I also know that Just because
Amy Lykosh:it's the shortest distance that sometimes if you're going up a mountain,
Amy Lykosh:you actually want the switchbacks.
Amy Lykosh:It makes it easier.
Amy Lykosh:And I was like, okay, I can receive that Lord.
Amy Lykosh:That's fine.
Amy Lykosh:You know, I'm still maybe not like the most, like I'm
Amy Lykosh:loving this conversation Lord.
Amy Lykosh:And all of a sudden he was like, yeah, but also sometimes there are quantum leaps.
Amy Lykosh:And I was like, touché touché.
Amy Lykosh:Yes.
Amy Lykosh:And so just that sense of like, You think that this is the shortest
Amy Lykosh:distance, but the Lord has actually sometimes these just like, I'm not
Amy Lykosh:going to say magical, but things at the quantum level kind of are magical.
Amy Lykosh:So, anyway, I like the idea of redefining success because it is, It isn't
Amy Lykosh:exactly what you would always think.
Amy Lykosh:So,
Tim Winders:so,
Tim Winders:so one would hear, and again, my lifestyle is, is similar.
Tim Winders:We have similar story.
Tim Winders:One, one might hear things like homeschool, homeopathy, living
Tim Winders:in small space, you know, hearing from the Lord, things like that.
Tim Winders:And they might use the word.
Tim Winders:That's not very traditional or normal.
Tim Winders:They could also use the word weird.
Tim Winders:They could say that because a lot of, I mean, I remember in the nineties,
Tim Winders:having both my parents who were educators and we decided to homeschool.
Tim Winders:It was a very heated conversation.
Tim Winders:It sounds like you came, you were in that environment anyway, but.
Tim Winders:If someone, this is, I'm sort of egging you a little bit.
Tim Winders:If someone were to say, yeah, that's some weird stuff.
Tim Winders:Homeschooling and non pharmaceutical homeopathy healing and prayer and
Tim Winders:business, it's like, man, you got some weird stuff going on, Amy.
Tim Winders:How, I just said it.
Tim Winders:So how do you respond to me?
Amy Lykosh:Well, this is so funny that you asked me that.
Amy Lykosh:I was actually having a conversation with the Lord about this pretty
Amy Lykosh:recently also, because I was like, Lord, your servants are very odd.
Amy Lykosh:They're just weird people.
Amy Lykosh:And he said, yeah, I mean, it's true.
Amy Lykosh:And I said, well, does it have to be like that?
Amy Lykosh:I mean, at some point can we, be like just on the normal end of
Amy Lykosh:weird and not like super weird?
Amy Lykosh:I would be okay with that.
Amy Lykosh:and he said the beautiful thing about people who are weird is
Amy Lykosh:that, the beautiful thing about my followers is that they are willing
Amy Lykosh:to do things that most people don't.
Amy Lykosh:They're willing to push into new territories in different ways.
Amy Lykosh:And when I think if you look at the scriptures, the people who were really
Amy Lykosh:following the Lord were not necessarily the ones who would have fit in.
Amy Lykosh:I think he just has a lot of pleasure in the people who are a little bit more
Amy Lykosh:on the fringe, we could say, but it's also, I just feel like he has such a
Amy Lykosh:heart of compassion really for everyone.
Amy Lykosh:But this is part of also why I'm like, I just love entrepreneurs and business
Amy Lykosh:people because there often is such a.
Amy Lykosh:An internal drive to say, I'm, I'm trying something new.
Amy Lykosh:I'm going in a new direction.
Amy Lykosh:I'm not actually willing to just accept the status quo.
Amy Lykosh:And they're often just a little bit more interesting, right?
Amy Lykosh:I love that sense of always after the next thing or pursuing
Amy Lykosh:something else that's interesting.
Tim Winders:again, this is.
Tim Winders:From one weird to another weird.
Tim Winders:I mean,
Tim Winders:we live in it.
Tim Winders:We live, yeah.
Tim Winders:And it's like, which then means, are we that weird?
Tim Winders:If there's multiples that can talk about similar topics that we'll call it culture.
Tim Winders:The word I use is Babylon, just so you know.
Amy Lykosh:Okay, that's
Tim Winders:and kingdom is
Tim Winders:another word I'll use is where I, I reside
Tim Winders:or spend most of my time, even though that we're still operating in and
Tim Winders:around a Babylonian structure also.
Tim Winders:But I, I do sort of embrace it.
Tim Winders:And at times I wonder
Tim Winders:if I embrace it with a little bit too much glee and pride.
Amy Lykosh:I would say I try not to think about me too much because that's
Amy Lykosh:kind of like a never ending rabbit hole.
Amy Lykosh:So I probably am more like, I really just want to be where the Lord has me.
Amy Lykosh:And I think it's, I'm probably in a season right now where the verse that
Amy Lykosh:comes to mind again and again, speaking of Babylon, is when Jeremiah writes to
Amy Lykosh:the early exiles, because in the book of Jeremiah the Babylonians come and kind
Amy Lykosh:of take away the cream of the crop, but they leave some semblance of a structure.
Amy Lykosh:And then, Foolishly, they rebel and then the Babylonians are like, your time
Amy Lykosh:is done and they wipe everybody out.
Amy Lykosh:But in that interim period, the people who had already been carried off to Babylon
Amy Lykosh:were kind of like, why are we here?
Amy Lykosh:We want to go back to Jerusalem.
Amy Lykosh:That's where our home is.
Amy Lykosh:And Jeremiah writes to them.
Amy Lykosh:And he was like, no, like you're going to be there a while, stay there, settle down.
Amy Lykosh:Plant your fields and crops.
Amy Lykosh:And then he says, pray for the peace of the city and the word
Amy Lykosh:peace, it's the word Shalom.
