What's going on, everybody?
Speaker BI'm fine.
Speaker COkay.
Speaker AWow.
Speaker AI'm Derek.
Speaker BI'm John.
Speaker CI'm John.
Speaker AWe got John here.
Speaker AIt's John's son John, AKA Madcalf.
Speaker AMadcalf.
Speaker AI like it.
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker BAnd the mad cow.
Speaker BSo see, there you go.
Speaker AOr AKA per my daughter.
Speaker AWhat was it?
Speaker ALittle cow.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker BNow she calls him Madcalf.
Speaker AThat's pretty good, though.
Speaker AMadcap's pretty awesome.
Speaker AYeah, I like it.
Speaker CI think you're the one who gave it.
Speaker BI think Nick came up with it.
Speaker AI don't know.
Speaker CI don't know.
Speaker BYeah, I think Nick came up with it.
Speaker AI know.
Speaker AWe were gaming one day.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker AAnd when we were gaming, Serenity was running through names that we were jokingly calling.
Speaker BAnd then the next day it came up because we were gaming again.
Speaker BThe next day it came up and Nick had came up with the name Madcalf.
Speaker AOh, okay.
Speaker CI don't know who did it.
Speaker CI just know somebody at this church gave me the nickname Madcalf.
Speaker CAnd now it's stuck.
Speaker AYep, it's pretty good.
Speaker BWell, I told you about it and you liked it, so I was like.
Speaker CYeah, it stuck so well that I'm probably gonna put it on my license plate.
Speaker ANice.
Speaker AYeah, that's dope.
Speaker BI still gotta put Madcal on one.
Speaker AYeah, probably never will happen.
Speaker AHe's, you know, like that.
Speaker BWhat do you mean it'll happen?
Speaker ANo, I probably won't.
Speaker CYeah, it's the old man.
Speaker BIt's being able to purchase.
Speaker BIf I could purchase it myself.
Speaker BYes, but no.
Speaker BMy wife, she just pays for the tags each year.
Speaker CI want to get a cool Road America one because we have that up there in Wisconsin.
Speaker CIt's a really cool blacked out license plate with just the track on it.
Speaker CYeah, nice.
Speaker BSee, it's either get a novelty tag or get one of their special ones.
Speaker BAnd if I get that, I can't put on there what I want because you have too many letters.
Speaker AHow many letters are you allowed?
Speaker CSix.
Speaker BWell, it depends.
Speaker BFlorida lets you have seven, sometimes eight.
Speaker AYeah, it's kind of strange how some.
Speaker ASome tags are more, some tags are less.
Speaker CIt's like, I don't know, I've always seen six, so.
Speaker BWell, you can have.
Speaker BI mean, Florida's average is seven.
Speaker CPerson.
Speaker BYou're not a Floridian.
Speaker AYeah, me neither.
Speaker ADude.
Speaker ALike, once they made everything where you could do literally everything online.
Speaker AScrew that, I ain't going in.
Speaker AYeah, you send me the renewal thing, I will send you the money.
Speaker AWe're good.
Speaker ATwo years at a Time.
Speaker AI'm not dealing with that yearly.
Speaker CNo.
Speaker ANo way.
Speaker BHis mom will deal with the yearly.
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker BSo like I said, I don't get to see it.
Speaker BIf I see it, I.
Speaker BHey, I want to do this.
Speaker BAnd then she'll see, oh, it's an extra charge.
Speaker BWe're not doing it.
Speaker BOkay, whatever.
Speaker BI don't care.
Speaker AWell, somebody's got to keep you in line.
Speaker BThat's it.
Speaker ASomebody's got to keep you in line.
Speaker AAll right, so today we are talking about.
Speaker BJustice.
Speaker AJustice.
Speaker AThere's a lot.
Speaker AThere's a lot of people.
Speaker AJustice is like a trigger word.
Speaker AKind of like the word trigger.
Speaker BI think people get it mixed up with other things.
Speaker AWell, I mean, like, there's a lot of.
Speaker AA lot of that word going around.
Speaker ASo, like, you got, like, what, social justice and all that.
Speaker AThat's a big hot.
Speaker BIt's just like, people have my truth, so people have my justice.
Speaker BEveryone has an individual thing of justice, and we need to.
Speaker BJustice comes from one place.
Speaker BGod has already laid out what that looks like.
Speaker BThere's a set of moral rules and moral standards that everyone needs to be held to.
Speaker BBut again, it's like our truth.
Speaker BOh, this is my truth.
Speaker BNo, there's only one truth.
Speaker BAnd when you start saying, I have a different truth than you, then we get into anarchy when you start doing the same thing for justice.
Speaker BSo there's this justice.
Speaker BNo, there's one form of justice.
Speaker BAnd if we keep everyone to that standard, then it's fine.
Speaker BBut when everyone starts talking about their own justice, then we end up getting anarchy and chaos.
Speaker CAlso, like with justice, there's fairness.
Speaker CToo many people don't realize that can't always be too fair.
Speaker CLike, this world sucks.
Speaker CBut they only want their fairness.
Speaker CThey don't want fairness for everyone else.
Speaker ARight.
Speaker BWithout a certain standard for justice, how can you show grace and mercy?
Speaker BYou're giving the person who has set that standard of what it looks like you're taking away them being able to show grace and mercy if you have your own standard of justice and they have their own standard.
Speaker BBecause now you have to judge everybody differently, or you're expecting somebody to be judged differently.
Speaker ASee, that's where relativism doesn't work.
Speaker AThe idea that what I believe applies only to me, and that's okay, and whatever you believe applies to you and that's okay.
Speaker AWhere the breakdown happens is whenever we interact with one another.
Speaker ARight.
Speaker AIt's great if you can completely seclude yourself, you know, from everybody else.
Speaker ABut as soon as you interact with somebody Else, you are now in this weird gray area where relativism can't work, because I may think that it's completely okay for me to murder you.
Speaker AAnd you probably don't agree, right?
Speaker ASo, like.
Speaker ABut if you're gonna.
Speaker AIf you're gonna keep true to my.
Speaker AMy relative beliefs, then you've kind of got to accept that it's okay that I'm going to murder you, because I think that it's okay to do so.
Speaker AAnd.
Speaker AAnd that's where the breakdown happens, because there's nobody who's just gonna be like, yep, you're right.
Speaker AIt's.
Speaker AThis is what you.
Speaker AWhat you believe is okay.
Speaker AAnd, you know, that's just not gonna happen.
Speaker ASo, yeah, when it comes to interacting with one another, that's where the breakdown happens of the.
Speaker AYour truth, my truth, you know, same thing with justice.
Speaker ALike, if I have a set of rules for justice and you have a set of rules for justice, whenever it comes to interacting with one another, that's where the major breakdown ends up happening.
Speaker BPeople think.
Speaker BI mean, we see that in our own country already.
Speaker BThere's different rules for different people.
Speaker BOur own government is constantly, you know, they can't just live by one set of rules.
Speaker BThey got to make everybody happy.
Speaker BYou can't.
Speaker BYou can't live in a society where everybody is happy on how they want to be happy.
Speaker BWe're not promised happiness.
Speaker BAnd if you start promising that and doing that, you get the craziness that you have.
Speaker BNobody's living by any standards.
Speaker BEveryone's living by their own, and nobody knows what that is.
Speaker AThat's why.
Speaker AAnd that's part of the reason why.
Speaker ASo if you've been listening to our men's podcast, you know that we're.
Speaker AWe're going through, like, a Bible study that John kind of has put together and has created.
Speaker AMad cow.
Speaker ABig, Big John, I'm sure.
Speaker BOld cow.
Speaker AOld cow.
Speaker CI don't know the word for old cow.
Speaker CThat would be old.
Speaker AStubborn.
Speaker AThere's a list of words.
Speaker AWhoa, whoa, wait, wait, wait.
Speaker BYou're probably more stubborn than I am, and you're not as old as I am, so you can't say it's stubborn.
Speaker AI don't know.
Speaker AWe'll see.
Speaker AThe reason.
Speaker AThe reason, though, that.
Speaker AThat I actually initially looked for another definition of justice, because that's what you've got started here, is because the word.
Speaker BWe probably need to pray to officially kick this thing off.
Speaker AWe will.
Speaker AI want to define.
Speaker AI don't.
Speaker AI want to define justice first.
Speaker BJust checking.
Speaker AAnd then.
Speaker AAnd Then we'll do that.
Speaker AYou're right.
Speaker AWe do need to pray.
Speaker AI won't forget.
Speaker BWe're just getting into it and I wanted to make sure we pray and kick it off.
Speaker ASo you've got a word here called equity.
Speaker AAnd I don't like that word because a lot of people throw that word.
Speaker BAround the Bible like that word.
Speaker AYeah, but that's.
Speaker AIt's.
Speaker BI'm just messing with it.
Speaker AEquity is.
Speaker AIs the idea that equal outcome sounds.
Speaker BLike my house, I think.
Speaker BBut I think what they were meaning was if there's one standard of justice, the outcome is going to be the same for everybody.
Speaker BBut if we have.
Speaker BIf everyone's thinking that, I get it, there should be a different outcome then.
Speaker BBut there's not equity in there.
Speaker AIt prompted me searching for another definite point.
Speaker AAnd I get that as far as, like in a courtroom setting and that sort of thing, like justice being served or whatever, that.
Speaker AThat makes sense kind of.
Speaker AI mean, as long as we're talking about equity being if you commit this crime or you do this thing, you get this thing, you know, the sentencing.
Speaker ANot if you commit this crime.
Speaker AThis crime, all the crimes, whatever the crimes are, you get the same as whatever.
Speaker BNo, that's not what it means.
Speaker BThat there's going to be.
Speaker BEveryone's going to be punished.
Speaker BJust like if you put your money into a bank at different times, people are going to have different equity coming out, but you're going to have something on the back end.
Speaker AWhy definition of terms is super important, and this is speaking to everybody, that defining your terms is really important.
Speaker ABecause most people, I would say in today's society would say that equity means that regardless of the crime, everyone gets the same punishment.
Speaker AAnd technically within Christianity, that's true.
Speaker ARight.
Speaker ABecause the wages of sin is death, you know, so.
Speaker AAnd, and the gift of God is eternal life.
Speaker ASo like it.
Speaker AAs far as.
Speaker AIf you're talking about that, that's true, but that's not what we're talking about.
Speaker ASo there's different.
Speaker AThere's different outcomes for different things that are done.
Speaker ARight.
Speaker AAnd so when, when somebody is being just, they have to fit the time to the crime.
Speaker AThat's what we're talking about.
Speaker BBut while somebody's being just, they can still show mercy and grace.
Speaker ASo they can still give them, but not with inequity.
Speaker AThat's what I'm saying.
Speaker BThey can still give.
Speaker BWell, even with equity, equity isn't that.
Speaker BThe punishment's the same.
Speaker BEquity is everyone's going to be punished, everyone's going To.
Speaker BThere's a standard and everyone's going to have to.
Speaker BThe outcome is.
Speaker AThat's the problem.
Speaker AAnd that's what I was going to say, was that the definition of equity versus equality, but it's not the same.
Speaker BI think, of equity as when you put money in the bank.
Speaker BIf you put money into a.
Speaker BLet's just say a stock.
Speaker BIf you put something into a stock before I did, later on I put something into the stock, your equity is going to be higher.
Speaker BYou're getting something.
Speaker BYou're still getting equity out of it.
Speaker BYou're still going to get something.
Speaker BBut I'm going to have a different amount because I put in later or I put in when the percentage was lower or higher, whatever it is.
Speaker BSo the outcome is.
Speaker BIt's equity.
Speaker BYou're going to get something back, but the standard on what you get back is going to be different for everybody.
Speaker AI understand that's how you were looking at it.
Speaker BNo, that's the basic term of equity.
Speaker AThat's not how most people look at it.
Speaker BEquality is what you're describing.
Speaker BEquality is everybody's getting the same outcome.
Speaker BEquity is you're going to get something, but it's not going to be the same.
Speaker AI don't think that that's how most people see it, though.
Speaker BWell, I mean, if you take the true form of the definition, that's how you have to see it.
Speaker BThis is when everyone starts throwing in.
Speaker ATheir own idea, changing definitions.
Speaker BBut we're not changing definition.
Speaker BEquity's always been that way.
Speaker AYou're not changing definitions.
Speaker AI'm saying society.
Speaker BAnd there's the problem.
Speaker AConstantly changing definitions.
Speaker AAnd that's why we have to define them.
Speaker ANo, but if we.
Speaker BOkay, we can define the terms, but we can't change the definition.
Speaker BEquity is what it is.
Speaker BThis is the same.
Speaker BWhen we start talking about justice, everyone starts changing it.
Speaker BAnd everyone has their own justice.
Speaker BWe're not changing the definition for justice for everybody.
Speaker BWe're telling them this is what it is.
Speaker BYou tell them this is what equality is.
Speaker BThis is what equity is.
Speaker BThis is why they say equity.
Speaker ABut that's why we have to define our terms.
Speaker ABecause you may say something that I don't see the same way.
Speaker AAnd if we're not on the same page, then we think we're talking about two different things.
Speaker BI got it.
Speaker BSo, I mean, I'm just saying we can't change the definition because somebody thinks it's that way.
Speaker BBecause somebody thinks, oh, that's not.
Speaker BThat's not how I see it.
Speaker BWell, sorry, that's how it is.
Speaker BWell, truth is truth until.
Speaker AUntil they change it as a whole.
Speaker CAren't there different levels of sin anyway?
Speaker BNo.
Speaker CAll right.
Speaker AOkay.
Speaker ASo this is a whole different topic.
Speaker AI.
Speaker AI disagree, but agree at the same time.
Speaker CSame.
Speaker CBecause I know that the same outcome is no matter what death.
Speaker CBut I've also heard that there are different levels of punishment.
Speaker CAnd then it would make sense.
Speaker AThere's different levels of consequences.
Speaker BConsequences are different.
Speaker BBut God's.
Speaker BBut we're looking at God and his standard sin is sin.
Speaker BSin separates you from God.
Speaker BThat's the punishment.
Speaker BThat's the ultimate punishment.
Speaker BBut the person who is showing justice can give a different form of discipline.
Speaker BAnd God does that himself.
Speaker CI only bring that up because of the before, like, because I don't know if that would help with the equity thing, but.
Speaker AWell, there's.
Speaker AThere's.
Speaker CIf you play it like a stock and somebody sinning longer than another person, then, you know, it could still.
Speaker AThat just The.
Speaker AThe only difference comes with that we know of.
Speaker ASo I should qualify it with that.
Speaker ABecause we don't know if there's different levels of punishment in hell.
Speaker AWe don't know any of that for sure.
Speaker ALike, we don't.
Speaker AWe don't.
Speaker AThat's all that was all, like, made up.
Speaker ALike the whole.
Speaker AWhat is it, nine, seven layers or whatever.
Speaker BCatholicism.
Speaker BThey came up and did the different grades of sin.
Speaker BOh, this one's more.
Speaker BThis one's worse than this one.
Speaker BSo you're gonna give a different penance.
Speaker BPenance was just to pay back the church for your sin.
Speaker CHoly Grail.
Speaker CAnd then you can go to three if you did worse.
Speaker ARight.
Speaker BWell, originally, penance started.
Speaker BSo you give money, you pay your taxes to the church.
Speaker BOh, this is a really bad sin.
Speaker BYou got to pay more than this person.
Speaker BThat's how it started.
Speaker BBut God doesn't see it that way.
Speaker ARight.
Speaker BLook, he cast Adam and Eve out of paradise for eating an apple.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker BAll they did was disobey him.
Speaker AOr fruit.
Speaker BWell, it doesn't.
Speaker AI like to think of it as an apple because I hate it.
Speaker BIs a fruit.
Speaker AProducts.
Speaker ASo.
Speaker BBut it is a fruit.
Speaker BI didn't mean an apple.
Speaker ABut you guys get the big bite out of the.
Speaker BYou guys know what I'm talking about.
Speaker AThe original sin.
Speaker BDavid goes around Macintosh rapes Bathsheba, murders her husband to cover it up.
Speaker BAnd his punishment.
Speaker BI mean, he lost a kid.
Speaker BBut when people.
Speaker AThat's a hefty freaking punishment.
Speaker BThat is a hefty punishment.
Speaker BBut again.
Speaker AAnd I think that's I hate calling it a punishment.
Speaker AIt's a consequence.
Speaker BIt's a consequence.
Speaker BIt's a consequence.
Speaker APunishment is different than consequences.
Speaker AAnd it's different than discipline, too.
Speaker APunishment has this idea that there's like, I don't know, anger involved with this thing.
Speaker AAnd it's like an unbridled, like, unstrategic dealing of what they would consider justice.
Speaker BRight.
Speaker ALike, with their.