Amy Lykosh:So it's like, pray for the wellbeing, pray for the wholeness of the city,
Amy Lykosh:because in its peace and its wholeness and its wellbeing, you find your peace,
Amy Lykosh:your wholeness or your wellbeing.
Amy Lykosh:And so I, for me, that sits really well because it allows me to be like, kind of
Amy Lykosh:like the people of Judah who were carried into, captivity and are living in Babylon.
Amy Lykosh:They get to be the odd ones, but they're also, they're not
Amy Lykosh:hating on the Babylonians.
Amy Lykosh:They're not like, these are awful people, stay away.
Amy Lykosh:It's like, no, I'm actually wanting really good things for you too.
Amy Lykosh:So I don't know if that's exactly answering your question, but I would
Amy Lykosh:say that for me is the helpful place of both being in the Babylonian
Amy Lykosh:culture, but also saying that I get to merge to my own drummer.
Tim Winders:The reason I love that response is that the Lord was speaking
Tim Winders:something similar to me a few days ago in my quiet time out behind the RV.
Tim Winders:We've got a sitting area out back and I'll go out early in the morning and like
Tim Winders:we're apt to do, we'll ask questions like, Lord, what would you have me to do today?
Tim Winders:What would different things like that?
Tim Winders:And, and I felt as if this was the way it was worded to me.
Tim Winders:And it sounds similar to what you said was that you are pursuing after my piece.
Tim Winders:And, and I'm, I've been exposed recently.
Tim Winders:There's a lot of new clients and businesses that I'm going in by the way.
Tim Winders:I'm an engineer from Georgia tech.
Tim Winders:So maybe it, it, it helps.
Tim Winders:I don't know.
Tim Winders:and, and I felt that the Lord said, you're going into places
Tim Winders:and you're bringing my peace.
Tim Winders:And, and, I received that.
Tim Winders:I don't understand totally.
Tim Winders:And I'm, you know, I'm just, I know that I'm supposed to go in
Tim Winders:and, you know, maybe pray more.
Tim Winders:Is what I'm probably going to be learning in this conversation or, or,
Tim Winders:you know, introducing prayer more.
Tim Winders:and so that really leads to a couple of things before we kind of go deep into
Tim Winders:how are you praying within businesses?
Tim Winders:And you notice, I
Tim Winders:notice, I continue teasing people that we're going to probably
Tim Winders:do that towards the end here.
Tim Winders:I, I have noticed.
Tim Winders:I have a personality.
Tim Winders:I don't want to say it makes it difficult for me to pray.
Tim Winders:That doesn't sound good, but I'm wired to be an entrepreneur.
Tim Winders:I'm a business guy and usually go is my mode.
Tim Winders:There's a reason that we're titled seek go create.
Tim Winders:There's a reason for that.
Tim Winders:Do you find that a lot of people, I don't want to say they aren't wired to
Tim Winders:just sit down and be quiet and still and commune or talk or listen or whatever.
Tim Winders:Tell me more about that.
Tim Winders:And then I'm going to go ahead and telegraph.
Tim Winders:My follow up question is how have you developed.
Tim Winders:That or have you always been that way?
Tim Winders:So However, you want to address that that's where i'd like
Tim Winders:for us to go for a few minutes
Amy Lykosh:So first of all, you're not odd.
Amy Lykosh:I was reading C.
Amy Lykosh:Peter Wagner's book, Prayer Shield and C.
Amy Lykosh:Peter Wagner, probably he was a professor.
Amy Lykosh:I think he was at Fuller in Southern California and he
Amy Lykosh:basically studied how people prayed.
Amy Lykosh:And what he found was that in any given church body, somewhere between five
Amy Lykosh:and 10 percent were the praying people.
Amy Lykosh:And everybody else was.
Amy Lykosh:just kind of like normal people.
Amy Lykosh:And then he did a survey of, you know, like, how many minutes a day do you pray?
Amy Lykosh:I think maybe he just surveyed pastors actually.
Amy Lykosh:So it could be like the highest level of holiness here.
Amy Lykosh:said very tongue in cheek, but basically most of the people were like, maybe
Amy Lykosh:18 minutes was kind of the average.
Amy Lykosh:And which meant that there were some people who are praying longer and a
Amy Lykosh:lot who are not praying even 18 minutes and basically what he said was, he
Amy Lykosh:made a very beautiful argument for why prayer or intercession is probably
Amy Lykosh:one of the gifts of the spirit.
Amy Lykosh:His basic argument was.
Amy Lykosh:because Paul has a list of different spiritual gifts in different locations
Amy Lykosh:in the scriptures and they don't always overlap and they're kind of some places
Amy Lykosh:there is some overlap and there is not it was kind of like there's just gifts and so
Amy Lykosh:prayer certainly could be one of the gifts of the spirit so if you're not willing
Amy Lykosh:to go there that is extra scriptural so it's You don't have to follow
Amy Lykosh:Peter Wagner in that line of thought, but basically, he was like, we don't try to
Amy Lykosh:make everybody be pastors, you know, there is a pastoral gift, and so then to say,
Amy Lykosh:well, if there's a prayer gift, it doesn't mean that we don't all pray, just like if
Amy Lykosh:a pastor's thing is to shepherd and guide.
Amy Lykosh:Like we are, as parents, we want to be shepherding and guiding and pastoring.
Amy Lykosh:And that way our children, but it doesn't mean that that's our
Amy Lykosh:role in the larger body of Christ.
Amy Lykosh:Just like, you know, there's some people evangelists, they will
Amy Lykosh:go and like the sky cap, who's helping them with their luggage.
Amy Lykosh:Like they lead them to the Lord.
Amy Lykosh:It takes them 15 seconds.
Amy Lykosh:And you're like, well, that would be amazing.
Amy Lykosh:That just isn't my gift.