Speaker ASo I don't like to attribute that.
Speaker BThat was a wrong word because I don't like to say punishment either.
Speaker AYeah, I just.
Speaker ABut, yeah, I think that discipline or consequences is the better.
Speaker BWe don't see the big picture.
Speaker BWe don't see the big picture like God does.
Speaker BThey had to do nothing in the garden.
Speaker BEverything grew.
Speaker BThey didn't have to work.
Speaker BThey didn't do nothing.
Speaker BEverything was provided for them.
Speaker BAll they needed.
Speaker BAnd God kicked them out of that.
Speaker BThen they had to work.
Speaker BThey were going to cut their hands on thorns and they were going to do all this stuff.
Speaker BBut the bigger picture was if God allowed them to stay in the garden, then they can eat from the tree of life and live forever.
Speaker BSeparated by God.
Speaker BHe couldn't have that happen.
Speaker BHe could not have his creation separated from him forever.
Speaker BSo he had to push them out of the garden.
Speaker BGod couldn't allow David's son to come into the world the way that David did it.
Speaker CThis is like a side tangent, but I heard something about the garden that was really cool.
Speaker CAnd it shows that Jesus was there because God is the omnipotent being.
Speaker CSo he never had a physical form.
Speaker CBut when you read Genesis, they.
Speaker CYou read that they heard footsteps, which Jesus is the only physical incantation of that.
Speaker CSo that means that Jesus was there in the garden with Adam and Eve and Eve, which I thought was, like, really cool.
Speaker AThat is pretty dope.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker CTo think about shows that he was there in the beginning, which obviously we know reading Genesis 1, but.
Speaker ARight.
Speaker CJust hearing that as well, I was like, wow, I didn't even recognize that.
Speaker CBut, yeah.
Speaker CGod isn't a physical form.
Speaker CYou know, I'm nipped in it.
Speaker CSo that means that the only physical way to hear his footsteps was Jesus.
Speaker AInteresting.
Speaker ANever thought about that before either.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker BMost people miss those little things.
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker AAnd that's why every time you go back through, you find something.
Speaker BBecause there's only a few times to pick up on.
Speaker ARight.
Speaker BThere's only a few times you hear them write footsteps.
Speaker CIt's only when Jesus.
Speaker BYeah, it's only with Jesus.
Speaker CYep.
Speaker BJesus, they.
Speaker BThey could see his physical footsteps.
Speaker BAnd then you Heard him.
Speaker BThey heard him walking in the garden.
Speaker CBecause every time God came, talked to Moses and stuff, he came and talked.
Speaker BHe never walked.
Speaker CAlways heard his voice.
Speaker BIt was always through some kind of.
Speaker BI thought that was pretty cool when that was pointed out, too.
Speaker BWe miss those little things.
Speaker CBut bring it back to justice.
Speaker AYes, all right.
Speaker ABringing it back.
Speaker ASo the definition that you initially had put was conforming to a standard of correctness, righteousness, fairness, equity, the act, process, or state of being declared right with God.
Speaker ANot a terrible definition of it.
Speaker ABut when I looked it up online, I saw for whatever, the Oxford Dictionary or whatever, behaving according to what is morally right and fair, the quality of being fair and reasonable, the administration of the law or authority in maintaining this.
Speaker AAlso, justice is the ethical, philosophical idea that people are to be treated impartially, fairly, properly and reasonably by the law and by the arbiters of the law, that laws are to ensure that no harm befalls another, and that where harm is alleged, a remedial action is taken.
Speaker ABoth the accuser and the accused receive a morally right consequence merited by their actions.
Speaker AAnd I think that that is a solid definition for what we're getting ready to talk about as far as, like, how we are to deal with justice in others and, you know, enacting that with each other, especially when it comes to accountability and that sort of thing.
Speaker BSo when I wrote this, I did look up definitions, but my thing is I got to set the standard and who has the standard.
Speaker BSo I took definitions that were in that the Bible gave because I wanted it to stay.
Speaker BThis is God's standard.
Speaker BAnd not saying that the Bible, the definitions in the back are from God's mouth or whatever.
Speaker BBut it's still.
Speaker BThere had to be something that we can all turn to for the same thing.
Speaker BBecause you can go on the Internet and you can find multiple different reasons.
Speaker BAnd I know the Oxford, the Webster, all those things, they're constantly changing, taking words out, changing definitions of words.
Speaker BAnd I didn't want to get caught up in that.
Speaker BI wanted to get caught up.
Speaker BThis is the basic meaning.
Speaker BAnd then our discussion will take it deeper into this is how God is meaning for us to do it.
Speaker BThat was the only reason why I kept it.
Speaker AI just.
Speaker AWhen we're.
Speaker AWhen we're talking about terms, it's one of those things.
Speaker AIt's like we gotta have a definition that everybody that is understandable to everybody, so that everybody can be on the same page.
Speaker ASo I get it.
Speaker BI just didn't want people to go pulling up justice from different sources and getting different definitions and still thinking they have their own.
Speaker AThat's two different sources.
Speaker AThat's actually two different sources that I've got here that I read through.
Speaker AAnd really, they're the same.
Speaker AIt's just rewording and being a little bit more specific.
Speaker AI actually think the last one deals the best with the rest of this study as far as, like, I mean, we're talking about.
Speaker AI'm talking about what.
Speaker AWhat the law is, what we were given, right?
Speaker AThe law is written on our hearts.
Speaker AThe law.
Speaker AWe are arbiters, the law in this sense.
Speaker AWe're the ones that enact that justice here on earth.
Speaker AAnd we are called to a high standard as far as how we go about doing that.
Speaker AAnd we have to be fair and right and properly impartially deal with these people.
Speaker ARight?
Speaker ASo I know it almost sounds like a.
Speaker AI just didn't want.
Speaker BI didn't want people to start thinking that it was the government law or anything like that.
Speaker BThis is all based around.
Speaker BThis is what God says.
Speaker AAnd this is the terms of the same, though.
Speaker AThe terms are the same.
Speaker AWe're talking about God's law here.
Speaker AAnd hopefully, if.
Speaker AIf anybody's been listening to this podcast at all for any length of time, they know that we're talking about God's law, not man's law.
Speaker ABut, I mean, it's still God's law, right?
Speaker ALike, we are still talking about the law that God has put on us.
Speaker CBut we should still obey man's law, too.
Speaker AAbsolutely.
Speaker CIt still applies to that as well.
Speaker CWe still got to respect our laws as well as God's.
Speaker BLook, we are to follow God's law, I mean, man's law, until it contradicts God's law.
Speaker BAnd then God's law supersedes 100%.
Speaker ASo buckle up, guys.
Speaker AWelcome to warriors of Truth.
Speaker AI'm a Christian, and by the word of God, I will live my life.
Speaker AI will put on the armor of God each day to face evil wherever it may be.
Speaker AWith a fierce heart.
Speaker AI will fight for God, family, and justice.
Speaker AI will show compassion to those the world has forgotten.
Speaker AI will put others before myself with a humble heart and serve.
Speaker AMy word is my bond.
Speaker AI will take responsibility for all my doings and know that my brothers are watching and will answer to God one day.
Speaker AI am Khalid rages.
Speaker AI will not be defeated.
Speaker AI will not fail.
Speaker AI will be victorious.
Speaker AI am more than a conqueror.
Speaker AAll right, John, I'm going.
Speaker AHave you pray.
Speaker BOkay.
Speaker BFather God, we love you.
Speaker BWe thank you for this day.
Speaker BWe thank you for our friendship that's here in this room.
Speaker BI thank you for my son.
Speaker BWe invite you here to be with us during this discussion.
Speaker BWe pray for those that are listening that it may impact.
Speaker BIt may spark some questions where they reach out to a close friend, a friend who may be a little further in their walk, or just someone that they know that they can come and have questions and hopefully have some of the.
Speaker BSome of their questions answered or even they go and find the answers together.
Speaker BSo we just ask for hearts to be open.
Speaker BWe ask for the discussion to be fulfilling and that we can have a good day the rest of this day.
Speaker BWe love you, Father, and it's in Jesus name that we pray.
Speaker BAmen.
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Speaker AMan bun.
Speaker BI can't stand man bun.
Speaker BYou're bald.
Speaker BThat's why I don't have one.
Speaker AHey, look, man.
Speaker BI look at it.
Speaker AIt's the only time somebody looks at me as, like, man, right?
Speaker BNo, when I say man bun, they.
Speaker AHave to say man bun in order to say so.
Speaker AI get attributed the man part of that.
Speaker BI will no longer.
Speaker AAnd that is a win for me.
Speaker BI will no longer call it a man bun now that you said that.
Speaker BOkay, well, because I can't look at.
Speaker BI will just look at as a.
Speaker AGirly bun or something.
Speaker BA sissy bun.
Speaker AA sissy bun.
Speaker BOkay.
Speaker CYou can give one to stick a plunger to the back of his head.
Speaker BThat would be funny, but it wouldn't happen.
Speaker AChallenge accepted.
Speaker AI think I got enough guys I.
Speaker BCould ride and just shave your.
Speaker AYeah, shave your beard off.
Speaker ASee, when people get to go into the shaving thing, I gotta stop.
Speaker AI'm not gonna.
Speaker AI'm not.
Speaker AI'm not attempting that.
Speaker AMy wife said that if I shaved this and had the mutton chops, that she would shave my eyebrows.
Speaker AAnd I'm like, okay, you win.
Speaker ALike, I don't.
Speaker AI'm not.
Speaker AI'm not pitying it.
Speaker BIf you can dish it out, be ready for what I give back.
Speaker AOkay.
Speaker ASticking a plunger to your head is different than taking off my beard.
Speaker AIt's 100% dish.
Speaker CIt's 100% different.
Speaker BBut it's just as humiliating for me as shaving your beard wouldn't.
Speaker AYou're humiliating.
Speaker CIt took me seconds.
Speaker ALook, this takes years.
Speaker AIt's humiliating enough to say that this took three years to get this way, Right?
Speaker ALike, that's.
Speaker BSome people just have a hard time growing.
Speaker AI know, right?
Speaker ALike, I can get To.
Speaker AI can get to where you're at real quick.
Speaker AAnd then it dies out.
Speaker ATwo and a half years to get to here.
Speaker AI'm just saying.
Speaker ASo, all right, so why are we.
Speaker ATo show justice to others.
Speaker AGo.
Speaker BMicah 6, 8 tells us why we should.
Speaker BMicah was written probably one of the last prophets that spoke before Jesus, time before the coming, the second coming, where the first coming was.
Speaker BAnd so I think it's important when God gives a command or is telling the people something when he hasn't spoken to them for 400 years.
Speaker BSo this is.
Speaker BThat's what I've heard.
Speaker BMicah is about 400 years before the New Testament starts coming about.
Speaker BAnd it's some of the last stuff that God wanted to say to his people.
Speaker BSo that's why this verse is in here.
Speaker BI picked up the wrong one.
Speaker BI don't know why.
Speaker BThat was stupid.
Speaker BSorry, give me a minute.
Speaker BI'm a little slow.
Speaker BWe know not Malachi.
Speaker CI can read it.
Speaker BYou already got it pulled up?
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker CHe has told you, mortal one, what is good and what does the Lord require of you, but to do just to love kindness and to walk humbly with your God?
Speaker BAnd in the esv, it says to do justice.
Speaker BSo.
Speaker BNot saying anything different.
Speaker BI'm just saying that was.
Speaker CThat's what I said.
Speaker BI thought you said just.
Speaker BI didn't hear the s.
Speaker BThat's okay.
Speaker BIt's all good.
Speaker CIt means the same thing.
Speaker BGotcha.
Speaker ASo by definition it does.
Speaker BYeah, just me.
Speaker BSo God's calling us all to act this way in order to.
Speaker BI think they all go together.
Speaker BThe kindness, justice.
Speaker BIt's hard to show kindness if you're not first being just with other people.
Speaker BAnd so.
Speaker AYeah, yeah, yeah, for sure.
Speaker ASo.
Speaker AAlright, so let's get like real with each other here.
Speaker AWelcome to how this works, John.
Speaker ASo I want to go around and we can just discuss one area, but when, where or who is it hardest to act justly towards, like personally?
Speaker AI mean, when it comes to like us as guys and we're listening to a podcast, it's real easy to be like, yeah, I don't do that.
Speaker CI'm.
Speaker AI'm pretty solid.
Speaker AI can, you know, it's easy to dismiss some of that stuff, but I think we need to get real.
Speaker AI think we need to show a little bit more of the vulnerability side, which I think we've done on here.
Speaker ABut so when, where or who is it hardest for you, John, to act justly toward.
Speaker BMad cow people that I have pre determined or just like prejudged Before I even got to know them, I look at them or people who just constantly do stupid things.
Speaker BIt's hard for me to do that.
Speaker BYou know, I hear people talk or do certain things and instantly, oh, okay, that's what this person is.
Speaker BAnd that's just what I do.
Speaker BI just pre judge the people based on how I think that they should be talking or things that they should be doing or whatever.
Speaker BSo that's hardest for me with those people like that, because I've already went in with a pre determination or a pre idea of what I think.
Speaker BSo, you know, it's the same.
Speaker BI mean, yes, I do care for people who are homeless, but you start telling me your story and you're homeless because you put yourself in that situation.
Speaker BWhatever, you put yourself there.
Speaker BWhy do I need to help you out?
Speaker BAnd unfortunately, that's not what we're called to do.
Speaker BBut that's what I do.
Speaker BI mean, I'm human and I try not to.
Speaker BSomething I work on.
Speaker ASo that's why the question is, what's the hardest?
Speaker BI know.
Speaker BThat's why I put the question in there.
Speaker ASolid, Solid.
Speaker AAll right, I'm gonna make you answer before I answer.
Speaker CI think people at work, people I'm nice to, and then they go and do something stupid or piss me off, and it's like, yeah, yeah, I want to lash out at you, but I can't.
Speaker CSo that, for me is the hardest.
Speaker AI can see that.
Speaker ACan see that.
Speaker AFor me, it's church people.
Speaker ALike people that have been in the church for, you know, at least five years or whatever, or they claim to have been in the church and Christians their whole life or whatever.
Speaker ALike, I'm really harsh towards those people.
Speaker AI am way more lenient to somebody who I know is a baby Christian or isn't a believer.
Speaker AI'll be way, way more lenient towards those people because they're new to it.
Speaker AThey haven't claimed to be established in understanding of God's word.
Speaker AAnd so when it comes to somebody who has been in the church for 30 years, like, I have.
Speaker AWell, I guess technically I'm 36, so I've been in the church for 36 years, but claiming to be a believer for 31 years now, I guess, like, for those people, like, I have a hard time giving them a fair, impartial, you know, equitable sense of justice.
Speaker ALike, I.
Speaker ATo me, you know better.
Speaker AAnd like, I see the example of Jesus in that, like, he.
Speaker AHe dealt a lot more harshly with.
Speaker AWith the people who claimed to have been in the know or.
Speaker AOr arbiters of the law, really, for.
Speaker AFor a long time.
Speaker AAnd I understand that, you know, my righteousness is not the same as God's righteousness.
Speaker AJesus righteousness was perfect, whereas.
Speaker AOr righteous anger, I should say.
Speaker AHis righteous anger was not the same as my anger.
Speaker ASo I get that piece.
Speaker ABut, man, it's still really, really tough for me to just treat them like everybody else as far as, you know, hey, man, really shouldn't act that way or whatever that might be.
Speaker BSo I had the same problem.
Speaker BI have a lot of issues.
Speaker BThanks.
Speaker BThanks for just pointing them out.
Speaker AHey, I am here to point out your issues.
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker BThat is one of my problems too.
Speaker BPeople who know better.
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker BI mean, I think I did it to my son too.
Speaker BWhen he was younger, he'd have his friends over.
Speaker BThey'd be playing and, okay, that's fine.
Speaker BPlay in your room.
Speaker BDo it.
Speaker BHis friends would have to leave, and he wouldn't want to clean his room up.
Speaker BAnd I'm like, no, it doesn't work this way.
Speaker BBut I didn't make the mess.
Speaker BOh, your friends did?
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker BAnd if you didn't stop.
Speaker BSo I could.
Speaker BI mean, I know that I could have been a little harsh, but part of it was like, you need to learn that this is the right thing to do.
Speaker BYou're gonna have friends over.
Speaker BMake sure you clean the room before they leave.
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker AOh, yeah.
Speaker BOtherwise you're gonna be stuck doing it yourself.
Speaker BBut that's a form of, you know, how I could be a little harsh or expect for people who know better.
Speaker BI have higher standards for them, and I expect a lot more out of them.
Speaker AI'm typically described as a hand grenade when it comes to dealing with people in the church.
Speaker ASo, you know, you pull that pen and toss me, it's too late.