Amy Lykosh:And so to be able to say, you know what, It doesn't mean that we
Amy Lykosh:don't ever talk about our faith.
Amy Lykosh:It just means we don't have the gift of evangelism.
Amy Lykosh:So with prayer, I feel like Oh no, like everybody should, we should pray.
Amy Lykosh:We should talk to the Lord.
Amy Lykosh:That's part of what we're supposed to do, but to say, I just actually
Amy Lykosh:don't feel compelled to spend an hour with him every day that like,
Amy Lykosh:please be at peace with that.
Amy Lykosh:That's actually pretty normal.
Amy Lykosh:And
Amy Lykosh:it was for me as a prayer person, like an hour a day by
Amy Lykosh:myself is kind of my minimum.
Amy Lykosh:if I don't get that, I start to get a little bit edgy It
Amy Lykosh:was hilarious to me to read C.
Amy Lykosh:Peter Wagner's description of his first time trying to pray for an hour, you
Amy Lykosh:know, where it was like, I was really in it as, as deeply as I could be.
Amy Lykosh:And then, you know, he maybe even said that it was like worse than watching
Amy Lykosh:his wife in labor, just like, woe is me.
Amy Lykosh:This is really, really hard.
Amy Lykosh:So I guess.
Amy Lykosh:Anybody who finds it difficult to pray, especially for a
Amy Lykosh:long time, just be at peace.
Amy Lykosh:So that's the first thing.
Amy Lykosh:And then you also asked, how did I develop my own prayer capability?
Amy Lykosh:And that's a really beautiful question.
Amy Lykosh:I would say there's a very long backstory because I did step away
Amy Lykosh:from prayer for eight years because it completely freaked me out.
Amy Lykosh:but once the Lord called me back to prayer, I basically just said,
Amy Lykosh:I'm going to, my goal is to pray more this month than last month.
Amy Lykosh:And so if I was praying, you know, a few minutes a day, then I wanted to
Amy Lykosh:just pray like a few more minutes a day.
Amy Lykosh:And then at some point I kind of just like fell into the pool and
Amy Lykosh:was like, well, here I just am.
Amy Lykosh:But, it really started with just saying, I'm going to be
Amy Lykosh:intentional and just start praying.
Amy Lykosh:Slow and a little bit and be okay with even a little bit and not beat
Amy Lykosh:myself up that it's not an hour that I'm not on a silent retreat all day.
Amy Lykosh:Like I was a nun like that's okay.
Tim Winders:Well, what's interesting about it?
Tim Winders:Just there's a name that came to my mind john michael talbot that we interviewed
Amy Lykosh:Mm hmm.
Tim Winders:A number of months
Tim Winders:back.
Tim Winders:Yeah, and he's
Tim Winders:um, he lives he's not a monk, but he lives a monastic Life is what he
Tim Winders:talks about and he just Literally slight exaggeration, but he talked
Tim Winders:about just being days You in prayer.
Tim Winders:And, I appreciated it.
Tim Winders:I just couldn't quite imagine it.
Tim Winders:I mean, he invited me, he said, Hey, you got your RV come hang out with us here
Tim Winders:at our, you know, our, our place here.
Tim Winders:And, you know, you could, you know, join up and everything.
Tim Winders:I'm like going, yeah, okay.
Tim Winders:Like it was a beautiful conversation just about being still and quiet for long.
Tim Winders:Periods of time.
Tim Winders:I, one more sort of background ish question, Amy, you'd mentioned
Tim Winders:kind of missionary growing up.
Tim Winders:You had mentioned, I think your parents had business and all of that.
Tim Winders:When, when were you trying to think of exactly how I want to
Tim Winders:drill down on this question?
Tim Winders:When did you become aware of You mentioned it at the beginning, but give me an
Tim Winders:age or a, or a situation or something that you sort of became aware of, like,
Tim Winders:okay, there's something bigger than me.
Tim Winders:And, and, you know, I joke with people, you weren't saved at birth because
Tim Winders:you were a missionary, were you?
Tim Winders:That's pathology, by the way, I'm not.
Amy Lykosh:It is bad theology
Amy Lykosh:So because I did grow up in a very beautiful godly family and I guess
Amy Lykosh:I For me, what I would say is when I was five, I went up to the upper bunk
Amy Lykosh:and I just laid on the bunk and said, God, I can't do it by myself anymore.
Amy Lykosh:Please help.
Amy Lykosh:And so for me, that was kind of my moment, I guess, of coming to the Lord.
Amy Lykosh:But of course, the walk with God is not ever a moment.
Amy Lykosh:It's like, that's the beginning.
Amy Lykosh:And then you just walk with the Lord.
Amy Lykosh:So, I've had very beautiful mentors along the way who've helped guide
Amy Lykosh:and, shape and inform my life,
Amy Lykosh:I guess I feel like the fact that I even thought to ask that at 5
Amy Lykosh:shows that I had some awareness.
Tim Winders:the thing that I like about that response, I, I know that
Tim Winders:there are people that have an event, but I look at life more as a process.
Tim Winders:Maybe it's my engineering.
Tim Winders:I don't know.
Tim Winders:It's just like, there's a process and we're going through this process for our
Tim Winders:time here and it's got moments, it's got maybe some stops and starts and forward
Tim Winders:and backwards and things like that.
Tim Winders:As we were talking about prayer, the word intercessor came to mind and I served
Tim Winders:on the board of a ministry, I actually still do, that for a season this, this
Tim Winders:ministry had some intercessors and weekly there was an email that went to
Tim Winders:the intercessors to be praying for this or doing that So as we kind of moved
Tim Winders:Back towards the business conversation.
Tim Winders:Tell me if there's a difference, if that's just nomenclature, what, how does
Tim Winders:intercessor fit in with the conversation that we're having here about prayer?