Speaker ALike, you can't put that pen back in.
Speaker BI can say, though, being a leader in the church has helped me stop before I react or before I say something, actually stop and think about what I'm going to say and how I need to approach it.
Speaker BSo I think I've been working on that a little better.
Speaker BIt doesn't change my thought process.
Speaker BIt still doesn't change that I expect more of you.
Speaker BI expect better from you.
Speaker BBut it has allowed me to slow down a little bit more and tried not to react and just, okay, is this going to take extra grace and dip into that?
Speaker AExtra grace egr.
Speaker AExtra grace required.
Speaker BYou know, Okay.
Speaker CI don't get too upset with the church people because I know where I was When I claimed to be a Christian and I didn't act like it.
Speaker CSo I'll see some of my brothers at my church, start acting out, away from church.
Speaker CAnd I'm like.
Speaker CI get disappointed, but it's like, it's okay.
Speaker CLike, they still have a lot to learn and a lot on their walk.
Speaker CLet's not do that again.
Speaker CBut I'm not gonna get mad at you for it.
Speaker CYeah, I don't know.
Speaker CI know where I've been, and I can see them doing it, too.
Speaker CAnd God had a lot of grace for me.
Speaker CI need to have grace for you towards it.
Speaker AI need to take a little bit of that and apply that to my.
Speaker ABecause I'm not there.
Speaker ALike, I know I've done a lot of things wrong, but, like, I.
Speaker AThat's.
Speaker AThat's.
Speaker AMy thought process is like, I should know better.
Speaker AAnd I treat myself that way, too.
Speaker CYeah.
Speaker ASo.
Speaker ASo, I mean, I should have a little bit more grace with myself as well.
Speaker ARight.
Speaker ABut.
Speaker AAnd so I do.
Speaker AI hold.
Speaker AI hold church people.
Speaker AI mean, and I call church people church people that are, like, who have been in it, that know better.
Speaker ALike, now.
Speaker AI'm not talking about baby Christians.
Speaker AI'm not talking about people who are new to the church who have been going to church a couple years, but they're still new to it all.
Speaker ALike, I'm not talking about those people.
Speaker AI'm talking about the people who are established in the church who could lead a Bible study probably.
Speaker AYou know, like, who should be probably leading some kind of discipleship group anyways.
Speaker ABut it's those people.
Speaker AWhen I say church people, that's the people I'm talking about.
Speaker AAnd not everybody acts that way.
Speaker AI'm just saying I hold all of them to the same standard.
Speaker AI hold myself, which is not really right.
Speaker AOr just to be honest, it's not.
Speaker BJust for us to hold people to the same standards or.
Speaker AWell, it is just we need to hold it to the standards that God has placed.
Speaker BRight?
Speaker BSo I go back to convictions.
Speaker BWe all have our own convictions, and sometimes we hold others around us to the same convictions that we have, and it's not fair to that person because God didn't give them that conviction.
Speaker BAnd it's something that's taken time for me to realize that this is my conviction.
Speaker BThis is what I have to work on.
Speaker BI can't expect.
Speaker BBut I go in.
Speaker AThat's hard to discern.
Speaker BI go in with the same convictions on myself and expect everyone to have those convictions.
Speaker BAnd it's like, God hasn't given everyone those convictions.
Speaker AI know we've butted heads over some of those kinds of things.
Speaker BHe's given them to me.
Speaker BSo I have to stop and know, okay, this is me, not you.
Speaker BI think I put out a Bible study one morning that really said it to me.
Speaker BAnd I hadn't taken this verse and looked at it that way, but it was like, we got to stop holding everyone to our convictions because that's going to bring more strife into the church and more separation and it's going to put pressure on those other people that wasn't meant for them to have pressure.
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker BAnd so, but we tend to do that with justice.
Speaker BWe get convicted with what justice is, especially people who have their own justice.
Speaker BAnd we expect everyone around us to have that same thing.
Speaker BBut if you're expecting a different justice than I am, then how can you expect me, you know, and this is why we have to.
Speaker BWhat does, what is justice?
Speaker BAnd especially us as Christians.
Speaker BOkay, What's God ask us of this justice?
Speaker BSo we have got to have that firm definition of what God is saying.
Speaker BThis is just.
Speaker BAnd this is how you act to also.
Speaker BNow why do we have to do it?
Speaker BBecause God requires us of it.
Speaker AWell, and I think that's.
Speaker AThat's why.
Speaker AAnd you can look at the church history, right, and see that that's why it's important for us to remember that it needs to be impartial, it needs to be fair, it needs to be properly and reasonably by the law that God has set out.
Speaker ABecause if not, it leads to things like the Crusades, right, Where they took justice in their own hands and did whatever they wanted to with it and went way off track from what God had originally planned, right?
Speaker AThat was headed by the church, by corrupt, power hungry church people.
Speaker ABut it was.
Speaker AEverybody can look back in history and be like, okay, well what about the Crusades?
Speaker AAnd that is justice left unchecked by power hungry people.
Speaker AAnd we have to keep ourselves in shape.
Speaker BThat's why back in Micah, he says, you're required to act justly or act with justice and kindness.
Speaker BBecause if we go in with, just remember God's writing to the Jews at this point, before Jesus is coming, before he's coming to redeem his people.
Speaker BAnd if you just go by justice alone and this is what the law says, then we start getting legalistic.
Speaker BAnd that's what the Jews did.
Speaker BThey left the whole kindness out.
Speaker BThey left the whole grace part out, imagine.
Speaker BAnd mercy part out.
Speaker AImagine if the Pharisees took that verse and actually Enacted it with Jesus.
Speaker AHe would have never been crucified.
Speaker BHe wouldn't.
Speaker ABut I mean, I mean, like, imagine if they actually did what they were told to do, you know what I mean?
Speaker BWith just that verse, right?
Speaker BBut they didn't.
Speaker BThey took what they were told.
Speaker BThey took the 700 and something laws that they were giving and put it in and this is what it is.
Speaker BAnd they became legalistic, very legalistic to.
Speaker CSay something on that.
Speaker CI told myself that recently.
Speaker CLike I sit here and talk about the Jews today and how they're still doing the same thing.
Speaker CAnd the generation, when they were in the wilderness and everything, they continued to disobey and complain.
Speaker CAnd then I sit back and I'm like, dang, that's what we do today.
Speaker CStill.
Speaker CWe're still just as bad.
Speaker CWe still fall into sin every day.
Speaker CYour thoughts, your words and your actions, we're just as bad as they are.
Speaker BLook, if there wasn't, if God didn't have grace.
Speaker BSo God's a standard for, for our justice.
Speaker BWhat justice comes from what it looks like.
Speaker BGod is the standard.
Speaker BBut if he didn't have grace and mercy, we would all be dead.
Speaker BJesus never would have came.
Speaker BSo yes, we have to have a standard of where our justice starts.
Speaker BBut it can't end right there too.
Speaker BIt can't just be the law.
Speaker BThere has to be kindness.
Speaker BThere has to be that grace aspect that has to come in.
Speaker BJesus did expect a lot more from the Pharisees and Sadducees.
Speaker BThey knew the law.
Speaker BThey knew exactly what was supposed to happen.
Speaker BThey knew it almost probably as well as Jesus did.
Speaker AAnd even when he was dealing with like Nicodemus, who really did seek Jesus, right?
Speaker ALike he was like, aren't you supposed to be someone who knows the law?
Speaker BBut he approached him with more grace then he approached the other ones who were trying to trap him and do all those things.
Speaker ABut he still called him out, right?
Speaker BWe can still call him out.
Speaker BWe can still call him out.
Speaker BBut if he didn't treat them with grace and justice, they all would have like everyone else.
Speaker BWe never would have been able to have eternity with them.
Speaker BSo we too often talk about justice and we just leave it right there.
Speaker BThis is what, this is the standard of justice.
Speaker BAnd boom, that's where we leave it.
Speaker BInstead of acting, doing the process, we can talk about it and say, this is it and have somebody, you know, just that this is the rule.
Speaker BBut when we start putting the kindness in there and treating people with, you know, bringing the justice and then treating people with the kindness and everything, it's going to make a big difference for.
Speaker AI'll let you go here in just a second.
Speaker ADo you remember what you're gonna.
Speaker AOkay, hang on, hang on.
Speaker ASo on.
Speaker AThat we also have to remember for the people that are newer in the church that don't feel like they're at a point where they can really be on that side of the coin.
Speaker ARight.
Speaker AWhere they're like, holding people as accountable with authority.
Speaker ARight.
Speaker AThat whenever somebody holds you accountable to give them grace, because they're not perfect and they're trying to live by the standard which God has also placed us.
Speaker ASo if somebody acts a little more harshly towards you than you would expect, but they are trying to do it in a loving manner, we got to have that mindset, too, that sometimes people say things that come off a little harder than they should and that we've got to ultimately go into it with a mindset that they are.
Speaker AWe're all working towards the best interest of each other.
Speaker ARight.
Speaker AAnd I know that's really hard in the world that we live in today.
Speaker ABut just for those of you out there who might be newer Christians or newer to this concept of holding each other accountable or, you know, justice in general, like, have a little bit of grace with those people who might.
Speaker AYou might see or come in contact with that might might come off as a little more harsh.
Speaker CSo I was just gonna say it's gonna backstep a little bit.
Speaker CBut talking about the Pharisees, and at the end of Micah 6, it says, and to walk humbly with your God, that was something that they never did.
Speaker CThey were never humble.
Speaker CThey were always very prideful, which is one of the terrible things to do as well.
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker CWhen you look up justice, there's nothing in the New Testament that says justice.
Speaker CLike, it's all Old Testament where the word justice comes up.
Speaker CAnd we see that obviously that applies because of the law.
Speaker CSo that means when Jesus is around that he is the justice He.
Speaker CThat is what we're supposed to imitate and follow.
Speaker AYeah, that's great.
Speaker BI mainly put this.
Speaker BI mainly put justice in here because it's not just for ourselves, but as Christian men, we're required to fight for those who can't fight for themselves.
Speaker BSo when we see injustice happening, when we see people being treated in a way that is not fair, that is not according to God's word, it is not with love, we are all required to stand up and fight for that person.
Speaker BI mean, Jesus did it for the harlot.
Speaker BThat was Thrown down at his feet.
Speaker BAnd the Pharisees wanted to stone her.
Speaker BHe didn't have to physically stand up, but he just said that he defended her.
Speaker BHe didn't judge her.
Speaker BHe didn't cast her out and say, yeah, stone her.
Speaker BBut it's stuff like that that we forget to do.
Speaker BWe think it just relates to us, but we forget that there's children in our lives that we can stand up for and do things.
Speaker BNot just our own children, if we have them, but children around us if we're in any part of the church.
Speaker BThere's kids there.
Speaker BThere's younger.
Speaker BThere's the younger people, if you're an older person.
Speaker BAnd we tend to just say.
Speaker BAll of us tend to say, well, that doesn't.
Speaker BThat's not my battle.
Speaker BNo, it is our battle because that's what's required of us.
Speaker BAnd I think too often that's what the Israelites were doing.
Speaker BThey were saying, oh, this isn't our battle.
Speaker BWe're not going to do that.
Speaker BAnd they weren't standing up for what was right and what they needed to be standing up for.
Speaker BThey were treating everybody based off the law, and that was it.
Speaker BAnd instead of showing kindness and grace and mercy while enacting the law.
Speaker BSo, I mean, yeah, you don't find anything in the New Testament.
Speaker BI mean, everything I have in here is taking you back, other than maybe Luke, but that's going somewhere.
Speaker BIt's not talking about justice, really.
Speaker CBut it's crazy that back then they hammered the law too much.
Speaker CAnd now we have churches today not hammering the law enough.
Speaker CToo many churches that are allowing homosexuality in the church or allowing all this wrong stuff to go on.
Speaker CAnd it's like we're now on the opposite of the coin of, like, well, now we're just getting too lenient.
Speaker CWe're not sticking to the word at all.
Speaker BWe're conforming instead of transforming.
Speaker BWe're too busy trying to fit in and be part of the church because we want people in our church.
Speaker BYes.
Speaker BThe more people have come in, the more money we bring in as a church.
Speaker BBoom.
Speaker BBut you can't run it like a business.
Speaker BI mean, that's a part.
Speaker BBut if you just focus on the business.
Speaker AI'm holding you to that.
Speaker BNo, I mean, so there are aspects that we have to run like a business.
Speaker BThe money side has to still be ran like a business.
Speaker BBut the people side, we can't.
Speaker BWe can't conform to the world.
Speaker BWe can't say, oh, well, we can do this because we want people to come in.
Speaker BNo, we as a church have to give them the truth.
Speaker BThe truth is also where our justice comes from.
Speaker BSo you can't be afraid you're going to offend somebody or somebody's going to be rejected.
Speaker BThey're only rejected because they're rejecting the truth and too much.
Speaker BWe're trying to.
Speaker BWell, we can't let anybody feel alienated and rejected.
Speaker BNo, that's not your choice.
Speaker BThat's not our choice to pick out who.
Speaker ALook, man.
Speaker BWho gets offended or whatever.
Speaker AThe truth is offensive.
Speaker AThe truth is offensive.
Speaker BIt is.
Speaker AThe truth is rough.
Speaker AYeah.
Speaker AAnd it will.
Speaker AIt will set you free.
Speaker AAbsolutely.
Speaker AAll right, so how do you go about examining what God requires of you throughout the day?
Speaker BWell, there's three questions that we can ask ourselves that we can not pit into situations, but put into situations, man.
Speaker BWhoever wrote this was certainly missed that.
Speaker BAre you fair when dealing with others?
Speaker BI think that's something we have to.
Speaker BI think, you know, in that aspect, we can't be reactive.
Speaker BWe have to everything.
Speaker BWe have to listen more, pause, and then talk or.
Speaker BEspecially if we're in leadership.
Speaker BI mean, just like you told me.
Speaker CGod gives us one mouth and two ears.
Speaker CListen more, speak less.
Speaker BWe're supposed to listen twice as much as we speak.
Speaker BThat's what I've heard, and that's what I like to.
Speaker BSo if we're listening more, we have a better chance of dealing with everybody fairly.
Speaker AWe also.
Speaker AWe also have the opportunity to stop our own thought process for a moment and process through.
Speaker ARight.
Speaker ASo, like, if I were to get into a situation, somebody was coming at me with something and.
Speaker AAnd I take a breath and then I say something.
Speaker AIt has that moment of get past that initial.
Speaker AMy initial.
Speaker ARight.
Speaker AAnd actually kicks in that cognitive thinking process.
Speaker BSo, yeah, I like to also think it's giving space.
Speaker BThat little breath is giving space for the Holy Spirit to come in there and say something.
Speaker BBut if we're just totally reacting and speaking right off of what we're hearing.
Speaker AYeah, I never do that.
Speaker BWe're not.
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker BOkay.
Speaker BWe're not giving the Holy Spirit that space to allow him to say, yeah, that's probably.
Speaker BThat's the.
Speaker BOkay, yeah, that's an answer you could give.
Speaker BBut why don't you get this handle?
Speaker BWhy don't you respond this way instead?
Speaker BToo often we do that.
Speaker BWe just.
Speaker BWe're just reactive and so we have to pause.
Speaker BAnd so are we.
Speaker BAre you dealing with.
Speaker BAre you fair with dealing with others?
Speaker BThe next question is, do you show mercy to others who have wronged you or have wronged somebody else.
Speaker BWhoever God has put into authority, whoever God has put into debt, where we have to put out discipline or something, at any moment we can show mercy.
Speaker BWe're required to show mercy.
Speaker ABut mercy isn't letting people off the hook.
Speaker BNo, no, but it's again, it's still.
Speaker AThe example that I like to give is the way that I handle disciplining my daughter or used to.
Speaker AI guess she hasn't needed a swat in a while.
Speaker ASo.
Speaker ABut, so when I first started swatting her, I would swat immediately and that quickly went away because I knew that that is doing it in anger, you know what I mean?
Speaker ALike if you don't have that breath.
Speaker ARight.
Speaker ABut so what I ended up doing was whenever she did something that was worthy of a swat, I told her, alright, let's go to your room, you're gonna get a swat.
Speaker AAnd she'd throw a fit and do all that.
Speaker AAnd then I would count to three.
Speaker AThen she'd earn herself another swat and the swats would rack up.
Speaker AAnd then whenever she finally submitted to getting the swats, I would reduce that number by one.
Speaker AAnd so I would tell her, all right, since you submitted, I'm only going to give you this many.
Speaker AAnd so like, it's not.
Speaker AI didn't let her off the hook.
Speaker BNo.
Speaker ABut I gave myself time to cool down and I was able to.