Tim Winders:And then in a little moment, you know, in a moment, prayer in the workplace.
Amy Lykosh:Yeah, that's a great question.
Amy Lykosh:So, part of the challenge of prayer is that I don't feel like
Amy Lykosh:the church necessarily has a super great definition of even what it is.
Amy Lykosh:And so that's been a big part of my journey for the last six years is saying
Amy Lykosh:like, what am I even talking about here?
Amy Lykosh:And then you add on a word like intercessor, which is
Amy Lykosh:like about as churchy of a word as you could possibly get.
Amy Lykosh:And so, yes, big sigh here, but.
Amy Lykosh:Okay.
Amy Lykosh:So the beautiful thing of what you just shared about your, the organization
Amy Lykosh:with which you're on the board where they had people who would pray and you
Amy Lykosh:would send out emails to me, I would describe those that as a prayer shield.
Amy Lykosh:They're serving as like, we are praying for this organization or for the needs
Amy Lykosh:of this organization as it Like we are locking our shields together in
Amy Lykosh:order to offer protection in many ways.
Amy Lykosh:That's what I would say.
Amy Lykosh:We, that's how we seek to serve for our clients, that we are a prayer shield,
Amy Lykosh:that they don't have to try to go out and find the intercessors or find the people
Amy Lykosh:of prayer to do that on their behalf.
Amy Lykosh:It's like, no, this is, we've been trained.
Amy Lykosh:This is what we do.
Amy Lykosh:And we love it.
Amy Lykosh:So,
Amy Lykosh:kind of like we're the people who are like signing up, like we're on, we're praying
Amy Lykosh:for an hour a day just because we love it.
Amy Lykosh:Let us do that for you.
Amy Lykosh:So, that would be just a little side note, but an intercessor,
Amy Lykosh:by definition, an intercessor is somebody who's standing in the gap.
Amy Lykosh:And so, an advocate is a, another word that, we sometimes can see, or it's a
Amy Lykosh:synonym when you look at the definition.
Amy Lykosh:And so, if you think about legally, the advocate is like the
Amy Lykosh:lawyer who's arguing the case.
Amy Lykosh:Between the person who's guilty or hopefully not guilty and the judge.
Amy Lykosh:And then, for in the realm of prayer, the intercessor is the one who's like, Hey, I
Amy Lykosh:can see that there is stability in heaven and that there's shakiness on earth.
Amy Lykosh:And I want to bring that stability of heaven to the shakiness of earth.
Amy Lykosh:I want to stand there in the gap and say, Hey God, are you
Amy Lykosh:looking at this situation?
Amy Lykosh:We need you to come and change this situation.
Amy Lykosh:So that's, it's just basically somebody who's there to pray
Amy Lykosh:on behalf of somebody else.
Amy Lykosh:So, we do plenty of prayer.
Amy Lykosh:That is, there's a whole bunch of different ways of praying.
Amy Lykosh:So there's, that's not the only form of prayer that we do, but I would
Amy Lykosh:define intercession as specifically that kind of standing in the gap
Amy Lykosh:where you're not asking for yourself.
Amy Lykosh:You're asking on somebody else's behalf,
Tim Winders:Right.
Tim Winders:So, this is going to back up to the things you said at the beginning, At
Tim Winders:some point, you became connected to what is called now Workplace Prayer.
Tim Winders:And I think you mentioned, Bob, that was maybe already doing something somewhere.
Tim Winders:I saw Perry Marshall's name and Perry Marshall.
Tim Winders:Yeah, Perry was a guest on our podcast back in.
Tim Winders:I actually pulled it up before this August of 2020, August 10th.
Tim Winders:For anybody who wants to circle back in Perry and I.
Tim Winders:Have interacted with each other.
Tim Winders:I mean, not always in a strong way, but like 20 years ago, he came to my home
Tim Winders:back in Georgia and also, I'm familiar
Tim Winders:with Perry and his, memos from the main home office and,
Amy Lykosh:head office.
Tim Winders:Yeah.
Tim Winders:Things like that.
Tim Winders:Let's let's.
Tim Winders:Go back or let's start and talk about kind of how, you know, again, you
Tim Winders:got involved with what we're calling workplace prayer and give any of the
Tim Winders:background or origins of the organization that you feel like you need to.
Tim Winders:So someone can kind of understand that.
Amy Lykosh:So I felt like the Lord called me out of my mostly
Amy Lykosh:prayerless state in intercession.
Amy Lykosh:July of 2018 and that was when I started saying, like, I'm just going to pray a
Amy Lykosh:little bit more and a little bit more.
Amy Lykosh:And then in, March of 2019, I was driving up to drop off my homeopathy
Amy Lykosh:final, getting ready to keep going.
Amy Lykosh:And I felt like Lord said, start a prayer challenge.
Amy Lykosh:And I was like, okay, like that's kind of like an email sequence where
Amy Lykosh:you can get, emails about prayer.
Amy Lykosh:So I went and for probably six months I researched all of the materials
Amy Lykosh:that I already had on prayer.
Amy Lykosh:Trying to find.
Amy Lykosh:Basically what it ended up being single sentence prayers to
Amy Lykosh:pray as you go about your day.
Amy Lykosh:And I was like, that's awesome.
Amy Lykosh:Let's get these out there.
Amy Lykosh:That will be great.
Amy Lykosh:And so I launched it.
Amy Lykosh:And the first round I had five people go through, it was my mom, my sister,
Amy Lykosh:one friend and two people I bribed.
Amy Lykosh:And every one of them sent me beautiful messages at some point in the next 21 days
Amy Lykosh:where they were like, this is actually changing my life, which that's fantastic.
Amy Lykosh:But then there's like that weeping of like,
Amy Lykosh:And so I actually, I met Perry Marshall, I went to an event of his in September
Amy Lykosh:of 2019 and I had a question for him.
Amy Lykosh:I mean, I was there not, this was like a over dinner asking it, you
Amy Lykosh:know, after hours kind of question.
Amy Lykosh:And so I said, how do I market something as unpopular as prayer?
Amy Lykosh:And he had this amazing off the cuff, hilarious response because
Amy Lykosh:this is the kind of person he is.
Amy Lykosh:But his more serious answer was.
Amy Lykosh:Find somebody to pray for your business.
Amy Lykosh:And I was like, well, that is a non traditional, very out
Amy Lykosh:of the box thing to ask about.
Amy Lykosh:So that's when I actually went, started looking for prayer.
Amy Lykosh:So it was kind of, yes, it was for my parents business, but it
Amy Lykosh:was also for my own business.
Amy Lykosh:And so Bob had, Bob Perry had been praying for businesses, for
Amy Lykosh:maybe a few months at that point.
Amy Lykosh:And it took me a while.
Amy Lykosh:So I didn't actually meet him until, May of 2020 and then he started praying
Amy Lykosh:for my parents business and just like our family and such in June of 2020 and
Amy Lykosh:it was Kind of midway through the month where I was like, I want to join you.
Amy Lykosh:This needs to be bigger.
Amy Lykosh:Partially I had been looking for per coverage for nine months.
Amy Lykosh:Like I just am wanting this so much.
Amy Lykosh:And so when I finally found somebody who not only was willing, but it
Amy Lykosh:was actually super good at it.
Amy Lykosh:No, I was like, everybody in the world should want this.
Amy Lykosh:Let's do this.
Amy Lykosh:And so when I found out it was just him, I was like, well, that no,
Amy Lykosh:I have administrative giftings.
Amy Lykosh:I am.
Amy Lykosh:very passionate about this.
Amy Lykosh:I have a lot of energy, like let's go for it.
Amy Lykosh:I don't actually even remember what the name of his business was.
Amy Lykosh:It was not as memorable as workplace prayer.
Amy Lykosh:So we formed workplace prayer together.
Amy Lykosh:And then, it was actually right around four years ago.
Amy Lykosh:Labor Day weekend of 2020, we had enough, we actually got one big
Amy Lykosh:client who was enough for me to step away from working as I had been.
Amy Lykosh:So, yeah, thank you for asking.
Tim Winders:Yeah, very good.
Tim Winders:So there's, I want to go down that path, but there's one thing I want to kind
Tim Winders:of Connect the dot you've mentioned your parents business a few times.
Tim Winders:Give me just a real quick.
Tim Winders:So, and you, and you mentioned in homeschool, I believe is that still exist?
Tim Winders:Tell me about it.
Tim Winders:Cause it seems like it's not a small operation.
Tim Winders:Am I picking up on something
Amy Lykosh:Oh, that is, that's true.
Amy Lykosh:So they started sunlight curriculum, which is a literature rich homeschool company.
Amy Lykosh:And so, yeah, it's, it is definitely still around.
Amy Lykosh:very thankful for that because that's how we educate our own children.
Amy Lykosh:So, a lot of books and so, yeah, I love sunlight.
Tim Winders:Very good.
Tim Winders:And you've been associated, you've done some stuff for that organization.
Tim Winders:are you still associated?
Amy Lykosh:Yeah.
Amy Lykosh:So, no, I worked very happily with them from the time I graduated.
Amy Lykosh:I mean, summers and part time at different times, but, no, I mean, from 2001, when
Amy Lykosh:I graduated from college up until 2020, and I truly never thought I would leave.
Amy Lykosh:I had no idea.
Amy Lykosh:Just, I loved working with them and, you know, family business, it's very fun.
Amy Lykosh:So having a shift to praying for business was, that was a
Amy Lykosh:very hard right turn in my life.
Tim Winders:Family business is fun.
Tim Winders:That's one word.
Tim Winders:There's a lot of challenges with family businesses.
Amy Lykosh:It is true.
Amy Lykosh:I read children's books as part of my job.
Amy Lykosh:Like that's pretty amazing.
Tim Winders:Oh my gosh.
Tim Winders:That's like one of these jobs, like Testing chocolate or something like that.
Tim Winders:It's like,
Amy Lykosh:Oh, this is what I know.
Amy Lykosh:So for me to change away and prayer, it was truly like, wow, did not see that one
Tim Winders:uh, So thank you for allowing me to backtrack slightly, but yeah, that
Tim Winders:is, I've actually heard of that company.
Tim Winders:So that's awesome.
Tim Winders:All right.
Tim Winders:So you started and you mentioned this, so I'm going to go here now.
Tim Winders:That is that you started the business of Workplace Prayer.
Tim Winders:And you got a client that allowed you to leave your job.
Tim Winders:So all of that implies that there is money changing hands.
Amy Lykosh:true.
Tim Winders:is that an accurate statement?
Amy Lykosh:That is an accurate statement, indeed.
Tim Winders:All right.
Tim Winders:Tell me more about how that
Tim Winders:works.
Amy Lykosh:well, so practically, we pretty much just say, if you would
Amy Lykosh:like to partner with us, we can figure out how to make that happen.
Amy Lykosh:So this is not like a, we want to price gouge or anything else.
Amy Lykosh:I guess I don't think though you were just asking practically.
Amy Lykosh:I think there was probably like, ethically,
Amy Lykosh:how do you handle
Tim Winders:there, yeah, I, I'm, I'm, I'm going to see how far you
Tim Winders:go and I may dig a little more.
Tim Winders:you go as far as you want I'll see if it satisfies me.
Tim Winders:And
Amy Lykosh:Okay.