Speaker AWhen she submitted to the discipline, I was able to show her, okay, since you submitted, I'm not giving you quite as many swats as we had talked about, you know, so I don't know that's how a practical, you know, way of showing mercy.
Speaker BSo John didn't get a lot of spankings growing up, but it was the same thing.
Speaker BI didn't want to spank out of anger, so I'd always make him accept his punishment.
Speaker BWe'd sit there 30 minutes and he'd just be fighting it and not wanting it.
Speaker BBut look, you're still getting this.
Speaker BIt's just how much you want, it's up to you.
Speaker CI didn't get a lot of spankings.
Speaker CI got a lot of other torture.
Speaker ALook, I've heard, look, there's punishments that.
Speaker BDoesn'T have to, doesn't have to physically hurt that way.
Speaker AYeah, well, that was spankings.
Speaker BThere's certain things that require a spanking.
Speaker BSure, you know, blatant disobedience, lying to your faces.
Speaker BThose things require it.
Speaker ABut also it's different per kid.
Speaker ANot every kid.
Speaker BIt is.
Speaker ANot every kid requires a Spot.
Speaker BNope.
Speaker ABecause it's not effective for every kid.
Speaker AThat's just.
Speaker AWas the most effective thing for my kid.
Speaker ALike I could put her in timeout and it would not, it would not do anything.
Speaker BI think every kid.
Speaker BThere are some things that require a punishment.
Speaker BIf you make, if you make the swat, if you make the swat your go to punishment all the time, it's not gonna, it's not gonna mean anything.
Speaker BBut if you make the swat and they know why they're getting that.
Speaker BI mean, there are times that God swats us, all of us, we need it.
Speaker BCertain things.
Speaker AYou've said it before that my child has like a quadruple helping of stubbornness.
Speaker AI need God to swap me upside the head all the time, right?
Speaker ASo I think that it's very different per kid.
Speaker ABut that's the part of justice that we have to remember, right, Is that each person is gonna require a little bit different handling because they are a different person.
Speaker AThey're unique.
Speaker AThey've got, they've got a different story than the last person you dealt with, whatever that might have been.
Speaker ASo when it comes to us, like interacting with people out and about, that's why it's super important to take a breath.
Speaker ABecause what you would.
Speaker AWhat I might have said to Mad Cow is not gonna affect.
Speaker AIs not gonna be the same thing I should say to Madcalf.
Speaker AAlthough, you know, if you're as similar as I've heard, it's going to be not too far off, but it's still going to be different, right?
Speaker ALike, that's the thing is it's still going to be different because that person has had different life experiences that has led them to the point in which they're at.
Speaker AThat's why our testimony doesn't sound the same every time we give it.
Speaker AAnd it shouldn't.
Speaker ABecause if I'm talking to you about my testimony, John, like, I.
Speaker AI'm going to tell you this part of it, because it's what is gonna affect you the most.
Speaker ABecause I've gotten to have a glimpse of whatever is going on with you.
Speaker AWhether that's I met you on the street five minutes ago or I've known you a long time.
Speaker ALike, I'm gonna, I'm gonna tell you something different than I might tell your son.
Speaker AYou know, like, because I've.
Speaker AI've talked to him for this brief amount of time or whatever, and it's gonna apply differently.
Speaker ASo every person that we talk to, whether it's for administering justice or just interacting with, just having conversations with Growing that relationship, you're gonna take each person, and you need to take them as different people than the last person.
Speaker AThat's why I think that I'm decent at customer service, is that that person that made me mad on the phone five minutes ago doesn't affect the person that I just picked up the phone and said hello to.
Speaker ASo I think that's the best.
Speaker AThe best kind of customer service.
Speaker AYou know, when that person that made you angry, like, is.
Speaker AThat's gone.
Speaker AThis new person that's in front of you didn't make you angry.
Speaker AIt's a brand new person.
Speaker AThey have a different.
Speaker ADifferent story, you know, and they may be upset, but, you know, you have to deal with them as though you didn't have anybody before them, you know, so.
Speaker AAnd that's.
Speaker AThat's honestly how we need to be interacting with each other.
Speaker BI think for most men, customer service is like that.
Speaker BWe can pull out a box, and then when we're done with that person, no matter how they drove us crazy, whatever, we can put that box away.
Speaker BAnd when we're dealing with the next person, oh, there's that box.
Speaker BI've said this before.
Speaker BMen are like boxes and women are.
Speaker BOr men are like waffles and women are like spaghetti.
Speaker BEverything runs together with women.
Speaker BSo not all women, but most women, everything runs together.
Speaker BSo what happened over here is going to affect how they come home and interact with their spouse or whatever, because it all runs together for us.
Speaker BWe have our little squares, and everything goes into a square.
Speaker ASo that means if there's any women listening, which I'm sure there is, be patient with us and try not to open two boxes at once, because we can't put the divider back once you do that.
Speaker ASo it is forever than one larger box.
Speaker ASo just want to put that out there.
Speaker AThat's how that works.
Speaker BJust know, maybe put the spaghetti away after your day at work and then start with a new plate of spaghetti.
Speaker AWhen you come up at some point, if you've opened.
Speaker AIf you've opened all of the boxes at once, it's just a vault, and we get closed off.
Speaker ASo.
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker ARight, right.
Speaker ASo what's the third thing?
Speaker BAre you humble?
Speaker BAre you humble?
Speaker BAnd are you learning humility?
Speaker BLook, that's all part of that.
Speaker AI've been there.
Speaker BThe Micah.
Speaker BWell, it's also part of that.
Speaker BMicah 6.
Speaker BI mean, like, you were.
Speaker ALike you were.
Speaker AYou were talking, John.
Speaker BWe forget that.
Speaker BWalking humbly with God.
Speaker BHe's used to that.
Speaker AYou're both having the same.
Speaker AI'm Mad calf.
Speaker ALike you said earlier, I've done all these things before in the past.
Speaker AGod's worked with me.
Speaker AI have to remember that when talking to my brothers, that, okay, I need to walk with humility because I been there.
Speaker AI've done the things I've made, the mistakes, whether they're the same thing or a different thing.
Speaker AMy spec.
Speaker AYour spec thing.
Speaker AI have to walk in that humility of, okay, take a breath.
Speaker AI've been here.
Speaker AI need to treat them just like I treat everybody else.
Speaker AAnd, you know, when it comes to that.
Speaker BSo I also think that these can be quick questions that we're asking.
Speaker BThe last one you can't really ask yourself in a moment, but when you're trying to stand up for justice for someone who can't stand up for themselves or speak for however it may be, those other two questions can be something we can ask and give that split moment for the Holy Spirit.
Speaker BWe can still go in and fight for that person, but we still got to have fairness.
Speaker BWe still got.
Speaker BI mean, yeah, sometimes it's gonna take force.
Speaker BSometimes it's gonna take actual physical, you know, subduing somebody so somebody can get away.
Speaker BI hope I'm never put in that situation.
Speaker BBut.
Speaker ABut you should always take a breath.
Speaker AEven a sniper takes a breath.
Speaker BYes.
Speaker AI mean, that's the.
Speaker ASeriously, for real, though, like, everybody.
Speaker AEverybody who is trained and even doing that sort of thing, they take a breath and then do it.
Speaker ALike, there is something to that moment of taking a breath before you act that allows a clarity of thought.
Speaker BSo the first two questions are what we can think about in that moment when we take that breath and allow the Holy Spirit to speak.
Speaker BThe other one is something that we have to continually to work on in ourselves.
Speaker BI mean, you're really not thinking about being humble and stuff in that moment, but it's something that if you're doing throughout the day and you're constantly, okay, I need to stop.
Speaker BBut being humble is going to allow us, if we're practicing humility or learning how to be humble, we can stop and take that breath for the next few questions.
Speaker BIn any situation that we're facing, where we need to be just and treat others fairly.
Speaker AThat and honestly practicing it.
Speaker APracticing it will allow you to start approaching things with those, you know, with those two, with all three of the questions really, like, it will help you to get to a point where you just are doing it.
Speaker AYou know, the more you practice it, fake it till you make it.
Speaker AYou know, like, if you have to think about this stuff or have it written down, you know, every situation you take, tattoo it on your hand or whatever.
Speaker AI don't, I don't know, that might be a little weird, but I got.
Speaker BCertain things tattooed on my hand.
Speaker AOn your hand?
Speaker CYeah, same on your hand.
Speaker AYou do have it on your hand.
Speaker AI never thought about that.
Speaker ALook at you, you're all tatted up too.
Speaker BOh, he's got more.