Amy Lykosh:So basically, when I was asking people to pray for, pray for me, for my
Amy Lykosh:business, I had said, like, I would really like to hire you to do this.
Amy Lykosh:And the first response I got was, you know, the scripture says freely,
Amy Lykosh:you've received, really give.
Amy Lykosh:I'm really not comfortable with that.
Amy Lykosh:My parents have been paying their staff on the clock for 30 years to
Amy Lykosh:pray for business, their business.
Amy Lykosh:And the Lord has completely blessed it.
Amy Lykosh:It was not an part of that, you know, for them, it was an ethical issue.
Amy Lykosh:Like we're asking our, our, employees to come in and spend some of their time.
Amy Lykosh:Why would we ask them to volunteer?
Amy Lykosh:Like, first of all, who's going to pick them up?
Amy Lykosh:They might volunteer for a week, but this is not going to be something
Amy Lykosh:ongoing, Like I actually, this is, I'm asking them to pray for my benefit.
Amy Lykosh:Let me actually compensate them for their time.
Amy Lykosh:And one of my friends said something like, we're not asking
Amy Lykosh:people to pay for the gift.
Amy Lykosh:Like the gift of God is the gift of God, but this is actually
Amy Lykosh:what we do in order to live.
Amy Lykosh:And so there is, financially, that actually just makes sense.
Amy Lykosh:But as I also thought, even about that passage, freely you've received,
Amy Lykosh:freely give, that's in the context of Jesus sending out his disciples in
Amy Lykosh:order to go and spread the good news.
Amy Lykosh:And so part of the instructions when they went out is, he said, When you
Amy Lykosh:go into somebody's house, stay with them as long as they're willing
Amy Lykosh:to host you and then bless them.
Amy Lykosh:And I was thinking about this because I was like, okay, so
Amy Lykosh:they're getting lodging and food.
Amy Lykosh:So they're getting their, their needs are being supplied.
Amy Lykosh:If you were traveling, that would be like your hotel and your restaurant
Amy Lykosh:meals, or, just, you know, as a, as a person, it's going to be your
Amy Lykosh:mortgage and your food, your bills.
Amy Lykosh:But then what they were offering, I was like, do I think that a blessing from the
Amy Lykosh:disciples who had walked with Jesus would be more valuable than the cost of like
Amy Lykosh:sharing a bed and giving them some food?
Amy Lykosh:And it was kind of like a no brainer, like, of course, that's
Amy Lykosh:going to be more valuable.
Amy Lykosh:So even the idea of freely receive, freely give, There is, on some level, even
Amy Lykosh:though it would not have necessarily been like, here's some coins, it's, there is
Amy Lykosh:an exchange of value that's happening.
Amy Lykosh:So, in that passage, exchange of value.
Amy Lykosh:It also kind of blows my mind, when you look in the Old Testament, I realize
Amy Lykosh:that Old Testament prophecy is not going to be exactly the same as like,
Amy Lykosh:Now in current day, paying for prayer, but there is at least a bit of a
Amy Lykosh:correlation because when Saul's donkeys had gone missing, he was like, okay,
Amy Lykosh:where, where can we find the donkeys?
Amy Lykosh:You know, he and his servant had looked all over and then they're like, well,
Amy Lykosh:we're getting close to the community.
Amy Lykosh:We're so close.
Amy Lykosh:Samuel lives and Saul was like, well, we can't go to him
Amy Lykosh:cause I don't have any money.
Amy Lykosh:And his servant was like, well, I have some money.
Amy Lykosh:We can go and get a prophetic word from Samuel.
Amy Lykosh:So there actually is like in the scriptures, there's at least a
Amy Lykosh:little hint that people in order to get prophetic words from Samuel
Amy Lykosh:just like paid him some money.
Amy Lykosh:So that's, that's maybe a little bit unexpected.
Amy Lykosh:I would say.
Amy Lykosh:as a modern evangelical, probably part of the reason why paying for prayer can
Amy Lykosh:be a little bit dicey is we can think about Martin Luther and his 95 theses.
Amy Lykosh:And part of the challenge of that entire era of Christian history is that you had
Amy Lykosh:the Catholics who are kind of like, I'm going to just sell you some indulgences.
Amy Lykosh:So I think we have this kind of like paying for prayer is like deeply
Amy Lykosh:embedded in our ethics and our mindset sort of like, well, we so I
Amy Lykosh:would agree with tha get to buy your way out o by the blood of Jesus.
Amy Lykosh:So pay from an indulgent stan actually going to work.
Amy Lykosh:B Just the time that is spent.
Amy Lykosh:We recognize that this is the thing we pay our janitors at the church.
Amy Lykosh:We pay our pastors and part of pastoral care is usually praying for the people
Amy Lykosh:if they're in the hospital or pay praying during a sermon, you know,
Amy Lykosh:no, we're not like, well, that part of your sermon, we're going to make
Amy Lykosh:sure that we don't cover that one, you know, that that would be nonsensical.
Amy Lykosh:So, okay.
Amy Lykosh:That would be my initial answer.
Tim Winders:all of that is extremely valuable as, as you were talking, I'm
Tim Winders:just sitting here going, you know, I, at the heart, I call myself a coach.
Tim Winders:I believe that's what I was created for.
Amy Lykosh:Yeah.
Tim Winders:and there are times that I'll communicate and interact with
Tim Winders:people and there will not be any.
Tim Winders:We'll call it a transaction.
Tim Winders:But then there are other times that I do it.
Tim Winders:And I mean, I've been working with organizations for a long period of time,
Tim Winders:and there's money that changes hands.
Tim Winders:Part of the thing that I have told people before is like, do you want to
Tim Winders:just interact with me from time to time?
Tim Winders:Or do you want dedicated?
Tim Winders:Do you want a sliver of my time that's dedicated to you?
Tim Winders:Because I do think that there's something that goes with that.
Tim Winders:And I sort of think of this in the same way.
Tim Winders:Would that be a way to think about it?
Tim Winders:If I'm like business owners, like I want Amy blank dedicated per week, per
Tim Winders:month or whatever, does that make sense?
Amy Lykosh:Absolutely.
Amy Lykosh:So that, that's one of the ways that Bob talks about it, where he said everybody
Amy Lykosh:would love to have prayer, right?
Amy Lykosh:Like everybody would like that.
Amy Lykosh:How do we know where it, where the Lord is even inviting us to
Amy Lykosh:focus our attention in this season?
Amy Lykosh:And part of that is like, Oh, the people who are willing to say like, I would be
Amy Lykosh:happy to partner with you financially.
Amy Lykosh:So it allows us actually to focus in a little bit on where.
Amy Lykosh:Like, where are we even supposed to be focusing?
Amy Lykosh:So yes, that's a huge part of it.
Amy Lykosh:It's also just like, one of our clients and friends, he's like, no,
Amy Lykosh:you want the person who spent the time and figured out how to do it and
Amy Lykosh:put in their 10, 000 hours, that's the person you want praying for you.
Amy Lykosh:So let's bless the person who has actually spent that time and allow them
Amy Lykosh:to do what they're excellent at doing.
Tim Winders:Yeah.
Tim Winders:And I mean, I'm guessing there's some skills, there's some muscle, sister
Tim Winders:Susie, she prays loud at church.
Tim Winders:I don't think I want her necessarily coming in my business and, you know,
Tim Winders:casting out, plucking up, you know, throwing things around, running
Tim Winders:around the maybe, I don't know.
Tim Winders:But, I'm guessing there's a skillset.
Tim Winders:There's probably some knowing how to handle things within a
Tim Winders:business setting, that's important.
Tim Winders:Yes.
Amy Lykosh:Yes, absolutely.
Amy Lykosh:So part of what I really appreciate that Bob brought from the very
Amy Lykosh:beginning, because at this point, Bob and I are the only ones who are
Amy Lykosh:full time in the business, but we have a team of over 20 at this point.
Amy Lykosh:So we have people who pray for at least an hour a day.
Amy Lykosh:Bob and I pray together over the phone every day as well.
Amy Lykosh:And so there's, there's like multiple levels of prayer, but we also have, a
Amy Lykosh:prophetic team so we just, we have a lot of people who work with us who also
Amy Lykosh:help to carry the businesses in prayer.
Amy Lykosh:And so part of that is just saying, we value all of this and we want to
Amy Lykosh:release that more into the businesses.
Tim Winders:All right, we're, I'm sitting here watching time going,
Tim Winders:man, there's a couple of things I'd really love to go deeper in, but
Tim Winders:there's at least a few things I want us to get in before we finish up.
Tim Winders:the the first thing is I would like for you to tell me what
Tim Winders:an engagement might look like.
Tim Winders:and if there's geography involved, y'all do it virtually.
Tim Winders:what practically does
Tim Winders:it look
Amy Lykosh:a thing.
Tim Winders:you know, and I did look around at like, you know,
Tim Winders:how much you charge and it sounds like y'all just do it by proposal.
Tim Winders:And there's some discussion there, but give me a practical.
Tim Winders:And then I've got another question before we might wrap up.
Amy Lykosh:Okay.
Amy Lykosh:So practically we recognize that people are busy.
Amy Lykosh:So our ideal is when people partner with us, we send them an intake
Amy Lykosh:form and we're like, what is it that you would like prayer for?
Amy Lykosh:And then our clients are welcome to update as often as possible.
Amy Lykosh:So I'm personally a client.
Amy Lykosh:So I make sure that I'm.
Amy Lykosh:Emailing every week.
Amy Lykosh:I'm like, these are the requests that I have.
Amy Lykosh:These are the praises that I had last week, but a lot of
Amy Lykosh:our clients don't do that.
Amy Lykosh:In fact, we've had clients who have never, actually submitted an intake
Amy Lykosh:form, but we asked them and they're like, no, no, we're seeing answers.
Amy Lykosh:You know, there's a sense of like, somebody has our back,
Amy Lykosh:which I think is fantastic.
Amy Lykosh:We do have corporate calls that we do twice a week.
Amy Lykosh:Initially had that just for our team.
Amy Lykosh:we call them advocates, our advocate team, but then after a while, our
Amy Lykosh:clients were kind of like, we want more.
Amy Lykosh:And so now we have any, any clients who want to be on, it's not a requirement,
Amy Lykosh:but it's more like Bob especially has trained for over 40 years and
Amy Lykosh:really how to be excellent in prayer.
Amy Lykosh:And so it's almost, I view it as a tremendous privilege to be able to be
Amy Lykosh:on a call with him and hear what, He's thinking and hear how he's praying.
Amy Lykosh:And he has a very simple format that he, invites that is very easy.
Amy Lykosh:Any people for their first time can come on and feel like I can pray
Amy Lykosh:maybe not with complete confidence, but at least somewhat confident.
Amy Lykosh:And then, depending on what level people partner with us, they get
Amy Lykosh:a monthly prophetic word because ideally, we think about that as like.
Amy Lykosh:Our business owners are like the kings, if we could be serving more like priests,
Amy Lykosh:but then the prophets are important too.
Amy Lykosh:So kind of, just like David at the height of his, kingdom, his
Amy Lykosh:ideal was when he had prophet, priest, king, all working together.
Amy Lykosh:So, practically, I guess that's probably the basics there.
Tim Winders:Very good.
Tim Winders:And then the other, this is, going to be an extremely crass
Tim Winders:question, but business people
Tim Winders:love ROI.