Speaker AI need to get, I need to get a tattoo.
Speaker AI need to just do it.
Speaker BI gotta get.
Speaker AI can't afford it now.
Speaker AI just quit my job, so.
Speaker CThat's true.
Speaker BBut you're going to afford it?
Speaker BYeah.
Speaker BYou'll be able to afford it.
Speaker AI'll be able to afford it.
Speaker AYeah, I will.
Speaker AAlright.
Speaker ASo are you a just person in your day to day life?
Speaker AThat's, that's.
Speaker AThere's a takeaway question, right?
Speaker ALike something to just think about is like when you're, when you're just living life, are you, are you just, are you fulfilling the humility piece?
Speaker AAre you dishing out mercy and grace?
Speaker AAre you giving that whenever you're calling people out?
Speaker ABecause honestly, there's the speck and plank, right?
Speaker AWhen it comes to that whole parable or whatever, like, you know, take the plank out of your eye before you help your neighbor with the spec like that.
Speaker AAre you dealing with them in a manner in which is just.
Speaker BWell, I think again, getting to know the people, spending time with them, having our four corner carriers, having our foxhole people, our men, whatever you want to call it.
Speaker BThere's different ways that we treat those guys.
Speaker BAnd not unjust.
Speaker BIt's just you can be a little more harsh, accountability can be a little tougher.
Speaker BSo knowing the people you're around really helps.
Speaker CI also think you can take it even to just your day to day with everybody you encounter.
Speaker CI'm thinking about work and me being just and fair with the next guy that's coming in after me.
Speaker CDid I set the machine up right?
Speaker CDid I do everything for him to have a good day unlike he did for me?
Speaker CI'm taking it even that far.
Speaker CIf you're not even doing that, then you're not gonna do it to your fellow Christian brother at all.
Speaker BWell, I think we need to take it even further than that.
Speaker CEven your home, your kids and your wife.
Speaker BIt's not just that the person did it for me.
Speaker BSo where I work, I tried to head to philosophy.
Speaker BI'm going to leave the next shift better as well as.
Speaker BWell, not as well as for me because it was hardly ever Left that way for me.
Speaker BI'd come in and always be like, this person could have made this adjustment and just made it easier for me.
Speaker BI'm always coming in, trying to fight these little fires that they have going because all they're doing is just watching and not thinking about the next person.
Speaker BSo I would, when I was ready to turn the plan over to the next shift, I'd always try to set them up, okay, I know what's going to happen, so I'm going to do this and do this.
Speaker BSo when they come in, they don't have to walk into a bunch of little fires and have to do that before they can start their day.
Speaker BAnd people are like, well, why do you do that?
Speaker BNo one does it for you.
Speaker BBecause it's not about what is done for me.
Speaker BIt's how I like.
Speaker BIt's what I would like to be done for me.
Speaker BBut it doesn't mean I treat the other person the way I was treated.
Speaker BAnd that's part of justice.
Speaker BYou don't treat people the way that you have been treated.
Speaker BIt's treating the people the way that they're supposed to be treated.
Speaker BAnd too often we think, well, that's not fair.
Speaker BThat's why in here I said, what God requires is not easy of us, but he requires us.
Speaker AThe attitude, we as Christians shouldn't be doing things based on what's been done to us, but what's been done for us.
Speaker AAnd Christ paid the price for all of our mess.
Speaker AWe're each a mess.
Speaker AAnd so it has nothing to do with what other people have done to us, but rather what Jesus did for us.
Speaker AAnd if we're living by that, we don't even have to ask ourselves these questions.
Speaker AI mean, truly.
Speaker ASo are you living according to what Jesus did for us?
Speaker ALike, are you taking that into consideration in your everyday?
Speaker ABecause man, he paid a mighty price just even being born as a human, right?
Speaker AAnd then he took it as far as dying for us, like man, and living for us.
Speaker AI mean, all of it, like that was.
Speaker AThat was all, you know.
Speaker ASo are we living according to that?
Speaker ALike, are we acting like somebody gave it all for us?
Speaker BI think too often when we think of this word just or justice, we think of the legalistic side.
Speaker BLegalism and all that stuff comes in.
Speaker BThis is what the law says.
Speaker BBut what I was trying to paint the picture here is living the way God expects us to live.
Speaker BThat's showing justice to people too.
Speaker BThat's doing what's right.
Speaker BBecause the ultimate law is pointing us to that kind of lifestyle, the life that Jesus had.
Speaker BI mean, this world is an unfair world.
Speaker BIt's an unjust world.
Speaker BIt's a merciless world.
Speaker BAll they think everyone thinks about themselves.
Speaker BBut you can't go around thinking about yourself if you're a Christian.
Speaker BGod requires much more from us.
Speaker BWe have to be humble.
Speaker BWe have to look at everybody as our neighbor.
Speaker BI mean, when God says love your neighbor, he's not just talking about your brother or your person next door, who you have a relationship with.
Speaker BThat is everybody.
Speaker BThat is the world.
Speaker BAnyone you're coming in contact with throughout your day that you don't know, that is your neighbor.
Speaker BWe're supposed to love everybody in that way.
Speaker BAnd that's a way of showing just being a just person is we treat everyone the way we would like to be treated.
Speaker BI mean, that's just a good old fashioned, you know.
Speaker BWhat was that?
Speaker BWhat's that called?
Speaker BThe.
Speaker BDo unto others as you would like them to do unto you.
Speaker AThe golden rule.
Speaker BThe golden rule.
Speaker BLook, there's a lot biblical about that because too often everyone treats everyone the way that they're being treated and not the way that they would like to be treated.
Speaker BAnd if we all walked around with.
Speaker AThat attitude, I would take it a step further.
Speaker ATreat everybody like Jesus would.
Speaker AWell, yes, I mean, like, because that's even harder.
Speaker ABut for the new Christians, I'm one of those people.
Speaker AThat's part of my problem, though.
Speaker AThat's one of my downfalls is like, I do treat people the way that I want to be treated and that sometimes is not the right way.
Speaker AYou know, I want, I want people to be super direct and a little bit harder on me because I should know better.
Speaker ASo I end up doing that to others.
Speaker AAnd so that's not always perfect.
Speaker ABut if you treat people the way that Jesus would treat people, or at least attempt to, that's, that's where, that's, that's the hard part.
Speaker ARight, like, because honestly, like, sometimes it's hard treating others like I would want to be treated.
Speaker AThen again, I understand what you're saying.
Speaker ASometimes it's not.
Speaker BBut, but putting that expectation on people who don't know you, putting that kind of expectation.
Speaker BSo with me, yeah, you definitely want me to treat you the way that you would like to be treated.
Speaker BBecause we know each other that well.
Speaker BMy son and I are the same way.
Speaker BSure, we know each other well enough that there should be a certain expectation he has on how I'm gonna treat him and vice versa.
Speaker ABut that in and of itself is you treating me like Jesus would treat me.
Speaker ABecause Jesus does treat me that way.
Speaker ARight, true.
Speaker ABut if I'm talking to Lizzie, right?
Speaker AOr if I'm talking to some guy.
Speaker ALizzie's my wife, by the way.
Speaker AFor those of you who don't know if I'm talking to my wife, like, that's not how she needs it.
Speaker AThat's not how Jesus would talk to her.
Speaker AAnd so, like, if you're taking the individual and giving them what they need in your conversations and how you're keeping them accountable or whatever that is treating others like Jesus would.
Speaker AAnd so in landing the plane, because we're at that time, if you're a man, you are called to be a leader.
Speaker APeriod.
Speaker APeriod.
Speaker AYou are called to be a leader.
Speaker AAnd whether that's a leader in your home or a leader in the church, it's all of the above.
Speaker ALike, if you're a man, you are called to lead.
Speaker AAnd so with that, you ask yourself, are you leading in your own strength or are you leading by getting on your knees crying out to God to lead in his strength?
Speaker AHow are you leading?
Speaker AAre you not leading?
Speaker ABecause if that's the case, then it's time to step up.
Speaker AIt's time to step up and start leading.
Speaker ABecause of leaders, you are absolutely called to be a leader, whether you're a.
Speaker BHusband, a father, or just in the world as a man, you're called to be a leader.
Speaker AAnd you are called to set the example just as Timothy was.
Speaker ASo.
Speaker ASo we'll leave you with that.
Speaker AAre you leading justly as a man in the world?
Speaker ANot of the world, no, but in the world.
Speaker ASo, yeah.
Speaker ASo we appreciate you guys.
Speaker AThanks for coming in.
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