Tim Winders:so I'm not going to ask an ROI question, but I'm going to ask maybe
Tim Winders:just for a story or two that might be,
Tim Winders:I don't know, success or a result.
Tim Winders:And some of this, you may or may not be able to share details.
Tim Winders:give me an example of how this has played out.
Amy Lykosh:Yeah.
Amy Lykosh:So I would say, I would love to be able to say like every client we've
Amy Lykosh:ever prayed for has an amazing ROI.
Amy Lykosh:That would not be true.
Amy Lykosh:And so really what we say is like, we pray and we are faithful in prayer.
Amy Lykosh:And then like, that's, that's all that we can guarantee, obviously.
Amy Lykosh:a couple of favorite stories, one of our clients is in real estate and
Amy Lykosh:he had a deal that was about to go through and then it completely died.
Amy Lykosh:Like, Completely died.
Amy Lykosh:And he was like, what just happened?
Amy Lykosh:So we prayed about it.
Amy Lykosh:And not only did the Lord resurrect the deal, which truly like, it
Amy Lykosh:literally was like a resurrection.
Amy Lykosh:but then it also closed in a week, which was way faster
Amy Lykosh:than anybody had been thinking.
Amy Lykosh:And what was going to be, I think it was going to be 125, 000 tax bill.
Amy Lykosh:At the last minute, somebody found this tremendous loophole and save them 85, 000.
Amy Lykosh:So, you know, it's kind of like, well, that would pay our fee for
Amy Lykosh:like many, many years, maybe decades.
Amy Lykosh:So hallelujah for that.
Amy Lykosh:That's fantastic.
Amy Lykosh:But then another one of my, this is probably for me, one of my favorites,
Amy Lykosh:just because it's so outside the box.
Amy Lykosh:one of our clients had, Large scale organic farm and so they with our own
Amy Lykosh:farming experience, not large scale but small, but I was there was a day I
Amy Lykosh:was down praying and I was like, Lord, I know that there are issues anytime
Amy Lykosh:there's heavy equipment, there's just.
Amy Lykosh:Things can happen.
Amy Lykosh:And I probably recorded a message for our clients like, Hey, this is what
Amy Lykosh:I'm thinking about you right now.
Amy Lykosh:This is what I'm praying for.
Amy Lykosh:Sent it off.
Amy Lykosh:Didn't really think much of it because again, you know, if you're
Amy Lykosh:farming, it's kind of like every day you're using big equipment.
Amy Lykosh:It just is a thing.
Amy Lykosh:Well, I found out later.
Amy Lykosh:that day, maybe even around that time, their very beloved
Amy Lykosh:farm manager, who is amazing.
Amy Lykosh:He had been somehow working with the potato digger and got caught in
Amy Lykosh:the chain and was being pulled like where his body was off the ground.
Amy Lykosh:And people like some of the other staff are watching this, like
Amy Lykosh:there were witnesses to this.
Amy Lykosh:And he said, and then somehow I came loose and it should have
Amy Lykosh:taken my head off, which is like, literally he, he should have had a
Amy Lykosh:very gruesome death, but he didn't.
Amy Lykosh:And so the farm, like is not only preserved of the trauma
Amy Lykosh:of losing an employee, but also a very critical employee.
Amy Lykosh:And so that was, that's not really like a specific ROI, but that's
Amy Lykosh:maybe more like, it was a person, a person is still alive on this earth.
Amy Lykosh:It was very
Tim Winders:Yeah, I think what it tells me is that ROI is not always
Tim Winders:a spreadsheet or a financial return.
Tim Winders:Amy, If someone wants.
Tim Winders:More if they want more information or they want to ask questions or they want
Tim Winders:to check up on you or or find out more Tell people where to go give them website
Tim Winders:or wherever they need to connect with you And and what we'll do is we will
Tim Winders:make sure we include all that down in the notes So where does someone need to go?
Amy Lykosh:Oh, so just workplacepro.
Amy Lykosh:com would be fantastic.
Amy Lykosh:That's going to be the easiest.
Amy Lykosh:Thank you.
Amy Lykosh:If you want to get the 21 day single sentence prayers to pray as you go
Amy Lykosh:about your day, that is available.
Amy Lykosh:It's at praybig.
Amy Lykosh:me slash refresh because it was a prayer refresh.
Amy Lykosh:So praybig.
Amy Lykosh:me slash refresh.
Tim Winders:Excellent.
Tim Winders:And that's where someone would go if they just want to, get more information.
Tim Winders:All right, great.
Tim Winders:We are seek, go create Amy, those three words.
Tim Winders:So with my final question here, I'm going to allow you to pick one of those.
Tim Winders:Seek, go or create, which one do you choose and why?
Amy Lykosh:Oh, thank you.
Amy Lykosh:So I love the word create because as a writer, primarily, I started journaling
Amy Lykosh:about my experience living on the land.
Amy Lykosh:And then, at this point, I just try to write some every day.
Amy Lykosh:If I'm not traveling, so creating, answering questions, trying to really
Amy Lykosh:figure out what it is that I'm thinking, mostly in the realm of prayer, but
Amy Lykosh:sometimes in other directions as well.
Amy Lykosh:I just think the Lord is a creator God, and so we get to
Amy Lykosh:partner with Him in creativity because we are made in His image.
Tim Winders:Amy, thank you, man.
Tim Winders:What a great conversation.
Tim Winders:I've loved all this weird stuff we've talked about.
Tim Winders:And, I think it's been a lot of fun.
Tim Winders:Make sure if you've listened in and you're just intrigued or concerned or
Tim Winders:whatever it is, just go, go check it out.
Tim Winders:I've actually, I've got the website pulled up here, Workplace Prayer, dot
Tim Winders:com make sure you go check that out.
Tim Winders:I appreciate this conversation we have here at Seat.
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